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Speaker 2: Yee Mano's here, always a treat and hey, my Braxton

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Speaker 1: I'm shuld I move my bags so the people can

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Speaker 1: Let's put it right there on the table.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, all right, and congratulations on Heartbreak Retrograde not

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Speaker 2: just an EP but also a movie.

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, and I don't.

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Speaker 1: Well, I had to, and let me tell you why.

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Speaker 4: I had to because the EP really told a story

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Speaker 4: and I wanted people to understand the story that I

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Speaker 1: And I had.

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Speaker 4: To show a visual of you know, things that happened

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Speaker 4: during the Heartbreak Retrograde.

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Speaker 1: That's a real thing, yes, a real thing.

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Speaker 2: Well, you also did the full EP with Tricky Stewart.

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Speaker 2: I did, so that's that's a dope thing too, because

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Speaker 2: it feels very cohesive.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Actually, Tricky and I came up with the whole concept

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Speaker 4: at a restaurant, were sitting at the bar and I

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Speaker 4: was just telling him. I don't even know why, I

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Speaker 1: So this is a real story.

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Speaker 3: So every song is something something that you actually went through.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely, so you were and sing Can you be in

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Speaker 2: love with two people at once?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Absolutely, you think so. I think you can be confused.

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Speaker 3: By one, but it's still love, right.

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Speaker 1: I think you're confused by one. There's always somebody you

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Speaker 1: like better though, That's what I was trying to say. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: You might like the attention from one, you know what

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Speaker 1: Does that make sense?

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Speaker 2: I can understand you can I build the perfect person,

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Speaker 3: A couple people to build that perfect thing, right? Is

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: No, it was just a situation and I didn't mean to,

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Speaker 2: and you broke somebody's heart, did And sometimes when that happens,

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Speaker 4: Well, I knew when I ended the situation, the affair situation,

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Speaker 4: just had unresolved feelings, you know, and I had to

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Speaker 1: Really had to figure that out and heal from that situation.

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Speaker 5: Was it something that you wasn't getting in that relationship

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Speaker 1: Nothing to do with had everything to do with me? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: You too will take accountability for the stop.

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Speaker 1: But you also got some awest.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 1: First of all, you have Vince on here now.

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Speaker 2: I find that's so funny with you and your ex husband,

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Speaker 1: That's how we are in real life. That is, did

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Speaker 4: Well, he has an amazing girlfriend. I think he did

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Speaker 4: it this time. Okay, that he really like slam dunkd

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Speaker 1: That's dope. I love that.

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Speaker 2: Could you ever have seen yourself in this space back then?

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Speaker 1: Break up with somebody. It's dramatic, it's awful.

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Speaker 2: You can't even picture yourself ever being in a space

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we know, Vinsent, our situation was a little bit

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Speaker 3: Was real friendship.

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Speaker 1: Does that make sense? Yeah, that's crazy.

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Speaker 2: They you know, I was reading this stat They said,

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Speaker 1: How are you a couple?

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, are you married now?

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Speaker 1: Okay, he's trying to get married you're engaged? No, he's not.

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Speaker 5: He once again made okay without the broad but it's

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Speaker 3: Sometimes you got to manifest things. You got to put

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Speaker 2: What are some red flags if you have to say,

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Speaker 4: Someone who's not accountable, someone who don't know how to communicate. Okay,

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Speaker 2: You know, Vince was saying something that was interesting. He

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Speaker 1: To be you. What this is crazy, but he's been

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Speaker 4: When you're dating somebody like us, it is it's easy

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Speaker 2: Now, learning from your past, miss, I wouldn't say mistakes,

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Speaker 1: You You've spoken to I really want it, and I

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Speaker 4: And I'm ready now because I fully healed from everything,

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Speaker 1: How do you heal? Girl? Therapy? Real therapy, real therapy,

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Speaker 5: I respect that, Yeah, I respect that. I respect that

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but a lot of people are addicted to their

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I always look at you like you have

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Speaker 2: But social media everybody wanting to weigh in on things

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, which is why my next situation will

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Speaker 2: Okay, you just won't be letting you into your life, like,

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Speaker 1: This liquid BBL. Yeah, the first time I ever heard

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Speaker 4: Practice I got it, So what happens. So it's like

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Speaker 3: You ever thought about getting a real BB no?

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Speaker 1: Why? Oh, thank you, thank you, thank you. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I didn't know that getting an augmentation would change so

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Speaker 4: You know, kind of like enhance things for the better

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm just wondering because I know, you know, I mean,

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Speaker 1: You've always been.

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Speaker 2: So I just wondered if there was like a moment

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Speaker 4: Yeah, let me just be my best, the best version

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Speaker 2: Now, I want to ask you about one of my

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Speaker 4: Thank you, thank you so chick can I you know

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Speaker 4: And I'm just so grateful for him because we've been

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Speaker 4: The biggest thing that I've learned is I used to

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Speaker 5: You'll ever find a space or ever be in a

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Speaker 3: Again, I don't know what that means.

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Speaker 4: I give one hundred percent when I fully truly love

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Speaker 1: I need a percentage of me to maintain. Okay, I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's like ten percent of like just for me,

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Speaker 4: Gotta be and the people not coming to the table,

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Speaker 4: not even fifty percent. Now you know, the people are

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Speaker 4: Like I I had to get myself out of a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know, it's hard because everyone knows who

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Speaker 1: Like you said, they.

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Speaker 2: Wouldn't be well not you said, Vince said, yeah, like

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Speaker 2: Vin said, Now we another than you did in this movie.

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Speaker 1: And y'all got to watch my guy, Julia. I love him.

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Speaker 1: I love him too. He's so attracted it. It shouldn't

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Speaker 3: Wrote it, though I did. You wrote that dialogue. It

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Speaker 1: Which part because let's get into it. I can't wait.

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Speaker 3: I was like, you got to stop playing with me.

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Speaker 5: You sucking that nigga didn't kiss and kiss on me

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Speaker 5: after you suck that nigga did?

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Speaker 1: Like that party?

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Speaker 5: He still like that was crazy that that was you

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Speaker 1: No, he wrote that party.

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Speaker 3: He wrote that.

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Speaker 4: Well, let me tell you it was a very important

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Speaker 1: Okay, so we.

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Speaker 4: Hear all about women all the time. When the woman

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Speaker 3: I get done, I get done.

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Speaker 1: Done, And it was him being done being done. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you get it.

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Speaker 3: I get it. Yeah. I wasn't. I wasn't ready for it.

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Speaker 2: Because we you know what it is when you see

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Speaker 1: It's a great actor. Yeah. I was like what is he?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, I mean both of them are amazing.

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Speaker 4: And when he heard love Me, he was just like,

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Speaker 4: I don't know, the character just like really jumped inside

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, And so I was just like, wow, he

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Speaker 1: did that. Yeah, he had some things. He was like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: You know, it's interesting, You're right though, because a lot

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Speaker 1: I feel like men don't want to know when women cheat. Well, yes,

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Speaker 4: So the part of the film where Medc's takes my phone,

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Speaker 2: Somebody really took your phone and went through it and

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Speaker 3: Also you that, oh I like her honesty.

