1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,480 Speaker 1: Quickly becoming the favorite day of the week, the awkward 2 00:00:02,560 --> 00:00:03,840 Speaker 1: Tuesday phone cod. 3 00:00:04,160 --> 00:00:05,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a highlight. 4 00:00:05,920 --> 00:00:08,319 Speaker 1: It is because it's like relationship drama, but it's like 5 00:00:08,480 --> 00:00:12,360 Speaker 1: all sorts of different relationships. Maybe co workers, it could be, 6 00:00:12,760 --> 00:00:14,080 Speaker 1: you know, yeah, spouses. 7 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:16,040 Speaker 3: Do people like it because we don't talk as much 8 00:00:16,079 --> 00:00:16,680 Speaker 3: the second half? 9 00:00:16,760 --> 00:00:22,440 Speaker 1: That could be Yeah, yeah, I don't mind that. All right, 10 00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:24,720 Speaker 1: Welcome to the Brook and Jeffrey Second Date Podcast. 11 00:00:24,800 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 4: Today is a classic, but we've got a new comment 12 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:28,480 Speaker 4: to read. 13 00:00:28,560 --> 00:00:30,920 Speaker 5: Yes, so Tia said, I'm all the way from South Africa. 14 00:00:31,520 --> 00:00:33,320 Speaker 3: The one thing I realized is that y'all do your 15 00:00:33,400 --> 00:00:34,800 Speaker 3: job better when you're criticized. 16 00:00:35,040 --> 00:00:35,879 Speaker 5: So here we go. 17 00:00:38,440 --> 00:00:40,920 Speaker 3: Out of plus or minus three thousand, five hundred phone 18 00:00:40,920 --> 00:00:43,919 Speaker 3: taps and second dates, I only saved sixty five phone. 19 00:00:43,680 --> 00:00:46,480 Speaker 5: Taps and forty four second dates. So come on, y'all 20 00:00:46,479 --> 00:00:47,680 Speaker 5: could do way better than that. 21 00:00:49,840 --> 00:00:51,400 Speaker 6: Yeah, all right, we're gonna work. 22 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:52,879 Speaker 4: On forty five save for this year. 23 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:54,280 Speaker 5: That's our goal. 24 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:56,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I hope we can track her phone and 25 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:57,560 Speaker 2: be like, yes, she saved. 26 00:01:00,640 --> 00:01:01,600 Speaker 5: Challenge accepted. 27 00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:03,880 Speaker 4: All right, awkward starts right now. 28 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:09,600 Speaker 6: Snooping through your significant other stuff that is almost always 29 00:01:09,600 --> 00:01:11,520 Speaker 6: gonna lead to finding bad things. 30 00:01:11,760 --> 00:01:14,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, come on, if you got a snoop, you probably 31 00:01:14,319 --> 00:01:15,240 Speaker 2: you probably got something going. 32 00:01:15,720 --> 00:01:18,039 Speaker 6: Like when Brooke went through her husband's box of chains 33 00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:21,560 Speaker 6: and restraints and she found Michael's old love letters to 34 00:01:21,680 --> 00:01:28,399 Speaker 6: Jason raz I wish that was a lie. So weird 35 00:01:28,480 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 6: conversation they had to have that man was. 36 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:31,399 Speaker 2: Like, what what? 37 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 6: But what if by some miracle you snooped and actually 38 00:01:37,920 --> 00:01:42,200 Speaker 6: found something good? Because one of our listeners says she 39 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:45,600 Speaker 6: just moved in with her fiance and what she found 40 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:50,080 Speaker 6: buried in his attic wasn't just good, it was incredible 41 00:01:50,560 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 6: and he had no idea it was even there. 42 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:54,480 Speaker 2: Oh my god. 43 00:01:54,640 --> 00:01:56,880 Speaker 6: Now she needs our advice on how to deliver the 44 00:01:56,920 --> 00:01:59,960 Speaker 6: news to him. You're gonna hear what the big discovery 45 00:01:59,960 --> 00:02:03,320 Speaker 6: was in your brand new awkward Tuesday phone call? Next, 46 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:06,120 Speaker 6: it's awkward, it's Tuesday. 47 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 2: It's awkward Tuesday phone call? Did we just become best friends? 48 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:16,639 Speaker 6: Moving in together for the very first time can be 49 00:02:16,720 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 6: so exciting and special, especially if it's with your significant other. 