WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: Halloween Role Reversal

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<v Speaker 1>Second date, up date. It's awkward.

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<v Speaker 2>It's Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 1>It's awkward Tuesday phone call. Everybody has their unique Halloween

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<v Speaker 1>traditions that they personally like to do every single year.

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<v Speaker 1>Like every Halloween, Brooke forces her husband to dress up

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<v Speaker 1>in some elaborate homemade costume that he has absolutely no

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<v Speaker 1>interest in.

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<v Speaker 3>Why.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know. He really liked being the doctor that

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<v Speaker 4>one year. Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, No, that was the

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<v Speaker 4>year that I went as before and after Pilhood.

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<v Speaker 1>Interesting that those were back to back years.

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<v Speaker 4>It's the same year I got you. Yeah, it was

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<v Speaker 4>a couple's costumes.

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<v Speaker 1>Alexis has a Halloween tradition where she must throw up

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<v Speaker 1>bright red punch into the cup home or she can't

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<v Speaker 1>go back into her apartment.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, it's a successful Halloween.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and those are sacred. And one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>needs help with an annill Halloween tradition he does, it's

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<v Speaker 1>going to require an awkward phone call this time around,

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<v Speaker 1>so let's talk to Andrew about it. Andrew, Welcome to

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<v Speaker 1>the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey guys, thanks for having me.

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<v Speaker 4>God, I hope where your new Halloween tradition? Andrew Year

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<v Speaker 4>one that happen to him every year.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well, one of us wishes ill on your Halloween.

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<v Speaker 1>The rest of us will actually want to help you,

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<v Speaker 1>So tell us what's going on.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I kind of have a weird tradition that has

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<v Speaker 3>only happened once, having the first time last year, but

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<v Speaker 3>I want to keep it going.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Oh, so it's not a tradition yet you're hoping

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<v Speaker 1>to make it a tradition.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, all traditions have to start somewhere, Jeff, Yeah, true,

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<v Speaker 4>that is true. What is it?

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<v Speaker 5>So?

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<v Speaker 3>I met a girl last year, her name was Kate.

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<v Speaker 3>We met on a dating app, and I was completely

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<v Speaker 3>honest with my height with her. I'm about five foot

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<v Speaker 3>five maybe five foot four and three quarters.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, you're a shorter guy, Hey, Broke, don't say that. No,

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's goods with confidence. I think it's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>She's making a statement. She's funny.

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<v Speaker 4>I tell women all the time to date short man

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<v Speaker 4>that you got you work so much. Stop listening every

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<v Speaker 4>time Brooks starts saying seriously, those tall guys they just

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<v Speaker 4>like phone it in. You know, you want to guy

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<v Speaker 4>that lets you you get a short hottie someone.

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<v Speaker 1>With low self esteem? Isn't that right?

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<v Speaker 3>Right? Andrew well, you know self, imprecations can go my favorite.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes right here, got her back. Okay, she's how tall?

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<v Speaker 3>She's six foot one not short day.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so you guys are kind of role reversal there.

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<v Speaker 4>That's cool.

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<v Speaker 3>So I called her and through the dating app, I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, I know you're probably not going to message

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<v Speaker 3>me back, but I'm into taller women and I think

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<v Speaker 3>you're beautiful. But I'm only five five.

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<v Speaker 4>Did I get it? I like to be picked up too. Wow,

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<v Speaker 4>someone who is strong enough to pick you up.

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<v Speaker 1>He picks her up and spins her in a circle.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a grown man, Brook, He's not a baby, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>Just sorry about that, Andrews. So that's a bold thing

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<v Speaker 1>to be honest in your message. Did she respond?

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<v Speaker 3>She did, and to her credit, she was like, sure,

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<v Speaker 3>what the heck, let's meet up.

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<v Speaker 4>So that's great.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, And what it came down to was.

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<v Speaker 6>That we both weren't doing anything on the day of Halloween,

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<v Speaker 6>like the actual like October thirty first, okay, and it

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<v Speaker 6>was on a weekday, so we just met up at

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<v Speaker 6>a bar and we instantly hit it off.

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<v Speaker 3>So we may look mismatched, but our personalities were perfect.

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<v Speaker 3>We're both like very sarcastic, sensitive humorshing. Yeah. So we

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<v Speaker 3>we drank and we laughed for like about an hour,

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<v Speaker 3>and then I had the funniest idea. I was like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>what if we went back to my place and I

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<v Speaker 3>put on one of my old Halloween costumes and keep going.

