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Speaker 1: This is Cowboy Sam and this is Eh John.

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Speaker 4: My sister made our father walk her down the aisle

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Speaker 4: with our mother's a fair partner.

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Speaker 2: Now that's just sad.

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Speaker 4: My family used to be really close, but that changed

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Speaker 4: in two thousand and three when my dad fifty five

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Speaker 4: mail discovered that my mom fifty four female, was having

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Speaker 4: an affair with John fifty four male, my dad's childhood

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Speaker 4: best friend.

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Speaker 2: That ain't no friend.

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Speaker 1: Those are red flashing lights, red fleg.

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Speaker 4: He was basically his brother back then, and he was

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Speaker 4: my dad's best man in his wedding with my mom.

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Speaker 4: He begged her to stay and work things out, but

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Speaker 4: my mom ended up leaving him for John, and eventually

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Speaker 4: they got a divorce and my mom ended up marrying

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Speaker 4: John five months later.

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Speaker 2: Dude, our John would not do this, sho wouldn't ever

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Speaker 2: do that.

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Speaker 4: This is also so messed up, Like your best friend

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Speaker 4: that was your brother to you messed up by the way,

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Speaker 2: I'm Sophia, I'm Riley, I'm key On, and we're here.

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Speaker 4: To give good advice. Goofiley, But we don't have all

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Speaker 4: the answers. We only know what we'd do.

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Speaker 2: So let us know what you would do in the comments.

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Speaker 2: And oh, he says.

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Speaker 4: My twin sister, Sarah twenty seven female was always the

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Speaker 4: stereotypical daddy's girl. Dad spoiled her a bit more than

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Speaker 4: the rest of us, and she was basically a shadow

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Speaker 4: back then, and that's why it was really surprising to

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Speaker 4: us that Sarah chose to stay with our mom after

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Speaker 4: the divorce.

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Speaker 2: It's better to be assault daddy than a sugar daddy.

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Speaker 2: Salt Daddy spoil no, because sugar Daddy spoil salt Daddy's preserve.

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Speaker 2: That's kind of really good. Did you just come up

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Speaker 2: with that?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 4: Back then, me, twenty seven male and her were the

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Speaker 4: only ones to still live with our parents. We have

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Speaker 4: four other brothers. I chose to stay with Dad and

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Speaker 4: Sarah chose to live with Mom, and on the weekend

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Speaker 4: to stay with Dad, and I occasionally went to Mom's

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Speaker 4: house to say that the divorce and my sister choosing

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Speaker 4: to stay with Mom fed up. My dad is an understatement.

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Speaker 4: You tried to act like he was okay in front

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Speaker 4: of us, but every single weekday for the year following

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Speaker 4: the divorce, I could hear him cry himself to sleep.

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Speaker 2: Oh heartbreaking. Yeah, because you don't know what to do.

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Speaker 2: You can't fix that. You're a kid.

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Speaker 4: After the divorce, the relationship between Sarah and Dad didn't

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Speaker 4: showing up at every parent teacher conference, ballet recital, and

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Speaker 4: started to change when she suddenly changed her mind about

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Speaker 4: med school. Our dad is a surgeon, and she always

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Speaker 4: said that she wanted to follow his steps, but Mom

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Speaker 4: path to become a lawyer. Mom and John are both.

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Speaker 2: Lawyers, bro, What even is this?

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Speaker 4: During her studies, John started mentoring her and they became

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Speaker 4: really close. After she finished her education, he got her

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Speaker 2: Yep, Yeah, that would be like really weird.

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Speaker 4: Someone makes sense because she's close with her mom, But

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Speaker 4: I feel like that's just like, I don't know, the

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Speaker 2: I think the worst thing about this is that John

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he's kind of the uncle guy. Uncle Dad on

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Speaker 4: to the issue. In twenty seventeen, Sarah got married. My

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Speaker 4: dad was absolutely thrilled about her wedding. He gave Sarah

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Speaker 4: did this to all of us. He really likes weddings,

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Speaker 4: but in Sarah's case, he was really excited because she

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Speaker 2: Down the aisle.

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Speaker 4: One day before the wedding, Sarah drops the bomb. That

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Speaker 4: together immediately.

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Speaker 1: A whole really bad.

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Speaker 4: You could maybe justify like saying, oh, these two people

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Speaker 4: are you know, really important in my life. But you

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Speaker 4: didn't tell your dad until the day before that he

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Speaker 4: stole his wife.

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Speaker 2: Dude, Like, it doesn't make any sense in this scenario

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Speaker 2: because it seems like the dad is probably paid for

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Speaker 2: a lot of this. Well John paid for it.

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Speaker 3: No, No, Dad did Dad, Dad? Dadad is the one

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Speaker 3: and you can't walk her down the aisle. This is insane.

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Speaker 2: That's really messed up.

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Speaker 4: Dad is the most non confrontational person to walk on

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Speaker 2: He didn't do that.

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Speaker 4: They got into a huge fight.

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Speaker 3: No, I said yourself, Dad, goodness, do not become like

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Speaker 3: a Rob.

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Speaker 2: Uh Uh remember the Rob story?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, don't be like Rob.

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Speaker 2: Fight back a little.

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Speaker 4: Bit the first time I I saw him get angry.

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Speaker 4: And in the end he didn't attend the wedding and

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Speaker 4: John ended up walking Sarah down the aisle. The fallout

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Speaker 4: was massive. After the wedding, Dad and his side of

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Speaker 4: the family basically disowned her and the relationship became nonexistent.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 4: She tried to reach out after a while and make

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Speaker 4: amends several times, but he simply didn't want to hear

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 4: Earlier this year he was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and

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Speaker 4: unfortunately the treatment didn't work and he is terminal. Oh,

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Speaker 4: this is so sad. Even with that, he still doesn't

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Speaker 4: want to see her again. And she doesn't understand that

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Speaker 4: while she has absolutely wronged him. I would be having

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Speaker 4: like this is your daughter?

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Speaker 2: Yes, she did something really awful. I don't know though.

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Speaker 2: This is the equivalent of wearing white to a wedding,

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Speaker 2: if not even worse.

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Speaker 4: Oh, I think it's worse. I think it's way worse.

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Speaker 4: I think she I think she did something truly awful.

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Speaker 2: Could remedy this. But what you're saying as a statement

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Speaker 2: leaving your family to go with another man, is that

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Speaker 2: this man that is walking me down the aisle has

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Speaker 2: enough authority to give my blessing away to this other

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Speaker 2: over the affair partner. Then your dad. Your Dad's like here,

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Speaker 2: he's come, and you're putting the affair partner all the

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Speaker 4: No, I mean, I think it's awful, to be clear, but.

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Speaker 2: When you when you want to hold this over your

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Speaker 2: doing silently. I can't. I don't even know you can say.

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Speaker 2: You can say it rude. I think this anyway.

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Speaker 4: Comment from OPI. She was always Dad's favorite. She was

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Speaker 4: the most stereotypical daddy's girl possible. They were practically joined

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Speaker 4: which maybe made that all the more hurtful for him

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Speaker 2: The father has the right to choose who he spends

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Speaker 4: And she is very sweet, she's honestly, very easy going,

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Speaker 4: and she was everyone's little sister. My dad always wanted

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Speaker 4: very likable person. Apparently it was my mom's idea, and

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Speaker 4: which I honestly don't understand. My dad paid for her

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Speaker 4: to college. My dad spent hours talking to her on

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Speaker 2: By the way.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, I just cannot understand how your sister

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Speaker 2: To the Also, the guy that convinced you from going

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Speaker 2: a lawyer. What kind of mind washing, boggling things happened here?

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Speaker 2: Don't we understand who they is?

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Speaker 4: In this scenario, It doesn't seem like she understands why

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Speaker 2: And it's not Kinna, Nina says. I mean, in a

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Speaker 2: perfect world, after the dad would see her, they would

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Speaker 2: him for still being hurt and angry.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 4: She knew the whole story. Our parents' divorce was as

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Speaker 4: simple as possible. But she knew about the whole thing,

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Speaker 4: not like it was a family secret or anything like that.

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Speaker 4: I and my older brothers told her before the wedding

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Speaker 4: that this was a bad move, that she was pouring

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Speaker 2: What happens when you pour salt on a wound? Does

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Speaker 2: it help it?

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Speaker 1: It hurts, It just spurs it stings along.

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Speaker 2: Does it helps heal it?

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Speaker 1: I don't think so.

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Speaker 2: It just just makes it sting.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it makes it worse.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, It's like putting lemon juice.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Well. Also, I was to say, like on a boat,

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Speaker 4: like when they would whip people on like boats and stuff,

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Speaker 4: like sailors and stuff. They would use a cat of

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Speaker 4: nine tails and it would have like salts, you know,

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Speaker 4: on it, like the salt water on it hurt even more.

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Speaker 2: Kevin On tells Moon, we are all very close.

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Speaker 4: I am particularly close with her because well we are twins.

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Speaker 4: Shared a womb and stuff. But our older brothers love her,

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Speaker 4: and she loves them as well. She was always a

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Speaker 4: bit spoiled by them, the privilege of being the only

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Speaker 4: girl in the family. Oh, I really don't think he

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Speaker 4: is possessive over her. I really don't think he judged

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Speaker 4: her for staying with mom. He was just sad he

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Speaker 4: doesn't get to see her more often. They were together

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Speaker 4: since they were twelve and thirteen years old. You know,

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Speaker 2: What mano, we know? What the f?

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Speaker 4: I would say that by her choosing the man who

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Speaker 4: Absolutely, and also when she has that argument with her dad,

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Speaker 4: the Amberlance says salt Dry's wounds which prevents infection.

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Speaker 2: Well, good to know.

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Speaker 4: Nina Nelson says, if you're old enough to marry, you're

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I get the it's your wedding, your rules, but.

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Speaker 5: Not being an a hole or like hurting people's feelings. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: Jolly Bus says, I've been on the phone with my cousin.

