WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: The Birthday Trick

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to your Saturday podcast.

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<v Speaker 3>Second Date Updated. Every guy wants to know the secret

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<v Speaker 3>for how to meet gorgeous women every time you go out.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, jeff.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, everybody would want to know what that secret was.

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<v Speaker 2>A secret find the gorgeous ladies too?

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<v Speaker 1>Where are we at?

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<v Speaker 3>It's actually really easy. Just be hot, rich, or foreign,

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<v Speaker 3>any one of those, preferably all three. But if you're

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<v Speaker 3>just one, you shouldn't even have to try. Well, the

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<v Speaker 3>thing is, I get if you're not any of those Alexis,

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<v Speaker 3>don't say you don't worry. There's still hope because one

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<v Speaker 3>of our listeners says he figured out a simple trick

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<v Speaker 3>that allows any man to easily meet the hottest girls

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<v Speaker 3>at the club every night. Says it works for him,

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<v Speaker 3>but apparently he might have to hang up his trick

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<v Speaker 3>for good because he thinks he may have found a really,

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<v Speaker 3>really special lady. That's why he needs our help. So

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<v Speaker 3>let's talk to Wes. Wes, welcome to the show Man.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, thanks for having me.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I love hearing these tricks from a guy perspective.

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<v Speaker 2>Really, I'm always like skeptical because it's like a club

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<v Speaker 2>and there's tricks I want to hear it.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, and Wes, can you confirm you're not foreign, hot

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<v Speaker 3>or rich?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I can't run out hot. I'm saying, I

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<v Speaker 4>wouldn't say I'm on the bitch.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, all right, so this would work for anybody. What's

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<v Speaker 3>your secret you're going to share with us?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, I'm gonna give a pointer out of folks. Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>So the thing you gotta think psychology. Right, So I

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<v Speaker 4>try and find a place where most women go.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good thing to do before you try to

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<v Speaker 1>meet a woman. I like it so far.

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<v Speaker 3>Where most women go.

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<v Speaker 4>Most women go to clubs. So you see a lot

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<v Speaker 4>of women in clubs, right, because they get.

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<v Speaker 3>Step one, go to the club. Okay, I think everyone's

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<v Speaker 3>already doing Step one.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if you can find a club that's

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<v Speaker 2>all dudes, tell me, because I'll be there.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it's probably they're probably not into you. Brother, You're

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<v Speaker 3>smoother than I thought you would be, so keep going.

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<v Speaker 3>Now you're at the.

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<v Speaker 4>Club, all right. So we're at the club, got tons

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<v Speaker 4>of women there, all women.

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<v Speaker 1>What money drinks?

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<v Speaker 4>You free drink? But I thought I'm going there at

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<v Speaker 4>you definitely not rich, but you got to give some

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<v Speaker 4>kind of incentives. So what I do is I go

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<v Speaker 4>to the bar. I turned my back to the bartender,

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<v Speaker 4>so I see all the women coming towards me. They're

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<v Speaker 4>coming for me. So instead of me having to go

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<v Speaker 4>and find them, approach them that coming towards me.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry, you block the.

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<v Speaker 1>Bar well towards her. They're just in line, pushing the

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<v Speaker 1>You're blocking everyone.

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<v Speaker 3>In his mind, they're coming towards here, I see a gap. Well,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean that sounds funny, but I can see in

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<v Speaker 3>like in a psychology way, you're kind of tricking yourself

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<v Speaker 3>into not being scared.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, so it's working better on you than women

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<v Speaker 1>so far.

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<v Speaker 3>So how do you get the women to actually like

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<v Speaker 3>engage with you and not push you out of the

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<v Speaker 3>way to get to the bar without having to buy

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<v Speaker 3>ten drinks?

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<v Speaker 4>So this is the deal. I say that it's my birthday,

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<v Speaker 4>and I asked them if they like to do a

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<v Speaker 4>shot with me.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh oh, birthday shot.

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<v Speaker 4>Birthday shot.

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<v Speaker 2>Shot means that your interaction with them is usually about

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<v Speaker 2>twenty five seconds long.

