Speaker 1: All right, it's Monday, time for a brand new Second
Speaker 1: Date update, and Jose moo Karama commented the Second Date
Speaker 1: update pissed me off, and the Second Date Update update
Speaker 1: pissed me off. So you know, I'm concerned how this
Speaker 1: person's gonna feel what they hear about. Today's a bachelor
Speaker 1: party guy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well all of these we don't have an update
Speaker 2: update update.
Speaker 3: Yes, that's true. That's true.
Speaker 1: So I don't know how today we'll affect your emotions,
Speaker 1: but let us know in the comments after you hear.
Speaker 2: It, you will be moved, be emotional.
Speaker 3: Fourth is the word.
Speaker 1: Yeah, your brand new Second Date update right now.
Speaker 3: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second Date updates.
Speaker 4: Out of all the crazy places we've heard of people
Speaker 4: meeting each other on this segment, yeah, mid convenience store,
Speaker 4: robbery or in the colonoscopy prep area.
Speaker 3: Oh that one was cute, very sweet.
Speaker 4: I mean, we've definitely heard some strange meetups before that
Speaker 4: you'd tell stories about for years if it ended up
Speaker 4: working out.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I don't know about this one cause one of our
Speaker 4: listeners says he met a woman while attending his own
Speaker 4: bachelor party.
Speaker 2: Oh no, his words, not mine.
Speaker 3: Should we have him on the phone.
Speaker 2: Jeff, Well, I'm curious to hear what the story is
Speaker 2: at least or he's single now or something.
Speaker 3: Maybe he was an open marriage.
Speaker 2: I don't know that's true. I never think about that.
Speaker 4: We have a lot of questions, so we need to
Speaker 4: talk to this guy. Rick hey Man, welcome to the show.
Speaker 5: How you doing.
Speaker 3: I feel like he's to come in with more than
Speaker 3: just how you're doing. Big misunderstanding.
Speaker 2: Okay, did I read this right? This is your bachelor party?
Speaker 5: It was my bachelor party?
Speaker 6: Oh wow, I'm honestly, I'm pushing forty and I've been
Speaker 6: to all of my friend's bachelor parties. I spend tons
Speaker 6: of money on them, and I say, I felt like
Speaker 6: it was time to celebrate me.
Speaker 2: Who wait, you threw yourself your own bachelor.
Speaker 3: I can't but that means you're getting married? Were you
Speaker 3: getting married?
Speaker 5: No, I'm celebrating that I'm a bachelor. It's a bachelor party.
Speaker 2: That is I just have Oh. I was like you guys,
Speaker 2: I'm never gonna have a bachelor party. But their bachelor
Speaker 2: parties have always been.
Speaker 4: So that is funny because bachelor parties are always are
Speaker 4: typically celebrating the end of being a bachelor, but you're
Speaker 4: actually celebrating currently being a bachelor exactly.
Speaker 3: Okay, well you probat have to explain that to women
Speaker 3: when you're out.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, I'm not actually getting married.
Speaker 3: You think you found the reason he's not getting to
Speaker 3: call back? He came off as a fiance.
Speaker 2: Well, we don't know.
Speaker 4: We don't know what the story is or who we met. Like,
Speaker 4: we need to hear it from you, Rick, tell us
Speaker 4: what happened.
Speaker 6: So, yeah, we had a I saw the party downtown
Speaker 6: and there's lots of drinks and fun and we went
Speaker 6: to a bunch of clubs.
Speaker 5: It was a great time.
Speaker 2: And this is you and like, what a group of
Speaker 2: your guy friends?
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's about six of us total.
Speaker 3: Okay, is there anything indicating bachelor party as you're out?
Speaker 3: You know, like girls will wear sashes and white dresses like.
Speaker 2: Do youse kind of wear, like suits and stuff.
Speaker 3: I guess do you have any of that?
Speaker 6: I mean we all dressed up nicely, but yeah, we
Speaker 6: didn't have coordinating outfits or anything.
Speaker 1: Caring our girl your fiance's head around on.
Speaker 3: A sticky.
Speaker 2: Yeah, is that what you guys do?
Speaker 3: I got to love that her friend's boyfriends.
Speaker 5: I'll show you.
Speaker 4: We'll do that after we talked to Rick more about
Speaker 4: his bachelor party. So apparently you ended up meeting a
Speaker 4: girl while you were out.