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Speaker 4: That was an absolutely dirt pickle move. And there is

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Speaker 4: an update six weeks later. Agreed, yeah, one hundred percent.

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Speaker 2: Agreed and the ultimate betrayal.

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Speaker 4: But the thing is, despite all of that, I do hope,

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Speaker 2: Was very, very wronged. Mm hmm.

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Speaker 4: He doesn't have to do it, but I think it would,

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Speaker 4: it's really sad. Six weeks later, some people asked for

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Speaker 3: No, No, let's just skipped this part.

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Speaker 2: We don't need to do this.

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Speaker 1: You just make up our own happy.

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Speaker 4: End, and yeah, everyone, they apologized and he accepted, and

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Speaker 4: A week after I posted the original post, my dad

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Speaker 2: In the end, he was.

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Speaker 4: Lucid enough to say goodbyes to me and my older brothers.

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Speaker 4: Hearing him saying what he said to me was one

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Speaker 4: His words to me meant a lot. I won't say

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Speaker 4: And how can I blame them? B I'm only twenty

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Speaker 4: It doesn't seem fair at all. The worst part was

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Speaker 4: was in denial. His funeral was beautiful. A lot of

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Speaker 4: Sarah saw Dad for the first time since the night

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Speaker 2: Oh she didn't recognize him. He was very skinny.

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Speaker 4: John tried to show up at the ceremony. That is

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Speaker 4: The woman who cheated on him and the affair partner

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Speaker 4: For him, and my uncles were forced to punt them

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Speaker 4: as expected as it could. Dad's family came from old

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Speaker 4: He left a little bit of money and properties divided

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Speaker 4: He left a trust fund which was a lot of

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Speaker 4: He left a really big letter to all of us

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Speaker 4: I must have read the letter like a hundred times,

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Speaker 4: that was very typical of Dad. Sarah didn't get a

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Speaker 4: and when she found out about this, she had a

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Speaker 4: mental breakdown. The regret was eating her alive still is.

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Speaker 4: She was admitted to a hospital and spent an entire

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Speaker 4: She still starts to cry randomly multiple times on a

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Speaker 2: That is so sad. It's so sad. It's very amazing

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Speaker 2: I mean, I can't blame him. She really did the

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, it does suck though that this was like

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Speaker 4: Another nail in the coffin that. Oh I messed up

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Speaker 1: Again, Yeah, it does suck.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, I got a letter from my great grandpa

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Speaker 2: if I can't. Yeah, you don't. I mean, there's no time.

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Speaker 4: Which brings us to last week. My wife and I

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Speaker 4: I'm angry that my future kid is not going to

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Speaker 4: doesn't seem fair at all, I'm angry, and I'm scared.

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Speaker 4: My dad was supposed to guide me in the whole

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Speaker 4: I'm thing scared of doing this without him. I'm scared

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Speaker 4: because my kids deserve that. There's a little bit left

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Speaker 2: Actions have consequences. I just don't understand what she was thinking.

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Speaker 4: I don't either, and I think she has been punished enough,

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Speaker 4: so I'm not even gonna say. You know, she's the

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Speaker 4: all you can do is just be there for and say, yeah,

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Speaker 4: I'm so sorry that you didn't get that moment. I

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Speaker 4: don't think you need to say I told you.

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Speaker 2: So or like shit.

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Speaker 1: I think she knows. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I think that is the worst punishment that she could receive.

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Speaker 4: I don't think we need to say like you. I

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Speaker 2: Oh that's devastating. I'm sorry for your loss, O pee.

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Speaker 4: This is it, folks. The whole situation could be a

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Speaker 4: lot better. I play the what if scenario in my

445
00:19:02,160 --> 00:19:06,240
Speaker 4: head every day. Unfortunately it doesn't change anything. This, honestly

446
00:19:06,600 --> 00:19:09,600
Speaker 4: is a bitter ending. Doesn't seem fair at all, but

447
00:19:09,640 --> 00:19:12,200
Speaker 4: that's the thing about life, It actually is never fair.

448
00:19:12,440 --> 00:19:14,600
Speaker 4: I want to thank everyone who gave me advice and

449
00:19:14,680 --> 00:19:17,399
Speaker 4: to everyone who reached out and offered their support in

450
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Speaker 4: the chat. I was very lonely at that time. Still

451
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Speaker 4: am ah f this year. Honestly it meant a lot

452
00:19:23,240 --> 00:19:26,840
Speaker 4: to me. Canada is nubs, says Listen, Bud, let me

453
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Speaker 4: tell you something. Your amazing dad did his job and

454
00:19:30,320 --> 00:19:32,600
Speaker 4: he gave you whatever he could pass on to you.

455
00:19:32,880 --> 00:19:34,840
Speaker 4: Best thing you could do is live according to the

456
00:19:34,840 --> 00:19:37,080
Speaker 4: good things he taught you. Grab a book and start

457
00:19:37,119 --> 00:19:40,120
Speaker 4: journaling all your best memories. Talk to your family members

458
00:19:40,200 --> 00:19:42,600
Speaker 4: write down what they remember too. This is the time

459
00:19:42,640 --> 00:19:45,720
Speaker 4: to do it while memories are fresh. Losing him is sad,

460
00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:49,720
Speaker 4: but find happiness in also realizing that whatever hardships he

461
00:19:49,840 --> 00:19:51,400
Speaker 4: had in life are also over.

462
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Speaker 6: Now.

463
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Speaker 4: You need to do your best to be as great

464
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Speaker 4: a father as he was, so your children can benefit

465
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Speaker 4: from him. Through the hands of the sun he raised

466
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Speaker 4: with his own two hand hands. Hey wash, she the

467
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Speaker 4: best in your journey forward and that's the end of

468
00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:03,920
Speaker 4: that story.

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Speaker 2: Katipel says, can't ope lean on his wife's dad for

470
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Speaker 2: dad advice. I know it wouldn't be the same, but

471
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Speaker 2: it still means something.

472
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Speaker 4: I mean, I'm sure, I'm sure he has other people

473
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Speaker 4: in his life who you know, could provide that, but like,

474
00:20:15,480 --> 00:20:18,120
Speaker 4: it's not it's not the same, you know, still still

475
00:20:18,119 --> 00:20:19,399
Speaker 4: devastating losing that person.

476
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Speaker 2: Gosh, And Meser Racer says, how old was she again

477
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Speaker 2: when she made the decision? Twenty seven? Is that right?

478
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Speaker 4: I no, he's twenty seven right now. Oh so, no,

479
00:20:27,119 --> 00:20:29,040
Speaker 4: but this was a couple of years ago, so she

480
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Speaker 4: would have been probably early twenties.

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Speaker 1: They're twins.

482
00:20:31,440 --> 00:20:33,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, they were old. She was old enough to know better.

483
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Speaker 4: Ye oh yeah, yeah, absolutely, there is no excuse. She's

484
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Speaker 4: going to be living with that decision forever. I think

485
00:20:38,880 --> 00:20:42,359
Speaker 4: she's already paid. Yeah, and you know, she's paid over

486
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Speaker 4: and over and she's going to keep paying for that decision.

487
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Speaker 4: So I don't really have the energy to be like

488
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Speaker 4: she deserves it.

489
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Speaker 2: Yeah, Meser Racers has a good point. Well, eighteen is

490
00:20:51,240 --> 00:20:54,760
Speaker 2: a kid still, Plus her mom clearly was emotionally abusive,

491
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Speaker 2: she had the balls show up at the funeral her

492
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Speaker 2: and John. I mean, she betrayed the dad, had an

493
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Speaker 2: a fair got with them, and then made Penny go

494
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Speaker 2: from coming a surge into a lawyer because that's what

495
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Speaker 2: she does. And she probably despised her wont be surgeon

496
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Speaker 2: and forced her to become a lawyer because she probably

497
00:21:10,600 --> 00:21:13,040
Speaker 2: was gonna pull funding or whatever. That was sad. She

498
00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:15,239
Speaker 2: got the man that walked her down the aisle so

499
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Speaker 2: she wouldn't feel so bad.

500
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Speaker 4: I mean, she's gotta feel bad for the rest of

501
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Speaker 4: her life.

502
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Speaker 2: Guys, if you're crying type one, if you're not crying,

503
00:21:22,800 --> 00:21:24,919
Speaker 2: type two. And I did not leave my gloves in

504
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Speaker 2: the loo. They're over there. But that's the end of

505
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Speaker 2: that story, folks. That was sad. Yeah, we're gonna have

506
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Speaker 2: another story day. We got some people like actually crying

507
00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:36,120
Speaker 2: right now. Oh that's nice. I could tell an embarrassing story.

508
00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:39,800
Speaker 2: So yesterday, sure, I was having Tate and Peyton come

509
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Speaker 2: to Pearl House and I had everything set up, and

510
00:21:42,119 --> 00:21:44,480
Speaker 2: I was like carrying a bunch of stuff and Sophia

511
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Speaker 2: in front of her door has so much fucking shit

512
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Speaker 2: in front of her door.

513
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Speaker 4: To be clear, it's a mouse blockade.

514
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Speaker 2: I was doing and I was carrying it and I

515
00:21:51,880 --> 00:21:54,800
Speaker 2: accidentally bumped one of the things in my toe. I

516
00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:57,200
Speaker 2: bumped my toe on it, my pinky toe, mind you.

517
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Speaker 2: And then the door just flies open and she's in

518
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Speaker 2: there with her boyfriend. I'm like, I'm so sorry.

519
00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:05,679
Speaker 4: But literally I'm like sitting on the opposite end of

520
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Speaker 4: the bed. But like my boyfriend he's like shirtless because

521
00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:10,880
Speaker 4: we were in the hot tub earlier, and it rather

522
00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:14,560
Speaker 4: like I'm not I'm not even sitting near him.

523
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Speaker 2: I know, but I didn't look. I didn't want to look.

