1 00:00:01,000 --> 00:00:04,280 Speaker 1: Welcome to Dirty Rush, The Truth about sorority life with 2 00:00:04,320 --> 00:00:08,520 Speaker 1: your hosts me Gia Judice, Daisy Kent, and Jennifer Kessler. 3 00:00:12,680 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 1: Welcome back to Dirty Rush. We're continuing our conversation with 4 00:00:15,960 --> 00:00:20,360 Speaker 1: influencers who lived the sorority experience firsthand. We're back with 5 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:20,959 Speaker 1: part three. 6 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:23,520 Speaker 2: So nice to meet you. I'm Riley. 7 00:00:23,880 --> 00:00:25,799 Speaker 3: Nice to meet you. TG. It has been telling me 8 00:00:26,040 --> 00:00:27,080 Speaker 3: how amazing you are. 9 00:00:27,480 --> 00:00:29,920 Speaker 1: Wait, I know you went to Arizona, but I didn't 10 00:00:29,920 --> 00:00:30,920 Speaker 1: know you were in a sorority. 11 00:00:31,360 --> 00:00:33,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I was. I loved it too. 12 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:35,440 Speaker 3: Sorority were you in? 13 00:00:35,800 --> 00:00:36,960 Speaker 2: I was in Delta Zeta? 14 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:38,200 Speaker 3: Very cool? 15 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 2: I graduated today, so like, yeah, youngrats, thank you. 16 00:00:46,560 --> 00:00:49,519 Speaker 1: Okay, so take the girls through your rush process. I'm 17 00:00:49,520 --> 00:00:54,240 Speaker 1: sure your outfits were insane, so let's hear all about it. 18 00:00:54,240 --> 00:00:58,960 Speaker 4: It was so crazy because I'm originally from Louisiana, so 19 00:00:59,320 --> 00:01:02,920 Speaker 4: rushing out there and like in the South is totally 20 00:01:02,960 --> 00:01:06,760 Speaker 4: different and like rushing is not everyone's vibe. That's like 21 00:01:06,880 --> 00:01:10,280 Speaker 4: for sure, and that's how I felt like in the South. 22 00:01:10,360 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 4: I was like, oh, absolutely not, Like I will not 23 00:01:13,520 --> 00:01:16,240 Speaker 4: be the Southern bell like screaming at the door like 24 00:01:16,280 --> 00:01:19,119 Speaker 4: that was just like not my vibe. And then I 25 00:01:19,160 --> 00:01:22,440 Speaker 4: went to Arizona and I was on a cheer team 26 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:24,600 Speaker 4: like my entire life. So I was like, I have 27 00:01:24,680 --> 00:01:27,320 Speaker 4: to like I need some sense of like community, I 28 00:01:27,319 --> 00:01:28,280 Speaker 4: need my girls. 29 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 2: Like I didn't know. 30 00:01:29,319 --> 00:01:32,680 Speaker 4: What to do, especially like moving across the country to 31 00:01:32,720 --> 00:01:34,520 Speaker 4: go to college like I was eighteen. I had no 32 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:38,560 Speaker 4: idea what I was doing. And yeah, I just like 33 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:42,040 Speaker 4: embraced the process. I was like, whatever happens is going 34 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:47,080 Speaker 4: to happen. One of the like sororities. There is like 35 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:51,240 Speaker 4: top sorority like in the nation. And so I had 36 00:01:51,280 --> 00:01:53,160 Speaker 4: someone like in my life at the time was like 37 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:55,240 Speaker 4: telling me all about that. I was like, oh my gosh, 38 00:01:55,400 --> 00:01:57,840 Speaker 4: you have to rush the sorority, like they're top in 39 00:01:57,880 --> 00:01:58,280 Speaker 4: the nation. 40 00:01:58,400 --> 00:02:00,960 Speaker 2: They're top at ASU. Like that was the vibe. So 41 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:02,440 Speaker 2: I kind of like had that in the back of 42 00:02:02,520 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 2: my mind. 43 00:02:03,680 --> 00:02:07,040 Speaker 4: And I remember just like walking into Delta Zeta and 44 00:02:07,200 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 4: Delta Zada was not the house she was talking about. 45 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:11,960 Speaker 4: And I walked into Delta Zada and I was like 46 00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:15,680 Speaker 4: this is it. I had full body chills. I was 47 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:18,720 Speaker 4: like like me, like no, like sorty. 48 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:18,960 Speaker 5: Is not for me. 49 00:02:19,080 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 2: Like I was in there like crying, like and I 50 00:02:22,639 --> 00:02:23,600 Speaker 2: was like, yeah, this. 51 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:25,840 Speaker 6: Is my home, this is it for me. 52 00:02:26,120 --> 00:02:28,880 Speaker 4: And then ever since then, like I was like that's it, 53 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:30,880 Speaker 4: Like I didn't listen to her, and like I remember 54 00:02:30,919 --> 00:02:34,080 Speaker 4: them saying, like you end up in the house like 55 00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:37,560 Speaker 4: you're supposed to be in Like whatever happened, it's meant 56 00:02:37,600 --> 00:02:39,800 Speaker 4: to happen, even if like you don't if that's like 57 00:02:39,840 --> 00:02:42,560 Speaker 4: where you wanted to go in the first place. And 58 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:45,080 Speaker 4: there was like time because like my my best friend 59 00:02:45,080 --> 00:02:49,040 Speaker 4: in my roommate went the house and like my second choice, 60 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:50,960 Speaker 4: and there was so many times where I was like 61 00:02:50,960 --> 00:02:52,239 Speaker 4: did I make the right decision? 62 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:54,120 Speaker 2: Like I would like overthink it. 63 00:02:54,120 --> 00:02:57,639 Speaker 4: All the time, and as like the weeks went by, 64 00:02:57,840 --> 00:03:01,520 Speaker 4: I was like, oh my gosh, like like everything's so clear. 65 00:03:01,600 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 4: I like went so I went to the right house. 