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Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: It's the stars of the Scrubbing In Podcast. They are

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Speaker 2: rock stars in their own way, their award winning, their friends,

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Speaker 2: and they're also with us all weekend in the mountains

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Speaker 2: of Colorado, mayor in Meredith, Colorado for Dean and Kailin's

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Speaker 2: wedding and yes, they're here to talk about all the dirty.

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Speaker 3: Details of the wedding.

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Speaker 2: Tanya and Becca, Welcome to the Almost Famous Podcast.

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Speaker 4: WHOA thank you for bull cheer ourselves.

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Speaker 5: Guys. I'm so jealous that you get to record together

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Speaker 5: in that studio.

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Speaker 4: It's so fun. Like, if y'all are here, this would

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Speaker 4: be an absolute perfect scenario.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we are big in the in person phase of life.

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Speaker 1: We like we like refuse guests to be on Zoom.

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Speaker 4: I like that.

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Speaker 5: I mean, if you have the luxury, go for it.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but it feels like Patrick Dempsey or something. We'll

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Speaker 4: take them over.

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Speaker 2: I hears something funny before you get started. I don't

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Speaker 2: know how I got on it, but like maybe three

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Speaker 2: days ago, I was scrolling through Instagram. There's a picture

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Speaker 2: of Patrick Dempsey on there, and I started looking at

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Speaker 2: pictures because of his fashion, Like I'm trying to get

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Speaker 2: into this, like I want to be a little more fashionable,

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Speaker 2: not a lot, but I just want to start wearing

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Speaker 2: clothes that like feel like almost forty year old.

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Speaker 5: And but you're not still on the other side of thirty.

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Speaker 4: Oh wait, yeah, you're younger than me.

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Speaker 6: I'm like, wait, yeah, I feel like you are kind

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Speaker 6: of fashionable.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, look at the way you killed it this weekend.

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Speaker 5: That's our first question. And I was talking about fashion.

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Speaker 5: I think that's what inspired you, is it not?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it might be Anyways, that dude is good looking,

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Speaker 2: Like that dude is really attractive, Like there is not

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Speaker 2: a picture on his social media doing whatever that you're

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Speaker 2: not like that is a good looking fella.

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Speaker 4: I know he's just aging, Like fine, fine wine.

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Speaker 5: Is he hotter now than he was? Or is it

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Speaker 5: just like impressive that he was able to like stay

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Speaker 5: so hot.

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Speaker 4: So I I thought that that he was hotter than

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Speaker 4: he was, But then you watched the whole episodes and

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Speaker 4: you're like, ash, never mind, I saw this whole montage

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Speaker 4: of him from like different years.

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Speaker 5: Did you post that or did we just have the

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Speaker 5: same exact algorithms?

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Speaker 4: That makes sense. We have the same algorithms. That makes

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Speaker 4: very much sense to me. But yeah, I did see

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Speaker 4: some like around two thousand and I think like seventeen

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Speaker 4: where I was like, oh, yeah it was that was

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Speaker 4: a good time for him too.

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Speaker 2: His hairline, he just got good hair anyway, So we're

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Speaker 2: not here to talk about that. We're here to talk

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Speaker 2: about other good hairlines.

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Speaker 3: Which is deep.

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Speaker 6: You can talk about Patrick depcs.

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Speaker 5: A great hairline.

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Speaker 3: Don't like that.

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Speaker 5: Dean's hair is going to be there forever.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Deani's looking good. Okay, let's kick it off

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Speaker 2: with this the fashion of the weekend. We can start

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Speaker 2: now explaining the themes and kind of what Caitlin's vision

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Speaker 2: for this wedding was. I'm gonna set the stage for

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Speaker 2: what the weekend was though. We went to Meredith, Colorado,

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Speaker 2: which is a very small town. In fact, it's that

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Speaker 2: is about an hour away from Basalt, Colorado, which is

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Speaker 2: where Dean grew up. This lodge that we went to

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Speaker 2: was made into a camp. They called it camp Bell

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Speaker 2: because their new last name is Bell. So all of

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Speaker 2: similar to summer camp and I would say, what, there

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Speaker 2: the first day that we arrived, Kalin has planned camp games.

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Speaker 2: So they really wanted all their friends to meet each

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Speaker 2: planned camp games which included like water balloon tossces on

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Speaker 5: Right, flip cup? Total kid game.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well up with water with water so you could

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Speaker 2: I think Beca and myself were the two out of

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Speaker 5: Games, right, because Sonya and I wrote together.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because you guys came in a little later in

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Speaker 2: the day that day. Becca, I've always known you to

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Speaker 2: be competitive. Yeah, there was a side of myself that

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Speaker 2: came out during these games that I told myself, please

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Speaker 2: don't let it come out, like, don't show them that

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Speaker 2: you're crazy, and it still did.

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Speaker 4: Wow, I didn't see that for me, I missed it.

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Speaker 2: It was it was mostly when cheating started to happen.

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Speaker 2: I'm not a fan of cheating. Who cheated I there

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Speaker 2: there was not to name names, but there was somebody

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Speaker 2: who was also a part of the wedding. Whose team

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Speaker 2: uh during the the race where you spun around on

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Speaker 2: a baseball bat and then dizzy bat and ran to

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Speaker 2: the other side, that did not spend five times, they

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Speaker 2: spend spend less than five times.

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Speaker 4: Was that your wife?

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Speaker 3: It might have been. She did win. She's fast though.

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Speaker 2: Beca the camp games, I really did though, think you know,

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Speaker 2: these teams were all mixed, they're random draws. It really

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Speaker 2: did help us get to know some of the people

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Speaker 2: that are a part of Kailan and Dean's life, who

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Speaker 2: were not a part of bache Nation or that we've

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I also get so competitive, But I told myself

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Speaker 4: the same thing. I'm like, you know what, these all

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Speaker 4: this is coming from a good place. It's just a

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Speaker 4: And so when I got my team and I saw

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well he wasn't there. So it was like we

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Speaker 2: Mine mine, My team was all men. We had one

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Speaker 2: go into that again. This was just a setup. There

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Speaker 2: was one really amazing piece of games that I want

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Speaker 2: Your team did win one event? Right, Were you on

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Speaker 4: No? No, their team won.

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Speaker 3: Oh they won the whole thing.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, Haley plays flip cup, and I didn't know

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Speaker 3: It felt so good. It felt like it was.

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Speaker 2: Like like her sap, like her savages are like her her.

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Speaker 3: She connected with nature and all of a sudden she

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Speaker 4: It was asceral.

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Speaker 3: It was visceral is the word I'm looking for?

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Speaker 4: Yes, she So it was like a joke the whole

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Speaker 4: World Series. That directly from her and I was like,

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Speaker 4: oh wow, Like I didn't know that would mean so much,

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Speaker 4: did she? Like I never got chosen to play like

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Speaker 4: So it was like a huge moment. It was deep rooted,

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Speaker 4: But she was on cloud nine from that moment the

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Speaker 2: I really think it set a vibe for the whole games. Then,

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Speaker 2: like she just had. Yeah, because that was crazy like

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Speaker 2: that was like that, it was visceral, like something came

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Speaker 3: It was like, let's go. Then her team won the

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Speaker 2: We'll flash forward then because the games ended, and then

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Speaker 2: have very strong like we have a lot of opinions

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Speaker 2: on and about the fashion. The theme for that evening's party,

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Speaker 2: the reception or the rehearsal dinner was Mountain Chic. All

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Speaker 5: No, okay, we all are like, I guess we'll throw

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Speaker 5: you were the one that's like, I have a full

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Speaker 3: I felt very at home.

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Speaker 5: You really good too, Like you just think you presented

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Speaker 5: yourself like you were in your most confident attire.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I felt good. I think that matters.

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Speaker 2: Jessica said, I look good, which is obviously also it matters. Okay,

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Speaker 2: so let me ask you this then, if you didn't

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Speaker 2: when you heard Mountain Chic or when you saw mountain

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Speaker 2: like I traditionally don't throw on a cowboy heyp, but

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Speaker 2: I wear a lot of cowboy boots with jeans. That's

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Speaker 2: a good look, and I can wear.

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Speaker 5: Them with seeing you in cowboy boots. But I'm sure

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Speaker 5: it looks good and I don't deny that you wear

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I mean I don't like wear them to

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Speaker 2: iheartfest exactly what I'm pulling out. But if I'm out here,

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Speaker 2: that's not like abnormal for me. So for you all,

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Speaker 2: where did your mind go?

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Speaker 4: Go? Ahead? Tonya?

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Speaker 1: My mind went to panic because if you could describe

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Speaker 1: the opposite of my style, I feel like it would

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Speaker 1: be mountain cheek. So I was like, what does one wear?

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Speaker 1: I needed inspiration boards. I'd never owned a pair of

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Speaker 1: So I went a little panicky, but.

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Speaker 6: Got it done. I feel like you crushed it. Thank you,

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Speaker 6: So much.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so I dropped Ason off in Virginia for my

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Speaker 5: I have something. I have something fun.

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Speaker 5: You don't even know that you're sitting around with three

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Speaker 5: Because it was like we were all in direct competition.

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Speaker 5: For it. Actually it was all not secretive to him,

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Speaker 1: There was like a moment, remember no, oh you were

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Speaker 6: Yeah, because it was a iHeart festival.

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Speaker 4: No I was never because well the one we're talking

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Speaker 5: We're like fresh off the show right after Rachel season.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, I'm glad.

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Speaker 2: I'm glad that was brought up, because I do remember

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Speaker 3: We don't have to go to the details.

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Speaker 2: So to come back then to what this wedding is.

