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Speaker 1: My key stealing, crazy mother in law passed away.

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Speaker 2: Whoa, and it's kind of my faults. Okay, Opie, you've

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Speaker 1: You got it?

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Speaker 2: Okay, OKAYOPI all right, let's see what we'll see what

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Speaker 2: we got. I have decided I will no longer be

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Speaker 2: referring to my soon to be ex wife as wifey.

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Speaker 2: Big news, big news.

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Speaker 1: I'm that's the news that we all wanted to hear.

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Speaker 2: Even that feels wrong. Now we're gonna change it again.

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Speaker 2: So I'll be saying soon to be ex wife. There

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Speaker 2: we go instead.

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Speaker 1: No, you know that's good. This is huge, all right?

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Speaker 2: Now getting into the juice.

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Speaker 3: Still call her wifey. I can't. We can't just be

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Speaker 3: saying that he's gonna be. He's gonna be making.

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Speaker 1: Us say more words than we have to really sometimes

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Speaker 1: change his heart. But we have to open this up,

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Speaker 1: open our hearts. Ye take that and be ready for

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Speaker 1: it and open up your heart. That's right, ye. Life moves,

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Speaker 1: We move with it.

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Speaker 2: And if you don't stop, every once in a while,

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Speaker 2: I miss it. So a few months ago, I anonymously

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Speaker 2: reported my mother in law as a serious hoarder. Someone

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Speaker 2: Oh wait, I totally I see the ICU. I see

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Speaker 2: the ICU. I was angry and wanted to get back

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Speaker 2: my life a living hell. Mother in law had been

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Speaker 2: building a hoard in her house since my wife was

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Speaker 2: her mother was likely to lose her house now, but

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Speaker 2: then reminded her of all the reasons we would be separating.

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Speaker 2: I ended up losing my cool. Oh, getting a little heated.

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Speaker 2: Uh oh, getting a little fire like the pot. It's

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Speaker 2: like the potter of the kettle, or maybe uh mother

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Speaker 2: in law's house. Put my little I see you in there,

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Speaker 2: oh little I see you in there.

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Speaker 1: See if you see it.

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Speaker 2: Saying that her enabling of her mother caused this, her

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Speaker 2: acting like her mother stealing my irreplaceable skeleton key collection

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Speaker 2: I've spent a decade building wasn't important. Because of this

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Speaker 2: both without even asking my input. So I made a

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Speaker 2: told soon to be ex wife, I was long sick

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Speaker 2: of just sucking it all up, oh all the time,

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Speaker 2: Her mother would get nothing war from me, and maybe

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Speaker 2: I went pretty far. I'd been reduced to being just

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Speaker 1: She couldn't afford it.

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Speaker 2: From what I heard, mother in law went off on

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Speaker 2: working a street corner or fencing. You know, stolen xboxes.

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Speaker 1: Found ways, she said, learn learn from your old barn.

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Speaker 2: Learn the ways of the crowbars called robbery. You know

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Speaker 2: you don't need a diskeleton key if you can break

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Speaker 3: Or dig holes for homeless people.

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Speaker 2: Dig holes for homeless people, even demanding I pay for

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Speaker 2: She even said she'd sue me, but soon to be

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Speaker 2: When soon to be ex wife tried to tell her

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Speaker 2: but by the time help had arrived, her mother had expired.

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Speaker 2: Soon to be ex wife came home with a police

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Speaker 2: It's the real reason why she has a disability. The

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Speaker 2: all this, from what the police officer said and from

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Speaker 2: with guilt, but had to take a serious break from breddits,

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Speaker 2: more to this story, But John, do you think the

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Speaker 2: mother in law deserved to have a heart attack?