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Speaker 2: You the greatest, greatest shift the woman ever told you that.

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Speaker 5: Absolutely, I mean you're the shift, like absolutely, one hundred percent.

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Speaker 3: But listen, here's my question. Sound listening.

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Speaker 5: Is this though, for a man to read that about

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Speaker 1: Man, you can't come back from that.

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Speaker 3: He might not ever come back from that.

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying he might be so that all

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I ain't shifted. I'm not a shifter. I'm not

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Speaker 1: When really, and when really, I was just popping ship.

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Speaker 3: Right, I get it.

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Speaker 1: You were just talking and I was in my masculine

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Speaker 3: Just basically like, yo, I had a good time. Right,

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Speaker 1: Felt that's why I had so much grief around the situation.

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Speaker 3: Did you tell him that like you shifted me? Did

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Speaker 2: Something like that, because that's the worst when you said

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Speaker 4: I don't know, but when I was in that energy,

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Speaker 4: it gave very much. I could have said anything to

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I love you. I love your honesty, man.

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Speaker 2: Because you know, a lot of times we see men

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Speaker 1: Like talked about.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And that's why it was so important to me

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Speaker 2: What this guy and was like, I saw your project.

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Speaker 2: And so back to what if he said, I don't

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Speaker 2: I'm too heeled, Okay.

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Speaker 2: I'm not mad at that hell for something yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: Were you in your head thinking like, Okay, this is

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Speaker 1: No, okay.

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Speaker 4: I was pissed about it because I didn't want people

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Speaker 1: Their head and which you understand what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: It's very disappointing because I just feel like we need

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Speaker 4: And the truth is, we learned how to do it

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Speaker 1: We that's why we are the way we are.

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Speaker 4: And then we're the bag holders now and so now

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Speaker 2: That's been don't really connect it to like emotions or

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Speaker 5: I feel like men and women men are not being

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Speaker 1: So many need to answer the question, what's the problem?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, dioalasists after that, it's crazy, like in a wheelchair,

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Speaker 3: What he did a better job than me.

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Speaker 5: You gotta understand the man as we we ego, we

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Speaker 3: So if you take that from me, it's like, oh

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00:20:24,320 --> 00:20:26,800
Speaker 3: my god, Like I couldn't.

450
00:20:26,800 --> 00:20:29,639
Speaker 5: I couldn't forgive that. That's that's like the impossible. I

451
00:20:29,640 --> 00:20:32,200
Speaker 5: could never go past that. I could never get past

452
00:20:32,240 --> 00:20:33,560
Speaker 5: that impossible.

453
00:20:34,040 --> 00:20:35,520
Speaker 1: Es what if you teat it first?

454
00:20:36,680 --> 00:20:40,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, but the graphicness of you that text, I think

455
00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:45,000
Speaker 5: it's like even though we know not, it's just you're

456
00:20:45,080 --> 00:20:46,840
Speaker 5: saying you're having a good time, but you bragg into

457
00:20:46,880 --> 00:20:47,480
Speaker 5: your friends.

458
00:20:47,640 --> 00:20:49,000
Speaker 3: You're in a group chat.

459
00:20:49,280 --> 00:20:52,040
Speaker 5: I like to make the group chats, right, I like

460
00:20:52,119 --> 00:20:55,960
Speaker 5: to be a positive experience in a group chats.

461
00:20:56,000 --> 00:20:58,159
Speaker 3: So when you when you say that, reading that is

462
00:20:58,440 --> 00:20:59,280
Speaker 3: really horrifying.

463
00:20:59,520 --> 00:21:01,800
Speaker 1: What's the cheating that's been done to you?

464
00:21:01,800 --> 00:21:03,679
Speaker 3: No, I'm usually the cheaty?

465
00:21:04,240 --> 00:21:06,520
Speaker 1: What's the cheater? Cheaty?

466
00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:08,000
Speaker 3: I'm who they come to see.

467
00:21:08,119 --> 00:21:08,680
Speaker 1: What's your sign?

468
00:21:08,720 --> 00:21:12,760
Speaker 3: I'm a virgo. I'm sorry this one. I'm sorry. I apologize.

469
00:21:12,760 --> 00:21:16,120
Speaker 3: I'm but I'm usually who they come to see.

470
00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:18,520
Speaker 1: What is it about you? And Leo's.

471
00:21:20,359 --> 00:21:23,040
Speaker 4: Really well, Leo, females and males are two different things.

472
00:21:23,920 --> 00:21:27,680
Speaker 4: I just find that male leos have has the biggest ego.

473
00:21:28,280 --> 00:21:29,000
Speaker 1: And it wasn't just.

474
00:21:28,960 --> 00:21:32,840
Speaker 4: About or about a leo, but the sign of a

475
00:21:32,920 --> 00:21:34,280
Speaker 4: leo and the ego of a man.

476
00:21:34,400 --> 00:21:36,760
Speaker 1: That's what really. Leos have the biggest egos and the

477
00:21:36,800 --> 00:21:38,840
Speaker 1: biggest I don't know.

478
00:21:42,119 --> 00:21:45,200
Speaker 3: Those guys both both Well, Leo's okay.

479
00:21:44,920 --> 00:21:48,680
Speaker 2: Okay, and you're also doing a part two? Yes, all right,

480
00:21:48,760 --> 00:21:50,840
Speaker 2: So what's what's gonna be happening? Can you give us

481
00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:52,879
Speaker 2: a little sneak peek into what's happening and we have.

482
00:21:52,960 --> 00:21:55,280
Speaker 1: The very beginning stages of writing for it.

483
00:21:56,720 --> 00:21:59,639
Speaker 4: But it's nothing about heartbreak because that'll never happen to

484
00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:00,000
Speaker 4: me again.

485
00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:03,600
Speaker 1: Okay, so this is the healed, this is Yeah, you

486
00:22:03,640 --> 00:22:04,679
Speaker 1: know what I want to ask you to.

487
00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:08,159
Speaker 2: I remember you had talked about being celibates for a

488
00:22:08,160 --> 00:22:09,680
Speaker 2: period of time. You said you're going to be celibate

489
00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:10,880
Speaker 2: till Logan turns eighteen.

490
00:22:11,080 --> 00:22:13,320
Speaker 4: I said I wasn't gonna seriously date nobody to turn

491
00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:15,359
Speaker 4: I was celebrated.

492
00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:17,440
Speaker 1: Yes, what did that do for you?

493
00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:20,119
Speaker 2: Because people always talk about why they were celibrated and

494
00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:21,080
Speaker 2: how it cleared there.

495
00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:23,639
Speaker 1: That was not a spiritual journey. It just was a

496
00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:24,400
Speaker 1: situation that.

497
00:22:24,359 --> 00:22:38,240
Speaker 4: I wasn't dating nobody. That's just what it was.

498
00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:42,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, But was there any like but did you feel

499
00:22:42,960 --> 00:22:46,119
Speaker 2: like you were more productive? Because sometimes not dealing with

500
00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:47,600
Speaker 2: somebody does make you be.

