WEBVTT - Awkward Tuesday: Grandpa's Secret Stash 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:02.480 Quickly becoming the favorite day of the week, the awkward 0:00:02.560 --> 0:00:03.840 Tuesday phone cod. 0:00:04.160 --> 0:00:05.800 Yeah, it's a highlight. 0:00:05.920 --> 0:00:08.319 It is because it's like relationship drama, but it's like 0:00:08.480 --> 0:00:12.360 all sorts of different relationships. Maybe co workers, it could be, 0:00:12.760 --> 0:00:14.080 you know, yeah, spouses. 0:00:14.120 --> 0:00:16.040 Do people like it because we don't talk as much 0:00:16.079 --> 0:00:16.680 the second half? 0:00:16.760 --> 0:00:22.440 That could be Yeah, yeah, I don't mind that. All right, 0:00:22.520 --> 0:00:24.720 Welcome to the Brook and Jeffrey Second Date Podcast. 0:00:24.800 --> 0:00:28.080 Today is a classic, but we've got a new comment 0:00:28.120 --> 0:00:28.480 to read. 0:00:28.560 --> 0:00:30.920 Yes, so Tia said, I'm all the way from South Africa. 0:00:31.520 --> 0:00:33.320 The one thing I realized is that y'all do your 0:00:33.400 --> 0:00:34.800 job better when you're criticized. 0:00:35.040 --> 0:00:35.879 So here we go. 0:00:38.440 --> 0:00:40.920 Out of plus or minus three thousand, five hundred phone 0:00:40.920 --> 0:00:43.919 taps and second dates, I only saved sixty five phone. 0:00:43.680 --> 0:00:46.480 Taps and forty four second dates. So come on, y'all 0:00:46.479 --> 0:00:47.680 could do way better than that. 0:00:49.840 --> 0:00:51.400 Yeah, all right, we're gonna work. 0:00:51.320 --> 0:00:52.879 On forty five save for this year. 0:00:53.680 --> 0:00:54.280 That's our goal. 0:00:54.440 --> 0:00:56.200 Yeah, and I hope we can track her phone and 0:00:56.240 --> 0:00:57.560 be like, yes, she saved. 0:01:00.640 --> 0:01:01.600 Challenge accepted. 0:01:02.160 --> 0:01:03.880 All right, awkward starts right now. 0:01:05.400 --> 0:01:09.600 Snooping through your significant other stuff that is almost always 0:01:09.600 --> 0:01:11.520 gonna lead to finding bad things. 0:01:11.760 --> 0:01:14.000 Yeah, come on, if you got a snoop, you probably 0:01:14.319 --> 0:01:15.240 you probably got something going. 0:01:15.720 --> 0:01:18.039 Like when Brooke went through her husband's box of chains 0:01:18.080 --> 0:01:21.560 and restraints and she found Michael's old love letters to 0:01:21.680 --> 0:01:28.399 Jason raz I wish that was a lie. So weird 0:01:28.480 --> 0:01:30.800 conversation they had to have that man was. 0:01:30.840 --> 0:01:31.399 Like, what what? 0:01:32.160 --> 0:01:37.880 But what if by some miracle you snooped and actually 0:01:37.920 --> 0:01:42.200 found something good? Because one of our listeners says she 0:01:42.520 --> 0:01:45.600 just moved in with her fiance and what she found 0:01:45.880 --> 0:01:50.080 buried in his attic wasn't just good, it was incredible 0:01:50.560 --> 0:01:53.440 and he had no idea it was even there. 0:01:53.720 --> 0:01:54.480 Oh my god. 0:01:54.640 --> 0:01:56.880 Now she needs our advice on how to deliver the 0:01:56.920 --> 0:01:59.960 news to him. You're gonna hear what the big discovery 0:01:59.960 --> 0:02:03.320 was in your brand new awkward Tuesday phone call? Next, 0:02:04.280 --> 0:02:06.120 it's awkward, it's Tuesday. 0:02:06.960 --> 0:02:11.840 It's awkward Tuesday phone call? Did we just become best friends? 0:02:12.960 --> 0:02:16.639 Moving in together for the very first time can be 0:02:16.720 --> 0:02:22.440 so exciting and special, especially if it's with your significant other. 