1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:01,800 Speaker 1: Welcome to Decisions Decisions. 2 00:00:01,880 --> 00:00:04,480 Speaker 2: I don't think you should say decisions decisions. It sounded 3 00:00:04,519 --> 00:00:07,280 Speaker 2: like you was talking to this cursing. You definitely say 4 00:00:07,280 --> 00:00:09,400 Speaker 2: to welcome, welcome to the new podcast. 5 00:00:10,520 --> 00:00:15,000 Speaker 1: Wait you want to say together decisions decisions. Oh bab, 6 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:18,200 Speaker 1: I'm trying to drink this coffee. Y'all. 7 00:00:18,480 --> 00:00:20,840 Speaker 3: Hope you drink some coffee too, wherever the fuck you at. 8 00:00:20,920 --> 00:00:21,479 Speaker 3: Goddamn it. 9 00:00:21,680 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 1: Happy Monday, y'all. 10 00:00:22,960 --> 00:00:26,080 Speaker 2: It's Decisions Decisions back for another episode. 11 00:00:26,680 --> 00:00:28,960 Speaker 1: And I have been waiting for this tea to Mandy Gotd, 12 00:00:29,600 --> 00:00:31,400 Speaker 1: I don't like that it's tea. I don't like that 13 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:33,520 Speaker 1: it's tea. It is tea bag. It is not tea. 14 00:00:33,560 --> 00:00:34,560 Speaker 1: Because you know what's crazy. 15 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:37,240 Speaker 3: I ended up talking to all my friends and bitch, 16 00:00:37,280 --> 00:00:39,760 Speaker 3: stay aligned with me. So I'm ready. This is really 17 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:42,479 Speaker 3: like Lypton. It's it's hot tea to you. This is Lipton, 18 00:00:42,920 --> 00:00:47,239 Speaker 3: this is you ain't know what Lypton is? Yeah, this 19 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:48,720 Speaker 3: is the this is the ice. 20 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:51,000 Speaker 1: Cold lemon lemon tea that. 21 00:00:51,000 --> 00:00:53,120 Speaker 3: You get out the fridge. Okay, this tain't that type 22 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:55,240 Speaker 3: of tea. So basically, okay, y'all wed when. 23 00:00:55,080 --> 00:00:57,720 Speaker 2: We were in l A and uh that commercial that 24 00:00:57,760 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 2: you guys got to see or we did our rebrand 25 00:01:00,360 --> 00:01:03,240 Speaker 2: while we were there. This old God, I don't like 26 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:06,679 Speaker 2: that you just did the smack on my date. Well 27 00:01:06,680 --> 00:01:08,200 Speaker 2: we know you didn't do a smack on your date. 28 00:01:08,400 --> 00:01:16,440 Speaker 3: Well, basically, I finally met Actor Bay and we went 29 00:01:16,480 --> 00:01:20,679 Speaker 3: on a date. And yes, I'm smiling because even you know, 30 00:01:20,720 --> 00:01:23,720 Speaker 3: I just went down. I just had to take a breather, 31 00:01:24,040 --> 00:01:26,440 Speaker 3: uh for the recording. And he was the first person 32 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:29,080 Speaker 3: I just went to facetimon call like and you saw 33 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:31,120 Speaker 3: I called him when we got on stage from the 34 00:01:31,160 --> 00:01:34,560 Speaker 3: live show last month. And that's what confused me, what 35 00:01:34,800 --> 00:01:38,800 Speaker 3: confused you see, this is what this is why you 36 00:01:38,920 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 3: was wrong. 37 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 1: Okay. 38 00:01:39,959 --> 00:01:44,080 Speaker 3: So basically went to LA and was only there for 39 00:01:44,160 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 3: like two and a half days because we went there 40 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:51,720 Speaker 3: literally just for decisions, decisions, horrible decisions work and I 41 00:01:51,760 --> 00:01:55,680 Speaker 3: met Actor Bay. So the plan was for us to 42 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 3: meet up. I was supposed to go to the Lakers 43 00:01:57,360 --> 00:01:59,960 Speaker 3: game of my little plug fucked up with the guy 44 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:03,040 Speaker 3: damn tickets, so we didn't go to that. And no, no, no, 45 00:02:03,280 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 3: we literally said, in hindsight, it was a great thing. 46 00:02:05,800 --> 00:02:12,840 Speaker 3: Goshad keep the home because the way so because we 47 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 3: were staying downtown. We both said we wanted Japanese and 48 00:02:17,040 --> 00:02:19,240 Speaker 3: I was like, oh, come on, nigga, not you wanting 49 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:21,639 Speaker 3: the same foot as me because Japanese food is number one, 50 00:02:22,160 --> 00:02:23,200 Speaker 3: the best food ever. 51 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:27,480 Speaker 2: I don't even know how to shout out to that 52 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:29,120 Speaker 2: Asian girl and a couple, Oh my god. 53 00:02:29,160 --> 00:02:33,119 Speaker 1: Oh sorry. So we ended up doing Katsuya. 54 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:37,920 Speaker 3: So we did Katsuya, We did Mister Wonderland, which is 55 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:40,600 Speaker 3: a speakeasy, and then we did a rooftop. So we 56 00:02:40,639 --> 00:02:43,600 Speaker 3: did three dates in one night. We just kept talking. 57 00:02:43,720 --> 00:02:48,040 Speaker 3: It was so great. So at dinner, I guess we'll 58 00:02:48,040 --> 00:02:50,679 Speaker 3: start with what he did so we could at least 59 00:02:50,680 --> 00:02:52,880 Speaker 3: get some tea, so that this is the tea I think. 60 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:55,560 Speaker 1: So he did a little bullshit. 61 00:02:55,600 --> 00:02:57,760 Speaker 3: This is where y'all also get to see maybe why 62 00:02:57,840 --> 00:02:59,639 Speaker 3: I'm single, maybe why it's taking me forever to get 63 00:02:59,639 --> 00:03:02,400 Speaker 3: a nigga, because oh the thing we were doing, yes 64 00:03:02,720 --> 00:03:07,160 Speaker 3: with the check. No, so there's something else. Oh no, 65 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:08,840 Speaker 3: we're gonna talk about what we were talking about in 66 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:11,240 Speaker 3: the green room. So anyways, so we go to Katsuya. 67 00:03:11,639 --> 00:03:14,600 Speaker 3: Anyone that knows about catsuya, it's like a nobu, It's 68 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:17,960 Speaker 3: like a it's like an upscale sushi restaurant, right, so 69 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:20,200 Speaker 3: when you go there, you expect to spend some coin. 70 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:21,440 Speaker 1: Okay, it's cute. 71 00:03:21,880 --> 00:03:24,160 Speaker 3: We were sharing though, like all the roll stuff, So 72 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 3: which get we do? So basically, son, so that's what 73 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:35,240 Speaker 3: I'm about to say. So literally, so we're we're on 74 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:39,120 Speaker 3: this date and y'all know how I told y'all I 75 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 3: do not even fake reach for a wallet. So he 76 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:44,920 Speaker 3: goes to do I guess something that he does when 77 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:48,160 Speaker 3: he goes on dates. So the bill comes, the bill 78 00:03:48,240 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 3: is sat and he goes to look at it and 79 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 3: he makes this space like like it's a like it's 80 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:57,280 Speaker 3: a high bill, and bitch. 81 00:03:57,080 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 1: I don't respond. So he's like, dang, you messed up 82 00:04:01,280 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 1: my joke. 83 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:04,720 Speaker 3: Like there's this thing that there's a there's a Seinfeld 84 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:07,040 Speaker 3: bit that I normally do, you know when I go 85 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:09,400 Speaker 3: to dates, just to gauge of reaction. Now, y'all know 86 00:04:09,440 --> 00:04:12,320 Speaker 3: I don't like tester quiz either, So he does this 87 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:12,840 Speaker 3: hold on it. 88 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:15,840 Speaker 1: You already know. I'm like, Seinfeld, I don't watch that Cracker. 89 00:04:15,920 --> 00:04:16,200 Speaker 1: I don't know. 90 00:04:18,200 --> 00:04:24,560 Speaker 3: So it was like this, so Minu Seinfeld. The only 91 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:27,360 Speaker 3: real Seinfield I've ever listened to was that Willet album. 92 00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:31,120 Speaker 3: Like when Seinfeld opened up every goddamn song, you know 93 00:04:31,160 --> 00:04:33,719 Speaker 3: what I'm talking about. You already know that's the only 94 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:35,560 Speaker 3: Seinfeld I know. I don't like him like that. So 95 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 3: he does that right with the eyes wide open. Bitch, 96 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:41,839 Speaker 3: I ain't even flinch. So he goes to tell me 97 00:04:41,880 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 3: he was like, dang, normally this is the reaction from 98 00:04:44,760 --> 00:04:47,640 Speaker 3: a woman, and he's like, you know, they start, oh 99 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:51,840 Speaker 3: my god, this is it a lie all And literally 100 00:04:51,839 --> 00:04:54,760 Speaker 3: on the day, I looked at him and was like, Nigga, 101 00:04:54,760 --> 00:04:55,320 Speaker 3: I'm sober. 