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Speaker 1: My cousin is a bridezilla. She threw red wine at

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Speaker 1: her mother in law's dress. That's pretty bad.

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Speaker 2: Oh dear?

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Speaker 1: Was she wearing white?

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Speaker 3: Oh dear.

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Speaker 1: Note I've been writing this for a while, but I've

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Speaker 1: been holding off on posting characters in this story. Cousin

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Speaker 1: Hannah twenty five female, Hannah's fiance Damien twenty five male,

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Speaker 1: Hannah's dad forty five male, our grandfather ninety one male.

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Speaker 3: Woh, this might be the oldest character we've.

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Speaker 2: Nice.

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Speaker 1: Also, Hannah's Dodd is young. She's twenty five and he's

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Speaker 1: forty five. Yeah, he's twenty mile disclaimer all names have

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Speaker 1: been changed for privacy purposes. By the way, this comes

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Speaker 1: from clear Ad seventy one thirty five on the Okay

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Speaker 1: storytime sub bredd It so part one the Engagements. I

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Speaker 1: could start this from the way Hannah twenty five female

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Speaker 1: met Damien twenty five male. But let's get right to

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Speaker 1: the engagement. At this point in time, Hannah has known

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Speaker 1: Damien for over a year and they have had serious talks.

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Speaker 1: Hannah wants to marry Damien, and she orders her engagement

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Speaker 1: ring online with his credit card. Oh before he engaged. Okay,

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Speaker 1: nothing too fancy, but it gets the job done. She's like, hey,

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Speaker 1: I ordered the engagement ring, so just you know, propose

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Speaker 1: whenever you're for.

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Speaker 2: You listen she Hannah takes life by the horse.

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Speaker 1: She really does. She's not waiting around.

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Speaker 4: Rides the boltser towards victory real quick. Okay, storytime. I

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Speaker 4: know a guy in college that his fiance bought a

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Speaker 4: ring and put it in his post office box because

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Speaker 4: they wanted it to as fast as they could.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Nice, I get it now. Damien wants to make sure

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Speaker 1: it fits Hannah when he pops the question. Hannah tries

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Speaker 1: it on and it fits. All is well, I mean

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Speaker 1: I would assume, so she ordered it. Hannah picks her

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Speaker 1: proposal date and location. She tells me this date months

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Speaker 1: in advance and informs me that others are aware too.

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Speaker 1: Fast forward and Hannah is now in proposal week preparations.

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Speaker 1: She gets her hair done and a new set of nails. Ooh,

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Speaker 1: mother nature has other plans for that picked proposal date,

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Speaker 1: and Hannah cries about how her proposal is delayed a

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Speaker 1: few days later and the weather isn't as bad. So

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Speaker 1: Damien goes ahead with how the original surprise proposal was

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Speaker 1: supposed to go. Damien brings Hannah and his family to

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Speaker 1: a public event and he proposes. Hannah's family are in

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Speaker 1: a different city, but not far away, but we're not

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Speaker 1: included during the proposal itself.

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Speaker 4: I see no cons here. I see a woman that

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Speaker 4: knows what she wants and gets it.

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Speaker 1: But you know what, I see what we're not.

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Speaker 5: At the three minute mark, Riley keep going.

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Speaker 1: Hannah is now telling anyone and everyone how it was

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Speaker 1: it was coming, like she booked it out. She did

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Speaker 1: a calendly link. She's like, I didn't know it's coming.

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Speaker 3: All sent her something.

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Speaker 1: When I asked about how it was a surprise when

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Speaker 1: or even that other family members also knew it was happening,

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Speaker 1: she stayed silent, but Damien gave me an odd look.

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Speaker 2: Shut up.

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Speaker 1: It made me think that Damien didn't know how many

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Speaker 1: Hannah made sure her proposal was around Christmas so she

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Speaker 1: could show off the ring to as many people as possible.

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Speaker 1: So basically, Hannah was very upset that her surprise quote

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Speaker 1: unquote proposal didn't happen on the date she scheduled it,

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Speaker 1: She maintains that it was a surprise, despite her picking

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Speaker 1: the date, the location, the time, the ring, and getting

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Speaker 1: her hair and nails done. Surprise And there is an update.

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Speaker 1: I guess the issue here is that she's lying.

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Speaker 4: I think the issue is she's planning everything and being

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Speaker 4: a little bit of a control yeah creak.

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Speaker 1: And everyone's like, it's totally fine if you like planned ahead,

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Speaker 1: but like you did plan ahead, and she's like.

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Speaker 6: A bride.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess it like technically doesn't negatively affect anyone else,

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Speaker 2: but it's just like odd.

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Speaker 3: It's I think it's an icy u.

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Speaker 2: For for some Like okay, okay, if you're willing to

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Speaker 2: be all kind of loopy around this, then you might

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Speaker 2: be a little loopy on some other.

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Speaker 1: Things in other areas of life. Because what happens after

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Speaker 1: an engagement, a marriage.

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Speaker 5: A wedding, and then a marriage and then a baby

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Speaker 5: true and then and then a divorce, then a remarriage.

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Speaker 5: Oh what crazy?

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Speaker 1: What comes after one? A one story? An update let's

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Speaker 1: do it two the Brides of the Moments. Wedding planning

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Speaker 1: has begun and Hannah has picked her bridal party. All

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Speaker 1: but Damien's sister is a bridesmaid. Damien has his three

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Speaker 1: She also likes the flower guy trend, so she will

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Speaker 1: have a total of seventeen and her bridal party including

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Speaker 1: her and the groom. What a four guy trend? Oh,

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Speaker 1: it's it's a flower guy. That's like, I don't think

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Speaker 1: that's true.

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Speaker 2: Yes it is.

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Speaker 4: There is a flower guy trend. Oh I'm about to

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Speaker 4: prove you wrong. Oh my goodness. You don't think men

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Speaker 4: could be flower guys? Oh my god, but I feel

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Speaker 4: like dude close minded over here. I thought, you know what,

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Speaker 4: I thought I was a bad person for going to.

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Speaker 2: For a week. Look at you.

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Speaker 1: So it's literally just one of their friends throwing flowers.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, oh all right, yeah yeah yeah men can be

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Speaker 4: flower people too, No.

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Speaker 1: I okay, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. We just took me down a misogynistic today.

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Speaker 1: Guys, you've got me.

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Speaker 4: We just took one down us. The chat hashtag no

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Speaker 4: More misogyny.

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Speaker 1: It would actually be massandry.

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Speaker 2: Dude, I'm having trouble just finding words.

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Speaker 4: Okay, we ain't gotta make up words, all right, nothing

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Speaker 4: of that.

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Speaker 3: Great dude, Riley Sopia, John, you all get much of these.

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Speaker 1: She also likes the flower guy trend.

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Speaker 2: Ow what you tell me? Tell me right now? What

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Speaker 2: you doing? I like?

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Speaker 1: But I put my hand here and it really hurt.

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Speaker 2: Guy. She placed their hand on her knee too vigorously.

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Speaker 2: He didn't hurt.

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Speaker 3: Weally just put you in a bubble?

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Speaker 2: Girl, What are we.

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Speaker 3: Doing with Jake?

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Speaker 1: Jill in Hall?

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Speaker 4: He lives in ab No, no, no, don't fall for it.

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Speaker 4: She did something and now she's trying to be like

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Speaker 4: the victim. Now, no, you are not the victim.

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Speaker 2: You were the herder. Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: She also likes the flower guy trend, so she'll have

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Speaker 1: a total of seventeen in her bridal party, including her

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Speaker 1: as long as their pink m are they two thousand dollars,

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Speaker 1: Hannah gave free range on style, length, and fabric so

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Speaker 1: far as to tell her bridesmaids that they didn't need

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Speaker 1: They can also wear any heels they want, but must

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Speaker 1: be black, and she will provide the girls with pearl

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Speaker 1: earrings and gold jewelry. As the planning progressed, Hannah invited

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Speaker 1: family member's house for engagement party. No family from Hannah's

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Speaker 1: family have consistently not been invited, whereas normally an engagement

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Speaker 1: It's a sign of wisdom and blessings from those that

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Speaker 1: their journey. During this time, some of her bridal party

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Speaker 1: that they were removed from the bridal party. Hannah has

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Speaker 1: also been talking to other girls about the situation and

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Speaker 1: party is full of heavy drinkers and that her wedding

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Speaker 1: will be child free.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, for the children. Interesting children.

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Speaker 1: She goes on to say that her bridal party will

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Speaker 1: that's real.

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Speaker 3: Yes, planning for reality, I guess.

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Speaker 1: One of the few responsible decisions made thus far, Hannah

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Speaker 1: pay up or shut up. How is it he related

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Speaker 2: Father, No, no, no, this is where my reading comprehension

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Speaker 2: is negative on hundred and ten percent. I thought it

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Speaker 2: was like there was a grand fat nine cousin, my

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Speaker 1: Yeah, right, where does Graham's come into play?

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Speaker 2: So twins.

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Speaker 1: At that point I decided that helping her in any

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Speaker 1: They continued arguing about this for a while. Damien suggested

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Speaker 1: with the groom singer.

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Speaker 2: Hey, it's all playing down her head and to make sense.

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Speaker 1: There, Yes, so our family is fairly large when you

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Speaker 1: include aunts, cousins, godparents, et cetera. Hannah decided to have

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Speaker 1: a smaller wedding and not include many family members. Having

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Speaker 1: it is an issue. Hannah decided that if you are

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Speaker 1: mean I will say really quick. I mean like they

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Speaker 2: This is true.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry the plus ones aren't invited, but her tattoo are.

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Speaker 2: Now are they really good tattoos? But are they been

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Speaker 1: Cousin Judy give you a tattoo? Now it doesn't sound

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Speaker 2: Okay, so we got daddy issues and there.

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Speaker 1: Is an update. I mean, honestly, Hannah sounds like like

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Speaker 2: She hasn't crossed the line.

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Speaker 3: I want him to walk me down the aisle, Bio dad,

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Speaker 3: see you later, goodbye.

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Speaker 2: Maybe maybe they have a bad relationship because of how

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Speaker 2: the biodadmistraat Like we we don't know that, and op

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Speaker 2: if it's like a weird thing. Yeah, I do.

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Speaker 1: Ope, it seems like you're being highly critical.

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Speaker 1: I think that too, honestly, is like, yeah, that's what

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Speaker 6: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I'm like crazy and I feel like, John, you

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 3: Wow, I'm shocked.

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Speaker 2: I am completely offended. I don't know what to do

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Speaker 2: get What are your thoughts? My thoughts are that again,

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Speaker 3: It's her wedding.

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Speaker 2: She doesn't want to have plus ones weird, not what

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Speaker 2: like viciously disrespected hurt feelings that kind of. I mean, yes,

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Speaker 7: Yet that's what I feel like.

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Speaker 1: You see, look look at him go everywhere you see

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Speaker 2: They said I couldn't comprehend, Well guess what I did.

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Speaker 1: Comprehended, comper mother rerecinghended. Yeah, Sophia conn says, I don't

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Speaker 1: but nothing is wrong. Yeah, that's I think that's what

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Speaker 2: Maybe I think if we're if we're painting op in

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Speaker 2: the stage for the bigger dominoes to fall later down

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Speaker 2: she'll do something.

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Speaker 3: Hannah will do something even bigger and even worse when it's.

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Speaker 7: The big day.

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Speaker 1: Let's freaking find out. Update two, Part three. The wedding Year.

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Speaker 1: Oh god, we are in the wedding year now, yay.

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Speaker 1: Hannah and Damien have been engaged for over one year

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Speaker 1: and hand delivered all wedding invitations to save on postage.

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Speaker 1: They also didn't return put return postage on the RSVPs,

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Speaker 1: But I digress. Hannah comes over to did they do that.

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Speaker 1: I've never been personally invited to a wedding. I've only

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Speaker 1: I've never been personally invited to a wedding, so I've

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Speaker 2: Really none of your cousin's weddings.

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Speaker 3: I thought you said only to my parents wedding. I

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Speaker 1: No, so has anyone? Yeah, I had to like return,

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Speaker 2: It's kind of a cute. They're kind of cutee.

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Speaker 1: Hannah and Damien had a stag and Doe to raise

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Speaker 2: You can't explain that super quick?

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Speaker 4: The stag is a deer, A doe is a female dude.

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Speaker 1: It's a stag and a hen party. That's just like

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Speaker 2: Are you where the upside down? Where you're from?

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Speaker 1: Just is? I was expected to attend but had to

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Speaker 1: others were in small groups. Previous parties like this that

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Speaker 1: Op was stressed about I'm reading about No, I'm reading it,

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Speaker 1: I received an invite via social media for Hannah's bridal shower.

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Speaker 1: Despite her previous words to me about helping her, I

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Speaker 1: Hers would only be the second bridal shower she attended.

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Speaker 1: I told her about the envelope gift box and simple

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Speaker 1: I was scheduled to work that day and told her

443
00:21:22,160 --> 00:21:24,399
Speaker 1: this from the moment I knew the date. I tried

444
00:21:24,440 --> 00:21:25,960
Speaker 1: to get the day off, but given the nature of

445
00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:28,440
Speaker 1: my work, I couldn't get the day off or leave early.

446
00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:31,120
Speaker 1: She was okay with this at the time and promised

447
00:21:31,160 --> 00:21:34,000
Speaker 1: to send me pictures. Anna told me her shower guest

448
00:21:34,040 --> 00:21:37,440
Speaker 1: list had been cut in half due to last minute cancelations,

449
00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:42,080
Speaker 1: including some bridal party members. We were working short staff

450
00:21:42,160 --> 00:21:45,160
Speaker 1: that day and I didn't want a chance bringing anything

451
00:21:45,280 --> 00:21:47,879
Speaker 1: to a larger group of people. You can never be

452
00:21:48,119 --> 00:21:51,680
Speaker 1: too careful I asked Hannah how her shower was afterward,

453
00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:54,400
Speaker 1: and she told me it was nice. She did post

454
00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:57,640
Speaker 1: some photos and all seem well enough. I didn't see

455
00:21:57,760 --> 00:22:01,800
Speaker 1: any photos of her envelopes gift box, though, so I

456
00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:04,199
Speaker 1: didn't know if she did listen to me in the end.

457
00:22:05,320 --> 00:22:09,399
Speaker 3: Oh, just keeps nippicking me, like give me, give me

458
00:22:09,480 --> 00:22:09,960
Speaker 3: the juice.

459
00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:11,520
Speaker 6: I feel like we're being like.

460
00:22:11,840 --> 00:22:13,879
Speaker 1: Like she keeps bringing us to the brink. She's like,

461
00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:20,399
Speaker 1: and then she was fine, and then she was really okay,

462
00:22:22,080 --> 00:22:23,160
Speaker 1: like nothing's happened.

463
00:22:23,440 --> 00:22:26,159
Speaker 2: Just just pull the card that causes all of the

464
00:22:26,240 --> 00:22:27,160
Speaker 2: house the cards fall down.

465
00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:31,320
Speaker 1: This is the waiting for a good dough a bridle Bredzilla. Yeah,

466
00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:37,080
Speaker 1: a play Samuel Beckett play where nothing really happens and

467
00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:38,639
Speaker 1: they're waiting for this guy to show up and he

468
00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:39,200
Speaker 1: never does.

469
00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:41,639
Speaker 2: Oh, and then just keep waiting there. No, I get it.

