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Speaker 1: Men Think. My name is Brooks like and I am

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Speaker 1: here with all my dudes. We've got all the dudes

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Speaker 1: right into this one. This is called that's what he said,

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Speaker 1: And Dmitri, I know you love this one. I do

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Speaker 1: So that's that's my fame. We've always tried. That's what

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Speaker 1: we say. This is a podcast to serve the community,

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Speaker 1: and so we get bombarded with questions, um, guys and girls.

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Speaker 1: They want to know what dudes think about this? Why

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Speaker 1: do you guys do this? Why do guys think this way?

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Speaker 1: Why do they act this way or not act this way?

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Speaker 1: So we go through all these questions, we picked the

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Speaker 1: what he said. Round two. The question one from Christina

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Speaker 1: she wants to know about gray hairs. My boyfriend of

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Speaker 1: five years has had some gray hair popping up for

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Speaker 1: a while now. He seems insecure about it, even though

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Speaker 1: he thinks, even though I think he's a silver fox.

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Speaker 1: Do I offer him help to diet? A Halloween custom

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Speaker 1: from now on? Him covered up Elvis Presley from the seventies,

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Speaker 1: Wayne Newton's got great. I love it. No, it depends

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Speaker 1: how old he is. Well he wanted. No, she's after

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Speaker 1: he's insecure. She offered to help him diet. He know

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Speaker 1: she loves it. She should not offer to help. She

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Speaker 1: thinks it's hot. She should convince him to keep it.

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Speaker 1: He's insecure about it. Yeah, but she loves it. So

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Speaker 1: Number one, if she loves it, she should not offer

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Speaker 1: men's rights, man's rights. I think we should say he

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Speaker 1: wants to look a certain way, you know, with his

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Speaker 1: Then yeah, he could diet, but he's insecure about it.

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Speaker 1: How does she help him not be insecured. I'll tell

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Speaker 1: you this. I've had like a couple of gray hairs

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Speaker 1: popping in. I just yanked me too, when a gray

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Speaker 1: to be careful when you yank your hair out. Be

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Speaker 1: careful when you yank your hair out. Guys, it doesn't

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Speaker 1: always come back. Send this guy a picture of me.

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Speaker 1: He'll be happy with whatever. Harry's guy. So I think

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Speaker 1: it's a I think you let him. I don't. I

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Speaker 1: Do you like gray hair? Like, let's get a woman's perspective,

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Speaker 1: Amber wants to know about multitasking. This is a great

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Speaker 1: the same time. That's all one thing, all right. I

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Speaker 1: Where do the responsibilities fall in the household? Equal more

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Speaker 1: it doesn't have to be like women should do more,

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Speaker 1: men should do more. Figure out what in your couple

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Speaker 1: So do you barbecue inside your hotel rooms? It's so

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Speaker 1: so I'm guessing they don't live together. I obviously don't

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Speaker 1: Don't you see what the kid says? Okay, let's trying

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Speaker 1: to find the answer inside of somewhere. Danielle is clearing

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Speaker 1: He said, my dad had his prostate removed due to cancer.

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Speaker 1: I asked my ex to pray for him because we're

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Speaker 1: still very close, but my ex didn't even respond. What

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Speaker 1: what do you feel about contacting your ex during rough times. Listen,

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Speaker 1: years was arrested on multiple charges of child pornography. It

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Speaker 1: took two years of self discovery, but now I am ready.

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Speaker 1: I'm ready for my person and my life partner. I'm

426
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Speaker 1: not the person who randomly dates or hangs out of

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Speaker 1: bars looking for love. If any of you were deeply

428
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Speaker 1: ready for that next chapter in your life, ready to

429
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Speaker 1: commit to a conscious relationship, where do you begin and

430
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Speaker 1: where do you meet like minded people? So this is

431
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Speaker 1: just just a piggyback, like we're just talking about dating apps.

432
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Speaker 1: Like I said, why can't you meet a like minded

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Speaker 1: person on a dating app? But let's say it's not

434
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Speaker 1: a dating app. Where could you meet somebody looking to

435
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Speaker 1: have a serious relationship. Where in the world would you go?

436
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Speaker 1: Grocery store? Church? Where would you go grocery stores? I

437
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Speaker 1: have to say, like, you know, you go to the

438
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Speaker 1: grocery Store's definitely you can tell a lot about something.

439
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Speaker 1: You can really there is you really can't tell a

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Speaker 1: lot about people at the grocery store. Do tell well,

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Speaker 1: if you see, I mean, which one they're at, which

442
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Speaker 1: i'll they're at. Are they buying stuff to what they're wearing?

443
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Speaker 1: You know what I mean? You pick up a lot.

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean, You can pick up a

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Speaker 1: lot about a person, certainly from where they're shopping. Are

446
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Speaker 1: they buying stuff to make a raw like freshmeal? Are

447
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Speaker 1: they buying frozen dinners? Are they buying stuff for I mean, listen,

448
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Speaker 1: you've been following me around. You go the stoffer his

449
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Speaker 1: man which thing? If you go to a bar, right

450
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Speaker 1: and you see a guy you don't know what his

451
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Speaker 1: story is, maybe he took his ring off. You go

452
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Speaker 1: to the grocery store and you see what he's buying.

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Speaker 1: You see if he's buying stuff for kids lunches. So

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Speaker 1: you're right in that respect. You can tell a lot

455
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Speaker 1: more at something like that, as opposed to out and about.

456
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Speaker 1: It's kind of a behind the scenes where do you

457
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Speaker 1: meet somebody? Get let's get back on top of where

458
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Speaker 1: I think. I think the best way to go for

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Speaker 1: S is to go through like the friend network and

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Speaker 1: see where that goes, you know, and start talking to

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Speaker 1: them and asking if they can hook him up on

462
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Speaker 1: like blind dates or they have any friends out of

463
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Speaker 1: something in common and take that route. That's what I

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Speaker 1: would just like, Like Mitch just said, that's how a

465
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Speaker 1: couple episodes are going. Yeah, and he said he went

466
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Speaker 1: through his role, you know, quote unquote Rollodex and just

467
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Speaker 1: spread the word, Hey, I'm looking. If you happen to

468
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Speaker 1: know anybody you think would be a good match, that's

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Speaker 1: absolutely I think that's great. That's yeah what Mitch said.

470
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Speaker 1: I think that's the way to do it. I think,

471
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Speaker 1: for s wherever you found that ex boyfriend, stay the

472
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Speaker 1: away from that. So I don't know, well, and I think, yeah,

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Speaker 1: the child pornography. I think. The other thing is, you know,

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Speaker 1: there's a lot of people, I think more than we know,

475
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Speaker 1: that find people at their workplace, at their job, you know.

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Speaker 1: And I think a lot of people get connected that

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Speaker 1: way and then they get married or they fall in love,

478
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Speaker 1: and then one of them goes and takes another job

479
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Speaker 1: so they're not working at the same company, and that's

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Speaker 1: how they get and they get together like the ultimate romance.

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Speaker 1: Jim and Pam from the office. Yes, yes, they sat

482
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Speaker 1: there looking at each other across the cubicles. Isn't that

483
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Speaker 1: where most like a relationships start or things like that

484
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Speaker 1: at work? Isn't the work thing the place? Don't know?

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Speaker 1: I was in a locker room for fifteen years of

486
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Speaker 1: twenty three dudes, I didn't have mind, didn't start handful

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Speaker 1: of relationship here A very specific type of scenario sot

488
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Speaker 1: every not every job has a locker room with just

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Speaker 1: all one. You know where I would? You know where?

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Speaker 1: I would? Honestly, I think I think any sort of

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Speaker 1: like organization like a gym. Yeah, Like I would love

492
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Speaker 1: to meet somebody at a gym because it means this

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Speaker 1: person is active, they're healthy, they value health and fitness.

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Speaker 1: I would go there. The beach is a great place

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Speaker 1: to meet somebody. Like living in l A the beach,

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Speaker 1: there's always action down. People are active and outdoors tough.

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Speaker 1: So how do you how do you meet someone? How

498
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Speaker 1: do you approach someone at the beach and you're underpaths?

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Speaker 1: You lay your towel down right next to them. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: what's wrong? We're going to say hi? It's because it

501
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Speaker 1: crosses al it crosses a creepiness. Like I'm at the

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Speaker 1: beach with my friends, like and someone comes up and

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Speaker 1: it's like hi, where else? Give us one more each,

504
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Speaker 1: you guys, give us one more place where that outside

505
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Speaker 1: of a dating app or whatever, you could meet like

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Speaker 1: you mentioned church, the gym, the grocery store, these types

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Speaker 1: of places that they seem to be a natural sort

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Speaker 1: of Yeah, because great, one you have a common interest.

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Speaker 1: You don't have a dog? Yeah right, that's probably a

510
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Speaker 1: little weird. You could just go sit there. You just

511
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Speaker 1: go there and go I like dogs. Yeah, so I

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Speaker 1: think any place, any place you can have a common interest, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Jim dog Park. Yeah. I would not rule out Vegas though, guys.

514
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Speaker 1: I mean you could go to Vegas and find somebody.

515
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Speaker 1: Do we have a story there? Rick? No, I know

516
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Speaker 1: you as a teaser like that, Ves, I'm gonna help

517
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Speaker 1: find something meaningful, I said, the story behind those worlds.

518
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Speaker 1: It's just you know, I got to Vegas and I

519
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Speaker 1: I want to hang out, and I don't know if

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Speaker 1: it's the real Gavin de Gras or a fake one.

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Speaker 1: Let's go boom. Have you been cheated on or have

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Speaker 1: you cheated before? Crickets in here? Well, because last time

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Speaker 1: you called out names were Intermitri. I was just looking

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Speaker 1: around to see who was just kind of shuffling and

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Speaker 1: not gonna answer that question, but Gavin smiling. Let's buddy,

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Speaker 1: I think it's happening every plead the fifth. I think

579
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Speaker 1: it's happening everybody. That's all, okay, okay, y, that sucks.

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Speaker 1: Get more specific. I thought you were really intimate at

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Speaker 1: one point, Brooks, and I'm wearing your T shirt right,

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Speaker 1: and you were. Then I came home one day and

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Speaker 1: you were in somebody else's T shirt. Because I'm not

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Speaker 1: an excel, he found a speedo when the law made

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Speaker 1: really insignificant, it wasn't. It wasn't like if you're in

586
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Speaker 1: excels now, I can't compete. It wasn't a team that.

587
00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:30,320
Speaker 1: It was definitely moving forward with your life. It was

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Speaker 1: a speedo to honor Rick Dmitri. You have you been

589
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Speaker 1: cheated on it? Or have you cheated before? Yeah? I think,

590
00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:42,000
Speaker 1: like like Gavin said, I think everybody has. I think

591
00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:45,040
Speaker 1: when you're younger, you don't necessarily know how to You're

592
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Speaker 1: not mature enough to end a relationship. So I'm sure

593
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Speaker 1: everybody has ended a relationship poorly when they were young

594
00:30:50,480 --> 00:30:53,400
Speaker 1: and uh, yeah, yeah, I'm sure it's happened, you know

595
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Speaker 1: when you're younger. Yeah, Ryan, yep, I was cheated on

596
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Speaker 1: in a college relationship. I do not know. To my knowledge,

597
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Speaker 1: I don't know that I've been cheated on. No ex

598
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Speaker 1: girlfriend or anybody has said and I have never cheer

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Speaker 1: I'm I value loyalty big time, not only in a

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Speaker 1: relationship but but in friendship as well. Um, do you

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Speaker 1: want to kiss a woman who has stuff on her lips?

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Speaker 1: What does that mean? Amy? I think it might mean

603
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Speaker 1: bright red lipstick, hot red, like super red lipstick, or

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Speaker 1: just very just a lot of lip Okay, a lot

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Speaker 1: of lip. Hell yeah, yeah, boy, doing works on King

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Speaker 1: of course Dmitri I would say, just after Gavin's answer,

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Speaker 1: move on, Okay, Okay, that's nailed it. Okay, have any

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Speaker 1: of you ever seen someone you liked in a crowd

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Speaker 1: and would you ever do anything about it? Hell? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Why not? Wait that you liked in a crowd? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: like if you were seeing say you were saying to

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Speaker 1: have any of you ever seen someone you liked in

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Speaker 1: a crowd? This is probably for you up in the

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Speaker 1: state and who she's looking at me? I like, all

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Speaker 1: of you, any takers? Anybody? Next? Anybody is this? And

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Speaker 1: then no hands? Next question? No hand this side of

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Speaker 1: the room. Guys sleeping on a tour bus with my father.

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Speaker 1: No hand. This is what happens that no hands go

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Speaker 1: up and he looks at this tech guys like, is

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Speaker 1: this my gone? Mike? Check? Is this my gone? Okay?

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Speaker 1: Does anybody have stuff on the lips? Anybody? Next question?

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Speaker 1: Worst thing you can do during a date and during sex.