50 00:02:22,560 --> 00:02:24,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, I hope you're more than best friends. 51 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:29,880 Speaker 6: Jeff can be more than best friends? Yeah, okay, but 52 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:32,200 Speaker 6: it's exciting because you're figuring out you know, who gets 53 00:02:32,240 --> 00:02:35,480 Speaker 6: what side of the closet, or in Brooks case, who 54 00:02:35,520 --> 00:02:39,960 Speaker 6: cleans what side of the toilet bowl? O Michael, that's 55 00:02:40,200 --> 00:02:50,520 Speaker 6: my side, that's right, Okay, now, Spongebie, okay, made it 56 00:02:50,840 --> 00:02:52,880 Speaker 6: weird for some to. 57 00:02:52,840 --> 00:02:57,239 Speaker 7: Be disgusted by that aside. 58 00:02:57,880 --> 00:03:02,120 Speaker 6: I'm excited to speak with Listen today because she's moving 59 00:03:02,160 --> 00:03:05,800 Speaker 6: in with her boyfriend of two years and they just 60 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:11,400 Speaker 6: got engaged in congratulations. 61 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:11,639 Speaker 4: Yay, thank you. 62 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:14,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, side of the toilet bowls your side? 63 00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:17,639 Speaker 4: Pick left? Pick left, I swear. 64 00:03:18,280 --> 00:03:20,880 Speaker 6: So you guys have a big move. Is it happening 65 00:03:20,960 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 6: right now or what's going on? 66 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:23,040 Speaker 8: Yeah? 67 00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:25,640 Speaker 9: Yeah, we're we've been together for two years. You know, 68 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:27,400 Speaker 9: he proposed and then we're like, okay, now we're going 69 00:03:27,440 --> 00:03:28,360 Speaker 9: to move in together. 70 00:03:28,120 --> 00:03:29,760 Speaker 4: And there's so matter of fact about it. 71 00:03:30,880 --> 00:03:33,320 Speaker 9: Well yeah, I mean, you know, it's it's like I've 72 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 9: lived people before, never gotten engaged, so to do it 73 00:03:36,480 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 9: and now start moving in together is like a different 74 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:40,840 Speaker 9: kind of chapter for me. So navigating it is a 75 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 9: little weird. 76 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:43,720 Speaker 4: Okay, Yeah, what's weird about it? 77 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 9: It's like we're not getting a new place. I'm moving 78 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:50,880 Speaker 9: into his already place. So it's his territory, his turf. Yeah, 79 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:53,680 Speaker 9: so it's going, well, I'm moving my stuff and everything. 80 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 9: And I was in the attic and there's stuff that, like, 81 00:03:56,640 --> 00:03:59,160 Speaker 9: you know, his grandparents have passed on and stuff, so 82 00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:01,400 Speaker 9: you know, he's had his grandparents boxes up there, and 83 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:05,280 Speaker 9: so you know, I'm honest, I'm just going through everything, 84 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 9: you know. 85 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:07,720 Speaker 4: Okay, and so are you just college to complain about 86 00:04:07,760 --> 00:04:08,880 Speaker 4: what a clutterbuggy is? 87 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 9: Like sound kind of overwhelmed, Oh, innocently going through everything, okay. 88 00:04:13,280 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 9: And I find his grandfather's stuff. I asked him, I said, 89 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:17,640 Speaker 9: do you know what's in your grandfather's boxes? He goes, 90 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:18,560 Speaker 9: I don't know what that is. 91 00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:19,800 Speaker 10: You know, it's just boxes I still have. 92 00:04:19,920 --> 00:04:23,920 Speaker 4: So I was like, okay, threw them away to the fire. 93 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 9: Well, there might be stuff that we could use, you know, 94 00:04:27,800 --> 00:04:30,159 Speaker 9: if he's got some like good spatulas or frying pans, 95 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:31,080 Speaker 9: and I'm gonna bring him. 96 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:38,520 Speaker 4: Down on totally absolutely anymore nice silver, yes, oho asbestos. 