WEBVTT - Damson Idris Interview and more 0:00:00.280 --> 0:00:02.960 Don't are just the best of what y'all doing. This platform, 0:00:03.160 --> 0:00:05.840 the reach y'all hat that you earned, make space for 0:00:05.880 --> 0:00:07.920 somebody like me. You guys have a direct line to 0:00:07.960 --> 0:00:13.760 the coaches. Oh my god, I don't want. All I 0:00:13.800 --> 0:00:16.760 do is read about the breakfast Club every morning. Good 0:00:16.840 --> 0:00:20.320 you guys are trending every you know, I dragged my 0:00:20.360 --> 0:00:22.560 house out of that. I'm like, uh, what happened to 0:00:22.640 --> 0:00:31.480 the breakfast Club to that? Good morning? USC? Hey, damn, 0:00:32.080 --> 0:00:38.840 good morning. It is Thursday. Good morning, good morning, good morning, 0:00:38.880 --> 0:00:40.839 good morning. How are you guys feeling? One more day 0:00:40.880 --> 0:00:44.760 to the weekend, one more day to the weekend? Crazy? 0:00:44.760 --> 0:00:47.480 I am tired. How are you feeling? Um? I feel okay, 0:00:47.520 --> 0:00:51.040 I'm feeling a little better. Yes, you was beat? Yeah? 0:00:51.080 --> 0:00:53.360 I think I just was exhausted. I've been doing too much. 0:00:54.760 --> 0:00:57.600 So yesterday, so um, you know, shout out to my wife. 0:00:57.640 --> 0:00:59.560 You know, we have a book coming out April nineteenth. 0:00:59.560 --> 0:01:02.040 So we're planning and we're setting up a book tour. So, 0:01:02.600 --> 0:01:04.839 like I said yesterday, we're traveling to city to city. 0:01:04.880 --> 0:01:07.080 We're going to the mom and pop bookstores, we're going 0:01:07.120 --> 0:01:09.080 to the major bookstores. We just want to meet and 0:01:09.120 --> 0:01:11.560 see the people. It's a relationship book. We break down 0:01:11.600 --> 0:01:14.560 everything that we've been through, hopefully to help people out 0:01:14.560 --> 0:01:17.640 there that's you know, maybe going through similar problems, similar situations, 0:01:17.680 --> 0:01:19.720 don't know how to figure it out, and we just 0:01:19.720 --> 0:01:21.120 try to, you know, tell our story and we're just 0:01:21.160 --> 0:01:24.720 honest and truthful. So it's it's gonna be some some 0:01:24.800 --> 0:01:26.800 crime moments in that book, but it's uh, it was 0:01:26.920 --> 0:01:29.000 therapy to me and my wife because we were able 0:01:29.040 --> 0:01:30.760 to talk a lot of things out from the beginning 0:01:30.800 --> 0:01:32.720 of our relationships and I was pretty cool. So we 0:01:32.720 --> 0:01:35.240 were setting that up. So yesterday, you know, I'm into 0:01:35.280 --> 0:01:38.399 real estate, so I have a property that's about an 0:01:38.440 --> 0:01:41.240 hour away and I went to go check and I 0:01:41.319 --> 0:01:46.120 left my laptop there. Now, yes, no, so my laptop 0:01:46.240 --> 0:01:48.560 is my everything. So that's where I take no matter what. 0:01:48.600 --> 0:01:50.160 When I get out the car and take my laptop, 0:01:50.240 --> 0:01:52.080 that's my life. Like, that's how I make my money. 0:01:52.120 --> 0:01:55.520 That's how I DJ. No no nudes, but just how 0:01:55.560 --> 0:01:58.480 I DJ. So I left the I left yesterday and 0:01:58.520 --> 0:02:01.360 I remembered that I left laptop there. So last night 0:02:01.400 --> 0:02:03.600 I drove back to the property to go get my laptop. 0:02:03.920 --> 0:02:05.440 But they did work on the house. So I was 0:02:05.480 --> 0:02:06.960 so impressed with the work that they did in the 0:02:07.000 --> 0:02:09.200 house on FaceTime and my wife saying, look, I go 0:02:09.320 --> 0:02:11.720 back home. I left the laptop again. What is wrong 0:02:11.760 --> 0:02:13.280 with you? Envy? So I had to get up at 0:02:13.320 --> 0:02:15.680 three o'clock this morning to drive back to the property 0:02:15.760 --> 0:02:18.080 this morning to go get the damn laptop. You are 0:02:18.120 --> 0:02:20.440 really did see? I am. I am a blonde. I 0:02:20.480 --> 0:02:23.320 am very did see this morning. All right, don't blonde shame, 0:02:23.560 --> 0:02:26.720 don't blonde shame. All right, Well, we got a great 0:02:26.720 --> 0:02:30.200 show for you today. We have damnson Dress joining us 0:02:30.200 --> 0:02:33.240 this morning. And yes, that's from the amazing show Snowfall. 