470
00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:44,240
Speaker 1: Fast forward a month and I reach out to Hannah

471
00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:46,840
Speaker 1: to confirm that we are attending her wedding ceremony. We

472
00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:49,359
Speaker 1: will take photos with her and then go home. We

473
00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:51,399
Speaker 1: are roughly a month out from her wedding, and I

474
00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:54,119
Speaker 1: sent Hannah a message to confirm that we aren't staying

475
00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:57,280
Speaker 1: for the reception. But our grandfather will attend the ceremony

476
00:22:57,359 --> 00:22:59,920
Speaker 1: with me. I received a response about half an hour later,

477
00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:02,440
Speaker 1: saying that their final numbers have already been given to

478
00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:06,360
Speaker 1: the venue a month ago and they can't add anyone anymore.

479
00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:09,280
Speaker 2: Okay, but who is calling the shots there? Who gets

480
00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:10,600
Speaker 2: to call the shots for that? Op?

481
00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:15,400
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm again. This seems like oh, P said hey,

482
00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:18,200
Speaker 1: Grandpa can't come, and they were like, that's fine, we'll

483
00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:21,800
Speaker 1: go take pictures with him. Yeah, and then they rightfully

484
00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:24,960
Speaker 1: so made reservations for how many people? You can't just

485
00:23:25,040 --> 00:23:25,879
Speaker 1: add people to a.

486
00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:29,520
Speaker 2: Wedding, yeah, because because probably like they lost the catering

487
00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:32,080
Speaker 2: the events said up. It was like, hey, like all

488
00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:34,320
Speaker 2: the chairs, the meals, like everything else, it's like been

489
00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:36,080
Speaker 2: locked and I'm sure they probably get charged like a

490
00:23:36,119 --> 00:23:38,720
Speaker 2: fee or fine or something, op said.

491
00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:42,760
Speaker 1: Op told Hannah Grandpa can't come. Yeah, So you can't

492
00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:45,239
Speaker 1: just go back and be like, oh, Grandpa's coming now.

493
00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:47,360
Speaker 1: Oh my god. I can't believe they're not letting Grandpa come.

494
00:23:47,440 --> 00:23:50,520
Speaker 1: It's like you, you said, ye.

495
00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:54,800
Speaker 3: Dude, this bride Hannah better freakin' like she better.

496
00:23:57,560 --> 00:24:00,800
Speaker 2: Grandpa. Yes, I.

497
00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:04,760
Speaker 1: Really want to know that. But when we finish the

498
00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:06,200
Speaker 1: story or get to an update. I want to know,

499
00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:07,960
Speaker 1: like the comments, because I want to know if anyone

500
00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:11,800
Speaker 1: else is like, oh, yeah, nothing's happened. Yeah, this seems

501
00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:13,560
Speaker 1: strange to me, and I brought up that she had

502
00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:15,879
Speaker 1: told me I had until two weeks before the wedding

503
00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:18,639
Speaker 1: to give her a final answer on those attending. Hannah

504
00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:21,159
Speaker 1: informs me that the venue changed her final numbers date

505
00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:23,760
Speaker 1: from two weeks to two months, and she didn't tell

506
00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:26,080
Speaker 1: me about the change because I had previously said no

507
00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:27,880
Speaker 1: to the reception fair.

508
00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:30,840
Speaker 3: It's obviously this is fair victim of circumstances.

509
00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:33,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like that sucks, but okay, I'm sorry.

510
00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:33,879
Speaker 2: Happens.

511
00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:36,679
Speaker 1: For context, none of our previous weddings have required an

512
00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:40,440
Speaker 1: RSVP for the ceremony. Okay, but Hannah's trying to have

513
00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:41,119
Speaker 1: a small wedding.

514
00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:41,560
Speaker 2: Yeah.

515
00:24:42,080 --> 00:24:45,240
Speaker 1: Hannah, however, is very different in this detail. Anna's stance

516
00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:47,080
Speaker 1: is that you can only attend the ceremony if you

517
00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:49,840
Speaker 1: are attending the reception. I then had to tell all

518
00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:51,960
Speaker 1: the family members that they would not be attending a

519
00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:54,440
Speaker 1: wedding on Hannah's wedding date since they were not going

520
00:24:54,480 --> 00:24:56,840
Speaker 1: to have a chair to sit on. They are upset.

521
00:24:57,520 --> 00:24:59,600
Speaker 1: I don't really know what happened in those three months,

522
00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:02,400
Speaker 1: from her being adamant about getting photos with their grandfather

523
00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:04,960
Speaker 1: and her wedding dress to not caring anymore. I know

524
00:25:05,080 --> 00:25:06,960
Speaker 1: that we are weeks from the wedding and she hasn't

525
00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:09,040
Speaker 1: reached out to set up a time for those photos

526
00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:12,200
Speaker 1: him that she photos with him, that she wanted so

527
00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:15,920
Speaker 1: desperately before. I won't be attending the wedding and we'll

528
00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:18,359
Speaker 1: be spending the day with him. We never know how

529
00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:20,480
Speaker 1: much time we have remaining with him, so to me,

530
00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:22,840
Speaker 1: the moments we do have are precious. I'll post an

531
00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:25,639
Speaker 1: update after the wedding if anything happens there is an update.

532
00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:29,240
Speaker 1: That's ridiculous. I'm sorry she's not going to the wedding

533
00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:31,600
Speaker 1: and her excuses. I just want to spend as much

534
00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:34,960
Speaker 1: time as possible with Grandpa. Come on, it's one day. Yeah,

535
00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:37,040
Speaker 1: it's one day to go to your cousin's wedding. I

536
00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:38,760
Speaker 1: honestly am not on op side here.

537
00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:44,520
Speaker 2: No. I hope we see some posts.

538
00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:46,960
Speaker 4: My cousin is being the a hole for not coming

539
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:48,840
Speaker 4: to my wedding because she wants to spend time with

540
00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:52,000
Speaker 4: their grandpa like I want to see that post, you'd

541
00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:53,760
Speaker 4: be like, yeah, I've been planning a lot.

542
00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:57,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean Ham is probably freaking busy. She probably

543
00:25:57,160 --> 00:25:59,840
Speaker 1: doesn't have time to think about photos with her grandpa exactly.

544
00:25:59,840 --> 00:26:01,760
Speaker 2: Like I feel like like when she was like, oh,

545
00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:03,920
Speaker 2: the venue changed the date from two months to two weeks.

546
00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:06,680
Speaker 4: There's just so much going on, and she didn't shed

547
00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:08,680
Speaker 4: even for me, even though I'm not going like she

548
00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:09,399
Speaker 4: didn't tell me.

549
00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:12,320
Speaker 1: Like, There's been a lot of little slights that I could,

550
00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:15,639
Speaker 1: you know, point out that Hannah has done, but like

551
00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:21,680
Speaker 1: nothing nothing that I wouldn't, you know, say, wasn't wedding stress.

552
00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:23,600
Speaker 2: Like, yeah, to be fair, Hannah's on top of her crap.

553
00:26:23,960 --> 00:26:25,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like maybe I like I didn't like when she

554
00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:27,920
Speaker 1: was like, oh, like mind your own business or something,

555
00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:30,040
Speaker 1: when op was trying to help out, Like maybe not

556
00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:31,200
Speaker 1: the best way she could have said that.

557
00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:33,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, is it is it fair to say that she's

558
00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:37,280
Speaker 2: Maybe it's it's frustrating, but you can't blame her. I

559
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:38,639
Speaker 2: think can we say that, Yes.

560
00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:40,520
Speaker 1: I would say, like probably being a little bit of

561
00:26:40,560 --> 00:26:42,920
Speaker 1: control for you, probably being a little frustrating to deal with,

562
00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:46,200
Speaker 1: But she hasn't done anything that's Brideszilla.

563
00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:48,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, we haven't. Yeah, we haven't transformed to brides Like, yeah,

564
00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:49,760
Speaker 2: I am just eliminate someone.

565
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:54,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, just just go crazy, just just take them out,

566
00:26:54,400 --> 00:26:57,639
Speaker 1: just just just to make the story to live up

567
00:26:57,720 --> 00:27:00,879
Speaker 1: to web. Yeah, I like you pro miss be Bridezilla.

568
00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:04,320
Speaker 1: This is a five K story. There's gotta be a

569
00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:10,080
Speaker 1: Bridezilla somewhere in here. Well, there's an update. Let's go

570
00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:12,080
Speaker 1: part four, the wedding itself.

571
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:13,440
Speaker 2: Oh, here we go.

572
00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:17,680
Speaker 1: Come on, someone's gonna get knocked out of this wedding.

573
00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:18,639
Speaker 2: Yes, Grandpa.

574
00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:22,000
Speaker 1: As I was typing up everything, I think I missed

575
00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:25,120
Speaker 1: some of the other Bridezilla moments, maybe any of them,

576
00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:28,159
Speaker 1: and details of the lead up to the wedding. Hannah

577
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:30,040
Speaker 1: is going into a marriage with the thought that she

578
00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:33,600
Speaker 1: will divorce Damien, and that's a good start to a marriage.

579
00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:35,959
Speaker 3: Okay, now we're talking.

580
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 1: My question though, is if op is just assuming this

581
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:43,080
Speaker 1: because she wants like a pre nup. Maybe Hannah's just like,

582
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:45,000
Speaker 1: oh I want to preen up, and Opie's like she's

583
00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:47,040
Speaker 1: going into it thinking that she wants a divorce.

584
00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:48,480
Speaker 3: Oh I see, I see good.

585
00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:49,280
Speaker 2: Good observation.

586
00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:54,120
Speaker 1: Yes, on the wedding invites, it states that formal dress

587
00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:57,000
Speaker 1: attire was required for entry into the venue. This should

588
00:27:57,000 --> 00:27:59,600
Speaker 1: be normal for a wedding unless otherwise stated. Keep in

589
00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:02,440
Speaker 1: mind that Hannah was not requiring approval of her bridesmaid

590
00:28:02,520 --> 00:28:05,160
Speaker 1: dresses prior to the wedding, so for all she knew,

591
00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:07,520
Speaker 1: they could show up in a pink mini dress dress

592
00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:11,280
Speaker 1: with very little left to the imagination. Well, presumably her

593
00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:15,240
Speaker 1: friends are smart. And if it's as formal you wear,

594
00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:16,600
Speaker 1: I mean, stop.

595
00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:20,000
Speaker 2: Is the venue really going to be like, oh, sorry,

596
00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:23,560
Speaker 2: you're not informal thing, but it's literally the bridesmaid's dress

597
00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:24,520
Speaker 2: that that she requested.

598
00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:29,200
Speaker 1: Oh there, she hired security to prevent entry of any

599
00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:32,600
Speaker 1: guest not dressed to her standard of formal attire. That

600
00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:35,440
Speaker 1: that that is kind of silly, I would say. But

601
00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:38,400
Speaker 1: hopefully everyone is dressed formally. I don't know why they

602
00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:41,040
Speaker 1: wouldn't be to like be like, no, you can't come in,

603
00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:43,360
Speaker 1: you're not dressed spiffy enough.

604
00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:44,040
Speaker 2: Yeah.

605
00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:47,680
Speaker 1: She also gave these hired security people photos of all

606
00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:50,280
Speaker 1: the guests, so no one else could attempt entry without

607
00:28:50,320 --> 00:28:54,080
Speaker 1: threat of being arrested. We should also cover Hannah's insane

608
00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:55,200
Speaker 1: wedding registry.

609
00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:57,920
Speaker 4: Wait wait, okay, sorry, sorry tom out that's smart because

610
00:28:57,960 --> 00:29:00,240
Speaker 4: she has some like like beef with her.

611
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:01,680
Speaker 1: She's got actual family.

612
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:06,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, safety should I answer? Pick it up?

613
00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:08,000
Speaker 2: Pick it up and put it really close to the

614
00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:08,840
Speaker 2: check out.

615
00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:09,760
Speaker 1: Sam's new jacket.

616
00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:15,440
Speaker 2: He found an extended version of the classic Sam orange jacket.

617
00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:22,040
Speaker 1: It's great, Sam, great jacket, Sam says, high chat. He says,

618
00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:24,840
Speaker 1: miss you guys, you got a trench jacket. Okay, I

619
00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:28,880
Speaker 1: love you bye? All right, that was Sam. We should

620
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:32,560
Speaker 1: also cover Hannah's insane wedding registry. Most of the items

621
00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:35,280
Speaker 1: can be purchased for much less at other retailers, but

622
00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:38,680
Speaker 1: Hannah picked the highest priced version of every item she wants.

623
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:40,840
Speaker 1: She wants good quality stuff.

624
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:42,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, she wants things that last.

625
00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:44,480
Speaker 1: No, yeah, that actually live.

626
00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:45,040
Speaker 2: Yeah.

627
00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:48,120
Speaker 1: Like if Hannah, Okay, if I was like, I want

628
00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:52,160
Speaker 1: a vacuum, but I want like specifically a brand that

629
00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:54,880
Speaker 1: I want name the strip of the d because it's

630
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:56,840
Speaker 1: a really good quality vacuum, and then someone was like,

631
00:29:56,880 --> 00:29:59,440
Speaker 1: I'm gonna buy you one hundred dollars vacuum because it's

632
00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:02,600
Speaker 1: still a vacuum, I'd be like, Okay, well that one sucks.

633
00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:04,280
Speaker 2: I'm not getting you anything for your wedding.

634
00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:05,960
Speaker 7: What oh.

635
00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:12,720
Speaker 1: She included items that she doesn't need because they rent

636
00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:15,600
Speaker 1: a room together and can't afford a whole house. Of

637
00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:18,440
Speaker 1: the hundred of items on her wedding registry, only a

638
00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 1: few were purchased. Okay, So I feel like you could

639
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:23,360
Speaker 1: put whatever you want in a registry and people can

640
00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:24,160
Speaker 1: get whatever they want.

641
00:30:25,120 --> 00:30:26,480
Speaker 2: I'm gonna give my friend's cash.

642
00:30:27,040 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 1: I'm pissed.

643
00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:28,640
Speaker 2: Is that a sin?

644
00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 1: I mean usually people give a wedding registry and then

645
00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:33,520
Speaker 1: you just pick something off, but.

646
00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:34,480
Speaker 2: They always want money.

647
00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:38,880
Speaker 3: Honestly, cash in a well written card is yeah, that's

648
00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:39,200
Speaker 3: good too.

649
00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:41,520
Speaker 1: Okay, cash, It's like a good amount of cash. Like,

650
00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:43,760
Speaker 1: don't just give them twenty bucks. No, it's gonna be

651
00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:48,920
Speaker 1: like three, oh, okay, dollars, three dollars. Hannah was very

652
00:30:49,040 --> 00:30:52,480
Speaker 1: excited to change her last name. Disappointment was visible on

653
00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:54,920
Speaker 1: her entire body when she understood that she would have

654
00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:58,240
Speaker 1: to wait until her marriage license was filed before she

655
00:30:58,320 --> 00:31:01,760
Speaker 1: could officially change her name. However, will she manage a

656
00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:04,840
Speaker 1: few months post wedding with her current last name. This

657
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:08,000
Speaker 1: didn't stop her from changing her social media handles before

658
00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:11,280
Speaker 1: the wedding or ordering a home sign with her new

659
00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:12,080
Speaker 1: last name on it.

660
00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:19,480
Speaker 6: He Live Live she's excited about her last name.

661
00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:24,880
Speaker 2: Let her live, Jesus, you know what. Let's story in

662
00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:28,960
Speaker 2: jail right now. Oh my god, she's trying to her name.