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Speaker 1: The worst thing you can do during a date and

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Speaker 1: during sex probably fart that's up there. Probably the pacy

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Speaker 1: during sex. Nothing like I think just being rude on

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Speaker 1: a date, like ordering early you know, being a dick,

627
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Speaker 1: being a douchebag. Yeah, getting up, leaving, bailing on her.

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Speaker 1: Talking there, Yeah, talking on your phone sex would be

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Speaker 1: looking at somebody else on your phone while farting. There

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Speaker 1: talking about an X talking for once. Brooks and Ryan

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634
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Speaker 1: a real thing too. A buddy of mine when he

635
00:33:30,840 --> 00:33:34,920
Speaker 1: first started dating his now wife, we went out for Margharita's.

636
00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:38,800
Speaker 1: We both ordered a house Margharita. She ordered the Cadillac

637
00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:41,880
Speaker 1: with the patron and I'm like, come on, like we

638
00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:44,840
Speaker 1: just were slumming it on the regular stuff and You're like,

639
00:33:45,160 --> 00:33:47,040
Speaker 1: and we had He had no money at the time,

640
00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:49,080
Speaker 1: and that really bothered me. So that's no. No, she's

641
00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:51,720
Speaker 1: a high class gets bad or order a high class drink?

642
00:33:52,760 --> 00:33:55,880
Speaker 1: Can I ask you another ques, buddy? Let level up

643
00:33:56,240 --> 00:33:58,680
Speaker 1: like like this. This is this is the long long,

644
00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:02,640
Speaker 1: the TACKI money line thing. Okay, this is off topic

645
00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:05,840
Speaker 1: a little bit. What about people have these wedding parties

646
00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:09,720
Speaker 1: and they want somebody to buy certain dress to where

647
00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:14,839
Speaker 1: certain be at certain locations. I mean they the bridesmaids

648
00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:16,560
Speaker 1: have to buy their own dresses a lot of times, right?

649
00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:19,480
Speaker 1: Is that this is the way it works almost all

650
00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:22,840
Speaker 1: the time, the bridemaid. You think that's a little I

651
00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:26,480
Speaker 1: know it sounds I maybe speaking at at a turn

652
00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:30,280
Speaker 1: a little bit, but it seems a little That seems

653
00:34:30,280 --> 00:34:33,160
Speaker 1: a little douche to me to expect people to come

654
00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:43,359
Speaker 1: up with, however much money to pay for that. But yeah,

655
00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:46,120
Speaker 1: weddings are a clown show. They cost like thousands of dollars.

656
00:34:46,280 --> 00:34:48,560
Speaker 1: You're making people spend money that they might not have,

657
00:34:49,200 --> 00:34:50,960
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But he's down with that.

658
00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:54,319
Speaker 1: He's like, I remember, I think I think you kind

659
00:34:54,320 --> 00:34:56,040
Speaker 1: of Gavin, I kind of think you know your audience

660
00:34:56,080 --> 00:34:58,440
Speaker 1: and who your bridesmaids are, who your best you know,

661
00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:01,040
Speaker 1: best man, your groomsman. Know you kind of know what's

662
00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:04,200
Speaker 1: going on, and you who you choose. You sort of

663
00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:06,439
Speaker 1: start thinking about that and whether or not you go

664
00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:10,920
Speaker 1: get the Cadillac margarita or the house margarita, and you

665
00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:13,759
Speaker 1: know your audience. I think, Okay, good, I'm relieved by that.

666
00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:19,080
Speaker 1: Moving on turn on or offs for women? Turn on?

667
00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:24,400
Speaker 1: Oh wait? What was what's a turn on? Um for

668
00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:26,239
Speaker 1: a woman? Like something that woman can do that is

669
00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:28,759
Speaker 1: a turn on for you. You guys know about smexy?

670
00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:34,120
Speaker 1: Is it smexy? Smexy? It's smart and sexy. It's the

671
00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:39,239
Speaker 1: new hot thing. Uh. The name alone as a turn off,

672
00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:42,520
Speaker 1: sort of like a librarian. See, that's how guys think.

673
00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:44,279
Speaker 1: No guys can be like, hey, I just met this girl.

674
00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:47,600
Speaker 1: She was so smexy. Guys, check this out. I think

675
00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:49,759
Speaker 1: of a whole another day. Let's go turn on. What's

676
00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:51,359
Speaker 1: something that a woman can do to turn you on?

677
00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:56,320
Speaker 1: Sense of humor that can make me laugh? That's probably

678
00:35:56,320 --> 00:36:00,279
Speaker 1: a tall order. He's describing himself. They have good hair.

679
00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:06,960
Speaker 1: I do like converse about personality type. I like sarcastic.

680
00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:13,600
Speaker 1: Really they give given Yeah, sarcastic, nice figure, you know,

681
00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:17,279
Speaker 1: not overly in shape, but not like just comfortable with

682
00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:21,040
Speaker 1: themselves Like yes, like me, I'm not overly in shape.

683
00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:25,400
Speaker 1: Sometimes I'm comfortable with myself, but right now I'm very

684
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:29,760
Speaker 1: Thanks Ryan. I think a nice a nice set of heels,

685
00:36:30,080 --> 00:36:34,160
Speaker 1: and a nice out on a date. That's sexy. It's

686
00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:36,759
Speaker 1: a turn on I want to turn off. Then you

687
00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:39,360
Speaker 1: get home, the heels come off, the toes go in

688
00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:46,279
Speaker 1: the mouth and open a little toe cleavage. You know

689
00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:57,240
Speaker 1: what I mean? Ryan, one day, I hope you're bold

690
00:36:57,320 --> 00:37:03,239
Speaker 1: enough to try it. There's a challenge. He's bold enough

691
00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:06,839
Speaker 1: to let you suck his toes. No, come on, Dmitri, Hey,

692
00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:08,759
Speaker 1: just making sure we're all clear. When you're done, do

693
00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:14,560
Speaker 1: you apply a little bit of lotraman just to be like, yeah, okay,

694
00:37:14,640 --> 00:37:17,879
Speaker 1: let's go with this one. Turn Offs? Turn offs? What's

695
00:37:17,880 --> 00:37:19,640
Speaker 1: something a woman can do that does a turnoff for

696
00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:22,719
Speaker 1: a man? I don't like the like the injection, but

697
00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:27,640
Speaker 1: like duck lip, Look, that's not my favorite. Boat talks

698
00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:29,799
Speaker 1: too much botox some chick that's on our phone the

699
00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:32,799
Speaker 1: whole time. That's annoying. But you know, it's a big

700
00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:38,040
Speaker 1: turn off to me. The gum snapping, Oh what are

701
00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:41,960
Speaker 1: you talking about? Napping? Like you know, when you're like,

702
00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:44,239
Speaker 1: you go go out to eat somewhere and somebody's like

703
00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:50,879
Speaker 1: snap and then in the cloth napkin looks terrible. It's

704
00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:55,600
Speaker 1: close to me. What else, Ryan, what's a turn off? Yeah?

705
00:37:55,719 --> 00:38:00,800
Speaker 1: The collagen injections agree, like, and it becomes slippery slope

706
00:38:00,800 --> 00:38:04,239
Speaker 1: where they just continue to get bigger and more absurd

707
00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:07,959
Speaker 1: looking to me, and it looks I don't like people

708
00:38:07,960 --> 00:38:10,919
Speaker 1: who are unaware of their surroundings, Like, don't talk loud

709
00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:14,680
Speaker 1: if there's other people there, don't you know, don't just

710
00:38:14,760 --> 00:38:16,680
Speaker 1: be aware of other people around you, be more sensitive

711
00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:20,040
Speaker 1: to other people who Okay, here's one. Is being a

712
00:38:20,080 --> 00:38:26,400
Speaker 1: bad kisser a deal breaker? Yes? What if? What if

713
00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:29,480
Speaker 1: she's maybe good at other things? She's just a bad kisser,

714
00:38:29,560 --> 00:38:32,719
Speaker 1: bad kissing. I don't see how you move on from there. Well,

715
00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:35,720
Speaker 1: maybe you move on because this kissing is bad, the kissing.

716
00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:43,399
Speaker 1: How do you skip for a space? I mean, it's

717
00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:47,400
Speaker 1: you know, I feel like kissing is part of the chemistry,

718
00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:49,120
Speaker 1: you know, you know, it's like if you hit us,

719
00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:51,440
Speaker 1: you hit one to the gap. But the fielder is

720
00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:53,080
Speaker 1: kind of almost there, and you're like, this could be

721
00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:55,799
Speaker 1: a double but maybe he's a single. I better around.

722
00:38:56,640 --> 00:39:00,600
Speaker 1: I gotta turn this into it double tough. That kissing

723
00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:03,160
Speaker 1: is a deal Is it a deal breaker? Is a question.

724
00:39:04,280 --> 00:39:06,200
Speaker 1: I don't think it's a deal breaker. No, you gotta

725
00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:08,000
Speaker 1: kind of I think you're right, Brooks. You need to

726
00:39:08,040 --> 00:39:13,600
Speaker 1: kind of continue on and see what happens. So this

727
00:39:13,600 --> 00:39:18,160
Speaker 1: this full transparency, this question. This lady says just because

728
00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:22,640
Speaker 1: she can't kiss doesn't mean she can't suck. That is

729
00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:33,280
Speaker 1: in my notes right here. Answer that's I just wanted

730
00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:35,560
Speaker 1: to propo. I just wanted to like full transparency with

731
00:39:35,600 --> 00:39:42,040
Speaker 1: that question. So, now, what do you think love comes

732
00:39:42,160 --> 00:39:46,080
Speaker 1: off for Ryan? Yeah? I think you give it time

733
00:39:46,160 --> 00:39:49,440
Speaker 1: and you hope it progress gets better. I agree with that.

734
00:39:49,480 --> 00:39:51,360
Speaker 1: I don't think it's a deal breaker. Stick your tongue

735
00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:56,520
Speaker 1: down further and see what happens. Oh my god, Um,

736
00:39:56,520 --> 00:39:58,520
Speaker 1: that's a deal breaker. Rick jam and his tongue gun.

737
00:40:03,840 --> 00:40:07,040
Speaker 1: Here's here's I like this question. There's no such thing

738
00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:09,600
Speaker 1: as bad sex, just like there's no such thing as

739
00:40:09,640 --> 00:40:14,640
Speaker 1: bad pizza. Agree or disagree? Disagree. There's pizza that leaves

740
00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:16,840
Speaker 1: you unfulfilled, and there's therefore the sex that leaves you

741
00:40:16,880 --> 00:40:19,360
Speaker 1: unfulfilled and the food that's bad, Like you want to

742
00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:21,399
Speaker 1: enjoy it. You want a good pizza. You don't want

743
00:40:21,400 --> 00:40:23,879
Speaker 1: a bad pizza. You don't want a mediocre pizza. Yeah,

744
00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:25,960
Speaker 1: there's there's such a thing as bad sex. Okay, I

745
00:40:26,040 --> 00:40:27,680
Speaker 1: think there is such a thing as bad pizza too.

746
00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:32,080
Speaker 1: By the way, Yes, okay, how about this one another

747
00:40:32,160 --> 00:40:35,560
Speaker 1: rapid fire. I'm single, thirty seven and dating for about

748
00:40:35,600 --> 00:40:37,600
Speaker 1: half my life. Have been told that having children could

749
00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:39,680
Speaker 1: be very difficult to give my age, those odds are

750
00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:42,759
Speaker 1: even lower. Now, when do I or should I ever

751
00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:46,239
Speaker 1: bring this up when dating? She doesn't want to have

752
00:40:46,239 --> 00:40:47,840
Speaker 1: a kid? No, she does want to have it. She doesn't.

753
00:40:48,080 --> 00:40:50,160
Speaker 1: She's told that it might be difficult for her now

754
00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:53,520
Speaker 1: given her age at thirty seven, the odds are even lower.

755
00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:56,480
Speaker 1: When should she bring this up when dating a guy?

756
00:40:56,600 --> 00:40:58,800
Speaker 1: First date? Second date? Six months in? I think, what

757
00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:06,000
Speaker 1: do you think? Amy? Six months in? Why? I would

758
00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:08,239
Speaker 1: say that's like the appropriate time. But this show is

759
00:41:08,280 --> 00:41:12,880
Speaker 1: called How Men Think? So I should be quiet. I

760
00:41:12,880 --> 00:41:15,960
Speaker 1: think she should put it in her in her bio

761
00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:18,920
Speaker 1: on Tinder. No, I'm kidding, No, I think I think

762
00:41:18,960 --> 00:41:20,839
Speaker 1: when it comes up like don't don't want that because

763
00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:23,120
Speaker 1: you never know? And what are you gonna do? There's

764
00:41:23,120 --> 00:41:25,279
Speaker 1: such a thing as as going too fast. You show

765
00:41:25,360 --> 00:41:26,440
Speaker 1: up on the first day, you said, by the way,

766
00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:27,759
Speaker 1: I don't know if I can have kids. It's like, well,

767
00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:30,239
Speaker 1: I wasn't even thinking that, So slow down. Yeah, I

768
00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:31,719
Speaker 1: think you need to follow the path of the date.