0:02:33.280 --> 0:02:36.239 That show is so great. I love man And it's 0:02:36.240 --> 0:02:38.840 crazy because you know, the new season started. They did 0:02:38.880 --> 0:02:41.920 like two episodes back to back, and I had to 0:02:41.960 --> 0:02:43.760 really like go back because I was trying to remember. 0:02:43.800 --> 0:02:46.840 It feels like it's so long in between all these shows. Yeah, 0:02:46.880 --> 0:02:49.560 that you gotta like recall what happened. I've heard so 0:02:49.600 --> 0:02:52.120 many good things about Snowfall. I just haven't dove into it. 0:02:52.160 --> 0:02:54.399 I haven't seen yet. I just haven't had time rest 0:02:54.440 --> 0:02:58.080 season five. You had time to watch The Bachelor, I do, 0:02:58.480 --> 0:03:00.280 but I fall asleep on a bachelor. That's well, that's 0:03:00.320 --> 0:03:02.079 my wife's show. So you can fall asleep on it's 0:03:02.080 --> 0:03:03.240 like you know, you know, can watch a little bit, 0:03:03.240 --> 0:03:06.600 like I haven't seen Euphoria. What, No, I haven't seen that, 0:03:06.760 --> 0:03:09.600 the Tindless swind Little what's that thing? I haven't seen. 0:03:10.639 --> 0:03:12.560 I've only seen like three episodes of that, Like I've 0:03:12.560 --> 0:03:16.600 been behind behind So but yeah, he stop it, but damnson, 0:03:16.680 --> 0:03:19.639 it just would be joining us and also Erica Alexander 0:03:19.680 --> 0:03:22.960 and Rebecca Howard. They have a new podcast called Finding 0:03:23.040 --> 0:03:26.880 to Mika that focuses on a disappearance and the disappearance 0:03:26.880 --> 0:03:30.799 and murder of Tamika Hudson Houston, Houston. Yeah, so we'll 0:03:30.800 --> 0:03:32.960 be kicking in with them in a little bit as well. 0:03:33.000 --> 0:03:35.080 So a pact show. And let's get the show cracking 0:03:35.080 --> 0:03:37.840 front page news. What we're talking about. Yes, uh, let's 0:03:37.840 --> 0:03:41.040 start it off with I mean, you know what we're 0:03:41.080 --> 0:03:44.000 talking about Ukraine and Russia and now there is a 0:03:44.120 --> 0:03:47.280 bounty on the head of Ladimir Putin. Will tell you 0:03:47.320 --> 0:03:49.360 who plays that bounty? Oh my goodness, all right, we'll 0:03:49.360 --> 0:03:51.240 get into that next. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, 0:03:52.360 --> 0:03:56.280 good morning, everybody is DJ Envy Angela yee, Charlomagne the 0:03:56.320 --> 0:04:01.760 guy we are to breakfast clublet's getting some front page news, 0:04:01.760 --> 0:04:03.880 some new news. What we're starting, all right, Well, let's 0:04:03.880 --> 0:04:06.000 start with the Russian businessman. He has put a one 0:04:06.000 --> 0:04:09.440 million dollar bounty on Vladimir Putin's head. Now, what does 0:04:09.480 --> 0:04:11.000 that mean? Not that he went from killed, but he 0:04:11.000 --> 0:04:14.400 went him arrested as a war criminal. So this investor 0:04:14.760 --> 0:04:17.360 is um saying that he promises to pay one million 0:04:17.360 --> 0:04:20.000 dollars to the officer or officers who, complying with their 0:04:20.040 --> 0:04:23.480 constitutional duty, arrest Putin as a war criminal under Russian 0:04:23.480 --> 0:04:26.960 and international laws. Now, the man who says this is 0:04:27.000 --> 0:04:31.599 a crypto investor. His name is Alex Konaikin. I can't 0:04:31.600 --> 0:04:34.600 even pronounce his last name, kona Anikin, and he posted 0:04:34.640 --> 0:04:37.159 it on Facebook. He said Putin had violated the Russian 0:04:37.200 --> 0:04:41.320 constitution by eliminating free elections and murdering his opponent. He said, 0:04:41.320 --> 0:04:43.920 as an ethnic Russian and a Russian citizen, I see 0:04:43.920 --> 0:04:47.240 it as my moral duty to facilitate the denazification of Russia. 