501
00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:49,000
Speaker 3: Like a little bit more focused.

502
00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:52,760
Speaker 4: I'm kind of always in my bag or in my business.

503
00:22:53,680 --> 00:22:56,400
Speaker 4: It just really truly was I wasn't dating anybody.

504
00:22:56,880 --> 00:22:59,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it was just it just it just.

505
00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:04,920
Speaker 4: Was like a dry period that the universe gave me. Yeah,

506
00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:07,280
Speaker 4: you know, yeah, yeah.

507
00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:09,760
Speaker 2: And then so let's talk more about things that you

508
00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:14,560
Speaker 2: discussed in the Heartbreak retrograde movie. Like you said, we

509
00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:18,560
Speaker 2: saw the whole situation where you know, you showed up

510
00:23:19,160 --> 00:23:21,760
Speaker 2: at your ex's house to spend the block. So that

511
00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:23,720
Speaker 2: was a real thing that happened, and when you popped

512
00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:25,879
Speaker 2: up in the middle of the night four am, maybe

513
00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:30,240
Speaker 2: it was well sort of okay, Okay, it's based on

514
00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:31,760
Speaker 2: a true story, you know what I mean.

515
00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:35,000
Speaker 4: I just wanted to tell the story as simple and

516
00:23:35,040 --> 00:23:36,880
Speaker 4: as detailed as I could, you know what I mean.

517
00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:40,400
Speaker 1: But not just about everything that happened.

518
00:23:40,280 --> 00:23:44,960
Speaker 4: But some things that can happen or yeah, because we're

519
00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:46,760
Speaker 4: creeping so everybody.

520
00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:48,000
Speaker 3: I like it.

521
00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:51,280
Speaker 2: That's my second favorite sife. Yeah, I had to put

522
00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:53,919
Speaker 2: them in order as I really. Yeah, I'm glad you

523
00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:58,439
Speaker 2: like it, you know, Tamar, aside from like and you

524
00:23:58,480 --> 00:24:01,320
Speaker 2: have so many different jobs too, it's been a while

525
00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:02,640
Speaker 2: since you've put out a project.

526
00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:04,800
Speaker 1: Yes as well. What was the.

527
00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:06,919
Speaker 2: Delay for I feel like you get so like you

528
00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:08,840
Speaker 2: have this going on, you're filming, and I know that

529
00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:09,840
Speaker 2: wasn't easy for you.

530
00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:10,399
Speaker 1: Yeah.

531
00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:15,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, this season of the Bracstons was a lot for everyone.

532
00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:16,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you want to know why.

533
00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:18,359
Speaker 4: I think it was a lot for everyone, not just

534
00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:20,680
Speaker 4: because people are not used to seeing us that way.

535
00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:23,680
Speaker 1: I think that a lot of people mirror their families.

536
00:24:24,119 --> 00:24:26,720
Speaker 2: I was just talking about Oprah discussing I don't know

537
00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:29,520
Speaker 2: if you saw when she was talking about the kind

538
00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:32,280
Speaker 2: of like taking a break from your families and setting

539
00:24:32,359 --> 00:24:34,679
Speaker 2: those boundaries for the holidays and stuff.

540
00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:36,080
Speaker 1: I didn't see her, but I understand.

541
00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:39,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's a real thing, like family estrangement and

542
00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:42,119
Speaker 2: holiday time too, is the time when it gets really stressful.

543
00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:46,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, but not all of us are like in that space, right.

544
00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:51,960
Speaker 4: I think that everybody is at some point comfortable going

545
00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:55,240
Speaker 4: into their corner and healing in their own way and

546
00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:58,800
Speaker 4: coming back around to the family when it's time.

547
00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:01,600
Speaker 2: It felt like this was the It was explosive, ever though,

548
00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:05,439
Speaker 2: like we've never seen you guys physically like get into it. Yeah,

549
00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:07,960
Speaker 2: and so I know for you and for everybody, it

550
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:09,800
Speaker 2: felt like, oh my god, I can't believe this is

551
00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:10,879
Speaker 2: It was so heavy.

552
00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:14,399
Speaker 4: It never ever happened on or off camera before. We

553
00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:17,600
Speaker 4: just never got that close to being physical. My first

554
00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:19,680
Speaker 4: of all, mother growing up would not allow it.

555
00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:22,280
Speaker 1: But you know I am.

556
00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:25,919
Speaker 4: I mean, I knew Tony Brackson was gangsta, but she

557
00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:29,280
Speaker 4: was ready to go down and shit like five too.

558
00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:30,040
Speaker 4: I'm five eight.

559
00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:32,400
Speaker 1: I've never seen I would never think to see her

560
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:33,000
Speaker 1: get that mad.

561
00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:38,240
Speaker 4: I just think that too much was discussed right, yeah,

562
00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:39,760
Speaker 4: at the table.

563
00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:43,639
Speaker 2: And I'm sure that the network was like yes, because

564
00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:45,399
Speaker 2: you know that's how they feel when things happen.

565
00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:48,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it gets explosive. How much control do you guys.

566
00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:54,919
Speaker 4: Have over although I'm executive producer and it's through my

567
00:25:55,040 --> 00:26:01,639
Speaker 4: company Partial, I disengaged after that episode, which was the second.

568
00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:07,400
Speaker 1: Film, so then you guys have to keep on. I didn't.

569
00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:12,439
Speaker 4: I didn't, but we went on a What was important

570
00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:15,760
Speaker 4: for me was to show some kind of resolve, right,

571
00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:17,560
Speaker 4: and so I.

572
00:26:17,520 --> 00:26:19,520
Speaker 1: Orchestrated a retreat.

573
00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:21,960
Speaker 4: It says, yeah, that three of us went on it

574
00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:24,480
Speaker 4: and that made things much better.

575
00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:26,000
Speaker 1: Well, that's good, I think.

576
00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:28,840
Speaker 2: As much as it's awful that this happened, it also

577
00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:30,040
Speaker 2: is relatable, man.

578
00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:31,120
Speaker 1: And that's the thing.

579
00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:33,480
Speaker 2: Sometimes you have to look at it like we're going

580
00:26:33,520 --> 00:26:35,879
Speaker 2: through this, but you know how many families go through.

581
00:26:36,560 --> 00:26:39,000
Speaker 1: Literally it took a lot.

582
00:26:38,800 --> 00:26:42,160
Speaker 5: Of courage though, in strength to put all your stuff

583
00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:44,399
Speaker 5: out there and then for people to know that and

584
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:46,960
Speaker 5: then walk around and knowing that the world knows that.

585
00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:51,719
Speaker 4: Well, it's not a lot of shame in my real life, right.

586
00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:54,960
Speaker 4: And so of course there's a lot of things that

587
00:26:55,160 --> 00:27:00,200
Speaker 4: you know, publicly didn't want to divulge because there's other

588
00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:06,480
Speaker 4: people involved, right, and other other people meaning like my

589
00:27:06,600 --> 00:27:08,040
Speaker 4: nieces and nephews.