97 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:42,040 Speaker 9: So I found some smaller boxes with like keepstak all 98 00:04:42,040 --> 00:04:44,039 Speaker 9: that kind of stuff and jewelry and stuff like that. 99 00:04:44,560 --> 00:04:46,920 Speaker 10: But I found a box of coins coin. 100 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:50,680 Speaker 2: Those could be worth a lot, they can exactly. 101 00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 9: I take these coins and I'm like, wow, these are 102 00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:58,040 Speaker 9: dated like eighteen hundred's kind of stuff. Oh whoa, yeah, 103 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:00,599 Speaker 9: so I take these coins in to get him afraid, right. 104 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:02,920 Speaker 4: And your boy and your fiance sorry knows you're doing this. 105 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:05,680 Speaker 9: No, he knows that I was in the boxes though, 106 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 9: but he doesn't know that I just decided to on 107 00:05:07,480 --> 00:05:10,000 Speaker 9: my own go check out how much he's are worth. 108 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:13,839 Speaker 7: Okay, I wouldn't say oh, because if it's if they're 109 00:05:13,839 --> 00:05:15,400 Speaker 7: not worth anything, then he'll never know. 110 00:05:17,240 --> 00:05:17,800 Speaker 9: He's kind of. 111 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:19,080 Speaker 4: Weird not to tell him. 112 00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:22,000 Speaker 9: But okay, well, yet here we out. 113 00:05:22,520 --> 00:05:23,080 Speaker 10: I do that. 114 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:24,960 Speaker 9: We're looking at six figures. 115 00:05:25,279 --> 00:05:28,360 Speaker 2: Oh, you're down. 116 00:05:29,440 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 9: Way more than one hundred thousand, my guy. 117 00:05:31,480 --> 00:05:34,719 Speaker 2: Oh my god, one thousand. 118 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:35,880 Speaker 11: Yeah. 119 00:05:36,279 --> 00:05:38,360 Speaker 4: Jose almost tells you my husband's name. 120 00:05:38,440 --> 00:05:39,920 Speaker 2: Yeah. When she gets match, heels back. 121 00:05:40,400 --> 00:05:42,760 Speaker 6: So you're you're still not going to tell him about that? 122 00:05:42,839 --> 00:05:46,159 Speaker 9: Then, well, I'm obviously going to tell him. I don't 123 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:48,800 Speaker 9: want him to think that like I was money grubbing 124 00:05:48,960 --> 00:05:50,880 Speaker 9: or like nuping in a weird way. I mean, we've 125 00:05:50,920 --> 00:05:53,480 Speaker 9: never lived together, and I've already found like a crap 126 00:05:53,520 --> 00:05:56,080 Speaker 9: ton of money all of a sudden, I'm going to 127 00:05:56,160 --> 00:05:56,479 Speaker 9: tell you. 128 00:05:57,040 --> 00:06:00,520 Speaker 4: If my like my significant others said, it took your 129 00:06:00,520 --> 00:06:03,320 Speaker 4: stuff to get in a praise without telling you. I 130 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:04,400 Speaker 4: have some trust things. 131 00:06:04,480 --> 00:06:07,640 Speaker 9: Really exactly, that's I'm afraid of. 132 00:06:07,800 --> 00:06:10,120 Speaker 6: But it's like, could you really even use that type 133 00:06:10,120 --> 00:06:11,400 Speaker 6: of money for anything. 134 00:06:13,080 --> 00:06:16,920 Speaker 4: That you just have a wedding coming out? 135 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:19,680 Speaker 6: Even what do you want to do with it? 136 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:24,719 Speaker 9: So he's been really stressed about like graduate school paying 137 00:06:24,760 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 9: for it and everything, and I'm just like, oh my god, 138 00:06:27,279 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 9: this is like finally our solution for that. 139 00:06:29,320 --> 00:06:32,800 Speaker 6: Oh sorry, I need to go to graduate school anymore. 140 00:06:32,800 --> 00:06:33,560 Speaker 6: And now you're rich. 141 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:36,800 Speaker 2: I didn't go to college. Look at me. Oh wait, 142 00:06:36,880 --> 00:06:37,479 Speaker 2: you can't see me. 143 00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:38,560 Speaker 4: I'm the message. 144 00:06:38,960 --> 00:06:39,760 Speaker 11: Yeah. 145 00:06:40,680 --> 00:06:42,800 Speaker 9: It's like I wanted to be like a really nice 146 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:44,680 Speaker 9: surprise for him, but I don't want it to then 147 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:47,240 Speaker 9: be like, wait, why were you and my stuff? 