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Speaker 1: Sam, I might say something really controversial here, say it. No, Okay, No,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna say. I'm gonna say that, and I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: stand on it all right, because, uh, you know, I

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Speaker 1: think sometimes stuff happens. Sometimes stuff happened. Sometimes stuff happens,

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Speaker 1: the case where we we we we you know, we've

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Speaker 1: gone through the dirt, We've gone on the long bike ride,

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Speaker 1: the winding hills of journeys to get here, and sometimes

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Speaker 1: it just has an ending where unforeseen forces just coming

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Speaker 1: and sometimes the trafficics itself out. You know.

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Speaker 3: Wow, I guess what was the ICU you so earlier?

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Speaker 2: I thought her whole house was going to burn down. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's what I was.

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Speaker 3: Flattened by her horde of stuff.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that would have been good too, terrible all

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Speaker 2: used to dramatically put her hand on her chest and

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Speaker 2: She asked the police officer for a moment to herself,

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Speaker 2: told me I was cleaning that mess up. You packed

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Speaker 2: tell me it wasn't my fault, both men and women.

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Speaker 2: I didn't know all the genders all genders, Okay, I

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Speaker 2: there's more that happened, John, There's more.

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Speaker 1: I don't believe it.

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Speaker 2: And you might be wondering, is OP get a dish

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Speaker 2: of dirt? Is he gonna spill the beans?

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Speaker 1: I mean, he's dug up so much already.

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Speaker 2: Like I'll be telling it in another post.

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Speaker 5: Edit.

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Speaker 2: I came back to find over two hundred comments in

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Speaker 2: my inbox flex and I want to thank everyone for

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Speaker 2: the support I've been given. It's too much for me

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Speaker 2: to reply to it all, so I'll respond from here.

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Speaker 2: Did I move into that apartment in March?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? I did.

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Speaker 2: The events of the post happened before that move. Is

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Speaker 2: this post fake? I wish it was, but this is

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Speaker 2: the crap I've dealt with.

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Speaker 1: Am I in.

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Speaker 2: Therapy, Yeah, I am only for about a month now,

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Speaker 2: but it's helping.

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Speaker 1: I bet the therapist is a woman very few.

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Speaker 2: Were against me in the comments because everyone loves me,

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Speaker 2: But I don't blame those that were. Yeah, mother in

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Speaker 2: set things in motion by calling a fire marshal. And yeah,

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Speaker 2: I understand hoarding is a bad mental disorder. I am

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Speaker 2: guilty for that. I'm not made of stone.

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Speaker 1: He's got a heart.

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Speaker 2: But at the same time, my mother in law narcissist

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Speaker 2: who loved walking all over me and anyone else, even

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Speaker 2: her own daughter.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I understand the scary thing to lose one's home, But

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Speaker 2: if you don't treat your home like a home and

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Speaker 2: let it turn into a moldy infested rat den, then

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Speaker 2: you've let your home down.

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Speaker 1: This is not a rat house home.

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Speaker 2: She was only able to live in one room of

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Speaker 2: it because the rest was so bad and stinky. And

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Speaker 1: And about a being about a boom. That's the end.

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Speaker 4: Oh, there's another part is just around the corner.

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Speaker 1: But we're not looking back. We keep marching. Motherlaw's house

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 1: He went wild? What soon did be ex life left

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Speaker 1: Opie's she doesn't need a help. He's done, you know, done,

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Speaker 1: He's over, He's fixed himself. I heard from friends gender

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Speaker 1: I was so asking myself, who are these new renters?

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Speaker 1: Who are they? What's their background? What do they have

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Speaker 1: to bring to this story? We're never gonna find out. No,

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Speaker 2: What the one relevant piece of information that I needed?

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Speaker 3: I didn't know if they've ever built a hole before

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Speaker 1: Dude, how many? How many grown, grown men could fit

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Speaker 1: X did not try to sabotage the house in any

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Speaker 4: I don't care. I don't care. Like shut up, who

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Speaker 1: We here we are?

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Speaker 4: We are the fools all I mean? Oh, p, you

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Speaker 4: I don't know what a Ridgeland bike is.

