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Speaker 3: Second Date Updated. Every guy wants to know the secret
Speaker 3: for how to meet gorgeous women every time you go out.
Speaker 1: Okay, jeff.
Speaker 3: Yeah, everybody would want to know what that secret was.
Speaker 2: A secret find the gorgeous ladies too?
Speaker 1: Where are we at?
Speaker 3: It's actually really easy. Just be hot, rich, or foreign,
Speaker 3: any one of those, preferably all three. But if you're
Speaker 3: just one, you shouldn't even have to try. Well, the
Speaker 3: thing is, I get if you're not any of those Alexis,
Speaker 3: don't say you don't worry. There's still hope because one
Speaker 3: of our listeners says he figured out a simple trick
Speaker 3: that allows any man to easily meet the hottest girls
Speaker 3: at the club every night. Says it works for him,
Speaker 3: but apparently he might have to hang up his trick
Speaker 3: for good because he thinks he may have found a really,
Speaker 3: really special lady. That's why he needs our help. So
Speaker 3: let's talk to Wes. Wes, welcome to the show Man.
Speaker 4: Okay, thanks for having me.
Speaker 1: Okay, I love hearing these tricks from a guy perspective.
Speaker 2: Really, I'm always like skeptical because it's like a club
Speaker 2: and there's tricks I want to hear it.
Speaker 3: Okay, and Wes, can you confirm you're not foreign, hot
Speaker 3: or rich?
Speaker 4: I mean I can't run out hot. I'm saying, I
Speaker 4: wouldn't say I'm on the bitch.
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, so this would work for anybody. What's
Speaker 3: your secret you're going to share with us?
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I'm gonna give a pointer out of folks. Okay,
Speaker 4: So the thing you gotta think psychology. Right, So I
Speaker 4: try and find a place where most women go.
Speaker 1: That's a good thing to do before you try to
Speaker 1: meet a woman. I like it so far.
Speaker 3: Where most women go.
Speaker 4: Most women go to clubs. So you see a lot
Speaker 4: of women in clubs, right, because they get.
Speaker 3: Step one, go to the club. Okay, I think everyone's
Speaker 3: already doing Step one.
Speaker 2: I don't know if you can find a club that's
Speaker 2: all dudes, tell me, because I'll be there.
Speaker 3: Well, it's probably they're probably not into you. Brother, You're
Speaker 3: smoother than I thought you would be, so keep going.
Speaker 3: Now you're at the.
Speaker 4: Club, all right. So we're at the club, got tons
Speaker 4: of women there, all women.
Speaker 1: What money drinks?
Speaker 4: You free drink? But I thought I'm going there at
Speaker 4: you definitely not rich, but you got to give some
Speaker 4: kind of incentives. So what I do is I go
Speaker 4: to the bar. I turned my back to the bartender,
Speaker 4: so I see all the women coming towards me. They're
Speaker 4: coming for me. So instead of me having to go
Speaker 4: and find them, approach them that coming towards me.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, you block the.
Speaker 1: Bar well towards her. They're just in line, pushing the
Speaker 1: You're blocking everyone.
Speaker 3: In his mind, they're coming towards here, I see a gap. Well,
Speaker 3: I mean that sounds funny, but I can see in
Speaker 3: like in a psychology way, you're kind of tricking yourself
Speaker 3: into not being scared.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, so it's working better on you than women
Speaker 1: so far.
Speaker 3: So how do you get the women to actually like
Speaker 3: engage with you and not push you out of the
Speaker 3: way to get to the bar without having to buy
Speaker 3: ten drinks?
Speaker 4: So this is the deal. I say that it's my birthday,
Speaker 4: and I asked them if they like to do a
Speaker 4: shot with me.
Speaker 3: Oh oh, birthday shot.
Speaker 4: Birthday shot.
Speaker 2: Shot means that your interaction with them is usually about
Speaker 2: twenty five seconds long.
Speaker 1: So I would say yes to because that's perfect totally.
Speaker 4: I mean that's the opening line. Maybe we get into conversation,
Speaker 4: you know, usually try to get some kind of compliment.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, So the trick is to lie to them
Speaker 2: and tell them it's your birthday.