769
00:41:31,800 --> 00:41:33,520
Speaker 1: Why not just where t shirts said say I need

770
00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:40,080
Speaker 1: a baby now right now? And on the back maybe

771
00:41:40,120 --> 00:41:45,560
Speaker 1: I can't what all right? Ryan? What do you think

772
00:41:45,960 --> 00:41:49,120
Speaker 1: when should she bring it up? I think so much

773
00:41:49,160 --> 00:41:51,960
Speaker 1: of this depends on your age. So she's thirty seven,

774
00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:55,799
Speaker 1: if she's dating guys of a similar age, I think

775
00:41:57,239 --> 00:42:00,319
Speaker 1: that will dictate how early on you bring it up.

776
00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:02,560
Speaker 1: So if if you're thirty seven, I think you could

777
00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:08,640
Speaker 1: bring it up fairly early because your physiologically it needs

778
00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:12,080
Speaker 1: to happen soon. So if you're not freezing your eggs

779
00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:15,919
Speaker 1: and you were up against the clock, presumably a guy

780
00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:19,640
Speaker 1: at that age may want to have the same conversation,

781
00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:22,879
Speaker 1: may want to have a family sooner rather than later,

782
00:42:22,920 --> 00:42:25,600
Speaker 1: And he similarly doesn't want to bring it up because

783
00:42:25,640 --> 00:42:29,080
Speaker 1: he thinks there's a six month rule. And so if

784
00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:32,520
Speaker 1: you feel strongly about it, like unless you're doing it

785
00:42:32,560 --> 00:42:35,440
Speaker 1: in a very I don't know, in a in a

786
00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:37,359
Speaker 1: weird way, I think you've got to bring it up.

787
00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:39,400
Speaker 1: And if if the guy doesn't want to be with you,

788
00:42:39,440 --> 00:42:40,840
Speaker 1: then you don't want to be with him anyway. So

789
00:42:41,440 --> 00:42:43,040
Speaker 1: I think there's an organic way you can bring it

790
00:42:43,120 --> 00:42:45,359
Speaker 1: up that's genuine to say, yeah, I'm interested in having

791
00:42:45,360 --> 00:42:47,799
Speaker 1: a family, Like there's no harm in that. That's an

792
00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:51,120
Speaker 1: honest question. You talk about your niece's nephews, cousins, whatever

793
00:42:51,440 --> 00:42:53,200
Speaker 1: I think as a kid, where'd you grow up? You know?

794
00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:55,640
Speaker 1: Here we go marriage. A couple of marriage questions. We

795
00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:59,080
Speaker 1: have four married men in the room. I won't say

796
00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:03,279
Speaker 1: the one that's not married, um, but I can tell

797
00:43:03,280 --> 00:43:07,960
Speaker 1: you about the four that are unhappily married up. But

798
00:43:08,040 --> 00:43:10,160
Speaker 1: this actually applies to you too, buddy, This actually really

799
00:43:10,160 --> 00:43:14,799
Speaker 1: applies to you. Do you believe in having a pre nup? Oh?

800
00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:19,000
Speaker 1: It depends. It depends if you've got, if you've got,

801
00:43:19,520 --> 00:43:22,640
Speaker 1: if you're you have a different career or a career

802
00:43:22,680 --> 00:43:25,040
Speaker 1: that's further long than the person's gonna deal with. It

803
00:43:25,080 --> 00:43:28,399
Speaker 1: depends financially where you're at versus where the person you're

804
00:43:28,440 --> 00:43:31,080
Speaker 1: going to be married. Two is that I think that

805
00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:34,160
Speaker 1: it's important. So it's important for someone like me. If

806
00:43:34,200 --> 00:43:37,480
Speaker 1: I'm marrying someone who isn't in a position like like

807
00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:40,520
Speaker 1: I am, right and someone else who maybe has a

808
00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:43,160
Speaker 1: lot more than I have, I would probably think the

809
00:43:43,200 --> 00:43:44,960
Speaker 1: same thing. You know what I mean? If I was

810
00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:47,839
Speaker 1: to marry someone who is a billionaire, I'd want him

811
00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:49,520
Speaker 1: to have I actually would want him to have a

812
00:43:49,520 --> 00:43:52,400
Speaker 1: pre nup so they would feel like there was authenticity there.

813
00:43:52,440 --> 00:43:55,440
Speaker 1: So do you think that you'll if you should. You

814
00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:57,759
Speaker 1: don't want anybody's stuff, you know what I mean, You

815
00:43:57,800 --> 00:43:59,839
Speaker 1: don't need anybody. Should you get married? Do you think

816
00:43:59,840 --> 00:44:02,840
Speaker 1: you would have a prenup? I would you? Yeah, Dmitri,

817
00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:04,560
Speaker 1: what do you think? Hold on? Hold on before we

818
00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:07,000
Speaker 1: move on? How do you? How? And when would you

819
00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:11,960
Speaker 1: bring that up? Probably before you uh, right before the

820
00:44:12,160 --> 00:44:16,480
Speaker 1: I have to make babies right now on the first date. Well,

821
00:44:16,520 --> 00:44:18,880
Speaker 1: now I'll be in line at Earth Cafe. Now you

822
00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:20,360
Speaker 1: can just have a listen to this episode of the

823
00:44:20,400 --> 00:44:23,040
Speaker 1: podcast and she'll know. Yeah, now you just play the

824
00:44:23,040 --> 00:44:27,520
Speaker 1: podcast exactly. I would basically pass him the menu with

825
00:44:27,640 --> 00:44:32,040
Speaker 1: a prenup attached. I'd say, go to page three. Oh sorry,

826
00:44:32,080 --> 00:44:34,240
Speaker 1: I thought that. I thought that was it's a go menu.

827
00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:37,239
Speaker 1: That's my prep. And I she said if she said,

828
00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:41,000
Speaker 1: I love you and and and this predump signifies you

829
00:44:41,280 --> 00:44:44,719
Speaker 1: questioning my undying love for you and my motives, and

830
00:44:44,760 --> 00:44:48,160
Speaker 1: I'm I'm offended by it. I cannot sign this. And

831
00:44:48,200 --> 00:44:52,000
Speaker 1: I want to continue on and marry you because I

832
00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:54,120
Speaker 1: love you. But I cannot sign this because I feel

833
00:44:54,120 --> 00:44:57,279
Speaker 1: like you're questioning. And I would say, and I let

834
00:44:57,280 --> 00:45:00,640
Speaker 1: me counter that with you can demnonistrate how authentic that

835
00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:03,640
Speaker 1: is by agreeing that you know this truly is just

836
00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:06,840
Speaker 1: about the way you feel about me. I have to

837
00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:10,279
Speaker 1: say I agree with Gavin Ye so I look at

838
00:45:10,280 --> 00:45:14,200
Speaker 1: a prenup as essentially just a declaration of assets. This

839
00:45:14,239 --> 00:45:16,799
Speaker 1: is exactly this is like I had a full life

840
00:45:16,800 --> 00:45:19,760
Speaker 1: before I met my wife. I earned some money playing

841
00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:22,480
Speaker 1: a sport. I worked my tail off for that. Sure

842
00:45:22,560 --> 00:45:26,799
Speaker 1: of course earned a lot of money. Ryan, So you

843
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:29,920
Speaker 1: have a prenup with Julianne, I am not going to

844
00:45:29,960 --> 00:45:33,040
Speaker 1: disclose that. I believe in that. Listen. I don't know

845
00:45:33,080 --> 00:45:37,840
Speaker 1: if he does, but but he might, I believe. I

846
00:45:38,080 --> 00:45:39,759
Speaker 1: think if you come into a position, I think if

847
00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:42,000
Speaker 1: you're in a relationship with someone who has the same amount,

848
00:45:42,239 --> 00:45:45,480
Speaker 1: it's not as important if you have the same basically

849
00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:49,839
Speaker 1: amount of assets or or financial worth or whatever. It's

850
00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:52,760
Speaker 1: one thing. I think if you're twenty two years old,

851
00:45:52,840 --> 00:45:56,560
Speaker 1: you both are coming from not having any money, not

852
00:45:56,640 --> 00:45:59,600
Speaker 1: having a career, you're coming up together, A prenup may

853
00:45:59,600 --> 00:46:04,080
Speaker 1: not be necessary. Maybe two people with starting relationship at

854
00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:08,000
Speaker 1: literally the very beginning of their adulthood, moving into their

855
00:46:08,040 --> 00:46:12,680
Speaker 1: adulthood and and developing a true life together starting from

856
00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:16,560
Speaker 1: essentially their childhood, you know, which is different than being

857
00:46:16,640 --> 00:46:21,480
Speaker 1: forty years old, um, having a career, owning homes or

858
00:46:21,520 --> 00:46:27,200
Speaker 1: businesses already, and then getting into a serious relationship with somebody.

859
00:46:27,239 --> 00:46:31,280
Speaker 1: I think that was just I just think it's in essence,

860
00:46:31,480 --> 00:46:35,600
Speaker 1: just do you think the same way if the woman

861
00:46:35,719 --> 00:46:39,960
Speaker 1: had more yes, I would, yes, what about of course? Yeah.

862
00:46:40,920 --> 00:46:43,200
Speaker 1: I think it's again to what you're saying, Rex, it's

863
00:46:43,239 --> 00:46:45,839
Speaker 1: more of like a transaction. It's a business asset transaction

864
00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:49,640
Speaker 1: and the other side. I mean, I think what's happened

865
00:46:49,680 --> 00:46:54,000
Speaker 1: is we've crossed the two the asset transaction with the

866
00:46:54,040 --> 00:46:57,319
Speaker 1: feelings of love, and mixed those two and saying, oh, well,

867
00:46:57,840 --> 00:47:02,040
Speaker 1: you don't love me because you want to sign this transaction,

868
00:47:02,160 --> 00:47:03,839
Speaker 1: you know, or you want to do this this thing.

869
00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:06,960
Speaker 1: It's like it's like buying a house. No, it's listen,

870
00:47:07,000 --> 00:47:09,279
Speaker 1: we're here, we both want this to work. We're gonna

871
00:47:09,320 --> 00:47:12,040
Speaker 1: do our best. If for some reason this doesn't work out,

872
00:47:12,160 --> 00:47:14,160
Speaker 1: let's just leave with what we came with. Yeah, it's

873
00:47:14,640 --> 00:47:17,560
Speaker 1: it's yeah, I agree, Like it's it's just a state

874
00:47:17,600 --> 00:47:23,360
Speaker 1: of the union, a declaration of no. This is what

875
00:47:23,560 --> 00:47:25,719
Speaker 1: I've done in my life up to this point. This

876
00:47:25,760 --> 00:47:28,200
Speaker 1: is what I've earned or purchased. This is what I've

877
00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:31,120
Speaker 1: accumulated in my life. This is just stating that's where

878
00:47:31,120 --> 00:47:33,640
Speaker 1: it's at. You you haven't been a part of most

879
00:47:33,680 --> 00:47:36,240
Speaker 1: of this, maybe some of it. Maybe you've been engaged

880
00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:37,880
Speaker 1: for a while or dating, so some of that. But

881
00:47:38,320 --> 00:47:41,239
Speaker 1: this is what I have done. This is also what

882
00:47:41,320 --> 00:47:43,600
Speaker 1: you have done, and I don't deserve any of that.

883
00:47:43,920 --> 00:47:45,920
Speaker 1: You did all of that before you ever knew my name.

884
00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:49,640
Speaker 1: It's really simple stuff, you know. It's like you said, logical, yea,

885
00:47:49,960 --> 00:47:52,040
Speaker 1: it is logical, and I don't I don't really see

886
00:47:52,040 --> 00:47:55,279
Speaker 1: it to be part of marriage. I think it's it's

887
00:47:55,480 --> 00:48:01,279
Speaker 1: just because divorces have been demonstrated to be so uh

888
00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:04,600
Speaker 1: so much of a punishment to someone in a lot

889
00:48:04,600 --> 00:48:07,240
Speaker 1: of those scenarios, So you know, you shouldn't be getting

890
00:48:07,239 --> 00:48:11,160
Speaker 1: punished because relationship didn't work out. Um And so I

891
00:48:11,200 --> 00:48:14,560
Speaker 1: think that's why people really got into this whole prenup thing,

892
00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:16,560
Speaker 1: is you know, someone might have come in as a

893
00:48:16,600 --> 00:48:19,279
Speaker 1: higher earner and someone else wasn't a higher owner, the

894
00:48:19,320 --> 00:48:23,880
Speaker 1: relationship failed, and then essentially that person was financially punished

895
00:48:24,160 --> 00:48:26,440
Speaker 1: for being the higher earner in the in the relationship,

896
00:48:26,480 --> 00:48:28,680
Speaker 1: and I don't think that's right, and I don't think

897
00:48:28,680 --> 00:48:31,480
Speaker 1: it's a I don't think it's a demonstration of not

898
00:48:31,719 --> 00:48:34,160
Speaker 1: being in love or believing in the relationship. It's just

899
00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:40,000
Speaker 1: there should be no incentive for failure, and I think

900
00:48:40,000 --> 00:48:43,160
Speaker 1: if one person is going to actually be incentivized for

901
00:48:43,200 --> 00:48:46,399
Speaker 1: it to fail, you're more likely to fail. I think

902
00:48:46,400 --> 00:48:48,760
Speaker 1: it's something that happened between my wife and I think

903
00:48:49,440 --> 00:48:51,520
Speaker 1: she wouldn't want any of the money that I don't

904
00:48:51,520 --> 00:48:57,000
Speaker 1: make from this podcast any other but she also wouldn't

905
00:48:57,040 --> 00:48:59,840
Speaker 1: want the money that we owe to do this that

906
00:49:00,000 --> 00:49:02,680
Speaker 1: I don't want to leave her with a billy bill

907
00:49:02,840 --> 00:49:08,359
Speaker 1: to do this podcast. We need more sponsor. Okay, it's

908
00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:11,359
Speaker 1: funny you mentioned that because I have been build for

909
00:49:11,400 --> 00:49:23,040
Speaker 1: one of these shows. Here's another one. How did slash?