663
00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:32,720
Speaker 2: Is it legally changed yet? Therefore she is illegally.

664
00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:36,760
Speaker 1: The fact that he's like she changed her name on

665
00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:38,840
Speaker 1: her profile on.

666
00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:42,280
Speaker 2: For real.

667
00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:45,320
Speaker 1: My god, so everyone knew she was changing her name

668
00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:52,480
Speaker 1: on their established date? You the fun police, Yeah, fun police. Ope, Yes,

669
00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:55,320
Speaker 1: many people change their last name after marriage. Hannah was

670
00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:57,600
Speaker 1: very impatient about getting it done and thinking it would

671
00:31:57,600 --> 00:32:00,520
Speaker 1: be a fast change. Government documents take time to change,

672
00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:02,040
Speaker 1: and she didn't want to be known as her current

673
00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:06,600
Speaker 1: last name during her honeymoon. Hannah and Damien planned on

674
00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:10,000
Speaker 1: a honeymoon that was estimated to be ten thousand dollars,

675
00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:12,160
Speaker 1: and that cost would be split between the mothers of

676
00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:14,960
Speaker 1: the bride and groom. As the cost that the wedding

677
00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:18,640
Speaker 1: added up, Hannah and Damien decided to redirect that money

678
00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:21,640
Speaker 1: towards payments for their wedding venue. This was a smart

679
00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 1: move on their part won a few but credit where

680
00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:28,840
Speaker 1: credit is due, what is going on? Both mothers agreed

681
00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:31,360
Speaker 1: to this change until the payments were due. As it

682
00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:34,080
Speaker 1: turned out, one mother paid her part, while the other

683
00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:36,880
Speaker 1: mother suddenly didn't have the money for the payment. Now

684
00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:39,480
Speaker 1: they had to resume paying for that installment and would

685
00:32:39,520 --> 00:32:42,840
Speaker 1: not be getting a honeymoon. Not to fret, though, stepfather

686
00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:45,880
Speaker 1: has entered the game with more money and also Princess

687
00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:50,240
Speaker 1: Tikotu says, this seems like this sop is jealous. Hannah'

688
00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:53,560
Speaker 1: stepfather had already put thousands of dollars down in deposits

689
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:56,840
Speaker 1: for vendors and the venue, but now was saving the

690
00:32:56,920 --> 00:33:00,520
Speaker 1: day by completely paying for a different honeymoon. Some people

691
00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:04,760
Speaker 1: have fairy godmothers, others have fairy stepfathers. What's the issue?

692
00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:06,680
Speaker 6: What is the issue?

693
00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:09,360
Speaker 1: The stepfather was like, hey, yeah, like I you know

694
00:33:09,640 --> 00:33:12,160
Speaker 1: your mom can't pay for it. I'll step in. I'll

695
00:33:12,240 --> 00:33:13,160
Speaker 1: help cover the charge.

696
00:33:13,760 --> 00:33:14,800
Speaker 6: What is the issue?

697
00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:16,080
Speaker 2: This is just how life goes.

698
00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:19,280
Speaker 1: It's literally how life goes. Oh my god, this person's

699
00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:22,760
Speaker 1: a nightmare. The Restless Story, the red el forces if

700
00:33:22,800 --> 00:33:24,840
Speaker 1: you should read this rest of the story like a snob. Yes,

701
00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:27,800
Speaker 1: Let's begin with a veil that was custom ordered to

702
00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:32,600
Speaker 1: match the exact ivory of the dress from Spain. Ugh, yes,

703
00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:36,760
Speaker 1: you read that correctly. Hannah ordered a pearl encrusted veil

704
00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:41,040
Speaker 1: with a lace trim. God forget, God forbid, she want

705
00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 1: her own dress Jesus. She also ordered custom shoes with

706
00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:50,200
Speaker 1: the same pearl detail to match the veil, and buttons

707
00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:52,920
Speaker 1: going down the back of a dress. Her dress, on

708
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:55,040
Speaker 1: the other hand, was without lace, but did have a

709
00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:58,320
Speaker 1: giant bow on at the back. Hannah loves this dress

710
00:33:58,360 --> 00:34:00,920
Speaker 1: for a few reasons, not a which is the bow

711
00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:04,800
Speaker 1: at the back. Her first love pockets, followed by her

712
00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:08,680
Speaker 1: second love, the chest factor. Hannah picked her dress because

713
00:34:08,719 --> 00:34:10,600
Speaker 1: of the slit going all the way up to her hip.

714
00:34:10,719 --> 00:34:14,680
Speaker 1: In her own words, easy access and now you're slute

715
00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:17,960
Speaker 1: shaming her unbelievable. I had only seen a photo of

716
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:20,320
Speaker 1: the dress from when she had first gone dress shopping,

717
00:34:20,600 --> 00:34:23,560
Speaker 1: and the image wasn't the best quality. The dress appeared

718
00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:26,880
Speaker 1: more champagne than ivory, and those who were invited are

719
00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:29,600
Speaker 1: said to have cried from her beauty in the dress.

720
00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:33,399
Speaker 1: Take note she has money for custom wedding items made

721
00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:36,080
Speaker 1: in a different country, but not enough money for a

722
00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:39,680
Speaker 1: chair at her ceremony for her grandfather to sit on

723
00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:43,560
Speaker 1: to observe her wedding. Wow. Okay, so now he's complaining

724
00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:48,760
Speaker 1: about Hannah getting this like really nice dress stuff from Spain.

725
00:34:49,239 --> 00:34:51,520
Speaker 1: And she's saying the fact that she has money for

726
00:34:52,120 --> 00:34:55,040
Speaker 1: a dress but not for her grandfather's seat.

727
00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:56,280
Speaker 2: Isn't he not coming?

728
00:34:57,320 --> 00:34:59,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, but she's like, oh, she can't, she can't pay

729
00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:04,000
Speaker 1: for another her seat. But right, kinda wanted to make

730
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:06,960
Speaker 1: an entrance to a ceremony. Her carriage from the main

731
00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:10,720
Speaker 1: venue to the ceremony site would take approximately ten minutes.

732
00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:14,360
Speaker 1: During this time, any guests that arrived wouldn't be seated

733
00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:17,440
Speaker 1: and would instead be sent directly to the cocktail lounge.

734
00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:21,560
Speaker 2: That's normal, Yeah, Like you can't like not seeing the

735
00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:25,520
Speaker 2: brider or being late to the reception essentially, right, It's no, it's.

736
00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:30,400
Speaker 1: Basically saying that during this time where she's getting to

737
00:35:30,520 --> 00:35:33,000
Speaker 1: the ceremony, right, and no one would be seated. They

738
00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:35,000
Speaker 1: would just be in the cocktail lounge, which is I've

739
00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:37,520
Speaker 1: been to multiple weddings where we all just like waited

740
00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:40,479
Speaker 1: in the cocktail area until they were like well, until

741
00:35:40,520 --> 00:35:42,240
Speaker 1: they were like okay, everyone go take your seats.

742
00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:43,280
Speaker 6: That's just normal.

743
00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:43,600
Speaker 2: Yeah.

744
00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:46,719
Speaker 1: In Hannah's words, no one can see me before I

745
00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:50,759
Speaker 1: arrive at the aisle. There if any guest that was

746
00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:53,080
Speaker 1: already seated needed to use the restroom, they would have

747
00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:55,120
Speaker 1: to hold it or they would not be returning for

748
00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:57,920
Speaker 1: the ceremony. That's like, I mean, that's play rules. I

749
00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:01,120
Speaker 1: would those are play rules, like go use the bathroom

750
00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:02,040
Speaker 1: before you go sit down.

751
00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:04,400
Speaker 3: But what if I will we have to wait all

752
00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:04,759
Speaker 3: we have to go.

753
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:07,880
Speaker 1: Then you have to wait outside. That's literally like if

754
00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:11,839
Speaker 1: you go to see a play or a musical or whatever,

755
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:13,960
Speaker 1: if you have to go out to the bathroom a loss,

756
00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:16,160
Speaker 1: Like sometimes you can't get back in.

757
00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:18,040
Speaker 3: I just got to pull a riley and pee right there.

758
00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:20,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, just put it down the pants leg.

759
00:36:21,440 --> 00:36:23,400
Speaker 1: Though most of the guests are younger in age, there

760
00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:25,239
Speaker 1: are some that are elderly and some that do have

761
00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:28,520
Speaker 1: medical conditions that may require an urgent visit to the restroom.

762
00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:31,200
Speaker 1: Then like, if you know that in advance, I don't.

763
00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:32,040
Speaker 1: I don't know what to tell you.

764
00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:34,960
Speaker 2: Man, Hey, ain't grammy, go go go potty, go potty

765
00:36:35,000 --> 00:36:38,120
Speaker 2: real quick. Okay, get your get your depends. Okay.

766
00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:40,919
Speaker 1: So she's restricted the movement of guests for at least

767
00:36:40,960 --> 00:36:41,680
Speaker 1: forty minutes.

768
00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:45,200
Speaker 6: It's a way, Sam, you're not supposed to be leaving.

769
00:36:45,480 --> 00:36:48,480
Speaker 3: She's in prison dust for four zero minutes.

770
00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:51,759
Speaker 1: It's ten for her carriage and thirty for the ceremony,

771
00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:54,239
Speaker 1: and it is unclear if the guests would need to

772
00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:56,279
Speaker 1: walk back from the ceremony site or if there would

773
00:36:56,280 --> 00:37:01,680
Speaker 1: be trans transportation provided. Hada war so her jewelry and

774
00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:04,560
Speaker 1: only allowed her made of honor to also wear silver,

775
00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:07,680
Speaker 1: while all other bridal party members were only allowed.

776
00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:08,160
Speaker 3: To wear gold.

777
00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:10,359
Speaker 2: OP just needs to get laid. I don't care.

778
00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:14,960
Speaker 1: I'm sorry if if Op's If Hannah had said, hey,

779
00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:17,600
Speaker 1: I want everyone to wear pink bridesmaid dresses, OPI would

780
00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:19,719
Speaker 1: have been like, yeah, that makes sense. But now she's

781
00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:21,120
Speaker 1: not allowed to say, hey, I want you to wear

782
00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:22,040
Speaker 1: the specific jewelry.

783
00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:24,520
Speaker 3: Unacceptable, Oh my god, disgust.

784
00:37:24,960 --> 00:37:28,080
Speaker 1: Hannah also decided that only her bridesmaids and maid of

785
00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:30,640
Speaker 1: honor would join her in carrying flowers on the wedding day.

786
00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:33,680
Speaker 1: The grooms men and grooms were not to have any

787
00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:38,120
Speaker 1: boutineers or pocket squares. Hannah's mother, Damien's mother, and any

788
00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:41,200
Speaker 1: grandparents or godparents in attends. We're also not going to

789
00:37:41,280 --> 00:37:45,120
Speaker 1: have corsages or any special marker. This was because Hannah

790
00:37:45,160 --> 00:37:48,440
Speaker 1: had deemed them too expensive and unnecessary. She said, my

791
00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:51,719
Speaker 1: wedding is not a prom. The family doesn't need flowers.

792
00:37:52,160 --> 00:37:54,800
Speaker 1: True wedding, it's her freaking wedding. Sure, we covered the

793
00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:57,840
Speaker 1: bride's attire, it is only fair we cover the groom's

794
00:37:57,920 --> 00:38:01,399
Speaker 1: glam of the day. Damiamen was not a groom zilla

795
00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:04,080
Speaker 1: from what I know. He requested to wear a white

796
00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:07,320
Speaker 1: blazer and grow out all of his hair. Hannah allowed

797
00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:09,840
Speaker 1: Damien to grow out his hair and seemed to tolerate it.

798
00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:12,759
Speaker 1: Damien had expressed he wanted to remove the garter during

799
00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:15,440
Speaker 1: the reception, but Hannah said no, she wanted that. She

800
00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:19,840
Speaker 1: wanted that to only happen in private after the reception ends. Reasonable,

801
00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:22,439
Speaker 1: because you're kind of pulling up your dress, that's true.

802
00:38:22,680 --> 00:38:25,799
Speaker 1: Hannah gifted her bridesmaid's many bottles of red wine at

803
00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:28,480
Speaker 1: the rehearsal dinner the night before the wedding, a thoughtful

804
00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:34,680
Speaker 1: celebratory gift. Right, wrong, correct on so many levels. Can

805
00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:36,040
Speaker 1: you see where this is going already?

806
00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:36,480
Speaker 6: No?

807
00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:37,840
Speaker 2: I have no idea.

808
00:38:38,000 --> 00:38:41,239
Speaker 1: Oh, these bottles were given to be showered over any

809
00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:44,520
Speaker 1: guests that dared to wear white an obvious wedding. No,

810
00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:47,040
Speaker 1: unless otherwise instructed by the couple.

811
00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:49,799
Speaker 4: And that's still a no, you never wear white. Even

812
00:38:49,880 --> 00:38:53,479
Speaker 4: if the couple says you can, oh never, you still wear.

813
00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:57,839
Speaker 1: White at the couple says, no, I have no. Yeah,

814
00:38:57,960 --> 00:38:59,360
Speaker 1: the couple says, everyone wear white.

815
00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:02,799
Speaker 4: No no, no, no no no no no, we have John.

816
00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:04,680
Speaker 4: Remember we read that story and the couple said, yeah,

817
00:39:04,680 --> 00:39:05,560
Speaker 4: you can't wear white, yes.

818
00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:07,840
Speaker 2: Yes, yes. So I think what Sophia is saying is,

819
00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:10,720
Speaker 2: if it's an all white web, yeah, that is different

820
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:14,480
Speaker 2: than the scenarios we read where individual people still know

821
00:39:14,600 --> 00:39:16,160
Speaker 2: you don't wear why adults.

822
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:18,920
Speaker 1: What they told you to. There's a lot of weddings

823
00:39:18,960 --> 00:39:20,719
Speaker 1: where they're like, I want everyone to wear white, and

824
00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:23,319
Speaker 1: then I'm gonna wear something else you don't, But then

825
00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:26,239
Speaker 1: you're but then you're totally disregarding the desire of that.

826
00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:31,000
Speaker 4: I think I'm not going people are literally crucified for

827
00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:32,120
Speaker 4: wearing white at weddings.

828
00:39:32,239 --> 00:39:34,760
Speaker 1: But it's true, they say white wedding.

829
00:39:34,960 --> 00:39:37,239
Speaker 3: That's the only scenario. I'm done.

830
00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:39,040
Speaker 4: You don't how many people I'm checking up with, Hey

831
00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:40,279
Speaker 4: you're wearing white, Hey you wearing white?

832
00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:41,759
Speaker 2: Show me outfit? Can you take a picture of the

833
00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:43,080
Speaker 2: outfit and show it to me? What are you wearing?

834
00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:46,000
Speaker 4: And then I'm gonna go there that day. Wear something

835
00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:48,320
Speaker 4: else and I'll have white in the backup. I'm not

836
00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:53,200
Speaker 4: risking that, dude. People like Guillantine is better than wearing

837
00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:55,960
Speaker 4: white to a wedding, and went.

