1 00:00:07,920 --> 00:00:10,960 Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour. Thanks so 2 00:00:11,039 --> 00:00:13,720 Speaker 1: much for joining us today. We are so excited to 3 00:00:13,760 --> 00:00:16,200 Speaker 1: be back because we have very special guests. But first, 4 00:00:16,200 --> 00:00:18,200 Speaker 1: sus in tummy, how are you doing, my dear, are 5 00:00:18,200 --> 00:00:19,279 Speaker 1: you still praising your death? 6 00:00:19,720 --> 00:00:22,680 Speaker 2: Excellent? I'm getting ready to leave the cold. 7 00:00:23,800 --> 00:00:27,120 Speaker 1: And going to the islands. It's really been cold where 8 00:00:27,120 --> 00:00:27,440 Speaker 1: you are. 9 00:00:27,520 --> 00:00:30,520 Speaker 3: It was like nine degrees last night. It's the snow 10 00:00:30,600 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 3: will not melt. 11 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:34,280 Speaker 1: It's like, can I tell you what my temperature here 12 00:00:34,320 --> 00:00:37,520 Speaker 1: today is eighty five? Eighty five? 13 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:41,880 Speaker 2: All right, I'm going to the eighties. 14 00:00:42,800 --> 00:00:46,560 Speaker 3: With that being said, we do have two very special guests. 15 00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:51,160 Speaker 3: Actually they were my favorites from Bachelor in Paradise. 16 00:00:51,360 --> 00:00:53,600 Speaker 2: Jess and Spencer are here with us today. 17 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:55,800 Speaker 4: Welcome guys, who. 18 00:00:57,680 --> 00:00:58,800 Speaker 2: Finally get to chat. 19 00:01:00,520 --> 00:01:02,240 Speaker 4: It's been a long time coming. 20 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:06,360 Speaker 1: There. I can't even First of all, you've matched perfectly 21 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:08,240 Speaker 1: your colors. You're blue? Was that purposely? 22 00:01:08,520 --> 00:01:11,160 Speaker 4: Not even? Yeah, we didn't even plan that. 23 00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:15,399 Speaker 5: That's just I'm actually how much of a match it is. 24 00:01:15,840 --> 00:01:18,560 Speaker 1: I'm just telling you that they and you've got your 25 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:21,000 Speaker 1: two dogs there. I mean, you guys are just living 26 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:21,760 Speaker 1: the life, aren't you. 27 00:01:22,200 --> 00:01:27,240 Speaker 4: We honestly are all right, there's so many. 28 00:01:27,080 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 2: Questions we have. 29 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:29,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, we're going to dive right in. We 30 00:01:29,920 --> 00:01:32,000 Speaker 1: were going to do some small talk here, but honestly, 31 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:36,000 Speaker 1: you know me, I need answers, Jess, I need answer. 32 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 4: I can't wait for you to just go down that checklist. 33 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 1: First. 34 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:44,640 Speaker 2: First, start in Dallas proper. Are you in one of 35 00:01:44,640 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 2: the suburbas. 36 00:01:46,600 --> 00:01:51,640 Speaker 5: It's Dallas proper, like Greenville out? 37 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:53,720 Speaker 2: I lived in Arlington. 38 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:58,440 Speaker 1: Street, right, yeah, yeah, Greenville. 39 00:01:57,760 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 5: Yeah. 40 00:01:58,680 --> 00:02:00,400 Speaker 1: Okay, wait, I have a question. I want to know 41 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:04,040 Speaker 1: about the move. Let's back up. Talk to us about 42 00:02:04,080 --> 00:02:04,680 Speaker 1: the move. 43 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:07,840 Speaker 4: At It was chaos. 44 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:11,480 Speaker 6: It was honestly a lot because not only did I 45 00:02:11,520 --> 00:02:13,800 Speaker 6: have to move all of my things from San Diego, 46 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:17,240 Speaker 6: I like basically had to double move because his lease 47 00:02:17,320 --> 00:02:20,200 Speaker 6: wasn't up. So they came and got all of my 48 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:22,880 Speaker 6: things and they were holding it in storage, and then 49 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 6: I just loaded up everything I could fit my car 50 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:28,040 Speaker 6: and it was just kind of chilling in his little 51 00:02:28,080 --> 00:02:30,880 Speaker 6: apartment for a little bit. And then at the beginning 52 00:02:30,919 --> 00:02:34,919 Speaker 6: of January we finally moved into our new place together 53 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:38,200 Speaker 6: with all of our things and book our dogs. So 54 00:02:38,440 --> 00:02:40,080 Speaker 6: it was it was a little bit of a double 55 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:40,560 Speaker 6: move for. 56 00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 1: Me, but are you in an apartment a house? Where 57 00:02:43,600 --> 00:02:44,680 Speaker 1: are you actually living? 58 00:02:45,160 --> 00:02:45,639 Speaker 7: Townhouse? 59 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:47,880 Speaker 6: Yeah, we're in a little townhouse. Actually it's not little. 60 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:50,600 Speaker 6: It's honestly huge. I get my steps in every single 61 00:02:50,639 --> 00:02:53,079 Speaker 6: day now because we have flights of stairs. 62 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:56,520 Speaker 7: It's really ceiling. So that means to really. 63 00:02:56,280 --> 00:03:01,160 Speaker 1: Buy it or rent it rent Okay, and her dog 64 00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:02,240 Speaker 1: is going crazy right now. 65 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:03,359 Speaker 4: I'm so sorry. 66 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:05,920 Speaker 1: We can't hear a thing. But you know what I do, 67 00:03:06,080 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 1: as I said before you came on. You know, with dogs, 68 00:03:08,760 --> 00:03:10,560 Speaker 1: you can put them out in the backyard, lock them 69 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 1: in a closet. Kids not so much. 70 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:16,600 Speaker 3: So he brought a dog to the relationship and he 71 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:19,359 Speaker 3: had a dog, right so now we have two now 72 00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:21,520 Speaker 3: have to And how is that? 73 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:26,520 Speaker 5: It's it's been really good. I mean, she's very talkative 74 00:03:26,600 --> 00:03:29,520 Speaker 5: right now. So I'm gonna go put her upstairs real quick. 75 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:31,760 Speaker 1: We can't hear. 76 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 7: He's got to take over real quick. 77 00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 4: Okay, Oh my god, I'm so sorry. 78 00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:38,920 Speaker 2: So did they get along right away? 79 00:03:39,120 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 4: It's just the girls now they do. 80 00:03:42,720 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 6: It was definitely a little bit of a learning curve 81 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:48,560 Speaker 6: because a dog, Charlie is used to other dogs like 82 00:03:49,720 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 6: dogs and okay. 83 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 1: Wait, wait, while he's gone. Wait while Spencer's gone, forget 84 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:56,160 Speaker 1: the dogs. We can get back to that when he 85 00:03:56,200 --> 00:03:58,440 Speaker 1: goes back. What is it like living with them? What's 86 00:03:58,440 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 1: his worst habit? Come on, give us good scooping you 87 00:04:01,320 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 1: know what? 88 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 4: He actually is so clean. 89 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:15,160 Speaker 6: I will say he has very stinky running shoes. Those downstairs, 90 00:04:15,240 --> 00:04:17,279 Speaker 6: those those don't go in the upstairs closet. 91 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:20,120 Speaker 4: They stay downstairs. And he's so funny. 92 00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:23,680 Speaker 6: He will like, I'll do the dishes and then he'll 93 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:26,719 Speaker 6: unload them, and then he'll leave the count doors open. 94 00:04:28,680 --> 00:04:29,359 Speaker 4: Very interesting. 95 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 6: It really doesn't bother me, but it's just been hilarious because. 96 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:35,239 Speaker 7: I'll walk in the access everything. 97 00:04:34,960 --> 00:04:37,520 Speaker 4: Put up, and I know because the counts are. 98 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 7: Open, cabinets, I'm putting things away. 99 00:04:42,560 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 4: We're a little adhd around here. 100 00:04:44,279 --> 00:04:47,120 Speaker 1: But so wait, I want to know what is the 101 00:04:47,120 --> 00:04:50,280 Speaker 1: most Because when we were on Paradise and you know, 102 00:04:50,360 --> 00:04:54,960 Speaker 1: you talked about movie that you were wanting to move 103 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 1: in together pretty quickly, and I cannot tell everyone how 104 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:02,440 Speaker 1: what a fabulous couple you two are. You're just I'm 105 00:05:02,480 --> 00:05:05,160 Speaker 1: so excited. But I want to know what is it 106 00:05:05,320 --> 00:05:10,159 Speaker 1: like now? Uh, you're living together, you really are integrating 107 00:05:10,200 --> 00:05:13,800 Speaker 1: your lives. What is it really, like it's. 108 00:05:13,920 --> 00:05:15,760 Speaker 7: So much better than it was. 109 00:05:15,800 --> 00:05:19,320 Speaker 5: Trying to figure out things apart and having distance is tough, 110 00:05:19,480 --> 00:05:23,480 Speaker 5: and there was obviously a lot of logistics because two 111 00:05:23,560 --> 00:05:26,200 Speaker 5: different states, and we had to figure out where we 112 00:05:26,240 --> 00:05:29,360 Speaker 5: were going to meet. Would it be somewhere completely different, 113 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:31,680 Speaker 5: would I go San Diego, which you come to Dallas. 