0:04:47.520 --> 0:04:50.160 I will continue my assistance to Ukraine and its heroic 0:04:50.240 --> 0:04:55.039 efforts to withstand the onslaught of Putin's order, so so 0:04:55.200 --> 0:04:57.159 he doesn't want him killed, he just wants to He 0:04:57.160 --> 0:05:00.240 went to arrest as a war criminal. Okay, now let's 0:05:00.279 --> 0:05:03.200 give you guys some updates. There's another round of talks 0:05:03.200 --> 0:05:06.080 that would be taking place today between both delegations for 0:05:06.240 --> 0:05:09.120 Ukraine and for Russia. They said the first round on 0:05:09.200 --> 0:05:12.920 Monday lasted five hours. Now the mayor of the southern 0:05:12.920 --> 0:05:16.159 city of Kashan indicated that they had fallen on Wednesday. 0:05:16.160 --> 0:05:20.240 They said, Ukrainian forces has left, so Russian forces have 0:05:20.440 --> 0:05:25.240 taken over. And this follows several days of heavy fighting. 0:05:26.200 --> 0:05:29.599 A Western intelligence report indicated that Chinese officials in the 0:05:29.600 --> 0:05:33.200 meantime in early February requested that senior Russian officials wait 0:05:33.279 --> 0:05:36.640 until after the Beijian Winter Olympics had finished before they 0:05:36.680 --> 0:05:39.800 started that invasion of Ukraine. So apparently they knew, but 0:05:39.839 --> 0:05:41.760 they were like, let's just wait till after the Olympics 0:05:41.760 --> 0:05:44.280 for you got before you guys do this. Yeah, My 0:05:44.640 --> 0:05:47.000 only thing is my question is this. You know they 0:05:47.040 --> 0:05:49.800 have those conversations. What are they having conversations about? Right, 0:05:49.839 --> 0:05:51.960 if I'm Ukraine, what is they to talk about? Why 0:05:52.040 --> 0:05:54.479 are you invading my country? Well, you're still wanting to 0:05:54.520 --> 0:05:57.160 see if there is any way to get a ceasefire, 0:05:57.760 --> 0:06:00.920 and no matter what, you still would like that. Yeah, absolutely, 0:06:00.960 --> 0:06:02.880 you have to come to the table to try to 0:06:02.920 --> 0:06:06.039 see if you can make that happen. In the United 0:06:06.080 --> 0:06:08.520 States and every country you're still hoping that it happens. 0:06:08.880 --> 0:06:10.520 What do you give up if you're Ukraine, Like what 0:06:10.560 --> 0:06:12.240 conversation do you have? And it's not like you'd be like, oh, 0:06:12.279 --> 0:06:14.200 I'll give you this if you just stopped shooting at me, 0:06:14.320 --> 0:06:17.000 Like what do you have, Like, stop shooting at me, 0:06:17.080 --> 0:06:19.400 stop stop dropping bombs at me. You're killing innocent people, 0:06:19.440 --> 0:06:21.560 Like well, I don't I don't understand what these conversations. 0:06:21.600 --> 0:06:24.560 I don't know how they're helping. Now one million people 0:06:24.600 --> 0:06:27.560 have left Ukraine in just a week, according to the UN. 0:06:27.960 --> 0:06:30.000 I did see on the news some people that were 0:06:30.000 --> 0:06:34.480 protesting when the Russian military were coming in. They were 0:06:34.520 --> 0:06:36.880 standing there and they were chanting and yelling and they 0:06:36.880 --> 0:06:40.039 didn't have any weapons or anything on them. So eventually 0:06:40.120 --> 0:06:42.240 the Russians did go past them, but they were standing 0:06:42.279 --> 0:06:46.320 outside protesting saying that they didn't have any weapons, but 0:06:46.640 --> 0:06:50.240 you know, asking them to please leave, and obviously that 0:06:50.320 --> 0:06:53.760 didn't work. Now, the US House of Representatives overwhelmingly approved 0:06:53.760 --> 0:06:58.400 a bipartisan resolution Wednesday. That resolution expresses support for the 0:06:58.440 --> 0:07:02.279 people of Ukraine. There were only three people who voted 0:07:02.320 --> 0:07:05.200 against the resolution. They were all Republicans. One of them 0:07:05.240 --> 0:07:08.640 said on Twitter that they said, talk to me when 0:07:08.720 --> 0:07:12.120 our border is secure. Another person says that he thought 0:07:12.120 --> 0:07:15.720 the resolution was overly broad and that targeting Russia's economy 0:07:15.760 --> 0:07:19.680 could backfire and cause further economic stress for low income Americans. 