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Speaker 2: The interesting point here is Tanya, who we obviously have

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Speaker 3: But like, yeah, at one point in time. I really thought,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was actually funny. I brought my fiancee to

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Speaker 4: Yeah. It is a lot of cross cross contamination and

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Speaker 4: To have been, you could have been, and we could

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Speaker 3: Nobody here knows this yet. Becca. This is about you personally,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I should not have said that. That was

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Speaker 2: I really was excited to see Haley and not like

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00:19:54,840 --> 00:19:56,720
Speaker 2: I never went into seeing her being like, hey, let

446
00:19:56,720 --> 00:19:58,840
Speaker 2: me say something that's really gonna like make her mad

447
00:19:58,840 --> 00:20:01,600
Speaker 2: at me for the next twenty four hours. And Wells

448
00:20:01,720 --> 00:20:04,280
Speaker 2: like talking off of a ledge. But he's also like, yeah,

449
00:20:04,320 --> 00:20:06,840
Speaker 2: we all have to remember that, like that, those jokes

450
00:20:06,880 --> 00:20:09,880
Speaker 2: that we say in our weird little family, they don't

451
00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:11,080
Speaker 2: work for everybody.

452
00:20:12,520 --> 00:20:16,919
Speaker 4: Well, I was telling her like after the fact we

453
00:20:16,920 --> 00:20:19,000
Speaker 4: were talking about we were like laughing about all the

454
00:20:19,040 --> 00:20:21,639
Speaker 4: crossover of everyone at the wedding.

455
00:20:23,240 --> 00:20:26,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, what does that mean?

456
00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:27,840
Speaker 4: Is this what you.

457
00:20:29,400 --> 00:20:32,120
Speaker 6: What it does?

458
00:20:31,840 --> 00:20:34,639
Speaker 5: He just goes to the bathroom thinks we should just

459
00:20:34,640 --> 00:20:41,200
Speaker 5: continue to told this week.

460
00:20:42,880 --> 00:20:49,760
Speaker 4: It's not like we were talking and he got here arrangement.

461
00:20:52,359 --> 00:20:54,280
Speaker 4: He just brought it an edible arrangement.

462
00:20:55,600 --> 00:20:57,040
Speaker 5: I almost want to keep this in.

463
00:20:57,119 --> 00:21:00,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, you have to keep I'm sorry that just gets

464
00:21:00,400 --> 00:21:01,920
Speaker 1: up mid sentence and just.

465
00:21:02,400 --> 00:21:06,080
Speaker 5: Tell us you want to start telling the story.

466
00:21:06,560 --> 00:21:09,360
Speaker 6: I'm just telling him.

467
00:21:09,960 --> 00:21:14,240
Speaker 2: Then you started that conversation, well, really nice, a really

468
00:21:14,320 --> 00:21:16,359
Speaker 2: nice old man just came the door with an edible arrangement.

469
00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:17,080
Speaker 3: I'm like, I can't make this.

470
00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:19,040
Speaker 6: Leave it at the door.

471
00:21:19,280 --> 00:21:22,240
Speaker 3: It's not even for me, it's for my neighbors. Get home.

472
00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:24,600
Speaker 4: I don't know, arrangement won't let you leave it. Someone

473
00:21:24,640 --> 00:21:28,520
Speaker 4: else is sign I've gone through this, so it's for

474
00:21:28,640 --> 00:21:29,200
Speaker 4: my neighbors.

475
00:21:29,200 --> 00:21:30,480
Speaker 3: He's like, hey, do you know him? Can you drop

476
00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:31,879
Speaker 3: it off? I'm like, I kind of know, I don't know.

477
00:21:32,520 --> 00:21:35,400
Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, wait, this is so interesting.

478
00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:37,600
Speaker 4: No. So I was telling Haley, I was like, I know,

479
00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:40,760
Speaker 4: it's so it's probably so weird for you because we

480
00:21:40,840 --> 00:21:45,480
Speaker 4: all just think of it, like I don't consider you

481
00:21:45,640 --> 00:21:48,040
Speaker 4: an ex, Like I just think of you as like

482
00:21:48,160 --> 00:21:51,480
Speaker 4: my good friend. We went we had this crazy experience together.

483
00:21:51,520 --> 00:21:54,080
Speaker 4: But I'm not like, oh, Ben's my ex and so halu.

484
00:21:54,119 --> 00:21:55,760
Speaker 4: But you know, we're going to this thing where your

485
00:21:55,760 --> 00:21:59,440
Speaker 4: exers are there, and I'm like, I don't really think

486
00:21:59,520 --> 00:22:01,639
Speaker 4: of it as that as much as I think, like,

487
00:22:01,720 --> 00:22:04,200
Speaker 4: we went on this show together, we try to make

488
00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:09,480
Speaker 4: it work. It didn't work out, but like iru, okay,

489
00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:14,960
Speaker 4: but explore it was a monogamous relationship.

490
00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:16,600
Speaker 5: If you had gone on a date in real life,

491
00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:19,640
Speaker 5: would have admite it more awkward? No, I don't guys

492
00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:21,359
Speaker 5: ever went on a date in real life.

493
00:22:21,560 --> 00:22:24,080
Speaker 4: If she went on two dates, like that's basically what

494
00:22:24,119 --> 00:22:26,320
Speaker 4: I did with Ben. I went on two one on

495
00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:29,600
Speaker 4: one days. I think, yeah, and then she we went

496
00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:31,239
Speaker 4: to an event and that person was there and they

497
00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:32,840
Speaker 4: had just made out a couple times. I don't know

498
00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:36,199
Speaker 4: that I would be like, I'm uncomfortable, you know. So

499
00:22:36,280 --> 00:22:38,960
Speaker 4: I tried to just say it in that way, and

500
00:22:39,000 --> 00:22:41,000
Speaker 4: I'm like, I know, it's weird because we talk about

501
00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:46,520
Speaker 4: it so casually and like flippantly, So you know, I

502
00:22:46,560 --> 00:22:50,639
Speaker 4: think I just when when she's in those situations, I

503
00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:52,439
Speaker 4: just have to make sure to be like hey, like

504
00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:54,680
Speaker 4: you know, grab her hand or just like let her

505
00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:57,040
Speaker 4: know like where it's all good. But I think she was.

506
00:22:57,320 --> 00:23:01,240
Speaker 4: I don't think she was ever in a position where

507
00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:04,280
Speaker 4: she felt anything where you would need to have anxiety

508
00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:04,719
Speaker 4: about it.

509
00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:09,080
Speaker 2: Well, I think my point is by and I guess

510
00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:12,119
Speaker 2: we probably all could get a little more careful in

511
00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:15,480
Speaker 2: social situations who people with people that probably are not

512
00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:19,920
Speaker 2: familiar or comfortable with that because if your partner who

513
00:23:19,920 --> 00:23:24,280
Speaker 2: obviously cares about you, All of us has any type

514
00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:27,760
Speaker 2: of like not jealousy, but just like it's weird, right,

515
00:23:27,760 --> 00:23:31,560
Speaker 2: you don't want to be surrounded by your your partner

516
00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:34,439
Speaker 2: who you loves, other people that they've dated in their life.

517
00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:38,119
Speaker 2: I guess how I see it. When I see like

518
00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:40,399
Speaker 2: all of these people who are part of the show

519
00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:42,920
Speaker 2: or that we've had crossover with or we've tried to

520
00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:45,600
Speaker 2: pursue dates with, It's like we did that because of this,

521
00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:49,600
Speaker 2: like not only attraction of like hey, you're a beautiful person,

522
00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:52,959
Speaker 2: but like respect of hey, I think you're somebody that

523
00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:56,160
Speaker 2: would be like worth pursuing in my life.

524
00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:57,520
Speaker 3: Or at least figuring out if it works or not.

525
00:23:57,600 --> 00:24:01,760
Speaker 2: And for me, that is a compliment more than anything else, Like, hey,

526
00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:04,240
Speaker 2: I like who you are as a person. We are

527
00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:07,320
Speaker 2: obviously not going to work out romantically, but I would

528
00:24:07,359 --> 00:24:10,159
Speaker 2: hope that Jessica would like come to an event and

529
00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:11,760
Speaker 2: see a bunch of people that have dated I mean

530
00:24:11,760 --> 00:24:13,360
Speaker 2: like at this some point in their life, Like they

531
00:24:13,359 --> 00:24:16,560
Speaker 2: at least thought enough of my like now husband to

532
00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:18,440
Speaker 2: like want to pursue him for marriage. Now I didn't

533
00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:20,760
Speaker 2: work out for them, but at least they thought highly

534
00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:23,160
Speaker 2: of him, Like at least they said yes to a date.

535
00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:26,879
Speaker 5: To play Devil's Advocate. It's the attraction that makes it

536
00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:29,399
Speaker 5: awkward though. It's not the respect. It's the fact that,

537
00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:31,720
Speaker 5: like they thought they were hot enough to make out

538
00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:32,240
Speaker 5: with them.

539
00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:33,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, that could be, and so.

540
00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:36,680
Speaker 5: That probably hasn't changed. They still probably think they're pretty hot.

541
00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:38,600
Speaker 1: Wait, I need to know, Ben, did you come back

542
00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:40,719
Speaker 1: from that spiral? So like you said that and then

543
00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:42,680
Speaker 1: like went into a corner, talked to walls for an hour,

544
00:24:42,840 --> 00:24:44,040
Speaker 1: and then like, how did you come.

545
00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:44,399
Speaker 6: Back from that?