590
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:09,480
Speaker 1: Do you understand what I'm saying.

591
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:13,600
Speaker 4: And so although me and my sisters go through what

592
00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:16,359
Speaker 4: we go through as sisters, the kids are still very

593
00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:20,960
Speaker 4: very close to us, right, And mine is the youngest,

594
00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:26,720
Speaker 4: and mine becomes the most affected because my nieces and

595
00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:30,560
Speaker 4: nephews are older and they have experienced some sort of life, right,

596
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:33,600
Speaker 4: And mine is only twelve and doesn't have any siblings,

597
00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:36,040
Speaker 4: and so when he looks at it is given very much.

598
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:38,240
Speaker 4: Why are you and my auntie's fighting?

599
00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:39,640
Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

600
00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:45,120
Speaker 4: And that's the part for me is embarrassing because now

601
00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:49,520
Speaker 4: I have to explain, and also the embarrassment of my

602
00:27:49,600 --> 00:27:53,440
Speaker 4: mother because I can't imagine my mother having to watch

603
00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:58,240
Speaker 4: her daughters go through be like that on national TV.

604
00:27:58,640 --> 00:28:03,800
Speaker 4: Although I'm gonna say this, although it was.

605
00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:07,240
Speaker 2: Very necessary, right, Yeah, you know, you guys did fix

606
00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:09,840
Speaker 2: my life a long time ago could.

607
00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:13,480
Speaker 1: Do That was terrible. Yeah, that was terrible too. Oh

608
00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:15,480
Speaker 1: my god, that was terrible. Too. Too much came out

609
00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:17,120
Speaker 1: then too, you know.

610
00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:20,359
Speaker 2: But I feel like that's part of what people relate

611
00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:23,200
Speaker 2: to you for, Like when too much comes out, it's

612
00:28:23,240 --> 00:28:26,080
Speaker 2: also things that other people wouldn't ever really put out

613
00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:27,280
Speaker 2: there like that, And you know.

614
00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:31,480
Speaker 4: What something I think it sparked different conversations in people's

615
00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:38,240
Speaker 4: families that needed to be talked about, right, And I

616
00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:40,920
Speaker 4: don't know, I just don't feel like it was all bad.

617
00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:43,720
Speaker 4: I feel like, you know, everything works together for the good.

618
00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:46,560
Speaker 2: I also feel like a lot of people put things

619
00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:48,160
Speaker 2: on you that you have nothing to do with, Like

620
00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:50,400
Speaker 2: when they kept saying that you and burnt Man and

621
00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:50,960
Speaker 2: why was she?

622
00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:52,640
Speaker 1: You know, how did I become a whole?

623
00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:53,600
Speaker 2: Like what.

624
00:28:57,800 --> 00:28:58,880
Speaker 1: In a relationship?

625
00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:02,320
Speaker 4: You know what I means? Ever heard me sporadic date anybody?

626
00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:03,880
Speaker 4: Because that's just not who I am?

627
00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:06,600
Speaker 1: Right, And like the whole Brian thing for me, it

628
00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:10,120
Speaker 1: was very weird because I've never dated him.

629
00:29:10,120 --> 00:29:13,280
Speaker 4: I don't know who started that, Okay, I introduced Yeah,

630
00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:16,239
Speaker 4: you introduced Tony and Brian like, and he was very

631
00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:17,960
Speaker 4: serious about her from day one.

632
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:20,360
Speaker 2: People were so shocked, I want to say. When they

633
00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:24,080
Speaker 2: found that out, it was like, it's mad random.

634
00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:27,000
Speaker 1: Even to this day, it's still like it's not random.

635
00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:30,840
Speaker 3: I don't feel like that. It's not random. I like

636
00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:31,600
Speaker 3: love like that.

637
00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:34,120
Speaker 5: It's like, you got this image of this woman and

638
00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:36,800
Speaker 5: it's a classy. Then you've got the street guy that's

639
00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:38,760
Speaker 5: or proceed to be the street guy. But they meet

640
00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:40,600
Speaker 5: and they got a lot in comic.

641
00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:43,800
Speaker 1: Get that from Tony Presson is a Libra? Like what

642
00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:45,760
Speaker 1: are you talking about? Like Cardi b is a Libra?

643
00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:51,280
Speaker 4: So they okay, get it, but her image image, but

644
00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:53,240
Speaker 4: the image is not the real person.

645
00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:54,600
Speaker 3: Got it. You get what I'm saying.

646
00:29:54,880 --> 00:30:00,960
Speaker 1: So they're not far apart from the spectral mia talk

647
00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:02,480
Speaker 1: to each other. Baby.

648
00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:04,680
Speaker 4: Just see how gangs to Tony Brexley when she got up.

649
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:06,560
Speaker 4: Do you think she like you think that just came

650
00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:07,680
Speaker 4: last week?

651
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:09,560
Speaker 2: I don't see when she's sitting there about to lose

652
00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:10,880
Speaker 2: her temper too, and she be like.

653
00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:12,840
Speaker 1: She said no with Tony brexit on my heavyweight.

654
00:30:12,880 --> 00:30:18,280
Speaker 2: I don't know how does a regular guy approach you?

655
00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:18,440
Speaker 5: Like?

656
00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:21,640
Speaker 1: How does that happen? Because you said you like regular guys, right,

657
00:30:21,760 --> 00:30:22,520
Speaker 1: and something.

658
00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:24,920
Speaker 3: That I did, you're not showing them wrong.

659
00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:28,360
Speaker 5: You need this ship like like a like a construction

660
00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:32,080
Speaker 5: work or something, right, come in after hard days work.

661
00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:37,760
Speaker 4: Not not that there's anything wrong with that, right, but

662
00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:39,840
Speaker 4: I am tired of explaining my life.

663
00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:43,200
Speaker 1: I don't want to explain why.

664
00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:45,360
Speaker 3: And then this nigga turns into a whole.

665
00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:47,200
Speaker 4: I don't want I'm not explaining why I got ahead

666
00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:51,760
Speaker 4: at bag right, right, you know that much, I'm not

667
00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:52,240
Speaker 4: explaining that.

668
00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:54,440
Speaker 2: I feel like you need like a VC fun person

669
00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:55,440
Speaker 2: or something like that.

670
00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 3: VC. What's that like?

671
00:30:56,880 --> 00:30:57,840
Speaker 1: Venture capitalists?

672
00:30:57,920 --> 00:30:59,880
Speaker 2: You know somebody that makes a lot of money heads

673
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:02,160
Speaker 2: and you know kind of like that.

674
00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:04,920
Speaker 1: I see you because look I see that too. Yeah,

675
00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:06,760
Speaker 1: I see that's for you see that.

676
00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:10,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, somebody that is like, Okay, let me show you something.

677
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:12,800
Speaker 2: You understand me something, Thank you, because if everybody is

678
00:31:12,840 --> 00:31:15,400
Speaker 2: trying to turn into you, you need somebody that's gonna

679
00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:18,720
Speaker 2: make you aspire to the world of different.

680
00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:20,640
Speaker 3: World of the lost. She's a preacher.