66 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:06,519 Speaker 4: But yeah, it was like such a good experience. 67 00:03:07,480 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 3: I love that year and such a good time. 68 00:03:09,680 --> 00:03:10,960 Speaker 2: Yeah. 69 00:03:11,040 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 1: So then would you recommend Rushing a sorority to girls 70 00:03:15,040 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 1: who are listening to this podcast? 71 00:03:16,760 --> 00:03:20,680 Speaker 4: Oh for sure, Like it just brings that sense of 72 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:22,040 Speaker 4: like home away from home. 73 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 1: I know. 74 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:24,640 Speaker 4: It's like everything that like so already say. It's like, 75 00:03:24,639 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 4: oh my gosh, everyone says that, but it's true. Like 76 00:03:27,160 --> 00:03:29,720 Speaker 4: when you find the right one, like you actually embrace 77 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:32,000 Speaker 4: it and you don't like listen to like the people 78 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:33,960 Speaker 4: that are like, oh my gosh, you're paying for friends 79 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:36,280 Speaker 4: or like whatever else. It is like it's actually your 80 00:03:36,280 --> 00:03:38,880 Speaker 4: home away from home, Like it's the girls that will 81 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 4: literally be in your wedding one day. Like it's the 82 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 4: girls that are gonna be there when you go through 83 00:03:43,600 --> 00:03:46,200 Speaker 4: your breakup in like college and you think your life sober, 84 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:48,760 Speaker 4: like they're like picking you up like that. 85 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 2: I don't know. 86 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:53,200 Speaker 4: College is such like an intense time, so. 87 00:03:53,200 --> 00:03:54,280 Speaker 2: I would recommend it. 88 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:57,120 Speaker 4: Like when I went through Rush and I saw the 89 00:03:57,160 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 4: girls in Daltha Zaida, I was like, this is. 90 00:03:59,280 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 2: Like I want to be just like them, like I 91 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:03,000 Speaker 2: want to It was. 92 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:05,640 Speaker 4: It was a situation where I was like I not 93 00:04:05,760 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 4: only can like see myself here and like being friends 94 00:04:08,600 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 4: with them, but like they're also like inspiring me. At 95 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 4: the same time, the girl like rushed like to the end, 96 00:04:14,760 --> 00:04:17,160 Speaker 4: like I was talking to like every day. Basically, She's 97 00:04:17,200 --> 00:04:19,359 Speaker 4: like what helps me is I look around. I'm like, 98 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:21,560 Speaker 4: could I see my best friend that I had like 99 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:24,920 Speaker 4: all throughout childhood or like my best friend in high school? 100 00:04:24,920 --> 00:04:26,960 Speaker 4: Like could I see them in this room like fitting 101 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 4: in and if your answer is yeah, and like that's 102 00:04:29,240 --> 00:04:30,839 Speaker 4: a really good sign. And I was like, yeah, like 103 00:04:30,920 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 4: my best friend would totally be in this room, so 104 00:04:33,200 --> 00:04:35,040 Speaker 4: I'd recommend it one million percent. 105 00:04:36,120 --> 00:04:40,919 Speaker 1: So then when did you start TikTok and starting like 106 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:42,600 Speaker 1: when did you start social media? 107 00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:45,719 Speaker 4: I started social media my junior year of high school, 108 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:49,160 Speaker 4: so I had been doing it for a couple of years. 109 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:53,320 Speaker 2: But it really didn't play a part into me rushing 110 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:53,760 Speaker 2: at all. 111 00:04:53,960 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 4: Like I in my heart and in my soul my body, 112 00:04:59,360 --> 00:05:05,240 Speaker 4: I didn't ever feel like social media was any like 113 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:06,480 Speaker 4: one up, Like. 114 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:09,240 Speaker 2: It didn't separate me from people, like still to this. 115 00:05:09,279 --> 00:05:12,200 Speaker 4: Day, like when I talked to like followers of mine, 116 00:05:12,240 --> 00:05:14,960 Speaker 4: like all I can say is I'm just the same 117 00:05:15,040 --> 00:05:17,360 Speaker 4: as you, And that's all I've ever wanted to feel. 118 00:05:17,720 --> 00:05:19,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's all I've ever wanted, like other people 119 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 2: to feel. 120 00:05:20,279 --> 00:05:24,599 Speaker 4: So being in a sorority only made it more like 121 00:05:24,720 --> 00:05:27,560 Speaker 4: grounding for me, and like I would be going on 122 00:05:27,640 --> 00:05:29,800 Speaker 4: brand trips and I could like come back to like 123 00:05:29,880 --> 00:05:32,200 Speaker 4: my sorority house and like all my story sisters are 124 00:05:32,200 --> 00:05:35,880 Speaker 4: like sitting there and like just doing normal college things. 125 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:38,839 Speaker 2: So it really didn't play that big of a part 126 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:39,200 Speaker 2: into it. 127 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:41,560 Speaker 4: And I always people always say, like ASU is like 128 00:05:41,600 --> 00:05:45,440 Speaker 4: such the influencer school, like everyone there is like has 129 00:05:45,560 --> 00:05:46,320 Speaker 4: followers or is. 130 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:48,279 Speaker 2: Like trying to be an influencer. 