546
00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:46,480
Speaker 2: You know, it's interesting, Okay, so this is the question

547
00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:48,320
Speaker 2: I was going to ask coming up. So then I

548
00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:52,280
Speaker 2: sit next to Becka and Haley the next morning at breakfast,

549
00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:56,640
Speaker 2: and Haley, I think, comes in and mentions that, hey,

550
00:24:56,680 --> 00:24:59,000
Speaker 2: she has a lot of social like Becka and Haley,

551
00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:00,960
Speaker 2: but I think we're both talking about like after a

552
00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:04,280
Speaker 2: lot of social interaction with people for long periods of time,

553
00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:07,160
Speaker 2: you can oftentimes wake up the next morning and have

554
00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:09,800
Speaker 2: this like uh, you guys put a good word to it, Beca,

555
00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:12,960
Speaker 2: but like this like social like anxiety like why did

556
00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:14,960
Speaker 2: I say that? Or what did why did I do that?

557
00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:17,359
Speaker 2: And that at that at that moment, and so I

558
00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:20,199
Speaker 2: was still carrying that. I would say i'd still care today,

559
00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:22,080
Speaker 2: but they're the ones that bring it up about there.

560
00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:25,520
Speaker 2: They're separate like communications with people, and they explained it

561
00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:27,200
Speaker 2: and it made me feel a little bit better because

562
00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:29,680
Speaker 2: it's like, Okay, yes, all of us have said something

563
00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:32,400
Speaker 2: stupid in the last twelve hours of being around each other,

564
00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:35,159
Speaker 2: Like I'm not alone in that, and so maybe we

565
00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:37,159
Speaker 2: can just all forgive each other for saying something that

566
00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:38,600
Speaker 2: made somebody else feel uncomfortable.

567
00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:43,080
Speaker 4: I woke up this morning and was like did I

568
00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:44,800
Speaker 4: In my mind, like I was like, no one likes

569
00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:47,119
Speaker 4: me from the weekend, Like I had all of like

570
00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:52,959
Speaker 4: mental anxiety situation where I was like did I. I

571
00:25:53,080 --> 00:25:55,639
Speaker 4: just was going away. We had a nice single conversation.

572
00:25:55,720 --> 00:25:57,760
Speaker 1: We had it yesterday because we were like making a

573
00:25:57,840 --> 00:26:00,360
Speaker 1: joke about like our cabin and sharing a bath room,

574
00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:01,720
Speaker 1: like as like a joke and like.

575
00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:04,120
Speaker 4: It's like a bit from the podcast, you know, and I.

576
00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:04,880
Speaker 6: Feel I felt bad.

577
00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:06,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, I hope Caitlin doesn't think that we're like

578
00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:10,439
Speaker 1: actually upset about the yeah, because like we're not at all.

579
00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:12,120
Speaker 1: And I loved it, but then like I just felt

580
00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:13,760
Speaker 1: really bad. I was like I hope she knows that,

581
00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:15,159
Speaker 1: like we're totally joking.

582
00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:16,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, So I went through that spiral.

583
00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:18,919
Speaker 2: I got on I got on Today's podcast with Ashley.

584
00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:20,040
Speaker 2: I said, hey, do you hate me?

585
00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:22,280
Speaker 3: Like after did I do something?

586
00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:24,199
Speaker 5: She was like, are you still mad at me? And

587
00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:26,040
Speaker 5: I was like, wait a second, mad at you?

588
00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:26,400
Speaker 3: About?

589
00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:26,600
Speaker 5: What?

590
00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:26,920
Speaker 2: Did it?

591
00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:27,600
Speaker 5: What?

592
00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:29,040
Speaker 2: I was like, I was just checking in, just like

593
00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:30,800
Speaker 2: if you were mad at me, you had free space

594
00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:32,720
Speaker 2: to tell me right now because.

595
00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:34,159
Speaker 3: I don't know.

596
00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:37,280
Speaker 2: I think we're all super weird. Uh So a bunch

597
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:40,520
Speaker 2: of weirdo show up to the mountains together and here's

598
00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:43,520
Speaker 2: here's like how this scenario plays out. We are in cabins,

599
00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:45,960
Speaker 2: we are together with no cell phone service. We spend

600
00:26:46,040 --> 00:26:47,639
Speaker 2: a lot of time with each other this weekend.

601
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:49,880
Speaker 3: Yeah it was and.

602
00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:54,080
Speaker 2: For me it was a very sacred experience because I

603
00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:56,600
Speaker 2: just don't get to do that with you people like

604
00:26:56,880 --> 00:26:58,720
Speaker 2: and we also don't have to do it without cell

605
00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:01,560
Speaker 2: phones or other people pulling at your attention or one

606
00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:04,520
Speaker 2: of us going to do an interview. There was games,

607
00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:07,920
Speaker 2: like a lot of like like chess and card games

608
00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:09,879
Speaker 2: and fish bowl.

609
00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:13,160
Speaker 5: Which saw how to play, which is great because I'm

610
00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:14,840
Speaker 5: not a game person. But that was a pretty great game.

611
00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:16,880
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's a really great game and we.

612
00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:18,920
Speaker 5: Won our team. You guys, all of us were on

613
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:28,400
Speaker 5: one team absolutely.

614
00:27:24,119 --> 00:27:37,120
Speaker 2: Destroyed, and so there was a lot of that. There

615
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:42,040
Speaker 2: was like you know, communal breakfasts. Obviously, we had the

616
00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:45,120
Speaker 2: rehearsal dinner that was absolutely beautiful.

617
00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:49,480
Speaker 3: It was outside. Ashley and I kind of made uh.

618
00:27:49,600 --> 00:27:51,240
Speaker 2: We talked about it on our first show as a

619
00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:55,280
Speaker 2: kind of entering into this one that everybody's very nervous

620
00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:58,359
Speaker 2: about the cold and very nervous about animals. Now, I

621
00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:03,040
Speaker 2: don't think any of us this week saw a bear, right, No, no, no,

622
00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:04,719
Speaker 2: are we sad about that?

623
00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:05,040
Speaker 3: Now?

624
00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:07,200
Speaker 5: I would have seen a bear. I would have been cool.

625
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:08,240
Speaker 5: I would have seen a bear.

626
00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:11,960
Speaker 4: Like if I was like in a safe space, I

627
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:15,479
Speaker 4: think that would have been cool. But the biggest animal

628
00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:18,120
Speaker 4: that cast fear was Alistair, Dean and Kaylen's dog.

629
00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:22,919
Speaker 5: They removed Alistair's teeth because it has such a biting problem.

630
00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:26,800
Speaker 4: He still made a mark on someone's hand and he

631
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:30,720
Speaker 4: chased me on two feet. He chased me, tried to

632
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:32,760
Speaker 4: pet him and I didn't know. So I go to

633
00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:34,960
Speaker 4: pet him and he snaps at me, which I was like,

634
00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:37,080
Speaker 4: oh my gosh, and then he starts running after me,

635
00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:42,600
Speaker 4: like on his back legs. My bear fear immediately was

636
00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:43,360
Speaker 4: replaced by the.

637
00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:47,080
Speaker 1: Only fear that was caused was by Ben because he's

638
00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:50,200
Speaker 1: like this alarmist texting us all days before the wedding,

639
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:52,440
Speaker 1: saying like, oh, just make sure that you don't eat

640
00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:54,360
Speaker 1: a Snickers bar before the wedding, And I'm like, I

641
00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:57,040
Speaker 1: just made my homemade snickers literally last night, and I'm

642
00:28:57,040 --> 00:28:58,680
Speaker 1: panicking that a bear is gonna like swallow me.

643
00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:00,480
Speaker 6: I didn't pack perfume because you said.

644
00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:02,560
Speaker 1: This, Like I didn't want to, Like, I didn't want

645
00:29:02,560 --> 00:29:04,200
Speaker 1: to have the nice sweets in the cabin to.

646
00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:06,520
Speaker 6: Allure the bears. Like I was so panning.

647
00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:09,719
Speaker 4: They don't like fake snickers, they only like the real thing.

648
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, your healthy snickers.

649
00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:13,120
Speaker 4: Yeah.

650
00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:18,000
Speaker 3: And I made this half joking but half also being serious.

651
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:19,360
Speaker 3: It was going to be really cold at night.

652
00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:22,600
Speaker 2: And also, please make sure you don't keep your treats

653
00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:24,280
Speaker 2: outside your cabin because if you want to see a bear,

654
00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:29,040
Speaker 2: just leave something food related outside of your cabin. And

655
00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:30,840
Speaker 2: I bet in the morning it's no longer going to

656
00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:34,800
Speaker 2: be there. But nobody saw a bear. Nobody had any issues.

657
00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:36,280
Speaker 6: The best part is.

658
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:38,880
Speaker 1: Haley comes walking into the room on Saturday night and

659
00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:45,680
Speaker 1: she was like, you guys, a mouse pooped in my suitcase. Yeah,

660
00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:47,320
Speaker 1: so we're all like, great, there's a mouse in our

661
00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:49,240
Speaker 1: cabin and it's pooped in Haley's.

662
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:51,160
Speaker 4: Suitcares poop dropping, she says.

663
00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:53,600
Speaker 1: So I go, let me see these poop droppings. I

664
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:56,640
Speaker 1: waddle on into their room. I'm like, where are they?

665
00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:57,720
Speaker 1: She points in the corner of.

666
00:29:57,640 --> 00:29:58,600
Speaker 5: Her superais nuts.

667
00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:00,480
Speaker 6: I get it.

668
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:02,680
Speaker 1: Kleenex to like investigate because I'm like, I don't believe

669
00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:03,960
Speaker 1: that it's rhinestones.

670
00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:11,040
Speaker 4: The whole cabin's mood shifted because we were like, oh my god,

671
00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:14,480
Speaker 4: there's a round. Yeah, we're pack and like move around,

672
00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:17,360
Speaker 4: and luckily Tanya was brave enough to go in there

673
00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:19,880
Speaker 4: and check it out and some rhinestones.

