1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:03,280 Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter and listen. If you 2 00:00:03,320 --> 00:00:06,640 Speaker 1: need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:06,960 --> 00:00:10,200 Speaker 1: Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com 4 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:13,160 Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your 5 00:00:13,240 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 1: letter live on the air, just like we're going to 6 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 1: read this one right here, right now. Buckle up and 7 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:21,279 Speaker 1: hold on tight. We got it for you here it is. 8 00:00:21,680 --> 00:00:25,040 Speaker 1: Row up every letter subject. I'm doing wifey things without 9 00:00:25,040 --> 00:00:27,960 Speaker 1: a ring. Dear Stephen Shirley, My boyfriend and I have 10 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 1: been dating for three years and we moved in together 11 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:33,360 Speaker 1: with a plan to get married and start a family. 12 00:00:33,760 --> 00:00:36,920 Speaker 1: I'm thirty years old and he is twenty five. After 13 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:39,320 Speaker 1: a year and a half of living together, he bought 14 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:42,199 Speaker 1: me an engagement ring, and I've found out because he 15 00:00:42,240 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 1: was dropping hints about it. Then one day in November, 16 00:00:45,479 --> 00:00:47,520 Speaker 1: he admitted to me that he had bought the ring, 17 00:00:47,800 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 1: but he's not as happy in this relationship as he 18 00:00:50,680 --> 00:00:53,440 Speaker 1: should be. He told me that he's having doubts about 19 00:00:53,520 --> 00:00:57,320 Speaker 1: marrying me. I asked him what made him feel that way. 20 00:00:57,400 --> 00:01:00,960 Speaker 1: He told me that a minor things, but I needed 21 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:03,880 Speaker 1: to work on them before we got engaged. He told 22 00:01:03,880 --> 00:01:05,720 Speaker 1: me that he would like for his dinner to be 23 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 1: ready when he gets home on the days that I'm 24 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:11,119 Speaker 1: off work. He says he does not want me to 25 00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:14,119 Speaker 1: wait until he gets home to ask what he would 26 00:01:14,160 --> 00:01:16,760 Speaker 1: like to eat. He also said that I don't send 27 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:19,760 Speaker 1: him as many nudes as I used to. I told 28 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:22,280 Speaker 1: him I could work on the cooking thing, but I 29 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:25,040 Speaker 1: stopped sending nude picks to him because I had gained 30 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 1: a few pounds and wasn't feeling very sexy most days. 31 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:30,880 Speaker 1: He said, other than that everything was fine with us. 32 00:01:31,240 --> 00:01:33,840 Speaker 1: I couldn't help but think there was something more that 33 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:36,920 Speaker 1: is bothering him. He has made a few other suggestions 34 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:39,320 Speaker 1: to me about things I should do to make him 35 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:41,880 Speaker 1: feel like the man of the house, and each time 36 00:01:42,160 --> 00:01:44,960 Speaker 1: he says they will make me a better wife, while 37 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 1: I'm not playing the role of wife without a ring 38 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 1: on my finger, and he does not understand that I've 39 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:54,040 Speaker 1: been walking on eggshelves to keep him happy because I 40 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:57,400 Speaker 1: want my ring and I want to marry him. As 41 00:01:57,440 --> 00:02:00,640 Speaker 1: time goes by, I'm starting to have a change of heart. 42 00:02:00,680 --> 00:02:03,480 Speaker 1: I'm doing wifey things without a ring. I feel like 43 00:02:03,560 --> 00:02:06,320 Speaker 1: he's up to something and he's playing games because he's 44 00:02:06,360 --> 00:02:09,040 Speaker 1: not ready to commit. Should I give him an ultimatum 45 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:12,200 Speaker 1: or should I be patient and let things progress? Well, 46 00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:14,640 Speaker 1: I mean, it depends on really, really what you want. 47 00:02:14,680 --> 00:02:16,639 Speaker 1: You say you want a ring and you do want 48 00:02:16,639 --> 00:02:19,400 Speaker 1: to marry him, so I say, do what you feel, 49 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 1: and you feel something. You say he's having doubts and 50 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:25,960 Speaker 1: you think he's playing games and he's not ready to commit. 