524
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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna be the one that's like it, Oh sorry,

525
00:22:19,560 --> 00:22:22,439
Speaker 2: I but like what if what if someone else was

526
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Speaker 2: it was a pillow over his chest? It could have

527
00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:27,960
Speaker 2: been so much worse. I felt really bad and I

528
00:22:27,960 --> 00:22:31,320
Speaker 2: didn't look. I just kind of I just kind of

529
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Speaker 2: like kept my eyes down and like put everything and

530
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Speaker 2: I was like, I'm sorry. I was like grabbing out

531
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Speaker 2: the door, like.

532
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Speaker 4: I'm just sitting on my bed.

533
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Speaker 2: You never know, plus but but but but but this

534
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Speaker 2: is Sophie's fault. Isn't my call? Because you have a

535
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Speaker 2: lock on your door.

536
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Speaker 4: You don't lock my door always, especially if like I'm

537
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Speaker 4: literally sitting on my bed.

538
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Speaker 2: But if anything were to happen, it would have been

539
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Speaker 2: your fault. Okay, because your door was not closed all

540
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Speaker 2: the way because I bumped I bumped in. It doesn't

541
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Speaker 2: close it like opens really easily. Have you tried it

542
00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:01,440
Speaker 2: with the lock is open really easy with the lock on? Anyways,

543
00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:04,840
Speaker 2: that's it. My family forgot my birthday and only my

544
00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:09,760
Speaker 2: aunt with memory problems remembered. Well, that's ironic. I fifty female,

545
00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:13,880
Speaker 2: just had my half a century old birthday yesterday. Woo,

546
00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:17,480
Speaker 2: you're kicking the bucket. Oh, I hope not. My seventy

547
00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:20,640
Speaker 2: four year old dad, fifty year old husband, eighteen year

548
00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:23,919
Speaker 2: old daughter, and sixteen year old son lived together because

549
00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:26,160
Speaker 2: I take care of my dad. Either way, this comes

550
00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:28,960
Speaker 2: from impossible yoda oh one to fourteen. And if you

551
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Speaker 2: want to spa on stories, go to the rsagh Okay story.

552
00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:34,200
Speaker 2: So I'm story about where this person is from. It's true,

553
00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:36,960
Speaker 2: it's one of our own babies. It's one of my babies.

554
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Speaker 2: And Dakota, what are we here to do?

555
00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:40,040
Speaker 3: Where did give good advice?

556
00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:41,320
Speaker 2: Goofily and Sophia?

557
00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:44,199
Speaker 3: What do we not have all the answers? And so

558
00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:47,480
Speaker 3: what is the viewer's job to tell us what they know.

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Speaker 3: Is that right, Dakota, Yes.

560
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Speaker 2: So do that right now? Op, he says. Anyway, So

561
00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:55,760
Speaker 2: my birthday came and went yesterday, and not one person

562
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Speaker 2: at my house said happy birthday, Peache, genuinely so messed up.

563
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Speaker 4: I can't imagine not knowing your parents' birthdays, let alone

564
00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:06,360
Speaker 4: your wife's birthday.

565
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Speaker 2: That's shocking to me. Dude, I can't say much. I

566
00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:10,720
Speaker 2: still haven't got Dick go to his birthday present, and

567
00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:12,439
Speaker 2: I feel really bad that mess up.

568
00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:13,000
Speaker 3: It's okay.

569
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Speaker 2: I really thought you had that over me for a

570
00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:15,600
Speaker 2: while and I haven't been able to.

571
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Speaker 3: Like nah, no, zero percent.

572
00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:19,679
Speaker 2: I took my daughter to work at eight am. She

573
00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:23,040
Speaker 2: didn't say anything, but I was like, it's first thing

574
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Speaker 2: in the morning. She hates the morning sitt so I

575
00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:28,840
Speaker 2: understand it might not cross her mind. My dad at

576
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Speaker 2: one pm asked if I could use his truck to

577
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Speaker 2: pick up my grandson from school. Yes, I'll be back

578
00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:36,680
Speaker 2: at three pm, so you can do what you need

579
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Speaker 2: to do. My husband called me at two pm and said, hey,

580
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Speaker 2: want to go eat at my eighteen year old's daughter's work.

581
00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:44,800
Speaker 2: It's fast food, so that way we can eat then

582
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Speaker 2: pick her up at the same time. I said, sure,

583
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Speaker 2: I guess maybe they're surprising me with a birthday dinner.

584
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Speaker 4: This is like in have you guys ever seen the

585
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Speaker 4: Middle Yes, with Sue, they forget her birthday and like

586
00:24:55,880 --> 00:24:58,320
Speaker 4: the whole day, she's like expecting them to do something

587
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Speaker 4: like surprise for her, and then she goes to and

588
00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:02,920
Speaker 4: she's really sad. And then the parents remember and they

589
00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:05,560
Speaker 4: go into a room at like midnight and they're like,

590
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Speaker 4: happy birtha.

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Speaker 2: She's likes rememed so sad. Yeah, this is what I'm

592
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:13,040
Speaker 2: This is what I'm hoping for. It I'm hoping at

593
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Speaker 2: like midnight they remember. You could still pull this up, guys,

594
00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:19,960
Speaker 2: it's not that hard. My dad asked me at four o'clock,

595
00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:22,080
Speaker 2: do you want to go to a box store with me? No,

596
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Speaker 2: Hobby and I have to pick up her daughter from work.

597
00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:26,560
Speaker 2: At four thirty. Hobby and I leave. He does to

598
00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:28,959
Speaker 2: say a word about my birthday. We talk about stupid

599
00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:30,920
Speaker 2: stuff on the way to my daughter's work. We get

600
00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:33,440
Speaker 2: there again, my Hobby doesn't say anything.

601
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Speaker 4: I will say I personally am the type of person

602
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Speaker 4: like if I'm with someone and it's my birthday and

603
00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:39,639
Speaker 4: they haven't said it.

604
00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:41,800
Speaker 2: I'm like, do you have anything to say to me?

605
00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:44,960
Speaker 4: Do you have anything to bring up about this day,

606
00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:48,119
Speaker 4: this special day. I would not be able to contain it.

607
00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:50,280
Speaker 4: I'd be like, why why are we talking about my birthday?

608
00:25:50,359 --> 00:25:52,600
Speaker 2: But Hope seems like from just seeing what her day

609
00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:55,320
Speaker 2: looks like, is a very self less person. Oh dude. Uh.

610
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Speaker 4: Also, I need to take the day off on June

611
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Speaker 4: twenty nine.

612
00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:01,840
Speaker 2: Perfect, you got it. I'm taking the day off the

613
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Speaker 2: twenty fourth. June twenty fourth, No, February twenty fourth sounds good.

614
00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:09,000
Speaker 2: It's my anniversary with my baby girl. Guys won't even

615
00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:11,440
Speaker 2: notice I'm gone. Really, June twenty ninth is my birthday.

616
00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:12,880
Speaker 2: That was July twenty ninth.

617
00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:15,119
Speaker 3: That's right, May twenty ninth.

618
00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:18,399
Speaker 2: March twenty ninth. It's a twenty ninth is something. A

619
00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:20,760
Speaker 2: coffee shop is next door work, So I said, I'm

620
00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:22,920
Speaker 2: gonna go next door get a coffee. I went to

621
00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:26,159
Speaker 2: get my free birthday drink. They all were a happy

622
00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:30,159
Speaker 2: birthday all over the cup. Not Starbucks remembering your birthday.

623
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Speaker 2: I love how OPI didn't sponsor or put their sponsor in,

624
00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:34,320
Speaker 2: and you.

625
00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:37,080
Speaker 4: Did not coffee shop remembering your birthday.

626
00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:41,919
Speaker 2: OPI good job, So I'm sorry. What do you do?

627
00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:45,359
Speaker 2: Before heading home? I asked, can we stop at my

628
00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:48,400
Speaker 2: oldest daughter's work so we can get a candy bar?

629
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Speaker 2: Why are you sponsoring? No? No, this would have been with

630
00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:56,160
Speaker 2: the coffee shop. Can we stop? Can we stop? Oh?

631
00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:59,040
Speaker 2: Could we stop? And he's like, why are you trying

632
00:26:59,040 --> 00:27:02,760
Speaker 2: to sponsor? Now? I tell her they all forgot my birthday.

633
00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:05,560
Speaker 2: They don't say anything to them about it. On the

634
00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:08,000
Speaker 2: way home, no one says anything. The sun is home.

635
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:10,800
Speaker 2: When we get back, he doesn't say anything. This is

636
00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:13,200
Speaker 2: so sad. I just sit at the kitchen table trying

637
00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:16,120
Speaker 2: out to cry and figure out what in the universe

638
00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:19,240
Speaker 2: I'm in. If it wasn't for Facebook and the birthday wishes,

639
00:27:19,359 --> 00:27:21,880
Speaker 2: I would have thought I was wrong for thinking it

640
00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:26,960
Speaker 2: was my birthday. So sad. Everyone type of birthday in

641
00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:30,520
Speaker 2: the chat dakotas November first, Sofia is August twenty nine.

642
00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:33,440
Speaker 2: Mine is the twenty third of September. Put him down?

643
00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:38,320
Speaker 3: Do you remember the twenty ninth day of July?

644
00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:40,520
Speaker 2: But an hour later, my hubby comes out of the

645
00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:43,040
Speaker 2: room and asks want to go to the store with me? Dude,

646
00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:44,399
Speaker 2: why does he want to go to the store so

647
00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:46,720
Speaker 2: much today. He didn't want to sit around the house

648
00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:49,560
Speaker 2: right now. I was like, no, I'm good. Both kids

649
00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:52,200
Speaker 2: go with him. I was like, Okay, maybe they remember.

650
00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:54,840
Speaker 2: Maybe they're gonna get me a card or something. In

651
00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:57,560
Speaker 2: the meantime, my oldest son twenty five, my oldest are

652
00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:00,720
Speaker 2: both from a previous marriage, shows up while they're gone

653
00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:02,639
Speaker 2: and gives me candy in a gift card and a

654
00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:06,040
Speaker 2: coffee cup. Yes. I hugged him and thanked him, and

655
00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:06,920
Speaker 2: he went on his way.