0:02:22.560 --> 0:02:24.000 Yeah, I hope you're more than best friends. 0:02:24.120 --> 0:02:29.880 Jeff can be more than best friends? Yeah, okay, but 0:02:29.960 --> 0:02:32.200 it's exciting because you're figuring out you know, who gets 0:02:32.240 --> 0:02:35.480 what side of the closet, or in Brooks case, who 0:02:35.520 --> 0:02:39.960 cleans what side of the toilet bowl? O Michael, that's 0:02:40.200 --> 0:02:50.520 my side, that's right, Okay, now, Spongebie, okay, made it 0:02:50.840 --> 0:02:52.880 weird for some to. 0:02:52.840 --> 0:02:57.239 Be disgusted by that aside. 0:02:57.880 --> 0:03:02.120 I'm excited to speak with Listen today because she's moving 0:03:02.160 --> 0:03:05.800 in with her boyfriend of two years and they just 0:03:05.960 --> 0:03:11.400 got engaged in congratulations. 0:03:10.800 --> 0:03:11.639 Yay, thank you. 0:03:12.120 --> 0:03:14.120 Yeah, side of the toilet bowls your side? 0:03:14.160 --> 0:03:17.639 Pick left? Pick left, I swear. 0:03:18.280 --> 0:03:20.880 So you guys have a big move. Is it happening 0:03:20.960 --> 0:03:22.280 right now or what's going on? 0:03:22.840 --> 0:03:23.040 Yeah? 0:03:23.120 --> 0:03:25.640 Yeah, we're we've been together for two years. You know, 0:03:25.720 --> 0:03:27.400 he proposed and then we're like, okay, now we're going 0:03:27.440 --> 0:03:28.360 to move in together. 0:03:28.120 --> 0:03:29.760 And there's so matter of fact about it. 0:03:30.880 --> 0:03:33.320 Well yeah, I mean, you know, it's it's like I've 0:03:33.360 --> 0:03:36.440 lived people before, never gotten engaged, so to do it 0:03:36.480 --> 0:03:38.800 and now start moving in together is like a different 0:03:38.840 --> 0:03:40.840 kind of chapter for me. So navigating it is a 0:03:40.840 --> 0:03:41.360 little weird. 0:03:41.480 --> 0:03:43.720 Okay, Yeah, what's weird about it? 0:03:43.720 --> 0:03:45.600 It's like we're not getting a new place. I'm moving 0:03:45.640 --> 0:03:50.880 into his already place. So it's his territory, his turf. Yeah, 0:03:51.000 --> 0:03:53.680 so it's going, well, I'm moving my stuff and everything. 0:03:53.800 --> 0:03:56.600 And I was in the attic and there's stuff that, like, 0:03:56.640 --> 0:03:59.160 you know, his grandparents have passed on and stuff, so 0:03:59.400 --> 0:04:01.400 you know, he's had his grandparents boxes up there, and 0:04:01.440 --> 0:04:05.280 so you know, I'm honest, I'm just going through everything, 0:04:05.320 --> 0:04:05.560 you know. 0:04:05.520 --> 0:04:07.720 Okay, and so are you just college to complain about 0:04:07.760 --> 0:04:08.880 what a clutterbuggy is? 0:04:09.120 --> 0:04:13.080 Like sound kind of overwhelmed, Oh, innocently going through everything, okay. 0:04:13.280 --> 0:04:16.000 And I find his grandfather's stuff. I asked him, I said, 0:04:16.000 --> 0:04:17.640 do you know what's in your grandfather's boxes? He goes, 0:04:17.760 --> 0:04:18.560 I don't know what that is. 0:04:18.600 --> 0:04:19.800 You know, it's just boxes I still have. 0:04:19.920 --> 0:04:23.920 So I was like, okay, threw them away to the fire. 0:04:25.560 --> 0:04:27.800 Well, there might be stuff that we could use, you know, 0:04:27.800 --> 0:04:30.159 if he's got some like good spatulas or frying pans, 0:04:30.200 --> 0:04:31.080 and I'm gonna bring him. 0:04:30.960 --> 0:04:38.520 Down on totally absolutely anymore nice silver, yes, oho asbestos. 