Speaker 1: Second date, up date. I have been waiting for this
Speaker 1: moment for an entire week.
Speaker 2: I am so excited.
Speaker 3: I know you're actually smiling, ladies.
Speaker 1: And gentlemen, making his glorious return. Please welcome back to
Speaker 1: the show a fan favorite.
Speaker 2: Can I get a drum roll please for.
Speaker 4: The one the only Ruffer.
Speaker 5: Rufer.
Speaker 1: Welcome back, dude.
Speaker 5: Yeah, thanks for having me back.
Speaker 4: You're getting more requests than song requests.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, you remind me Rufer what you were on, Like,
Speaker 3: we had a second date last time, but I can't remember.
Speaker 1: It's been over a year since he was last on
Speaker 1: with them, and Rufe has actually been on the show
Speaker 1: three different times. The most memorable one for me was
Speaker 1: the coffee date that you had with a girl, which
Speaker 1: you forgot about because that morning you were let's call
Speaker 1: her medically enhanced sure that you may or may not
Speaker 1: have been staring at the clock, or you stared at
Speaker 1: it for too long and it's zoned out. We're just
Speaker 1: gonna say that you forgot but yeah, that didn't work. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that sounds good, That sounds good, sounds like me. Anyway,
Speaker 1: we don't need to go any more detail about that.
Speaker 1: The bottom line is for your friend of the show.
Speaker 1: We love hearing from you. So let's talk about this
Speaker 1: new woman that you just met. What's her name?
Speaker 5: Yeah? Her name is is Cheryl?
Speaker 2: Okay, where'd you meet her?
Speaker 5: And we met on the bus.
Speaker 1: She passed out to I am not surprised.
Speaker 5: First of all, she was awake. I wanta.
Speaker 2: Good for you, dude.
Speaker 3: We know Jeffrey's humor.
Speaker 4: You're good man.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Well, like I didn't have a bus pass, so she
Speaker 5: offered to cover my bus pass.
Speaker 3: Ah, wow, did you not even digging in the trash
Speaker 3: for a transfer?
Speaker 1: Okay, so how did you and Cheryl'll get to talking
Speaker 1: to each other?
Speaker 2: Interacting with each other?
Speaker 5: I mean, like I said, she bought me the bus pass,
Speaker 5: and then she decided to sit with me. So I
Speaker 5: started talking on the bus ride.
Speaker 3: About her part meeting a man at a bus stop
Speaker 3: and sitting next to him.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: So how did that conversation with her go?
Speaker 5: Well, she said she was going to the botanical gardens.
Speaker 1: Oh cool.
Speaker 6: I was like, oh man, I got nothing else to do, Like, wait,
Speaker 6: you invited yourself?
Speaker 3: Invite you.
Speaker 5: There's a little boat that was kind of like, can
Speaker 5: I tag along?
Speaker 4: And I like botanicals. I like greens.
Speaker 2: Oh you're going to a funeral?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Sure, you know, my god, I say, good for you.
Speaker 2: Okay. Was she open to that?
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the question.
Speaker 5: Yeah, no, she was like cool.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay.
Speaker 3: So you guys went to the botanical gardens together.
Speaker 2: How was that?
Speaker 5: Uh disappointing?
Speaker 7: Oh?
Speaker 4: Oh wait, why?
Speaker 5: I guess I didn't know the botanical garden was, but
Speaker 5: I was picturing it like an underwater thing. Huh.
Speaker 4: Oh it's not an aquarium.
Speaker 5: Like it was just a regular, regular gardens.
Speaker 4: Yeah. Did you voice how much you thought it sucked?
Speaker 5: I tried to kind of keep it to myself. But
Speaker 5: then after about twenty minutes of just looking at like
Speaker 5: flowers and stuff, you kind of you know, I got bored.
Speaker 4: Ah yeah, seen one flower? You see them all.
Speaker 1: Did you try to talk to your kind of date,
Speaker 1: the girl at all?
Speaker 4: Did you ask her any questions when you got bored?