656
00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:11,240
Speaker 4: Thank god, one of your children. He is a good child.

657
00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:12,520
Speaker 4: Thank god.

658
00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:15,560
Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, see a lot of September babies.

659
00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:18,359
Speaker 4: Oh my goodness, this that would be so sad if

660
00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:19,000
Speaker 4: no one did it.

661
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Speaker 2: Thank God, someone it. I love it.

662
00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:24,800
Speaker 4: This is your favorite child. I literally would never let

663
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:26,520
Speaker 4: any of my other kids forget this. I'd be like,

664
00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:28,879
Speaker 4: that's my favorite son. Yeah, that's my favorite son. You

665
00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:30,840
Speaker 4: all forgot my birthday. That's my favorite son, Son of

666
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:33,720
Speaker 4: the year. They should Honestly, sounds bad, but if I

667
00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:36,359
Speaker 4: have like four kids, we should have like son of

668
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:39,120
Speaker 4: the month or like like or like we're at the

669
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:40,000
Speaker 4: top of the pyramid.

670
00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:41,680
Speaker 2: Honestly, do you think that work?

671
00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:42,120
Speaker 5: Yeah?

672
00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:44,040
Speaker 2: Give your children a little bit of trauma. But I

673
00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:45,440
Speaker 2: feel like it'd be fun. Is that trauma?

674
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:45,600
Speaker 3: Though?

675
00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:47,360
Speaker 4: It's like the fun kind of trauma. Oh, it's like

676
00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:49,000
Speaker 4: dad his favorites, but like it's fun.

677
00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:50,480
Speaker 2: What are there is fun trauma?

678
00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:50,680
Speaker 3: Code?

679
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:51,600
Speaker 2: Do you have any fun trauma?

680
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:51,840
Speaker 3: No?

681
00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:56,560
Speaker 2: The only bad drama ladybug, me too. My dad, the

682
00:28:56,640 --> 00:28:59,560
Speaker 2: hubby and the kids showed back up. Nothing. I just

683
00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:00,760
Speaker 2: went sat outside.

684
00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:04,360
Speaker 4: Dude, I'm arranging any like birthday paraphernalia. I got that

685
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:06,160
Speaker 4: day just like on the kitchen counter.

686
00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:07,160
Speaker 2: No, who's birthdays?

687
00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:07,320
Speaker 3: This?

688
00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:10,720
Speaker 2: Yeah? Whose birthdays? What this is all for? My eighty

689
00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:14,080
Speaker 2: four year old aunt, who has dementia, called me insane.

690
00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:19,440
Speaker 2: Happy birthday. Hey, Sam, we're gonna get back to the stories,

691
00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:21,280
Speaker 2: but here's three minutes of bads from our sponsors.

692
00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:26,080
Speaker 4: I would never let my family forget that. I would

693
00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:27,920
Speaker 4: never let them forget that.

694
00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:29,840
Speaker 2: She missed some of the words, but she still got

695
00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:32,360
Speaker 2: her point of cross. She asked how my day was,

696
00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 2: and I just started to cry. Oh, but you're gonna

697
00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:37,640
Speaker 2: make me cry? Is this a sad episode?

698
00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:38,160
Speaker 3: Yeah?

699
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:38,840
Speaker 2: I guess so.

700
00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:39,520
Speaker 3: Dude.

701
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:41,120
Speaker 2: Remember the Rob story?

702
00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:41,520
Speaker 3: Rob?

703
00:29:41,560 --> 00:29:44,360
Speaker 2: Who Rob was like Rob? It was like you had to.

704
00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:46,720
Speaker 2: It was like a beat me down kind of story,

705
00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:48,240
Speaker 2: like it was rememberable.

706
00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:49,280
Speaker 3: I don't remember Rob.

707
00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:52,200
Speaker 2: We had another scenario like that before the story happened. Yeah,

708
00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:55,200
Speaker 2: we're on a bad, bad streak. I told her and

709
00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:59,600
Speaker 2: my cousin everything. They were like, that is bull crap

710
00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:02,000
Speaker 2: or wrong. You go out of your way to celebrate

711
00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:04,480
Speaker 2: all of them, and this is how they treat you.

712
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:06,800
Speaker 2: My aunt asked me, do you want me to call

713
00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:07,320
Speaker 2: my brother?

714
00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:09,640
Speaker 4: See at that point, I'm not asking do you want

715
00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:11,880
Speaker 4: me to call? I'm calling. I'm saying, hey, you forgot

716
00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:14,800
Speaker 4: your wife's birthday. Figure it out, buddy. I'm not telling

717
00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:16,960
Speaker 4: her that I called. I mean, she probably figured it out,

718
00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:20,560
Speaker 4: but I'm calling and said, do something, you piece of poop.

719
00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:22,760
Speaker 2: I told her to. No, I want them to remember

720
00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:25,600
Speaker 2: and appreciate me without others having to remind them.

721
00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:29,880
Speaker 3: Look, I just am really bad with birthdays. I'll be honest.

722
00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:31,600
Speaker 3: I'm really bad with birthdays.

723
00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:33,120
Speaker 2: I don't think that's a good excuse.

724
00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:35,280
Speaker 3: It's not even an excuse. I'm just saying I am.

725
00:30:35,560 --> 00:30:38,080
Speaker 3: But I love the people whose birthdays I forget. But

726
00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:39,560
Speaker 3: you have a calendar that you can do.

727
00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:41,800
Speaker 4: Like I put all of my birthdays in a calendar.

728
00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:43,440
Speaker 2: Wes just Westeres, Weses. Could you scroll up a little bit,

729
00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:46,480
Speaker 2: Hey Google or hey Siri, add Nina Nelson's birthday on

730
00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:48,280
Speaker 2: the twelfth of July. Sorry, can't do that.

731
00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:51,560
Speaker 4: Come on, What the twelfth of July is my grandmother's birthday.

732
00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:54,640
Speaker 2: Add on calendar twelfth of July Nina's birthday.

733
00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:57,280
Speaker 4: Except technically it's the eleventh of July because she's in Australia.

734
00:30:57,360 --> 00:30:59,760
Speaker 3: You underestimate my rat brain.

735
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:03,160
Speaker 2: I'm pated created putting it in my calendar.

736
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:04,520
Speaker 4: But the thing is, like, you don't have to remember

737
00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:07,720
Speaker 4: everyone's birthday. It's just like when you're around them every

738
00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:10,720
Speaker 4: like you're in their immediate proximity and you're gonna see them,

739
00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:12,200
Speaker 4: you gotta remember their birthday.

740
00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:14,920
Speaker 3: I always remember the month. Seani opeas like Coda stopped

741
00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:17,240
Speaker 3: making excuses. I'm literally not making any excuses. I'm just

742
00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:18,880
Speaker 3: telling you I'm bad at birthday.

743
00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:21,880
Speaker 4: Oh I forgot your girlfriend's birthday, that'ld be pretty bad.

744
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:24,080
Speaker 3: Well, I can't forget my My girlfriend's birthday, thankfully, is

745
00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:24,960
Speaker 3: very memorable.

746
00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:27,200
Speaker 2: It is, I heard, I know it. But dude, Dakota,

747
00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:29,040
Speaker 2: here's a game plan. You're ready, since you know the

748
00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:31,680
Speaker 2: month by the gift, the month of and then just

749
00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:34,360
Speaker 2: wait for the day that, like you get a hint

750
00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:35,760
Speaker 2: that it's their birthday, and then you can give it

751
00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:36,040
Speaker 2: to them.

752
00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:38,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, just like bury it somewhere where I can go,

753
00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:39,640
Speaker 3: dig it up and get it.

754
00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:41,560
Speaker 2: Oh, it's your birthday. I'll be right back.

755
00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:43,280
Speaker 3: I'll be right back. Pass me the shovel.

756
00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:44,640
Speaker 2: That's why you should have a three D printer, so

757
00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:46,920
Speaker 2: you can just print out people, print out people. Where

758
00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 2: are you trying to remember everyone's birthday? Where did you go?

759
00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:50,239
Speaker 3: I was?

760
00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:53,800
Speaker 4: I was going through the category.

761
00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:55,480
Speaker 2: Three back holeways just a second ago. That was terrifying.

762
00:31:55,600 --> 00:31:56,920
Speaker 3: Remember your boyfriend's birthday?

763
00:31:57,040 --> 00:31:58,080
Speaker 2: No, I didn't say that.

764
00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:00,720
Speaker 3: She responded with no. She was bonded with no. What

765
00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:04,240
Speaker 3: it's March that I said? I said, you don't remember?

766
00:32:04,280 --> 00:32:07,160
Speaker 4: You remember your birthday? I was going through the list

767
00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:08,160
Speaker 4: of people's birthdays.

768
00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:10,880
Speaker 2: You ready, that's a lot of pressure. A year older.

769
00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:11,800
Speaker 2: I already have his gift.

770
00:32:11,840 --> 00:32:13,360
Speaker 3: What's his what's his social Security number?

771
00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:15,040
Speaker 2: I don't know that. And they're dating.

772
00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:17,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, I already got him both of his gifts.

773
00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:17,480
Speaker 2: Good job.

774
00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:19,800
Speaker 4: One of them is an experience, and one of them

775
00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:21,920
Speaker 4: is the thing. Actually I kind of stole from Dakota.

