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Speaker 1: Thank God. Hey, I just want to put it out there.

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Speaker 2: I got charissas sick, I got even Jared sick.

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Speaker 2: I wish I could answer this candidly. AnyWho from Macy's.

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Speaker 3: to just remind yourself, you know, constantly. You and I

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Speaker 1: Let that.

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Speaker 3: So I think it's helpful to have other people in

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Speaker 3: I don't think that you're alone in this whole situation.

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Speaker 1: I also think it's really good.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you bring up a great point to hang

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Speaker 2: out with people kind of who have a positive mindset, because,

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Speaker 2: like you said, you and I can get down a

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Speaker 2: but think about it this way. And I remember I

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Speaker 1: Downer And it drove my parents crazy.

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Speaker 2: My dad was always like, she's got a puss on

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Speaker 2: and I noticed that everything around her was so ho hum.

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Speaker 1: It was just a crappy place to be.

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Speaker 2: So maybe look at the people you're hanging out with

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Speaker 3: Absolutely, and that's something that you and I have discussed

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Speaker 1: That's fine, But we also need to find.

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Speaker 3: A little bit of a gospel like situation in some conversations.

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Speaker 3: So not every day is like a you know, doomsday.

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Speaker 3: It's not doomsday. When you go to Macy's, especially for

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