102 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:56,359 Speaker 1: I ain't even order drinks. 103 00:04:56,360 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 3: I know that shit ain't expensive what it is one 104 00:04:58,040 --> 00:05:01,640 Speaker 3: twenty And I literally look at him like you you 105 00:05:01,720 --> 00:05:04,320 Speaker 3: weren't gonna get a response out of me for a 106 00:05:04,360 --> 00:05:06,600 Speaker 3: little check when I wasn't even drinking this. I'm gonna 107 00:05:06,600 --> 00:05:08,880 Speaker 3: give you all the talk game for a month, nigga 108 00:05:08,920 --> 00:05:11,479 Speaker 3: for months, And I said it could have been four hundred. 109 00:05:11,520 --> 00:05:14,000 Speaker 1: I'm not flipped. Don't he fucking bro? Don't he British 110 00:05:14,040 --> 00:05:14,640 Speaker 1: around higher? 111 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:17,680 Speaker 3: That's what I don't know, bruh. So he's like, he 112 00:05:17,839 --> 00:05:21,000 Speaker 3: mad that I ain't reacting. I was like, well, first off, 113 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:23,280 Speaker 3: you were gonna pay for it, and I said, what 114 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:24,120 Speaker 3: am I flinching for? 115 00:05:24,480 --> 00:05:25,960 Speaker 1: Nigga? I'm literally not drinking now. 116 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:28,279 Speaker 3: If I was on my drinking game where I probably 117 00:05:28,279 --> 00:05:30,200 Speaker 3: had three faux drinks and then bitches was twenty dollars 118 00:05:30,240 --> 00:05:30,560 Speaker 3: a piece. 119 00:05:30,600 --> 00:05:33,599 Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe because he doesn't drink. Did he actually seem 120 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:36,440 Speaker 1: bothered or no? No, no, no, no he didn't. Oh he 121 00:05:36,480 --> 00:05:38,279 Speaker 1: was waiting for a mind you. I was like, what 122 00:05:38,360 --> 00:05:40,560 Speaker 1: it is like once twenty it was like one thirty eight, 123 00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 1: and it's like, yeah, niggas, don't do that. 124 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:45,000 Speaker 3: And I literally said, I said, nigga, And it's only 125 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:46,560 Speaker 3: because one of the items we had was market price 126 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:48,440 Speaker 3: and I ain't know the market price, nigga, I said, 127 00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:50,360 Speaker 3: Otherwise I would have been on I. 128 00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:52,960 Speaker 1: Will tell you, yes, tell tell men. Don't do that. 129 00:05:53,000 --> 00:05:55,440 Speaker 3: Don't act surprise that a guy didn Hell, that shit 130 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:57,760 Speaker 3: is not attractive. 131 00:05:57,120 --> 00:05:57,560 Speaker 1: That fellas. 132 00:05:57,800 --> 00:05:59,919 Speaker 4: If it does look bad, you need to put on 133 00:05:59,920 --> 00:06:02,080 Speaker 4: the biggest poker faces. I've definitely done that before. 134 00:06:02,160 --> 00:06:04,520 Speaker 1: Wait, you've done what before? I'm like, yeah, this is 135 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:07,120 Speaker 1: kind of high, but but I know I'm paying for it. 136 00:06:07,160 --> 00:06:10,240 Speaker 1: But wait, but you let the girl know that. Damn it. No, 137 00:06:10,320 --> 00:06:11,720 Speaker 1: you gotta put the poker face on. 138 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:15,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, I said seek, but the white women, I said, 139 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:18,159 Speaker 3: don't be bringing those sign Field jokes over him, nigger. 140 00:06:18,680 --> 00:06:21,359 Speaker 3: But then what's crazy is so so we leave Katsuya, 141 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:24,240 Speaker 3: we head to the speakeasy, and if you guys live 142 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:26,240 Speaker 3: in LA and you've been to a Lakers game, you 143 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:29,680 Speaker 3: pass all of these tables with fucking graphic T shirts. 144 00:06:29,960 --> 00:06:31,800 Speaker 3: LA live and out of nowhere. 145 00:06:32,279 --> 00:06:32,520 Speaker 1: Bitch. 146 00:06:32,520 --> 00:06:35,040 Speaker 3: I wanted a Kobe and Michael Jordan GRAPHT T shirt. 147 00:06:35,040 --> 00:06:36,719 Speaker 3: I said, oh, I want a graphic T shirt. So 148 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:38,400 Speaker 3: here we go. I know, I want a graphic T 149 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 3: He's like, man, in LA, nobody buys these shirts. They're like, 150 00:06:41,400 --> 00:06:42,960 Speaker 3: I said, I want a graphic T shirt. I like 151 00:06:43,080 --> 00:06:47,279 Speaker 3: these shits. So I'm sitting here gambling with the nigga gambling, 152 00:06:47,320 --> 00:06:51,320 Speaker 3: negotiating man, negotiate whatever is that, the negotiating. 153 00:06:50,880 --> 00:06:52,400 Speaker 1: Gambling with a T shirt and nigga. 154 00:06:52,600 --> 00:06:55,320 Speaker 3: I'm like, he like, he like two of forty. I said, 155 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:59,479 Speaker 3: two of thirty. I said, what's up? So literally he 156 00:06:59,480 --> 00:07:01,880 Speaker 3: hears me go and he was like, dang, you just 157 00:07:01,920 --> 00:07:03,280 Speaker 3: pull your wallet right on out. 158 00:07:03,279 --> 00:07:04,239 Speaker 1: Don't put the T shirt. 159 00:07:04,279 --> 00:07:06,359 Speaker 3: I said, oh yes, because this isn't a part of 160 00:07:06,360 --> 00:07:08,360 Speaker 3: the date. I said, So whether you buy this for 161 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:10,480 Speaker 3: me or not. I'm gonna get the T shirt. So 162 00:07:10,520 --> 00:07:13,880 Speaker 3: we're talking but no, mind you, he's also completely against 163 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:16,240 Speaker 3: me getting these shirts, but I really want to. 164 00:07:17,320 --> 00:07:18,800 Speaker 1: There's no you think it's see, it's not. 165 00:07:18,840 --> 00:07:20,920 Speaker 3: I want to tell them because I want to tell 166 00:07:20,960 --> 00:07:24,000 Speaker 3: them the transgression of the date. Anyways, he ends up 167 00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:27,840 Speaker 3: buying me the shirts and we go to the speakeasy. 168 00:07:28,240 --> 00:07:30,280 Speaker 3: Of course, we get to the speakeasy, we're both mind you, 169 00:07:30,360 --> 00:07:33,600 Speaker 3: not drinking, so I make them make me a pickle martini, 170 00:07:33,640 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 3: no licker, so it's literally probably just pickle juice and water. 171 00:07:38,120 --> 00:07:41,320 Speaker 1: I don't fucking know. So we're at the speakeasy. 172 00:07:41,480 --> 00:07:45,520 Speaker 3: Of course, wouldn't be a date without the goddamn bar 173 00:07:45,680 --> 00:07:48,000 Speaker 3: spitting around, and it turns into a fucking bur Less performance. 174 00:07:48,680 --> 00:07:52,200 Speaker 3: So now we're at watching a Burless performance at this speakeasy. 175 00:07:52,560 --> 00:07:56,520 Speaker 3: Then we go to the fucking rooftop and we're just 176 00:07:56,560 --> 00:07:58,360 Speaker 3: talking and laying down and it's great. 177 00:07:59,160 --> 00:08:03,120 Speaker 1: Night's over. We linked at like five thirty. 178 00:08:03,200 --> 00:08:07,080 Speaker 3: It's almost eleven, so we pretty much spent like five 179 00:08:07,200 --> 00:08:10,480 Speaker 3: six hours together. Didn't even feel like it could have 180 00:08:10,800 --> 00:08:13,920 Speaker 3: like continued on, but we had to record the next morning, 181 00:08:14,400 --> 00:08:16,000 Speaker 3: so and he had a photo shoot the next morning. 182 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:20,720 Speaker 1: So we go to end the date and it's wonderful. 183 00:08:20,840 --> 00:08:23,280 Speaker 3: He walks me to the lobby of my hotel room 184 00:08:24,000 --> 00:08:27,120 Speaker 3: before he goes to head back wherever the fuck he 185 00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 3: lives in La and we embrace each other with a 186 00:08:30,360 --> 00:08:34,600 Speaker 3: really really big long hug and he kisses me on 187 00:08:34,679 --> 00:08:39,800 Speaker 3: my forehead, and then we depart, and so I come 188 00:08:39,840 --> 00:08:42,839 Speaker 3: in the next morning, y'all, and I'll tell Weezy about. 189 00:08:42,559 --> 00:08:44,240 Speaker 1: This great old following day. 190 00:08:44,240 --> 00:08:46,360 Speaker 3: It wasn't me, it was me, No, it was only 191 00:08:46,400 --> 00:08:48,320 Speaker 3: you when you're your makeup artists, because everyone else. 192 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:50,600 Speaker 1: But she wasn't mad that we didn't kid. 193 00:08:50,679 --> 00:08:52,200 Speaker 2: No, I'm just saying how many people were doing Oh 194 00:08:52,280 --> 00:08:54,560 Speaker 2: there was There was six people in the room. Yeah, me, 195 00:08:55,040 --> 00:08:58,640 Speaker 2: my makeup artist, Mandy's makeup artists. So she's telling us this, right, 196 00:08:58,880 --> 00:09:01,680 Speaker 2: mm hm. I never said anything wrong. I was like, damn, 197 00:09:01,679 --> 00:09:02,400 Speaker 2: why don't you kiss? 198 00:09:02,559 --> 00:09:03,680 Speaker 1: Didn't think anything was wrong. 199 00:09:04,559 --> 00:09:09,080 Speaker 2: I started out, no, No, it was about what you 200 00:09:09,160 --> 00:09:12,360 Speaker 2: said you were okay, So you were like, oh, kiss 201 00:09:12,360 --> 00:09:12,880 Speaker 2: your other ford. 202 00:09:12,880 --> 00:09:16,040 Speaker 1: I'm like that sweet, but I'm just expected to make 203 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:16,360 Speaker 1: it out. 204 00:09:16,480 --> 00:09:20,559 Speaker 2: Yeah, and then you said I never kissed on a date. 205 00:09:20,679 --> 00:09:25,520 Speaker 3: On a date, if I'm not fucking yeah both, I 206 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:29,880 Speaker 3: vote yeah, that's not crazy. That is not crazy. First off, 207 00:09:29,920 --> 00:09:31,600 Speaker 3: it's crazy. No, no, no, it's not crazy. 