114 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:34,279 Speaker 5: And it was a lot of logistics to figure out, 115 00:05:34,360 --> 00:05:37,159 Speaker 5: especially with lisas then on different dates and everything. So 116 00:05:37,240 --> 00:05:41,200 Speaker 5: now they're finally here and we finally have furniture and everything, 117 00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:42,440 Speaker 5: which was a whole other. 118 00:05:42,279 --> 00:05:45,679 Speaker 6: And so fun to just like it sounds so boring, 119 00:05:45,760 --> 00:05:48,120 Speaker 6: but it's been so fun to just be normal. 120 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:51,119 Speaker 7: It's made it very I haven't playing a house. 121 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:53,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, and also like I'm not gonna lie. 122 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:55,920 Speaker 6: I loved when we were going back and forth because 123 00:05:56,240 --> 00:05:58,479 Speaker 6: like I loved showing him San Diego and he would 124 00:05:58,520 --> 00:06:01,039 Speaker 6: show me Dallas. But how it's like I have my 125 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:03,760 Speaker 6: car here and I have my dog here, so it's 126 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:06,640 Speaker 6: like it's just so nice to like just be normal 127 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:09,200 Speaker 6: and like do normal things. 128 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:12,200 Speaker 4: Together and have our little routine. And yeah, it's just 129 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 4: especially with all. 130 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:16,960 Speaker 7: The travel last year, I do not thrive without a routine, Like. 131 00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:19,640 Speaker 4: I do not want to travel at all here. 132 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:23,480 Speaker 7: I'm like, I'm staying here. Whatever you'd like to do, 133 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:26,479 Speaker 7: that's totally fine. Home. 134 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:29,920 Speaker 2: What is Dallas's home for long term? Is that what 135 00:06:29,920 --> 00:06:30,480 Speaker 2: you're thinking? 136 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:34,560 Speaker 6: Yes, I definitely think for at least well at least 137 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:38,240 Speaker 6: the next year for sure. But I honestly already love it. 138 00:06:38,279 --> 00:06:40,200 Speaker 6: I think that Spence. 139 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:43,360 Speaker 4: Obviously loves it. He's been here for like a long time. 140 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:45,719 Speaker 7: We've twenty eleven. 141 00:06:46,520 --> 00:06:50,240 Speaker 6: Yeah, so he's been here a while. And I mean 142 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:53,600 Speaker 6: I didn't have many doubts. I knew I would miss 143 00:06:53,640 --> 00:06:56,560 Speaker 6: the beach, but all most of my family is in Tennessee, 144 00:06:56,640 --> 00:06:59,360 Speaker 6: so I'm closer to get back home now. 145 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:01,960 Speaker 4: It's only positives for me, though. 146 00:07:02,080 --> 00:07:06,560 Speaker 5: You have quite a bit of airline miles, so we 147 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:07,320 Speaker 5: want to go to the beach. 148 00:07:07,360 --> 00:07:08,159 Speaker 7: We can fly the beach. 149 00:07:09,320 --> 00:07:12,200 Speaker 1: Okay, I'm feeling really adhd here because I have so 150 00:07:12,360 --> 00:07:16,200 Speaker 1: many questions. I got to back up for one second. Spencer, 151 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:20,040 Speaker 1: and I don't know if you've ever said this or 152 00:07:20,080 --> 00:07:23,800 Speaker 1: if it even with tell vice, but I as you know, 153 00:07:23,920 --> 00:07:26,720 Speaker 1: I adore both of you guys. But can you just 154 00:07:26,760 --> 00:07:28,520 Speaker 1: tell We're going to get into your wedding plants and 155 00:07:28,560 --> 00:07:31,680 Speaker 1: all that, But can you just tell everyone, and if 156 00:07:31,720 --> 00:07:36,200 Speaker 1: you don't, I'm going to what you said about getting 157 00:07:36,240 --> 00:07:40,320 Speaker 1: engaged to this beautiful woman about her dad, Do you 158 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:42,040 Speaker 1: remember what? Do you remember what you said? 159 00:07:42,720 --> 00:07:43,240 Speaker 7: Yeah? 160 00:07:43,280 --> 00:07:46,000 Speaker 5: So there were a lot of hoops I had to 161 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:48,440 Speaker 5: jump through to be able to speak to both of 162 00:07:48,440 --> 00:07:51,640 Speaker 5: her parents. And it was really important to me that 163 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:56,040 Speaker 5: I talked to both her dad and mom about especially 164 00:07:56,320 --> 00:08:00,200 Speaker 5: she's their only child, so and it was really big 165 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:02,520 Speaker 5: for me. So I told them, if they want an 166 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:05,280 Speaker 5: engagement on the show, they've got to let me talk 167 00:08:05,280 --> 00:08:07,320 Speaker 5: to both that. 168 00:08:07,680 --> 00:08:08,720 Speaker 2: I love that. 169 00:08:09,240 --> 00:08:12,400 Speaker 6: Oh it Honestly, it meant so much to me too 170 00:08:12,440 --> 00:08:15,680 Speaker 6: that he like he really wanted to talk to my dad. 171 00:08:15,720 --> 00:08:17,480 Speaker 4: That was like his number one. But he knows how 172 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:20,240 Speaker 4: close I am with my mom too, so and I'm 173 00:08:20,320 --> 00:08:22,440 Speaker 4: their baby girl, I'm their only cared so. 174 00:08:23,160 --> 00:08:25,920 Speaker 6: It just like it it melted my heart a little 175 00:08:25,920 --> 00:08:27,520 Speaker 6: that it was like he was like, if I don't 176 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 6: get to talk to them, then I'm not doing it, 177 00:08:28,840 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 6: Like sorry, baby, but. 178 00:08:29,960 --> 00:08:30,760 Speaker 4: I'll do it later on. 179 00:08:30,960 --> 00:08:32,000 Speaker 7: Well we'll do somewhere else. 180 00:08:32,080 --> 00:08:35,280 Speaker 6: Yeah, Yeah, that's starting off on the bed foot. 181 00:08:35,400 --> 00:08:38,599 Speaker 1: Cause Spencer, you had said we had talked about it, 182 00:08:38,600 --> 00:08:40,560 Speaker 1: you had talked to a couple of different people about 183 00:08:40,920 --> 00:08:44,760 Speaker 1: getting engaged and that after you said to me, and 184 00:08:44,800 --> 00:08:47,280 Speaker 1: you were just so forthright, it just warmed my heart. 185 00:08:47,360 --> 00:08:51,080 Speaker 1: You said, you know, there's no way I can't do it. 186 00:08:51,360 --> 00:08:54,880 Speaker 1: I had you you told me after you talked to well. 187 00:08:54,800 --> 00:08:58,400 Speaker 5: It was they for I mean, for a while it 188 00:08:58,480 --> 00:09:00,319 Speaker 5: was looking like that wasn't going to be a possile building. 189 00:09:00,360 --> 00:09:03,400 Speaker 5: There was a ton of logistics going on filming, and 190 00:09:03,440 --> 00:09:05,600 Speaker 5: there were the competitions and all these things we had 191 00:09:05,640 --> 00:09:08,840 Speaker 5: to work around. So it was actually I really appreciate 192 00:09:08,880 --> 00:09:12,440 Speaker 5: them production being able to jump through some hoops, so 193 00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:14,560 Speaker 5: I was able to do that because it really was 194 00:09:14,640 --> 00:09:20,200 Speaker 5: like we were busy. There wasn't a lot of downtime, especially. 195 00:09:19,240 --> 00:09:21,560 Speaker 4: Even like the night before it happened, we didn't even know. 196 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:23,559 Speaker 4: We were like, I don't even know if they're. 197 00:09:23,360 --> 00:09:26,199 Speaker 6: Going to like give us some if they get engaged 198 00:09:26,240 --> 00:09:27,400 Speaker 6: at this point, like. 199 00:09:27,400 --> 00:09:31,120 Speaker 5: We had discussed it, but we're like, I don't know 200 00:09:31,160 --> 00:09:34,040 Speaker 5: where the time is going to be for any of that. 201 00:09:34,280 --> 00:09:37,480 Speaker 5: So we discussed it, but I don't know. 202 00:09:37,800 --> 00:09:40,560 Speaker 1: I will tell you I was so bummed out. I 203 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:45,040 Speaker 1: said to the producers, what do I have to do? 204 00:09:45,160 --> 00:09:47,800 Speaker 1: Like I'm going to hide out here because I want 205 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:50,640 Speaker 1: to see I'll hide behind a tree. I want to 206 00:09:50,679 --> 00:09:52,280 Speaker 1: see them get engaged. 207 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:55,800 Speaker 7: That I told them it's not happening unless you were there. 208 00:09:57,679 --> 00:09:59,520 Speaker 1: Well, listen, as long as I get BT to the wedding, 209 00:09:59,760 --> 00:10:05,160 Speaker 1: I'll but I was, don't worry. Yeah, I was the best, 210 00:10:05,280 --> 00:10:06,000 Speaker 1: the best. 211 00:10:06,400 --> 00:10:09,920 Speaker 3: And I remember back when you were one hundred percent. 