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Speaker 1: It's always a fun day when we get an update

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Speaker 1: from one of our Second Date Update.

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Speaker 2: Couple, Yes, especially an unexpected one for sure.

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Speaker 1: Hey, welcome to Broke and Jeffrey in the Morning, and

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Speaker 1: you have found the Second Date Update podcast.

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Speaker 2: We're so happy you're here. And yesterday we do need.

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Speaker 1: To do a update on the yes because we did

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Speaker 1: put a poll up on Spotify based on yesterday's Second

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Speaker 1: Date update and what it was.

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Speaker 3: The poll we said, your date has something on their face.

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Speaker 3: Do you say something, keep it to yourself, or put

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Speaker 3: something on your face?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 4: Eighty four percent of you.

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Speaker 3: Said you say something wow, yeah yeah, ten percent keep

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Speaker 3: it to yourself, and five percent put something on your face.

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Speaker 2: Yes see. Yeah, I love that. All right, let's get

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Speaker 2: to this update update.

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Speaker 1: That's, of course where we get a check in from

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Speaker 1: a couple that's been on the show before.

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Speaker 2: So we are going to play the full original.

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Speaker 1: Second Date and then at the very end is when

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Speaker 1: we're going to hear from them again.

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Speaker 2: So stick around to the very end of this one.

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Speaker 2: It starts right now.

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Speaker 4: It's the date that we never thought would actually happen,

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Speaker 4: but against all odds, it did. Yay, one of our

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Speaker 4: most popular second date calls from the past calendar year

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Speaker 4: gets a surprising update. Oh, it's just proof that only

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Speaker 4: because we think a relationship is doomed and there's tons

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Speaker 4: and tons of red flags and all the signs are

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Speaker 4: pointing directly to the toilet. That doesn't count for anything.

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Speaker 2: That's good.

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Speaker 4: That's right. Sometimes true love prevails even when we condemn

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Speaker 4: it in the most unexpected ways. You're gonna hear it

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Speaker 4: when we get a second Date update update. Right after

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Speaker 4: this second Date Update date, we got an email from

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Speaker 4: a woman who says people in her area aren't really

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Speaker 4: using Bumble or Tinder anymore. They use it not even

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Speaker 4: my favorite app, Clinger, where personal space is just myth.

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Speaker 2: At least everybody on the app.

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Speaker 4: You imagine you hear knock at your door, immediately find

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Speaker 4: your fellow codependent Clinger. But she says she's found a

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Speaker 4: more unique way to meet guys. And we've heard of

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Speaker 4: these types of movements before where people are like trying

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Speaker 4: to move away from the apps in favor of other methods.

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Speaker 4: So let's talk to her and find out what she did.

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Speaker 4: Her name is Mandy. Mandy, Welcome to the show toay guys.

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Speaker 1: Hey, you sound cute and fun and like you did

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Speaker 1: something fun to meet some guys.

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Speaker 4: She said, Hey, how did you get that? From? Hey,

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Speaker 4: you did it? You sound perfect for Clinger Brooks. So

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Speaker 4: tell us about this guy that you met and how

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Speaker 4: you met him. What's your strategy?

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Speaker 5: Now? There was this kiktok movement going around and I

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Speaker 5: want to say it started in Spain and it's where

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Speaker 5: singles meet up at a grocery store. So like you'll

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Speaker 5: have a store and you have a time, and they

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Speaker 5: usually see a huge turnout, like sixty to seventy people

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Speaker 5: take part in it at a grocery store.

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Speaker 2: It like how do you find when the meat up?

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Speaker 4: Feeling see you guys at checkstands?

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Speaker 1: Like I'd be the person not invited to the grocery

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Speaker 5: People will just kind of post the store name and time,

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Speaker 5: and they'll get reposted and reposted, and then people just.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I seem like not exactly this, but like I've

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Speaker 3: seen people go on and they'll be like, I think

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Speaker 3: this bar would be fun for singles. Go this Friday

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Speaker 3: night and it's like a popular barn and go viral

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Speaker 3: and we're.

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Speaker 2: Doing grocery stores and stuff. You can just say yeah exactly.

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Speaker 6: Don't makes sense, Like, if you're going to do it,

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Speaker 3: Well, if you watch any video where it says hot

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Speaker 4: I see a lot of those websites. And so a

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Speaker 2: Section, because that would be really fun.

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Speaker 4: No by I'm thirsty, Mandy. Tell us how it works.

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Speaker 4: What happens Once you're in the store.

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Speaker 5: There's where it's a little way saucy. So you go

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Speaker 5: and you get a pineapple. Okay, it's okay, it's not

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Speaker 2: Why is it that fruit?