Speaker 6: Yeah, at one of the clubs, I met this girl,
Speaker 6: name is Riley. She's great, and uh, we hit it
Speaker 6: off right away. But as you can imagine, she was
Speaker 6: immediately skeptical, thinking that I'm about to get married when
Speaker 6: she found out about the bachelor party. Yeah, it's because
Speaker 6: you're called a bachelor party, so everyone you're getting.
Speaker 2: Married, exactly.
Speaker 5: It wasn't my fault.
Speaker 6: Like I was talking to her and then one of
Speaker 6: my buddies comes up behind me and he's like, dude,
Speaker 6: congrats on the bachelor party, and then.
Speaker 3: He like runs off, and I assume you try to explain,
Speaker 3: but then you would just come off as a bigger liar.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've been single for a way too long.
Speaker 3: I'm celebrating me.
Speaker 2: And yeah, never being married.
Speaker 5: It's not an easy explanation.
Speaker 6: I'm like, no, this is a branding issue, you know.
Speaker 6: Finally I brought another friend over.
Speaker 5: And he explained the whole thing, and she got it.
Speaker 2: She did, Yeah, she did, at least she pretended to
Speaker 2: get well.
Speaker 3: I mean, if she stayed around, then she probably believed
Speaker 3: she went to the bathroom.
Speaker 1: Did a quick Google search, checked her insta.
Speaker 2: So was there more to the evening after that?
Speaker 5: There was? So? I you know, I got in a
Speaker 5: hotel room because it's my bachelor party, and at.
Speaker 6: Some point Riley and I decided to sneak off and
Speaker 6: I gets my own party.
Speaker 2: Okay, and you and Riley went to the hotel.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and she stayed the night.
Speaker 3: Okay. Wow, I mean it sounds really fun, really fun.
Speaker 3: Uh huh, it does not sound like something you'd expect
Speaker 3: to call back from.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a good point.
Speaker 4: Why wouldn't you get a call back after such a
Speaker 4: romantic Yeah?
Speaker 3: I mean, did you indicate to her how interested you
Speaker 3: were in her?
Speaker 6: I did, Like in the morning, you know, we had
Speaker 6: had all these like lots of long, deep conversations. I
Speaker 6: really felt like we connected. So in the morning, I
Speaker 6: was like, we need to see each other again, we
Speaker 6: need to continue this.
Speaker 3: Oh, okay, you were really direct.
Speaker 6: I was, and I thought she was on the same page.
Speaker 6: But that was four days ago and she hasn't responded
Speaker 6: since I've sent her texts and I've gotten nothing.
Speaker 3: Maybe she's still nursing or hangover. Yeah, the bright light
Speaker 3: of my phone is too much.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean we didn't drink a ton, to be honest,
Speaker 6: and we drank short, but it wasn't like blackout.
Speaker 5: Drunk or anything. And yeah there was romance. But we
Speaker 5: talked a lot and we really got to know each other.
Speaker 2: So maybe that's the problem then.
Speaker 4: I mean, if Brook's going back to a guy's hotel,
Speaker 4: she does not want to talk, that's for sure.
Speaker 3: Well, I mean after a night of the club, I
Speaker 3: don't think anybody does. Like, I think what you experienced
Speaker 3: is unusual for sure, and special, Like I could understand
Speaker 3: why you're upset.
Speaker 6: I'm just confused because I know people, and I could
Speaker 6: read her, and she had strong feelings for me, I
Speaker 6: could tell. So I just don't know what to make
Speaker 6: of this whole thing.
Speaker 3: Huh. Maybe she's not being fully honest with you about
Speaker 3: where she is in life. Party. Yeah, he was on it.
Speaker 5: It was a birthday party, she said, So.
Speaker 2: All right, Well, who knows what that means.
Speaker 4: We're gonna find out when we call her and hopefully
Speaker 4: get some answers, and maybe if this goes well, we
Speaker 4: can throw you another real bachelor party.
Speaker 2: Somewhere your bachelor party.
Speaker 4: We'll find out when we come back for your second
Speaker 4: date update.
Speaker 2: I'll do it right after this.
Speaker 3: Hold on Brook and Jeffrey in the morning second.
Speaker 2: Date update, our listener.
Speaker 4: Rick has given us a whole new definition for the
Speaker 4: term bachelor party. Yeah, because he threw one for himself recently,
Speaker 4: even though he's not getting married.
Speaker 3: No, not even in a relationship.
Speaker 4: No, he did it to celebrate his status as a single,
Speaker 4: eligible young man, an actual bachelor.