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Speaker 1: I think we're about to ride off in the sunset, Sam,

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Speaker 1: Thank god, because I've later about the kent ridge of

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Speaker 1: And while I could commute to work on the bike,

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Speaker 1: because that's what we were all thinking, would happened that

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Speaker 1: we would, we would the same, the same work. You

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Speaker 1: The surprising amount of warnings I got from people here

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Speaker 1: don't care. You think same. You think this is so irrelevant,

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Speaker 1: You think, oh, this has nothing to do. Do you

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Speaker 1: here today? Guys, guys, ladies and gentlemen. May I remind

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Speaker 1: you the man who told op to post on Reddit? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: none other than the best friend that guy.

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Speaker 4: Where are you? Where are you? You're being a bad friend?

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Speaker 4: You should just listen, Dopey instead of making Opie say

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Speaker 1: It's because he was like, hey, can I tell you

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Speaker 3: actually you should not tell me.

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Speaker 1: I know, I know.

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Speaker 4: Op's friend should have just listened, should have just absorbed

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Speaker 4: this nonsense so the whole world wouldn't have to hear it. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: here we are, and we're too deep. We can't stop now,

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Speaker 4: we're already two feet in. We're gonna dunk our whole

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Speaker 1: Am I happy about it?

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Speaker 4: Now?

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Speaker 1: Am I gonna do it?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 1: So my best friend he joins me sometimes too. And

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Speaker 1: you see the thing is, he's got a red mongoose

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Speaker 1: emptb bike that he dusted off, right, he had to

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Speaker 1: ride on air, guys. It needed new tires, so I

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Speaker 1: one huge problem that you all never forgive him. Guessed

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Speaker 2: You know what I think, Like, I truly understand Op's

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Speaker 1: We have to, we have to finish the out. We

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Speaker 1: tell me who is worse? We will put up the pole.

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Speaker 1: You will, and by the end of this episode we

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Speaker 1: will have an answer chosen by the people.

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Speaker 2: I have a I think we should finish this episode out.

439
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Speaker 2: But I have a petition to not do part three.

440
00:21:20,880 --> 00:21:22,840
Speaker 2: I petition us to not do part three?

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Speaker 1: What happens to the best Friends Mango?

442
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Speaker 2: But I desperately, I desperately have.

443
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Speaker 1: Knowing does rushed? I can't, I can't, OPI did the

444
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Speaker 1: tune up? Are you ready for it? Opie did the

445
00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:39,760
Speaker 1: tune up? What if that tune up wasn't so tight.

446
00:21:40,680 --> 00:21:43,800
Speaker 1: Some gears start falling, Yeah, bike falls apart, gets hit,

447
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Speaker 1: my card died. Yeah.

448
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Speaker 2: You know he caused the death of his mother in law.

449
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Speaker 2: Maybe it's not causing the death of his friend his

450
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Speaker 2: best friend. Yeah, everyone saying may or may not be

451
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Speaker 2: a woman? OPI is the a hole. All right, let's

452
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Speaker 2: let's let's finish this, close it out. Let's just close

453
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Speaker 2: close it out.

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Speaker 6: Vote to the pole right now, I'll get I'll get

455
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Speaker 6: a TLDR for the rest of it. Like, there's two

456
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Speaker 6: more stories like posts that he made that have nothing

457
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Speaker 6: really to do what's happening kind of, So I'm gonna

458
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Speaker 6: get a TLDR so we can just read that and

459
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Speaker 6: be done.

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Speaker 1: Do we need it though? I I?

461
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Speaker 4: So.

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Speaker 6: The next one is my soon to be ex gut

463
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Speaker 6: in contact with my mother that I went no contact

464
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Speaker 6: from a long time, and then the last post is

465
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Speaker 6: about final update. I have divorced my wife and she

466
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Speaker 6: got a last minute flying monkey.

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Speaker 2: All right, we can read the tldrs just to close

468
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Speaker 2: it out. I cannot listen to this guy anymore. I like,

469
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Speaker 2: I cannot. I won't. I won't.

