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Speaker 1: Okay, let's talk about divorce. Scott Wolf is from Party

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Speaker 1: of Five. I was obsessed with that show. I felt

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Speaker 1: Scott Wolf is married to a woman, and in my periphery,

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Speaker 1: i'd heard like someone said someone else was abusing them,

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Speaker 1: was going on. But for some reason, I was scrolling

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Speaker 1: version of some like reality show it doesn't matter at all,

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Speaker 1: and they have kids, and she is acting out in

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Speaker 1: it for the twenty fifth time. Judge Gesmer in New

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Speaker 1: York said, a custody battle is watching your child drown

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Speaker 1: and you're standing at the dock and you can't do

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Speaker 1: anything to help them. The story is not about me.

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Speaker 1: But while I have felt strong negative feelings in my

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Speaker 1: league like fantasies in my body that if you said

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Speaker 1: out loud, it would be bad. Okay, But I have

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Speaker 1: always known that the child has to be protected from that,

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Speaker 1: because you're doing damage. The child is a blank canvas. Now,

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Speaker 1: no child should be wrapped in bubble wrap. And I

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Speaker 1: saw a lot and was raised by animals, and am

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Speaker 1: so successful probably and resilient because of it. But I'd

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Speaker 1: rather my daughter be a lot less successful, and a

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Speaker 1: lot happier, and a lot less tainted. And I a

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Speaker 1: friend of mine's husband said, the one thing in divorce

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Speaker 1: you can ever do at any age is say anything

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Speaker 1: bad about the other parent in front of the child.

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Speaker 1: It's And what I do know is that children, when

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Speaker 1: they're little, they can feel tension, feel energy. They are

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Speaker 1: extremely think about it. They have not been exposed to

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Speaker 1: So they feel, see and absorb energetically much more than

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Speaker 1: we do because we're so cluttered with all these different

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Speaker 1: phones and just life. They are sponges. People say that,

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Speaker 1: experts say they're sponges. That they'll copy what we do,

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Speaker 1: don't want them to do, they'll open the pill bottle,

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Speaker 1: whatever it is, because they are sponges. So if they're sponges,

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Speaker 1: that means they're absorbing what you are saying, doing talking

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Speaker 1: about in front of them negativity. And even if they

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Speaker 1: understand it, their pores understand And that's why I've seen

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Speaker 1: a situation where a child will crack open like a

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Speaker 1: pinata in their preteen development stage because their intellect what

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Speaker 1: in their bodies. So just because parents are talking on

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Speaker 1: kids aren't absorbing it just because they don't understand it

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Speaker 1: at the time. And listen, we've all done it. I've

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Speaker 1: done and said things we're not proud of overall, But

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Speaker 1: you can never talk badly about the other parent. Now,

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Speaker 1: as I've said before, what will happen often is the

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Speaker 1: And then you also can't just pile on about it.

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Speaker 1: You have to find a way to always let the

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Speaker 1: and their constructs, and you have to really like make

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Speaker 1: You cannot place the hatred for your ex, who may

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Speaker 1: just want to explain something that I've seen three times

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Speaker 1: dating at different eras five men that had full custody

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Speaker 1: of their kids. We've discussed this before. The women had

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Speaker 1: an identity as a wife, as a shopper, as a

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Speaker 1: being a homemaker is a wonderful, wonderful privilege. And raising

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Speaker 1: woodwork and hall's crazy accusations about them. Now I first

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Speaker 1: So you're accusing a man of being this like criminal, terrible, disgusting,

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Speaker 1: and we're all drunk. Okay, And which is, by the way,

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Speaker 1: same type and we know what that type is, but

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Speaker 1: we haven't found the right partner, then we have to

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Speaker 1: change our dating preferences, meaning in our bodies, not meaning

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Speaker 1: checking boxes on apps or with friends who are setting

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Speaker 1: us up, meaning in our bodies. Do we think we

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Speaker 1: would not date someone who was in a band, or

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Speaker 1: someone who had a tattoo, or someone who's an athlete,

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Speaker 1: or someone who's short, or someone who's European, or someone

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Speaker 1: who's Latin, or someone who's Jewish or someone who's Catholic.

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Speaker 1: Like I always go for the same thing over and over,

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Speaker 1: and sometimes it's hard because you're just used to going

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Speaker 1: for the same thing. Not only do you not know

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Speaker 1: where to look, you just don't even know how to

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Speaker 1: sort of open your eyes to that. And I think

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Speaker 1: I knew a guy that was blonde blind. He used

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Speaker 1: to say he was not attracted to blonde, and he

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Speaker 1: ended up marrying a brunette, and I knew another guy

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Speaker 1: that said I have to stop dating blondes. Now that's

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Speaker 1: ridiculous because that's like a profiling thing. That's bizarre. But nevertheless,

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Speaker 1: for whatever reason, blondes haven't worked for him. So you

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Speaker 1: have to intervene in the type you're going for personality wise,

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Speaker 1: maybe physically, maybe career, maybe homebody not homebody, boring, excitement,

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Speaker 1: like to dance, doesn't like to dance, like to drink,

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Speaker 1: doesn't like to drink like I think, we have to

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Speaker 1: change our dating preferences, want to bat to better