51 00:02:26,040 --> 00:02:28,280 Speaker 1: That could be what it is. I mean, he could be, 52 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:30,920 Speaker 1: you know, getting cold feet, or deciding since you guys 53 00:02:30,919 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 1: are living together, that he doesn't have to marry you. 54 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 1: He can get you to do all these things without 55 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 1: you know, the benefit of marriage or whatever. I mean. 56 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:41,720 Speaker 1: I agree with you. You shouldn't be doing wifey things 57 00:02:41,720 --> 00:02:44,959 Speaker 1: without the benefits. So how about this, Why don't you stop? 58 00:02:45,200 --> 00:02:49,640 Speaker 1: Why don't you stop doing those things? That means a 59 00:02:49,680 --> 00:02:51,840 Speaker 1: lot of things. It could mean moving out, It could mean, 60 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:54,160 Speaker 1: you know, you guys separating for a while. It could 61 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:57,960 Speaker 1: mean putting him out. But if you truly want to 62 00:02:58,000 --> 00:03:00,280 Speaker 1: marry him and you want your ring, do you want 63 00:03:01,000 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 1: just want the ring and the marriage or do you 64 00:03:03,360 --> 00:03:05,480 Speaker 1: I mean the wedding or do you really know what 65 00:03:05,520 --> 00:03:07,959 Speaker 1: it takes to be a you know, to be married 66 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 1: to him, him telling you, wait a minute, is this 67 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:15,079 Speaker 1: the nineteen fifties? I want my dinner ready when I 68 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 1: get home, girl, Please, I want my dinner. Who are 69 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:30,080 Speaker 1: you talking to? Yeah? You know? Uh anyway, you know 70 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 1: you're you're thirty, he's twenty five. It sounds like, um, 71 00:03:34,440 --> 00:03:37,120 Speaker 1: you know, he's a little more old school and older 72 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:42,680 Speaker 1: than his years allowed than his twenty five years. So 73 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 1: I just say this, if you really if that's really 74 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:48,120 Speaker 1: what you want from this man, sounds like he's starting 75 00:03:48,240 --> 00:03:51,600 Speaker 1: to take this whole living together arrangement for granted. So 76 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:54,160 Speaker 1: you're gonna have to make a move. You're gonna have 77 00:03:54,200 --> 00:03:56,160 Speaker 1: to make a move if that means giving him him 78 00:03:56,160 --> 00:03:58,960 Speaker 1: an ultimatum, look, marry me or I'm out or getting 79 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 1: you know, let's getting gay aged. You probably never should 80 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:05,040 Speaker 1: have moved in with him without becoming engaged and having 81 00:04:05,040 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 1: a date and all of that. So now you got 82 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:10,120 Speaker 1: a backtrack and do that to make to let him 83 00:04:10,160 --> 00:04:12,640 Speaker 1: know that you're serious about what you want, and then 84 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 1: after that you'll see how it goes. But yeah, you're 85 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:18,720 Speaker 1: probably gonna have to make a major move like leave 86 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:23,680 Speaker 1: to get what you want. See you know what I feel, Sorry, 87 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:27,120 Speaker 1: for this lady, because this is so atypical. I know 88 00:04:27,240 --> 00:04:30,160 Speaker 1: exactly what this is, so let me put you on game. 89 00:04:30,600 --> 00:04:33,679 Speaker 1: Glad you called uncle Steve. I know exactly what's happening. 