WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Return Of Roofer

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<v Speaker 1>Second date, up date. I have been waiting for this

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<v Speaker 1>moment for an entire week.

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<v Speaker 2>I am so excited.

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<v Speaker 3>I know you're actually smiling, ladies.

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<v Speaker 1>And gentlemen, making his glorious return. Please welcome back to

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<v Speaker 1>the show a fan favorite.

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<v Speaker 2>Can I get a drum roll please for.

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<v Speaker 4>The one the only Ruffer.

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<v Speaker 5>Rufer.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome back, dude.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, thanks for having me back.

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<v Speaker 4>You're getting more requests than song requests.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, you remind me Rufer what you were on, Like,

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<v Speaker 3>we had a second date last time, but I can't remember.

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<v Speaker 1>It's been over a year since he was last on

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<v Speaker 1>with them, and Rufe has actually been on the show

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<v Speaker 1>three different times. The most memorable one for me was

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<v Speaker 1>the coffee date that you had with a girl, which

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<v Speaker 1>you forgot about because that morning you were let's call

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<v Speaker 1>her medically enhanced sure that you may or may not

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<v Speaker 1>have been staring at the clock, or you stared at

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<v Speaker 1>it for too long and it's zoned out. We're just

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<v Speaker 1>gonna say that you forgot but yeah, that didn't work. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that sounds good, That sounds good, sounds like me. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>we don't need to go any more detail about that.

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<v Speaker 1>The bottom line is for your friend of the show.

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<v Speaker 1>We love hearing from you. So let's talk about this

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<v Speaker 1>new woman that you just met. What's her name?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? Her name is is Cheryl?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, where'd you meet her?

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<v Speaker 5>And we met on the bus.

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<v Speaker 1>She passed out to I am not surprised.

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<v Speaker 5>First of all, she was awake. I wanta.

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<v Speaker 2>Good for you, dude.

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<v Speaker 3>We know Jeffrey's humor.

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<v Speaker 4>You're good man.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, like I didn't have a bus pass, so she

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<v Speaker 5>offered to cover my bus pass.

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<v Speaker 3>Ah, wow, did you not even digging in the trash

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<v Speaker 3>for a transfer?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so how did you and Cheryl'll get to talking

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<v Speaker 1>to each other?

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<v Speaker 2>Interacting with each other?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, like I said, she bought me the bus pass,

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<v Speaker 5>and then she decided to sit with me. So I

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<v Speaker 5>started talking on the bus ride.

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<v Speaker 3>About her part meeting a man at a bus stop

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<v Speaker 3>and sitting next to him.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So how did that conversation with her go?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, she said she was going to the botanical gardens.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh cool.

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<v Speaker 6>I was like, oh man, I got nothing else to do, Like, wait,

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<v Speaker 6>you invited yourself?

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<v Speaker 3>Invite you.

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<v Speaker 5>There's a little boat that was kind of like, can

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<v Speaker 5>I tag along?

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<v Speaker 4>And I like botanicals. I like greens.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you're going to a funeral?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>Sure, you know, my god, I say, good for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay. Was she open to that?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's the question.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, no, she was like cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>So you guys went to the botanical gardens together.

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<v Speaker 2>How was that?

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<v Speaker 5>Uh disappointing?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh wait, why?

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<v Speaker 5>I guess I didn't know the botanical garden was, but

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<v Speaker 5>I was picturing it like an underwater thing. Huh.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh it's not an aquarium.

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<v Speaker 5>Like it was just a regular, regular gardens.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. Did you voice how much you thought it sucked?

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<v Speaker 5>I tried to kind of keep it to myself. But

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<v Speaker 5>then after about twenty minutes of just looking at like

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<v Speaker 5>flowers and stuff, you kind of you know, I got bored.

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<v Speaker 4>Ah yeah, seen one flower? You see them all.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you try to talk to your kind of date,

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<v Speaker 1>the girl at all?

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<v Speaker 4>Did you ask her any questions when you got bored?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I just kept talking like basic smile talk, what

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<v Speaker 5>do you do for work? And all that kind of stuff.