681
00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:22,520
Speaker 1: I need to learn.

682
00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:30,240
Speaker 2: She can't just be Oh my god, yes, so we

683
00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:33,240
Speaker 2: got a manifest They got a manifest unless.

684
00:31:32,960 --> 00:31:35,320
Speaker 1: You have somebody now now I'm actually not dating at

685
00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:38,400
Speaker 1: all at all. Okay, I don't have a rostapasta. I

686
00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:42,520
Speaker 1: need one roster. Oh my god, you know, a little

687
00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:44,000
Speaker 1: rosta don't hurt nobody.

688
00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:46,520
Speaker 2: You mentioned Cardi b being a Libra, and that's somebody

689
00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:48,600
Speaker 2: you said she needs to teach a Harvard course. I

690
00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:51,160
Speaker 2: think all libra females. Yes, I love that. My mom's

691
00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:54,240
Speaker 2: a Libra. Okay, my best friend's a Libra, my brother's

692
00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:56,800
Speaker 2: a Libra. But yeah, so I love that.

693
00:31:56,720 --> 00:32:01,320
Speaker 4: For you for I'm really really smart though, well they're

694
00:32:01,640 --> 00:32:04,360
Speaker 4: really emotional, but calculated emotional.

695
00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:06,560
Speaker 2: I'm trying to think, you know what that's to my

696
00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:09,240
Speaker 2: best friend, I would say she's super creative. And will

697
00:32:09,320 --> 00:32:11,719
Speaker 2: decide like she randomly wants to do something and go

698
00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:13,040
Speaker 2: out and do it and make it happen. And she

699
00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:15,520
Speaker 2: has a lot of knowledge about weird things. I'm like,

700
00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:18,640
Speaker 2: why do you even know that random? Yeah, yeah, that's

701
00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:25,360
Speaker 2: Tony Broxton too. Now Bridezilla's yes, you're also the voice now, Bridezilla.

702
00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:25,479
Speaker 1: I am.

703
00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:28,800
Speaker 2: What kind of bride were you when you had the time?

704
00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:32,240
Speaker 2: That's the first time, because I was, you know, the

705
00:32:32,320 --> 00:32:33,400
Speaker 2: first go around.

706
00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:38,080
Speaker 4: The first go around, I was, I wasn't a Brazil

707
00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:39,960
Speaker 4: was very very chill.

708
00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:42,040
Speaker 1: Well, my parents.

709
00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:45,560
Speaker 4: Were divorced and so they kind of took sent a

710
00:32:45,640 --> 00:32:48,400
Speaker 4: stage of the weddings, okay, because we were trying to

711
00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:50,080
Speaker 4: keep them happy.

712
00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:53,640
Speaker 2: And then and then with Vince, that was another level.

713
00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:56,040
Speaker 2: Then you guys were friends for so long, and.

714
00:32:57,400 --> 00:32:59,600
Speaker 1: I was talking about Vince. I was talking about something

715
00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:01,120
Speaker 1: that we talk about, Okay, my bad.

716
00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:05,240
Speaker 2: Well you said how many and so that was that

717
00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:09,480
Speaker 2: you have my bad and then you actually did marry

718
00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:11,760
Speaker 2: again after that?

719
00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 1: How long did that last? I'm really grateful for the

720
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:18,520
Speaker 1: time that I spend with you. Are so good.

721
00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:22,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm really really really grateful about no, really about

722
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:25,040
Speaker 4: the experiences that I've had in my relationships.

723
00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:27,400
Speaker 1: I really really am okay. That's good. You know.

724
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:29,840
Speaker 2: I feel like whatever doesn't break us just builds us

725
00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:30,760
Speaker 2: up even more.

726
00:33:30,840 --> 00:33:33,680
Speaker 1: So much, ye, so much. And I'm really I'm grateful.

727
00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:37,720
Speaker 1: I really am grateful because I'm not enemies with any

728
00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:40,480
Speaker 1: of them. That's good. You still speak to everybody.

729
00:33:42,320 --> 00:33:44,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know i'd be married on my third you know,

730
00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:47,360
Speaker 2: marriage by now, but really I haven't done it at all.

731
00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:48,040
Speaker 1: Are you ready?

732
00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:49,640
Speaker 2: I don't know.

733
00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:50,440
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest.

734
00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:54,600
Speaker 2: I think not seeing too many successful marriages has made

735
00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:59,120
Speaker 2: me not really want to think about that, Like, would

736
00:33:59,120 --> 00:33:59,480
Speaker 2: I do it?

737
00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:01,960
Speaker 1: Yes? But am I like? I can't wait. I'm okay

738
00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 1: with like forever just being with somebody. Yeah, I think

739
00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:09,319
Speaker 1: I am too. Mh. I'm ready for my partner though. Yeah,

740
00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:10,399
Speaker 1: I'm definitely ready.

741
00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:13,200
Speaker 5: It doesn't have to be an actual marriage, but a

742
00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:16,120
Speaker 5: union of souls.

743
00:34:16,200 --> 00:34:20,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, because that's really what matters, right. I want somebody

744
00:34:20,080 --> 00:34:21,400
Speaker 4: to be in my life voluntarily.

745
00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:23,399
Speaker 1: Yes, that's what you want.

746
00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:26,120
Speaker 2: Somebody that voluntarily once they hit you, I mean, not

747
00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:28,759
Speaker 2: hit you like that, but wants to text you, call

748
00:34:28,840 --> 00:34:32,240
Speaker 2: you every day, come home every night, messes you special

749
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:32,719
Speaker 2: little thing.

750
00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:34,239
Speaker 1: And when you're ready to go. I need you to go.

751
00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:36,479
Speaker 3: What what that means?

752
00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:39,640
Speaker 1: That means when you're ready to go, you can leave now. Okay,

753
00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:41,720
Speaker 1: you don't have to wait for a piece of paper.

754
00:34:42,120 --> 00:34:44,400
Speaker 1: We don't have to go about permanently.

755
00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:45,480
Speaker 3: I'm talking about permanently.

756
00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:50,959
Speaker 4: If you don't want to go, then I'm going because

757
00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:52,960
Speaker 4: I'm not going to waste his time or mind, you

758
00:34:53,000 --> 00:34:54,359
Speaker 4: know what I mean. But I believe that the next

759
00:34:54,360 --> 00:34:56,560
Speaker 4: person that I get with, I'm gonna be with forever.

760
00:34:56,800 --> 00:34:59,799
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, that's good, and you gotta sometimes stick it through.

761
00:34:59,840 --> 00:35:01,280
Speaker 2: That's the other thing about relationship.

762
00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:02,959
Speaker 1: I believe in that.

763
00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:05,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, because you know some I can't stay when people

764
00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:07,080
Speaker 2: break up all the time and get back together like

765
00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:09,640
Speaker 2: every other day. But that's relationships, though. But I don't

766
00:35:09,640 --> 00:35:11,640
Speaker 2: think you need to break up. I think you if

767
00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:14,359
Speaker 2: you know you're in an argument, this is how I am. Yeah,

768
00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:15,799
Speaker 2: I know we're in an argument right now and we're

769
00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:16,399
Speaker 2: gonna be fine.