131 00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:50,359 Speaker 4: And so I guess maybe that like pluted into it 132 00:05:50,360 --> 00:05:52,760 Speaker 4: a little bit because I didn't feel different. 133 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:55,600 Speaker 1: And you didn't feel different while you were rushing either. 134 00:05:55,920 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 6: Not at all. 135 00:05:56,839 --> 00:05:59,839 Speaker 3: Like was everyone who were around kind of like tiktoking 136 00:05:59,880 --> 00:06:00,599 Speaker 3: and stuff too? 137 00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:03,880 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, for sure, Like I ticked off the whole thing. 138 00:06:04,120 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 4: I yeah, I was videoing everything, but no, never once 139 00:06:08,640 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 4: like did they make me feel like any of the 140 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 4: houses ever made me feel like different than anyone else. 141 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:17,360 Speaker 4: So I think that definitely plays into the part of like, 142 00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:20,120 Speaker 4: that's why my experience was probably so good, as they 143 00:06:20,200 --> 00:06:23,280 Speaker 4: made me feel like just the next person, which is 144 00:06:23,279 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 4: like how I want to be, Like that's how I 145 00:06:24,960 --> 00:06:25,600 Speaker 4: want to feel. 146 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:29,160 Speaker 2: So it's yeah, not a problem at all. 147 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:33,719 Speaker 1: And you also have your amazing clothing brand called Jane Doe. 148 00:06:34,720 --> 00:06:36,560 Speaker 1: When did you start that? 149 00:06:37,240 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I started that my sophomore year. 150 00:06:39,520 --> 00:06:43,599 Speaker 4: Actually, I honestly like I was with the guy, so 151 00:06:43,800 --> 00:06:47,480 Speaker 4: I met my boyfriend or my boyfriend at the time, 152 00:06:47,600 --> 00:06:50,159 Speaker 4: like the first day of college. He was the first 153 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:53,240 Speaker 4: guy I ever like talked to, and we kind of 154 00:06:53,240 --> 00:06:56,400 Speaker 4: had like gone through some stuff, and there was spring break. 155 00:06:56,560 --> 00:06:59,640 Speaker 4: He like went off with his friends to Hawaii and 156 00:06:59,680 --> 00:07:02,200 Speaker 4: I was stuck in Arizona and I was like, oh 157 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:04,400 Speaker 4: my gosh, I hate this, Like I need to like 158 00:07:04,480 --> 00:07:05,640 Speaker 4: boss up really quick. 159 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:07,720 Speaker 2: So my mom was like, you need to come home. 160 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:09,840 Speaker 2: She flew me home, and. 161 00:07:10,120 --> 00:07:13,480 Speaker 4: In one night, I had like a website, an LLC, 162 00:07:13,800 --> 00:07:15,840 Speaker 4: the name, like all of that, and it just like. 163 00:07:15,840 --> 00:07:16,560 Speaker 2: Started from there. 164 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:20,560 Speaker 1: That's incredible, And wait, what's the why how did you 165 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:22,040 Speaker 1: come up with the name Jane Doe. 166 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, so my middle name is Jane, and so I 167 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 4: wanted to kind of plan to that. 168 00:07:26,800 --> 00:07:28,640 Speaker 2: And then a Jane Doe. 169 00:07:28,800 --> 00:07:32,320 Speaker 4: Is like a John Doe is like an unidentified person, 170 00:07:33,320 --> 00:07:35,080 Speaker 4: and Jane Doe was like the girl version of that. 171 00:07:35,360 --> 00:07:37,160 Speaker 4: And I just thought it was cool because I'm so 172 00:07:37,560 --> 00:07:39,920 Speaker 4: like I always say, like, be the be you. 173 00:07:40,320 --> 00:07:41,320 Speaker 2: It's the best way to be. 174 00:07:41,360 --> 00:07:43,360 Speaker 4: It's the best version to be, Like, don't try to 175 00:07:43,400 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 4: be someone else, Like as long as you're just being yourself, 176 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:47,320 Speaker 4: that's the best way to be. 177 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:50,280 Speaker 2: And so I'm like an unidentify like you. 178 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:53,000 Speaker 4: Don't have to be identified is one thing, like you 179 00:07:53,040 --> 00:07:54,800 Speaker 4: don't have to be like streetwear. I don't have to 180 00:07:54,800 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 4: be like Southern bell, like be you like that's just it. 181 00:07:58,760 --> 00:08:00,400 Speaker 2: So I don't know. I like and I love the 182 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:02,280 Speaker 2: name Jane Do. I feel like it's super. 183 00:08:02,080 --> 00:08:04,640 Speaker 1: No, it's unique. And also a lot of your pieces 184 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:07,160 Speaker 1: you can play off of them to make them whatever 185 00:08:07,200 --> 00:08:10,920 Speaker 1: you want. So there are reliable pieces that you can 186 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:14,440 Speaker 1: just build on and make into whatever your style or 187 00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:15,920 Speaker 1: personality is exactly. 