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<v Speaker 3>This might through the opposite of what you're thinking. Oh no,

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<v Speaker 3>we put on the Halloween costumes and we go around

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<v Speaker 3>the neighborhood trick or treating together, and we pretend that

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<v Speaker 3>she's my mom.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, what Okay? That is so not hot

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<v Speaker 4>head better funny, it's funny, But like, aren't you romantically

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<v Speaker 4>interested in this woman?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Definitely, definitely. But like at the time, it was Halloween

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<v Speaker 3>night and we had a couple of drinks.

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<v Speaker 1>And what's Brooke, what's not romantic about going trick or

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<v Speaker 1>treating with your mom on Halloween.

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<v Speaker 4>Nobody wants to be a man's mom. It's just not hot.

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<v Speaker 3>But here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 1>He's using humor to bond with her.

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<v Speaker 4>A kid. Yeah, they think it's funny. Okay, you did it.

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<v Speaker 1>You pitched her this idea.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, And because I felt like we have the same

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<v Speaker 3>kind of sense of humor and really connected. I that

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<v Speaker 3>she would say yes, and she did.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh oh my god, she's doing.

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<v Speaker 2>It for the plot.

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<v Speaker 3>We got into the Halloween cuss she was and we

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<v Speaker 3>would walk around and she would say things at the door,

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<v Speaker 3>like sorry, he doesn't talk a lot, but he's a

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<v Speaker 3>really nice boy.

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<v Speaker 1>Because you couldn't say anything else, people would't know with

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<v Speaker 1>your voice.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, maybe you found your person. If she was

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<v Speaker 4>into this, maybe this is the person for you.

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<v Speaker 1>How did it go?

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<v Speaker 3>It was definitely fun and we got a good amount

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<v Speaker 3>of candy.

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<v Speaker 4>No, that's not even did you spread it out on

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<v Speaker 4>the floor and like do trades? Did take a photo

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<v Speaker 4>of that?

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe you said that.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, we actually went to a park at the end

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<v Speaker 3>of the night and we split the candy and drank

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<v Speaker 3>some beers from my fridge, and honestly, I gotta tell you,

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<v Speaker 3>this was the best Halloween I have had since I

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<v Speaker 3>was like eight.

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<v Speaker 4>But you didn't have another date with her? Is that

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<v Speaker 4>what you're saying?

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<v Speaker 3>No, So we've for the last year just sort of

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<v Speaker 3>been like texting or like commenting on me to the

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<v Speaker 3>social media post.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I've been.

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<v Speaker 3>Texting her to try to organize it because I'd really

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<v Speaker 3>love to do it again, and she's not responding to me.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and you don't want a six foot one dad

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<v Speaker 4>to come along with you. You don't have to six my mom.

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<v Speaker 3>But in all seriousness, I really thought Kate was a

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<v Speaker 3>really cool person, and like, even if she doesn't want

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<v Speaker 3>to do this, just like hanging out in person again

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<v Speaker 3>is something I'm really shooting for here.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, it's like a monster mashup of second date and

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<v Speaker 4>awkward Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah, a year later. Okay, Yeah, we'll try and

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<v Speaker 1>get it done. We'll come back give you a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit of advice right after this. Okay, thank you, second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. I know I said at the start that

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<v Speaker 1>this was an awkward Tuesday phone.

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<v Speaker 4>Call, but change your mind.

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<v Speaker 1>The more we hear this story, the more I started

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<v Speaker 1>to think, it's not really awkward. It's more of a

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<v Speaker 1>second date update just a year after the first meet

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to think.

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<v Speaker 4>Honestly, the first time he asked her to pretend to

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<v Speaker 4>be his mother should have been the awkward PoCA yeah

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<v Speaker 4>after she said yes, it's but.

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<v Speaker 1>That's because you know, before we had him on, we

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know the full story. But Andrew basically wants to

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<v Speaker 1>take Kate out on another date, and he says either

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<v Speaker 1>an adult trick or treat a venture like last time,

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<v Speaker 1>which he's already pitched to her over text, or if not,

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<v Speaker 1>that he's willing to settle for a lifelong romantic Hallmark

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<v Speaker 1>style relationships. He's not picking. He'll take whatever he'll get.

