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Speaker 1: People going to Dubai to get shiitted on for fifty

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Speaker 2: Hummus BUKACKI that's what they call it. Look it up.

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Speaker 2: They're getting fucked by German shepherds.

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Speaker 3: And how much how much would you take to get to.

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Speaker 2: Get shitted on? I probably would have million dollar?

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Speaker 3: I don't know, twenty five thousand. Fuck.

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Speaker 1: No, I don't think I can get no, because I

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Speaker 1: think that I will be traumatized my piece of thousand.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm not getting shitted on for a hundred million.

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Speaker 3: No, I don't think a million dollars here, let me go.

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Speaker 3: I can't million. No, it's only gonna take five minutes.

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Speaker 2: And what do I do? I have to do this?

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Speaker 3: Just sit right later.

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Speaker 2: And you're throwing you put on your mouth and everything.

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Speaker 3: No, it's wet. It's wet though.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no.

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Speaker 4: A million.

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Speaker 3: Even watch that. I'll go to shower a million. I

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Speaker 3: don't know one million dollar mint?

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Speaker 1: Is it in the mouth? Is it in the mouth.

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Speaker 1: It's not in the mouth. It's not in the mountains.

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Speaker 2: If it's not in the mouth, is it in the

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Speaker 3: Listen, man, listen? A million dollars.

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Speaker 5: Stop making spect stop stop putting stipulations on this. You're

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Speaker 5: getting a million dollars.

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Speaker 2: Shut up five minutes.

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Speaker 5: It's only gonna take less than that probably, and that's it.

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Speaker 5: It's diarrhea though.

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Speaker 2: Oh a million.

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Speaker 3: I don't know tax free alright, going about watch this

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Speaker 3: all because that's what I heard they doing to the bay.

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Speaker 1: They are doing that, but they're not getting a million.

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Speaker 1: You got theer, they're getting fifty thousand.

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Speaker 3: What if you got you got the offer? Did you

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Speaker 3: get an offer from Dubai.

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Speaker 2: I've always got an offer.

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Speaker 3: Let's keep it wide.

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Speaker 6: She got off.

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Speaker 2: Side of the contract. She just signed the contract. I

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Speaker 2: haven't able to have and baby, I haven't took anything.

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Speaker 5: Now when I meet girls, this is what I'm gonna

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Speaker 5: be like, Hey, have you been to Dubai?

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Speaker 3: If they say yes, I've never been. No, no, no,

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Speaker 5: If I like, hey, you know, have you been to

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna know they got they had to what's the

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Speaker 5: Youth to what's the youngest to the oldest, Like, what's

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Speaker 7: Tell myself right now, I would say right like right now,

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Speaker 1: Why I thought she was going would say, I thought she.

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Speaker 3: Was going to like thirty.

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Speaker 6: Oh no, I mean I don't. I don't think I could.

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Speaker 7: I don't know. I'm not gonna get up here and lie.

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Speaker 7: Young young men are very aggressive and they do not

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Speaker 2: What joy I have to ask you, because this is

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Speaker 7: Man they're saying, no, you ain't about to have me

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Speaker 2: On the bullshit?

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Speaker 6: Is they grown?

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Speaker 3: Say?

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Speaker 1: The twenty five year old men are where it's at.

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Speaker 1: All the older That's what I'm trying to say. The

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Speaker 1: They come, they're intentional, they come with it. They're like

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Speaker 1: I've never dated a younger man before. No, I've never

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Speaker 2: At this point, they're talking about this is the truth.

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Speaker 7: After dark, they're telling the truth.

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Speaker 2: This is what I'm hearing. And even though I don't.

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Speaker 7: Like it's twenty, I don't want to be clear here

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Speaker 7: because I'm not. I don't like twenty five is a

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Speaker 2: It's a grown man. Okay, you're not on Bush twenty five.

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Speaker 7: I would say twenty five to I would say twenty five,

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Speaker 7: I'd say twenty five, toy like probably probably like seventy seventy.

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Speaker 2: Jesus, the spur range. Twenty five to seventy is a

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Speaker 7: But here's the thing about older men, though, Okay, tell

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Speaker 7: me to be clear, like I ate I date within

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Speaker 7: five years of my age range, Like I don't know.

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Speaker 7: I'm just answering the question. If you see me pull

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Speaker 7: up with a seventy year old, don't ask any fucking questions. Okay,

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Speaker 7: he's got a plane. I'm doing this for all of us.

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Speaker 2: Your hurt me answer questions better? You better dapping up?

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Speaker 2: Pull what's up?

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Speaker 8: Wrong?

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Speaker 4: Da?

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Speaker 7: Da da get yeah, very real nice.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna treat him real good. Like everything is normal.

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Speaker 3: Everything is normal, absolutely.

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Speaker 1: But you know, like my dad is seventy seven, was

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Speaker 6: You know what I like with older men.

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Speaker 2: Older men are have great stories.

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Speaker 3: I like to talk.

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Speaker 2: They got all the stories.

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Speaker 7: They're very confident, they appreciate you.

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Speaker 2: They they're very sweet.

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Speaker 1: I can't have sex with an old wrinkley penis. I'm

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Speaker 2: Well, I don't know.

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Speaker 7: Are they aren't all penises wrinkley?

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Speaker 7: Maybe I mean at one point throughout the day all

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Speaker 7: penises are wrinkling.

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Speaker 2: You're right, when they're soft at the beginning.

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Speaker 7: At the beginning, you're right, and today in rast stay

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Speaker 7: but they say they're like kind of like one big wrinkle.

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Speaker 2: You're right, And they say older men don't even want to.

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Speaker 9: Be a good look, but I don't even I don't

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Speaker 9: me right now, butter, And there's no disrespect to you.

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Speaker 3: But I just been through the ringer with it.

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Speaker 10: Because they would take it and use it for clickbait,

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Speaker 10: and I'm like, I'm actually just But have you ever

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Speaker 10: masturbated and felt guilty and shameful afterwards?

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Speaker 3: Man?

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Speaker 9: Have you ever watched porn and masturbated and celebrated another

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Speaker 9: man's success, Because like, I don't watch porn because I

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Speaker 3: I used to though I don't think I've ever been

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Speaker 9: Yeah, that's beautiful. I was at one time. I used

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Speaker 3: Talk my man, that nigga killing that whole son.

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Speaker 9: You know, and I used to get I used to

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Speaker 9: told me, he say, you know.

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Speaker 3: That self mutilation.

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Speaker 9: Muh huh, He said, you celebrating to an you dragging

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Speaker 9: off to another man's success. It's other ways to stimulate

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Speaker 9: where you could take that sexual energy and channel it

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Speaker 9: develop addictions, if you purpose driven, you develop riches.

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Speaker 3: And not just with wealth of a pocket, but of

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Speaker 9: Yeah, because like I'm a freak for like new information,

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Speaker 9: Like I love to be stimulated mentally, right, Like I

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Speaker 9: love conversations that leave me feeling refreshed. You ever had

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Speaker 9: a conversation with somebody and I was like, it's draining

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Speaker 5: I said, you didn't have conversations with stimulate you. It's like, yes,

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Speaker 3: I've had that. I've had that with her.

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Speaker 5: It's intellectual intercourse like conversation.

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Speaker 3: So it's like, damn, that's beautiful. It is beautiful.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the.

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Speaker 5: So when you like, when you have that with uh female,

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Speaker 5: That's gonna happen like once every blue blue move to

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Speaker 5: there just like it's sounding like YadA YadA YadA.

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Speaker 9: You know. Sometimes, you know, sometimes we're not protective of

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Speaker 9: responsible for the places that I place myself.

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Speaker 3: But that's physically right.

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Speaker 9: But I've been working with this other guy, you know

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Speaker 9: what the fascion is. So we've been working on like

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Speaker 9: all spiritually, all psychologically. And I was like, you know what,

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Speaker 9: I know I am.

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Speaker 8: I know you did hold on while you hang up? Okay, okay,

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Speaker 8: they said, what's up?

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Speaker 3: He trying to tell you, Hey, what up? Son? That's

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Speaker 3: Paul Pierce the Legend.

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Speaker 1: Man.

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Speaker 3: I'm right here doing a podcast right now working.

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Speaker 8: I was about to text you, but you just called

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Speaker 8: five more times like you assisted on talking? What's up?

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Speaker 8: What's the question? You are on camera? Don't say nothing? Crazy, bro?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I told you I'm gonna bring you out for sure.

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Speaker 3: I got you. We can't say the date because I'm

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Speaker 3: being recorded right now. It's a surprise. Yeah, I got you.

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Speaker 3: He wanted to be a rapper. So what what do

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Speaker 3: you saying. I'm gonna give you some of my back end.

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Speaker 3: I give you a list something, man.

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Speaker 2: I got a list up, some funny.

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Speaker 8: I gotta list up some fake So I'm gonna call

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Speaker 8: you when I'm doing Man, I love you.

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Speaker 1: The size matter to women? You answer that now I

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Speaker 2: Able to feel it at Papa Georgio nine, they're not.

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Speaker 2: What do you want to say if it's this like.

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Speaker 3: Like what what's what? What?

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Speaker 1: I don't know about inches and things with these penis things.

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Speaker 2: How long is you dam we were there for a year?

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Speaker 1: Like he did other things that you know, pleased me,

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Speaker 2: So at Papa Georgio.

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Speaker 1: Nine, men have simple needs. Why do men struggle? Why

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Speaker 3: Maybe rub my neck, rub my back. That don't cost nothing.

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Speaker 5: I'm at fact, I'll pay for the food for you

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Speaker 2: Don't kill me.

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Speaker 1: But I feel like a lot of women were raised

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Speaker 2: Off of that one at seat one B.

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Speaker 1: Should a man with no kids at age thirty eight

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Speaker 5: If you're thirty eight, I have to just kind of

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Speaker 2: I think, what if she's twenty six and has kids though.

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Speaker 5: Well, if he thirty and got no kids, he could

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Speaker 1: Okay, what if he doesn't want to date someone that's

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Speaker 2: Have you ever thought of that?

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Speaker 3: Why would he do that?

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Speaker 1: Why wouldn't he do that? Why wouldn't some want to

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Speaker 1: how to put on motion on their women clean their assholes?