0:04:39.279 --> 0:04:42.040 So I found some smaller boxes with like keepstak all 0:04:42.040 --> 0:04:44.039 that kind of stuff and jewelry and stuff like that. 0:04:44.560 --> 0:04:46.920 But I found a box of coins coin. 0:04:47.080 --> 0:04:50.680 Those could be worth a lot, they can exactly. 0:04:51.320 --> 0:04:53.960 I take these coins and I'm like, wow, these are 0:04:54.040 --> 0:04:58.040 dated like eighteen hundred's kind of stuff. Oh whoa, yeah, 0:04:58.080 --> 0:05:00.599 so I take these coins in to get him afraid, right. 0:05:00.520 --> 0:05:02.920 And your boy and your fiance sorry knows you're doing this. 0:05:03.800 --> 0:05:05.680 No, he knows that I was in the boxes though, 0:05:05.680 --> 0:05:07.400 but he doesn't know that I just decided to on 0:05:07.480 --> 0:05:10.000 my own go check out how much he's are worth. 0:05:10.400 --> 0:05:13.839 Okay, I wouldn't say oh, because if it's if they're 0:05:13.839 --> 0:05:15.400 not worth anything, then he'll never know. 0:05:17.240 --> 0:05:17.800 He's kind of. 0:05:17.800 --> 0:05:19.080 Weird not to tell him. 0:05:19.160 --> 0:05:22.000 But okay, well, yet here we out. 0:05:22.520 --> 0:05:23.080 I do that. 0:05:23.320 --> 0:05:24.960 We're looking at six figures. 0:05:25.279 --> 0:05:28.360 Oh, you're down. 0:05:29.440 --> 0:05:31.760 Way more than one hundred thousand, my guy. 0:05:31.480 --> 0:05:34.719 Oh my god, one thousand. 0:05:35.480 --> 0:05:35.880 Yeah. 0:05:36.279 --> 0:05:38.360 Jose almost tells you my husband's name. 0:05:38.440 --> 0:05:39.920 Yeah. When she gets match, heels back. 0:05:40.400 --> 0:05:42.760 So you're you're still not going to tell him about that? 0:05:42.839 --> 0:05:46.159 Then, well, I'm obviously going to tell him. I don't 0:05:46.160 --> 0:05:48.800 want him to think that like I was money grubbing 0:05:48.960 --> 0:05:50.880 or like nuping in a weird way. I mean, we've 0:05:50.920 --> 0:05:53.480 never lived together, and I've already found like a crap 0:05:53.520 --> 0:05:56.080 ton of money all of a sudden, I'm going to 0:05:56.160 --> 0:05:56.479 tell you. 0:05:57.040 --> 0:06:00.520 If my like my significant others said, it took your 0:06:00.520 --> 0:06:03.320 stuff to get in a praise without telling you. I 0:06:03.440 --> 0:06:04.400 have some trust things. 0:06:04.480 --> 0:06:07.640 Really exactly, that's I'm afraid of. 0:06:07.800 --> 0:06:10.120 But it's like, could you really even use that type 0:06:10.120 --> 0:06:11.400 of money for anything. 0:06:13.080 --> 0:06:16.920 That you just have a wedding coming out? 0:06:18.600 --> 0:06:19.680 Even what do you want to do with it? 0:06:20.360 --> 0:06:24.719 So he's been really stressed about like graduate school paying 0:06:24.760 --> 0:06:27.240 for it and everything, and I'm just like, oh my god, 0:06:27.279 --> 0:06:29.080 this is like finally our solution for that. 0:06:29.320 --> 0:06:32.800 Oh sorry, I need to go to graduate school anymore. 0:06:32.800 --> 0:06:33.560 And now you're rich. 0:06:33.640 --> 0:06:36.800 I didn't go to college. Look at me. Oh wait, 0:06:36.880 --> 0:06:37.479 you can't see me. 0:06:37.520 --> 0:06:38.560 I'm the message. 0:06:38.960 --> 0:06:39.760 Yeah. 0:06:40.680 --> 0:06:42.800 It's like I wanted to be like a really nice 0:06:42.839 --> 0:06:44.680 surprise for him, but I don't want it to then 0:06:44.760 --> 0:06:47.240 be like, wait, why were you and my stuff? 0:06:47.320 --> 0:06:50.000 He might be so excited he won't care. I know, man, 0:06:50.600 --> 0:06:53.040 I think now it's it's it's funny. 