90 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 1: Your boyfriend y'all been dating for three years, moved in 91 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:38,320 Speaker 1: together with a plan to get married. Start the fan. 92 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:42,160 Speaker 1: I'm thirty twenty five. Pumped the brakes. That's part of 93 00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:44,840 Speaker 1: the problem right there. You're a little bit older. You 94 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 1: have a biological clock ticking. A man has no biological clock. 95 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:51,920 Speaker 1: He has a financial clock, and at twenty five, neither 96 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:55,200 Speaker 1: one of those have gone off yet. This is truth. 97 00:04:56,360 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 1: His financial clock hasn't gone off yet, and he doesn't 98 00:04:59,760 --> 00:05:04,600 Speaker 1: have a biological clock. Your biological clock is going crazy. 99 00:05:06,160 --> 00:05:08,320 Speaker 1: So now you've moved in a man, moving in with 100 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:11,920 Speaker 1: a man that has different ideals than you do. You've 101 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:14,200 Speaker 1: heard that he was gonna he bought you an engagement ring. 102 00:05:14,279 --> 00:05:16,640 Speaker 1: You find out because he was dropping hits. One day 103 00:05:16,680 --> 00:05:18,400 Speaker 1: in November, he admitted to me that he had bought 104 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:20,600 Speaker 1: the ring, but he wasn't happy with the relationship as 105 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:23,839 Speaker 1: he should be. He told me that he's having doubts 106 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:27,559 Speaker 1: about married me. That Shirley has absolutely correct. It's called 107 00:05:27,640 --> 00:05:30,720 Speaker 1: cold feating. I asked him what made him feel that way. 108 00:05:30,760 --> 00:05:33,160 Speaker 1: He told me that there were minor things, but I 109 00:05:33,240 --> 00:05:36,280 Speaker 1: needed to work on them before we got engaged. He 110 00:05:36,480 --> 00:05:38,280 Speaker 1: told me that he would like for his dinner to 111 00:05:38,360 --> 00:05:41,279 Speaker 1: be ready when he gets home on days that I'm 112 00:05:41,400 --> 00:05:43,680 Speaker 1: off for work. He says, he doesn't want me to 113 00:05:43,720 --> 00:05:45,480 Speaker 1: wait till he gets home to ask him what he 114 00:05:45,520 --> 00:05:48,440 Speaker 1: would like to eat. Let me show you exactly how 115 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:52,280 Speaker 1: minor that is. Here's a guy that expects you to 116 00:05:52,360 --> 00:05:56,000 Speaker 1: have dinner ready when he gets home on the days 117 00:05:56,120 --> 00:06:00,320 Speaker 1: that you're off work, which means you have a job. Also, 118 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:03,240 Speaker 1: he doesn't want to wait until he gets home to 119 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:05,880 Speaker 1: ask him what he would like to eat, so he 120 00:06:05,960 --> 00:06:08,080 Speaker 1: thinks he posted to walk in the house at twenty five, 121 00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:12,160 Speaker 1: slide his ass up on the table and jest STARTI, well, 122 00:06:12,240 --> 00:06:14,279 Speaker 1: what are you supposed to do? Guess what he wants? 123 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:17,960 Speaker 1: So you did a very decent theme to ask him 124 00:06:18,040 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 1: what he wants. He also said that you don't send 125 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:23,080 Speaker 1: as many nudes as I want, as you too used too. 126 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:25,600 Speaker 1: I could work on the cooking, but I'll stopped sending 127 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:28,120 Speaker 1: new picture to him because I gained weight. No, you 128 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:30,680 Speaker 1: stop sending new picture to him because y'all lay together 129 00:06:32,120 --> 00:06:35,520 Speaker 1: here every night he seen him. Heir, you need a 130 00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:39,200 Speaker 1: picture up. This is stupid. Hey, I'll be back. I 131 00:06:39,279 --> 00:06:41,400 Speaker 1: got the rest of him. Okay, hang right there, Steve. 