188 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:16,679 Speaker 2: That's the goal. 189 00:08:16,960 --> 00:08:20,040 Speaker 1: That's that was Here we go Jane Doe. 190 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:21,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, I love it. 191 00:08:22,120 --> 00:08:25,480 Speaker 3: Do you have any advice for girls going into rush 192 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:26,040 Speaker 3: right now? 193 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:27,559 Speaker 2: Yeah? For sure. 194 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:31,160 Speaker 4: I would say my biggest advice is just like keep 195 00:08:31,200 --> 00:08:35,920 Speaker 4: an open mind, like everyone says it, but don't go 196 00:08:36,400 --> 00:08:39,080 Speaker 4: a house because the person you met in rush was 197 00:08:39,120 --> 00:08:39,880 Speaker 4: going that house. 198 00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:41,840 Speaker 2: Like that is just like not how it works. 199 00:08:42,559 --> 00:08:45,280 Speaker 4: And my biggest thing is, like everyone everyone says this 200 00:08:45,400 --> 00:08:48,160 Speaker 4: is be yourself, but like you have to really like 201 00:08:48,160 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 4: like focus on that, because if you walk into a 202 00:08:52,880 --> 00:08:56,120 Speaker 4: house and you were trying to fit in, you will 203 00:08:56,960 --> 00:08:59,760 Speaker 4: spend the rest of your college experience feeling like you 204 00:08:59,800 --> 00:09:03,480 Speaker 4: don't fit it because during that process you were trying 205 00:09:03,520 --> 00:09:08,760 Speaker 4: to form into how this house particularly was instead just 206 00:09:08,800 --> 00:09:12,240 Speaker 4: like being yourself. Go into these houses like you want 207 00:09:12,440 --> 00:09:14,520 Speaker 4: them to accept you as. 208 00:09:14,920 --> 00:09:16,920 Speaker 2: Who you are, so that the. 209 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:20,400 Speaker 4: Rest of your time just is way better that. That's 210 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:23,240 Speaker 4: my advice is, don't listen to other people and just 211 00:09:23,400 --> 00:09:26,640 Speaker 4: be yourself and you will end exactly where you're supposed to. 212 00:09:27,200 --> 00:09:30,440 Speaker 4: Even if your experience doesn't go exactly how you want, 213 00:09:30,800 --> 00:09:33,800 Speaker 4: stick it out and like it might be the best 214 00:09:33,800 --> 00:09:34,240 Speaker 4: thing that's. 215 00:09:34,120 --> 00:09:34,800 Speaker 2: Ever happened to you. 216 00:09:35,559 --> 00:09:36,240 Speaker 3: That's amazing. 217 00:09:36,360 --> 00:09:37,360 Speaker 1: I love that, Riley. 218 00:09:37,400 --> 00:09:38,200 Speaker 6: That's great advice. 219 00:09:53,040 --> 00:09:56,040 Speaker 1: Hey Taylor, So where did you go to school? 220 00:09:57,360 --> 00:10:02,080 Speaker 7: I went to James Madison in Virginia. Were you in Yeah, 221 00:10:02,120 --> 00:10:05,720 Speaker 7: I was in THETA Okay cool. Did you have an 222 00:10:05,760 --> 00:10:06,959 Speaker 7: overall good experience? 223 00:10:08,080 --> 00:10:10,000 Speaker 6: Yeah? I loved it. I loved it. 224 00:10:10,080 --> 00:10:13,400 Speaker 7: I'd tell I met all my best friends, so I'd 225 00:10:13,440 --> 00:10:15,280 Speaker 7: say pretty good experience. 226 00:10:15,720 --> 00:10:17,760 Speaker 1: Did you always know that you wanted to be in 227 00:10:17,800 --> 00:10:18,479 Speaker 1: a sorority? 228 00:10:19,440 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 7: Yeah, that was like one thing I was always very 229 00:10:21,840 --> 00:10:25,720 Speaker 7: confident in. I'm like super girly and was into everything 230 00:10:25,760 --> 00:10:27,920 Speaker 7: that came with a sorority. But I also kind of 231 00:10:28,000 --> 00:10:30,760 Speaker 7: jokingly said that I was like a bare minimum sorority 232 00:10:30,800 --> 00:10:33,920 Speaker 7: girl because I'd like make my friends, I love the community, 233 00:10:33,960 --> 00:10:34,880 Speaker 7: but like I didn't. 234 00:10:34,600 --> 00:10:38,160 Speaker 6: Hold any leadership positions or I wasn't like the most 235 00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:39,080 Speaker 6: strict about it. 236 00:10:39,160 --> 00:10:43,280 Speaker 7: Like so I always joked that I enjoyed the friends 237 00:10:43,320 --> 00:10:44,800 Speaker 7: aspect and the bonds you made. 238 00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:50,240 Speaker 3: But like, yeah, yeah, how did you start doing content? 239 00:10:50,320 --> 00:10:51,920 Speaker 3: Did you start when you were in school? 240 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:53,240 Speaker 6: Yeah? 241 00:10:53,240 --> 00:10:56,280 Speaker 7: That's actually how I got my start was I was 242 00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:59,400 Speaker 7: a freshman at JAMU kind of during COVID, and I'd 243 00:10:59,400 --> 00:11:02,199 Speaker 7: post a ton of like what to pack for college, 244 00:11:02,400 --> 00:11:05,800 Speaker 7: like what I wore during rush, how to study, what 245 00:11:05,840 --> 00:11:09,160 Speaker 7: it's like being in a sorority, and like that college niche, 246 00:11:09,280 --> 00:11:11,040 Speaker 7: and then kind of just expanded it. 247 00:11:10,960 --> 00:11:12,000 Speaker 6: To all things lifestyle. 248 00:11:12,080 --> 00:11:14,080 Speaker 7: But yeah, that's why've been in a sorority, And Jamie, 249 00:11:14,080 --> 00:11:15,880 Speaker 7: you had such a special place in my heart because 250 00:11:15,920 --> 00:11:17,760 Speaker 7: it kind of grew. 251 00:11:17,520 --> 00:11:20,239 Speaker 6: My love for the social media world in that industry. 252 00:11:20,520 --> 00:11:24,800 Speaker 3: But it's so interesting, like I feel like now how 253 00:11:24,880 --> 00:11:28,880 Speaker 3: much social media can play like an aspect in like 254 00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:31,479 Speaker 3: in literally like changing people's lives. 255 00:11:31,480 --> 00:11:34,080 Speaker 1: And social media now on like your full time job. 256 00:11:35,240 --> 00:11:37,920 Speaker 7: Yeah, right now it's my full time job and it's 257 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:39,120 Speaker 7: like the best thing ever. 258 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:44,440 Speaker 1: So that's amazing. So how do you think sorority rush 259 00:11:44,800 --> 00:11:47,840 Speaker 1: shaped you into being the person that you are today. 260 00:11:48,800 --> 00:11:49,880 Speaker 6: That's such a good question. 