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Speaker 1: My fiance fell out of love with me and into

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Speaker 1: love with my best friend, and I love that. I

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Speaker 1: just nailed that. On November sixth, my boyfriend of ten

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Speaker 1: years and fiance told me he.

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Speaker 2: Had fallen out of love with me.

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Speaker 1: My heart shattered to pieces. But this comes from French

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Speaker 1: britch chick from our slash okay story times out about it.

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Speaker 2: We love that French brit britch chick, French frinch wick Oi.

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Speaker 1: But since then, my best friend of fifteen years was

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Speaker 1: my support in souling me, telling me all about how

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Speaker 1: this is a new life for me now and how

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Speaker 1: much funn'll have when I move out and into a

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Speaker 1: new place. Me and the ex are still living together

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Speaker 1: while I look for a new place. Got to love

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Speaker 1: the awkward living with your ex. And things have been okay.

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Speaker 1: We don't talk all that much, we keep to ourselves,

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Speaker 1: but it's friendly and we've even shared a few laughs.

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Speaker 1: A week after he broke up with me, he texted

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Speaker 1: me telling me he needed some space to clear his head,

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Speaker 1: so he would be spinning the night at a colleague's house.

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Speaker 2: The old colleague play.

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Speaker 1: We might grind evening on some hard work.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 1: This was on Monday, night. He didn't come home on

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Speaker 1: Tuesday either. Then on Wednesday, my best friend picked me

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Speaker 1: up so I could spend the night at her place.

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Speaker 1: We've been doing that for a month now, a month

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Speaker 1: at his colleague what. So he'll stay at his colleagues

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Speaker 1: Monday Tuesday. Then I will leave on Wednesday and return Thursday.

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Speaker 1: So all in all, we're not seeing each other that much.

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Speaker 1: They're they're almost missing.

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Speaker 2: I have the apartment.

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Speaker 1: Let's just live in our friend's houses right. Then, on

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Speaker 1: Friday of last week, he had a work function. He

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Speaker 1: had a work function to go to. It didn't last

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Speaker 1: as long as he thought it would, so afterwards he

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Speaker 1: texted me telling me he's going out for drinks with

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Speaker 1: his work colleid we're making it up. We're adding more

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Speaker 1: people a bunch now. Then he says he's too wasted

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Speaker 1: at his usual colleagues place. He didn't come home on

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Speaker 1: Saturday either, continued, couldn't be bothered to drive, having too

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Speaker 1: much fun playing video games. I was feeling very lonely

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Speaker 1: at this point, so I messaged my best friend to

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Speaker 1: get some support. He said, if he doesn't come home,

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Speaker 1: tomorrow text me and I will come pick you up.

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Speaker 1: He did. He did come home on the next day, Sunday.

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Speaker 1: Now this week was a bit different. He didn't spend

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Speaker 1: Monday night at his colleague's place. So previous week like

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Speaker 1: all week he's gone, He's staying in colleagues. Now he's

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Speaker 1: now he's staying at home.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. On Tuesday, after work.

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Speaker 1: He messaged me telling me that he would be a

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Speaker 1: bit late because he was going to do his Christmas

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Speaker 1: shopping Wednesday. I went to my friends as usual, came

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Speaker 1: back Thursday, and that evening we exchanged Christmas gifts.

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Speaker 2: They're still there exit, there's still exchange. I have so

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Speaker 2: many questions, so we have a lot forever his breakdown there.

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Speaker 1: I knew he was leaving to go spend the holidays

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Speaker 1: with his family on Friday after work and I needed

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Speaker 1: something out of his bag, But he was going to

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Speaker 1: he left.

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Speaker 2: Movie.

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Speaker 1: So I went and got it from his back, went

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Speaker 1: into his stuff. Along with what I was looking for,

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Speaker 1: I found overseas o reseat of what you might ask, Well,

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Speaker 1: it was for two adult and one child tickets to

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Speaker 1: an aquarium. It was dated the day of his work

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Speaker 1: function at the time. He told me he was in

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Speaker 1: a bar. But basically he's at an aquarium with a

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Speaker 2: Like it's like you lie about going to a bar,

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Speaker 2: like almost the opposite. Maybe it's a bar at the

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Speaker 2: other it's like, oh, like normally you're like, oh, sorry,

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Speaker 2: I was at the aquarium, you know, doing a wholesome stuff,

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Speaker 2: flying a receipt for like Engine and Tonics. Like it's like, nah,

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Speaker 2: I was getting too drunk to drive it home, and

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Speaker 2: it's like, no, I just want to look at the dolphins.

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Speaker 2: I immediately sent a message from my best friend.

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Speaker 1: Was he seeing someone there was? Again there was a

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Speaker 1: child on the tickets. She expressed surprise at this as well.

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Speaker 1: Maybe it was nothing, she said, maybe there was a

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Speaker 1: logical explanation. After a few messages back and forth, I

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Speaker 1: decided to go back and this time empty his bag

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Speaker 1: on the counter really quick. Yeah, uh ahole or not?

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Speaker 1: Wrong move or not always the wrong move, always the

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Speaker 1: wrong move right all. Don't go to the stuff, It's

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Speaker 1: always questioned, first, search through stuff later.

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Speaker 2: Yes, always talk, always it's always and to be honest,

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Speaker 2: like I feel like it for me personally, really takes

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Speaker 1: To get to the point of asking to even go

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Speaker 1: through the stuff. I feel like you learned so much

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Speaker 1: by their body language.

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Speaker 2: Et cetera from their response. But I digress.

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Speaker 1: He always just shoves receipts in his bag, so they

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Speaker 1: were actually quite a few of them. I found another

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Speaker 1: dated for the same day from a grocery store where

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Speaker 1: he had bought some baby cereal. Then I found out

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Speaker 1: from uh. Then I found another from Tuesday at lunchtime,

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Speaker 1: the day of the Christmas shopping, and he had texted

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Speaker 1: me that he was eating in McDonald's alone, but the

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Speaker 1: receipt was for a restaurant, again with a child's menu included.

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Speaker 2: This is some slew thing.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what it is, but when me and

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Speaker 1: Anthony read stories, we get FBI and every.

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Speaker 2: Op works for the CIA, and it's like and it

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Speaker 2: is one of those things. Ends versus means, yeah, now

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Speaker 2: we have the ends where you know, we have the data,

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Speaker 2: you know what, we're off the deep ends. We're off

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Speaker 2: with depends And I just don't understand. They already broke up, Yes,

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Speaker 2: broke up like, why, Yes, I literally forgot he had

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Speaker 2: her to write to go to the aquarium with whoever

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Speaker 2: he wants. They've been broken up. Yeah, okay, nuts, that

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Speaker 2: makes it the searching way, way worse, way worse then.

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Speaker 2: The last receipt that I found, and this is when

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Speaker 2: it all kicked into place, was for a closed shop

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Speaker 2: day to the day of the work thing. The loyalty

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Speaker 2: account accredited UH for these purchases was listed as best

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Speaker 2: friend's name. At this point, I'm feeling sick, and I

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Speaker 2: tell her what I found, and then it all comes out. Wait,

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Speaker 2: so who's doubt? Pause? Who you so? Who's best friend?

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Speaker 1: The best friend that he's been staying with on Monday

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Speaker 2: Is not Yeah, her best friend? That would be crazy,

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Speaker 2: I believe So Okay, I believe so, yes, because why

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Speaker 2: wouldn't it be colleague? Why wouldn't you have used colleague

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Speaker 2: in that parenthesis? That is true? Okay, anyway, that is weird,

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Speaker 2: but we will find out shortly.