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Speaker 1: Let's do this funeral the TLDRS and then okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think there's one paragraph left on that part, all right,

472
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Speaker 1: all right. After her mother's funeral, my soon to be

473
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Speaker 1: ex wife went into full hate mode. She started badmouthing

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Speaker 1: me out on social media and told multiple lies about

475
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Speaker 1: me because she saw me as responsible for what happened

476
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Speaker 1: to her mother. She claimed I was physically, emotionally and

477
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Speaker 1: financially abusive, which I wasn't. If anything, she was all

478
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Speaker 1: that to me. She also played off the value of

479
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Speaker 1: my skeleton key collection. We can never bring it after

480
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Speaker 1: talk about my skeleton key collection like that, which she

481
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Speaker 1: claimed is worthless, said it's three thousand dollars. Oh. However,

482
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Speaker 1: there was already a fair amount of words spread through

483
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Speaker 1: the friends and formal mutual friends about what had really happened,

484
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Speaker 1: and they commented on her post about it to the

485
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Speaker 1: point where she took them down. But I still got

486
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Speaker 1: messages from angry flying monkeys. The most common thing is

487
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Speaker 1: they say that I ended a sick, old woman's life

488
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Speaker 1: over keys. I told them all my side of what

489
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Speaker 1: happened and pointed out that I have plenty of evidence,

490
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Speaker 1: including being told I wasn't invited to the funeral. And

491
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Speaker 1: showing screenshots. I was sorry mylne passed away, but I

492
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Speaker 1: couldn't have foreseen that she'd have a heart attack and

493
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Speaker 1: her house was so bad it was just completely unlivable.

494
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Speaker 1: A select few apologized, most stopped talking, and a good

495
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Speaker 1: few persistently called me a liar? So I had to

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Speaker 1: block them? Is that it?

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Speaker 3: How did they block them?

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Speaker 4: Were?

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Speaker 1: We are?

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Speaker 2: We are ending this story. We are once and for all,

501
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Speaker 2: we are.

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Speaker 1: We are riding this this in uh industrial lance armstrong

503
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Speaker 1: bike into the sunset. Ladies and gentlemen.

504
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Speaker 2: Do you ever watch the uh The X Men with

505
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Speaker 2: Ryan Reynolds where he's Deadpool but he's like the Deadpool

506
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Speaker 2: that has the swords that come out of.

507
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Speaker 1: His head, like the Super super Old one. Yeah, they're

508
00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:21,440
Speaker 1: like fighting.

509
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Speaker 4: On a.

510
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Speaker 2: Like like and he has and he has like wan

511
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Speaker 2: to you watch that swords like right here? It kind

512
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Speaker 2: of reminds me of that started at all started all dude,

513
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Speaker 2: all right. For the people that want to know how

514
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Speaker 2: this story ends, we are going to read the t

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Speaker 2: ld rs of the next three sections because I cannot

516
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Speaker 2: physically endure listening to this poopy, poopy storyteller anymore.

517
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Speaker 1: The good news this is gonna be chock full of actions.

518
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Speaker 1: This is gonna be We have like three episodes worse

519
00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:59,080
Speaker 1: than like three paragraphs. Yeah, so buckle up, strap in

520
00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:02,080
Speaker 1: your bike helmets. OPI went through a chaok divorce with

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Speaker 1: their soon to be ex wife, who teamed up with

522
00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:08,200
Speaker 1: Opie's strange narcissistic mother to harass him. Despite knowing why

523
00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:10,119
Speaker 1: Opie went no contact with his mother, soon to be

524
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:13,160
Speaker 1: ex wife tracked her down brought her into Opie's home,

525
00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:17,720
Speaker 1: leading to a heated confrontation. Opi detailed the manipulation lies

526
00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:20,879
Speaker 1: in toxic behavior both women subjected him to, with the

527
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Speaker 1: police eventually intervening after a neighbor called them. Following the incident,