910
00:49:23,120 --> 00:49:28,040
Speaker 1: Would you choose an engagement ring? How did you? I'll

911
00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:31,560
Speaker 1: answer this one. So when my girlfriend and I my

912
00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:34,359
Speaker 1: now wife, we're talking about getting engaged or like that

913
00:49:34,400 --> 00:49:37,440
Speaker 1: we were committed, um, I asked her. I was like,

914
00:49:38,160 --> 00:49:39,560
Speaker 1: I have no idea what to buy you for a

915
00:49:39,560 --> 00:49:41,839
Speaker 1: wedding ring or like an engagement ring. I flat out

916
00:49:41,840 --> 00:49:43,360
Speaker 1: asked her, I have no idea, and I was like,

917
00:49:43,400 --> 00:49:46,279
Speaker 1: think of it this way. If I asked you, or

918
00:49:46,320 --> 00:49:48,839
Speaker 1: if you were to buy me a fishing boat, where

919
00:49:48,840 --> 00:49:51,719
Speaker 1: would you start? And she goes, I have no idea.

920
00:49:51,719 --> 00:49:54,080
Speaker 1: I don't know anything about fishing boats. I'm like, exactly,

921
00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:57,399
Speaker 1: that's how I feel about a ring, So please give me.

922
00:49:57,840 --> 00:49:59,720
Speaker 1: I want you to have the ring that you want

923
00:49:59,760 --> 00:50:01,320
Speaker 1: that you gonna look at the rest of your life

924
00:50:01,320 --> 00:50:04,360
Speaker 1: and love. Give me some guidance on that, and she

925
00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:07,280
Speaker 1: gave me, I can I prefer this shape? I prefer

926
00:50:07,320 --> 00:50:10,560
Speaker 1: an oval. I prefer like a rose gold band. And

927
00:50:10,560 --> 00:50:12,840
Speaker 1: then within that I had flexibility to choose, but I

928
00:50:12,880 --> 00:50:16,680
Speaker 1: had the framework of what she preferred for an engagement ring.

929
00:50:16,840 --> 00:50:19,200
Speaker 1: So she got her ring. Where's your fishing boat, dude?

930
00:50:19,200 --> 00:50:22,040
Speaker 1: I have I have an awesome Yeah, I have a dream.

931
00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:27,000
Speaker 1: But I bought it myself. I bought it myself. That

932
00:50:27,080 --> 00:50:31,680
Speaker 1: was in the prenup. How would you go about buying

933
00:50:31,680 --> 00:50:34,399
Speaker 1: an engagement ring? I would just I would probably ask

934
00:50:34,480 --> 00:50:37,360
Speaker 1: the person behind the counter what would make them say yes,

935
00:50:38,400 --> 00:50:43,400
Speaker 1: and then just go and they would say a gun store, ga,

936
00:50:47,880 --> 00:50:49,520
Speaker 1: how would you do it? How would you do it?

937
00:50:49,600 --> 00:50:53,720
Speaker 1: Let's say, let's say, would you ask your signor partner

938
00:50:53,960 --> 00:51:00,160
Speaker 1: I would say, give me your best Cubic Zirconian right now. No,

939
00:51:00,360 --> 00:51:03,600
Speaker 1: I'll chime in, because Gavin's always clearly Clearlyvin is struggling

940
00:51:03,600 --> 00:51:06,240
Speaker 1: with how did know? I think a lot of it

941
00:51:06,280 --> 00:51:09,080
Speaker 1: goes to, you know, walking around with your wife and

942
00:51:09,120 --> 00:51:11,520
Speaker 1: you you know, they they sort of start leading you

943
00:51:11,560 --> 00:51:14,400
Speaker 1: into that path, right, you know, so they're they're taking

944
00:51:14,440 --> 00:51:17,640
Speaker 1: you out to certain stores, they're showing their friends, you know,

945
00:51:17,719 --> 00:51:21,120
Speaker 1: you're a certain age, thirty two or whenever you're getting married,

946
00:51:21,440 --> 00:51:24,760
Speaker 1: and they're like, oh, what's your name? Gotta three carrot

947
00:51:25,040 --> 00:51:27,640
Speaker 1: diamond with baguettes on the side, and oh, I would

948
00:51:27,640 --> 00:51:29,440
Speaker 1: really like that. And they start doing the homework, and

949
00:51:29,440 --> 00:51:31,279
Speaker 1: then they start giving you feedback and you it's your

950
00:51:31,360 --> 00:51:33,640
Speaker 1: job and your responsibility to start picking up on that. Well,

951
00:51:33,640 --> 00:51:35,120
Speaker 1: you've done this, So is that what happen? Is that

952
00:51:35,120 --> 00:51:38,600
Speaker 1: how you did it? Yeah, that's that's what I did.

953
00:51:38,480 --> 00:51:41,120
Speaker 1: I basically for a while, I just kind of paid

954
00:51:41,160 --> 00:51:44,600
Speaker 1: attention and took notes, like mental notes, and the same

955
00:51:44,600 --> 00:51:46,440
Speaker 1: thing when when they like if I saw if she

956
00:51:46,480 --> 00:51:48,400
Speaker 1: commented on her friend, if any time one of her

957
00:51:48,400 --> 00:51:51,759
Speaker 1: friends got engaged, I listened to their conversation about the

958
00:51:51,880 --> 00:51:53,759
Speaker 1: ring because they sort they just talked about it. So

959
00:51:53,760 --> 00:51:55,839
Speaker 1: then I just kind of took mental notes and paid

960
00:51:55,880 --> 00:51:58,040
Speaker 1: attention to it and then made my best, made my

961
00:51:58,080 --> 00:52:02,440
Speaker 1: best effort, my best guess, and I literally took six

962
00:52:02,520 --> 00:52:07,839
Speaker 1: months of becoming basically a certified gemologist. I'm not exaggerating,

963
00:52:07,880 --> 00:52:15,799
Speaker 1: Like I was calling diamond wholesalers, jewelers, and I was like,

964
00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:18,000
Speaker 1: give me this. So I knew she wanted a pair.

965
00:52:18,280 --> 00:52:22,160
Speaker 1: You're more diamond you could have picked out. That was

966
00:52:22,520 --> 00:52:24,120
Speaker 1: all I knew was she wanted a pair, and I

967
00:52:24,160 --> 00:52:26,200
Speaker 1: was gonna do everything from there. I knew no Halo,

968
00:52:27,280 --> 00:52:30,680
Speaker 1: and I was calling people. He showed up and she

969
00:52:30,760 --> 00:52:33,040
Speaker 1: was disappointed because it wasn't a pair of diamonds. Did

970
00:52:33,040 --> 00:52:38,480
Speaker 1: you guys, Halo? Do you know what that I was

971
00:52:38,520 --> 00:52:43,400
Speaker 1: getting into Melee Micropave, I'm talking about culate and girdle

972
00:52:43,560 --> 00:52:47,319
Speaker 1: and symmetry on a pair. Symmetry is big fluorescence like

973
00:52:47,719 --> 00:52:51,600
Speaker 1: you name it. And these people were gonna kill themselves

974
00:52:51,719 --> 00:52:53,960
Speaker 1: dealing one of them Robins Brothers. This is really good

975
00:52:54,000 --> 00:52:56,239
Speaker 1: for the show. Actually keep going. No, I mean I

976
00:52:56,320 --> 00:53:01,120
Speaker 1: literally spent six months like finding the exact diamond that

977
00:53:01,160 --> 00:53:03,840
Speaker 1: I wanted, and I finally found it to me it

978
00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:07,120
Speaker 1: was a reflection of me. That diamond was going to

979
00:53:07,200 --> 00:53:10,920
Speaker 1: be like, it's a reflection of you, all right, And

980
00:53:10,960 --> 00:53:15,399
Speaker 1: then the jewelry don't come back. Were sorry, they said,

981
00:53:15,480 --> 00:53:19,800
Speaker 1: we have died. I don't. I disagree with you, guys.

982
00:53:19,920 --> 00:53:22,040
Speaker 1: I'm on Ryan's side here. I love the work that

983
00:53:22,080 --> 00:53:24,200
Speaker 1: you put into it. Keep going please. So I ended

984
00:53:24,239 --> 00:53:29,480
Speaker 1: up finding a jeweler in Georgia, the state of Georgia, uh,

985
00:53:29,600 --> 00:53:32,920
Speaker 1: and wired the money, had it fed X to me,

986
00:53:33,000 --> 00:53:35,840
Speaker 1: which was a nerve racking experience. But I designed the

987
00:53:35,840 --> 00:53:44,400
Speaker 1: whole thing myself and was really his profiles, the stones

988
00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:50,240
Speaker 1: cut with his hair like cookies. It's like cookies. Sorry, buddy.

989
00:53:50,680 --> 00:53:52,040
Speaker 1: The thing is, it's like, I don't know about you,

990
00:53:52,120 --> 00:53:54,560
Speaker 1: but it to that at that point in my life,

991
00:53:54,600 --> 00:53:58,040
Speaker 1: was the most money I'd ever spent on one single thing.

992
00:53:58,160 --> 00:53:59,960
Speaker 1: Like it was a big deal that I had worked

993
00:54:00,040 --> 00:54:02,759
Speaker 1: my ass off to save for. So I wanted to

994
00:54:02,800 --> 00:54:04,640
Speaker 1: be proud of it, wanted to make sure it was perfect.

995
00:54:04,880 --> 00:54:08,040
Speaker 1: The funny thing is like two years later, the setting

996
00:54:08,120 --> 00:54:11,000
Speaker 1: was platinum and she decided she actually wanted rose gold,

997
00:54:11,080 --> 00:54:13,760
Speaker 1: and I was so annoyed that she wanted to change

998
00:54:13,800 --> 00:54:15,760
Speaker 1: the band that I had worked so hard to create,

999
00:54:15,800 --> 00:54:18,239
Speaker 1: but we've done so it's all good. That's cool, That's

1000
00:54:18,239 --> 00:54:20,279
Speaker 1: really cool. Okay, I want to that's awesome. I love

1001
00:54:20,320 --> 00:54:23,680
Speaker 1: that the divorce. Do you get that ring back? Only

1002
00:54:23,760 --> 00:54:29,319
Speaker 1: the only, the only, the platinum part? Okay, hold on,

1003
00:54:29,360 --> 00:54:31,520
Speaker 1: I want to get a woman's perspective on this. So

1004
00:54:31,560 --> 00:54:35,160
Speaker 1: we have producer Torri here. So, Tori, were you to

1005
00:54:35,280 --> 00:54:37,880
Speaker 1: get engaged, would you tell the guy what you want?

1006
00:54:38,000 --> 00:54:39,840
Speaker 1: Would you just hope that he picks something out? How

1007
00:54:39,880 --> 00:54:43,279
Speaker 1: would you go about it? Um? I'm huge on surprises,

1008
00:54:43,680 --> 00:54:45,640
Speaker 1: so I wouldn't want to know anything. But I have

1009
00:54:45,680 --> 00:54:47,440
Speaker 1: a huge opinion, So I just wanted to read my

1010
00:54:47,480 --> 00:54:55,240
Speaker 1: brain car part. I kind of have like stubby fingers.

1011
00:54:55,280 --> 00:54:56,800
Speaker 1: I feel like, so I kind of need a big

1012
00:54:56,840 --> 00:54:59,680
Speaker 1: time How do you break that to a guy when

1013
00:54:59,719 --> 00:55:04,440
Speaker 1: you're I know we're young and still working there, but

1014
00:55:04,600 --> 00:55:07,880
Speaker 1: yet you kind of want a nice ring? Sore? Is

1015
00:55:07,920 --> 00:55:10,799
Speaker 1: a nice ring? That is an important idea? Just read

1016
00:55:10,840 --> 00:55:15,920
Speaker 1: my mind? You know, I feel bad for your future fiance.