261 00:11:50,160 --> 00:11:53,280 Speaker 7: I feel like it gave me good I would say, 262 00:11:53,360 --> 00:11:56,079 Speaker 7: like life skills, like people skills Like I feel like 263 00:11:56,160 --> 00:11:59,560 Speaker 7: so much of college is what you learn outside of 264 00:11:59,559 --> 00:12:03,400 Speaker 7: the class room, and I feel like it prepared me 265 00:12:03,520 --> 00:12:05,000 Speaker 7: for life after college better. 266 00:12:05,640 --> 00:12:10,600 Speaker 3: Yea, So yeah, do you think that like rush talk 267 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:13,240 Speaker 3: on like TikTok, do you think that has made it 268 00:12:13,320 --> 00:12:18,800 Speaker 3: like more competitive to get into a sorority? 269 00:12:18,920 --> 00:12:20,280 Speaker 6: Yeah? I think so. 270 00:12:20,480 --> 00:12:22,960 Speaker 7: I feel like it depends on your college too, But 271 00:12:23,080 --> 00:12:27,360 Speaker 7: I definitely think social media like has blown it up 272 00:12:27,400 --> 00:12:29,160 Speaker 7: and also glamorize it a little bit. 273 00:12:29,280 --> 00:12:32,080 Speaker 6: And so, I mean, I had a great. 274 00:12:31,840 --> 00:12:35,800 Speaker 7: Experience, but I can also see why it gets stereotyped 275 00:12:35,800 --> 00:12:39,120 Speaker 7: as maybe being stressful or like very clicky. Like I 276 00:12:39,120 --> 00:12:41,839 Speaker 7: could see why that would stress girls out as well, 277 00:12:41,880 --> 00:12:44,280 Speaker 7: and just like competitive because so many girls want to 278 00:12:44,280 --> 00:12:44,720 Speaker 7: be in one. 279 00:12:45,360 --> 00:12:48,839 Speaker 1: I totally agree. Did you know about your school's rush 280 00:12:48,920 --> 00:12:50,520 Speaker 1: process before starting? 281 00:12:52,240 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 6: Honestly, no, Like no, I had no idea like going 282 00:12:55,920 --> 00:12:56,240 Speaker 6: into it. 283 00:12:56,280 --> 00:12:57,840 Speaker 7: I knew it wasn't in the summer like in the 284 00:12:57,880 --> 00:13:00,679 Speaker 7: southern schools they're doing it like you go early for it. 285 00:13:00,720 --> 00:13:03,040 Speaker 7: I knew it was like mine was the end of September, 286 00:13:04,320 --> 00:13:06,559 Speaker 7: so that was and we were doing on like two weekends, 287 00:13:07,320 --> 00:13:10,240 Speaker 7: and that was all I knew, so it wasn't as intense, 288 00:13:10,320 --> 00:13:13,120 Speaker 7: but they were still like full, like six am to 289 00:13:13,240 --> 00:13:16,280 Speaker 7: nine pm days each both weekends, so it was definitely 290 00:13:16,280 --> 00:13:18,760 Speaker 7: still intense. But I didn't really know what I was 291 00:13:18,800 --> 00:13:21,040 Speaker 7: getting into until I just already signed. 292 00:13:20,800 --> 00:13:21,240 Speaker 6: Up for it. 293 00:13:21,720 --> 00:13:24,480 Speaker 3: On a rush talk, I feel like you see like 294 00:13:24,600 --> 00:13:28,480 Speaker 3: all like these videos and girls doing like get readies 295 00:13:28,480 --> 00:13:30,480 Speaker 3: with me and like what they're gonna wear. Do you 296 00:13:30,520 --> 00:13:34,960 Speaker 3: think there's any like lies like behind the rush talk 297 00:13:35,040 --> 00:13:38,560 Speaker 3: because I feel like you can't always talk about what's 298 00:13:38,840 --> 00:13:41,040 Speaker 3: like going on within your sorority because like the. 299 00:13:41,040 --> 00:13:41,920 Speaker 6: Rules and stuff. 300 00:13:42,840 --> 00:13:45,040 Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, no, I feel like that's a huge part 301 00:13:45,080 --> 00:13:48,720 Speaker 7: of it. Like they make it very clear what topics 302 00:13:48,760 --> 00:13:52,600 Speaker 7: to avoid. I I can't remember exactly, but I want 303 00:13:52,640 --> 00:13:54,720 Speaker 7: to say it was like the Three Bees, like beer 304 00:13:54,760 --> 00:13:58,440 Speaker 7: boys and something else, like basically saying like you want 305 00:13:58,440 --> 00:14:00,600 Speaker 7: to keep it very pg, you don't want to talk 306 00:14:00,600 --> 00:14:05,440 Speaker 7: about anything too controversial, like during the recruitment process at least, 307 00:14:05,440 --> 00:14:08,600 Speaker 7: But then I also think they wanted people, They wanted 308 00:14:08,600 --> 00:14:10,920 Speaker 7: the girls in the sorority to keep you know, a good, 309 00:14:11,080 --> 00:14:14,200 Speaker 7: clean social media presence too, because then that would impact 310 00:14:14,200 --> 00:14:17,400 Speaker 7: the sorority. But that was never an issue for me 311 00:14:17,480 --> 00:14:20,000 Speaker 7: because I feel like I was never the type to 312 00:14:20,160 --> 00:14:22,800 Speaker 7: like go posting all my alcohol or something like. 313 00:14:22,840 --> 00:14:23,520 Speaker 6: I wasn't like. 314 00:14:23,480 --> 00:14:23,920 Speaker 1: That at all. 315 00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:28,080 Speaker 7: But I definitely could see why some girls would be like, oh, 316 00:14:28,160 --> 00:14:31,080 Speaker 7: like this is off limits, or I don't know, there's 317 00:14:31,200 --> 00:14:33,920 Speaker 7: there's a fine line, or I remember during rush, they 318 00:14:34,040 --> 00:14:36,320 Speaker 7: all the people say like, don't bring up boys at all, 319 00:14:36,480 --> 00:14:39,000 Speaker 7: and one girl in the room brought up like her dad, 320 00:14:39,120 --> 00:14:41,720 Speaker 7: and then she quickly's talking and was like nervous, but 321 00:14:41,720 --> 00:14:43,720 Speaker 7: it's like it's her dad, Like no one, no one 322 00:14:43,760 --> 00:14:44,440 Speaker 7: really cared. 323 00:14:44,480 --> 00:14:47,680 Speaker 6: But there's definitely the overthinking part where you're like, oh, 324 00:14:47,720 --> 00:14:50,400 Speaker 6: should I have just said that? Or am I going 325 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:51,160 Speaker 6: to get in trouble? 326 00:14:51,800 --> 00:14:55,800 Speaker 1: Oh I totally understand that. How would you explain your 327 00:14:55,840 --> 00:14:59,200 Speaker 1: sorority experience to someone who's never been in one? 328 00:15:00,760 --> 00:15:01,360 Speaker 3: Good one? 329 00:15:02,400 --> 00:15:03,600 Speaker 6: That's such a good question. 330 00:15:04,160 --> 00:15:06,760 Speaker 7: I feel like I'd like the process or just being 331 00:15:06,800 --> 00:15:07,920 Speaker 7: in a sorority in general. 332 00:15:08,320 --> 00:15:10,840 Speaker 1: I think all of it, you know, like if somebody 333 00:15:10,840 --> 00:15:13,800 Speaker 1: looked at you and was like, why should I join 334 00:15:13,840 --> 00:15:16,360 Speaker 1: a sorority or do you think this is the right decision, Like, 335 00:15:16,400 --> 00:15:17,960 Speaker 1: what would you say to that person? 