0:06:53.200 --> 0:06:55.400 This would have been better if they were worth nothing, 0:06:55.400 --> 0:06:58.080 because then he'd be like, oh cool, an extra ten dollars, honey, great, 0:06:58.080 --> 0:07:01.600 thank you. But now that it's worth figures plus, it 0:07:01.680 --> 0:07:04.640 looks like you were conniving and kind of mind. 0:07:04.480 --> 0:07:07.160 This back no, because she's coming to it with I mean, 0:07:07.160 --> 0:07:08.720 she's coming to him and she's going to spend the 0:07:08.720 --> 0:07:09.920 money on stuff he needs. 0:07:10.240 --> 0:07:12.640 I guess I'm not taking it and running. I'm giving 0:07:12.680 --> 0:07:14.880 it to him. I'm telling him that it's worth I'm 0:07:14.880 --> 0:07:16.400 not going to just like be like okay, never mind' 0:07:16.400 --> 0:07:18.840 his engagement running away with all this cash. 0:07:18.920 --> 0:07:19.880 Yeah, totally. 0:07:20.000 --> 0:07:23.280 And they did have a conversation about the boxes before. 0:07:23.920 --> 0:07:25.640 He just kind of brushed her off, didn't know what 0:07:25.720 --> 0:07:27.120 was in there. So this is going to be a 0:07:27.160 --> 0:07:27.920 surprise for him. 0:07:28.000 --> 0:07:28.960 This is going to be fun. 0:07:29.080 --> 0:07:31.480 This is actually going to be a fun awkward Tuesday. 0:07:31.480 --> 0:07:33.120 Why this is even awkward? Then this is going to 0:07:33.160 --> 0:07:33.920 be great, though. 0:07:33.920 --> 0:07:35.600 I guess the part that's awkward is like, hey, I 0:07:35.640 --> 0:07:38.160 went and took stuff from your attic without teleweion. 0:07:38.160 --> 0:07:39.840 You already knew you were going through your lives. 0:07:40.000 --> 0:07:41.400 But do you think you don't think that he's going 0:07:41.440 --> 0:07:43.880 to think that I was like money, Like I was 0:07:43.920 --> 0:07:45.720 like searching for stuff to find money for. 0:07:45.960 --> 0:07:48.000 Oh for sure, for sure he's going to think that. 0:07:48.080 --> 0:07:50.360 Yes, yeah, that's what I was trying to say. But 0:07:50.400 --> 0:07:51.600 he said it's going to be fine. 0:07:51.680 --> 0:07:53.200 Yeah, we'll figure out a way for it to be 0:07:53.240 --> 0:07:55.320 fine as long as you don't get any advice from Brooke, 0:07:55.560 --> 0:07:58.840 so we'll come back. So long advice from jose and 0:07:58.920 --> 0:08:03.760 let you make your awkward two to your to tell 0:08:03.840 --> 0:08:07.679 him you found a stash of old coins worth six 0:08:07.760 --> 0:08:11.920 figures up in his as. We're gonna do it right 0:08:11.960 --> 0:08:14.320 after this. Hold on, it's awkward. 0:08:14.640 --> 0:08:15.400 It's Tuesday. 0:08:16.240 --> 0:08:20.720 It's awkward Tuesday phone call. We've done proposals on this 0:08:20.800 --> 0:08:26.280 segment before, we've done gender reveals things that aren't necessarily awkward, bad, 0:08:26.560 --> 0:08:30.720 but awkward exciting. Yeah, because we get to sit on 0:08:30.720 --> 0:08:33.240 on a nice little private moment with a couple. 0:08:33.679 --> 0:08:34.160 Yeah. 0:08:34.240 --> 0:08:36.960 I just don't remember ever doing one where somebody said, hey, 0:08:37.080 --> 0:08:39.560 I went through your grandpa's stuff in the attic and 0:08:39.640 --> 0:08:40.559 now we're rich. 0:08:43.880 --> 0:08:45.199 Still sound good to me, Jeff. 0:08:45.400 --> 0:08:48.000 On top of that, there's actually a couple of good 0:08:48.120 --> 0:08:49.800 uses that could come out of it because they have 0:08:49.880 --> 0:08:52.360 a big wedding coming up. He wants to go to 0:08:52.440 --> 0:08:54.240 grad school and isn't sure how he's going to pay 0:08:54.280 --> 0:08:54.560 for it. 0:08:54.640 --> 0:08:56.680 Oh my gosh, it's like prayers answer. 