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Speaker 2: What do you mean? What if someone doesn't want to

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Speaker 3: So twenty should have thirty eight or with no kids? Day?

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Speaker 3: What's the age should he day.

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Speaker 2: He didn't ask, he's gonna be if he's.

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Speaker 5: Talking to somebody thirty three enough, they gonna have kids

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Speaker 5: I'm with you, and I just myself into a fairly situation.

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Speaker 1: I don't have kids, and I'm in my thirties, my

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Speaker 2: It's a statistic.

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Speaker 5: So most women who went on got no kids, and

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Speaker 3: I'm not saying that's you.

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Speaker 5: Well, I'm almost like no, Like, clearly there's men out

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Speaker 3: I get it, But like most.

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Speaker 5: Women in that situation, that's so great bad.

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Speaker 2: That's not true.

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Speaker 1: And you know what, I'm gonna say this and I'm

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Speaker 2: But next year I will be mid thirties, I guess.

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Speaker 1: And you know, I've had plenty of opportunities to have

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Speaker 2: Am I cooked? Or am I smart?

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Speaker 1: Because I would have been somebody's baby mama? Because that

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Speaker 1: So am I cooked? Or am I smart? Because right

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Speaker 1: I'm so sorry that I didn't want to be another

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Speaker 2: That I am now. I'm not at the mental maturity

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Speaker 1: Am now, and I have not evolved to attract that

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Speaker 2: But I'm the one, never the two. Are you falling

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Speaker 2: asleep off my conversation? Fuck you? You are away?

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Speaker 1: You're telling me I'm taking log You know how long

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Speaker 2: This is fucked up. I'm getting off of this.

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Speaker 1: Can you started the movement in the hashtag of black men,

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Speaker 1: don't you?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: And so that's what I'm talking about.

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Speaker 3: We don't.

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Speaker 2: So let's get into this. And then and then you

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Speaker 2: if your woman is white, you could cheat? Yeah, So

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Speaker 2: what does that mean?

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Speaker 1: Let's get into why is if they're white you could cheat.

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Speaker 4: Because there's a white woman. You shouldn't be in a

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Speaker 2: Oh come on now, but what are you all together?

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Speaker 2: They came in.

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Speaker 5: You just you just together like like that's that's the relationship.

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Speaker 5: Like hold on this my girl and she a white lady.

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Speaker 5: She can't go through your phone.

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Speaker 3: She can't. Why why are you doing that? You trying?

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Speaker 3: She really saying you don't trust me? And I'm a

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Speaker 4: What other reason do you have not to trust me

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Speaker 4: other than I'm black?

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Speaker 11: Oh?

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Speaker 7: Ship?

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Speaker 5: Okay, So would that be the reason why black men

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Speaker 5: they white women?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: I saw that because I wanted to ask what was

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Speaker 3: What do you think? Why do you like?

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 3: Why? Question? The question was more like athletes and.

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Speaker 2: In your opinion? Just be honest. Is it because they're

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Speaker 2: more easy?

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Speaker 3: And I say, how you gonna say they more easy?

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Speaker 2: I'm asking, I say, quote onqut it's a lot.

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Speaker 3: Of different reasons.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 4: I think it's just my opinion, no doubt. Like my

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Speaker 4: at I have heard, and then with the athletes and

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Speaker 4: they linger. They'll watch you strike out all night and

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Speaker 4: it don't affect your chances with them another. They want

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Speaker 4: like you don't know this motherfucker. They's knowing, they knowice that.

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Speaker 1: But I'm gonna say this, and I really want everyone

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Speaker 2: Right now though, listen to this, though.

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Speaker 1: I want black men to learn and really do better,

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Speaker 1: because one thing about these white women is as soon

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Speaker 1: are and that's the truth.

447
00:21:39,160 --> 00:21:40,639
Speaker 2: You'll be that anyway, but you're.

448
00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:42,119
Speaker 1: Really gonna be that, and they gonna take you to

449
00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:45,480
Speaker 1: court and take everything you han because unfortunately, although black

450
00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:48,399
Speaker 1: women are powerful in our feminine and are divine just

451
00:21:48,440 --> 00:21:51,160
Speaker 1: how we are as women were so powerful, but white

452
00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:54,600
Speaker 1: women are powerful in America and when they say something,

453
00:21:54,880 --> 00:21:59,280
Speaker 1: it's going to make a difference in the community, unfortunately.

454
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Speaker 2: And y'all all keep messing with these white women.

455
00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:04,400
Speaker 3: Woman.

456
00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:06,160
Speaker 2: But I haven't even seen problem with white women.

457
00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:07,920
Speaker 1: I'm just saying black men do this, and then when

458
00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:10,960
Speaker 1: they're coming down and have their downfall with these women,

459
00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:12,760
Speaker 1: they want to run to the black women for support.

460
00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:14,720
Speaker 1: And it's like no, at the end of the day,

461
00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:16,919
Speaker 1: black women are the most loyal.

462
00:22:16,680 --> 00:22:18,240
Speaker 2: Statistically to their own men.

463
00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:20,600
Speaker 1: And people can say I'm not black or whatever it is,

464
00:22:20,600 --> 00:22:21,720
Speaker 1: but I date black men at it.

465
00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:23,880
Speaker 2: And also, to your point, black men don't cheat. Every

466
00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:25,399
Speaker 2: black man I've been with half cheated.

467
00:22:25,520 --> 00:22:27,080
Speaker 3: That sounds like a personal problem.

468
00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:28,680
Speaker 2: How is that my problem?

469
00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:31,320
Speaker 6: What are you doing is making these man cheat on you?

470
00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:33,240
Speaker 6: So this is where I probably don't let him.

471
00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:35,640
Speaker 4: Talk and get all and be accusing them of being

472
00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:38,879
Speaker 4: with white women. Yeah, you projected on me and I

473
00:22:39,000 --> 00:22:41,520
Speaker 4: just got here. I'm gonna get I could definitely see

474
00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:45,439
Speaker 4: cheating on you your imagination.

475
00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:46,200
Speaker 3: Wow.

476
00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:51,159
Speaker 1: No, no, no, because I saw you say that when

477
00:22:51,240 --> 00:22:53,120
Speaker 1: people cheat, they just cheat and it doesn't matter.

478
00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:54,679
Speaker 2: It doesn't make you less as a woman or a

479
00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:55,440
Speaker 2: man because.

480
00:22:55,160 --> 00:23:01,640
Speaker 1: People, Yeah, what have you giving up in a relationship?

481
00:23:03,200 --> 00:23:03,760
Speaker 3: Oh man?

482
00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:07,840
Speaker 1: Do you feel the difference between compromise. Do you feel

483
00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:09,640
Speaker 1: like there's a difference between compromise and sacrifice.

484
00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:11,680
Speaker 12: I think men always have to do a little bit more, honestly,

485
00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:13,399
Speaker 12: that's my honest opinion.

486
00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:15,879
Speaker 6: Men always have to do a little bit more compromising,

487
00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:16,600
Speaker 6: a little bit more.

488
00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:19,600
Speaker 12: And it's not by a lot, it's not like, but

489
00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:21,600
Speaker 12: it's a little bit more. We got to swallow the

490
00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:23,000
Speaker 12: pill a little bit more than you.

491
00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:24,280
Speaker 2: Want to explain.

492
00:23:27,280 --> 00:23:28,000
Speaker 3: I mean, he's.

493
00:23:29,920 --> 00:23:32,800
Speaker 2: More. I want to hear why.

494
00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:39,000
Speaker 5: Okay, because we got more ego to yes that.

495
00:23:39,040 --> 00:23:42,160
Speaker 6: I think the strength yes, I agreed, hundred percent.

496
00:23:42,200 --> 00:23:45,040
Speaker 12: I think the strength is is in that I feel like,

497
00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:50,080
Speaker 12: you know, I've been able to be very apologetic and accountable,

498
00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:52,240
Speaker 12: and I feel like a lot of times, the majority

499
00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:54,919
Speaker 12: of the times my partner has not been you know,

500
00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:57,720
Speaker 12: even over something swamp right, Like I've done something small

501
00:23:57,760 --> 00:23:59,480
Speaker 12: and been like, look, I want to apologize you because

502
00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:02,280
Speaker 12: I kind of bad day, and I can do that right.

503
00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:03,919
Speaker 12: It's easy for me because I want you to know

504
00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:05,679
Speaker 12: that you're not the issue. I'm going through something and

505
00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:09,000
Speaker 12: I allowed that to hang on to you and I apologize.

506
00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:11,639
Speaker 12: I've been in situations where that can linger for days,

507
00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:13,480
Speaker 12: four or five days, and now I'm.

508
00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:17,159
Speaker 6: Sorry, effing feeling weird because you're having an issue, but

509
00:24:17,160 --> 00:24:18,720
Speaker 6: you don't know how to communicate that issue to me.

510
00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:20,919
Speaker 6: And so I got to swallow more pride than you.

511
00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:21,760
Speaker 6: I gotta, I gotta.

512
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:24,639
Speaker 12: And it's because you don't want to maybe, or I

513
00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:27,280
Speaker 12: don't know. I'm speaking about a multitude of situations, but

514
00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:29,879
Speaker 12: the consensus I've gotten is I've always had to just

515
00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:33,320
Speaker 12: kind of sorry, all right, yeah, let's go because I'm

516
00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:35,439
Speaker 12: driving the shit. We gotta go where I have to

517
00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:37,600
Speaker 12: go because I'm making the money. Right, we have to

518
00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:39,040
Speaker 12: go to this thing. We have to go to this event.

519
00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:40,880
Speaker 12: I can't go to this event and you have a problem.

520
00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:42,480
Speaker 12: So I need to clear the problem and make sure

521
00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:43,840
Speaker 12: that we're straight before we go in here, because I

522
00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:44,800
Speaker 12: can't have any issues in.

523
00:24:44,760 --> 00:24:45,400
Speaker 3: Here, right.

524
00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:48,520
Speaker 6: I don't think that, you know, on the other foot,

525
00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:52,520
Speaker 6: it's the same. I haven't seen it. I haven't seen it.

526
00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:55,359
Speaker 1: Do you think that women have a tough time being

527
00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:57,600
Speaker 1: accountable and apologizing period?