0:07:20.280 --> 0:07:23.080 And the third person argued that the US has no 0:07:23.160 --> 0:07:25.920 moral obligation to help either side in the conflict. So 0:07:26.000 --> 0:07:28.320 those are the three people who voted. The vote was 0:07:28.320 --> 0:07:32.040 almost unanimous, four hundred and twenty six to three in 0:07:32.160 --> 0:07:36.080 order to support Ukraine. Now, seven Russian banks have been 0:07:36.120 --> 0:07:38.800 removed from the Swift network. We told you guys about 0:07:38.840 --> 0:07:43.120 that earlier. Those are the banks that are now not 0:07:43.200 --> 0:07:46.760 going to be able to send money, and you know, economically, 0:07:46.760 --> 0:07:48.640 that's where everybody's hitting them right now with all these 0:07:48.680 --> 0:07:51.720 different sanctions. So we'll keep you updated again on what's 0:07:51.760 --> 0:07:54.480 going on in Ukraine and Russia as things keep on happening, 0:07:54.840 --> 0:07:57.600 and that is your front page news. They are saying 0:07:57.640 --> 0:08:01.360 these latest sanctions will in the law term really affect 0:08:01.440 --> 0:08:04.520 Russia as people are figuring out ways to get around 0:08:04.560 --> 0:08:06.560 the oil and gas issue that we're having now with 0:08:06.560 --> 0:08:10.480 the shortage around the world from all these sanctions against Russia. Yeah, 0:08:10.480 --> 0:08:12.280 they're saying gas prices are going to be one hundred 0:08:12.280 --> 0:08:14.720 and nineteen dollars a barrel, So people like, what does 0:08:14.760 --> 0:08:16.560 that mean? Just think about it. Last year it was 0:08:16.600 --> 0:08:19.480 around eighty eight dollars a barrel, ninety dollars a barrel. 0:08:19.520 --> 0:08:21.880 So the fact that it's going to one nineteen, meaning 0:08:21.920 --> 0:08:24.320 gas prices will probably shoot over five dollars, which is 0:08:24.320 --> 0:08:27.239 going to be very, very very very difficult. Very people 0:08:27.240 --> 0:08:30.520 will be scrambling to try to find alternative supplies. But 0:08:30.640 --> 0:08:32.120 in the long term, do you really want to have 0:08:32.160 --> 0:08:34.360 to rely on Russia for gas and oil? So now 0:08:34.400 --> 0:08:37.080 everybody has to figure out something alternative. Yeah, they're pushing 0:08:37.120 --> 0:08:39.080 electric and I know for some people looking at electric cars, 0:08:39.120 --> 0:08:40.920 because I've been looking at electric cars the last couple 0:08:40.920 --> 0:08:44.520 of days. I know right now, for myself, Tesla looks 0:08:44.520 --> 0:08:47.080 good because Tesla has so many charging stations where you 0:08:47.080 --> 0:08:49.040 can actually charge, and they have the fast charges, a 0:08:49.080 --> 0:08:50.560 lot of them are free, and I know a lot 0:08:50.600 --> 0:08:52.640 of these other manufacturers they have electric cars, but you 0:08:52.679 --> 0:08:54.760 gotta pay to charge your car, so it's kind of 0:08:54.800 --> 0:08:57.559 like getting gas. So just do your homework. I'd rather 0:08:57.600 --> 0:09:00.240 has an electric car. He's so happy. What kind of car? Yes, 0:09:00.240 --> 0:09:02.160 at BMW, I gotta figure it out. I just got 0:09:02.160 --> 0:09:04.400 to ask some more questions about it. But anyway, get 0:09:04.400 --> 0:09:06.839 it off your chest. Eight undred five eight five one 0:09:06.840 --> 0:09:08.760 on five one. If you need to vent phone lines 0:09:08.800 --> 0:09:11.120 a wide open again eight hundred five eight five one 0:09:11.120 --> 0:09:13.440 on five one. It's the breakfast Club, Go morning, the 0:09:13.640 --> 0:09:22.719 breakfast Club. I'm telling, I'm telling what call of you 0:09:23.120 --> 0:09:24.880 if this is your time to get it off your chest, 0:09:25.000 --> 0:09:27.959 whether you're mad or blessed. Eight hundred five eight five 0:09:28.040 --> 0:09:29.760 one five one. We want to hear from you on 0:09:29.800 --> 0:09:35.120 the breakfast Club. Hello, who's this about? Every yo? Travel? 