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Speaker 1: Yes, so it all comes out. It was her and

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Speaker 1: her baby, the aquarium, the groceries, the restaurant, the clothes shop.

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Speaker 1: For over a month and a half now, they have

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Speaker 1: been secretly meeting up. She said she had promised that

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Speaker 1: she wouldn't abandon him in the breakup, and instead of

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Speaker 1: telling me that, decided to lie and scheme so many

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Speaker 1: effing lies.

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Speaker 2: She was the work colleague, So that at least confirms

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Speaker 2: the person is the work colleague. That the aquarium and

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Speaker 2: all these your seats are coming from again.

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Speaker 1: And this is not one thousand percent clear, but it

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Speaker 1: seems all after they broke up.

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Speaker 2: Uh huh.

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Speaker 1: So he was going to her house on Monday, leaving

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Speaker 1: hours later she was picking me up to replace him.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna read that back one more time. Yeah, so

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Speaker 1: he was going to her house on Monday.

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Speaker 2: The best friend is the work colleague, what I'm saying,

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Speaker 2: and so she can front Oh my god, wait, so

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Speaker 2: she's been she's a double agent. Wow, she's a double agent.

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Speaker 3: Bro.

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Speaker 2: So when she was like, oh if he doesn't if

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Speaker 2: he doesn't come me, I'll come pick you up.

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Speaker 1: Yes, that's the only time that she's available because they

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Speaker 1: were both gone at separate times.

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Speaker 2: Dude, dude, sleeper agent. I mean.

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Speaker 1: The double timing is insanity. Oh my god. So reading

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Speaker 1: it back one more time, so he was going to

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Speaker 1: her house on Monday, than leaving from there on Wednesday,

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Speaker 1: then barely a few hours later picking me up to

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Speaker 1: replace him. So just swapping between OP and her ex.

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Speaker 1: When I text her saying how lonely I was, he

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Speaker 1: was there when she said she hadn't heard any news

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Speaker 1: from him. They were in daily contact. When she said,

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Speaker 1: if he doesn't come home, tell me and I'll pick

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Speaker 2: That's all the red line.

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Speaker 1: The board is going crazy, got that little red yarn

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Speaker 1: all the way around.

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Speaker 2: So many red flag yarn. Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: She said she didn't have the courage to cut him off.

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Speaker 1: She said she hoped it would just all go away.

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Speaker 1: But that's another lie, since it was ongoing as recently

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Speaker 1: as a few days ago, fifteen years of friendship, and

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Speaker 1: the support of friend, she was lying and scheming with him.

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Speaker 1: She said nothing happened between them, which I'm stupidly inclined

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Speaker 1: have been. I've never felt pain like this. She was

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Speaker 1: gonna to stop here real quick. Holy moly, Yeah, holy moly,

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm floored.

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Speaker 2: Well so many things. Yes. First, well back in the beginning,

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Speaker 2: the middle of the story, when she was like, I

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Speaker 2: feel so lonely, can you like I need this person?

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Speaker 2: It seems odd? And then she just mentioned it my

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Speaker 2: only friend, Like how do you not have other friend?

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Speaker 2: I mean, this is just an aside, like your only friend.

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Speaker 2: You put so much weight on this person. They were

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Speaker 2: married for ten years, friends for fifteen, but they've all

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Speaker 2: been a part of this picture. I don't know how

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Speaker 2: long they were colleagues or if that colleagues thing was

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Speaker 2: a total lie, right right, I think I think was

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Speaker 2: total I think it was a front. Yeah, they're not

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Speaker 2: also colleague. Literally, they basically are all just married to

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Speaker 2: each other. They're married and divorced all together. Yes, it's

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Speaker 2: just so it's yeah, it's tough because are you not allowed? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Are you not? Is that off limits? That's a question.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so I think so before we were like, okay, look,

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Speaker 1: you guys have clearly broken up, it is okay for him. Hey, look,

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Speaker 1: maybe it's too early, or it's it's very early, Like

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Speaker 1: not a great move to like immediately go for someone else.

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Speaker 1: But it's like, okay, you've already split the relationship, okay,

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Speaker 1: and you and you haven't explicitly said, hey, I we

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Speaker 1: shouldn't see other people. You know, they haven't like laid

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Speaker 1: that boundary with each other.

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Speaker 2: But now that it comes out that it's the friend

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Speaker 2: and her ex went after the best friend and agreed

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Speaker 2: to like date her.

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Speaker 1: Basically he's basically dating both of these people. She's basically

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Speaker 1: dating both of these people.

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Speaker 2: I think.

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Speaker 2: Anthony, as humans, yes, as there is a gift and

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Speaker 2: I asked my friends nanny out. Now my friend is furious,

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Speaker 2: Always good to get the third party. Friend group got

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Speaker 2: Forty three year fourteen year age, which is not nothing's

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Speaker 2: who just hired a nanny and OPI is ascid amount

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Speaker 2: I feel like it might be split. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: What about when you both be about work? Your friend said, no,

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Speaker 2: You're more than twenty percent older than her. Another popular

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Speaker 2: one is half your age plus seven. She's still too

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Speaker 2: you don't need to go on the date. You know

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Speaker 2: Yeah, let's go OPI she hasn't bother, she isn't bothered

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Speaker 2: were too you know. The friend was like, hey, don't

436
00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:22,480
Speaker 2: do this red line. Yeah, they react happen very strong.

437
00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:26,040
Speaker 1: And then and then OP was like, Nah, screw you,

438
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Speaker 1: I'm doing it anyways. I'm not gonna pass up. Also

439
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Speaker 1: the pass up, I want that. Yeah, I wasn't that

440
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Speaker 1: twenty something good stuff.

441
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Speaker 2: Now I'm no longer and I'm stuck over here on yourself.

442
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Speaker 2: Dang it, I agree with you. I can't. I can't

443
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Speaker 2: so here I am. Here.

444
00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:49,760
Speaker 1: We go, see what I come up with.

445
00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:54,680
Speaker 2: I'm the father mentioned in this post. What Oh, friends

446
00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:58,600
Speaker 2: find post and respond, we get the other person's POV.

447
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Speaker 2: All these are the best stories. Oh, this is juicy.

448
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Speaker 2: We're looking.

449
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Speaker 1: Wow, you are the a hole.

450
00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:10,479
Speaker 2: I I am the father the father Luke, I am

451
00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:14,160
Speaker 2: the father mentioned in this post. And I can't believe

452
00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:19,400
Speaker 2: you got the stones to do this cons the Cohones.

453
00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:24,120
Speaker 2: He sent me the post to gloat. I guess at

454
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Speaker 2: some point it was going his way. Wow. Most of

455
00:25:28,640 --> 00:25:31,240
Speaker 2: what he said is true. My wife and I had

456
00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:35,480
Speaker 2: a baby six months ago and hired a nanny. He

457
00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:39,919
Speaker 2: is not my baby's godfather. We are not friends, and

458
00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:43,600
Speaker 2: he did not ask Ella for her number. He took

459
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Speaker 2: it from the baby book my wife put together in

460
00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:54,440
Speaker 2: case of emergencies. It was, how do you feel over there?

461
00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:59,639
Speaker 2: How do you feel? No, you're so fine. It's an emergency, baby,

462
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Speaker 2: I got I gotta get to you. I gotta Dane

463
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Speaker 2: untrust so hard. I gotta be the firefighter. Yeah, I

464
00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:16,120
Speaker 2: gotta put this out with my Oh God, not the house. Wow.