Speaker 3: Okay, most people just call it single guys night out.
Speaker 4: Yeah, he doesn't have the same ring too.
Speaker 1: You don't get people to buy your drinks if you
Speaker 1: say that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but you don't have this terrible misunderstanding that he had.
Speaker 4: I don't know if there was a misunderstanding, because while
Speaker 4: he was out partying with his buddies, that's where he
Speaker 4: met a woman named Riley and ended up bringing her
Speaker 4: back to his hotel room, where they spent the rest
Speaker 4: of that night talking and having deep, meaningful conversations.
Speaker 3: It sounds like jeff is using his sarcasm voice, but
Speaker 3: that was real.
Speaker 4: Really, which again, total opposite of your typical bachelor party
Speaker 4: end of the night. But that's why he's so confused
Speaker 4: about why Riley's been completely.
Speaker 2: Ignoring him afterwards. I mean, alexis you would call him
Speaker 2: back right after a night like that.
Speaker 1: I mean, to be fair, When you just said like
Speaker 1: men's bachelor hotel room, I kind of got chills of
Speaker 1: how dirty it might be. Not gonna lie.
Speaker 2: I mean, Rick, what was the state of your hotel room?
Speaker 5: It wasn't that dirty.
Speaker 6: I mean we did pre party there, but I tried
Speaker 6: to hide the shop bottles, so it wasn't that bad.
Speaker 3: Yeah, So then yeah, I would call him back.
Speaker 4: Oh well, let's see if Riley first of all answers
Speaker 4: our call, and second of all, she has an explanation
Speaker 4: for why she's been ignoring you for the past four
Speaker 4: days since your intimate hangout.
Speaker 5: I hope.
Speaker 3: So that's going to get turned this around for you. Rick,
Speaker 3: don't be so sad.
Speaker 5: Yeah, man, I'm just nervous.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 2: You guys know you had chemistry.
Speaker 4: You have that, bro, Yeah, and remember you are a confident,
Speaker 4: single bachelor. Any woman would be lucky to have you,
Speaker 4: did you Guys?
Speaker 6: Hear what I said before, I'm pushing forties, so this
Speaker 6: might be my last chance.
Speaker 3: Well, you're a guy, you got easily a good fifteen years,
Speaker 3: you know.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you can date well into your seventies and still
Speaker 4: catch like a twenty or thirty.
Speaker 3: With enough money. That's true.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we all have faith in you. Let's see if
Speaker 4: Riley picks up the phone. Minute down the number right
Speaker 4: now here we go.
Speaker 2: Hello, Hi is this Riley?
Speaker 3: This is hi Riley by morning. Hi.
Speaker 2: What is this in regards to Yeah, this is We're
Speaker 2: a radio show.
Speaker 4: We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we're
Speaker 4: doing a segment called the Second Date Update, and we
Speaker 4: would love if you could be a part of it.
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, just yes.
Speaker 3: Oh you're able to be convinced of anything.
Speaker 2: You're going to go with the flow type of person.
Speaker 8: So is this about one of my friends then, because no, not.
Speaker 4: Really, this is more about you and why you're not
Speaker 4: calling back one of our our friends, a listener to
Speaker 4: our show named Rick.
Speaker 7: Actually, I've changed my mind. I don't want to participate anymore.
Speaker 3: Hold on, hold on, this is that's crazy. That's a
Speaker 3: crazy reaction.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean, I just I don't really know what
Speaker 7: to tell you. I was really upset in his room.
Speaker 7: So I mean, if he can already mention.
Speaker 8: That to you.
Speaker 7: I guess that means that I hit.
Speaker 8: It pretty well.
Speaker 4: The way that he told it to us was that
Speaker 4: you two went back to his room and basically spent
Speaker 4: the entire night talking and getting to know each other,
Speaker 4: and he felt like the two of you connected on
Speaker 4: a deeper level.
Speaker 7: Honestly, I don't really want to talk about it because
Speaker 7: if I do, I'm I think it might make me
Speaker 7: mad again.
Speaker 3: You still mad?
Speaker 6: Alright?
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I feel like we're past that point.
Speaker 2: Was this hotel room a total mess? Is that what
Speaker 2: it was?
Speaker 7: No?
Speaker 8: That honestly would have been way better.
Speaker 4: I tried, Okay, would you mind sharing with I mean,
Speaker 4: we don't want to pry too deep into your personal life,
Speaker 4: but it would really help Rick if we could know
Speaker 4: just a little bit about what he did.