528
00:24:57,760 --> 00:24:58,040
Speaker 2: Yes?

529
00:24:58,359 --> 00:24:59,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think everyone does.

530
00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:02,480
Speaker 12: I think I'm gonna say for me, I think I'm

531
00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:06,240
Speaker 12: actually a lot better than you know, some people that

532
00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:09,600
Speaker 12: I know in terms of just apologizing and owning stuff

533
00:25:09,680 --> 00:25:10,879
Speaker 12: up and you know, just trying to get through it

534
00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:12,760
Speaker 12: because I've been through so much and I actually have

535
00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:13,280
Speaker 12: seen the.

536
00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:15,440
Speaker 6: Benefits of it. And I feel like a lot of

537
00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:16,879
Speaker 6: people who don't do it so they don't.

538
00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:17,560
Speaker 3: See the benefits of it.

539
00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:19,040
Speaker 6: But once you do, your like, oh, if I just

540
00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:21,040
Speaker 6: do this, we're good.

541
00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:21,720
Speaker 3: Yeah.

542
00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:23,800
Speaker 12: But if I sit up here and I can't speak

543
00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:25,960
Speaker 12: what's on my mind and I'm mad for the next week,

544
00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:27,120
Speaker 12: I'm ruining.

545
00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:27,800
Speaker 3: My quality of life.

546
00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:29,280
Speaker 6: I'm wasting my time.

547
00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:32,919
Speaker 12: Also, I'm wasting my time because I love you, you love me.

548
00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:34,000
Speaker 6: We want the same stuff.

549
00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:36,680
Speaker 12: Why would we spend these four days four hours being

550
00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:38,600
Speaker 12: mad And I'm not saying every.

551
00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:39,880
Speaker 3: Issue can be fixed like that. Oh, you just want

552
00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:40,600
Speaker 3: me to blah blah.

553
00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:42,160
Speaker 12: It's like no, But if I'm here what you're saying,

554
00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:44,879
Speaker 12: I'm understanding it. I'm on your side. I'm not against you.

555
00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:46,760
Speaker 6: I want to hear what you have to say. I

556
00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:48,240
Speaker 6: want you to say what you have to say.

557
00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:49,439
Speaker 2: Now, what are we gonna do?

558
00:25:50,040 --> 00:25:51,400
Speaker 3: Right? What are we gonna do now?

559
00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:53,720
Speaker 6: Like, let's not So that's a big thing for me

560
00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:54,520
Speaker 6: when it comes to partners.

561
00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:56,960
Speaker 12: I can't do the child just you know, that's very

562
00:25:56,960 --> 00:25:59,120
Speaker 12: hard for me, very hard for me to like deal

563
00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:01,960
Speaker 12: because I'm like, I already got enough on my brand's

564
00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:03,800
Speaker 12: gonna explode the amount of stuff that A that's in

565
00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:04,480
Speaker 12: it all the time.

566
00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:08,200
Speaker 6: So it's like I need you to and I've you know,

567
00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:11,080
Speaker 6: it's it's not like A.

568
00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:12,760
Speaker 12: It's not a horrible thing they have to do with,

569
00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:15,280
Speaker 12: but it's an annoying it It can be sometimes annoying.

570
00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:16,600
Speaker 6: But it's you know, you take the crookeds with the

571
00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:19,120
Speaker 6: straits in life. Again, that goes back to the stuff

572
00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:20,240
Speaker 6: I don't like, but I've yet to.

573
00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:22,160
Speaker 12: Be in a situation where it doesn't exist, which I'm

574
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:25,600
Speaker 12: fine with, but it is something that can be agitating sometimes.

575
00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:31,800
Speaker 1: So Krine Stephan's Superhead, she went on, that's crazy to

576
00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:38,080
Speaker 1: that type of right. So she went on actually one

577
00:26:38,119 --> 00:26:41,520
Speaker 1: of my friends podcasts and she has a clip that's

578
00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:45,159
Speaker 1: going viral, and she said Mary the Hoe meaning like

579
00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:48,240
Speaker 1: men should marry horrores because they really want to be

580
00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:52,200
Speaker 1: with horrors, but instead they feel like they are supposed

581
00:26:52,200 --> 00:26:54,320
Speaker 1: to be with like the good girl, the virgin, the

582
00:26:54,359 --> 00:26:58,400
Speaker 1: girl who's like composed and put together, but then they

583
00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:03,119
Speaker 1: cheat on her with the So she's like, just marry

584
00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:03,520
Speaker 1: the horror.

585
00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:06,359
Speaker 2: Stop playing around horrors.

586
00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:09,760
Speaker 3: Don't get cheated on either. Come on, now, is she married?

587
00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:10,440
Speaker 2: No?

588
00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:12,960
Speaker 3: There we go.

589
00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:15,439
Speaker 5: Why she's not married in because she's just trying to

590
00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:17,639
Speaker 5: promote that. You know what I remember her from the

591
00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:21,639
Speaker 5: early two thousands, you know, writing a book.

592
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:25,679
Speaker 1: Or something orte, like a tell all of all the

593
00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:27,640
Speaker 1: men she had sex with or whatever.

594
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:30,919
Speaker 3: To get back relevant and everything. Man, nobody messing with her.

595
00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:31,640
Speaker 3: Man's come on.

596
00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:34,760
Speaker 2: And little Wayne? And you know what's so crazy that

597
00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:35,600
Speaker 2: she says this.

598
00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:38,639
Speaker 1: She was in a relationship whether I don't know if

599
00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:40,160
Speaker 1: she was married or not, but she said that no

600
00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:43,040
Speaker 1: matter what relationship that she was in, married or not,

601
00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:46,439
Speaker 1: if Little Wayne calls, she's leaving and she's gonna go

602
00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:47,560
Speaker 1: fucking suck him.

603
00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:50,919
Speaker 2: Girl, who wants that? I'm so confused.

604
00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:53,480
Speaker 1: That's why men don't want to marry a hole, because

605
00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:56,120
Speaker 1: once a whole, always a whole, baby, and you're gonna

606
00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:58,520
Speaker 1: turn around and go fucking suck the next person.

607
00:27:58,840 --> 00:27:59,800
Speaker 2: And that's crazy.

608
00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:03,720
Speaker 5: Yeah, she uh, she trying to spark some interest, but

609
00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:04,400
Speaker 5: that ain't it.

610
00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:08,280
Speaker 3: You know she needed she cooked well.

611
00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:11,080
Speaker 1: She was saying that what a hole will give you

612
00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:12,760
Speaker 1: is better than what like a house.

613
00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:13,120
Speaker 2: I will get.

614
00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:17,680
Speaker 5: I will tell you this about like women who are

615
00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:25,280
Speaker 5: considered holes and men that like them, men like that

616
00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:28,919
Speaker 5: for just so long, you know what I'm saying. But

617
00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:33,920
Speaker 5: you know, like when you look at the longevity of somebody,

618
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:36,040
Speaker 5: you want somebody that it's.

619
00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:36,600
Speaker 3: More than that.

620
00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:40,800
Speaker 5: Like, come on, now, like just because sex is cool

621
00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:43,720
Speaker 5: and you're doing all these things out a man like that,

622
00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:46,200
Speaker 5: don't mean that's gonna last forever. Like when they get

623
00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:49,720
Speaker 5: down to like sitting around and really bringing some substance

624
00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:54,040
Speaker 5: to the table and really bringing like some maturity, bringing

625
00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:57,920
Speaker 5: like some value to the table outside of sex.

626
00:28:58,000 --> 00:28:59,239
Speaker 3: What is that, right?

627
00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:01,280
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, And that's what men really

628
00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:04,920
Speaker 5: look for long term, and that's always gonna our way

629
00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:07,880
Speaker 5: long run than the sex. And tell you because the

630
00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:11,000
Speaker 5: set is gonna wear out eventually, you know, and he's

631
00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:15,080
Speaker 5: gonna be looking at other girls sexually, you know. But

632
00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:18,520
Speaker 5: then all these other things that you bring that got

633
00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:22,040
Speaker 5: like some substance to it.

634
00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:22,960
Speaker 2: Play so easily.

635
00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:26,160
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's gonna last a little, It's gonna last way longer.

636
00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:28,480
Speaker 5: It's like, come on, man.

637
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:30,880
Speaker 2: Like, because sex is everywhere, you know what I mean.

638
00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:32,680
Speaker 3: And she could get it and you can see it.

639
00:29:32,840 --> 00:29:35,080
Speaker 2: You could you can pay for it, you can see it.

640
00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:35,720
Speaker 6: You can get.

641
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:40,080
Speaker 5: The easiest thing, but like a real quality and a woman,

642
00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:43,719
Speaker 5: like great qualities in a woman, It's hard to come by,

643
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:46,360
Speaker 5: you know, someone that you look at us and like, man,

644
00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:49,360
Speaker 5: I can just see her really teaching kids this, or

645
00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:53,840
Speaker 5: I can see her, you know, really expanding on what

646
00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:56,640
Speaker 5: I got, or me expanding on what she got. You know,

647
00:29:56,680 --> 00:29:59,560
Speaker 5: it's bigger than that. And that's why we were brainwashing

648
00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:03,640
Speaker 5: society Taddy to look at females sexually and be like

649
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:08,560
Speaker 5: that's the one, and too many women are sexualized and

650
00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:10,920
Speaker 5: men go for that instead of really looking at the

651
00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 5: substance of a woman in the long run and being

652
00:30:14,040 --> 00:30:15,120
Speaker 5: with that long term.

653
00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:17,600
Speaker 1: That makes sense, And it's funny you say that because

654
00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:20,120
Speaker 1: a part of what she was saying was like, well,

655
00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:22,600
Speaker 1: this girl can bring this and do.

656
00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:25,080
Speaker 2: This, but is she gonna wake up and twist it

657
00:30:25,120 --> 00:30:25,560
Speaker 2: and turn it?

658
00:30:25,640 --> 00:30:28,360
Speaker 1: And then every single day I'm horny I'm doing this

659
00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:31,560
Speaker 1: and it's like damn, Like and what if your partners

660
00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 1: not feeling that? Are you gonna need that to where

661
00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:35,600
Speaker 1: you got to go get it from someone else? Like

662
00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:37,880
Speaker 1: if everything is driven off of sex, it's not going

663
00:30:37,960 --> 00:30:39,080
Speaker 1: to have real longevity.

