WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: Match, Mix and Repeat

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<v Speaker 1>Second Date Updated.

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<v Speaker 2>Lately, we've been asking people on this segment to pull

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<v Speaker 2>up their apps and have them read off the other

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<v Speaker 2>person's dating profile just to get an idea of who

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<v Speaker 2>they are in a different kind of way.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, some of us just asking boring questions like who

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<v Speaker 3>are they?

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<v Speaker 1>Totally And I don't know if my co hosts really

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<v Speaker 1>like that strategy or not.

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<v Speaker 4>I do.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't ask whether you did.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just saying I didn't know, But I'm curious what

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<v Speaker 2>our audience thinks. So text into seventy five nine too,

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<v Speaker 2>tell us do you like us having them read stuff

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<v Speaker 2>off of the dating bios? And today we have Samantha

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<v Speaker 2>on the line. Samantha, are you cool if we did

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<v Speaker 2>that with you? Because I know some people think of

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<v Speaker 2>it as a little bit of an invasion of privacy.

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<v Speaker 2>I personally call it getting the juicy.

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<v Speaker 5>Beats, I think is the same thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you're down to spill some juice on the B

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<v Speaker 2>and J. Yeah, all right, go ahead, pull up the

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<v Speaker 2>guy's profile and tell us what's his name? Okay, you

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<v Speaker 2>can't do two things at once, Samantha.

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<v Speaker 5>I okay, And what app are we on? Can I

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<v Speaker 5>ask that?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, We're on hinge, I got it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Now splash some fresh squeezed Ian juice on us.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell us what's on his profile?

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<v Speaker 5>No, no, that's a different app.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just trying to get that. That's not okay. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess read what it says.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>So on his bio, his interests a comedy, hip hop,

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<v Speaker 4>and pizza.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, ye, he likes to laugh and he likes pizza.

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<v Speaker 2>He's a real rebel.

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<v Speaker 7>But at least it's not the opposite. He's like, I

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<v Speaker 7>like not laughing in vegetables. Then it'd be more boring.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good way to look at what else is

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<v Speaker 1>on there?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay. So later his profile, there's a prompt that says

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<v Speaker 4>I get way too excited about and he put birds birds?

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<v Speaker 3>Man?

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<v Speaker 5>Is he old? Is that why he said that you.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't need to be I am a bird watcher, and

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<v Speaker 2>I can tell you it's a hoot.

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<v Speaker 1>I think, yeah, Brooks laughing on the inside.

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<v Speaker 5>Wow, what did you think of that? Did you? Did

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<v Speaker 5>you like that he was into bird watching?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I like animals, So I was like, all right,

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<v Speaker 4>I guess we can do the birds.

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder if he's like me.

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<v Speaker 2>He knows how to spot a woodpecker or a sap

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<v Speaker 2>sucker bird jokes they're always good.

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<v Speaker 5>Is that a joke?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, whatever?

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<v Speaker 6>What else?

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<v Speaker 3>What else?

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<v Speaker 1>At himself?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so under the worst state idea I've ever had,

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<v Speaker 4>he wrote, getting bangs not good.

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<v Speaker 5>I thought it was a verb and that would have

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<v Speaker 5>been bang. They went and got haircuts together straight.

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<v Speaker 7>The guy he likes.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, at least he admitted that was a bad idea.

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<v Speaker 5>Does he still have bangs in his profile picture?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's good.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>So we starred messaging and it was just I don't know,

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<v Speaker 4>it was like really easy and natural with him.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh that's cool. I'll gend good pictures if you swipe

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<v Speaker 5>to that. What did you guys end up going to

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<v Speaker 5>do for your date?

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<v Speaker 4>We met at a bar for some drink.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, yeah, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't think a lot of people like me there though,

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<v Speaker 4>because they kept playing Mackelmore's shot like I'm gonna pop

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<v Speaker 4>sometas like on the jukebox.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah yeah, okay, you know that could just be a troll.

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<v Speaker 7>I have a friend they have Wi Fi jukeboxes now

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<v Speaker 7>yeah yeah, down the street from a bar, and he

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<v Speaker 7>will troll the bar and play.

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<v Speaker 5>Like mom or like, ok it did it? She was

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<v Speaker 5>singing it didn't sound like a troll.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I literally played it like ten times.

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<v Speaker 1>Whoa, it's a good song though it was?

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<v Speaker 8>It was.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I love that song. Like Ian thought it

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<v Speaker 4>was funny. He liked the song too.