0:09:35.240 --> 0:09:37.320 If I tell you? How many people are really upset 0:09:37.360 --> 0:09:39.960 that you always get through Like they're like, how does 0:09:40.040 --> 0:09:43.079 travel always? We get tagged in posts like how does 0:09:43.120 --> 0:09:45.600 this happen? Oh? Trust you want to tell me? They'd 0:09:45.600 --> 0:09:47.240 be all of my DM's like, oh, you need to 0:09:47.240 --> 0:09:50.199 get a job. And at the mind that didn't used 0:09:50.200 --> 0:09:52.000 to bother me because I used to have a job, 0:09:52.080 --> 0:09:54.800 like for nine years now you're like, I don't think 0:09:54.840 --> 0:09:57.840 a little bit. You know I lost my job. Now 0:09:57.840 --> 0:10:00.240 I'll be thinking a little bit. Yeah you I have 0:10:00.280 --> 0:10:03.680 a while ago. I love my job in December. Ye, 0:10:03.880 --> 0:10:06.719 not a while ago. I ain't been jobbing for a while. Okay, 0:10:06.800 --> 0:10:08.760 you need to get a job. Track, go get a job. 0:10:09.200 --> 0:10:12.560 Feel like a long time okay. But God's gods still 0:10:12.600 --> 0:10:14.480 been blessed with me because I got food stamp. I'm 0:10:14.520 --> 0:10:18.239 on unappointment. God is still blessing. Well he do it. 0:10:18.320 --> 0:10:20.880 But now if you got an opportunity, Hey, I'm all here. 0:10:21.320 --> 0:10:26.280 I'm all here. I know that's right. I'm calling because listen. Actually, 0:10:27.440 --> 0:10:29.679 ye I normal way to ask you for something, and 0:10:29.720 --> 0:10:31.680 I would ask you like to have your help and 0:10:31.679 --> 0:10:34.800 and envy if I'm actually just finished the project that 0:10:34.840 --> 0:10:36.480 I'm doing. I've been working on for the last year, 0:10:36.920 --> 0:10:39.480 and I have six sentences three am peace. If you 0:10:39.480 --> 0:10:43.199 guys could help me with my project? What's your project? Um, 0:10:43.200 --> 0:10:45.920 it's a little ep and as well as one of 0:10:45.960 --> 0:10:47.640 you guys like to narrate something for me. And I 0:10:47.640 --> 0:10:49.640 literally had the six sentences written out and it's only 0:10:49.679 --> 0:10:52.240 six sentences. Oh my god, I like that you always 0:10:52.240 --> 0:10:56.520 have an easy ask now it's blind Beauty on the project. Yes, yeah, okay, 0:10:56.559 --> 0:10:58.400 then yes I'll do it. I don't. I don't know. 0:10:58.520 --> 0:11:00.839 We'll help me. I don't know because I'm charging a 0:11:00.880 --> 0:11:03.840 little more. After I did the Queen Naja project. You know, 0:11:04.000 --> 0:11:05.880 my my course went up a little bit. I didn't 0:11:05.880 --> 0:11:07.960 see you in there. I was definitely in there. Mine 0:11:08.080 --> 0:11:10.520 is non profitt and I'm not trying to no money. 0:11:10.559 --> 0:11:14.840 I'm just joking. We got you, man, we got you. 0:11:18.000 --> 0:11:19.760 Let me see n I didn't see you in there. 0:11:20.600 --> 0:11:22.840 I started open, Sure, I start, I started, I start 0:11:22.880 --> 0:11:25.400 the video off for no short on. Hello, who's this? 0:11:25.400 --> 0:11:27.679 This is Jasmine from the Bronx. But I now live 0:11:27.720 --> 0:11:30.160 in Maryland. Jasmine from the Bronx and lives in Maryland. 0:11:30.160 --> 0:11:32.240 What I get it off your chest? Okay? I got 0:11:32.240 --> 0:11:34.439 to get off my chest. So I was gonna um. 0:11:34.480 --> 0:11:36.320 I had talked with a friend. I was gonna go 0:11:36.360 --> 0:11:38.760 to New York to watch my god's son, to watch 0:11:38.760 --> 0:11:41.280 her son. But I um so that she could go 0:11:41.320 --> 0:11:43.679 on a trip on Mother's Day. But I decided to 0:11:43.760 --> 0:11:45.800 change my mind and I told her, like, look, I'm 0:11:45.840 --> 0:11:48.640 going through stuff mentally. I can't I can't go to 0:11:48.679 --> 0:11:51.480 New York, I can't watch him. So long story short, 0:11:51.520 --> 0:11:54.160 we basically got into a disagreement about it, and she said, 0:11:54.200 --> 0:11:56.160 well I won't. I don't want you watching my son 0:11:56.480 --> 0:11:59.560 and you have mental health problems, and that really likes 0:12:00.040 --> 0:12:02.320 it just made me realize, like what is it, Like 0:12:02.920 --> 0:12:04.640 I've watched him before and I have, you know, a 0:12:04.679 --> 0:12:07.280 mental health condition, Like why is it that if I 0:12:07.360 --> 0:12:09.319 changed my mind like all of a sudden, I can't 0:12:09.360 --> 0:12:12.000 watch him because I have mental health problems. So I 0:12:12.080 --> 0:12:13.600 just I don't know, Like I had to get off 0:12:13.679 --> 0:12:16.600 my chest because I'm like, it did stigma like do people? 