WEBVTT - Second Date Update UPDATE: Bumpin' Carts

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<v Speaker 1>It's always a fun day when we get an update

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<v Speaker 1>from one of our Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 2>Couple, Yes, especially an unexpected one for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, welcome to Broke and Jeffrey in the Morning, and

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<v Speaker 1>you have found the Second Date Update podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>We're so happy you're here. And yesterday we do need.

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<v Speaker 1>To do a update on the yes because we did

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<v Speaker 1>put a poll up on Spotify based on yesterday's Second

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<v Speaker 1>Date update and what it was.

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<v Speaker 3>The poll we said, your date has something on their face.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you say something, keep it to yourself, or put

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<v Speaker 3>something on your face?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>Eighty four percent of you.

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<v Speaker 3>Said you say something wow, yeah yeah, ten percent keep

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<v Speaker 3>it to yourself, and five percent put something on your face.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes see. Yeah, I love that. All right, let's get

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<v Speaker 2>to this update update.

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<v Speaker 1>That's, of course where we get a check in from

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<v Speaker 1>a couple that's been on the show before.

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<v Speaker 2>So we are going to play the full original.

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<v Speaker 1>Second Date and then at the very end is when

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to hear from them again.

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<v Speaker 2>So stick around to the very end of this one.

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<v Speaker 2>It starts right now.

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<v Speaker 4>It's the date that we never thought would actually happen,

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<v Speaker 4>but against all odds, it did. Yay, one of our

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<v Speaker 4>most popular second date calls from the past calendar year

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<v Speaker 4>gets a surprising update. Oh, it's just proof that only

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<v Speaker 4>because we think a relationship is doomed and there's tons

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<v Speaker 4>and tons of red flags and all the signs are

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<v Speaker 4>pointing directly to the toilet. That doesn't count for anything.

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<v Speaker 2>That's good.

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<v Speaker 4>That's right. Sometimes true love prevails even when we condemn

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<v Speaker 4>it in the most unexpected ways. You're gonna hear it

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<v Speaker 4>when we get a second Date update update. Right after

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<v Speaker 4>this second Date Update date, we got an email from

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<v Speaker 4>a woman who says people in her area aren't really

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<v Speaker 4>using Bumble or Tinder anymore. They use it not even

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<v Speaker 4>my favorite app, Clinger, where personal space is just myth.

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<v Speaker 2>At least everybody on the app.

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<v Speaker 4>You imagine you hear knock at your door, immediately find

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<v Speaker 4>your fellow codependent Clinger. But she says she's found a

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<v Speaker 4>more unique way to meet guys. And we've heard of

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<v Speaker 4>these types of movements before where people are like trying

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<v Speaker 4>to move away from the apps in favor of other methods.

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<v Speaker 4>So let's talk to her and find out what she did.

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<v Speaker 4>Her name is Mandy. Mandy, Welcome to the show toay guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, you sound cute and fun and like you did

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<v Speaker 1>something fun to meet some guys.

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<v Speaker 4>She said, Hey, how did you get that? From? Hey,

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<v Speaker 4>you did it? You sound perfect for Clinger Brooks. So

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<v Speaker 4>tell us about this guy that you met and how

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<v Speaker 4>you met him. What's your strategy?

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<v Speaker 5>Now? There was this kiktok movement going around and I

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<v Speaker 5>want to say it started in Spain and it's where

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<v Speaker 5>singles meet up at a grocery store. So like you'll

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<v Speaker 5>have a store and you have a time, and they

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<v Speaker 5>usually see a huge turnout, like sixty to seventy people

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<v Speaker 5>take part in it at a grocery store.

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<v Speaker 2>It like how do you find when the meat up?

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<v Speaker 4>Feeling see you guys at checkstands?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'd be the person not invited to the grocery

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<v Speaker 1>store for some reason.

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<v Speaker 5>People will just kind of post the store name and time,

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<v Speaker 5>and they'll get reposted and reposted, and then people just.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I seem like not exactly this, but like I've

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<v Speaker 3>seen people go on and they'll be like, I think

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<v Speaker 3>this bar would be fun for singles. Go this Friday

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<v Speaker 3>night and it's like a popular barn and go viral

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<v Speaker 3>and we're.

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<v Speaker 2>Doing grocery stores and stuff. You can just say yeah exactly.