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Speaker 5: You know? I wondered the same thing, like you couldn't

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Speaker 2: Are you sure you're going to the right.

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Speaker 4: Shut up? I'm loving this idea more and more. Keep going,

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Speaker 4: it's true.

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Speaker 5: Then you put it upside down your cart, and then

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Speaker 5: you go over to where the wine is and you

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Speaker 4: Okay, you got an upside down pineapple and some wine.

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Speaker 5: Yes, and you check out who's around you see if

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Speaker 5: they have the same items in theirs. And if you

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Speaker 5: see somebody who kind of tickles your fancy so speak,

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Speaker 5: give them a light bump with your cart in.

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Speaker 2: The pilot tips over. Now we're bumping carts.

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Speaker 6: I will say this, this can be subtle because even

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Speaker 6: if you don't see someone at first, you could just

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Speaker 2: Looks do you have to wander in? Every question?

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Speaker 5: Though?

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Speaker 2: If you bump someone, do they bump you back? Like

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Speaker 2: do you run away with carts?

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Speaker 5: If they're not interested, they could you know, just sorry,

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Speaker 5: excuse me and walk away.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So bumping carts is the equivalent of swiping basically exactly. Okay,

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Speaker 4: so who did you bump upside down pineapple wine?

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Speaker 2: Right, we're all following who was it?

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Speaker 5: That is how I'm that mark my right?

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Speaker 2: And then how do you how do you turn that

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Speaker 5: Well, once we bumped, then we exchanged information. We actually

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Speaker 5: it was it was really nice, like we just got

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Speaker 5: and he's a he's an animal lover, and which is

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Speaker 5: yeah exactly, and I mean he's just he seemed very genuine.

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Speaker 1: So did you get the vibe that you guys were

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Speaker 1: going to do this again? You're going to see each other.

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, And that's the weirdest thing, Like he walked me

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Speaker 5: then done now you said, And then he was gone.

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Speaker 4: He ran away after the kids. He was like, oh

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Speaker 4: my god, I have wine breath, and then he runs away.

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Speaker 5: Maybe he had to go get another pineapple.

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Speaker 2: Interesting.

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Speaker 1: So have you called him or texted him or are

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Speaker 5: No? I did. I called him and I texted and

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Speaker 5: that's got nothing.

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Speaker 4: How long has it been since you and Mark went

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Speaker 5: It's been about two weeks.

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Speaker 1: Okay, it's a while, Yeah, long enough that he should

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Sorry, Okay, Well, let's call him in find out what

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Speaker 4: he has to say. We're gonna come back and do

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Speaker 4: your second date update. You got pine do we have

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Speaker 4: to do? I put in my Instacart order already, so

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Speaker 4: I'll be back. We'll do it right after this. Hold

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Speaker 4: on second Date update.

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Speaker 2: You're in the middle of a second date update update,

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Speaker 2: and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing. Right,

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Speaker 2: after you here Part two.

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Speaker 4: I am never gonna shop for groceries the same ever

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Speaker 4: again after this call with man you.

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Speaker 1: And meeboled, I am going to be just eyeballing eagle

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Speaker 1: eye who's in here.

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Speaker 5: To think of it?

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Speaker 4: Because Mandy told us about a strange new dating ritual

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Speaker 4: that apparently started with singles in Spain and now it's

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Speaker 4: come over to the US where people will show up

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Speaker 4: at a grocery store like a lot of people. They

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Speaker 4: take all the pineapples, put them in carts upside down,

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Speaker 4: and meet in the wine section, then start bumping each

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Speaker 4: other just show interest.

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Speaker 7: And this is.

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Speaker 4: Wink definitely not a swing, even though it sounds like

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Speaker 4: it to literally every person on the planet except for

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Speaker 4: our listener Mandy, because she ended up meeting a guy

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Speaker 4: and this was her first grocery store bump, sesshon. But

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Speaker 4: we never asked what about Mark, Manny, did you discuss

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Speaker 4: that has he bumped before?

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Speaker 5: He said he had? Okay, she and the girl had

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Speaker 2: Second, it's crazy how successful this is people.

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Speaker 6: What's it like when it's busy and it just sounds

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Speaker 1: Even more fascinating is how confused the produce man must be.

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Speaker 2: Ye, pineapples and now they don't want but they're back.

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Speaker 5: And.

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Speaker 4: There's clearly a lot of questions that we have, and

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Speaker 4: The only person that can is the tropical fruit stud

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Speaker 4: answers out of him, can well, mister Jiquita his name, okay,

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Speaker 4: pineapple Mark. We'll just call him Mark until we get

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Speaker 4: if he picks up first. Here we go. Hello, Hey,

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Speaker 4: is this Mark?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Hey Mark. I'm not sure if you're ready for this,

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Speaker 4: but you are on a radio show right now. We're

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Speaker 4: called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Boy, have we been dying to talk to you?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, seriously, so many questions.