208 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:32,000 Speaker 1: You know why. 209 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:35,280 Speaker 3: First off, I'm a grown ass motherfucking woman. Like if 210 00:09:35,280 --> 00:09:37,040 Speaker 3: you were at high school and you feel like you 211 00:09:37,080 --> 00:09:38,800 Speaker 3: gotta make out because you got to go back home 212 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:41,360 Speaker 3: to your mama house. That is the excitement of making 213 00:09:41,400 --> 00:09:43,640 Speaker 3: out on a date when you were a grown ass 214 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:46,840 Speaker 3: woman just going on a date. Why am I sitting here? 215 00:09:47,559 --> 00:09:50,959 Speaker 3: Oh it's a roman to make out with a nigga 216 00:09:52,240 --> 00:09:53,240 Speaker 3: just to make out with him. 217 00:09:53,320 --> 00:09:54,280 Speaker 1: That doesn't make sense. 218 00:09:55,920 --> 00:09:58,360 Speaker 3: Making out is Why would I make out with a 219 00:09:58,440 --> 00:10:00,600 Speaker 3: nigga who's leaving and going home and I'm going to 220 00:10:00,640 --> 00:10:03,920 Speaker 3: my room. If we're gonna make out, I mean as 221 00:10:03,960 --> 00:10:07,000 Speaker 3: well put your dick in my mouth. I don't understand, bro, 222 00:10:08,440 --> 00:10:10,120 Speaker 3: this is real. Why am I making? 223 00:10:11,280 --> 00:10:12,080 Speaker 1: Why clip? 224 00:10:12,280 --> 00:10:14,720 Speaker 3: I'm not making First off, let's be very clear too, 225 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:17,520 Speaker 3: what if you were going on multiple dates? Me ending 226 00:10:18,240 --> 00:10:21,080 Speaker 3: multiple dates making out with a guy at the end 227 00:10:21,520 --> 00:10:22,400 Speaker 3: does not make sense. 228 00:10:22,400 --> 00:10:24,280 Speaker 1: Why do you think it's make out? Why can't you 229 00:10:24,360 --> 00:10:25,640 Speaker 1: share a kiss intimately? 230 00:10:26,400 --> 00:10:29,240 Speaker 3: A pop kiss is not an intimate kiss. A pop 231 00:10:29,320 --> 00:10:32,480 Speaker 3: kids a pop kiss is like to me, making out 232 00:10:32,480 --> 00:10:35,920 Speaker 3: his tongue. That's the kiss you're talking about, right, You 233 00:10:35,960 --> 00:10:37,480 Speaker 3: want me to make out with a nigga like I'm 234 00:10:37,480 --> 00:10:38,199 Speaker 3: in high school. 235 00:10:38,240 --> 00:10:39,800 Speaker 1: It doesn't have to be like all day long. 236 00:10:39,880 --> 00:10:42,760 Speaker 3: But I'm not saying all day long. Let's let's justify 237 00:10:42,920 --> 00:10:46,840 Speaker 3: a kiss. A makeout is tongue. I think a kiss. 238 00:10:46,520 --> 00:10:49,720 Speaker 2: Can be intimate if it's not a makeout too like, 239 00:10:49,800 --> 00:10:50,960 Speaker 2: I think you can end the date. 240 00:10:51,640 --> 00:10:53,960 Speaker 3: I think it was very intimate that he kissed my forehead. 241 00:10:54,080 --> 00:10:57,840 Speaker 3: We didn't do the We didn't do the Spaniard the Italian. 242 00:10:58,800 --> 00:11:02,280 Speaker 3: We did we had an embraced hug. And then he's 243 00:11:02,320 --> 00:11:07,280 Speaker 3: really tall. He's really tall. So at all he's tall. 244 00:11:07,760 --> 00:11:10,880 Speaker 1: He's tall. Maybe that's so mind you kisses me. He 245 00:11:10,960 --> 00:11:12,040 Speaker 1: kissed me on my forehead. 246 00:11:12,240 --> 00:11:14,679 Speaker 3: But also that's the other thing. I date niggas six 247 00:11:14,800 --> 00:11:17,079 Speaker 3: two plus, bro, I got to look like a little tro. 248 00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:20,240 Speaker 1: You think nigga that are tall don't kiss. 249 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:22,040 Speaker 2: Come on, I know it's tall niggas, But I'm just 250 00:11:22,080 --> 00:11:25,640 Speaker 2: saying you really thinking that, because I know you said 251 00:11:25,640 --> 00:11:28,839 Speaker 2: it in the green room that day. I never had 252 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:29,320 Speaker 2: a kiss with. 253 00:11:30,040 --> 00:11:31,679 Speaker 3: Not that I didn't sit here and be like, let 254 00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:34,280 Speaker 3: me suck you off in the car after to bro 255 00:11:34,400 --> 00:11:35,280 Speaker 3: why am I making out? 256 00:11:35,280 --> 00:11:38,240 Speaker 1: What question? If you went for it, though, would you 257 00:11:38,240 --> 00:11:40,559 Speaker 1: have let it happen? I think it would have felt weird, 258 00:11:40,640 --> 00:11:42,920 Speaker 1: like even when we there was no way for. 259 00:11:42,920 --> 00:11:45,679 Speaker 3: It to happen, because that's the why would we just 260 00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:47,800 Speaker 3: make out? 261 00:11:46,720 --> 00:11:49,600 Speaker 1: But maybe we're just friends? 262 00:11:49,640 --> 00:11:52,600 Speaker 3: You said that, No, I didn't you because we didn't 263 00:11:52,600 --> 00:11:55,280 Speaker 3: buck after I know you were like, oh, we're not. 264 00:11:55,920 --> 00:11:55,959 Speaker 2: No. 265 00:11:56,200 --> 00:11:59,040 Speaker 3: You asked if if you think I friendszoned him or 266 00:11:59,080 --> 00:12:02,120 Speaker 3: he friendszoned me friend? I didn't have to answer no, no, no, no, no, 267 00:12:02,160 --> 00:12:04,560 Speaker 3: we're absolutely friends right now. But you use the word 268 00:12:04,559 --> 00:12:06,360 Speaker 3: friend zone and I said it's possible. 269 00:12:06,440 --> 00:12:08,040 Speaker 1: I don't know. We'll see how it is. 270 00:12:08,080 --> 00:12:12,679 Speaker 3: And you literally kiss after literally asked me as well, well, 271 00:12:12,679 --> 00:12:14,840 Speaker 3: are y'all still talking? And I said he hit me 272 00:12:14,840 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 3: when he got home, and we've been talking all day 273 00:12:16,679 --> 00:12:19,960 Speaker 3: like normal. Nothing has changed in our dynamic of. 274 00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:21,640 Speaker 1: How we talk. Would you have let him kiss you? 275 00:12:22,520 --> 00:12:26,679 Speaker 1: Letting kiss is like, yeah, we both didn't go to 276 00:12:27,240 --> 00:12:27,760 Speaker 1: your theory. 277 00:12:27,800 --> 00:12:32,160 Speaker 3: If you have let him kiss to me though, that's 278 00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:32,680 Speaker 3: what I'm saying. 279 00:12:32,760 --> 00:12:35,400 Speaker 1: A pop kiss is one thing, and. 280 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:38,640 Speaker 3: Now we found real childish y'all know, and they're navigating 281 00:12:38,640 --> 00:12:42,520 Speaker 3: a kiss to me after a date, especially a first 282 00:12:42,600 --> 00:12:45,400 Speaker 3: date that is not ending in a nightcap, and. 283 00:12:45,320 --> 00:12:47,839 Speaker 1: A good first date, that's a six hour day, that's 284 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:48,760 Speaker 1: a good first. 285 00:12:48,520 --> 00:12:51,880 Speaker 3: Day, which is why it absolutely did not need to 286 00:12:52,040 --> 00:12:54,960 Speaker 3: end in a fucking childish ass makeout. 287 00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:56,240 Speaker 1: So why do you keep calling you child? 288 00:12:56,600 --> 00:13:00,600 Speaker 3: I think making out with someone is childish, especially yes, 289 00:13:00,960 --> 00:13:01,960 Speaker 3: I think that's why I sell. 290 00:13:03,840 --> 00:13:04,680 Speaker 1: No because I'm. 291 00:13:04,520 --> 00:13:07,480 Speaker 3: Celibate and and to be honest with you too, And 292 00:13:07,600 --> 00:13:09,920 Speaker 3: you guys may hear more of this on on Patreon 293 00:13:10,000 --> 00:13:12,920 Speaker 3: or when I when I, but I do know when 294 00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:13,440 Speaker 3: I when. 295 00:13:13,320 --> 00:13:15,320 Speaker 1: I did Tuesday, I am. 296 00:13:15,559 --> 00:13:20,920 Speaker 3: I am navigating right now my relationship between drinking and sex. 297 00:13:21,320 --> 00:13:23,920 Speaker 3: And to be fair, I was so present on the 298 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:26,880 Speaker 3: date and it felt so good and we talked like 299 00:13:26,920 --> 00:13:29,440 Speaker 3: we did on the phone clearly for hours that I 300 00:13:29,480 --> 00:13:33,559 Speaker 3: was like, Wow, there actually could possibly be a tie 301 00:13:33,600 --> 00:13:36,839 Speaker 3: between my hyper sexuality and liquor because I wasn't. 302 00:13:36,880 --> 00:13:39,640 Speaker 1: I wasn't mad. I really enjoyed the date. 303 00:13:40,160 --> 00:13:44,480 Speaker 3: I'm still talking to him daily for hours. 304 00:13:44,600 --> 00:13:45,400 Speaker 1: Nothing has changed. 305 00:13:45,440 --> 00:13:49,160 Speaker 2: I'm not saying that, uh, not kissing as bad didn't 306 00:13:49,160 --> 00:13:51,480 Speaker 2: mean that at all. I was surprised you guys didn' 307 00:13:51,520 --> 00:13:53,120 Speaker 2: kiss because you've exchanged nudes and ship. 308 00:13:53,600 --> 00:13:56,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, but I said that too. He exchanged nudes though 309 00:13:56,520 --> 00:13:58,920 Speaker 3: when we first met in the DMS. Once we started 310 00:13:58,920 --> 00:14:02,040 Speaker 3: fucking crying with each other about our trauma. This, I 311 00:14:02,040 --> 00:14:02,560 Speaker 3: ain't seen a. 312 00:14:02,600 --> 00:14:06,440 Speaker 1: Dick sen enigma. Y'all exchanged news, but a kiss would 313 00:14:06,440 --> 00:14:08,960 Speaker 1: have been crazy. No, no, no, no, actually that's I don't 314 00:14:08,960 --> 00:14:10,199 Speaker 1: I don't like this. I don't like this. 315 00:14:11,040 --> 00:14:13,800 Speaker 3: One is virtual, one is in person. They're two completely 316 00:14:13,840 --> 00:14:14,320 Speaker 3: different things. 