776
00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:24,520
Speaker 2: Also to thank you Dakota. This is really off topic

777
00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:27,200
Speaker 2: for African American. I appreciate you and happy month. I

778
00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:29,160
Speaker 2: haven't done that yet this month. I feel bad. I'm

779
00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:30,920
Speaker 2: four days in and I still haven't done messed up,

780
00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:33,520
Speaker 2: messed up, but I appreciate you. Good job badly. Also

781
00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:36,240
Speaker 2: on New Year's Eve, we had a discussion about me

782
00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:39,960
Speaker 2: planning everything. I was like, well, if I don't, y'all

783
00:32:39,960 --> 00:32:42,400
Speaker 2: will wait till the last minute or apparently not do

784
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:45,840
Speaker 2: anything at all. Of course, my dad and hubby both say, no,

785
00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:48,960
Speaker 2: we don't. I was like, every year for my birthday,

786
00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:51,240
Speaker 2: you wait until four thirty pm in the day of

787
00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:53,880
Speaker 2: my birthday to plan something and then ask me what

788
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:56,440
Speaker 2: we are doing, which ends up with them picking a

789
00:32:56,480 --> 00:32:59,560
Speaker 2: restaurant they want because they don't want what I want.

790
00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:02,800
Speaker 2: So asking my daughter and aunt both not to say

791
00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:06,480
Speaker 2: anything is because I want them to remember and plan accordingly.

792
00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:08,880
Speaker 2: Here's the thing. I always take my dad out for

793
00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:12,640
Speaker 2: a great dinner and we have a great time together

794
00:33:12,800 --> 00:33:15,480
Speaker 2: for him to get with the siblings and other children.

795
00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:17,760
Speaker 2: I plan a dinner for my husband and the kids.

796
00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:20,760
Speaker 2: We celebrate a day early this year because he went

797
00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 2: out of town for work. On his birthday, my daughter's

798
00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:27,400
Speaker 2: eighteenth birthday, we did eighteen gifts in eighteen days. This

799
00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:30,200
Speaker 2: is something we usually do. We have been broke the

800
00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:32,960
Speaker 2: last five years because my husband lost his well paying

801
00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:35,760
Speaker 2: job right before the VID and we had just bought

802
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:38,800
Speaker 2: a new vehicle. We were basically living paycheck to paycheck

803
00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:41,120
Speaker 2: to make sure we made all of our car payments,

804
00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:43,760
Speaker 2: and with the inflation of everything, it's been tight. So

805
00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:46,160
Speaker 2: when her birthday came around, we had just paid off

806
00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:48,600
Speaker 2: the car and we wanted to do something special for her.

807
00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:51,120
Speaker 2: We also went to a beach city for the weekend.

808
00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:53,800
Speaker 2: My son's sixteenth birthday will be soon and he wanted

809
00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:57,080
Speaker 2: to do something special also. We decided on Yellowstone for him.

810
00:33:57,240 --> 00:33:59,720
Speaker 2: Him and I on a week road chip and spent

811
00:33:59,800 --> 00:34:02,720
Speaker 2: four days all over that area. That sounds so nice.

812
00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:05,520
Speaker 2: We celebrated his birthday early because the weather isn't great

813
00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:07,160
Speaker 2: and Yellowstone at that time of the year.

814
00:34:07,360 --> 00:34:09,000
Speaker 4: I think you do need to have a conversation with

815
00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:11,920
Speaker 4: them where you say, hey, I feel like I'm not

816
00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:14,439
Speaker 4: appreciated and I need to see some change here.

817
00:34:14,640 --> 00:34:17,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, because don't you see in her day to day

818
00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:21,200
Speaker 2: each literally everything. Hey can you do this for me? Hey?

819
00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:23,919
Speaker 2: Can you pick me up? Hey? Can you do that? Hey? Hey? Hey,

820
00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:27,160
Speaker 2: you were the glue right here? Yeah, and keep the

821
00:34:27,239 --> 00:34:30,120
Speaker 2: glue sticky. Gotta help that glue out. You gotta add

822
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:32,360
Speaker 2: more glue on it, Pile up that glue. What do

823
00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:33,600
Speaker 2: you do to keep glue adhesive?

824
00:34:33,640 --> 00:34:36,239
Speaker 3: Dakoda, Well, you gotta keep it from being exposed to

825
00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:38,600
Speaker 3: the air. That's all my glue knowledge.

826
00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:40,800
Speaker 2: So if you had glue in a vacuum, it be sticky.

827
00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:41,200
Speaker 3: Yeah.

828
00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:43,279
Speaker 2: I need to find another analogy because that would work,

829
00:34:43,320 --> 00:34:45,279
Speaker 2: because it was I was gonna be like, do this,

830
00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:47,319
Speaker 2: but it just means you basically have to keep them

831
00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 2: suffocated for them to be the glue. Yeah, go to space.

832
00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 3: Forever space glue, space glue, space glue. When it comes

833
00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:56,359
Speaker 3: time for my birthday, nothing, you know, it's sad. It's

834
00:34:56,400 --> 00:35:00,880
Speaker 3: all over Facebook, extended family, friends, old teachers, my husband's

835
00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:03,000
Speaker 3: ex wife wish me happy birthday.

836
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:07,520
Speaker 2: Dah, your husband's ex wife. Oh, I would never let

837
00:35:07,640 --> 00:35:10,400
Speaker 2: him forget this. Our neighbor sent me something the first

838
00:35:10,400 --> 00:35:11,960
Speaker 2: thing in the morning, saying happy birthday.

839
00:35:12,040 --> 00:35:12,200
Speaker 3: Oh.

840
00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 2: My stepdaughter sent a message telling me happy birthday and

841
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:17,759
Speaker 2: that she loved me. It's almost seven pm here the

842
00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:20,920
Speaker 2: next night and still not one person in that house

843
00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:23,400
Speaker 2: I said happy birthday to me. I was talking to

844
00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:25,560
Speaker 2: my oldest daughter tonight and was like, I'm ready to

845
00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:27,640
Speaker 2: go buy myself a cupcake, light a candle, and seeing

846
00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:29,520
Speaker 2: happy birthday to myself right in front of them. Just

847
00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:31,600
Speaker 2: to be petty. She said, no, Mom, I want to

848
00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:34,160
Speaker 2: have a dinner for you Sunday at my house and

849
00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:37,280
Speaker 2: let them all think it will be a football watch party.

850
00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:40,160
Speaker 2: Then when y'all all show up, it'll be Willon's cake

851
00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:43,360
Speaker 2: and everything for you. Wait, this is this week. Happy birthday,

852
00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:45,799
Speaker 2: whoever you are? Who is this again? You know what?

853
00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:48,279
Speaker 4: We love you at Okay, storytime.

854
00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:49,160
Speaker 2: We'll go back in front of the user name.

855
00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:52,200
Speaker 3: We're gonna sing you happy birthday, seeing you happy birthday

856
00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:52,640
Speaker 3: after this.

857
00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:55,480
Speaker 2: Okay, Oh my gosh, this is ridiculous.

858
00:35:55,760 --> 00:35:56,839
Speaker 3: I'm finding it right now.

859
00:35:56,880 --> 00:35:59,239
Speaker 2: Oh thank you, thank you. So am I overreacting for

860
00:35:59,280 --> 00:36:02,480
Speaker 2: being upset my family that I live with all forgot

861
00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:04,680
Speaker 2: my birthday And would I be too petty or the

862
00:36:04,719 --> 00:36:07,120
Speaker 2: a hole for doing the surprise birthday party at my

863
00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:10,120
Speaker 2: oldest daughter's house. So I know I don't expect gifts

864
00:36:10,200 --> 00:36:13,400
Speaker 2: or anything big. I'm happy with a coffee and my

865
00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:16,759
Speaker 2: immediate family. I just like to be recognized on my birthday.

866
00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:19,960
Speaker 2: Is that so wrong? No, any advice would be appreciated.

867
00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:22,360
Speaker 2: Love all of you at Okay Stories.

868
00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:27,600
Speaker 4: I love you, Yoda. I'm so sorry. This is really sad,

869
00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:30,520
Speaker 4: and you are not the a hole for being upset

870
00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:33,799
Speaker 4: or expecting more, and you deserve more and definitely call

871
00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:34,360
Speaker 4: them out for it.

872
00:36:34,520 --> 00:36:36,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it's time to do less for their birthdays.

873
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:37,239
Speaker 4: Yeah.

874
00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:40,560
Speaker 2: Sorry with a sixteen year old, delete all your memories.

875
00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:43,560
Speaker 2: You get another birthday out of me. No, sweet sixteens,

876
00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:46,520
Speaker 2: I'm about to put the gloves on. You don't remember Yellowstone,

877
00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:48,160
Speaker 2: You don't remember Yellowstone.

878
00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:55,160
Speaker 6: Ah Py Birthday to you, Havy Birthday to you, Haavy

879
00:36:55,320 --> 00:37:03,040
Speaker 6: Birthday possible, Yello one zero one, or Happy birthday to you.

880
00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:09,840
Speaker 2: Ye that are more appreciated and loved.

881
00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:12,360
Speaker 4: I thought you were going to did the deer impossible, Yoda,

882
00:37:12,400 --> 00:37:14,239
Speaker 4: but you just went straight into the impossible, Yoda, And

883
00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:15,200
Speaker 4: I just wasn't expecting that.

884
00:37:15,239 --> 00:37:18,600
Speaker 2: Oh but happy birthday impossibly, I forgot we did. Dear

885
00:37:18,800 --> 00:37:22,160
Speaker 2: dear impossibly Da, And you're getting so many happy birthdays

886
00:37:22,160 --> 00:37:24,680
Speaker 2: in the chat right now? Yeah, all right, here we go, dude.

887
00:37:24,960 --> 00:37:28,160
Speaker 2: The not so surprise party, surprise party, birthday party.

888
00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:30,040
Speaker 4: Oh boy, I want to take cracking that one were

889
00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:32,480
Speaker 4: not a surprise surprise birthday surprise?

890
00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:34,640
Speaker 2: Oh I did that was my birthday surprise. The not

891
00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:37,799
Speaker 2: so surprised surprise birthday party. I hope this is how

892
00:37:37,920 --> 00:37:39,080
Speaker 2: I'm supposed to do an update.

893
00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:39,439
Speaker 4: Yep.