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<v Speaker 6>Don't makes sense, Like, if you're going to do it,

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<v Speaker 6>you share it.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, if you watch any video where it says hot

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<v Speaker 3>singles might be here, I feel like you're into it.

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<v Speaker 4>I see a lot of those websites. And so a

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<v Speaker 4>bunch of people go to the grocery store hoping to

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<v Speaker 4>meet someone. Right, we can go to the meat.

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<v Speaker 2>Section, because that would be really fun.

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<v Speaker 4>No by I'm thirsty, Mandy. Tell us how it works.

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<v Speaker 4>What happens Once you're in the store.

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<v Speaker 5>There's where it's a little way saucy. So you go

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<v Speaker 5>and you get a pineapple. Okay, it's okay, it's not

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<v Speaker 5>like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Why is it that fruit?

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<v Speaker 5>You know? I wondered the same thing, like you couldn't

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<v Speaker 5>have chosen a different fruit? But whatever, Okay, it upside down,

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<v Speaker 5>which I know runs like rampant with that other.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you sure you're going to the right.

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<v Speaker 4>Shut up? I'm loving this idea more and more. Keep going,

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<v Speaker 4>it's true.

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<v Speaker 5>Then you put it upside down your cart, and then

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<v Speaker 5>you go over to where the wine is and you

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<v Speaker 5>grab a bottle of wine.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, you got an upside down pineapple and some wine.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, and you check out who's around you see if

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<v Speaker 5>they have the same items in theirs. And if you

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<v Speaker 5>see somebody who kind of tickles your fancy so speak,

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<v Speaker 5>give them a light bump with your cart in.

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<v Speaker 2>The pilot tips over. Now we're bumping carts.

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<v Speaker 6>I will say this, this can be subtle because even

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<v Speaker 6>if you don't see someone at first, you could just

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<v Speaker 6>wander around.

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<v Speaker 2>Looks do you have to wander in? Every question?

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<v Speaker 5>Though?

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<v Speaker 2>If you bump someone, do they bump you back? Like

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<v Speaker 2>do you run away with carts?

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<v Speaker 5>If they're not interested, they could you know, just sorry,

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<v Speaker 5>excuse me and walk away.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, So bumping carts is the equivalent of swiping basically exactly. Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>so who did you bump upside down pineapple wine?

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<v Speaker 2>Right, we're all following who was it?

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<v Speaker 5>That is how I'm that mark my right?

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<v Speaker 2>And then how do you how do you turn that

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<v Speaker 2>into a date.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, once we bumped, then we exchanged information. We actually

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<v Speaker 5>got together and we went to a wine bar and

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<v Speaker 5>it was it was really nice, like we just got

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<v Speaker 5>to sit down and really talk. And he's really funny

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<v Speaker 5>and he's a he's an animal lover, and which is

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<v Speaker 5>yeah exactly, and I mean he's just he seemed very genuine.

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<v Speaker 1>So did you get the vibe that you guys were

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<v Speaker 1>going to do this again? You're going to see each other.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, And that's the weirdest thing, Like he walked me

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<v Speaker 5>home you know we can't and then gone done and

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<v Speaker 5>then done now you said, And then he was gone.

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<v Speaker 4>He ran away after the kids. He was like, oh

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<v Speaker 4>my god, I have wine breath, and then he runs away.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe he had to go get another pineapple.

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<v Speaker 2>Interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>So have you called him or texted him or are

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<v Speaker 1>you waiting for him?

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<v Speaker 5>No? I did. I called him and I texted and

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<v Speaker 5>that's got nothing.

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<v Speaker 4>How long has it been since you and Mark went

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<v Speaker 4>on that date.

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<v Speaker 5>It's been about two weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, it's a while, Yeah, long enough that he should

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<v Speaker 1>have reached out.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Sorry, Okay, Well, let's call him in find out what

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<v Speaker 4>he has to say. We're gonna come back and do

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<v Speaker 4>your second date update. You got pine do we have

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<v Speaker 4>to do? I put in my Instacart order already, so

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<v Speaker 4>I'll be back. We'll do it right after this. Hold

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<v Speaker 4>on second Date update.

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<v Speaker 2>You're in the middle of a second date update update,

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<v Speaker 2>and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing. Right,

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<v Speaker 2>after you here Part two.

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<v Speaker 4>I am never gonna shop for groceries the same ever

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<v Speaker 4>again after this call with man you.