838
00:39:55,920 --> 00:39:58,160
Speaker 1: So far as to arrange glasses of wine to be

839
00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:00,920
Speaker 1: available at the venue before the Saramon start time as

840
00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:03,880
Speaker 1: a backup to the many bottles. What a waste of

841
00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:07,440
Speaker 1: perfectly drinkable wine. It's only a waste if they don't

842
00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:10,960
Speaker 1: if they have to use it on someone. Otherwise you

843
00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:13,600
Speaker 1: can just drink it. Yeah, So did anyone get a

844
00:40:13,680 --> 00:40:16,560
Speaker 1: ruined dress for attending Hannah's wedding? I have heard from

845
00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:18,720
Speaker 1: some people that they did attend the wedding of Hannah

846
00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:22,680
Speaker 1: and Damien, and that Damien's mother decided she needed the spotlight.

847
00:40:23,280 --> 00:40:26,200
Speaker 1: Damien's mother, forty six female, wore a nice gown to

848
00:40:26,280 --> 00:40:29,120
Speaker 1: her first child's wedding. The dress was a high, low style,

849
00:40:29,320 --> 00:40:32,120
Speaker 1: with the skirt being a solid pale blue and the

850
00:40:32,239 --> 00:40:36,320
Speaker 1: top being white with tiny, barely noticeable from a distance,

851
00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:39,800
Speaker 1: pale blue roses printed on it. This might not be

852
00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:43,880
Speaker 1: an entirely white wet dress, but for Hannah, it was

853
00:40:43,960 --> 00:40:47,239
Speaker 1: white and light colored enough to send in a bridesmaid

854
00:40:47,320 --> 00:40:50,319
Speaker 1: to shower her mother in law with love. Damien knew

855
00:40:50,320 --> 00:40:52,840
Speaker 1: it was going to happen and even encourage the showering.

856
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:57,000
Speaker 1: Her own son preapproved the wine showering, despite both bride

857
00:40:57,040 --> 00:40:59,759
Speaker 1: and groom approving the dress before the wedding day. What

858
00:41:00,160 --> 00:41:02,040
Speaker 1: kind of son and daughter in law do that? That

859
00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:06,279
Speaker 1: is the only thing I will give, Oh Pete, Yeah,

860
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:10,440
Speaker 1: if they have preapproved it. If they pre approved it

861
00:41:11,000 --> 00:41:14,800
Speaker 1: and then they showered her and wine, that is the

862
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:16,520
Speaker 1: only thing I'd be like, that's messed up.

863
00:41:16,719 --> 00:41:20,840
Speaker 2: I almost wonder, what do you wonder if she was

864
00:41:21,600 --> 00:41:25,240
Speaker 2: in on it right and it's like, hey, you'll wear white,

865
00:41:25,640 --> 00:41:28,120
Speaker 2: we'll throw the want Because if it's if it's a

866
00:41:28,280 --> 00:41:30,880
Speaker 2: pre planned thing, that's actually kind of fun and fun.

867
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:33,960
Speaker 2: It's like, Okay, I'm maybe it's not a super expensive dress. Hey,

868
00:41:34,200 --> 00:41:37,560
Speaker 2: I'm down to do it for the fun of the Yeah,

869
00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:40,239
Speaker 2: give a little drum charade or whatever. But like, you know,

870
00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:43,759
Speaker 2: in a planned way where everyone's like on board, that

871
00:41:43,920 --> 00:41:46,279
Speaker 2: almost seems like, I mean, it's a guess, but it

872
00:41:46,280 --> 00:41:48,200
Speaker 2: almost seems like that's what's happening here.

873
00:41:48,320 --> 00:41:48,480
Speaker 6: Yeah.

874
00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:50,560
Speaker 1: But if it's not, if they did actually know and

875
00:41:50,600 --> 00:41:52,239
Speaker 1: they just showered her wine, that's messed up.

876
00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:55,520
Speaker 2: I agree, because also probably that dress isn't probably isn't

877
00:41:55,560 --> 00:41:57,560
Speaker 2: cheap if she wore to her first shot wading.

878
00:41:57,719 --> 00:42:00,480
Speaker 1: Damien's mother had been showing Hannah dresses she liked for

879
00:42:00,520 --> 00:42:02,960
Speaker 1: the wedding that would compliment the theme but not stand

880
00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:05,239
Speaker 1: out too much, and I was saying any of the

881
00:42:05,320 --> 00:42:08,480
Speaker 1: dresses would work, and was also snickering with Damien about

882
00:42:08,520 --> 00:42:11,279
Speaker 1: how his mother looked in these dresses. I don't want

883
00:42:11,360 --> 00:42:13,680
Speaker 1: to repeat the comments Hannah told me that Damien said

884
00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:17,240
Speaker 1: about his own mother's potential wedding attire. They were not kind.

885
00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:20,240
Speaker 1: Damien's parents decided that for the day of the wedding,

886
00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:22,800
Speaker 1: they would drive to the venue and arrive as normal

887
00:42:22,880 --> 00:42:25,719
Speaker 1: guests while the rest of their children were already there

888
00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:28,480
Speaker 1: getting ready as part of the bridal party. This meant

889
00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:30,439
Speaker 1: that no one would see the parents of the groom

890
00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:32,920
Speaker 1: until shortly before the ceremony, and they would not be

891
00:42:33,000 --> 00:42:35,600
Speaker 1: able to change outfits by going home without missing the

892
00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:38,520
Speaker 1: wedding if anything happened, But that was a different story.

893
00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:41,279
Speaker 1: Thanks to my dear cousin, this is I think that

894
00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:43,640
Speaker 1: this is the only Bridezilla moment that I've seen so far,

895
00:42:44,040 --> 00:42:46,120
Speaker 1: and like pretty bad, pretty bad.

896
00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:48,759
Speaker 3: It's absolutely bad, but we.

897
00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:52,759
Speaker 1: Were promised a whole Yeah, and you know what.

898
00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:58,320
Speaker 2: At least that does come with the context. Yeah, Rebecca,

899
00:42:58,400 --> 00:43:00,480
Speaker 2: for Alice, it could have been.

900
00:43:00,640 --> 00:43:02,200
Speaker 6: Yeah, my my.

901
00:43:03,840 --> 00:43:08,480
Speaker 1: Cousin threw wine on her mother in law for wearing

902
00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:10,600
Speaker 1: white at her wedding, even though she told her it

903
00:43:10,640 --> 00:43:11,200
Speaker 1: was okay.

904
00:43:11,360 --> 00:43:15,360
Speaker 2: Boom, Yeah, but you never wear white. You never wear white, I.

905
00:43:15,400 --> 00:43:16,040
Speaker 1: Guess, but it's not.

906
00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:21,080
Speaker 2: But it's not. What would you say, because it's partially white,

907
00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:24,400
Speaker 2: like the top is white, it's still white, John, but

908
00:43:24,920 --> 00:43:26,720
Speaker 2: it don't wear skirt.

909
00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:28,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I think it's just like never wear

910
00:43:29,239 --> 00:43:30,440
Speaker 1: really anyway, but.

911
00:43:30,600 --> 00:43:34,840
Speaker 4: Thank you any part of Yeah, I'm wearing neon orange

912
00:43:34,880 --> 00:43:36,000
Speaker 4: at your wedding, buddy, I.

913
00:43:36,000 --> 00:43:37,759
Speaker 1: Think you just have to like steer as far away.

914
00:43:38,200 --> 00:43:40,680
Speaker 1: But yeah, this is I think this is still still

915
00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:43,320
Speaker 1: not good. Now you can all be the judge. The

916
00:43:43,400 --> 00:43:46,000
Speaker 1: groom's mother is wearing a pre approved pale blue and

917
00:43:46,160 --> 00:43:49,280
Speaker 1: white dress with roses printed on it, but gets showered

918
00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:51,759
Speaker 1: with red wine between her arrival at the venue and

919
00:43:51,840 --> 00:43:55,400
Speaker 1: the ceremony start time. Was she really seeking the spotlight

920
00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:58,320
Speaker 1: on her son's wedding day, or was she the victim

921
00:43:58,520 --> 00:44:06,920
Speaker 1: of a bride's find out more, the entire bridal party

922
00:44:07,040 --> 00:44:08,880
Speaker 1: stayed in a hotel the night before the weddings so

923
00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:12,239
Speaker 1: they could all get ready together. Damien's parents could have

924
00:44:12,280 --> 00:44:14,520
Speaker 1: booked a room at the hotel, they chose not to

925
00:44:14,719 --> 00:44:16,560
Speaker 1: after being told by their son that they would be

926
00:44:16,640 --> 00:44:19,879
Speaker 1: responsible for getting themselves to and from the venue from

927
00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:23,640
Speaker 1: the hotel or their home. For context, they would be

928
00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:26,120
Speaker 1: driving at least one hour from their home to the

929
00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:29,240
Speaker 1: venue instead of thirty minutes from the hotel to the venue.

930
00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:31,879
Speaker 1: The hotel is about a two hour drive from their home.

931
00:44:32,400 --> 00:44:35,120
Speaker 1: Now I ask you all, after all that my dear

932
00:44:35,200 --> 00:44:38,239
Speaker 1: cousin has done and said during what should be a

933
00:44:38,320 --> 00:44:40,840
Speaker 1: magical time in a person's life, does she deserve a

934
00:44:40,880 --> 00:44:41,719
Speaker 1: gift of any kind?

935
00:44:41,960 --> 00:44:46,120
Speaker 2: Yo? That is I mean.

936
00:44:47,719 --> 00:44:48,160
Speaker 7: For real?

937
00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:52,000
Speaker 1: Oh pee oh p man yeah oh. I will update

938
00:44:52,000 --> 00:44:54,080
Speaker 1: again in a few weeks when I get more details

939
00:44:54,160 --> 00:44:57,320
Speaker 1: and the dust has settled. Hannah's father will soon know

940
00:44:57,440 --> 00:45:00,080
Speaker 1: the truth and that should be filled with drama. And

941
00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:02,240
Speaker 1: there is another update.

942
00:45:02,360 --> 00:45:07,080
Speaker 2: Wait, so Op is gonna go tattle to the bio dad,

943
00:45:07,400 --> 00:45:10,879
Speaker 2: which once again we don't know the context time why

944
00:45:11,040 --> 00:45:15,160
Speaker 2: Hannah doesn't want her father there right, is that all? Like?

945
00:45:15,400 --> 00:45:18,640
Speaker 2: What if something you know, really bad happened between Hannah

946
00:45:18,640 --> 00:45:21,239
Speaker 2: and her father, Yeah, which would make a ton of

947
00:45:21,360 --> 00:45:24,640
Speaker 2: sense why she wouldn't want to invite him, Like, yeah,

948
00:45:24,719 --> 00:45:27,920
Speaker 2: the drama ensuing would be because of you, OPI.

949
00:45:27,840 --> 00:45:29,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would say everyone sucks here.

950
00:45:30,160 --> 00:45:32,000
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no sucks.

951
00:45:32,640 --> 00:45:36,640
Speaker 1: But I think that the Hannah sucks for preapproving address

952
00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:37,839
Speaker 1: and throwing wine on her mom.

953
00:45:37,960 --> 00:45:38,759
Speaker 2: That does suck.

954
00:45:39,160 --> 00:45:41,320
Speaker 4: Okay, out of all the things that Hannah did that

955
00:45:41,400 --> 00:45:43,799
Speaker 4: were bad, this is the one thing she was bad.

956
00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:45,680
Speaker 4: I don't know, I'm just but I think you.

957
00:45:45,719 --> 00:45:47,919
Speaker 1: Can still be in everyone sucks here if you've done one.

958
00:45:47,880 --> 00:45:48,520
Speaker 3: That I think.

959
00:45:48,600 --> 00:45:51,120
Speaker 2: I think I think Riley, like we've heard so many

960
00:45:51,239 --> 00:45:54,279
Speaker 2: things like it's fine, Oh, it's fine that it feels like, oh,

961
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:55,120
Speaker 2: it's only one thing.

962
00:45:55,520 --> 00:45:57,800
Speaker 3: But if the whole story had just if.

963
00:45:59,239 --> 00:46:01,960
Speaker 2: Anything else, it was five sentences and it was just this.

964
00:46:04,000 --> 00:46:04,160
Speaker 1: Here.

965
00:46:04,280 --> 00:46:06,960
Speaker 2: So I think she doesn't suck. In my opinion, she

966
00:46:07,080 --> 00:46:08,680
Speaker 2: gets to pass, all right.

967
00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:10,200
Speaker 1: I think I think everyone's sex here.

968
00:46:10,680 --> 00:46:12,960
Speaker 3: I'm gonna pull yeah, let's pull up. Let's pull it.

969
00:46:14,360 --> 00:46:16,120
Speaker 1: Ali Wright says, but do you believe op?

970
00:46:16,400 --> 00:46:16,560
Speaker 2: Yeah?

971
00:46:16,719 --> 00:46:20,759
Speaker 1: Did she know? In advance update, four, Part five post

972
00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:25,520
Speaker 1: wedding drama. Note Hopefully the events and words have only

973
00:46:25,560 --> 00:46:28,720
Speaker 1: been recounted to me, so details may not be fully accurate.

974
00:46:29,840 --> 00:46:32,320
Speaker 2: I'm thinking, like, Anna better beat the crap out of

975
00:46:32,360 --> 00:46:34,760
Speaker 2: her grandpa. At this point, I need something.

976
00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:37,400
Speaker 3: We need to throw hands at grandpa.

977
00:46:38,200 --> 00:46:39,880
Speaker 1: It has been about a month since the wedding and

978
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:43,160
Speaker 1: there is a lot that has happened, which this is Ope,

979
00:46:43,440 --> 00:46:45,719
Speaker 1: so you know, take that with a grain of salt.

980
00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:48,279
Speaker 4: Sorry, we have not heard anything about the grandpa on

981
00:46:48,320 --> 00:46:53,400
Speaker 4: the wedding day. Nothing, nothing, So that was just like pointless. Yeah, well,

982
00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:55,479
Speaker 4: it seems like Ope was really mad that he didn't

983
00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:56,640
Speaker 4: get to go, but then she went.

984
00:46:56,760 --> 00:47:02,840
Speaker 2: Then she was like, She's like and then yeah, what

985
00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:03,480
Speaker 2: is this?

986
00:47:03,840 --> 00:47:07,960
Speaker 1: Scrap a glass of your favorite beverage and get comfy.

987
00:47:08,520 --> 00:47:10,560
Speaker 1: I was hesitant to post this, but it needs to

988
00:47:10,640 --> 00:47:13,879
Speaker 1: be said. Hannah's outdoor wedding ceremony was on the top

989
00:47:13,960 --> 00:47:14,520
Speaker 1: of the hill.

990
00:47:15,520 --> 00:47:21,640
Speaker 2: Ah, it was the hell and it was near sunset,

991
00:47:21,760 --> 00:47:24,400
Speaker 2: so it was gonna get dark. Soon after that. I

992
00:47:24,480 --> 00:47:26,319
Speaker 2: got sunburned and then it went dark.

993
00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:29,560
Speaker 1: I mentioned that some of the guests were elderly and

994
00:47:29,719 --> 00:47:33,799
Speaker 1: some had medical conditions, and that transportation for them was unknown. Well,

995
00:47:33,880 --> 00:47:37,160
Speaker 1: now I know one of these guests tripped going back

996
00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:39,840
Speaker 1: down the hill from the ceremony site to the main venue.

997
00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:44,400
Speaker 2: Please tell me they didn't make it.

998
00:47:44,920 --> 00:47:47,080
Speaker 1: They didn't want to cause a scene at the wedding,

999
00:47:47,239 --> 00:47:49,040
Speaker 1: so they fought through the pain and went on with

1000
00:47:49,120 --> 00:47:51,680
Speaker 1: the night. The next day they went to the emergency

1001
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:53,800
Speaker 1: room and it was discovered they had a broken ankle.