Speaker 2: Wrong or well.
Speaker 8: I mean, we had been together probably three hours at
Speaker 8: this point.
Speaker 7: And we you know, we were really connecting, and honestly,
Speaker 7: like my intuition was like, oh my god, like this.
Speaker 8: Could be the one who. I mean, I feel stupid
Speaker 8: now that I was thinking that, because obviously he wasn't.
Speaker 8: And I was like, I want this to be more.
Speaker 8: And so we were talking for.
Speaker 7: Like a really long time and I asked him.
Speaker 8: Like, if we were together, if like we.
Speaker 7: Were boyfriend and girlfriend and.
Speaker 8: We broke up, would you.
Speaker 7: Date someone similar to me afterwards?
Speaker 2: Oh god, Okay, you know.
Speaker 1: A hypothetical question those getting together and then breaking up.
Speaker 3: Okay, So what did he say? Answer important that you
Speaker 3: didn't like?
Speaker 8: He said, no, that's impossible.
Speaker 7: You're one of one, because he immediately went till we
Speaker 7: would break up, And that was the point that he
Speaker 7: should have been like, no, of course not, we would
Speaker 7: never break up because you're my person for me.
Speaker 3: That would have freaked me out. If someone would have
Speaker 3: said we're never going to break up on the first
Speaker 3: night I met them, I'd be like, whoa.
Speaker 2: But Brook they had hung out for three whole hours.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, don't you think that man? That's pretty harsh.
Speaker 2: To totally cut him off after that.
Speaker 7: I just feel like, when you know, you know, and
Speaker 7: he obviously didn't know that I was his person, and
Speaker 7: so why would I waste my time?
Speaker 4: Rick told us that you guys talked for hours, and
Speaker 4: I don't know if that question even like resonated with
Speaker 4: him in the same way that it did with you,
Speaker 4: But we can.
Speaker 5: I can't stop thinking about it.
Speaker 1: Okay, maybe an opportunity for test correction.
Speaker 4: Yeah, this is a good chance because Rick is on
Speaker 4: the line right now, listening in on this call, waiting
Speaker 4: to talk to you.
Speaker 5: Hey, Riley, I.
Speaker 7: Would loved hello.
Speaker 6: Oh my god, I don't even know what to say.
Speaker 7: Yeah, there's no surprise there because you didn't know what
Speaker 7: to say that ninety Wait.
Speaker 3: Rick, do you remember that moment in your guys' conversation?
Speaker 5: Yeah, but I no idea. It was a test question.
Speaker 8: Yeah, that's the point of a test. You're not supposed
Speaker 8: to know what's happening.
Speaker 2: I thought his answer was pretty good. Like, you're one
Speaker 2: of a kind. There's no one in the world.
Speaker 5: Like you, Riley.
Speaker 6: Look, I just want to try to fix this. I
Speaker 6: really like you, and I just I just wanted to
Speaker 6: get to know you. That's what I thought was happening
Speaker 6: that night.
Speaker 7: I mean, I thought that we were getting to know
Speaker 7: each other as well, and I did.
Speaker 8: I got to know that I am not important to
Speaker 8: you who but you be willing.
Speaker 7: To just that you would automatically assume that we would.
Speaker 8: Not make it.
Speaker 5: You're reading it wrong.
Speaker 6: Just because I answered one question wrong doesn't mean that
Speaker 6: we can't be together.
Speaker 5: I said, you're one of a kind.
Speaker 8: Yeah, one of a kind. But after we broke up.
Speaker 5: Just give me another chance. Just ask me again, ask
Speaker 5: me the same damn question again.
Speaker 7: The answer the answer isn't going to matter now that
Speaker 7: you know what I want to hear.
Speaker 3: Yes, it's important to study before a test. You know
Speaker 3: every teacher would want that.
Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, fine, if you're a boyfriend and girlfriend and
Speaker 7: we broke up, would you date someone similar to me afterwards?
Speaker 3: Okay, here we go.
Speaker 5: No, absolutely not.
Speaker 7: Oh so you would date somebody different than men?
Speaker 3: Work down, I'm gonna break up? Yeah? Were you're not
Speaker 3: paying attention?
Speaker 8: Gave you the answer?
Speaker 5: Tricking me again?
Speaker 6: I can't do it.
Speaker 5: Just ask me again, Ask me again.
Speaker 7: Okay, no, I'm not gonna ask you again.