1017
00:55:15,960 --> 00:55:17,560
Speaker 1: I wouldn't even know who he is. Know how you

1018
00:55:17,600 --> 00:55:19,600
Speaker 1: set that up? Because you say, hey, you know, like

1019
00:55:19,680 --> 00:55:21,960
Speaker 1: I want a too carrot diamond or a one car

1020
00:55:22,520 --> 00:55:26,680
Speaker 1: or something something reasonable if that's reasonable in most people's budget.

1021
00:55:26,960 --> 00:55:29,520
Speaker 1: But then you piggyback that our side by side with

1022
00:55:29,560 --> 00:55:31,759
Speaker 1: two kids, so you can say, hey, we want to

1023
00:55:31,760 --> 00:55:33,799
Speaker 1: I want to have kids, however your marriage is going

1024
00:55:33,840 --> 00:55:35,720
Speaker 1: I want to have kids, and then you're like, okay,

1025
00:55:35,719 --> 00:55:37,680
Speaker 1: I can build one next to that, or if we

1026
00:55:37,719 --> 00:55:39,960
Speaker 1: have two or three kids. That's when you start getting

1027
00:55:40,000 --> 00:55:43,560
Speaker 1: and I think it actually means more to your wedding

1028
00:55:43,640 --> 00:55:47,560
Speaker 1: ring is like the center pieces yourself, your bride, your wife,

1029
00:55:47,880 --> 00:55:50,920
Speaker 1: and then the two other diamond rings diamonds or whatever

1030
00:55:50,960 --> 00:55:53,080
Speaker 1: stones you put on the side or representing the rest

1031
00:55:53,080 --> 00:55:55,720
Speaker 1: of your family. Sounds like you want a jewelry jewelry store.

1032
00:55:56,040 --> 00:56:00,680
Speaker 1: Ryan just texted me that whole answer. So you want

1033
00:56:01,120 --> 00:56:04,040
Speaker 1: the guy to know what you're thinking. You want him

1034
00:56:04,080 --> 00:56:07,439
Speaker 1: to pick the right the right shape, but you also

1035
00:56:07,560 --> 00:56:11,399
Speaker 1: want the big ring. Where will you find such a guy?

1036
00:56:11,520 --> 00:56:14,799
Speaker 1: I don't know, bless his soul, but I have I'm

1037
00:56:14,840 --> 00:56:17,560
Speaker 1: also really bad decision making because I'm so low key

1038
00:56:17,560 --> 00:56:19,799
Speaker 1: that I'm like, whatever you want, babe, But then I

1039
00:56:19,800 --> 00:56:23,200
Speaker 1: if I get it, I feel like I'm terrified. So basically,

1040
00:56:23,239 --> 00:56:26,080
Speaker 1: if you if you proposed to me with the diamond

1041
00:56:26,360 --> 00:56:33,560
Speaker 1: or what do you call that? Ryan? Ryans not parents? Yeah, okay, baby,

1042
00:56:33,560 --> 00:56:35,839
Speaker 1: it's a pear shape like I wouldn't want a pair,

1043
00:56:36,560 --> 00:56:40,160
Speaker 1: So I think you should let It's like I know myself,

1044
00:56:40,239 --> 00:56:42,279
Speaker 1: I'm just going to say whatever you want. I want to,

1045
00:56:42,680 --> 00:56:44,080
Speaker 1: but then I know as soon as I get it,

1046
00:56:44,160 --> 00:56:46,279
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna want Probably, I think it will become

1047
00:56:46,360 --> 00:56:48,760
Speaker 1: second nature, like your friends are gonna start getting engaged,

1048
00:56:48,800 --> 00:56:50,839
Speaker 1: and then you'll be like hmm oh well, and then

1049
00:56:50,880 --> 00:56:54,040
Speaker 1: you'll just start talking about it. Turn in Dmitri and

1050
00:56:54,120 --> 00:56:57,040
Speaker 1: Demitri listen to it. Why don't you go to a

1051
00:56:57,160 --> 00:57:01,080
Speaker 1: hand stylist and see which shape looks best on your hand?

1052
00:57:01,719 --> 00:57:05,399
Speaker 1: Is there a hand stylist? Think you need to give

1053
00:57:05,520 --> 00:57:08,560
Speaker 1: some direction in terms of cut? The shape of the

1054
00:57:09,000 --> 00:57:12,600
Speaker 1: samond is like a pretty big deal that you should

1055
00:57:12,600 --> 00:57:14,360
Speaker 1: be able to figure it at least that out, and

1056
00:57:14,440 --> 00:57:17,680
Speaker 1: let the guy do the rest. Amy, how about you?

1057
00:57:17,720 --> 00:57:19,680
Speaker 1: Because I feel I want I'm really looking forward to

1058
00:57:19,720 --> 00:57:22,480
Speaker 1: this answer when there's the gentleman that calms the whole

1059
00:57:22,640 --> 00:57:26,400
Speaker 1: storm and proposes. I don't know that I want to

1060
00:57:26,400 --> 00:57:32,880
Speaker 1: get married. Okay, well should you? But I just want

1061
00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:36,960
Speaker 1: a diamond band. That's all I want, just the band,

1062
00:57:37,040 --> 00:57:39,560
Speaker 1: the diamond band. I have a friend that has with

1063
00:57:39,640 --> 00:57:43,800
Speaker 1: one diamond for each of your rex is because I've

1064
00:57:43,800 --> 00:57:46,800
Speaker 1: got to call them all the time. So there's the

1065
00:57:46,800 --> 00:57:49,360
Speaker 1: there's the engagement ring, which is like that's the to

1066
00:57:49,480 --> 00:57:52,760
Speaker 1: do and then when you get when you get married,

1067
00:57:52,840 --> 00:57:56,480
Speaker 1: then you have the band that's the promised ring. But

1068
00:57:56,800 --> 00:58:02,080
Speaker 1: you you know the or something like that in high school.

1069
00:58:07,000 --> 00:58:09,880
Speaker 1: For a while. I like the idea of even like,

1070
00:58:10,320 --> 00:58:12,720
Speaker 1: look there is this is what's so weird. I do

1071
00:58:12,920 --> 00:58:16,120
Speaker 1: love the idea of like someone i'm with wearing a

1072
00:58:16,120 --> 00:58:19,320
Speaker 1: wedding band. There's something real sexy about that to me,

1073
00:58:20,280 --> 00:58:22,200
Speaker 1: But I don't know. I mean, yeah, I would. I

1074
00:58:22,240 --> 00:58:24,000
Speaker 1: just want a diamond band, and then I want him

1075
00:58:24,040 --> 00:58:26,000
Speaker 1: to wear I actually like what you wear, Brooks, because

1076
00:58:26,040 --> 00:58:28,800
Speaker 1: it's like that big dark band. I actually, well, I

1077
00:58:28,800 --> 00:58:31,560
Speaker 1: have a wedding This is a Yeah, I have a

1078
00:58:31,600 --> 00:58:34,720
Speaker 1: wedding ring like a rose gold or whatever. I like that.

1079
00:58:34,880 --> 00:58:37,760
Speaker 1: But this this is like a ten dollar silicone ring.

1080
00:58:37,800 --> 00:58:40,280
Speaker 1: This company just sends them to me in it I

1081
00:58:40,360 --> 00:58:42,920
Speaker 1: wear I work work, yeah, and I would trash my

1082
00:58:42,960 --> 00:58:45,439
Speaker 1: wedding ring if I wore it. But I like having

1083
00:58:45,440 --> 00:58:48,120
Speaker 1: a wedding ring on even when I work out. Um,

1084
00:58:48,160 --> 00:58:50,320
Speaker 1: so this is just a great one. Sometimes a break

1085
00:58:50,680 --> 00:58:52,640
Speaker 1: like if I don't get married and I find like

1086
00:58:53,840 --> 00:58:58,800
Speaker 1: I love my life comes back to be so happy. Yeah,

1087
00:59:00,640 --> 00:59:06,440
Speaker 1: but he says, um, okay, now one quick thing, Rick,

1088
00:59:06,520 --> 00:59:09,000
Speaker 1: do you actually know what the you were mentioning the

1089
00:59:09,040 --> 00:59:12,840
Speaker 1: rings of marriage? Do you know the three rings of marriage? No,

1090
00:59:13,200 --> 00:59:16,360
Speaker 1: it's the engagement ring, the wedding ring, and the suffering.

1091
00:59:20,320 --> 00:59:24,640
Speaker 1: Oh jeez, Louise, Okay, here's a great question. I really

1092
00:59:24,680 --> 00:59:27,800
Speaker 1: like this question. Is asking a dad for his daughter's

1093
00:59:27,840 --> 00:59:33,880
Speaker 1: hand in marriage? That's scary? And is it that important? Yes?

1094
00:59:34,080 --> 00:59:36,320
Speaker 1: I was scared less, but I had the best time

1095
00:59:36,360 --> 00:59:39,200
Speaker 1: doing it. It was just it was so cool and

1096
00:59:39,320 --> 00:59:41,800
Speaker 1: so much fun. I was nervous as hell driving. We

1097
00:59:41,800 --> 00:59:43,360
Speaker 1: were meeting at a restaurant, like at a bar and

1098
00:59:43,440 --> 00:59:45,360
Speaker 1: just kind of having a casual drink. I'm pretty sure

1099
00:59:45,360 --> 00:59:49,200
Speaker 1: he knew what was going on, but it was just

1100
00:59:49,360 --> 00:59:51,680
Speaker 1: when we had the conversation, you know, we were sat down,

1101
00:59:51,760 --> 00:59:55,080
Speaker 1: had you know, you know, the bs back and forth,

1102
00:59:55,120 --> 00:59:56,800
Speaker 1: and then it was like, hey, you know, I want

1103
00:59:56,800 --> 00:59:59,600
Speaker 1: to I want to marry I want to marry your daughter.

1104
00:59:59,640 --> 01:00:01,120
Speaker 1: You know, is that okay with you? And he was

1105
01:00:01,200 --> 01:00:04,120
Speaker 1: like awesome, this is great, you know, blah blah blah,

1106
01:00:04,120 --> 01:00:06,280
Speaker 1: And it was over pretty quickly. But it was a

1107
01:00:06,560 --> 01:00:17,400
Speaker 1: very great it was a very killer experience, like awesome, awesome, Yeah, totally, Dmitri. Yeah,

1108
01:00:17,440 --> 01:00:19,160
Speaker 1: I don't think it was that scary. I think it's

1109
01:00:19,200 --> 01:00:21,240
Speaker 1: a nice thing to do, and I think I'm glad

1110
01:00:21,280 --> 01:00:23,080
Speaker 1: I did it. It's actually it was actually my wife's

1111
01:00:23,160 --> 01:00:28,000
Speaker 1: um stepfather. Uh so I actually asked her mom who

1112
01:00:28,080 --> 01:00:30,360
Speaker 1: raised her, and then her stepfather both at the same time.

1113
01:00:30,720 --> 01:00:32,000
Speaker 1: And I thought it was nice. It was a nice

1114
01:00:32,000 --> 01:00:33,880
Speaker 1: thing to I wasn't too nervous, as a little nervous,

1115
01:00:34,200 --> 01:00:35,880
Speaker 1: and he actually made a joke and said no. He

1116
01:00:35,920 --> 01:00:38,720
Speaker 1: said hell no, but he was obviously joking. So what

1117
01:00:38,760 --> 01:00:42,080
Speaker 1: about what about you? You have daughters? I have three daughters. Yeah,

1118
01:00:42,080 --> 01:00:46,120
Speaker 1: would you like their future partners to ask you? Would

1119
01:00:46,120 --> 01:00:48,760
Speaker 1: you prefer that? Yeah? I would. I mean, yeah, I

1120
01:00:48,760 --> 01:00:50,439
Speaker 1: think it's a nice thing to do. I think it's

1121
01:00:50,560 --> 01:00:52,400
Speaker 1: a nice, like you said, a nice bonding thing and

1122
01:00:52,440 --> 01:00:54,560
Speaker 1: respectful thing. I don't think it's important, like I don't

1123
01:00:54,560 --> 01:00:57,120
Speaker 1: mind if they if if they he proposes to her

1124
01:00:57,120 --> 01:00:59,439
Speaker 1: first and then whatever, I think, you know, I don't

1125
01:00:59,440 --> 01:01:01,600
Speaker 1: think it's about to me, I don't think it's about me,

1126
01:01:01,800 --> 01:01:03,720
Speaker 1: so I think, you know, if he wants to do it,

1127
01:01:03,760 --> 01:01:06,000
Speaker 1: then I'm totally open to it. But would you prefer it?