1002
00:47:54,400 --> 00:47:56,480
Speaker 1: They had surgery to fix the brake. But this could

1003
00:47:56,480 --> 00:47:59,280
Speaker 1: have been avoided if Hannah and Damien had arranged proper

1004
00:47:59,360 --> 00:48:03,200
Speaker 1: transportation were guests after the ceremony, if only for the elderly,

1005
00:48:03,600 --> 00:48:06,000
Speaker 1: or maybe you should have freaking walked them down the hill.

1006
00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:09,120
Speaker 2: But yeah, you could have done something about you.

1007
00:48:09,120 --> 00:48:11,719
Speaker 3: Know what, you know what, that person tripped over a chair?

1008
00:48:12,080 --> 00:48:13,239
Speaker 3: Why do we have chairs?

1009
00:48:13,280 --> 00:48:13,959
Speaker 1: Why do we have chairs?

1010
00:48:14,719 --> 00:48:18,280
Speaker 2: Get them out of here, you thoughtless, reckless.

1011
00:48:17,920 --> 00:48:18,759
Speaker 3: Piece of pepe.

1012
00:48:18,760 --> 00:48:20,319
Speaker 4: Why don't you let people sit and then take up

1013
00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:22,239
Speaker 4: all the chairs right after the things?

1014
00:48:23,360 --> 00:48:27,439
Speaker 2: Why did you hire personal carriers to gently carry every

1015
00:48:27,520 --> 00:48:30,959
Speaker 2: person from That's a transport, Yeah, strong men or women

1016
00:48:31,239 --> 00:48:33,000
Speaker 2: transferring people up and down the hill, carrying them on

1017
00:48:33,000 --> 00:48:33,319
Speaker 2: their backs.

1018
00:48:33,440 --> 00:48:41,040
Speaker 1: Like, but yeah, what is the transportation there? An I'm

1019
00:48:41,120 --> 00:48:43,040
Speaker 1: just like wondering what thought it was gonna be, Like,

1020
00:48:43,160 --> 00:48:44,799
Speaker 1: did you think they were gonna get like a golf cart?

1021
00:48:45,000 --> 00:48:49,319
Speaker 3: I mean, aren't they driving? Aren't they just driving the man?

1022
00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:51,680
Speaker 6: I don't know.

1023
00:48:51,960 --> 00:48:53,279
Speaker 1: The only thing I would say is like, if you

1024
00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:55,279
Speaker 1: have elderly people, you should be making sure that they're

1025
00:48:55,280 --> 00:48:58,800
Speaker 1: getting down, you know, an unsafe path safely. But like

1026
00:48:58,880 --> 00:49:00,960
Speaker 1: I feel like, you know, people should have been like, hey,

1027
00:49:01,360 --> 00:49:02,399
Speaker 1: grandpa's over there.

1028
00:49:02,600 --> 00:49:06,200
Speaker 2: Honestly himself, that's what I said. Well, it's just some fun.

1029
00:49:06,400 --> 00:49:08,040
Speaker 2: Was get everybody on top of the hill, a lot

1030
00:49:08,120 --> 00:49:11,359
Speaker 2: of people the hill, and watch them go down.

1031
00:49:14,080 --> 00:49:16,320
Speaker 1: We're elderly people. Riley may not, but I do.

1032
00:49:17,160 --> 00:49:17,320
Speaker 5: I do.

1033
00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:19,120
Speaker 2: But it sounds like Hannah doesn't.

1034
00:49:19,120 --> 00:49:20,239
Speaker 6: I don't know that.

1035
00:49:20,480 --> 00:49:24,160
Speaker 1: All being said, Hannah's small, intimate wedding with less than

1036
00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:26,520
Speaker 1: one hundred people may not have been so small and intimate.

1037
00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:29,640
Speaker 1: I have been told there were actually two hundred guests

1038
00:49:29,680 --> 00:49:32,759
Speaker 1: at the wedding. I am waiting for photo confirmation of

1039
00:49:32,840 --> 00:49:34,799
Speaker 1: the total number of guests that attended this wedding.

1040
00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:37,560
Speaker 2: Wait wait, read that sentence, can go. I'm waiting.

1041
00:49:37,960 --> 00:49:40,399
Speaker 1: I am waiting for photo confirmation of the total number

1042
00:49:40,440 --> 00:49:41,680
Speaker 1: of guests that attend at the wedding.

1043
00:49:42,320 --> 00:49:43,839
Speaker 2: Begin to read this whole story in that way.

1044
00:49:44,719 --> 00:49:47,560
Speaker 1: The thought that Hannah and Damien had double the guests

1045
00:49:47,600 --> 00:49:50,040
Speaker 1: they intended makes me think of how they could fit

1046
00:49:50,200 --> 00:49:50,960
Speaker 1: so many others.

1047
00:49:51,040 --> 00:49:55,799
Speaker 6: But uh not, dear grandfather, Let go live.

1048
00:50:00,280 --> 00:50:02,560
Speaker 1: This part is more of a personal update. I don't care,

1049
00:50:02,840 --> 00:50:04,759
Speaker 1: which is why I didn't add it before. But now

1050
00:50:04,840 --> 00:50:06,520
Speaker 1: I'm ready to add this update.

1051
00:50:07,160 --> 00:50:11,120
Speaker 3: I need something, and Hannah' better have been the one

1052
00:50:11,160 --> 00:50:11,560
Speaker 3: that did it.

1053
00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:14,160
Speaker 1: I think I should mention that other people have been

1054
00:50:14,200 --> 00:50:16,759
Speaker 1: telling Hannah that our grandfather in ninety one mail is

1055
00:50:16,960 --> 00:50:20,600
Speaker 1: only holding on for her wedding. I don't believe he

1056
00:50:20,719 --> 00:50:23,719
Speaker 1: was holding on only for Hannah's wedding. Hannah had only

1057
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:25,880
Speaker 1: come to visit our grandfather twice in the wedding year

1058
00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:28,040
Speaker 1: because she was too busy with wedding planning and was

1059
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:32,480
Speaker 1: somehow always sick. Whatever she was scheduled to visit. She

1060
00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:35,120
Speaker 1: never called him to say hi or ask how he

1061
00:50:35,280 --> 00:50:38,080
Speaker 1: was feeling, and rarely left his messages on social media.

1062
00:50:40,200 --> 00:50:42,520
Speaker 3: Wait are you telling me you didn't slide in Grandpa's end.

1063
00:50:44,160 --> 00:50:46,120
Speaker 4: You didn't talk to him on TikTok, you didn't send

1064
00:50:46,160 --> 00:50:47,720
Speaker 4: him any videos TikTok.

1065
00:50:47,360 --> 00:50:48,759
Speaker 3: Didn't doubt up didn't like the post.

1066
00:50:49,120 --> 00:50:51,320
Speaker 1: She played the part of a caring granddaughter when it

1067
00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:54,520
Speaker 1: was convenient for her. Well, the verdict is in and

1068
00:50:54,640 --> 00:50:55,360
Speaker 1: he didn't.

1069
00:50:55,239 --> 00:50:58,000
Speaker 6: Lift to see the wedding he was invited to.

1070
00:50:58,960 --> 00:51:02,160
Speaker 1: Damn, this wasn't even a problem.

1071
00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:03,360
Speaker 2: We did hate to do it.

1072
00:51:03,800 --> 00:51:06,279
Speaker 1: I think it's really okay, okay, I'm so sorry for

1073
00:51:06,320 --> 00:51:09,719
Speaker 1: your loss. I think it's really really funny that he

1074
00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:14,520
Speaker 1: was like, I can't believe Hannah couldn't invite Grandpa to

1075
00:51:14,600 --> 00:51:18,920
Speaker 1: the wedding. Unbelievable that she had all this money, couldn't

1076
00:51:18,920 --> 00:51:20,920
Speaker 1: invite Grandpa to the wedding. And then she's like, Grandpa

1077
00:51:21,320 --> 00:51:23,400
Speaker 1: did pass away, so he wouldn't have gone to the wedding.

1078
00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:29,920
Speaker 3: Grandpa at the wedding.

1079
00:51:29,960 --> 00:51:31,439
Speaker 2: We could have done that. It was on a hill.

1080
00:51:31,480 --> 00:51:35,879
Speaker 2: There's plenty of earth and dirt like like like like, right,

1081
00:51:36,440 --> 00:51:40,279
Speaker 2: you go as you vow the hill, as you're reading

1082
00:51:40,320 --> 00:51:43,200
Speaker 2: the vowels, the the uh what is it? The coffins

1083
00:51:43,480 --> 00:51:47,440
Speaker 2: slowly it sinks into the ground. We could have done that,

1084
00:51:47,560 --> 00:51:48,680
Speaker 2: but Hannah decided not to.

1085
00:51:48,880 --> 00:51:51,440
Speaker 1: He passed peacefully. At the days leading up to the wedding,

1086
00:51:52,520 --> 00:51:55,000
Speaker 1: Hannah's dad, forty five, mail has seen the wedding photos

1087
00:51:55,040 --> 00:51:57,719
Speaker 1: posted on social media and knows Hannah lied to him

1088
00:51:57,719 --> 00:52:00,920
Speaker 1: about already being married in the small courthouse wedding. Her

1089
00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:03,040
Speaker 1: dad has always had a temper, but was always the

1090
00:52:03,120 --> 00:52:05,800
Speaker 1: first to step up in protecting his little girl. The

1091
00:52:05,920 --> 00:52:07,800
Speaker 1: last few years have been rocky for them, with the

1092
00:52:07,840 --> 00:52:11,440
Speaker 1: divorce and finding new love. Hannah's dad isn't speaking to

1093
00:52:11,560 --> 00:52:14,360
Speaker 1: anyone in the family directly, but he is talking to

1094
00:52:14,440 --> 00:52:17,160
Speaker 1: his friends who are passing some information down the grapevine

1095
00:52:17,200 --> 00:52:19,839
Speaker 1: to other uncles who then tell their kids and then

1096
00:52:19,920 --> 00:52:23,279
Speaker 1: tell me thumbs up for that wonderful family gossip tree.

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00:52:23,800 --> 00:52:26,560
Speaker 1: Hannah's dad hasn't caused a scene yet, since he hasn't

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00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:29,000
Speaker 1: seen her since before the wedding or made comments on

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00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:31,640
Speaker 1: social media. He has told his friends that he was

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00:52:31,719 --> 00:52:33,640
Speaker 1: hurt that Hannah couldn't tell him the truth before it

1101
00:52:33,719 --> 00:52:36,200
Speaker 1: went public. He also plans to change his will and

1102
00:52:36,400 --> 00:52:40,160
Speaker 1: any insurance policy to remove her as beneficiary since Hannah

1103
00:52:40,239 --> 00:52:42,760
Speaker 1: doesn't see him as a father. For those hoping Hannah's

1104
00:52:42,800 --> 00:52:45,440
Speaker 1: mother in law would do something in retaliation for the

1105
00:52:45,560 --> 00:52:49,360
Speaker 1: humiliation at the wedding, revenge is a dish best served cold.

1106
00:52:49,880 --> 00:52:52,640
Speaker 1: Damien and Hannah have been staying at his parents' house

1107
00:52:52,680 --> 00:52:55,239
Speaker 1: for the majority of their relationship, and mother in law

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00:52:55,320 --> 00:52:57,680
Speaker 1: and father in law had agreed that they could stay

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00:52:57,920 --> 00:53:01,800
Speaker 1: until one year after marriage or until Damien and Hannah

1110
00:53:01,840 --> 00:53:05,279
Speaker 1: decided to get pregnant, whichever came first. Their lack of

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00:53:05,360 --> 00:53:08,040
Speaker 1: respect caused mother in law and father in law to

1112
00:53:08,200 --> 00:53:10,799
Speaker 1: leave the wedding and head all the way home. Father

1113
00:53:10,880 --> 00:53:13,479
Speaker 1: in law changed and while mother in law showered before

1114
00:53:13,480 --> 00:53:15,600
Speaker 1: they got to work. Since no one would disturb them

1115
00:53:15,640 --> 00:53:18,160
Speaker 1: for at least twenty four hours, mother in law and

1116
00:53:18,360 --> 00:53:21,400
Speaker 1: father in law packed all of Damien and Hannah's belongings

1117
00:53:21,920 --> 00:53:23,320
Speaker 1: and stacked them in the foyer.

1118
00:53:23,480 --> 00:53:25,959
Speaker 2: And again this is the one that got the red wine.

1119
00:53:26,040 --> 00:53:31,080
Speaker 1: Yeah yep, everything from clothing to jewelry to TV and

1120
00:53:31,160 --> 00:53:34,520
Speaker 1: gaming systems. It was all packed neatly. Why would they

1121
00:53:34,560 --> 00:53:36,560
Speaker 1: want to keep someone in their home who showed so

1122
00:53:36,760 --> 00:53:40,040
Speaker 1: much disrespect on such an important day. Fast forward to

1123
00:53:40,080 --> 00:53:42,440
Speaker 1: Damien and Hannah returning to mother in law and father

1124
00:53:42,560 --> 00:53:46,880
Speaker 1: in law's house, thinking they would be staying there as

1125
00:53:46,960 --> 00:53:49,640
Speaker 1: though nothing had happened, and finding all their stuff waiting

1126
00:53:49,680 --> 00:53:52,880
Speaker 1: for them now awaiting, father in law steps forward and

1127
00:53:53,000 --> 00:53:55,640
Speaker 1: informs them that they are no longer welcome to live there,

1128
00:53:56,040 --> 00:53:58,360
Speaker 1: and that they can pack their vehicles or get a

1129
00:53:58,480 --> 00:54:01,960
Speaker 1: truck to move with their furniture out, but have until

1130
00:54:02,080 --> 00:54:04,880
Speaker 1: the end of the day. Damien protested that they had

1131
00:54:04,920 --> 00:54:07,400
Speaker 1: no right to kick them out, and Hannah, being the

1132
00:54:07,440 --> 00:54:10,600
Speaker 1: Hannah we all love, apparently spoke up to support her husband.

1133
00:54:11,000 --> 00:54:13,759
Speaker 1: Hannah stood there in a reportedly two hundred dollars white

1134
00:54:13,800 --> 00:54:17,239
Speaker 1: strapless jumpsuit from the reception. I think mother in law

1135
00:54:17,360 --> 00:54:20,520
Speaker 1: was just waiting for this moment. Has anyone witnessed a

1136
00:54:20,640 --> 00:54:22,160
Speaker 1: champagne spray but with wine?

1137
00:54:22,960 --> 00:54:23,200
Speaker 6: Oh?

1138
00:54:23,640 --> 00:54:24,399
Speaker 2: Yes, Oh?

1139
00:54:25,280 --> 00:54:27,200
Speaker 1: Mother in law didn't care about the cleanup or that

1140
00:54:27,320 --> 00:54:30,040
Speaker 1: all of her son, Damien's belongings and those of Hannah

1141
00:54:30,400 --> 00:54:33,160
Speaker 1: were all in perfect target range. Who mother in law

1142
00:54:33,239 --> 00:54:35,880
Speaker 1: sprayed them down with two full bottles of red wine

1143
00:54:35,960 --> 00:54:38,280
Speaker 1: and aimed most of it on Hannah's.

1144
00:54:37,840 --> 00:54:40,160
Speaker 2: White clothing, on her wedding dress.