674
00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:20,560
Speaker 6: Yeah.

675
00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:24,320
Speaker 2: And to give credit to this whole venue, uh, it

676
00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:26,760
Speaker 2: was so nice, like the cabins, the log cabins that

677
00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:28,840
Speaker 2: we stayed in, it was beautiful. The main cabin was

678
00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:33,880
Speaker 2: absolutely gorgeous. Yeah, a lot of good firetime. Very possible

679
00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:35,640
Speaker 2: that mice could get into these cabins. They it was

680
00:30:35,680 --> 00:30:39,120
Speaker 2: a very rustic experience. This was like I could tell

681
00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:42,120
Speaker 2: personally that this was a wedding plan by Kaelin but

682
00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:44,600
Speaker 2: had a lot of influence by Dean and what she

683
00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:48,120
Speaker 2: thought he would want for a wedding because it felt

684
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:51,040
Speaker 2: like and in fact, when we were pulling up, Wells

685
00:30:51,240 --> 00:30:52,880
Speaker 2: was in the car with me and he's like, this

686
00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:55,200
Speaker 2: place feels just like deep, Like it just feels like

687
00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 2: deep and it.

688
00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:58,960
Speaker 3: Did I know it?

689
00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:02,240
Speaker 5: It was even pretty aside beyond yeah.

690
00:31:02,320 --> 00:31:05,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was like such a beautiful combination of both

691
00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:08,160
Speaker 4: of their personalities and styles, Like she made it this

692
00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:12,240
Speaker 4: dream wedding in this place that felt comfortable and safe

693
00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:14,600
Speaker 4: to him. I feel like it was just like really

694
00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:17,640
Speaker 4: it was. I couldn't stop talking about it everyone. I've

695
00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:19,200
Speaker 4: told him like that was the coolest thing. And I

696
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:22,320
Speaker 4: was so happy we were all there together. Like we left,

697
00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:23,880
Speaker 4: like on the drive to Denver, and we were like

698
00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:26,120
Speaker 4: we obviously had so much one with Tanya and Robbie.

699
00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:27,720
Speaker 4: We spend a lot of time with them, and we

700
00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:29,920
Speaker 4: just like loved hanging out with both of you and

701
00:31:29,960 --> 00:31:30,640
Speaker 4: your partners.

702
00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:34,040
Speaker 5: You know. I get so like emotional just thinking about

703
00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:37,160
Speaker 5: like how blessed we are to like found these friendships

704
00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:41,480
Speaker 5: from the show, because like I don't there are few

705
00:31:41,520 --> 00:31:44,240
Speaker 5: groups of people that like I have that we can

706
00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:46,720
Speaker 5: like get together as groups and have like that kind

707
00:31:46,760 --> 00:31:49,000
Speaker 5: of camaraderie even though we only see each other like

708
00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:51,800
Speaker 5: a couple times a year, and it's just so nice.

709
00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:54,040
Speaker 5: And I really get mushy about it, like every single

710
00:31:54,080 --> 00:31:56,880
Speaker 5: time because I'm so thankful for her because I never

711
00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:58,880
Speaker 5: had that like group of friends.

712
00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:02,920
Speaker 4: It's really special to have that as adults and to

713
00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:04,800
Speaker 4: be able to like, like, we don't get to see

714
00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:07,200
Speaker 4: each other a lot because we all live in different places,

715
00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:10,160
Speaker 4: but when we do, it is so special and fun

716
00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:13,520
Speaker 4: and like easy to just like z catch back up

717
00:32:13,600 --> 00:32:16,760
Speaker 4: and I think, Hailey, I know that Jared. I wasn't

718
00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:18,760
Speaker 4: sitting there, but Jared, I guess said something that like

719
00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:24,960
Speaker 4: really impacted her about something that she's working on. Yeah,

720
00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:27,400
Speaker 4: she sat next to Robbie and he made her cry,

721
00:32:27,480 --> 00:32:29,880
Speaker 4: and I was like, it's just cool being surrounded by

722
00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:32,880
Speaker 4: these people that, like I love so much and who

723
00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:36,200
Speaker 4: have taken her in and like are such an encouragement

724
00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:39,360
Speaker 4: to her. It's just it's it was just really special.

725
00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:47,040
Speaker 4: Been My favorite video of the weekend is you start

726
00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:49,760
Speaker 4: a dance and then I'm gonna post it. Hailey joins

727
00:32:49,800 --> 00:32:52,360
Speaker 4: in and it like starts like men, Tanya joins in

728
00:32:52,440 --> 00:32:55,240
Speaker 4: and then Debbie joins in. It's like a mini flash mob.

729
00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:56,640
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's really cute.

730
00:32:57,160 --> 00:32:58,840
Speaker 5: I was gonna say, what's nice is that? Like we

731
00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:01,960
Speaker 5: were all friends, like I'd want to say, like at

732
00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 5: least six years ago, and then well, Jared was obviously

733
00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:08,400
Speaker 5: part of this, but then like you three found somebody

734
00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:12,520
Speaker 5: else and like your spouses basically I'm just gonna go

735
00:33:12,800 --> 00:33:17,959
Speaker 5: significant others basically just like integrated so well, and like

736
00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:19,640
Speaker 5: now like we have like a friend grim and used

737
00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:22,240
Speaker 5: to like love everyone so much and like everybody just jealous.

738
00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:22,920
Speaker 5: It's nice.

739
00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:24,800
Speaker 6: Yeah, it is so nice.

740
00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:27,080
Speaker 1: I felt like that too, Like I was like that,

741
00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:29,720
Speaker 1: you know what we we the four of us would

742
00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:32,040
Speaker 1: have never shared a cabin, Like if we let's just

743
00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:33,240
Speaker 1: say it was like free for all and there was

744
00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:35,080
Speaker 1: rooms available, we would we would have gone our own

745
00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:36,800
Speaker 1: separate rooms. And I'm like, and I thought it was

746
00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:39,479
Speaker 1: so special that we got to like do our makeup

747
00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:41,600
Speaker 1: together and like wake up together, Like I felt like

748
00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:44,360
Speaker 1: I was in college again and I love that so much.

749
00:33:44,440 --> 00:33:46,800
Speaker 1: And like because we didn't have cell service, so we

750
00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:48,479
Speaker 1: would just like walk to the main cabin and whoever

751
00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:50,680
Speaker 1: was out there doing whatever. We would just like join in,

752
00:33:50,800 --> 00:33:53,720
Speaker 1: go on hikes, go fishing, like, and everybody just was

753
00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:56,160
Speaker 1: so open and welcoming to everybody.

754
00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:57,840
Speaker 6: It was just like such a nice feeling.

755
00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:01,680
Speaker 4: But how is how does just handle those situations? Because

756
00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:03,720
Speaker 4: we were talking about that earlier and she's been in

757
00:34:03,760 --> 00:34:05,760
Speaker 4: it a little bit longer and been around it probably

758
00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:08,080
Speaker 4: more than even Haley has. But how does she handle

759
00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:14,360
Speaker 4: like just the like kind of the weird Bachelor camaradery.

760
00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:21,480
Speaker 2: It's weird for her. Uh, I think it's odd. It's

761
00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:23,960
Speaker 2: only been odd a few times when it feels like

762
00:34:24,480 --> 00:34:29,239
Speaker 2: the people she meets from the franchise don't accept her

763
00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:31,920
Speaker 2: in which does happen? And I feel it even in

764
00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:34,160
Speaker 2: some of these Bachelor groups right where you're like it's

765
00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:37,640
Speaker 2: very clicky in some levels. I think the people that

766
00:34:37,719 --> 00:34:40,840
Speaker 2: obviously she gets excited to see are are people that

767
00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:43,000
Speaker 2: when you could assume she gets excited to see, and

768
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:45,960
Speaker 2: then obviously the people that she has been around and

769
00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:48,879
Speaker 2: wanted to be around more. And it was also why

770
00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:51,000
Speaker 2: when we were going up there, I sent the text

771
00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:52,640
Speaker 2: to you know, the group and I said, Jess, it

772
00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:54,560
Speaker 2: is really excited to see you guys because we were

773
00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:56,600
Speaker 2: talking about it, and like that's a big feeling for

774
00:34:56,719 --> 00:35:00,359
Speaker 2: me when she's excited to be around the people from

775
00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:02,600
Speaker 2: this franchise. Because the show has very little impact on

776
00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:05,200
Speaker 2: our relationship. It does not get talked about, does not

777
00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:09,120
Speaker 2: get brought up. She doesn't really watch the show at all,

778
00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:11,160
Speaker 2: and so it's just like we don't have to like

779
00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:14,200
Speaker 2: to cross that line very often, but when we do,

780
00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:16,279
Speaker 2: it feels really good for me to bring that part

781
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:18,120
Speaker 2: of my life into now this new season of my

782
00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:20,359
Speaker 2: life and feel like I don't have to leave one

783
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:22,440
Speaker 2: of them behind, Like it feels like they both kind

784
00:35:22,440 --> 00:35:24,480
Speaker 2: of grew up together, and you guys have always I

785
00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:26,600
Speaker 2: mean I told Tanya, I'm beck I told you this

786
00:35:26,719 --> 00:35:28,759
Speaker 2: years ago when she first met you, and she's known

787
00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:31,799
Speaker 2: Ashley for longer, but like, you guys are just so

788
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:33,840
Speaker 2: sweet to her that first time at Iheartfest, when it

789
00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:37,600
Speaker 2: was her first time having any public appearance ever, like

790
00:35:37,640 --> 00:35:39,600
Speaker 2: she's never been like on a red carpet. All of

791
00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:41,359
Speaker 2: a sudden, she finds herself an Iheartfest on a red

792
00:35:41,400 --> 00:35:44,160
Speaker 2: carpet and she's like, I'm so nervous and like this

793
00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:46,479
Speaker 2: isn't like something I'm used to And you guys brought

794
00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:49,040
Speaker 2: her in and made her feel very welcome of that,

795
00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:51,160
Speaker 2: and I think ever since then, there's a safety there

796
00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:53,799
Speaker 2: when it comes to the comments like I made, which

797
00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:57,200
Speaker 2: I do think is is just inappropriate and I should

798
00:35:57,200 --> 00:35:59,520
Speaker 2: be more careful of those things because I don't think

799
00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:01,720
Speaker 2: we can throw around as flippantly as we get older.