770
00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:19,000
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, that's how I look at it. That's great security.

771
00:35:19,400 --> 00:35:19,600
Speaker 3: Yeah.

772
00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:23,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what's your sign? I'm a Capricorn. Oh,

773
00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:25,839
Speaker 1: I love a Capricorn. My mom's a Capricorn.

774
00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:32,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love very chill you guys, are relationships. No, sister,

775
00:35:32,719 --> 00:35:35,439
Speaker 2: you said we're not easy in relationships. No, I think

776
00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:37,160
Speaker 2: I'm pretty I'm pretty easy.

777
00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:47,840
Speaker 4: Why you say that, Well, Capricorn females love themselves first, wholeheartedly.

778
00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:50,120
Speaker 2: You gotta put my oxygen mask on first before I

779
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:54,279
Speaker 2: say you're the dig and so you know, when you're

780
00:35:54,360 --> 00:35:56,640
Speaker 2: deeply invested in a relationship.

781
00:35:56,760 --> 00:35:59,560
Speaker 4: It can't always be like that, but it's always like

782
00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:03,640
Speaker 4: that with female Capricorns, which is not a character farts false.

783
00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:06,279
Speaker 1: Just who you guys are and what you're saying.

784
00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:08,920
Speaker 2: I'm a Pisces, Okay, I don't know a lot about

785
00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:12,640
Speaker 2: a female pisces, which is different than the male. We

786
00:36:12,680 --> 00:36:15,880
Speaker 2: don't date male pisces. They're not for dating. Okay, I

787
00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:16,440
Speaker 2: don't think so.

788
00:36:16,600 --> 00:36:22,560
Speaker 1: Well, so what are your characteristics? I don't know. You

789
00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:28,600
Speaker 1: don't play about yourself yours. I'm really really honest.

790
00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:34,120
Speaker 4: I love love and I could go deep, and that's

791
00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:35,560
Speaker 4: why I have to be very careful. That's why I

792
00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:37,839
Speaker 4: said I'm not giving one hundred percent of myself right.

793
00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:42,360
Speaker 4: And we are loyal to a fault?

794
00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:44,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Capricains are loyal to Yeah.

795
00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:48,120
Speaker 4: Yes, you guys are. Yes, you guys are. And I'm

796
00:36:48,200 --> 00:36:51,360
Speaker 4: very very very very intuitive. You guys are too, are

797
00:36:51,640 --> 00:36:51,840
Speaker 4: you know?

798
00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:55,720
Speaker 2: I was thinking about also in the Heartbreak Retrograde movie

799
00:36:56,239 --> 00:36:58,800
Speaker 2: how Vince was saying, how because it feels like he

800
00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:00,600
Speaker 2: thinks you quickly all in love?

801
00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:03,839
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, that's that's a price.

802
00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:05,799
Speaker 3: We in love?

803
00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:08,800
Speaker 1: Three days? Many you think you've been in love? Of course?

804
00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:10,680
Speaker 1: How many times? Of course?

805
00:37:13,040 --> 00:37:13,360
Speaker 3: Once?

806
00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:14,640
Speaker 1: Okay?

807
00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:15,200
Speaker 3: Just wow?

808
00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:18,440
Speaker 1: Okay? Which one you said? Once or three times?

809
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:19,560
Speaker 3: Yeah? Once so three?

810
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:27,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, once so three. I'm in love every time. But

811
00:37:27,200 --> 00:37:30,880
Speaker 1: you know what that means. Falling out of love is tough. Yeah,

812
00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:33,000
Speaker 1: when you fall And is it really love if you

813
00:37:33,040 --> 00:37:33,799
Speaker 1: could fall in love?

814
00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:35,440
Speaker 2: And I agree with what he said too, Is it

815
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:37,560
Speaker 2: really love if you can fall in love that fast?

816
00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:41,120
Speaker 1: Or is it just that honeymoon phase lust? For me,

817
00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:45,720
Speaker 1: it was one hundred percent real, really a hundred percent.

818
00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:48,680
Speaker 1: So do you believe in love at first sight? I

819
00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:52,040
Speaker 1: believe in our strong connection at first sight?

820
00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:55,919
Speaker 5: Yeah, that can happen, yeah sometimes, But love love?

821
00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:58,760
Speaker 3: Love is love really unconditional?

822
00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:08,759
Speaker 1: It's love unconditional. I'm gonna say yes, and let me

823
00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:10,719
Speaker 1: tell you why.

824
00:38:10,040 --> 00:38:13,880
Speaker 4: Because if I truly love you, I have to accept

825
00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:18,200
Speaker 4: everything about you, and that's unconditional and so let me

826
00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:19,799
Speaker 4: just tell you this. So let's just say you and

827
00:38:19,840 --> 00:38:23,600
Speaker 4: I are together, right, and I know that you like

828
00:38:23,640 --> 00:38:30,680
Speaker 4: women and you like variety of women. If I really

829
00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:33,319
Speaker 4: truly love you, I have to accept that about you.

830
00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:36,120
Speaker 1: I feel like you just described into it.

831
00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:40,399
Speaker 4: Just how to accept it until you're ready to change,

832
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:45,399
Speaker 4: until you're ready enough, Okay, But if I really love you,

833
00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:48,120
Speaker 4: I have to accept that about this person.

834
00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:50,040
Speaker 1: You as Ben's when do men stop hon around?

835
00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:54,000
Speaker 2: And because you know, some people think once a man

836
00:38:54,120 --> 00:38:56,800
Speaker 2: is this way, always this way, but you do feel

837
00:38:56,840 --> 00:38:58,960
Speaker 2: like when the right way and he said this, when

838
00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:00,279
Speaker 2: the right woman comes alone.

839
00:39:00,600 --> 00:39:02,000
Speaker 3: He's gonna make an effort to change.

840
00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:02,879
Speaker 1: Is that true?

841
00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:05,000
Speaker 3: He's going I think I think he'll make the effort.

842
00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:06,000
Speaker 1: Who's he I'm talking about?

843
00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:08,719
Speaker 3: Man? Is he right?

844
00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:11,480
Speaker 5: If the right woman comes along? I think he'll make

845
00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:15,279
Speaker 5: that effort absolutely. You know, whether he struggles and he

846
00:39:15,360 --> 00:39:17,440
Speaker 5: hits his head a few times, but he's going to

847
00:39:17,520 --> 00:39:19,520
Speaker 5: make a better effort than he was doing in the past.

848
00:39:19,560 --> 00:39:22,160
Speaker 2: What if a man told you we could be together?

849
00:39:22,239 --> 00:39:24,200
Speaker 2: But I do want to have an open relationship.

850
00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:28,400
Speaker 1: That's not for me, okay, but I respect it.

851
00:39:28,400 --> 00:39:30,040
Speaker 3: It's really nice. Respect.

852
00:39:30,239 --> 00:39:32,440
Speaker 5: I think is important though, And I think this is

853
00:39:32,440 --> 00:39:34,560
Speaker 5: where we go wrong at I'm not honest.