0:08:58.559 --> 0:09:02.280 All this positivity happened. The only thing that could possibly 0:09:02.320 --> 0:09:05.120 mess this up is Brooke and some horrible advice. 0:09:05.280 --> 0:09:09.839 Oh wait, at delivering an amazing advice, like amazing news. 0:09:10.080 --> 0:09:16.800 It sounds like it wants to surprise her fiance on 0:09:16.840 --> 0:09:19.720 our show with this news. Let's start with some great 0:09:19.800 --> 0:09:21.800 a advice from our own jose Bolanos. 0:09:21.920 --> 0:09:23.960 Yeah, so you just said you're worried. You're gonna look 0:09:24.000 --> 0:09:26.000 suss because you went through all of his stuff. 0:09:26.240 --> 0:09:30.640 But if you're excited and you're positive, all you gotta 0:09:30.679 --> 0:09:31.160 do is just. 0:09:31.120 --> 0:09:36.040 Say you're rich and you helped him get there. Emphasize 0:09:36.040 --> 0:09:39.200 that you helped him become rich. He's gonna be so happy. 0:09:39.240 --> 0:09:42.360 He's that worry in your head is gonna go away. 0:09:42.480 --> 0:09:45.120 Emphasizing that she's the one that got in there's gonna 0:09:45.120 --> 0:09:46.840 make her sound like your money. 0:09:47.040 --> 0:09:49.320 Okay, Brooke is already coming in with a sour attitude. 0:09:51.080 --> 0:09:54.040 She should take credit for something her grandpa built for him. 0:09:54.120 --> 0:09:56.120 You know, like I think you just go in and 0:09:56.160 --> 0:10:06.080 you say, hey, every conversation, I took some of your 0:10:06.080 --> 0:10:08.240 grandpa's things to get him a praise without telling you 0:10:08.240 --> 0:10:10.200 because I didn't want you to get your hopes up 0:10:10.880 --> 0:10:20.239 that it was worth something. But I have fantastic news. Yeah, Stress, 0:10:21.440 --> 0:10:24.840 it's like the lottery of grandparents. Old crap. 0:10:25.120 --> 0:10:27.880 Yeah, but we're not even married yet, and because I'm 0:10:27.920 --> 0:10:32.559 afraid of him thinking, oh my god, sorry, you're stressed. 0:10:32.920 --> 0:10:34.280 Yeah, it's okay, you're engaged. 0:10:34.280 --> 0:10:36.880 Before you found the money, I. 0:10:36.840 --> 0:10:38.720 Could have I could have run with it. I could 0:10:38.760 --> 0:10:39.800 have taken it all and run. 0:10:39.840 --> 0:10:40.600 And I didn't do that. 0:10:40.880 --> 0:10:41.920 I wouldn't say that. 0:10:42.200 --> 0:10:44.960 I would say that I would. 0:10:46.440 --> 0:10:48.480 Why is it even a thought that's crossing your mind? 0:10:48.559 --> 0:10:50.120 It shows that you're a good person. 0:10:50.360 --> 0:10:53.040 Can you imagine, like, well, I meant this really hot guy. 0:10:53.120 --> 0:10:54.960 I had the option of sleeping with him, but I 0:10:55.040 --> 0:10:58.600 didn't decision. 