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<v Speaker 3>He thought it was funny ten times. That's literally thirty

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<v Speaker 3>minutes of that song.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. Everyone else thought it was really annoying and was staring.

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<v Speaker 5>But I myself was this a highlight for you or

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<v Speaker 5>a low light?

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<v Speaker 4>It was a highlight because then he was really sweet

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<v Speaker 4>and he was like, well, can you like blame them

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<v Speaker 4>for staring at you when you look this good?

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<v Speaker 7>And sometimes it's nice to have that, like us against

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<v Speaker 7>the room.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a little bit cheesy, like pizza.

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<v Speaker 5>I like that, like you right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Did anything else happen? Was there some bird watching on

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<v Speaker 1>the state?

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<v Speaker 4>No bird watching?

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<v Speaker 1>See, that's why he is not coming back.

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<v Speaker 7>Not even pigeons.

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<v Speaker 1>He's going to be there's always an opportunity. But what

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<v Speaker 1>else happened?

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<v Speaker 6>So?

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<v Speaker 4>I know he paid him a compliment back, and I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, you're the only guy I'm interested in online.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh that's a statement. How did he respond?

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<v Speaker 6>Well?

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<v Speaker 4>He actually ended up kissing me while we were sitting

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<v Speaker 4>at the bars.

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<v Speaker 2>Like open mouth kiss or a peck.

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<v Speaker 3>It was a passion the kiss, I'm sure was it

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<v Speaker 3>a passionate kiss?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it was a good kiss.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay 'e so cute. This is all sounding really good.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you guys end the evening?

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<v Speaker 4>So it started getting late and he offered to walk

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<v Speaker 4>me home okay, and he gave me a piggyback ride

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<v Speaker 4>home and then again at my door, and then you.

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<v Speaker 5>Guys made out again at your door.

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<v Speaker 4>He said, Yeah, it was cute, but you've been texting

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<v Speaker 4>and trying to get a second date on the books,

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<v Speaker 4>and nothing's really been working with my schedule. And I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, please, don't think I'm blowing you off, because

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<v Speaker 4>I'm definitely not.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh wait, so you're worried that he thinks you're blowing

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<v Speaker 3>him off. It's not the other way around.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean it was like that originally, but then it

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<v Speaker 4>went so long and it took him like such a

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<v Speaker 4>long time to respond, and he finally said a day later, like, yeah, sorry,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think it's going to work.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh after you said please, like I'm not trying to

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<v Speaker 2>blow you off, he still was like never mind.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, So I'm like really confused. Why would he say

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<v Speaker 4>that he's not answering me anymore. So that's why I

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<v Speaker 4>reached out.

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<v Speaker 7>To you guys for that is like the telltale sign

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<v Speaker 7>of like I got back with my ex or I

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<v Speaker 7>met somebody else. Really nothing wrong, there's no red flags

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<v Speaker 7>at all. See.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that he thinks you're trying to blow him

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<v Speaker 3>off even though you said it, and he.

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<v Speaker 2>Wants to get ahead of it. He wants to be like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm rejecting you, You're not rejecting Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I think he thought that was just a pity text.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, let's see if he rejects us when we try

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<v Speaker 2>and call him. No guarantee he'll answer, can't.

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<v Speaker 7>Reject a burnex reject from bird.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna do it with your second date update next

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<v Speaker 1>hold on second date update.

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<v Speaker 2>Except for the fifteen straight Macklemore songs, we heard maybe

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<v Speaker 2>the best first date that we've heard on the show

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<v Speaker 2>in a long time, and we normally don't get this

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<v Speaker 2>where the guy piggybacks her home, kisses her on the doorstep,

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<v Speaker 2>and then for the next few days they both try

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<v Speaker 2>to figure out how to hang out again, and for

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<v Speaker 2>whatever reason, they just can't and it dissolves well, and.

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<v Speaker 5>He even says, like it's over.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not even gonna to pursue this anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>After trying it for so long.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know what, I call that the dating magic window,

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<v Speaker 2>because there's usually about forty eight hours after your first

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<v Speaker 2>date where you need to capitalize on that high feeling

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<v Speaker 2>and see each other again, or the spark goes away

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<v Speaker 2>and things just kind of fizzle out.

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<v Speaker 7>She did say she kind of took a while at first,

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<v Speaker 7>but then she clarified and said, Hey, I'm really sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been super busy.

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<v Speaker 7>I wasn't trying to ghost you or anything.

