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Speaker 1: second date updates have we done? Hundreds? It was like millions,
Speaker 1: a lot of second date updates. And whenever we're out,
Speaker 1: like doing an event or at a comedy shore or
Speaker 1: something like that, people always ask me. They're go, hey,
Speaker 1: what happened to so and so? Did you ever get
Speaker 1: an update on this person? You guys should do a
Speaker 1: third date update. You know, all the people always want
Speaker 1: to know what happens with the people in the second
Speaker 1: date updates. A lot of times people break up or
Speaker 1: go their separate ways. Sometimes they do keep in touch
Speaker 1: with us and let us know what's going on. But
Speaker 1: I was very happy to hear from a couple recently.
Speaker 1: You may remember their names, Danika and Mike. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: tell me their story again. It kind of for you.
Speaker 1: They were on about four months ago. It was a
Speaker 1: really popular second date update. Danika was the young lady
Speaker 1: who was very emotional. It was crying during the whole thing.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, girls, yeah, like she showed up to her
Speaker 1: date a little late and just was crying. And a
Speaker 1: lot of our listeners are familiar with this one, but
Speaker 1: if you're not, we're gonna play it again for you,
Speaker 1: because at the end of it, we actually have an
Speaker 1: update from Danika and Mike. We do. We don't do
Speaker 1: this often, wow, but we've finally been in contact with
Speaker 1: some people and we do have an update on their situation.
Speaker 1: It's your second date update right now, rooking Jebels second date.
Speaker 1: Danika is on the phone with us today. She wants
Speaker 1: to do a second date update to a guy named Mike.
Speaker 1: Apparently they met online and went out, and she's very
Speaker 1: upset that she's not getting a call back. Danika, how
Speaker 1: are you? Um? Um? You know I'm all right already.
Speaker 1: Are you okay? Um? Well, I mean I just feel like,
Speaker 1: you know, I feel like I screwed up a little
Speaker 1: bit on this one. So you know, I don't want
Speaker 1: to cry. I just I feel really, you know, I
Speaker 1: feel a pretty bosch and I just, oh, I just
Speaker 1: feel like it was my fault. Are you call him? Deal?
Speaker 1: Are you? Are you nervous to be doing the second
Speaker 1: date update right now? Is that part of the reason
Speaker 1: that you're emotional or you this emotional about the date
Speaker 1: that you went on like everything, And I mean it's
Speaker 1: obviously not trying to call it be all emotional on
Speaker 1: the radio. I just, you know, want to start. I
Speaker 1: just you know, sometimes I can't take a few breaths.
Speaker 1: We're here to help you out, all right, Oh gosh,
Speaker 1: So tell us about the date. Well, that's the thing.
Speaker 1: I was supposed to meet him for dinner and my dog,
Speaker 1: my dog monkey, I would walk her before I left,
Speaker 1: and she wouldn't go to the bathroom, you know, like
Speaker 1: she wouldn't go, and I wouldn't leave because she'll go
Speaker 1: in the house. You know, being five minutes late. Five
Speaker 1: minutes late, it's gonna be a big deal. Something happened
Speaker 1: to your dog. No, my dog is like just she's fine. Okay.
Speaker 1: I thought maybe you were upset because something happened to
Speaker 1: your dog. I'm just thinking that, like, you know, I
Speaker 1: should have been there and I should have been on time,
Speaker 1: and I just, you know, I think it's so like
Speaker 1: poor okay, but you were like to be tardy, but
Speaker 1: you were. You were five minutes late, though, Denika, it's
Speaker 1: not the end of the world. This is so bad
Speaker 1: so you know, all right, Okay, hey Denneka, five minutes
Speaker 1: is not really a big deal. Fifteen twenty thirty minutes
Speaker 1: late that kind of gets annoying five minutes later. Trust me,
Speaker 1: I doubt he was really that upset about it. Well,
Speaker 1: I mean five minutes it's fine, may be fine for
Speaker 1: a normal day, but like the wait, if it's like
Speaker 1: the one you know or than you're the one you
Speaker 1: think is your dream man? Did you think this guy
Speaker 1: was your dream man? I met him online and he's
Speaker 1: like everything that I want And okay, wait, hold on,
Speaker 1: did you? I mean you even you? I don't. I'm
Speaker 1: not like this, not like to take it to breath again.
Speaker 1: You're gonna be okay, Danica, did you talk to him
Speaker 1: for a long time before you guys' first date? Well,
Speaker 1: I mean, obviously I talked a couple of times, which
Speaker 1: is is profiles like everything. It's okay. I mean, I
Speaker 1: know it's kind of funny to some people, but this
Speaker 1: this kind of hell. I react. Well, it's not necessarily
Speaker 1: laughing at you crying about the situation. It's more it
Speaker 1: was five minutes late. Yeah, and for most people they
Speaker 1: would not get that worked up. If that's how you
Speaker 1: express yourself. That's how you express yourself. I go, so,
Speaker 1: did you did you were you this? Were you this
Speaker 1: visibly upset when you actually met him? Well? I was,
Speaker 1: you know, yeah, I mean I was. I was driving
Speaker 1: and you know, I was like, you know, getting emotional
Speaker 1: on the car, and I was mad at my dog,
Speaker 1: you know, and like that's hard. And then I got
Speaker 1: to the restaurant and you know, I realized I hadn't
Speaker 1: even pulled my hair or my master was everywhere, and
Speaker 1: so I was just trying to be you know, I
Speaker 1: tried to play it off so it was obvious that
Speaker 1: you had been crying. Yeah, I mean yeah, I was
Speaker 1: like use myself in the bathroom to like go like
Speaker 1: get it together, you know yeah, And I came out
Speaker 1: and I sort of just lost it again, you know.
Speaker 1: I mean, I just think he was so he was
Speaker 1: so sweet and I started telling him about Monkey, and
Speaker 1: what did he do when you started crying? It's like
Speaker 1: really surprised. He's a sensitive person, so sure he was
Speaker 1: upset for me, but he was like being strong. So
Speaker 1: you guys continued the day after you were crying about
Speaker 1: your dog. Yeah, you know what I mean, I got
Speaker 1: he once I told him what had happened with Monkey,
Speaker 1: and you know, it made me feel better. We had
Speaker 1: eaten and then the date was sort of you know,
Speaker 1: sort of it over anyway, So okay, how did it
Speaker 1: end with him? Um? He gave me a hug, and
Speaker 1: like a really super loving a hug. I mean, he
Speaker 1: was he just made me feel better. And I said,
Speaker 1: can I, you know, maybe can I get a do over?
Speaker 1: Like this isn't me, this isn't how I am. And
Speaker 1: I texted him like a bunch of times, you know,
Speaker 1: not not that many, but you know, like enough that
Speaker 1: I probably thought I would hear back from him by now.
Speaker 1: So I don't understand why you wouldn't let me just
Speaker 1: ever do over. Yeah, but Dennika, if I went out
Speaker 1: on a date with you like that and you started
Speaker 1: bawling on the date, it would probably freak me out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: other that artist start crying too, and there would just
Speaker 1: be a mess just to both of us at the table. Well,
Speaker 1: you know, I mean sometimes I get emotional and that's
Speaker 1: just like who I am. But you know I think
Speaker 1: that you like I mean, I don't love him, but
Speaker 1: I mean if I like this guy a lot, whoa
Speaker 1: I'm worried about you, Denika, because this is just the
Speaker 1: part where we find out what happened on the date
Speaker 1: and you haven't even really been able to keep it together.
Speaker 1: I'm totally getting it together now. Listen. Yeah, I'm totally
Speaker 1: A'm are right right now. Okay, we'll play a song. Oh,
Speaker 1: come back, call him and get your second date update.
Speaker 1: All right, Okay, I need you to be strong when
Speaker 1: we come back. Okay, I am. I'm totally gonna I'm
Speaker 1: totally gonna like wash my face and like get it together.
Speaker 1: It's good, okay, Okay, because if you cry twice to him,
Speaker 1: I guarantee it's gonna scare him off. I'll tell you what,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna cry, even if I get a little shaky.
Speaker 1: I'll hold the phone away from my mouth. No one
Speaker 1: could hear. If at any moment you just hang up
Speaker 1: the phone. I'll pretend like the connection dropped out if
Speaker 1: you want to cry for a bit, and then I'll
Speaker 1: get you back on the phone after Okay, Okay, all right,
Speaker 1: just hang on this, I can do this, Okay, hold on.
Speaker 1: Remember before we play the next part of today's second
Speaker 1: Date Update, stick around because we're actually gonna talk to
Speaker 1: Danika and Mike again right afterwards. Apparently they have an
Speaker 1: update for us on what happened since we recorded this
Speaker 1: a few months ago. But first, let's hear part two
Speaker 1: of their second date update, brooking jubil in the morning.
Speaker 1: You know, normally during a second date update, it's the
Speaker 1: second part of the phone call when we get the
Speaker 1: couple on the phone together and they talk that tears
Speaker 1: come out. It's already happened a lot. And I'm actually
Speaker 1: hesitant to do today's second date update because I don't
Speaker 1: know if Danika, who is on the phone with us
Speaker 1: right now, can handle it. Danika, are you doing all right? Yeah, I'm,
Speaker 1: you know, keeping it. I'm gonna try and keep it together.
Speaker 1: Yeah okay, yeah, you definitely need to if you're just
Speaker 1: tuning in. Danika wants to call Mike. They met online,
Speaker 1: went out for a date. She was five minutes late
Speaker 1: for the date. It was very emotional about it. She
Speaker 1: was crying on the way to the date. When she
Speaker 1: got there, she tried to clean herself up, and then
Speaker 1: when she actually sat down with the guy, she lost
Speaker 1: it again and ended up crying during the date. And
Speaker 1: she isn't getting a call back and I'm assuming I
Speaker 1: don't know yet, but I'm guessing that's the reason why. Dan,
Speaker 1: it would be very weird for me to go out
Speaker 1: with a girl and have a cry on a first date.
Speaker 1: I know, I mean, it's I know it seems weird.
Speaker 1: But that's why I'm gonna apologize to him. And so
Speaker 1: am I'm a normal person, you know. Can I make
Speaker 1: one suggestion, Because I'm a person I cry at every emotion.
Speaker 1: If you start to get emotional, pinch yourself. That's my
Speaker 1: trick because it like helps you get out of your
Speaker 1: mindset of going down that path. And then it hurts
Speaker 1: because you pinch yourself and you cry more pain. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm willing to try anything. I will do it. Do
Speaker 1: you feel strong right now? Do you feel like you
Speaker 1: could do it? I do? I do. Took some deep breath.
Speaker 1: What's my face? Okay, I'm gonna doll the phone right now.
Speaker 1: Get him on the phone and get your second date update. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: you got this? Hell? Can I speak to Mike please?
Speaker 1: This is Mike, Mike. How you doing this? Is Jewil
Speaker 1: from brook and Jewil in the morning. I'm I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: Where are you calling? From Brooke? And Jewil in the
Speaker 1: morning radio show. Okay, did I win something? No, you didn't.
Speaker 1: I'm calling you because we recently got an email from
Speaker 1: somebody who went out on a date with you, okay,
Speaker 1: and she's been trying to get a second date, but
Speaker 1: you haven't been returning any of her phone calls or
Speaker 1: text messages. So she asked if I could get you
Speaker 1: on the phone and find out why. Seriously. Her name
Speaker 1: is Danika, and I'm gonna I'm gonna take a wild
Speaker 1: guess and say that you remember this date. Oh yes, Um,
Speaker 1: so she she emailed you to call me. Yeah. It's
Speaker 1: a segment we do on our show called the Second
Speaker 1: Date Update. That's a little awkward. Okay, what did you
Speaker 1: think of Danica? First off, I mean, dannik is a
Speaker 1: really sweet individual. Um, I mean, she has a really,
Speaker 1: really great heart. I would just say that she is
Speaker 1: a very highly emotional person. Yeah, we've talked to her
Speaker 1: about your date, and it was obvious from our conversation
Speaker 1: that she's very emotional. Okay, Right, so then you got
Speaker 1: a little bit of that. Um, I mean, I'm I'm
Speaker 1: a sensitive guy, and um you know, I'm a pisces.
Speaker 1: I pick up on people's vibes, you know, immediately, So
Speaker 1: I get it, but I mean, it was I've never
Speaker 1: experienced anything like that date ever in my life. She
Speaker 1: told us about it, and now she was five minutes later.
Speaker 1: She was very upset about that, and she had been
Speaker 1: crying before, and try god, I thought, Yeah, she ran
Speaker 1: in the restaurant and I had no idea what's going on.
Speaker 1: She had mass garrett down her face and she was
Speaker 1: telling me about her dog named Monkey, and she literally
Speaker 1: like started crying hardcore at the table. And you think,
Speaker 1: like that first, did you think like the dog died
Speaker 1: or something. That's that's That's exactly what I thought. So
Speaker 1: I'm in shock a because of the way she's reacting
Speaker 1: to it. But then she was so honestly upset that
Speaker 1: it was making me upset, you know, and I felt
Speaker 1: so bad for her, but I didn't know. I didn't
Speaker 1: know what to do. So she's freaking balling and I'm
Speaker 1: sitting here like I'm you know, she kind of got
Speaker 1: me cheer eyed, and you know, here were like a
Speaker 1: mess sitting in the restaurant, like everybody's staring at us.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that would be awkward. That would definitely be awkward. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was the most awkward experience I've ever had in
Speaker 1: my life. And I feel bad for I mean, she's
Speaker 1: got a great heart. Yeah, it sounds like she's a
Speaker 1: very sensitive person. I don't know what I would do
Speaker 1: if I was in your shoes. I'm a sucker when
Speaker 1: girls cry. Why do you think I can't ever break
Speaker 1: up with girls? Because they always like to cry as
Speaker 1: soon as you say I don't want to be with you,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, all right, well we'll say so. I
Speaker 1: don't know what I would do if I was in
Speaker 1: your shoes. Yeah, you know, like finally when we laughed.
Speaker 1: I mean I was pretty much in like a really
Speaker 1: weird mirrored afterwards. I mean when you when someone is
Speaker 1: like deeply, deeply emotional for like an hour, like I was,
Speaker 1: I was kind of a wreck. Quite I would have
Speaker 1: I would have felt emotionally spent after that too, I
Speaker 1: mean I said, yeah, that's that's the right word to use,
Speaker 1: totally spent. All because she was five minutes late to
Speaker 1: your date. Because she was late, and because yeah, because
Speaker 1: she couldn't get her dogs to use the bathroom or
Speaker 1: something like. That's that's the craziest part. Mike I have
Speaker 1: to tell you this right now. Danica is actually on
Speaker 1: the phone listening. Are you serious? Yeah? Yeah, I'm like, um,
Speaker 1: I'm so um. I At first, I just want to say, um,
Speaker 1: listening to you the way that you just told our
Speaker 1: story was so sweet and you're so you're such a
Speaker 1: nice guy, and I I don't know what to say.
Speaker 1: Why are you trying? Why are you crying? Now? Anka,
Speaker 1: You're gonna get me intres up here? Why are you crying?
Speaker 1: Because I'm just trying to, like you know, like I'm
Speaker 1: actually trying not to cry, and that's like making me
Speaker 1: cry more because like I really care about you, and
Speaker 1: I really thought that, like you know, after all weeks
Speaker 1: have talked about I'm line. You know, I just knew,
Speaker 1: like you're you're such a good person, and I and
Speaker 1: and then I came and then I really everything and
Speaker 1: I and I totally terrible. I just felt you never
Speaker 1: stop stuff stuff. So you're not a terrible person. You
Speaker 1: didn't ruin anything, Okay, I'm I'm I'm sorry that is
Speaker 1: you know that I couldn't deal with the situation properly.
Speaker 1: I apologize, But you know, it's like we talk and
Speaker 1: so many times it was like, you know, building up
Speaker 1: towards the date, and then I show up and I
Speaker 1: and I'm late, and that's so inconsiderate and I felt
Speaker 1: so stupid. And no, no, no, no, no, no, it's okay,
Speaker 1: it's okay. You do late. I mean, it's it's that happens.
Speaker 1: It's not happen any reasons, you know. Oh no, no, no,
Speaker 1: don't don't cry. Come on, I don't try trying. I swear,
Speaker 1: I just want to. I just want to say that.
Speaker 1: And I know you've been avoiding my my calls and
Speaker 1: my text and I and I understand, I have it.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Okay, I'm sorry. I don't it on now.
Speaker 1: I mean, look, you know I'm an emotional guy too.
Speaker 1: I mean how am I supposed to How are we
Speaker 1: supposed to function as a as a normal couple If
Speaker 1: I'm so sensitive and tune to you and and you're
Speaker 1: you know, you're connected to your heart, right, I mean,
Speaker 1: how are we supposed to balance that? We would be
Speaker 1: a walking mass? You know, it's like a basket case
Speaker 1: of like emotions running around the street. Are you saying
Speaker 1: you're concerned, Mike that her being so emotional and you
Speaker 1: being so emotional? All you guys are gonna do is
Speaker 1: sit around and cry together. I mean, you know, I'm
Speaker 1: not saying that I'm going to sit around and cry,
Speaker 1: but I mean, you know, I'm saying that I'm going
Speaker 1: to feed into her feelings and I'm gonna want to,
Speaker 1: you know, nurture that. But I just feel like that
Speaker 1: that's focused, that's kind of the energy is too focused
Speaker 1: on one thing. You know, I don't want it to
Speaker 1: be a negative situation. I don't think it's negative though.
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't think it's negative. Like I think
Speaker 1: that you were like it's such a good like you
Speaker 1: showed me, like what a good guy you were, Like
Speaker 1: just you know, sit there and you you were so
Speaker 1: sweet to me and so comforting and like that's exactly
Speaker 1: the kind of car he Hey, hey, look you are sweet, okay,
Speaker 1: And that's why I was there. It's just how always
Speaker 1: with the function, if we can't we can't even have
Speaker 1: a conversation or out you're crying. You know, Mike, would
Speaker 1: you be interested in trying to have a conversation with
Speaker 1: no tears with Danneka? I mean, if that's possible. I
Speaker 1: can see if it's possible and ask you if you'd
Speaker 1: like to go out with Danaka again. I'll pay for
Speaker 1: a second date for you. Guys. It's possibly, I swear.
Speaker 1: Do you think we can go? No tears this time?
Speaker 1: I promise like I am, like I I've all cried out,
Speaker 1: you know? Are you kidding? It can be happy and
Speaker 1: we don't have to and if and if I'm late
Speaker 1: or you're late, it's gonna be okay. Well I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna be late. Oh gosh. Here's the thing. Here's the
Speaker 1: thing that you don't even know is that when I'm happy,
Speaker 1: like I'm so happy, don't display you have major mood swings.
Speaker 1: Don't do that. I go from super happy to tears
Speaker 1: in a matter of seconds. All right, well, Mike, so
Speaker 1: you will go out with Dannaka again. Let's give it
Speaker 1: another Let's give another sick all right? That is awesome.
Speaker 1: It's gonna be amazing. I can't believe it's happening. Danaka,
Speaker 1: you may have found you're right your dream man. All right,
Speaker 1: told you, I told you. Yeah, so awesome. Don't screw
Speaker 1: it up. Okay, no more tears, No, no, we're tears.
Speaker 1: I'm totally gonna keep it together. Okay. Congratulations Dannaka, you
Speaker 1: got your second date. Oh my god, thinks I'm so excited. Mike,
Speaker 1: thank you very much. I look forward to hearing back
Speaker 1: from you guys after you go out. Okay, yeah, we'll
Speaker 1: keep you updated. Today's second date update brought you by
Speaker 1: zanex jul in the morning. You just heard one of
Speaker 1: the most popular second date updates that we've ever done
Speaker 1: on this show with Danika and Mike, who miraculously agreed
Speaker 1: to see each other one more time, even after Dannika
Speaker 1: would not stop crying like a second. It's okay. It's
Speaker 1: been a few months since we recorded that call, and
Speaker 1: we have them both actually on the phone right now
Speaker 1: because people have been asking for this for us to
Speaker 1: do updates on the second date updates. So, hey, guys,
Speaker 1: how you doing? Hieing pretty good? Thanks for coming on
Speaker 1: the show. And so first question I have for Dannika is,
Speaker 1: last time we talk to you, you were having trouble
Speaker 1: holding it together, very emotional. How are your emotions right now?