148 00:06:47,320 --> 00:06:50,000 Speaker 2: He might be so excited he won't care. I know, man, 149 00:06:50,600 --> 00:06:53,040 Speaker 2: I think now it's it's it's funny. 150 00:06:53,200 --> 00:06:55,400 Speaker 7: This would have been better if they were worth nothing, 151 00:06:55,400 --> 00:06:58,080 Speaker 7: because then he'd be like, oh cool, an extra ten dollars, honey, great, 152 00:06:58,080 --> 00:07:01,600 Speaker 7: thank you. But now that it's worth figures plus, it 153 00:07:01,680 --> 00:07:04,640 Speaker 7: looks like you were conniving and kind of mind. 154 00:07:04,480 --> 00:07:07,160 Speaker 4: This back no, because she's coming to it with I mean, 155 00:07:07,160 --> 00:07:08,720 Speaker 4: she's coming to him and she's going to spend the 156 00:07:08,720 --> 00:07:09,920 Speaker 4: money on stuff he needs. 157 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:12,640 Speaker 9: I guess I'm not taking it and running. I'm giving 158 00:07:12,680 --> 00:07:14,880 Speaker 9: it to him. I'm telling him that it's worth I'm 159 00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:16,400 Speaker 9: not going to just like be like okay, never mind' 160 00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:18,840 Speaker 9: his engagement running away with all this cash. 161 00:07:18,920 --> 00:07:19,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, totally. 162 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:23,280 Speaker 6: And they did have a conversation about the boxes before. 163 00:07:23,920 --> 00:07:25,640 Speaker 6: He just kind of brushed her off, didn't know what 164 00:07:25,720 --> 00:07:27,120 Speaker 6: was in there. So this is going to be a 165 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:27,920 Speaker 6: surprise for him. 166 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:28,960 Speaker 5: This is going to be fun. 167 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 4: This is actually going to be a fun awkward Tuesday. 168 00:07:31,480 --> 00:07:33,120 Speaker 2: Why this is even awkward? Then this is going to 169 00:07:33,160 --> 00:07:33,920 Speaker 2: be great, though. 170 00:07:33,920 --> 00:07:35,600 Speaker 6: I guess the part that's awkward is like, hey, I 171 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:38,160 Speaker 6: went and took stuff from your attic without teleweion. 172 00:07:38,160 --> 00:07:39,840 Speaker 2: You already knew you were going through your lives. 173 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:41,400 Speaker 9: But do you think you don't think that he's going 174 00:07:41,440 --> 00:07:43,880 Speaker 9: to think that I was like money, Like I was 175 00:07:43,920 --> 00:07:45,720 Speaker 9: like searching for stuff to find money for. 176 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:48,000 Speaker 6: Oh for sure, for sure he's going to think that. 177 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:50,360 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, that's what I was trying to say. But 178 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:51,600 Speaker 2: he said it's going to be fine. 179 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:53,200 Speaker 6: Yeah, we'll figure out a way for it to be 180 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:55,320 Speaker 6: fine as long as you don't get any advice from Brooke, 181 00:07:55,560 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 6: so we'll come back. So long advice from jose and 182 00:07:58,920 --> 00:08:03,760 Speaker 6: let you make your awkward two to your to tell 183 00:08:03,840 --> 00:08:07,679 Speaker 6: him you found a stash of old coins worth six 184 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:11,920 Speaker 6: figures up in his as. We're gonna do it right 185 00:08:11,960 --> 00:08:14,320 Speaker 6: after this. Hold on, it's awkward. 186 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:15,400 Speaker 2: It's Tuesday. 187 00:08:16,240 --> 00:08:20,720 Speaker 6: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. We've done proposals on this 188 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:26,280 Speaker 6: segment before, we've done gender reveals things that aren't necessarily awkward, bad, 189 00:08:26,560 --> 00:08:30,720 Speaker 6: but awkward exciting. Yeah, because we get to sit on 190 00:08:30,720 --> 00:08:33,240 Speaker 6: on a nice little private moment with a couple. 191 00:08:33,679 --> 00:08:34,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. 192 00:08:34,240 --> 00:08:36,960 Speaker 6: I just don't remember ever doing one where somebody said, hey, 193 00:08:37,080 --> 00:08:39,560 Speaker 6: I went through your grandpa's stuff in the attic and 194 00:08:39,640 --> 00:08:40,559 Speaker 6: now we're rich. 195 00:08:43,880 --> 00:08:45,199 Speaker 4: Still sound good to me, Jeff. 196 00:08:45,400 --> 00:08:48,000 Speaker 6: On top of that, there's actually a couple of good 197 00:08:48,120 --> 00:08:49,800 Speaker 6: uses that could come out of it because they have 198 00:08:49,880 --> 00:08:52,360 Speaker 6: a big wedding coming up. He wants to go to 199 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:54,240 Speaker 6: grad school and isn't sure how he's going to pay 200 00:08:54,280 --> 00:08:54,560 Speaker 6: for it. 201 00:08:54,640 --> 00:08:56,680 Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, it's like prayers answer. 