317 00:14:14,320 --> 00:14:17,679 Speaker 1: But right, but you're building it. I get that. 318 00:14:17,760 --> 00:14:20,280 Speaker 3: But because we didn't have sex, so we both went 319 00:14:20,320 --> 00:14:23,080 Speaker 3: in knowing that we weren't. Because he knows I'm celibate 320 00:14:23,200 --> 00:14:26,440 Speaker 3: right now, we both went into where there wasn't pressure 321 00:14:26,480 --> 00:14:27,480 Speaker 3: for him to come up to my room. 322 00:14:27,560 --> 00:14:31,080 Speaker 1: Hold. Wow, wow, guys, we are really breaking the thousand. Okay, 323 00:14:31,120 --> 00:14:31,840 Speaker 1: one more question. 324 00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:35,160 Speaker 2: Yes, you've been on a date, right, Let's just say 325 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:36,640 Speaker 2: a guy who walks you to your the bottom of 326 00:14:36,640 --> 00:14:38,760 Speaker 2: your building or whatever, or even in the. 327 00:14:38,720 --> 00:14:42,200 Speaker 3: Car drops you off. You haven't had a kissing session 328 00:14:42,240 --> 00:14:45,720 Speaker 3: before you left ever? When I was in high school, 329 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:48,000 Speaker 3: or I told you, I really only made out with 330 00:14:48,080 --> 00:14:49,960 Speaker 3: niggas when they picked me up from the airport because 331 00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:51,320 Speaker 3: they flew me out and I knew I was gonna 332 00:14:51,320 --> 00:14:54,200 Speaker 3: fuck them that weekend. I am not a dater. I 333 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:56,640 Speaker 3: think we've talked about this on the pod, and so 334 00:14:56,760 --> 00:15:00,800 Speaker 3: when I go on dates, yeah, like it's I'm getting 335 00:15:00,840 --> 00:15:03,200 Speaker 3: to know you. This was nice, let's see each other again. 336 00:15:03,240 --> 00:15:03,760 Speaker 1: I told you. 337 00:15:04,000 --> 00:15:08,480 Speaker 3: There's the the musician guy with the dreads, Lenny Kravitz 338 00:15:08,480 --> 00:15:12,200 Speaker 3: looking niggas. I've been on three dates with him, amazing dates, 339 00:15:12,200 --> 00:15:14,880 Speaker 3: fucking we close down and speak easy. At record room, 340 00:15:15,200 --> 00:15:17,360 Speaker 3: we went, he took me to a fucket to Chinatown 341 00:15:17,400 --> 00:15:20,400 Speaker 3: and we did the Arcade and then we did a 342 00:15:20,440 --> 00:15:25,680 Speaker 3: bar in Brooklyn. Dates and we haven't kissed. Why why 343 00:15:25,720 --> 00:15:27,520 Speaker 3: do you think that? I think that's a part of 344 00:15:27,560 --> 00:15:27,960 Speaker 3: me too. 345 00:15:28,080 --> 00:15:33,760 Speaker 1: I'm not really ye are you. 346 00:15:33,960 --> 00:15:37,080 Speaker 3: I'm not leaning in to kiss them to me. I 347 00:15:37,240 --> 00:15:42,280 Speaker 3: also and and this could be just I feel like 348 00:15:42,360 --> 00:15:47,040 Speaker 3: the conversations are so open in regards to our previous relationships, 349 00:15:47,080 --> 00:15:50,040 Speaker 3: our sexuality and things. Because of the show that I 350 00:15:50,080 --> 00:15:52,880 Speaker 3: have and what I'm free with talking about that, I 351 00:15:52,880 --> 00:15:55,120 Speaker 3: think a part of me doesn't feel the need to 352 00:15:55,320 --> 00:15:59,200 Speaker 3: lean in physically like it's there. We've been talked about 353 00:15:59,200 --> 00:16:00,960 Speaker 3: the things that I'm in too. We've talked about the 354 00:16:00,960 --> 00:16:03,240 Speaker 3: things that I want. I don't think I need to 355 00:16:03,320 --> 00:16:05,960 Speaker 3: present myself physically to someone. And I also don't just 356 00:16:06,000 --> 00:16:07,760 Speaker 3: like making out with a random nigga. I don't even 357 00:16:07,760 --> 00:16:08,640 Speaker 3: think of it as making out. 358 00:16:08,680 --> 00:16:11,480 Speaker 2: I think it was breaking this barrier of like, oh, 359 00:16:11,560 --> 00:16:14,720 Speaker 2: now it's become a romance. So the first date, let's 360 00:16:14,760 --> 00:16:16,280 Speaker 2: just say you meet on an app or you meet 361 00:16:16,320 --> 00:16:20,160 Speaker 2: cold eyeg whatever. You're figuring each other out right. You're 362 00:16:20,160 --> 00:16:23,000 Speaker 2: getting to know each other for some reason. To me, 363 00:16:23,520 --> 00:16:26,760 Speaker 2: maybe those maybe I'm wrong. I am curious when people 364 00:16:26,840 --> 00:16:29,880 Speaker 2: think what that marker is. But for me, the kiss 365 00:16:29,880 --> 00:16:32,760 Speaker 2: seals it. The kiss kind of confirms for me, like 366 00:16:33,200 --> 00:16:37,280 Speaker 2: we're both attracted beyond just a surface level. 367 00:16:37,280 --> 00:16:39,680 Speaker 1: Oh we are we friends or not. There's something about 368 00:16:39,720 --> 00:16:40,440 Speaker 1: a kiss. 369 00:16:40,200 --> 00:16:44,400 Speaker 2: That then shows me one that there is a little 370 00:16:44,400 --> 00:16:47,480 Speaker 2: bit of intimacy here, even if it's not turning into sex. 371 00:16:47,480 --> 00:16:50,720 Speaker 2: I don't expect kisses to turn into sex ever, if 372 00:16:50,720 --> 00:16:52,880 Speaker 2: the first you just said it lets you know that 373 00:16:53,680 --> 00:16:58,800 Speaker 2: it's beyond friendship. But and to me, a date, a 374 00:16:58,840 --> 00:17:01,920 Speaker 2: first date absolutely is not to signify that. To me, 375 00:17:02,080 --> 00:17:04,600 Speaker 2: we already know we're attracted to each other, especially if 376 00:17:04,640 --> 00:17:08,800 Speaker 2: we meet online or we've already exchanged the actual attraction 377 00:17:08,920 --> 00:17:11,480 Speaker 2: with each other, we've already engaged that we are into 378 00:17:11,520 --> 00:17:13,960 Speaker 2: each other, we've all been turned off. We get to 379 00:17:14,040 --> 00:17:16,439 Speaker 2: a date and motherfucker start getting whack. But that's what 380 00:17:16,480 --> 00:17:19,240 Speaker 2: I'm saying. I've gone on multiple dates without kisses. I've 381 00:17:19,640 --> 00:17:22,040 Speaker 2: I've continued to talk to people and there still is 382 00:17:22,080 --> 00:17:24,320 Speaker 2: a sign of interest without us being physical. 383 00:17:24,359 --> 00:17:26,959 Speaker 1: So the first time that you get you look so shocked. 384 00:17:26,960 --> 00:17:28,959 Speaker 3: This is crazy to me, Like the way you're like, 385 00:17:29,320 --> 00:17:31,719 Speaker 3: you're you're asking me the same question for the seventh 386 00:17:31,760 --> 00:17:33,320 Speaker 3: time and it's not gonna change. 387 00:17:33,400 --> 00:17:34,280 Speaker 1: Do y'all notice that? 388 00:17:34,480 --> 00:17:37,400 Speaker 3: Hold on, whoo he do y'all realize that she has 389 00:17:37,480 --> 00:17:41,880 Speaker 3: asked me the same question of time even No, it's. 390 00:17:41,720 --> 00:17:45,040 Speaker 2: Where you're really attracted to someone. No, don't kiss until 391 00:17:45,040 --> 00:17:45,480 Speaker 2: the same. 392 00:17:46,160 --> 00:17:53,560 Speaker 3: I normally normally Yes, I Am not just making hey 393 00:17:54,880 --> 00:17:58,000 Speaker 3: this kissing mention and be like, oh pussy next. No 394 00:17:59,000 --> 00:18:02,560 Speaker 3: I no, no, not what I'm saying. That is not 395 00:18:02,600 --> 00:18:05,480 Speaker 3: what I'm saying for you, though, I mean maybe for me. 396 00:18:05,600 --> 00:18:08,280 Speaker 3: But by that point, if I'm kissing you were on 397 00:18:08,320 --> 00:18:10,960 Speaker 3: my couch, we're in a bed, like I don't feel 398 00:18:10,960 --> 00:18:14,200 Speaker 3: the need to make out with someone in a public. 399 00:18:15,000 --> 00:18:17,919 Speaker 1: Okay, I see now, Okay, so like she has to 400 00:18:18,000 --> 00:18:20,760 Speaker 1: be maybe I've never been. 401 00:18:20,680 --> 00:18:22,680 Speaker 2: In a sexy speakeasy or a rooftop and you just 402 00:18:22,680 --> 00:18:23,679 Speaker 2: share my ex. 403 00:18:23,840 --> 00:18:24,680 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. 404 00:18:24,920 --> 00:18:27,120 Speaker 3: My ex was probably the first person I was out 405 00:18:27,119 --> 00:18:30,840 Speaker 3: here having PDA with outside of maybe outside of maybe 406 00:18:30,920 --> 00:18:32,879 Speaker 3: the nigga that I said I'm making double back to. 407 00:18:33,200 --> 00:18:35,000 Speaker 3: We made out a in a strip club one time. 408 00:18:35,160 --> 00:18:37,959 Speaker 3: But I don't be out here doing PDA with niggas. 409 00:18:37,960 --> 00:18:40,120 Speaker 2: I just can't believe no one's ever leaned in when 410 00:18:40,240 --> 00:18:43,119 Speaker 2: dates a little Okay, so that's a question too. 411 00:18:43,760 --> 00:18:46,360 Speaker 1: We're sitting across. Yeah, no one's made the move on you. 412 00:18:46,440 --> 00:18:48,360 Speaker 2: Even when you talked about the linning gravitude your leg 413 00:18:48,480 --> 00:18:51,600 Speaker 2: was on his, It wasn't. We didn't kiss, we didn't 414 00:18:52,040 --> 00:18:54,600 Speaker 2: move to man, you put your leg on me right now, 415 00:18:54,640 --> 00:18:55,679 Speaker 2: I'm talking about. 416 00:18:57,720 --> 00:18:57,960 Speaker 3: No. 417 00:18:58,480 --> 00:19:01,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I swear to me. Oh the second a 418 00:19:01,440 --> 00:19:04,120 Speaker 2: woman for me too. If a woman does too much 419 00:19:04,200 --> 00:19:04,800 Speaker 2: touching me. 420 00:19:07,320 --> 00:19:12,800 Speaker 3: Yeah right, y'all. That's why I digga's got mino and ship. 421 00:19:12,560 --> 00:19:16,200 Speaker 1: Out here, y'all. Nasty y'all, would you show you a 422 00:19:16,200 --> 00:19:19,920 Speaker 1: little bit of attention. That's leg on me. Bro. We 423 00:19:19,920 --> 00:19:22,199 Speaker 1: were close and there was a couple next to us. 424 00:19:22,359 --> 00:19:24,040 Speaker 3: I just wanted to get closer because we were really 425 00:19:24,080 --> 00:19:27,320 Speaker 3: having a deep conversation about our upbringing. Bro, baby, Bro, 426 00:19:27,440 --> 00:19:29,680 Speaker 3: don't you put your leg on EDDI? If you have, 427 00:19:31,000 --> 00:19:32,959 Speaker 3: I don't think I would put my leg on Edi. 428 00:19:33,040 --> 00:19:34,719 Speaker 3: I would put my leg on on Wolf. 429 00:19:35,000 --> 00:19:36,680 Speaker 1: I don't believe that. I don't. I don't believe that. 430 00:19:36,800 --> 00:19:38,560 Speaker 1: I think we've had a lot of not what you 431 00:19:38,600 --> 00:19:42,760 Speaker 1: mean by leg and what do you mean? Yeah? You 432 00:19:42,800 --> 00:19:43,080 Speaker 1: know what? 433 00:19:43,720 --> 00:19:47,120 Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, because I'm sick of talking about this ship. 434 00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:47,520 Speaker 1: God damn. 435 00:19:49,280 --> 00:19:51,679 Speaker 3: Okay, you're gonna ask me the same way. But if 436 00:19:51,680 --> 00:19:53,680 Speaker 3: he was trying to make out with you, if he 437 00:19:53,760 --> 00:19:54,840 Speaker 3: was trying to make out with you. 438 00:19:55,119 --> 00:20:02,760 Speaker 1: Decision kiss me? No, bro, wait, go ahead and go 439 00:20:02,880 --> 00:20:03,200 Speaker 1: keep going. 