1128
01:01:06,080 --> 01:01:08,080
Speaker 1: Would would that? Would you see that as a sign

1129
01:01:08,120 --> 01:01:10,960
Speaker 1: of I think it would be a pretty cool because

1130
01:01:11,000 --> 01:01:13,840
Speaker 1: it sets up a nice relationship as a father and

1131
01:01:13,880 --> 01:01:18,640
Speaker 1: son in law. As I considered my wife's father almost

1132
01:01:18,680 --> 01:01:21,480
Speaker 1: a friend. We had an unbelievable relationship in many ways

1133
01:01:21,520 --> 01:01:22,960
Speaker 1: because I didn't have a father, and he kind of

1134
01:01:22,960 --> 01:01:27,200
Speaker 1: became a surrogate father too in that way. But I

1135
01:01:27,240 --> 01:01:31,040
Speaker 1: think what what my strategy was. I took uh, he

1136
01:01:31,680 --> 01:01:35,200
Speaker 1: my father in law and his or my mother in law,

1137
01:01:35,280 --> 01:01:39,040
Speaker 1: so my wife's parents both together. Jesus Christ, thanks for

1138
01:01:39,040 --> 01:01:44,320
Speaker 1: making this simple. It's early. Sorry, I'm still thinking about

1139
01:01:44,320 --> 01:01:48,040
Speaker 1: the diamond and the gemology stuff and my hair looks good. No,

1140
01:01:48,160 --> 01:01:50,640
Speaker 1: but I took them both on a walk and asked

1141
01:01:50,720 --> 01:01:53,240
Speaker 1: them both together, which I know my mother in law

1142
01:01:53,400 --> 01:01:57,000
Speaker 1: really valued that. It wasn't in today's day and age

1143
01:01:57,040 --> 01:02:01,800
Speaker 1: like it seemed progressive. So could to me something about

1144
01:02:01,800 --> 01:02:04,080
Speaker 1: it makes me uncomfortable? I'm not sure I would. I

1145
01:02:04,120 --> 01:02:07,040
Speaker 1: don't know what you mean on whose part? If you're

1146
01:02:07,600 --> 01:02:10,640
Speaker 1: like I'm thinking about myself and then if somebody's gonna

1147
01:02:10,680 --> 01:02:14,480
Speaker 1: go ask my dad, yucky. No, that's the past for me.

1148
01:02:14,600 --> 01:02:17,880
Speaker 1: No really, Yeah, but you also said you want to

1149
01:02:17,880 --> 01:02:25,400
Speaker 1: get married. I'm not. I don't want that. I definitely.

1150
01:02:26,760 --> 01:02:29,280
Speaker 1: I don't think my dad would care, because he knows

1151
01:02:29,360 --> 01:02:33,080
Speaker 1: me so well that he I am uncomfortable by it.

1152
01:02:33,120 --> 01:02:35,800
Speaker 1: I don't know why something is triggering me right now,

1153
01:02:35,840 --> 01:02:37,760
Speaker 1: as you. I've never thought about it before, and I

1154
01:02:39,120 --> 01:02:42,160
Speaker 1: attention I do not want the person to ask my

1155
01:02:42,240 --> 01:02:46,360
Speaker 1: dad now. Well. I also think you're you know, it's

1156
01:02:46,360 --> 01:02:48,400
Speaker 1: not like when you're really young. I think that the

1157
01:02:48,480 --> 01:02:50,680
Speaker 1: parents worry more about who they're gonna marry. I think

1158
01:02:50,720 --> 01:02:53,680
Speaker 1: you're well establishing your career, and I don't think that

1159
01:02:53,720 --> 01:02:55,439
Speaker 1: your parents are like, oh, I hope she has someone

1160
01:02:55,480 --> 01:02:56,760
Speaker 1: that will take care of her, because you take care

1161
01:02:56,760 --> 01:02:58,640
Speaker 1: of yourself. So I don't think it's like they'd be

1162
01:02:58,720 --> 01:03:00,520
Speaker 1: that worried about if you out like it was a

1163
01:03:00,520 --> 01:03:02,240
Speaker 1: good decision. I think they'd probably be all right with it.

1164
01:03:02,440 --> 01:03:06,040
Speaker 1: So the question was is it that scary? I did

1165
01:03:06,080 --> 01:03:08,480
Speaker 1: it to my father in law and I wasn't scared

1166
01:03:08,480 --> 01:03:11,120
Speaker 1: at all of it, even if he said no, I

1167
01:03:11,160 --> 01:03:13,840
Speaker 1: wasn't scared of that because I love I loved his daughter,

1168
01:03:13,840 --> 01:03:16,560
Speaker 1: I loved my now wife, and I was gonna do

1169
01:03:16,640 --> 01:03:21,680
Speaker 1: it anyway. But so it's not that scary. Yeah, I

1170
01:03:21,680 --> 01:03:32,840
Speaker 1: don't like bees dead lips, I don't like bees man um,

1171
01:03:33,280 --> 01:03:36,240
Speaker 1: but I will say, like you said, Rick, it's a

1172
01:03:36,320 --> 01:03:40,160
Speaker 1: really cool moment. It's a really cool moment. I did it.

1173
01:03:40,400 --> 01:03:44,120
Speaker 1: I actually asked my father in law out on the

1174
01:03:44,160 --> 01:03:46,560
Speaker 1: balcony of our lakehouse, which is where I proposed to

1175
01:03:47,680 --> 01:03:50,680
Speaker 1: m Yeah. Yeah, I didn't never never, I never applied.

1176
01:03:50,760 --> 01:03:52,440
Speaker 1: Tried to ask him in the boat, but he wouldn't

1177
01:03:52,440 --> 01:03:55,760
Speaker 1: get the boat with me. So that's probably a good

1178
01:03:55,760 --> 01:03:58,960
Speaker 1: idea on his part, because I mean, but I think

1179
01:03:58,960 --> 01:04:01,840
Speaker 1: it's I think it's super cool. I think as from

1180
01:04:01,880 --> 01:04:05,800
Speaker 1: my standpoint, it was really enjoyable to just honor him

1181
01:04:05,880 --> 01:04:08,480
Speaker 1: and his role in his her life and his continued

1182
01:04:08,600 --> 01:04:11,400
Speaker 1: role in her life. Um. And then someday, if I'm

1183
01:04:11,440 --> 01:04:13,120
Speaker 1: a father, I would love to have that moment if

1184
01:04:13,120 --> 01:04:16,360
Speaker 1: I had a daughter and she and she was to

1185
01:04:16,360 --> 01:04:18,160
Speaker 1: get married, if he was to ask, I think it'd

1186
01:04:18,160 --> 01:04:20,560
Speaker 1: be really Yeah. I think I think it's super cool.

1187
01:04:20,560 --> 01:04:22,560
Speaker 1: I have a daughter and I would just I would

1188
01:04:22,560 --> 01:04:25,600
Speaker 1: want that. I love that you go swimming with sharks,

1189
01:04:25,600 --> 01:04:28,120
Speaker 1: and yet you're like, oh bees, man, you know what

1190
01:04:28,480 --> 01:04:33,240
Speaker 1: it's because, dude, when I was younger, I was out

1191
01:04:33,240 --> 01:04:34,840
Speaker 1: golf and I ripped the ball into the bush. I

1192
01:04:34,840 --> 01:04:36,160
Speaker 1: went in to get it and I got stung by

1193
01:04:36,200 --> 01:04:38,080
Speaker 1: two bees and one was right on the ear low

1194
01:04:38,480 --> 01:04:41,320
Speaker 1: and it just scarred me. Yeah, that's like, I hear you. Yeah,

1195
01:04:41,440 --> 01:04:43,800
Speaker 1: I just didn't like I had a similar experience in

1196
01:04:44,800 --> 01:04:48,680
Speaker 1: the other. And then this is another category called other.

1197
01:04:48,760 --> 01:04:50,600
Speaker 1: This is where we throw the mixed bag of stuff.

1198
01:04:51,040 --> 01:04:54,800
Speaker 1: Do you wash your hands after using the bathroom? Particularly

1199
01:04:55,200 --> 01:04:58,360
Speaker 1: you're a nation, Can I take this one gold baby?

1200
01:04:58,400 --> 01:05:01,080
Speaker 1: Go a friend of mine and he's told me, no,

1201
01:05:01,280 --> 01:05:04,880
Speaker 1: why would I wash my hands after I take a piss?

1202
01:05:04,960 --> 01:05:07,440
Speaker 1: I wash my hands before I take a piss. It's

1203
01:05:07,440 --> 01:05:09,480
Speaker 1: my hands that are dirty, it's not what I'm holding

1204
01:05:09,480 --> 01:05:12,200
Speaker 1: when I'm taking a piss. And actually there's some sound

1205
01:05:12,200 --> 01:05:15,560
Speaker 1: logic to that. I will tell you if I'm at

1206
01:05:15,560 --> 01:05:18,680
Speaker 1: the urinal and there's no one else in the bathroom,

1207
01:05:18,680 --> 01:05:21,080
Speaker 1: it's an like fifty percent of the time, No, I'm

1208
01:05:21,080 --> 01:05:24,000
Speaker 1: not going to wash my hands. The other like, then

1209
01:05:24,080 --> 01:05:25,440
Speaker 1: there are sometimes when I'm like do I want to

1210
01:05:25,480 --> 01:05:28,240
Speaker 1: bother myself, But there's a guy in the stall. I'll

1211
01:05:28,280 --> 01:05:31,640
Speaker 1: put the water on, put my finger underneath two or

1212
01:05:31,680 --> 01:05:33,960
Speaker 1: three times, so it sounds like I'm washing them, and

1213
01:05:33,960 --> 01:05:35,720
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm not getting my hands with this guy

1214
01:05:35,720 --> 01:05:40,600
Speaker 1: thinks I am what an idiot? You really got him castanzas.

1215
01:05:41,840 --> 01:05:44,200
Speaker 1: But I have a thing about that, so I definitely

1216
01:05:44,200 --> 01:05:47,080
Speaker 1: wash my hands after I go pee. But do you

1217
01:05:47,120 --> 01:05:50,520
Speaker 1: flush the toilet? If it's yellow, let it mellow, If

1218
01:05:50,560 --> 01:05:52,760
Speaker 1: it's brown, flush it down? Is that what you're saying?

1219
01:05:54,320 --> 01:05:59,560
Speaker 1: Probably flush the toilet every third time, wait for which

1220
01:06:00,040 --> 01:06:03,840
Speaker 1: it depends. Did you eat asparagus that day? You know?

1221
01:06:03,840 --> 01:06:07,240
Speaker 1: Because I don't want to waste the water? Conservative? What

1222
01:06:07,320 --> 01:06:11,440
Speaker 1: about this? Let me ask you this question, gentlemen, Let

1223
01:06:11,480 --> 01:06:14,200
Speaker 1: me ask you this question. Because it's possible to go

1224
01:06:15,120 --> 01:06:18,520
Speaker 1: to take a leak without touching it, you know, unzip

1225
01:06:18,600 --> 01:06:21,560
Speaker 1: the pants, you can pull boxers down, hook it around, boom.

1226
01:06:21,680 --> 01:06:24,240
Speaker 1: It's possible. Do you wash the hands in that situation?

1227
01:06:24,520 --> 01:06:26,560
Speaker 1: Tor is looking at me like, what the hell? No,

1228
01:06:26,720 --> 01:06:29,280
Speaker 1: Because I'm playing on my phone at the same time.

1229
01:06:31,200 --> 01:06:35,400
Speaker 1: Mine comes out of the ankle, So the urine comes

1230
01:06:35,400 --> 01:06:41,840
Speaker 1: out at the ankle. Because he teys himself. He's so nervous. Okay.

1231
01:06:41,920 --> 01:06:44,800
Speaker 1: Moving on from that, I don't know if that's gonna

1232
01:06:44,840 --> 01:06:48,400
Speaker 1: make the shore that's gonna get cut. Okay, moving on

1233
01:06:48,440 --> 01:06:56,000
Speaker 1: to another other question, breastfeeding in public acceptable, attractive, not accepting?

1234
01:06:56,280 --> 01:07:00,240
Speaker 1: What do you look at? Can answer that one. I'm

1235
01:07:00,240 --> 01:07:02,400
Speaker 1: fine with it. I have no problem whatsoever. Are you

1236
01:07:02,440 --> 01:07:05,720
Speaker 1: seeing the boob here? Sure, it doesn't matter to me, honestly,

1237
01:07:05,800 --> 01:07:10,920
Speaker 1: like it's you're feeding a baby? What do I care? Okay?

1238
01:07:10,920 --> 01:07:15,840
Speaker 1: Can we be I mean, I mean to have zero

1239
01:07:15,920 --> 01:07:18,600
Speaker 1: problems with it whatsoever. That's the normal side of me.

1240
01:07:18,680 --> 01:07:21,040
Speaker 1: The other side of me is like, you can't not

1241
01:07:21,240 --> 01:07:23,240
Speaker 1: creep out and like try to look at the boob.

1242
01:07:25,480 --> 01:07:27,840
Speaker 1: We didn't discuss whether we were trying to look. Are

1243
01:07:27,840 --> 01:07:30,360
Speaker 1: we okay with it? Yeah, we're totally okay with it,

1244
01:07:30,400 --> 01:07:33,600
Speaker 1: But you're also kind of peaking. Who doesn't want to

1245
01:07:33,640 --> 01:07:36,960
Speaker 1: see that even though there's like a six month old

1246
01:07:37,000 --> 01:07:43,439
Speaker 1: on it. I'm fine with people doing it. I don't.