465
00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:18,520
Speaker 2: I am defending the undefendable right now.

466
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Speaker 1: Wow, I'm yeah.

467
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Speaker 2: Somebody's got to do it. Somebody's got Everybody deserves the

468
00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:29,520
Speaker 2: right to affair and God expedient. Try. Okay, here we go.

469
00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:33,280
Speaker 2: The only reason he was at my house is because

470
00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:38,840
Speaker 2: my wife feels sorry and invites him over for dinner

471
00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:42,640
Speaker 2: sometimes for what it's worth. Ella is neither twenty nine

472
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Speaker 2: nor interested.

473
00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:46,679
Speaker 1: But how old is she?

474
00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:52,000
Speaker 2: So everything is wrong. She was being polite because you

475
00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:54,480
Speaker 2: told her we were best friends and she wanted to

476
00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:58,679
Speaker 2: make a good impression. I've told her to block his

477
00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:03,000
Speaker 2: number and every every social media account I know he

478
00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:07,480
Speaker 2: has and apologize profusely because I don't want her to

479
00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:12,920
Speaker 2: quit Jake, because I can do a piss poor job

480
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:16,879
Speaker 2: of picking an alternate name too. You are the a hole.

481
00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:21,240
Speaker 2: You come near my family again, and I'll lay crap

482
00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:26,439
Speaker 2: out for the world to see. I'm I'm ready for

483
00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:27,360
Speaker 2: There needs to be an update.

484
00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:29,000
Speaker 3: Wait, wait, do the relevant comments?

485
00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:36,440
Speaker 2: Relevant comments? Chu chin choo choo says how old is she? Then?

486
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:41,880
Speaker 2: Now I've gotta now twenty four? This just barely This

487
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:46,720
Speaker 2: just makes everything so much worse. Yeah, I would never

488
00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:49,639
Speaker 2: I would never pass up an opportunity get in the

489
00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:53,679
Speaker 2: bands of a twenty three four year old girl and

490
00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:55,840
Speaker 2: like what you what you've been saying the past three stories.

491
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:57,960
Speaker 2: The fact that he lied about the agent made it

492
00:27:57,960 --> 00:28:02,760
Speaker 2: older means he knows it's weird. Hide dings, hiding it

493
00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:05,760
Speaker 2: for a reason. Wow, yeah, he probably pays like, okay,

494
00:28:05,800 --> 00:28:07,960
Speaker 2: what's the number that's still in the twenty is the

495
00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:11,840
Speaker 2: maybe okay, I'll do the max number twenty nine. The story, Well,

496
00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:14,959
Speaker 2: you know what, In his defense, he is a method actor.

497
00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:18,680
Speaker 2: He's a method actress who's who is recording a documentary

498
00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:22,080
Speaker 2: on exposing creeps and so he is playing a role

499
00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:28,840
Speaker 2: in a method acting way living art. And yeah, that's

500
00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:32,399
Speaker 2: my defense. I act. Yeah it's Brittany Beach. I also

501
00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:36,200
Speaker 2: couldn't have seen this coming. This is nuts, Okay, update

502
00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:43,360
Speaker 2: update from Op's friend. I saw screenshots of the messages

503
00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:47,040
Speaker 2: from Jake, and to say I was disgusted is a

504
00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:53,360
Speaker 2: massive understatement. He bragged about wealth. I'm fairly certain he

505
00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 2: doesn't have. How close we all are, and how he

506
00:28:56,520 --> 00:29:00,080
Speaker 2: introduced me to my wife. We were married when I met.

507
00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:02,760
Speaker 3: AD.

508
00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:07,280
Speaker 2: He's just a pathological liar. He also hinted at having

509
00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:10,040
Speaker 2: influence over me because he's like an older brother. Isn't

510
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:13,840
Speaker 2: he younger anyway? To me? And suggested to Ella that

511
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:17,480
Speaker 2: he could convince me to give her special privileges and

512
00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:26,400
Speaker 2: a raise. By the way, you can catch us live

513
00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:33,480
Speaker 2: on YouTube every day at their kpm PSD double click profile.

514
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:37,680
Speaker 2: Do that. Wow, I was sure. I assured Ellen none

515
00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:40,320
Speaker 2: of this was true and that we were very happy

516
00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:44,000
Speaker 2: to work with her. I also called Jake myself to

517
00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:47,240
Speaker 2: rip him a new one, and he insisted Ella was

518
00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:51,240
Speaker 2: interested and that she'd lied her age to him, that

519
00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:55,280
Speaker 2: they've been flirting for weeks. I told him I'd read

520
00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:58,200
Speaker 2: the messages and Ella told me the truth. He got

521
00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:01,880
Speaker 2: quiet and said he hadn't done anything wrong and that

522
00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:08,080
Speaker 2: he had to go. Sorry, sorry, mister president. Yeah, of course,

523
00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:11,560
Speaker 2: Please excuse me. I'm doing some more good stuff. I'm

524
00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:18,600
Speaker 2: doing just Tina from the other emergency babysitting book. Sorry, emergency,

525
00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:26,240
Speaker 2: what's your emergency? Raz Wow? Okay, Okay, he's been blocked everywhere.

526
00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:29,600
Speaker 2: I'm also paying for Ella to change her number to

527
00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:32,600
Speaker 2: make doubly sure she can get he can't get through her. Okay,

528
00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:36,840
Speaker 2: that seems can't you just block? Wouldn't you not want

529
00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:37,880
Speaker 2: to change your phone number?

530
00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:40,520
Speaker 1: It seems like a lot better. Maybe a lot I

531
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Speaker 1: have many I don't know.

532
00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:47,240
Speaker 2: I guess if you're really worried, because then other people

533
00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:49,280
Speaker 2: who might not be blowing anyway. It seems like a

534
00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:53,200
Speaker 2: lot of work, not the most exciting citing. I can

535
00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:55,440
Speaker 2: imagine some of you thought he'd turn up my door

536
00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:57,880
Speaker 2: again or something like the movies. I'm setting out of

537
00:30:57,920 --> 00:30:59,960
Speaker 2: this account. I was definitely planning on the leading it,

538
00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:02,880
Speaker 2: which is how I found the request for an update.

539
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:06,960
Speaker 2: But here you go. I'm glad you enjoyed my life

540
00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:13,280
Speaker 2: turning into a waking nightmare for a day. Also, if

541
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:20,840
Speaker 2: you Jake, take it shake yeah. Jake can go do

542
00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:24,840
Speaker 2: something bad yeah, or have something bad happened to he

543
00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:28,200
Speaker 2: can have an emergency and no one from the baby

544
00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:33,000
Speaker 2: book will help him. Yeah, okay, nobody, no emergency numbers left,

545
00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:36,560
Speaker 2: no babysitters to bail you out anymore. What wow? I

546
00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:39,880
Speaker 2: enjoyed that story. You know I would have if I

547
00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:42,840
Speaker 2: wasn't intending it in Ale. You know I was.

548
00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:44,760
Speaker 1: I was locked in. I couldn't leave.

549
00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:49,880
Speaker 2: It was just like a Everything was false. Yes, but

550
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Speaker 2: the fact I think the awesome part of the stories

551
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Speaker 2: that the guy found the reddit we we love we

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Speaker 2: love a good reddit sleuth.

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Speaker 2: Speaking of chef's kiss stories.