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<v Speaker 4>He really does love though, he does, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>But we're officially gonna switch it up here. No awkward

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<v Speaker 1>Tuesday anymore. It's a second date update from here on. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>are you cool with that? Andrew? Is that okay?

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<v Speaker 6>Sure?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm cool with that.

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<v Speaker 4>That means it's fine advice anyways. Yeah, that means that

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<v Speaker 4>we're doing the talking then when we call her.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, that's how our second date updates work. Remember, welcome

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<v Speaker 1>to the show that you've been working on forever a decade.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I've got for you, Jeff.

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<v Speaker 3>Does it make you feel better that we're taking over

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<v Speaker 3>the work and you don't have to do all the talking?

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<v Speaker 2>Brother?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, yes, I don't think he's confident in us. Just

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<v Speaker 1>before we do this, for context, when is the last

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<v Speaker 1>time that you texted Kate? Andrew?

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<v Speaker 3>Last time I texted her was a few days ago,

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<v Speaker 3>because I was like, hey, are we doing this Halloween

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<v Speaker 3>treating thing again or what where.

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<v Speaker 4>You act like her son? Very straightforward? Yeah. Did she

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<v Speaker 4>respond to that?

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<v Speaker 3>No? Okay, he's like, yeah, she said, we're doing it

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<v Speaker 3>all right?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, No, you're right. Let's just call her and

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<v Speaker 1>I'll ask that question and see if we have better

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<v Speaker 1>luck this time.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, a different question.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we're going to ask something and something will happen.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go and doubt the numbers. Hello, Hey is

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<v Speaker 1>this Kate?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Who's this?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Kate? You're on the radio right now with Brooke

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, did I why?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, no, yes, yeah, no, this is a good thing, Kate.

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<v Speaker 1>We're doing something with you called a second date update.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh man, you will never guess who called us about you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>it's been a minute.

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<v Speaker 1>It has been a while since you were on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with this person, at least officially. His name is Andrew.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>He's been he's been in contact with me.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh okay, that's a cute giggle.

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<v Speaker 1>We've kind of heard about it, you guys, being in contact.

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<v Speaker 1>He's trying to organize another meetup and you're taking him

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<v Speaker 1>up on the offer, or at least you're not responding

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<v Speaker 1>like we were trying to help him figure out what's

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<v Speaker 1>going on because he's confused.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, it seems you know, we don't know, that's

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<v Speaker 4>why we're asking, right.

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<v Speaker 2>So like I'm just yeah, I'm kind of confused too,

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<v Speaker 2>because I'm just kind of like not wanting to go

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<v Speaker 2>out with him and all of his friends, like his friends.

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<v Speaker 2>Doesn't understand.

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<v Speaker 4>He didn't mention his friends when he talked to us.

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<v Speaker 1>He was just talking about do you and with this

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<v Speaker 1>Halloween thing? Do you mean like going around trick or

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<v Speaker 1>treating where he pretends to be a kid and you

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<v Speaker 1>pretend to be his mom.

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<v Speaker 4>You're so much taller than him, apparently, I can't believe

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<v Speaker 4>he told you guys that, But earlier you mentioned his friends, Like,

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<v Speaker 4>what are you talking about his friends?

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<v Speaker 2>He wants me to take him and all of his

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<v Speaker 2>friends trick or treating?

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<v Speaker 4>Wait?

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<v Speaker 1>What his adult friends are?

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<v Speaker 4>Are all of his guy friends really short?

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<v Speaker 2>I haven't met them, but he said that they're all

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<v Speaker 2>short like him. I can't believe that they're short as

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<v Speaker 2>him because he's really short.

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<v Speaker 4>But so it is the turnoff, like you acting as

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<v Speaker 4>his mother, or is the turn off you acting as

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<v Speaker 4>his mother to not just him, but all of all

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<v Speaker 4>of his friends.

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<v Speaker 3>Both both.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, I'll tell you this. He didn't mention to us

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<v Speaker 1>anything about wanting to bring other friends along on the

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<v Speaker 1>trick or Tree date experience. He just said it was

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<v Speaker 1>just you and.

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<v Speaker 4>Him, And he also mentioned that he's like romantically interested

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<v Speaker 4>in you, like he would be fine hanging out with

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<v Speaker 4>you outside him.

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<v Speaker 3>It would be.

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<v Speaker 1>Smart if he brought friends.

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<v Speaker 3>They could stack on each other's shoulders and do the

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<v Speaker 3>trench goill thing and then they'd be.

