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Speaker 1: Second date up dated, you know, the saying opposites attract.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if that's really true, at least not

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Speaker 2: Okay, I mean it typically is. But why do you

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Speaker 1: Because the woman on the phone said that her and

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Speaker 1: her date both have blonde hair, they both enjoy chocolate pudding,

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Speaker 1: and they both have the same mother.

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Speaker 3: How crazy is that gross? I mean, okay, I don't

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Speaker 1: I may I may have slept that, but it would

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Speaker 1: be an interesting twist if that turned out to be

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Speaker 2: That's not the word.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the word I'd use. Illegal.

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Speaker 1: We draw the line at cousin stuff on this show,

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Speaker 1: but please welcome Justine to the program.

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Speaker 5: Hey Justine, and you do realize the same mother makes

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Speaker 5: you siblings, even not cousins.

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Speaker 3: Only by blood brook.

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Speaker 1: So, Justine, you send in your email that you bonded

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Speaker 1: with this guy because you had a lot of similarities.

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Speaker 3: What similarities did you know? Notice?

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Speaker 6: Well, we're both really quiet.

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Speaker 3: Talk softer, awkward on a first date.

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Speaker 5: But no, no, it always reminds me of the movie

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Speaker 5: quote we could talk or not talk for hours show.

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Speaker 3: What's his name?

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Speaker 6: By the way, his name is ken, Okay, how do

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Speaker 6: you mean him? We met at the bank.

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Speaker 2: At the bank, why do you have to go into

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Speaker 6: I don't like, right? Who does that anymore? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I think it's interesting that two quiet people would meet

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Speaker 2: Like who too.

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Speaker 6: Well, actually, we were both filling out paperwork side by side,

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Speaker 6: and I asked him to borrow his pen. But I

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Speaker 6: didn't even like say words. I just was like, you

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Speaker 5: You do, like just hold your hand out like you

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Speaker 5: pointed with a nice smile.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, exactly, And that's kind of how it got started.

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Speaker 6: It was pretty sweet.

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Speaker 3: That is romantic.

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Speaker 4: She points, and he's like, do you want to go

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Speaker 5: I think he also did a head nod and understood,

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Speaker 5: have you talked at all?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Heard this man's voice?

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Speaker 3: All right, that's kind of cute.

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Speaker 4: You're both cute though the vibe it was purely vibe.

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Speaker 3: So what did you guys do when you went out?

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Speaker 6: Well, at first, he suggested, because we were both so quiet,

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Speaker 6: he said, we should do this like dating in the

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Speaker 6: dark thing. That's when you don't see the person, not

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Speaker 5: The dinner where you go dining in the and you

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Speaker 6: Yeah exactly, is that what you did? No, No, they're

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Speaker 3: Do you like them? It would be both of your

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Speaker 1: But what.

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Speaker 3: What did you end up doing?

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Speaker 6: We wound up going to this little Mediterranean place, and

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Speaker 6: like we were texting before we went, and we agreed

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Speaker 6: to each bring notebooks, so we just wrote each other

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Speaker 6: notes at dinner. Very fun for you.

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Speaker 4: This is cute torture for me. But this is adorable?

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Speaker 2: Was it the whole time he wrote notes?

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Speaker 6: I mean, we talked to the waiter.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but for the rest of the time, you two

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Speaker 2: Well no, no, they shared information still, but yeah, but

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I bet.

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Speaker 4: There's a lot of smiles every time the note got

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it sounds hot.

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Speaker 6: Like we wound up laughing the whole time, Like we

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Speaker 6: But there was a mistake. The waiter brought out only

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Speaker 6: and so he started eating and I was like, I

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Speaker 6: wrote him a note and I said, no, that's mine,

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Speaker 2: What Oh no, I'm not even say not anymore?

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Speaker 6: Right, so it made us laugh. We both laughed a lot.

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Speaker 6: It was really fun. Did you get food?

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Speaker 8: I worried?

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Speaker 6: Thanks for worrying. Yeah, okay, he gave me back my

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Speaker 6: dinner and then his showed up.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, like a challenge to not talk.

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Speaker 2: That's what almost sounds like to break it first.

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Speaker 4: Sounds like a challenge to them would be to talk.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like for certain people, like talking is a big struggle,

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Speaker 1: but like, this is the perfect date for two people

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Speaker 5: You guys shared the last kiss by just drawing lips

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Speaker 5: on two pieces of paper and putting them together.

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Speaker 6: That's funny, but.

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Speaker 3: No, so tell us after the quiet dinner, how did

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Speaker 3: the date end?

