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Speaker 1: Buggle up, hold on tight. We got it for you here.

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Speaker 1: It is the Strawberry Letter subject you can't have your

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Speaker 1: cake and eat it too. All right, one more time,

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Speaker 1: you can't have your cake and eat it too. Dear

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Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. I've been dating a guy for six months

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Speaker 1: and he's one of the sweetest men that I've ever met.

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Speaker 1: This weekend, he disclosed some information to me, and I

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Speaker 1: need your opinion. He and I met when I moved

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Speaker 1: out of my condo. He was a supervisor of the

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Speaker 1: moving company that I used, and he was very professional

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Speaker 1: and handsome, and when he asked me out, I accepted.

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Speaker 1: We started out as friends and now we're in a relationship.

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Speaker 1: On our first date, he said his favorite thing about

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Speaker 1: me was my skin tone and how soft and supple

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Speaker 1: it looks. I had not had that much attention in

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Speaker 1: a while, so I was overjoyed. Whenever we go out,

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Speaker 1: he caresses my skin with his great big hands and

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Speaker 1: kisses my shoulders and neck. We finally got intimate over

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Speaker 1: the weekend and it was everything I hoped for. I

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Speaker 1: had hoped for, but then it got tricky. After sex,

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Speaker 1: we were lying in bed and as usual, he was

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Speaker 1: rubbing on me and kept saying how he loves my skin.

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Speaker 1: He then whispered to me, I just want to eat you.

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Speaker 1: I giggled and turned to look at him, thinking he

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Speaker 1: wanted to go for round two, but then he said

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Speaker 1: to me, no, I literally want to eat you. I

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Speaker 1: looked at this man and asked him to repeat himself.

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Speaker 1: He said he fantasizes about eating a part of a

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Speaker 1: woman's body, and it's a big fetish that he has

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Speaker 1: not been able to live that out. He elaborated that

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Speaker 1: overseas it's a big thing where a man will take

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Speaker 1: part of a woman's buttocks and eat it. He said

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Speaker 1: he's been fascinated by cannibalism since he was young, but

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Speaker 1: this is just a fetish and nothing serious. Wait you

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Speaker 1: heard me, Okay, that's why I said that. He said

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Speaker 1: he's been fascinated. Let me get through the letter, please, deep.

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Speaker 1: He said he's been fascinated by cannibalism, yes, since he

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Speaker 1: was young, but that but this is just a fetish

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Speaker 1: and nothing serious. So I need to know if this

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Speaker 1: is really just a fetish or should I run before

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Speaker 1: it's too late? Have you ever heard of such I'm

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Speaker 1: falling for this guy, but I don't want to end

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Speaker 1: up with my butt in a frying pan. Please help me, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I mean all I could say initially is what wt H?

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Speaker 1: I mean, really, did I read this correctly? Like you

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Speaker 1: know you said in the letter? Did you hear this correctly?

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Speaker 1: People don't eat people? Uh, that's not what we do.

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Speaker 1: What is he talking about? I mean, this is a

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Speaker 1: fantasy he hasn't been able to live out yet. Uh. Listen,

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Speaker 1: Sure he could be just kidding and this could just

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Speaker 1: be a fantasy and he doesn't really mean this. Sure

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Speaker 1: a booty burger, I don't. I mean, he could just

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Speaker 1: be kidding. But but why take this chance? I mean, seriously,

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Speaker 1: he knows too much about it, He's researched it. Uh. No,

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Speaker 1: to answer your question, we've never heard of such cannibalism

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Speaker 1: and things like this. I mean we know what it is,

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Speaker 1: of course, but we haven't literally heard of anyone doing this.

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Speaker 1: And yes, I would run. He sounds too freaky. I mean, yeah,

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Speaker 1: he sounds too freaky and crazy to me. That's not

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Speaker 1: freaky to you. That's beyond. That's beyond finish the letter. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's beyond. Uh, he wants to literally eat you. The

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Speaker 1: term it is called verare philia. If you guys want

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Speaker 1: to know verare philia. All right, you know that. All right, Steve,

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Speaker 1: I'm done. I think she should all right, this is

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Speaker 1: too crazy. Well let's go over the letter and just

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Speaker 1: go along on the journey that this letter was taking us.

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Speaker 1: On day six, moms dating this man wanted the sweetest

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Speaker 1: men she ever mad. You know. He was a supervisor

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Speaker 1: of a moving company that moved her. Professional, handsome, and

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Speaker 1: so he asked her out. She said, all right, Well

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Speaker 1: they started out as friends, but day in the relationship

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Speaker 1: now because on the first date he told her the

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Speaker 1: first thing he laughed about it was how skin tone,

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Speaker 1: how soft and subtle it looked. Girl. That attention about

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Speaker 1: to dry this girl crazy. She was over joy. When

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Speaker 1: we go out, he'd be caressing your skin with his

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Speaker 1: great big hand. Because then then furniture moving hands. You know,

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Speaker 1: he got them big ass hand he picking up frigerators. Gosh,

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Speaker 1: you're this big man ass hand kissing all over your shoulder.

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Speaker 1: You got enter it over the weekend, and Lord Jesus

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Speaker 1: who it was everything. Then it got tricky after sex,

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Speaker 1: y'all was laying in bed, you know, just like oh

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Speaker 1: he was just rubbing on you, kept saying love your skin.