0:12:16.920 --> 0:12:18.800 So like if you're going through stuff and you're trying 0:12:18.840 --> 0:12:22.160 to like you know, you know, manage your mental health, 0:12:22.200 --> 0:12:24.480 like you can't baby fit, Like what is that about? Well, 0:12:24.480 --> 0:12:26.640 I'm sure she was probably upset because it was Mother's Day, 0:12:26.679 --> 0:12:28.520 so she probably made plans in the arrange. Yeah, she 0:12:28.600 --> 0:12:30.480 planned the traps. She probably planned the trip or a 0:12:30.600 --> 0:12:32.360 date or whatever it was, and then you canceled on 0:12:32.400 --> 0:12:34.280 her last minute. So she's probably upset and you know, 0:12:34.360 --> 0:12:36.120 hurt people, hurt people. She probably tried to throw a 0:12:36.120 --> 0:12:38.680 stab at you to you know, to dig at you back. Yeah, 0:12:38.720 --> 0:12:40.720 and I can understand that and I and I do 0:12:40.840 --> 0:12:43.520 understand that concept. But I also feel like this, like 0:12:43.600 --> 0:12:45.560 I'm a person that she knows my heart, like I 0:12:45.640 --> 0:12:47.920 always look out for my gods and when I can, 0:12:48.080 --> 0:12:49.920 you know what I'm saying, Like I always put I 0:12:50.000 --> 0:12:52.280 put a lot of people first. And now that I'm 0:12:52.320 --> 0:12:54.760 not putting people first and I'm finally putting myself first, 0:12:54.800 --> 0:12:57.199 it's a problem. Well that's gonna happen. And she I 0:12:57.280 --> 0:12:58.880 mean it's you know, she had a problem that you 0:12:58.920 --> 0:13:00.719 know that you you you still then you did her 0:13:00.720 --> 0:13:03.800 dirty and you feel a way. So but aside from 0:13:03.800 --> 0:13:07.320 all of that, take care of yourself, you know, take 0:13:07.320 --> 0:13:09.640 care take care of yourself. I mean, that's your child, 0:13:09.679 --> 0:13:12.839 and she cann make whatever decisions that she wants to make. 0:13:12.880 --> 0:13:15.680 But as far as you really take care of yourself, yeah, 0:13:15.679 --> 0:13:17.280 that's what I'm working on. I'm just trying to take 0:13:17.280 --> 0:13:20.520 care of myself. And you know, I appreciate y'all things 0:13:20.520 --> 0:13:22.400 for y'all a rights and hopefully, like I said, like 0:13:22.440 --> 0:13:25.439 we got to end this stigma with mental health and 0:13:25.640 --> 0:13:28.800 you know, just children in general, because it's okay to 0:13:28.800 --> 0:13:31.200 go to stuff and be able to pull back and 0:13:31.240 --> 0:13:32.840 say ya, I got to focus on me, you know, 0:13:33.280 --> 0:13:35.640 and and hopefully I will be able to watch him again. 0:13:35.679 --> 0:13:37.800 Like you know, I love my GUIDs, like I want 0:13:37.800 --> 0:13:39.720 to be able to baby sin and stuff. But I'm 0:13:39.760 --> 0:13:41.440 going to do a lot light now. So I just 0:13:41.480 --> 0:13:44.480 hope my friend is understanding and we'll see what happened. Yeah, 0:13:44.520 --> 0:13:46.800 focus on you, like you said, continue to do that. 0:13:46.880 --> 0:13:49.800 Put yourself first. You've identified you know that you have 0:13:49.920 --> 0:13:52.920 some things you gotta deal with, and so worry about 0:13:52.960 --> 0:13:55.120 that right now and deal with that. Get it off 0:13:55.160 --> 0:13:57.679 your chests eight hundred five eight five one oh five one. 0:13:57.720 --> 0:13:59.000 If you need to vent, hit us up now. It's 0:13:59.040 --> 0:14:07.640 the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. This is 0:14:07.679 --> 0:14:11.640 your time to get it off your chest. Whether you're man, 0:14:11.840 --> 0:14:14.160 get from you on the breakfast class. You got something 0:14:14.200 --> 0:14:17.920 on your mind? Hello, who's this? What's going on? It's 0:14:17.920 --> 0:14:21.480 your boy, Chris, Chris without get it off you okay, 0:14:21.560 --> 0:14:23.920 real quick. I just want to make sure that everybody 0:14:24.000 --> 0:14:27.640 knows there's the opportunity for young African American men to 0:14:27.680 --> 0:14:31.480 get a scholarship to attend HBCUs. You guys are familiar 0:14:31.520 --> 0:14:35.960 with me as as in Sam b g as Okay, 0:14:36.000 --> 0:14:39.560 So I'm like all my young African American men attending 0:14:39.720 --> 0:14:43.640 HBCUs to go there as as in Sam b as 0:14:43.720 --> 0:14:48.440 in Victor g as in god As Foundation, got bored 0:14:48.880 --> 0:14:52.280 and get with me? Okay, So all right, anybody wants 0:14:52.280 --> 0:14:55.280 to donate, please also donate. You'll be in the best 0:14:55.320 --> 0:14:58.560 of company like Uncle Charlotte. You there yet? Uncle Charlotte, 0:14:58.720 --> 0:15:02.440 he's not here today. He would he would not be 0:15:02.600 --> 0:15:06.440 there when y'all actually quit me? Do you know we 0:15:06.520 --> 0:15:10.000 all are? Hampton graduate? Shout out to DJ envy Um. 0:15:10.040 --> 0:15:11.880 So check it out once again, Angela, I know you 0:15:11.920 --> 0:15:17.360 got to computer right there at v AS Foundation dot org. Indeed, 0:15:17.480 --> 0:15:19.240 oh dare you hung up on it? I didn't hang 0:15:19.360 --> 0:15:23.600 up on him, Hampton, but definitely check him out and 0:15:23.760 --> 0:15:25.920 see if they're given scholarships and you need help. Definitely 0:15:25.960 --> 0:15:28.960 heat up his organization and I'm definitely gonna donate to 0:15:29.000 --> 0:15:31.120 the organization if they're giving out scholarships to two brothers 0:15:31.120 --> 0:15:34.200 who need it. Hello, who's this? This is duly Man. 0:15:34.360 --> 0:15:37.960 I'm glad that you answered. What's up? What's that? Getting 0:15:38.000 --> 0:15:40.880 off your chests? Getting love my chairs? I think I'm 0:15:40.920 --> 0:15:44.560 my love and my best friend that I had, You know, 0:15:44.600 --> 0:15:49.960 I had talked about like us pursuing three years ago, 0:15:50.000 --> 0:15:52.000 and then I jumped into a relationship. But I love 0:15:52.040 --> 0:15:55.320 the guy too, but I'm just sim in love with him. 0:15:55.360 --> 0:15:56.960 I'm loving the best friend. I might have to make 0:15:57.000 --> 0:16:00.720 this choice, and I am going through like like I 0:16:00.760 --> 0:16:03.200 guess the spiritually in a hard time. You know, I'm 0:16:03.200 --> 0:16:05.880 getting hard. But did you just say you're in love 0:16:05.920 --> 0:16:08.200 with somebody else and with your best friend? You have 0:16:08.240 --> 0:16:11.840 a boyfriend? Turn your radio down. I do have. I 0:16:11.880 --> 0:16:14.560 do have a boyfriend end of three years, a great 0:16:14.600 --> 0:16:19.560 guard and right before I started eating him, you know, 0:16:19.800 --> 0:16:22.480 my boy my best friend, had been a feelings and 0:16:22.720 --> 0:16:25.240 uh you know, it's always been in back of my 0:16:25.280 --> 0:16:27.880 mind and like right now since I've been focusing on myself, 0:16:27.960 --> 0:16:30.440 like stepping back, and I'm just still guilty, you know, 0:16:30.560 --> 0:16:32.800 like you should well you shouldn't feel guilty. But if 0:16:33.080 --> 0:16:37.440 you're not happy in your relationship, I mean, oh your 0:16:37.480 --> 0:16:40.560 love with both, I mean I feel you can be 0:16:40.760 --> 0:16:44.120 like you just did. And I don't know, and I 0:16:44.120 --> 0:16:46.000 don't know what to do in this situation, but I 0:16:46.040 --> 0:16:50.360 know that focusing on myself, I guess we wos like 0:16:50.400 --> 0:16:54.800 you focusing on other people too. I am and maybe 0:16:55.000 --> 0:16:58.000 taking a step back or hell said, wow, but are 0:16:58.000 --> 