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<v Speaker 1>And meeboled, I am going to be just eyeballing eagle

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<v Speaker 1>eye who's in here.

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<v Speaker 5>To think of it?

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<v Speaker 4>Because Mandy told us about a strange new dating ritual

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<v Speaker 4>that apparently started with singles in Spain and now it's

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<v Speaker 4>come over to the US where people will show up

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<v Speaker 4>at a grocery store like a lot of people. They

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<v Speaker 4>take all the pineapples, put them in carts upside down,

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<v Speaker 4>and meet in the wine section, then start bumping each

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<v Speaker 4>other just show interest.

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<v Speaker 7>And this is.

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<v Speaker 4>Wink definitely not a swing, even though it sounds like

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<v Speaker 4>it to literally every person on the planet except for

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<v Speaker 4>our listener Mandy, because she ended up meeting a guy

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<v Speaker 4>named Mark there. They went out, had a really good time,

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<v Speaker 4>and this was her first grocery store bump, sesshon. But

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<v Speaker 4>we never asked what about Mark, Manny, did you discuss

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<v Speaker 4>that has he bumped before?

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<v Speaker 5>He said he had? Okay, she and the girl had

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<v Speaker 5>gone out a few times after they had a bump.

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<v Speaker 2>Second, it's crazy how successful this is people.

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<v Speaker 6>What's it like when it's busy and it just sounds

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<v Speaker 6>like a hundred shopping cars crashing in the corner store.

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<v Speaker 1>Even more fascinating is how confused the produce man must be.

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<v Speaker 2>Ye, pineapples and now they don't want but they're back.

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<v Speaker 5>And.

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<v Speaker 4>There's clearly a lot of questions that we have, and

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<v Speaker 4>she's a rookie. She can't answer.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>The only person that can is the tropical fruit stud

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<v Speaker 4>that we're about to call here. Hopefully we'll squeeze some

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<v Speaker 4>answers out of him, can well, mister Jiquita his name, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>pineapple Mark. We'll just call him Mark until we get

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<v Speaker 4>more from him. But let's just dial let me see

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<v Speaker 4>if he picks up first. Here we go. Hello, Hey,

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<v Speaker 4>is this Mark?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Hey Mark. I'm not sure if you're ready for this,

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<v Speaker 4>but you are on a radio show right now. We're

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<v Speaker 4>called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Boy, have we been dying to talk to you?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, seriously, so many questions.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry, sorry, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't mean to like scare You're a whole show, bro, Yes,

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<v Speaker 4>four of us.

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<v Speaker 2>Now we have a radio show and we do a podcast.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm jeff and have you heard everybody else, so

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<v Speaker 4>I'd like to tell So we want to ask you

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<v Speaker 4>a little bit if it's okay about your dating life,

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<v Speaker 4>because we heard that you a woman the other day

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<v Speaker 4>at the grocery store named Mandy.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh she told you about that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you're gonna be embarrassed, bro. We think it's really interesting. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>She told us all about like the TikTok trend of

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<v Speaker 1>going to the grocery store at the same time.

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<v Speaker 7>Uh. Wow, yeah, I have. I have a couple of

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<v Speaker 7>friends that they're doing this trend, and they told me

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<v Speaker 7>you should, uh see what it's about. Yeah. A couple

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<v Speaker 7>of times I met Mandy, and I don't know. She

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<v Speaker 7>thought she was cool.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, that's good.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a good start.

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<v Speaker 4>Cool enough to take out on an actual date to

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<v Speaker 4>a wine bar. We heard.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, we went out. It's just uh, towards the end

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<v Speaker 7>of the date, like a weird thing happened. Oh, she

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<v Speaker 7>told you guys about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Weirder than the grocery store things.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, we heard you kiss you're supposed to like.

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<v Speaker 2>Was it not a good kiss?

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<v Speaker 7>I walked her home and we kissed and it was

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<v Speaker 7>really great.

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<v Speaker 4>But I take her to.

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<v Speaker 7>Her door and she reaches into her purse pulls out

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<v Speaker 7>an envelope.

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<v Speaker 4>Okayarts letter.

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<v Speaker 7>I get to my car and I opened this letter

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<v Speaker 7>and it says thank you for this lovely date, and

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<v Speaker 7>then under it it says, here is my pre and

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<v Speaker 7>post date expenses.