0:11:00.559 --> 0:11:02.960 All right, Well, hopefully that helps you. We're gonna back 0:11:03.000 --> 0:11:05.360 away and let you call your fiance and tell them 0:11:05.360 --> 0:11:07.920 what you found in the attic. Okay, are you ready? Okay, 0:11:08.320 --> 0:11:10.880 it kind of sounds like a horror movie what you 0:11:11.040 --> 0:11:15.280 found waiting up in the attic for you. No, that 0:11:15.320 --> 0:11:18.040 didn't help. Okay, she's not gonna all right. See, it 0:11:18.080 --> 0:11:19.960 couldn't probably go worse than that, So let's do it. 0:11:19.960 --> 0:11:36.079 Here we go, Hello, hi, baby, Hey, we're. 0:11:38.000 --> 0:11:40.600 Good. Your number came up. Weird it just shut up 0:11:40.640 --> 0:11:44.800 like no caller. I'm almost done with Aaron. I gotta 0:11:44.840 --> 0:11:47.480 go to the grocery store. Is there anything particularly you 0:11:47.520 --> 0:11:48.680 want for dinner? 0:11:50.720 --> 0:11:54.600 No, but maybe you can buy yourself a steak after 0:11:54.679 --> 0:11:55.200 I let. 0:11:55.160 --> 0:11:57.719 You in on some some news I have for you. 0:11:59.360 --> 0:12:02.160 Okay, Okay, So. 0:12:03.360 --> 0:12:05.080 You know I've been like doing some of my stuff 0:12:05.240 --> 0:12:07.280 up in the attic and everything, and I know I 0:12:07.360 --> 0:12:10.320 texted you about your grandpa's boxes and everything, right. 0:12:10.840 --> 0:12:13.040 Yeah, you don't honestly too. I mean, we just throw 0:12:13.160 --> 0:12:15.679 most of it away. Here's old trash. 0:12:15.679 --> 0:12:19.600 I mean, well, well, sure, I mean I'll get rid 0:12:19.600 --> 0:12:22.640 of like trash and stuff. But I was like, let 0:12:22.679 --> 0:12:24.680 me just make sure there's no keepsakes in it, you know, 0:12:24.800 --> 0:12:27.800 or something we could use around the house. And so 0:12:27.840 --> 0:12:29.720 I actually found some coins in there. 0:12:30.720 --> 0:12:33.760 Yeah, that's right. He did collect the rocks and coins 0:12:33.800 --> 0:12:37.360 and all kinds of Okay, well. 0:12:37.240 --> 0:12:41.080 Rocks, okay, So the coins are more of the concern 0:12:41.160 --> 0:12:42.520 and what I'm about to tell you. 0:12:43.360 --> 0:12:45.840 Okay, So the coins, they. 0:12:45.720 --> 0:12:47.800 Look pretty old. So I just decided to take them 0:12:47.840 --> 0:12:50.040 to like an appraiser. 0:12:50.520 --> 0:12:52.160 And like Coinstar. 0:12:53.559 --> 0:12:56.360 Oh my god, no, no, not that Coinstar baby, like 0:12:57.720 --> 0:12:59.600 like an antique shop kind of stuff, like you know, 0:12:59.679 --> 0:13:06.360 like yeah, yeah, and they they're, uh, they're worth like 0:13:06.480 --> 0:13:09.040 a lot of money. The coins I found, Like I 0:13:09.200 --> 0:13:10.160 was saying that they're worth. 0:13:09.960 --> 0:13:14.920 A lot, like more than five hundred bucks or. 0:13:17.200 --> 0:13:19.800 Yeah, the numbers looking like it might be able to 0:13:20.000 --> 0:13:23.520 cover our wedding and grad schools. 0:13:23.559 --> 0:13:23.959 Princess. 0:13:25.960 --> 0:13:31.960 Oh uh wow, Well I'm kind of in shock. So 0:13:32.040 --> 0:13:33.480 should I still go grocery shopping? 0:13:33.640 --> 0:13:33.720 Like? 0:13:34.800 --> 0:13:37.720 Okay, but baby, that's good news, Like we're rich. 0:13:37.880 --> 0:13:39.720 It's like bigger money. 0:13:39.720 --> 0:13:40.040 Baby. 0:13:41.120 --> 0:13:45.240 Huh. I can't even like wrap my head around it, 0:13:45.360 --> 0:13:46.560 Like that's wrap. 0:13:46.400 --> 0:13:49.199 Your heads around a baby, like that's good money. It 0:13:49.280 --> 0:13:50.240 was sitting in your. 0:13:50.120 --> 0:13:55.800 Attics, right, yeah, so what should we do? Like what 0:13:55.840 --> 0:13:57.599 do we you? 0:13:57.600 --> 0:13:59.920 Should you suspend it on like your grad school and everything? 0:14:00.040 --> 0:14:06.520 Oh yeah, I'm like like I don't know, do we 0:14:06.559 --> 0:14:08.160 need like to get a pre upper or something? 