202 00:08:58,559 --> 00:09:02,280 Speaker 6: All this positivity happened. The only thing that could possibly 203 00:09:02,320 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 6: mess this up is Brooke and some horrible advice. 204 00:09:05,280 --> 00:09:09,839 Speaker 4: Oh wait, at delivering an amazing advice, like amazing news. 205 00:09:10,080 --> 00:09:16,800 Speaker 6: It sounds like it wants to surprise her fiance on 206 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:19,720 Speaker 6: our show with this news. Let's start with some great 207 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 6: a advice from our own jose Bolanos. 208 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:23,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, so you just said you're worried. You're gonna look 209 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:26,000 Speaker 2: suss because you went through all of his stuff. 210 00:09:26,240 --> 00:09:30,640 Speaker 7: But if you're excited and you're positive, all you gotta 211 00:09:30,679 --> 00:09:31,160 Speaker 7: do is just. 212 00:09:31,120 --> 00:09:36,040 Speaker 2: Say you're rich and you helped him get there. Emphasize 213 00:09:36,040 --> 00:09:39,200 Speaker 2: that you helped him become rich. He's gonna be so happy. 214 00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:42,360 Speaker 2: He's that worry in your head is gonna go away. 215 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:45,120 Speaker 4: Emphasizing that she's the one that got in there's gonna 216 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:46,840 Speaker 4: make her sound like your money. 217 00:09:47,040 --> 00:09:49,320 Speaker 6: Okay, Brooke is already coming in with a sour attitude. 218 00:09:51,080 --> 00:09:54,040 Speaker 4: She should take credit for something her grandpa built for him. 219 00:09:54,120 --> 00:09:56,120 Speaker 4: You know, like I think you just go in and 220 00:09:56,160 --> 00:10:06,080 Speaker 4: you say, hey, every conversation, I took some of your 221 00:10:06,080 --> 00:10:08,240 Speaker 4: grandpa's things to get him a praise without telling you 222 00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:10,200 Speaker 4: because I didn't want you to get your hopes up 223 00:10:10,880 --> 00:10:20,239 Speaker 4: that it was worth something. But I have fantastic news. Yeah, Stress, 224 00:10:21,440 --> 00:10:24,840 Speaker 4: it's like the lottery of grandparents. Old crap. 225 00:10:25,120 --> 00:10:27,880 Speaker 9: Yeah, but we're not even married yet, and because I'm 226 00:10:27,920 --> 00:10:32,559 Speaker 9: afraid of him thinking, oh my god, sorry, you're stressed. 227 00:10:32,920 --> 00:10:34,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's okay, you're engaged. 228 00:10:34,280 --> 00:10:36,880 Speaker 4: Before you found the money, I. 229 00:10:36,840 --> 00:10:38,720 Speaker 9: Could have I could have run with it. I could 230 00:10:38,760 --> 00:10:39,800 Speaker 9: have taken it all and run. 231 00:10:39,840 --> 00:10:40,600 Speaker 10: And I didn't do that. 232 00:10:40,880 --> 00:10:41,920 Speaker 4: I wouldn't say that. 233 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:44,960 Speaker 6: I would say that I would. 234 00:10:46,440 --> 00:10:48,480 Speaker 5: Why is it even a thought that's crossing your mind? 235 00:10:48,559 --> 00:10:50,120 Speaker 6: It shows that you're a good person. 236 00:10:50,360 --> 00:10:53,040 Speaker 4: Can you imagine, like, well, I meant this really hot guy. 237 00:10:53,120 --> 00:10:54,960 Speaker 4: I had the option of sleeping with him, but I 238 00:10:55,040 --> 00:10:58,600 Speaker 4: didn't decision. 239 00:11:00,559 --> 00:11:02,960 Speaker 6: All right, Well, hopefully that helps you. We're gonna back 240 00:11:03,000 --> 00:11:05,360 Speaker 6: away and let you call your fiance and tell them 241 00:11:05,360 --> 00:11:07,920 Speaker 6: what you found in the attic. Okay, are you ready? Okay, 242 00:11:08,320 --> 00:11:10,880 Speaker 6: it kind of sounds like a horror movie what you 243 00:11:11,040 --> 00:11:15,280 Speaker 6: found waiting up in the attic for you. No, that 244 00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:18,040 Speaker 6: didn't help. Okay, she's not gonna all right. See, it 245 00:11:18,080 --> 00:11:19,960 Speaker 6: couldn't probably go worse than that, So let's do it. 246 00:11:19,960 --> 00:11:36,079 Speaker 8: Here we go, Hello, hi, baby, Hey, we're. 247 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:40,600 Speaker 11: Good. Your number came up. Weird it just shut up 248 00:11:40,640 --> 00:11:44,800 Speaker 11: like no caller. I'm almost done with Aaron. I gotta 249 00:11:44,840 --> 00:11:47,480 Speaker 11: go to the grocery store. Is there anything particularly you 250 00:11:47,520 --> 00:11:48,680 Speaker 11: want for dinner? 