440 00:20:03,280 --> 00:20:07,840 Speaker 3: You have made I was I make out in the 441 00:20:07,880 --> 00:20:10,640 Speaker 3: lobby of my hotel without being. 442 00:20:10,520 --> 00:20:12,119 Speaker 1: Like, how would you have stopped it? How would you 443 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:12,639 Speaker 1: have stopped that? 444 00:20:12,680 --> 00:20:16,680 Speaker 3: Then? No, I don't understand why wait what do you say? Well, well, 445 00:20:16,680 --> 00:20:19,040 Speaker 3: by the way, are you are you on a microphone? 446 00:20:19,280 --> 00:20:20,720 Speaker 3: You're doing a lot of talking them. Not be on 447 00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:22,840 Speaker 3: a microphone. I need you to act like we're professionals 448 00:20:22,840 --> 00:20:27,080 Speaker 3: over here. Share the microphone with you on your mouth? 449 00:20:30,040 --> 00:20:31,840 Speaker 3: You have made out with him? If you went for that, 450 00:20:32,480 --> 00:20:33,880 Speaker 3: I probably would have pulled away. 451 00:20:34,160 --> 00:20:35,320 Speaker 1: Damn, and then what would you do? 452 00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:38,680 Speaker 3: Are you trying to come up to my room? Why 453 00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:42,000 Speaker 3: are we making out? I don't understand why? 454 00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:42,800 Speaker 1: You know what? 455 00:20:42,880 --> 00:20:45,000 Speaker 2: I guess I'll say this maybe something that just hit 456 00:20:45,040 --> 00:20:46,920 Speaker 2: me because you said, why are we making out? Why 457 00:20:46,920 --> 00:20:50,199 Speaker 2: are we making I am satisfied with enjoying kisses with 458 00:20:50,280 --> 00:20:53,840 Speaker 2: someone and stopping I love. I don't think I need 459 00:20:53,880 --> 00:20:57,120 Speaker 2: to go far like I think a kiss sharing that 460 00:20:57,200 --> 00:21:01,200 Speaker 2: it's sexy. It's not even teazy. I genuinely don't feel 461 00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:03,760 Speaker 2: like it's edging for me. I enjoyed just the kiss. 462 00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:06,840 Speaker 2: I don't always need something to lead to the end. 463 00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:08,760 Speaker 2: I don't need to get naked. I don't need to 464 00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:11,080 Speaker 2: be naked with you. Even with women, the kissing can 465 00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:11,720 Speaker 2: be enough for me. 466 00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:16,160 Speaker 3: Like, okay, So do you want to know what I 467 00:21:16,200 --> 00:21:17,199 Speaker 3: may attribute it to? 468 00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:22,640 Speaker 1: Oh, not me digging deep into my therapy. No, it's 469 00:21:22,680 --> 00:21:23,520 Speaker 1: not even trauma. 470 00:21:23,720 --> 00:21:27,119 Speaker 3: As much as I think a lot of my just 471 00:21:27,160 --> 00:21:32,520 Speaker 3: a lot of my relationships with men are physical. Okay, 472 00:21:32,600 --> 00:21:34,800 Speaker 3: So to me to be able to spend five or 473 00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:37,760 Speaker 3: six hours and not be physical at all and still 474 00:21:37,760 --> 00:21:40,960 Speaker 3: be so enthralled. That's why I like musician Nigga bro 475 00:21:41,280 --> 00:21:43,280 Speaker 3: Our first date four hours and we. 476 00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:44,920 Speaker 1: Were talking about his children. 477 00:21:45,119 --> 00:21:47,439 Speaker 3: I don't even like kids, and I was asking him 478 00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:51,040 Speaker 3: questions about his kids, like. We had such a great conversation, 479 00:21:51,160 --> 00:21:52,800 Speaker 3: and to be honest with you, I don't even think 480 00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:55,680 Speaker 3: niggas be that entertaining. So when I finally meet someone 481 00:21:55,720 --> 00:21:58,359 Speaker 3: that's attractive and can hold my attention with conversation for 482 00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:00,880 Speaker 3: six hours, I almost don't want to by just going 483 00:22:00,920 --> 00:22:01,840 Speaker 3: straight to being physical. 484 00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:04,240 Speaker 1: So now I realize, too, Oh God, here we go. 485 00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:05,680 Speaker 1: Now you do it so deep. 486 00:22:06,040 --> 00:22:09,840 Speaker 2: I want to kiss you the more I'm getting intimate. 487 00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:13,920 Speaker 2: To me, talking about someone's children for hours is intimacy. 488 00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:17,520 Speaker 2: Talking about deep things that's intimacy. I actually want to 489 00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:18,919 Speaker 2: share the kiss now. 490 00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:22,800 Speaker 1: You know. See to me and I think, but to me, 491 00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:23,760 Speaker 1: it's the opposite. 492 00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:26,400 Speaker 3: And it may be because if y'all listen to horrible 493 00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:30,199 Speaker 3: decisions for for what, for forever, forever, forever, I wasn't in. 494 00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:33,760 Speaker 3: I had really no concept of intimacy. And I think 495 00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:37,840 Speaker 3: in my last relationship intimacy came in the forms of 496 00:22:38,200 --> 00:22:41,480 Speaker 3: spending long hours with my ex. Everything out of the 497 00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:45,320 Speaker 3: bedroom is actually what I miss about that relationship, And 498 00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:48,840 Speaker 3: so I think intimacy for me now is being able 499 00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:53,680 Speaker 3: to be in those quality nigga not not love love 500 00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:56,159 Speaker 3: language shit, that's probably what it is. And so the 501 00:22:56,240 --> 00:23:00,080 Speaker 3: idea of like kissing or doing anything that's physical to 502 00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:02,960 Speaker 3: me leading that that, in my mind leads to sex 503 00:23:03,680 --> 00:23:06,960 Speaker 3: is bottom barrel last, Like, we know we're gonna get 504 00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:09,400 Speaker 3: there eventually. I want to like you before we get 505 00:23:09,440 --> 00:23:12,240 Speaker 3: to all that shit. And to be fair, niggas don't 506 00:23:12,240 --> 00:23:12,840 Speaker 3: know how to kiss. 507 00:23:13,040 --> 00:23:15,000 Speaker 1: That be the worst. Niggas don't be out here knowing 508 00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:15,440 Speaker 1: how to kids. 509 00:23:15,440 --> 00:23:17,200 Speaker 2: Why you used to say I need to fuck you 510 00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:19,399 Speaker 2: quick to figure out? You got good day for good 511 00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:21,159 Speaker 2: dayside feel about kill that's how you feel like, Oh, 512 00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:21,439 Speaker 2: I want to. 513 00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:23,680 Speaker 1: Kiss is bad. Niggas don't be knowing how to kiss. 514 00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:25,240 Speaker 3: So if I like you and then you ruined it 515 00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:27,399 Speaker 3: with a bad kiss, nah, now you don't ruin it. 516 00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:27,960 Speaker 1: You feel me. 517 00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:36,800 Speaker 2: Remember when I was dating the Dreamville dude two years 518 00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:39,480 Speaker 2: ago and I couldn't figure out what it was. I 519 00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:40,760 Speaker 2: was like, oh my god, I'm so into him, but 520 00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:42,720 Speaker 2: I don't know if it's friendly. Do you know why 521 00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:43,119 Speaker 2: I said that? 522 00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:45,520 Speaker 1: Because he did? Oh, because he didn't kiss you? And 523 00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:47,679 Speaker 1: I remember what you did? You just be out here 524 00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:50,200 Speaker 1: kissing on niggas. No, he even said it to me too. 525 00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:52,280 Speaker 1: But that's such a like a pivotal moment for a 526 00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:54,040 Speaker 1: lot of people when it comes to dates. It's like, 527 00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:54,760 Speaker 1: how do you break that? 528 00:23:54,840 --> 00:23:57,679 Speaker 2: And I said he He also said to me we 529 00:23:57,720 --> 00:23:58,440 Speaker 2: met at Dreamville. 530 00:23:58,440 --> 00:24:00,000 Speaker 1: That's why I call him the Dreamville nigga. Right. 