1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,160 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time. I 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the 3 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:31,120 Speaker 1: million bucks things and it's not true. Good together, Please, 4 00:00:38,560 --> 00:01:24,680 Speaker 1: I don't join jo. You gotta use that turn. You 5 00:01:24,840 --> 00:01:45,040 Speaker 1: gotta turn to turn them out. You got to turn out. 6 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:58,760 Speaker 1: Then turn the water the water go. Come come on 7 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:04,480 Speaker 1: your baby, huh, I sure will. Good morning everybody. You're 8 00:02:04,520 --> 00:02:07,240 Speaker 1: listening to the voice, Come on dig me now, one 9 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:13,000 Speaker 1: and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Well, I 10 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:16,560 Speaker 1: gotta tell you something, everybody, and this is great news 11 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:21,639 Speaker 1: for everybody that I'm on. Share something with your principle 12 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:28,519 Speaker 1: of becoming successful at whatever level you choose. It can 13 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:34,400 Speaker 1: be successful in the relationship, successful in the family. Successes 14 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:38,040 Speaker 1: may be considered to you becoming a homeowner, It could 15 00:02:38,080 --> 00:02:42,760 Speaker 1: be being debt free. Your ideal of success could be 16 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 1: sixty thousand a year, fifty thousand a year, one hundred 17 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 1: thousand dollars a year, doesn't matter if you're considering it, 18 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:54,520 Speaker 1: if you're wanting it, if you have a desire to 19 00:02:54,600 --> 00:02:58,280 Speaker 1: become successful. I want to share with you the very 20 00:02:58,320 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 1: beginning of that. If no one's ever done it, I'm 21 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 1: going to say the beginning of it today see scripture 22 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:13,400 Speaker 1: makes it very clear for us you don't The only 23 00:03:13,440 --> 00:03:16,840 Speaker 1: thing you need to become successful is already inside of you. 24 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:22,080 Speaker 1: It's not an external need. God wouldn't do that to you. 25 00:03:23,600 --> 00:03:27,919 Speaker 1: He puts the core basis of everything you need inside 26 00:03:27,919 --> 00:03:32,680 Speaker 1: of you. So if you discover it, if you tend 27 00:03:32,720 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 1: to it, nurture it, fertilize it, and water it, it grows, 28 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:42,040 Speaker 1: it branches out. Then it reaches out externally and it 29 00:03:42,080 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 1: starts grabbing things outside of there to make it even bigger, stronger, better, 30 00:03:46,440 --> 00:03:51,160 Speaker 1: last longer. But in the very beginning, you don't need anything. 31 00:03:51,560 --> 00:03:56,000 Speaker 1: It's all within you. And if you cultivate your relationship 32 00:03:56,040 --> 00:04:00,960 Speaker 1: with God, it comes out, it flourishes. Now, let me 33 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 1: tell you that thing that I'm talking about is a 34 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:06,960 Speaker 1: God given gift that He has given to all of us. 35 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:11,760 Speaker 1: We all possess it. It is all within us that 36 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:16,320 Speaker 1: everybody has a guilt. Had somebody told me what I 37 00:04:16,440 --> 00:04:19,400 Speaker 1: know now back then, I would have saved myself tons 38 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:21,320 Speaker 1: of mistakes. I just didn't know the principles. I had 39 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 1: to learn them all well. One of the principles of 40 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 1: becoming successful is your mind set. You got to get 41 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:35,240 Speaker 1: your mind right now. This mindset is simply a decision 42 00:04:35,279 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 1: that you can make. I can't get it for you. 43 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:41,680 Speaker 1: I can tell you what to do, but you got 44 00:04:41,680 --> 00:04:45,080 Speaker 1: to make the decision. You that's listening, have to decide. 45 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:46,880 Speaker 1: You know what. I'm gonna go on and get at it. 46 00:04:46,880 --> 00:04:49,359 Speaker 1: I'm gonna stop renting. I'm gonna become a homeowner. You 47 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:51,560 Speaker 1: know what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna stop living check 48 00:04:51,640 --> 00:04:55,920 Speaker 1: to check. I'm I'm gonna put a budget together. I'm 49 00:04:55,920 --> 00:05:01,040 Speaker 1: gonna stop stepping out on my family. I'm gonna go home. 50 00:05:01,040 --> 00:05:05,320 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get it together. I'm gonna stop using when 51 00:05:05,400 --> 00:05:09,599 Speaker 1: you make these decisions. That's correcting your mindset. Now, the 52 00:05:09,640 --> 00:05:12,680 Speaker 1: closer connection you have with God, the more help you 53 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:16,040 Speaker 1: get sustaining the mindset. How many times have you started 54 00:05:16,480 --> 00:05:19,359 Speaker 1: to do something and you stopped? How many resolutions have 55 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:22,640 Speaker 1: you made at the New Year and stop by February? 56 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:29,320 Speaker 1: Over by me at January? Done in March? Because if 57 00:05:29,320 --> 00:05:32,240 Speaker 1: you don't have a clear connection with your creator to 58 00:05:32,360 --> 00:05:35,560 Speaker 1: help you carry out the other force out there, that 59 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:38,920 Speaker 1: evil force is designed to get you not to reach 60 00:05:38,960 --> 00:05:42,159 Speaker 1: your goals, get you not to come to resolution with 61 00:05:42,279 --> 00:05:45,240 Speaker 1: whatever the resolutions are you made so he can So 62 00:05:45,440 --> 00:05:49,920 Speaker 1: you can consider yourself not worthy or failure or unable 63 00:05:49,960 --> 00:05:52,680 Speaker 1: to do something. But the more things you are able 64 00:05:52,680 --> 00:05:55,920 Speaker 1: to accomplish, the greater your confidence goals grows. So we 65 00:05:56,000 --> 00:05:59,120 Speaker 1: got to get your mindset together. Your mindset is a 66 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:01,719 Speaker 1: decision that you have to me. When you make the decision, 67 00:06:01,760 --> 00:06:06,360 Speaker 1: you can begin the process. Your mindset is also a 68 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:11,280 Speaker 1: will of yours, a will along with the decision, a will, 69 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:16,919 Speaker 1: a willingness to do right, a willingness to change, a 70 00:06:17,160 --> 00:06:22,159 Speaker 1: willingness to be better. It's going to then cause you 71 00:06:22,400 --> 00:06:24,880 Speaker 1: to have to make a decision to make a change 72 00:06:24,960 --> 00:06:28,560 Speaker 1: of direction. Don't go where everybody else going. You got 73 00:06:28,560 --> 00:06:31,520 Speaker 1: to go your way. Now, you can't follow the crowd. 74 00:06:31,640 --> 00:06:35,240 Speaker 1: You got to take a less travel path. You cannot 75 00:06:36,240 --> 00:06:39,400 Speaker 1: do this without changing your direction. You can't keep hanging 76 00:06:39,400 --> 00:06:41,080 Speaker 1: with the people you've been hanging with if you want 77 00:06:41,080 --> 00:06:45,000 Speaker 1: to be different because they're not. Then you have to 78 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:50,200 Speaker 1: develop an obligation to yourself. You've got to say, you 79 00:06:50,240 --> 00:06:53,159 Speaker 1: know what for me and my family, or if you 80 00:06:53,200 --> 00:06:56,400 Speaker 1: don't have a family, for me, I owe it to myself. 81 00:06:56,640 --> 00:06:59,479 Speaker 1: I have an obligation to myself to be the best 82 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:03,080 Speaker 1: meat that I can possibly be, to be the best 83 00:07:03,120 --> 00:07:07,120 Speaker 1: self that I can possibly be, to be the best father, 84 00:07:07,440 --> 00:07:11,240 Speaker 1: the best man, the best husband, the best wife, the 85 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:15,320 Speaker 1: best mother, the best daughter, the best son, the best student, 86 00:07:15,840 --> 00:07:19,520 Speaker 1: the best employ ye, the best owner. You have an 87 00:07:19,560 --> 00:07:23,720 Speaker 1: obligation to yourself to give yourself a shot at the 88 00:07:23,800 --> 00:07:28,040 Speaker 1: best life you can. That's an obligation. You owe that 89 00:07:28,080 --> 00:07:30,840 Speaker 1: to yourself. Why would you not live the best life 90 00:07:30,880 --> 00:07:34,080 Speaker 1: that you possibly could. You have an obligation to yourself. 91 00:07:34,800 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 1: Why would you teat yourself like that? Why would you 92 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:42,040 Speaker 1: take yourself and never allow yourself to see the goodness 93 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:45,880 Speaker 1: that's already in you, to have the abundance that's been 94 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:51,280 Speaker 1: promised to you, to go and explore all the riches 95 00:07:51,320 --> 00:07:56,720 Speaker 1: out there that's available to you. And but one of 96 00:07:56,760 --> 00:08:00,320 Speaker 1: the worst ways that you can rob yourself of the 97 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:03,160 Speaker 1: joy of your obligation is to keep comparing yourself to 98 00:08:03,200 --> 00:08:06,679 Speaker 1: somebody else. Because guess what, Man, that ain't your life. 99 00:08:08,320 --> 00:08:12,400 Speaker 1: You ain't jay Z and Beyonce, you're not You're not open. Instead, man, 100 00:08:13,200 --> 00:08:17,320 Speaker 1: that's not who you are. Quit looking around at everybody else. 101 00:08:18,080 --> 00:08:21,080 Speaker 1: That comparison of everybody else to keep you broken, it'll 102 00:08:21,160 --> 00:08:24,040 Speaker 1: keep you unhappy. You won't even be able to be 103 00:08:24,080 --> 00:08:26,440 Speaker 1: grateful for what you have because you steady talking about 104 00:08:26,480 --> 00:08:29,600 Speaker 1: what you don't have. That's not the way, man. You 105 00:08:29,720 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 1: have an obligation to yourself to be the best you 106 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:36,160 Speaker 1: you can be, not the best them. You're not them. 107 00:08:36,520 --> 00:08:40,160 Speaker 1: Stop trying to be them. Be the best you. It's cool. 108 00:08:40,440 --> 00:08:42,880 Speaker 1: You got a nice little house. That's cool. You know 109 00:08:42,920 --> 00:08:46,120 Speaker 1: how many big houses is empty and feel with hate 110 00:08:46,120 --> 00:08:50,560 Speaker 1: and resentment. I'd rather have a smaller house feel with 111 00:08:50,720 --> 00:08:53,280 Speaker 1: joy in it than to go to a big house. 112 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:55,720 Speaker 1: Man Prince got a line in a song that says, 113 00:08:56,000 --> 00:09:00,959 Speaker 1: I realized, in its best disguise, or pretty house don't 114 00:09:01,000 --> 00:09:05,319 Speaker 1: make a home. Man. Don't you know I know how 115 00:09:05,360 --> 00:09:09,800 Speaker 1: true that is? So I'm just trying to tell you now. 116 00:09:10,880 --> 00:09:15,920 Speaker 1: Another part of the mindset is taking dead aim at 117 00:09:15,920 --> 00:09:20,199 Speaker 1: your life's goals and ambitions. What are they? What are 118 00:09:20,200 --> 00:09:23,640 Speaker 1: your goals and your visions? What do you see for yourself? 119 00:09:23,960 --> 00:09:27,200 Speaker 1: What do you dream about? If you knew you couldn't 120 00:09:27,240 --> 00:09:29,360 Speaker 1: fail at whatever it is you were attempting, what would 121 00:09:29,360 --> 00:09:32,160 Speaker 1: you go attempting? See? That's what we need to be after. 122 00:09:33,880 --> 00:09:37,480 Speaker 1: It's a mindset, y'all. It's a decision it's a will, 123 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:41,520 Speaker 1: it's a change of direction. It's an obligation to yourself. 124 00:09:41,760 --> 00:09:44,520 Speaker 1: It's taking dead aim at your life's visions and goals. 125 00:09:44,880 --> 00:09:47,600 Speaker 1: Come on, man, you got to get your mind wrapped 126 00:09:47,640 --> 00:09:50,560 Speaker 1: around this thing. You owe it to yourself to live 127 00:09:50,600 --> 00:09:53,000 Speaker 1: the best life you can be. Come on, man, talk 128 00:09:53,040 --> 00:09:55,600 Speaker 1: to God. God got something for you. You just gotta 129 00:09:55,679 --> 00:10:02,760 Speaker 1: check in with him. You're listening tow ladies and gentlemen. 130 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:07,960 Speaker 1: Beyond this place of raft in tears looms, but the 131 00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:11,800 Speaker 1: horror of the shade, and yet the minutes of the 132 00:10:11,880 --> 00:10:16,320 Speaker 1: years finds and shall find me unafraid. I don't know 133 00:10:16,360 --> 00:10:19,760 Speaker 1: why I chose to do that stands up from invictus, 134 00:10:19,880 --> 00:10:23,600 Speaker 1: but I did. It's not mine, it's from Invictus. So 135 00:10:23,679 --> 00:10:28,360 Speaker 1: I just want to say that's it, and I'm done, ladies, 136 00:10:28,440 --> 00:10:32,280 Speaker 1: legitimate chet Strawberry, Hey, good morning, so soon we just 137 00:10:32,360 --> 00:10:41,520 Speaker 1: got here. You're done? Yeah? How's everybody doing today? Top 138 00:10:41,600 --> 00:10:48,040 Speaker 1: top Welcome back, Carla, Thank you, good morning? What's up? Crew? 139 00:10:48,679 --> 00:10:57,520 Speaker 1: Welcome back? Than welcome? I will, oh Carla a lot. 140 00:10:57,960 --> 00:11:03,400 Speaker 1: What I'm miss Here's a question for you. Just take 141 00:11:03,440 --> 00:11:07,720 Speaker 1: a wild guess who was the most ignorant while you 142 00:11:07,760 --> 00:11:15,720 Speaker 1: were gone? The man name on the shop. Surprisingly, no 143 00:11:16,800 --> 00:11:21,839 Speaker 1: what but he ran a close second? So who was 144 00:11:21,880 --> 00:11:26,679 Speaker 1: about the nephew? He got irritated with it. He got 145 00:11:26,760 --> 00:11:29,280 Speaker 1: irritated with it. Now you were so ignorant you got 146 00:11:29,320 --> 00:11:33,040 Speaker 1: on your uncle's next. Oh he can't stand my stupid. 147 00:11:33,080 --> 00:11:36,280 Speaker 1: I accept his stupid, but he don't like man. I 148 00:11:36,320 --> 00:11:45,320 Speaker 1: had to remind him. So just ignorant, ignorant. You know 149 00:11:45,400 --> 00:11:47,760 Speaker 1: what did it though? Tell me when you said we 150 00:11:47,760 --> 00:11:50,040 Speaker 1: were talking about I forgot how we got on kissing 151 00:11:50,679 --> 00:11:54,440 Speaker 1: and you said people don't kiss anymore? You know, Carla? 152 00:11:54,600 --> 00:11:58,120 Speaker 1: That was it that set Steve off? When what does 153 00:11:58,160 --> 00:12:04,360 Speaker 1: he get that from? What became his own ignorant mind? 154 00:12:04,720 --> 00:12:11,520 Speaker 1: Because nobody run up on kiss nobody on Steve. Steve, 155 00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:14,360 Speaker 1: let me ask you a question. Which is more irritating 156 00:12:14,559 --> 00:12:21,480 Speaker 1: stupidity or ignorance? Which one gets? Stupidity? You know that 157 00:12:21,760 --> 00:12:25,560 Speaker 1: stupidity ignorance? I know what that is. So what's the 158 00:12:25,640 --> 00:12:32,160 Speaker 1: difference on this show? Ignorance is knowing you doing something, 159 00:12:32,760 --> 00:12:38,680 Speaker 1: but you do it anyway intentional, and that's not from ignorance. 