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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Couples Counseling with Chelsea, And I'm here

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Speaker 1: with three of my friends.

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Speaker 2: They are not a couple. They're a threatle.

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Speaker 1: They're not romantically involved either. There are three comedians named

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Speaker 1: Amina Amani, Sydney Washington, and Marie Fouston, and I spent

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Speaker 1: some time with them in Whistler and heard a lot

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Speaker 1: about their beef, so I thought I would bring them

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Speaker 1: onto the podcast. What are your thoughts, ladies on dating

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Speaker 1: somebody's ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend?

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Speaker 2: How do you feel about that? Oh, we don't do that.

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Speaker 2: I don't like anybody that my friend's like, no one bit, no,

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Speaker 2: thank you.

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Speaker 3: I don't even like the people that I used to like,

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Speaker 3: So why would I like your trash? Yes, so one

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Speaker 3: hundred percent I agree with like, I'm not even interested.

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Speaker 3: I feel like even if somebody looks their way or

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Speaker 3: I'm like, oh no, that's off the options for me.

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Speaker 3: But I feel like as I'm getting older, I see

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Speaker 3: a lot of women friends and it's just like, oh,

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Speaker 3: where you're married, now you moved on. Why can't I

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Speaker 3: date your eggs? Y'all don't know, y'all don't see that, or.

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Speaker 2: Y'all not together no more on that.

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Speaker 3: We were friends after y'all were together, So that don't

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Speaker 3: have nothing to do with me.

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Speaker 2: Well, me and Sydney were talking about this woman.

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Speaker 3: Her friend had went through chemo and passed away, and

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Speaker 3: when her friend died, she was like, Oh, the way that.

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Speaker 2: Her husband was treating her in the hospital. I noticed that.

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Speaker 2: And now now she's with the eggs they married. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: to me, that's crazy, Like, that's crazy. Enjoy your love.

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Speaker 3: But to me, I just that's to me, that's weird.

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Speaker 3: So what y'all are y'all talking about her? Y'all y'all,

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Speaker 3: y'all reminiscing. Okay, but this isn't some additional info that

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Speaker 3: might change your mind.

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Speaker 2: She's seventy seven, does.

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Speaker 3: Ye? Well?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? How old is the guy? Probably around that eighty.

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Speaker 2: But that's why I'm saying. I feel like as you

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Speaker 2: get older, the rules change. That's what it seems like. No,

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Speaker 2: that's weird. That's weird.

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Speaker 3: You guys have been friends for solo. You've seen so

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Speaker 3: many times, and then you saw me when I had cancer. Baby,

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Speaker 3: now you want my man.

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Speaker 2: That's weird. That felt like you've been blocking the whole time.

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Speaker 3: That means she was showing up to the cancer treatment

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Speaker 3: with like a good cat eye and her butt look good,

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Speaker 3: and she was like, oh, let me.

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Speaker 2: Brush your three hairs across your forehead. Yeah, I mean

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Speaker 2: the man is her heirloom.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 2: Listen, she was gonna take her shot out jewelry he

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Speaker 2: left wi Yeah, up for grabs. I'm glad. All I

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Speaker 2: know is I'm glad I'm gay.

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Speaker 3: And so we never have to worry about that with

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Speaker 3: the girls over here because you know they're very straight.

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Speaker 3: But I feel like even being friends with exes, I

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Speaker 3: don't really play that like that's that's my boundary too.

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Speaker 2: Like I just feel like if I met.

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Speaker 3: This person from my friend and they are no longer connected.

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Speaker 1: I hate when people continue friendships.

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Speaker 2: That is disgusting to me. That isn't just like ridiculous.

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Speaker 3: Also, I go in now with friends that have exes,

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Speaker 3: and I go in with like, just no once, this

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Speaker 3: is a wrap, this is a rep.

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Speaker 1: But also when they don't even know the person that well,

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Speaker 1: they met them one time at a dinner that you

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Speaker 1: had for they're hanging out.