132 00:06:42,200 --> 00:06:45,080 Speaker 1: Part two of your Responses coming up at twenty three 133 00:06:45,160 --> 00:06:48,760 Speaker 1: minutes after the hour. Subjects of today's Strawberry Letter, I'm 134 00:06:48,839 --> 00:06:51,320 Speaker 1: doing wifey things without a ring. We'll be back right 135 00:06:51,360 --> 00:06:56,720 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening show, all right, Steve, Come on, 136 00:06:56,839 --> 00:07:00,880 Speaker 1: let's recap today's Strawberry Letters. Subject I'm doing wifey things 137 00:07:01,240 --> 00:07:05,599 Speaker 1: without a ring. Oh, this is such an easy letter 138 00:07:05,680 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 1: for me because boyd, lady, I feel for you. Thirty 139 00:07:08,279 --> 00:07:11,640 Speaker 1: years old, he twenty five bought the engagement ring. Then 140 00:07:11,760 --> 00:07:13,680 Speaker 1: he admitted that he had bought the ring, but he 141 00:07:13,840 --> 00:07:17,440 Speaker 1: wasn't happy the relationship. He was having doubt. Shirley Neillen, 142 00:07:17,560 --> 00:07:19,920 Speaker 1: on the head as called cold Feet, asked him what 143 00:07:20,040 --> 00:07:22,520 Speaker 1: made him feel that way. He told me some minding 144 00:07:22,600 --> 00:07:25,040 Speaker 1: things I needed to work on before we got in game. 145 00:07:25,720 --> 00:07:28,600 Speaker 1: So he told him he wants his dinner to be 146 00:07:28,760 --> 00:07:31,440 Speaker 1: ready when he getting home on days that I'm off work, 147 00:07:31,520 --> 00:07:34,200 Speaker 1: and like I said earlier, which means that she works too. 148 00:07:34,960 --> 00:07:36,760 Speaker 1: But he says he don't want to wait till he 149 00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:38,640 Speaker 1: get home for you to ask him what he want 150 00:07:38,640 --> 00:07:40,840 Speaker 1: to eat? Well, what is she supposed to do? Dog? 151 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:43,640 Speaker 1: Guess what you want? That's the cool thing to do. 152 00:07:44,880 --> 00:07:47,760 Speaker 1: Then he said, you don't send as many new pictures 153 00:07:47,760 --> 00:07:49,560 Speaker 1: as I used to. I told him I could work 154 00:07:49,560 --> 00:07:51,400 Speaker 1: on the cooking, but I stopped sending the new picture 155 00:07:51,400 --> 00:07:53,440 Speaker 1: to him because I gained a few problems. It wasn't 156 00:07:53,480 --> 00:07:56,240 Speaker 1: feeling sexy most of the days. Hold on, lady, you 157 00:07:56,520 --> 00:07:59,760 Speaker 1: live with him. It's why you're not sending as many news. 158 00:08:00,680 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 1: He dare every night. Take your own. Damn, you're tripping 159 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:12,760 Speaker 1: with me phone dog. See, lady, he has turned this 160 00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:16,760 Speaker 1: thing around on you. And what he's done is the 161 00:08:16,920 --> 00:08:20,400 Speaker 1: reason he doesn't understand what you're saying to him is 162 00:08:20,400 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 1: because you're not helping him understand. You so desperately want 163 00:08:24,520 --> 00:08:28,000 Speaker 1: this ring that you've allowed this man to turn this 164 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:33,560 Speaker 1: into all one sided request. Everything is what he won't 165 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 1: you to do. What he won't pictures, He won't cook it, 166 00:08:37,040 --> 00:08:40,680 Speaker 1: he won't fool he said. Other than that, everything was fine. 167 00:08:41,400 --> 00:08:43,640 Speaker 1: I couldn't think, But that was he said that. I 168 00:08:43,679 --> 00:08:46,880 Speaker 1: couldn't think. But he was something more than that. Bothered him, 169 00:08:47,160 --> 00:08:49,199 Speaker 1: made a few others suggesting to me about things I 170 00:08:49,240 --> 00:08:51,360 Speaker 1: could do to make him feel more like the man 171 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:55,720 Speaker 1: at the house. Wait a minute, Wait a minute. First 172 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:57,760 Speaker 1: of all, the dude is not understanding this because you're 173 00:08:57,800 --> 00:09:00,480 Speaker 1: not helping him understand all this is. There's a bunch 174 00:09:00,520 --> 00:09:05,720 Speaker 1: of one sided requests. You can't be totally one completely 175 00:09:06,280 --> 00:09:10,559 Speaker 1: or during this boy. It's something wrong with him, but 176 00:09:10,760 --> 00:09:14,079 Speaker 1: you ain't making no request of him. Your desperation for 177 00:09:14,200 --> 00:09:17,079 Speaker 1: this ring is allowing you to let this man make 178 00:09:17,280 --> 00:09:20,120 Speaker 1: all what's wrong with you ain't nothing wrong with him. 179 00:09:20,200 --> 00:09:24,800 Speaker 1: He perfect. So you are trying to be engaged to Christ. 180 00:09:25,960 --> 00:09:28,760 Speaker 1: That's the only thing I can think of, because that's 181 00:09:28,800 --> 00:09:31,520 Speaker 1: the only perfect person out there ever lived on this earth, 182 00:09:31,760 --> 00:09:34,800 Speaker 1: and he's not here yet. So now, why you got 183 00:09:34,880 --> 00:09:38,680 Speaker 1: this boy propped up like he all of that one thing? Now? 184 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:42,760 Speaker 1: Now you walk around on eggshells to keep him happy? 