212 00:10:10,000 --> 00:10:12,240 Speaker 3: You go, well, I don't know if I want to move. 213 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:15,200 Speaker 2: Remember, yes, I know you. 214 00:10:15,120 --> 00:10:19,280 Speaker 4: Have to think great. Yeah, I was letting that little 215 00:10:19,400 --> 00:10:23,120 Speaker 4: like devil on the shoulder test activity. 216 00:10:23,400 --> 00:10:26,520 Speaker 6: And then I I actually got to talk to both 217 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:30,200 Speaker 6: my parents too the night before the engagement, and something 218 00:10:30,200 --> 00:10:31,040 Speaker 6: that they said. 219 00:10:30,800 --> 00:10:32,200 Speaker 4: To me that I like always. 220 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:34,480 Speaker 6: Love to tell the story because I was just letting 221 00:10:34,760 --> 00:10:38,200 Speaker 6: my own my past like really come up and be like, 222 00:10:38,440 --> 00:10:40,400 Speaker 6: you don't deserve this. It's too good to be true, 223 00:10:40,559 --> 00:10:44,280 Speaker 6: Like don't do like you're rushing into it, like something's 224 00:10:44,320 --> 00:10:47,520 Speaker 6: gonna happen all these things. And I was so scared 225 00:10:47,559 --> 00:10:49,360 Speaker 6: also that like my parents were gonna be like, you're 226 00:10:49,360 --> 00:10:50,040 Speaker 6: insane for this. 227 00:10:50,640 --> 00:10:52,680 Speaker 1: You told me that, you told me that. 228 00:10:54,720 --> 00:10:56,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's fine. 229 00:10:57,080 --> 00:10:59,839 Speaker 6: But both of them and like I called them separately, 230 00:11:00,440 --> 00:11:03,360 Speaker 6: like just so you all know, I called themsel Really 231 00:11:03,440 --> 00:11:05,440 Speaker 6: they both said the exact same thing. They were like, 232 00:11:06,760 --> 00:11:11,160 Speaker 6: we trust your instincts, and we trust what you feel. 233 00:11:11,200 --> 00:11:14,200 Speaker 6: You're so in tune with your emotions and if you 234 00:11:14,320 --> 00:11:16,120 Speaker 6: feel like this is your man and. 235 00:11:15,960 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 4: This is what you want to do, then we support you. 236 00:11:18,360 --> 00:11:23,080 Speaker 6: One like, they both have exact same response, and that 237 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:26,120 Speaker 6: was just like a oh my god, okay, yeah I'm 238 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:26,440 Speaker 6: doing this. 239 00:11:26,480 --> 00:11:27,480 Speaker 4: Then we're good. 240 00:11:29,679 --> 00:11:33,160 Speaker 1: And I love that they said that. You also said 241 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:35,360 Speaker 1: that to me when you told me what your parents 242 00:11:35,440 --> 00:11:37,640 Speaker 1: had said, And I thought they must be amazing people 243 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:40,200 Speaker 1: to try, because I have to be honest or what 244 00:11:40,280 --> 00:11:44,439 Speaker 1: you think? I'm not sure. Well, I'm a little crazy. 245 00:11:44,720 --> 00:11:47,040 Speaker 1: How I would have what I would have what would 246 00:11:47,080 --> 00:11:49,640 Speaker 1: have come out of this mouth if my daughter had 247 00:11:49,679 --> 00:11:51,920 Speaker 1: called me and say, hey, I met this guy three weeks. 248 00:11:51,720 --> 00:11:56,640 Speaker 8: Ago, and I was I was scared, honestly, I was like, Oh, 249 00:11:56,920 --> 00:12:01,720 Speaker 8: I don't I think to be of your child there? 250 00:12:01,760 --> 00:12:06,480 Speaker 7: I think you. 251 00:12:04,559 --> 00:12:07,160 Speaker 1: Listen, if I met the right guy, I'd be engaged tomorrow. 252 00:12:08,040 --> 00:12:09,640 Speaker 7: I was about to ask you about your man. 253 00:12:10,240 --> 00:12:12,120 Speaker 1: Search We'll get to that. We'll get to that. 254 00:12:18,520 --> 00:12:21,840 Speaker 3: While Jess was speaking just now, he couldn't take his 255 00:12:21,880 --> 00:12:22,560 Speaker 3: eyes off of her. 256 00:12:22,960 --> 00:12:25,320 Speaker 2: He looked at her just like on the show. I 257 00:12:25,559 --> 00:12:26,040 Speaker 2: love this. 258 00:12:26,160 --> 00:12:28,400 Speaker 1: No, it's so real. And I have to tell you. So, 259 00:12:28,559 --> 00:12:31,360 Speaker 1: you guys that you live about three hours for me. 260 00:12:31,559 --> 00:12:34,200 Speaker 1: You're in Dallas, I'm in Austin, and you guys came 261 00:12:34,600 --> 00:12:37,440 Speaker 1: to Austin and I have to tell you it makes 262 00:12:37,480 --> 00:12:41,440 Speaker 1: me cry. It was so nice to see you guys 263 00:12:41,559 --> 00:12:44,720 Speaker 1: and see Susan. You're exactly right. The way they look 264 00:12:44,760 --> 00:12:45,559 Speaker 1: at each other. 265 00:12:46,080 --> 00:12:48,440 Speaker 2: Is it's it's real. 266 00:12:48,960 --> 00:12:51,640 Speaker 1: My my belief. Susan. You and I've talked about this too. 267 00:12:52,080 --> 00:12:54,440 Speaker 1: Lots of people get married, lots of people, but you 268 00:12:54,480 --> 00:12:58,960 Speaker 1: guys are going to have that relationship for life that 269 00:12:59,080 --> 00:13:00,520 Speaker 1: people wish they could find. 270 00:13:03,040 --> 00:13:04,559 Speaker 7: It was so much fun visiting you too. 271 00:13:05,160 --> 00:13:08,200 Speaker 5: We need an actual Austin trip, so we we went 272 00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:12,840 Speaker 5: for the music festival. But I love Austin so much. Actually, 273 00:13:12,840 --> 00:13:16,720 Speaker 5: when you guys were talking about staying put in Dallas, 274 00:13:17,040 --> 00:13:19,520 Speaker 5: I don't know if either of us are, like, I 275 00:13:19,559 --> 00:13:21,720 Speaker 5: have family here, I have friends here. 276 00:13:21,800 --> 00:13:24,040 Speaker 7: I don't have super around a ton. 277 00:13:24,600 --> 00:13:26,480 Speaker 6: You just say the word, we can go wherever. I'm 278 00:13:26,559 --> 00:13:28,920 Speaker 6: down to experience anywhere. Let's just do it. 279 00:13:28,960 --> 00:13:31,200 Speaker 1: Hey, Listen, you can come and live in my house 280 00:13:31,920 --> 00:13:34,120 Speaker 1: and I'll go travel. You could just come and stay 281 00:13:34,120 --> 00:13:36,280 Speaker 1: in my house, bring the dogs. I have two cats. 282 00:13:36,280 --> 00:13:36,959 Speaker 1: It'll be okay. 283 00:13:38,040 --> 00:13:39,040 Speaker 7: I'll figure it out. 284 00:13:39,360 --> 00:13:42,600 Speaker 2: Meeting all his friends, jes you like everybody. 285 00:13:42,920 --> 00:13:46,480 Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, I love one thing, and like I 286 00:13:46,559 --> 00:13:48,640 Speaker 6: never thought of it, Like I don't know if it 287 00:13:48,720 --> 00:13:52,440 Speaker 6: was just something that I hadn't noticed, but I was 288 00:13:52,520 --> 00:13:55,160 Speaker 6: asked a question by someone like, oh, do you like 289 00:13:55,240 --> 00:13:56,120 Speaker 6: all of Spinster's friends? 290 00:13:56,160 --> 00:13:57,240 Speaker 4: And I'm like, oh, I love them. 291 00:13:57,280 --> 00:14:00,360 Speaker 6: He has like these two guy best friends and they 292 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:03,800 Speaker 6: just have the most amazing wives, and they're so sweet 293 00:14:03,840 --> 00:14:04,840 Speaker 6: and they brought they. 294 00:14:05,000 --> 00:14:08,520 Speaker 1: Wait, did you say lives or why I'm sorry, the 295 00:14:08,600 --> 00:14:09,920 Speaker 1: southern accent is coming out. 296 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:11,920 Speaker 4: Wives. 297 00:14:12,400 --> 00:14:15,960 Speaker 6: Yes, they just welcome me in with open arms and 298 00:14:16,000 --> 00:14:16,840 Speaker 6: they're so sweet. 299 00:14:17,160 --> 00:14:18,760 Speaker 4: But something that stood out is like. 300 00:14:19,560 --> 00:14:21,840 Speaker 6: He is so nice to everyone, Like this is the 301 00:14:21,920 --> 00:14:25,760 Speaker 6: kindest man I've ever met, but he is very particular 302 00:14:25,840 --> 00:14:30,800 Speaker 6: on who he actually calls a friend, Like he has standards, 303 00:14:30,840 --> 00:14:35,120 Speaker 6: and I honestly love that, like, of course, be friendly. 304 00:14:34,840 --> 00:14:36,720 Speaker 4: With everyone and be nice to everyone. 305 00:14:36,800 --> 00:14:39,400 Speaker 6: But it's almost a little questionable, like, oh, you have 306 00:14:39,480 --> 00:14:43,440 Speaker 6: all these millions of best friends, Like why you can't. 307 00:14:43,280 --> 00:14:44,640 Speaker 4: Get super close to him? 308 00:14:44,640 --> 00:14:47,240 Speaker 5: Many best friends I have, Like, I don't have agree 309 00:14:47,960 --> 00:14:52,480 Speaker 5: of my the people I spend time with. My primary 310 00:14:52,520 --> 00:14:56,560 Speaker 5: love language is quality times. If I'm spending time with someone, 311 00:14:56,920 --> 00:14:58,840 Speaker 5: that's my way of showing them I care about them. 312 00:14:58,880 --> 00:15:00,080 Speaker 7: And there's I. 313 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:02,240 Speaker 4: Stuck that he was picky about who he spent his 314 00:15:02,320 --> 00:15:05,960 Speaker 4: time with. I don't know, Spencer, Did. 315 00:15:05,920 --> 00:15:08,080 Speaker 1: You grow up in Dallas? Now I'm confused. 316 00:15:08,280 --> 00:15:11,880 Speaker 5: No, no, no, no. I grew up in Utah. So 317 00:15:11,920 --> 00:15:15,080 Speaker 5: I was born Wyoming, grew up in Utah. Was going 318 00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:19,200 Speaker 5: to actually play football at the University of Utah, and 319 00:15:19,240 --> 00:15:21,360 Speaker 5: my mom had gotten a new job in Dallas, and 320 00:15:21,400 --> 00:15:22,840 Speaker 5: she brought my football film up. 321 00:15:22,760 --> 00:15:23,920 Speaker 7: To the SMU offices. 322 00:15:24,000 --> 00:15:25,160 Speaker 4: He's got me. 323 00:15:26,080 --> 00:15:27,880 Speaker 7: They were like, oh, yeah, we have fun on the 324 00:15:27,920 --> 00:15:28,480 Speaker 7: team for him. 325 00:15:29,320 --> 00:15:32,200 Speaker 5: Then she flew me here and I was like, wow, 326 00:15:32,600 --> 00:15:37,960 Speaker 5: Dallas is beautiful and there's no horses and expecting there 327 00:15:38,000 --> 00:15:40,880 Speaker 5: and to be like people riding horses around his a 328 00:15:40,920 --> 00:15:47,160 Speaker 5: motive transportation and that wasn't it at all. So in 329 00:15:47,280 --> 00:15:51,800 Speaker 5: Fort Worth, Dallas is veryckyard. Yeah, it's. 330 00:15:53,320 --> 00:15:55,960 Speaker 6: I feel It's one thing that I've had to get 331 00:15:56,040 --> 00:15:57,800 Speaker 6: used to is like in San Diego, I feel like 332 00:15:57,800 --> 00:15:59,600 Speaker 6: I could just walk around kind of looking like a 333 00:15:59,600 --> 00:16:02,240 Speaker 6: bomb all the time, whereas here, like everyone's always so 334 00:16:02,360 --> 00:16:06,080 Speaker 6: put together and like looks great, and I'm like, okay, wow, 335 00:16:06,200 --> 00:16:08,320 Speaker 6: I need to like go get some cuter outfits or 336 00:16:08,320 --> 00:16:08,840 Speaker 6: something like. 337 00:16:08,960 --> 00:16:10,840 Speaker 7: I don't know what's so she did? Oh I did 338 00:16:11,280 --> 00:16:12,080 Speaker 7: that prize money? 