1247
01:07:43,520 --> 01:07:45,760
Speaker 1: I don't have a problem with it. I mean, I

1248
01:07:45,760 --> 01:07:47,720
Speaker 1: know some people think it's gross. I do not. And

1249
01:07:47,760 --> 01:07:51,520
Speaker 1: obviously I have four kids, so you know I'm well

1250
01:07:51,680 --> 01:07:54,880
Speaker 1: versed in breastfeeding. But I mean if you're at the airport,

1251
01:07:54,920 --> 01:07:56,200
Speaker 1: like some people are like, oh my god, look at

1252
01:07:56,240 --> 01:07:57,880
Speaker 1: that over there, and it's like, but look at the

1253
01:07:57,880 --> 01:08:00,320
Speaker 1: other way, there's some fat ass and chilies. How went

1254
01:08:00,360 --> 01:08:03,720
Speaker 1: on a on avocado egg rolls, right Southwestern egg rolls,

1255
01:08:03,760 --> 01:08:06,000
Speaker 1: like jamming him in his face, Like that's grosser than

1256
01:08:06,080 --> 01:08:08,600
Speaker 1: what's happening over on the other side. A buddy of

1257
01:08:08,600 --> 01:08:10,320
Speaker 1: mine told me he knew it was time to start

1258
01:08:10,320 --> 01:08:12,680
Speaker 1: working out and that he needed to lose weight when

1259
01:08:13,240 --> 01:08:16,479
Speaker 1: his kid crawled into bed and crawled up to him

1260
01:08:16,560 --> 01:08:21,439
Speaker 1: and put his mouth on his own boob, and he

1261
01:08:21,520 --> 01:08:24,840
Speaker 1: was like, no, it's it's dad. It's not mom, it's dad.

1262
01:08:24,960 --> 01:08:27,599
Speaker 1: And he's like, that's when I knew I had man boobs.

1263
01:08:27,600 --> 01:08:32,439
Speaker 1: It was time to and this and this buddy of yours, brick,

1264
01:08:32,760 --> 01:08:36,040
Speaker 1: the only thing I have about about breastfeeding is like

1265
01:08:36,439 --> 01:08:38,439
Speaker 1: you have the kid that's too old, you know. I

1266
01:08:38,439 --> 01:08:46,400
Speaker 1: think that's when it gets weird, Like like nine he saw.

1267
01:08:46,479 --> 01:08:47,920
Speaker 1: I was at the beach other day and like there

1268
01:08:48,000 --> 01:08:50,080
Speaker 1: was literally like a five year old that rolled up

1269
01:08:50,080 --> 01:08:51,960
Speaker 1: to his mom and started like going at it, and

1270
01:08:52,040 --> 01:08:56,200
Speaker 1: I was like, dude, what's up with that? Interesting kid?

1271
01:08:56,240 --> 01:08:58,280
Speaker 1: Wrote a skateboard to go breastfeed and rex like that

1272
01:08:58,320 --> 01:09:02,160
Speaker 1: kid's too big, I can't see the boob. My thought

1273
01:09:02,040 --> 01:09:04,800
Speaker 1: on it, my thought on it is I have I mean,

1274
01:09:04,880 --> 01:09:07,640
Speaker 1: I'm not a woman. I don't have kids, But if so,

1275
01:09:07,680 --> 01:09:09,240
Speaker 1: I don't even know. I don't have no idea what

1276
01:09:09,280 --> 01:09:10,720
Speaker 1: they would go through. So if you need to do it,

1277
01:09:10,760 --> 01:09:13,360
Speaker 1: go ahead and do it. Like, imagine the stress on

1278
01:09:13,400 --> 01:09:15,200
Speaker 1: a mother. Strain on a mother to look after a kids,

1279
01:09:15,439 --> 01:09:17,559
Speaker 1: feed a kid? What like? Who am I to say

1280
01:09:17,600 --> 01:09:20,040
Speaker 1: that you can't do it with I don't know what's

1281
01:09:20,080 --> 01:09:22,960
Speaker 1: going on in your how busy? Yeah, is it better

1282
01:09:23,040 --> 01:09:24,880
Speaker 1: for the kid to be hungry because you can't you

1283
01:09:24,920 --> 01:09:27,200
Speaker 1: don't want to look and see that? Like, get over yourself.

1284
01:09:27,280 --> 01:09:30,000
Speaker 1: I agree. So, okay, this is a great question, A

1285
01:09:30,120 --> 01:09:32,719
Speaker 1: nice segue from that. Rick, I'm gonna lead with you

1286
01:09:33,680 --> 01:09:37,720
Speaker 1: when we boob guy or leg guy or leg guy

1287
01:09:38,200 --> 01:09:42,800
Speaker 1: everything in between. Oh jeez, why do you say it

1288
01:09:42,840 --> 01:09:47,200
Speaker 1: like you're ordering. I didn't say the biggie biggie menu.

1289
01:09:50,880 --> 01:09:56,160
Speaker 1: Dmitri just left the studio. Boom guy or leg guy.

1290
01:09:56,280 --> 01:09:59,360
Speaker 1: I think this is a question. I think it's such

1291
01:09:59,400 --> 01:10:04,200
Speaker 1: a tough one. Man. I have to decide right now.

1292
01:10:04,320 --> 01:10:06,000
Speaker 1: Or can I think about it on the plane or

1293
01:10:06,720 --> 01:10:12,280
Speaker 1: I mean I have to choose, Like I mean, I

1294
01:10:12,320 --> 01:10:15,599
Speaker 1: like it all. I like legs, I like the breasts,

1295
01:10:15,600 --> 01:10:22,240
Speaker 1: I like the butt, I like the face, shoulders, arms, elbows, forearms. Okay,

1296
01:10:22,720 --> 01:10:26,320
Speaker 1: I mean that doesn't help at all. Ryan, I would

1297
01:10:26,320 --> 01:10:30,040
Speaker 1: say leg guy, le guy for you, boom guy, leg

1298
01:10:30,120 --> 01:10:35,440
Speaker 1: guy or toes guy. I think I'm a leg guy.

1299
01:10:35,920 --> 01:10:41,960
Speaker 1: I think I think the gateway to the toe. It's

1300
01:10:41,960 --> 01:10:45,360
Speaker 1: a long thoroughfare on the highway to the toes. And

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01:10:46,400 --> 01:10:49,479
Speaker 1: gave me to the leg bro. Not if your ultimate

1302
01:10:49,520 --> 01:10:52,800
Speaker 1: goal is the toe. I wouldn't say that's my ultimate goal.

1303
01:10:52,960 --> 01:10:57,040
Speaker 1: Oh Gavin needs a new T shirt. Yeah, I I

1304
01:10:57,479 --> 01:11:02,599
Speaker 1: there's there's something very sexy about a beautiful pair of legs.

1305
01:11:02,920 --> 01:11:06,280
Speaker 1: I find it very crazy. Yeah, I agree. Um Dmitri,

1306
01:11:06,640 --> 01:11:13,320
Speaker 1: you say, like, yeah, Aby, Aby, what do you think

1307
01:11:13,880 --> 01:11:18,360
Speaker 1: I'm wearing shorts? What? Two more, you're wearing short shorts.

1308
01:11:18,400 --> 01:11:22,320
Speaker 1: You're showing off them legs. Sure, sure we should get

1309
01:11:22,400 --> 01:11:27,400
Speaker 1: narrow as a sponsor. Um thoughts on stretch marks, whether

1310
01:11:27,479 --> 01:11:32,040
Speaker 1: she has had children or not. I don't even understand

1311
01:11:32,200 --> 01:11:35,200
Speaker 1: you mean, like, are we saying marks that we think

1312
01:11:35,240 --> 01:11:38,240
Speaker 1: it's kind of gross or to be honest with you,

1313
01:11:38,360 --> 01:11:40,439
Speaker 1: like at that point in time, it's just that's kind

1314
01:11:40,439 --> 01:11:42,320
Speaker 1: of the fact of life, and that's a reality. And

1315
01:11:42,479 --> 01:11:45,679
Speaker 1: if you're really into that person and you're doing whatever

1316
01:11:45,680 --> 01:11:48,519
Speaker 1: you're doing with that individual, then it doesn't doesn't really

1317
01:11:48,520 --> 01:11:50,720
Speaker 1: bother me. So what if you weren't super into them,

1318
01:11:50,760 --> 01:11:53,559
Speaker 1: Like you saw a girl who's super pretty, but she

1319
01:11:53,680 --> 01:11:57,080
Speaker 1: had like you could see a little cellulite. I don't

1320
01:11:57,080 --> 01:11:58,360
Speaker 1: have a problem with I think you need to look

1321
01:11:58,360 --> 01:11:59,960
Speaker 1: in the mirror because I'm sure there's something wrong with

1322
01:12:00,080 --> 01:12:02,559
Speaker 1: you if you're being that particular about someone else. Look

1323
01:12:02,560 --> 01:12:05,280
Speaker 1: in the mirror and you'll find something about yourself. Ryan

1324
01:12:06,920 --> 01:12:14,080
Speaker 1: what Ryan Bryan has tried. He won't yan he perfect?

1325
01:12:14,439 --> 01:12:17,719
Speaker 1: Look at him. This was in the news. Recently, Courtney

1326
01:12:17,800 --> 01:12:21,000
Speaker 1: Kardashian posted a photo. Look I'm I'm I'm hip to

1327
01:12:21,040 --> 01:12:24,800
Speaker 1: this guys, come on, can you stop making the stretch marks?

1328
01:12:24,840 --> 01:12:27,439
Speaker 1: And she embraced it, and she was praised by people

1329
01:12:28,160 --> 01:12:31,800
Speaker 1: for not doctoring the photo and just owning the fact that, yeah,

1330
01:12:31,880 --> 01:12:34,880
Speaker 1: I have stretch marks, but I'm fit and like this

1331
01:12:35,000 --> 01:12:37,840
Speaker 1: is what it is. It's kind of like the same

1332
01:12:37,840 --> 01:12:39,479
Speaker 1: as a as a dad bod, Right, you know what

1333
01:12:39,479 --> 01:12:42,559
Speaker 1: I mean, It's like we're all in quasi shape and

1334
01:12:42,600 --> 01:12:45,280
Speaker 1: but I still have a gut and I don't I

1335
01:12:45,280 --> 01:12:50,439
Speaker 1: don't think. I don't find any correlation to stretch marks

1336
01:12:50,479 --> 01:12:52,839
Speaker 1: to a dad bot, I stretch marks is a physical

1337
01:12:52,880 --> 01:12:55,639
Speaker 1: thing that like you gave birth, like you're like that

1338
01:12:55,720 --> 01:12:58,680
Speaker 1: was something that's a that's a I don't know. I

1339
01:12:58,680 --> 01:13:02,599
Speaker 1: don't see how you correlate those, Rick, How did those

1340
01:13:02,600 --> 01:13:08,960
Speaker 1: correlate somebody giving birth to getting lazy? Coming from brooks

1341
01:13:09,040 --> 01:13:14,960
Speaker 1: Like I'm just wondering. Yeah, I don't know. Just give

1342
01:13:15,000 --> 01:13:17,880
Speaker 1: the old glass is a good pay? How about this one?

1343
01:13:19,360 --> 01:13:22,439
Speaker 1: Is food the way to a man's soul? What should

1344
01:13:22,479 --> 01:13:25,720
Speaker 1: she attempt to make? So? If food is the way

1345
01:13:25,760 --> 01:13:28,160
Speaker 1: to your soul, is it? And if it is, what

1346
01:13:28,240 --> 01:13:31,040
Speaker 1: should she make for you? Is she a good cook?

1347
01:13:31,200 --> 01:13:33,479
Speaker 1: Or is she just attempting to make something? But she's

1348
01:13:33,520 --> 01:13:35,840
Speaker 1: not a good cook And I'd rather have take out,

1349
01:13:36,560 --> 01:13:38,960
Speaker 1: But I would love me. Can you help this guy?

1350
01:13:39,000 --> 01:13:42,760
Speaker 1: I would love a chicken farmer sian a little carbonara pasta.

1351
01:13:43,000 --> 01:13:45,280
Speaker 1: I'm a chicken farm guy. I don't think it's the

1352
01:13:45,320 --> 01:13:48,960
Speaker 1: gateway or what is it? The uh? What is the

1353
01:13:49,000 --> 01:13:50,800
Speaker 1: food away? To a man's soul. I don't think it's

1354
01:13:50,800 --> 01:13:52,920
Speaker 1: the way to a man soul. For me, it's like,

1355
01:13:53,640 --> 01:13:57,240
Speaker 1: don't be so obsessed with oh my god, I ate

1356
01:13:57,280 --> 01:14:00,240
Speaker 1: a carb or just food is great. It's not the

1357
01:14:00,240 --> 01:14:02,120
Speaker 1: way to the soul. But it's like, don't be don't

1358
01:14:02,120 --> 01:14:04,360
Speaker 1: be uptight about it. Like you want chicken parm, have

1359
01:14:04,439 --> 01:14:06,599
Speaker 1: chicken parm? You want to like make sure you eat

1360
01:14:06,760 --> 01:14:09,000
Speaker 1: nice you know, good foods that you enjoy. And don't

1361
01:14:09,040 --> 01:14:15,040
Speaker 1: you think it's sexy A gal that can cook? Yeah, hell, yes, yes,

1362
01:14:15,600 --> 01:14:18,519
Speaker 1: it's hot as hell. Yes. My my wife is an

1363
01:14:18,520 --> 01:14:21,760
Speaker 1: exceptional cook. She can go in the fridge and like

1364
01:14:22,080 --> 01:14:24,320
Speaker 1: every meal is different, every meal. She's never made the

1365
01:14:24,320 --> 01:14:26,320
Speaker 1: same meal twice. She'll go in the fridge and find

1366
01:14:26,360 --> 01:14:28,280
Speaker 1: some things, whip it together, and I'm like, oh my god,

1367
01:14:28,320 --> 01:14:33,880
Speaker 1: that's delicious and it's very healthy. And that cannot cook.