160 00:12:39,000 --> 00:12:44,840 Speaker 1: That's just you being ignorant. When you stupid, it's when 161 00:12:44,840 --> 00:12:48,080 Speaker 1: you're doing stuff and you don't see nothing wrong with it. 162 00:12:49,600 --> 00:12:55,000 Speaker 1: We got both of that. We got both of that. Well, 163 00:12:55,160 --> 00:12:58,080 Speaker 1: she didn't ask me did we have both of that? 164 00:12:58,200 --> 00:13:02,199 Speaker 1: She asked me the difference. I just described the difference 165 00:13:02,200 --> 00:13:07,120 Speaker 1: between me and you who stupid? Who? You want to 166 00:13:07,120 --> 00:13:11,319 Speaker 1: take a guess on which one you are? Well? Why 167 00:13:11,400 --> 00:13:15,360 Speaker 1: can't stupid respect ignorant? Though I don't like ignorant respect stupid, 168 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:18,960 Speaker 1: I don't. No, you should respect ignorance because it's what 169 00:13:19,040 --> 00:13:22,320 Speaker 1: you should aspire to. So stupid should not. Gonna go 170 00:13:22,360 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 1: with stupid, I'll go with stupid is too too, too 171 00:13:26,360 --> 00:13:29,000 Speaker 1: low on the total pot. Can't be you can't be 172 00:13:29,040 --> 00:13:34,280 Speaker 1: stupidly ignorant, I mean nor see right there, perfect example 173 00:13:34,280 --> 00:13:39,160 Speaker 1: of how stupid we got. Coming up next, it is 174 00:13:39,559 --> 00:13:42,440 Speaker 1: as the CLO at thirty two minutes after. We'll be 175 00:13:42,559 --> 00:13:48,800 Speaker 1: right back. You're listening to show. Okay, it is time 176 00:13:49,120 --> 00:13:52,760 Speaker 1: for CLO. We're gonna ask the CLO Chief Love Officer 177 00:13:52,840 --> 00:13:57,760 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey in the building Taylor in Virginia Beach Rites. 178 00:13:58,080 --> 00:14:00,640 Speaker 1: I'm in my late twenties and I got married when 179 00:14:00,679 --> 00:14:03,720 Speaker 1: I was nineteen years old because I got pregnant. My 180 00:14:03,800 --> 00:14:07,040 Speaker 1: husband's white. I'm black and Asian. When my son was born, 181 00:14:07,120 --> 00:14:10,079 Speaker 1: he was very brown skinned, so my in laws wanted 182 00:14:10,120 --> 00:14:14,120 Speaker 1: a DNA test. Turns out my husband is not the father, 183 00:14:14,640 --> 00:14:16,480 Speaker 1: but he's never said a word about it to me 184 00:14:16,840 --> 00:14:19,880 Speaker 1: or our son. My son is eight now and his 185 00:14:20,000 --> 00:14:23,120 Speaker 1: biological father has been asking to meet him for a 186 00:14:23,240 --> 00:14:26,640 Speaker 1: very long time. My husband freaks out whenever I bring 187 00:14:26,680 --> 00:14:30,280 Speaker 1: the subject up. Is it wrong to keep my son 188 00:14:30,800 --> 00:14:39,640 Speaker 1: from his father? Absolutely? Absolutely? Is? It? Absolutely is? One 189 00:14:40,720 --> 00:14:47,000 Speaker 1: absolutely is the fact that you've told you. Look, I 190 00:14:47,000 --> 00:14:50,320 Speaker 1: don't know if you told your son that he has 191 00:14:50,360 --> 00:14:54,440 Speaker 1: a different biological father, but is it wrong to keep 192 00:14:54,520 --> 00:14:59,240 Speaker 1: your son from this man? It absolutely one is, And 193 00:14:59,360 --> 00:15:03,240 Speaker 1: there's no no debate or question about it. It is 194 00:15:03,280 --> 00:15:09,800 Speaker 1: wrong and there is no justification to it. None. Well, 195 00:15:11,560 --> 00:15:15,080 Speaker 1: I admire your husband for standing up and taking it 196 00:15:15,200 --> 00:15:18,120 Speaker 1: and standing up and being that stand up guy, because 197 00:15:18,120 --> 00:15:21,440 Speaker 1: he is one hell of a dude. Yeah, your husband is. 198 00:15:21,920 --> 00:15:25,080 Speaker 1: And I understand him not wanting to ruffle a boat 199 00:15:25,120 --> 00:15:28,760 Speaker 1: and all this here. I understand that. But this boy 200 00:15:28,840 --> 00:15:30,960 Speaker 1: should know his father, and his father should know his 201 00:15:31,080 --> 00:15:36,440 Speaker 1: son period. All Right, Taylor, It's gonna be difficult and challenging, 202 00:15:36,480 --> 00:15:41,040 Speaker 1: but those that's the rule of life. Yeah, yeah, all right. 203 00:15:41,120 --> 00:15:45,240 Speaker 1: Moving on to Chevelle and Montgomery, Chevelle says, my husband 204 00:15:45,240 --> 00:15:47,480 Speaker 1: and my mother are thick as thieves, and I think 205 00:15:47,480 --> 00:15:50,440 Speaker 1: she's allowing my husband to cheat on me. My mother's 206 00:15:50,480 --> 00:15:53,360 Speaker 1: house is the gambling spot in our community, and all 207 00:15:53,400 --> 00:15:56,320 Speaker 1: of the drunks hang out there. I saw on Facebook 208 00:15:56,360 --> 00:15:58,720 Speaker 1: that one of my husband's excess was at my mom's 209 00:15:58,760 --> 00:16:01,360 Speaker 1: recently and posted a pic you're with my husband in 210 00:16:01,400 --> 00:16:04,160 Speaker 1: the background. I cursed my husband out, and he said 211 00:16:04,200 --> 00:16:09,280 Speaker 1: it was innocent. My mother told me I overreacted, did I? Well, 212 00:16:10,560 --> 00:16:13,080 Speaker 1: if it's your mama's gamblet's about your mama. Your mama 213 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:17,640 Speaker 1: making money, she ain't fit running. I'm just gonna keep 214 00:16:17,640 --> 00:16:23,400 Speaker 1: it one hundred with you. Yeah, it's bit bigger than 215 00:16:23,440 --> 00:16:27,320 Speaker 1: that picture. Then that gambling and buying a looker. You 216 00:16:27,360 --> 00:16:29,200 Speaker 1: know how it is in the hood of speakies is 217 00:16:29,320 --> 00:16:33,680 Speaker 1: after I joined, everything closed, they go over there kind 218 00:16:33,720 --> 00:16:36,800 Speaker 1: of like a like a no budget basement tavern and 219 00:16:36,920 --> 00:16:38,760 Speaker 1: it's a gambling house. Ain't no where you can go 220 00:16:38,840 --> 00:16:45,160 Speaker 1: gamble casinos. So no, I think it's absolutely I don't. 221 00:16:45,320 --> 00:16:47,400 Speaker 1: I don't you know your mama you I don't think 222 00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:50,440 Speaker 1: your mama is allowing him to cheat I don't even 223 00:16:50,440 --> 00:16:52,840 Speaker 1: know if cheating is involved in this at all. But 224 00:16:52,960 --> 00:16:56,240 Speaker 1: your mama got a gambling house. What is his ex 225 00:16:56,440 --> 00:16:59,200 Speaker 1: is doing over there though? Both Well you know, I 226 00:16:59,240 --> 00:17:05,240 Speaker 1: mean she over gambling, buying drinks. Yeah, mama trying to 227 00:17:05,280 --> 00:17:17,080 Speaker 1: make money? Weird about this? Facebook? Yeah, my husband's over 228 00:17:17,119 --> 00:17:23,359 Speaker 1: there with his ex. All right, Sophia and Alburquerque says. 229 00:17:23,480 --> 00:17:26,240 Speaker 1: My husband is twenty nine. I'm twenty seven. He works 230 00:17:26,280 --> 00:17:28,600 Speaker 1: as a retail manager and I work from home with 231 00:17:28,640 --> 00:17:31,920 Speaker 1: my own sex video chat room. I make a lot 232 00:17:31,960 --> 00:17:34,760 Speaker 1: of money and my husband doesn't mind it since it's 233 00:17:34,760 --> 00:17:37,280 Speaker 1: all online. I've been able to help buy us a 234 00:17:37,320 --> 00:17:39,480 Speaker 1: new house on my earnings, and I wanted to work 235 00:17:39,520 --> 00:17:41,840 Speaker 1: more hours so I could pay off my student loans 236 00:17:42,040 --> 00:17:45,200 Speaker 1: and build up our savings account. Then I plan to 237 00:17:45,240 --> 00:17:48,080 Speaker 1: get a decent job. My husband won't allow me to 238 00:17:48,080 --> 00:17:51,280 Speaker 1: take on more hours. We're still young. So am I 239 00:17:51,359 --> 00:17:56,760 Speaker 1: wrong for trying to stack money? Good question? Well, you're 240 00:17:56,800 --> 00:17:59,159 Speaker 1: not wrong for trying to stack money. You just have 241 00:17:59,280 --> 00:18:02,480 Speaker 1: to ask your question. It's stacking money? Is at what expense? 242 00:18:04,240 --> 00:18:06,280 Speaker 1: I don't see how he's okay with it up to 243 00:18:06,320 --> 00:18:10,239 Speaker 1: this point. Yeah, but and now you want to do 244 00:18:10,280 --> 00:18:12,840 Speaker 1: more hours. He don't want you to do more hours. 245 00:18:13,880 --> 00:18:16,480 Speaker 1: I think you've accomplished a lot with it right now, 246 00:18:16,680 --> 00:18:20,080 Speaker 1: you know, kind of like a drug dealer that finally 247 00:18:20,119 --> 00:18:24,840 Speaker 1: gets a rap record deal. Yeah, yeah, you know, you 248 00:18:24,920 --> 00:18:26,960 Speaker 1: just got to quit selling dope at one point in 249 00:18:27,000 --> 00:18:29,760 Speaker 1: time or you're gonna get busted. Now. I'm not saying 250 00:18:29,760 --> 00:18:31,720 Speaker 1: that what you're doing is illegal. I don't know nothing 251 00:18:31,720 --> 00:18:33,919 Speaker 1: about it. I ain't never been on one. But what 252 00:18:34,040 --> 00:18:35,960 Speaker 1: is you saying? Where you can buy a house? Though 253 00:18:37,400 --> 00:18:40,719 Speaker 1: she made enough money that she could buy a house. No, no, no, Sherley, 254 00:18:40,800 --> 00:18:43,400 Speaker 1: that's not the question. He's saying. What is he What 255 00:18:43,520 --> 00:18:46,800 Speaker 1: is she doing on this show? What is you talking about? 256 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:51,800 Speaker 1: What as you say? I'm trying to figure out what 257 00:18:51,840 --> 00:18:53,600 Speaker 1: you could say to me, to me help make you 258 00:18:53,680 --> 00:18:59,400 Speaker 1: buy a house online? A lot of money? Lord? Who 259 00:18:59,440 --> 00:19:04,800 Speaker 1: are you talking of her student loans? Yeah, she's saying 260 00:19:04,840 --> 00:19:09,280 Speaker 1: a lot. What she's saying she's looking, Yeah, she's saying 261 00:19:09,320 --> 00:19:15,800 Speaker 1: a lot. It's a video video sex video chat room. 262 00:19:15,800 --> 00:19:21,040 Speaker 1: A lot going on. All right, we're moving on Money 263 00:19:21,160 --> 00:19:24,800 Speaker 1: in Tampa says or a Money in Tampa says. I'm 264 00:19:24,840 --> 00:19:27,800 Speaker 1: forty eight and I've been married eleven years. But my 265 00:19:27,880 --> 00:19:31,200 Speaker 1: wife and I live in separate houses. She never sold 266 00:19:31,240 --> 00:19:33,639 Speaker 1: her house, and in the beginning of our marriage we 267 00:19:33,840 --> 00:19:36,640 Speaker 1: argued more than we made love, so she basically decided 268 00:19:36,920 --> 00:19:39,720 Speaker 1: we'd live in separate houses. It has worked out fine, 269 00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:42,840 Speaker 1: but our family and friends think we're nuts. Lately, though, 270 00:19:42,880 --> 00:19:45,239 Speaker 1: my wife has been going to bed really early, in 271 00:19:45,320 --> 00:19:48,560 Speaker 1: changing the lots in her house. I think the distance 272 00:19:48,560 --> 00:19:51,120 Speaker 1: has made her forget about me. Should I tell her 273 00:19:51,200 --> 00:19:55,679 Speaker 1: it's time to end this arrangement? Yeah? I think so. 274 00:19:57,400 --> 00:19:59,520 Speaker 1: She didn't change a lot. She's going to bed young 275 00:19:59,800 --> 00:20:04,439 Speaker 1: mar No, damn one. Y'all just know each other on paper, 276 00:20:08,280 --> 00:20:10,760 Speaker 1: going to be ad early, changing locks. Don't even come 277 00:20:10,760 --> 00:20:13,480 Speaker 1: over him, Ques, not because now she don't want you 278 00:20:13,560 --> 00:20:20,879 Speaker 1: creeping in that night. Yeah, m so what should he do? 279 00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:26,480 Speaker 1: What should he do? Gonna file papers, she gonna sign them. 280 00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:29,520 Speaker 1: What y'all together for. Y'all ain't got to worry about 281 00:20:29,560 --> 00:20:31,879 Speaker 1: who get the house. Y'all both keep your own house. 282 00:20:32,400 --> 00:20:37,479 Speaker 1: That's the biggest cut. Is that house looking if somebody 283 00:20:37,640 --> 00:20:41,280 Speaker 1: lost foe? Yeah, just go, don't even worry about that. 284 00:20:42,840 --> 00:20:46,720 Speaker 1: She gonna keep her house, You keep your house. Irreconcilable differences, 285 00:20:47,000 --> 00:20:51,280 Speaker 1: y'all get divorced with seven fifty y'all ain't got no asset? Yes, 286 00:20:51,720 --> 00:20:54,760 Speaker 1: all right, thank you Cello. Coming up next, church complaints 287 00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:58,280 Speaker 1: with Rebend Motown Teacon depth Jam. Right after this You're 288 00:20:58,320 --> 00:21:02,880 Speaker 1: listening morning show. Coming up at the top of the hour, 289 00:21:02,960 --> 00:21:05,720 Speaker 1: Miss Anna standing by with our national news for today 290 00:21:05,760 --> 00:21:10,000 Speaker 1: and an entertainment news. Kanye has moved into the Mercedes 291 00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:16,080 Speaker 1: ben Stadium in Atlanta. Plus with him that ain't tell 292 00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:24,400 Speaker 1: house you don't take your ass home got bigger in Wyoming. 293 00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:27,359 Speaker 1: First of all, I know he was hot as hell 294 00:21:27,400 --> 00:21:34,960 Speaker 1: and in him leather pans. I know that fact. Can 295 00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:38,639 Speaker 1: he breathe? All right? Plus in entertainment news, we'll talk 296 00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:42,360 Speaker 1: about first forty eight, the viral video that has resurfaced. 297 00:21:42,400 --> 00:21:44,720 Speaker 1: We'll talk about all of these stories at the top 298 00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:46,919 Speaker 1: of the hour. But right now it is Monday. You 299 00:21:46,960 --> 00:21:49,479 Speaker 1: know what time it is. Time for church complaints with 300 00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:54,760 Speaker 1: Rebend Motown and Deacon def Jam. I'm on pass we 301 00:21:54,760 --> 00:22:03,200 Speaker 1: we we we Yeah, boy awkward suspiciously to make more 302 00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:11,760 Speaker 1: deficius of the ever vessels or floridic here as we punctuate, 303 00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:26,399 Speaker 1: m anticipated and opulate. But going fourth in this union safe. 304 00:22:27,720 --> 00:22:30,680 Speaker 1: Sometimes I just got sometimes I want to be a 305 00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:41,200 Speaker 1: member myself. I know that somebody couldn't. Mel Lord, go ahead, 306 00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:46,040 Speaker 1: all right, passing, let's get down the business. Sister Martha 307 00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:52,240 Speaker 1: Davis is claiming to be sanitizing the congregation. Now you know, 308 00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:55,760 Speaker 1: we're back into church now. She puts sanitizing on her 309 00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:58,480 Speaker 1: hands and then slaps members across their forehead with it. 310 00:22:58,680 --> 00:23:02,080 Speaker 1: They're gonna have to talk to as she's slapping everybody 311 00:23:02,280 --> 00:23:06,159 Speaker 1: in the congregation with sanitize? What is putting it on 312 00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:09,680 Speaker 1: the forehead? Post due Deacon. I don't know what that is, 313 00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:12,359 Speaker 1: but I guess he thinks that's sanitize. I don't know 314 00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:17,280 Speaker 1: what I'm passing. Well, it's not, oh press of declaration 315 00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:23,320 Speaker 1: right now? Let this or cease and desist? All right, 316 00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:30,000 Speaker 1: that's what I'm talking You know that a real legal term. This? Okay? 317 00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:36,720 Speaker 1: All right? Past Our brother Victor Phillips went to Denver, 318 00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:41,760 Speaker 1: Colorado this past weekend. Now everdently he purchased marijuana there 319 00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:45,679 Speaker 1: and uh, but he knows it's not legal here. Now 320 00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:48,119 Speaker 1: he's at baggage claim right now, watching his bag go 321 00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:50,880 Speaker 1: around and around. Or Kara said, he's scared to grab 322 00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:53,960 Speaker 1: his bag. He's asking if you can come and pick 323 00:23:54,080 --> 00:24:01,000 Speaker 1: his bag up on the terminal age, Pa watching it, 324 00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:07,600 Speaker 1: watching that bag. He's not grabbing the bag because the 325 00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:16,680 Speaker 1: dog has balled for the time. I suggests, who is 326 00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:23,000 Speaker 1: this not Deacon, that's brother Victor. Phillips suggests, brother Victim, 327 00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:26,800 Speaker 1: just come on, let that go. How much we did 328 00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:30,360 Speaker 1: he buy? I don't know. You know it's legal in Colorado. 