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Speaker 6: It didn't And the dinner, which was kind of nice,

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Speaker 6: I pulled out my notebook and said we should do

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Speaker 6: this again sometime and he wrote yes, But that was

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Speaker 6: like more than two weeks ago. Well that's not true.

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Speaker 6: It's almost two weeks ago.

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Speaker 5: I guess almost two weeks Okay, I don't know, I

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Speaker 5: feel like this guy is going to be a slow

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Speaker 2: No, No, it's just who he is. A letter in

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Speaker 2: the mail. Yeah, it's like, I don't think I would

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Speaker 1: You guys literally do sound like an old married couple

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Speaker 1: with Like you guys go to the bank. You guys

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Speaker 1: write each other notes, enjoy each other's silence, and sit

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Speaker 4: Sounds like you guys just text, though obviously you're not

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Speaker 6: I mean I sent him a text.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that must have been a struggle for you.

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Speaker 6: Though, you guys are making me bless. I can't believe

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Speaker 5: I'm going to say real quick, I am really impressed

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Speaker 6: That's cool, and that's actually the deal is like, I

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Speaker 6: to call him, and you guys are so good at

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Speaker 1: I don't know if we're good at talking, but we

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Speaker 3: Tuesday, Yeah exactly. So we're gonna come back.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna call quiet Ken for you and see if

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Speaker 1: we can silently get him to agree.

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Speaker 3: To another day. We're gonna do it right after this.

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Speaker 1: Hold on Thanks.

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Speaker 3: Second date update.

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Speaker 1: We probably just met one of the sweetest people that

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Speaker 1: we've ever had on this show before.

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Speaker 3: I hope not. Her name is Justine.

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Speaker 1: She is quiet, she's kind sounding, she's got a very

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Speaker 3: I mean, honestly, that's so rare.

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Speaker 1: If we get this guy Ken on the phone and

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Speaker 1: he says something rude or disrespectful about her, hang up,

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Speaker 1: I'm just letting you I am treating her like a

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Speaker 1: standing up for her hardcore.

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Speaker 4: Are you fighting them?

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Speaker 2: I don't know if she wants to be a little sister.

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Speaker 3: But no, I'm just saying I'm in her corner.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, got it, And I.

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Speaker 1: Mean it already sounds like her heart is breaking, because

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Speaker 1: who goes on a silent date and has a great time. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Justine and this guy apparently the only communication that was

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Speaker 5: With her, honestly, Like, he can't have a multitude of

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Speaker 2: This is a guy who barely talks.

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Speaker 3: Okay, this is her future husband that you're talking.

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Speaker 2: I don't like it in a midway.

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Speaker 5: I'm just saying he's not out there being a player,

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Speaker 5: you know, like he's got out running game. Because he

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Speaker 1: It's not like he's just just the field, Justine, Do

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Speaker 1: you want to defend your man?

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Speaker 2: No that she knows what I mean?

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Speaker 8: Right?

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Speaker 5: Maybe though, Okay, how do you just walk into a

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Speaker 1: It's possible. I mean, he could be like a silent

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Speaker 5: Book marks, so many hot singles at the library.

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Speaker 6: Can I tell you, guys, I'm a librarian?

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Speaker 3: You are?

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Speaker 2: That is the cutest justice. Do you want to take

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Speaker 8: No?

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Speaker 2: I love the library. The only one in this room

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Speaker 4: All the time.

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Speaker 1: All right, just stay quiet, Justina know you're not gonna

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Speaker 4: I'm worried what she tries to pipe in, we're not

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Speaker 3: We'll call you in.

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Speaker 4: We'll make it obvious.

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Speaker 3: Okay, thank you, all right, hold on, here we go.

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Speaker 8: Hello.

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Speaker 3: Hey is this Ken?

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Speaker 8: Uh? Yeah speaking?

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Speaker 3: I can Hey Ken, good morning, good morning. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Well you're probably hearing a lot of voices right now,

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Speaker 1: and that's because you're on the radio with Brooke and

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 6: Okay, welcome to our show.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Ken, We're excited to talk to you.

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Speaker 8: Why what what? Sorry? What? Who do you call them?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: We don't want to overwhelm you, but we're doing a

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Speaker 1: segment here. It's called second Date Update, and one of

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Speaker 1: our listeners asked us to reach out to you because

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Speaker 1: you went on an awesome date with her the other day.

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Speaker 2: Well she thought it was awesome.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we all thought it was awesome too, because we

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Speaker 1: heard a little bit about it. We're talking about Justine.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, uh yeah, I think you guys went out almost

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Speaker 1: That is correct, Okay, okay, I mean she told us

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Speaker 2: Maybe yees scene is the librarian remember, Okay, hey Ken? Sorry,

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Speaker 2: So look, it sounds like you're busy right now.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we don't want to like take up too much

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Speaker 8: I am. I kind of don't want to hang out again.