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Speaker 2: I thought living with my friend would be amazing.

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Speaker 1: But actually it's a real life nightmare.

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Speaker 1: Closely, that's true. The only one that can't be evaded.

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Speaker 1: So this might sound harsh, but she is honestly the

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Speaker 1: strangest person I've ever met in my life. Then why

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Speaker 1: did you choose to live with them.

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Speaker 2: I digress.

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Speaker 1: My friend is going through a divorce and got kicked

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653
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Speaker 1: not only just it's also her mom's house that she's

654
00:36:57,040 --> 00:36:59,919
Speaker 1: bringing her into. Ooh, even dice here, my mom got

655
00:36:59,880 --> 00:37:01,640
Speaker 1: it would be a great idea to have a roommate,

656
00:37:02,040 --> 00:37:04,480
Speaker 1: especially a friend forty female.

657
00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:11,200
Speaker 2: But too, this is the mom's friend. Yes it.

658
00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:16,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's the mom's friend, my friend. We might be

659
00:37:16,480 --> 00:37:19,040
Speaker 1: going it's maybe flip flopping a little bit, but it

660
00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:21,920
Speaker 1: is the friend of the mom maybe also the friend

661
00:37:22,200 --> 00:37:24,560
Speaker 1: of op and they both kind of mutually decided to

662
00:37:25,120 --> 00:37:30,560
Speaker 1: give her spot. It has turned into a disaster. I

663
00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:33,279
Speaker 1: know now why. She's going through a divorce and got

664
00:37:33,360 --> 00:37:34,840
Speaker 1: kicked out of her dad's place.

665
00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:36,919
Speaker 2: She called the cops.

666
00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:39,000
Speaker 1: On the neighbor for telling her she leaves her car

667
00:37:39,080 --> 00:37:43,239
Speaker 1: running overnight. Sounds like a favor. I told her she

668
00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:45,799
Speaker 1: leaves her car running overnight and she's had to turn

669
00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:48,960
Speaker 1: it off multiple times. Then she complains that her car

670
00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:51,719
Speaker 1: is constantly running out of her I just don't know

671
00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:52,520
Speaker 1: what happens.

672
00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:54,239
Speaker 2: Let me tell you. I just you know.

673
00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:58,319
Speaker 1: I wake up here that morning and hey, hey, I'm

674
00:37:58,320 --> 00:37:59,200
Speaker 1: gonna call the cossany.

675
00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:02,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, don't try to help me, don't you. There.

676
00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:06,759
Speaker 1: She's constantly turning the fans off and the thermostat up

677
00:38:06,880 --> 00:38:10,279
Speaker 1: because she's cold. My family runs hot and we like

678
00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:13,879
Speaker 1: to have our house stayed around sixty five degrees Fahrenheim's chilly,

679
00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:16,839
Speaker 1: but she keeps touching this thermostat and setting it up

680
00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:17,800
Speaker 1: to seventy five.

681
00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:23,320
Speaker 2: I'm there. Wow. She's unloaded the dirty dishwashers seven times,

682
00:38:23,360 --> 00:38:29,120
Speaker 2: despite us banning her from the dishes. She also doesn't

683
00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:32,080
Speaker 2: know how to properly load a dishwasher so the dishes

684
00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:36,759
Speaker 2: actually get clean. She overloads it every single time. I

685
00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:39,680
Speaker 2: could not, Wow, I could not do this. That's fat.

686
00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:43,040
Speaker 1: I have a horse at a boarding stable and it closed,

687
00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:45,279
Speaker 1: but I offer to take care of the place from

688
00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:47,879
Speaker 1: the owner until she finds someone new. The owner said

689
00:38:47,960 --> 00:38:50,680
Speaker 1: yes and let me stay, and a new tenant moved

690
00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:52,719
Speaker 1: in last week and gave me to the end of

691
00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:56,080
Speaker 1: the month to find something new. My roommate went over

692
00:38:56,120 --> 00:38:58,960
Speaker 1: there without me knowing and told the lady I had

693
00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:02,640
Speaker 1: a place all life up and could move the horse anytime.

694
00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 1: So the lady kicked me out, only giving me three

695
00:39:06,640 --> 00:39:09,320
Speaker 1: days to find a new place for my horse.

696
00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:12,440
Speaker 2: What is happening? This is.

697
00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:19,120
Speaker 1: I think I think she's addicted to causing turmoil.

698
00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:22,960
Speaker 2: This is crazy, this is and it makes no sense.

699
00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:27,280
Speaker 1: What's your incentive? This person is forty, This person is forty.

700
00:39:27,520 --> 00:39:30,600
Speaker 2: How are they friends? Uh?

701
00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:33,520
Speaker 1: It seems definitely a friend of the mom. Maybe they're

702
00:39:33,560 --> 00:39:37,000
Speaker 1: also friends by Carrie like or like through the mom.

703
00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:39,200
Speaker 1: And so she lives with the mom, with her and

704
00:39:39,239 --> 00:39:42,960
Speaker 1: her mom and now causing all kinds of ruckists. She's

705
00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:46,480
Speaker 1: getting kicked out because she has a horse.

706
00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:51,000
Speaker 2: So she got she got her, she kicked out. She

707
00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:54,759
Speaker 2: got kicked out originally because the forty female friend was

708
00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:56,480
Speaker 2: going through divorce, was living at her dad.

709
00:39:56,560 --> 00:39:59,879
Speaker 1: So dad, with the divorce everything, she had to move out, right,

710
00:40:00,480 --> 00:40:02,800
Speaker 1: they took her in and now she's doing all this bs.

711
00:40:02,800 --> 00:40:05,239
Speaker 1: The horse thing was op had a horse at this

712
00:40:05,800 --> 00:40:08,319
Speaker 1: stable that you knew, and then so she just goes

713
00:40:08,360 --> 00:40:10,560
Speaker 1: to the stable and it's like, oh, hey, like OPI

714
00:40:10,600 --> 00:40:12,680
Speaker 1: found a new place. You can you can tell her

715
00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:15,440
Speaker 1: to get out now. And so the new owners like,

716
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:17,879
Speaker 1: oh yeah, get your horse out in three days.

717
00:40:17,880 --> 00:40:20,640
Speaker 2: You have to like where what? Why? Why would you

718
00:40:21,040 --> 00:40:22,640
Speaker 2: how did you even know about it? And why would

719
00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:28,320
Speaker 2: you even goin? Like where is yours? Like putting horses

720
00:40:28,320 --> 00:40:33,400
Speaker 2: out on the street. I just love making. I'm addiction

721
00:40:33,560 --> 00:40:37,040
Speaker 2: to what can I say? My strange addictions? Would you

722
00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:39,279
Speaker 2: like me to go turn on the button to make

723
00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:43,960
Speaker 2: it half screen? Yeah? Oh yeah, yes, I'll be right back,

724
00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:46,480
Speaker 2: Sir Anthony crushing the game over here, We're gonna get

725
00:40:46,520 --> 00:40:47,240
Speaker 2: back to the story.

726
00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:50,759
Speaker 1: Riley had to run out real quick. Rexy Pooh says,

727
00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:52,840
Speaker 1: my AC is kind of broken. At the moment, it works,

728
00:40:53,480 --> 00:40:55,080
Speaker 1: but not at the rate it should. I mean, this

729
00:40:55,239 --> 00:40:57,799
Speaker 1: is they have they have working ac. Yeah, there we go.