339 00:16:12,840 --> 00:16:17,000 Speaker 1: Of course I did. Well, now we're talking about prize money. 340 00:16:17,000 --> 00:16:18,800 Speaker 1: What else do we spend that prize money on? 341 00:16:19,960 --> 00:16:25,400 Speaker 5: A lot of it went into savings good dad, like 342 00:16:25,920 --> 00:16:30,080 Speaker 5: student loan, dead and stuff. And then when we moved 343 00:16:30,120 --> 00:16:33,560 Speaker 5: into the new townhouse, we didn't really have any furniture 344 00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:38,040 Speaker 5: because all my furniture was for a smaller one bedroom apartment. 345 00:16:38,480 --> 00:16:40,840 Speaker 5: All of her furniture got left in San Diego. 346 00:16:41,120 --> 00:16:41,800 Speaker 1: I gave it away. 347 00:16:42,000 --> 00:16:42,400 Speaker 7: We had to. 348 00:16:42,520 --> 00:16:45,920 Speaker 5: We've been we've been thrifty though we've been on Facebook Marketplace. 349 00:16:46,280 --> 00:16:52,480 Speaker 5: I left the decision to buy the coffee table right there. 350 00:16:52,520 --> 00:16:54,520 Speaker 7: Had the best. 351 00:16:55,760 --> 00:16:58,520 Speaker 5: Three hundred twenty pounds and me and my friend had 352 00:16:58,600 --> 00:17:01,160 Speaker 5: to lift it up a whole lot of stairs. On 353 00:17:01,600 --> 00:17:02,920 Speaker 5: Facebook Marketplace. 354 00:17:03,480 --> 00:17:06,840 Speaker 1: There there's great deals on that. So when we you 355 00:17:07,000 --> 00:17:11,520 Speaker 1: remember when we were doing interviews about Keith and I 356 00:17:11,560 --> 00:17:14,280 Speaker 1: were asking in Paradise, if you won the money, what 357 00:17:14,320 --> 00:17:17,480 Speaker 1: would you spend it on and again everyone needs to 358 00:17:17,480 --> 00:17:23,040 Speaker 1: hear us. You two unequivocally had the best answer. You said, 359 00:17:24,359 --> 00:17:26,800 Speaker 1: we would put a lot in savings. I mean, as 360 00:17:26,840 --> 00:17:30,200 Speaker 1: a mom, it spoke to me, you said, we'll put 361 00:17:30,240 --> 00:17:35,679 Speaker 1: some in savings. We want to. I don't remember you 362 00:17:35,680 --> 00:17:37,439 Speaker 1: saying that, but I'm sure you did. But the other 363 00:17:37,480 --> 00:17:39,840 Speaker 1: thing you said is, you know, when we get married, 364 00:17:39,920 --> 00:17:42,239 Speaker 1: we want to be able to put money down and 365 00:17:42,280 --> 00:17:44,680 Speaker 1: have a house. And it's just you guys seemed so. 366 00:17:45,000 --> 00:17:46,359 Speaker 4: Definitely for people. 367 00:17:47,160 --> 00:17:48,440 Speaker 2: Let's talk about that. 368 00:17:49,960 --> 00:17:55,320 Speaker 7: Yeah, so let take it away. 369 00:17:55,560 --> 00:17:59,320 Speaker 6: We actually just had this conversation like a few nights ago, 370 00:18:00,119 --> 00:18:04,160 Speaker 6: so we haven't started any planning yet. I think one 371 00:18:04,280 --> 00:18:08,480 Speaker 6: thing that we we at first, we were like, okay, 372 00:18:08,480 --> 00:18:10,960 Speaker 6: when it's been a year, maybe we revisit and start 373 00:18:11,000 --> 00:18:13,680 Speaker 6: planning then. But our biggest thing is like we just 374 00:18:13,800 --> 00:18:16,520 Speaker 6: kind of want to take time and like live life normally. 375 00:18:16,600 --> 00:18:19,479 Speaker 6: I think that a lot of people forget. We had 376 00:18:19,600 --> 00:18:22,960 Speaker 6: to be hidden and also live separately for a couple 377 00:18:23,000 --> 00:18:25,399 Speaker 6: of months, so we lost out on a lot of 378 00:18:25,400 --> 00:18:28,480 Speaker 6: time in hiding and then also waiting to actually move 379 00:18:28,560 --> 00:18:29,080 Speaker 6: in together. 380 00:18:29,160 --> 00:18:31,200 Speaker 7: Yeah, we've only been living here for. 381 00:18:31,119 --> 00:18:34,760 Speaker 4: A month, literally one month limit kidding so. 382 00:18:35,400 --> 00:18:36,160 Speaker 7: A month and a week. 383 00:18:36,280 --> 00:18:38,960 Speaker 6: So we were like, ok so May's coming up real 384 00:18:39,040 --> 00:18:42,640 Speaker 6: quick and it's going to be here. 385 00:18:43,960 --> 00:18:47,280 Speaker 5: We're like, let's like, it's still so fresh that we're here, 386 00:18:47,359 --> 00:18:50,119 Speaker 5: so when May comes around, it could very well be 387 00:18:50,680 --> 00:18:54,720 Speaker 5: oh my gosh. Okay, yeah, let's start planning, but rush. 388 00:18:55,560 --> 00:18:59,040 Speaker 1: Together, enjoy your time. 389 00:18:59,160 --> 00:19:00,280 Speaker 7: Together and love. 390 00:19:00,560 --> 00:19:05,480 Speaker 5: She has made this house so homey and so comfortable. 391 00:19:09,000 --> 00:19:12,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, Spencer, I'm telling you, where the hell is your uncle? 392 00:19:12,920 --> 00:19:13,640 Speaker 1: I want him. 393 00:19:15,680 --> 00:19:18,280 Speaker 7: I got a couple of them. 394 00:19:18,560 --> 00:19:20,720 Speaker 2: But they might not take after him. 395 00:19:20,800 --> 00:19:23,919 Speaker 1: Kat was his family. 396 00:19:24,040 --> 00:19:24,520 Speaker 4: His family. 397 00:19:25,480 --> 00:19:27,280 Speaker 7: Yeah, and we made it through. 398 00:19:27,440 --> 00:19:32,560 Speaker 5: I think, like obviously, every relationship has stressors, and it 399 00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:36,080 Speaker 5: was a lot of pressure on us individually, us as 400 00:19:36,119 --> 00:19:41,639 Speaker 5: a couple with the move, like her literally giving up 401 00:19:41,680 --> 00:19:44,520 Speaker 5: her whole life, that everything she's own in San Diego, 402 00:19:45,320 --> 00:19:47,520 Speaker 5: all those ties she had there to come to this 403 00:19:47,560 --> 00:19:49,359 Speaker 5: brand new place that she's never been before. 404 00:19:49,480 --> 00:19:54,480 Speaker 1: Yeah. But you know what, Spencer, because she came for you. 405 00:19:55,080 --> 00:19:55,959 Speaker 1: It was nothing. 406 00:19:57,160 --> 00:20:00,720 Speaker 7: And we made it through. Picking furniture we did. 407 00:20:02,680 --> 00:20:05,240 Speaker 6: It's so funny, like the amount of dms that I 408 00:20:05,280 --> 00:20:06,960 Speaker 6: get that are like, do you and Spencer ever? 409 00:20:07,040 --> 00:20:07,320 Speaker 1: Are you? 410 00:20:07,359 --> 00:20:09,359 Speaker 4: I want to be like, Yeah, it took us like 411 00:20:09,520 --> 00:20:10,960 Speaker 4: four weeks. Did it's not on a rug? 412 00:20:11,080 --> 00:20:16,280 Speaker 5: That rug, that brown rug. That thing took a couple 413 00:20:16,240 --> 00:20:17,520 Speaker 5: of weeks to find. 414 00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:21,840 Speaker 4: I we like made a joke. I think I commented on. 415 00:20:21,680 --> 00:20:26,080 Speaker 6: An Instagram post or something. I'm like, we literally like almost. 416 00:20:25,720 --> 00:20:27,919 Speaker 4: Broke up over a rug. Not actually so I'm going 417 00:20:27,960 --> 00:20:29,280 Speaker 4: to be the next bachelor. 418 00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:33,080 Speaker 7: Headline say that the Facebook pages. 419 00:20:34,119 --> 00:20:37,320 Speaker 4: No, but it's been like, actually, I'm being so sorry. 420 00:20:37,320 --> 00:20:42,800 Speaker 5: So many, so many big live hurdles that we've gone 421 00:20:42,880 --> 00:20:45,480 Speaker 5: through and done really, really really well with. I'm really 422 00:20:45,480 --> 00:20:48,240 Speaker 5: proud of us and where we are now, and it's 423 00:20:48,280 --> 00:20:52,560 Speaker 5: like so nice to actually finally be in our home. 424 00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:54,000 Speaker 7: We're moved in. 425 00:20:54,840 --> 00:20:57,600 Speaker 1: We found it. I want to know who found this home? 426 00:20:59,280 --> 00:21:02,159 Speaker 7: Was it? I wonder you found it? 427 00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:06,520 Speaker 4: Was definitely me? Sure it was definitely mean. 428 00:21:07,200 --> 00:21:12,040 Speaker 7: Yea where I found a realtor that found it. So okay, 429 00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:15,200 Speaker 7: Now our realtor found this one and who found him? 430 00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:18,000 Speaker 2: Found them different? 431 00:21:18,760 --> 00:21:20,840 Speaker 1: Oh you did you did fight. 432 00:21:23,560 --> 00:21:25,760 Speaker 2: She looked at it first? Or did you go together 433 00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:26,600 Speaker 2: to look at it? 434 00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:27,600 Speaker 4: We went together? 435 00:21:27,880 --> 00:21:29,000 Speaker 7: This one, we went together. 436 00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:31,000 Speaker 5: There was a couple when she was still in San 437 00:21:31,080 --> 00:21:33,560 Speaker 5: Diego that I went and toured and I would take 438 00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:34,600 Speaker 5: a video and everything. 439 00:21:34,880 --> 00:21:36,679 Speaker 7: This one we actually got seat together. 440 00:21:36,800 --> 00:21:38,520 Speaker 4: I'm also so weird. There was one. 441 00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:40,359 Speaker 6: There was a lot of ones we looked at that 442 00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:43,280 Speaker 6: were great and he really liked. And then I would 443 00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:45,280 Speaker 6: walk in and I'm like, the vibe is off, like 444 00:21:45,440 --> 00:21:49,359 Speaker 6: I'm so feeling it's just something okay. 445 00:21:49,040 --> 00:21:52,360 Speaker 1: So let me real quickly. That is so true. When 446 00:21:52,480 --> 00:21:55,159 Speaker 1: I bought the house that I'm in and my my 447 00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:58,480 Speaker 1: husband's alive, we bought it together. My realtor called me 448 00:21:58,920 --> 00:22:01,320 Speaker 1: and said, it's just came on the market if you 449 00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:04,480 Speaker 1: can be over there. So I left work literally and 450 00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:06,680 Speaker 1: and came over here. It was like fifteen minutes from work, 451 00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:09,000 Speaker 1: and I walked in. It was like miracle on thirty 452 00:22:09,040 --> 00:22:11,920 Speaker 1: four Street. I called that and I said, he said, 453 00:22:11,960 --> 00:22:13,560 Speaker 1: I haven't left it. I'm in a meeting. I said, 454 00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:17,320 Speaker 1: you don't have to bother coming. We're buying it. I said, 455 00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:19,639 Speaker 1: you can look at it if you want, but we're buying. 