664
00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:41,120
Speaker 2: In a relationship and that's just the truth.

665
00:30:41,560 --> 00:30:44,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's I mean, I get what she's trying to

666
00:30:44,400 --> 00:30:48,720
Speaker 5: say to relationships. And I said this some episodes ago.

667
00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:52,959
Speaker 5: I feel like do be based on sexual and in

668
00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:56,760
Speaker 5: a lot of ways, because if I'm with you and

669
00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:01,400
Speaker 5: you find out I have sex with another person, it

670
00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:04,880
Speaker 5: could be over. It's like, damn, you didn't look at

671
00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:08,360
Speaker 5: everything else I brought to the table, The intangibles, the

672
00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:12,120
Speaker 5: substance like that just go out the window because.

673
00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:15,120
Speaker 2: Of a mishap, because of a mistake, well.

674
00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:24,360
Speaker 5: Because of just like sex is just like it's in

675
00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:29,200
Speaker 5: our mind. It's like how do I even explain or work.

676
00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:33,960
Speaker 5: You know, It's it's a beautiful thing when done with

677
00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:37,120
Speaker 5: the person that you really feeling, you know what I'm saying.

678
00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:41,400
Speaker 5: But if it's just like casually done and just because

679
00:31:41,440 --> 00:31:45,760
Speaker 5: you just a horny bastard and like she being a whole,

680
00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:51,280
Speaker 5: it's just like, damn, why did I risk all other

681
00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:57,240
Speaker 5: things for that? But we're sometimes as men and women

682
00:31:57,360 --> 00:32:04,520
Speaker 5: weak individuals because sex and that it's like a drug,

683
00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:07,520
Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying. It's like people just want

684
00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:11,360
Speaker 5: that quick fix ins high, real quick because it feels

685
00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:13,440
Speaker 5: good at the moment, but then something then, like a

686
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:15,200
Speaker 5: lot of times, you see people regret it.

687
00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:18,360
Speaker 1: You feel miserable after you get got. All I see

688
00:32:18,440 --> 00:32:21,840
Speaker 1: on the internet is black men downing black women. Every

689
00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:24,920
Speaker 1: day in our comments, it's.

690
00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:25,880
Speaker 2: Way more men.

691
00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:28,280
Speaker 1: I would assume when I started this journey that it

692
00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:31,880
Speaker 1: would be women hating on women. Every bad negative comment

693
00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 1: about me is mainly from a man.

694
00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:36,600
Speaker 2: I rarely see a woman comment negative.

695
00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:39,480
Speaker 1: And I didn't know men were so catty like that

696
00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:42,760
Speaker 1: and so quick to want to put a black woman down,

697
00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:46,320
Speaker 1: like she's trash, she's this, she's that, she's like the

698
00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:48,000
Speaker 1: most horrible things you can think of.

699
00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:49,560
Speaker 2: And I'm like, who raised y'all?

700
00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:52,520
Speaker 1: Because I come from a generation and my dad and

701
00:32:52,560 --> 00:32:54,760
Speaker 1: how I was taught, Like I never see my dad

702
00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:56,160
Speaker 1: talking down on a woman like that.

703
00:32:56,240 --> 00:32:57,880
Speaker 2: Even if you can'tundstand this.

704
00:32:57,800 --> 00:33:00,560
Speaker 1: Motherfucker, he's not gonna sit in my face pillow talk

705
00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:03,280
Speaker 1: about another woman or bring her down. He probably did

706
00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:06,120
Speaker 1: it behind in his own room like this bitch, you know,

707
00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:10,240
Speaker 1: But it was never that, And I feel like black women.

708
00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:12,680
Speaker 1: All I see on the internet is how white women

709
00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:16,280
Speaker 1: are better, American non American women are better, this and

710
00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:19,280
Speaker 1: that are better better or better, and it's like, have

711
00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 1: your preference, but don't bring us down while you're doing it.

712
00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:26,080
Speaker 1: If you want to be with a woman that's not

713
00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:30,440
Speaker 1: American or not white, do that, but stop referencing it

714
00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:33,400
Speaker 1: to a black woman. Because when black women get with

715
00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:36,480
Speaker 1: a white man, they're not talking about black men are trash.

716
00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:40,120
Speaker 1: They're just loving and living their life with this white man, period.

717
00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:43,360
Speaker 1: And it's like, you don't have to sit here and

718
00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:46,120
Speaker 1: down the other race because you don't want to.

719
00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 2: Fuck with them. You don't have to do that at

720
00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:49,320
Speaker 2: the end of the day.

721
00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:51,000
Speaker 1: If you want to mess with a white woman and

722
00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:53,920
Speaker 1: an Asian woman and this woman, go do that and

723
00:33:54,040 --> 00:33:57,400
Speaker 1: leave us out of the conversation, period point blank. And

724
00:33:57,440 --> 00:33:59,880
Speaker 1: I think that that's what the women are frustrated about.

725
00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:03,120
Speaker 1: And if we have an opinion on this, we're aggressive.

726
00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:04,840
Speaker 1: See she has too much of opinion.

727
00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:07,240
Speaker 2: That's why they don't like you. That's because you talk

728
00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:08,680
Speaker 2: too much. You're loud, Okay.

729
00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:12,799
Speaker 13: I remember maybe like a year ago, I was like

730
00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:14,520
Speaker 13: I said to my husband, I was like, I want

731
00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:17,200
Speaker 13: to give you head tonight, like it's the first time,

732
00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:19,480
Speaker 13: like we've never done this before, and I want you

733
00:34:19,560 --> 00:34:22,120
Speaker 13: to teach me, like you're teaching a masterclass, like step

734
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:24,680
Speaker 13: by step. And it was so crazy because in the

735
00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:26,839
Speaker 13: end I was like, I don't do any of those

736
00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:30,400
Speaker 13: things in my routine. Oh, like how long has it

737
00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:35,000
Speaker 13: been that I've been doing things a little still last Yeah,

738
00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:37,240
Speaker 13: I mean it works, you get to the same end function.

739
00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:40,120
Speaker 13: But like if he re taught me and guided me

740
00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:43,120
Speaker 13: because his body's changed, you know, his sensations has changed,

741
00:34:43,120 --> 00:34:45,359
Speaker 13: his taste has changed, like what turns up on.

742
00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:48,319
Speaker 1: Has change and that could be sexy too, Like that's

743
00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:51,239
Speaker 1: a turn on, Like telling me what to do when

744
00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:54,200
Speaker 1: to do it, that's a turn on. Yeah, you're open

745
00:34:54,280 --> 00:34:57,120
Speaker 1: to it. But if you're open for whoever likes that.

746
00:34:57,400 --> 00:35:00,080
Speaker 1: But still that's good. And like you said, I I

747
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:02,960
Speaker 1: think a lot of people the ego is involved. So

748
00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:04,839
Speaker 1: you're like, I don't want to ask those questions because

749
00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:06,440
Speaker 1: I feel like I should know what I'm doing or

750
00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:08,520
Speaker 1: I already know what I'm doing. But it's like no,

751
00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:10,840
Speaker 1: And I think that even works for a new partner,

752
00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:14,600
Speaker 1: like teach me what you like because everyone is different.

753
00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:16,480
Speaker 13: And it goes again to what most people want in

754
00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:18,960
Speaker 13: a partner in the beginning, most people, which I tell

755
00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:22,280
Speaker 13: people all the time, stop wishing for genies and mind readers.

756
00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:24,719
Speaker 13: I want someone who just knows what I like. I

757
00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:27,919
Speaker 13: want somebody who just understands me. I want somebody who

758
00:35:28,120 --> 00:35:31,359
Speaker 13: just intuitively knows how I'm feeling. Sometimes you're not going

759
00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:33,719
Speaker 13: to know how you feel, so having somebody who makes

760
00:35:33,719 --> 00:35:36,280
Speaker 13: assumptions when you haven't figured things out is not necessarily

761
00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:38,959
Speaker 13: the best formula for growth. And maybe they can guess

762
00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:40,640
Speaker 13: it right a few of the times, but things are

763
00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:43,920
Speaker 13: going to change. So you want somebody who's humble and

764
00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:46,960
Speaker 13: ask questions and is curious, and is open and is

765
00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:49,680
Speaker 13: down to explore, down to challenge their own humanity, down

766
00:35:49,680 --> 00:35:52,160
Speaker 13: to say no, like who was clear about their boundaries

767
00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:54,600
Speaker 13: and could revisit them later. There's been many things in

768
00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:57,120
Speaker 13: my relationship that my partner has turned down or I

769
00:35:57,160 --> 00:35:59,959
Speaker 13: have turned down, that we have circled back on months later.

770
00:36:00,719 --> 00:36:05,360
Speaker 1: Let's say you're in a relationship and your girl gets

771
00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:09,000
Speaker 1: a lot of requests from just random man or like people,

772
00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:10,640
Speaker 1: and they're like, Hey, you're beautiful.

773
00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:12,160
Speaker 2: Let me send you a cash app.

774
00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:15,439
Speaker 1: Let me pay for your noise, Let me cash app

775
00:36:15,480 --> 00:36:16,480
Speaker 1: you Instagram.

776
00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:20,200
Speaker 2: Oh, here's my cash app? Is that foul?

777
00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:24,760
Speaker 3: Oh run that homete.

778
00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:30,680
Speaker 5: I need percent of that, baby, how much he sent

779
00:36:30,719 --> 00:36:33,400
Speaker 5: you a hundred? I need a dub he sent you

780
00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:37,319
Speaker 5: five hundred. Okay, that's gonna cost you a hundred. Could

781
00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:39,520
Speaker 5: run that to me. So if you feel comfortable a

782
00:36:39,680 --> 00:36:43,680
Speaker 5: set the money from guys, give me some and then

783
00:36:43,719 --> 00:36:44,600
Speaker 5: we good with it.

784
00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:46,279
Speaker 3: So I can feel comfortable.

785
00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:49,719
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna say this, I was in a real

786
00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:50,280
Speaker 2: life I'm.

787
00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:54,160
Speaker 3: Good with that. We making move with that. Don't go

788
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:55,160
Speaker 3: past that. I'm good.