528
00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:28,080
Speaker 1: Opi fowls her report to document the harassment and cut

529
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Speaker 1: all contact with both women. The divorce proceedings revealed even

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Speaker 1: more about soon to be x wife's motivations, including her

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Speaker 1: dependence on her late narcissistic mother and attempts to use

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Speaker 1: op for financial support. Despite her initial attempts to prolong

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Speaker 1: the process and harass o Pee further through a flying Monkey,

534
00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:47,159
Speaker 1: a mutual acquaintance sent to argue on her behalf. Opie's

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00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:51,280
Speaker 1: thorough evidence, including text recordings. Financial recordings left her with

536
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Speaker 1: no choice but to settle the case. The court dismissed

537
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Speaker 1: her petty complaints, such as her hatred of Oppee's bike.

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00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:01,640
Speaker 1: You knew it would come back around the bike, and

539
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:06,080
Speaker 1: the divorce ended with no alimony and a clean split.

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00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:09,879
Speaker 1: Now divorced and free of drama, op is focusing on

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Speaker 1: moving forward. He has acknowledged the lingering trust issues caused

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Speaker 1: by his ex and his mom, but is addressing them

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Speaker 1: in therapy Gender and Known. Although his ex claim to

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Speaker 1: have realized her mistakes, Opie remains skeptical and has no

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Speaker 1: plans to rekindle any relationship with her or his mother.

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Speaker 1: He's relieved to be out of this toxic marriage, and

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Speaker 1: he hopes for a healthier future. Cliff note epilogue does

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Speaker 1: he mention the bike? Yes, OPI mentions the bike multiple times.

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00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:38,440
Speaker 1: You see his soon to be ex wife has an

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Speaker 1: inexplicable hatred for the spike, even going so far as

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Speaker 1: to throw out an old bike because it quote unquote

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Speaker 1: an order that's not a great reason. During the divorce,

553
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Speaker 1: she brought up her dislike of the bike in court

554
00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:54,640
Speaker 1: on the stand, claiming op should have given it up

555
00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:58,520
Speaker 1: to support her preferences. The judge dismissed this as irrelevant.

556
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Speaker 1: I can't imagine why, but she made one final dick

557
00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:04,600
Speaker 1: after the hearing, saying Opie seemed to love his bike

558
00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:07,840
Speaker 1: more than her. If that is not damning evidence, I

559
00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:08,960
Speaker 1: don't know what is, sir.

560
00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:11,720
Speaker 2: I wish there was a judge that would dismiss this

561
00:27:11,840 --> 00:27:12,720
Speaker 2: whole story, as.

562
00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:15,919
Speaker 1: Can we just throw everyone in jail, including the biker.

563
00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:20,200
Speaker 1: OPI found her fixation on the bike ridiculous and used

564
00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:23,640
Speaker 1: it as another example of her controlling and pitty behavior.

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Speaker 1: So that's the end of that story.

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Speaker 2: If you've made it to the deep End for the while,

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Speaker 2: I mean, I know everyone who's live obviously made it

568
00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:33,399
Speaker 2: to the Deep End members, But if you've made it

569
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Speaker 2: to the Deep End, you are watching this, what do

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Speaker 2: you think?

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. That's all

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00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:41,080
Speaker 1: I have to say. That's it.

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Speaker 2: Hopefully this is a good consolation prize. We love you,

574
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Speaker 2: so if you love us, make sure to subscribe.

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Speaker 1: We Love You and see it tomorrow. This is an

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Speaker 1: episode from Deep Within the Archives. Time for okop relash.

577
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Speaker 2: I completed a group project by my self. My professor

578
00:28:01,640 --> 00:28:04,000
Speaker 2: gave me an F but don't worry. I gave him

579
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Speaker 2: an F two.

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Speaker 1: He's fired. Okayop, this is okay Ope.