456 00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:20,600 Speaker 7: I will say. 457 00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:23,080 Speaker 5: When we walked in this one, initially I was like, 458 00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:25,400 Speaker 5: I don't think so I don't like it very much. 459 00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:30,320 Speaker 4: Because she loved it. 460 00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:29,720 Speaker 7: Okay, we'll move in. 461 00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:31,919 Speaker 5: And I am so happy that I listened to her 462 00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:33,480 Speaker 5: on that one because it's been perfect. 463 00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:36,000 Speaker 2: What did you like when you walked in? 464 00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:42,439 Speaker 6: I think that, honestly, I think that. 465 00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:44,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, he didn't. What didn't you like? I don't remember. 466 00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:46,960 Speaker 6: It was something like very He just there was one 467 00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:48,719 Speaker 6: that we fell in love with, but it was like 468 00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:52,040 Speaker 6: way too early to sign a lease when we found it, 469 00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:54,960 Speaker 6: and so I think we did both. We compared everything 470 00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:59,159 Speaker 6: to that first one. Yeah, And he's like, I don't know, 471 00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:02,200 Speaker 6: and I'm like, we have like two weeks left before 472 00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:05,159 Speaker 6: we need a place, so you're stressing me out. 473 00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:07,120 Speaker 1: How many bedrooms do you guys have? 474 00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:11,200 Speaker 7: Just too it's with an office, so well. 475 00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:14,320 Speaker 1: As long as there's more than one, I'm coming. 476 00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:17,159 Speaker 7: You have a guest bedroom already, then you're coming. 477 00:23:16,920 --> 00:23:20,240 Speaker 1: To see, like we can share bed We haven't many. 478 00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:22,720 Speaker 7: Rooms? 479 00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:23,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, it is. 480 00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:26,960 Speaker 3: They're nine years I lived there, and I really love that. 481 00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:30,439 Speaker 2: The people are so great. They are kind. 482 00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:33,119 Speaker 3: When you get off the plane in the back in 483 00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:36,000 Speaker 3: Jersey or in New York or Philly, it's like yo. 484 00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:40,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, wait, so who does the cooking? Tell me 485 00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:43,960 Speaker 1: how you divide the divide and conquer the chores? How 486 00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:44,920 Speaker 1: does it work over there? 487 00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:49,640 Speaker 6: He actually is both good cooks but he's a he's 488 00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:50,600 Speaker 6: a better cook than me. 489 00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:53,119 Speaker 5: Honestly, I don't know if it's better worse. I just 490 00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:56,080 Speaker 5: cook more, does a lot, So I cook a lot. 491 00:23:56,160 --> 00:24:00,760 Speaker 4: He does in particular about his like he weighs all 492 00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:01,200 Speaker 4: this stuff. 493 00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:04,560 Speaker 7: Well, I'm cutting weight right now, I'm going to cut 494 00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:07,840 Speaker 7: what's that you're ready for? God? Get ready for the summer. 495 00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:08,520 Speaker 7: So I'm. 496 00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:12,600 Speaker 4: And I'm like, I don't know, like just what you 497 00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:13,000 Speaker 4: just do it? 498 00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:13,439 Speaker 7: I don't know. 499 00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:14,520 Speaker 4: I don't know what you need. 500 00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:17,480 Speaker 1: I don't know what's your big thing. What's your favorite 501 00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:19,760 Speaker 1: meal to cook? Spencer? What's your what's your you know, 502 00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:22,360 Speaker 1: if what's your meal to impress? 503 00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:28,000 Speaker 5: So I apparently have now learned that two things. One 504 00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:31,000 Speaker 5: I make a lot of the same meals, and two 505 00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:35,040 Speaker 5: I make a lot of bowls of just like stuff 506 00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:39,879 Speaker 5: like potatoes and eggs and steak just in a bowl. 507 00:24:41,240 --> 00:24:44,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't have a nice big steak. 508 00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:50,400 Speaker 1: You don't have your chicken with you. 509 00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:53,600 Speaker 6: The size of bowl that he uses is like what 510 00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:55,320 Speaker 6: you would use a salad bowl. 511 00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:59,880 Speaker 4: Yes, Like I'm not kidding, I'm like, what is happening? 512 00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:03,000 Speaker 4: I'm he yeah, I love you. 513 00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:07,080 Speaker 3: As far as finding groceries compared to California. 514 00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:09,640 Speaker 2: Oh my god, different, isn't it? 515 00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:16,000 Speaker 4: Everything here is also so cheap. I'm like, this is crazy. 516 00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:16,879 Speaker 7: She's like a. 517 00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:20,560 Speaker 4: Two dollars instead of seven. 518 00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:22,600 Speaker 7: I had so much more of my paycheck. 519 00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:29,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, welcome to Texas, y'all. That is so funny. So 520 00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:33,439 Speaker 1: you you guys, we got to get back to wedding 521 00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:37,639 Speaker 1: talk here. Do you I know you haven't planned anything, 522 00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:40,160 Speaker 1: but Jess, I got to ask you, do you even 523 00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:42,399 Speaker 1: have an idea of what you want your dress to be? Like? 524 00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:46,240 Speaker 4: You know, I do not. I don't have an eye. 525 00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:49,960 Speaker 6: I know that there's specific things that like, I definitely 526 00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:52,400 Speaker 6: like you know these this whole area right here. 527 00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:54,840 Speaker 4: I want that hidden. So I don't know what kind 528 00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:55,359 Speaker 4: of dress. 529 00:25:56,680 --> 00:26:03,240 Speaker 1: Wait, y'all can't see what Jess just did. What she 530 00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:06,359 Speaker 1: pointed to was like the little area by your upper 531 00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:08,360 Speaker 1: arm and shoulder, and I buy that. 532 00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:09,920 Speaker 4: Stand over the tank top? 533 00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:13,199 Speaker 1: Huh by that standard, Susan, You and I need to 534 00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:16,240 Speaker 1: wear paper bags that started our neck and cover it 535 00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:17,280 Speaker 1: right down to our feet. 536 00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:18,720 Speaker 4: Speak for yourself. 