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Speaker 1: Welcome to Carefully Reckless, the production of our Heart Radio

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Speaker 1: and the Black Effect. Nice still as back there, Nice

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Speaker 1: still aspect, I still aspected, Nice still as still a

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Speaker 1: y'ash your girl Jets Hilarious, and welcome to Carefully Reckless

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Speaker 1: with my Crazy Family. If you are avid Jets Hilarious

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Speaker 1: podcast listeners, then you know I talked my ship all

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Speaker 1: the time, but Shawin never hit me. Talk shit with

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Speaker 1: these for motherfucker's say, what's up to my family? All

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Speaker 1: my right is my cousin London. Closer to me is

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Speaker 1: my brother Brand to the left of me, little baby father,

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Speaker 1: what's up? Roy? And then over there to the far

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Speaker 1: left is my best friend Shane. What's going on? Listen?

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Speaker 1: So I missed the memo because everybody got on black

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Speaker 1: but me. But I'm special. I'm a star and I

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Speaker 1: shine like a diamond, So listen. The topic is dating

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Speaker 1: for today. I don't know if these spoil will agree

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Speaker 1: with me, but a lot people date for today. That's

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Speaker 1: what it's called dating for today. Back in the day,

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Speaker 1: you would date to get married. A lot of people

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Speaker 1: date to get married anymore. A lot of people just

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Speaker 1: date because it looks cute, because as they want to

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Speaker 1: be relationship goals on social media and ship like that.

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Speaker 1: So we're gonna get into that now. Me, I've dated

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Speaker 1: it a lot of men to get where I am

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Speaker 1: now and where I am now as in a relationship. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I've dated a lot of men, though to to get

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Speaker 1: to this point. What's a lot of men? Who's counting?

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Speaker 1: I feel like that's what you have to do. You know,

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Speaker 1: I've dated a couple, you know what I mean. I

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Speaker 1: ain't just ain't no who here slob and every nob

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Speaker 1: as my cousin London would say. But I think that, uh,

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Speaker 1: that's what you have to do to find the one

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Speaker 1: that that you love. You know what I'm saying. I

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Speaker 1: don't think it's a problem dating, but it's been a

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Speaker 1: low lot. How many have you did? Seem like it's

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Speaker 1: been a problem of them shere? Goddamn lie? Maybe she's

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Speaker 1: not who kids. The one I'm dating now is the

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Speaker 1: only one that matters. Yeah, so listen and y'all, y'all,

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Speaker 1: y'all gonna be quie jruggle and just let people think

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Speaker 1: I'm the only home understanding. I think you might be right,

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Speaker 1: Mr Infamous. I think my home, my wholeness has been

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Speaker 1: deleted because I'm in a relationship right now. But listening,

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Speaker 1: what's up? What do you think men? I'm at you

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Speaker 1: because you are a man. Do you think men dating

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Speaker 1: a lot of women is acceptable? Yes? Okay, why because

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Speaker 1: you don't Each of those women do different things for

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Speaker 1: us that men might need. Okay, they do stuff for

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Speaker 1: y'all that your need. What every woman said their purpose? Okay,

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Speaker 1: so that's why you date multiple the sayings because yeah,

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Speaker 1: I feel like that at a time at a time, Okay, date,

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Speaker 1: I'm not a relationship. I'm not married. I can date

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Speaker 1: one for women, and you absolutely can't because that's what

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Speaker 1: dating is. You're just having fun getting to know somebody.

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Speaker 1: You can definitely date with the one person. Am I

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Speaker 1: to say it right? A wrong? Yeah? You're like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're nobody. Somebody watch this. When I say dating, that

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Speaker 1: don't mean I'm fucking on that. Okay, just because you

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Speaker 1: think he doesn't mean I'm sleeping with him. Are you

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Speaker 1: talking about how you guys are? You know I'm in

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Speaker 1: a relationship, baby, and oh yeah I got that guy reship.

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Speaker 1: I am in a relationship, but I wasn't. My whole

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Speaker 1: wish ways that was okay, you keep eyeing me, prince man,

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Speaker 1: because don't left turn I'm trying to come back. Then

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Speaker 1: don't apply to me. You know what is going on.

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Speaker 1: It don't apply to me no more. You are I was?

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Speaker 1: You are faithful. He's saying about it too. That's why

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Speaker 1: I changed my friends, because you don't believe in me. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I have a question, and just miss Jess. Why can't

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Speaker 1: you keep it? Man? You dated so many why can't

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Speaker 1: you keep on? Because I just didn't know a lot

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Speaker 1: about myself. Honestly, I was. You know, a lot of

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Speaker 1: people date, you know, with the notion that they are perfect,

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Speaker 1: and that's how I've always thought. And then you know,

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Speaker 1: I learned something about myself with every person that I've dated.

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Speaker 1: You know, I also learned um, Like in my relationship now,

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Speaker 1: I'm learning a lot of things that I didn't learn

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Speaker 1: from previous guys. That Also, when you date somebody, it

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Speaker 1: can kind of like you kind of see like your pattern,

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Speaker 1: where you've evolved as well, because now you pay attention

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Speaker 1: assentence to before. So I date to get experienced and

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Speaker 1: I learned myself and I'm loving it. Okay, So what

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Speaker 1: to the next segment, which is called scenario. So I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna give everybody scenarios, and y'all gonna tell me how

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Speaker 1: y'all will feel and be honest about it. If one

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Speaker 1: something out about that person, or you already know something

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Speaker 1: about that person, would you tell your friends? No? No, okay, bro,

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Speaker 1: no you wouldn't. I want to know why. I don't, Carrious?