1368
01:14:35,200 --> 01:14:43,680
Speaker 1: We're a special cook. We're special to amy. Would you

1369
01:14:43,800 --> 01:14:45,439
Speaker 1: if if you knew a guy it was important to

1370
01:14:45,439 --> 01:14:47,639
Speaker 1: a guy, If you knew it was important to a guy,

1371
01:14:47,720 --> 01:14:50,640
Speaker 1: the guy you really liked, would you try something? Um? No,

1372
01:14:51,400 --> 01:14:54,160
Speaker 1: I have a nice lady who cooks, and she drops

1373
01:14:54,160 --> 01:14:55,640
Speaker 1: it off at my house, and it seems like I

1374
01:14:55,680 --> 01:14:58,920
Speaker 1: cooked it, so we're good. Okay, your mouth was moving,

1375
01:14:58,960 --> 01:15:03,360
Speaker 1: but it sounded like something R would say. It's like,

1376
01:15:03,439 --> 01:15:06,760
Speaker 1: if you're not a good cook, fine then but if

1377
01:15:06,760 --> 01:15:08,760
Speaker 1: you are a good cook, it's a plus. Like my

1378
01:15:08,880 --> 01:15:12,200
Speaker 1: man will always have a delicious, home cooked meal ready

1379
01:15:12,240 --> 01:15:15,200
Speaker 1: for him at all times. I just didn't prepare. That's

1380
01:15:15,200 --> 01:15:20,040
Speaker 1: a bad statement. I didn't prepare it. Why No, that

1381
01:15:20,160 --> 01:15:22,640
Speaker 1: just like threw me into like the fifties, and I

1382
01:15:22,680 --> 01:15:27,679
Speaker 1: was for having the refrigerator full of healthy, great delicious food,

1383
01:15:28,160 --> 01:15:31,639
Speaker 1: but I don't cook it, so I will handle figuring

1384
01:15:31,640 --> 01:15:33,840
Speaker 1: it out. What he's saying is that the guy should

1385
01:15:33,840 --> 01:15:38,519
Speaker 1: also be sure, like that can be my job. I

1386
01:15:38,560 --> 01:15:41,360
Speaker 1: have no problem with that being my thing, making sure

1387
01:15:41,400 --> 01:15:44,479
Speaker 1: the food is, the refrigerator is stocked, and the meals

1388
01:15:44,479 --> 01:15:46,680
Speaker 1: are planned. I just can't cook it. Yeah, I don't know.

1389
01:15:46,720 --> 01:15:49,160
Speaker 1: I mean I I we my wife and I we

1390
01:15:49,280 --> 01:15:51,479
Speaker 1: basically like kind of trade off like their their nights

1391
01:15:51,520 --> 01:15:53,160
Speaker 1: where I'm like, oh, I want to make a you know,

1392
01:15:53,920 --> 01:15:57,280
Speaker 1: slowly smoked ribs or you know, something like that, and

1393
01:15:57,320 --> 01:15:59,160
Speaker 1: she's like, I want to do resulted tonight. I think

1394
01:15:59,160 --> 01:16:01,479
Speaker 1: you just kind of traded off on back and forth.

1395
01:16:01,840 --> 01:16:05,479
Speaker 1: I don't think it's This is my job and I

1396
01:16:05,520 --> 01:16:07,880
Speaker 1: need to make sure that the fridge is stocked, and

1397
01:16:07,960 --> 01:16:10,120
Speaker 1: I'm going to cook every single night because I'm gonna

1398
01:16:10,200 --> 01:16:14,240
Speaker 1: satisfy you. Like, that's not how we work. I might

1399
01:16:14,280 --> 01:16:16,000
Speaker 1: not want to do the garbage. I don't know where

1400
01:16:16,040 --> 01:16:17,960
Speaker 1: the dishes. I'm just saying, like, if that's gonna be

1401
01:16:17,960 --> 01:16:20,160
Speaker 1: gonna be my responsibility, totally fine. I just can't cook.

1402
01:16:20,479 --> 01:16:22,320
Speaker 1: I suck at cooking, but I'm totally fine to take

1403
01:16:22,360 --> 01:16:26,160
Speaker 1: the responsibility on being the organizer of that. Let me

1404
01:16:26,200 --> 01:16:28,559
Speaker 1: say this, So I were talking about a couple different

1405
01:16:28,600 --> 01:16:30,719
Speaker 1: I agree with you. My wife and I alternate cooking

1406
01:16:30,960 --> 01:16:33,519
Speaker 1: like barbecue. I'll and I'll say this, her cooking is

1407
01:16:33,560 --> 01:16:36,479
Speaker 1: way way better, like way better. I I did like

1408
01:16:36,520 --> 01:16:38,640
Speaker 1: barbecue and it's kind of and then just steam some

1409
01:16:38,720 --> 01:16:41,719
Speaker 1: vegetables and it's kind of plain. But um, she's excess

1410
01:16:42,080 --> 01:16:45,240
Speaker 1: same here. But I'll say this to any gentleman out

1411
01:16:45,240 --> 01:16:48,920
Speaker 1: there listening. The cooks don't clean. So if your wife

1412
01:16:49,000 --> 01:16:53,920
Speaker 1: or or if you're um girlfriend cooks for you, step

1413
01:16:54,000 --> 01:16:57,000
Speaker 1: up and clean. That's what I'm saying that in our house,

1414
01:16:57,080 --> 01:16:58,679
Speaker 1: that's how I say I cook doesn't clean. My wife

1415
01:16:58,680 --> 01:17:02,040
Speaker 1: cooks dinner, she can go read a book, going to bathtub,

1416
01:17:02,040 --> 01:17:04,200
Speaker 1: whatever she wants. I will clean the crap out of

1417
01:17:04,200 --> 01:17:06,800
Speaker 1: that kitchen if she puts in that effort and cooks dinner,

1418
01:17:07,000 --> 01:17:09,720
Speaker 1: and I hope that it's it's reciprocated. If I put

1419
01:17:09,720 --> 01:17:12,559
Speaker 1: that effort in and provide a plate for her, I

1420
01:17:12,640 --> 01:17:14,080
Speaker 1: agree with that. I don't mind doing that. But you

1421
01:17:14,080 --> 01:17:16,360
Speaker 1: know what my dad used to say. He'd say, you

1422
01:17:16,439 --> 01:17:18,240
Speaker 1: put so much work, and you made this beautiful meal.

1423
01:17:18,520 --> 01:17:21,400
Speaker 1: Finish off the job. Make that the whole special night. Ready,

1424
01:17:24,600 --> 01:17:31,960
Speaker 1: finish off? No no, no, meaning he cooked. My dad said,

1425
01:17:32,160 --> 01:17:34,479
Speaker 1: I cooked a nice meal. I'm gonna finish off this

1426
01:17:34,600 --> 01:17:36,240
Speaker 1: nice thing, and I'm gonna do the dishes myself. I'm

1427
01:17:36,240 --> 01:17:40,080
Speaker 1: gonna I'm gonna do the whole thing. Yes, that part,

1428
01:17:40,120 --> 01:17:42,519
Speaker 1: and let's let's go with the first person that we believe.

1429
01:17:42,600 --> 01:17:47,320
Speaker 1: Cut that part. I see that, I see like fully

1430
01:17:47,400 --> 01:17:50,719
Speaker 1: treating somebody. But I also think that, like, if somebody

1431
01:17:50,760 --> 01:17:53,000
Speaker 1: provides you with the meal, it's such a nice thing

1432
01:17:53,080 --> 01:17:56,120
Speaker 1: to say, I'll clean this up you I have I

1433
01:17:56,120 --> 01:17:58,639
Speaker 1: have like a anal rick thing where I basically will

1434
01:17:58,680 --> 01:18:02,519
Speaker 1: cook and clean seem to it's just like I've trying

1435
01:18:02,520 --> 01:18:04,920
Speaker 1: to be the most efficient and effective. I do as well.

1436
01:18:05,080 --> 01:18:08,679
Speaker 1: I like cooking and being the one providing and feeling

1437
01:18:08,720 --> 01:18:10,959
Speaker 1: like this is an unbelievable mele that I just provided

1438
01:18:11,000 --> 01:18:15,040
Speaker 1: for you. That's fulfilling. Yeah, wait till your son pushes

1439
01:18:15,040 --> 01:18:17,920
Speaker 1: it away and you're like this sucks. I don't like

1440
01:18:18,000 --> 01:18:21,760
Speaker 1: hot talks, Dad. I'm all for it all. I think

1441
01:18:21,800 --> 01:18:23,400
Speaker 1: it's a give and take. Like it doesn't have to be.

1442
01:18:23,439 --> 01:18:24,800
Speaker 1: The cooking doesn't have to be, the dishes don't have

1443
01:18:24,800 --> 01:18:26,160
Speaker 1: to be, the garbage don't have to be. This as

1444
01:18:26,200 --> 01:18:28,519
Speaker 1: long as like everybody's in it, I don't even care.

1445
01:18:28,560 --> 01:18:31,320
Speaker 1: I'll do it all. I don't care. I'll do it. Okay,

1446
01:18:32,840 --> 01:18:37,600
Speaker 1: you reek of desperation right now. Maybe I'll do it.

1447
01:18:37,600 --> 01:18:42,599
Speaker 1: I'll alter excess for all the recipes. Maybe it's it's

1448
01:18:42,680 --> 01:18:49,200
Speaker 1: eighty five at night as we record this come back,

1449
01:18:50,360 --> 01:18:53,360
Speaker 1: so when we go to the Light Household, when we

1450
01:18:53,439 --> 01:18:55,800
Speaker 1: have the how men think dinner at the at the

1451
01:18:55,880 --> 01:19:00,240
Speaker 1: Light Household, who's cooking? I'd probably if we were to

1452
01:19:00,280 --> 01:19:02,840
Speaker 1: do that, I'd probably like to barbecue. I'd love to

1453
01:19:02,880 --> 01:19:05,320
Speaker 1: put a bunch of like filets on the barbecue for

1454
01:19:05,360 --> 01:19:08,040
Speaker 1: the gents. How do you like your filet Dmitri Rick Ryan,

1455
01:19:08,080 --> 01:19:10,160
Speaker 1: don't give it. Damn, you're gonna get what you get.

1456
01:19:11,320 --> 01:19:15,479
Speaker 1: Gets the hockey Peck snuck out because he had to

1457
01:19:15,479 --> 01:19:17,439
Speaker 1: go buy a pair of shoes. I just think everybody

1458
01:19:17,439 --> 01:19:19,880
Speaker 1: should know he's he disappeared a few minutes ago because

1459
01:19:19,880 --> 01:19:22,160
Speaker 1: he had to go buy some booths. I like a

1460
01:19:22,280 --> 01:19:25,720
Speaker 1: dry aged and I like it medium rare. You get

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Speaker 1: that pit barrel? Have you ever seen those pit barrels?

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Speaker 1: Like a thirty gallon drum that you basically hang the

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Speaker 1: meat through these rods but charcoal or wouldn't bottom, and

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Speaker 1: you just leave it in there for no, I have

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Speaker 1: not four or five hours and it just you don't

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Speaker 1: ever have to touch it. It's literally the best thing

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Speaker 1: cooks in the barrel. It cooks in the barrel. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's so. Do you guys have a smoker? Basically that's

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Speaker 1: what it is. Yeah, we've lost, we've lost. I need

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Speaker 1: to go to the air we lost Amy. Rick's got

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Speaker 1: to go to the airport. Doesn't have a flight to smoker.

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Speaker 1: I just met her. Okay, that was awesome. Thank you

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Speaker 1: guys for your questions. We always appreciate listener questions. We

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Speaker 1: will throw ourselves on the flames here and answer these

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Speaker 1: for you guys anytime. So thank you. Keep writing us

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Speaker 1: these questions. We'll try our best to answer them. And Ryan,

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Speaker 1: you love myself, take care of myself and everybody else.

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Speaker 1: I like that from Ryan, Love thyself, take care of thyself,

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Speaker 1: comb thyself's hair, screw everybody else, and see you back

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Speaker 1: here next week. Play with thyself. Okay, this one's done.

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Speaker 1: Put this one is done.