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<v Speaker 5>But I also brought this thermos and she shared some

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<v Speaker 5>of my pre mixed stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>Uh pre mix?

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<v Speaker 3>What does that mean?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm afraid to ask? What was your pre mix in

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<v Speaker 1>your thermis.

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<v Speaker 5>I call it a morning trucker. It's just like whiskey

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<v Speaker 5>and OJ kind of like, oh whisky.

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<v Speaker 2>What did you tell her?

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<v Speaker 3>What was in this?

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<v Speaker 4>Before she took a.

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<v Speaker 2>Big sip, like, I just said, it's whiskey and j Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>You told her?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Did that change the date around? Make things go a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit better?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, you know, it took the edge off a

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<v Speaker 5>little bit, but no boring garden.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, it's a boring garden.

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<v Speaker 2>So well, maybe you need to change the scenery at

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<v Speaker 2>that point.

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<v Speaker 5>Well I tried, so after an hour, I was like,

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<v Speaker 5>you want to go go to like a bar or something.

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<v Speaker 1>What time in the morning is that you already have

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<v Speaker 1>ye your mixed thermos of whiskey and ojhich sounds Oh.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that's what she kind of said too. Are you

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<v Speaker 5>already drinking?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay?

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<v Speaker 4>Kind of do you want to?

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<v Speaker 5>I want to mix it up, get other drinks.

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<v Speaker 4>You can't day drink unless you start.

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<v Speaker 2>In the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>So you offered to change scenery, go to a bar

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<v Speaker 1>and drink. What did she say?

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<v Speaker 5>She did not want to do that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so sound very fun.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean she took a bus with the sole

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<v Speaker 3>purpose of spending time in this garden. She was really

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<v Speaker 3>excited about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Honestly, Rufe, I'm surprised you'd even want to call a

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<v Speaker 1>woman like this back killed.

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<v Speaker 5>Still, overall, was the garden that that suck.

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<v Speaker 6>Her?

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<v Speaker 2>You felt the vibe?

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<v Speaker 4>You just think it was setting that messed it up

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<v Speaker 4>for you?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, totally.

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<v Speaker 3>Did she share her phone number with you?

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<v Speaker 5>Rufer? Yeah? I did get her number, and I mean, okay,

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<v Speaker 5>my fault, but like, why she's not calling back? I

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<v Speaker 5>kind of let the old cricket wireless account expire.

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<v Speaker 4>There also, your cell phones off? Where are you calling

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<v Speaker 4>us from? I was going to say, maybe she's single?

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<v Speaker 4>It works now it was shut off temporarily.

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<v Speaker 1>I just wonder who that cricket?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>Of people, that's Rufer.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, now your cell phone's back up and running, and

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<v Speaker 1>you still haven't heard anything back from her, No text,

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<v Speaker 1>no calls, nothing.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. I mean again, it was down for like a week,

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<v Speaker 5>but I could text her would have got back up.

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<v Speaker 5>And yeah, So I mean, was.

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<v Speaker 3>There anything romantic about this, because maybe she wouldn't it

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<v Speaker 3>in it? Think you more of a French?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you not hear him say morning trucker out?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>And that should have won you over, like by miles

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<v Speaker 1>at this point.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, yeah, I mean I don't think, like the first

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<v Speaker 5>hangout it's to be romantic or anything, but like we

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<v Speaker 5>totally vibed good.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a good awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we just need a good starting point to jump

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<v Speaker 1>off from. So that's what we're gonna do. We're all

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have some morning Truckers and come back. Yeah, we're

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<v Speaker 1>doing it for Rufer coming back and Collin Cheryl. Try

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<v Speaker 1>to get your second date update right after this second

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<v Speaker 1>date update, quick recap for our good buddy Rufer, who

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<v Speaker 1>is back on the show.

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<v Speaker 2>We're getting a lot of texts at seventy five ninety two.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, if people very excited saying Rufer's back.

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<v Speaker 2>Love me some roof raise the roof, a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>roof pumps.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I feel like we should just be chanting Ruf Rue.