251 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:54,600 Speaker 9: No, but maybe you can buy yourself a steak after 252 00:11:54,679 --> 00:11:55,200 Speaker 9: I let. 253 00:11:55,160 --> 00:11:57,719 Speaker 10: You in on some some news I have for you. 254 00:11:59,360 --> 00:12:02,160 Speaker 11: Okay, Okay, So. 255 00:12:03,360 --> 00:12:05,080 Speaker 9: You know I've been like doing some of my stuff 256 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:07,280 Speaker 9: up in the attic and everything, and I know I 257 00:12:07,360 --> 00:12:10,320 Speaker 9: texted you about your grandpa's boxes and everything, right. 258 00:12:10,840 --> 00:12:13,040 Speaker 11: Yeah, you don't honestly too. I mean, we just throw 259 00:12:13,160 --> 00:12:15,679 Speaker 11: most of it away. Here's old trash. 260 00:12:15,679 --> 00:12:19,600 Speaker 9: I mean, well, well, sure, I mean I'll get rid 261 00:12:19,600 --> 00:12:22,640 Speaker 9: of like trash and stuff. But I was like, let 262 00:12:22,679 --> 00:12:24,680 Speaker 9: me just make sure there's no keepsakes in it, you know, 263 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:27,800 Speaker 9: or something we could use around the house. And so 264 00:12:27,840 --> 00:12:29,720 Speaker 9: I actually found some coins in there. 265 00:12:30,720 --> 00:12:33,760 Speaker 11: Yeah, that's right. He did collect the rocks and coins 266 00:12:33,800 --> 00:12:37,360 Speaker 11: and all kinds of Okay, well. 267 00:12:37,240 --> 00:12:41,080 Speaker 9: Rocks, okay, So the coins are more of the concern 268 00:12:41,160 --> 00:12:42,520 Speaker 9: and what I'm about to tell you. 269 00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:45,840 Speaker 10: Okay, So the coins, they. 270 00:12:45,720 --> 00:12:47,800 Speaker 9: Look pretty old. So I just decided to take them 271 00:12:47,840 --> 00:12:50,040 Speaker 9: to like an appraiser. 272 00:12:50,520 --> 00:12:52,160 Speaker 11: And like Coinstar. 273 00:12:53,559 --> 00:12:56,360 Speaker 9: Oh my god, no, no, not that Coinstar baby, like 274 00:12:57,720 --> 00:12:59,600 Speaker 9: like an antique shop kind of stuff, like you know, 275 00:12:59,679 --> 00:13:06,360 Speaker 9: like yeah, yeah, and they they're, uh, they're worth like 276 00:13:06,480 --> 00:13:09,040 Speaker 9: a lot of money. The coins I found, Like I 277 00:13:09,200 --> 00:13:10,160 Speaker 9: was saying that they're worth. 278 00:13:09,960 --> 00:13:14,920 Speaker 11: A lot, like more than five hundred bucks or. 279 00:13:17,200 --> 00:13:19,800 Speaker 9: Yeah, the numbers looking like it might be able to 280 00:13:20,000 --> 00:13:23,520 Speaker 9: cover our wedding and grad schools. 281 00:13:23,559 --> 00:13:23,959 Speaker 10: Princess. 282 00:13:25,960 --> 00:13:31,960 Speaker 11: Oh uh wow, Well I'm kind of in shock. So 283 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:33,480 Speaker 11: should I still go grocery shopping? 284 00:13:33,640 --> 00:13:33,720 Speaker 8: Like? 285 00:13:34,800 --> 00:13:37,720 Speaker 9: Okay, but baby, that's good news, Like we're rich. 286 00:13:37,880 --> 00:13:39,720 Speaker 10: It's like bigger money. 287 00:13:39,720 --> 00:13:40,040 Speaker 9: Baby. 288 00:13:41,120 --> 00:13:45,240 Speaker 11: Huh. I can't even like wrap my head around it, 289 00:13:45,360 --> 00:13:46,560 Speaker 11: Like that's wrap. 290 00:13:46,400 --> 00:13:49,199 Speaker 9: Your heads around a baby, like that's good money. It 291 00:13:49,280 --> 00:13:50,240 Speaker 9: was sitting in your. 292 00:13:50,120 --> 00:13:55,800 Speaker 11: Attics, right, yeah, so what should we do? Like what 293 00:13:55,840 --> 00:13:57,599 Speaker 11: do we you? 294 00:13:57,600 --> 00:13:59,920 Speaker 9: Should you suspend it on like your grad school and everything? 295 00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:06,520 Speaker 11: Oh yeah, I'm like like I don't know, do we 296 00:14:06,559 --> 00:14:08,160 Speaker 11: need like to get a pre upper or something? 297 00:14:11,240 --> 00:14:11,320 Speaker 8: What? 298 00:14:12,440 --> 00:14:15,080 Speaker 11: No, I'm just saying like it's you know, before we're 299 00:14:15,480 --> 00:14:18,800 Speaker 11: technically married and everything, so you know, well. 300 00:14:18,960 --> 00:14:21,040 Speaker 9: Yes, but like I literally thought that you would be 301 00:14:21,040 --> 00:14:22,720 Speaker 9: super starty, like this can help us with all of 302 00:14:22,760 --> 00:14:26,240 Speaker 9: our our engagement stuff. What do you do you want 303 00:14:26,280 --> 00:14:27,240 Speaker 9: to prenup? Now? 304 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:29,520 Speaker 10: You didn't even know you had this money? 