531 00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:05,840 Speaker 2: We were going on dates, dinners, drinks, flirting damn near me, 532 00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:09,160 Speaker 2: dancing on his dick at some parties, and we didn't 533 00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:11,520 Speaker 2: kiss till the fifth date. And I remember saying to him, 534 00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:13,480 Speaker 2: oh my god, finally, and he was like, I didn't 535 00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:14,520 Speaker 2: know if it was friendly or not. 536 00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:15,879 Speaker 1: So this not finally. 537 00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:18,200 Speaker 3: Probably suck a dick before kissing the naked though, that's 538 00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:21,040 Speaker 3: the crazy part, Like I don't I know that sounds crazy. 539 00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:24,440 Speaker 1: This is not horrible to say, but that's where no, no, no, no, 540 00:24:24,920 --> 00:24:25,280 Speaker 1: we are. 541 00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:28,280 Speaker 3: Not cluipping that, but do not have back and kiss 542 00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:30,840 Speaker 3: from the didn't even say we're working back. This is 543 00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:33,760 Speaker 3: this was a really thought thought provokey. No, it makes 544 00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:35,840 Speaker 3: don't clip the. 545 00:24:39,880 --> 00:24:40,280 Speaker 1: But no. 546 00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:43,200 Speaker 3: So I think that that's my thing, like really leaning 547 00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:46,359 Speaker 3: into what intimacy looks like without being physical with somebody, 548 00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:49,320 Speaker 3: because to be fair, that's been the easiest part. 549 00:24:49,520 --> 00:24:52,920 Speaker 2: You're so crazy too, then let's get some Yeah, you 550 00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:55,200 Speaker 2: kissing to me is not the physical part of dating. 551 00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:59,880 Speaker 2: I actually think that's so like, I think physical part 552 00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:02,840 Speaker 2: dating is like nakedness more sexual. 553 00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:06,080 Speaker 1: Kissing isn't sexual to me. There is. There is literally 554 00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:09,600 Speaker 1: fluid swapping. I don't know that is fluid. 555 00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:14,920 Speaker 2: Swopping, plastic romance, innocence like anyway, go, So, so the 556 00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:19,680 Speaker 2: kiss on my forehead was that thank you that I 557 00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:22,879 Speaker 2: love a forehead kiss. I would have been like, oh, 558 00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:25,960 Speaker 2: he doesn't like me. I'm not I love literally. 559 00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:32,080 Speaker 4: Right, Let's say if he kissed you on the forehead insteaded. 560 00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:33,879 Speaker 3: I love he wants he wants because you like that 561 00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:37,080 Speaker 3: level and that's what you're striving for it. Yeah, I 562 00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:38,600 Speaker 3: like the forehead kiss. 563 00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:42,640 Speaker 2: The forehead kiss. I like when I'm already kissing you 564 00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:46,040 Speaker 2: a forehead kiss before the lip kiss, I'd have been like, oh, 565 00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:47,920 Speaker 2: what the fuck are you doing? 566 00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:50,159 Speaker 1: That? Is it my breath? 567 00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:54,680 Speaker 2: Like I not saying for you to to think like that. 568 00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:58,240 Speaker 3: That's how I just so you know, me and him 569 00:25:58,280 --> 00:26:01,440 Speaker 3: had this whole conversation by he ain't kissing. We we 570 00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:05,360 Speaker 3: both didn't think it needed to happen, like we both were. 571 00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:08,680 Speaker 3: We literally he was like bro. Like he didn't say bro. 572 00:26:08,840 --> 00:26:11,639 Speaker 3: He said, bro, you already knew. And he says, my 573 00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:13,520 Speaker 3: accent is getting worse. He told you that already to 574 00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:14,080 Speaker 3: last night. 575 00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:17,280 Speaker 1: I can. He's like, how do we talk every day 576 00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:19,800 Speaker 1: and it's getting worse? I said, I don't know, but 577 00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:21,800 Speaker 1: it's getting really bad. 578 00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:26,440 Speaker 2: Wait, you know what though, if I would have seen 579 00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:28,399 Speaker 2: someone dick, Like, let's just say, because I've met a 580 00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:31,359 Speaker 2: lot of dudes, I've met some dudes from like a 581 00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:33,320 Speaker 2: different you know, long distance shit like and we've done 582 00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:36,480 Speaker 2: that whole thing. We kissed before, like the first second 583 00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:39,960 Speaker 2: we meet in person. But I think again, we reverted. 584 00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:41,840 Speaker 2: We don't send newes to each other, we don't even 585 00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:44,119 Speaker 2: talk sexually. Send him a titty right now, take a pause? 586 00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:48,600 Speaker 2: Whoa first off, Yeah, we are doing too much. Sorry, 587 00:26:48,600 --> 00:26:52,719 Speaker 2: it's not too hypothetically speaking. All right, let's get into 588 00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:54,600 Speaker 2: our apathetical. We're gonna break the ice and we're getting 589 00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:57,439 Speaker 2: away from dating insects. Okay, and we'd love to know 590 00:26:57,520 --> 00:26:59,879 Speaker 2: yours to Eden, Wheezy, here we go. 591 00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:02,960 Speaker 3: Yes, if you could go back in time and witness 592 00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:07,080 Speaker 3: a historical event, which one would you choose? 593 00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:08,000 Speaker 1: And why? 594 00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:11,600 Speaker 2: I have a dream you really would want to be 595 00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:13,760 Speaker 2: there for that only because when Bernie Sanders talks about it, 596 00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:15,840 Speaker 2: and I met one other person in my lifetime of 597 00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:16,720 Speaker 2: talk that that was there. 598 00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:17,800 Speaker 1: She was like. 599 00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:23,199 Speaker 2: Maybe eighty something, very clear when she talked about it, 600 00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:26,720 Speaker 2: but was also experiencing dementia until she talked about that moment. 601 00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:29,600 Speaker 1: Oh wow, we'd love to see that. Like, to me, 602 00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:32,080 Speaker 1: I'm not mad at that there's a pivotal moment and 603 00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:36,040 Speaker 1: to see white people kind of turning. Now. I'm not 604 00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:39,480 Speaker 1: saying I want to see this as at that age. 605 00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:41,639 Speaker 2: I just feel like it would be very interesting to 606 00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:46,520 Speaker 2: see the moment that people thought it was gone, Like 607 00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:48,960 Speaker 2: what did it feel like in the air where people like, 608 00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:50,439 Speaker 2: what what did that feel like? 609 00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:50,800 Speaker 1: For me? 610 00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:54,080 Speaker 2: The closest thing we had to it when George Floyd 611 00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:58,080 Speaker 2: died and Joe Biden got elected that for some reason 612 00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:01,159 Speaker 2: felt like a little bit of pain relief for I 613 00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:04,399 Speaker 2: feel like that's probably that moment for us today. Okay, 614 00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:09,280 Speaker 2: I'm not matter like we were in hell bitch, what 615 00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:09,920 Speaker 2: about you Eden? 616 00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:14,359 Speaker 1: Like I want to see Michael Jackson for the first time. 617 00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:18,840 Speaker 3: Oh, I'm not mad at that one battle moment to 618 00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:21,399 Speaker 3: think about all these R and B and pop artists 619 00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:24,920 Speaker 3: who are so influenced by him doing that that because 620 00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:27,720 Speaker 3: there's video of it, but like to know and be like, damn, 621 00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:28,200 Speaker 3: that's Michael. 