789
00:36:55,440 --> 00:36:56,520
Speaker 2: So this is that's the thing.

790
00:36:56,640 --> 00:36:59,440
Speaker 1: So I was in a relationship one time and I

791
00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:02,200
Speaker 1: remember I was at South Beverly Grill, sitting at the bar,

792
00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:04,680
Speaker 1: and there was like a guy sitting next to me,

793
00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:07,040
Speaker 1: right and I'm on the phone my dude, Da da

794
00:37:07,080 --> 00:37:10,719
Speaker 1: da da, and he's like, hey, telling the bartender because

795
00:37:10,719 --> 00:37:12,239
Speaker 1: I'm at the bar. He's like, hey, I want to

796
00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:15,600
Speaker 1: pay for her meal. So he overheard that. He's like what,

797
00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:17,080
Speaker 1: like he wants to pay for your meal?

798
00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:20,160
Speaker 2: And I was like yeah, I guess, and I'm like no, no, no,

799
00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:20,920
Speaker 2: you don't have to do that.

800
00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:24,759
Speaker 1: And the dude was pissed because he was like I

801
00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:26,080
Speaker 1: would never I didn't accept it.

802
00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:27,359
Speaker 2: I was on the phone with him but I was like,

803
00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:28,040
Speaker 2: I would.

804
00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:30,799
Speaker 1: Never He's like, if you accepted that, that would be

805
00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:33,520
Speaker 1: so disretractful to our relationship because a man doesn't just

806
00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:36,160
Speaker 1: stop at buying you a meal. Then he's gonna ask

807
00:37:36,200 --> 00:37:38,160
Speaker 1: your number, this and that, And now it looks like

808
00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:40,799
Speaker 1: I'm not taking care of you as a man and

809
00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:42,760
Speaker 1: I'm not doing my job, like I'll pay.

810
00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:44,480
Speaker 2: For this whole meal right now, I'll send you the money.

811
00:37:44,760 --> 00:37:46,680
Speaker 1: You know, you don't have to like work for nothing

812
00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:51,319
Speaker 1: or need nothing, So why would you accept that?

813
00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:53,400
Speaker 2: So, like, what is your thoughts on that?

814
00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:54,600
Speaker 1: Like if your girl was at a bar and a

815
00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:56,200
Speaker 1: random man was like, oh, let me pay for her

816
00:37:56,239 --> 00:37:56,879
Speaker 1: mail right there?

817
00:37:56,960 --> 00:38:00,640
Speaker 2: That's cool with you two? Or you're good with that, okay.

818
00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:05,280
Speaker 3: Look like this is my thing, like let a trick trick.

819
00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:07,880
Speaker 2: Hello, you know what I'm saying.

820
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:08,520
Speaker 3: But if you're.

821
00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:13,720
Speaker 5: Gonna go past that, the line crossed where you now

822
00:38:14,239 --> 00:38:17,399
Speaker 5: it's like, listen, you offer to pay for my meal.

823
00:38:17,440 --> 00:38:22,720
Speaker 5: I accepted it. That don't give you the open door

824
00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:25,759
Speaker 5: to have a conversation. I appreciate you, bro, but I

825
00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:28,399
Speaker 5: have a man, so I thank you.

826
00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:30,600
Speaker 3: Now I gotta go now.

827
00:38:30,680 --> 00:38:32,719
Speaker 1: Is it the same for if you're at a bar

828
00:38:32,840 --> 00:38:35,920
Speaker 1: and man sends you a drink. Can she drink that drink?

829
00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:38,280
Speaker 6: Oh?

830
00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:40,399
Speaker 1: Hey, he sent you a drink from across the bar.

831
00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:43,279
Speaker 5: Here you go. I'm not really into that because I

832
00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:44,839
Speaker 5: don't know what's in that drink. I need to see

833
00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:47,360
Speaker 5: the port. You know what I'm saying. I don't know

834
00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:51,520
Speaker 5: if he you know, put the You know what I'm saying.

835
00:38:51,600 --> 00:38:54,080
Speaker 5: I'm not a fan of drinks being sent to me,

836
00:38:55,000 --> 00:38:57,360
Speaker 5: like if I didn't see him port. You know what

837
00:38:57,400 --> 00:39:00,520
Speaker 5: I'm saying, unless I know the person, Like and somebody

838
00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:03,160
Speaker 5: I don't know they sending you a drink. Come on, bro,

839
00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:05,360
Speaker 5: that's like you're not even you're playing like, come on,

840
00:39:05,480 --> 00:39:07,560
Speaker 5: you're playing around with me. No, no, you might do

841
00:39:07,680 --> 00:39:10,920
Speaker 5: some foul shit. No, I'm not doing that. That's not

842
00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:11,879
Speaker 5: that's not cool.

843
00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:14,279
Speaker 3: You gotta you gotta, you gotta like be aware of

844
00:39:14,320 --> 00:39:15,320
Speaker 3: your surroundings.

845
00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:16,080
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

846
00:39:16,080 --> 00:39:18,480
Speaker 5: You gotta be smart out here, Like, dude, want to

847
00:39:18,480 --> 00:39:20,759
Speaker 5: buy you a drink? Okay, good look, all right, I

848
00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:23,680
Speaker 5: gotta dude, I gotta I gotta girl a girl like

849
00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:26,080
Speaker 5: I got girls offer me drinks like all right, cool,

850
00:39:26,080 --> 00:39:30,359
Speaker 5: good look, hey toast, Hey, yeah, what's your name. All right, Yeah,

851
00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:32,279
Speaker 5: that's cool. I got a girl. But you know I

852
00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:35,879
Speaker 5: appreciate it. I know, you know whatever. All right, I'm

853
00:39:35,920 --> 00:39:38,320
Speaker 5: over here now I'm gonna move though, I'm gonna move around.

854
00:39:38,880 --> 00:39:39,399
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.

855
00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:41,600
Speaker 5: I'm not gonna sit in the same spot either, right

856
00:39:41,840 --> 00:39:45,799
Speaker 5: if they're doing that, nah, but like like it's hard

857
00:39:45,800 --> 00:39:47,839
Speaker 5: for something, like somebody do that for me. That's gotta

858
00:39:47,880 --> 00:39:50,640
Speaker 5: be in a restaurant, like like we in another spot,

859
00:39:50,800 --> 00:39:56,800
Speaker 5: like you know, it's hard, like you ain't just buying

860
00:39:56,880 --> 00:39:59,520
Speaker 5: me like most of people buy me drinks?

861
00:39:59,640 --> 00:39:59,879
Speaker 3: Is fan?

862
00:40:00,480 --> 00:40:03,280
Speaker 1: So right now, Paul is going viral because he's said,

863
00:40:04,600 --> 00:40:07,640
Speaker 1: and I quote that men need to cheat on their

864
00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:10,600
Speaker 1: women to find out if they really love them.

865
00:40:11,400 --> 00:40:14,640
Speaker 11: They need to cheat, like as in because she means deceit.

866
00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:18,320
Speaker 14: Right, so you need to go outside, like there's open

867
00:40:18,360 --> 00:40:21,680
Speaker 14: relationship where your girl is very much aware you're gonna

868
00:40:21,680 --> 00:40:24,960
Speaker 14: have other women? Right, But why cheat? Why not just

869
00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:28,560
Speaker 14: say right now we're still dating, but I'm gonna explore

870
00:40:28,600 --> 00:40:29,080
Speaker 14: other women.

871
00:40:29,160 --> 00:40:30,719
Speaker 2: That to me sounds like manipulation.

872
00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:33,440
Speaker 3: It is sound like yees to be honest.

873
00:40:33,520 --> 00:40:37,200
Speaker 5: But like how like say a man in my posician say,

874
00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:40,239
Speaker 5: like I meet a girl. I know her, she know

875
00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:43,480
Speaker 5: who I am, she understands my background and all of this.

876
00:40:43,760 --> 00:40:46,680
Speaker 5: How do I find out if she truly loves me

877
00:40:46,920 --> 00:40:47,239
Speaker 5: for me?

878
00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:49,319
Speaker 11: Well, how do you find out if you truly love

879
00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:50,200
Speaker 11: her by cheating on her?

880
00:40:50,200 --> 00:40:50,680
Speaker 2: What is that?

881
00:40:51,520 --> 00:40:51,960
Speaker 3: You know what?

882
00:40:52,080 --> 00:40:53,719
Speaker 5: That was the only thing I could come up with,

883
00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:56,040
Speaker 5: And I know there's more things, but cheating people.

884
00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:56,600
Speaker 3: It's such a.

885
00:40:56,560 --> 00:41:02,600
Speaker 5: Broad line into cheating because people automatically think sex nor

886
00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:05,000
Speaker 5: they don't have to be a sexual encounter like just

887
00:41:05,600 --> 00:41:09,200
Speaker 5: I don't know if it'll be intentional, but it unintentional,

888
00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:10,359
Speaker 5: like damn, But.

889
00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:12,400
Speaker 14: Let me give you some real talk. Only people that

890
00:41:12,560 --> 00:41:15,240
Speaker 14: love you for you is God, dogs and your mama.

891
00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:18,319
Speaker 14: Like that's just real talk. You became who you are

892
00:41:18,560 --> 00:41:21,920
Speaker 14: everyone that's attached to you, like that's your essence, you know,

893
00:41:22,080 --> 00:41:24,160
Speaker 14: you know, so you have to you almost just have

894
00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:26,520
Speaker 14: to accept that to a certain degree, you're not really

895
00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:29,439
Speaker 14: gonna know who's there for you unless you got into

896
00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:32,040
Speaker 14: a position where you're really down and out. Let's say

897
00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:34,959
Speaker 14: you lose it all and then you have no money,

898
00:41:35,080 --> 00:41:37,879
Speaker 14: no fame. That's the only way you're gonna know if

899
00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:40,680
Speaker 14: a person's really about you. But at the same time,

900
00:41:41,560 --> 00:41:44,480
Speaker 14: I mean you are who you are, Like everybody's working

901
00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:46,879
Speaker 14: to attract, Like girls go to the gym to look

902
00:41:46,920 --> 00:41:49,239
Speaker 14: cute because they want the best of the best. So

903
00:41:49,960 --> 00:41:52,520
Speaker 14: it's almost like you would have You're never gonna know that.