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<v Speaker 1>So I would say yes to because that's perfect totally.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean that's the opening line. Maybe we get into conversation,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, usually try to get some kind of compliment.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, So the trick is to lie to them

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<v Speaker 2>and tell them it's your birthday.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I'm a young old dude, you know what

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<v Speaker 4>I'm saying. I do this everywhere I go, and you know,

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<v Speaker 4>it works like ninety nine percent of the time. It

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<v Speaker 4>works at least get a conversation going, maybe at least

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<v Speaker 4>to a dance. And a dance floor. Maybe that brings

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<v Speaker 4>me over to the rest of the girlfriends. But once

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<v Speaker 4>I'm in and I'm in.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, Okay, birthday day. Who's the special one that

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<v Speaker 1>you're in with?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>You said you met a special girl using this tactic.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so I met this girl named Tina. She had

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<v Speaker 4>the birthday shot with me, started asking me what I'm

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<v Speaker 4>doing for the weekend I'm celebrating. Learned a little bit

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<v Speaker 4>about her, she learned a little bit about me. There

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<v Speaker 4>was a vibe we've made out.

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<v Speaker 1>Again. You're at a club, Like, what else do you do?

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<v Speaker 2>Like, I mean, my days are over, but like free

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<v Speaker 2>shots and making out with randos on the dance Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, but you're being kind of a hater on you

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<v Speaker 3>to day.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been saying, it's not that much different than it

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<v Speaker 1>used to be.

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<v Speaker 3>Jeff, I think this is great. It's working for you.

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<v Speaker 3>Clearly you met this great girl. Tina had a perfect

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<v Speaker 3>connection with her. So how did that night end?

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<v Speaker 4>It was real oftensic connection. Like I said, we made

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<v Speaker 4>out text a little bit the next day, try to

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<v Speaker 4>plan something. But she started returning my text.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, do you have any idea why?

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<v Speaker 4>I have no idea. Why. Like I said, I've been

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<v Speaker 4>doing this for a while, I'm ready to meet the one.

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<v Speaker 4>And I actually was genuinely interested in what she had

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<v Speaker 4>to offer and what we talked about and whatnot.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, we're gonna give this all that we have, right, Brooke?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, I mean club, you know how it goes.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, I'm rooting for you, man, Like I think it's

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<v Speaker 2>sweet that you met somebody that you think is really special.

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<v Speaker 2>I just don't need you to be disappointed if she

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't taking it as seriously as you are.

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<v Speaker 3>And at least you have the trick.

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<v Speaker 5>Even if she doesn't like you, you can you got

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<v Speaker 5>the icebreaker trick.

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<v Speaker 1>She gave you her number, that's a good sign.

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<v Speaker 3>And she kissed well again, sorry for good. That's not

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<v Speaker 3>a big thing.

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<v Speaker 4>I make out with a lot of women doing this,

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<v Speaker 4>like happy, but they're not a lot that I get

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<v Speaker 4>into a good conversation and get a phone number with

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<v Speaker 4>and like have a genuine vibe with. Like you know,

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<v Speaker 4>quick and easy as one thing, but quality is something different.

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<v Speaker 3>She stands out. Oh wow, Well, let's call this quality

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<v Speaker 3>woman Tina. We'll come back and get you your second

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<v Speaker 3>date update so you can retire this trick forever. Wow,

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<v Speaker 3>or at least till next Friday. Okay, whatever works, we're

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<v Speaker 3>gonna do it right after this second date update. It's

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<v Speaker 3>not easy for the average guy to meet a woman nowadays,

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<v Speaker 3>is on the apps or out in the wild. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>you gotta be sneaky and kind of smart about.

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<v Speaker 2>It, like our listener West when he said that, Jeff.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't surprise ladies by humping up tactical. Maybe that's

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<v Speaker 3>a better word.

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<v Speaker 4>Better.

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<v Speaker 3>Our listener West said he uses a trick it's kind

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<v Speaker 3>of a psychology hack when he goes out to the

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<v Speaker 3>clubs where he puts his back to the bartender so

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<v Speaker 3>it looks like the women are approaching him instead of

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<v Speaker 3>the bar.

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<v Speaker 1>Come to me, beautiful ladies.

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<v Speaker 3>And when he sees one that meets his standards, just

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<v Speaker 3>like a crouching tiger, he pounces and says, Hey, it's

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<v Speaker 3>my birthday. You want to have a free shot to celebrate?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean the word free and there really helps

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<v Speaker 2>that statement.

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<v Speaker 3>And even though he's been using that trick for who knows,

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<v Speaker 3>maybe months or years, it sounds like he says he

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<v Speaker 3>finally found a special lady named Tina who he could

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<v Speaker 3>see having maybe more than just a dance floor makeup.