537 00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:20,359 Speaker 2: I'm always hot. I need next to. 538 00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:26,080 Speaker 6: That is just And also I will say this too, 539 00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:30,960 Speaker 6: so this is very specific as well that I definitely 540 00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:34,399 Speaker 6: will be happening at our wedding. So you know, typically, 541 00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:36,720 Speaker 6: like if you're looking at the bride and groom like 542 00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:40,840 Speaker 6: you're in the audience, the bride is usually on the left. 543 00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:44,800 Speaker 4: Can you believe you're staying this? We're switching that. 544 00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:48,880 Speaker 2: I do weddings on my left side. I do weddings, 545 00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:49,359 Speaker 2: as you know. 546 00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:52,600 Speaker 3: And one couple said, no, no, no, I would be 547 00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:54,000 Speaker 3: we can't see him. 548 00:26:54,359 --> 00:26:55,560 Speaker 2: I want to see him the. 549 00:26:55,600 --> 00:26:58,399 Speaker 3: Groom side, so they sat on the opposite side. I 550 00:26:58,440 --> 00:26:59,760 Speaker 3: think it's a brilliant idea. 551 00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:02,720 Speaker 1: I know that's not what she's saying. She's gonna stand 552 00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:03,080 Speaker 1: on them. 553 00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:05,080 Speaker 4: I'm gonna stand on the right dad. 554 00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:07,200 Speaker 7: Side. 555 00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:11,040 Speaker 6: Yeah, I was like, I am not going to settle 556 00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:14,040 Speaker 6: for hating every single one of my wedding pictures because 557 00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:16,200 Speaker 6: my right side is the one that she allowed. 558 00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:18,040 Speaker 4: So we're switching it. 559 00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:20,720 Speaker 3: Okay, were a bridal party? Do you want a big, 560 00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:24,480 Speaker 3: huge wedding or like really popular right now? Is not 561 00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:25,920 Speaker 3: even having anybody? 562 00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:27,880 Speaker 7: We have talked about that too. 563 00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:31,760 Speaker 5: We're like, do we want to do uh more intimate 564 00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:36,800 Speaker 5: like destination wedding or the fuck with everyone? We're definitely 565 00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:40,080 Speaker 5: going to have to do something close to Tennessee for 566 00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:41,879 Speaker 5: her Maandma Madma. 567 00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:45,440 Speaker 6: Yeah, she doesn't fly and she'll she'll be She's fine 568 00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:49,160 Speaker 6: on a longer drive. But also, like I just think 569 00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:51,680 Speaker 6: it would be so pre I'm from upper East Tennessee, 570 00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:52,640 Speaker 6: so it's. 571 00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:59,320 Speaker 4: Like mountains and it's so well, we'll most likely do Tennessee, 572 00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:01,639 Speaker 4: but I don't know. We're still We're still open. 573 00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:10,800 Speaker 1: I have a very important question. Two things. You know, 574 00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:13,919 Speaker 1: how wedding parties, Like the new thing is to not 575 00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:17,280 Speaker 1: have a wedding party. That's that's a new trend. So 576 00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:23,440 Speaker 1: but here's my question. Those two pups of yours have 577 00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:24,240 Speaker 1: to be in the wedding. 578 00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:25,960 Speaker 4: They will be. 579 00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:26,760 Speaker 7: They will. 580 00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:28,800 Speaker 1: My daughter had there her dog. 581 00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:33,160 Speaker 5: That's also my business, so I'm in the pet business. Yeah, 582 00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:36,800 Speaker 5: that's bad for business if we don't have pets. 583 00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:39,200 Speaker 6: Like I already thought about, Like we're gonna hire a 584 00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:39,880 Speaker 6: dog sitter or. 585 00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:44,000 Speaker 4: Be there for the ceremony. 586 00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:49,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, wait, aren't the dogs going to be at the ceremony? 587 00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:52,000 Speaker 4: Well yes, yes, my. 588 00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:56,800 Speaker 1: Son in law's boxer. They haveing a boxer together. The 589 00:28:56,920 --> 00:28:59,360 Speaker 1: dog literally walked up the aisle with a handler. 590 00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:00,640 Speaker 4: Oh that's amazing. 591 00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:02,280 Speaker 5: I don't know if I could train Rude to do 592 00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:05,880 Speaker 5: that she's pretty fine, she's smart. 593 00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:10,160 Speaker 3: I have a wedding coming in late August and northern California. 594 00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:13,200 Speaker 3: It's two women and they're dogs. They each have a 595 00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:17,320 Speaker 3: dog and they're the ring barriers. Both dogs are bringing 596 00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:17,800 Speaker 3: up a ring. 597 00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:20,200 Speaker 2: I go, are you serious? Do you trust them? 598 00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:23,040 Speaker 5: I see the one thing I am worried about to 599 00:29:23,880 --> 00:29:27,400 Speaker 5: her finding enough bridesmaids to match? 600 00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:28,520 Speaker 7: How many are you. 601 00:29:30,240 --> 00:29:30,840 Speaker 2: Don't have any? 602 00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:33,680 Speaker 5: Between me? It's me and my three brothers. So there's 603 00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:38,080 Speaker 5: four of us and then at least three three or 604 00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:41,640 Speaker 5: four friends for sure that are going to and. 605 00:29:41,560 --> 00:29:44,760 Speaker 6: I have no siblings, but that's okay. I have I 606 00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:47,240 Speaker 6: have my best friends, and I have plenty of cousins. 607 00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:49,520 Speaker 1: So so wait, would you have who are your best 608 00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:51,880 Speaker 1: friends from Bachelor? Would any of those people be in 609 00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:53,040 Speaker 1: a wedding party? 610 00:29:53,920 --> 00:29:55,080 Speaker 7: Oh? Wedding? 611 00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:58,560 Speaker 4: Leah? Yeah? 612 00:29:58,640 --> 00:29:59,920 Speaker 2: Do you keep in touch with anyone? 613 00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:00,720 Speaker 7: L sort? 614 00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:02,720 Speaker 1: Yeah? 615 00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:05,160 Speaker 5: We keep in touch with like Alex and Andrew. Yeah, 616 00:30:05,200 --> 00:30:06,920 Speaker 5: we talked to pretty frequently. 617 00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:10,840 Speaker 4: I talked to Jonathan Leah is my girl. I talked 618 00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:13,800 Speaker 4: to Caitlin from my season. I talked to Lexi from 619 00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:15,120 Speaker 4: also from my season. 620 00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:18,280 Speaker 5: And Katie we'll talk to yeah, because they're really cool. Actually, 621 00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:19,760 Speaker 5: that's why we need to visit Austin. 622 00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:22,080 Speaker 1: No, no, no, you need to visit Austin for me 623 00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:23,720 Speaker 1: and Zack and Katie and. 624 00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:28,560 Speaker 5: Then my one of my best friends. So outside of 625 00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:31,880 Speaker 5: my two best friends that live here, my other best 626 00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:36,040 Speaker 5: friend was on Hannah Brown season long time ago, so 627 00:30:36,080 --> 00:30:38,200 Speaker 5: we were friends before he was on the show or 628 00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:38,920 Speaker 5: I was on the show. 629 00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:41,160 Speaker 7: But so I guess technically that counts. 630 00:30:41,240 --> 00:30:46,400 Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, wow, that's amazing. 631 00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:51,040 Speaker 3: So what do you hope twenty twenty six brings. 