894
00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:42,080
Speaker 2: My oldest daughter twenty six, son twenty five, and I

895
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:45,560
Speaker 2: decided on having the surprise birthday dinner for me. Everything

896
00:37:45,640 --> 00:37:49,360
Speaker 2: was planned and ready to go for Sunday today, Friday afternoon,

897
00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:52,600
Speaker 2: about two pm, my husband called. After pleasantries, my husband

898
00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:56,120
Speaker 2: asked if I would like a coffee. I knew right

899
00:37:56,200 --> 00:38:02,240
Speaker 2: then that he knew he had forgotten. How many days

900
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:05,279
Speaker 2: has it been since then? We're like, yeah, hey, by

901
00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:09,279
Speaker 2: the way, Amazon just shipped the doghouse. You're gonna be

902
00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:10,680
Speaker 2: building it tonight and sleeping in it.

903
00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:12,919
Speaker 4: That's your house for a long time.

904
00:38:13,040 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 2: For each day he forgot is a month in the doghouse. Yeah.

905
00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:16,440
Speaker 2: Does that seem fair?

906
00:38:16,480 --> 00:38:19,040
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Dakoda, I think we could knock it up

907
00:38:19,040 --> 00:38:21,799
Speaker 3: a little bit. Oh yeah, two months per too much

908
00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:23,600
Speaker 3: per day month and a half month and a half

909
00:38:23,640 --> 00:38:27,440
Speaker 3: per day. One point five. That makes sense for five minutes.

910
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:29,000
Speaker 3: One point I just want to say one point five

911
00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:29,600
Speaker 3: for five minutes.

912
00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:32,600
Speaker 2: He never just offers to buy me a coffee. That's

913
00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:36,319
Speaker 2: he does it when it's my birthday, anniversary, were Mother's Day? No,

914
00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:39,000
Speaker 2: thank you, I'm fine. He asked if I was sure,

915
00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:41,400
Speaker 2: and said he figured he stopped and buy me a

916
00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:44,080
Speaker 2: gift card. Asked for what, Well, for my birthday.

917
00:38:44,160 --> 00:38:47,680
Speaker 4: He's gonna buy you a gift card for your birthday.

918
00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:51,040
Speaker 4: So now you remember he couldn't even have the decency

919
00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:52,359
Speaker 4: to go get you an actual.

920
00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:55,960
Speaker 2: Gift Well, he claimed he didn't forget. Oh, I asked,

921
00:38:56,239 --> 00:38:58,480
Speaker 2: So what we don't tell people have a birthday on

922
00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:01,160
Speaker 2: their actual birthdays? Now we just do it whenever we

923
00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:04,080
Speaker 2: feel like it. He said, He's sorry, and he's trying

924
00:39:04,080 --> 00:39:05,040
Speaker 2: to make up for it now.

925
00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:07,880
Speaker 3: Yeah. Hey, just so you know, a happy birthday, Riley. Yeah,

926
00:39:07,920 --> 00:39:10,719
Speaker 3: so it just when September rolls around, don't worry. I

927
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:12,759
Speaker 3: already did it. I got it ahead of time.

928
00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:13,640
Speaker 2: Oh that's good.

929
00:39:13,760 --> 00:39:16,120
Speaker 3: It actually it builds interest now, So now that I've

930
00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:18,799
Speaker 3: said it in February, by the time September rolls around.

931
00:39:19,320 --> 00:39:20,960
Speaker 3: I basically said it one hundred times.

932
00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:23,720
Speaker 2: You have to say in twenty twenty seven, man, you're good, good.

933
00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:26,360
Speaker 3: For in perpetuity, honestly, Happy birthday forever.

934
00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:27,160
Speaker 2: Boom.

935
00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:30,920
Speaker 3: Done you too, dude. We just beat we just cracked birthdays.

936
00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:33,439
Speaker 3: We just did it. We go, We're done, We're done.

937
00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:35,359
Speaker 2: Think it the ultimate birthday gift where you can give

938
00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:38,640
Speaker 2: somebody one thing you never have to give another million dollars.

939
00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:42,600
Speaker 2: Really yacht yacht, yacht, yacht where you now have to

940
00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:44,080
Speaker 2: take care of it. Yeah it's too expensive.

941
00:39:44,160 --> 00:39:45,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, but you already give him the eye it so

942
00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:47,000
Speaker 3: you can figure out the rest.

943
00:39:47,120 --> 00:39:49,680
Speaker 4: Boat take care of boat thinks so hard.

944
00:39:49,600 --> 00:39:51,440
Speaker 2: They're going to imagine. I get you a yacht, and

945
00:39:51,480 --> 00:39:52,880
Speaker 2: now you have to find word park it.

946
00:39:53,000 --> 00:39:54,560
Speaker 4: You also have to learn how to like you have

947
00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:55,320
Speaker 4: to get a license.

948
00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:58,359
Speaker 3: Nah, dude, we're gonna monetize the yacht so fast. You're

949
00:39:58,400 --> 00:40:01,440
Speaker 3: on the crew. You're on the crew. I am the captain.

950
00:40:01,719 --> 00:40:04,440
Speaker 2: I am the captain, dude. Low key embezzlement, that's what

951
00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:09,080
Speaker 2: people use. They use embezzling with race horses, art in yachts. Yeah,

952
00:40:09,160 --> 00:40:10,480
Speaker 2: you're right, I'll get you a yacht man.

953
00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:14,239
Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you. Finally, guys put in the chat.

954
00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:16,879
Speaker 2: What would be the ultimate birthday gift where you don't

955
00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:19,319
Speaker 2: have to do another one? I said him. Fine, he asked, okay, well,

956
00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:21,439
Speaker 2: what's the plan for dinner for me? What do you mean?

957
00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:23,919
Speaker 2: What's the plan? What do you figure it out?

958
00:40:24,160 --> 00:40:27,279
Speaker 3: That's really the most basic thing ever where it's like

959
00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:32,400
Speaker 3: you have to plan someone else's birthday. Yeah, they should

960
00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:34,080
Speaker 3: have been planning their own birthday.

961
00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:36,600
Speaker 4: I'm always planning my birthday. I kind of want someone

962
00:40:36,600 --> 00:40:37,759
Speaker 4: else to plan it for me this year.

963
00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:39,239
Speaker 2: You got a boyfriend. Now, don't look at me.

964
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:41,560
Speaker 4: I think everyone you plan my birthday, we'll just run back.

965
00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:44,080
Speaker 2: I want to go. I want to go to medieval times.

966
00:40:44,160 --> 00:40:47,359
Speaker 2: Not fair, okay, I've been wanting to go there, dude. Okay, cool? Great?

967
00:40:47,400 --> 00:40:49,239
Speaker 2: And I want someone to make me cake, bake you

968
00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:50,920
Speaker 2: a cake. I'm a text.

969
00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:54,040
Speaker 3: What do I look like? Patty cake? Patty cake? Baker's man.

970
00:40:54,520 --> 00:40:57,200
Speaker 2: Hey, we have to bake Sophia cake for her BIRTHDA.

971
00:40:57,239 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 3: Four months ahead of time in the cruise interest and

972
00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:05,160
Speaker 3: I got you this stale cake for your birthday. I

973
00:41:05,239 --> 00:41:07,400
Speaker 3: just wanted to make sure we didn't forget.

974
00:41:07,640 --> 00:41:09,440
Speaker 4: I want to throw at dinner and then I want

975
00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:10,560
Speaker 4: to go to medieval Times.

976
00:41:10,680 --> 00:41:12,560
Speaker 2: What you get dinner at medieval Times?

977
00:41:12,680 --> 00:41:15,960
Speaker 3: We know she can't she can't eat anything there, and

978
00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:16,640
Speaker 3: they feel like I have.

979
00:41:16,640 --> 00:41:19,239
Speaker 2: Like old chickens on her days me. Someone said, a

980
00:41:19,280 --> 00:41:22,359
Speaker 2: fully paid for back tattoo. Wow, I would I don't

981
00:41:22,360 --> 00:41:22,560
Speaker 2: want that.

982
00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:24,920
Speaker 5: Yeah.

983
00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:26,920
Speaker 2: I like these guys. I like them A million dollar

984
00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:27,319
Speaker 2: do you liked?

985
00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:27,719
Speaker 4: Yeah?

986
00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:30,799
Speaker 2: Okay? So she said, are you serious? All of you,

987
00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:34,600
Speaker 2: every single one of you in this house forgot it

988
00:41:34,640 --> 00:41:37,920
Speaker 2: was my birthday. Now I'm supposed to be happy and

989
00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:41,879
Speaker 2: pretend I'm happy to celebrate, and I have to plan dinner. Now,

990
00:41:42,239 --> 00:41:46,239
Speaker 2: I'll see you when you get home. I'll have to

991
00:41:46,280 --> 00:41:50,120
Speaker 2: go pick up grand baby from school. Yeah, no, the audacity.

992
00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:52,359
Speaker 2: I'm sitting at the kitchen table when he comes in.

993
00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:56,200
Speaker 2: He sits a gift card down and says, I'm sorry, babe,

994
00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:59,200
Speaker 2: and heads to our room. Didn't even say happy birthday.

995
00:42:00,320 --> 00:42:02,920
Speaker 4: This is grating on me because if I forgot someone's

996
00:42:02,920 --> 00:42:05,640
Speaker 4: birthday that was this important to me, I am saying,

997
00:42:05,719 --> 00:42:08,840
Speaker 4: oh my god, I'm so sorry. I am planning a dinner,

998
00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:11,400
Speaker 4: I'm planning a party, and I'm getting them a gift.

999
00:42:11,719 --> 00:42:15,840
Speaker 4: I'm putting in efforts. I'm saying, hey, you know what,

1000
00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:17,640
Speaker 4: it's gonna be a little late. I'm so sorry, but

1001
00:42:17,680 --> 00:42:20,080
Speaker 4: I'm working on something. But now I'm just saying, what's

1002
00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:20,560
Speaker 4: for dinner?