800
00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:07,319
Speaker 2: I just I don't think she hears it. I don't

801
00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:09,560
Speaker 2: think people are saying it to her very often. And

802
00:36:09,640 --> 00:36:11,359
Speaker 2: also when she would hear it, she's just like, Yeah,

803
00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:12,880
Speaker 2: that was just a weird time in his life. Like

804
00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:16,120
Speaker 2: I don't like, there's not like a you know, we

805
00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:17,799
Speaker 2: got married for a reason, we're together for a reason.

806
00:36:17,840 --> 00:36:19,719
Speaker 2: I think as you're together longer that kind of phase,

807
00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:22,520
Speaker 2: you're like, no, he's he's not looking to do that again,

808
00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:26,240
Speaker 2: Like he's very you know, like that's it's just a season.

809
00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:30,360
Speaker 5: But Ben, like has has Jess ever had a crush

810
00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:30,719
Speaker 5: on Dan?

811
00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:34,560
Speaker 2: I don't know if she would have even known who

812
00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:36,840
Speaker 2: he was until we got together, but I bet she

813
00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:37,200
Speaker 2: would have.

814
00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:41,279
Speaker 3: Who does it? Just wanted to know.

815
00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:43,080
Speaker 5: She could like be welcomed into this club.

816
00:36:43,160 --> 00:36:51,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, so we are going to go through some Yeah,

817
00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:52,360
Speaker 2: so we're gonna go through some details.

818
00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:53,120
Speaker 3: So here's what I'm gonna do.

819
00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:56,040
Speaker 2: I'm gonna lead the headline of like what stood out

820
00:36:56,080 --> 00:36:58,160
Speaker 2: from the weekend, you all comment on. It will race

821
00:36:58,200 --> 00:37:01,319
Speaker 2: through these pretty quick. Obviously we've already touched on the

822
00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:04,120
Speaker 2: rehearsal dinner. That evening, we played games and had a blast.

823
00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:07,319
Speaker 2: People stayed up super late. Some people are up till

824
00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:10,600
Speaker 2: four am. It was wild. The next day starts out

825
00:37:10,719 --> 00:37:12,719
Speaker 2: very slowly for most people. I think it was a

826
00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:16,600
Speaker 2: very slow start. This lodge that we said it did

827
00:37:16,600 --> 00:37:19,719
Speaker 2: have a cold plunge. I did it for both mornings.

828
00:37:20,040 --> 00:37:22,879
Speaker 2: It was the only thing that kept me going that day.

829
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:26,200
Speaker 2: Some of that tivisa all of us did. We went fishing,

830
00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:29,680
Speaker 2: caught some salmon, some of our spouses caught some salmon.

831
00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:34,160
Speaker 2: Some of our friends caught salmon. As we watched it, right,

832
00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:35,760
Speaker 2: Robbie caught a salmon.

833
00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:39,520
Speaker 6: Ye first fish ever, felt so yeah, that's adorable.

834
00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:41,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, So we got to stand out there as he

835
00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:43,319
Speaker 2: pulled up, and I mean the dude took it off

836
00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:44,840
Speaker 2: the hook. Like a lot of people just are like

837
00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:47,160
Speaker 2: weirded out by that. He just grabbed it, took it

838
00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:52,759
Speaker 2: off the hook. So let's go, Josh Dunn, who is

839
00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:54,520
Speaker 2: married to Debbie Ryan.

840
00:37:54,719 --> 00:37:56,320
Speaker 3: He caught a salmon when we were staying there was

841
00:37:56,719 --> 00:37:57,040
Speaker 3: that was.

842
00:37:57,040 --> 00:38:00,640
Speaker 2: A blast, and it was like one of my favorite

843
00:38:00,719 --> 00:38:02,760
Speaker 2: times of the whole weekend because it was very peaceful.

844
00:38:02,960 --> 00:38:06,120
Speaker 2: We're all just down there casting a line, hanging out.

845
00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:08,960
Speaker 2: Then it's time to get ready, obviously for the wedding,

846
00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:12,760
Speaker 2: wedding ceremony. I'll just let you guys kind of explain

847
00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:16,040
Speaker 2: it with your own words, because I think that was

848
00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:18,440
Speaker 2: the next step, right. We all got ready in these cabins.

849
00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:21,800
Speaker 2: We all walk out for this wedding about fifty yards

850
00:38:21,800 --> 00:38:25,520
Speaker 2: maybe from where we're staying in the middle of the mountains.

851
00:38:26,120 --> 00:38:28,800
Speaker 5: M So you guys can talk about my reaction.

852
00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:32,840
Speaker 6: I should post that video. I got video of Ashley

853
00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:35,839
Speaker 6: just a hey.

854
00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:39,480
Speaker 4: It was the most beautiful setup because it was just

855
00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:41,919
Speaker 4: like in the trees, the wind was blowing, the sun

856
00:38:42,040 --> 00:38:44,399
Speaker 4: was shining. We were all facing the.

857
00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:46,360
Speaker 6: Aisle, which is I've never seen that before.

858
00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:49,640
Speaker 5: I've seen it, Like, I start emotional before anyone walked

859
00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:51,120
Speaker 5: on the aisle. I was like, you, guys, I don't know.

860
00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:54,359
Speaker 5: I'm sitting here and like looking at these sedunding white

861
00:38:54,440 --> 00:38:59,080
Speaker 5: roses and I'm my eyes were welling up and like

862
00:38:59,120 --> 00:39:03,120
Speaker 5: my throat was all before there was anyone in part

863
00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:03,800
Speaker 5: of the ceremony.

864
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:06,040
Speaker 1: I've never seen the wedding set like set up like

865
00:39:06,080 --> 00:39:08,480
Speaker 1: that where the chairs are all facing towards the aisle.

866
00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:12,600
Speaker 4: I've just seen like Instagram and spow wedding videos.

867
00:39:12,640 --> 00:39:13,360
Speaker 3: But it was.

868
00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:23,600
Speaker 4: And Ashley, you said something because they played yeah, it's

869
00:39:23,640 --> 00:39:27,480
Speaker 4: a thing at all, Yeah, And we were taking photos

870
00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:28,759
Speaker 4: when we heard it playing, and I was like, oh

871
00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:31,400
Speaker 4: my gosh, this song is so beautiful, and then you

872
00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:33,879
Speaker 4: posted about it. But it was just the whole thing

873
00:39:33,920 --> 00:39:37,640
Speaker 4: was emotional, and then of course the music starts and

874
00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:41,000
Speaker 4: it's Lose Yourself by Eminem and that was Dean's walkout song,

875
00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:43,360
Speaker 4: which couldn't have been more Dean.

876
00:39:45,040 --> 00:39:48,319
Speaker 5: They didn't have bridal parties. It was just the officiant,

877
00:39:48,400 --> 00:39:53,080
Speaker 5: who was Jackson, which was Dean's longtime roommate. I hadn't

878
00:39:53,120 --> 00:39:55,719
Speaker 5: seen him since they were like real roommates back in

879
00:39:55,760 --> 00:40:00,200
Speaker 5: like our single days, and they apparently all the three

880
00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:03,080
Speaker 5: of them lived together during like twenty twenty or twenty

881
00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:06,040
Speaker 5: twenty one, and they shared an apartment part time in

882
00:40:06,200 --> 00:40:08,480
Speaker 5: la and Jackson's the best and he did like the

883
00:40:08,520 --> 00:40:10,239
Speaker 5: greatest personalized ceremony.

884
00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:14,839
Speaker 2: It's perfect, and he has a voice that you'd want

885
00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:19,120
Speaker 2: to go to sleep listening to. Oh Dean, O, Kaylyn,

886
00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:27,920
Speaker 2: it's very nice.

887
00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:32,280
Speaker 3: Okay, so Kaylin.

888
00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:35,440
Speaker 2: Obviously, I mean it's kind of even feels weird to

889
00:40:35,480 --> 00:40:36,960
Speaker 2: speak about it, because I don't think you can put

890
00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:41,040
Speaker 2: words to just like one, how beautiful she was all weakened,

891
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:44,720
Speaker 2: and how like accommodating and hospitable she was to her guests.

892
00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:47,239
Speaker 2: And it was cool because she was also a part

893
00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:49,400
Speaker 2: of field games and also part of every breakfast. And

894
00:40:50,320 --> 00:40:52,160
Speaker 2: then all of a sudden she disappears, you know, on

895
00:40:52,239 --> 00:40:56,120
Speaker 2: wedding day and comes back just and comes back down

896
00:40:56,120 --> 00:40:57,839
Speaker 2: the aisle and I'll let you all take it from there.

897
00:40:58,520 --> 00:41:02,799
Speaker 4: Well, she comes on to kiss me by suspense and

898
00:41:02,840 --> 00:41:05,680
Speaker 4: the richer, and it literally felt like I was in

899
00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:07,800
Speaker 4: a movie. I felt like I was watching a rom

900
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:10,200
Speaker 4: Calm movie scene like it was perfection.