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Speaker 2: Oh buddy, why?

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Speaker 8: I mean, you were passing notes right, we were talking

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Speaker 2: So you shouldn't feel bad. That happens on all first dates.

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Speaker 1: I feel like, really, brook people write on all of

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Speaker 2: Not of moment. Yeah, we're like, I don't know what

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I get that.

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Speaker 8: You guys don't understand. I literally told everything about myself.

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Speaker 4: That should be impossible.

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Speaker 8: Bro books, movies, interests, foods.

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Speaker 2: But there's more people than what you and a lot

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Speaker 2: of I mean, I don't think you're giving yourself credit.

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Speaker 8: I think you're giving me too much.

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Speaker 1: I can understand you feel a little bit nervous and intimidated,

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Speaker 8: I am I'm worried she's gonna find out. I'm not

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Speaker 8: just quiet like she is, I'm boring, boring.

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Speaker 2: That just broke my little heart. Dude, You're not boring.

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Speaker 5: You have a like awesome woman And when you do

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Speaker 2: Is the activity, like a new topic, you know, just

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Speaker 4: You are I'm just always going to replay their exactly.

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Speaker 3: You are just the calm in a world full of chaos.

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Speaker 3: We need people like you. You balance out all us idiots.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and it doesn't matter if you think that you're

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Speaker 2: This is pretty bold.

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Speaker 7: Justine, are you there, I'm here, You guys kidding me

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Speaker 3: She's been listenings.

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Speaker 2: I think he's about to have a heart attack.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, just seemed.

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Speaker 8: I am so sorry. I can't listen to all that.

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Speaker 8: Why why?

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Speaker 6: Because it was my idea. I was too nervous to

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Speaker 6: sweet people have I didn't we didn't mean to scare you.

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Speaker 3: Sweet.

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Speaker 6: It feels like maybe it backfired.

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Speaker 8: No, no, not at all. I'm really glad to move

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Speaker 1: Oh.

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Speaker 4: I feel like if we wouldn't have gotten involved, they

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Speaker 2: Make this about us credit, We are amazing.

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Speaker 4: Get contacted us.

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Speaker 1: Look, I understand that you're really nervous ken about talking

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Speaker 1: I think the next date that you go on like

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Speaker 6: Comedy show would be so fun.

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Speaker 2: It would be fun. Would that be fun for you?

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Speaker 6: Ken?

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Speaker 8: That sounds like it would happen.

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Speaker 7: Okay, coy, she's so funny.

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Speaker 1: Look, the whole goal of this is to set you

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Speaker 1: we would pay for it. So Justine, now that you

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 5: Okay, you hear that, like that's got to feel good?

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Speaker 3: Right up?

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Speaker 8: Hello, can I'm sorry I dropped my phone off. It

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 1: We will send you guys out on another day and

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Speaker 1: we're gonna pay for it.

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Speaker 6: Okay, awesome, Thank you so much. I'm so grateful you guys.

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Speaker 5: Okay, it just makes me want to go to the

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Speaker 2: Okay, see it feels good.

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Speaker 8: That's a little terrifying, so.

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Speaker 3: We should have whispered it for my bad.

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Speaker 7: Yeah again, I'm just gonna hang up brooking.

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Speaker 2: Jeffrey in the morning. Oh man, if we do not

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Speaker 2: get an update from them, I will die.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, give us an update.

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Speaker 2: I'm just gonna email her every week. She could write it.

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Speaker 2: We can just read it.

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Speaker 1: That's, you know, definitely one of the sweetest calls that

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Speaker 6: Ye.

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Speaker 2: I should have asked for you.

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Speaker 1: Usually just there was something on my mind. I know

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Speaker 1: we were all thinking it but didn't want to say it.

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Speaker 1: The quiet ones are always the free what.

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Speaker 5: They are, You know that, that's true.

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Speaker 3: Their bodies say what their mouths.

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Speaker 2: Can't make this weird. It's got to make it weird.

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Speaker 3: It's beautiful.

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Speaker 1: They're connecting on levels that we couldn't even imagine all this.

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Speaker 2: We could have nothing wholesome on the ship.

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Speaker 3: I think it's sweet.

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Speaker 5: I guess librarians often star in those movies.

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Speaker 1: You got a point anyway, don't take the paddle out.

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Speaker 3: And you know what's happening, and we can make it

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Speaker 3: happen for you too. Whatever you want. Email the show

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Speaker 3: we'll call that person who's not calling you back.

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Speaker 2: There goes our chance for an update.

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Speaker 1: Anybody's talking about you can find all of our Hot

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