1003
00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:23,319
Speaker 2: Yeah? Right, here's a fifteen dollars gift card. Bout an

1004
00:42:23,360 --> 00:42:25,960
Speaker 2: hour later, the electric company calls and I'm on the

1005
00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:28,240
Speaker 2: phone with him for my dad. He has bad hearing.

1006
00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:30,600
Speaker 2: We get the problem fixed. Hobby comes out and says,

1007
00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:32,879
Speaker 2: I'm the livering with us and my sixteen year old son.

1008
00:42:33,000 --> 00:42:35,400
Speaker 2: Then my dad proceeds to say, speaking all of the

1009
00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:38,799
Speaker 2: electric bill yesterday was fifteenth, do you have your part

1010
00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:41,400
Speaker 2: of the bill? Well, man, that's all I needed to

1011
00:42:41,440 --> 00:42:44,480
Speaker 2: hear for the volcano to erupt. Yeah, Ed, I have

1012
00:42:44,520 --> 00:42:46,120
Speaker 2: your payment. I pull it out of my wallet and

1013
00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:48,520
Speaker 2: slapped it down and said, do you have a happy

1014
00:42:48,560 --> 00:42:50,879
Speaker 2: birthday for your daughter? The only one that is here

1015
00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:53,640
Speaker 2: helping take care of you? His eyes went wide. I

1016
00:42:53,680 --> 00:42:56,000
Speaker 2: turned to my son. His mouth was hanging open. How

1017
00:42:56,040 --> 00:42:58,120
Speaker 2: about you? Do you have a happy birthday for your mom?

1018
00:42:58,280 --> 00:43:01,600
Speaker 2: All of you, including a eighteen year old daughter, all

1019
00:43:01,680 --> 00:43:04,600
Speaker 2: forgot it's bs. All three of them just sat there.

1020
00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:07,680
Speaker 2: So I walked out house, texted my oldest daughter, and

1021
00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:09,760
Speaker 2: asked him I could come stay with her. She said,

1022
00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:12,200
Speaker 2: of course. She went to come pick me up after

1023
00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:14,680
Speaker 2: she got off at six thirty. I went back inside

1024
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:17,200
Speaker 2: about five to pack a few things and left at

1025
00:43:17,239 --> 00:43:19,719
Speaker 2: five thirty and picked the eighteen year old from work.

1026
00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:21,960
Speaker 2: I asked how her day was. Of course, she talked

1027
00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:23,840
Speaker 2: about work and blah blah blah blah blah. When I

1028
00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:25,800
Speaker 2: get home, I gathered everyone in the living room. My

1029
00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:28,200
Speaker 2: dad said, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I forgot. I just

1030
00:43:28,200 --> 00:43:30,640
Speaker 2: stopped him. My daughter was like, what's going on. All

1031
00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:32,799
Speaker 2: three guys just looked at her and said, oh, heck,

1032
00:43:32,880 --> 00:43:35,640
Speaker 2: did you forget? It was my birthday. She looked up

1033
00:43:35,640 --> 00:43:38,759
Speaker 2: at the clock. It tells a day. She was like, crap, Mom,

1034
00:43:39,000 --> 00:43:39,480
Speaker 2: I'm sorry.

1035
00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:42,280
Speaker 4: My god, so no one's communicating.

1036
00:43:42,600 --> 00:43:45,640
Speaker 2: I raised my voice and said stop. I know you're

1037
00:43:45,680 --> 00:43:48,600
Speaker 2: all sorry. I get it still doesn't change the fact

1038
00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 2: that y'all forgot. You made me feel inloved, undervalued, and unappreciated.

1039
00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:55,880
Speaker 2: I looked at my dad, You're my only living parent.

1040
00:43:56,000 --> 00:43:58,839
Speaker 2: And what's even sadder is that your eighty four year

1041
00:43:58,840 --> 00:44:01,799
Speaker 2: old sister, who as dementia, called me and saying me

1042
00:44:01,840 --> 00:44:05,920
Speaker 2: happy birthday. Oo man, which I will always remember because

1043
00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:08,440
Speaker 2: it will probably be the last time I hear that

1044
00:44:08,480 --> 00:44:11,000
Speaker 2: from her. I looked at my husband. Your ex wife

1045
00:44:11,080 --> 00:44:13,960
Speaker 2: sent me a message wishing me happy birthday. My bonus

1046
00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:16,239
Speaker 2: daughter sent me a message and a gift. I looked

1047
00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:18,319
Speaker 2: at my son. I drop everything for you to go

1048
00:44:18,360 --> 00:44:21,120
Speaker 2: play pickleball. Church activities, take you to get ready for

1049
00:44:21,200 --> 00:44:23,840
Speaker 2: all your church camps, take you fishing wherever and whenever

1050
00:44:23,920 --> 00:44:26,759
Speaker 2: you want. Took you to Yellowstone three months before your

1051
00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:29,719
Speaker 2: sixteenth birthday. Looked at my daughter. I've been okay with

1052
00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:32,480
Speaker 2: you wanting to spend holidays with your best friend's family.

1053
00:44:32,520 --> 00:44:35,520
Speaker 2: We do all our holidays on different days than other families.

1054
00:44:35,640 --> 00:44:37,759
Speaker 2: I agree to let you go to Mexico with them

1055
00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:40,080
Speaker 2: on a cruise. I make sure you had everything you

1056
00:44:40,160 --> 00:44:43,239
Speaker 2: needed when you decided you want to become a tattoo artist.

1057
00:44:43,400 --> 00:44:46,360
Speaker 2: Every single one of you have phones. They all have calendars.

1058
00:44:46,560 --> 00:44:49,239
Speaker 2: You put in work trips, meetings, work to editles, camp day,

1059
00:44:49,239 --> 00:44:52,840
Speaker 2: it's doctor's appointments. But you can't put me on one birthday.

1060
00:44:53,080 --> 00:44:55,920
Speaker 2: I shouldn't have had to hype my own birthday up

1061
00:44:55,960 --> 00:44:57,839
Speaker 2: to you. I don't make the rest of you hype

1062
00:44:57,880 --> 00:45:00,960
Speaker 2: yours up, I sit down with you playing something for y'all,

1063
00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:03,160
Speaker 2: and that makes you feel so loved and seen. So

1064
00:45:03,280 --> 00:45:05,719
Speaker 2: I'm leaving. I'm going to oldest kiss house. Not sure

1065
00:45:05,719 --> 00:45:07,239
Speaker 2: if I'll be there for a night or if I'll

1066
00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:09,600
Speaker 2: stay longer while I'm gone. Sorry for the language, but

1067
00:45:09,640 --> 00:45:12,120
Speaker 2: I'm an avy vet and well I swear you all

1068
00:45:12,160 --> 00:45:15,000
Speaker 2: better effing figure out what's important to you. I grabbed

1069
00:45:15,040 --> 00:45:17,239
Speaker 2: my bag left. I'll you try to text me that night.

1070
00:45:17,320 --> 00:45:19,000
Speaker 2: I told him I didn't want to talk and I

1071
00:45:19,040 --> 00:45:21,480
Speaker 2: needed space. I would call him sometime Saturday.

1072
00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:25,480
Speaker 4: Totally valid, crash out. They need to literally buy you,

1073
00:45:25,800 --> 00:45:27,839
Speaker 4: I don't know. They need to buy you a yacht. Yeah,

1074
00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:29,799
Speaker 4: to buy yacht. They need to take you on a

1075
00:45:29,840 --> 00:45:33,600
Speaker 4: fancy trip. They need to pull out all the stops.

1076
00:45:33,760 --> 00:45:38,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, well needed vacation. Yeah. Where are we going Dakota? Yeah?

1077
00:45:38,360 --> 00:45:41,360
Speaker 3: Maybe like a Ruba Ruba, Jamaica.

1078
00:45:41,640 --> 00:45:44,960
Speaker 2: I really want to take you. What about the mendetas,

1079
00:45:45,160 --> 00:45:48,920
Speaker 2: what the medials or the Yeah, yeah.

1080
00:45:51,680 --> 00:45:53,800
Speaker 3: I'm a take her to go see that penguin everyone's

1081
00:45:53,840 --> 00:45:54,680
Speaker 3: talking about.

1082
00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:56,840
Speaker 2: When they talking about that a while ago, with what penguin?

1083
00:45:56,920 --> 00:45:59,680
Speaker 3: The penguin that walks off into the mountains, that one.

1084
00:45:59,719 --> 00:46:01,000
Speaker 2: Oh why would we take her there?

1085
00:46:01,040 --> 00:46:02,920
Speaker 3: That's kind of cuz it's like iconic.

1086
00:46:03,040 --> 00:46:05,320
Speaker 2: It's cold over there. Yeah, but yeah, it's like cold.

1087
00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:08,200
Speaker 3: That's what she's She is that penguin right now. Oh gosh,

1088
00:46:08,320 --> 00:46:11,400
Speaker 3: she's that little penguin walking over to her penguin daughter's house.

1089
00:46:12,360 --> 00:46:15,520
Speaker 2: Saturday comes. I call him about three pm. He started with,

1090
00:46:15,760 --> 00:46:18,560
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, and it will never happen again. You're right.

1091
00:46:18,680 --> 00:46:20,839
Speaker 2: You do a million things for our family and your

1092
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Speaker 2: dad's family, and we dropped the ball. We let you down.

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Speaker 2: I definitely let you down. I told him, I'm going

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Speaker 2: to start matching our family's energy. My next birthday is

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Speaker 2: an epic. I'm done. I will not plan another person's birthday.

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Speaker 2: I will not take the time to plan anything when

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Speaker 2: no one shows up the same respect for me. Told

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Speaker 2: him to come get me. I love my daughter, but

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Speaker 2: her guest bed is harder than a wood board, and

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Speaker 2: I'm too old to sleep like that.

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Speaker 3: Well, actually, the harder a bed is usually the better

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Speaker 3: it is for your back.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but if you want a soft bed, you deserve

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Speaker 4: a soft bed.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you deserve back problems if you want them.