305 00:14:30,720 --> 00:14:32,920 Speaker 8: Uh well but I do. Now. 306 00:14:36,080 --> 00:14:41,600 Speaker 4: Wow, that's a person that comes to. 307 00:14:43,200 --> 00:14:46,720 Speaker 10: What I say with a radio show. 308 00:14:47,880 --> 00:14:48,080 Speaker 11: Yeah. 309 00:14:48,120 --> 00:14:49,880 Speaker 6: The the other people that you're hearing on the phone right 310 00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:52,320 Speaker 6: now is a show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. 311 00:14:53,480 --> 00:14:56,760 Speaker 11: Huh oh, okay, it's. 312 00:14:56,760 --> 00:14:58,120 Speaker 2: Even more Yeah. 313 00:14:58,960 --> 00:15:01,040 Speaker 6: Yeah, this is a a segment we do called an 314 00:15:01,040 --> 00:15:03,280 Speaker 6: Awkward Tuesday phone call, and we were really excited to 315 00:15:03,320 --> 00:15:06,040 Speaker 6: tell you about the valuable coins that your grandpa left 316 00:15:06,120 --> 00:15:06,840 Speaker 6: you up in the attic. 317 00:15:07,040 --> 00:15:13,840 Speaker 11: Yeah, yeah, awkward. 318 00:15:14,000 --> 00:15:15,280 Speaker 2: Your mind went right to a pre nup. 319 00:15:15,400 --> 00:15:15,640 Speaker 11: Huh. 320 00:15:15,760 --> 00:15:17,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, why her. 321 00:15:17,280 --> 00:15:20,200 Speaker 4: Mind went to spending it on your your grad school 322 00:15:20,240 --> 00:15:22,120 Speaker 4: bill and the wedding for both of you. 323 00:15:22,280 --> 00:15:25,080 Speaker 6: And I can't imagine how Allison must be feeling right now, Alison, 324 00:15:25,120 --> 00:15:25,600 Speaker 6: are you okay? 325 00:15:27,120 --> 00:15:29,400 Speaker 9: Yeah? No, I guess I'm also kind of in shock 326 00:15:29,480 --> 00:15:32,800 Speaker 9: that that's his reaction. I thought he'd be more elated 327 00:15:32,840 --> 00:15:33,200 Speaker 9: than that. 328 00:15:33,480 --> 00:15:35,440 Speaker 2: I think he is elated, so elated he wants to 329 00:15:35,480 --> 00:15:36,360 Speaker 2: keep it to himself. 330 00:15:37,960 --> 00:15:40,480 Speaker 4: Is that something you'd already been thinking about? 331 00:15:41,000 --> 00:15:42,240 Speaker 8: No, I don't know. 332 00:15:42,360 --> 00:15:44,280 Speaker 11: I just don't know how this stuff usually works. 333 00:15:44,480 --> 00:15:48,400 Speaker 4: So you're not money, it doesn't I mean, it sounds 334 00:15:48,440 --> 00:15:51,480 Speaker 4: like you'll spend it right on grad school and stuff. 335 00:15:52,560 --> 00:15:54,120 Speaker 11: Yeah, I mean, in. 336 00:15:54,120 --> 00:15:58,200 Speaker 6: A prenup, lawyer, maybe he doesn't need grad school anymore, 337 00:15:58,200 --> 00:15:58,880 Speaker 6: he's already rich. 338 00:15:59,120 --> 00:16:00,400 Speaker 2: Is he going to use grad school for? 339 00:16:01,000 --> 00:16:04,640 Speaker 11: Wait? Allison? Then uh? Are your parents not paying for 340 00:16:04,680 --> 00:16:06,360 Speaker 11: the wedding? Then are we paying for it? 341 00:16:09,400 --> 00:16:13,400 Speaker 6: Where can we save money? You want to decide up 342 00:16:13,520 --> 00:16:18,400 Speaker 6: and you want to pay for the money, which. 343 00:16:18,200 --> 00:16:21,160 Speaker 11: Is I'm just saying before your parents were going to 344 00:16:21,200 --> 00:16:24,880 Speaker 11: pay for the wedding, and so are we now paying 345 00:16:24,920 --> 00:16:26,120 Speaker 11: for the wedding because of the corn? 346 00:16:27,040 --> 00:16:29,320 Speaker 9: Well no, baby, of course, of course they're so willing 347 00:16:29,360 --> 00:16:30,840 Speaker 9: to pay for the wedding that they were going to 348 00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:32,760 Speaker 9: pay for. I'm just saying we could do some upgrades 349 00:16:32,880 --> 00:16:35,640 Speaker 9: or something like honeymoon stuff. We could use the money 350 00:16:35,640 --> 00:16:35,920 Speaker 9: for me. 351 00:16:36,360 --> 00:16:36,800 Speaker 2: Yeah. 352 00:16:36,840 --> 00:16:38,200 Speaker 10: Wow, this is not how I expected this to. 353 00:16:38,560 --> 00:16:42,240 Speaker 4: Okay, Allison, I think that you are being real kind 354 00:16:42,280 --> 00:16:50,200 Speaker 4: about this. You're engaged. You guys are together now, everything 355 00:16:50,280 --> 00:16:52,160 Speaker 4: that is his is yours, yours. 356 00:16:53,840 --> 00:16:54,120 Speaker 9: True? 357 00:16:54,440 --> 00:16:57,120 Speaker 11: Yeah, No, I mean, like I get that we're together, 358 00:16:57,200 --> 00:17:00,360 Speaker 11: and but I mean just from a legal standpoint, and 359 00:17:00,400 --> 00:17:03,400 Speaker 11: I don't know how this all works. But it's my money. 360 00:17:04,359 --> 00:17:06,000 Speaker 11: I mean, of course I want to share it, like 361 00:17:06,240 --> 00:17:09,639 Speaker 11: some of it, some of it. 362 00:17:10,520 --> 00:17:12,120 Speaker 7: The first thing you asked was should I go buy 363 00:17:12,119 --> 00:17:14,040 Speaker 7: groceries if you don't want to. 364 00:17:14,000 --> 00:17:15,080 Speaker 2: Spend any money. 