632 00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:54,440 Speaker 7: I have a lot of hopes for twenty twenty six? 633 00:30:54,520 --> 00:30:55,320 Speaker 7: What about you, babe? 634 00:30:56,760 --> 00:31:00,479 Speaker 6: Honestly, just like, well, when it comes to us together, 635 00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:05,080 Speaker 6: just like our growth as a couple, and I think 636 00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:08,800 Speaker 6: also like I'm just so excited to spend all the 637 00:31:08,840 --> 00:31:12,320 Speaker 6: different things together, like like our first birthdays together, and 638 00:31:12,440 --> 00:31:15,840 Speaker 6: just like I am such a like memory person, like 639 00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:20,560 Speaker 6: I love making memories and engs and yeah, trude new traditions, 640 00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:23,400 Speaker 6: like all things. And also like we want to visit 641 00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:24,840 Speaker 6: a couple of new places this year. 642 00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:30,480 Speaker 5: Later in the year, god, finally, lucky with we have 643 00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:33,240 Speaker 5: some flights we have to use before the end of 644 00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:33,560 Speaker 5: the year. 645 00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:34,960 Speaker 7: Yes, I think will be. 646 00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:38,959 Speaker 1: Where you go on adventures. Where are you're going? You know? 647 00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:43,080 Speaker 5: Well, well one of them is a surprise, because we 648 00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:45,240 Speaker 5: are surprising our moms. 649 00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:51,960 Speaker 1: Our moms on we can't I love to sleep on 650 00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:56,360 Speaker 1: and then work. Do your moms know that they're being surprised? 651 00:31:56,760 --> 00:31:59,000 Speaker 4: They know that they know that they're going on a trip. 652 00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:00,280 Speaker 7: They don't know where they're going. 653 00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:01,800 Speaker 1: Were moms know each other? 654 00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:06,960 Speaker 6: Now they haven't men person yet, unfortunately, but on FaceTime 655 00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:10,120 Speaker 6: plenty of times. 656 00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:13,560 Speaker 2: They want to know each other. The dad's home, No, 657 00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:14,480 Speaker 2: dad's allowed. 658 00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:17,200 Speaker 4: Well, both of our parents are divorced. 659 00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:19,840 Speaker 3: Okay, you have to do Yeah, it's going to say 660 00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:21,040 Speaker 3: Spence and three women. 661 00:32:22,120 --> 00:32:26,480 Speaker 5: It wouldn't be uh, it'd be a little awkward with yeah, 662 00:32:26,560 --> 00:32:30,960 Speaker 5: never mind and so yeah that and then we we've 663 00:32:30,960 --> 00:32:32,800 Speaker 5: looked at. 664 00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:38,640 Speaker 7: Either Greece, yeah, or Italy soul. Yeah soul. 665 00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:41,160 Speaker 6: We have some big we just have to sit down 666 00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:43,320 Speaker 6: and actually plant it. But we're gonna go on some 667 00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:44,600 Speaker 6: adventures this year. 668 00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:46,840 Speaker 7: You and then we have the Bachelor of Nation crews 669 00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:47,280 Speaker 7: coming up. 670 00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:51,440 Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, we're going to be We're going to be 671 00:32:52,360 --> 00:32:52,880 Speaker 1: so fun. 672 00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:55,160 Speaker 4: I'm actually going to be on that. 673 00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:59,080 Speaker 3: So you expect us to work. 674 00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:00,040 Speaker 2: I don't see how. 675 00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:04,840 Speaker 5: I was telling her that yet, I was like, yeah, 676 00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:06,640 Speaker 5: I can't wait for the cruise. I'm gonna like hang 677 00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:10,640 Speaker 5: out the guys. He's like, you're gonna be working. I'm like, 678 00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:13,400 Speaker 5: I'm gonna be working out. 679 00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:15,040 Speaker 2: They're gonna be late for work. 680 00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:18,320 Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm gonna be calling work. 681 00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:22,080 Speaker 1: No, Spencer, you're gonna be calling. Here's this gonna be Spencer. Okay, 682 00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:30,080 Speaker 1: everyone listen up w N five. He's gonna buy. That's 683 00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:31,000 Speaker 1: gonna be Spencer. 684 00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:35,440 Speaker 5: Will be fun because one of the bigger things we 685 00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:38,440 Speaker 5: have planned is the Chicago Marathon. 686 00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:41,240 Speaker 6: Because then he and I'll be there with the sign 687 00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:43,360 Speaker 6: Yeah a minute, I. 688 00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:46,760 Speaker 5: Saw your running Yeah for autism Speaks. So that'll be 689 00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:47,760 Speaker 5: really really fun. 690 00:33:48,200 --> 00:33:49,920 Speaker 1: Are you a marathon runner, Spencer? 691 00:33:50,560 --> 00:33:54,720 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, Actually it's the Ultra marathons. So a fifty 692 00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:57,160 Speaker 5: in Arizona. 693 00:33:57,520 --> 00:33:57,960 Speaker 2: Wow. 694 00:33:58,360 --> 00:33:58,600 Speaker 7: Yeah. 695 00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:01,440 Speaker 2: I would follow him in the car, yes, with some water. 696 00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:04,760 Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, I'm gonna be the parts. 697 00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:06,200 Speaker 1: But didn't you start running? 698 00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:07,080 Speaker 7: Yes? 699 00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:08,480 Speaker 4: Oh I did? 700 00:34:08,760 --> 00:34:11,960 Speaker 6: Okay, so that actually is so the only time I 701 00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:15,239 Speaker 6: ever ran is I cheered in high school and so 702 00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:16,920 Speaker 6: we would have to condition in the summer. 703 00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:18,440 Speaker 4: But like we would run around the. 704 00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:20,840 Speaker 6: Track a couple of times like maybe go a mile 705 00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:24,280 Speaker 6: and likest. 706 00:34:24,480 --> 00:34:27,600 Speaker 7: We had our first track run on Thursday, was well 707 00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:28,040 Speaker 7: because he. 708 00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:30,759 Speaker 6: Goes all the time, like literally, y'all. On Saturday he 709 00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:33,439 Speaker 6: set an alarm for what was it four or five? 710 00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:35,360 Speaker 4: It was four am. 711 00:34:35,440 --> 00:34:37,960 Speaker 6: He set an alarm because his friends were our training 712 00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:40,799 Speaker 6: for a different race and he wanted to go get 713 00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:42,920 Speaker 6: some miles in with them, and he just ran a 714 00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:44,600 Speaker 6: casual fifteen miles. 715 00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:46,800 Speaker 4: On were raining for fun to go hang out with 716 00:34:46,840 --> 00:34:47,240 Speaker 4: the boys. 717 00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:48,880 Speaker 7: Seventeen seventeen. 718 00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:53,400 Speaker 1: My bad, my bad, But do you remember at the beach, 719 00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:57,560 Speaker 1: Spencer you I was always on the beach working out, 720 00:34:57,680 --> 00:35:00,520 Speaker 1: and you would it's Spencer, you are a Every. 721 00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:02,720 Speaker 4: Morning he would run and I'd be the last. 722 00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:06,319 Speaker 5: Actually nothing. I'm sorry for all the podcast listeners here. 723 00:35:06,920 --> 00:35:10,080 Speaker 5: Kathy liked to go on walks and not tell anyone 724 00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:14,200 Speaker 5: she was leaving. Disappeared for like three hours. So one 725 00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:18,239 Speaker 5: morning production came up to me and goes, we can't 726 00:35:18,239 --> 00:35:21,080 Speaker 5: find Kathy. We know you like to run. Do you 727 00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:24,960 Speaker 5: go run and find her? Know where she is? So 728 00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:28,680 Speaker 5: I'm running up the beach looking for Kathy. She was 729 00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:33,359 Speaker 5: five miles down the beach, live mile. 730 00:35:33,719 --> 00:35:35,040 Speaker 2: That's her every day walk. 731 00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:38,360 Speaker 1: Her walk five miles every day, and I'm well aware. 