730
00:40:58,000 --> 00:41:00,880
Speaker 1: Boom teut out to you. Anthony got w'sa in the

731
00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:05,080
Speaker 1: chaft for Anthony. Let's freaking go the host slash producer extraordinaire.

732
00:41:05,440 --> 00:41:08,919
Speaker 1: So luckily a friend let me put my mare, the horse,

733
00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:11,319
Speaker 1: I guess, in her pasture until I can find something better.

734
00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:16,440
Speaker 2: Is this all just a big metaphor, I'm my hoist

735
00:41:16,520 --> 00:41:20,680
Speaker 2: in your base. Oh my god, Sorry, I'm serious. I'm

736
00:41:20,680 --> 00:41:23,600
Speaker 2: seriously pissed about this, and I pretty much want to

737
00:41:24,719 --> 00:41:28,319
Speaker 2: her over this. She's constantly closing and locking doors so

738
00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:31,080
Speaker 2: no one can get into the house. She locks the

739
00:41:31,160 --> 00:41:33,720
Speaker 2: door to the garage and we can't get inside because

740
00:41:33,760 --> 00:41:36,960
Speaker 2: we don't have a garage key. She threw away a

741
00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:40,000
Speaker 2: bunch of food in the garbage can without putting it

742
00:41:40,000 --> 00:41:43,000
Speaker 2: in a bag because she put frozen food in the

743
00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:49,000
Speaker 2: refrigerator and was shocked it spoiled. God, I'm just The

744
00:41:49,040 --> 00:41:51,960
Speaker 2: garbage can reeked for a week until garbage day and

745
00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:54,239
Speaker 2: I had to take the hose and scrub it out

746
00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:56,560
Speaker 2: with bleach to get rid of the stench. And she

747
00:41:56,680 --> 00:42:00,800
Speaker 2: did this twice twice. You can't learn from our lessons.

748
00:42:00,800 --> 00:42:02,240
Speaker 1: What just make her clean?

749
00:42:02,280 --> 00:42:03,520
Speaker 2: It true.

750
00:42:04,280 --> 00:42:07,839
Speaker 1: She's convinced that the FBI is following her because of

751
00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:14,960
Speaker 1: her guys, I am sensing some very serious mental health issue.

752
00:42:15,160 --> 00:42:17,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, of the extreme, virla, get him out of here.

753
00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:21,399
Speaker 1: Any car that has a simple radio antenna on it

754
00:42:21,440 --> 00:42:24,960
Speaker 1: is automatically an FBI car in her mind and is

755
00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:25,720
Speaker 1: following her.

756
00:42:25,760 --> 00:42:28,040
Speaker 2: Including my mom's car. At some point.

757
00:42:28,360 --> 00:42:30,839
Speaker 1: My mom does not work for the FBI. Her car

758
00:42:31,040 --> 00:42:34,080
Speaker 1: just happened to come with a radio antenna. How are

759
00:42:34,120 --> 00:42:38,120
Speaker 1: you sure that's all I'm saying. Today, she flushed both

760
00:42:38,160 --> 00:42:41,440
Speaker 1: a tampon and baby wipes down the toilet and clogged it.

761
00:42:42,160 --> 00:42:44,840
Speaker 1: I worked on it for thirty minutes, trying everything I

762
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:47,800
Speaker 1: could think of to get it unclogged, and now I can't,

763
00:42:47,840 --> 00:42:51,239
Speaker 1: so I have to call a plumber. She asked if

764
00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:54,160
Speaker 1: we actually live in our house year round, because we

765
00:42:54,280 --> 00:42:56,920
Speaker 1: don't have a lot of stuff and our house is clean.

766
00:42:57,560 --> 00:42:59,759
Speaker 1: I say, we have a normal amount of stuff, and

767
00:42:59,840 --> 00:43:02,440
Speaker 1: we just keep up. We just keep up on the

768
00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:05,239
Speaker 1: cleaning and don't let the house become a mess. She

769
00:43:05,400 --> 00:43:08,840
Speaker 1: keeps trying to get me a job, despite me being

770
00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:11,600
Speaker 1: in school right now. I do door dash on the

771
00:43:11,640 --> 00:43:15,120
Speaker 1: side for some extra cash, but I honestly don't have

772
00:43:15,160 --> 00:43:17,480
Speaker 1: the time for a job as long as I'm going

773
00:43:17,520 --> 00:43:21,560
Speaker 1: to school. All of this, everything here has happened in

774
00:43:21,719 --> 00:43:22,480
Speaker 1: under a month.

775
00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:24,520
Speaker 2: Lord, my lord.

776
00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:27,719
Speaker 1: She moved in at the beginning of August, and I'm

777
00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:30,560
Speaker 1: honestly at the end of my rope. I would be

778
00:43:30,600 --> 00:43:33,880
Speaker 1: after like two of these incidents, not like the whole

779
00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:34,760
Speaker 1: ten things.

780
00:43:34,520 --> 00:43:35,799
Speaker 2: That have happened so far.

781
00:43:36,640 --> 00:43:39,160
Speaker 1: She moved in at the beginning of August, and I'm

782
00:43:39,160 --> 00:43:40,200
Speaker 1: honestly at the end of my rope.

783
00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:41,200
Speaker 2: I just need defense.

784
00:43:41,400 --> 00:43:44,160
Speaker 1: Please tell me these things aren't normal and my feelings

785
00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:47,000
Speaker 1: are valid. I know having a roommate is gonna be different,

786
00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:50,360
Speaker 1: but I didn't expect this. There's an update when we

787
00:43:50,400 --> 00:43:52,319
Speaker 1: need to Anthony, we need to talk.

788
00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:55,520
Speaker 2: We need to talk. We know, we know this is

789
00:43:55,719 --> 00:43:59,280
Speaker 2: just messed up. Yes, to answer your point, Yes, you're valid,

790
00:43:59,480 --> 00:44:02,080
Speaker 2: you're val Now we need to come up with the plan.

791
00:44:02,640 --> 00:44:05,880
Speaker 2: What's the solution? The solution, what do we do? Change

792
00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:09,879
Speaker 2: the locks, change the locks and just like make sure

793
00:44:09,960 --> 00:44:11,680
Speaker 2: she can't even get in that like what do you

794
00:44:11,840 --> 00:44:14,480
Speaker 2: just kick her out? I think find out who else

795
00:44:14,520 --> 00:44:17,520
Speaker 2: can take this woman and do what she did to

796
00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:21,799
Speaker 2: the horse now exactly get her out.

797
00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:25,560
Speaker 1: The one thing I will say, I don't know what

798
00:44:25,840 --> 00:44:28,760
Speaker 1: the like she has been living there for it seems

799
00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:31,600
Speaker 1: a month, So what are the kind of like uh

800
00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:37,440
Speaker 1: living rights, squatters' rights, etca. Of that specific place. I

801
00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:41,839
Speaker 1: don't know what the time she's been there earns her

802
00:44:42,160 --> 00:44:46,279
Speaker 1: in law, We don't know, we don't know where they live,

803
00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:50,600
Speaker 1: is she is she paying no rent. There's been no

804
00:44:50,680 --> 00:44:54,080
Speaker 1: mention of rent. It seems that it's it's rent free. However,

805
00:44:54,719 --> 00:44:58,080
Speaker 1: my understanding is in some places, like even like thirty days,

806
00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:01,000
Speaker 1: you could have some you know. Now, now there's an

807
00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:04,040
Speaker 1: eviction process, but but the eviction process, you might not

808
00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:05,720
Speaker 1: be able to legally say, hey, you need.