901
00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:12,600
Speaker 5: She kind of ran down the aisle, she kind of

902
00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:13,240
Speaker 5: like skipped.

903
00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:14,879
Speaker 4: Yeah.

904
00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:17,680
Speaker 1: I also to have never been to a wedding that

905
00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:23,360
Speaker 1: was just like efficient bride groom. It was like so intimate,

906
00:41:23,400 --> 00:41:25,520
Speaker 1: like I felt like, yeah, I don't know, I've never

907
00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:27,200
Speaker 1: felt that before, Like it just.

908
00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:28,319
Speaker 3: Fowered a very yeah.

909
00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:31,600
Speaker 5: The lack of formality made it even more emotional.

910
00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:35,200
Speaker 2: Yea, yeah, it was like very intimate. Now, yeah, I

911
00:41:35,200 --> 00:41:38,160
Speaker 2: did have another awkward bin moment this weekend. There's probably

912
00:41:38,200 --> 00:41:40,040
Speaker 2: many that I don't even know happened, so you guys

913
00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:44,040
Speaker 2: could probably fill me in all that I've told Ashley

914
00:41:44,040 --> 00:41:46,240
Speaker 2: this before. You know, I really loved going to weddings

915
00:41:46,520 --> 00:41:48,759
Speaker 2: and I love doing this. I have this thing where

916
00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:54,560
Speaker 2: and typically it's set up where everybody's sitting facing you know,

917
00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:58,600
Speaker 2: the Bradon groom, and you're not turned sideways, and you're

918
00:41:58,640 --> 00:42:01,120
Speaker 2: usually at a pretty a lotiger wedding than what we were.

919
00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:03,680
Speaker 2: So I see Kaylen walking down the aisle and I'm like,

920
00:42:04,160 --> 00:42:07,440
Speaker 2: my goodness, like it's exactly what I I mean. Like

921
00:42:07,440 --> 00:42:09,320
Speaker 2: I said, you can't put words to just how beautiful

922
00:42:09,400 --> 00:42:11,960
Speaker 2: Kaylan is and how amazing she's been for Dean and

923
00:42:12,360 --> 00:42:15,040
Speaker 2: all of us. But then I always turned to the

924
00:42:15,040 --> 00:42:17,400
Speaker 2: groom because I want to see his reaction. So I

925
00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:19,359
Speaker 2: do it right, not thinking. I have a big old

926
00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:22,279
Speaker 2: cowboy hat on and I'm the only one turned facing Dean.

927
00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:24,120
Speaker 2: So you know what Dean does. He gives me a

928
00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:26,520
Speaker 2: head nod and a wink as she's like at the aisle,

929
00:42:26,560 --> 00:42:28,279
Speaker 2: and then afterwards he's like, yeah, I had to because

930
00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:28,880
Speaker 2: it was so awkward.

931
00:42:28,880 --> 00:42:30,879
Speaker 3: Everybody was looking the opposite direction. You're the only one

932
00:42:30,880 --> 00:42:32,640
Speaker 3: looking at me. I didn't know what to do.

933
00:42:32,680 --> 00:42:36,279
Speaker 5: You have to look in the groom, though, I think I.

934
00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:37,520
Speaker 3: Just did it quicker than everybody else.

935
00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:40,600
Speaker 5: Okay, I'm always torn. You do have to go back

936
00:42:40,640 --> 00:42:41,200
Speaker 5: and forth.

937
00:42:41,760 --> 00:42:44,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, you just stood out because you had your hat on.

938
00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:46,600
Speaker 3: I just have my hat on. It's a very big

939
00:42:46,640 --> 00:42:47,320
Speaker 3: wide turn.

940
00:42:48,000 --> 00:42:49,719
Speaker 4: Wait, we have to go back to something because you

941
00:42:49,760 --> 00:42:52,320
Speaker 4: mentioned something about Klen how beautiful show it all weekend

942
00:42:52,320 --> 00:42:55,239
Speaker 4: and we didn't touch on her rehearsal dinner.

943
00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:57,759
Speaker 5: Look, but it was I can't even talk about it.

944
00:42:57,800 --> 00:43:00,359
Speaker 5: I'm like, I'm being silent here about Kaylen's look because

945
00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:02,440
Speaker 5: like you just you can't talk about It's just like

946
00:43:02,480 --> 00:43:03,080
Speaker 5: she's perfect.

947
00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:06,840
Speaker 4: She's perfect and like sweats so like like no makeup

948
00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:10,279
Speaker 4: and sweats. Kaylen's stunning in person, Like I know people

949
00:43:10,320 --> 00:43:12,919
Speaker 4: see photos of her like she's so beautiful and has

950
00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:15,960
Speaker 4: like the sweetest heart. Her look for the mountains.

951
00:43:15,960 --> 00:43:18,319
Speaker 1: Sheik attire like I've never seen anything like it. It

952
00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:19,120
Speaker 1: belongs in Vogue.

953
00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:21,960
Speaker 4: She was she was like parent trap mom when she

954
00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:26,319
Speaker 4: puts the hat on the uh, the model in parent

955
00:43:26,360 --> 00:43:26,839
Speaker 4: top when.

956
00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:29,799
Speaker 5: Yeah, like the classic that everybody's like kind of like

957
00:43:29,840 --> 00:43:32,359
Speaker 5: going for now, like the like the they're trying to

958
00:43:32,520 --> 00:43:34,520
Speaker 5: kind of copy that look. But like she did it.

959
00:43:34,640 --> 00:43:37,840
Speaker 5: She did she made it way better than the original.

960
00:43:38,280 --> 00:43:39,000
Speaker 4: It's perfect.

961
00:43:39,160 --> 00:43:40,520
Speaker 6: Yeah, she really looked perfect.

962
00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:42,359
Speaker 3: So I just wanted to touch on that you stop

963
00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:44,320
Speaker 3: in your tracks, you that's what happens.

964
00:43:44,640 --> 00:43:46,880
Speaker 2: And then obviously together we've all now came to the

965
00:43:46,880 --> 00:43:50,439
Speaker 2: conclusion they're a very good looking couple together because Dean

966
00:43:50,560 --> 00:43:52,840
Speaker 2: is very good looking and we obviously know Kaylen's beautiful.

967
00:43:54,160 --> 00:43:58,040
Speaker 2: The ceremony itself was emotional. Uh it's you know, there

968
00:43:58,080 --> 00:44:01,239
Speaker 2: were a lot of tears, but it was informal in

969
00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:04,040
Speaker 2: a lot of ways. Also, there wasn't a lot of formality.

970
00:44:04,080 --> 00:44:07,359
Speaker 2: There wasn't anybody else really standing up there with them.

971
00:44:07,719 --> 00:44:09,839
Speaker 2: You know, we're in the middle of this kind of

972
00:44:09,880 --> 00:44:12,920
Speaker 2: like valley in the in the hills and the mountains.

973
00:44:12,960 --> 00:44:18,040
Speaker 2: And but when it comes to the vows U, there

974
00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:21,720
Speaker 2: is a beauty to just letting you come, like letting

975
00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:23,239
Speaker 2: it come from the heart. And I'd told Ashley this

976
00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:26,480
Speaker 2: before the wedding started. But Dean and I got to

977
00:44:26,480 --> 00:44:28,759
Speaker 2: play golf together last week and I said, hey, man,

978
00:44:28,800 --> 00:44:31,080
Speaker 2: how do you feel like emotionally because like for me,

979
00:44:31,160 --> 00:44:32,919
Speaker 2: I broke down at my wedding, I did. I didn't

980
00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:34,520
Speaker 2: expect too. I didn't plan on it, but you just do.

981
00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:37,839
Speaker 2: It's a very weird experience. And he goes, I'm kind

982
00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:40,320
Speaker 2: of nervous because I've because he said, I've been practicing

983
00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:42,439
Speaker 2: my vows when I hike because I don't listen to music,

984
00:44:42,440 --> 00:44:44,160
Speaker 2: I don't listen to podcasts, and I've been hiking so

985
00:44:44,200 --> 00:44:46,040
Speaker 2: much that I've been like rehearsing my vows and every

986
00:44:46,040 --> 00:44:49,840
Speaker 2: time I do, I start to cry like ball, and

987
00:44:49,840 --> 00:44:51,600
Speaker 2: then people walk past me in the mountains and I

988
00:44:51,600 --> 00:44:53,719
Speaker 2: get I feel embarrassed and I'm crying, and so like,

989
00:44:53,800 --> 00:44:56,920
Speaker 2: I'm nervous I'm going to cry and feel embarrassed about it.

990
00:44:57,000 --> 00:44:58,480
Speaker 2: And I was like, well, that's totally different when you're

991
00:44:58,480 --> 00:45:01,400
Speaker 2: in your wedding, cry as much as you want. But

992
00:45:01,440 --> 00:45:03,239
Speaker 2: then he gets up there and Kaylen gets up there,

993
00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:05,760
Speaker 2: and it's time for us to talk about their vows,

994
00:45:05,920 --> 00:45:07,600
Speaker 2: and I think it got a lot of us like

995
00:45:08,239 --> 00:45:09,719
Speaker 2: at a deep level, why.

996
00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:10,040
Speaker 3: Was that.