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, wait, that was I just next.

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Speaker 1: Her, like after six years and you don't even know

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Speaker 1: her and you're hanging out with her. You continue like

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Speaker 1: I have this one guy every my friend's boyfriend. Every

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Speaker 1: time I hook up with someone on vacation, he stays

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Speaker 1: in contact with the guy that I hook up with

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Speaker 1: on vacation.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, why why are you remaining in contact with

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Speaker 2: these one night stands that I've had? That's a Pepine,

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Speaker 2: don't do that. It doesn't make any sense to me.

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Speaker 3: But if people people out there that's like that, they

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Speaker 3: will stay connected.

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Speaker 2: They'll be hanging out, they'll be inviting.

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Speaker 3: Them to the group check, coming to the events, and

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Speaker 3: you just be sitting there, like, do you think I

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Speaker 3: want to see this person again?

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Speaker 2: If I say bye? You gotta say bye. Well, I'll say,

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Speaker 2: I'll say that.

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Speaker 3: I feel like I'm the opposite of your friend, Chelsea.

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Speaker 3: Once my friend is done with somebody, that person is

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Speaker 3: dead to me. And Sidney can attest to this, because

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Speaker 3: Sidney got exits that I was like, well, I don't

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Speaker 3: we were done with them, And then Sydney still talks

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Speaker 3: to them, and I'm like, I've always said that he died,

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Speaker 3: So funeral for that person, girl, The resurrection is easter.

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying is good for it. She

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Speaker 2: keep everybody around. I know that is hard.

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Speaker 1: That is hard when you pitch about somebody and then

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Speaker 1: we all and your friends all back you up and

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Speaker 1: are like, fine, fuck her or fuck him, and then

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Speaker 1: that person gets back together with the person. You're like,

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Speaker 1: wait a second, I'm the only one that's mad at

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Speaker 1: them anymore.

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Speaker 3: But I don't really bitch. I don't bitch about them.

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Speaker 3: If anything, I put it on beat, I'd be like, oh,

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Speaker 3: I was I messed up. I wasn't right. I wasn't

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Speaker 3: all the way there for the person. That's why this

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Speaker 3: didn't work out.

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Speaker 2: Okay, what are your thoughts on lending friends money? I

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Speaker 2: don't say. I don't do. I don't do money and friends.

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Speaker 3: You don't know. I mean like, I'll get you a meal,

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Speaker 3: I'll send you a little a little uber ride or something,

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Speaker 3: a little bag or a shirt. Like if I could

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Speaker 3: give it to you and just let you have it,

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Speaker 3: one hundred percent is yours. But if I can't, I'm

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Speaker 3: not a bank, I'm not a leander. Like I got good.

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Speaker 3: If I need a loan, chase b away. It's a

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Speaker 3: whole lot of lists of people that I can contact.

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Speaker 3: I just I think it's embarrassing too.

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Speaker 2: I just I don't.

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Speaker 3: I feel like I wouldn't even I've never asked you

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Speaker 3: all to borrow money. We've been friends for probably a decade.

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Speaker 3: I've never asked them to borrow money. No, No, I've

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Speaker 3: probably stolen money. I've stolen money from y'all.

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Speaker 2: Oh from the new Yeah, I forgot it's mine.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm like, how No, I'm just saying that's that's

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Speaker 3: how I am with my friends.

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Speaker 2: Like, I'll take it.

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Speaker 1: But I recently had a friend hit me up with

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Speaker 1: a voice memo asking me for one hundred and seventy

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Speaker 1: five thousand dollars.

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Speaker 2: Oh thousand dollars.

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Speaker 3: But that's why they didn't text it, because they said,

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Speaker 3: you're not screenshotting this voice memo.

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Speaker 1: Exactly as soon as I listen to it, you know,

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Speaker 1: it disappears right. I was like, oh, that's why you

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Speaker 1: said to in a voice memo told me that she

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Speaker 1: would have it back to me at the end of

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Speaker 1: two months, which is even more sk than just asking for.