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Speaker 1: Why not? Shanna? I mean I would have before until

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Speaker 1: gonna get into it. Why not because I don't remember that?

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Speaker 1: What would you? What's the question? I actually would, if

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Speaker 1: the circumstantial, I would, if that person would be open

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Speaker 1: can't believe this. Why y'ada y'all? But if she's like,

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Speaker 1: gonna let you find out by yourself. And then what

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Speaker 1: she found out, gona say, I told you some baby girl,

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Speaker 1: but you thought she thought she called the right nick.

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Speaker 1: It's not the one I need. Yeah, I like the

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Speaker 1: mama been doing Nash. I like the mama. But if

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Speaker 1: it was a family member like me, you would you

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Speaker 1: tell me if the guy that I messed with was

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Speaker 1: with somebody, If it was a guy that I was

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Speaker 1: messed with as my cousin, would you tell me that

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Speaker 1: there was something about it? Yeah? Yeah, of course I made.

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Speaker 1: We tell each other everything, like everything about guys that

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Speaker 1: we did. But one thing I round Jesson is I wait,

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Speaker 1: I've learned to wait because she does not take the

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Speaker 1: uh you know from the beginning. She has to learn

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Speaker 1: Then you're like, okay, I know how, ain't no points

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Speaker 1: And you're like, okay, how you learn experienced back? And

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Speaker 1: deal breaker? Okay? So, and when you date people, there

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Speaker 1: are deal breakers. It could be something that like really

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Speaker 1: really turns you off. It could be little, but if

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Speaker 1: it could be big. So what is a deal breaker

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Speaker 1: a small? A deal breaking from me would be if

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Speaker 1: you're not um like committing to something right, So if

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Speaker 1: you're not taking me out, if you're not calling me

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Speaker 1: checking up on me, so you're checking out on my

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Speaker 1: mental you know, it's my love language communication. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's like I need that. So that's if you're not

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Speaker 1: giving me that because I'm a talker. So if you're

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Speaker 1: not a hummunicating with me, you're gonna get You're gonna

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Speaker 1: get cut off. Deal breaker, prince break. I hate a

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Speaker 1: deal breaker from me now would be a married but

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Speaker 1: so I can't ever do that again. Y'all know how

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Speaker 1: to get to know a person. That's why I said

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Speaker 1: learning a person, learning before you just dumped a relationship

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Speaker 1: is very important. That's why dating for today is really

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Speaker 1: important for this segment. Listen, deal break for you not

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Speaker 1: spending enough time, Okay, you're making time time time. I

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Speaker 1: feel like everybody makes time when you want to make time.

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Speaker 1: So when you're not making time, yeah that's yeah. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And consistency okay. Would you date a woman with five kids? Shots? Well,

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Speaker 1: every so that's close enough, So I guess I would. Okay,

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Speaker 1: how about it. Yeah, you don't get tying, no, no,

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Speaker 1: no time. I ain't have no time with her. I

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Speaker 1: didn't used together like six seven years. Yeah, but you

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Speaker 1: were children, yeah everything. Yeah, so she was a steps

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Speaker 1: I love that. Yeah, that's great, look at me now, yo,

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Speaker 1: all right cool. Oh I asked you. Would you date

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Speaker 1: a guy was five different baby mamas? Yes, I would

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Speaker 1: if he was involved in the children's lives. He can't

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Speaker 1: be a dad. Well, I don't see the kids. He

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Speaker 1: that's your offspring. I can respect that as a mother.

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Speaker 1: But if I see your kids, you're hanging with them, Hey,

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Speaker 1: you know. But if you have children and you don't

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Speaker 1: claim them, I'm not claiming you either, Okay, I caught you.

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Speaker 1: If you love me, you'll listen to this commercial and

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Speaker 1: then we'll be right back. Last, but not least, this

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Speaker 1: you can take out whatever. Na. No, Now, you wouldn't

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Speaker 1: deal with somebody that's your friend gave you permission to

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Speaker 1: world like why did that? Thank you? I like that?

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Speaker 1: it depends on how serious it was. Okay, so you're

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Speaker 1: because that could be my my wife there, you know,

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Speaker 1: come with me. I like that? So what about you wrong? Yes,

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Speaker 1: that's what Yes, ma'am. We deal with a person who

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Speaker 1: I mean, I didn't happened to you, so it happened.

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Speaker 1: It has not happened to multiple time you always wear ivery,

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Speaker 1: think is about you? I would did it happened? He's like,

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Speaker 1: what happened? Mean? Tell us about it briefly. I don't understand, man,

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Speaker 1: I four different children moms like that impossible? Right? Not

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Speaker 1: that one? Okay? You know I was a friend of mine's.

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Speaker 1: Once you're not friends, no more like their mutual friends.

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Speaker 1: Now I see him, he see me, yes, and when

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Speaker 1: I think I couldn't get mad at him because he's

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Speaker 1: She did bring it to me. I can't take that

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Speaker 1: know it was what it was. It didn't last week,

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Speaker 1: like like to be clung to and it's so freaking weird, right,

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Speaker 1: But I know I like people cling to me, but

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Speaker 1: I don't like when people are clinging, right, that's just

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Speaker 1: a getting me letting myself, how about it? So this

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Speaker 1: bad thing. It doesn't have to be fast. Time is everything.

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Speaker 1: Take your time and we're gonna end just like that.

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Speaker 1: Make sure you got tune and next week we're my

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