0:14:11.240 --> 0:14:11.320 What? 0:14:12.440 --> 0:14:15.080 No, I'm just saying like it's you know, before we're 0:14:15.480 --> 0:14:18.800 technically married and everything, so you know, well. 0:14:18.960 --> 0:14:21.040 Yes, but like I literally thought that you would be 0:14:21.040 --> 0:14:22.720 super starty, like this can help us with all of 0:14:22.760 --> 0:14:26.240 our our engagement stuff. What do you do you want 0:14:26.280 --> 0:14:27.240 to prenup? Now? 0:14:28.080 --> 0:14:29.520 You didn't even know you had this money? 0:14:30.720 --> 0:14:32.920 Uh well but I do. Now. 0:14:36.080 --> 0:14:41.600 Wow, that's a person that comes to. 0:14:43.200 --> 0:14:46.720 What I say with a radio show. 0:14:47.880 --> 0:14:48.080 Yeah. 0:14:48.120 --> 0:14:49.880 The the other people that you're hearing on the phone right 0:14:49.920 --> 0:14:52.320 now is a show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:14:53.480 --> 0:14:56.760 Huh oh, okay, it's. 0:14:56.760 --> 0:14:58.120 Even more Yeah. 0:14:58.960 --> 0:15:01.040 Yeah, this is a a segment we do called an 0:15:01.040 --> 0:15:03.280 Awkward Tuesday phone call, and we were really excited to 0:15:03.320 --> 0:15:06.040 tell you about the valuable coins that your grandpa left 0:15:06.120 --> 0:15:06.840 you up in the attic. 0:15:07.040 --> 0:15:13.840 Yeah, yeah, awkward. 0:15:14.000 --> 0:15:15.280 Your mind went right to a pre nup. 0:15:15.400 --> 0:15:15.640 Huh. 0:15:15.760 --> 0:15:17.440 Yeah, why her. 0:15:17.280 --> 0:15:20.200 Mind went to spending it on your your grad school 0:15:20.240 --> 0:15:22.120 bill and the wedding for both of you. 0:15:22.280 --> 0:15:25.080 And I can't imagine how Allison must be feeling right now, Alison, 0:15:25.120 --> 0:15:25.600 are you okay? 0:15:27.120 --> 0:15:29.400 Yeah? No, I guess I'm also kind of in shock 0:15:29.480 --> 0:15:32.800 that that's his reaction. I thought he'd be more elated 0:15:32.840 --> 0:15:33.200 than that. 0:15:33.480 --> 0:15:35.440 I think he is elated, so elated he wants to 0:15:35.480 --> 0:15:36.360 keep it to himself. 0:15:37.960 --> 0:15:40.480 Is that something you'd already been thinking about? 0:15:41.000 --> 0:15:42.240 No, I don't know. 0:15:42.360 --> 0:15:44.280 I just don't know how this stuff usually works. 0:15:44.480 --> 0:15:48.400 So you're not money, it doesn't I mean, it sounds 0:15:48.440 --> 0:15:51.480 like you'll spend it right on grad school and stuff. 0:15:52.560 --> 0:15:54.120 Yeah, I mean, in. 0:15:54.120 --> 0:15:58.200 A prenup, lawyer, maybe he doesn't need grad school anymore, 0:15:58.200 --> 0:15:58.880 he's already rich. 0:15:59.120 --> 0:16:00.400 Is he going to use grad school for? 0:16:01.000 --> 0:16:04.640 Wait? Allison? Then uh? Are your parents not paying for 0:16:04.680 --> 0:16:06.360 the wedding? Then are we paying for it? 0:16:09.400 --> 0:16:13.400 Where can we save money? You want to decide up 0:16:13.520 --> 0:16:18.400 and you want to pay for the money, which. 