Speaker 7: Oh?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I just kept talking like basic smile talk, what
Speaker 5: do you do for work? And all that kind of stuff.
Speaker 5: But I also brought this thermos and she shared some
Speaker 5: of my pre mixed stuff.
Speaker 4: Uh pre mix?
Speaker 3: What does that mean?
Speaker 1: I'm afraid to ask? What was your pre mix in
Speaker 1: your thermis.
Speaker 5: I call it a morning trucker. It's just like whiskey
Speaker 5: and OJ kind of like, oh whisky.
Speaker 2: What did you tell her?
Speaker 3: What was in this?
Speaker 4: Before she took a.
Speaker 2: Big sip, like, I just said, it's whiskey and j Okay.
Speaker 1: You told her?
Speaker 4: Okay?
Speaker 1: Did that change the date around? Make things go a
Speaker 1: little bit better?
Speaker 5: I mean, you know, it took the edge off a
Speaker 5: little bit, but no boring garden.
Speaker 4: Okay, it's a boring garden.
Speaker 2: So well, maybe you need to change the scenery at
Speaker 2: that point.
Speaker 5: Well I tried, so after an hour, I was like,
Speaker 5: you want to go go to like a bar or something.
Speaker 1: What time in the morning is that you already have
Speaker 1: ye your mixed thermos of whiskey and ojhich sounds Oh.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's what she kind of said too. Are you
Speaker 5: already drinking?
Speaker 2: Okay?
Speaker 4: Kind of do you want to?
Speaker 5: I want to mix it up, get other drinks.
Speaker 4: You can't day drink unless you start.
Speaker 2: In the morning.
Speaker 1: So you offered to change scenery, go to a bar
Speaker 1: and drink. What did she say?
Speaker 5: She did not want to do that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so sound very fun.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean she took a bus with the sole
Speaker 3: purpose of spending time in this garden. She was really
Speaker 3: excited about it.
Speaker 1: Honestly, Rufe, I'm surprised you'd even want to call a
Speaker 1: woman like this back killed.
Speaker 5: Still, overall, was the garden that that suck.
Speaker 6: Her?
Speaker 2: You felt the vibe?
Speaker 4: You just think it was setting that messed it up
Speaker 4: for you?
Speaker 5: Yeah, totally.
Speaker 3: Did she share her phone number with you?
Speaker 5: Rufer? Yeah? I did get her number, and I mean, okay,
Speaker 5: my fault, but like, why she's not calling back? I
Speaker 5: kind of let the old cricket wireless account expire.
Speaker 4: There also, your cell phones off? Where are you calling
Speaker 4: us from? I was going to say, maybe she's single?
Speaker 4: It works now it was shut off temporarily.
Speaker 1: I just wonder who that cricket?
Speaker 4: Yeah, a lot.
Speaker 2: Of people, that's Rufer.
Speaker 1: Okay, now your cell phone's back up and running, and
Speaker 1: you still haven't heard anything back from her, No text,
Speaker 1: no calls, nothing.
Speaker 5: Yeah. I mean again, it was down for like a week,
Speaker 5: but I could text her would have got back up.
Speaker 5: And yeah, So I mean, was.
Speaker 3: There anything romantic about this, because maybe she wouldn't it
Speaker 3: in it? Think you more of a French?
Speaker 1: Did you not hear him say morning trucker out?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 1: And that should have won you over, like by miles
Speaker 1: at this point.
Speaker 5: Yes, yeah, I mean I don't think, like the first
Speaker 5: hangout it's to be romantic or anything, but like we
Speaker 5: totally vibed good.
Speaker 2: That's a good awkward.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we just need a good starting point to jump
Speaker 1: off from. So that's what we're gonna do. We're all
Speaker 1: gonna have some morning Truckers and come back. Yeah, we're
Speaker 1: doing it for Rufer coming back and Collin Cheryl. Try
Speaker 1: to get your second date update right after this second
Speaker 1: date update, quick recap for our good buddy Rufer, who
Speaker 1: is back on the show.