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<v Speaker 3>He likes her, he does, so, Brooke, how are we

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<v Speaker 3>going to help him pull this off today?

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<v Speaker 4>Well?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think we're going to reveal that he's been

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<v Speaker 2>trying a trick for years and then it finally.

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<v Speaker 1>Worked on her.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, that's a good point, unless Wes wants us

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<v Speaker 3>to bring that up with her.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I got you, Wes, I got your back, all right.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, another tactical move on our part.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you feeling right now?

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<v Speaker 3>Wes?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, you know, like I said, I'm at a

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<v Speaker 4>point where I want to meet the one and I'm

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<v Speaker 4>feel a little vulvable right now, so I need John help.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm ready to get his going.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, well maybe this will help. I want you to

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<v Speaker 3>picture yourself with your back to a virtual bar right now,

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<v Speaker 3>and let's pretend that it's your birthday today. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>he already chilled out a little bit. Let's call Tina here.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's see if she picks up. Hopefully we can get

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<v Speaker 3>some answers from her. Here we go, Hello, Hey, Hey,

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<v Speaker 3>is this Tina smooth?

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<v Speaker 4>Jeff?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, that's what I was thinking to say. Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>pushing jeff aside to get to the bar.

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<v Speaker 3>I had something in my throat. I was trying not

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<v Speaker 3>to cough. Sorry, Tina, are you there?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Who is this?

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry, it's a lot of us. Yeah. This is a

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<v Speaker 3>radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 5>It's who what is this?

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<v Speaker 3>We're Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. We're a radio

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<v Speaker 3>show and you're on it right now on a segment

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<v Speaker 3>called a second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, which is awesome, she says.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I skepticism. So it's actually a really cool thing

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<v Speaker 3>that we do where we try and help our listeners

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<v Speaker 3>get back in touch with someone after they went on

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<v Speaker 3>a date or they met out somewhere and had a

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<v Speaker 3>really nice time together. And that was the case with

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<v Speaker 3>you and a guy named Wes.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh Wes.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Yeah, you met each other out at the bars

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<v Speaker 3>one night and it was Wes's birthday, so you guys

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<v Speaker 3>took like a celebratory shot together and ended up vibing

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<v Speaker 3>and pretty much hanging out all night time.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I thought he was a good guy. He was

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<v Speaker 5>that moose kind of talker that I like, and he

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<v Speaker 5>dressed really nice and I like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I know the type keep going, I'm looking at

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<v Speaker 2>Do you remember how this conversation started?

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<v Speaker 3>If you do, know we're talking to team or now,

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<v Speaker 3>well that sounds really positive.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, what happened?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I've got friends that have had really bad experiences

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<v Speaker 5>with guys, like you can never really tell what the

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<v Speaker 5>deal is.

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<v Speaker 1>You mean, just women who date men?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, yes, yes, that's what I mean. So I went

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<v Speaker 5>on Facebook and I went to a page Are we

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<v Speaker 5>dating the same guy?

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<v Speaker 4>That?

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<v Speaker 3>Geez, well toxic?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you can believe anything that's on there.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, for people that don't know, what is that.

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<v Speaker 5>It's a Facebook page that women go on and they

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<v Speaker 5>post pictures of guys that other women should be suspect of.

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<v Speaker 2>But you don't know, like you don't know if these

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<v Speaker 2>women have been like jolted or you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Like my cousin cousin dated him and it's cruel, Like

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<v Speaker 1>there's cruel stuff I see.

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<v Speaker 3>So, so you're saying you went on there and saw

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<v Speaker 3>Wes somewhere.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, his picture was on there and there were commons. Oh,

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<v Speaker 5>I took a shot with him on his birthday and clearly, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>the same exact thing. I guess he has more than

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<v Speaker 5>one birthday.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, isn't that amazing? Who can have more than one birthday?

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<v Speaker 3>It's technology?

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't like that he was using that to meet you? Oh?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh no, I did not like that at all, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>And I'm still going out to the clubs, but I

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<v Speaker 5>certainly am looking for a long term relationship. I don't

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<v Speaker 5>have time game.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, so is Wes. Wes said that he wants a

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<v Speaker 3>long term thing too.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that's the worst thing that I was sai about him.

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<v Speaker 1>I've seen meaner stuff on.