1145
00:54:40,520 --> 00:54:46,160
Speaker 1: No, no wedding jumpsuit like after reception? Wow, okay, and

1146
00:54:46,520 --> 00:54:50,839
Speaker 1: so we're back to everyone being the a hole here. Yes,

1147
00:54:51,239 --> 00:54:52,560
Speaker 1: that's a pretty a whole moon.

1148
00:54:52,880 --> 00:54:55,400
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, I mean again, it's like you just

1149
00:54:55,440 --> 00:54:58,319
Speaker 2: don't want to stoop to the Yes, stoop to that level,

1150
00:54:58,400 --> 00:55:00,600
Speaker 2: to that level, and you know, I feel like you

1151
00:55:00,640 --> 00:55:04,279
Speaker 2: could like pull her side like that was totally totally unacceptable,

1152
00:55:04,280 --> 00:55:06,040
Speaker 2: and you know, like you know, I.

1153
00:55:06,080 --> 00:55:08,880
Speaker 3: Want an apology and I feel hurt that you did that,

1154
00:55:08,960 --> 00:55:09,880
Speaker 3: and why do you do that?

1155
00:55:10,040 --> 00:55:12,680
Speaker 2: Like that's all totally to do it back to her

1156
00:55:13,040 --> 00:55:17,319
Speaker 2: on her and also like it is her wedding at

1157
00:55:17,320 --> 00:55:19,400
Speaker 2: the end of the day, so like I feel like

1158
00:55:20,160 --> 00:55:22,759
Speaker 2: pouring the wine on her is like low key at

1159
00:55:22,800 --> 00:55:25,480
Speaker 2: least a little bit worse just because it is her wedding,

1160
00:55:25,520 --> 00:55:26,040
Speaker 2: you know, than.

1161
00:55:26,760 --> 00:55:28,200
Speaker 1: I thought it was a honeymoon and then it got

1162
00:55:28,239 --> 00:55:31,440
Speaker 1: back I don't know, like obviously, like the Hannah is

1163
00:55:31,640 --> 00:55:35,040
Speaker 1: the hole for the wedding the wine incidents.

1164
00:55:34,760 --> 00:55:37,880
Speaker 2: But the edge I got versus the goon I just

1165
00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:40,560
Speaker 2: got was horrible, dude.

1166
00:55:41,160 --> 00:55:44,439
Speaker 1: But you know what else is not horrible? What joining

1167
00:55:44,520 --> 00:55:46,880
Speaker 1: us live every week to at three pm PST on YouTube,

1168
00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:50,880
Speaker 1: Facebook and TikTok. Just tap her profile. Who there's a

1169
00:55:50,920 --> 00:55:53,919
Speaker 1: little bit left to This could have been very short

1170
00:55:53,960 --> 00:55:57,120
Speaker 1: bread since the story howney be Eddievi's has ever heard.

1171
00:55:57,160 --> 00:55:59,239
Speaker 1: Two wrongs don't make it right. But we do have

1172
00:55:59,239 --> 00:56:00,960
Speaker 1: a lot of other people in the saying mother in

1173
00:56:01,040 --> 00:56:04,760
Speaker 1: law for the wind. So you know, Hannah and Damien

1174
00:56:04,800 --> 00:56:06,880
Speaker 1: threw a fit about how her dress was ruined and

1175
00:56:06,920 --> 00:56:09,520
Speaker 1: they would call the police for assaults. Oh, oh, you know,

1176
00:56:09,680 --> 00:56:12,120
Speaker 1: I don't know if they could go that far, because

1177
00:56:12,239 --> 00:56:15,839
Speaker 1: like she did the same father in law told them

1178
00:56:15,880 --> 00:56:18,120
Speaker 1: to go ahead and remind them that they had done

1179
00:56:18,120 --> 00:56:20,080
Speaker 1: the same to mother in law not long ago. So

1180
00:56:20,239 --> 00:56:22,360
Speaker 1: though they would also press charge, Oh, here we go.

1181
00:56:22,840 --> 00:56:26,800
Speaker 1: Hearing that, Damien and Hannah quickly backpedaled their Oh quickly

1182
00:56:26,840 --> 00:56:30,120
Speaker 1: packed their vehicles with their stuff and left for her

1183
00:56:30,239 --> 00:56:33,000
Speaker 1: mother's house. They're currently staying at her mom's house for now,

1184
00:56:33,080 --> 00:56:35,759
Speaker 1: but will need to find their own place. Based on

1185
00:56:35,880 --> 00:56:37,759
Speaker 1: what Hannah's mom has said to some of the aunts

1186
00:56:37,840 --> 00:56:41,200
Speaker 1: and cousins, Damien has lost his family entirely because of

1187
00:56:41,280 --> 00:56:43,960
Speaker 1: the events of the wedding. Hannah's mom is in full

1188
00:56:44,040 --> 00:56:46,560
Speaker 1: support of what happened at the wedding No surprise there,

1189
00:56:47,040 --> 00:56:49,560
Speaker 1: and believes her daughter is the victim in this whole thing.

1190
00:56:50,120 --> 00:56:53,040
Speaker 1: Weddings should be a happy time bringing people together, but

1191
00:56:53,200 --> 00:56:56,239
Speaker 1: this wedding seems to have fractured families and shown the

1192
00:56:56,320 --> 00:56:58,240
Speaker 1: true colors of Hannah and Damien.

1193
00:56:58,880 --> 00:57:01,759
Speaker 6: So so at the end of the day.

1194
00:57:02,840 --> 00:57:05,080
Speaker 1: At the end of the day, John, Yes, I think

1195
00:57:05,200 --> 00:57:09,080
Speaker 1: we had one true moment of a Holary, which was

1196
00:57:09,760 --> 00:57:12,719
Speaker 1: pouring wine on the mother in law who they live with.

1197
00:57:12,920 --> 00:57:14,319
Speaker 1: Was just just stupid, stupid move.

1198
00:57:14,440 --> 00:57:16,920
Speaker 2: That was a Yeah, it was mean, stupid.

1199
00:57:17,120 --> 00:57:18,640
Speaker 1: But then mother in law did it back, which is

1200
00:57:18,680 --> 00:57:19,960
Speaker 1: also not cool.

1201
00:57:20,160 --> 00:57:22,200
Speaker 2: You don't spray the body that shelters you.

1202
00:57:22,560 --> 00:57:24,160
Speaker 1: So true. But OPI also sucks.

1203
00:57:24,200 --> 00:57:26,120
Speaker 2: So everyone sucks here, hang, everyone sucks.

1204
00:57:26,960 --> 00:57:27,720
Speaker 3: Who sucks the most?

1205
00:57:28,040 --> 00:57:29,560
Speaker 2: Op for writing this? Damn?

1206
00:57:29,720 --> 00:57:32,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, right for making us read this entire story. But

1207
00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:35,200
Speaker 1: but second, I think Hannah, But.

1208
00:57:35,440 --> 00:57:39,240
Speaker 2: But Op, Op was like really annoying. But it was

1209
00:57:39,320 --> 00:57:40,840
Speaker 2: like a bunch of it was like death by a

1210
00:57:40,880 --> 00:57:42,040
Speaker 2: thousand paper cuts. Yeah.

1211
00:57:42,120 --> 00:57:44,040
Speaker 1: But like if we had just gotten the one thing

1212
00:57:44,120 --> 00:57:46,520
Speaker 1: from Hannah, Hannah would have been the clear a hole.

1213
00:57:46,640 --> 00:57:48,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like Hannah's more than a hole. Right,

1214
00:57:49,240 --> 00:57:50,480
Speaker 3: that's a bigger You.

1215
00:57:50,600 --> 00:57:50,960
Speaker 2: Just said that.

1216
00:57:51,640 --> 00:57:52,439
Speaker 6: Oh no, I was saying.

1217
00:57:52,640 --> 00:57:54,880
Speaker 1: I was saying, I think Hannah is the main a hole,

1218
00:57:55,560 --> 00:57:57,640
Speaker 1: but Op is an a hole for making us read this.

1219
00:57:57,760 --> 00:58:03,680
Speaker 2: Entire I say Op's the biggest. It's like it's all

1220
00:58:03,760 --> 00:58:06,880
Speaker 2: it's just sorry.

1221
00:58:08,520 --> 00:58:11,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think Op like walked it all and was like,

1222
00:58:11,200 --> 00:58:15,000
Speaker 1: and you won't believe. I'm still not over the fact

1223
00:58:15,000 --> 00:58:19,200
Speaker 1: that Op was like, I cannot believe she did not

1224
00:58:19,360 --> 00:58:21,520
Speaker 1: let Grandpa come to the wedding. Grandpa couldn't come to

1225
00:58:21,560 --> 00:58:22,680
Speaker 1: the wedding because he passed away.

1226
00:58:22,880 --> 00:58:24,800
Speaker 6: But I can't believe.

1227
00:58:25,960 --> 00:58:29,320
Speaker 2: Up and up until the point of Grandpa passing away, yes,

1228
00:58:29,640 --> 00:58:32,840
Speaker 2: understood at least, like not that you can like attack

1229
00:58:32,880 --> 00:58:34,640
Speaker 2: her for that. It's like, all right, you're disgruntled whatever,

1230
00:58:35,120 --> 00:58:38,200
Speaker 2: but he couldn't go, so I want to.

1231
00:58:38,600 --> 00:58:41,880
Speaker 1: They're all a holes, whole family a holes. But that

1232
00:58:42,080 --> 00:58:43,320
Speaker 1: is the end of that story.

1233
00:58:44,000 --> 00:58:47,800
Speaker 8: Sorry for your loss, o p Indeed, that's all she wrote, Lawless.

1234
00:58:48,040 --> 00:58:50,840
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1235
00:58:52,520 --> 00:58:54,960
Speaker 8: This is an episode from Deep within the Archives. Time

1236
00:58:55,040 --> 00:58:56,880
Speaker 8: for ok op re Lam.

1237
00:58:59,640 --> 00:59:02,560
Speaker 2: My husband and I found out our pregnant wife is

1238
00:59:02,680 --> 00:59:04,240
Speaker 2: mad at me, and I don't know what to do.

1239
00:59:04,720 --> 00:59:08,000
Speaker 7: I'm very confused. This sounds like a Manajatois situation and

1240
00:59:08,200 --> 00:59:09,040
Speaker 7: I'm here for it.

1241
00:59:09,200 --> 00:59:11,160
Speaker 2: Well, we're about to find out. Going to start off

1242
00:59:11,240 --> 00:59:15,160
Speaker 2: by saying, yes, we are a polyamorous triad yo.

1243
00:59:16,120 --> 00:59:18,400
Speaker 7: That's exciting. We haven't had one of these, dude. I

1244
00:59:18,400 --> 00:59:20,440
Speaker 7: don't think, or at least at least it hasn't been

1245
00:59:20,600 --> 00:59:24,800
Speaker 7: like everyone's on board. Yeah, yeah, we've had a lot

1246
00:59:24,840 --> 00:59:31,200
Speaker 7: of uh consent. Ness is my wife with a name

1247
00:59:31,320 --> 00:59:31,720
Speaker 7: like Ness?

1248
00:59:31,880 --> 00:59:34,560
Speaker 2: Of course you got to wife that up as much

1249
00:59:34,640 --> 00:59:38,480
Speaker 2: as she is Elijah's wife, Okay, just as he is

1250
00:59:38,560 --> 00:59:40,280
Speaker 2: her husband and mine equally.

1251
00:59:40,320 --> 00:59:42,440
Speaker 7: All Right, I'm already confused.

1252
00:59:42,000 --> 00:59:45,520
Speaker 2: But here we go. Everyone's married to each other for

1253
00:59:45,600 --> 00:59:45,920
Speaker 2: each other.

1254
00:59:46,000 --> 00:59:46,240
Speaker 7: Okay.

1255
00:59:46,480 --> 00:59:48,560
Speaker 2: Elijah and I got married ten years ago, and we

1256
00:59:48,760 --> 00:59:52,600
Speaker 2: both married Ness eight years ago. All three of us

1257
00:59:52,880 --> 00:59:55,240
Speaker 2: have always wanted kids, which is part of why her

1258
00:59:55,280 --> 00:59:57,640
Speaker 2: reaction is so confusing and upsetting to me.

1259
00:59:58,560 --> 01:00:04,080
Speaker 7: It's confused, SA like this relationship which is so simple,

1260
01:00:04,160 --> 01:00:06,240
Speaker 7: which is very simple, very straightforward.

1261
01:00:06,600 --> 01:00:08,960
Speaker 2: I found out three weeks ago that I am pregnant,

1262
01:00:09,360 --> 01:00:12,360
Speaker 2: and Elijah was with me. When we found out, we

1263
01:00:12,520 --> 01:00:15,000
Speaker 2: were so excited, so we went to build a bear

1264
01:00:15,360 --> 01:00:18,360
Speaker 2: and got some cute little things to surprise Vanessa with

1265
01:00:18,960 --> 01:00:20,919
Speaker 2: when she got home from work. So you know, they're

1266
01:00:20,920 --> 01:00:24,040
Speaker 2: doing a cute little like baby, real, look at this,

1267
01:00:25,200 --> 01:00:28,400
Speaker 2: I'm pregnant with your husband's child. Like that's yeah, that's

1268
01:00:28,440 --> 01:00:29,919
Speaker 2: what you want to see. Yeah.

1269
01:00:30,080 --> 01:00:32,640
Speaker 7: See, I feel like she's okay with having children as

1270
01:00:32,680 --> 01:00:33,800
Speaker 7: long as it's her children.

1271
01:00:34,400 --> 01:00:36,960
Speaker 2: Well, we're about We're about to see, aren't we. We

1272
01:00:37,080 --> 01:00:39,439
Speaker 2: gave her all of it, along with the pregnancy test.

1273
01:00:39,520 --> 01:00:41,880
Speaker 2: We thought she'd be so excited because she seems to

1274
01:00:41,960 --> 01:00:45,200
Speaker 2: always jump with joy at the idea that one of

1275
01:00:45,360 --> 01:00:48,520
Speaker 2: us or both of us would get pregnant. Sounds like

1276
01:00:48,600 --> 01:00:53,480
Speaker 2: she's not jumping. She ain't jumping, and she's always dreamed

1277
01:00:53,520 --> 01:00:57,200
Speaker 2: of being a mom. But she gave a half hearted thanks,

1278
01:00:57,880 --> 01:01:02,040
Speaker 2: this is really cool and walked away, weird, thanks, this

1279
01:01:02,200 --> 01:01:06,240
Speaker 2: is really cool. Yeah, sick, bro, Yeah, sick sick pregnancy,

1280
01:01:06,400 --> 01:01:07,360
Speaker 2: dog pregnancy.

1281
01:01:07,440 --> 01:01:09,360
Speaker 7: I'm gonna go into my room play some video games.

1282
01:01:09,440 --> 01:01:12,680
Speaker 2: That's right. Since then, she's been cold with me and

1283
01:01:12,800 --> 01:01:15,960
Speaker 2: short tempered. We tried talking about it, and she's shrugging

1284
01:01:16,040 --> 01:01:18,440
Speaker 2: it off, which is very unlike her, since she's always

1285
01:01:18,520 --> 01:01:21,480
Speaker 2: the first to express her feelings, set healthy boundaries, or

1286
01:01:21,560 --> 01:01:22,040
Speaker 2: talk it out.

1287
01:01:22,560 --> 01:01:23,400
Speaker 3: She literally made a.