809
00:45:05,560 --> 00:45:10,640
Speaker 2: To be out immediately. Well, but in our understanding, there's

810
00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:15,440
Speaker 2: been no mention that this person needs to leave. Thus

811
00:45:15,440 --> 00:45:20,719
Speaker 2: step one, tell you gotta leave, yes, because you kind

812
00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:23,520
Speaker 2: of suck as a human being. Yeah, and maybe you

813
00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:28,560
Speaker 2: should see a doctor. Yeah, like what insanity? Maybe maybe first,

814
00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:30,959
Speaker 2: so tell her leave, change the locks.

815
00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:34,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then I would like immediately start a formal

816
00:45:34,400 --> 00:45:36,680
Speaker 1: legal eviction process.

817
00:45:36,640 --> 00:45:38,879
Speaker 2: Just to like, yeah, depending on the reaction.

818
00:45:38,560 --> 00:45:40,359
Speaker 1: Because what if she goes to court and is like, hey,

819
00:45:40,400 --> 00:45:43,120
Speaker 1: actually I'm entitled to six more months or whatever the

820
00:45:43,160 --> 00:45:45,200
Speaker 1: case might be. So I would I would get ahead

821
00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:47,279
Speaker 1: of it and do all three of those things and

822
00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:51,879
Speaker 1: hopefully that will get them to leave as soon as

823
00:45:52,120 --> 00:45:58,000
Speaker 1: humanly possible. Tanga Sistany says eviction process takes ninety days total.

824
00:45:58,120 --> 00:46:00,720
Speaker 1: Katie Lynn says for some places, little seventies.

825
00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:00,960
Speaker 2: Yeah.

826
00:46:01,040 --> 00:46:04,200
Speaker 1: My understanding is it can very wildly state the state

827
00:46:05,120 --> 00:46:06,480
Speaker 1: so Yo.

828
00:46:06,840 --> 00:46:09,640
Speaker 2: There's a nice stable up the road.

829
00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:15,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was a great pasture. My horse is loving you. Hey,

830
00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:15,799
Speaker 1: you moved first.

831
00:46:15,840 --> 00:46:18,360
Speaker 2: You moved into with your friend, move in with your

832
00:46:18,600 --> 00:46:23,640
Speaker 2: friend's horse. You heard it here, it sounds like here.

833
00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:25,839
Speaker 1: It sounds like the person also a horse girl.

834
00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:32,000
Speaker 2: Squirrels, squirrels, sorry to horse girls everywhere.

835
00:46:32,040 --> 00:46:35,359
Speaker 1: Okay, you don't deserve this, all right, but let's see

836
00:46:35,360 --> 00:46:37,799
Speaker 1: what that's what we think Opie should do. Let's see

837
00:46:37,800 --> 00:46:41,239
Speaker 1: what Opie actually did into this update. I wrote this

838
00:46:41,360 --> 00:46:44,239
Speaker 1: in a different subreddit but didn't get the traction I

839
00:46:44,239 --> 00:46:45,680
Speaker 1: thought it would, And things have.

840
00:46:45,719 --> 00:46:49,799
Speaker 2: Taken a turn for the worst attraction in terms of

841
00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:52,560
Speaker 2: the post popularity. Are I digress?

842
00:46:53,520 --> 00:46:56,120
Speaker 1: She went barging into my room, talking about how I

843
00:46:56,160 --> 00:46:58,560
Speaker 1: don't know everything and that she's going to put me

844
00:46:58,960 --> 00:47:03,279
Speaker 1: through a court mark su I think she's taking her

845
00:47:03,280 --> 00:47:06,600
Speaker 1: to court for the eviction process or like that. She said,

846
00:47:06,719 --> 00:47:11,120
Speaker 1: see I told you, Oh wait wait wait wait no, no,

847
00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:12,239
Speaker 1: this is the opposite.

848
00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:14,719
Speaker 2: This is yeah, what is she saying here? What's the

849
00:47:14,880 --> 00:47:17,680
Speaker 2: crazy lady is coming in? I think she might have

850
00:47:17,760 --> 00:47:20,440
Speaker 2: found it or something. It's like, I can't believe I'm

851
00:47:20,480 --> 00:47:24,280
Speaker 2: gonna take I'm gonna go to the court marshall court martial.

852
00:47:24,360 --> 00:47:26,799
Speaker 2: I don't really know what that means. If the check

853
00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:31,200
Speaker 2: could help me out. I think this marshal is when

854
00:47:31,239 --> 00:47:34,920
Speaker 2: you're like, no, it's a subpoena. What what when you

855
00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:37,800
Speaker 2: have to be somewhere. Yeah, I'm not sure.

856
00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:41,080
Speaker 1: I'm not marshal Well, Opie says, sounds like something intense.

857
00:47:41,360 --> 00:47:43,400
Speaker 1: OPI carries on half of that. I'm not in the

858
00:47:43,400 --> 00:47:45,640
Speaker 1: military and never have been, and she's not in the

859
00:47:45,640 --> 00:47:48,040
Speaker 1: military either, so I wonder if like the marshals like

860
00:47:48,120 --> 00:47:50,759
Speaker 1: military wise, I don't know. I kept asking her what

861
00:47:50,800 --> 00:47:53,919
Speaker 1: she was talking about, so OPI's also confused. She kept

862
00:47:54,440 --> 00:47:57,080
Speaker 1: saying that I know exactly what you're talking You know

863
00:47:57,120 --> 00:47:57,879
Speaker 1: what I'm talking about.

864
00:47:57,880 --> 00:47:59,600
Speaker 2: Okay, listen, but you know what I know.

865
00:48:00,600 --> 00:48:03,719
Speaker 1: I went to my mom because I'm honestly scared I

866
00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:06,600
Speaker 1: would be two. She then said to my mom that

867
00:48:06,719 --> 00:48:10,200
Speaker 1: I keep stealing people's doormats and that her ex will

868
00:48:10,239 --> 00:48:11,880
Speaker 1: get me, and I need to be careful.

869
00:48:12,719 --> 00:48:16,880
Speaker 2: You know the classic insult. And you just keep stealing,

870
00:48:17,360 --> 00:48:21,160
Speaker 2: stealing your doormats, doormat if you've wiped your feet up

871
00:48:21,200 --> 00:48:22,720
Speaker 2: your crimes for the last time.

872
00:48:23,840 --> 00:48:25,760
Speaker 1: I honestly have no clue what this means.

873
00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:29,160
Speaker 2: I haven't stolen any doormats, and I don't know why

874
00:48:29,400 --> 00:48:31,440
Speaker 2: stealing doormat. I'm so confused.

875
00:48:32,000 --> 00:48:34,759
Speaker 1: My mom asked her if she'd taken anything, because she's

876
00:48:34,800 --> 00:48:39,080
Speaker 1: acting very strange. She said that she doesn't take any substances,

877
00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:44,720
Speaker 1: but I know that she takes freedom roughly forty pills

878
00:48:44,719 --> 00:48:45,080
Speaker 1: a day.

879
00:48:45,280 --> 00:48:45,480
Speaker 2: What.

880
00:48:45,640 --> 00:48:47,080
Speaker 1: I don't know what that is, but that sounds like

881
00:48:47,120 --> 00:48:47,279
Speaker 1: a lot.

882
00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:49,399
Speaker 2: I don't think you'd be taking any thing that much

883
00:48:49,440 --> 00:48:50,360
Speaker 2: a day. My god.