365 00:17:15,680 --> 00:17:18,040 Speaker 9: No, I'm not trying to take any of it back. 366 00:17:18,160 --> 00:17:19,919 Speaker 9: I just thought that this might be something nice for 367 00:17:20,000 --> 00:17:21,879 Speaker 9: you and I to like have a little bit. 368 00:17:21,760 --> 00:17:24,600 Speaker 6: Of Yeah, Allison isn't asking for any of it, Zach. 369 00:17:24,840 --> 00:17:27,240 Speaker 11: No, it's a really cool surprise. 370 00:17:27,480 --> 00:17:31,639 Speaker 2: Oh, lad with Actually that's been the first thing out 371 00:17:31,640 --> 00:17:32,040 Speaker 2: of your mouth. 372 00:17:32,080 --> 00:17:34,280 Speaker 6: How did this call turn out more awkward than any 373 00:17:34,320 --> 00:17:36,399 Speaker 6: of our other awkward calls? If you've ever done I 374 00:17:36,440 --> 00:17:38,200 Speaker 6: feel right now? 375 00:17:39,600 --> 00:17:41,439 Speaker 10: Yeah, maybe maybe we should take this. 376 00:17:42,080 --> 00:17:44,200 Speaker 9: We should follow us up at home back, I don't 377 00:17:44,280 --> 00:17:44,679 Speaker 9: I don't know. 378 00:17:45,160 --> 00:17:47,440 Speaker 7: Unless you disagree, it'sign the premium now, then there's something 379 00:17:47,480 --> 00:17:48,040 Speaker 7: to talk about. 380 00:17:48,119 --> 00:17:49,960 Speaker 4: Okay, there's going to be some conversations. 381 00:17:51,640 --> 00:17:54,760 Speaker 6: Yeah, way to end this appropriately. 382 00:17:55,000 --> 00:17:57,600 Speaker 2: It's awkward, all right, Good luck guys. 383 00:17:58,440 --> 00:17:59,680 Speaker 6: Do you want to send some money over to the 384 00:17:59,760 --> 00:18:01,840 Speaker 6: radio station two for some renovations over here? 385 00:18:02,359 --> 00:18:03,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, we would love it. 386 00:18:05,000 --> 00:18:05,520 Speaker 6: Crickets. 387 00:18:09,760 --> 00:18:11,960 Speaker 4: And the biggest question out of that is did the 388 00:18:11,960 --> 00:18:12,720 Speaker 4: wedding happen? 389 00:18:12,840 --> 00:18:13,040 Speaker 1: Oh? 390 00:18:13,160 --> 00:18:16,600 Speaker 5: Seriously, And we don't have the answer for you. Sorry. 391 00:18:16,960 --> 00:18:20,320 Speaker 4: I thought for sure we'd get an update from this couple. Yeah, 392 00:18:20,359 --> 00:18:22,200 Speaker 4: but we didn't. So I don't know if that means 393 00:18:22,240 --> 00:18:24,200 Speaker 4: that that they broke. 394 00:18:24,000 --> 00:18:26,280 Speaker 3: Up, or they worked it out and they don't want 395 00:18:26,280 --> 00:18:28,080 Speaker 3: to come to us because they know we'll be like seriously. 396 00:18:29,520 --> 00:18:31,720 Speaker 1: Or that girl's too ashamed to admit that the wedding 397 00:18:31,760 --> 00:18:34,840 Speaker 1: did happen because she read through the comments, nobody wanted 398 00:18:34,840 --> 00:18:36,359 Speaker 1: them to get a. 399 00:18:36,400 --> 00:18:37,240 Speaker 5: Lot of this tone. 400 00:18:37,320 --> 00:18:39,720 Speaker 3: After his attitude, She should not marry that guy at all. 401 00:18:39,760 --> 00:18:42,000 Speaker 3: He seems more concerned for his money rather than her. 402 00:18:42,960 --> 00:18:44,680 Speaker 3: He doesn't sound like someone who should be going. 403 00:18:44,600 --> 00:18:45,320 Speaker 5: To grab school. 404 00:18:46,840 --> 00:18:52,360 Speaker 3: Someone else said, someone said, what's wrong with the prenup, 405 00:18:52,440 --> 00:18:55,040 Speaker 3: and then responded to by someone who said, I think 406 00:18:55,080 --> 00:18:57,800 Speaker 3: the problem isn't necessarily the prenup, it's the fact it's 407 00:18:57,800 --> 00:18:58,840 Speaker 3: the first thing that came. 408 00:18:58,720 --> 00:18:59,399 Speaker 5: To his mind. 409 00:18:59,680 --> 00:19:01,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's gonna say it's yeah. 410 00:19:01,200 --> 00:19:03,439 Speaker 7: I mean Brenhams are okay, every couple can talk about it, 411 00:19:03,480 --> 00:19:04,080 Speaker 7: but like that's. 412 00:19:03,960 --> 00:19:06,600 Speaker 5: Your Yeah, I kind of like this one. She should 413 00:19:06,600 --> 00:19:08,240 Speaker 5: have kept a couple of coins since he doesn't know 414 00:19:08,280 --> 00:19:11,679 Speaker 5: what was in there anyways, Well, you never know, you 415 00:19:11,800 --> 00:19:13,200 Speaker 5: never know what is. 416 00:19:13,280 --> 00:19:15,399 Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe she's off on her own island somewhere on 417 00:19:15,480 --> 00:19:15,919 Speaker 3: a yacht. 418 00:19:16,600 --> 00:19:18,720 Speaker 4: Maybe that's actually the update we were waiting for her. 419 00:19:18,800 --> 00:19:21,000 Speaker 1: Well, if we ever get one, we will update you 420 00:19:21,040 --> 00:19:23,560 Speaker 1: on this couple because it is wild. Hey, and if 421 00:19:23,600 --> 00:19:26,160 Speaker 1: you ever have a really uncomfortable conversation you need to have, 422 00:19:26,680 --> 00:19:29,920 Speaker 1: we'll help you. 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