Speaker 2: We're getting a lot of texts at seventy five ninety two.
Speaker 1: By the way, if people very excited saying Rufer's back.
Speaker 2: Love me some roof raise the roof, a lot of
Speaker 2: roof pumps.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like we should just be chanting Ruf Rue.
Speaker 1: You should tons of fans of Rufers. So, Rufer, is
Speaker 1: there anything you want to say to your radio posse
Speaker 1: who's listening right now?
Speaker 4: The roof heads?
Speaker 5: Oh? Man, I mean you guys already already hit it,
Speaker 5: but thank you. Yeah.
Speaker 1: But Rufer has come to us again today, this time
Speaker 1: because he met a woman on the bus. Public transportation
Speaker 1: is where all the hidden hotties lie, and this one
Speaker 1: is named Cheryl. Rufer invited himself to the botanical gardens
Speaker 1: with her, where she was already going, and they shared
Speaker 1: his thermistful of Trucker moonshine whatever it was, and after
Speaker 1: about an hour that they decided to call it a day. Rufer,
Speaker 1: don't let him talk about you like that.
Speaker 5: What is it called again, It's it's morning, Trucker Morning.
Speaker 4: It does sound better when you when it goes by
Speaker 4: a name.
Speaker 2: Yeah, screwdriver doesn't sound true. But I don't like when
Speaker 2: he doesn't like vodka standards.
Speaker 1: Nous, No, he said vodka. Rufer's got some class. But
Speaker 1: he did feel something when he hung out with Cheryl.
Speaker 1: And it's not just the headache that he woke up
Speaker 1: with after begaining consciousness in the bushes. He really liked her.
Speaker 1: And Rufer knows when you like someone and they're not
Speaker 1: reaching out back to you, you come to us.
Speaker 4: We've always gotten on the line at least.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think we've ever gotten a successful second
Speaker 1: date for you yet.
Speaker 2: This might be the one, though, Rufer.
Speaker 5: I feel, I feel.
Speaker 4: The worst case, you made more.
Speaker 3: You know that means that you haven't had enough morning truck.
Speaker 2: If you still feel all right.
Speaker 5: You're right, let me tap myself off real quick.
Speaker 1: That's a good idea.
Speaker 4: No, don't. Sounds like you got it on top.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like what you've done broke? All right, Here we go.
Speaker 1: We're gonna call Cheryl. You hold on to that drink.
Speaker 1: We're going to talk to her for a bit.
Speaker 2: Here we go.
Speaker 1: Well, ah, right, we're looking to speak with Cheryl.
Speaker 5: Yes, it's a sheet.
Speaker 1: Oh man, is this going to be a surprising phone call?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Eryl, You're on a radio show right now, and everybody.
Speaker 6: In this room thinks that you're a very, very lucky
Speaker 6: woman by brave woman, I share al. Okay, Hi, So
Speaker 6: we're a show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning,
Speaker 6: and uh we do this segment called a second Date
Speaker 6: Update where we try to help out our listeners with
Speaker 6: their dating life if they want to see somebody again
Speaker 6: after going out on one date. Okay, there is a
Speaker 6: guy that wants to see you one more time.
Speaker 3: I mean, I guess you weren't really a date date.
Speaker 1: But his name is Rufer. Is how we know him?
Speaker 1: I don't know if he introduces himself a different Oh.
Speaker 7: My god, Rufer, Okay, you know him, that was like
Speaker 7: six months ago?
Speaker 4: What wait, six months you.
Speaker 3: Did the Are you sure you're talking about the same guy,
Speaker 3: the guy that you met on the bus.
Speaker 4: And you guys went to the garden?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh we okay. You know what, we never asked
Speaker 1: how long ago the date was, just we all assumed
Speaker 1: it would be like a week ago, because that's normally
Speaker 1: what people do on.
Speaker 3: This totally different season that you were in the.
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, well I'm sorry about that. We're gonna have
Speaker 1: to ask you to go way back into your memory
Speaker 1: bank though, and see if you can recall what that
Speaker 1: hangout with him was, like, I mean, it was memorable.