329 00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:34,879 Speaker 1: How much weed did he buy? I would say about 330 00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:37,920 Speaker 1: five hundred dollars war power, five hundred dollars worth. It 331 00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:39,920 Speaker 1: ain't worth it. You got to let that go. Where 332 00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:44,280 Speaker 1: is he coming back to? What city is he in? Ah? 333 00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:48,200 Speaker 1: He is in the Carolinas. I believe Pas. Oh, you've 334 00:24:48,200 --> 00:24:53,760 Speaker 1: been pick up four five hundred dollars easy? What Jada 335 00:24:53,880 --> 00:25:00,200 Speaker 1: hundred in Colombia? Jake got leave three thousand at his 336 00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:11,359 Speaker 1: house in Vicarious phones all right past it. We got 337 00:25:11,480 --> 00:25:15,160 Speaker 1: a situation due to COVID. The choir is gonna need 338 00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:18,479 Speaker 1: a bigger roads. Every one of them has grown twice 339 00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:20,879 Speaker 1: the size that they were, and we're gonna need a 340 00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:23,640 Speaker 1: lot of materials. So we need new robes because they've 341 00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:30,640 Speaker 1: gotten bigger doing COVID. We're not gonna do that because 342 00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:34,359 Speaker 1: the reason why we're not buying new roads. It's because 343 00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:38,160 Speaker 1: it looks like there's a second run of COVID going 344 00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:41,399 Speaker 1: on and I don't want to spend no money on 345 00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:43,639 Speaker 1: these roles. And then we got the old num rods 346 00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:50,840 Speaker 1: up so is yeah, let you wait and see how 347 00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:54,600 Speaker 1: much COVID stick around. We may not have to buy 348 00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:58,080 Speaker 1: many roads at all. They keep getting it. There were 349 00:25:58,160 --> 00:26:04,960 Speaker 1: so tight, ain't the choir roads is now looking like 350 00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:13,720 Speaker 1: chef jackets. All right, fast and listen where there's a 351 00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:16,800 Speaker 1: call for help out there. There's a restaurant called Nothing 352 00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:20,239 Speaker 1: but Wings and they have filed for bankrupts that they 353 00:26:20,240 --> 00:26:23,800 Speaker 1: are asking for the church to support, basically our support 354 00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:25,720 Speaker 1: to get them out of the red but Nothing but 355 00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:29,520 Speaker 1: the Wings have file for bankrupts. Well, nothing but Wings 356 00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:34,120 Speaker 1: ain't gonna work because there's wings stopped, both of the wings. 357 00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:41,399 Speaker 1: Jeff Wings, wings only wings and things wings and Bill. 358 00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:47,080 Speaker 1: Now they down there with Jeff Wayns here, you're gonna 359 00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:49,760 Speaker 1: be stay with the conference. They ain't got Bill nothing 360 00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:55,399 Speaker 1: down there, No side, no sides, just one Jeffy you 361 00:26:56,359 --> 00:27:01,560 Speaker 1: fried fried pickles coast. You can't ain't get schlaw baked bean, 362 00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:05,760 Speaker 1: Jeff Wayne, nothing but Wayans. They got to look at 363 00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:10,320 Speaker 1: the competition. The competition has other things on the MIDI 364 00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:14,320 Speaker 1: you can't get iced tea at Jeff Wayne, No nothing, 365 00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:23,880 Speaker 1: you can't get water. But and the hot sauce comes 366 00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:26,480 Speaker 1: into the individual package that you got to tear with 367 00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:30,080 Speaker 1: your teeth. Have a hot sauft bus haul up in 368 00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:36,480 Speaker 1: your mouth. I have nothing to drink to watch that. 369 00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:41,280 Speaker 1: Let me let me move on past it. Listen, brother 370 00:27:41,440 --> 00:27:43,800 Speaker 1: Charles Burns. You know he has five kids, and then 371 00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:47,400 Speaker 1: he also has six nieces and nephew. Uh, they called 372 00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:51,840 Speaker 1: him uncle daddy and uh, he just received five hundred 373 00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:54,760 Speaker 1: dollars per child for the child tax credit and that 374 00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:57,760 Speaker 1: gave him fifty five hundred. He's asking for the church 375 00:27:57,920 --> 00:28:02,560 Speaker 1: to match that fifty five hundred, Uncle daddy. What is 376 00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:05,480 Speaker 1: we matching it for? I don't know. I don't know why. 377 00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:07,840 Speaker 1: I don't I don't understand that pass. We don't do 378 00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:16,520 Speaker 1: matching forwards. You you had to feel out your or 379 00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:21,320 Speaker 1: COVID exempt paperwork to get matching fuards. Black folks don't 380 00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:28,639 Speaker 1: do matching forwards of any kind. Most can happen you 381 00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:32,919 Speaker 1: with black folks. You get the same ass. Yeah, now 382 00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:35,000 Speaker 1: you can't get that. Now we were doubling that we 383 00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:40,440 Speaker 1: were double of asswhip. Now I know that if you 384 00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:43,040 Speaker 1: want this last one the members won't you to make 385 00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:45,920 Speaker 1: a new rule. Since we're back in church physically, Please 386 00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:49,040 Speaker 1: stop the madness with this. Uh these baby hal weaves. 387 00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:51,600 Speaker 1: Sister Lauren Simmons, you know she didn't really have no 388 00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:53,480 Speaker 1: hound her head. She has a whole head full of 389 00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:57,520 Speaker 1: baby hair. Now you have to he's scanning all the kids. 390 00:28:57,600 --> 00:29:00,440 Speaker 1: He has a whole head full of baby hat. I'm 391 00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:04,040 Speaker 1: not really bogged by that at all myself. Yeah, I 392 00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:07,840 Speaker 1: think this wonderful sixty five year old woman has the 393 00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:12,920 Speaker 1: hair over eighty. Yeah, come on past the preach pass. 394 00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:18,800 Speaker 1: Quite fascinating to me, all right, coming up next at 395 00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:21,239 Speaker 1: the top of the hour, entertainment in National News. Right 396 00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:26,240 Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show. 397 00:29:28,480 --> 00:29:31,520 Speaker 1: All right. So, last week, Kanye West held a listening 398 00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:35,240 Speaker 1: party for his new album Donda at the Mercedes Benz 399 00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:38,280 Speaker 1: Stadium that is the home of the Atlanta Falcons, and 400 00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:42,680 Speaker 1: apparently Kanye, who is of course from Chicago, has enjoyed 401 00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:45,880 Speaker 1: himself so much there that he's not quite ready to leave. 402 00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:50,480 Speaker 1: According to a report by TMZ, Kanye is currently living 403 00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:53,680 Speaker 1: in the stadium and plans to do so until he 404 00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:57,640 Speaker 1: finishes his album. The release date for the album Donda 405 00:29:57,720 --> 00:30:00,640 Speaker 1: has been pushed back to August six, but worry, the 406 00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:04,640 Speaker 1: Falcon season opening matchup against the Philadelphia Eagles isn't until 407 00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:07,880 Speaker 1: September twelfth, So there's he's got to finish it in 408 00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:12,000 Speaker 1: that window and then get out. Uh. And then the 409 00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:17,000 Speaker 1: resurfaced viral video. So where's he going to stay in Vegas? Sure? 410 00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:20,200 Speaker 1: I mean where's he going to stay in the stadium? 411 00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:27,960 Speaker 1: Where's the Yeah? Yeah, in in one of those suites. 412 00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:32,240 Speaker 1: I would think I've been Super Bowl in there, and 413 00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:36,800 Speaker 1: I did to be loved in there. I've been in 414 00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:40,560 Speaker 1: the owner suite. Um, you don't think you can live there. 415 00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:43,760 Speaker 1: I mean I've lived in the castle. I think, hey, 416 00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:47,680 Speaker 1: yeah you live. Yeah. I'm just saying you already gotten money. 417 00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:57,640 Speaker 1: I don't understand that ranch in Wyoming, like bro, bro, Bro, 418 00:30:57,800 --> 00:31:00,520 Speaker 1: that ain't tall cotton living. Now some of the stuff 419 00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:03,840 Speaker 1: that ain't in there. There's a bunch of refrigerators in there, 420 00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:07,880 Speaker 1: but it's pretty cavernish. Dog trust me, hot dogs don't 421 00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:14,840 Speaker 1: run his ass up out of day. So he go 422 00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:16,760 Speaker 1: to the bathroom. He go to the one whe got 423 00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:22,560 Speaker 1: eighteen stalls. Where does he shower? You gotta walk down 424 00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:27,440 Speaker 1: and you go to the restroom. Oh well, baby, Steve, 425 00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:30,480 Speaker 1: he's going to shower y'all in the locker room where 426 00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:34,160 Speaker 1: the players are, where the players where the shower and 427 00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:37,360 Speaker 1: all that. Nice. Oh mighty one going there with no 428 00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:41,160 Speaker 1: thirty two damn shower him. But you didn't know. He 429 00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:43,760 Speaker 1: likes things kind of barren. He doesn't like a lot 430 00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:47,120 Speaker 1: of furniture and stuff. You know, you saw it. Kind 431 00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:52,840 Speaker 1: of Yeah, he likes all that. Kim Kardashian was there 432 00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:57,000 Speaker 1: at she wasn't all four kids, Chloe. That was nice 433 00:31:57,040 --> 00:32:01,520 Speaker 1: of them to come just shaking it. Don't look at 434 00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:03,680 Speaker 1: your daddy, just don't. Don't even look at your daddy. 435 00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:06,840 Speaker 1: Well they say he has a chef and he has 436 00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:12,120 Speaker 1: living quarters there and it's it's working out. Yeah, Monica 437 00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:16,280 Speaker 1: just sent me a yeah, chef to prepare his meals. Um. 438 00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:18,719 Speaker 1: So when they dropped the kids off, they dropped them 439 00:32:18,720 --> 00:32:27,680 Speaker 1: off at the stadium. They have to stay the bleachers, 440 00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:29,680 Speaker 1: run down down the field and see your daddy run. 441 00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:40,160 Speaker 1: I don't want to stay. That's so crazy. He was 442 00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:43,440 Speaker 1: so into the ranch in Wyoming, and now he's at 443 00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:47,920 Speaker 1: the stadium. Come on, Kanye, so y'all saying y'all wouldn't 444 00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:50,920 Speaker 1: do it, that's what it says. Stevens definitely saying, man, 445 00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:56,480 Speaker 1: I mean he could be a minimal minimalist all he 446 00:32:56,560 --> 00:32:59,120 Speaker 1: wants that in my life. I'm not going but we're 447 00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:02,240 Speaker 1: not doing that. I didn't have everybody down now. I 448 00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:05,800 Speaker 1: don't give a damn I'm not doing that. Stay in 449 00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:09,320 Speaker 1: no damn stadium. When you called the seamen ass floors, 450 00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:13,440 Speaker 1: all these mention, look out, here's this damn football field. 451 00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:27,400 Speaker 1: Man out of here. Both wrong, man, ladies and gentlemen, 452 00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:33,080 Speaker 1: miss ann trip. Thank you very much everybody, and good morning. Well. 453 00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:35,959 Speaker 1: One more incident involving a racist teacher, this time in Missouri. 