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Speaker 2: I'm Samuel Donner and we tell the funniest stories on

582
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Speaker 2: the Internet. And Johnny, there's actually this guy on TikTok

583
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Speaker 2: that I saw, you know, Axel Axel. Yeah, you see

584
00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:22,359
Speaker 2: this guy Axel. He basically like tried to apply to

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Speaker 2: Juilliard and Juilliard didn't get him in.

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Speaker 1: Oh, and like everyone's kind of like rooting for him

587
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Speaker 1: a small, smallst apartment in New.

588
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Speaker 2: York, Yes, smallest apartment in New York. And he didn't

589
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Speaker 2: get a Juilliard. But then like all of his fans

590
00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:37,800
Speaker 2: just flooded Juilliard's Instagram page and just wreck them, tore

591
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Speaker 2: them a new one. And now he's getting all these

592
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Speaker 2: brand deals, he's getting modeling gigs, but he's still in.

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Speaker 1: That small apartment. Uh.

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Speaker 2: And And I just want everyone to remember when we

595
00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:54,840
Speaker 2: were recording from my room. In the future, maybe it's

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Speaker 2: six months, maybe it's a year, but one day we're

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Speaker 2: gonna be in our big, fancy studio. And I want

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Speaker 2: you to remember this moment TikTok before you blow us

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00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:05,320
Speaker 2: up and YouTube and the podcast.

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Speaker 1: And shout out to everyone who has been saying why

601
00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:10,640
Speaker 1: is this so small? Like you guys deserve to be bigger,

602
00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:12,720
Speaker 1: Like people are out there rooting for us. Yeah yeah,

603
00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:15,320
Speaker 1: and we appreciate you and you're the ones making it happen.

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00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:18,360
Speaker 2: Also yeah yeah, and like like you know, everyone who's

605
00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:21,760
Speaker 2: actually you know, supporting us on Patreon or on YouTube

606
00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:25,320
Speaker 2: or the podcast, you're the real ones. It all helps,

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Speaker 2: it all helps. But I got a I got a

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Speaker 2: real story for you, John, that'll help.

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Speaker 1: That'll help me, that'll help me. Good story. That's what

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Speaker 1: I want to do. That's what I want.

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Speaker 2: I completed a group project by myself. My professor gave

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Speaker 2: me an F but don't worry, I gave him an

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Speaker 2: F two.

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Speaker 1: He's fired. Kill y'all. Your stupid professor. You thought you

615
00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:50,000
Speaker 1: could get away with it. You couldn't.

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Speaker 4: You won't.

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Speaker 2: You'll nincome poop nincompoop.

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Speaker 1: That's that's a good one. I profess that you're stupid.

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Speaker 1: Mike dropped, Dune's gidding angry. I got, I got gosh.

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Speaker 1: You know, everyone's been in the group project where you.

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Speaker 2: Know, overachievers over here, always always doing the work. So

622
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Speaker 2: I was in speech class. It was my last semester,

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Speaker 2: and it was completely online due to COVID. Our professor

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Speaker 2: assigned us a group speech that we were to record

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Speaker 2: and send to him by the due date. I thought

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Speaker 2: it would be easy enough, as he gave us two

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Speaker 2: weeks to work on it, and the group speeches weren't

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Speaker 2: anything new to me. He even made separate discussion boards

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Speaker 2: for our groups so we could communicate. And this project

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Speaker 2: was worth thirty percent of our grade, so failing this

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Speaker 2: project meant you would pretty much fail the course. Oh wow,

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Speaker 2: thirty percent, that's a lot. I wanted to get it

633
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Speaker 2: done early so we wouldn't have to worry about it,

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Speaker 2: so I immediately post a message to everyone in the group

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Speaker 2: asking when they were free to do a zoom meeting

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Speaker 2: to discuss the project.

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Speaker 1: You know, like OP, he's in respect and trying to

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Speaker 1: get it done.

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Speaker 2: No reply for a few days by any of them.