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<v Speaker 3>There, and sometimes some people like they take their birthday

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<v Speaker 3>and they stretch it out for like a whole week,

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<v Speaker 3>for a whole month, and it's like my birthday month.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe that's what was going on.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know either. The only way to find out

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<v Speaker 3>is to have you actually talk to Wes about it.

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<v Speaker 3>And wouldn't you know, he's listening right now on the

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<v Speaker 3>other phone line, waiting to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi.

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, I didn't know you're on the other line. How

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<v Speaker 5>you mean, Oh yeah, listen. I just had to look

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<v Speaker 5>into a little bit more west because you are a

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<v Speaker 5>smooth moving.

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<v Speaker 4>Guy, you know.

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<v Speaker 5>So I went on this page and there are other

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<v Speaker 5>women out there saying Oh, I had a birthday shot

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<v Speaker 5>with him too, like two months ago. Oh, you must

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<v Speaker 5>have more than one birthday.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, busted, It's happened. Look, I am at a

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<v Speaker 4>point in my life where I am trying to change things.

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<v Speaker 4>I really enjoyed the time that we had. I really did.

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<v Speaker 4>So that's what I told broke in the crew, that

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<v Speaker 4>I enjoyed the time we had. And I was thinking,

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<v Speaker 4>there's other things that you don't know about me that

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<v Speaker 4>I would like you to know, like, oh, I don't

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<v Speaker 4>like putting my business out there like that, but I'm

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<v Speaker 4>actually a wealthy guy.

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<v Speaker 3>No, hold on, wait a second, let's see where this goes.

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<v Speaker 5>You're wealthy.

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<v Speaker 4>I actually am doing well. I've got a car dealership

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<v Speaker 4>that's been doing well, and sometimes I do own two

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<v Speaker 4>of them.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, how do you only sometimes own a car dealership?

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<v Speaker 3>Was he owns the other one?

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<v Speaker 2>Tell her what you know that you met this amazing woman,

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<v Speaker 2>that you had this connection that you've never had with

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<v Speaker 2>anybody else before, and that you're so excited about it.

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<v Speaker 3>Boo, talk more about the cars.

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<v Speaker 4>Why can't both things be true?

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<v Speaker 5>You know what? I don't know? Like I am, maybe

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not at that place where I'm looking for a

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<v Speaker 5>long term Maybe I'm just looking for a guy who's

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<v Speaker 5>got a buck or two and he's willing to check out.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you saying that you don't believe him about the cars?

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<v Speaker 3>Or do you know?

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<v Speaker 5>What I'm saying at this point is I don't care

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<v Speaker 5>if he's willing to take me out on the seven eight,

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<v Speaker 5>spend money on.

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<v Speaker 3>Me, and make out again.

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<v Speaker 2>All he had to say was I'm rich and im

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<v Speaker 2>times owned two car dealerships.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm trying to understand where your mind is at.

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<v Speaker 4>We don't need to understand anything. We just need to

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<v Speaker 4>go out.

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<v Speaker 6>But no, okay, I don't know how shy you free drinks? Well, officially,

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<v Speaker 6>we'd like to offer to send you two out on

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<v Speaker 6>a date.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, this is perfect. This is his birthday in a

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<v Speaker 3>couple of days. Yeah, birthday, No, it comes.

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<v Speaker 5>Up every month, broke, No, it's today, it's today.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, in honor of his birthday today, would you like

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<v Speaker 3>to meet up with Wes one more time? And we

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<v Speaker 3>would pay for the date?

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<v Speaker 5>Absolutely not. I just scammed him like he scammed me.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, oh my god, what's going on here? I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>did you not get it? Like I said, I'm.

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<v Speaker 5>Rich nobody believes that, just like every girl on that

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<v Speaker 5>Facebook page.

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<v Speaker 1>What do I feel like his pictures getting posted a

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<v Speaker 1>second time.

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<v Speaker 3>On Forbes? That's where it's going to be a millionaire.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm really thrown right now, you know, Like I said,

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<v Speaker 4>it's not every day that I'm vulnerable and put myself

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<v Speaker 4>out there and actually trying I think so that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, let's just remember you weren't totally honest with her.

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<v Speaker 3>Just because he wasn't rich at the start of the

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<v Speaker 3>call and then he was rich by the end doesn't

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<v Speaker 3>mean that he's not being honest. Bro fluctuates a lot. Bro, Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>ten million dollars can come and go into accounts all

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<v Speaker 3>the time.

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<v Speaker 2>Loses do I have a three color dealerships

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<v Speaker 5>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning