WEBVTT - Second Date Update UPDATE: Danica the Crier 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:02.200 Are you single and feeling out of the loop? Put 0:00:02.200 --> 0:00:04.400 away that mouse and get out of the house. Join 0:00:04.559 --> 0:00:07.880 in the Loop Seattle's brand new activities clubs just for singles. 0:00:07.960 --> 0:00:10.559 Put in the Loop singles dot com Today. How many 0:00:10.560 --> 0:00:14.680 second date updates have we done? Hundreds? It was like millions, 0:00:14.840 --> 0:00:17.959 a lot of second date updates. And whenever we're out, 0:00:18.360 --> 0:00:20.160 like doing an event or at a comedy shore or 0:00:20.160 --> 0:00:21.920 something like that, people always ask me. They're go, hey, 0:00:21.960 --> 0:00:24.560 what happened to so and so? Did you ever get 0:00:24.600 --> 0:00:26.200 an update on this person? You guys should do a 0:00:26.200 --> 0:00:29.160 third date update. You know, all the people always want 0:00:29.200 --> 0:00:30.520 to know what happens with the people in the second 0:00:30.600 --> 0:00:32.560 date updates. A lot of times people break up or 0:00:32.600 --> 0:00:35.040 go their separate ways. Sometimes they do keep in touch 0:00:35.080 --> 0:00:37.080 with us and let us know what's going on. But 0:00:37.159 --> 0:00:39.080 I was very happy to hear from a couple recently. 0:00:39.320 --> 0:00:42.040 You may remember their names, Danika and Mike. Oh yeah, 0:00:42.080 --> 0:00:43.400 tell me their story again. It kind of for you. 0:00:43.560 --> 0:00:45.280 They were on about four months ago. It was a 0:00:45.280 --> 0:00:47.680 really popular second date update. Danika was the young lady 0:00:47.680 --> 0:00:50.800 who was very emotional. It was crying during the whole thing. 0:00:50.960 --> 0:00:54.880 Oh yeah, girls, yeah, like she showed up to her 0:00:54.920 --> 0:01:00.080 date a little late and just was crying. And a 0:01:00.080 --> 0:01:01.920 lot of our listeners are familiar with this one, but 0:01:01.960 --> 0:01:04.120 if you're not, we're gonna play it again for you, 0:01:04.360 --> 0:01:06.360 because at the end of it, we actually have an 0:01:06.440 --> 0:01:09.760 update from Danika and Mike. We do. We don't do 0:01:09.840 --> 0:01:13.000 this often, wow, but we've finally been in contact with 0:01:13.040 --> 0:01:15.200 some people and we do have an update on their situation. 0:01:15.520 --> 0:01:23.560 It's your second date update right now, rooking Jebels second date. 0:01:24.360 --> 0:01:26.640 Danika is on the phone with us today. She wants 0:01:26.640 --> 0:01:29.360 to do a second date update to a guy named Mike. 0:01:29.760 --> 0:01:32.560 Apparently they met online and went out, and she's very 0:01:32.640 --> 0:01:35.080 upset that she's not getting a call back. Danika, how 0:01:35.120 --> 0:01:40.640 are you? Um? Um? You know I'm all right already. 0:01:40.959 --> 0:01:45.800 Are you okay? Um? Well, I mean I just feel like, 0:01:45.880 --> 0:01:48.440 you know, I feel like I screwed up a little 0:01:48.480 --> 0:01:51.360 bit on this one. So you know, I don't want 0:01:51.360 --> 0:01:53.520 to cry. I just I feel really, you know, I 0:01:53.640 --> 0:01:57.200 feel a pretty bosch and I just, oh, I just 0:01:57.280 --> 0:02:00.520 feel like it was my fault. Are you call him? Deal? 0:02:00.720 --> 0:02:04.080 Are you? Are you nervous to be doing the second 0:02:04.120 --> 0:02:06.120 date update right now? Is that part of the reason 0:02:06.200 --> 0:02:08.440 that you're emotional or you this emotional about the date 0:02:08.480 --> 0:02:10.839 that you went on like everything, And I mean it's 0:02:10.880 --> 0:02:14.079 obviously not trying to call it be all emotional on 0:02:14.160 --> 0:02:17.680 the radio. I just, you know, want to start. I 0:02:17.800 --> 0:02:22.240 just you know, sometimes I can't take a few breaths. 0:02:22.760 --> 0:02:26.000 We're here to help you out, all right, Oh gosh, 0:02:26.639 --> 0:02:30.040 So tell us about the date. Well, that's the thing. 0:02:30.560 --> 0:02:33.080 I was supposed to meet him for dinner and my dog, 0:02:33.440 --> 0:02:36.960 my dog monkey, I would walk her before I left, 0:02:37.000 --> 0:02:39.400 and she wouldn't go to the bathroom, you know, like 0:02:39.520 --> 0:02:44.240 she wouldn't go, and I wouldn't leave because she'll go 0:02:44.280 --> 0:02:49.400 in the house. You know, being five minutes late. Five 0:02:49.440 --> 0:02:55.160 minutes late, it's gonna be a big deal. Something happened 0:02:55.160 --> 0:03:00.800 to your dog. No, my dog is like just she's fine. Okay. 0:03:00.919 --> 0:03:03.160 I thought maybe you were upset because something happened to 0:03:03.200 --> 0:03:06.520 your dog. I'm just thinking that, like, you know, I 0:03:06.600 --> 0:03:09.200 should have been there and I should have been on time, 0:03:09.400 --> 0:03:11.520 and I just, you know, I think it's so like 0:03:11.840 --> 0:03:16.160 poor okay, but you were like to be tardy, but 0:03:16.200 --> 0:03:19.480 you were. You were five minutes late, though, Denika, it's 0:03:19.560 --> 0:03:22.520 not the end of the world. This is so bad 0:03:22.680 --> 0:03:25.480 so you know, all right, Okay, hey Denneka, five minutes 0:03:25.600 --> 0:03:28.680 is not really a big deal. Fifteen twenty thirty minutes 0:03:28.720 --> 0:03:31.200 late that kind of gets annoying five minutes later. Trust me, 0:03:31.240 --> 0:03:34.000 I doubt he was really that upset about it. Well, 0:03:34.040 --> 0:03:36.880 I mean five minutes it's fine, may be fine for 0:03:36.960 --> 0:03:38.880 a normal day, but like the wait, if it's like 0:03:39.040 --> 0:03:41.200 the one you know or than you're the one you 0:03:41.280 --> 0:03:44.400 think is your dream man? Did you think this guy 0:03:44.600 --> 0:03:48.320 was your dream man? I met him online and he's 0:03:48.440 --> 0:03:52.920 like everything that I want And okay, wait, hold on, 0:03:53.280 --> 0:03:56.000 did you? I mean you even you? I don't. I'm 0:03:56.040 --> 0:03:59.800 not like this, not like to take it to breath again. 0:04:00.160 --> 0:04:03.040 You're gonna be okay, Danica, did you talk to him 0:04:03.120 --> 0:04:06.119 for a long time before you guys' first date? Well, 0:04:06.280 --> 0:04:09.680 I mean, obviously I talked a couple of times, which 0:04:09.720 --> 0:04:20.040 is is profiles like everything. It's okay. I mean, I 0:04:20.200 --> 0:04:23.240 know it's kind of funny to some people, but this 0:04:23.400 --> 0:04:26.360 this kind of hell. I react. Well, it's not necessarily 0:04:26.520 --> 0:04:28.800 laughing at you crying about the situation. It's more it 0:04:28.920 --> 0:04:31.640 was five minutes late. Yeah, and for most people they 0:04:31.680 --> 0:04:33.360 would not get that worked up. If that's how you 0:04:33.440 --> 0:04:36.960 express yourself. That's how you express yourself. I go, so, 0:04:37.600 --> 0:04:41.200 did you did you were you this? Were you this 0:04:41.440 --> 0:04:45.280 visibly upset when you actually met him? Well? I was, 0:04:45.600 --> 0:04:47.680 you know, yeah, I mean I was. I was driving 0:04:48.000 --> 0:04:51.760 and you know, I was like, you know, getting emotional 0:04:51.920 --> 0:04:54.159 on the car, and I was mad at my dog, 0:04:54.560 --> 0:04:57.120 you know, and like that's hard. And then I got 0:04:57.200 --> 0:05:00.839 to the restaurant and you know, I realized I hadn't 0:05:00.839 --> 0:05:05.560 even pulled my hair or my master was everywhere, and 0:05:05.760 --> 0:05:07.960 so I was just trying to be you know, I 0:05:08.080 --> 0:05:10.280 tried to play it off so it was obvious that 0:05:10.320 --> 0:05:13.160 you had been crying. Yeah, I mean yeah, I was 0:05:13.240 --> 0:05:15.760 like use myself in the bathroom to like go like 0:05:16.400 --> 0:05:19.760 get it together, you know yeah, And I came out 0:05:19.880 --> 0:05:22.280 and I sort of just lost it again, you know. 0:05:22.480 --> 0:05:24.360 I mean, I just think he was so he was 0:05:24.400 --> 0:05:26.920 so sweet and I started telling him about Monkey, and 0:05:28.360 --> 0:05:32.080 what did he do when you started crying? It's like 0:05:32.680 --> 0:05:38.040 really surprised. He's a sensitive person, so sure he was 0:05:38.200 --> 0:05:41.640 upset for me, but he was like being strong. So 0:05:41.800 --> 0:05:44.359 you guys continued the day after you were crying about 0:05:44.400 --> 0:05:47.520 your dog. Yeah, you know what I mean, I got 0:05:48.080 --> 0:05:50.480 he once I told him what had happened with Monkey, 0:05:50.880 --> 0:05:53.200 and you know, it made me feel better. We had 0:05:53.279 --> 0:05:55.440 eaten and then the date was sort of you know, 0:05:55.680 --> 0:05:59.240 sort of it over anyway, So okay, how did it 0:05:59.560 --> 0:06:02.680 end with him? Um? He gave me a hug, and 0:06:03.160 --> 0:06:05.800 like a really super loving a hug. I mean, he 0:06:05.960 --> 0:06:09.400 was he just made me feel better. And I said, 0:06:09.440 --> 0:06:11.680 can I, you know, maybe can I get a do over? 0:06:12.160 --> 0:06:14.680 Like this isn't me, this isn't how I am. And 0:06:15.000 --> 0:06:19.440 I texted him like a bunch of times, you know, 0:06:19.600 --> 0:06:22.520 not not that many, but you know, like enough that 0:06:22.680 --> 0:06:25.480 I probably thought I would hear back from him by now. 0:06:25.640 --> 0:06:27.760 So I don't understand why you wouldn't let me just 0:06:27.960 --> 0:06:30.560 ever do over. Yeah, but Dennika, if I went out 0:06:30.600 --> 0:06:32.400 on a date with you like that and you started 0:06:32.440 --> 0:06:36.480 bawling on the date, it would probably freak me out. Yeah, 0:06:36.760 --> 0:06:38.640 other that artist start crying too, and there would just 0:06:38.680 --> 0:06:42.000 be a mess just to both of us at the table. Well, 0:06:42.560 --> 0:06:46.080 you know, I mean sometimes I get emotional and that's 0:06:46.120 --> 0:06:49.040 just like who I am. But you know I think 0:06:49.120 --> 0:06:51.840 that you like I mean, I don't love him, but 0:06:51.920 --> 0:06:54.200 I mean if I like this guy a lot, whoa 0:06:54.680 --> 0:06:57.000 I'm worried about you, Denika, because this is just the 0:06:57.040 --> 0:06:58.640 part where we find out what happened on the date 0:06:59.000 --> 0:07:01.679 and you haven't even really been able to keep it together. 0:07:01.839 --> 0:07:04.560 I'm totally getting it together now. Listen. Yeah, I'm totally 0:07:04.600 --> 0:07:09.200 A'm are right right now. Okay, we'll play a song. Oh, 0:07:10.200 --> 0:07:13.640 come back, call him and get your second date update. 0:07:13.640 --> 0:07:17.000 All right, Okay, I need you to be strong when 0:07:17.040 --> 0:07:19.480 we come back. Okay, I am. I'm totally gonna I'm 0:07:19.520 --> 0:07:22.480 totally gonna like wash my face and like get it together. 0:07:22.560 --> 0:07:25.560 It's good, okay, Okay, because if you cry twice to him, 0:07:25.760 --> 0:07:27.680 I guarantee it's gonna scare him off. I'll tell you what, 0:07:27.800 --> 0:07:30.800 I'm not gonna cry, even if I get a little shaky. 0:07:30.840 --> 0:07:33.800 I'll hold the phone away from my mouth. No one 0:07:33.880 --> 0:07:35.680 could hear. If at any moment you just hang up 0:07:35.680 --> 0:07:38.360 the phone. I'll pretend like the connection dropped out if 0:07:38.360 --> 0:07:40.080 you want to cry for a bit, and then I'll 0:07:40.120 --> 0:07:43.160 get you back on the phone after Okay, Okay, all right, 0:07:43.240 --> 0:07:46.360 just hang on this, I can do this, Okay, hold on. 0:07:49.080 --> 0:07:51.960 Remember before we play the next part of today's second 0:07:52.040 --> 0:07:54.760 Date Update, stick around because we're actually gonna talk to 0:07:54.880 --> 0:07:58.600 Danika and Mike again right afterwards. Apparently they have an 0:07:58.680 --> 0:08:01.280 update for us on what happened since we recorded this 0:08:01.440 --> 0:08:04.240 a few months ago. But first, let's hear part two 0:08:04.400 --> 0:08:10.360 of their second date update, brooking jubil in the morning. 0:08:12.360 --> 0:08:14.760 You know, normally during a second date update, it's the 0:08:14.840 --> 0:08:16.520 second part of the phone call when we get the 0:08:16.600 --> 0:08:19.000 couple on the phone together and they talk that tears 0:08:19.080 --> 0:08:22.920 come out. It's already happened a lot. And I'm actually 0:08:23.040 --> 0:08:25.560 hesitant to do today's second date update because I don't 0:08:25.600 --> 0:08:27.160 know if Danika, who is on the phone with us 0:08:27.240 --> 0:08:32.439 right now, can handle it. Danika, are you doing all right? Yeah, I'm, 0:08:33.080 --> 0:08:35.560 you know, keeping it. I'm gonna try and keep it together. 0:08:35.679 --> 0:08:37.959 Yeah okay, yeah, you definitely need to if you're just 0:08:38.080 --> 0:08:40.760 tuning in. Danika wants to call Mike. They met online, 0:08:40.880 --> 0:08:42.480 went out for a date. She was five minutes late 0:08:42.520 --> 0:08:45.079 for the date. It was very emotional about it. She 0:08:45.240 --> 0:08:47.079 was crying on the way to the date. When she 0:08:47.160 --> 0:08:49.000 got there, she tried to clean herself up, and then 0:08:49.040 --> 0:08:51.520 when she actually sat down with the guy, she lost 0:08:51.559 --> 0:08:54.280 it again and ended up crying during the date. And 0:08:54.400 --> 0:08:57.559 she isn't getting a call back and I'm assuming I 0:08:57.600 --> 0:08:59.880 don't know yet, but I'm guessing that's the reason why. Dan, 0:09:00.440 --> 0:09:02.679 it would be very weird for me to go out 0:09:02.720 --> 0:09:04.960 with a girl and have a cry on a first date. 0:09:05.760 --> 0:09:07.960 I know, I mean, it's I know it seems weird. 0:09:08.080 --> 0:09:11.079 But that's why I'm gonna apologize to him. And so 0:09:11.280 --> 0:09:14.079 am I'm a normal person, you know. Can I make 0:09:14.160 --> 0:09:16.880 one suggestion, Because I'm a person I cry at every emotion. 0:09:17.480 --> 0:09:20.679 If you start to get emotional, pinch yourself. That's my 0:09:20.760 --> 0:09:22.679 trick because it like helps you get out of your 0:09:22.720 --> 0:09:25.199 mindset of going down that path. And then it hurts 0:09:25.200 --> 0:09:28.680 because you pinch yourself and you cry more pain. Yeah, 0:09:31.760 --> 0:09:35.280 I'm willing to try anything. I will do it. Do 0:09:35.360 --> 0:09:36.760 you feel strong right now? Do you feel like you 0:09:36.800 --> 0:09:39.640 could do it? I do? I do. Took some deep breath. 0:09:39.960 --> 0:09:43.320 What's my face? Okay, I'm gonna doll the phone right now. 0:09:43.640 --> 0:09:46.839 Get him on the phone and get your second date update. Okay, Okay, 0:09:47.040 --> 0:09:59.720 you got this? Hell? Can I speak to Mike please? 0:10:01.240 --> 0:10:03.680 This is Mike, Mike. How you doing this? Is Jewil 0:10:03.720 --> 0:10:08.320 from brook and Jewil in the morning. I'm I'm sorry, 0:10:08.320 --> 0:10:10.199 Where are you calling? From Brooke? And Jewil in the 0:10:10.280 --> 0:10:18.360 morning radio show. Okay, did I win something? No, you didn't. 0:10:18.800 --> 0:10:21.280 I'm calling you because we recently got an email from 0:10:21.320 --> 0:10:25.480 somebody who went out on a date with you, okay, 0:10:25.960 --> 0:10:27.880 and she's been trying to get a second date, but 0:10:28.000 --> 0:10:29.880 you haven't been returning any of her phone calls or 0:10:29.920 --> 0:10:32.959 text messages. So she asked if I could get you 0:10:33.040 --> 0:10:39.839 on the phone and find out why. Seriously. Her name 0:10:39.920 --> 0:10:42.520 is Danika, and I'm gonna I'm gonna take a wild 0:10:42.600 --> 0:10:48.240 guess and say that you remember this date. Oh yes, Um, 0:10:49.400 --> 0:10:52.360 so she she emailed you to call me. Yeah. It's 0:10:52.360 --> 0:10:53.880 a segment we do on our show called the Second 0:10:53.960 --> 0:10:58.280 Date Update. That's a little awkward. Okay, what did you 0:10:58.320 --> 0:11:02.800 think of Danica? First off, I mean, dannik is a 0:11:02.920 --> 0:11:07.000 really sweet individual. Um, I mean, she has a really, 0:11:07.840 --> 0:11:12.360 really great heart. I would just say that she is 0:11:14.160 --> 0:11:19.880 a very highly emotional person. Yeah, we've talked to her 0:11:20.600 --> 0:11:23.160 about your date, and it was obvious from our conversation 0:11:23.200 --> 0:11:28.160 that she's very emotional. Okay, Right, so then you got 0:11:28.200 --> 0:11:31.640 a little bit of that. Um, I mean, I'm I'm 0:11:31.640 --> 0:11:35.240 a sensitive guy, and um you know, I'm a pisces. 0:11:35.640 --> 0:11:39.719 I pick up on people's vibes, you know, immediately, So 0:11:39.880 --> 0:11:44.640 I get it, but I mean, it was I've never 0:11:44.920 --> 0:11:49.920 experienced anything like that date ever in my life. She 0:11:51.360 --> 0:11:53.160 told us about it, and now she was five minutes later. 0:11:53.200 --> 0:11:54.679 She was very upset about that, and she had been 0:11:54.720 --> 0:11:58.360 crying before, and try god, I thought, Yeah, she ran 0:11:58.520 --> 0:12:02.520 in the restaurant and I had no idea what's going on. 0:12:02.640 --> 0:12:05.319 She had mass garrett down her face and she was 0:12:05.400 --> 0:12:11.400 telling me about her dog named Monkey, and she literally 0:12:11.920 --> 0:12:16.640 like started crying hardcore at the table. And you think, 0:12:16.720 --> 0:12:18.680 like that first, did you think like the dog died 0:12:18.800 --> 0:12:22.959 or something. That's that's That's exactly what I thought. So 0:12:23.360 --> 0:12:26.560 I'm in shock a because of the way she's reacting 0:12:26.600 --> 0:12:31.520 to it. But then she was so honestly upset that 0:12:31.640 --> 0:12:34.960 it was making me upset, you know, and I felt 0:12:35.000 --> 0:12:37.839 so bad for her, but I didn't know. I didn't 0:12:37.840 --> 0:12:40.839 know what to do. So she's freaking balling and I'm 0:12:40.840 --> 0:12:43.240 sitting here like I'm you know, she kind of got 0:12:43.320 --> 0:12:46.480 me cheer eyed, and you know, here were like a 0:12:46.600 --> 0:12:49.200 mess sitting in the restaurant, like everybody's staring at us. 0:12:49.520 --> 0:12:54.240 Oh yeah, that would be awkward. That would definitely be awkward. Yeah, 0:12:54.280 --> 0:12:56.599 it was the most awkward experience I've ever had in 0:12:56.679 --> 0:12:58.199 my life. And I feel bad for I mean, she's 0:12:58.240 --> 0:13:00.120 got a great heart. Yeah, it sounds like she's a 0:13:00.240 --> 0:13:02.679 very sensitive person. I don't know what I would do 0:13:02.679 --> 0:13:04.360 if I was in your shoes. I'm a sucker when 0:13:04.440 --> 0:13:06.240 girls cry. Why do you think I can't ever break 0:13:06.320 --> 0:13:08.600 up with girls? Because they always like to cry as 0:13:08.640 --> 0:13:09.800 soon as you say I don't want to be with you, 0:13:09.840 --> 0:13:11.160 and I'm like, all right, well we'll say so. I 0:13:11.200 --> 0:13:12.280 don't know what I would do if I was in 0:13:12.360 --> 0:13:15.839 your shoes. Yeah, you know, like finally when we laughed. 0:13:15.880 --> 0:13:20.600 I mean I was pretty much in like a really 0:13:21.040 --> 0:13:23.719 weird mirrored afterwards. I mean when you when someone is 0:13:23.760 --> 0:13:29.480 like deeply, deeply emotional for like an hour, like I was, 0:13:30.040 --> 0:13:33.280 I was kind of a wreck. Quite I would have 0:13:33.360 --> 0:13:36.760 I would have felt emotionally spent after that too, I 0:13:37.160 --> 0:13:39.240 mean I said, yeah, that's that's the right word to use, 0:13:39.320 --> 0:13:43.000 totally spent. All because she was five minutes late to 0:13:43.080 --> 0:13:45.600 your date. Because she was late, and because yeah, because 0:13:45.640 --> 0:13:47.360 she couldn't get her dogs to use the bathroom or 0:13:47.400 --> 0:13:51.439 something like. That's that's the craziest part. Mike I have 0:13:51.520 --> 0:13:53.640 to tell you this right now. Danica is actually on 0:13:53.800 --> 0:14:01.080 the phone listening. Are you serious? Yeah? Yeah, I'm like, um, 0:14:03.400 --> 0:14:07.640 I'm so um. I At first, I just want to say, um, 0:14:08.360 --> 0:14:11.800 listening to you the way that you just told our 0:14:11.880 --> 0:14:19.160 story was so sweet and you're so you're such a 0:14:19.280 --> 0:14:22.720 nice guy, and I I don't know what to say. 0:14:23.200 --> 0:14:25.840 Why are you trying? Why are you crying? Now? Anka, 0:14:26.240 --> 0:14:28.200 You're gonna get me intres up here? Why are you crying? 0:14:29.760 --> 0:14:33.080 Because I'm just trying to, like you know, like I'm 0:14:33.160 --> 0:14:36.880 actually trying not to cry, and that's like making me 0:14:37.040 --> 0:14:44.680 cry more because like I really care about you, and 0:14:44.800 --> 0:14:47.760 I really thought that, like you know, after all weeks 0:14:47.760 --> 0:14:51.880 have talked about I'm line. You know, I just knew, 0:14:51.960 --> 0:14:55.560 like you're you're such a good person, and I and 0:14:55.840 --> 0:14:58.240 and then I came and then I really everything and 0:14:58.400 --> 0:15:01.720 I and I totally terrible. I just felt you never 0:15:02.600 --> 0:15:05.080 stop stuff stuff. So you're not a terrible person. You 0:15:05.160 --> 0:15:09.800 didn't ruin anything, Okay, I'm I'm I'm sorry that is 0:15:10.000 --> 0:15:13.600 you know that I couldn't deal with the situation properly. 0:15:13.640 --> 0:15:18.960 I apologize, But you know, it's like we talk and 0:15:19.080 --> 0:15:21.920 so many times it was like, you know, building up 0:15:21.920 --> 0:15:25.000 towards the date, and then I show up and I 0:15:25.200 --> 0:15:29.840 and I'm late, and that's so inconsiderate and I felt 0:15:30.040 --> 0:15:33.440 so stupid. And no, no, no, no, no, no, it's okay, 0:15:33.520 --> 0:15:36.480 it's okay. You do late. I mean, it's it's that happens. 0:15:37.320 --> 0:15:42.480 It's not happen any reasons, you know. Oh no, no, no, 0:15:42.560 --> 0:15:46.840 don't don't cry. Come on, I don't try trying. I swear, 0:15:47.120 --> 0:15:49.320 I just want to. I just want to say that. 0:15:50.360 --> 0:15:53.320 And I know you've been avoiding my my calls and 0:15:53.440 --> 0:15:56.720 my text and I and I understand, I have it. 0:15:56.840 --> 0:16:02.760 I'm sorry. Okay, I'm sorry. I don't it on now. 0:16:03.880 --> 0:16:07.120 I mean, look, you know I'm an emotional guy too. 0:16:07.200 --> 0:16:10.400 I mean how am I supposed to How are we 0:16:10.440 --> 0:16:15.560 supposed to function as a as a normal couple If 0:16:16.160 --> 0:16:19.800 I'm so sensitive and tune to you and and you're 0:16:20.040 --> 0:16:22.640 you know, you're connected to your heart, right, I mean, 0:16:23.960 --> 0:16:27.800 how are we supposed to balance that? We would be 0:16:27.880 --> 0:16:31.440 a walking mass? You know, it's like a basket case 0:16:31.560 --> 0:16:34.960 of like emotions running around the street. Are you saying 0:16:35.200 --> 0:16:37.640 you're concerned, Mike that her being so emotional and you 0:16:37.720 --> 0:16:39.240 being so emotional? All you guys are gonna do is 0:16:39.280 --> 0:16:42.680 sit around and cry together. I mean, you know, I'm 0:16:42.720 --> 0:16:44.520 not saying that I'm going to sit around and cry, 0:16:44.600 --> 0:16:46.880 but I mean, you know, I'm saying that I'm going 0:16:46.960 --> 0:16:49.320 to feed into her feelings and I'm gonna want to, 0:16:49.440 --> 0:16:52.160 you know, nurture that. But I just feel like that 0:16:52.280 --> 0:16:55.640 that's focused, that's kind of the energy is too focused 0:16:55.680 --> 0:16:58.480 on one thing. You know, I don't want it to 0:16:58.520 --> 0:17:01.880 be a negative situation. I don't think it's negative though. 0:17:02.320 --> 0:17:04.560 I mean, I don't think it's negative. Like I think 0:17:04.640 --> 0:17:06.879 that you were like it's such a good like you 0:17:07.080 --> 0:17:09.680 showed me, like what a good guy you were, Like 0:17:09.880 --> 0:17:13.159 just you know, sit there and you you were so 0:17:13.480 --> 0:17:18.800 sweet to me and so comforting and like that's exactly 0:17:18.960 --> 0:17:23.800 the kind of car he Hey, hey, look you are sweet, okay, 0:17:24.080 --> 0:17:29.359 And that's why I was there. It's just how always 0:17:29.400 --> 0:17:31.080 with the function, if we can't we can't even have 0:17:31.160 --> 0:17:35.160 a conversation or out you're crying. You know, Mike, would 0:17:35.160 --> 0:17:37.000 you be interested in trying to have a conversation with 0:17:37.119 --> 0:17:42.920 no tears with Danneka? I mean, if that's possible. I 0:17:43.040 --> 0:17:45.160 can see if it's possible and ask you if you'd 0:17:45.200 --> 0:17:47.240 like to go out with Danaka again. I'll pay for 0:17:47.320 --> 0:17:50.600 a second date for you. Guys. It's possibly, I swear. 0:17:52.600 --> 0:17:55.280 Do you think we can go? No tears this time? 0:17:57.640 --> 0:18:01.680 I promise like I am, like I I've all cried out, 0:18:01.840 --> 0:18:04.000 you know? Are you kidding? It can be happy and 0:18:04.240 --> 0:18:06.360 we don't have to and if and if I'm late 0:18:06.520 --> 0:18:09.440 or you're late, it's gonna be okay. Well I'm not 0:18:09.480 --> 0:18:14.240 gonna be late. Oh gosh. Here's the thing. Here's the 0:18:14.320 --> 0:18:17.280 thing that you don't even know is that when I'm happy, 0:18:17.520 --> 0:18:23.800 like I'm so happy, don't display you have major mood swings. 0:18:23.840 --> 0:18:26.679 Don't do that. I go from super happy to tears 0:18:28.000 --> 0:18:30.200 in a matter of seconds. All right, well, Mike, so 0:18:30.359 --> 0:18:33.600 you will go out with Dannaka again. Let's give it 0:18:33.640 --> 0:18:37.120 another Let's give another sick all right? That is awesome. 0:18:37.600 --> 0:18:41.879 It's gonna be amazing. I can't believe it's happening. Danaka, 0:18:41.960 --> 0:18:44.840 you may have found you're right your dream man. All right, 0:18:45.320 --> 0:18:49.000 told you, I told you. Yeah, so awesome. Don't screw 0:18:49.080 --> 0:18:52.719 it up. Okay, no more tears, No, no, we're tears. 0:18:52.880 --> 0:18:57.639 I'm totally gonna keep it together. Okay. Congratulations Dannaka, you 0:18:57.720 --> 0:19:05.120 got your second date. Oh my god, thinks I'm so excited. Mike, 0:19:05.359 --> 0:19:06.919 thank you very much. I look forward to hearing back 0:19:06.960 --> 0:19:09.320 from you guys after you go out. Okay, yeah, we'll 0:19:09.400 --> 0:19:11.919 keep you updated. Today's second date update brought you by 0:19:12.040 --> 0:19:18.960 zanex jul in the morning. You just heard one of 0:19:19.000 --> 0:19:21.600 the most popular second date updates that we've ever done 0:19:21.600 --> 0:19:24.919 on this show with Danika and Mike, who miraculously agreed 0:19:24.960 --> 0:19:27.159 to see each other one more time, even after Dannika 0:19:27.200 --> 0:19:31.400 would not stop crying like a second. It's okay. It's 0:19:31.440 --> 0:19:33.520 been a few months since we recorded that call, and 0:19:33.640 --> 0:19:35.959 we have them both actually on the phone right now 0:19:36.280 --> 0:19:37.879 because people have been asking for this for us to 0:19:37.960 --> 0:19:40.360 do updates on the second date updates. So, hey, guys, 0:19:40.400 --> 0:19:43.800 how you doing? Hieing pretty good? Thanks for coming on 0:19:43.840 --> 0:19:45.840 the show. And so first question I have for Dannika is, 0:19:45.960 --> 0:19:48.119 last time we talk to you, you were having trouble 0:19:48.400 --> 0:19:51.840 holding it together, very emotional. How are your emotions right now? 0:19:51.880 --> 0:19:54.480 Are you? Are you gonna be okay? I know I'm 0:19:54.520 --> 0:19:56.840 I'm an emotional person, but I mean I couldn't be 0:19:56.920 --> 0:20:00.399 happier right now. So I feel pretty good. I'm always 0:20:00.440 --> 0:20:02.400 curious when people go out on a date after they've 0:20:02.440 --> 0:20:04.280 done a second date update with us. Is it a 0:20:04.400 --> 0:20:07.360 more comfortable situation going into it or was it more 0:20:07.480 --> 0:20:10.160 pressure because your whole story had been told to everybody 0:20:10.160 --> 0:20:13.400 and now it's kind of uncomfortable. I mean, I think 0:20:13.520 --> 0:20:15.800 he kind of gave us something to like go from 0:20:15.960 --> 0:20:19.360 and talk about and laugh at. I guess I think 0:20:19.359 --> 0:20:22.960 I was definitely more nervous. Yeah, I don't know why. 0:20:23.040 --> 0:20:24.800 I just I don't know, because you heard the way 0:20:24.800 --> 0:20:26.960 that she was crying on the phone. I don't know 0:20:27.040 --> 0:20:28.920 if I should have agreed to a second date here. 0:20:30.720 --> 0:20:34.040 You know, I have to say, though, I'm so thankful 0:20:34.160 --> 0:20:38.680 because if it wasn't for you guys, I don't know 0:20:39.400 --> 0:20:44.240 that we would have been where we are now, you know. Right. Well, so, Dennika, 0:20:44.320 --> 0:20:46.080 you wrote in saying that you wanted to update our 0:20:46.119 --> 0:20:50.400 listeners on something. Yes, okay, So well, I mean, we're 0:20:50.480 --> 0:20:57.200 moving in together. That is so cute. I'm so excited 0:20:57.400 --> 0:21:01.280 and everything has really just don't know, it's moved kind 0:21:01.280 --> 0:21:03.480 of quickly, but I feel like we just get each 0:21:03.520 --> 0:21:06.399 other and I can't wait. You know, he's like a 0:21:06.560 --> 0:21:10.639 friend and he's just everything that I've ever needed or wanted, 0:21:10.840 --> 0:21:15.560 And thank you, boyfriend. So it's a second date update 0:21:15.600 --> 0:21:19.680 that actually worked out. You know, you guys really helped. 0:21:19.800 --> 0:21:22.920 I really really did help the situation. I think that's good. 0:21:23.040 --> 0:21:25.280 It sounds so happy. You know, Mike, you told our 0:21:25.280 --> 0:21:27.760 producer offer that there's an update that Danika doesn't know 0:21:27.840 --> 0:21:31.760 about that you wanted to share. Yes, I did. He's like, 0:21:31.960 --> 0:21:38.480 he's like, we're breaking up. Yeah, goody. Else it's been great. However, 0:21:40.760 --> 0:21:45.720 that's not funny though. Really, don't cry. I'm just joking. 0:21:45.720 --> 0:21:47.720 You guys are obviously very happy with each other, but 0:21:47.960 --> 0:21:49.840 very You told our producer producer boy that you had 0:21:49.920 --> 0:21:52.040 something that you wanted to tell us about, So I 0:21:52.280 --> 0:21:55.760 feel like it's only appropriate. And we would have never 0:21:55.840 --> 0:21:58.159 had a second chance without you, guys. And I mean, 0:21:58.240 --> 0:22:00.680 I'm so excited that we're moving together. I'm so excited 0:22:00.760 --> 0:22:03.359 to be with you, and I think that this is 0:22:03.440 --> 0:22:07.480 really the first time that I've felt so honestly connected 0:22:07.560 --> 0:22:16.440 to someone and and I absolutely love you, and you 0:22:16.480 --> 0:22:20.760 would make me the happiest man if you would marry me. 0:22:25.800 --> 0:22:29.760 Are you? I'm so serious right now? Oh my god, 0:22:34.760 --> 0:22:43.680 she's crying there going I know I'm sorry I'm doing 0:22:43.720 --> 0:22:47.480 this on the air, but I just feel like it's appropriate. 0:22:47.640 --> 0:22:56.160 And Danica, I've never been happier. She said, yes, yeah, 0:23:00.760 --> 0:23:07.359 congratulations Danika. Are you all right? I even I can't 0:23:07.440 --> 0:23:10.280 talk again. Yeah, you didn't take a couple of minutes 0:23:10.320 --> 0:23:16.520 to breathe, Danaka, that's fine. Congratulations though, crazy, Yes, yes, yes, yes, 0:23:21.400 --> 0:23:25.199 something about her mom. I'm gonna come. I'm gonna come 0:23:25.240 --> 0:23:26.679 over to your work as soon as we get off 0:23:26.720 --> 0:23:30.719