Speaker 1: Are you? Are you gonna be okay? I know I'm
Speaker 1: I'm an emotional person, but I mean I couldn't be
Speaker 1: happier right now. So I feel pretty good. I'm always
Speaker 1: curious when people go out on a date after they've
Speaker 1: done a second date update with us. Is it a
Speaker 1: more comfortable situation going into it or was it more
Speaker 1: pressure because your whole story had been told to everybody
Speaker 1: and now it's kind of uncomfortable. I mean, I think
Speaker 1: he kind of gave us something to like go from
Speaker 1: and talk about and laugh at. I guess I think
Speaker 1: I was definitely more nervous. Yeah, I don't know why.
Speaker 1: I just I don't know, because you heard the way
Speaker 1: that she was crying on the phone. I don't know
Speaker 1: if I should have agreed to a second date here.
Speaker 1: You know, I have to say, though, I'm so thankful
Speaker 1: because if it wasn't for you guys, I don't know
Speaker 1: that we would have been where we are now, you know. Right. Well, so, Dennika,
Speaker 1: you wrote in saying that you wanted to update our
Speaker 1: listeners on something. Yes, okay, So well, I mean, we're
Speaker 1: moving in together. That is so cute. I'm so excited
Speaker 1: and everything has really just don't know, it's moved kind
Speaker 1: of quickly, but I feel like we just get each
Speaker 1: other and I can't wait. You know, he's like a
Speaker 1: friend and he's just everything that I've ever needed or wanted,
Speaker 1: And thank you, boyfriend. So it's a second date update
Speaker 1: that actually worked out. You know, you guys really helped.
Speaker 1: I really really did help the situation. I think that's good.
Speaker 1: It sounds so happy. You know, Mike, you told our
Speaker 1: producer offer that there's an update that Danika doesn't know
Speaker 1: about that you wanted to share. Yes, I did. He's like,
Speaker 1: he's like, we're breaking up. Yeah, goody. Else it's been great. However,
Speaker 1: that's not funny though. Really, don't cry. I'm just joking.
Speaker 1: You guys are obviously very happy with each other, but
Speaker 1: very You told our producer producer boy that you had
Speaker 1: something that you wanted to tell us about, So I
Speaker 1: feel like it's only appropriate. And we would have never
Speaker 1: had a second chance without you, guys. And I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm so excited that we're moving together. I'm so excited
Speaker 1: to be with you, and I think that this is
Speaker 1: really the first time that I've felt so honestly connected
Speaker 1: to someone and and I absolutely love you, and you
Speaker 1: would make me the happiest man if you would marry me.
Speaker 1: Are you? I'm so serious right now? Oh my god,
Speaker 1: she's crying there going I know I'm sorry I'm doing
Speaker 1: this on the air, but I just feel like it's appropriate.
Speaker 1: And Danica, I've never been happier. She said, yes, yeah,
Speaker 1: congratulations Danika. Are you all right? I even I can't
Speaker 1: talk again. Yeah, you didn't take a couple of minutes
Speaker 1: to breathe, Danaka, that's fine. Congratulations though, crazy, Yes, yes, yes, yes,
Speaker 1: something about her mom. I'm gonna come. I'm gonna come
Speaker 1: over to your work as soon as we get off
Speaker 1: the phone. I'm sorry to do. I was gonna say,
Speaker 1: do you have like a ring and all that stuff?
Speaker 1: Did you already get that? I'll taken care of her. Yes,
Speaker 1: I'm going to bring it to her immediately. Oh, this
Speaker 1: is like congratulations you guys. Thank you for the update. Wow, Oh,
Speaker 1: thank you guys. I mean I feel like we shouldn't
Speaker 1: invite to the wedding. Yeah, invite us. I'm down to go.
Speaker 1: Ju Will actually cries it everybody and he goes too,
Speaker 1: so he'll be right there with you. Dannaka, don't worry.
Speaker 1: I feel like your wedding should actually be sponsored by Kleenex.
Speaker 1: Maybe you can figure that out. Moving ninety two point
Speaker 1: five