Speaker 4: I mean, I'm a young old dude, you know what
Speaker 4: I'm saying. I do this everywhere I go, and you know,
Speaker 4: it works like ninety nine percent of the time. It
Speaker 4: works at least get a conversation going, maybe at least
Speaker 4: to a dance. And a dance floor. Maybe that brings
Speaker 4: me over to the rest of the girlfriends. But once
Speaker 4: I'm in and I'm in.
Speaker 1: You know, Okay, birthday day. Who's the special one that
Speaker 1: you're in with?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 3: You said you met a special girl using this tactic.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so I met this girl named Tina. She had
Speaker 4: the birthday shot with me, started asking me what I'm
Speaker 4: doing for the weekend I'm celebrating. Learned a little bit
Speaker 4: about her, she learned a little bit about me. There
Speaker 4: was a vibe we've made out.
Speaker 1: Again. You're at a club, Like, what else do you do?
Speaker 2: Like, I mean, my days are over, but like free
Speaker 2: shots and making out with randos on the dance Yeah.
Speaker 3: Okay, but you're being kind of a hater on you
Speaker 3: to day.
Speaker 1: I've been saying, it's not that much different than it
Speaker 1: used to be.
Speaker 3: Jeff, I think this is great. It's working for you.
Speaker 3: Clearly you met this great girl. Tina had a perfect
Speaker 3: connection with her. So how did that night end?
Speaker 4: It was real oftensic connection. Like I said, we made
Speaker 4: out text a little bit the next day, try to
Speaker 4: plan something. But she started returning my text.
Speaker 1: Okay, do you have any idea why?
Speaker 4: I have no idea. Why. Like I said, I've been
Speaker 4: doing this for a while, I'm ready to meet the one.
Speaker 4: And I actually was genuinely interested in what she had
Speaker 4: to offer and what we talked about and whatnot.
Speaker 3: All right, we're gonna give this all that we have, right, Brooke?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I mean club, you know how it goes.
Speaker 2: Actually, I'm rooting for you, man, Like I think it's
Speaker 2: sweet that you met somebody that you think is really special.
Speaker 2: I just don't need you to be disappointed if she
Speaker 2: wasn't taking it as seriously as you are.
Speaker 3: And at least you have the trick.
Speaker 5: Even if she doesn't like you, you can you got
Speaker 5: the icebreaker trick.
Speaker 1: She gave you her number, that's a good sign.
Speaker 3: And she kissed well again, sorry for good. That's not
Speaker 3: a big thing.
Speaker 4: I make out with a lot of women doing this,
Speaker 4: like happy, but they're not a lot that I get
Speaker 4: into a good conversation and get a phone number with
Speaker 4: and like have a genuine vibe with. Like you know,
Speaker 4: quick and easy as one thing, but quality is something different.
Speaker 3: She stands out. Oh wow, Well, let's call this quality
Speaker 3: woman Tina. We'll come back and get you your second
Speaker 3: date update so you can retire this trick forever. Wow,
Speaker 3: or at least till next Friday. Okay, whatever works, we're
Speaker 3: gonna do it right after this second date update. It's
Speaker 3: not easy for the average guy to meet a woman nowadays,
Speaker 3: is on the apps or out in the wild. Yeah,
Speaker 3: you gotta be sneaky and kind of smart about.
Speaker 2: It, like our listener West when he said that, Jeff.
Speaker 3: You don't surprise ladies by humping up tactical. Maybe that's
Speaker 3: a better word.
Speaker 4: Better.
Speaker 3: Our listener West said he uses a trick it's kind
Speaker 3: of a psychology hack when he goes out to the
Speaker 3: clubs where he puts his back to the bartender so
Speaker 3: it looks like the women are approaching him instead of
Speaker 3: the bar.
Speaker 1: Come to me, beautiful ladies.
Speaker 3: And when he sees one that meets his standards, just
Speaker 3: like a crouching tiger, he pounces and says, Hey, it's
Speaker 3: my birthday. You want to have a free shot to celebrate?
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean the word free and there really helps
Speaker 2: that statement.
Speaker 3: And even though he's been using that trick for who knows,
Speaker 3: maybe months or years, it sounds like he says he
Speaker 3: finally found a special lady named Tina who he could
Speaker 3: see having maybe more than just a dance floor makeup.
Speaker 3: He likes her, he does, so, Brooke, how are we
Speaker 3: going to help him pull this off today?
Speaker 4: Well?
Speaker 2: I don't think we're going to reveal that he's been
Speaker 2: trying a trick for years and then it finally.