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<v Speaker 2>So maybe that's what it comes down to. Maybe things

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<v Speaker 2>just took too long and it fizzled. Is that what

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<v Speaker 2>you're thinking, Samantha, I have no idea.

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<v Speaker 4>I hope it's not that because I really liked him.

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<v Speaker 3>See I think you should hope it is that because

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<v Speaker 3>that is easy for us to fix.

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<v Speaker 5>You can refizzle unfizzled situation.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's just call in now.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I'm ready, Okay, here we go.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, Hey is this Ian?

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<v Speaker 6>It is?

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<v Speaker 2>I just want to say, one fellow bird watcher to another,

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<v Speaker 2>how's it going?

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<v Speaker 6>Man?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>I thought there was going to be like a bird

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning to you.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, that was it was a Dove bird watchers association.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Also, you're on the radio with Brooke and Jeffrey right now.

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<v Speaker 6>What.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm not sure if you listen to us.

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<v Speaker 7>But number one bird show in the country.

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<v Speaker 2>That is a verifiable fact. And we're also a show

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<v Speaker 2>that does something called a second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>You ever heard of that?

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not familiar.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, uh, you're about to be, because you're on one now.

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<v Speaker 2>We're trying to help out a one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 2>named Samantha, who you went out on a date with recently.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh is that ringing.

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<v Speaker 6>About several weeks ago?

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<v Speaker 2>Right? And the thing is, your date is a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit strange compared to most of the ones that we do,

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<v Speaker 2>because it actually sounded like a good time and then

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<v Speaker 2>afterwards you two were trying to set up another hangout.

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<v Speaker 2>But it sounds like maybe it took too long or

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<v Speaker 2>Samantha was too busy and the spark may have died off.

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<v Speaker 3>She said you guys were texting after your date and

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<v Speaker 3>that you were trying to plan something and then suddenly

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<v Speaker 3>you were just like, nah, I'm done.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, I mean, that's true, but like she started sending

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<v Speaker 9>like mixed messages, and like online dating's pretty tough as

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<v Speaker 9>it is, so I'm not into planning games and so.

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<v Speaker 1>Over what do you mean that she was sending mixed messages?

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<v Speaker 9>When you meet somebody going on a date, it's cool,

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<v Speaker 9>and like I understand like not checking your profile and

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<v Speaker 9>like actively like just sort of focusing on one person.

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<v Speaker 6>That's the way I am.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she said she told you that she didn't want

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<v Speaker 3>to date anybody else, that she was going to focus

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<v Speaker 3>on you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh right, and then and then right after that you

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<v Speaker 1>kissed her.

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<v Speaker 9>That's all true, and at the time, I like totally

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<v Speaker 9>believed it.

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<v Speaker 7>What happened to change?

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<v Speaker 9>Fun Right after the date, things were good, but like

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<v Speaker 9>we spent like a few days texting back and forth

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<v Speaker 9>trying to figure out when to hang out again. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 9>and like during that time, I told my friends I'd

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<v Speaker 9>sent a couple of photos saying, like, you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 9>going out with this two girl Samantha, like wish me luck, Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so you're that excited?

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, And they were like they couldn't have been more

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<v Speaker 9>excited for me. However, a couple of days later, one

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<v Speaker 9>of my good friends texted me, Hey, what was that

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<v Speaker 9>girl you went out with?

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<v Speaker 1>Is this her?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, wait, what did they send you?

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<v Speaker 9>What was the picture of Well, it was on a

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<v Speaker 9>different dating app that she had matched with him and

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<v Speaker 9>had reached out to him, not.

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<v Speaker 6>Knowing that he's my buddy.

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<v Speaker 9>And her profile photo on bumble is the photo of

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<v Speaker 9>the outfit she was wearing the night we went out,

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<v Speaker 9>in front of the bar we were at.

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<v Speaker 5>Did you take a picture.

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<v Speaker 3>Of her that night?

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<v Speaker 9>It must have been before our date because she was

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<v Speaker 9>by herself, but it was clearly the bar we were at.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh man, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>She must have looked really good that night. She had

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<v Speaker 2>to take that picture and posted on her Maybe she.

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<v Speaker 5>Came back after you guys like benefit of the doubt.

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<v Speaker 3>What if she just messaged you messaged your buddy after

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<v Speaker 3>you had told.

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<v Speaker 5>Her, no, I'm good, I'm gonna move on, remember, because

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<v Speaker 5>she said it wasn't working and you guys couldn't link

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<v Speaker 5>up on a date like she didn't say.