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry, sorry, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 4: I didn't mean to like scare You're a whole show, bro, Yes,

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Speaker 2: Now we have a radio show and we do a podcast.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm jeff and have you heard everybody else, so

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Speaker 4: I'd like to tell So we want to ask you

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Speaker 4: a little bit if it's okay about your dating life,

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Speaker 4: because we heard that you a woman the other day

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Speaker 4: at the grocery store named Mandy.

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Speaker 7: Oh she told you about that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you're gonna be embarrassed, bro. We think it's really interesting. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: She told us all about like the TikTok trend of

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Speaker 7: Uh. Wow, yeah, I have. I have a couple of

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Speaker 7: you should, uh see what it's about. Yeah. A couple

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Speaker 7: of times I met Mandy, and I don't know. She

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Speaker 4: Okay, that's good.

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Speaker 2: That's a good start.

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Speaker 4: Cool enough to take out on an actual date to

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Speaker 4: a wine bar. We heard.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, we went out. It's just uh, towards the end

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Speaker 7: of the date, like a weird thing happened. Oh, she

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Speaker 7: told you guys about it.

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Speaker 2: Weirder than the grocery store things.

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Speaker 4: Well, we heard you kiss you're supposed to like.

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Speaker 2: Was it not a good kiss?

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Speaker 7: I walked her home and we kissed and it was

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Speaker 4: But I take her to.

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Speaker 7: Her door and she reaches into her purse pulls out

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Speaker 4: Okayarts letter.

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Speaker 7: I get to my car and I opened this letter

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Speaker 7: and it says thank you for this lovely date, and

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Speaker 7: then under it it says, here is my pre and

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Speaker 7: post date expenses.

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Speaker 2: Huh wait, it's an invoice.

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Speaker 7: Yeah to what there was the take up? There was

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Speaker 2: She needed her toes painted to go to a wine bar.

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Speaker 7: Like I thought. I didn't know that this was part

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Speaker 2: That's insane.

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Speaker 7: Her Venmo was on there. There was a Venmo bar code.

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Speaker 3: Didn't it to maybe a guy you don't like more

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Speaker 7: Why you?

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Speaker 2: Especially because didn't you pay for the wine bar?

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Speaker 7: Yeah? Well I paid for everything, I thought, Okay, I'll

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Speaker 7: treat her to a date. That's normal.

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Speaker 4: I just it. You did not pay for everything, okay.

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Speaker 4: Or maybe he didn't have enough money to pay for

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Speaker 2: So come on, what is she having to buy new

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Speaker 5: Please?

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Speaker 2: Everything does run out at the same time.

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Speaker 3: Don't give me started.

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Speaker 4: We're a lot of theoreticals. We don't know the true story.

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Speaker 4: The only one that does is Mandy, who is on

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Speaker 4: the other line listening to this call right now, Mark

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Speaker 4: and wanting to talk to you. Mark.

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Speaker 5: Oh girl, I didn't realize that was what bothered.

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Speaker 4: You, because so you admit that you invoiced him for

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Speaker 5: Well, I went out, I got my makeup done, and

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Speaker 2: You shouldn't put that much for a man, just saying

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Speaker 7: First but I didn't ask you to do any of that.

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Speaker 5: You were insistent that you wanted to go out, and

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Speaker 5: that you know, I wanted to pay.

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Speaker 7: And I wanted to say, but to give me the receipts.

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Speaker 7: It was just it was impersonal. I didn't feel right

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Speaker 7: I got a cute envelope with a note instead I

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Speaker 7: had a receipt. What are you doing?

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Speaker 4: I mean a letter does kind of make it more

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Speaker 2: Does it?

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Speaker 4: She took the time to write it.

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Speaker 5: Indeed, you know I've got before, and I've never had

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Speaker 4: Really, maybe in the Pineapple community the standards for paying

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Speaker 6: I just admit, though, if I went on a date

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Speaker 6: and be.

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Speaker 4: Like, Okay, oh no, no, Fini, I can afford it.

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Speaker 6: I can take care of it.

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Speaker 1: I don't think she's thinking about that when she I

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Speaker 1: just like, these are expenses about just being an adult

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Speaker 5: Do you do You don't you feel that we're getting

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Speaker 5: a little screwed over by the amount of money we

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Speaker 4: It's like kind of a shared thing. You both put

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Speaker 4: in your effort and your money. Mandy, is there a

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Speaker 4: way that maybe going forward you could see not doing

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Speaker 5: If it's going to make you feel more comfortable. If

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Speaker 5: we got again, you know, we can go Dutch.

