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Speaker 1: Advice Nice. Hello, Hello, Hello, welcome to the Naughty but

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Speaker 1: Nice Show. I know you were expecting to hear Rob's

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Speaker 1: lovely British accent today, but this is Corey Andrew hosting

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Speaker 1: a very special episode today. Now I'm going to be

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Speaker 1: turning the tables on Rob and I'm asking the questions

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Speaker 1: to celebrate his new book, The Foreword Answer, which you

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Speaker 1: can order right now on Amazon dot Com. Now. Rob

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Speaker 1: has worked with some of the biggest stars in the world,

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Speaker 1: Jennifer Lopez, P Diddy, Alicia Keys, Jessica Simpson, Jon bon Jovi,

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Speaker 1: even British Royalty, and now in his first book out

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Speaker 1: this week, Rob promises to make you the star of

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Speaker 1: your own life. So Hello Rob, Hello, I love a

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Speaker 1: love a life. Hey, I'm loving this already. Villa. When

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Speaker 1: you opened this show with a lava la la la,

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Speaker 1: I know it saunds even better in an American accent. Corey.

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Speaker 1: You can ask anything you want. You've got the book

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Speaker 1: a couple of days ago. Thank you for being so kind.

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Speaker 1: You texted me just after you've finished it. So we're

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Speaker 1: doing these special bonus shows really based on the book

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Speaker 1: and what the takeaway is in that book. So honestly, Corey,

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Speaker 1: nothing off record, nothing confidential, nothing scripted, whatever you wonderful. Look,

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Speaker 1: I'm really excited to do this interview, so thank you,

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Speaker 1: and we will just dive right in. Let's just begin

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Speaker 1: with something very simple. Explain what is the foreward answer? Oh,

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Speaker 1: the perfect question to begin with. So every smart person

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Speaker 1: that I ever met in my life, every successful person

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Speaker 1: important question you're ever gonna ask or answer. Who are you?

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Speaker 1: Who are you? I would ask every one of those

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Speaker 1: big celebrities you mentioned when I first started working with them,

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Speaker 1: is amazing. Only those that are comfortable in their own

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Speaker 1: skin could answer that question, and only those that could

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Speaker 1: answer the question Corey would go on to be successful.

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Speaker 1: I knew immediately which of my stars would go on

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Speaker 1: their career. As one of the first first Tyra Banks,

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Speaker 1: before she became Tyra Banks, I represented her when she

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Speaker 1: was really a model, but she was not a supermodel.

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Speaker 1: Yet I knew she was going to be successful because

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Speaker 1: Tyra knew exactly who she was. If you think about it,

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Speaker 1: just for a second, entire marketing departments, branding departments, even

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Speaker 1: PR departments are created with just one job is to

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Speaker 1: figure out who their client is in as few words

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Speaker 1: promise in the foreword answer You're going to figure out,

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Speaker 1: reading the book right now and the chapter that I

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Speaker 1: you are important. So let's chat about that for a moment.

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Speaker 1: Important is such an essential word. It's really a word

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Speaker 1: that did he used a lot, p did? Who was

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Speaker 1: me that the most important person in your life is you,

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Speaker 1: no body else, Puffy. Puffy showed me that when you

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Speaker 1: believe you are important, you become important. In fact, believing

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Speaker 1: you are important, though, has to start with you. It's

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Speaker 1: not a gift you can give somebody. I wish I

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Speaker 1: doesn't work like that. I can't give it you, a

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Speaker 1: You've got to give it yourself because nobody's coming along

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Speaker 1: and no one can make you feel unimportant without your consent.

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Speaker 1: chapter on this, Corey, and I think it's also to

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Speaker 1: You're not gonna win this battle. When you start living

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Speaker 1: Be you, because you are important enough to be you. Yes. Yes,

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Speaker 1: because we were taught to. That's why we doubt ourselves.

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