Speaker 5: Will hard forget?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Positive?
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean I didn't say that.
Speaker 1: I Well, we've heard a little bit about the date
Speaker 1: or the hangout from Ruffer, but sometimes with these calls,
Speaker 1: the guys will remember things differently than the girls do.
Speaker 1: So can we ask how did you feel when you
Speaker 1: met Ruffer on that public bus and he invited himself
Speaker 1: to the botanical gardens with you?
Speaker 6: I mean, he.
Speaker 7: Seems really interested in the botanical gardens, which is not
Speaker 7: many men that I know are cool with like going
Speaker 7: as smell the flowers or whatever.
Speaker 1: Yeah, to be fair, he didn't know exactly what the
Speaker 1: botanical gardens were, so it's more of a discovery mission
Speaker 1: than anything.
Speaker 3: I feel like she's getting when he was Yeah, that
Speaker 3: makes a lot of sense.
Speaker 7: Actually, why what.
Speaker 3: Was he like in the gardens?
Speaker 7: I mean we got there and we were like wandering
Speaker 7: around for a little while. We ended up in the
Speaker 7: main building and like he starts talking to one of
Speaker 7: the employees and he tells them like that he doesn't
Speaker 7: feel well and is there anywhere for him to like
Speaker 7: lay down?
Speaker 1: And oh god, what is going on?
Speaker 7: Is he okay?
Speaker 3: Is this is this after you guys shared the whiskey
Speaker 3: and orange juice out of his thermos?
Speaker 7: Oh that was later? That was after this?
Speaker 2: What was it good?
Speaker 5: By the way, Yeah, I don't like orange hues that much.
Speaker 2: Yeah, sorry to sidetrack you.
Speaker 1: You're you're in this building and he's talking to the
Speaker 1: staff about laying down.
Speaker 7: The staff like signs a room for him to go
Speaker 7: into to lie down. But as as he gets in there,
Speaker 7: he pulls out his phone charger and starts charging it.
Speaker 4: No, wait, was it an excuse for a phone charger.
Speaker 3: Is that what you're implying?
Speaker 7: I think so I had no idea what was going on.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's resourceful, that's true.
Speaker 2: You're gonna take anything from that?
Speaker 3: Did you stay in the room with him?
Speaker 7: I wandered around and look some of the stuff in
Speaker 7: the main building, and like ten minutes later, he walked
Speaker 7: out and was like, let's keep going, I guess.
Speaker 5: So we walked outside.
Speaker 7: We were in the gardens for a while, okay, and
Speaker 7: like I turn around and suddenly he's just gone, nowhere
Speaker 7: to be found. Okay, So I go and I looked
Speaker 7: around this like one of those you know boxwood hedges
Speaker 7: that really like thick bushes. Yeah, behind the bush, peeing
Speaker 7: into another display peeing, Yeah.
Speaker 3: Peeted into display of flowers.
Speaker 6: Yeah, those are like expensive, super well kept flowers.
Speaker 3: There are so many bathrooms. What did you do?
Speaker 7: I pretended I didn't see him and was okay.
Speaker 1: I could see how that would be a jolting experience
Speaker 1: for you. I will say we didn't hear that version
Speaker 1: of the story from.
Speaker 3: Rufer's because he doesn't know that she saw it, or.
Speaker 1: Because it was six months ago and he has a
Speaker 1: hard time remember that. I think the only way to
Speaker 1: clear everything up is to just connect you with Rufer
Speaker 1: right now, who's actually on the other line at the moment?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, for you there?
Speaker 5: Yeah, what's going on?
Speaker 1: It sounds a little looser than when we started the doll.
Speaker 5: I mean, the phone thing makes sense. My phone's always
Speaker 5: running out of juice.
Speaker 1: You don't remember that you remember going in charging your phone?
Speaker 6: I don't, but probably, but it checks out like you Okay,
Speaker 6: that's something.
Speaker 5: I would and I'm sorry. The bushes, I mean, that's
Speaker 5: usually what bushes are for, right.