904
00:41:52,719 --> 00:41:56,600
Speaker 14: Just god dogs stand your mama. Yeah, you have to

905
00:41:56,600 --> 00:41:57,680
Speaker 14: go through something, I.

906
00:41:57,560 --> 00:42:00,319
Speaker 1: Think to tell a woman the truth and let her

907
00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:02,520
Speaker 1: truly see who you are. That's how you know if

908
00:42:02,520 --> 00:42:04,799
Speaker 1: anyone loves you, when you can see me for the

909
00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:05,719
Speaker 1: person that I am.

910
00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:08,800
Speaker 3: Maybe if I lose my legs.

911
00:42:08,800 --> 00:42:11,120
Speaker 2: Maybe if you lose your money and you broke.

912
00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:13,120
Speaker 1: Maybe if you ask her, Maybe if you call her

913
00:42:13,160 --> 00:42:14,759
Speaker 1: and say, Babe, I don't got it this month?

914
00:42:14,760 --> 00:42:16,040
Speaker 2: Can you help me pay my bills?

915
00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:18,800
Speaker 1: How about that? Like you know, not everything has to

916
00:42:18,880 --> 00:42:19,719
Speaker 1: be attached to me.

917
00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:20,879
Speaker 2: I mean, if she.

918
00:42:20,880 --> 00:42:22,799
Speaker 3: Can't afford it.

919
00:42:22,840 --> 00:42:25,400
Speaker 14: So you know what's interesting that I hear that often

920
00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:27,120
Speaker 14: from men who are extremely successful.

921
00:42:27,480 --> 00:42:28,640
Speaker 2: Is that a concern of yours?

922
00:42:28,760 --> 00:42:31,319
Speaker 14: Like do you feel like everyone around you just wants

923
00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:33,319
Speaker 14: to be around you because of who you are, because

924
00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:34,960
Speaker 14: you have money, because you have status?

925
00:42:35,080 --> 00:42:36,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that's the that's the feeling.

926
00:42:37,080 --> 00:42:37,799
Speaker 2: Does that bout you?

927
00:42:39,120 --> 00:42:41,560
Speaker 3: I think you just grow in it and you just

928
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:43,560
Speaker 3: like Damn you always keep.

929
00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:47,359
Speaker 5: A you know, you just always feel like you're looking

930
00:42:47,400 --> 00:42:50,880
Speaker 5: over your shoulder. You always. It messes with your trust,

931
00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:53,759
Speaker 5: you know, and it's like, damn. You might be sitting

932
00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:55,319
Speaker 5: there one day and just be like, man, you know,

933
00:42:55,360 --> 00:42:56,279
Speaker 5: I'm ready to be off.

934
00:42:56,719 --> 00:42:58,439
Speaker 14: But you know what, though I like what you said.

935
00:42:58,440 --> 00:43:01,239
Speaker 14: You gave a great example. Be honest and see what

936
00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:03,799
Speaker 14: she does with your honesty, right, because you gotta for

937
00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:06,080
Speaker 14: real love last in love. If you want to go

938
00:43:06,160 --> 00:43:07,600
Speaker 14: to the end of time, if that's the position that

939
00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:09,399
Speaker 14: you're at, you want her to know who you are.

940
00:43:09,440 --> 00:43:11,640
Speaker 14: You can't act every single day. You can act and

941
00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:14,359
Speaker 14: to beget it. Everybody shows up as an actor for

942
00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:17,120
Speaker 14: like the first thirty sixty days, but eventually you gotta

943
00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:19,320
Speaker 14: take the wig off, you gotta take the makeup off.

944
00:43:19,440 --> 00:43:21,719
Speaker 14: It gets real. Is that persons still gonna love you.

945
00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:23,960
Speaker 14: So what I would say a person in your position,

946
00:43:24,120 --> 00:43:26,440
Speaker 14: be vulnerable and see what happens with it. I mean,

947
00:43:26,480 --> 00:43:28,960
Speaker 14: it's gonna be a risk, but I think anyone that

948
00:43:29,080 --> 00:43:31,920
Speaker 14: you could be completely honest with and if they accept

949
00:43:31,960 --> 00:43:34,160
Speaker 14: you for who you are, okay, that's that number one.

950
00:43:34,560 --> 00:43:36,440
Speaker 14: Or if they say, you know what, I respect that

951
00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:39,080
Speaker 14: you need other women. But I'm not about that life.

952
00:43:39,160 --> 00:43:42,239
Speaker 14: So I'm gonna go and if I'm available when you

953
00:43:42,280 --> 00:43:43,439
Speaker 14: come back, so be it.

954
00:43:43,520 --> 00:43:44,760
Speaker 2: But I'm not tripping.

955
00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:47,480
Speaker 14: I'm not gonna be on your list because you Paul Pierce,

956
00:43:47,600 --> 00:43:48,960
Speaker 14: like you know what I'm saying. If you like me,

957
00:43:49,040 --> 00:43:51,680
Speaker 14: that means other men like me. So you just better

958
00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:54,080
Speaker 14: hope while you're playing. I'm available when you've done.

959
00:43:54,239 --> 00:43:58,920
Speaker 5: You know, like you said, you said, you said, be honest.

960
00:43:59,320 --> 00:44:01,520
Speaker 3: What about tell a lie and react?

961
00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:02,880
Speaker 2: Why would she not?

962
00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:07,439
Speaker 5: Okay, all right, listen, she said be honest, be vulnerable, right,

963
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:09,200
Speaker 5: but what if you tell a lie?

964
00:44:09,600 --> 00:44:10,759
Speaker 3: So I don't go out and cheat.

965
00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:12,600
Speaker 5: But then I just go and tell her I cheated

966
00:44:12,640 --> 00:44:15,600
Speaker 5: on her, well a lie about it, just to see

967
00:44:16,280 --> 00:44:17,640
Speaker 5: boom how she reacts.

968
00:44:18,400 --> 00:44:18,759
Speaker 6: I think.

969
00:44:19,080 --> 00:44:21,120
Speaker 2: I think No, okay, that could be a test. And

970
00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:22,880
Speaker 2: that is the stupidest thing.

971
00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:26,239
Speaker 1: You're creating distress in your relationship for no reason. You

972
00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:29,080
Speaker 1: are creating tests that don't need to be created. Like

973
00:44:29,160 --> 00:44:31,920
Speaker 1: I said, God will create tests for you in a relationship.

974
00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:35,000
Speaker 1: Your representative can only stay within the relationship for the

975
00:44:35,000 --> 00:44:37,759
Speaker 1: first three months. After that, you're representative and who you're

976
00:44:37,760 --> 00:44:39,680
Speaker 1: pretending to be, and try to show up as the

977
00:44:39,680 --> 00:44:42,040
Speaker 1: perfect woman or man is gonna go away and people

978
00:44:42,120 --> 00:44:43,719
Speaker 1: are gonna have to start seeing you for who you

979
00:44:43,760 --> 00:44:46,440
Speaker 1: are and understand you might be Paul Pierce. But sometimes

980
00:44:46,440 --> 00:44:49,880
Speaker 1: for women, being with a celebrity is very difficult. It

981
00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:51,960
Speaker 1: takes away a lot from them, you know, and who

982
00:44:52,000 --> 00:44:53,960
Speaker 1: they are as a person, and you're at the forefront

983
00:44:54,000 --> 00:44:55,759
Speaker 1: of the life and as a woman.

984
00:44:55,680 --> 00:44:56,600
Speaker 2: That can be difficult.

985
00:44:56,640 --> 00:44:59,000
Speaker 1: So there is a lot of tests, especially being with

986
00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:01,239
Speaker 1: the man of your stature, that a woman probably has

987
00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:03,600
Speaker 1: to face. Why are you trying to create this trust

988
00:45:03,600 --> 00:45:05,080
Speaker 1: in a relationship that you.

989
00:45:04,960 --> 00:45:05,600
Speaker 2: Don't need to do.

990
00:45:05,719 --> 00:45:07,160
Speaker 3: No, I'm trying to create trust?

991
00:45:07,440 --> 00:45:11,000
Speaker 2: No, bye line. So you're being selfish.

992
00:45:11,120 --> 00:45:13,840
Speaker 1: You're creating something for you, but you're causing chaos for

993
00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:16,160
Speaker 1: the other person. Right, So you're being selfish and you're

994
00:45:16,200 --> 00:45:19,560
Speaker 1: not reciprocating what you want. How does she trust you?

995
00:45:19,560 --> 00:45:21,880
Speaker 1: You're a celebrity with money. Women are throwing themselves at

996
00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:23,919
Speaker 1: you all day. So you're so worried about creating trust

997
00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:26,520
Speaker 1: for you that you're taking it away from your relationship

998
00:45:26,560 --> 00:45:27,320
Speaker 1: and it's just silly.

999
00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:28,920
Speaker 2: Well, let me jump in, let me jump in.

1000
00:45:29,440 --> 00:45:32,520
Speaker 14: I can see you're very passionate and I see both perspectives,

1001
00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:34,600
Speaker 14: not to defend him, but to explain him.

1002
00:45:34,640 --> 00:45:36,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's he's.

1003
00:45:36,080 --> 00:45:38,040
Speaker 14: You know, when you are first of all, you're part

1004
00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:40,880
Speaker 14: of the one percent. So his life is the one percent.

1005
00:45:41,280 --> 00:45:44,320
Speaker 14: You know, when you're a basketball player, women are constantly

1006
00:45:44,920 --> 00:45:45,560
Speaker 14: coming up.

1007
00:45:45,480 --> 00:45:47,440
Speaker 11: To you all his life like you probably was. That's

1008
00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:48,320
Speaker 11: a player in high school.

1009
00:45:48,360 --> 00:45:48,520
Speaker 9: Right.

1010
00:45:48,920 --> 00:45:51,239
Speaker 14: So before I go any further, let me ask you

1011
00:45:51,239 --> 00:45:53,680
Speaker 14: this question. How do you do you respect a woman

1012
00:45:54,040 --> 00:45:55,320
Speaker 14: that will be okay with you?

1013
00:45:55,520 --> 00:45:55,920
Speaker 2: Cheated?

1014
00:45:57,680 --> 00:45:59,520
Speaker 3: No, I don't respect the woman that would be okay

1015
00:45:59,560 --> 00:45:59,759
Speaker 3: with me.