Speaker 8: I already asked you twice. You were supposed to say
Speaker 8: we would never break up. I told you what to say,
Speaker 8: and you still didn't do it.
Speaker 1: I'm kind of switching HRS side for the second round.
Speaker 3: Cracked under pressure. You guys, there's a lot happening right now.
Speaker 3: Rick was fully invested in what was happening with you too.
Speaker 6: You can't see me right now, but I am sweating
Speaker 6: right my shirt is soaking wet.
Speaker 8: That's not attract him.
Speaker 3: Okay, dude, I can't believe you're gonna throw this all
Speaker 3: away because of one silly question that you don't even like.
Speaker 2: My guy finally went on, am I agree?
Speaker 4: There's two hours and fifty nine minutes of really great
Speaker 4: conversation and greatness after that.
Speaker 8: All I'm doing right now is living my feelings. Okay,
Speaker 8: you don't.
Speaker 7: Get tell me how to feel.
Speaker 6: I'm not trying to tell you how to feel. Just
Speaker 6: give me one more chance, Okay, I will listen. I
Speaker 6: will be there for you. I would not break up
Speaker 6: with you, I would not date someone else that looks
Speaker 6: like you.
Speaker 5: I would always just be there for you.
Speaker 4: Rick, did you just answer all three options there? All
Speaker 4: at the same time.
Speaker 3: I thought it was a smart move.
Speaker 2: Jeff I forgot to just say yes, you know what one.
Speaker 3: True and false?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Y would you want to hear? That's what he has
Speaker 2: to say.
Speaker 4: So at this point, we'd like to ask Riley if
Speaker 4: you would be willing to give Rick a second chance
Speaker 4: and meet up with him for another date.
Speaker 2: If you are, we would pay for that.
Speaker 5: Please.
Speaker 2: And this is a test. There is a correct answer
Speaker 2: to it. Riley, just so.
Speaker 3: Rilly, don't be so come on. Everybody deserves another shot.
Speaker 7: I will give you one more night. But anything that
Speaker 7: goes wrong, is it it's over.
Speaker 2: On the edge.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it sounds like he won't be walking on eggshells
Speaker 3: at all.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Rick, that sounds like so much fun, doesn't it.
Speaker 2: She's like, how you doing.
Speaker 5: He's like, I don't know how to answer, no comment.
Speaker 7: I know who I am, I know what I bring
Speaker 7: to the table, and you either want.
Speaker 8: It or you do.
Speaker 2: Okay, well I think he wants you want it.
Speaker 5: Rick, Absolutely nothing is going to go wrong.
Speaker 2: Better not okay, because you don't.
Speaker 8: Get to call the radio station to ask me back
Speaker 8: for a third time.
Speaker 2: Okay, let's call it just keeps getting sweeter and sweeter.
Speaker 2: So you know what we're gonna say. It took over.
Speaker 2: It really did.
Speaker 4: We're gonna set your two up on a lovely date
Speaker 4: and you just have the best time together.
Speaker 5: Okay, we will and we won't end all the above.
Speaker 5: That's my man.
Speaker 3: Yes, Rook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 4: What do you think is the percentage that we're going
Speaker 4: to get an update update from Rick and Riley somewhere
Speaker 4: down the road.
Speaker 2: Not at all.
Speaker 1: Dude, maybe just him on the phone?
Speaker 2: Yeah, are there percentages less than zero? She's gonna blow
Speaker 2: it in the first like thirty minutes.
Speaker 3: I promise, How could anyone not blow it with exactly?
Speaker 3: Is she ever going to be in a relationship? I mean,
Speaker 3: maybe she doesn't want to be.
Speaker 2: Right flying to herself.
Speaker 3: I don't know that that was nuts.
Speaker 4: He's in a tough position at this point, but I
Speaker 4: will say it is impressive that after just three hours
Speaker 4: they went from complete strangers to arguing like a married
Speaker 4: couple of twenty years.
Speaker 3: Excuse me, they broke up? Yeah, after the three hours.
Speaker 2: No, they are never going to break up.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I would have failed her test.
Speaker 2: Yeah, who wouldn't.
Speaker 4: But remember the one test you can't fail is finding
Speaker 4: us on our Second Date Update podcast.
Speaker 3: Because we're crazy. We're never breaking up, are we?
Speaker 4: No, we're not, And we're in all of your favorite
Speaker 4: podcast platforms where they're search Rick and Riley in the Morning,
Speaker 4: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 2: Although it does have a good rink to it,