854
00:39:35,239 --> 00:39:37,200
Speaker 1: When we don't accept everything about that person.

855
00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:39,040
Speaker 5: Right, But whether you accept it or not, at least

856
00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:41,759
Speaker 5: I gave you that. I gave you your freedom by being.

857
00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:42,279
Speaker 3: Honest with you.

858
00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:44,080
Speaker 5: Now, if I come to you selling you some ship

859
00:39:44,160 --> 00:39:47,000
Speaker 5: that I'm not that, I'm taking your taste like I'm

860
00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:47,640
Speaker 5: taking a freedom.

861
00:39:47,680 --> 00:39:48,879
Speaker 1: So let me just go back here.

862
00:39:49,360 --> 00:39:54,920
Speaker 4: So the person the heartbea retrogade person, right, I was

863
00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:55,880
Speaker 4: honest with them.

864
00:39:56,640 --> 00:40:00,160
Speaker 1: About how I felt about my the other person.

865
00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:06,040
Speaker 4: You get what I'm saying, and we still entered in

866
00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:08,040
Speaker 4: the relationship with.

867
00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:09,080
Speaker 1: You already knowing.

868
00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:12,400
Speaker 4: I'm not saying that I get a pass. I'm not

869
00:40:12,400 --> 00:40:13,440
Speaker 4: saying I get a pass.

870
00:40:13,160 --> 00:40:16,520
Speaker 3: You listen, this is my person. I'm not leaving them.

871
00:40:17,040 --> 00:40:18,920
Speaker 4: He was still in my life. He was still in

872
00:40:18,920 --> 00:40:21,640
Speaker 4: my life, but we were platonic in my life.

873
00:40:21,680 --> 00:40:23,880
Speaker 1: Does that make sense? It makes sense, But not if

874
00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:25,880
Speaker 1: you still feel a way about them. I was honest

875
00:40:25,920 --> 00:40:27,280
Speaker 1: about it, but I'm.

876
00:40:27,120 --> 00:40:30,600
Speaker 2: Saying I can understand, like you know, okay, but why

877
00:40:30,640 --> 00:40:31,640
Speaker 2: not go back there then?

878
00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:34,680
Speaker 1: Like that's not for me either, Okay.

879
00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:40,239
Speaker 4: Yeah, I learned during this situation that I just really

880
00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:41,560
Speaker 4: had to heal and wrap things up.

881
00:40:42,400 --> 00:40:44,280
Speaker 1: Sometimes you gotta close the tactic.

882
00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:46,960
Speaker 3: That's what my mother through it though first.

883
00:40:47,320 --> 00:40:49,520
Speaker 5: Sometimes right you had to experience it a little bit

884
00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:50,799
Speaker 5: first and then close.

885
00:40:50,560 --> 00:40:52,239
Speaker 2: It because you never find the right thing when you

886
00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:55,720
Speaker 2: have too much like going on. I feel like sometimes

887
00:40:55,719 --> 00:40:58,440
Speaker 2: you got to just clean the slate off, clear everything out,

888
00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:00,160
Speaker 2: and then be like, okay, now I'm ready.

889
00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:01,080
Speaker 1: Yeah.

890
00:41:01,120 --> 00:41:04,640
Speaker 4: And you know, men, when they see you move on,

891
00:41:05,840 --> 00:41:08,719
Speaker 4: they get upset about that. And when they see you

892
00:41:08,760 --> 00:41:12,120
Speaker 4: happy or looking like you're happy with somebody and want

893
00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:14,680
Speaker 4: to be with somebody, they want to spend the block

894
00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:16,080
Speaker 4: because they want to see it. They still got it.

895
00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:16,960
Speaker 1: I've seen you do that.

896
00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:17,080
Speaker 5: Man.

897
00:41:17,160 --> 00:41:18,960
Speaker 1: Now I see you look at it and be like, oh,

898
00:41:19,040 --> 00:41:24,960
Speaker 1: she would let me call her. That's horrible.

899
00:41:28,280 --> 00:41:31,880
Speaker 2: I see, I say, he'd like, she would hold on,

900
00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:32,680
Speaker 2: let me get her out.

901
00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:34,840
Speaker 1: That's a horrible thing to like.

902
00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:38,040
Speaker 2: Sometimes when women get in relationships with other guys, they

903
00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:38,560
Speaker 2: block him.

904
00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:41,840
Speaker 4: You better, you better, if you want you, if you

905
00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:43,640
Speaker 4: want to give you a real the new relationship will

906
00:41:43,719 --> 00:41:44,200
Speaker 4: change you better.

907
00:41:47,719 --> 00:41:51,080
Speaker 2: Your business acumen has been amazing, and so you're also

908
00:41:51,120 --> 00:41:53,160
Speaker 2: going to be producing a movie that you're stirring in

909
00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:54,280
Speaker 2: with Tay Diggs.

910
00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:56,960
Speaker 1: Well, I'm not producing it. No, not that you're producing.

911
00:41:57,360 --> 00:42:02,080
Speaker 4: No, this is Chris Stokes, Okay, yes, And I'm just

912
00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:05,040
Speaker 4: so grateful because it all came at the right time,

913
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:05,719
Speaker 4: you know.

914
00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:09,799
Speaker 2: And I did produce my movie. Yeah, you did your

915
00:42:09,880 --> 00:42:11,560
Speaker 2: movie and wrote it and yes, okay.

916
00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:15,040
Speaker 4: So I don't know, I'm feeling I'm feeling like I'm

917
00:42:15,040 --> 00:42:15,680
Speaker 4: a filmmaker.

918
00:42:17,719 --> 00:42:20,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm feeling that way, always always evolving. How is

919
00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:23,880
Speaker 1: it working with diggsse we're getting ready to wrap in

920
00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:24,480
Speaker 1: another week.

921
00:42:25,239 --> 00:42:28,279
Speaker 4: But it's amazing. I've learned so much from him. He's

922
00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:31,719
Speaker 4: such a professional and I just feel like he made

923
00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:33,560
Speaker 4: me step up to the plate. I felt like I

924
00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:35,600
Speaker 4: was army a good actress, but I feel like he's

925
00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:37,360
Speaker 4: He's made me take it very, very seriously.

926
00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:38,040
Speaker 3: Man.

927
00:42:38,080 --> 00:42:40,560
Speaker 2: And so you already have a part two to this plan.

928
00:42:40,600 --> 00:42:42,120
Speaker 2: So it was it's going to be another movie too,

929
00:42:42,160 --> 00:42:44,160
Speaker 2: because it feels like now you have the bug, yes

930
00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:46,479
Speaker 2: to be able to do these you know. I feel

931
00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:48,319
Speaker 2: like we do need these visuals and to see a

932
00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:51,239
Speaker 2: full on movie, like, yeah, it makes perfect sense.