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<v Speaker 1>You should tons of fans of Rufers. So, Rufer, is

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<v Speaker 1>there anything you want to say to your radio posse

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<v Speaker 1>who's listening right now?

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<v Speaker 4>The roof heads?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh? Man, I mean you guys already already hit it,

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<v Speaker 5>but thank you. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But Rufer has come to us again today, this time

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<v Speaker 1>because he met a woman on the bus. Public transportation

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<v Speaker 1>is where all the hidden hotties lie, and this one

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<v Speaker 1>is named Cheryl. Rufer invited himself to the botanical gardens

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<v Speaker 1>with her, where she was already going, and they shared

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<v Speaker 1>his thermistful of Trucker moonshine whatever it was, and after

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<v Speaker 1>about an hour that they decided to call it a day. Rufer,

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<v Speaker 1>don't let him talk about you like that.

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<v Speaker 5>What is it called again, It's it's morning, Trucker Morning.

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<v Speaker 4>It does sound better when you when it goes by

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<v Speaker 4>a name.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, screwdriver doesn't sound true. But I don't like when

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<v Speaker 2>he doesn't like vodka standards.

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<v Speaker 1>Nous, No, he said vodka. Rufer's got some class. But

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<v Speaker 1>he did feel something when he hung out with Cheryl.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's not just the headache that he woke up

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<v Speaker 1>with after begaining consciousness in the bushes. He really liked her.

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<v Speaker 1>And Rufer knows when you like someone and they're not

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<v Speaker 1>reaching out back to you, you come to us.

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<v Speaker 4>We've always gotten on the line at least.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't think we've ever gotten a successful second

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<v Speaker 1>date for you yet.

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<v Speaker 2>This might be the one, though, Rufer.

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<v Speaker 5>I feel, I feel.

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<v Speaker 4>The worst case, you made more.

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<v Speaker 3>You know that means that you haven't had enough morning truck.

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<v Speaker 2>If you still feel all right.

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<v Speaker 5>You're right, let me tap myself off real quick.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good idea.

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<v Speaker 4>No, don't. Sounds like you got it on top.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like what you've done broke? All right, Here we go.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna call Cheryl. You hold on to that drink.

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<v Speaker 1>We're going to talk to her for a bit.

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<v Speaker 2>Here we go.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, ah, right, we're looking to speak with Cheryl.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, it's a sheet.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh man, is this going to be a surprising phone call?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Eryl, You're on a radio show right now, and everybody.

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<v Speaker 6>In this room thinks that you're a very, very lucky

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<v Speaker 6>woman by brave woman, I share al. Okay, Hi, So

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<v Speaker 6>we're a show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning,

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<v Speaker 6>and uh we do this segment called a second Date

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<v Speaker 6>Update where we try to help out our listeners with

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<v Speaker 6>their dating life if they want to see somebody again

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<v Speaker 6>after going out on one date. Okay, there is a

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<v Speaker 6>guy that wants to see you one more time.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I guess you weren't really a date date.

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<v Speaker 1>But his name is Rufer. Is how we know him?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if he introduces himself a different Oh.

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<v Speaker 7>My god, Rufer, Okay, you know him, that was like

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<v Speaker 7>six months ago?

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<v Speaker 4>What wait, six months you.

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<v Speaker 3>Did the Are you sure you're talking about the same guy,

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<v Speaker 3>the guy that you met on the bus.

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<v Speaker 4>And you guys went to the garden?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, oh we okay. You know what, we never asked

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<v Speaker 1>how long ago the date was, just we all assumed

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<v Speaker 1>it would be like a week ago, because that's normally

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<v Speaker 1>what people do on.

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<v Speaker 3>This totally different season that you were in the.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, well I'm sorry about that. We're gonna have

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<v Speaker 1>to ask you to go way back into your memory

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<v Speaker 1>bank though, and see if you can recall what that

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<v Speaker 1>hangout with him was, like, I mean, it was memorable.

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<v Speaker 5>Will hard forget?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Positive?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I mean I didn't say that.