0:17:00.280 you in love? Are you? And lust? I needs because 0:17:00.280 --> 0:17:02.160 they like the lost just like there's so much more 0:17:02.360 --> 0:17:04.119 to a connection, you know, like there's so much more 0:17:04.119 --> 0:17:07.440 to intimacy. And that's what like I've they've been there 0:17:07.440 --> 0:17:10.200 to the hardest times, you know, like twenty twenty harder 0:17:10.280 --> 0:17:12.879 and everyone you know, like God bless everybody, like everyone 0:17:12.920 --> 0:17:16.640 that's gotten some hardships like since. But you know, now 0:17:16.680 --> 0:17:19.840 I'm focusing on myself. And it's like I totally flashed 0:17:19.840 --> 0:17:22.840 on this guy, like started dating some one the next 0:17:22.880 --> 0:17:24.840 day and then let me ask you this, does he 0:17:24.920 --> 0:17:27.560 love you back? Your best friend? He does? And it's 0:17:27.600 --> 0:17:29.840 just scary though he's a player, he's my best friend, 0:17:29.840 --> 0:17:31.639 I know. Have I seen him you know? But have 0:17:31.760 --> 0:17:36.680 you been sleeping with him already? No? If I hold 0:17:36.720 --> 0:17:39.040 off on And that's okay, And that's what I respect to. 0:17:39.680 --> 0:17:42.320 You know, I've been I've been asking it from post 0:17:43.320 --> 0:17:45.040 Oh yeah, man had sex, So I mean, why don't 0:17:45.080 --> 0:17:47.960 you just date him both? Just start dating to tell 0:17:48.000 --> 0:17:49.640 your boyfriend that you just want to date other people 0:17:49.640 --> 0:17:51.240 at him date other people and didn't feel it out 0:17:51.320 --> 0:17:53.199 that it might not be your best friend anymore. If 0:17:53.240 --> 0:17:55.359 you know he's a player and you guys start dating 0:17:55.400 --> 0:17:57.720 and you start cheating on your man with him. I 0:17:57.720 --> 0:18:01.280 didn't say cheat, I said open relation, ship, don't cheat. 0:18:01.440 --> 0:18:04.080 Have the conversation, to have the conversation, have a real 0:18:04.080 --> 0:18:06.359 conversation and see where it goes. Okay, you might end 0:18:06.440 --> 0:18:11.560 up alone, you might have That's what I need. Yeah, maybe, yeah, 0:18:11.600 --> 0:18:13.160 but just be honest so that way you ain't gonna 0:18:13.160 --> 0:18:15.480 be hiding and running around and doing stuff that's foul. 0:18:15.560 --> 0:18:18.480 So just be honest and you Lets have a blessed morning, 0:18:19.240 --> 0:18:21.400 good luck, Thank you. I don't think it's gonna work 0:18:21.400 --> 0:18:23.560 out too good for her. Get it off your chests. 0:18:23.680 --> 0:18:25.840 Eight hundred five five, one oh five one. We got 0:18:25.920 --> 0:18:29.120 rooms on the way. Yeah, since we're talking relationships, Kim 0:18:29.240 --> 0:18:32.479 Kardashian is illegally single. We'll tell you all about it, 0:18:32.560 --> 0:18:34.480 all right, we'll get into that next. It's the Breakfast Club. 0:18:34.480 --> 0:18:46.080 Good morning, the breakfast Club. Listen, Oh my gosh, report guys, 0:18:47.680 --> 0:18:53.440 it's breakfast Club. Well this morning on CBS Mornings, you'll 0:18:53.480 --> 0:18:56.280 get to hear Melinda open Melinda Gates opening up about 0:18:56.320 --> 0:18:58.879 what led to her divorce from Bill Gates. Now. She 0:18:59.000 --> 0:19:02.239 sat down with Gil King and she talked about her 0:19:02.320 --> 0:19:05.439 whole healing journey. Did you have moments where you were 0:19:05.520 --> 0:19:07.679 just so angry? Did you have moments that you were 0:19:07.760 --> 0:19:10.480 just in such pain? Well, I think it's really important 0:19:10.480 --> 0:19:12.760 to say. Look, I had a lot of tears for 0:19:12.880 --> 0:19:14.920 many days. I mean days where I'm literally laying on 0:19:15.040 --> 0:19:17.000 the floor in the carpet, you know, this close to me, 0:19:17.400 --> 0:19:20.600 thinking how can this be? How can I get up? 0:19:20.760 --> 0:19:24.280 That's part of the grieving process. You're grieving a loss 0:19:24.480 --> 0:19:26.800 of something you thought you had and thought you had 0:19:26.840 --> 0:19:29.600