336 00:15:19,200 --> 00:15:22,000 Speaker 7: I definitely I think I would encourage them to go 337 00:15:22,080 --> 00:15:25,200 Speaker 7: for it, just because the worst that could happen is 338 00:15:25,240 --> 00:15:27,920 Speaker 7: that you drop, Like if that's the worst that can happen. 339 00:15:28,200 --> 00:15:31,880 Speaker 7: And I think it's a great way to give yourself 340 00:15:31,880 --> 00:15:34,800 Speaker 7: a community in college. And I especially think if you 341 00:15:34,800 --> 00:15:36,920 Speaker 7: go to like a bigger school too, it's really hard 342 00:15:36,920 --> 00:15:38,960 Speaker 7: to like find your people. And you know, there's like 343 00:15:39,840 --> 00:15:42,800 Speaker 7: the girls doing sports and then there's like theater in 344 00:15:42,840 --> 00:15:45,080 Speaker 7: the more musical industry. And so I felt like being 345 00:15:45,080 --> 00:15:47,880 Speaker 7: in a sorority kind of gave me that identity. And 346 00:15:48,040 --> 00:15:50,240 Speaker 7: I remember in high school feeling like I was one 347 00:15:50,280 --> 00:15:53,800 Speaker 7: of those girls that, like I was never really into sports, 348 00:15:53,840 --> 00:15:56,560 Speaker 7: but I also wasn't really into like music or theater. 349 00:15:56,760 --> 00:15:59,000 Speaker 6: But I always felt like I had this creative side. 350 00:15:59,480 --> 00:16:03,280 Speaker 7: And I remember thinking, like sority like life is perfect 351 00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:06,680 Speaker 7: because it's like it's social. You're also doing a lot 352 00:16:06,680 --> 00:16:09,200 Speaker 7: of like volunteer work, which I truly believe in. 353 00:16:09,600 --> 00:16:13,720 Speaker 6: You're surrounding yourself with people with good values, and I. 354 00:16:13,720 --> 00:16:15,920 Speaker 7: Don't know, it's fun like the fast and like the outfits, 355 00:16:15,960 --> 00:16:18,000 Speaker 7: like they make decks on like what to wear and 356 00:16:18,080 --> 00:16:18,880 Speaker 7: like FASTO. 357 00:16:19,000 --> 00:16:20,680 Speaker 6: It's like kind of creative and fun. 358 00:16:21,920 --> 00:16:23,880 Speaker 7: So I'd encourage someone to go for it and if 359 00:16:23,920 --> 00:16:25,760 Speaker 7: they didn't like it, they could always leave it. 360 00:16:25,840 --> 00:16:29,120 Speaker 6: But I feel like I. 361 00:16:29,040 --> 00:16:33,320 Speaker 7: Definitely think, at least from my school, it definitely gets 362 00:16:33,320 --> 00:16:36,400 Speaker 7: this like very intimidating aspect. But I found most of 363 00:16:36,440 --> 00:16:40,000 Speaker 7: the girls honest, honestly, like all were pretty nice and welcoming. 364 00:16:39,600 --> 00:16:40,360 Speaker 6: With open arms. 365 00:16:55,000 --> 00:16:58,880 Speaker 3: So clearly went into college pretty young, right I did. 366 00:16:59,160 --> 00:17:01,160 Speaker 5: I started calling really young. 367 00:17:01,360 --> 00:17:05,600 Speaker 8: I graduated high school when I was fourteen, so I 368 00:17:05,760 --> 00:17:08,880 Speaker 8: had applied to CLA found out I got in just 369 00:17:09,040 --> 00:17:10,720 Speaker 8: shooting my shop with my dream school. 370 00:17:10,760 --> 00:17:13,760 Speaker 5: It was either that or USC, just because I was 371 00:17:13,800 --> 00:17:15,800 Speaker 5: not going to move across the country at such a 372 00:17:15,840 --> 00:17:16,320 Speaker 5: young age. 373 00:17:17,080 --> 00:17:19,399 Speaker 8: But thank goodness, I ended up being a Bruin because 374 00:17:20,240 --> 00:17:23,760 Speaker 8: that's where my loyalty has always lied. But of course, 375 00:17:23,760 --> 00:17:26,600 Speaker 8: when I first started school, I was not thinking about 376 00:17:26,640 --> 00:17:30,240 Speaker 8: anything social, to say the least. I was still doing 377 00:17:30,320 --> 00:17:32,520 Speaker 8: all of the high school things with my friends and 378 00:17:32,640 --> 00:17:35,680 Speaker 8: just going to class like a normal high schooler would. 379 00:17:35,680 --> 00:17:38,000 Speaker 5: I mean, I wasn't even old enough to drive yet. 380 00:17:38,240 --> 00:17:39,720 Speaker 5: Did you live at home? I did? 381 00:17:39,960 --> 00:17:42,280 Speaker 8: I lived at home, so I live about fifteen minutes 382 00:17:42,280 --> 00:17:45,360 Speaker 8: away from campus, but I had to get dropped off 383 00:17:45,760 --> 00:17:47,920 Speaker 8: at class in the morning and I picked up in 384 00:17:47,960 --> 00:17:51,639 Speaker 8: the afternoon. So it was a very strange experience to 385 00:17:51,680 --> 00:17:52,320 Speaker 8: say the least. 386 00:17:52,359 --> 00:17:54,080 Speaker 1: And so did you not DORM? 387 00:17:54,560 --> 00:17:57,639 Speaker 8: I didn't DORM. I remember telling my mom when the 388 00:17:57,640 --> 00:18:00,600 Speaker 8: first guy tried to hit on me after, I was. 389 00:18:00,600 --> 00:18:03,959 Speaker 5: Like, Mom, he has facial hair. This is so weird. 390 00:18:04,720 --> 00:18:07,680 Speaker 8: Because of course, even though he was probably not that old, 391 00:18:07,720 --> 00:18:09,879 Speaker 8: he was like twenty or twenty one, which to me 392 00:18:10,119 --> 00:18:13,680 Speaker 8: was way too old at having just turned fifteen. 393 00:18:14,240 --> 00:18:14,440 Speaker 1: Yeah. 394 00:18:14,440 --> 00:18:15,640 Speaker 5: I had just turned fifteen. 395 00:18:16,200 --> 00:18:20,200 Speaker 1: Wow. So you graduated in high school at fourteen? Yeah, 396 00:18:20,200 --> 00:18:22,800 Speaker 1: and then you were you got into UCLA and you 397 00:18:22,800 --> 00:18:25,280 Speaker 1: were a freshman in college at fifteen years old. 398 00:18:25,600 --> 00:18:25,840 Speaker 5: Yes. 399 00:18:26,920 --> 00:18:27,320 Speaker 2: Wow. 400 00:18:27,600 --> 00:18:32,040 Speaker 8: It was a very non traditional experience, to say the least. 401 00:18:32,200 --> 00:18:34,280 Speaker 3: Did you end up joining a sorority? 