WEBVTT - Do a recommendation swap

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of I Heart Radio.

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<v Speaker 1>Good Morning, This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Today's tip is to do a recommendation swap. If you

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<v Speaker 1>have friends with similar interests or tastes, exchange recommendations so

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<v Speaker 1>you can point each other to things you'll enjoy and

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<v Speaker 1>have a fun time sharing the experience of that enjoyment.

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<v Speaker 1>I have long been fascinated by holiday cookie swaps. The

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<v Speaker 1>basic idea is to invite let's say six people to

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<v Speaker 1>your house. Each of you shows up with five dozen

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<v Speaker 1>of your favorite type of holiday cookies. You exchange the cookies,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'll go home with a dozen of each of

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<v Speaker 1>the other five people's baked offerings. It's a lot less

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<v Speaker 1>effort to bake one kind of cookie versus six, and

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<v Speaker 1>in addition to a joiga party, you get to try

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<v Speaker 1>a variety of sweet treats that you might never have

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<v Speaker 1>begged yourself. A recommendation swap would work in the same way.

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<v Speaker 1>Figure out a genre of thing that you all are

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<v Speaker 1>all interested in, get together, bring a list of your favorites,

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<v Speaker 1>and share details. You all go home enlightened and with

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<v Speaker 1>more stuff to try. This concept could work for all

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<v Speaker 1>sorts of things. Maybe you host a recipe swap. Each

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<v Speaker 1>of you brings copies of your favorite recipes for weeknight dinners.

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<v Speaker 1>You already know all about grilled cheese, but maybe there's

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<v Speaker 1>a way of preparing chicken breasts that you haven't thought

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<v Speaker 1>of yet. Now you've got a ticket out of your

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<v Speaker 1>Wednesday night rut, or perhaps on your email or text chain.

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<v Speaker 1>With a circle of friends, you all decide to recommend podcasts.

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<v Speaker 1>No doubt there's at least one or two in your

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<v Speaker 1>feed that your friends haven't tried, and they may have

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<v Speaker 1>found some winners that you would enjoy. Two you could

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<v Speaker 1>recommend Netflix series our favorite romantic comedies. The Patreon group

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<v Speaker 1>for my other podcast, Best of Both Worlds recently had

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<v Speaker 1>a virtual gathering devoted to summer reading. We all exchanged

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<v Speaker 1>book recommendations, and as a result, plenty of folks have

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of new stuff in the queue on their

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<v Speaker 1>library holds list. Now, of course, some of this happens naturally.

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<v Speaker 1>I am always asking people to tell their friends about

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<v Speaker 1>my books and podcasts. Word of mouth is one of

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<v Speaker 1>the most persuasive forms of marketing. I know when I

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<v Speaker 1>love a book or a destination or a podcast. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to tell people about it because I want them

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<v Speaker 1>to experience what I have experienced. But I think that

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<v Speaker 1>for normalizing it boosts the benefits for starters. People can

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<v Speaker 1>think about the question more systematically and prepare. Just as

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<v Speaker 1>you don't randomly show up at someone's house with sixty cookies,

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<v Speaker 1>you probably aren't walking around with a ranked list of

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<v Speaker 1>your six favorite podcasts or your five favorite historical fiction novels.

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<v Speaker 1>When you know that you will be exchanging recommendations, you

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<v Speaker 1>will think beyond what you just experienced. And second, when

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<v Speaker 1>you formalize the swap, you vastly increase the chances that

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<v Speaker 1>people will be in the mood to try out the recommendations.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, why participate in a podcast recommendation swap if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't plan to try out a new podcast? And

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<v Speaker 1>that means that your friends will be experiencing some of

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<v Speaker 1>the same things that you have, so you can talk

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<v Speaker 1>about the shared experience afterwards. As in, thanks so much

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<v Speaker 1>for recommending that new historical novel Joan about Joan of

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<v Speaker 1>Arc by Katherine Chen I loved it. What did you

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<v Speaker 1>think about the section about her childhood? Or my family

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<v Speaker 1>loved the chicken chili it's on the make Again list.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks for the recommendation. If I wanted to make it

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<v Speaker 1>even spicier for the next time my brother visits, what

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<v Speaker 1>would you suggest I do? If you try doing a

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<v Speaker 1>recommendation swap with friends, I'd love to hear about it.

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<v Speaker 1>You can reach me at Laura at Laura Vanderkam dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>In the meantime, this is Laura. Thanks for listening, and

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<v Speaker 1>here's to making the most of our time. Hey, everybody,

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