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Speaker 2: You're not gonna add it too much.

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Speaker 1: But I have a long history of loading people money

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Speaker 1: and them never paying it back, but loading them without

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Speaker 1: the expectation, you know, when people are in trouble. But

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Speaker 1: this was the first time in my adult life that

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Speaker 1: I was like, absolutely not, that's ridiculous.

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Speaker 2: What's the most what's the most you've ever lent somebody

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Speaker 2: like twenty grand? Right, why don't we go ahead and

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Speaker 2: add you to agree? But yeah, I mean, but for me,

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Speaker 2: I think that.

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Speaker 3: I mean I've had a long history of just like

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Speaker 3: being bad with finances, but then I've also met people

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Speaker 3: who have been bad with finances, and it's just like

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Speaker 3: you put it, you put it in the zeigeis you know,

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Speaker 3: if somebody if you can do it, and you can

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Speaker 3: and it helps them and then they eventually you know,

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Speaker 3: pay it back, that's amazing. But like, you know, what

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Speaker 3: is what is money if it's on right terms. I mean,

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Speaker 3: obviously there's people are sketchy in they're they're out there

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Speaker 3: using you and they're not coming from a good late.

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Speaker 3: But if somebody was down and out and like I

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Speaker 3: had it, I had abundance of it, I'm like, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 3: this is my good friend. But if it's on the

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Speaker 3: terms where like they say they're going to pay it

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Speaker 3: back and then they don't, then it's like I hope

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Speaker 3: you know that twenty thousand dollars. It's worth our friendship

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Speaker 3: because then I can't mess with you no more because

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Speaker 3: you're not.

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Speaker 2: On your word.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I've definitely when I was coming up and

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Speaker 1: had no money, I definitely borrowed from a lot of people,

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Speaker 1: and I always paid people back because I was very

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Speaker 1: I always knew, like Marie that I would be successful

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Speaker 1: and I would do well. But for some reason, I

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Speaker 1: found the one hundred and seventy five thousand dollars in

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Speaker 1: such a stabbering sum to.

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Speaker 2: Ask someone for that.

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Speaker 3: That's more than that's more than most American salaries, Like what?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and this is also someone I haven't seen in

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Speaker 1: several years, you know, I mean coming through on a

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Speaker 2: I was several year.

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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, we taxed sometimes, but we're not like close.

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Speaker 1: And I just I just couldn't get over it, and

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Speaker 1: I was I actually.

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Speaker 2: Realized that diference between me.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 1: First of all, my business managers would never allow that

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Speaker 1: to people without asking enough questions, so they would actually

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Speaker 1: make someone sign a contract or something.

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Speaker 3: But you know, oh, oh that's good a contract.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I offered her that up.

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Speaker 1: I said, if you want to go through my business managers,

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Speaker 1: you're going to have to do some paperwork with them.

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Speaker 1: And then immediately she's like, I'm offended by that.

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Speaker 2: Oh, but.

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Speaker 3: I don't believe did she what does she need the

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Speaker 3: money for? Let's was she starting like a lash business?

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's all very shady, It's all. It just

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Speaker 1: felt shady right away. I was like, this isn't right,

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Speaker 1: This isn't how you ask for that either.

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Speaker 3: No, you haven't heard from her in a while, did

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Speaker 3: she Well, did she hit you with a like a.

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Speaker 2: Preliminary hey, friend, Like, did she text.

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Speaker 3: You to kind of like massage it in there?

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Speaker 2: No? No, she's brutally Yeah. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I have a question about drama, because I'm sure there's

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Speaker 1: lots of drama between the three of you.

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Speaker 2: How much drama is too much drama? And when is

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Speaker 2: when do you have to draw the line with the

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Speaker 2: level of drama.

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Speaker 3: Let me tell you what Sydney and Amina drama is.