997
00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:14,719
Speaker 5: Well the mom part, of course, you know that that

998
00:45:14,920 --> 00:45:19,360
Speaker 5: was Dean bringing up his mom was gonna obviously just

999
00:45:19,480 --> 00:45:22,200
Speaker 5: really do us in and I you know, it's just

1000
00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:23,839
Speaker 5: one of those moments where you're not gonna rem really

1001
00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:26,200
Speaker 5: word for word what they said, but I know that

1002
00:45:26,239 --> 00:45:29,480
Speaker 5: she got brought up with like him bringing back their

1003
00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:34,040
Speaker 5: proposal and how like feathers have always been like a

1004
00:45:34,800 --> 00:45:38,160
Speaker 5: like a sign that his mom's around, and that like

1005
00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:41,040
Speaker 5: right after he got that on one knee, Kaylyn like

1006
00:45:41,080 --> 00:45:43,400
Speaker 5: came running to him being like, look, Dean, Dean a feather.

1007
00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:47,000
Speaker 4: So I know, I'm like, I can barely listen to

1008
00:45:47,040 --> 00:45:47,520
Speaker 4: you tell it.

1009
00:45:47,640 --> 00:45:50,840
Speaker 2: I know, well the part that got me because I

1010
00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:55,080
Speaker 2: love Dean greatly, uh And I've got a note like

1011
00:45:55,160 --> 00:45:57,440
Speaker 2: Dean over the years. And you know, Dean is a

1012
00:45:57,480 --> 00:46:01,120
Speaker 2: complex individual, as we all are. But Dean is complex

1013
00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:03,879
Speaker 2: because he's very free spirited, but yet he holds onto

1014
00:46:03,880 --> 00:46:06,960
Speaker 2: things very tightly and he's very he's a very sensitive human,

1015
00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:10,440
Speaker 2: but he doesn't show that sensitivity. I think he pushes

1016
00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:14,360
Speaker 2: it aside very quickly. And we've all known, you know,

1017
00:46:14,360 --> 00:46:16,200
Speaker 2: if you know Dean, you know this about him. And

1018
00:46:16,239 --> 00:46:18,919
Speaker 2: he had a line in his vows that I'll never

1019
00:46:18,960 --> 00:46:23,719
Speaker 2: forget because I've seen it for seven years or six years,

1020
00:46:23,760 --> 00:46:25,080
Speaker 2: how long I've known it. He goes, you know, for

1021
00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:27,239
Speaker 2: seventeen years of my life since my mom's past, I've

1022
00:46:27,239 --> 00:46:30,160
Speaker 2: had no purpose. I lost my purpose when she passed.

1023
00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:33,680
Speaker 2: And Caitlyn, now that I've found you, I have my

1024
00:46:33,760 --> 00:46:37,880
Speaker 2: purpose again. And Dean doesn't just say that, like when

1025
00:46:37,920 --> 00:46:41,719
Speaker 2: he says that there's a there's something very deep with

1026
00:46:41,280 --> 00:46:43,560
Speaker 2: him within him saying I'm now a husband to you,

1027
00:46:44,160 --> 00:46:45,759
Speaker 2: and yes, I was a son and I lost my

1028
00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:47,319
Speaker 2: mother and once that happened, like she was such a

1029
00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:48,560
Speaker 2: great woman that I didn't know where to turn.

1030
00:46:48,600 --> 00:46:49,560
Speaker 3: And now that I found.

1031
00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:54,520
Speaker 2: You, like I know what I am again, And that

1032
00:46:54,600 --> 00:46:58,360
Speaker 2: to me is when I lost it, because like, I

1033
00:46:58,360 --> 00:47:02,240
Speaker 2: haven't lost a parent, I haven't lost, you know, somebody

1034
00:47:02,320 --> 00:47:03,880
Speaker 2: very close to me love. But like for him to

1035
00:47:03,880 --> 00:47:06,640
Speaker 2: struggle with that for seventeen years and I know he has,

1036
00:47:07,320 --> 00:47:08,520
Speaker 2: and then for him to stand it there and be like,

1037
00:47:08,520 --> 00:47:09,759
Speaker 2: but today's the day I have it back.

1038
00:47:10,440 --> 00:47:10,520
Speaker 3: Ugh?

1039
00:47:11,200 --> 00:47:15,279
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, no, I just I feel like we've all

1040
00:47:15,320 --> 00:47:21,120
Speaker 4: gotten to watch Dean grow into Like when he met Caylen,

1041
00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:24,800
Speaker 4: it was so different. It was like everything all of

1042
00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:26,719
Speaker 4: us felt it because it was so different in how

1043
00:47:26,760 --> 00:47:29,960
Speaker 4: he was with her, And you can watch when he

1044
00:47:30,160 --> 00:47:32,279
Speaker 4: talks about her, looks at her, you can feel this

1045
00:47:33,200 --> 00:47:36,920
Speaker 4: just like respect or something like there's something about him

1046
00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:39,280
Speaker 4: that just like thinks she's the greatest.

1047
00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:40,920
Speaker 1: Well, I just think it's like even in the small

1048
00:47:41,000 --> 00:47:43,080
Speaker 1: nuanced things, you know, like he said, like I've never

1049
00:47:43,080 --> 00:47:45,880
Speaker 1: finished a project until like you came around, and like

1050
00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:48,000
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, like little like she really

1051
00:47:48,000 --> 00:47:51,000
Speaker 1: makes him a better person, and like that is something

1052
00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:54,279
Speaker 1: that's so rare and so beautiful and so just to

1053
00:47:54,400 --> 00:47:57,000
Speaker 1: know that like he found that in her is so special.

1054
00:47:57,320 --> 00:48:01,239
Speaker 5: Yeah, and he's like matured but also stayed true to himself.

1055
00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:03,080
Speaker 5: And I think Ben, what you were saying is like

1056
00:48:03,680 --> 00:48:07,880
Speaker 5: we know that that sentimentality is in him, but because

1057
00:48:07,920 --> 00:48:11,319
Speaker 5: he doesn't often say it out loud, it was so

1058
00:48:11,440 --> 00:48:14,680
Speaker 5: much more mushy, Like we just felt so much because

1059
00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:15,680
Speaker 5: he was saying it.

1060
00:48:16,360 --> 00:48:18,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, we felt it. Well, we have a few minutes

1061
00:48:18,760 --> 00:48:21,720
Speaker 2: left with you all, and we're going to speed round

1062
00:48:21,840 --> 00:48:24,720
Speaker 2: some of the last things because we can agree. Caylen

1063
00:48:24,800 --> 00:48:28,200
Speaker 2: was incredible. She's beautiful, she's just awesome. She really hosted

1064
00:48:28,239 --> 00:48:30,040
Speaker 2: us all weekend as much credit as loved to give

1065
00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:31,520
Speaker 2: the Dean for doing this wedding.

1066
00:48:31,560 --> 00:48:32,520
Speaker 3: He didn't plan anything.

1067
00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:39,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, so you know, she was absolutely fantastic and made

1068
00:48:39,920 --> 00:48:42,680
Speaker 2: for one of the most special weekends I can remember

1069
00:48:43,320 --> 00:48:45,000
Speaker 2: in my life, just being with all of you and

1070
00:48:45,000 --> 00:48:46,839
Speaker 2: being with them and celebrating them the way we did.

1071
00:48:48,040 --> 00:48:50,680
Speaker 2: Then after the wedding, we had a great sit down dinner,

1072
00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:53,520
Speaker 2: nothing crazy there with when it comes to like, just

1073
00:48:53,600 --> 00:48:56,719
Speaker 2: a really good camaraderie breaking bread together. And then we

1074
00:48:56,760 --> 00:48:59,520
Speaker 2: went into the party, which was a party. They had

1075
00:48:59,520 --> 00:49:02,360
Speaker 2: the Jordan Con band there, who has been at a

1076
00:49:02,360 --> 00:49:05,560
Speaker 2: lot of Bachelor Nation weddings, including my own and Ashley's wedding.

1077
00:49:06,040 --> 00:49:08,960
Speaker 2: They're the best band wedding band or one of the

1078
00:49:08,960 --> 00:49:11,120
Speaker 2: best like live music bands I've ever heard, because they

1079
00:49:11,120 --> 00:49:13,399
Speaker 2: put on a good show. The unique part of their

1080
00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:15,839
Speaker 2: party was they did have a tattoo artist come in.

1081
00:49:16,640 --> 00:49:19,040
Speaker 2: Did anybody here get a tattoo? I had signed up,

1082
00:49:19,120 --> 00:49:21,120
Speaker 2: I was getting one, but we were too far down

1083
00:49:21,160 --> 00:49:23,319
Speaker 2: the list and then I went to bed before they

1084
00:49:23,360 --> 00:49:23,759
Speaker 2: got to me.

1085
00:49:23,920 --> 00:49:25,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, you ghosted the party early.

1086
00:49:25,920 --> 00:49:28,439
Speaker 5: Only there was a little good We already talked about

1087
00:49:28,440 --> 00:49:30,399
Speaker 5: that on the last podcast. He talked about how he

1088
00:49:30,440 --> 00:49:32,960
Speaker 5: was going to get like social fatigue and he just

1089
00:49:33,000 --> 00:49:35,880
Speaker 5: wanted to leave being his best self. But at the

1090
00:49:35,920 --> 00:49:39,239
Speaker 5: tattoo thing, so you guys had like a sheet to

1091
00:49:39,320 --> 00:49:43,200
Speaker 5: choose from, and they were all like predecided, which is

1092
00:49:43,239 --> 00:49:46,239
Speaker 5: why I wasn't a total proponent of Jared getting his

1093
00:49:46,239 --> 00:49:49,480
Speaker 5: first tattoo there, because I would There's just a couple

1094
00:49:49,520 --> 00:49:52,640
Speaker 5: of specific things that Jared's talked about getting, and I'm like,

1095
00:49:52,640 --> 00:49:54,440
Speaker 5: I don't want you to just like put something on

1096
00:49:54,520 --> 00:49:57,399
Speaker 5: your body that doesn't mean anything to do it.