1016
00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:02,680
Speaker 11: Okay, So okay. So that's so that's the point.

1017
00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:04,560
Speaker 14: And that's why I understand why he wants to do

1018
00:46:04,600 --> 00:46:08,279
Speaker 14: the test because in his mindset, which I appreciate, he

1019
00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:11,480
Speaker 14: wants to see, Okay, if I tell her I'm sleeping

1020
00:46:11,560 --> 00:46:15,040
Speaker 14: with other women and she does nothing, I know clearly

1021
00:46:15,440 --> 00:46:17,640
Speaker 14: she wants to be with me because what I can provide.

1022
00:46:18,040 --> 00:46:20,520
Speaker 2: But if I tell her is she's.

1023
00:46:20,400 --> 00:46:22,920
Speaker 11: Out, Like nah, I mean, I know who you are.

1024
00:46:22,960 --> 00:46:25,520
Speaker 14: I respect who you are, but I respect myself more

1025
00:46:25,560 --> 00:46:28,400
Speaker 14: than I respect who you are. I gotta keep it moving.

1026
00:46:28,840 --> 00:46:32,240
Speaker 14: So you're right, it's not a good lie. But he's

1027
00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:35,040
Speaker 14: just trying to weed out all the women because there's

1028
00:46:35,080 --> 00:46:36,759
Speaker 14: so many women who will not give a fuck.

1029
00:46:36,880 --> 00:46:39,360
Speaker 1: Well, you're wrong at what you're saying, because he's actually

1030
00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:41,680
Speaker 1: trying to say that if you cheat and stay, you

1031
00:46:41,719 --> 00:46:42,120
Speaker 1: love me.

1032
00:46:42,680 --> 00:46:43,719
Speaker 2: No, no, no, he'll.

1033
00:46:43,520 --> 00:46:48,040
Speaker 11: Say, Okay, then he's stepping up right now.

1034
00:46:48,080 --> 00:46:50,920
Speaker 14: He just said he just Okay, that's to different answers,

1035
00:46:50,920 --> 00:46:54,080
Speaker 14: because you told me if she cheats and she accepts it,

1036
00:46:54,120 --> 00:46:55,120
Speaker 14: you will in respect him.

1037
00:46:56,160 --> 00:46:57,080
Speaker 11: Okay, So which one is?

1038
00:46:57,239 --> 00:46:57,319
Speaker 3: So?

1039
00:46:57,360 --> 00:47:00,560
Speaker 2: Which one is the truth? It's true that the dark.

1040
00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:05,799
Speaker 14: Because you just I gotta go back and defend her,

1041
00:47:06,080 --> 00:47:07,319
Speaker 14: because that's student for answer.

1042
00:47:07,440 --> 00:47:08,920
Speaker 2: So what is the honest truth?

1043
00:47:09,040 --> 00:47:11,080
Speaker 14: Would you respect a woman if you cheated and she

1044
00:47:11,200 --> 00:47:13,480
Speaker 14: stayed with you, or would you respect her more if

1045
00:47:13,520 --> 00:47:17,480
Speaker 14: she left you?

1046
00:47:17,160 --> 00:47:21,640
Speaker 5: No, no, that's a good question. No, I don't what

1047
00:47:21,760 --> 00:47:22,640
Speaker 5: I respect her?

1048
00:47:24,239 --> 00:47:24,479
Speaker 2: Okay.

1049
00:47:24,520 --> 00:47:27,440
Speaker 14: So you cheat on her, tell her and she's like,

1050
00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:29,880
Speaker 14: you know what, don't let it happen again and forgives

1051
00:47:29,880 --> 00:47:32,399
Speaker 14: you easily, or you cheat on her. You tell her

1052
00:47:32,640 --> 00:47:35,400
Speaker 14: and she's like, I'm out, Like that was not our agreement.

1053
00:47:35,640 --> 00:47:37,800
Speaker 14: I already told you what I was on and she leaves?

1054
00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:39,879
Speaker 3: Which one be out?

1055
00:47:40,160 --> 00:47:41,040
Speaker 2: You rather be out?

1056
00:47:41,120 --> 00:47:44,279
Speaker 3: Yeah? Because now let me let me. Uh, it's how

1057
00:47:44,320 --> 00:47:45,040
Speaker 3: she go out.

1058
00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:48,440
Speaker 5: If she go out the door, it's a certain way

1059
00:47:48,440 --> 00:47:55,400
Speaker 5: you got to go out the door. Got to be

1060
00:47:55,480 --> 00:47:58,520
Speaker 5: mad and sad, she has to cry.

1061
00:47:58,719 --> 00:48:01,680
Speaker 1: So, so what happened to your clip that's going viral

1062
00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:04,160
Speaker 1: today on Hollywood on Lock all the Box where he said,

1063
00:48:04,360 --> 00:48:06,200
Speaker 1: in order to see if a woman loves you, you have

1064
00:48:06,280 --> 00:48:08,719
Speaker 1: to cheat on her and if she stays, she loves you.

1065
00:48:09,040 --> 00:48:11,560
Speaker 1: So where is that coming in with this whole scenario

1066
00:48:11,680 --> 00:48:13,279
Speaker 1: because it doesn't really make sense.

1067
00:48:13,360 --> 00:48:15,960
Speaker 5: Now, well, well they gonna it's gonna be a it's

1068
00:48:15,960 --> 00:48:17,919
Speaker 5: gonna be a breakup and a get back.

1069
00:48:18,200 --> 00:48:20,080
Speaker 1: Okay, so you want to put you want to make

1070
00:48:20,120 --> 00:48:22,800
Speaker 1: a woman struggle for love basically.

1071
00:48:23,080 --> 00:48:25,120
Speaker 3: I mean, how else the woman gonna go through it?

1072
00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:30,400
Speaker 1: But you know, Cam Newton, let me make sure I

1073
00:48:30,440 --> 00:48:34,920
Speaker 1: do not misquote him. He said that he needs the

1074
00:48:34,960 --> 00:48:38,040
Speaker 1: list of his girls.

1075
00:48:37,160 --> 00:48:39,520
Speaker 2: Partners that she's slept with, period, the names.

1076
00:48:40,239 --> 00:48:43,919
Speaker 1: And he said he needs the names because he wants

1077
00:48:43,960 --> 00:48:46,080
Speaker 1: to know who got one up on him and he

1078
00:48:46,160 --> 00:48:49,400
Speaker 1: doesn't want to walk into the place with his girl

1079
00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:53,200
Speaker 1: and he's like, yeah, she bad. She did want some juice, baby,

1080
00:48:54,480 --> 00:48:56,680
Speaker 1: He said, that is the juice, babe, lying and everything,

1081
00:48:57,000 --> 00:48:59,759
Speaker 1: and he was like, I don't want to be in

1082
00:48:59,800 --> 00:49:02,680
Speaker 1: front of a man who I know, like you had

1083
00:49:02,760 --> 00:49:05,640
Speaker 1: that and now I'm key king with a man and

1084
00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:08,879
Speaker 1: you was with my girl. And he was like, it's

1085
00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:12,319
Speaker 1: just about me having that transparency and knowing so I

1086
00:49:12,360 --> 00:49:15,920
Speaker 1: could move accordingly. And then his girl came out and

1087
00:49:16,080 --> 00:49:19,239
Speaker 1: was just like, I'm so glad I gave him my

1088
00:49:19,280 --> 00:49:22,840
Speaker 1: whole list. I feel relieved. You know, she's she's tweeted

1089
00:49:22,880 --> 00:49:27,399
Speaker 1: at or put it somewhere. So yeah, that was his thing.

1090
00:49:27,520 --> 00:49:30,000
Speaker 1: And he was like, and there's a lot of people

1091
00:49:30,040 --> 00:49:33,040
Speaker 1: that are like, all right, cool, I could work with that,

1092
00:49:33,120 --> 00:49:34,759
Speaker 1: and he said, and then if it's someone like that

1093
00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:37,600
Speaker 1: was my teammates, you know, like that was someone I

1094
00:49:37,640 --> 00:49:40,520
Speaker 1: see every day, Like I'm not, I'm not, I might

1095
00:49:40,560 --> 00:49:41,160
Speaker 1: not be able to.

1096
00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:45,320
Speaker 2: Deal with that, he said. But if it's someone cool cool,

1097
00:49:45,760 --> 00:49:48,720
Speaker 2: you know. But yeah, he said, I need that list.

1098
00:49:49,200 --> 00:49:52,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I get it, you know, And that's

1099
00:49:52,239 --> 00:49:54,480
Speaker 3: it's for me.

1100
00:49:54,560 --> 00:49:57,160
Speaker 5: It's a double less sword because it's like, damn, do

1101
00:49:57,280 --> 00:49:59,480
Speaker 5: I really want to know or do I like I

1102
00:49:59,560 --> 00:50:01,920
Speaker 5: get it? I get it, Like I completely get it,

1103
00:50:02,360 --> 00:50:03,880
Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying. I was in a situation

1104
00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:05,239
Speaker 5: to where I was talking to this girl, I was

1105
00:50:05,320 --> 00:50:08,759
Speaker 5: dating this girl right and you know, we went out

1106
00:50:08,800 --> 00:50:11,799
Speaker 5: a couple of times and then it was like I

1107
00:50:11,840 --> 00:50:15,319
Speaker 5: remember we had dinner if we sat down and she

1108
00:50:15,480 --> 00:50:19,680
Speaker 5: was like, yeah, my ex is woof the woot And

1109
00:50:19,719 --> 00:50:23,480
Speaker 5: I was just like what, like I currently kick it

1110
00:50:23,520 --> 00:50:26,719
Speaker 5: with him, like from time to time his number, Like

1111
00:50:26,760 --> 00:50:29,759
Speaker 5: we just kicked it, Like like why wouldn't you say

1112
00:50:29,800 --> 00:50:34,879
Speaker 5: nothing at the beginning, Like you know that I kick

1113
00:50:34,920 --> 00:50:37,800
Speaker 5: it with dude, Like, so I get it, you know

1114
00:50:37,800 --> 00:50:39,680
Speaker 5: what I'm saying. So like for me, I was like,

1115
00:50:39,760 --> 00:50:43,160
Speaker 5: I'm not talking to you no more. You know, I'm

1116
00:50:43,200 --> 00:50:45,440
Speaker 5: good on that because I don't move like that. If

1117
00:50:45,480 --> 00:50:46,960
Speaker 5: it's a dude, I'm kicking it with it, and I

1118
00:50:47,000 --> 00:50:49,520
Speaker 5: know you hear his ex I'm not moving like that.