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Speaker 3: We go out, we're having a nice time, we all

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Speaker 3: look great. Sidney will say something about Amina something, Amina

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Speaker 3: will say something back about Sidney something, and then they

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Speaker 3: just start roasting each other and everyone's laughing or no, no, no,

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Speaker 3: they're laughing at each other.

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Speaker 2: Everyone else is like, oh wow, they thought to fight?

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Speaker 2: Are they fight?

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Speaker 3: Right? And it's just like to me, it just feels

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Speaker 3: like low blow after low blow after low blow, and

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Speaker 3: I just listen and laugh. But because I yeah, I'm

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Speaker 3: If someone said something about me the way that y'all

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Speaker 3: That's when I'll be brutally honest. I can't y'all. Y'all

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Speaker 2: Things and I'm like, oh oh oh.

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Speaker 3: It was like she's a mother and I mean it's

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Speaker 3: I do not accordially to put out your own message, liar.

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Speaker 2: It's like sixty forty Sydney. I think it is.

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Speaker 3: It's one hundred percent like for the most part out come,

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Speaker 3: I'm chilling I'm vibing, and then here go Sidney saying

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Speaker 2: Every week is different, but I do.

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Speaker 3: Remember she hit you up and said, I can't do

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Speaker 2: She started it.

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Speaker 3: No, she started it, and then I said, I thought

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Speaker 1: But what do you think it is between the chemistry

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Speaker 1: and it is shocking, you know, I mean, especially for

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Speaker 2: Must be like, what the fuck is happen Meina, we

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Speaker 3: That's that's a love language of ours, like dragging each other,

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Speaker 3: like they'll congratulate, but like underneath it'll be a whole

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Speaker 2: With my hair, where I was at, who I was with.

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Speaker 3: So it's just in my family, that's just that's kind

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Speaker 3: you humble, I keep sending me humble. I'd like to

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Speaker 3: say one thing I come first of all. First of all,

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie though.

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Speaker 3: It keeps me, it keeps me sharp. I will say that.

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Speaker 3: That's why I think. I think that's why I like

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Speaker 2: So yeah, I can see in the gym. Yeah yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's just a gym. It's to work out.

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Speaker 3: It's an open mic against like I guess our emotions

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Speaker 3: But I look at Amna as a sister, and whenever

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Speaker 3: we're doing it, I think I rarely be like, damn,

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Speaker 3: you took it too far.

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Speaker 2: Like once in a while, we did take it too far.

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Speaker 3: One time, remember when you were standing over me asking

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Speaker 3: you in your face because I was like, girl, it

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Speaker 3: ain't never day. I'm not gonna send you your money back.

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Speaker 3: And she was like, she was like, pull your phone

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, are you serious right now? So you

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Speaker 2: took it too far. You're having a hard day.

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Speaker 3: Friend was, but you took it too far with that

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Speaker 3: coud sis. You don't have no problems them won't requesting

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Speaker 3: somebody for five dollars.

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Speaker 2: So there's that, and you've done that, and then do

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Speaker 2: and don't. I don't know how I am.

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Speaker 3: I am very particular about money. That's why I don't

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Speaker 3: and it's thirty three dollars and sixty cents. Please do

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Speaker 3: not send me thirty three dollars. Honestly, you on my

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Speaker 3: list for that.

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Speaker 2: Thirty three dollars and sixty cents. You want the SI

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Speaker 2: you round it down. You need the round up. You

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Speaker 2: need the round now, you need to round up to

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Speaker 2: one hundred and seventy five thousand dollars. Yeah, that's exactly right.

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Speaker 1: And that's all for this week with Amina, Sydney and Marie.

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Speaker 1: You can find them on Instagram at just sid BW

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Speaker 1: that's Sydney's, at Reez that's with three E's ore eee

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Speaker 1: z y.

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Speaker 2: And then at Amina Amani.

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Speaker 1: If you want some good Instagram stuff, go follow them

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Speaker 1: and you can join us next time as we continue

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Speaker 1: a couples counseling with Chelsea