454 00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:38,360 Speaker 1: A high school teacher has been fired for calling doctor 455 00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:42,160 Speaker 1: Martin Luther King Junior Day black Privilege Day to his students. 456 00:33:42,240 --> 00:33:45,240 Speaker 1: The same teacher, John mcguffin, they say, also used the 457 00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:49,200 Speaker 1: racial slur during conversation about rap culture, and on another day, 458 00:33:49,560 --> 00:33:51,920 Speaker 1: mcguffin claimed that he had never seen racism in the 459 00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:54,360 Speaker 1: United States anyways, guys out of a job. The Sentence 460 00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:57,320 Speaker 1: for Disease Control reports it more than sixty four thousand 461 00:33:57,400 --> 00:34:01,720 Speaker 1: new COVID infections on Saturday. Own doctor Anthony Fauci says 462 00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:04,880 Speaker 1: that the new Delta variant is so contagious that the 463 00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:08,480 Speaker 1: health community is thinking about telling even vaccinated people to 464 00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:12,200 Speaker 1: start wearing masks again. By the way, organizes that this 465 00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:14,719 Speaker 1: year's Olympics have made it clear that mask will be 466 00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:18,520 Speaker 1: worn at all times, but that stance was restated actually 467 00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:22,200 Speaker 1: yesterday by the IOCs market Adams after some athletes were 468 00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:24,839 Speaker 1: seen taking off their mask and hugging each other. There 469 00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:28,200 Speaker 1: is no relaxation and we would urge and ask everyone 470 00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:31,120 Speaker 1: to obey the rules. You know, it's not nice to have, 471 00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:35,600 Speaker 1: must have. It's important both for the sports, for everyone involved, 472 00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:39,320 Speaker 1: and of course for our Japanese partners and friends. Senate 473 00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:44,080 Speaker 1: republicanly Rob Portman says that negotiations on a bipartisan infrastructure 474 00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:47,080 Speaker 1: deal continued over the weekend, and that while the first 475 00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:50,480 Speaker 1: procedural test vote on the bill went south, lawmakers could 476 00:34:50,520 --> 00:34:54,200 Speaker 1: take another vote on a slightly tweaked measure sometime this week. 477 00:34:54,760 --> 00:34:58,160 Speaker 1: Work by the committee investigating the January sixth riot it 478 00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:01,719 Speaker 1: gets underway today. Authorities in Floridas say there is at 479 00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:04,839 Speaker 1: least one last missing and unaccounted for a person from 480 00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:07,120 Speaker 1: the condominium that fell on itself a few weeks ago. 481 00:35:07,640 --> 00:35:10,279 Speaker 1: The woman is a seventy fifty four year old woman 482 00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:13,960 Speaker 1: from Brooklyn, New York, actually named Estella Heidia. Her brother 483 00:35:14,040 --> 00:35:16,040 Speaker 1: says she moved down to Florida four years ago to 484 00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:19,839 Speaker 1: work for a jewelry company. Even partially identified he Dia 485 00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:23,040 Speaker 1: could bring the death toll to ninety eight. And sad news. 486 00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:26,080 Speaker 1: Sad news. It's got to have some more sad news, 487 00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:28,520 Speaker 1: which I'll bring to you tomorrow about a civil rights activist. 488 00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:30,759 Speaker 1: Who've got Who's gone? Now back to the Steve Harvey 489 00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:36,160 Speaker 1: Morning Show. You're listening Steve Harvey Show. All right, come on, Steve, 490 00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:38,399 Speaker 1: it is time to look into the mind of your friend. 491 00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:42,640 Speaker 1: Let's go. You introduced the demented dog and bit of 492 00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:47,839 Speaker 1: mind of Jay Anthony Brown. I'm all of that. You're 493 00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:51,480 Speaker 1: own it. First of all, let me do a big 494 00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:53,920 Speaker 1: shout out to the owner of Shades Lowe. Me and 495 00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:57,120 Speaker 1: my daughters went over there, had a great time. It's 496 00:35:57,160 --> 00:36:00,360 Speaker 1: a weird feeling to see your daughters put away that 497 00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:07,440 Speaker 1: much alcohol. But I'm talking and I think one of 498 00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:11,040 Speaker 1: them needs a twelves. That program I'm gonna call whose names, 499 00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:17,840 Speaker 1: but there was a lot of alcohol cashing through that body. Also, 500 00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:20,000 Speaker 1: mister Paul Doja, thank you for letting me come up 501 00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:23,439 Speaker 1: on the stage and having a good time. Shade louns 502 00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:26,560 Speaker 1: can let me sucking. And now, with that being said, Steve, 503 00:36:26,680 --> 00:36:29,640 Speaker 1: could you do a little quick public announcement, maybe thirty 504 00:36:29,680 --> 00:36:32,239 Speaker 1: seconds and tell people how important it is to get 505 00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:35,440 Speaker 1: this damn shot. I know you said you. Ladies and gentlemen, 506 00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:39,080 Speaker 1: all bets is off with me. Some people who are 507 00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:41,560 Speaker 1: very very close to me who did not get the 508 00:36:41,719 --> 00:36:46,680 Speaker 1: vaccination are in some serious positions right now health wise. 509 00:36:47,120 --> 00:36:50,759 Speaker 1: It is nothing to play with. I've taken everything in consideration. 510 00:36:51,040 --> 00:36:54,120 Speaker 1: Quit telling me about the Tuskegee Institute because no one 511 00:36:54,360 --> 00:36:59,239 Speaker 1: was injected with anything at the Tuskegee Institute. Try experiment 512 00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:03,160 Speaker 1: it was medicine with hell to see the degree of it. 513 00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:05,680 Speaker 1: So let's get your facts straight. This is not a 514 00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:09,320 Speaker 1: plot to get rid of you. Take your damn vaccinations 515 00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:11,840 Speaker 1: before this thing strikes you, and I don't want it 516 00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:14,399 Speaker 1: to strike you in a bad way. Go ahead, Jane. 517 00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:16,920 Speaker 1: All right, with that being said, here's my song. Have 518 00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:20,960 Speaker 1: you ever had a friend who didn't vaccinating somehow. Day 519 00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:25,080 Speaker 1: was all in your face. Let me dad, but my situation. 520 00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:27,960 Speaker 1: They said it won't take getting the needle hurt, but 521 00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:30,840 Speaker 1: would you rather be on a ventil later? That's worse 522 00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:34,040 Speaker 1: coming in, Steven and you start to sweating and you 523 00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:38,680 Speaker 1: ain't winning goten the vaccine yet. And I'm telling you 524 00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:41,960 Speaker 1: the truth. I have a million. Then that ain't enough proof. 525 00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:45,480 Speaker 1: Don't even give me that. You kind of blame me 526 00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:56,319 Speaker 1: like I'm stupid. Yell you do want to vaccine? Will 527 00:37:56,440 --> 00:38:00,680 Speaker 1: you shift think again? But we can him my resent? 528 00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:08,600 Speaker 1: Oh baby, you should get into that scene, that scene 529 00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:13,080 Speaker 1: the shop because we don't want to shoot to do baby? 530 00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:23,280 Speaker 1: You don't want to that scene? Will you should think again? Gets? 531 00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:28,080 Speaker 1: Oh baby, you come on, you need to that scene. 532 00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:34,640 Speaker 1: He has some class and shot up in your ass. 533 00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:42,839 Speaker 1: Oh baby, you I have no words. Coming up here. 534 00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:48,040 Speaker 1: Four minutes open hour, we'll be back with more of 535 00:38:48,120 --> 00:38:49,800 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. I think we need to 536 00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:53,399 Speaker 1: regroup right here. Will be back right after this. Jay. 537 00:38:54,840 --> 00:38:59,120 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, 538 00:38:59,200 --> 00:39:02,000 Speaker 1: so this is Monday. How about a fun Monday question 539 00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:05,799 Speaker 1: for you guys? Here? It is have you ever had 540 00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:11,759 Speaker 1: a small brain malfunction on the snide inappropriate remark you 541 00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:15,479 Speaker 1: meant to say to yourself actually came out of your mouth, 542 00:39:15,640 --> 00:39:18,480 Speaker 1: you know, like we always say inside boys outside boys? 543 00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:22,280 Speaker 1: Did I say that aloud? Stuff like that? So, Steve, 544 00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:26,719 Speaker 1: I know you have but we'll yeah, we'll get to 545 00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:30,000 Speaker 1: you last. So what have you blurted out in public 546 00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:34,120 Speaker 1: that you thought was just one of your inner thought monologues? Jay, 547 00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:37,759 Speaker 1: I'll go first. I was having a party this one time, 548 00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:40,360 Speaker 1: which I don't like parties at my house, but I 549 00:39:40,560 --> 00:39:44,080 Speaker 1: let because the person I was dating have a party 550 00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:46,640 Speaker 1: at the house for me. A party ship in at 551 00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:50,840 Speaker 1: nine thirty and the party ship be old, Yeah, nine 552 00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:56,960 Speaker 1: damn thirty, you've eaten? You've heard music? What m Yeah? 553 00:39:58,239 --> 00:40:01,200 Speaker 1: So I thought I was talking to her and I 554 00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:08,040 Speaker 1: yelled out, when't they taking their ass home? Everybody had 555 00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:12,480 Speaker 1: the party heard me, and that ended the party. The 556 00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:19,239 Speaker 1: party did intended, well, that's what you want it, which 557 00:40:19,320 --> 00:40:22,279 Speaker 1: is what I wanted. So anyway, that's I blurted it out. 558 00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:28,800 Speaker 1: When the hell they going home? All right? Nephew, come on, 559 00:40:28,920 --> 00:40:32,040 Speaker 1: I knew you have a few. Oh, I got one 560 00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:35,480 Speaker 1: that I ain't never forgotten meals ago a little pool party. 561 00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:39,200 Speaker 1: I said it. I said it, all right, I thought, 562 00:40:39,200 --> 00:40:53,000 Speaker 1: I said to myself, no wife, Your wife is fine, Scott, 563 00:40:57,080 --> 00:41:00,759 Speaker 1: you live to tell that story, all right, all right, 564 00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:04,000 Speaker 1: come on, Steve, I know you have one. I got 565 00:41:04,040 --> 00:41:07,640 Speaker 1: a bunch of them. But I was about I was 566 00:41:07,680 --> 00:41:12,080 Speaker 1: about sixteen. It's about sixteen, and we was all in 567 00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:16,399 Speaker 1: the backyard barbecuing, and uh, you know, it was time 568 00:41:16,440 --> 00:41:19,080 Speaker 1: to eat. So you know, they had a little table 569 00:41:19,160 --> 00:41:22,040 Speaker 1: set up in the back and you just kind of 570 00:41:22,080 --> 00:41:24,919 Speaker 1: went around and you know, pull a little sirea wrap 571 00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:27,840 Speaker 1: off and took a dimp, you know, put put food 572 00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:29,440 Speaker 1: on your plate. And I'm walking around and put the 573 00:41:29,480 --> 00:41:32,719 Speaker 1: food on the plate, and I just said, man, I 574 00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:39,280 Speaker 1: can't stand these damn baked biddings. My aunt was standing 575 00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:41,200 Speaker 1: back there and said, that's because there ain't no damn 576 00:41:41,239 --> 00:41:47,759 Speaker 1: baked beans. That's chili. Who the hell makes chili? Dam 577 00:41:48,040 --> 00:41:54,719 Speaker 1: summer time? Your baked beans was so trifling. I said, 578 00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:57,520 Speaker 1: I can't stand it. Baked beans can standing back being 579 00:41:57,640 --> 00:42:08,160 Speaker 1: stay chili alight? Basically about any outside voice, just something 580 00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:10,600 Speaker 1: you said aloud, but you really thought you were saying 581 00:42:10,640 --> 00:42:14,600 Speaker 1: it to yourself. Come on, Jake, you know another Okay. 582 00:42:14,680 --> 00:42:17,520 Speaker 1: So this other time we were having a party. I 583 00:42:17,680 --> 00:42:22,600 Speaker 1: let another party at the house, and so the wine 584 00:42:23,280 --> 00:42:26,399 Speaker 1: was really cheap wine, you know, so I yelled out, 585 00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:29,840 Speaker 1: who the hell bought this cheap ass wine? You know, 586 00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:32,880 Speaker 1: I thought I was saying it to my inside voice. 587 00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:37,360 Speaker 1: And the lady who was at the party said, I 588 00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:39,839 Speaker 1: bought that cheap ass wine, and I'm gonna just take 589 00:42:39,880 --> 00:42:44,319 Speaker 1: it home. I'm like, okay, I apologize. It's not that cheap. 