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Speaker 1: Then he whispered, I just want to eat you. Now

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Speaker 1: we've all heard this before. Careful, I always grown ass man, Steve,

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Speaker 1: hang on, we'll have you. Can't have your cake and

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Speaker 1: eat it too, Let's recap. Ain't no damn cap. She

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Speaker 1: didn't got the moving company boy she'd fell in love with,

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Speaker 1: and he out on the date with her, telling the

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Speaker 1: favorite thing about her was her skin tone and house

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Speaker 1: offf and supple. Oh, she hadn't had this kind of

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Speaker 1: a tension in the wild. She was overjawed, go out

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Speaker 1: caressing the skin, had them great big hands kissing all

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Speaker 1: on her shoulder. He had the moving man hands. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: picking flipping, taking whole rugs down by self, down the steps,

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Speaker 1: picking up on walls and moving entertainment centers. All this

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Speaker 1: boy powerful. So you finally got intimate over the weekend,

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Speaker 1: and Lord em Mercy, it was everything she hoped for,

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Speaker 1: and right after she said everything I hope folk period.

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Speaker 1: But then it got tricky. Oh, they laying up in

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Speaker 1: in the after globe, They laying in bed just like usually,

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Speaker 1: just rubbing on me, and he kept telling me how

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Speaker 1: much he loved my skin. Then he whispered to me,

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Speaker 1: I just want to eat you now. She giggle. Turned, course,

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Speaker 1: she won't to say yes to this. That's what the

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Speaker 1: giggle was about, and turned and looked at him, thinking

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Speaker 1: he wanted to go for a round two. Na. No,

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Speaker 1: now you was hoping that he was talking about what

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Speaker 1: you thought he was talking about. That that what the

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Speaker 1: giggle was for. But then he said to me, no,

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Speaker 1: I literally won't you. I looked at this man and

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Speaker 1: I asked him to repeat himself, because you know what,

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Speaker 1: if that's what you really want to do, just gold

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Speaker 1: say it to me. But I don't know what you

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Speaker 1: mean by literally, so I asked him to repeat himself.

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Speaker 1: He said that he fantasizes about eating a part of

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Speaker 1: a woman's body and it's a big fetish that he's

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Speaker 1: not being able to live out yet. Now at this point,

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Speaker 1: you need to be sitting up in the bed. You

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Speaker 1: need to sit up. You need to start eyeing his

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Speaker 1: ass because this this is going somewhere else. Yeah, and

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Speaker 1: then he elaborated that overseas it's a big thing where

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Speaker 1: a man would take part of a woman's buttox and

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Speaker 1: eat it. Wow, Now I don't know wearing this letter

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Speaker 1: you kept typing, but this would have been a hard

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Speaker 1: letter to type. You're want you what? I don't know

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Speaker 1: who this sister is, but this conversation with you want

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Speaker 1: to eat, You're gonna take, you gonna You're gonna cut

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Speaker 1: who ass? Hold on? It works? You're crazy. He said

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Speaker 1: it was fascinated by candles cannibalism since he was young.

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Speaker 1: But this is just to fetish, and nothing says, So

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Speaker 1: I need to know if this is really just to

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Speaker 1: fetish or should I run before it's too late? What

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Speaker 1: the hell did you just ask us? You're trying to

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Speaker 1: figure out this a fetish? A man just told you

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Speaker 1: that he wanted to a slice of your ass, just

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Speaker 1: you know, like his cheese, like like you just a

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Speaker 1: ham a honey bak sitting up on the table. It

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Speaker 1: was just want a slice of your ass. Because now

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Speaker 1: he'd talking about this overseas. He's been rubbing on your skin.

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Speaker 1: Now love the texture. Now. He said he'd been fascinated

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Speaker 1: by Canada cannibalism since he was young, but this just

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Speaker 1: to fetish it. Nothing said now here go to cold

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Speaker 1: part right here. So I need to know if this

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Speaker 1: is really a fetish or shit? I run for us

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Speaker 1: too late? Have you ever heard of such I'm falling

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Speaker 1: for this guy, but I don't want to end up

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Speaker 1: with my butt in a frying pan. Okay, so what

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Speaker 1: is you're typing for now? You might be falling for

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Speaker 1: this guy, but you ain't gonna be able to fall

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Speaker 1: on your ass because he gonna be the navid What

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Speaker 1: you're gonna wake up one night? Numb You ain't gonna

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Speaker 1: know what's going on, And he gonna be sitting over

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Speaker 1: there with a plate with some hot sauce, and he's

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Speaker 1: gonna have a napkin rounding that baby. What you eating now?

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Speaker 1: He had numbed you while you sleep? You ain't up.

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Speaker 1: Your little booty just tingling. You don't know half it's

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Speaker 1: over there on that damn plate. Oh my god, sitting

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Speaker 1: over there and got some hot saucing. He just chewing

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Speaker 1: your answer. You don't even know it. Show stupid behind, Tom.

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Speaker 1: Have you ever heard of such a thing? Hell? No,

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Speaker 1: we're black people? Yeah, well no, we black people. Now.

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Speaker 1: First letter was kind of sexy. He he hell get out.

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Speaker 1: He talked about taking a slice of your ass, and

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Speaker 1: you don't load it into us, and you send up

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Speaker 1: in here. I don't want to end up with my

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Speaker 1: butt in a frying pan. But you think you're gonna

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Speaker 1: do go ahead, your little biceps and that everything else

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Speaker 1: like a little five meat. Now all right, look, we

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Speaker 1: gotta get rid of this food. We gotta let the

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Speaker 1: people know that they can email or instagram us. There

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Speaker 1: thought email us. Nothing like this again on the Strawberry

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