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<v Speaker 2>Huh wait, it's an invoice.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah to what there was the take up? There was

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<v Speaker 7>the petticure or things like that.

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<v Speaker 2>She needed her toes painted to go to a wine bar.

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<v Speaker 7>Like I thought. I didn't know that this was part

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<v Speaker 7>of it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's insane.

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<v Speaker 7>Her Venmo was on there. There was a Venmo bar code.

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<v Speaker 3>Didn't it to maybe a guy you don't like more

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<v Speaker 3>than someone where it actually went, well, why would you?

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<v Speaker 7>Why you?

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<v Speaker 2>Especially because didn't you pay for the wine bar?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah? Well I paid for everything, I thought, Okay, I'll

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<v Speaker 7>treat her to a date. That's normal.

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<v Speaker 4>I just it. You did not pay for everything, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Or maybe he didn't have enough money to pay for

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<v Speaker 4>the Venmo thing.

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<v Speaker 2>So come on, what is she having to buy new

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<v Speaker 2>makeup for the date?

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<v Speaker 5>Please?

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<v Speaker 2>Everything does run out at the same time.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't give me started.

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<v Speaker 4>We're a lot of theoreticals. We don't know the true story.

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<v Speaker 4>The only one that does is Mandy, who is on

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<v Speaker 4>the other line listening to this call right now, Mark

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<v Speaker 4>and wanting to talk to you. Mark.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh girl, I didn't realize that was what bothered.

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<v Speaker 4>You, because so you admit that you invoiced him for

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<v Speaker 4>everything before and during the date.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I went out, I got my makeup done, and

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<v Speaker 5>I got my hair done, got a new outfit.

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<v Speaker 2>You shouldn't put that much for a man, just saying

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<v Speaker 2>in the.

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<v Speaker 7>First but I didn't ask you to do any of that.

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<v Speaker 5>You were insistent that you wanted to go out, and

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<v Speaker 5>that you know, I wanted to pay.

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<v Speaker 7>And I wanted to say, but to give me the receipts.

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<v Speaker 7>It was just it was impersonal. I didn't feel right

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<v Speaker 7>about it. I walked away feeling good, thinking, oh cool,

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<v Speaker 7>I got a cute envelope with a note instead I

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<v Speaker 7>had a receipt. What are you doing?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean a letter does kind of make it more

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<v Speaker 4>personal in a way.

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<v Speaker 2>Does it?

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<v Speaker 4>She took the time to write it.

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<v Speaker 5>Indeed, you know I've got before, and I've never had

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<v Speaker 5>any broken lengths.

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<v Speaker 4>Really, maybe in the Pineapple community the standards for paying

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<v Speaker 4>them are a little bit different.

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<v Speaker 6>I just admit, though, if I went on a date

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<v Speaker 6>with a girl and it went well, and I wanted

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<v Speaker 6>to see her again, and she built me fifty bucks

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<v Speaker 6>and be.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, Okay, oh no, no, Fini, I can afford it.

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<v Speaker 6>I can take care of it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think she's thinking about that when she I

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<v Speaker 1>just like, these are expenses about just being an adult

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<v Speaker 1>that you just have to incur. Like this is just

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<v Speaker 1>life expenses that you got to take on yourself.

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<v Speaker 5>Do you do You don't you feel that we're getting

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<v Speaker 5>a little screwed over by the amount of money we

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<v Speaker 5>have to pay.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like kind of a shared thing. You both put

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<v Speaker 4>in your effort and your money. Mandy, is there a

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<v Speaker 4>way that maybe going forward you could see not doing

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<v Speaker 4>the invoice or at least giving him a discount.

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<v Speaker 5>If it's going to make you feel more comfortable. If

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<v Speaker 5>we got again, you know, we can go Dutch.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't even understand what that means.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it means she pays for half, and he pays

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<v Speaker 4>for half. What he pays for one foot, she pays

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<v Speaker 4>for the other foot.

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<v Speaker 2>I got it. Bet you paid for your own crap,

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<v Speaker 2>Like would the bill come?

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<v Speaker 4>No O, that's not how modern pineapple dating works. Brooke,

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<v Speaker 4>get up with the times Market. Sounds like she's trying

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<v Speaker 4>to be reasonable with you, offering a pretty significant discount

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<v Speaker 4>on the rates that you have to pay, so I

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<v Speaker 4>would give her another chance. This is like when you.