590 00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:52,040 Speaker 1: To fix it. I said it. I said it said 591 00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:55,680 Speaker 1: some things. Yeah. Yeah. At my mama house, a lot 592 00:42:55,719 --> 00:42:58,560 Speaker 1: of big family, big family gather and I don't know, 593 00:42:58,640 --> 00:43:03,799 Speaker 1: I'm like, who the glass woman in the kitchen who 594 00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:14,840 Speaker 1: said that out loud? I was a little boy. This 595 00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:19,600 Speaker 1: when the first time I called about eight, maybe nine, Yeah, 596 00:43:19,840 --> 00:43:23,000 Speaker 1: eight or nine. I had just got a whipping, and 597 00:43:23,160 --> 00:43:25,000 Speaker 1: I was in my room, roob in my leg and 598 00:43:25,160 --> 00:43:29,000 Speaker 1: I was going, I hate you, I hate you, I 599 00:43:29,200 --> 00:43:32,439 Speaker 1: hate you. And I thought I was saying it soft enough. 600 00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:35,759 Speaker 1: My daddy walked in the room said you hate who. 601 00:43:37,400 --> 00:43:45,320 Speaker 1: I just started crying hard. Coming up next to nephew 602 00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:52,360 Speaker 1: with today's frank phone call. Right after this, you're listening 603 00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:57,319 Speaker 1: to show coming up at the top of the hour, 604 00:43:57,520 --> 00:44:00,520 Speaker 1: right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today. 605 00:44:00,600 --> 00:44:03,200 Speaker 1: The subject should I punch her or pray for her? 606 00:44:03,520 --> 00:44:05,959 Speaker 1: That is the subject. We'll get intoday just a little 607 00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:12,640 Speaker 1: bit right, punch and prey. Right now, the nephew is 608 00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:15,960 Speaker 1: here with today's praying phone call. What you got for us? Enough? 609 00:44:16,520 --> 00:44:23,279 Speaker 1: You married yo brother? You married yo brother? Let's go 610 00:44:23,440 --> 00:44:27,640 Speaker 1: get Hello. Hello, I'm trying to reach a yr Common. 611 00:44:28,520 --> 00:44:31,040 Speaker 1: This is she Hi, Carmen. My name is Keith, Keith. 612 00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:35,040 Speaker 1: I'm calling you from insurance group Hill You good, you 613 00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:40,440 Speaker 1: and your husband? What is it Harvey? Harvey? Is that right? Yes? Yes, Harvey. Okay, 614 00:44:40,560 --> 00:44:43,560 Speaker 1: you guys actually put applications and actually went in and 615 00:44:43,600 --> 00:44:46,600 Speaker 1: got your physicals done for Life insurance, right, Yeah, yeah, 616 00:44:46,600 --> 00:44:49,400 Speaker 1: that's correct. Okay, I actually am calling you from the 617 00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:52,440 Speaker 1: insurance group. I have you alls live results and everything 618 00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:55,120 Speaker 1: as far as your physicals and blood cuts and things 619 00:44:55,160 --> 00:44:58,120 Speaker 1: of that nature. Is there any way I could possibly 620 00:44:58,719 --> 00:45:00,480 Speaker 1: talk to both of you guys at the same time, 621 00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:03,720 Speaker 1: You and Harvey. Is that possible? Um? Well, sure he's 622 00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:05,920 Speaker 1: at work right now, but I can get him on 623 00:45:05,960 --> 00:45:08,799 Speaker 1: the phone. Okay, it would be uh, it'd be kind 624 00:45:08,840 --> 00:45:10,399 Speaker 1: of easy if I kind of explained everything to both 625 00:45:10,400 --> 00:45:13,160 Speaker 1: of you guys at the same time as if that's okay, Okay, 626 00:45:13,239 --> 00:45:16,359 Speaker 1: some wrong, Uh no, nothing's wrong. I mean I think 627 00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:17,640 Speaker 1: I need to just try to bring a few things 628 00:45:17,640 --> 00:45:20,120 Speaker 1: to you guys attention. But I think you know, after that, 629 00:45:20,239 --> 00:45:22,239 Speaker 1: it's pretty much you guys decision on what you do. 630 00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:23,560 Speaker 1: But I just wanted to let you know a few 631 00:45:23,600 --> 00:45:26,200 Speaker 1: things about you know, the results and things that I 632 00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:29,560 Speaker 1: named your life insurance the whole nine yards. Okay, okay, 633 00:45:30,280 --> 00:45:31,560 Speaker 1: hold on, let me shoo if talking, get him on 634 00:45:31,560 --> 00:45:38,839 Speaker 1: the phone. Hello, Hey, babe, Hey sweet art Um. Look, 635 00:45:38,880 --> 00:45:41,040 Speaker 1: I got the insurance people on the line. They want 636 00:45:41,080 --> 00:45:43,520 Speaker 1: to get both of us on the phone to talk 637 00:45:43,520 --> 00:45:47,200 Speaker 1: to us about the insurance stuff. Oh hey, Harvey, are 638 00:45:47,239 --> 00:45:50,200 Speaker 1: you doing this? Is Keith Keep from the insurance group? 639 00:45:50,239 --> 00:45:53,400 Speaker 1: How are you? Hey? Good with that? Nicky? Good? Good? Listen, Um. 640 00:45:53,840 --> 00:45:55,359 Speaker 1: I wanted to give you guys a call and kind 641 00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:58,640 Speaker 1: of follow up. You guys did physicals and blood tests 642 00:45:58,640 --> 00:45:59,960 Speaker 1: and the whole nine yards, and I want to give 643 00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:01,520 Speaker 1: you guys a call. It's kind of better if I 644 00:46:01,600 --> 00:46:03,759 Speaker 1: talk to both of you guys at the same time. 645 00:46:03,840 --> 00:46:05,320 Speaker 1: So do you have a minute that we could actually 646 00:46:05,440 --> 00:46:07,560 Speaker 1: use to kind of get some of this information out 647 00:46:07,640 --> 00:46:10,000 Speaker 1: to you. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm fine. I'm gonna break 648 00:46:10,040 --> 00:46:12,160 Speaker 1: right now. I'm good. Okay, great. First of all, we've 649 00:46:12,200 --> 00:46:15,040 Speaker 1: gotten all your your lab results back everything, and I 650 00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:17,400 Speaker 1: kind of got a few questions for you guys that 651 00:46:17,920 --> 00:46:20,680 Speaker 1: I'm a little puzzled on. How long have you guys 652 00:46:20,719 --> 00:46:24,759 Speaker 1: actually been married. Well, we've been together back two years, okay, now, 653 00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:27,880 Speaker 1: prior to being married three years. How long did you 654 00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:31,960 Speaker 1: guys know each other before you got married? About five 655 00:46:32,040 --> 00:46:35,359 Speaker 1: and a half five six kids years? Okay, you guys 656 00:46:35,400 --> 00:46:37,239 Speaker 1: have been knowing each other pretty cluse nine years now 657 00:46:37,560 --> 00:46:41,320 Speaker 1: all together? Yeah, okay. Are you actually from the same hometowns? 658 00:46:41,360 --> 00:46:45,120 Speaker 1: You grew up in the same hometown? Yeah, yeah, yeah, 659 00:46:45,160 --> 00:46:47,480 Speaker 1: we grew up. I mean if I'm I'm sorry, is 660 00:46:47,560 --> 00:46:51,000 Speaker 1: this question? I mean, is this about the insurance or well, 661 00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:55,240 Speaker 1: I mean there's a few things that's that's actually uh puzzling, 662 00:46:55,280 --> 00:46:58,320 Speaker 1: Carmen that we need to this. This this is some 663 00:46:58,480 --> 00:47:00,359 Speaker 1: news that I actually didn't want to bring you guys. 664 00:47:00,640 --> 00:47:03,080 Speaker 1: I mean, we have to, I have to actually give 665 00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:05,520 Speaker 1: you this news. Looking at our records, looking at all 666 00:47:05,520 --> 00:47:07,400 Speaker 1: the test results, and let me be the person to 667 00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:09,600 Speaker 1: tell you that we run these results over and over 668 00:47:09,719 --> 00:47:13,000 Speaker 1: and over, trying to make sure we are completely one 669 00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:16,960 Speaker 1: hundred and fifteen. Right, Okay, it's a problem with the test. Well, 670 00:47:17,440 --> 00:47:22,360 Speaker 1: looking at our test, guys, Harvey a garment, it's indicating 671 00:47:22,480 --> 00:47:26,000 Speaker 1: that you guys are related. And nine times I'd attend 672 00:47:26,160 --> 00:47:35,040 Speaker 1: you are you guys are siblings? Man? What? Ok And 673 00:47:35,360 --> 00:47:37,760 Speaker 1: I understand the shot. It took me. It took everything 674 00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:39,440 Speaker 1: I had to make this phone call. I did not 675 00:47:39,560 --> 00:47:41,759 Speaker 1: want to make it. But looking at our records and 676 00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:45,160 Speaker 1: we went over these records over and over and and 677 00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:47,640 Speaker 1: and the blow work tells us that you guys are 678 00:47:47,640 --> 00:47:58,560 Speaker 1: actually siblings. Man, Are you serious? Man? I'm actually you 679 00:47:58,600 --> 00:48:01,080 Speaker 1: know this is not a This is not a laughing matter, 680 00:48:01,239 --> 00:48:03,800 Speaker 1: not a joking matter. You know. Like I said, I 681 00:48:03,880 --> 00:48:06,400 Speaker 1: did not want to call with this information. What you 682 00:48:06,560 --> 00:48:11,440 Speaker 1: did make the call? Man? Look you, I don't know what. 683 00:48:11,560 --> 00:48:14,040 Speaker 1: You need to go back and and and double check 684 00:48:14,080 --> 00:48:18,520 Speaker 1: your records or something. Because you've been married three brief 685 00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:21,400 Speaker 1: check with the laugh man, can't you check with the laughing? 686 00:48:21,480 --> 00:48:25,040 Speaker 1: Like paul Us back? Harvey and I and I knew 687 00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:27,520 Speaker 1: those questions would have come up, and we we went 688 00:48:27,680 --> 00:48:29,960 Speaker 1: over it. We went over it and over and over it. 689 00:48:31,160 --> 00:48:33,480 Speaker 1: Y'all need to go over it again because I don't 690 00:48:33,520 --> 00:48:37,040 Speaker 1: make no dam babe, I got this. You made the 691 00:48:37,600 --> 00:48:40,440 Speaker 1: call and this gotta be wrong. So what you need 692 00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:43,560 Speaker 1: to do is make another call and called the lab 693 00:48:43,640 --> 00:48:45,200 Speaker 1: and call us back and let us know that you 694 00:48:45,280 --> 00:48:48,640 Speaker 1: either though they made a mistake of Are you talking 695 00:48:48,640 --> 00:48:51,680 Speaker 1: about me and my wife? And I understand it, Harry, Harry, 696 00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:54,160 Speaker 1: Let me ask you this is it possible, you know? 697 00:48:54,320 --> 00:48:56,960 Speaker 1: And this is just a question. Is it possible that 698 00:48:57,040 --> 00:48:59,759 Speaker 1: your dad and maybe her mom maybe knew each other 699 00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:03,440 Speaker 1: some point and what you're saying by my mom and 700 00:49:03,640 --> 00:49:07,040 Speaker 1: dad that that that's some straight look at You need 701 00:49:07,120 --> 00:49:09,160 Speaker 1: to have go back and do whatever you need to do. 702 00:49:09,480 --> 00:49:11,759 Speaker 1: But I think you much. You say something like that again. 703 00:49:12,000 --> 00:49:13,920 Speaker 1: I tell you my baby's gonna be coming down the beach. 704 00:49:14,200 --> 00:49:17,919 Speaker 1: I'm saying that like that, hold on baby, old baby, baby, baby, 705 00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:21,719 Speaker 1: hold on baby, I got this, hold on, I gotta baby, 706 00:49:21,760 --> 00:49:24,200 Speaker 1: I gotta baby. I gotta say how you're gonna call 707 00:49:24,320 --> 00:49:28,360 Speaker 1: me with you what you'd you from people? Dude like that? 708 00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:30,920 Speaker 1: But that ain't all I'm doing, sir, is bringing you 709 00:49:31,160 --> 00:49:33,840 Speaker 1: the result or I should bring me results in person, 710 00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:37,879 Speaker 1: and I I wanted you. That's what I'm talking about. Hey, sir, 711 00:49:38,040 --> 00:49:40,000 Speaker 1: even if you beat the messenger at the end of 712 00:49:40,040 --> 00:49:42,360 Speaker 1: the day, that's still your sister. At the end of 713 00:49:42,360 --> 00:49:44,160 Speaker 1: the day, I'm gonna want you. Look, I don't care 714 00:49:44,239 --> 00:49:47,000 Speaker 1: what you're talking about. Nothing. He ain't my damn brother. 715 00:49:47,560 --> 00:49:50,880 Speaker 1: I got it. I'm gonna find you off whatever jupicle 716 00:49:50,960 --> 00:49:53,920 Speaker 1: you in. You're gonna call me something about brother. So 717 00:49:54,239 --> 00:49:57,279 Speaker 1: that's my wife. I am having that sude Somewhere down 718 00:49:57,320 --> 00:50:00,080 Speaker 1: the line. Somebody made a mistake and you guys, my 719 00:50:00,200 --> 00:50:03,000 Speaker 1: brother and sister got married. I'm not at far for that. 720 00:50:03,360 --> 00:50:06,600 Speaker 1: Let me tell you that he's in one of these 721 00:50:06,680 --> 00:50:10,200 Speaker 1: numbers again in your life. So I got one more result. 722 00:50:10,239 --> 00:50:15,120 Speaker 1: I do need to get hold what you've been talking about. 723 00:50:15,600 --> 00:50:17,440 Speaker 1: What else you got to say? Now that's gonna be 724 00:50:17,520 --> 00:50:20,200 Speaker 1: worting me. The only other touch result I have, ma'am, 725 00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:22,560 Speaker 1: is that this is nephew tim Me from the Steve 726 00:50:22,640 --> 00:50:25,880 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. You just got pranked by your girlfriend. 727 00:50:32,719 --> 00:50:42,640 Speaker 1: I told you, ain't like. I got one more thing. 728 00:50:42,719 --> 00:50:44,840 Speaker 1: I got to ask both of y'all what is the 729 00:50:44,920 --> 00:50:47,719 Speaker 1: baddest And I'm talking about the baddest radio show in 730 00:50:47,880 --> 00:50:54,600 Speaker 1: the land, Steve Harvey morn To show. Come on, baby, 731 00:50:55,640 --> 00:50:59,839 Speaker 1: you play way you went in, you went in. Jeez, 732 00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:03,560 Speaker 1: you set it up. You're gonna go in. Say go deep. 733 00:51:05,480 --> 00:51:07,360 Speaker 1: You know I don't go in shallow. I go in 734 00:51:07,640 --> 00:51:13,600 Speaker 1: deep jump every everything seems deep to a shallow person. Oh, 735 00:51:14,800 --> 00:51:20,080 Speaker 1: don't accept that. You don't have to accept that. Hate 736 00:51:20,120 --> 00:51:32,200 Speaker 1: a ration man, magnified man. That's all good though. That's 737 00:51:32,239 --> 00:51:34,160 Speaker 1: how you do it though, when you want to. That's 738 00:51:34,440 --> 00:51:36,879 Speaker 1: you know, your little teaspoon of stupid this morning thought, 739 00:51:36,920 --> 00:51:39,000 Speaker 1: I drop it on you. That is stupid and ignorant 740 00:51:39,040 --> 00:51:46,279 Speaker 1: at the same up together. That's it. Stignant, stignant. I 741 00:51:46,440 --> 00:51:50,800 Speaker 1: like stignant. Yeah, stupid and ignant. Sign I love it. 742 00:51:51,120 --> 00:51:57,440 Speaker 1: You can get your right here, baby, two cans of 743 00:51:57,520 --> 00:52:06,040 Speaker 1: Stignet's cold stick here. You're just sticking it over here. Man, 744 00:52:06,360 --> 00:52:10,200 Speaker 1: you okay, you'll be all right. Sure, he just I 745 00:52:10,239 --> 00:52:19,800 Speaker 1: don't know, he just he my stupid bother here. What 746 00:52:21,640 --> 00:52:24,200 Speaker 1: you know, when he does something stupid, I'm I applaud him. 747 00:52:24,239 --> 00:52:26,080 Speaker 1: I showed himself. No no no, no no no no 748 00:52:26,200 --> 00:52:30,680 Speaker 1: no no no. When I do something ignorant, okay, I 749 00:52:30,880 --> 00:52:39,160 Speaker 1: don't ever do nothing stupid. Ever I'm trying to be 750 00:52:39,440 --> 00:52:41,440 Speaker 1: I'm trying to be an ignorant supporter. But you just 751 00:52:45,960 --> 00:52:52,160 Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep it sticking that. You keep it. You 752 00:52:52,280 --> 00:52:55,080 Speaker 1: just keep it. We're good. We'll we'll we'll understand we 753 00:52:55,160 --> 00:52:59,480 Speaker 1: respect each other. How about all right? Nehew, thank you, 754 00:52:59,800 --> 00:53:02,480 Speaker 1: thank you. Coming up next Strawberry Letters. Subject should I 755 00:53:02,560 --> 00:53:04,680 Speaker 1: punch her or pray for her? We'll find out and 756 00:53:04,800 --> 00:53:07,800 Speaker 1: get into it right after this. You're listening to the 757 00:53:07,960 --> 00:53:13,040 Speaker 1: Stave Harvey Morning Show. Well time now for today's Strawberry Letter. 