1119
00:50:49,680 --> 00:50:51,200
Speaker 3: Yeah facts, you know.

1120
00:50:51,360 --> 00:50:53,880
Speaker 5: So like I get where Cam is coming from with that,

1121
00:50:54,040 --> 00:50:58,200
Speaker 5: because those type of situations can come about and I'm

1122
00:50:58,200 --> 00:51:01,200
Speaker 5: not mad at that, you know, because like I've been

1123
00:51:01,360 --> 00:51:04,480
Speaker 5: in situations or with girls that I was committed to

1124
00:51:04,480 --> 00:51:06,120
Speaker 5: to where I asked, like who else you know?

1125
00:51:06,880 --> 00:51:08,439
Speaker 3: And you could tell me the truth or you could

1126
00:51:08,480 --> 00:51:10,960
Speaker 3: lie whatever. I'm gonna ask.

1127
00:51:11,320 --> 00:51:13,759
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, but it's gonna show any

1128
00:51:13,800 --> 00:51:17,120
Speaker 5: way eventually, but like, nah my, somebody I kick it with,

1129
00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:20,560
Speaker 5: Like you should have the type of like you know,

1130
00:51:21,000 --> 00:51:23,319
Speaker 5: like you should be with somebody, be like like you

1131
00:51:23,320 --> 00:51:24,959
Speaker 5: shouldn't even want to talk to me if.

1132
00:51:24,880 --> 00:51:29,319
Speaker 1: You exactly, that's weird, That's what I'm saying.

1133
00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:32,080
Speaker 5: That's on you. You're talking to me like I'm not

1134
00:51:32,160 --> 00:51:33,040
Speaker 5: to get back dude.

1135
00:51:33,200 --> 00:51:34,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're trying to get back on some.

1136
00:51:35,080 --> 00:51:37,719
Speaker 3: Sad but if we're trying to get serious, like.

1137
00:51:37,960 --> 00:51:38,719
Speaker 2: That's not gonna work.

1138
00:51:38,840 --> 00:51:39,680
Speaker 3: That's not gonna work.

1139
00:51:39,719 --> 00:51:40,360
Speaker 2: And that's true.

1140
00:51:40,600 --> 00:51:44,280
Speaker 1: I feel like the whole list or whatever the names are,

1141
00:51:44,640 --> 00:51:48,200
Speaker 1: to me, I'm like not against it, but I also

1142
00:51:48,239 --> 00:51:51,040
Speaker 1: feel like it's for me more of a thing of

1143
00:51:51,080 --> 00:51:53,839
Speaker 1: like respect, Like, look, I'm not gonna have my man

1144
00:51:54,280 --> 00:51:56,840
Speaker 1: in front of someone shaking hand bow up with someone

1145
00:51:56,840 --> 00:51:59,040
Speaker 1: that I know I used to mess with. I'm gonna

1146
00:51:59,080 --> 00:52:01,600
Speaker 1: tell him like, yo, we had a situation going on.

1147
00:52:01,640 --> 00:52:02,480
Speaker 2: I'm just letting you know.

1148
00:52:02,880 --> 00:52:05,480
Speaker 1: Like that's more of the thing, like I'll give a

1149
00:52:05,520 --> 00:52:08,160
Speaker 1: list if it's needed, but I think that the bigger

1150
00:52:08,239 --> 00:52:11,040
Speaker 1: thing is like I'm not gonna let my man feel

1151
00:52:11,239 --> 00:52:14,759
Speaker 1: like he's out of control and like not respected or

1152
00:52:14,840 --> 00:52:17,440
Speaker 1: like someone feels like they got a one up. I

1153
00:52:17,520 --> 00:52:19,279
Speaker 1: never want anyone to feel like they got a one

1154
00:52:19,360 --> 00:52:21,360
Speaker 1: up on my man because that's a reflection of me.

1155
00:52:21,680 --> 00:52:24,480
Speaker 1: I'm a reflection of him, Like I don't want that feeling,

1156
00:52:24,520 --> 00:52:26,160
Speaker 1: and I don't want that for me, Like I don't

1157
00:52:26,200 --> 00:52:27,640
Speaker 1: want to be out with my man and this girl

1158
00:52:27,680 --> 00:52:31,160
Speaker 1: like yeah, girl, that's like I'm gonna feel crazy. And

1159
00:52:31,200 --> 00:52:33,160
Speaker 1: if I'm key keying with you and I'm cool, like

1160
00:52:33,239 --> 00:52:34,640
Speaker 1: that makes me uncomfortable.

1161
00:52:34,640 --> 00:52:36,120
Speaker 2: And I would never want my man to feel that

1162
00:52:36,160 --> 00:52:36,600
Speaker 2: same way.

1163
00:52:36,800 --> 00:52:42,600
Speaker 5: So he's the gate like I would like, it's probably crazy,

1164
00:52:43,400 --> 00:52:44,319
Speaker 5: it's not.

1165
00:52:47,239 --> 00:52:49,080
Speaker 3: I'm gonna send you. I'm gonna fact you these because

1166
00:52:49,120 --> 00:52:49,640
Speaker 3: I don't want you.

1167
00:52:49,640 --> 00:52:54,440
Speaker 1: To say no, Actually, my list is not crazy, No,

1168
00:52:54,520 --> 00:52:55,000
Speaker 1: it's not.

1169
00:52:55,400 --> 00:52:57,359
Speaker 2: And I honestly haven't. No.

1170
00:52:57,440 --> 00:53:00,239
Speaker 1: My list is small, like I can count my lit

1171
00:53:00,840 --> 00:53:03,240
Speaker 1: on my hands, like I don't have a big list,

1172
00:53:03,560 --> 00:53:05,920
Speaker 1: and I know who I've slept with and for me,

1173
00:53:06,200 --> 00:53:08,680
Speaker 1: like I said, it's more of a respecting to where

1174
00:53:09,080 --> 00:53:11,560
Speaker 1: if I'm like, yeah, if my man is keycking with someone,

1175
00:53:11,640 --> 00:53:14,120
Speaker 1: like first of all, if I have a man and

1176
00:53:14,200 --> 00:53:16,400
Speaker 1: I know I mess with his friend or someone he

1177
00:53:16,520 --> 00:53:18,960
Speaker 1: kicks it with, that's not my man, I'm not We're

1178
00:53:19,000 --> 00:53:22,360
Speaker 1: not fucking around like to begin with, unless I just

1179
00:53:22,480 --> 00:53:25,240
Speaker 1: did not know, and once I find out, I'm telling

1180
00:53:25,280 --> 00:53:28,200
Speaker 1: you like, oh, look, this is the situation because I

1181
00:53:28,200 --> 00:53:30,760
Speaker 1: don't want someone else to say it like that's weird.

1182
00:53:31,320 --> 00:53:38,040
Speaker 5: This is the one thing I would love to ask Cam.

1183
00:53:36,680 --> 00:53:36,839
Speaker 3: Like.

1184
00:53:38,760 --> 00:53:41,719
Speaker 5: I would love to ask Kim if he gave her

1185
00:53:41,800 --> 00:53:43,960
Speaker 5: his list? Was that required?

1186
00:53:44,040 --> 00:53:45,280
Speaker 2: I don't think that was required.

1187
00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:47,479
Speaker 3: Would that be a thing?

1188
00:53:47,680 --> 00:53:48,799
Speaker 2: I don't think that's a thing.

1189
00:53:49,360 --> 00:53:55,560
Speaker 5: Like, you know, he's a pretty famous dude. Yeah, you know,

1190
00:53:56,120 --> 00:53:59,279
Speaker 5: it's a possibility he been with some famous women, or

1191
00:53:59,400 --> 00:54:01,520
Speaker 5: it's a possible ability he could have been with like

1192
00:54:01,560 --> 00:54:04,480
Speaker 5: some of the girls he's dated or been like in

1193
00:54:04,520 --> 00:54:05,759
Speaker 5: a situation.

1194
00:54:05,520 --> 00:54:06,719
Speaker 2: His girls friends.

1195
00:54:07,040 --> 00:54:09,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, one of her friends. I wonder if he gave

1196
00:54:09,760 --> 00:54:13,520
Speaker 5: the list too. So I don't know, Cam, it go

1197
00:54:13,719 --> 00:54:16,160
Speaker 5: both ways too. Did you give your list up or

1198
00:54:16,239 --> 00:54:18,960
Speaker 5: it's just required from her? I'm just saying, like, damn,

1199
00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:23,600
Speaker 5: I ain't ever, I'm sure I wondered.

1200
00:54:23,239 --> 00:54:26,680
Speaker 1: Like damn, I mean, I don't think that it was

1201
00:54:26,719 --> 00:54:31,480
Speaker 1: Like me personally, I'll be honest. If I'm with a man,

1202
00:54:31,560 --> 00:54:33,239
Speaker 1: I don't want to know his list but what I

1203
00:54:33,320 --> 00:54:35,440
Speaker 1: want to know is like, don't have me looking stupid, but.

1204
00:54:35,440 --> 00:54:40,359
Speaker 5: I will tell you this about a man don't even

1205
00:54:40,480 --> 00:54:43,520
Speaker 5: know that's what I'm saying.

1206
00:54:46,880 --> 00:54:47,319
Speaker 2: His name.

1207
00:54:48,480 --> 00:54:50,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, hold on, let me go through the phone.

1208
00:54:50,480 --> 00:54:54,160
Speaker 2: Like what like I used to like a man don't

1209
00:54:54,200 --> 00:54:54,840
Speaker 2: know his list?

1210
00:55:12,040 --> 00:55:13,239
Speaker 3: This is the taking over the.

1211
00:55:13,280 --> 00:55:23,680
Speaker 5: Game, all right, everybody, welcome to Truth after Dark.

1212
00:55:24,480 --> 00:55:28,840
Speaker 1: Do you think that men or women are more toxic