Speaker 1: Worked on her.
Speaker 3: You know, that's a good point, unless Wes wants us
Speaker 3: to bring that up with her.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I got you, Wes, I got your back, all right.
Speaker 3: Okay, another tactical move on our part.
Speaker 1: How are you feeling right now?
Speaker 3: Wes?
Speaker 4: I mean, you know, like I said, I'm at a
Speaker 4: point where I want to meet the one and I'm
Speaker 4: feel a little vulvable right now, so I need John help.
Speaker 4: I'm ready to get his going.
Speaker 3: Okay, well maybe this will help. I want you to
Speaker 3: picture yourself with your back to a virtual bar right now,
Speaker 3: and let's pretend that it's your birthday today. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 3: he already chilled out a little bit. Let's call Tina here.
Speaker 3: Let's see if she picks up. Hopefully we can get
Speaker 3: some answers from her. Here we go, Hello, Hey, Hey,
Speaker 3: is this Tina smooth?
Speaker 4: Jeff?
Speaker 1: Oh, that's what I was thinking to say. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: pushing jeff aside to get to the bar.
Speaker 3: I had something in my throat. I was trying not
Speaker 3: to cough. Sorry, Tina, are you there?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Who is this?
Speaker 3: Sorry, it's a lot of us. Yeah. This is a
Speaker 3: radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 5: It's who what is this?
Speaker 3: We're Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. We're a radio
Speaker 3: show and you're on it right now on a segment
Speaker 3: called a second Date Update.
Speaker 1: Hey, which is awesome, she says.
Speaker 3: Okay, I skepticism. So it's actually a really cool thing
Speaker 3: that we do where we try and help our listeners
Speaker 3: get back in touch with someone after they went on
Speaker 3: a date or they met out somewhere and had a
Speaker 3: really nice time together. And that was the case with
Speaker 3: you and a guy named Wes.
Speaker 5: Oh Wes.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Yeah, you met each other out at the bars
Speaker 3: one night and it was Wes's birthday, so you guys
Speaker 3: took like a celebratory shot together and ended up vibing
Speaker 3: and pretty much hanging out all night time.
Speaker 5: Well, I thought he was a good guy. He was
Speaker 5: that moose kind of talker that I like, and he
Speaker 5: dressed really nice and I like that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know the type keep going, I'm looking at
Speaker 2: Do you remember how this conversation started?
Speaker 3: If you do, know we're talking to team or now,
Speaker 3: well that sounds really positive.
Speaker 1: Yeah, what happened?
Speaker 5: Well, I've got friends that have had really bad experiences
Speaker 5: with guys, like you can never really tell what the
Speaker 5: deal is.
Speaker 1: You mean, just women who date men?
Speaker 5: Yes, yes, yes, that's what I mean. So I went
Speaker 5: on Facebook and I went to a page Are we
Speaker 5: dating the same guy?
Speaker 4: That?
Speaker 3: Geez, well toxic?
Speaker 1: I don't know if you can believe anything that's on there.
Speaker 3: Well, for people that don't know, what is that.
Speaker 5: It's a Facebook page that women go on and they
Speaker 5: post pictures of guys that other women should be suspect of.
Speaker 2: But you don't know, like you don't know if these
Speaker 2: women have been like jolted or you know.
Speaker 1: Like my cousin cousin dated him and it's cruel, Like
Speaker 1: there's cruel stuff I see.
Speaker 3: So, so you're saying you went on there and saw
Speaker 3: Wes somewhere.
Speaker 5: Yes, his picture was on there and there were commons. Oh,
Speaker 5: I took a shot with him on his birthday and clearly, yeah,
Speaker 5: the same exact thing. I guess he has more than
Speaker 5: one birthday.
Speaker 1: Wow, isn't that amazing? Who can have more than one birthday?
Speaker 3: It's technology?
Speaker 1: You didn't like that he was using that to meet you? Oh?
Speaker 5: Oh no, I did not like that at all, you know,
Speaker 5: And I'm still going out to the clubs, but I
Speaker 5: certainly am looking for a long term relationship. I don't
Speaker 5: have time game.
Speaker 3: Well, so is Wes. Wes said that he wants a
Speaker 3: long term thing too.
Speaker 1: Is that's the worst thing that I was sai about him.
Speaker 1: I've seen meaner stuff on.