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Speaker 2: Sh that's what I imagining the meaning the tumbleweed just

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00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:16,120
Speaker 2: I then post again, this time a little more stern,

642
00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:18,240
Speaker 2: as it didn't seem like any of them cared enough

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Speaker 2: to reply at all. I waited a few more days.

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00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:24,960
Speaker 2: At this point, we only had one week left before

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Speaker 2: it was due so I just divided up the work

646
00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:29,240
Speaker 2: and posted what everyone would need to write their portion

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00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:31,520
Speaker 2: of the speech about, and gave them a date slash

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Speaker 2: time that I would be holding a zoom meeting for

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Speaker 2: the final recording to send to the professor, which, like

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Speaker 2: located OPI is OPI is is is doing a lot

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Speaker 2: for them.

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Speaker 1: At this point, I literally just spelling everything out, like

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Speaker 1: here's your little contribution. I've set everything up.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it would be in as clear as possible.

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00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:57,640
Speaker 2: But still no reply, no reply. It was now the

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00:31:57,760 --> 00:32:00,600
Speaker 2: day before the speech was to be recorded, and two

657
00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:03,440
Speaker 2: days before the speech was due, and my group members

658
00:32:03,600 --> 00:32:06,920
Speaker 2: had still not made an attempt to contact in any

659
00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:10,880
Speaker 2: form at all whatsoever. Zilch, not a zero. Come on,

660
00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:13,480
Speaker 2: come on. So I did the only thing I could

661
00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:17,000
Speaker 2: think of and emailed my professor explaining the situation. But

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00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:20,600
Speaker 2: this professor kind of sucks. I assumed he would not

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00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:23,680
Speaker 2: reply because throughout the entire semester it took him over

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00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:26,160
Speaker 2: a week to reply to any emails I had sent him.

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00:32:26,280 --> 00:32:30,160
Speaker 2: I then did the entire group project on my own,

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00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:33,280
Speaker 2: which took me the entire night with no sleep. After

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00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:36,040
Speaker 2: I finished writing everyone's speech, it was around the time

668
00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:38,920
Speaker 2: I had scheduled the Zoom meeting to record, and again,

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00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:41,360
Speaker 2: this is a speech class.

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Speaker 1: A group speech. What is he like today? I have

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00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:48,680
Speaker 1: this speech, we need to do this. He's just running

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00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:50,200
Speaker 1: to everyone's spots yep.

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00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:54,000
Speaker 2: I then did the entire group project on my own.

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00:32:54,320 --> 00:32:57,160
Speaker 2: I joined. I joined the Zoom meeting out of amusement,

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00:32:57,360 --> 00:33:00,600
Speaker 2: knowing nobody in my group would be there. Sure enough,

676
00:33:01,040 --> 00:33:07,360
Speaker 2: it was empty, so I did the entire speech myself.

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00:33:07,960 --> 00:33:11,040
Speaker 2: But the rubric really put emphasis on transitioning to our

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00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:15,040
Speaker 2: other group members, including saying their name. So between every

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00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:17,560
Speaker 2: section where it would cut to a different member, I

680
00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:20,880
Speaker 2: would say something like and now my name will explain

681
00:33:20,960 --> 00:33:23,520
Speaker 2: the importance of blah blah, and then mute my screen

682
00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:26,320
Speaker 2: briefly as if to cut but on a different put

683
00:33:26,360 --> 00:33:28,560
Speaker 2: on a different hat, and then continue the speech.

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00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:31,680
Speaker 1: Bro The production value is off the charts for this

685
00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:33,080
Speaker 1: single group speech, right.

686
00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:36,440
Speaker 2: Ophie is killing it. I did this for all six

687
00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:40,920
Speaker 2: portions of the speech. There's six characters. I turned in

688
00:33:40,960 --> 00:33:43,880
Speaker 2: the speech shortly after and filled out the group member

689
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Speaker 2: roll sheet that was due as well.

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Speaker 1: I just put my name.