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<v Speaker 1>I Well, we've heard a little bit about the date

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<v Speaker 1>or the hangout from Ruffer, but sometimes with these calls,

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<v Speaker 1>the guys will remember things differently than the girls do.

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<v Speaker 1>So can we ask how did you feel when you

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<v Speaker 1>met Ruffer on that public bus and he invited himself

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<v Speaker 1>to the botanical gardens with you?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, he.

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<v Speaker 7>Seems really interested in the botanical gardens, which is not

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<v Speaker 7>many men that I know are cool with like going

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<v Speaker 7>as smell the flowers or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, to be fair, he didn't know exactly what the

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<v Speaker 1>botanical gardens were, so it's more of a discovery mission

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<v Speaker 1>than anything.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like she's getting when he was Yeah, that

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<v Speaker 3>makes a lot of sense.

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<v Speaker 7>Actually, why what.

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<v Speaker 3>Was he like in the gardens?

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<v Speaker 7>I mean we got there and we were like wandering

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<v Speaker 7>around for a little while. We ended up in the

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<v Speaker 7>main building and like he starts talking to one of

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<v Speaker 7>the employees and he tells them like that he doesn't

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<v Speaker 7>feel well and is there anywhere for him to like

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<v Speaker 7>lay down?

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<v Speaker 1>And oh god, what is going on?

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<v Speaker 7>Is he okay?

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<v Speaker 3>Is this is this after you guys shared the whiskey

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<v Speaker 3>and orange juice out of his thermos?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh that was later? That was after this?

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<v Speaker 2>What was it good?

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<v Speaker 5>By the way, Yeah, I don't like orange hues that much.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, sorry to sidetrack you.

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<v Speaker 1>You're you're in this building and he's talking to the

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<v Speaker 1>staff about laying down.

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<v Speaker 7>The staff like signs a room for him to go

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<v Speaker 7>into to lie down. But as as he gets in there,

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<v Speaker 7>he pulls out his phone charger and starts charging it.

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<v Speaker 4>No, wait, was it an excuse for a phone charger.

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<v Speaker 3>Is that what you're implying?

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<v Speaker 7>I think so I had no idea what was going on.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he's resourceful, that's true.

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<v Speaker 2>You're gonna take anything from that?

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<v Speaker 3>Did you stay in the room with him?

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<v Speaker 7>I wandered around and look some of the stuff in

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<v Speaker 7>the main building, and like ten minutes later, he walked

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<v Speaker 7>out and was like, let's keep going, I guess.

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<v Speaker 5>So we walked outside.

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<v Speaker 7>We were in the gardens for a while, okay, and

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<v Speaker 7>like I turn around and suddenly he's just gone, nowhere

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<v Speaker 7>to be found. Okay, So I go and I looked

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<v Speaker 7>around this like one of those you know boxwood hedges

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<v Speaker 7>that really like thick bushes. Yeah, behind the bush, peeing

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<v Speaker 7>into another display peeing, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Peeted into display of flowers.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, those are like expensive, super well kept flowers.

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<v Speaker 3>There are so many bathrooms. What did you do?

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<v Speaker 7>I pretended I didn't see him and was okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I could see how that would be a jolting experience

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<v Speaker 1>for you. I will say we didn't hear that version

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<v Speaker 1>of the story from.

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<v Speaker 3>Rufer's because he doesn't know that she saw it, or.

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<v Speaker 1>Because it was six months ago and he has a

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<v Speaker 1>hard time remember that. I think the only way to

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<v Speaker 1>clear everything up is to just connect you with Rufer

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<v Speaker 1>right now, who's actually on the other line at the moment?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, for you there?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds a little looser than when we started the doll.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, the phone thing makes sense. My phone's always

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<v Speaker 5>running out of juice.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't remember that you remember going in charging your phone?

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<v Speaker 6>I don't, but probably, but it checks out like you Okay,

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<v Speaker 6>that's something.