185 00:09:43,080 --> 00:09:47,040 Speaker 1: What keep him happy? Here's the line in there. You 186 00:09:47,200 --> 00:09:49,520 Speaker 1: got to do some things to make him feel like 187 00:09:49,640 --> 00:09:54,920 Speaker 1: the man at the house. That's not your job. If 188 00:09:55,000 --> 00:09:57,400 Speaker 1: he is the only man in the house and he 189 00:09:57,520 --> 00:10:00,640 Speaker 1: don't feel like the man of the house house, then 190 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:04,480 Speaker 1: what inadequacy does he have? If he don't feel like 191 00:10:04,559 --> 00:10:06,599 Speaker 1: the man at the house, it's because you must be 192 00:10:06,760 --> 00:10:09,400 Speaker 1: doing a lot of stuff that he no he should 193 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:13,000 Speaker 1: be doing, but he got all these requests heaped on you, lady. 194 00:10:13,320 --> 00:10:15,640 Speaker 1: As time goes by, I'm starting to have a change 195 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:19,679 Speaker 1: of heart, and you should. I'm doing wifey things without 196 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:21,959 Speaker 1: a ring. I feel like he's up to something and 197 00:10:22,040 --> 00:10:24,480 Speaker 1: he's playing games because he's not ready to commit. He 198 00:10:24,559 --> 00:10:27,400 Speaker 1: ain't ready to commit. He's not going to commit, and 199 00:10:27,520 --> 00:10:29,680 Speaker 1: he got you thinking that the reason he's not gonna 200 00:10:29,720 --> 00:10:33,080 Speaker 1: commit because it's all your fault. He the one don't 201 00:10:33,120 --> 00:10:36,440 Speaker 1: feel like the man at the house. What they got 202 00:10:36,520 --> 00:10:40,280 Speaker 1: to do with you? So here we go, start cooking 203 00:10:40,480 --> 00:10:47,840 Speaker 1: what he wants him cereal, have a fold of lucky 204 00:10:47,920 --> 00:10:49,760 Speaker 1: charms waiting on his ass when he comes in the house. 205 00:10:49,800 --> 00:10:55,400 Speaker 1: I'll tell you what, cook old ass food. Folding here, 206 00:10:55,600 --> 00:10:58,880 Speaker 1: old ass food make him feel like, you know, a 207 00:10:59,040 --> 00:11:03,079 Speaker 1: man's man. Have some chicken feet and just and just 208 00:11:03,960 --> 00:11:06,480 Speaker 1: crock pot with none but beans and rice in it, 209 00:11:07,120 --> 00:11:11,760 Speaker 1: corn bread, old ass meals. Coming in the house, having 210 00:11:11,880 --> 00:11:15,199 Speaker 1: some fried spam sitting there with some tripe and some 211 00:11:15,400 --> 00:11:20,839 Speaker 1: scrambled eggs. Cooking some real old ass grown man like 212 00:11:22,240 --> 00:11:24,800 Speaker 1: it's coming there with some hot water, corn bread and 213 00:11:25,120 --> 00:11:31,040 Speaker 1: and just some red eye graving. No damn meat. Just 214 00:11:31,240 --> 00:11:33,600 Speaker 1: make a pot of graving. Give him a straw, tell 215 00:11:33,679 --> 00:11:38,880 Speaker 1: him that what we're eating today, Tell him gravy, old 216 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:43,079 Speaker 1: country ass meal. Come home, ain't number damn just a 217 00:11:43,160 --> 00:11:52,280 Speaker 1: bowl of slough. Yeah, just come in there, ain't nothing 218 00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:57,040 Speaker 1: but some greens, just greens. All that on smoked turkey. 219 00:11:57,160 --> 00:12:01,560 Speaker 1: Damn that hamhock Yeah, reads with a big ass hawk 220 00:12:01,640 --> 00:12:05,560 Speaker 1: in it. Bowler limeal beach feeting his ass like an 221 00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:09,079 Speaker 1: old ass man. This is blood pressure, lady, that's all 222 00:12:09,120 --> 00:12:17,120 Speaker 1: my unt life. There's nothing wrong with you. It's something 223 00:12:17,360 --> 00:12:21,560 Speaker 1: wrong with him. Yeah, it's not you. And the second 224 00:12:21,800 --> 00:12:24,839 Speaker 1: thoughts you're starting to half is because you're starting to 225 00:12:24,960 --> 00:12:28,679 Speaker 1: realize you're walking on eggshells in your own house. That 226 00:12:28,800 --> 00:12:31,440 Speaker 1: little boy ready to get married, and you're gonna marry 227 00:12:31,520 --> 00:12:34,199 Speaker 1: somebody that think he ain't a man because he's messed 228 00:12:34,240 --> 00:12:36,839 Speaker 1: up bout your age anyway, because Mamma has said a 229 00:12:36,920 --> 00:12:41,839 Speaker 1: couple of things about it. Gonna send him pack a 230 00:12:41,920 --> 00:12:43,839 Speaker 1: lunch next time you go, got buy him a lunch 231 00:12:43,920 --> 00:12:50,640 Speaker 1: box with superhe All right, listen, come home, have a 232 00:12:50,720 --> 00:12:54,079 Speaker 1: happy Meal waiting on his as your comments under the 233 00:12:54,160 --> 00:12:57,280 Speaker 1: Egg Strawberry Letter and Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook, 234 00:12:57,320 --> 00:12:59,719 Speaker 1: and don't forget to check out the Strawberry Letter on 235 00:13:00,240 --> 00:13:03,160 Speaker 1: the podcast on demand. 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