622 00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:29,920 Speaker 1: First of all, it's Michael Jackson, and then. 623 00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:32,080 Speaker 4: Too like he's doing this dance and his moves and 624 00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:34,840 Speaker 4: ship and the teas, and then like everybody's loving it. 625 00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:36,280 Speaker 1: I love it? Okay? 626 00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:37,879 Speaker 2: Is it wrong now that I want to change my 627 00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:42,440 Speaker 2: answer to something fun? The elevator with the lane, I 628 00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:46,720 Speaker 2: won't be the I'm not mad at that one, niggas was. 629 00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:48,880 Speaker 2: I'm not mad at that one. I mean we know 630 00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:51,120 Speaker 2: what they was fighting about, though, No, we don't. Becky 631 00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:53,240 Speaker 2: with the with the guy hair, I don't. 632 00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:55,920 Speaker 1: Believe it anymore. You don't believe it, you know what? 633 00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:58,800 Speaker 2: Yeacuse everybody thought I was pregnant and what you say, 634 00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:00,480 Speaker 2: I don't want to I'm telling you. 635 00:29:00,520 --> 00:29:02,000 Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like that's right. 636 00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:04,440 Speaker 3: I mean, it's weird because when when I when I 637 00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:09,479 Speaker 3: thought of this hypothetical question. I don't know why, and 638 00:29:09,560 --> 00:29:13,920 Speaker 3: maybe because between uh me just watching this fucking Freaknek 639 00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:16,880 Speaker 3: doc and then going back to like the spring bling 640 00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:22,080 Speaker 3: era of like like spring break, if you wrote hip 641 00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:24,720 Speaker 3: dri video get made just saying no, A part of me, 642 00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:27,000 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie, A part of me does kind 643 00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:30,160 Speaker 3: of want to go back to the era of no phones, 644 00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:34,200 Speaker 3: just having a good ass fucking time without all the 645 00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:36,640 Speaker 3: shit that we worry about today, like and I feel 646 00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:39,280 Speaker 3: like we got a little bit of an inch of 647 00:29:39,320 --> 00:29:41,320 Speaker 3: feeling it, like even when we were using our fake 648 00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:45,440 Speaker 3: id's and ship to get into the No. I want 649 00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:48,200 Speaker 3: to go back, No, not even early Internet, Like I 650 00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:50,360 Speaker 3: want to go back to where you had to develop 651 00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:52,880 Speaker 3: the film and nothing was posted. 652 00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:55,480 Speaker 1: You had everything in your mind and memories. 653 00:29:56,120 --> 00:29:59,720 Speaker 3: And then the only other the only other time that 654 00:29:59,800 --> 00:30:01,479 Speaker 3: I I think I would want to go back to. 655 00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:09,600 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie again, Prohibition Roaring twenties era. Bro, 656 00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:12,760 Speaker 3: you said that was a bad time for us. I 657 00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:16,680 Speaker 3: wouldn't want to go back in the North. Wasn't we free? Yes, 658 00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:19,760 Speaker 3: Like like the Harlem Renaissance was happening. 659 00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:24,400 Speaker 1: Are you serious? Bad things that were happening the North. 660 00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:28,200 Speaker 1: Weren't we free? Gave the talking about bitch. 661 00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:32,680 Speaker 3: Maybe we weren't free everywhere bitch in the Nord in 662 00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:33,120 Speaker 3: New York. 663 00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:35,840 Speaker 1: So we're good now now, I mean I ain't gonna 664 00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:38,080 Speaker 1: hold you. We still are some fund up times now, 665 00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:43,080 Speaker 1: bro about witch. No, there's still niggas driving around Georgia 666 00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:44,120 Speaker 1: with confederate. 667 00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:45,600 Speaker 2: Maybe do you want to be a mixed girl the 668 00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:47,680 Speaker 2: nineteen twenty they think you better just be out here 669 00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:52,040 Speaker 2: with a flat for fick and not. Yeah the fuck 670 00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:53,800 Speaker 2: we ain't never seen this answer the hell that come 671 00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:55,320 Speaker 2: from g M o. 672 00:30:58,080 --> 00:31:00,720 Speaker 3: O. Kick you out man, which I do like the 673 00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:02,880 Speaker 3: outfits for. Back then, Damn, I wouldn't be able to 674 00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:03,360 Speaker 3: be a flopper. 675 00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:06,280 Speaker 1: You would have been a cleaning lady bitch. That's fine. 676 00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:08,280 Speaker 1: We could have been where we are today, jessep Mill's bitch. 677 00:31:08,680 --> 00:31:11,760 Speaker 3: I would have been a goddamn Jesubel at the goddamn club, 678 00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:13,160 Speaker 3: fucking around with the marriage. 679 00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:16,040 Speaker 2: I do think if I was gonna live at any time, Uh, 680 00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:17,720 Speaker 2: I'm not talking about being a moment. 681 00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:21,640 Speaker 1: Is there any time? Talk about it every goddamn week, 682 00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:25,040 Speaker 1: bit so trained me. I'm not okay. 683 00:31:25,120 --> 00:31:30,080 Speaker 3: The nineties, No, so trained is the nineties early nineties 684 00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:30,720 Speaker 3: I'm thinking of. 685 00:31:30,840 --> 00:31:32,840 Speaker 1: I'm thinking of when Moore was on that bitch. Oh 686 00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:34,480 Speaker 1: you want to go back, you wanna. 687 00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:38,000 Speaker 2: Go okay, I want to do mid seventies, early eighties, 688 00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:40,200 Speaker 2: give me a little Studio fifty four, a little fresh 689 00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:42,800 Speaker 2: cookya right when the ship was high school? 690 00:31:43,880 --> 00:31:46,720 Speaker 1: Oh, bitch. I think that's why I even said. 691 00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:50,640 Speaker 3: That's why I even said, uh, the early nineties because 692 00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:52,640 Speaker 3: the way they be talking about the big Meach era 693 00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:54,960 Speaker 3: of the clubs and how the niggas had real money 694 00:31:55,120 --> 00:31:55,400 Speaker 3: like the. 695 00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:56,360 Speaker 1: Dope boys these days. 696 00:31:56,360 --> 00:31:57,960 Speaker 3: That's why when you said this shit is a live show, 697 00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:00,400 Speaker 3: give me a dope boy, they broke. Now these little 698 00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:03,160 Speaker 3: scammers be literally doing some shit for like twenty thousand 699 00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:06,320 Speaker 3: dollars the peasants. The scammers today is not scamming like 700 00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:08,560 Speaker 3: they used to. The drug dealers they selling the drugs 701 00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:10,960 Speaker 3: because the Feds got it for the free. 702 00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:13,320 Speaker 1: But like you know what I mean, like weed, everybody 703 00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:20,400 Speaker 1: sells that back thou bro hood millionaire tried scammer. Drug 704 00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:24,800 Speaker 1: dealer guys ain't hitting like they used to. Like okay, fine, 705 00:32:24,840 --> 00:32:25,880 Speaker 1: give me a cartel member. 