884
00:48:50,840 --> 00:48:53,719
Speaker 1: My mom is now kicking her out tomorrow. But her

885
00:48:53,760 --> 00:48:56,200
Speaker 1: response was super strange, and she said she needs to

886
00:48:56,239 --> 00:48:59,839
Speaker 1: speak to her superiors before we can make her leave.

887
00:48:59,840 --> 00:49:02,360
Speaker 1: I'm guessing the landlords. I don't know what this means.

888
00:49:02,440 --> 00:49:04,480
Speaker 1: I'm thinking of calling the police and having her put

889
00:49:04,480 --> 00:49:09,000
Speaker 1: in the hospital because something isn't right. I'm definitely going

890
00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:12,640
Speaker 1: to sleep tonight. I'm definitely not going to sleep. I'm

891
00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:16,520
Speaker 1: just kidding. I'm honestly shaking as I'm writing this. She

892
00:49:16,800 --> 00:49:19,680
Speaker 1: was my best friend and now I don't even know

893
00:49:19,719 --> 00:49:23,000
Speaker 1: who he is anymore. She's getting kicked out tomorrow no

894
00:49:23,080 --> 00:49:25,520
Speaker 1: matter what, because me and my mom no longer feel

895
00:49:25,560 --> 00:49:28,759
Speaker 1: safe in my house. By the way, you can feel

896
00:49:28,800 --> 00:49:30,880
Speaker 1: safe with us. You can watch us every single weekday

897
00:49:30,880 --> 00:49:31,520
Speaker 1: at three pimpias.

898
00:49:31,920 --> 00:49:35,880
Speaker 2: We don't take forty pills of Create.

899
00:49:35,800 --> 00:49:39,359
Speaker 3: Whatever that is is some sort of caffeine plan.

900
00:49:39,960 --> 00:49:42,480
Speaker 1: Ah, Okay, so she's hopped up on the caffeine or

901
00:49:42,480 --> 00:49:42,920
Speaker 1: something like that.

902
00:49:43,000 --> 00:49:45,400
Speaker 2: Forty pills. That's a lot.

903
00:49:45,680 --> 00:49:49,200
Speaker 1: That's almost as much as Riley almost close, almost very close.

904
00:49:49,719 --> 00:49:52,080
Speaker 1: Edit to add she believes her ex hacked into her

905
00:49:52,080 --> 00:49:54,160
Speaker 1: phone and has been stalking her for the past few months.

906
00:49:54,160 --> 00:49:57,560
Speaker 1: At first, I believed. At first, I believed he couldn't

907
00:49:57,600 --> 00:49:59,480
Speaker 1: have put a tracker on her car or something.

908
00:50:00,960 --> 00:50:06,239
Speaker 2: This is exactly what happened yesterday with the crazy husband, right,

909
00:50:06,600 --> 00:50:11,480
Speaker 2: he got crazy and started making stuff. That's true.

910
00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:14,920
Speaker 1: At first I believed he couldn't put a tracker on

911
00:50:14,960 --> 00:50:17,759
Speaker 1: her car or something, because that's not unheard of. But

912
00:50:18,040 --> 00:50:21,440
Speaker 1: now I believe it's a serious mental issue and needs

913
00:50:21,440 --> 00:50:23,719
Speaker 1: to be addressed. I will tell her I think she

914
00:50:23,800 --> 00:50:26,400
Speaker 1: needs proper medical help, and if it comes to it,

915
00:50:26,480 --> 00:50:28,840
Speaker 1: I will call the police and have them.

916
00:50:28,680 --> 00:50:29,200
Speaker 2: Get her out.

917
00:50:29,640 --> 00:50:32,440
Speaker 1: We have another update, but I want to pull real quick,

918
00:50:33,440 --> 00:50:39,880
Speaker 1: call the police or nah. I think at least reporting

919
00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:42,920
Speaker 1: this somewhere is even if you're just like, hey, I

920
00:50:42,960 --> 00:50:46,520
Speaker 1: just want to like kind of like get get a

921
00:50:46,520 --> 00:50:48,920
Speaker 1: paper get a paper trail going. For the purposes of

922
00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:51,080
Speaker 1: getting a paper trail going, I think this is what

923
00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:54,040
Speaker 1: you want to do. Also, probably for the eviction process.

924
00:50:54,120 --> 00:50:56,120
Speaker 1: It will help to have this on the records, like, hey,

925
00:50:56,840 --> 00:50:59,719
Speaker 1: I had here's the here's the record I called about

926
00:50:59,719 --> 00:51:01,600
Speaker 1: this at this point, like it's been going on for

927
00:51:01,640 --> 00:51:04,640
Speaker 1: this long. Yeah, I think you should call just to

928
00:51:04,640 --> 00:51:08,720
Speaker 1: get the paper trail going, maybe give her a chance

929
00:51:09,080 --> 00:51:12,040
Speaker 1: to move out, like she's like, hey, move out tomorrow.

930
00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:16,520
Speaker 1: But if in the morning tomorrow she's not like like gone,

931
00:51:17,440 --> 00:51:20,880
Speaker 1: I think you start going pretty hard because who know,

932
00:51:21,000 --> 00:51:23,320
Speaker 1: it seems like this is a very serious mental health issue.

933
00:51:23,760 --> 00:51:27,640
Speaker 1: Who knows what can happen for everyone's safety, we should

934
00:51:27,680 --> 00:51:33,720
Speaker 1: do this intertwined Realm innertin Realm just donated fifty bucks

935
00:51:33,760 --> 00:51:37,000
Speaker 1: with the sticker with guys, this is a new thing.

936
00:51:37,680 --> 00:51:41,440
Speaker 1: Are we competing for the most expensive sticker of all time?

937
00:51:41,480 --> 00:51:45,440
Speaker 2: Here? I don't know, Yeah, what's the stick Yeah, we

938
00:51:45,960 --> 00:51:54,400
Speaker 2: have to see it is a celebrating you know whoa

939
00:51:54,480 --> 00:51:57,920
Speaker 2: with little sparkles and it says you're amazing.

940
00:51:58,600 --> 00:51:59,440
Speaker 1: Intertwined realms.

941
00:51:59,480 --> 00:52:00,000
Speaker 2: You're amazing.

942
00:52:00,560 --> 00:52:02,920
Speaker 1: Did you ever consider that? Did she haven't think of that?

943
00:52:04,080 --> 00:52:04,319
Speaker 2: Well?

944
00:52:04,360 --> 00:52:07,640
Speaker 1: You are you are And I'm not backing down. Okay

945
00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:13,360
Speaker 1: I said it and I meant it, but this is crazy.

946
00:52:13,840 --> 00:52:17,600
Speaker 1: Any more to add before we get into the update.

947
00:52:19,280 --> 00:52:22,120
Speaker 2: No, I think so. The mom said, you have till

948
00:52:22,120 --> 00:52:25,040
Speaker 2: it's like tomorrow or something. You initiated the kick out.

949
00:52:25,360 --> 00:52:29,839
Speaker 1: She said, I want you out tomorrow morning. Great, so

950
00:52:30,000 --> 00:52:32,160
Speaker 1: I think happens. We'll see what happens. We'll give her

951
00:52:32,200 --> 00:52:34,440
Speaker 1: to that time. We do have the update.

952
00:52:35,280 --> 00:52:38,400
Speaker 3: Of the audience. We have here, says call the cops.