Speaker 3: There, and sometimes some people like they take their birthday
Speaker 3: and they stretch it out for like a whole week,
Speaker 3: for a whole month, and it's like my birthday month.
Speaker 3: Maybe that's what was going on.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 3: I don't know either. The only way to find out
Speaker 3: is to have you actually talk to Wes about it.
Speaker 3: And wouldn't you know, he's listening right now on the
Speaker 3: other phone line, waiting to talk to you.
Speaker 2: Hi.
Speaker 5: Hey, I didn't know you're on the other line. How
Speaker 5: you mean, Oh yeah, listen. I just had to look
Speaker 5: into a little bit more west because you are a
Speaker 5: smooth moving.
Speaker 4: Guy, you know.
Speaker 5: So I went on this page and there are other
Speaker 5: women out there saying Oh, I had a birthday shot
Speaker 5: with him too, like two months ago. Oh, you must
Speaker 5: have more than one birthday.
Speaker 4: I mean, busted, It's happened. Look, I am at a
Speaker 4: point in my life where I am trying to change things.
Speaker 4: I really enjoyed the time that we had. I really did.
Speaker 4: So that's what I told broke in the crew, that
Speaker 4: I enjoyed the time we had. And I was thinking,
Speaker 4: there's other things that you don't know about me that
Speaker 4: I would like you to know, like, oh, I don't
Speaker 4: like putting my business out there like that, but I'm
Speaker 4: actually a wealthy guy.
Speaker 3: No, hold on, wait a second, let's see where this goes.
Speaker 5: You're wealthy.
Speaker 4: I actually am doing well. I've got a car dealership
Speaker 4: that's been doing well, and sometimes I do own two
Speaker 4: of them.
Speaker 2: Yes, how do you only sometimes own a car dealership?
Speaker 3: Was he owns the other one?
Speaker 2: Tell her what you know that you met this amazing woman,
Speaker 2: that you had this connection that you've never had with
Speaker 2: anybody else before, and that you're so excited about it.
Speaker 3: Boo, talk more about the cars.
Speaker 4: Why can't both things be true?
Speaker 5: You know what? I don't know? Like I am, maybe
Speaker 5: I'm not at that place where I'm looking for a
Speaker 5: long term Maybe I'm just looking for a guy who's
Speaker 5: got a buck or two and he's willing to check out.
Speaker 3: Are you saying that you don't believe him about the cars?
Speaker 3: Or do you know?
Speaker 5: What I'm saying at this point is I don't care
Speaker 5: if he's willing to take me out on the seven eight,
Speaker 5: spend money on.
Speaker 3: Me, and make out again.
Speaker 2: All he had to say was I'm rich and im
Speaker 2: times owned two car dealerships.
Speaker 3: I'm trying to understand where your mind is at.
Speaker 4: We don't need to understand anything. We just need to
Speaker 4: go out.
Speaker 6: But no, okay, I don't know how shy you free drinks? Well, officially,
Speaker 6: we'd like to offer to send you two out on
Speaker 6: a date.
Speaker 3: Oh, this is perfect. This is his birthday in a
Speaker 3: couple of days. Yeah, birthday, No, it comes.
Speaker 5: Up every month, broke, No, it's today, it's today.
Speaker 3: Well, in honor of his birthday today, would you like
Speaker 3: to meet up with Wes one more time? And we
Speaker 3: would pay for the date?
Speaker 5: Absolutely not. I just scammed him like he scammed me.
Speaker 4: Wait, oh my god, what's going on here? I mean,
Speaker 4: did you not get it? Like I said, I'm.
Speaker 5: Rich nobody believes that, just like every girl on that
Speaker 5: Facebook page.
Speaker 1: What do I feel like his pictures getting posted a
Speaker 1: second time.
Speaker 3: On Forbes? That's where it's going to be a millionaire.
Speaker 4: I'm really thrown right now, you know, Like I said,
Speaker 4: it's not every day that I'm vulnerable and put myself
Speaker 4: out there and actually trying I think so that.
Speaker 1: Okay, let's just remember you weren't totally honest with her.
Speaker 3: Just because he wasn't rich at the start of the
Speaker 3: call and then he was rich by the end doesn't
Speaker 3: mean that he's not being honest. Bro fluctuates a lot. Bro, Yes,
Speaker 3: ten million dollars can come and go into accounts all
Speaker 3: the time.
Speaker 2: Loses do I have a three color dealerships
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