1097
00:49:57,440 --> 00:49:59,040
Speaker 4: I think there was like a good twelve hours.

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Speaker 6: Like when we found out there's gonna tattoos, Rob and

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Speaker 6: I were like, let's do it, and we were like.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and then like as we started learning more, we

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Speaker 1: were like, maybe not for my first one.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I know.

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Speaker 5: I think Jared would have done it though for Dean,

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Speaker 5: So he put his name on the list for Dean,

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00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:14,319
Speaker 5: also knowing that they probably weren't going to get to him,

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00:50:15,719 --> 00:50:17,360
Speaker 5: but like, yeah, I was like, I want you to

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Speaker 5: for Dean. But I also don't know.

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Speaker 4: Many people not tattoos.

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Speaker 6: You see how many people got tattoos.

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Speaker 2: It was not That's why I said I could never

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00:50:25,719 --> 00:50:28,120
Speaker 2: get to it. I would have either done the mountains,

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Speaker 2: which I want to do anyways, for a couple of reasons.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's been good and you have plenty.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and and my one buddy who's super sick right now,

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00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:36,920
Speaker 2: who had to move from Denver, like I would have

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00:50:36,920 --> 00:50:39,040
Speaker 2: got him kind of in memory of him, because he

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00:50:39,080 --> 00:50:41,240
Speaker 2: has that same tattoo, and I've been like, that's sick.

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Speaker 3: So I really wanted that.

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Speaker 2: Or the other option was blue cheese stuffed olives, which

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Speaker 2: they had on there.

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Speaker 3: Also.

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Speaker 2: I don't know why they had olives, but I was like,

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Speaker 2: I love a good martini, like everything.

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Speaker 5: It's a little and meaningful.

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Speaker 4: For I love spicy mark. But you couldn't scale it

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00:50:57,520 --> 00:50:59,560
Speaker 4: to size, so I was gonna have one like this big,

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00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:02,839
Speaker 4: And I just said, you know what, I don't think

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Speaker 4: that this.

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Speaker 3: Is the move.

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Speaker 5: Do you have tattoos at all? Tacca, No, Yes, we're

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00:51:07,160 --> 00:51:09,640
Speaker 5: all like all us girls are of tattoos.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I got them, so we were going to

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00:51:13,719 --> 00:51:18,280
Speaker 2: It was an amazing party, a wonderful celebration. No no drama,

1134
00:51:18,560 --> 00:51:20,400
Speaker 2: which I think is an important note for us to

1135
00:51:20,440 --> 00:51:22,879
Speaker 2: highlight is there was no at least drama that I

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00:51:22,920 --> 00:51:26,640
Speaker 2: know of now, said of my own causes and anxieties

1137
00:51:26,640 --> 00:51:29,479
Speaker 2: in my own head. You just don't put me around

1138
00:51:29,480 --> 00:51:33,520
Speaker 2: people that much for like straight periods of time, because

1139
00:51:33,800 --> 00:51:35,400
Speaker 2: it's a lot of fun for me, and then I

1140
00:51:35,480 --> 00:51:36,320
Speaker 2: question everything.

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00:51:36,640 --> 00:51:37,440
Speaker 3: I just don't do it.

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00:51:37,560 --> 00:51:40,839
Speaker 4: You are so wonderful, Like I think everyone around you

1143
00:51:40,920 --> 00:51:42,799
Speaker 4: had an amazing time. So I think it's just.

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00:51:44,440 --> 00:51:48,680
Speaker 1: By this, Like, no, I'm not shot anytime Robbie's around you,

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00:51:48,719 --> 00:51:52,000
Speaker 1: He's like, Ben is such a great god. I've never

1146
00:51:52,040 --> 00:51:55,520
Speaker 1: heard anybody say anything like that. You've said anything uncomfortable.

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00:51:55,880 --> 00:51:57,400
Speaker 3: But here's the point.

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00:51:57,440 --> 00:51:59,319
Speaker 2: And I think out of all the details of Dean

1149
00:51:59,320 --> 00:52:01,239
Speaker 2: and Kailn's wedding, I think this is an important point

1150
00:52:01,320 --> 00:52:04,440
Speaker 2: for people listening because you know, kind of the hidden

1151
00:52:05,040 --> 00:52:08,640
Speaker 2: things that we find out about ourselves, and these really

1152
00:52:08,640 --> 00:52:11,200
Speaker 2: cool events oftentimes are relatable in a lot of ways

1153
00:52:11,200 --> 00:52:12,799
Speaker 2: to other people, where it's like, okay, you guys can

1154
00:52:12,840 --> 00:52:14,480
Speaker 2: say that, and I appreciate you saying that. It does

1155
00:52:14,560 --> 00:52:16,239
Speaker 2: mean a lot to me because I do get really

1156
00:52:16,320 --> 00:52:18,160
Speaker 2: jacked up about it. You could ask Jess yes to

1157
00:52:18,160 --> 00:52:21,640
Speaker 2: hear it. But I don't think I'm alone in that right,

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00:52:21,760 --> 00:52:23,120
Speaker 2: Like I think a lot of us go to these

1159
00:52:23,120 --> 00:52:25,439
Speaker 2: social events and oftentimes. I think Haley and I talked

1160
00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:29,239
Speaker 2: about this where we'll say no to social events because

1161
00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:32,000
Speaker 2: or maybe it was you and Ibeca, like because of

1162
00:52:32,040 --> 00:52:34,719
Speaker 2: the fear of what we'll feel like after we leave them,

1163
00:52:34,840 --> 00:52:38,759
Speaker 2: like will we feel this anxiety, the social anxiety because

1164
00:52:38,800 --> 00:52:40,640
Speaker 2: we're like, why do we say that? Or why didn't

1165
00:52:40,680 --> 00:52:42,279
Speaker 2: we talk to that person long enough? Or did we

1166
00:52:42,320 --> 00:52:44,279
Speaker 2: really hear what they were saying? Did they mean something else?

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00:52:44,320 --> 00:52:46,520
Speaker 2: Like I in my life, as I've gotten older, have

1168
00:52:46,520 --> 00:52:49,360
Speaker 2: stayed away from going to social situations because I know

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00:52:49,480 --> 00:52:52,799
Speaker 2: my reaction afterwards will be like one of like heaviness,

1170
00:52:53,480 --> 00:52:55,120
Speaker 2: and that's something I need to work on. And I

1171
00:52:55,160 --> 00:52:57,480
Speaker 2: realized it this weekend and a weekend that it was

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00:52:57,600 --> 00:53:00,719
Speaker 2: drama free in a weekend that was beautiful. We can

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00:53:00,760 --> 00:53:02,880
Speaker 2: filled with people that we all love and care about,

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00:53:02,920 --> 00:53:06,160
Speaker 2: celebrating two people that we care about, those anxieties still

1175
00:53:06,160 --> 00:53:07,799
Speaker 2: come up, and it's like, Okay, now it's somebody to

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00:53:07,800 --> 00:53:09,760
Speaker 2: work on. And that's why at two o'clock this afternoon,

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Speaker 2: I'm going to therapy.

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Speaker 3: Did you book?

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Speaker 5: In response to this.

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00:53:18,000 --> 00:53:18,800
Speaker 6: Perfect timing?

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Speaker 2: Okay, we do have to close an amazing time with

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Speaker 2: all of you. Thank you for coming on the podcast.

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00:53:25,239 --> 00:53:27,880
Speaker 2: Thanks for talking about it. I'm just it's so amazing

1184
00:53:27,920 --> 00:53:31,880
Speaker 2: to see how life and how God has interacted in

1185
00:53:31,920 --> 00:53:33,680
Speaker 2: all of our lives to keep bringing us back together

1186
00:53:33,719 --> 00:53:36,439
Speaker 2: in an amazing scenarios with new people in our lives

1187
00:53:36,480 --> 00:53:39,360
Speaker 2: as well, like the Robbies, like the Hayleys. You know,

1188
00:53:39,440 --> 00:53:43,799
Speaker 2: Jared's always been around, like the Jessicas. It's really fun

1189
00:53:43,840 --> 00:53:45,480
Speaker 2: to be able to do this together and get to

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Speaker 2: see where all of us have evolved in life. And uh,

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00:53:49,760 --> 00:53:51,600
Speaker 2: I couldn't be more more happy that we got to

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Speaker 2: do this together.

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Speaker 4: Me too, it was the best Me too, sad.

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Speaker 3: Thanks for having us.

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Speaker 4: Year. We coradulation to Kalin and Dean. Thank you for

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00:54:01,560 --> 00:54:04,279
Speaker 4: putting on the most epic wedding. Hopefully we do like

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Speaker 4: the year reunion.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, guys, where are they up their honeymoon? Are they

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Speaker 5: doing one right now?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? South Africa? In a bit. I will say.

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Speaker 2: Also, my house is now full of leftover alcohol that

1202
00:54:17,920 --> 00:54:20,920
Speaker 2: because everybody else flew. I drove in my back of

1203
00:54:20,960 --> 00:54:24,760
Speaker 2: my truck. I mean, I am loaded up for years

1204
00:54:24,760 --> 00:54:26,719
Speaker 2: to come. So if anybody else come visit, you know

1205
00:54:26,760 --> 00:54:30,520
Speaker 2: what you can get out of our house. Hey, we'll

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Speaker 2: talk to you soon. Until next time.

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Speaker 4: I've been been, I've been Ashley, I've been Tanya, I've

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Speaker 4: been Becca.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just coming in team. Make sure you go

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Speaker 3: listen to their podcast they do a great job. Always

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