Speaker 1: No, no brons, especially in the botanical garden.
Speaker 5: Yeah, there were a lot of bathrooms around Ruper.
Speaker 7: He could have definitely gone in one of those. Hey,
Speaker 7: when you gotta go right, No, not, that's.
Speaker 3: I mean.
Speaker 7: The worst thing is like it was like a raised box.
Speaker 2: Was in its own maybe maybe there.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like the visual confused him.
Speaker 2: After all. The morning truckers, I.
Speaker 5: Think I problem put like coffee in it too, and
Speaker 5: coffee just goes right through me. Coffee called the morning trucker.
Speaker 5: What else do you drink in the morning?
Speaker 4: I think that's called a four logo?
Speaker 1: Oh my god.
Speaker 2: Wow. Okay, for the.
Speaker 7: Record, I don't remember any coffee in that sermon.
Speaker 5: I think it was mostly whiskey, in.
Speaker 7: A quiet whisper of orange shoe.
Speaker 8: Okay, well, the good news is that that the memory
Speaker 8: of it, the memory has stuck with you so long,
Speaker 8: possibly because of such a strong connection that you and
Speaker 8: your Otherwise you would have forgotten this months ago.
Speaker 7: Certainly it was certainly a colorful experience, one.
Speaker 4: That you would like to have again.
Speaker 2: That's a great idea.
Speaker 1: Broke and Brew would love to offer to funds that
Speaker 1: second day in a brand new location, totally on us,
Speaker 1: paid for by the radio station.
Speaker 5: What do you think, Cheryl, Oh, listen, I'll leave the
Speaker 5: thermost at home, all right, We'll get drinks in a
Speaker 5: regular you're drink because then I promise not to piss
Speaker 5: on any endangered species, and I'll buy your bus pass
Speaker 5: this time.
Speaker 2: A man.
Speaker 1: Don't let a gentle poet like this slip away from
Speaker 1: you lot more chance.
Speaker 7: As sivalous as this offer is, I think I'm going
Speaker 7: to have to pass.
Speaker 6: We almost did it, Rufer, Yeah, buddy, I mean Bummer,
Speaker 6: But you know.
Speaker 2: Back to the public transportation system for me.
Speaker 3: Leave the thermost at home, my man.
Speaker 5: Why would you leave the thermost at home. That's the
Speaker 5: whole point of the thermisy in front of you right now.
Speaker 1: I think Brook thinks you should put it in a
Speaker 1: camel back where you can wear.
Speaker 2: It gets way more with him there.
Speaker 4: That is, don't listen to drinking brown water.
Speaker 3: Freaking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: I don't know if we've ever had a listener go
Speaker 1: oh for four on second date updates before or get
Speaker 1: four chances.
Speaker 3: I mean, it's amazing that there's no embarrassment from him,
Speaker 3: though I give him props for that.
Speaker 1: The thing about Ruffer, even still after all that public rejection,
Speaker 1: he is such a chill happy dude.
Speaker 2: How could you not love him?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, I.
Speaker 3: Can see why you wouldn't want to date him, but
Speaker 3: I need to make some lifestyle choice changes, and I
Speaker 3: don't think so health changes.
Speaker 1: I heard Alexis is going to put a shirtless picture
Speaker 1: of ruff in her cubicle next to Michael.
Speaker 2: B Jordan Harry styles.
Speaker 4: All right, you know.
Speaker 1: What he looks like?
Speaker 3: I don't know, but I feel like pictures of Ruffor
Speaker 3: are more pantiless than.
Speaker 4: Can't we just hop on a bus and find him ourselves?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Probably, you can probably smell him out.
Speaker 1: But Ruff is always going to be a friend of
Speaker 1: the show. You could be a friend of the show too.
Speaker 1: You have to do is trust us.
Speaker 2: How hard is that? Email the show.
Speaker 1: We'll call that person who was in calling you back
Speaker 1: and go check out all of our Second Date podcasts
Speaker 1: wherever you get yours at Brook and Jeffrey