933
00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:54,080
Speaker 4: But yeah, I don't think that people would have I

934
00:42:54,160 --> 00:42:57,240
Speaker 4: think the music is great on heartbreak retro grade by itself,

935
00:42:57,600 --> 00:43:00,400
Speaker 4: but I don't think that people would have truly understood

936
00:43:00,000 --> 00:43:03,680
Speaker 4: the message and why I call it heartbreak retrograde, you

937
00:43:03,760 --> 00:43:05,200
Speaker 4: know what I mean, and why the songs are the

938
00:43:05,200 --> 00:43:07,480
Speaker 4: way that they are it had it not been for

939
00:43:07,520 --> 00:43:09,439
Speaker 4: the visual and the artwork is beautiful too.

940
00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:11,720
Speaker 1: Thank you, Thank you. I feel like that's a painting.

941
00:43:12,160 --> 00:43:12,359
Speaker 3: Yeah.

942
00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:15,760
Speaker 4: Well, you know, it was just about me being vulnerable.

943
00:43:15,800 --> 00:43:19,160
Speaker 4: That's why I'm basically like a Barbie neeckad and also

944
00:43:19,440 --> 00:43:24,640
Speaker 4: you know the whole you know, understanding that the universe

945
00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:28,440
Speaker 4: gives us what we need when we need, and so

946
00:43:28,800 --> 00:43:29,920
Speaker 4: that's what that picture was about.

947
00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:33,720
Speaker 1: All right, Well, we are really hoping for healing for everything.

948
00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:35,839
Speaker 1: I know, thank youseal for relationships.

949
00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:38,080
Speaker 2: But I know you have a lot of things happening

950
00:43:38,280 --> 00:43:39,439
Speaker 2: just personally right now.

951
00:43:39,520 --> 00:43:41,960
Speaker 1: So here's to hoping that all of that. I mean,

952
00:43:42,080 --> 00:43:43,840
Speaker 1: it's families, so ups and downs.

953
00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:47,719
Speaker 2: You guys you know go through it sometimes publicly unfortunately,

954
00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:49,080
Speaker 2: but it is what it is.

955
00:43:49,120 --> 00:43:50,200
Speaker 1: It helps other people too.

956
00:43:50,239 --> 00:43:52,840
Speaker 2: But I just feel, you know, this is twenty twenty

957
00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:53,520
Speaker 2: six is coming.

958
00:43:53,680 --> 00:43:56,120
Speaker 1: It will be a great year. Yeah for you two, sister,

959
00:43:56,239 --> 00:43:59,080
Speaker 1: Thank you. I'm out here working hard and you too.

960
00:43:59,080 --> 00:44:01,160
Speaker 1: I hope that you find your your wife when the

961
00:44:01,160 --> 00:44:01,920
Speaker 1: wait for the wedding.

962
00:44:02,280 --> 00:44:05,160
Speaker 3: We didn't set the new date yet it's a week now.

963
00:44:05,200 --> 00:44:06,080
Speaker 3: We're so well what.

964
00:44:06,120 --> 00:44:07,879
Speaker 5: I'm saying, I didn't. I didn't put the date out

965
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:09,879
Speaker 5: there yet. I'm just still trying.

966
00:44:09,960 --> 00:44:12,120
Speaker 1: So you have somebody in mind yet you see how.

967
00:44:12,120 --> 00:44:16,760
Speaker 3: May yet see how they be doing? When I speaking,

968
00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:17,520
Speaker 3: I'm speaking.

969
00:44:17,239 --> 00:44:20,880
Speaker 2: Plural speaking speaking play When I say we, I'm speaking

970
00:44:21,280 --> 00:44:22,280
Speaker 2: you haven't made the decisions.

971
00:44:22,280 --> 00:44:23,839
Speaker 3: I haven't made the date yet.

972
00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:26,600
Speaker 5: See last year, the date was set for July twenty six,

973
00:44:27,640 --> 00:44:28,320
Speaker 5: and what happened.

974
00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:33,080
Speaker 1: He's trying to he put together.

975
00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:38,960
Speaker 5: The venue, the venue I had, the ring, the tuxedo, yeah, everything.

976
00:44:39,239 --> 00:44:42,360
Speaker 5: I was even I was even getting, uh what uh?

977
00:44:42,520 --> 00:44:43,680
Speaker 5: What are the girls that they have?

978
00:44:44,120 --> 00:44:48,680
Speaker 2: Usually women, the flower girls that you don't choose the man.

979
00:44:48,800 --> 00:44:49,360
Speaker 1: You don't choose that.

980
00:44:49,920 --> 00:44:51,600
Speaker 3: You don't have a lot of friends.

981
00:44:51,400 --> 00:44:53,239
Speaker 1: So she don't have any so it's just you and

982
00:44:53,360 --> 00:44:56,439
Speaker 1: her standing up there. You don't choose the brides maids.

983
00:44:56,440 --> 00:44:57,600
Speaker 1: Why would you choose.

984
00:44:57,360 --> 00:44:59,480
Speaker 3: There was a package deal. I was like, all you

985
00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:00,000
Speaker 3: have to do is.

986
00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:02,200
Speaker 2: It feels like this is just a TV show and

987
00:45:02,239 --> 00:45:03,480
Speaker 2: it's not serious.

988
00:45:04,520 --> 00:45:07,640
Speaker 1: Are you being serious? Okay, but I was gonna say

989
00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:14,120
Speaker 1: this is disgusting. I would run from you. I'm like, hell.

990
00:45:14,120 --> 00:45:17,080
Speaker 3: No, no, I'm just kidding.

991
00:45:17,600 --> 00:45:19,960
Speaker 1: All right, Well, we'll be watching what you're doing privately.

992
00:45:20,320 --> 00:45:20,520
Speaker 3: You know.

993
00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:23,359
Speaker 2: Also, because I know Tamar gets spotted outside, it's gonna

994
00:45:23,360 --> 00:45:23,960
Speaker 2: be on the blog.

995
00:45:24,080 --> 00:45:29,200
Speaker 1: So what is that? Because you're Tamar Braxton, what do

996
00:45:29,239 --> 00:45:30,200
Speaker 1: you want us to do? See?

997
00:45:30,480 --> 00:45:32,320
Speaker 2: So yes, I'll make sure though before I report it,

998
00:45:32,360 --> 00:45:34,840
Speaker 2: I'm a DMU and be like is this and I

999
00:45:34,880 --> 00:45:37,839
Speaker 2: will let you know. Okay, thank you appreciate it, all right,

1000
00:45:37,880 --> 00:45:41,080
Speaker 2: Tamar Braxton. If you haven't seen Heartbreak Retrograde the movie,

1001
00:45:41,320 --> 00:45:42,120
Speaker 2: make sure you watch it.

1002
00:45:42,040 --> 00:45:43,840
Speaker 1: It it's entirety. It's about forty five.

1003
00:45:43,680 --> 00:45:45,719
Speaker 2: Minutes long, and then you can really go back and

1004
00:45:45,719 --> 00:45:47,040
Speaker 2: listen to the music and kind.

1005
00:45:46,880 --> 00:45:49,200
Speaker 1: Of put it all together. Yes, on my YouTube. It's

1006
00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:52,160
Speaker 1: on her YouTube. Get that money girl, Yeah right,