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Speaker 2: Hello, I had an amazing sleep last night. In my

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Speaker 2: own bed. He came, picked me up, took me to

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Speaker 2: lunch and apologize again. My son came up and gave

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Speaker 2: me a big hug, had tears in his eyes, saying

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Speaker 2: sorry that he saw the day on January eleventh, and

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Speaker 2: it was like, don't forget mom's birthday and I did. Mom.

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Speaker 2: All right, here's what I'm gonna do. Put up. I

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Speaker 2: don't know ad calendar July January eleventh, impossible, Yoda's birthday.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna remember to come to this reddit thread and

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Speaker 2: say happy birthday to you. We're doing it. I put

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Speaker 2: it in my phone with a reminder so that it

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Speaker 2: doesn't happen again. Easy, said, I did it. Yeah, if

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Speaker 2: we're on a shop, it's really easy. We're doing our job.

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Speaker 2: My daughter found me a couple hours later and also apologized.

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Speaker 2: Said she knew sorry, you wouldn't fix it, but you

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Speaker 2: would work on showing me how much she loves and

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Speaker 2: appreciate me. I said, okay. My dad, well, he's a

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Speaker 2: cranky old man. With a few words. He went to

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Speaker 2: the store with my son. He brought me home at

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Speaker 2: Tarama suit cake. He's my favorite and said happy birthday.

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Speaker 2: By the way, I have a doctor's appointment at the

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Speaker 2: VA this week. I'll need you to drive me if

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Speaker 2: you would like, I'll buy you dinner at your favorite

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Speaker 2: restaurant on the way home. I just laughed and said, sure, Dad,

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Speaker 2: that sounds nice. I'll celebrate your birthday, but so I

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00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:02,960
Speaker 2: need you to do something for me please, but I'll

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Speaker 2: give you a birthday dinner. Yeaheah, Hey it's Sam.

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Speaker 3: We're to get back to these stories.

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Speaker 2: But here's three bites of ads for our sponsors.

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Speaker 4: I remember one year in college. It was the second

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Speaker 4: year of being friends with all of my friends, but

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Speaker 4: like the first year, they we would have celebrated my birthday.

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Speaker 4: I think like sixty percent of them got my birthday wrong.

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00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:24,000
Speaker 4: They didn't send me a happy Birthday next and I

1140
00:48:24,040 --> 00:48:25,319
Speaker 4: was like, oh, that's kind of weird, Like.

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00:48:25,320 --> 00:48:26,320
Speaker 2: You know, I thought they would.

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00:48:26,520 --> 00:48:30,560
Speaker 4: And then on July second, I got like ten birthday

1143
00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:32,400
Speaker 4: like wishes, like happy birthday.

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00:48:32,440 --> 00:48:35,000
Speaker 2: I had to be like, thank you. It was it

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00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:38,000
Speaker 2: was a twenty nine. Your birthday is on a tough day.

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00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:39,760
Speaker 3: March twenty ninth is really hard to remember.

1147
00:48:40,040 --> 00:48:43,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, I put it in the calendar, is February twenty ninth.

1148
00:48:43,400 --> 00:48:46,640
Speaker 3: I just put every single day at Sophia's birthday question mark,

1149
00:48:47,440 --> 00:48:47,920
Speaker 3: I don't.

1150
00:48:47,800 --> 00:48:49,560
Speaker 2: Know, I don't know which one it is.

1151
00:48:49,800 --> 00:48:52,120
Speaker 4: Then on June twenty ninth, it just is definitely not

1152
00:48:52,200 --> 00:48:53,080
Speaker 4: Sophia's birthday.

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00:48:53,280 --> 00:48:56,440
Speaker 3: Whatever. Whenever it's not, it says. Whatever you do, don't

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00:48:56,480 --> 00:48:58,440
Speaker 3: listen to what anyone says. It's not today.

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00:48:59,080 --> 00:49:00,359
Speaker 2: Sam's Birthday's gone up?

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Speaker 3: When is that?

1157
00:49:01,080 --> 00:49:03,640
Speaker 4: February nineteenth? And Ali's birthdays today?

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00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:06,400
Speaker 3: Yep, happy birthday, Ali, So is my It's my nana's

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00:49:06,400 --> 00:49:07,200
Speaker 3: birthday today.

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Speaker 2: It's my aunt's birthday today.

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Speaker 4: Yesterday was my parents' thirtieth anniversary.

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Speaker 2: Seanda, figure out if.

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Speaker 4: It's someone's birthday today and text them, and it was

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00:49:15,680 --> 00:49:18,200
Speaker 4: my best friend as well as birthday on February second.

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Speaker 2: Great. Sorry, I had to get this out of the way.

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Speaker 2: If you can look and see whose birthday it is,

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Speaker 2: let it know, let us know. Let's see if I

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Speaker 2: have anything written down for this. All right, Opie says,

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Speaker 2: there is no sense in having a surprise birthday dinner

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Speaker 2: now that we're all called out. I'm getting ready to

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Speaker 2: go to my older kid's house for a birthday dinner.

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Speaker 2: They both have set Sunday's off, so it's easier on

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Speaker 2: them to celebrate things that day, I decided that I

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Speaker 2: only wanted to be them and me. And of course,

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Speaker 2: my daughter's significant other grand baby is with her bio

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Speaker 2: dad this weekend, so she will be doing dinner with

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Speaker 2: me and my dad since I'll have her that day.

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Speaker 2: My bonus daughter will come over next weekend to hang out.

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Speaker 2: We will do a dinner with her and the kids then.

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Speaker 2: So that's how all this ended. I hope they can

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00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:01,920
Speaker 2: show in the future the same love and respect I

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00:50:02,040 --> 00:50:04,759
Speaker 2: show them. Thank you for reading and offering some great

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Speaker 2: advice and all the happy birthday wishes. You'll help me

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Speaker 2: mend my wonderful heart. Oh twenty twenty six is an

1185
00:50:10,600 --> 00:50:14,040
Speaker 2: amazing year. Thank you. Thank you. Also, go Texans. They

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Speaker 2: live in Texas where they live.

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Speaker 4: And we know your birthday January eleventh. We've got some

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Speaker 4: comments from the video I won the lottery and my

1189
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Speaker 4: estrange family robbed me And this was posted January twenty first,

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Speaker 4: twenty twenty six. TLDR from story one. Op won the

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Speaker 4: lottery and only told her sister, asking her to keep

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Speaker 4: it a secret. Her sister told their dad and his

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00:50:35,880 --> 00:50:39,320
Speaker 4: whole family, who had abandoned Ope years ago and treated

1194
00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:42,320
Speaker 4: her badly for being half Japanese. Now they're all suddenly

1195
00:50:42,400 --> 00:50:47,040
Speaker 4: back in her life, acting like nothing happened, asking for money,

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00:50:47,040 --> 00:50:49,960
Speaker 4: and making up stories about needing surgery. When Opi told

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Speaker 4: them to leave, they started slashing her tires, stealing her mail,

1198
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Speaker 4: and harassing her husband. Even Opie's mom, who she's never met,

1199
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Speaker 4: contacted her just to ask for money. If you're curious

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Speaker 4: to know the full story, you can.

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Speaker 3: Go watch the full video coming from Mystic B says

1202
00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:09,520
Speaker 3: every lottery story I ever hear just solidifies the fact

1203
00:51:09,560 --> 00:51:12,040
Speaker 3: that anyone, even the closest people to you, will treat

1204
00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:15,560
Speaker 3: you differently when you have material wealth. Humans really are

1205
00:51:15,880 --> 00:51:16,880
Speaker 3: terrible creatures.

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Speaker 2: I don't know why I gotta be very secretive about money.

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Speaker 3: So I think I was thinking about this literally yesterday

1208
00:51:22,480 --> 00:51:25,000
Speaker 3: because it's like, that's why money is so corruptible, Like

1209
00:51:25,040 --> 00:51:28,080
Speaker 3: it can trump so much other stuff, like so easily.

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Speaker 3: Because I was thinking, I was in a bit of

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Speaker 3: an AI brain loop yesterday, and I was like, man,

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Speaker 3: there was a time in my life where I might

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Speaker 3: have pivoted into coding and I might have been in

1214
00:51:37,760 --> 00:51:40,239
Speaker 3: like that arena. And I was like, maybe I could

1215
00:51:40,280 --> 00:51:42,040
Speaker 3: have been like, I don't know, maybe I could have

1216
00:51:42,120 --> 00:51:45,080
Speaker 3: done something to reel this in. But then I thought

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Speaker 3: about it. I was like, if they were paying me

1218
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Speaker 3: like three hundred thousand dollars to be like an AI builder,

1219
00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:53,640
Speaker 3: like I would have just kept building it. I would

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00:51:53,640 --> 00:51:56,600
Speaker 3: have been making really good money, so I wouldn't have

1221
00:51:56,600 --> 00:51:59,880
Speaker 3: stopped anything. Yeah, that is true, board Walk says to

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00:52:00,040 --> 00:52:02,520
Speaker 3: a sigh of relief when Op's update included cutting off

1223
00:52:02,560 --> 00:52:06,040
Speaker 3: the sister. She broke the one stipulation OPI had after

1224
00:52:06,320 --> 00:52:10,000
Speaker 3: they paid her rent. Ungrateful and self serving.

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Speaker 2: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 3: Absolutely, and comment three by Steph is back at forty

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Speaker 3: six seconds. Number one rule about winning the lottery is

1228
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Speaker 3: that you're not supposed to tell anyone that's true, stuff

1229
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Speaker 3: like this doesn't happen.

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Speaker 2: Mm hmm. Don't tell anyone. Keep that secret.

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Speaker 1: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 4: But that's the end of those comments and the end

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Speaker 4: of this episode. So if you love us, make sure

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Speaker 4: to subscribe.

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Speaker 2: We love you and see you tomorrow.