758 00:53:13,200 --> 00:53:17,040 Speaker 1: And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, 759 00:53:17,120 --> 00:53:20,640 Speaker 1: and more. Please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve Harvey. 760 00:53:20,880 --> 00:53:25,080 Speaker 1: F them and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be 761 00:53:25,160 --> 00:53:27,520 Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're 762 00:53:27,560 --> 00:53:29,680 Speaker 1: going to read this one. You hear that right here, 763 00:53:29,800 --> 00:53:31,799 Speaker 1: right now. You never know it could be yours. Yeah, 764 00:53:32,200 --> 00:53:34,279 Speaker 1: you never know. Buckle up, been hold on tight. We 765 00:53:34,360 --> 00:53:37,680 Speaker 1: got it for you. Here it is Strawberry letter, all right? 766 00:53:37,800 --> 00:53:40,719 Speaker 1: Subject should I punch her? Or pray for her? Dear 767 00:53:40,800 --> 00:53:44,000 Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, I'm a fifty seven year old single mother 768 00:53:44,320 --> 00:53:47,239 Speaker 1: and I am all up in my daughter's business. My 769 00:53:47,400 --> 00:53:50,400 Speaker 1: daughter is thirty one years old and a professional woman. 770 00:53:50,800 --> 00:53:53,400 Speaker 1: She's stating a man that I can't believe she would 771 00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:56,600 Speaker 1: ever be attracted to. He's a forty year old single 772 00:53:56,680 --> 00:54:00,320 Speaker 1: father with two sons that are six years old. He 773 00:54:00,480 --> 00:54:02,880 Speaker 1: owns a car wash and makes a good living, but 774 00:54:03,000 --> 00:54:05,800 Speaker 1: he's flashy and loves to be the center of attention. 775 00:54:06,320 --> 00:54:09,560 Speaker 1: He's always been respectful to me, but I have a 776 00:54:09,640 --> 00:54:13,280 Speaker 1: problem with how he tolerates certain behaviors from his twins mother. 777 00:54:14,120 --> 00:54:17,960 Speaker 1: Let's call the twins mother Rita, and my daughter's boyfriend 778 00:54:18,280 --> 00:54:22,680 Speaker 1: is Tony. Rita has vandalized my daughter's car and she's 779 00:54:22,719 --> 00:54:25,080 Speaker 1: tried to fight my daughter in public. One night, when 780 00:54:25,160 --> 00:54:27,600 Speaker 1: she and Tony went out for dinner, I tried to 781 00:54:27,680 --> 00:54:30,680 Speaker 1: tell her that Tony is too ghetto and he's used 782 00:54:30,680 --> 00:54:35,080 Speaker 1: to ghetto girls, but she is crazy about him. Last week, 783 00:54:35,400 --> 00:54:38,200 Speaker 1: my daughter was at Tony's house by herself and Rita 784 00:54:38,360 --> 00:54:41,320 Speaker 1: walked in on her. Tony said he gave Rita a 785 00:54:41,440 --> 00:54:44,560 Speaker 1: key to his house because she needed access to her twins. 786 00:54:45,040 --> 00:54:47,480 Speaker 1: My daughter locked herself in the bedroom because she was 787 00:54:47,520 --> 00:54:50,720 Speaker 1: afraid of Rita. My daughter called me and I sped 788 00:54:50,880 --> 00:54:53,719 Speaker 1: over to Tony's house to help her. Tony was there 789 00:54:53,920 --> 00:54:56,799 Speaker 1: trying to calm Rita down. I got my daughter out 790 00:54:56,840 --> 00:55:00,719 Speaker 1: of there, but not before Rita swung at me. I 791 00:55:00,920 --> 00:55:04,400 Speaker 1: used to teach kickboxing, so I was ready for miss Rita. 792 00:55:05,360 --> 00:55:08,440 Speaker 1: Tony diffused the situation and asked my daughter to explain 793 00:55:08,520 --> 00:55:11,360 Speaker 1: to me what's going on. We went outside and my 794 00:55:11,480 --> 00:55:14,480 Speaker 1: daughter said, Rita has some mental issues and she acts 795 00:55:14,520 --> 00:55:17,600 Speaker 1: out sometimes, so we have to pray for her. I 796 00:55:17,880 --> 00:55:21,360 Speaker 1: know my daughter is sheltered, but not this darn naive. 797 00:55:21,719 --> 00:55:24,520 Speaker 1: I told my daughter that Tony is feeding her a 798 00:55:24,560 --> 00:55:27,720 Speaker 1: bunch of bs and she needs to wise up. Should 799 00:55:27,719 --> 00:55:30,040 Speaker 1: I let Rida beat her butt one good time so 800 00:55:30,280 --> 00:55:34,279 Speaker 1: she'll ride, she'll wise up? Please help? What, mama? What 801 00:55:35,200 --> 00:55:38,120 Speaker 1: let Rita beat your daughters? But no, don't do that. 802 00:55:38,920 --> 00:55:42,800 Speaker 1: Rita is crazy and please don't let her crazy behind 803 00:55:42,920 --> 00:55:45,239 Speaker 1: get it at your daughter. She could really hurt her. 804 00:55:45,719 --> 00:55:48,440 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, thank god you did take kickboxing, 805 00:55:48,520 --> 00:55:51,160 Speaker 1: so you're ready for Rita at that time. I know 806 00:55:51,320 --> 00:55:53,799 Speaker 1: you would, mom, but you shouldn't have to fight your 807 00:55:53,880 --> 00:55:57,080 Speaker 1: daughter's battles. This trifle men, like you said, we'll call 808 00:55:57,160 --> 00:55:59,799 Speaker 1: him Tony doesn't care anything about your daughter. He'd put 809 00:55:59,840 --> 00:56:03,120 Speaker 1: her in harm's way, he's the one that's allowing this 810 00:56:03,280 --> 00:56:06,000 Speaker 1: to happen. I agree with you that he tolerates too 811 00:56:06,080 --> 00:56:08,560 Speaker 1: much from Rita. What is going on with him and 812 00:56:08,680 --> 00:56:11,759 Speaker 1: Rita besides her being the mother of his twins. I 813 00:56:11,840 --> 00:56:15,120 Speaker 1: think Rita's just way too bold, too comfortable for there 814 00:56:15,200 --> 00:56:17,600 Speaker 1: not to be something else going on between the two 815 00:56:17,680 --> 00:56:21,879 Speaker 1: of them. And again, thank you, because you took kickboxing, 816 00:56:22,320 --> 00:56:24,600 Speaker 1: you never know when that might come in Handy. I 817 00:56:24,680 --> 00:56:26,719 Speaker 1: think this is a wrong man. I think this is 818 00:56:26,760 --> 00:56:30,160 Speaker 1: a wrong relationship for your daughter. But until she sees 819 00:56:30,200 --> 00:56:32,960 Speaker 1: it for herself, and she doesn't because you said she 820 00:56:33,280 --> 00:56:36,640 Speaker 1: is crazy about mister Tony. But until she sees it 821 00:56:36,719 --> 00:56:38,959 Speaker 1: for herself, there's not a lot you can do, mom, 822 00:56:39,800 --> 00:56:43,560 Speaker 1: but rush over there when she calls you. Rita and 823 00:56:43,680 --> 00:56:48,000 Speaker 1: Tony twins, they share kids together, so they're always going 824 00:56:48,160 --> 00:56:50,560 Speaker 1: to be around. Your daughter is always going to have 825 00:56:50,640 --> 00:56:52,960 Speaker 1: to deal with this problem. But there are no boundaries. 826 00:56:53,719 --> 00:56:56,200 Speaker 1: Your daughter hasn't said any and Tony, who should be 827 00:56:56,320 --> 00:56:59,399 Speaker 1: setting boundaries, hasn't. He just lets Rita run a muck. 828 00:57:00,200 --> 00:57:02,680 Speaker 1: Rita has no respect for your daughter. She's no respect 829 00:57:02,760 --> 00:57:05,239 Speaker 1: for this relationship. She just walks in with the key 830 00:57:05,320 --> 00:57:08,840 Speaker 1: whenever she feels like it. So your daughter needs to 831 00:57:08,920 --> 00:57:11,239 Speaker 1: realize that she's in over her head with this man 832 00:57:11,400 --> 00:57:13,759 Speaker 1: and Rita, and unless she's willing to stand up for 833 00:57:13,800 --> 00:57:16,680 Speaker 1: herself and stop hiding and locking herself in the bedroom 834 00:57:16,720 --> 00:57:19,560 Speaker 1: and all that, she's fighting a losing battle. I just 835 00:57:19,720 --> 00:57:23,080 Speaker 1: think you know this guy doesn't deserve her tony, and 836 00:57:23,640 --> 00:57:25,760 Speaker 1: your daughter needs to move on for sure. I'm sure 837 00:57:25,800 --> 00:57:33,040 Speaker 1: you'd be happy with that, mom, Steve Well Shirley, I disagree, Okay, 838 00:57:33,400 --> 00:57:37,400 Speaker 1: I disagree. I don't like the mother in this letter, 839 00:57:37,640 --> 00:57:40,640 Speaker 1: and I don't like the mother's assessment of the situation. 840 00:57:41,320 --> 00:57:44,000 Speaker 1: Should I punch her prey for her? Did steven sherl 841 00:57:44,080 --> 00:57:46,760 Speaker 1: out and fifty seven year old single mother, I'm all 842 00:57:46,880 --> 00:57:50,960 Speaker 1: up in my daughter's business, being right there, all up 843 00:57:51,000 --> 00:57:54,480 Speaker 1: in my daughter's business. My daughter, thirty one professional woman, 844 00:57:54,760 --> 00:57:56,840 Speaker 1: she's dating a man I can't believe she would even 845 00:57:56,880 --> 00:57:59,880 Speaker 1: be attracted to. And why not. He's a forty year 846 00:57:59,880 --> 00:58:03,919 Speaker 1: old single father with twin sons that are six years old. 847 00:58:04,480 --> 00:58:06,880 Speaker 1: He owns a car washing and he makes a good living. 848 00:58:07,440 --> 00:58:09,760 Speaker 1: But he's flashy and he loves to be the center 849 00:58:09,760 --> 00:58:16,520 Speaker 1: of attention. Okay, what does that mean? He's always been 850 00:58:16,600 --> 00:58:20,200 Speaker 1: respectful to me, but I have a problem with how 851 00:58:20,280 --> 00:58:28,120 Speaker 1: he tolerates certain behaviors from his twins. Mother, What what 852 00:58:28,440 --> 00:58:31,440 Speaker 1: do you mean you have a problem with how he 853 00:58:31,680 --> 00:58:35,600 Speaker 1: tolerates certain behavior. So let's call the twins mother reader, 854 00:58:35,640 --> 00:58:39,080 Speaker 1: and my daughter's boyfriend is Tony. Here we go. Reader 855 00:58:39,160 --> 00:58:45,800 Speaker 1: has vandalized my daughter's card. He didn't tolerate that. That's 856 00:58:45,880 --> 00:58:51,360 Speaker 1: nothing he tolerated, reader, Crazy ass reader, vandalize your daughter's 857 00:58:51,400 --> 00:58:56,080 Speaker 1: car as she tried to fight my daughter. The man 858 00:58:56,200 --> 00:59:01,640 Speaker 1: didn't tolerate that. Crazy ass Reader tried to fight your 859 00:59:01,760 --> 00:59:06,320 Speaker 1: daughter in public one night. When she in public one 860 00:59:06,440 --> 00:59:09,680 Speaker 1: night when she and Tony went to dinner, I tried 861 00:59:09,760 --> 00:59:12,760 Speaker 1: to tell her that Tony is too ghetto and he's 862 00:59:12,880 --> 00:59:17,440 Speaker 1: used to ghetto girls. What does that have to do 863 00:59:18,640 --> 00:59:27,240 Speaker 1: with him tolerating anything from his crazy ex. Last week, 864 00:59:27,360 --> 00:59:30,080 Speaker 1: my daughter's at tony house by herself, and Rida walked 865 00:59:30,160 --> 00:59:37,200 Speaker 1: in on her. Tony said he gave Rida a key 866 00:59:37,320 --> 00:59:40,800 Speaker 1: to his house because she needed access to the twins. 867 00:59:43,320 --> 00:59:46,760 Speaker 1: Your daughter don't live that hold on Rida used to 868 00:59:46,880 --> 00:59:51,400 Speaker 1: live there. I'll wait, We'll have part two of Steve's 869 00:59:51,480 --> 00:59:54,600 Speaker 1: response coming up. At twenty three minutes after the hour. 870 00:59:54,800 --> 00:59:57,640 Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry Letters subject should I punch her? Or pray 871 00:59:57,720 --> 01:00:00,920 Speaker 1: for her? We'll find out when we come back right 872 01:00:01,000 --> 01:00:07,040 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening, all right? Come on, Steve, Let's 873 01:00:07,080 --> 01:00:10,880 Speaker 1: recap today Strawberry Letters. Subject is should I punch her 874 01:00:11,080 --> 01:00:13,880 Speaker 1: or pray for her? Fifty seven year old single mother 875 01:00:14,000 --> 01:00:17,919 Speaker 1: all up in her daughter's business right there, right there, 876 01:00:18,200 --> 01:00:21,680 Speaker 1: bad letter daughter thirty one professional dating a man. I 877 01:00:21,760 --> 01:00:24,600 Speaker 1: can't believe she's attracted to it. And the reason she 878 01:00:24,720 --> 01:00:26,640 Speaker 1: can't believe it because a man is forty year old, 879 01:00:26,680 --> 01:00:30,560 Speaker 1: single father with twin sons six years old, owns a car, washer, 880 01:00:30,680 --> 01:00:34,400 Speaker 1: makes a good living. So what is it you don't like? 881 01:00:34,600 --> 01:00:37,120 Speaker 1: But he's flashing. He loves be the center of attention. 882 01:00:38,600 --> 01:00:44,600 Speaker 1: He's always been respectful to me. Okay, that don't mean nothing. 883 01:00:45,000 --> 01:00:47,080 Speaker 1: But I have a problem with how he tolerates sudden 884 01:00:47,120 --> 01:00:50,960 Speaker 1: behavior from his twins mother. Then you proceed the list 885 01:00:51,040 --> 01:00:53,360 Speaker 1: of go down a list of things that I don't 886 01:00:53,400 --> 01:00:56,560 Speaker 1: see how the man is tolerating He let the twins 887 01:00:56,680 --> 01:01:00,480 Speaker 1: mother mother's name reading, a boyfriend named Tony read the 888 01:01:00,560 --> 01:01:04,000 Speaker 1: vanalized my daughter's car. The man didn't tolerate that. She 889 01:01:04,160 --> 01:01:07,040 Speaker 1: tried to fight my daughter. The man didn't tolerate that. 890 01:01:07,560 --> 01:01:10,760 Speaker 1: It's just read her asses crazy. Then when they went 891 01:01:10,800 --> 01:01:13,360 Speaker 1: to dinner, I tried to tell her Tony's to get on. 892 01:01:13,480 --> 01:01:17,520 Speaker 1: He used to dating ghetto girls, but she's crazy about it. Well, 893 01:01:17,760 --> 01:01:20,880 Speaker 1: what does that have to do with Tony tolerating the 894 01:01:21,120 --> 01:01:24,880 Speaker 1: ex's behavior? Last week where my daughter was at Tony's 895 01:01:24,920 --> 01:01:28,360 Speaker 1: house by herself and readA walked in on it, Tony 896 01:01:28,400 --> 01:01:30,360 Speaker 1: said he gave Reader key to the house because she 897 01:01:30,560 --> 01:01:34,479 Speaker 1: needed access to her twins. Okay, now you know people 898 01:01:34,560 --> 01:01:37,800 Speaker 1: have different arrangements. Reader don't live there, and so he 899 01:01:37,840 --> 01:01:40,600 Speaker 1: didn't gave us crazy health for the key to come 900 01:01:40,680 --> 01:01:43,240 Speaker 1: in here when he got the kids, check on the kids. 901 01:01:43,280 --> 01:01:45,720 Speaker 1: Blah blah blah blah blah. I don't know what that 902 01:01:45,880 --> 01:01:48,560 Speaker 1: arrangement is, buddy, She got a key to his house. 903 01:01:49,040 --> 01:01:52,800 Speaker 1: She might have lived there before with the kids. Anybody 904 01:01:52,840 --> 01:01:55,400 Speaker 1: ever thought of this right here? But my daughter locked 905 01:01:55,440 --> 01:01:58,680 Speaker 1: herself in the bedroom because she was afraid to read them. 906 01:02:00,000 --> 01:02:02,680 Speaker 1: Ain't got nothing to do with what the man tolerate. Though, 907 01:02:04,280 --> 01:02:06,480 Speaker 1: my daughter called me and I spared over the Tony's 908 01:02:06,480 --> 01:02:09,120 Speaker 1: house to help, but Tony was there trying to calm Reader. Down. 909 01:02:10,320 --> 01:02:13,160 Speaker 1: I got my daughter out of there, but not before 910 01:02:13,240 --> 01:02:18,480 Speaker 1: Reader swung at me. readA asked crazy. Yes, Reader swung 911 01:02:18,560 --> 01:02:22,280 Speaker 1: at you, that's not him tolerating or behavior. Why you 912 01:02:22,360 --> 01:02:29,400 Speaker 1: think Reader his ax because he no Reader? Crazy crazy 913 01:02:29,600 --> 01:02:35,240 Speaker 1: people sometimes, I'm just saying this. Sometimes crazy people have 914 01:02:35,520 --> 01:02:47,560 Speaker 1: good sex, ohzy. Sometimes. Yes. I used to teach cook kickboxing, 915 01:02:47,600 --> 01:02:50,400 Speaker 1: so I was ready for miss Reader. Tony diffused his 916 01:02:50,560 --> 01:02:54,160 Speaker 1: situation and asked my daughter to explain to me what's 917 01:02:54,200 --> 01:02:59,000 Speaker 1: going on. We went outside and my daughter said, Reader 918 01:02:59,120 --> 01:03:04,160 Speaker 1: has some mental it sounds like and she acts out, 919 01:03:04,440 --> 01:03:07,000 Speaker 1: so we have to pray for her. No, I'm pretty 920 01:03:07,000 --> 01:03:10,240 Speaker 1: sure Tony didn't ask you to pray for I know 921 01:03:10,440 --> 01:03:12,919 Speaker 1: my daughter is shelter, but not this dog go naive. 