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Speaker 2: I don't even understand what that means.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it means she pays for half, and he pays

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Speaker 4: for half. What he pays for one foot, she pays

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Speaker 4: for the other foot.

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Speaker 2: I got it. Bet you paid for your own crap,

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Speaker 2: Like would the bill come?

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Speaker 4: No O, that's not how modern pineapple dating works. Brooke,

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Speaker 4: get up with the times Market. Sounds like she's trying

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Speaker 4: to be reasonable with you, offering a pretty significant discount

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Speaker 4: on the rates that you have to pay, so I

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Speaker 4: would give her another chance. This is like when you.

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Speaker 6: Tell a company you're going to cancel and they give

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Speaker 6: you that last offer exactly.

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Speaker 1: Trial, Is it too late to go Dutch on the

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Speaker 1: first bill or we just talking about the second villa?

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Speaker 4: You know, we're not in charge of the entire financial landscape.

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Speaker 4: We're in charge of is paying for the date that

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Speaker 4: you go on, because we will offer to fund it

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Speaker 4: for you. Mark, if you'll see Mandy one more time.

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Speaker 7: If you're willing to talk about splitting things down the

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Speaker 7: line down the middle between you and I in the future,

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Speaker 7: then I don't see a reason not to no reason.

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Speaker 1: Yes, Yes, Spreadsheets, Excel, you need to keep your septs.

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Speaker 2: Mark, Okay, if you get a haircut, you gotta remember

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Speaker 2: see how many pumps the foundations. She's using account numbers.

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Speaker 4: This is some sexy talk that we're having on the

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Speaker 4: show right now. But Mark, here, is that a yes

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Speaker 7: That's a yes from.

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Speaker 4: That did not see that coming. But congratulations, Mandy, you

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Speaker 5: Well, thank you, guys, very much. Mark, Once you then

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Speaker 5: Momy the half for the first date, we can schedule

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Speaker 5: a second date.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, Maddie, I thought you were nuts, but now

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking I want you to do my financial.

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Speaker 7: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 4: Honestly, I'm not sure anybody here expected to get an

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Speaker 4: update from these two, but no, not all here we are.

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Speaker 4: Mark and Mandy are back on to give us an

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Speaker 4: update update on their situation. And the last time that

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Speaker 4: we spoke to you guys, there was a question of

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Speaker 4: will Mark be responsible for paying half of the pre

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Speaker 4: date stuff? What happened there?

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Speaker 5: So he did actually, then Mommy for his half.

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Speaker 4: Oh sweet guy.

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Speaker 5: And we've kept dating over the next few months and

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Speaker 5: he has paid like a gentleman should for my predate expenses.

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Speaker 2: Wait, for over two months he's been doing this.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, for the last few months, he's been doing it.

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Speaker 4: Wow. Mark, are you there?

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Speaker 2: I kind of hear you in the background.

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Speaker 7: Yes, yes, I'm here. Guys. Hikay, that's good to.

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Speaker 4: Hear from you. Mark.

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Speaker 2: Has it been worth the cost?

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Speaker 7: Oh yeah, no, She's totally worth it.

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Speaker 5: Yes, Oh okay, okay, but he has told me she

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Speaker 5: has some concerns. Certain dates are more expensive than others,

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Speaker 5: and since it wasn't consistent, I did offer to send

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Speaker 5: him an itemized bill, but he really he wasn't happy

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, so there's still a little bit of tension.

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Speaker 4: It sounds like with the financials in your relationship, were

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Speaker 7: Well, So she and I talked it out. She offered

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Speaker 7: me a monthly subscription package. Girlfriend, So I pay a

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Speaker 7: flat rate of eighty nine ninety nine a month to

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Speaker 7: cover all of her predates.

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Speaker 1: Oh oh, that sounds like an introductory rate.

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Speaker 5: Be careful, you know, as long as the Venmo payment

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Speaker 5: gets there by the third of the month.

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Speaker 7: I do give him a.

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Speaker 5: Two day grace period before he incurred interest.

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Speaker 4: You know what, Look, if you guys are happy, then

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Speaker 4: that's great. I know every relationship works differently. Who are

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Speaker 4: we to judge how other people are able to find

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Speaker 4: happiness in their life. So that's awesome. Thank you.

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Speaker 5: I'm very very happy with Mark.

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Speaker 2: Make sure you lock them into an annual no cancelation policy.

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Speaker 4: Get them on a five year deal so it can't

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Speaker 4: go anywhere. Beautiful, Glad you guys are doing well. Make

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Speaker 4: sure if you want follow us on YouTube at Brook

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Speaker 4: and Jeffrey. You can find all of our second date

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Speaker 7: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,