402 00:18:34,320 --> 00:18:34,480 Speaker 1: Then? 403 00:18:34,880 --> 00:18:38,240 Speaker 8: So right after I started college that was fall twenty nineteen, 404 00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:41,920 Speaker 8: and then everything shut down because of COVID midway through 405 00:18:41,960 --> 00:18:46,480 Speaker 8: my first year. So it definitely benefited me, despite how 406 00:18:46,560 --> 00:18:51,959 Speaker 8: horrible COVID was, but it definitely benefited me having online 407 00:18:52,000 --> 00:18:54,120 Speaker 8: school so that I could do all of the high 408 00:18:54,160 --> 00:18:57,639 Speaker 8: school things with my friends. I still hung out with 409 00:18:57,680 --> 00:19:01,080 Speaker 8: a high school friend group, went to homecome proms, and 410 00:19:01,160 --> 00:19:04,960 Speaker 8: kind of wrapped up that experience in my first two 411 00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:07,959 Speaker 8: years of college that were all online. And then the 412 00:19:08,000 --> 00:19:10,760 Speaker 8: world opened back up again in twenty twenty one, and 413 00:19:10,920 --> 00:19:15,640 Speaker 8: I was seventeen almost eighteen throughout that year, and that 414 00:19:15,760 --> 00:19:18,560 Speaker 8: is when I decided that I wanted to get involved. 415 00:19:18,600 --> 00:19:20,240 Speaker 8: All of my friends were about a year older than 416 00:19:20,240 --> 00:19:23,280 Speaker 8: me and had graduated high school, so I could finally 417 00:19:23,320 --> 00:19:25,440 Speaker 8: have the true freshman experience. 418 00:19:25,680 --> 00:19:27,959 Speaker 1: So you felt like you were kind of now on 419 00:19:28,040 --> 00:19:28,879 Speaker 1: the same track. 420 00:19:29,200 --> 00:19:31,880 Speaker 8: Yes, So even though I was a junior, it felt 421 00:19:31,920 --> 00:19:36,359 Speaker 8: like I was having the freshman experience. And I never 422 00:19:36,400 --> 00:19:38,960 Speaker 8: saw myself wanting to join a sorority. I had the 423 00:19:39,600 --> 00:19:43,720 Speaker 8: preconceived idea that they were cultie and weird. 424 00:19:43,400 --> 00:19:45,879 Speaker 5: And I didn't want to buy my friends. But my 425 00:19:46,400 --> 00:19:47,560 Speaker 5: mom was an assorty. 426 00:19:47,640 --> 00:19:50,240 Speaker 8: She was in Alpha Gamma Delta and had the time 427 00:19:50,240 --> 00:19:53,679 Speaker 8: of her life in Greek life and kept encouraging me 428 00:19:53,800 --> 00:19:56,840 Speaker 8: to go to all of the socials and get to 429 00:19:56,880 --> 00:20:00,320 Speaker 8: know what rush is like. And I had the idea 430 00:20:00,440 --> 00:20:03,960 Speaker 8: that I could go through sorority rush, meet girls in 431 00:20:04,160 --> 00:20:07,800 Speaker 8: all of these different houses, make friends across the road 432 00:20:07,880 --> 00:20:09,800 Speaker 8: and then I would never have to join, but I 433 00:20:09,840 --> 00:20:13,680 Speaker 8: would have so many friends immediately, which was I thought, 434 00:20:13,720 --> 00:20:16,480 Speaker 8: my perfect plan. And then I ended up going through 435 00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:20,879 Speaker 8: Rush and meeting all of these amazing girls who I loved, 436 00:20:20,920 --> 00:20:22,240 Speaker 8: and they told me about how they were going to 437 00:20:22,280 --> 00:20:24,880 Speaker 8: be watching The Bachelor on Monday nights together and having 438 00:20:24,920 --> 00:20:28,879 Speaker 8: a met Gala watch party and having chapter dinners and 439 00:20:28,920 --> 00:20:33,280 Speaker 8: going on retreats, and I had the biggest fomo ever 440 00:20:33,320 --> 00:20:34,480 Speaker 8: and I was like, you guys are going to be 441 00:20:34,480 --> 00:20:37,960 Speaker 8: doing all of these things without me, and that's why 442 00:20:38,160 --> 00:20:39,600 Speaker 8: they hooked me, and I knew. 443 00:20:39,440 --> 00:20:40,040 Speaker 5: That I had to join. 444 00:20:40,920 --> 00:20:43,919 Speaker 1: Oh I love that, And so then how was the 445 00:20:44,080 --> 00:20:47,120 Speaker 1: experience for you being younger? 446 00:20:48,119 --> 00:20:49,480 Speaker 5: I loved it, Honestly. 447 00:20:49,560 --> 00:20:52,800 Speaker 8: It felt like I had a huge group of built 448 00:20:52,840 --> 00:20:56,000 Speaker 8: in big sisters, even with the girls in my pledge class, 449 00:20:56,040 --> 00:20:58,920 Speaker 8: which was a lot of fun, but talking about things 450 00:20:58,960 --> 00:21:01,720 Speaker 8: like I don't know how off the record I can go, 451 00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:03,760 Speaker 8: but I mean most girls had a fake id going 452 00:21:03,760 --> 00:21:06,520 Speaker 8: to college and it had like all of these experiences 453 00:21:06,560 --> 00:21:09,280 Speaker 8: with guys, and I was so new to all of 454 00:21:09,320 --> 00:21:12,600 Speaker 8: that territory. So it allowed for a lot of people 455 00:21:12,680 --> 00:21:14,720 Speaker 8: to take me under their wing and show me the 456 00:21:14,800 --> 00:21:17,600 Speaker 8: ropes of those kind of experiences that I didn't have 457 00:21:17,640 --> 00:21:20,000 Speaker 8: in high school because I graduated so young. 458 00:21:20,280 --> 00:21:22,080 Speaker 1: Wow, that's amazing. 459 00:21:22,720 --> 00:21:24,760 Speaker 3: So you really did have like such a good time. 460 00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:26,399 Speaker 5: Yeah, I had such a great time. 461 00:21:26,480 --> 00:21:29,440 Speaker 8: I rushed Alpha Fi, met a lot of my best 462 00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:31,639 Speaker 8: friends there who I still keep in touch with. A 463 00:21:31,680 --> 00:21:34,640 Speaker 8: couple of my close friends are still seniors and about 464 00:21:34,680 --> 00:21:38,280 Speaker 8: to graduate this year. And it was the best decision. 465 00:21:38,320 --> 00:21:41,080 Speaker 8: I'm so glad I did it, and I had a 466 00:21:41,200 --> 00:21:43,080 Speaker 8: really great experience in Greek life. 467 00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:46,680 Speaker 1: That's amazing. And did you feel differently in any way, 468 00:21:46,800 --> 00:21:52,440 Speaker 1: because I know throughout your life you obviously have been 469 00:21:52,480 --> 00:21:55,199 Speaker 1: in a bunch of roles and you're in the acting world, 470 00:21:55,600 --> 00:21:58,600 Speaker 1: so you had some sort of a following going into college. 471 00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:00,439 Speaker 1: I mean, some of the things that you were in 472 00:22:00,560 --> 00:22:03,399 Speaker 1: are insane. I see clips of Good Doctor all the 473 00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:07,080 Speaker 1: time and I'm like, this is amazing. So I mean, 474 00:22:07,280 --> 00:22:10,239 Speaker 1: kudos to you. I know, the list goes on and 475 00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:15,359 Speaker 1: on and on from Chosen Young Sheldon, Criminal Minds like 476 00:22:15,440 --> 00:22:20,560 Speaker 1: it's insane. So kudos to you. But how did was that? 477 00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:23,760 Speaker 1: Did that affect your experience at all going into college 478 00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:25,480 Speaker 1: and especially being so young. 