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<v Speaker 6>Tell a company you're going to cancel and they give

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<v Speaker 6>you that last offer exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>Trial, Is it too late to go Dutch on the

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<v Speaker 1>first bill or we just talking about the second villa?

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<v Speaker 4>You know, we're not in charge of the entire financial landscape.

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<v Speaker 4>We're in charge of is paying for the date that

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<v Speaker 4>you go on, because we will offer to fund it

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<v Speaker 4>for you. Mark, if you'll see Mandy one more time.

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<v Speaker 7>If you're willing to talk about splitting things down the

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<v Speaker 7>line down the middle between you and I in the future,

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<v Speaker 7>then I don't see a reason not to no reason.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, Yes, Spreadsheets, Excel, you need to keep your septs.

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<v Speaker 2>Mark, Okay, if you get a haircut, you gotta remember

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<v Speaker 2>see how many pumps the foundations. She's using account numbers.

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<v Speaker 4>This is some sexy talk that we're having on the

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<v Speaker 4>show right now. But Mark, here, is that a yes

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<v Speaker 4>from you?

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<v Speaker 7>That's a yes from.

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<v Speaker 4>That did not see that coming. But congratulations, Mandy, you

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<v Speaker 4>got yourself another date.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, thank you, guys, very much. Mark, Once you then

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<v Speaker 5>Momy the half for the first date, we can schedule

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<v Speaker 5>a second date.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, Maddie, I thought you were nuts, but now

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<v Speaker 1>I'm thinking I want you to do my financial.

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<v Speaker 7>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 4>Honestly, I'm not sure anybody here expected to get an

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<v Speaker 4>update from these two, but no, not all here we are.

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<v Speaker 4>Mark and Mandy are back on to give us an

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<v Speaker 4>update update on their situation. And the last time that

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<v Speaker 4>we spoke to you guys, there was a question of

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<v Speaker 4>will Mark be responsible for paying half of the pre

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<v Speaker 4>date stuff? What happened there?

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<v Speaker 5>So he did actually, then Mommy for his half.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh sweet guy.

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<v Speaker 5>And we've kept dating over the next few months and

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<v Speaker 5>he has paid like a gentleman should for my predate expenses.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, for over two months he's been doing this.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, for the last few months, he's been doing it.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow. Mark, are you there?

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<v Speaker 2>I kind of hear you in the background.

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<v Speaker 7>Yes, yes, I'm here. Guys. Hikay, that's good to.

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<v Speaker 4>Hear from you. Mark.

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<v Speaker 2>Has it been worth the cost?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh yeah, no, She's totally worth it.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, Oh okay, okay, but he has told me she

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<v Speaker 5>has some concerns. Certain dates are more expensive than others,

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<v Speaker 5>and since it wasn't consistent, I did offer to send

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<v Speaker 5>him an itemized bill, but he really he wasn't happy

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<v Speaker 5>with that either, So.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Well, so there's still a little bit of tension.

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<v Speaker 4>It sounds like with the financials in your relationship, were

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<v Speaker 4>you guys able to work through that?

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<v Speaker 7>Well, So she and I talked it out. She offered

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<v Speaker 7>me a monthly subscription package. Girlfriend, So I pay a

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<v Speaker 7>flat rate of eighty nine ninety nine a month to

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<v Speaker 7>cover all of her predates.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh oh, that sounds like an introductory rate.

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<v Speaker 5>Be careful, you know, as long as the Venmo payment

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<v Speaker 5>gets there by the third of the month.

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<v Speaker 7>I do give him a.

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<v Speaker 5>Two day grace period before he incurred interest.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what, Look, if you guys are happy, then

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<v Speaker 4>that's great. I know every relationship works differently. Who are

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<v Speaker 4>we to judge how other people are able to find

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<v Speaker 4>happiness in their life. So that's awesome. Thank you.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm very very happy with Mark.

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<v Speaker 2>Make sure you lock them into an annual no cancelation policy.

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<v Speaker 4>Get them on a five year deal so it can't

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<v Speaker 4>go anywhere. Beautiful, Glad you guys are doing well. Make

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<v Speaker 4>sure if you want follow us on YouTube at Brook

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<v Speaker 4>and Jeffrey. You can find all of our second date

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<v Speaker 4>updates right there.

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<v Speaker 7>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,