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<v Speaker 2>It created a new profile picture from the night that

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<v Speaker 2>they went out.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, she didn't say I'm your girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 5>She's still interested, but she said.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm the only You're the only guy I'm interested in.

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<v Speaker 5>Never say that to someone. Well maybe that was true in.

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<v Speaker 9>That moment, that's totally fine, but don't say that like

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<v Speaker 9>you're not interested, or that you're only interested in one person,

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<v Speaker 9>like do what you want? Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So now you feel like you were being deceived by her,

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<v Speaker 2>and I understand that because kind of we've been deceiving

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<v Speaker 2>you at the same time by not telling you.

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<v Speaker 1>Samantha's on the.

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<v Speaker 2>Other line what she's been listening, listening because.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm gonna you know, like I said, I don't what

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<v Speaker 6>I told you.

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<v Speaker 9>I'll tell her go ahead. Why would you tell somebody

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<v Speaker 9>that all you wanted to do was date this one

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<v Speaker 9>person and that they were the only one for you,

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<v Speaker 9>and then that day start a new dating profile from

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<v Speaker 9>the photo the night we were out.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a lot, Samantha say, Hi, there you go.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, now answer his twenty questions.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, this is really awkward.

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<v Speaker 5>Why did you say that?

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<v Speaker 7>Damn?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I really did like him and we were talking,

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<v Speaker 4>and I don't know, I feel like when you're on

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<v Speaker 4>those apps, you just keep your options open. But like

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<v Speaker 4>he was the only one I was actively talking to

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<v Speaker 4>like that and going on dates with an interest that's.

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<v Speaker 8>Rich, and you said something it was buddy back and

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<v Speaker 8>forth that she then matches with my buddy and then

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<v Speaker 8>tells him it's bumbles.

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<v Speaker 9>She had to reach out to him say that, hey,

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<v Speaker 9>let's go out. I mean I could, like, I'll send

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<v Speaker 9>you the screenshot of their conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe it was.

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<v Speaker 2>Like a button match or a butt texted that.

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<v Speaker 1>What happens, Samantha, give you a benefit of the doubt.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, to be fair, I wasn't having like any

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<v Speaker 4>serious conversation with him. It was very introductory and I

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<v Speaker 4>was trying to keep my options open, very light. I

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<v Speaker 4>was not going deep with anyone. I wanted to go

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<v Speaker 4>on a second date with him.

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<v Speaker 2>And her profile picture on hinges, the profile picture you

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<v Speaker 2>took on the dates with those other guys.

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<v Speaker 3>Come on, Samantha, and like I can see like she's

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<v Speaker 3>caught up in the moment.

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<v Speaker 5>She's really about you.

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<v Speaker 3>She says something that maybe is at one hundred percent true, right, Samantha,

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<v Speaker 3>But it's not like she's like outright cheating on you.

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<v Speaker 5>Man, it wasn't a red flag for me to play.

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<v Speaker 5>You're dating round?

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<v Speaker 3>Ye, yes, I.

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<v Speaker 7>Would like to match for fun.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good point.

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<v Speaker 2>Especially when you're feeling a little bit down, You're feeling

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<v Speaker 2>like you're rejected, and the second date isn't happening. You

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<v Speaker 2>want that confidence boost with one of his close friends.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh and I didn't know with his friend.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, let's not say that so bad.

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't know. I get caught.

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<v Speaker 3>It's what you mean by that, Samantha.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, in the spirit of saying things that might not

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<v Speaker 2>be one hundred percent true, would you like to go

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<v Speaker 2>out on another date?

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<v Speaker 9>I am not at all interested in going out.

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<v Speaker 6>Are you serious, Samantha? Like you're great and.

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<v Speaker 9>All, but I could never trust you. I mean literally

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<v Speaker 9>the night we went out, you created a new profiler.

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<v Speaker 6>In the next couple of.

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<v Speaker 9>Days, and like, I'll never be able to trust you again.

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<v Speaker 9>Like it's just a waste of both of our times.

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<v Speaker 5>It wasn't a new profile, you just update did her photo?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, come on, hail Mary, what if we send

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<v Speaker 2>you to the bird sanctuary together?

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<v Speaker 5>That's right.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't say no to birds?

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<v Speaker 6>What's the bird thing about? Why does that matter?

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<v Speaker 1>I thought you I thought you were into birds. Bro

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<v Speaker 1>on your profile.

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<v Speaker 5>Do you feel deceived, Jeffrey, you're lying to me.

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<v Speaker 1>I never want to talk to you A Jeffy.

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<v Speaker 6>This show ever

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