1288
01:01:23,480 --> 01:01:26,160
Speaker 2: Huge wooden key that hangs in our living room that

1289
01:01:26,320 --> 01:01:30,680
Speaker 2: has communication is key painted on it for our wedding anniversary.

1290
01:01:31,000 --> 01:01:33,280
Speaker 7: I love it. I love it. Yeah, I'm just like,

1291
01:01:34,120 --> 01:01:37,080
Speaker 7: I am very just interested in this whole relationship. It is.

1292
01:01:37,240 --> 01:01:38,680
Speaker 2: It is an interesting dynamic.

1293
01:01:38,800 --> 01:01:39,040
Speaker 6: It is.

1294
01:01:39,200 --> 01:01:42,040
Speaker 2: It is we have a counselor that we will all

1295
01:01:42,200 --> 01:01:45,160
Speaker 2: see together once in a while, and he joins in sometimes,

1296
01:01:45,760 --> 01:01:50,440
Speaker 2: oh yeah, you can counsel me, buddy, counsel my genitals.

1297
01:01:51,320 --> 01:01:55,400
Speaker 2: But she's even refusing to go see her. I am

1298
01:01:55,480 --> 01:01:57,960
Speaker 2: so stressed. I'm crying all the time. I don't know

1299
01:01:58,080 --> 01:02:00,840
Speaker 2: what to do or why she's like this. She's done

1300
01:02:00,880 --> 01:02:03,520
Speaker 2: a complete one eighty and it isn't wanting to sleep

1301
01:02:03,600 --> 01:02:05,720
Speaker 2: next to me, barely talks to me. And when she

1302
01:02:05,840 --> 01:02:08,000
Speaker 2: needed her oil change, she took it to a shop

1303
01:02:08,080 --> 01:02:10,160
Speaker 2: instead of having me do it like we always have.

1304
01:02:11,120 --> 01:02:12,400
Speaker 2: I've tried baking.

1305
01:02:12,160 --> 01:02:15,400
Speaker 7: Her favoriteanism or something. Oh my god, she her oil

1306
01:02:15,600 --> 01:02:17,880
Speaker 7: change and she went to do it somewhere else. Good

1307
01:02:18,080 --> 01:02:19,040
Speaker 7: gog God.

1308
01:02:19,960 --> 01:02:22,720
Speaker 2: I tried making her favorite cookies. She won't eat him.

1309
01:02:22,960 --> 01:02:25,040
Speaker 2: Our husband has tried to talk with her one on one,

1310
01:02:25,360 --> 01:02:27,960
Speaker 2: and that hasn't done any good either. She won't open

1311
01:02:28,120 --> 01:02:31,320
Speaker 2: up to him. She's never cared about being quote unquote

1312
01:02:31,400 --> 01:02:35,640
Speaker 2: first with pregnancy. So we don't think that that's it. Oh,

1313
01:02:35,800 --> 01:02:36,360
Speaker 2: definitely not.

1314
01:02:36,520 --> 01:02:38,720
Speaker 7: That's absolutely not thinking that at all.

1315
01:02:39,040 --> 01:02:41,760
Speaker 2: She's always said a blessing is a blessing, and it

1316
01:02:41,840 --> 01:02:44,880
Speaker 2: will be our baby no matter who births it, and

1317
01:02:44,960 --> 01:02:47,240
Speaker 2: would make jokes about me getting pregnant first so she

1318
01:02:47,320 --> 01:02:49,440
Speaker 2: can play with the baby and be a mom without

1319
01:02:49,520 --> 01:02:51,880
Speaker 2: having to deal with with being in labor. So what

1320
01:02:52,040 --> 01:02:54,520
Speaker 2: do I do? I feel so lost and so broken.

1321
01:02:54,680 --> 01:02:56,640
Speaker 7: I mean, they tried to talk to her, right, Okay,

1322
01:02:56,680 --> 01:02:58,960
Speaker 7: First of all, I have no idea. I have no

1323
01:03:00,760 --> 01:03:06,040
Speaker 7: I don't have any experience with long term polyamorous relationships. Sure,

1324
01:03:06,120 --> 01:03:08,120
Speaker 7: all right, let's let's let's skip over that. Oh god,

1325
01:03:08,880 --> 01:03:12,560
Speaker 7: but for long term I have no idea. So this

1326
01:03:12,680 --> 01:03:14,800
Speaker 7: is Take this with a grain of salt. They already

1327
01:03:14,840 --> 01:03:18,760
Speaker 7: tried talking with her, already, did you tried again? Try

1328
01:03:18,840 --> 01:03:23,480
Speaker 7: to keep keep I don't know what else to say

1329
01:03:23,720 --> 01:03:27,000
Speaker 7: that they're like, yoh, like tried talking again because she's

1330
01:03:27,040 --> 01:03:30,760
Speaker 7: obviously upset, and it's probably like, yeah, sure, you know,

1331
01:03:31,040 --> 01:03:34,600
Speaker 7: saying I'm fine with you being the having a baby first.

1332
01:03:35,200 --> 01:03:39,280
Speaker 7: In theory, is is all great, But as soon as

1333
01:03:39,280 --> 01:03:41,880
Speaker 7: it becomes real, I feel like that's when the emotions

1334
01:03:41,960 --> 01:03:42,240
Speaker 7: come out.

1335
01:03:42,400 --> 01:03:44,440
Speaker 2: Yeah. I think it's just a case of like she

1336
01:03:44,600 --> 01:03:46,840
Speaker 2: thought she would be fine with it and then definitely

1337
01:03:46,880 --> 01:03:49,960
Speaker 2: not once it happen actually happened, which in complete fairness.

1338
01:03:50,200 --> 01:03:54,400
Speaker 2: I feel like, is is fair? You know, like sometimes

1339
01:03:54,760 --> 01:03:57,320
Speaker 2: a thing like that I could see, you're just like

1340
01:03:57,840 --> 01:03:59,120
Speaker 2: when it actually happens.

1341
01:03:58,840 --> 01:04:01,680
Speaker 7: You're like, oh shit, that's just like I'm confronted with ree.

1342
01:04:02,240 --> 01:04:04,120
Speaker 2: Think about all the people who are like, oh, like

1343
01:04:04,360 --> 01:04:06,600
Speaker 2: going to go into a career and they're like, oh,

1344
01:04:06,720 --> 01:04:08,560
Speaker 2: this isn't what I thought it was. Blah blah blah.

1345
01:04:08,600 --> 01:04:10,480
Speaker 2: You know, it's like that you know that happened with

1346
01:04:10,640 --> 01:04:12,640
Speaker 2: kids could happen, but yeah, I thought I wanted kids

1347
01:04:12,680 --> 01:04:14,600
Speaker 2: that I had a kid, so like, I don't know,

1348
01:04:14,760 --> 01:04:17,520
Speaker 2: I think, uh, yeah, I'm shocked that they're like, oh, well,

1349
01:04:17,560 --> 01:04:18,680
Speaker 2: it's not it can't be that.

1350
01:04:18,920 --> 01:04:22,560
Speaker 7: She's definitely like it definitely that it's for sure that

1351
01:04:22,800 --> 01:04:25,240
Speaker 7: I just like, how do you handle it? She's probably

1352
01:04:25,360 --> 01:04:28,920
Speaker 7: I think the other thing is like she's probably embarrassed

1353
01:04:28,960 --> 01:04:31,040
Speaker 7: maybe a little or something like that where it's like

1354
01:04:31,720 --> 01:04:34,040
Speaker 7: I said I would be okay, I'm not okay. How

1355
01:04:34,080 --> 01:04:36,000
Speaker 7: do I even bring that up? Because it's like if

1356
01:04:36,040 --> 01:04:38,040
Speaker 7: they say like, hey, I'm not okay with you having

1357
01:04:38,520 --> 01:04:41,320
Speaker 7: a kid, like what like what good? Like, I don't

1358
01:04:41,360 --> 01:04:42,240
Speaker 7: know where do you go from there?

1359
01:04:42,360 --> 01:04:44,840
Speaker 2: Yeah? I mean I kind of wonder if they just

1360
01:04:44,960 --> 01:04:47,320
Speaker 2: kind of have to be like, look, this is like

1361
01:04:47,400 --> 01:04:50,200
Speaker 2: a bomb of a thing to say, but like, do

1362
01:04:50,400 --> 01:04:53,720
Speaker 2: you want to continue the relationship since this happened, because

1363
01:04:53,720 --> 01:04:56,880
Speaker 2: it's it seems like like you know, which is totally fair,

1364
01:04:57,080 --> 01:05:00,640
Speaker 2: like this happened and then like you yeah, didn't It

1365
01:05:00,720 --> 01:05:01,720
Speaker 2: wasn't what you thought it would be.

1366
01:05:01,800 --> 01:05:04,280
Speaker 7: She's probably dealing with a lot of emotions. Maybe they

1367
01:05:04,320 --> 01:05:08,560
Speaker 7: should make it worse, right. I think I think you

1368
01:05:08,600 --> 01:05:13,080
Speaker 7: should introduce another partner into and I think that will do.

1369
01:05:13,320 --> 01:05:15,280
Speaker 7: I think I think there needs to be I think

1370
01:05:15,320 --> 01:05:18,320
Speaker 7: we need to use attention. Well, there's an imbalance of

1371
01:05:18,800 --> 01:05:22,640
Speaker 7: men and women. Yep, that's that ship rope in another dude.

1372
01:05:23,560 --> 01:05:25,800
Speaker 7: And then then you got got yourself a problem. And

1373
01:05:25,920 --> 01:05:27,880
Speaker 7: then she gets pregnant with that guy.

1374
01:05:28,160 --> 01:05:31,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then but a boom and that guy Elijah's

1375
01:05:31,400 --> 01:05:35,400
Speaker 2: father whoa, yep, whoa, I just read it. Did the

1376
01:05:35,440 --> 01:05:35,960
Speaker 2: reddit start?

1377
01:05:36,120 --> 01:05:40,760
Speaker 7: No, Elijah's Dad's still shooting booths, rav But you know

1378
01:05:41,160 --> 01:05:44,120
Speaker 7: where people are shooting certain things. Oh, they're shooting their

1379
01:05:44,200 --> 01:05:46,560
Speaker 7: stories on our slash Okop show. So you get a

1380
01:05:46,640 --> 01:05:48,400
Speaker 7: story that you want to shoot our way so we

1381
01:05:48,480 --> 01:05:50,920
Speaker 7: can read it. Go to our slash Okop show, and

1382
01:05:51,000 --> 01:05:53,400
Speaker 7: we will read it. This was this wasn't a listener submission, right,

1383
01:05:53,480 --> 01:05:55,360
Speaker 7: this was not a listener right. Well, we read those

1384
01:05:55,400 --> 01:05:57,560
Speaker 7: listeners submissions. But right now, you guys haven't given us

1385
01:05:57,880 --> 01:05:59,480
Speaker 7: enough things to read. We got you got, we gave

1386
01:05:59,560 --> 01:06:02,400
Speaker 7: we got seven stories. The week before, got another seven

1387
01:06:02,920 --> 01:06:04,600
Speaker 7: like two weeks ago. But but this week is a

1388
01:06:04,640 --> 01:06:07,360
Speaker 7: little a little dry, so we'll get you. Come on coming,

1389
01:06:07,440 --> 01:06:10,000
Speaker 7: our separate and tallest sweet nothing's just for them in

1390
01:06:10,040 --> 01:06:10,320
Speaker 7: our ear.

1391
01:06:10,520 --> 01:06:16,480
Speaker 2: Yes, okayp excuse me, sir, your son shot me?

1392
01:06:18,400 --> 01:06:19,640
Speaker 6: Uh what?

1393
01:06:21,360 --> 01:06:22,760
Speaker 7: I love the excuse me?

1394
01:06:22,960 --> 01:06:24,040
Speaker 6: Like, excuse me?

1395
01:06:25,440 --> 01:06:29,560
Speaker 2: Yes, son freaking shot me? Bro Oh man, I'm so excited.

1396
01:06:29,640 --> 01:06:31,560
Speaker 7: I love the politeness. But I don't know if the

1397
01:06:31,640 --> 01:06:33,320
Speaker 7: situation not the time.

1398
01:06:33,640 --> 01:06:35,600
Speaker 2: This took place back in two thousand and eight ish

1399
01:06:35,720 --> 01:06:38,320
Speaker 2: in Iowa, quite a few state parks have shooting ranges

1400
01:06:38,360 --> 01:06:41,200
Speaker 2: that are totally free and have just posted rules. A

1401
01:06:41,280 --> 01:06:44,920
Speaker 2: gun range with like no people supervising it.

1402
01:06:45,240 --> 01:06:50,600
Speaker 7: Yeah, that seems ripe for some injury. Also, have you

1403
01:06:50,720 --> 01:06:52,960
Speaker 7: seen the people at gun ranges that all look like

1404
01:06:53,240 --> 01:06:56,280
Speaker 7: a tool brain cell toill mix together. I've also never

1405
01:06:56,360 --> 01:06:57,160
Speaker 7: been to a gun range.

1406
01:06:57,200 --> 01:06:59,680
Speaker 2: As a rule at the parks, everyone is responsible for

1407
01:06:59,760 --> 01:07:01,400
Speaker 2: making sure the range is safe and clean.

1408
01:07:01,600 --> 01:07:04,360
Speaker 7: Tragedy of the commons. If you tell a group of

1409
01:07:04,520 --> 01:07:08,160
Speaker 7: humans to protect a resource or the safety of the

1410
01:07:08,360 --> 01:07:10,120
Speaker 7: entire group, they're not gonna do it. They're just gonna

1411
01:07:10,120 --> 01:07:11,640
Speaker 7: look out for their best self interest.

1412
01:07:11,760 --> 01:07:14,120
Speaker 2: I just bought a new pup you and wanted to

1413
01:07:14,560 --> 01:07:17,480
Speaker 2: cite it into my shooting style. I'm a left handed shooter,

1414
01:07:17,800 --> 01:07:23,040
Speaker 2: but right eye dominant, oh dominant, dumb popper bottom right

1415
01:07:23,160 --> 01:07:27,360
Speaker 2: or left. When I get to the shooting range, there's

1416
01:07:27,480 --> 01:07:30,560
Speaker 2: the usual people there, including the brass thief, but he's

1417
01:07:30,600 --> 01:07:33,600
Speaker 2: a story from another time. And the far left lane

1418
01:07:33,920 --> 01:07:35,960
Speaker 2: was open. I moved my stuff to the table and

1419
01:07:36,080 --> 01:07:38,720
Speaker 2: start setting up my sled and all of my other equipment.

1420
01:07:38,760 --> 01:07:40,720
Speaker 2: To the right of my lane is a father and

1421
01:07:40,840 --> 01:07:44,120
Speaker 2: a son shooting a tiny bolt action twenty two. The

1422
01:07:44,200 --> 01:07:46,280
Speaker 2: gun was one of those that takes a key to

1423
01:07:46,360 --> 01:07:49,080
Speaker 2: function every time. Now, this kid was maybe ten years

1424
01:07:49,120 --> 01:07:51,120
Speaker 2: old and seem to know how to use the rifle.

1425
01:07:51,040 --> 01:07:51,960
Speaker 7: Ten years old.

1426
01:07:52,320 --> 01:07:54,040
Speaker 2: I started learning when I was about eleven.

1427
01:07:54,200 --> 01:07:55,680
Speaker 7: This is just a late gun bloomer.