479 00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:28,399 Speaker 8: It was a little bit different having a sense of 480 00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:32,479 Speaker 8: responsibility and working. During my first year of school, I 481 00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:35,959 Speaker 8: definitely had to miss out on a handful of social 482 00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:40,560 Speaker 8: events to either prioritize an audition or I flew away 483 00:22:40,560 --> 00:22:43,399 Speaker 8: a couple of times to film something. But I was 484 00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:45,679 Speaker 8: very lucky to end up in a chapter where all 485 00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:48,480 Speaker 8: of the girls were super career driven, so we had 486 00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:51,680 Speaker 8: a lot of pre med students, girls on the dance team, 487 00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:55,399 Speaker 8: and people who also had this kind of bigger responsibility 488 00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:58,240 Speaker 8: outside of Greek life, so I never felt like punished 489 00:22:58,320 --> 00:23:01,360 Speaker 8: or shamed for miss things, and it was a very 490 00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:02,680 Speaker 8: supportive environment. 491 00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:05,280 Speaker 5: And then when you have friends who were striving on 492 00:23:05,320 --> 00:23:05,960 Speaker 5: their own. 493 00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:08,400 Speaker 8: Path and wanting to follow their dreams and being very 494 00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:10,920 Speaker 8: career oriented, and it makes you want to be busier 495 00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:12,160 Speaker 8: and better at the same time. 496 00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:15,560 Speaker 5: So that was a great environment for me at least. 497 00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:17,560 Speaker 8: But I guess like the only thing that I really 498 00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:21,520 Speaker 8: noticed about being younger than everyone else was just I 499 00:23:21,520 --> 00:23:25,040 Speaker 8: guess more in like mixers with the frat environments. So 500 00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:27,680 Speaker 8: even though I was seventeen, definitely called jailbait a lot 501 00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:29,560 Speaker 8: of times, which is so fair. I'm glad that they 502 00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:31,400 Speaker 8: didn't want to talk to me because I didn't really 503 00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:34,960 Speaker 8: have any interest, so but besides that made a lot 504 00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:35,639 Speaker 8: of great friends. 505 00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:36,440 Speaker 3: Yeah. 506 00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:39,560 Speaker 1: No, but I'm also sure like the experience throughout your life, 507 00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:42,359 Speaker 1: just like graduating high school so early and going into 508 00:23:42,359 --> 00:23:46,280 Speaker 1: that college environment so young, you were probably also extremely 509 00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:49,800 Speaker 1: mature for your age, especially being so career driven, like 510 00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:53,080 Speaker 1: you were probably a thirty year old living in a 511 00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:56,119 Speaker 1: seventeen year old body. Like really like the mentality wise, 512 00:23:56,160 --> 00:23:58,720 Speaker 1: and I always got that too growing up because I 513 00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:01,400 Speaker 1: had to grow up a little fast than most kids 514 00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:04,240 Speaker 1: as well, and it really like it probably it made 515 00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:07,119 Speaker 1: you who you are today. So everything happens for a reason, 516 00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:09,679 Speaker 1: and it's you know, this is why you're getting your 517 00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:12,800 Speaker 1: masters now at UCLA, so that's amazing. 518 00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:17,960 Speaker 8: Yeah, I definitely had a unique perspective. So I could 519 00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:21,159 Speaker 8: say that I had accomplished certain things or been working 520 00:24:21,200 --> 00:24:23,679 Speaker 8: a quote unquote full time job my whole life, but 521 00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:26,360 Speaker 8: I was like, oh, I've never taken a shot of alcohol, 522 00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:28,800 Speaker 8: on the other hand, So it was fun to kind 523 00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:32,120 Speaker 8: of find that balance and experiences as my friends as 524 00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:35,959 Speaker 8: I got older and meshing my like social age and 525 00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:39,000 Speaker 8: professional age at the same time, which and that was fun. 526 00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:40,520 Speaker 1: That is great. 527 00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:43,280 Speaker 3: Well, Caitlin thank you so much for coming on, and. 528 00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:44,120 Speaker 5: Thank you for having me. 529 00:24:44,760 --> 00:24:46,800 Speaker 1: Best of luck, Thanks Bice,