922 01:03:13,000 --> 01:03:15,520 Speaker 1: I told my daughter that Tony is feeding her a 923 01:03:15,680 --> 01:03:19,960 Speaker 1: bunch of bs. He may not be telling everything, and 924 01:03:20,400 --> 01:03:22,880 Speaker 1: that she needs to wise up. Should I let Reader 925 01:03:22,920 --> 01:03:30,400 Speaker 1: beat her but one good time so she will wise up? Yes? Yes, Now, 926 01:03:30,480 --> 01:03:33,440 Speaker 1: how you gonna stop it? Because one time she gonna 927 01:03:33,440 --> 01:03:35,200 Speaker 1: be over there and Reader gonna get that whipping in 928 01:03:35,360 --> 01:03:38,280 Speaker 1: for you. Get you spared over that this time because 929 01:03:38,320 --> 01:03:41,040 Speaker 1: she locked herself in the bedroom, Reader gonna roll up 930 01:03:41,080 --> 01:03:42,800 Speaker 1: on the one time. She's gonna be getting that dog 931 01:03:42,880 --> 01:03:46,040 Speaker 1: on bed. Why does why does Tony just let her 932 01:03:46,160 --> 01:03:48,280 Speaker 1: just come into the house and just run them up, 933 01:03:48,320 --> 01:03:50,320 Speaker 1: just do what she don't. He don't just let her. 934 01:03:50,440 --> 01:03:54,680 Speaker 1: He gave her key, He gave her key, she got boundaries, 935 01:03:54,720 --> 01:04:00,360 Speaker 1: but she oversteps him. She vandaliza girl's car. That ain't 936 01:04:00,400 --> 01:04:04,360 Speaker 1: tony fault. She tried to fight the woman. That ain't 937 01:04:04,400 --> 01:04:08,400 Speaker 1: Tony fault, see you man, Sureley, because she got a 938 01:04:08,480 --> 01:04:12,760 Speaker 1: key to the house. That's what doesn't seem like Tony 939 01:04:12,840 --> 01:04:16,400 Speaker 1: is stepping up defending this girl. Tony just stepped up 940 01:04:16,440 --> 01:04:18,800 Speaker 1: and defending I don't see what he knight not defending 941 01:04:19,160 --> 01:04:22,040 Speaker 1: the mama. De Lenna is from the damn mama that's 942 01:04:22,200 --> 01:04:25,920 Speaker 1: up in the thirty one year old business. She ain't 943 01:04:25,960 --> 01:04:28,680 Speaker 1: got all the facts Tony and asked her to step 944 01:04:28,800 --> 01:04:31,840 Speaker 1: outside and explain to your mama what's going on? Over 945 01:04:31,960 --> 01:04:37,040 Speaker 1: hill Steve, if this was your daughter, this ain't my daughter, 946 01:04:37,560 --> 01:04:39,480 Speaker 1: I said. If it was and she was with some 947 01:04:40,040 --> 01:04:43,200 Speaker 1: clown that you didn't like and his ex was doing 948 01:04:43,240 --> 01:04:46,680 Speaker 1: all this, you know you'd be you'd have something to say. 949 01:04:47,520 --> 01:04:53,160 Speaker 1: You know you would either. But Suley, she may not 950 01:04:53,320 --> 01:04:56,160 Speaker 1: want a daughter with the man. I understand that. But 951 01:04:56,320 --> 01:05:00,080 Speaker 1: everybody comes with some luggage, yes, everybody. He got the 952 01:05:00,200 --> 01:05:04,880 Speaker 1: crazy ex. I know this letter right him. See, that's 953 01:05:04,920 --> 01:05:08,120 Speaker 1: why I'm saying. You can't write this dude off because 954 01:05:08,200 --> 01:05:12,640 Speaker 1: this ex is looped. That's what I'm That's what I 955 01:05:12,760 --> 01:05:15,600 Speaker 1: hate to see people doing. Well, you write, you're writing 956 01:05:15,680 --> 01:05:18,640 Speaker 1: him off because his ex is crazy. Yeah, because he 957 01:05:18,760 --> 01:05:21,840 Speaker 1: doesn't what is he doing to help to stop all this? 958 01:05:22,640 --> 01:05:25,919 Speaker 1: He doesn't seem to be Yeah, And that's what I said. 959 01:05:25,960 --> 01:05:28,040 Speaker 1: No boundaries, and he doesn't seem to be trying to 960 01:05:28,120 --> 01:05:31,880 Speaker 1: help his girl. That's what I see in the letter. 961 01:05:33,320 --> 01:05:35,600 Speaker 1: That's not what I see. You can give all this. 962 01:05:36,360 --> 01:05:41,400 Speaker 1: Oh wait, let me explay something. Boundaries you can get, 963 01:05:41,840 --> 01:05:45,880 Speaker 1: you can get court orders, you can get racket seal, 964 01:05:46,800 --> 01:05:49,400 Speaker 1: you can get all this. They can do what they 965 01:05:49,440 --> 01:05:51,720 Speaker 1: want to do. And it ain't got nothing to do 966 01:05:51,840 --> 01:05:55,320 Speaker 1: what you allowing nothing. She's just in a crazy situation. 967 01:05:55,480 --> 01:06:01,280 Speaker 1: The daughter, this crazy woman. But the mom ain't go 968 01:06:01,400 --> 01:06:05,280 Speaker 1: bear to save everybody, So I don't. Well, well, we 969 01:06:05,640 --> 01:06:08,960 Speaker 1: agree to disagree. We agree to disagree. Okay, thank you, 970 01:06:10,400 --> 01:06:13,200 Speaker 1: all right, thank you. Steve. Post your comments on today's 971 01:06:13,200 --> 01:06:16,320 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. At Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook. 972 01:06:16,560 --> 01:06:19,760 Speaker 1: Please check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. Now 973 01:06:19,880 --> 01:06:22,040 Speaker 1: coming up at forty six minutes after the hour, we'll 974 01:06:22,040 --> 01:06:25,000 Speaker 1: have some sports talk with Steve and for Junior. Right 975 01:06:25,040 --> 01:06:30,080 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, 976 01:06:30,200 --> 01:06:32,840 Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen, we know that Junior is out, but 977 01:06:32,960 --> 01:06:36,680 Speaker 1: guess what Steve is in with sports talk? Hey, Steve, 978 01:06:36,800 --> 01:06:40,320 Speaker 1: what you got? Well, the Olympics is on everybody, and 979 01:06:40,440 --> 01:06:45,360 Speaker 1: everybody knows that I watch all ignorant ass things. Yeah, 980 01:06:45,760 --> 01:06:50,520 Speaker 1: I have more facts about the now. Carlin has sent 981 01:06:50,640 --> 01:06:53,600 Speaker 1: me some things about the Olympics. But I have some 982 01:06:53,800 --> 01:06:56,920 Speaker 1: things that I will be sharing with you. USA wanta 983 01:06:57,000 --> 01:07:00,960 Speaker 1: gold medal and fiscing and got a bronze and silver 984 01:07:01,040 --> 01:07:05,400 Speaker 1: medal in the men's and women swimming. Uh, that's the 985 01:07:05,680 --> 01:07:11,040 Speaker 1: boy with the bow, the eagle and the shock on 986 01:07:11,200 --> 01:07:15,440 Speaker 1: his chest. He didn't already won one. And then the 987 01:07:15,520 --> 01:07:18,280 Speaker 1: white girl, the name that starred with the air sheeting 988 01:07:18,360 --> 01:07:26,200 Speaker 1: one one girl. No, I'm just telling you what that 989 01:07:26,440 --> 01:07:29,560 Speaker 1: Kevin Duran, damon little ass and set them lost to France. 990 01:07:29,840 --> 01:07:32,560 Speaker 1: The most humiliating thing I've ever seen. What they over 991 01:07:32,640 --> 01:07:35,880 Speaker 1: there fault, Sorry ass, go over there and let them 992 01:07:36,040 --> 01:07:38,120 Speaker 1: kids whip them. Friends ain't good enough to beat them, 993 01:07:38,320 --> 01:07:41,400 Speaker 1: ain'tybody on their team, but Rudy Gobert and you said 994 01:07:41,440 --> 01:07:45,000 Speaker 1: them let them board win. All right. Now here's another one. 995 01:07:45,480 --> 01:07:49,760 Speaker 1: Coreal whip everybody ass in fencing, and I want you 996 01:07:49,880 --> 01:07:58,040 Speaker 1: to know that that Japan. No no no, I meant 997 01:07:58,400 --> 01:08:02,200 Speaker 1: archery and the archery. And then I gotta tell you 998 01:08:02,320 --> 01:08:08,160 Speaker 1: this here Japan with type hand China ass and it's 999 01:08:08,320 --> 01:08:12,920 Speaker 1: nithing to play China in the mixed doubles table tennis. 1000 01:08:13,400 --> 01:08:17,280 Speaker 1: And lord, the little five foot Japanese girl and whipping 1001 01:08:17,479 --> 01:08:22,439 Speaker 1: everybody as I don't know her name, but Lord, that 1002 01:08:22,640 --> 01:08:25,200 Speaker 1: little girl right here stronger than the dudes over there. 1003 01:08:25,439 --> 01:08:29,679 Speaker 1: So I'm cheering for her. I'm hoping Japan beat China, 1004 01:08:30,439 --> 01:08:38,920 Speaker 1: you know whatever. Also in gymnastics, Simone Bows had a 1005 01:08:39,080 --> 01:08:43,720 Speaker 1: rough first day and one any damn way, so now 1006 01:08:43,920 --> 01:08:47,760 Speaker 1: she will be representing in the qualifying round along with 1007 01:08:48,080 --> 01:08:52,920 Speaker 1: Jordan's childs is Childs and Bows, the two black girls 1008 01:08:53,040 --> 01:08:56,599 Speaker 1: and the little or Asian girl with the black dad 1009 01:08:56,720 --> 01:09:01,559 Speaker 1: and she in two and I don't know, and then 1010 01:09:01,600 --> 01:09:04,080 Speaker 1: the twenty four year old white girl that was a 1011 01:09:04,200 --> 01:09:09,040 Speaker 1: runner up in Rio Denisio in Brazil. Really well, you 1012 01:09:09,120 --> 01:09:12,320 Speaker 1: know the same she anyway, she made the Olympic team 1013 01:09:12,400 --> 01:09:14,880 Speaker 1: and she and that good and they the two white 1014 01:09:14,920 --> 01:09:19,200 Speaker 1: girls with the red suits than one just say, and 1015 01:09:19,360 --> 01:09:22,040 Speaker 1: it's really really good. I have more Olympic news if 1016 01:09:22,080 --> 01:09:29,479 Speaker 1: you want it. I'm Hella, I'm Helen. I got some moat. 1017 01:09:32,200 --> 01:09:35,479 Speaker 1: All right, Today's National Auntie and Uncle Day, and we're 1018 01:09:35,479 --> 01:09:38,280 Speaker 1: gonna talk to everybody's favorite uncle, Steve Harvey when we 1019 01:09:38,320 --> 01:09:41,120 Speaker 1: come back at the top of the hour. Yep, Uncle Steve. 1020 01:09:41,439 --> 01:09:48,000 Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening morning show, all right. So 1021 01:09:48,280 --> 01:09:50,960 Speaker 1: I didn't even know this was a thing, but today 1022 01:09:51,120 --> 01:09:54,880 Speaker 1: is National Uncle and Auntie Day. So Steve, you're everybody's 1023 01:09:54,920 --> 01:09:58,360 Speaker 1: favorite uncle. Two questions, Any advice you want to give 1024 01:09:58,400 --> 01:10:02,080 Speaker 1: your nieces and your nephew And do you have a 1025 01:10:02,240 --> 01:10:06,160 Speaker 1: favorite auntie or uncle's story? My favorite uncle is my 1026 01:10:06,280 --> 01:10:09,839 Speaker 1: uncle Donald, hands down. And I loved all my aunts 1027 01:10:10,360 --> 01:10:16,720 Speaker 1: except for Agnes the only one stop always Agnes fat 1028 01:10:16,840 --> 01:10:20,320 Speaker 1: are always hate for never encouraged me. You know, she 1029 01:10:20,360 --> 01:10:23,120 Speaker 1: should give everybody nickel for going to the store, right, 1030 01:10:23,560 --> 01:10:25,680 Speaker 1: But because I studied, she didn't want to give me 1031 01:10:25,800 --> 01:10:28,000 Speaker 1: no nickel car, I ain't got all day to weight 1032 01:10:28,040 --> 01:10:33,760 Speaker 1: on you to come back here with this food down trunk. 1033 01:10:34,280 --> 01:10:39,840 Speaker 1: Figure out what says says say? I said, Oh, I 1034 01:10:39,920 --> 01:10:43,000 Speaker 1: couldn't stay in her ass. But anyway, yeah, I wanted 1035 01:10:43,120 --> 01:10:47,240 Speaker 1: some advice to my nephews and nieces out there and 1036 01:10:47,479 --> 01:10:51,080 Speaker 1: send a millennial division and everything. Look, I know that 1037 01:10:51,479 --> 01:10:54,960 Speaker 1: this generation, and I applaud you off for being the 1038 01:10:55,160 --> 01:10:59,479 Speaker 1: most tech savvy and aggressively thinking generation that has come 1039 01:10:59,520 --> 01:11:02,679 Speaker 1: along in a while. I do want to say also 1040 01:11:02,920 --> 01:11:07,519 Speaker 1: that the Black Lives Matter movement has become the most 1041 01:11:07,800 --> 01:11:12,479 Speaker 1: relevant movement to move forward the ambitions of people of 1042 01:11:12,640 --> 01:11:17,040 Speaker 1: color than when Civil rights movement. I want to say that. 1043 01:11:17,680 --> 01:11:21,920 Speaker 1: I also want to remind you all that still that 1044 01:11:22,160 --> 01:11:25,760 Speaker 1: has to be a work ethic applied. I think the 1045 01:11:25,960 --> 01:11:30,400 Speaker 1: element that's missing from this generation is the work ethic 1046 01:11:30,680 --> 01:11:35,599 Speaker 1: of your superiors. That's not to knock what you're doing, 1047 01:11:35,840 --> 01:11:40,320 Speaker 1: but so many young people have benefited from online and 1048 01:11:41,439 --> 01:11:45,000 Speaker 1: struck it, hit it with some type of e commerce, 1049 01:11:45,080 --> 01:11:49,760 Speaker 1: little hustle and asking for money and go fund me 1050 01:11:49,920 --> 01:11:53,400 Speaker 1: pages and all these here. That has got everybody trying 1051 01:11:53,479 --> 01:11:58,479 Speaker 1: to find that magical way for themselves. Nothing substitutes and 1052 01:11:58,680 --> 01:12:04,519 Speaker 1: replaces hard work. There is no elevator to the top. 1053 01:12:05,280 --> 01:12:08,920 Speaker 1: You have to take the stairs. I wish I could 1054 01:12:08,960 --> 01:12:12,800 Speaker 1: get young people to understand, man, that if you could 1055 01:12:12,840 --> 01:12:17,840 Speaker 1: take this technical savviness that you have and this technical 1056 01:12:17,920 --> 01:12:22,679 Speaker 1: advancements that you have and put my generation's work ethic 1057 01:12:22,760 --> 01:12:27,160 Speaker 1: with it, this would be an unstoppable generation. But it's 1058 01:12:27,240 --> 01:12:32,599 Speaker 1: too many, far too many trying to trying to hit 1059 01:12:32,680 --> 01:12:37,200 Speaker 1: it rich quick look for the next wonder moment online 1060 01:12:37,880 --> 01:12:39,960 Speaker 1: when you waste a lot of time when you could 1061 01:12:40,000 --> 01:12:42,559 Speaker 1: be just putting in some serious working and making yourself 1062 01:12:42,600 --> 01:12:49,640 Speaker 1: some real money. That's my advice. I mean, that's what 1063 01:12:49,800 --> 01:12:52,400 Speaker 1: I'm learning from these young people. Man. And like God, 1064 01:12:52,800 --> 01:12:56,080 Speaker 1: even in my own children, you know, they always got 1065 01:12:56,160 --> 01:12:58,400 Speaker 1: these bright ideas, but then at the end of the day, 1066 01:12:58,439 --> 01:13:00,680 Speaker 1: I'll tell them, hey, look y'all, you can have these 1067 01:13:00,760 --> 01:13:03,479 Speaker 1: great ideas and I'm gonna support it, but you can 1068 01:13:03,560 --> 01:13:06,120 Speaker 1: have to put some work with this thing, and you 1069 01:13:06,160 --> 01:13:08,679 Speaker 1: can stop thinking. You find to strike a bitch next 1070 01:13:08,880 --> 01:13:12,960 Speaker 1: next week, one of my kids told me I'm gonna 1071 01:13:13,000 --> 01:13:18,360 Speaker 1: make eighty million dollars this year. The child who what 1072 01:13:18,960 --> 01:13:22,880 Speaker 1: I said? It's February, I know, but I'm fitting to 1073 01:13:22,960 --> 01:13:27,519 Speaker 1: sign some deals. Okay, all right, and then you and 1074 01:13:28,040 --> 01:13:37,200 Speaker 1: can I sign them too? Well, needless to say, it's 1075 01:13:37,280 --> 01:13:39,720 Speaker 1: not working out that way, But I mean it's good 1076 01:13:39,800 --> 01:13:43,160 Speaker 1: to have ambitions and everything, but some of these unrealistic 1077 01:13:43,320 --> 01:13:47,080 Speaker 1: timelines are bit. Look, it's okay to make eighty million, 1078 01:13:47,400 --> 01:13:49,760 Speaker 1: but understand what I've learned, it take a long time, 1079 01:13:49,840 --> 01:13:54,280 Speaker 1: make a lot of money and keep it. Where's the 1080 01:13:54,439 --> 01:13:58,960 Speaker 1: disconnect between our generation and their generation and the hard 1081 01:13:59,080 --> 01:14:04,679 Speaker 1: work aspect? Well, it's just you've seen so many people 1082 01:14:05,040 --> 01:14:08,240 Speaker 1: hit it. But that's all only the ones they highlight. 1083 01:14:08,960 --> 01:14:11,880 Speaker 1: They don't, they don't highlight the failures. Instagram is the 1084 01:14:12,000 --> 01:14:15,560 Speaker 1: highlight reel of people's life. I did this, I did that, 1085 01:14:15,720 --> 01:14:18,360 Speaker 1: I did this idea that let's come back and talk 1086 01:14:18,360 --> 01:14:20,360 Speaker 1: about it because there's some more to this. All right. 1087 01:14:20,439 --> 01:14:23,800 Speaker 1: It is National Auntie and Uncle Day. We'll talk more, 1088 01:14:24,479 --> 01:14:27,839 Speaker 1: uh from Uncle Steve, and get more of his advice 1089 01:14:28,240 --> 01:14:34,960 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to show, all right, Steve, 1090 01:14:35,080 --> 01:14:38,200 Speaker 1: we were just talking about National Uncle and Auntie Day. 1091 01:14:38,240 --> 01:14:40,800 Speaker 1: You were giving our millennials and our gen xes out 1092 01:14:40,840 --> 01:14:44,960 Speaker 1: there some advice to your nieces and nephews and a 1093 01:14:45,160 --> 01:14:48,920 Speaker 1: great generation, a great generation. And I applaud them like 1094 01:14:49,040 --> 01:14:53,040 Speaker 1: I say, I commend them for being tech savvy, and 1095 01:14:53,160 --> 01:14:55,760 Speaker 1: I really commend them for this, for spearheading this Black 1096 01:14:55,800 --> 01:14:59,360 Speaker 1: Lives Matter movement because it's been the most relevant movement 1097 01:14:59,720 --> 01:15:04,280 Speaker 1: for advancement of people of color since Civil Rights movement. 