953
00:52:38,640 --> 00:52:39,120
Speaker 2: Call them.

954
00:52:39,600 --> 00:52:44,279
Speaker 1: This is, this is, this is getting dicey. But onto

955
00:52:44,320 --> 00:52:49,960
Speaker 1: this next update. She is now leaving. Okay, we didn't

956
00:52:50,040 --> 00:52:52,759
Speaker 1: have to call the police. She's leaving peacefully. Okay, I

957
00:52:52,800 --> 00:52:56,200
Speaker 1: mean basically falls in love with what we said. We

958
00:52:56,280 --> 00:52:59,200
Speaker 1: are changing the locks and the garage code. I'm no

959
00:52:59,239 --> 00:53:01,719
Speaker 1: longer going to be her best friend. Understandable.

960
00:53:02,320 --> 00:53:05,439
Speaker 2: I realize now that unless she gets into rehab, she is.

961
00:53:05,360 --> 00:53:08,400
Speaker 1: Not going to get any better. Thank you everyone for

962
00:53:08,480 --> 00:53:11,160
Speaker 1: your help and kind words. And I didn't realize how

963
00:53:11,200 --> 00:53:13,840
Speaker 1: bad of a drug that was, especially when taken in

964
00:53:13,920 --> 00:53:16,400
Speaker 1: such high doses. I mean, when you're taking forty of anything,

965
00:53:17,320 --> 00:53:18,320
Speaker 1: probably not good.

966
00:53:18,520 --> 00:53:19,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, not good.

967
00:53:19,920 --> 00:53:21,920
Speaker 1: That's what I'm gonna say. But we have some relevant

968
00:53:21,920 --> 00:53:25,360
Speaker 1: comments that close it out. Opie says, she's taking a

969
00:53:25,360 --> 00:53:28,120
Speaker 1: lot of kretum. It's some sort of caffeine plant. Edit

970
00:53:28,200 --> 00:53:30,399
Speaker 1: Also to add, my mom works with people who have

971
00:53:30,440 --> 00:53:33,160
Speaker 1: mental disabilities and can't quite live on their own. She

972
00:53:33,239 --> 00:53:35,160
Speaker 1: helps some function in their daily lives and is good

973
00:53:35,160 --> 00:53:38,000
Speaker 1: at handling people with mental illness. One of her clients

974
00:53:38,200 --> 00:53:42,320
Speaker 1: has a BPD borderline personality disorder. I believe, correct me

975
00:53:42,360 --> 00:53:44,200
Speaker 1: in the comments if I'm wrong, and she can take

976
00:53:44,880 --> 00:53:46,560
Speaker 1: and she can take care of him and any of

977
00:53:46,600 --> 00:53:49,319
Speaker 1: his issues. But she doesn't really know what to do

978
00:53:49,360 --> 00:53:52,880
Speaker 1: about this. She thinks it might be substance related, or

979
00:53:52,920 --> 00:53:55,480
Speaker 1: she's going through some sort of mental break of some sort.

980
00:53:55,960 --> 00:53:58,279
Speaker 1: Available Package twenty three. Response to this that this is

981
00:53:58,400 --> 00:54:01,719
Speaker 1: very clearly psychosis impossible. Please schizophrenia. Please get her to

982
00:54:01,760 --> 00:54:04,640
Speaker 1: a psych word I have experienced with schizophrenic family members.

983
00:54:05,040 --> 00:54:08,759
Speaker 1: She will not get better without treatment, Opie responds. He

984
00:54:08,880 --> 00:54:12,440
Speaker 1: refuses to go. She believes she's completely fine and refuses

985
00:54:12,520 --> 00:54:17,960
Speaker 1: even to see a basic psychiatrist. And that is the

986
00:54:18,080 --> 00:54:22,279
Speaker 1: end of the story. My question to you, Anthony, is

987
00:54:22,920 --> 00:54:25,839
Speaker 1: they housed her, you know, they they helped her out,

988
00:54:27,080 --> 00:54:32,400
Speaker 1: she's refusing to go to a rehab any sort of

989
00:54:32,400 --> 00:54:37,080
Speaker 1: like facility. Is do op and Opie's mom have any

990
00:54:37,160 --> 00:54:38,520
Speaker 1: more responsibility?

991
00:54:38,640 --> 00:54:41,480
Speaker 2: That is the exact question I was going to ask you, Well,

992
00:54:41,520 --> 00:54:47,040
Speaker 2: what's your answer at what point my nuanced answer or

993
00:54:47,080 --> 00:54:48,080
Speaker 2: not nuanced answer?

994
00:54:48,280 --> 00:54:51,440
Speaker 1: No, no, that is very non nuanced. No, give me

995
00:54:51,440 --> 00:54:51,880
Speaker 1: the nuance.

996
00:54:51,960 --> 00:54:54,680
Speaker 2: Now give me the details. Well, and we can further debate.

997
00:54:54,920 --> 00:55:00,400
Speaker 2: At what point must you help somebody if the hurts

998
00:55:00,840 --> 00:55:04,480
Speaker 2: yourself in your life? Like, what's the line of helping

999
00:55:04,520 --> 00:55:11,960
Speaker 2: somebody else if it only gives you bad? You know?

1000
00:55:12,080 --> 00:55:16,000
Speaker 2: How about that for Neway's And that's a great question.

1001
00:55:16,080 --> 00:55:24,680
Speaker 1: I honestly think you help someone, But when there is uh, honestly,

1002
00:55:25,000 --> 00:55:29,880
Speaker 1: once the process starts where you're getting anything negative back,

1003
00:55:30,000 --> 00:55:34,440
Speaker 1: like for instance, like uh like if you like if

1004
00:55:34,440 --> 00:55:36,279
Speaker 1: you had someone stay over and they're helping with the

1005
00:55:36,320 --> 00:55:38,800
Speaker 1: dishes and they're you know, being cool, they're being polite,

1006
00:55:38,800 --> 00:55:41,680
Speaker 1: giving you your space like all that, no no issues,

1007
00:55:41,680 --> 00:55:44,799
Speaker 1: I say, keep keep continuing with the help. As soon

1008
00:55:44,840 --> 00:55:48,520
Speaker 1: as there's any sort of you know, let's call it

1009
00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:52,600
Speaker 1: major disruptions where it's like, hey, like even the dishes

1010
00:55:52,640 --> 00:55:55,760
Speaker 1: thing like any like you are doing them the favor.

1011
00:55:56,120 --> 00:56:02,200
Speaker 1: So if you're causing any sort of substantial issues, I

1012
00:56:02,239 --> 00:56:05,640
Speaker 1: think that begins the point where you have the right

1013
00:56:05,719 --> 00:56:09,799
Speaker 1: to say, hey, you know, like I want to help you,

1014
00:56:10,000 --> 00:56:13,480
Speaker 1: but you're kind of bringing issues to me when I'm

1015
00:56:13,480 --> 00:56:15,400
Speaker 1: helping you. I think that is the point when you

1016
00:56:15,440 --> 00:56:19,359
Speaker 1: can begin to consider having them move out or not

1017
00:56:19,400 --> 00:56:20,560
Speaker 1: continuing to help them anymore.

1018
00:56:20,600 --> 00:56:23,880
Speaker 2: What's because you're there are definitely times when helping somebody

1019
00:56:24,000 --> 00:56:29,640
Speaker 2: doesn't immediately feel good or positive impacts on your own life,

1020
00:56:29,640 --> 00:56:30,319
Speaker 2: and there's always some