732 00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:41,400 Speaker 1: I didn't know I was getting it into trouble. And 733 00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:44,800 Speaker 1: then and then you guys would go off and run 734 00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:47,680 Speaker 1: and I was like, you know me, like what's fair? 735 00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:50,160 Speaker 1: And I was like, wait a minute, Spencer's going out 736 00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:53,720 Speaker 1: and Rende said, well, you know they're safe and they're training, 737 00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:55,640 Speaker 1: and I was like, what am I doing, chop liver? 738 00:35:57,880 --> 00:36:00,840 Speaker 1: So yeah, you're right, you and you found Hey. 739 00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:03,720 Speaker 5: The thing is you're much more valuable to the show 740 00:36:03,800 --> 00:36:08,440 Speaker 5: than me, so day they have to keep you safe. 741 00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:10,520 Speaker 5: So I was retrieved. 742 00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:11,080 Speaker 7: Kay. 743 00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:13,680 Speaker 6: I never knew any of this was going on because 744 00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:16,160 Speaker 6: I was the last reason to show up every. 745 00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:17,120 Speaker 1: Single morning, like, oh, I know. 746 00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:20,280 Speaker 6: I would be laying in bed until they were like, Jess, 747 00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:23,680 Speaker 6: everyone is out there except you get off to go, 748 00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:24,839 Speaker 6: and I'm like, damn it. 749 00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:29,040 Speaker 1: And let me just say Jess wakes up, rolls out 750 00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:31,600 Speaker 1: of bed and looks as beautiful as she does right now. 751 00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:33,840 Speaker 7: Yeah, lucky you. 752 00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:37,800 Speaker 1: All right? Wait, I have to ask, speaking of Paradise, 753 00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:42,080 Speaker 1: perfect segue here, what's something you'd love to see happen 754 00:36:42,120 --> 00:36:44,880 Speaker 1: at the beach next season? I would love to know? 755 00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:48,160 Speaker 1: And is there anyone besides Kathy here, who should get 756 00:36:48,200 --> 00:36:49,360 Speaker 1: another shot at Paradise? 757 00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:53,520 Speaker 5: First off, Kathy and I think bring Keith back to 758 00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:55,839 Speaker 5: We need to bring Keith, I was about to say. 759 00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:59,359 Speaker 5: And then I would love for my man, Jonathan's people 760 00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:03,239 Speaker 5: go on there and find someone. Yeah, Jonathan's a really 761 00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:05,040 Speaker 5: good guy. And I think that it. 762 00:37:05,040 --> 00:37:07,040 Speaker 7: Might just not have been the right you know what 763 00:37:08,440 --> 00:37:10,640 Speaker 7: to see happen. She wants drama, what do you want? 764 00:37:10,760 --> 00:37:15,840 Speaker 6: No, no, no, no, not true. I would like to 765 00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:18,520 Speaker 6: see us show back up and give some couple advice. 766 00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:22,280 Speaker 2: Yes, you know what. I think that's a great idea. 767 00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:25,200 Speaker 1: I think it's a great but I think it's a 768 00:37:25,239 --> 00:37:27,920 Speaker 1: great idea. I think it's a great idea. 769 00:37:29,120 --> 00:37:31,080 Speaker 3: Do you think with the new twist with all the 770 00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:33,400 Speaker 3: money and I'm shocked. 771 00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:39,360 Speaker 5: I will say, I don't know how they replicate last 772 00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:40,320 Speaker 5: season again. 773 00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:42,960 Speaker 7: This season because I think that people talk to us. 774 00:37:43,120 --> 00:37:45,920 Speaker 7: He had no clue, and I do think people would 775 00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:46,720 Speaker 7: go on. 776 00:37:48,080 --> 00:37:50,680 Speaker 5: For difficult it would get to know each other right 777 00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:54,520 Speaker 5: now and lie about it and go on to win. 778 00:37:54,680 --> 00:37:58,000 Speaker 7: So I think it would be. 779 00:37:57,120 --> 00:38:00,759 Speaker 6: One and done, be done at least like one, and 780 00:38:00,800 --> 00:38:02,359 Speaker 6: then maybe do it again in a couple of years 781 00:38:02,360 --> 00:38:04,719 Speaker 6: when no one Yeah. 782 00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:06,279 Speaker 7: Yeah, I just think it'd be tough. 783 00:38:06,320 --> 00:38:10,480 Speaker 5: I think that I think we got really lucky with 784 00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:13,840 Speaker 5: the cast we had and the people there, because with 785 00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:17,080 Speaker 5: all the money being introduced, they could have gone a 786 00:38:17,160 --> 00:38:19,200 Speaker 5: totally different direction, I think. 787 00:38:20,040 --> 00:38:23,120 Speaker 7: And yeah, no, I'm just I was really happy to 788 00:38:23,160 --> 00:38:24,000 Speaker 7: be obviously. 789 00:38:24,040 --> 00:38:26,640 Speaker 1: Yeah. You know, Keith I promised me he'd send me 790 00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:28,560 Speaker 1: a quick fifty if we didn't go for the money. 791 00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:33,719 Speaker 1: And I'm still waiting. Man, that's a joke. Now that's 792 00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:35,239 Speaker 1: going to be the headline. That's a joke. 793 00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:37,840 Speaker 4: Ye going to be on Facebook? 794 00:38:38,200 --> 00:38:42,120 Speaker 1: Okay, way, question, Wait, I have one more question about Paradise. 795 00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:45,320 Speaker 1: Tell me about Dale and Kat break. 796 00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:46,560 Speaker 2: What you've read my mind? 797 00:38:47,040 --> 00:38:52,200 Speaker 1: Sorry, so sorry, Oh look, all of a sudden, I 798 00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:52,880 Speaker 1: got quiet. 799 00:38:53,960 --> 00:39:00,680 Speaker 6: Well you know what, I was here Dallas, we got 800 00:39:00,719 --> 00:39:06,160 Speaker 6: all the tea just a couple of weeks. We mean, yeah, 801 00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:11,239 Speaker 6: and you know what, I think that, Like, obviously there's 802 00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:13,480 Speaker 6: two sides to every story, but I just think at 803 00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:18,000 Speaker 6: the end of the day, like there wasn't time being 804 00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:23,480 Speaker 6: made for the relationship on Dale's side, and so I 805 00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:25,040 Speaker 6: think that, you know, Oh you mean. 806 00:39:24,960 --> 00:39:26,880 Speaker 1: Wait, I'm sorry, after Paradise. 807 00:39:26,480 --> 00:39:28,319 Speaker 4: You're talking about Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, Wait. 808 00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:32,799 Speaker 1: No, no, no, I know, I'm I just when you 809 00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:34,600 Speaker 1: said time for the relationship, I didn't know if you 810 00:39:34,680 --> 00:39:38,080 Speaker 1: meant pre you mean the fact. 811 00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:41,000 Speaker 6: I just think that like he and there's you know, 812 00:39:41,120 --> 00:39:42,920 Speaker 6: a lot more of opinions that I have, But I'm 813 00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:45,480 Speaker 6: going to keep him to myself in that matter because 814 00:39:45,680 --> 00:39:48,480 Speaker 6: I just I don't want to be involved in the drama. 815 00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:50,000 Speaker 4: But I want what's best for Cat. 816 00:39:50,120 --> 00:39:53,799 Speaker 6: She wasn't being treated the way that she deserved and like, 817 00:39:54,120 --> 00:39:54,800 Speaker 6: don't settle. 818 00:39:58,239 --> 00:40:00,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, I just think that, like, yeah, he just he 819 00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:02,160 Speaker 4: wasn't putting. 820 00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:05,879 Speaker 6: Time and effort in fair enough relationship. And like it 821 00:40:05,880 --> 00:40:08,840 Speaker 6: it's hard. You have to be able to do that. 822 00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:10,680 Speaker 6: I mean, take it from us, Like we were living 823 00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:13,720 Speaker 6: in two different places. We both have full time jobs 824 00:40:13,800 --> 00:40:18,160 Speaker 6: like along with like our relationship and doing trying to 825 00:40:18,200 --> 00:40:21,600 Speaker 6: do influencing, Like there's so many different things, and like 826 00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:25,239 Speaker 6: if you're not able to put time into someone, it's not. 827 00:40:25,200 --> 00:40:25,839 Speaker 4: Gonna work out. 828 00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:29,480 Speaker 3: All right, That does it for today's episode, but we'll 829 00:40:29,520 --> 00:40:33,280 Speaker 3: be back for part two with Jesson Spencer later this week.