1428
01:07:55,880 --> 01:07:58,320
Speaker 2: He was being safe and he was keeping it pointed

1429
01:07:58,320 --> 01:08:01,880
Speaker 2: to downrange. His dad is giving pointers and overall being

1430
01:08:01,960 --> 01:08:04,480
Speaker 2: a good mentor. I load and shoot, wait for the

1431
01:08:04,560 --> 01:08:07,360
Speaker 2: range to clear, and reset the targets. His dad walks

1432
01:08:07,400 --> 01:08:11,320
Speaker 2: away and leaves his kid to shoot. What could go wrong?

1433
01:08:11,920 --> 01:08:15,200
Speaker 7: I don't know that's good parenting. My guy ten year

1434
01:08:15,240 --> 01:08:18,519
Speaker 7: old shouldn't be left alone to do shit. They shouldn't

1435
01:08:18,520 --> 01:08:21,840
Speaker 7: be left alone to do the dishes, let alone have

1436
01:08:22,320 --> 01:08:24,519
Speaker 7: a rifle in their hand.

1437
01:08:24,880 --> 01:08:27,559
Speaker 2: Yeah. I pick up my rifle and start to wipe

1438
01:08:27,600 --> 01:08:30,120
Speaker 2: the barrel and was planning on waiting for the barrel

1439
01:08:30,160 --> 01:08:32,679
Speaker 2: to cool, shoot, wait, and so on and so forth.

1440
01:08:32,880 --> 01:08:36,160
Speaker 2: But no, I hear the kid fumbling with the keys.

1441
01:08:36,439 --> 01:08:41,040
Speaker 2: Then he got frustrated, and then pop. Oh no, I

1442
01:08:41,200 --> 01:08:46,200
Speaker 2: just got popped in the leg. Oh my god, he

1443
01:08:46,439 --> 01:08:51,639
Speaker 2: just shot him in different ten year old shot. Oh pete, dude,

1444
01:08:51,760 --> 01:08:54,640
Speaker 2: he did it hurt, but in a weird way. The

1445
01:08:54,760 --> 01:08:57,840
Speaker 2: kids squeaks so sorry, and I started to take inventory.

1446
01:08:58,040 --> 01:09:00,679
Speaker 2: I feel my leg and find the hole. It wasn't

1447
01:09:00,680 --> 01:09:04,400
Speaker 2: even bleeding yet, but my brain was still going, oh fffff,

1448
01:09:04,560 --> 01:09:06,400
Speaker 2: I just got shot, like which.

1449
01:09:06,400 --> 01:09:07,520
Speaker 3: A fair response.

1450
01:09:08,000 --> 01:09:12,560
Speaker 7: Uh yeah, I don't know how you're not screaming on

1451
01:09:12,640 --> 01:09:16,040
Speaker 7: the ground after getting shot, truly. Maybe it's just adrenaline.

1452
01:09:16,160 --> 01:09:18,840
Speaker 3: But like he did say it like felt weird.

1453
01:09:18,960 --> 01:09:21,599
Speaker 7: What does that mean you just got shot? That's not weird?

1454
01:09:22,040 --> 01:09:25,160
Speaker 7: Like that would be pretty sick if like you got

1455
01:09:25,240 --> 01:09:27,080
Speaker 7: shot by some ten year old and found out you

1456
01:09:27,160 --> 01:09:28,240
Speaker 7: were bulletproof, that.

1457
01:09:28,280 --> 01:09:29,280
Speaker 3: Would be crazy.

1458
01:09:29,400 --> 01:09:33,320
Speaker 2: Superhero origin story, Yeah, that's gonna be our our first movie.

1459
01:09:33,520 --> 01:09:37,560
Speaker 7: That yeah movie adaption bullt becomes a superhero.

1460
01:09:37,760 --> 01:09:38,839
Speaker 2: He can take bullets.

1461
01:09:39,200 --> 01:09:40,280
Speaker 3: That's just the top liss.

1462
01:09:40,400 --> 01:09:43,519
Speaker 7: That's it, bullet man. You can take bullets and then

1463
01:09:43,560 --> 01:09:46,360
Speaker 7: you just slap it onto Netflix's desk and be like

1464
01:09:47,800 --> 01:09:48,759
Speaker 7: it rights itself.

1465
01:09:49,640 --> 01:09:51,880
Speaker 2: I look for the dad and he's fiddling with some

1466
01:09:52,080 --> 01:09:54,760
Speaker 2: fishing equipment in the back of his truck. I say,

1467
01:09:55,120 --> 01:10:00,000
Speaker 2: excuse me, sir, excuse me, sir from.

1468
01:10:00,240 --> 01:10:04,680
Speaker 7: I love it who He's calm, cool and collected. This

1469
01:10:04,800 --> 01:10:06,639
Speaker 7: is the kind of guy that you want when things

1470
01:10:06,680 --> 01:10:07,080
Speaker 7: go wrong.

1471
01:10:07,240 --> 01:10:08,680
Speaker 6: Oh true. Rah.

1472
01:10:08,960 --> 01:10:12,120
Speaker 2: So the dad interrupted me, saying, oh, my son is

1473
01:10:12,160 --> 01:10:14,479
Speaker 2: allowed to shoot and we aren't moving Brah.

1474
01:10:15,000 --> 01:10:19,200
Speaker 7: What her son just shot this guy and you're gonna

1475
01:10:19,240 --> 01:10:20,080
Speaker 7: brush him off.

1476
01:10:20,360 --> 01:10:20,599
Speaker 2: Op.

1477
01:10:20,640 --> 01:10:23,800
Speaker 3: He then says, yes, sir, but the issue is your

1478
01:10:24,000 --> 01:10:25,720
Speaker 3: son just shot me.

1479
01:10:26,080 --> 01:10:29,360
Speaker 7: There we go. That is the only reasonable reaction so far.

1480
01:10:29,720 --> 01:10:32,080
Speaker 2: The dad laughs and says, no, he didn't.

1481
01:10:32,320 --> 01:10:33,880
Speaker 7: I'm gonna show you the bullet holes.

1482
01:10:33,960 --> 01:10:34,280
Speaker 6: Baby.

1483
01:10:34,479 --> 01:10:37,200
Speaker 2: I take my hand off my leg and show him

1484
01:10:37,320 --> 01:10:41,000
Speaker 2: as by now it started to bleed, but at least

1485
01:10:41,200 --> 01:10:44,320
Speaker 2: not spray. He then starts to argue that I must

1486
01:10:44,400 --> 01:10:48,000
Speaker 2: have shot myself because my son has been shooting since

1487
01:10:48,080 --> 01:10:48,960
Speaker 2: he could walk.

1488
01:10:49,400 --> 01:10:52,160
Speaker 7: That's America for you, bro, as soon as they walk

1489
01:10:52,320 --> 01:10:55,519
Speaker 7: in the AKA for I say, accidents happened.

1490
01:10:55,720 --> 01:10:59,080
Speaker 2: I'm not upset. I just need insurance information for the

1491
01:10:59,200 --> 01:11:02,160
Speaker 2: ranger and parametics as I need to call nine one

1492
01:11:02,280 --> 01:11:07,679
Speaker 2: one cause I got shot exactly. The dad then offers

1493
01:11:07,800 --> 01:11:10,479
Speaker 2: me one hundred dollars to just leave it and say

1494
01:11:10,680 --> 01:11:11,519
Speaker 2: it was an accident.

1495
01:11:14,080 --> 01:11:16,840
Speaker 7: One hundred dollars, Bron, I don't know about that, man.

1496
01:11:16,920 --> 01:11:18,719
Speaker 7: I think it's gonna be more than one hundred dollars.

1497
01:11:18,800 --> 01:11:22,920
Speaker 7: Have you seen the state of American healthcare? Have you

1498
01:11:23,000 --> 01:11:26,280
Speaker 7: seen our healthcare system? One hundred dollars doesn't cover a

1499
01:11:26,520 --> 01:11:29,800
Speaker 7: band aid. I say no and called nine one one.

1500
01:11:30,000 --> 01:11:31,880
Speaker 2: Now. At this point, other people on the range have

1501
01:11:32,000 --> 01:11:34,760
Speaker 2: started to gather to go find the park ranger. The

1502
01:11:34,840 --> 01:11:37,880
Speaker 2: dad keeps arguing, saying his son couldn't have shot me

1503
01:11:38,120 --> 01:11:40,680
Speaker 2: because he doesn't know how to load the gun, and

1504
01:11:40,800 --> 01:11:43,080
Speaker 2: if he did, it was because I was downrange.

1505
01:11:43,160 --> 01:11:47,200
Speaker 7: WHOA, he's been with this gun since he could walk,

1506
01:11:47,439 --> 01:11:50,519
Speaker 7: but he doesn't know how to load the gun. H

1507
01:11:50,840 --> 01:11:52,800
Speaker 7: your story is change.

1508
01:11:52,520 --> 01:11:55,400
Speaker 2: In my guy. The kid pipes in and says, yeah,

1509
01:11:55,600 --> 01:11:59,080
Speaker 2: I do, Dad. You showed me and I did shoot him.

1510
01:11:59,160 --> 01:11:59,960
Speaker 2: It was an accident.

1511
01:12:00,080 --> 01:12:01,040
Speaker 1: It wow.

1512
01:12:02,040 --> 01:12:10,000
Speaker 2: The dad's like. At this point, the dad starts to

1513
01:12:10,120 --> 01:12:13,479
Speaker 2: panic and starts tossing everything in his truck to try

1514
01:12:13,560 --> 01:12:14,920
Speaker 2: and scramble and get away.

1515
01:12:15,120 --> 01:12:16,519
Speaker 3: Oh so he's running.

1516
01:12:16,680 --> 01:12:20,160
Speaker 2: This is a shoot and run, bro. Another shooter grabs

1517
01:12:20,240 --> 01:12:23,120
Speaker 2: the keys off the kids table, as they also had

1518
01:12:23,160 --> 01:12:26,080
Speaker 2: his truck keys. Now the dad gets more and more

1519
01:12:26,160 --> 01:12:29,760
Speaker 2: upset as I sit there with my pinky stuffed in

1520
01:12:29,960 --> 01:12:31,120
Speaker 2: my brand new hole.

1521
01:12:33,479 --> 01:12:36,320
Speaker 7: Oh my god. By the way he just describes his

1522
01:12:36,520 --> 01:12:39,599
Speaker 7: pinky stuffed in the hole, there's some holes you can

1523
01:12:39,640 --> 01:12:42,240
Speaker 7: stick pinkies in that. Don't want to stick it in

1524
01:12:42,320 --> 01:12:43,040
Speaker 7: your bullet hole.

1525
01:12:43,360 --> 01:12:46,759
Speaker 2: Now, Eventually the ranger gets there and everyone starts yelling

1526
01:12:47,000 --> 01:12:49,880
Speaker 2: their side of what happened. The ranger calms everyone down

1527
01:12:50,000 --> 01:12:52,600
Speaker 2: as the police arrive and just starts sorting through this

1528
01:12:52,720 --> 01:12:55,679
Speaker 2: whole mess. I explained that the kid shot me by accident.

1529
01:12:55,880 --> 01:12:58,599
Speaker 2: The dad freaked out and tried to leave, but another

1530
01:12:58,640 --> 01:13:02,000
Speaker 2: person has the keys. What a freaking rest, bro. They

1531
01:13:02,080 --> 01:13:04,400
Speaker 2: summoned an ambulance and then they look me over. The

1532
01:13:04,479 --> 01:13:07,280
Speaker 2: officers handcuffed the dad and I was like, wait, he

1533
01:13:07,360 --> 01:13:10,120
Speaker 2: didn't do any harm and I'm not pressing charges after

1534
01:13:10,280 --> 01:13:12,600
Speaker 2: all this time, dude, Wow, Op, he.

1535
01:13:12,760 --> 01:13:15,840
Speaker 7: Is literally a saint, bro OPI is truly He's not

1536
01:13:16,000 --> 01:13:16,960
Speaker 7: president charges.

1537
01:13:17,280 --> 01:13:20,719
Speaker 2: Oh, he needs to run for president, honestly, Op for president.

1538
01:13:20,880 --> 01:13:22,519
Speaker 2: And he could get the right with it with the

1539
01:13:22,600 --> 01:13:24,400
Speaker 2: gun stuff. He could get the left with his with

1540
01:13:24,520 --> 01:13:26,280
Speaker 2: his empathy and his kindness.

1541
01:13:26,600 --> 01:13:29,040
Speaker 7: Oh, the left is empathy and kindness and the right

1542
01:13:29,200 --> 01:13:29,719
Speaker 7: is guns.

1543
01:13:30,720 --> 01:13:34,120
Speaker 2: The officer explained, got the dad is actually a felon,

1544
01:13:34,439 --> 01:13:37,400
Speaker 2: thus is not allowed to be around guns anyway.

1545
01:13:37,920 --> 01:13:41,599
Speaker 7: Oh no, basically that's why he's getting arrested.

1546
01:13:41,680 --> 01:13:41,840
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1547
01:13:41,880 --> 01:13:44,080
Speaker 3: The dad the whole time was like, oh, like this

1548
01:13:44,200 --> 01:13:44,599
Speaker 3: is not good.

1549
01:13:44,640 --> 01:13:46,599
Speaker 2: The police are gonna get called, like I'm a felon,

1550
01:13:46,600 --> 01:13:48,880
Speaker 2: I shouldn't be around guns. At this point, I'm taken

1551
01:13:48,920 --> 01:13:51,600
Speaker 2: away and they remove the bullet. No major harm, but

1552
01:13:51,720 --> 01:13:52,679
Speaker 2: it did chip my bone.

1553
01:13:52,840 --> 01:13:56,800
Speaker 7: Opie's bone got chipped, and he's delving like no home,

1554
01:13:56,960 --> 01:13:57,960
Speaker 7: no fatal.

1555
01:13:58,479 --> 01:14:01,120
Speaker 2: I know this wasn't an exciting story, and on a

1556
01:14:01,200 --> 01:14:03,720
Speaker 2: scale from one to ten of entitled, it's only like

1557
01:14:03,800 --> 01:14:04,200
Speaker 2: a three.

1558
01:14:04,600 --> 01:14:08,519
Speaker 7: But what freaking Saint oh p for president? But still,

1559
01:14:08,760 --> 01:14:12,280
Speaker 7: I mean, wow, what a story, What a story?

1560
01:14:13,720 --> 01:14:14,320
Speaker 2: The leg man?

1561
01:14:14,800 --> 01:14:16,719
Speaker 7: Wow, this is why I don't play with guns.

1562
01:14:16,840 --> 01:14:19,720
Speaker 2: I am so happy in my gun free life, with no.

1563
01:14:20,360 --> 01:14:22,560
Speaker 7: Bullet wounds in my life, nothing, nothing.

1564
01:14:22,439 --> 01:14:22,680
Speaker 6: I am.

1565
01:14:22,840 --> 01:14:26,080
Speaker 2: I am thriving with bulletless legs.

1566
01:14:26,640 --> 01:14:29,920
Speaker 7: But although you should maybe not play with guns, you

1567
01:14:30,000 --> 01:14:31,200
Speaker 7: know what you should play with.

1568
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1570
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1571
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1572
01:14:47,320 --> 01:14:49,240
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1573
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1574
01:14:52,360 --> 01:14:53,320
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1575
01:14:54,360 --> 01:14:57,960
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1576
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1577
01:15:00,120 --> 01:15:03,080
Speaker 2: No, we are not. We're here. We're going all the

1578
01:15:03,120 --> 01:15:05,000
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1579
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