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<v Speaker 1>The same high. Then they can yeah, do the adult parties.

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<v Speaker 4>Perfect seems to be so much harter. Yeah yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>just as men don't like to be made fun of

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<v Speaker 4>for being short, women don't like to be made fun

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<v Speaker 4>of for being tall. Well yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But going back to what Brooks said, like, do you

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<v Speaker 1>feel like you're romantically interested in him?

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<v Speaker 4>Still?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I don't know, you know what.

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<v Speaker 1>In fact, don't even answer that. Let's just go over

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<v Speaker 1>to our other phone line where we actually have Andrew

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<v Speaker 1>eagerly awaiting your response. Andrew maskof say.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello, Hi, Hi Kate. Good to hear your voice.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey good, Yeah you too.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, Kate, you did say last year, like how much

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<v Speaker 3>fun you had doing this with me, and like you

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<v Speaker 3>promise at the end that we do it again next year.

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<v Speaker 3>So just think about how much more fun it would

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<v Speaker 3>be if there was like a group of us going together.

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<v Speaker 1>Brook always says more children, more friends.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh god, it's like if you want me to meet

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<v Speaker 2>your friends. First of all, we're only go on one date,

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<v Speaker 2>so it's like, I'm not really ready to go and

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<v Speaker 2>meet all of your friends, and like you have this

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<v Speaker 2>like group of these little guys and you want me

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<v Speaker 2>to be the tall chaperone you and I your friends,

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<v Speaker 2>and it just doesn't doesn't make sense to me. It's

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<v Speaker 2>not sexy, it's not.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, can you guarantee her that it'll be sexy?

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<v Speaker 4>Sugress?

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<v Speaker 1>It's what she wanted last year. You guys were also

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<v Speaker 1>drinking too, This must be different. Planning at sober and

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<v Speaker 1>ahead of time.

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<v Speaker 4>Just being someone's mom is not high, okay or not?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe maybe Andrew you be her dad on this.

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<v Speaker 4>Two adults.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think what we want to do is take

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<v Speaker 1>the trick or treating date off the table completely.

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<v Speaker 4>Can someone throw a Halloween party out your friends?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think we're going to make any progress romantically

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<v Speaker 1>with that as the date. Andrew, I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Want to do that, just to be honest.

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<v Speaker 3>All right.

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<v Speaker 5>So okay, Kate, if I'm picking up what you're putting

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<v Speaker 5>down here, you don't want to do this trick or

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<v Speaker 5>treating thing. And I imagine that in the last year,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, you've started dating someone you're not you're not

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<v Speaker 5>single anymore, that that would be my guess.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh she said anything like that.

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<v Speaker 2>I am single, but that has absolutely nothing to do

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<v Speaker 2>with this.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she said she doesn't want that.

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<v Speaker 3>No, how could she not want it? Right? This sounds

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<v Speaker 3>like the best night ever. I'm not alone in this life.

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<v Speaker 1>Sounds he's very sold on his own idea.

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<v Speaker 4>I think you just go trigger treating without a parental guide,

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<v Speaker 4>you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Just he promised all of his friends she would chaperone,

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<v Speaker 1>and now he's freaking out.

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<v Speaker 3>You're not lying about that. I mean, I did talk

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<v Speaker 3>to my friends about this and they really like the idea.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Kate, you don't want to let Andrew's friends down

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<v Speaker 1>on this. Say one more date and we would pay

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<v Speaker 1>for it and you can chaperone him around the neighborhood

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<v Speaker 1>with his little buddies. Do you want to help.

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<v Speaker 4>Brooke not tall enough?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so sorry. You don't need to apologize, and I

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<v Speaker 2>just kind of feel a little creeped out about the

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<v Speaker 2>whole thing.

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<v Speaker 1>No, Hey, we're not trying to do it.

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<v Speaker 4>She's never dating a short guy again.

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<v Speaker 1>He tries to stand up for that I happens, Andrew, Man,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. It sounds like we're not going to be

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<v Speaker 1>able to get you a date here. Kate doesn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to be your chaperone.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, fine, but you're really missing out. Do you have

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<v Speaker 3>any other tall female friends that might want to be

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<v Speaker 3>involved in.

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<v Speaker 1>Ancestor anybody who really wants to be a mom for

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<v Speaker 1>just one night?

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I don't think so at this point.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, all right, Brook, put on the stilts. You're up.

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.