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<v Speaker 5>I would and I'm sorry. The bushes, I mean, that's

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<v Speaker 5>usually what bushes are for, right.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no brons, especially in the botanical garden.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, there were a lot of bathrooms around Ruper.

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<v Speaker 7>He could have definitely gone in one of those. Hey,

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<v Speaker 7>when you gotta go right, No, not, that's.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean.

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<v Speaker 7>The worst thing is like it was like a raised box.

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<v Speaker 2>Was in its own maybe maybe there.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's like the visual confused him.

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<v Speaker 2>After all. The morning truckers, I.

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<v Speaker 5>Think I problem put like coffee in it too, and

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<v Speaker 5>coffee just goes right through me. Coffee called the morning trucker.

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<v Speaker 5>What else do you drink in the morning?

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<v Speaker 4>I think that's called a four logo?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow. Okay, for the.

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<v Speaker 7>Record, I don't remember any coffee in that sermon.

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<v Speaker 5>I think it was mostly whiskey, in.

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<v Speaker 7>A quiet whisper of orange shoe.

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<v Speaker 8>Okay, well, the good news is that that the memory

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<v Speaker 8>of it, the memory has stuck with you so long,

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<v Speaker 8>possibly because of such a strong connection that you and

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<v Speaker 8>your Otherwise you would have forgotten this months ago.

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<v Speaker 7>Certainly it was certainly a colorful experience, one.

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<v Speaker 4>That you would like to have again.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a great idea.

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<v Speaker 1>Broke and Brew would love to offer to funds that

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<v Speaker 1>second day in a brand new location, totally on us,

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<v Speaker 1>paid for by the radio station.

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<v Speaker 5>What do you think, Cheryl, Oh, listen, I'll leave the

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<v Speaker 5>thermost at home, all right, We'll get drinks in a

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<v Speaker 5>regular you're drink because then I promise not to piss

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<v Speaker 5>on any endangered species, and I'll buy your bus pass

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<v Speaker 5>this time.

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<v Speaker 2>A man.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't let a gentle poet like this slip away from

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<v Speaker 1>you lot more chance.

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<v Speaker 7>As sivalous as this offer is, I think I'm going

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<v Speaker 7>to have to pass.

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<v Speaker 6>We almost did it, Rufer, Yeah, buddy, I mean Bummer,

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<v Speaker 6>But you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Back to the public transportation system for me.

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<v Speaker 3>Leave the thermost at home, my man.

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<v Speaker 5>Why would you leave the thermost at home. That's the

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<v Speaker 5>whole point of the thermisy in front of you right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I think Brook thinks you should put it in a

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<v Speaker 1>camel back where you can wear.

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<v Speaker 2>It gets way more with him there.

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<v Speaker 4>That is, don't listen to drinking brown water.

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<v Speaker 3>Freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if we've ever had a listener go

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<v Speaker 1>oh for four on second date updates before or get

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<v Speaker 1>four chances.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it's amazing that there's no embarrassment from him,

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<v Speaker 3>though I give him props for that.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing about Ruffer, even still after all that public rejection,

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<v Speaker 1>he is such a chill happy dude.

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<v Speaker 2>How could you not love him?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Can see why you wouldn't want to date him, but

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<v Speaker 3>I need to make some lifestyle choice changes, and I

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<v Speaker 3>don't think so health changes.

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<v Speaker 1>I heard Alexis is going to put a shirtless picture

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<v Speaker 1>of ruff in her cubicle next to Michael.

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<v Speaker 2>B Jordan Harry styles.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>What he looks like?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, but I feel like pictures of Ruffor

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<v Speaker 3>are more pantiless than.

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<v Speaker 4>Can't we just hop on a bus and find him ourselves?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Probably, you can probably smell him out.

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<v Speaker 1>But Ruff is always going to be a friend of

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<v Speaker 1>the show. You could be a friend of the show too.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to do is trust us.

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<v Speaker 2>How hard is that? Email the show.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll call that person who was in calling you back

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<v Speaker 1>and go check out all of our Second Date podcasts

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<v Speaker 1>wherever you get yours at Brook and Jeffrey