1098 01:15:04,720 --> 01:15:07,960 Speaker 1: I've never seen anything like it in these young people, athletes, 1099 01:15:08,400 --> 01:15:13,160 Speaker 1: everybody's involved. Man, They've got some young leaders out there 1100 01:15:14,200 --> 01:15:18,080 Speaker 1: that's female and male, and I think that's new. I 1101 01:15:18,439 --> 01:15:20,439 Speaker 1: think it's day of a gifted group. I think the 1102 01:15:20,680 --> 01:15:26,519 Speaker 1: disconnect that I see is because this generation only shows 1103 01:15:26,560 --> 01:15:30,000 Speaker 1: the highlight reels of people's life, and it has people 1104 01:15:30,040 --> 01:15:34,400 Speaker 1: who don't understand that these highlights reel are merely highlights. 1105 01:15:34,760 --> 01:15:37,880 Speaker 1: That there are hundreds of millions of people who don't 1106 01:15:38,000 --> 01:15:41,240 Speaker 1: hit it one time, who ain't one hit wonders, and 1107 01:15:41,400 --> 01:15:44,760 Speaker 1: that don't have that birken bag that's not really their 1108 01:15:44,880 --> 01:15:48,960 Speaker 1: birken bag, that's not really their jet, that's not really 1109 01:15:49,080 --> 01:15:53,720 Speaker 1: their call, that's not really their skin. They got filters 1110 01:15:53,920 --> 01:15:57,200 Speaker 1: that's really not their waistline. And they got all these 1111 01:15:57,320 --> 01:16:00,080 Speaker 1: young people thinking that they got to go and you 1112 01:16:00,240 --> 01:16:02,800 Speaker 1: all it is and they can hit it quick. Yeah, 1113 01:16:02,800 --> 01:16:07,880 Speaker 1: there is no elevator to the top and that's what 1114 01:16:08,160 --> 01:16:10,519 Speaker 1: And I'm going to share another reason with you too. 1115 01:16:10,640 --> 01:16:13,880 Speaker 1: If we have chick okay, more advice from Uncle Steve, 1116 01:16:14,000 --> 01:16:17,519 Speaker 1: a national Uncle and Auntie Day right after this you're 1117 01:16:17,560 --> 01:16:23,439 Speaker 1: listening to, all right, this is National Uncle and Auntie Day. 1118 01:16:23,640 --> 01:16:26,320 Speaker 1: And we were just you know, just at Steve sweet 1119 01:16:26,400 --> 01:16:29,439 Speaker 1: with more advice from him to his nieces and nephews. 1120 01:16:29,560 --> 01:16:32,280 Speaker 1: Go ahead, Steve. Well, you know we've been talking about 1121 01:16:32,360 --> 01:16:35,560 Speaker 1: this generation and sometimes how we have a disconnect. And 1122 01:16:35,720 --> 01:16:38,640 Speaker 1: I've commended this generation and I'll do it again for 1123 01:16:38,760 --> 01:16:41,960 Speaker 1: being as tech savvy and as forward thinking and progressive 1124 01:16:42,120 --> 01:16:46,840 Speaker 1: as you all are, having made more wealthy people that 1125 01:16:47,000 --> 01:16:50,439 Speaker 1: I've seen come along in a long time, and also 1126 01:16:50,560 --> 01:16:53,120 Speaker 1: for Black Lives Matter movement, which has been the most 1127 01:16:53,160 --> 01:17:00,720 Speaker 1: significant movement since the Civil Rights. Here is a slight disconnect, 1128 01:17:01,160 --> 01:17:06,200 Speaker 1: and it is because your parents didn't have the knowledge 1129 01:17:06,240 --> 01:17:10,559 Speaker 1: of technology. It doesn't mean that they don't possess massive 1130 01:17:10,640 --> 01:17:14,560 Speaker 1: amounts of technology, because as technical as you are, we 1131 01:17:14,720 --> 01:17:17,400 Speaker 1: still got to get down to how to become successful, 1132 01:17:17,520 --> 01:17:19,680 Speaker 1: and as technical as you are, we still have to 1133 01:17:19,760 --> 01:17:23,280 Speaker 1: get down to how to gain life experiences. And some 1134 01:17:23,560 --> 01:17:28,240 Speaker 1: things will never ever change. And don't write older people 1135 01:17:28,439 --> 01:17:31,439 Speaker 1: off because they don't know how to go online and 1136 01:17:31,560 --> 01:17:34,439 Speaker 1: do the or they ain't got social media. Don't write 1137 01:17:34,520 --> 01:17:38,479 Speaker 1: them off like they are without value, because they bring 1138 01:17:38,560 --> 01:17:42,400 Speaker 1: a value to the tables that you can't really put online. 1139 01:17:42,560 --> 01:17:45,400 Speaker 1: Like I was talking about success, and like I'm talking 1140 01:17:45,439 --> 01:17:49,599 Speaker 1: about experience. You can't google success or experience. I don't 1141 01:17:49,680 --> 01:17:54,320 Speaker 1: care what you do. And all this older generation comes 1142 01:17:54,600 --> 01:17:59,639 Speaker 1: with something bad. They come with a work and work 1143 01:17:59,720 --> 01:18:03,519 Speaker 1: at and a wisdom and a know how and a fight. 1144 01:18:04,560 --> 01:18:06,800 Speaker 1: They know how to fight, they know how to see 1145 01:18:06,840 --> 01:18:11,680 Speaker 1: a task through. So I wish that young people, some 1146 01:18:11,960 --> 01:18:15,720 Speaker 1: young people would kind of remember that and be a 1147 01:18:15,800 --> 01:18:20,600 Speaker 1: little bit more respectful for that generation or to in 1148 01:18:20,760 --> 01:18:24,400 Speaker 1: front of you, and realize that a lot of those people, 1149 01:18:24,439 --> 01:18:27,680 Speaker 1: like the generation in front of me, paid the weighty. 1150 01:18:28,720 --> 01:18:31,080 Speaker 1: They paid the weight they made it possible for you 1151 01:18:31,200 --> 01:18:36,240 Speaker 1: to even have Look, man, I was talking to one 1152 01:18:36,320 --> 01:18:38,760 Speaker 1: of one of these people that worked for me. His 1153 01:18:38,880 --> 01:18:41,919 Speaker 1: little brother has never known anything but a black president 1154 01:18:42,200 --> 01:18:45,479 Speaker 1: and a black vice president. They've never known anything else. 1155 01:18:46,040 --> 01:18:51,719 Speaker 1: They don't know that him becoming president was a miracle. Yeah, 1156 01:18:55,320 --> 01:18:58,439 Speaker 1: And so you know, when you're born thinking this is 1157 01:18:58,479 --> 01:19:01,240 Speaker 1: the way it is, you don't have a real idea 1158 01:19:01,520 --> 01:19:07,720 Speaker 1: how it is got to be right that again, you 1159 01:19:07,960 --> 01:19:10,439 Speaker 1: don't have any idea how it is got to be 1160 01:19:10,640 --> 01:19:13,640 Speaker 1: because in order for something to be is, it's got 1161 01:19:13,760 --> 01:19:16,679 Speaker 1: to be. A war was now and that was was why. 1162 01:19:18,800 --> 01:19:21,880 Speaker 1: And that's what I wish they would always remember about 1163 01:19:21,920 --> 01:19:25,320 Speaker 1: that older generation. All Right, thank you Uncle Steve on 1164 01:19:25,479 --> 01:19:28,720 Speaker 1: this National Uncle and Auntie Day. All Right, we'll be 1165 01:19:28,840 --> 01:19:32,200 Speaker 1: back with our last break of the day and some 1166 01:19:32,360 --> 01:19:38,360 Speaker 1: closing remarks from everybody's favorite uncle Steve Harvey. But Tommy 1167 01:19:38,479 --> 01:19:42,040 Speaker 1: has some at forty nine minutes after right after this, 1168 01:19:44,560 --> 01:19:49,040 Speaker 1: you're listening to show. All Right, guys, here we are 1169 01:19:49,160 --> 01:19:52,320 Speaker 1: our last break of the day on this Monday. Yes, 1170 01:19:52,520 --> 01:19:56,240 Speaker 1: is the last break of the day. Full week of 1171 01:19:56,479 --> 01:20:05,160 Speaker 1: hard work, thank you God. Wow, a full week as 1172 01:20:05,200 --> 01:20:08,479 Speaker 1: we go into a full week of work as we 1173 01:20:08,680 --> 01:20:14,240 Speaker 1: go forth, as we go forward for a hard And 1174 01:20:14,600 --> 01:20:17,639 Speaker 1: this relates because Steve was just talking yes, yes, because 1175 01:20:17,680 --> 01:20:20,080 Speaker 1: he's right, the work, the work has to be done. 1176 01:20:21,560 --> 01:20:24,560 Speaker 1: Can I can I? Can I say something? You know, 1177 01:20:25,160 --> 01:20:27,599 Speaker 1: you got to say what I was gonna say. You're 1178 01:20:27,640 --> 01:20:30,400 Speaker 1: gonna say Happy National Uncle's Day. You're gonna say I 1179 01:20:30,880 --> 01:20:36,160 Speaker 1: say that, That's not what I No, No, you said it, 1180 01:20:36,240 --> 01:20:38,080 Speaker 1: But no, that's not what I was fence to say. Now, 1181 01:20:38,120 --> 01:20:40,760 Speaker 1: what I'm trying to say he gave some knowledge and 1182 01:20:40,840 --> 01:20:43,800 Speaker 1: wisdom and all of that last correct, Yeah, okay, But 1183 01:20:43,880 --> 01:20:45,479 Speaker 1: I just want to say this. I just want to 1184 01:20:45,479 --> 01:20:47,840 Speaker 1: say this to a lot of y'all out there. Uh, 1185 01:20:48,360 --> 01:20:52,080 Speaker 1: get your own damn uncle. You know a lot of y'all. 1186 01:20:52,280 --> 01:20:55,080 Speaker 1: You know you want to lean on man, and how 1187 01:20:55,160 --> 01:20:57,679 Speaker 1: what I got? And and but look at your Where 1188 01:20:57,800 --> 01:20:59,880 Speaker 1: is your uncle? What the hell is he doing? Who? 1189 01:21:00,000 --> 01:21:03,679 Speaker 1: Who is your This is not yours? Find you somebody 1190 01:21:04,160 --> 01:21:07,960 Speaker 1: your friend to look up to, Okay, find that you 1191 01:21:08,040 --> 01:21:10,680 Speaker 1: don't have that where you're trifling ass uncle, that you 1192 01:21:10,760 --> 01:21:13,080 Speaker 1: don't have what you know? What is he doing? He's 1193 01:21:13,120 --> 01:21:15,840 Speaker 1: not giving you advice, he's not showing you, encourage you 1194 01:21:15,880 --> 01:21:17,880 Speaker 1: how to make it through life. He's not showing you anything. 1195 01:21:18,120 --> 01:21:21,759 Speaker 1: And that's why you won't. Man. But you can't have that, Okay, 1196 01:21:22,000 --> 01:21:29,200 Speaker 1: and you can't. Yeah, every Yeah, go ahead, go ahead, Jake. 1197 01:21:29,600 --> 01:21:32,360 Speaker 1: Not only do you need another uncle, because that's not 1198 01:21:32,560 --> 01:21:35,920 Speaker 1: your damn uncle. Okay, it's not your damn don't be 1199 01:21:36,000 --> 01:21:39,800 Speaker 1: looking at the radio. It's just not your uncle. I said, 1200 01:21:40,040 --> 01:21:44,000 Speaker 1: don't look at the radio, So the realization is kicking in. 1201 01:21:44,400 --> 01:21:48,080 Speaker 1: It's not your uncle, okay, damn it. Not only that, 1202 01:21:48,840 --> 01:21:53,120 Speaker 1: he's not your rich friend. Okay, he he's my rich 1203 01:21:53,240 --> 01:21:58,719 Speaker 1: friend okay, not yours, not yours. And if you don't 1204 01:21:58,760 --> 01:22:06,479 Speaker 1: have one, then shame on you. Shame on you, my 1205 01:22:06,760 --> 01:22:09,439 Speaker 1: uncle and his rich friend. Okay, that's what it is. 1206 01:22:12,280 --> 01:22:15,240 Speaker 1: What is? What is? What is your uncle doing? What 1207 01:22:15,439 --> 01:22:18,320 Speaker 1: is your auntie doing? What? What are they doing? Okay, 1208 01:22:19,240 --> 01:22:22,559 Speaker 1: let's spot let's spot like that. What is your look 1209 01:22:22,600 --> 01:22:25,800 Speaker 1: at your life? Do you have a rich friend? My phone? 1210 01:22:26,439 --> 01:22:31,679 Speaker 1: Is that my phone? I'm the blame? Oh okay, okay, 1211 01:22:32,000 --> 01:22:45,240 Speaker 1: I don't have one, Jake, blame me, Tommy's okay? Cool? 1212 01:22:46,040 --> 01:22:51,120 Speaker 1: Who is yours? Who? What is yours doing? So tell me? 1213 01:22:51,240 --> 01:22:56,280 Speaker 1: People hate on you because Seves your uncle. Are you upset? 1214 01:22:57,000 --> 01:23:00,280 Speaker 1: But are you mad at me because you don't ain't 1215 01:23:00,320 --> 01:23:11,320 Speaker 1: doing it? Damn? What did you see Steve on? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, 1216 01:23:11,880 --> 01:23:14,560 Speaker 1: you think you because Steve on the Yes, he's on 1217 01:23:14,680 --> 01:23:26,559 Speaker 1: the yacht. And here's something, here's something right, here's somethingwhere 1218 01:23:26,640 --> 01:23:28,560 Speaker 1: we want you all to really know. This's what we 1219 01:23:28,640 --> 01:23:31,160 Speaker 1: want to know when you when you when you see 1220 01:23:31,280 --> 01:23:34,760 Speaker 1: us and you walk up on us, and you talk 1221 01:23:34,880 --> 01:23:39,400 Speaker 1: to us for about five minutes, and when you talk 1222 01:23:39,439 --> 01:23:42,439 Speaker 1: to us about five six minutes, and then you know, finally, 1223 01:23:42,880 --> 01:23:45,720 Speaker 1: after five or six minutes, we really get to why 1224 01:23:45,840 --> 01:23:48,840 Speaker 1: you walked up on us. Okay, then out of your back, 1225 01:23:48,920 --> 01:23:52,920 Speaker 1: out of somewhere, you pull out an envelope or book. Hey, 1226 01:23:53,000 --> 01:23:55,960 Speaker 1: can you get this to Steve? That's why you rolled 1227 01:23:56,080 --> 01:23:59,360 Speaker 1: up on me. No, I can't, I can't. I can't 1228 01:23:59,400 --> 01:24:03,519 Speaker 1: take your envelope, your book, your letter, your your chiki 1229 01:24:03,640 --> 01:24:06,040 Speaker 1: that you made for him. I can't take any of that. 1230 01:24:07,600 --> 01:24:13,400 Speaker 1: Don't bring me a damn thing to Steve. Okay, not nothing, 1231 01:24:13,600 --> 01:24:18,440 Speaker 1: not a cake, not a back cake. It's not an idea, 1232 01:24:19,160 --> 01:24:23,080 Speaker 1: not a peach cobbler. I'm not taking it. Get it 1233 01:24:23,160 --> 01:24:25,960 Speaker 1: out of her face. What Jay, we heard he likes 1234 01:24:26,040 --> 01:24:28,439 Speaker 1: red velvet? Would you could you get this to it? 1235 01:24:33,200 --> 01:24:35,840 Speaker 1: So Tommy, basically you want to tell people he's not 1236 01:24:36,040 --> 01:24:39,720 Speaker 1: your He's not. I mean, you're just this is just 1237 01:24:40,560 --> 01:24:42,760 Speaker 1: and you're not gonna get any new uncles. You're not so. 1238 01:24:43,000 --> 01:24:45,040 Speaker 1: I mean, you have what you have, you know, and 1239 01:24:45,120 --> 01:24:47,000 Speaker 1: you're stuck with what you have. But don't be mad 1240 01:24:47,080 --> 01:24:49,160 Speaker 1: at what I got. Don't be mad at what I got, 1241 01:24:49,240 --> 01:24:53,839 Speaker 1: but it's not out yours? Yes, can I say? Usually usually, 1242 01:24:54,640 --> 01:24:58,479 Speaker 1: you know, during this segment, Steve has closing remarks, your 1243 01:24:58,520 --> 01:25:03,160 Speaker 1: own closing, rich We're closing. But it's positive. It's usually 1244 01:25:03,720 --> 01:25:06,679 Speaker 1: this is positive. You should not go through life thinking 1245 01:25:06,760 --> 01:25:09,479 Speaker 1: this is Can I see why this is positive? Can 1246 01:25:09,520 --> 01:25:12,759 Speaker 1: I see what I'm listening? Because some people were thinking 1247 01:25:12,840 --> 01:25:15,320 Speaker 1: that that was their uncle too, it's not thank you. 1248 01:25:15,640 --> 01:25:18,400 Speaker 1: Some people are upset that they don't have a rich friend. 1249 01:25:18,760 --> 01:25:22,000 Speaker 1: You don't, so we don't orcher some things for that. Yeah, 1250 01:25:22,160 --> 01:25:25,840 Speaker 1: you know what, let's do this uncle? They do they surely, 1251 01:25:25,920 --> 01:25:28,759 Speaker 1: let's do this. Let's just have a day called Raggedy 1252 01:25:28,800 --> 01:25:31,400 Speaker 1: Ass Uncle Day. So they have been to celebrate the uncle. 1253 01:25:32,120 --> 01:25:38,400 Speaker 1: Then crate that day. Yeah, we're celebrating uncles and auntie 1254 01:25:39,000 --> 01:25:43,559 Speaker 1: national uncle and aunt and we'll add on poor ass 1255 01:25:43,720 --> 01:25:51,080 Speaker 1: Friends Day. Do you want to just yeah, I would 1256 01:25:51,120 --> 01:25:57,760 Speaker 1: like to say something thank you that Marjorie and I 1257 01:25:57,960 --> 01:26:01,760 Speaker 1: do accept being Uh, y'all's aren't an uncle. And we 1258 01:26:02,000 --> 01:26:05,040 Speaker 1: see y'all out there and we know y'all say, hey, uncle, 1259 01:26:05,080 --> 01:26:08,559 Speaker 1: Steve ain't Marger. We got it. We accept that it's 1260 01:26:08,640 --> 01:26:12,360 Speaker 1: part of it, and uh, that is good. But I 1261 01:26:12,640 --> 01:26:17,840 Speaker 1: but I ain't your damn friend, so quit. Don't ask 1262 01:26:17,960 --> 01:26:23,200 Speaker 1: me for nothing. Thank you very much. Well, Happy Nashville 1263 01:26:23,320 --> 01:26:26,720 Speaker 1: until uncle and untoday. Y'all have a great day, everybody 1264 01:26:38,080 --> 01:26:41,560 Speaker 1: for all Steve Every Contests. 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