0:16:18.200 --> 0:16:21.160 Is I'm just saying before your parents were going to 0:16:21.200 --> 0:16:24.880 pay for the wedding, and so are we now paying 0:16:24.920 --> 0:16:26.120 for the wedding because of the corn? 0:16:27.040 --> 0:16:29.320 Well no, baby, of course, of course they're so willing 0:16:29.360 --> 0:16:30.840 to pay for the wedding that they were going to 0:16:30.880 --> 0:16:32.760 pay for. I'm just saying we could do some upgrades 0:16:32.880 --> 0:16:35.640 or something like honeymoon stuff. We could use the money 0:16:35.640 --> 0:16:35.920 for me. 0:16:36.360 --> 0:16:36.800 Yeah. 0:16:36.840 --> 0:16:38.200 Wow, this is not how I expected this to. 0:16:38.560 --> 0:16:42.240 Okay, Allison, I think that you are being real kind 0:16:42.280 --> 0:16:50.200 about this. You're engaged. You guys are together now, everything 0:16:50.280 --> 0:16:52.160 that is his is yours, yours. 0:16:53.840 --> 0:16:54.120 True? 0:16:54.440 --> 0:16:57.120 Yeah, No, I mean, like I get that we're together, 0:16:57.200 --> 0:17:00.360 and but I mean just from a legal standpoint, and 0:17:00.400 --> 0:17:03.400 I don't know how this all works. But it's my money. 0:17:04.359 --> 0:17:06.000 I mean, of course I want to share it, like 0:17:06.240 --> 0:17:09.639 some of it, some of it. 0:17:10.520 --> 0:17:12.120 The first thing you asked was should I go buy 0:17:12.119 --> 0:17:14.040 groceries if you don't want to. 0:17:14.000 --> 0:17:15.080 Spend any money. 0:17:15.680 --> 0:17:18.040 No, I'm not trying to take any of it back. 0:17:18.160 --> 0:17:19.919 I just thought that this might be something nice for 0:17:20.000 --> 0:17:21.879 you and I to like have a little bit. 0:17:21.760 --> 0:17:24.600 Of Yeah, Allison isn't asking for any of it, Zach. 0:17:24.840 --> 0:17:27.240 No, it's a really cool surprise. 0:17:27.480 --> 0:17:31.639 Oh, lad with Actually that's been the first thing out 0:17:31.640 --> 0:17:32.040 of your mouth. 0:17:32.080 --> 0:17:34.280 How did this call turn out more awkward than any 0:17:34.320 --> 0:17:36.399 of our other awkward calls? If you've ever done I 0:17:36.440 --> 0:17:38.200 feel right now? 0:17:39.600 --> 0:17:41.439 Yeah, maybe maybe we should take this. 0:17:42.080 --> 0:17:44.200 We should follow us up at home back, I don't 0:17:44.280 --> 0:17:44.679 I don't know. 0:17:45.160 --> 0:17:47.440 Unless you disagree, it'sign the premium now, then there's something 0:17:47.480 --> 0:17:48.040 to talk about. 0:17:48.119 --> 0:17:49.960 Okay, there's going to be some conversations. 0:17:51.640 --> 0:17:54.760 Yeah, way to end this appropriately. 0:17:55.000 --> 0:17:57.600 It's awkward, all right, Good luck guys. 0:17:58.440 --> 0:17:59.680 Do you want to send some money over to the 0:17:59.760 --> 0:18:01.840 radio station two for some renovations over here? 0:18:02.359 --> 0:18:03.400 Yeah, we would love it. 0:18:05.000 --> 0:18:05.520 Crickets. 0:18:09.760 --> 0:18:11.960 And the biggest question out of that is did the 0:18:11.960 --> 0:18:12.720 wedding happen? 0:18:12.840 --> 0:18:13.040 Oh? 0:18:13.160 --> 0:18:16.600 Seriously, And we don't have the answer for you. Sorry. 0:18:16.960 --> 0:18:20.320 I thought for sure we'd get an update from this couple. Yeah, 0:18:20.359 --> 0:18:22.200 but we didn't. So I don't know if that means 0:18:22.240 --> 0:18:24.200 that that they broke. 0:18:24.000 --> 0:18:26.280 Up, or they worked it out and they don't want 0:18:26.280 --> 0:18:28.080 to come to us because they know we'll be like seriously. 0:18:29.520 --> 0:18:31.720 Or that girl's too ashamed to admit that the wedding 0:18:31.760 --> 0:18:34.840 did happen because she read through the comments, nobody wanted 0:18:34.840 --> 0:18:36.359 them to get a. 0:18:36.400 --> 0:18:37.240 Lot of this tone. 0:18:37.320 --> 0:18:39.720 After his attitude, She should not marry that guy at all. 0:18:39.760 --> 0:18:42.000