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00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:50,800
Speaker 2: And every single box that was supposed to be a

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Speaker 2: different group member, because OPHI did the whole thing, the

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00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:58,240
Speaker 2: whole thing. A week passes and I see that my

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00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:00,800
Speaker 2: professor grated the project, but he's still has not replied

695
00:34:00,800 --> 00:34:03,120
Speaker 2: to my previous email about the situation, by the way,

696
00:34:03,200 --> 00:34:06,680
Speaker 2: and he gave me a zero, stating it was supposed

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00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:08,839
Speaker 2: to be a group project.

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Speaker 5: You're doing it solo, man, I did, don't follow the inscruction.

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00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:21,279
Speaker 1: Man's dying with every breath. Yeah, I was about to say, like,

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00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:25,680
Speaker 1: first off, he's about to be finishing his life, and

701
00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:28,760
Speaker 1: second like op should literally get like an A plus

702
00:34:28,760 --> 00:34:33,960
Speaker 1: plus for doing everything? Like right, are you kidding me?

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00:34:34,160 --> 00:34:38,000
Speaker 2: I was actually infuriated by this and knew that emailing

704
00:34:38,080 --> 00:34:41,160
Speaker 2: him about the grade was as good as useless. Yep,

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00:34:41,200 --> 00:34:43,600
Speaker 2: So I went straight above him to the board of

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00:34:43,680 --> 00:34:46,360
Speaker 2: the college and explained to them what happened.

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00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:49,480
Speaker 1: The highest power in the lamb, the highest power, I

708
00:34:49,560 --> 00:34:52,360
Speaker 1: will go to the citadel and talk to the council

709
00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:53,320
Speaker 1: the Maldas.

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00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:56,839
Speaker 2: They apologize and said the situation would be resolved within

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00:34:56,880 --> 00:34:58,800
Speaker 2: a few hours of me talking to the board.

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00:34:59,400 --> 00:34:59,840
Speaker 1: Oh wow.

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00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:04,200
Speaker 2: Then he had replied to my email three times saying

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00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:06,880
Speaker 2: that he was sorry for the miscommunication about the project

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00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:10,480
Speaker 2: and that my grade would be corrected, and then he

716
00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:13,799
Speaker 2: scolded me for going above him, saying, you.

717
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:16,879
Speaker 5: Should have just emailed me again if you couldn't get

718
00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:22,839
Speaker 5: in contact with your other class space, and he.

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00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:29,279
Speaker 2: Was putting the blame on me for not trying to

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00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:32,759
Speaker 2: reach out to them. The next semester, I saw that

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00:35:32,840 --> 00:35:36,360
Speaker 2: he was no longer with the school. My guess is

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00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:38,239
Speaker 2: that it was a habit of his to not reply

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00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:40,759
Speaker 2: to emails and he got fired for it. But he

724
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:44,800
Speaker 2: was also pretty old, so maybe he just kicked the can. Also,

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00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:48,719
Speaker 2: his corrected grade was a seventy, but I was so

726
00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:51,840
Speaker 2: mentally exhausted from the situation at that point that I

727
00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:53,560
Speaker 2: didn't care to fight it anymore.

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00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:59,000
Speaker 1: OP deserves one hundred and seventy percent, Like that is unacceptable.

729
00:35:59,040 --> 00:36:01,560
Speaker 2: They deserve six tons percent. They do deserve one hundred

730
00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:04,759
Speaker 2: percent for every group member that they did work. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: this is ridiculous, And you could just tell like the

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00:36:07,239 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 2: fact that OP like put together all the slots then

733
00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:14,000
Speaker 2: just filled it in then the muting to transition like

734
00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:19,040
Speaker 2: ridiculous much work. Was putting so much work, and honestly,

735
00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:21,720
Speaker 2: like no one should ever have to do that amount

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Speaker 2: of work. But I think people should have to do

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00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:27,000
Speaker 2: a little work, and so I want to make sure

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Speaker 2: the okop fam does a little bit of work right now,

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Speaker 2: a little.

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Speaker 1: Bit of work to take that finger and smash the

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