706 00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:29,360 Speaker 3: I think they don't make money. Wait, cartels don't make money. 707 00:32:29,680 --> 00:32:35,320 Speaker 2: They don't, but like, no, no, no, they kill everybody. 708 00:32:35,520 --> 00:32:40,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, not the women they love. It's everybody that hates them, 709 00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:43,160 Speaker 1: kill the women they love. Oh are you gonna kiss them? 710 00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:47,480 Speaker 2: Watching Netflix show, I would kiss my cartel leader, I 711 00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:49,240 Speaker 2: really think, honestly, Oh my god, if I could have 712 00:32:49,240 --> 00:32:51,880 Speaker 2: been in Studio fifty four. Sometimes this is how I 713 00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:54,480 Speaker 2: know Studio fifty four was lit. My mom will go 714 00:32:54,560 --> 00:32:56,920 Speaker 2: out and like we were at this at James and 715 00:32:57,080 --> 00:33:01,680 Speaker 2: MIA's wedding. Right she meets someone's mom, they start talking 716 00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:03,640 Speaker 2: about New York. They realized they were on the same age. 717 00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:06,520 Speaker 2: The way they talk about Studio fifty four, like like 718 00:33:06,560 --> 00:33:07,240 Speaker 2: we were in this era. 719 00:33:07,280 --> 00:33:09,480 Speaker 1: It must be like freakingick bitch. Oh, I'm not gonna lie. 720 00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:13,640 Speaker 3: I just saw a documentary on Oh, Shine and Bitch, 721 00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:16,520 Speaker 3: the way like New York Club, like the way the 722 00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:18,600 Speaker 3: nightlife of New York looks in the. 723 00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:23,520 Speaker 2: Early in the early nineties, early two thousands, I'm like paradise. 724 00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:27,520 Speaker 2: Like dude, the Martinez brothers. If anyone loves house music, 725 00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:30,720 Speaker 2: I didn't even know this their father, Oh yeah that music. Yeah, 726 00:33:31,080 --> 00:33:34,200 Speaker 2: did not know that, Like because I was hanging what 727 00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:37,480 Speaker 2: do you do uh, do you remember the Martinez dad 728 00:33:37,600 --> 00:33:39,400 Speaker 2: He was famous for what song? 729 00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:41,440 Speaker 1: Like one that we all know? 730 00:33:41,560 --> 00:33:45,640 Speaker 3: Actually was it like Daddy Yanky or some shit like that? Okay, 731 00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:47,040 Speaker 3: I'm I know it was. 732 00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:50,360 Speaker 1: But if she's right, I'm no. I love Old school House, 733 00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:51,520 Speaker 1: Jungle Brothers, all of it. 734 00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:54,560 Speaker 2: So like if I could have been nineties fucking dance 735 00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:56,720 Speaker 2: party Studio fifty like. 736 00:33:56,800 --> 00:33:58,760 Speaker 1: Same, that's what I say, I would have been back 737 00:33:58,760 --> 00:33:59,840 Speaker 1: in that. What's crazy? 738 00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:02,640 Speaker 2: Every time I read about like I love Bosqueat, everyone 739 00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:04,920 Speaker 2: knows I've got him chatted. When I start reading about 740 00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:07,160 Speaker 2: shit and everybody be dying from Heroin, I'd be. 741 00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:08,720 Speaker 1: Like, was that the thing? Because we do Molly? 742 00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:11,680 Speaker 3: No, No, no, everyone was dying from Heroin the same 743 00:34:11,680 --> 00:34:14,640 Speaker 3: way everyone's dying from Fannel now, same shiit, same ship. 744 00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:15,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. 745 00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:17,000 Speaker 2: I don't want to be one of those girls. Just 746 00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:18,640 Speaker 2: give me a little fun bomb and I'll just dance 747 00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:21,160 Speaker 2: a night away. I don't want the hard shit that you. 748 00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:24,960 Speaker 3: Don't know until you don't wake up. Like that's kind 749 00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:27,600 Speaker 3: of how that works. They they are a lot of 750 00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:33,040 Speaker 3: them thought that they were just having a good time too. 751 00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:35,040 Speaker 1: Bitch, you never found it. 752 00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:45,080 Speaker 3: It's just an't all right, let's get into our reactionary clip. 753 00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:46,840 Speaker 3: I'm gonna play a clip now. Now, this is a 754 00:34:46,880 --> 00:34:48,719 Speaker 3: little bit problematic, and I can't wait to talk to 755 00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:51,440 Speaker 3: you guys about it, and it then will lead us into. 756 00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:54,799 Speaker 2: Much more problematic. In this beginning convo, this was not problematic. 757 00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:59,080 Speaker 2: Grided's gonna fight about them that case. They're gonna say normal, 758 00:34:59,120 --> 00:35:02,360 Speaker 2: I like sata and side now kiss, I'm. 759 00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:09,920 Speaker 1: Not playing with you. Okay, here's the clip. I'm a 760 00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:12,200 Speaker 1: black man who's bisexual, so if I end up with 761 00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:15,400 Speaker 1: a white wife, it's okay because a black woman's deepest 762 00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:20,080 Speaker 1: fear is a secret gay husband. Oh, earth quake with it. 763 00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:22,799 Speaker 3: Hold on, because there was a few things that were 764 00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:25,319 Speaker 3: said there that I want to point out. 765 00:35:25,520 --> 00:35:27,719 Speaker 1: So he said, mind you, he is. 766 00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:32,440 Speaker 3: A bisexual black man, and he said, so when I 767 00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:36,280 Speaker 3: end up with a white wife, don't be mad, because 768 00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:39,759 Speaker 3: a black woman's worst fear is ending up with a 769 00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:46,040 Speaker 3: secretly gay man. So, first off, contradictory there, he's leaning 770 00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:50,719 Speaker 3: into his reason for being in an interracial relationship by 771 00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:54,640 Speaker 3: admitting his sexuality, but then saying that a black woman's 772 00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:58,560 Speaker 3: biggest fear is a secretly gay black man. So I 773 00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:01,880 Speaker 3: want to decipher that because a man being bisexual is 774 00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:03,960 Speaker 3: not the same as a DL guy. I want to 775 00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:07,800 Speaker 3: draw those similarities real quick, because yes, I do believe 776 00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:13,560 Speaker 3: that any woman has the right to be upset and 777 00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:19,400 Speaker 3: angry at finding out later that their partner is dealing 778 00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:27,520 Speaker 3: with men. That doesn't make her homophobic. However, However, you said, well, 779 00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:32,160 Speaker 3: so he said that he's most He's pretty much saying 780 00:36:32,200 --> 00:36:36,319 Speaker 3: that as a black bisexual man, he feels like he 781 00:36:36,440 --> 00:36:38,880 Speaker 3: has kind of no other choice but to really be 782 00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:43,600 Speaker 3: with a white woman because black women do not accept bisexual. 783 00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:47,160 Speaker 1: Hot Teke. 784 00:36:47,520 --> 00:36:51,640 Speaker 2: If you are a bisexual man that has felt unsafe 785 00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:56,399 Speaker 2: and riddle culed by your community and you. 786 00:36:56,400 --> 00:36:58,840 Speaker 1: Have felt some safety somewhere else, I'm mad at you. 787 00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:00,000 Speaker 1: An interracial relationship. 788 00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:06,480 Speaker 2: Okay, I say this because, uh, I don't think there's 789 00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:10,120 Speaker 2: two issues here. The rhetoric that black men are hearing 790 00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:16,480 Speaker 2: and receiving from their black moms, sisters, friends about buying 791 00:37:16,560 --> 00:37:20,160 Speaker 2: die niggas, yep, their friends and black women and how 792 00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:21,960 Speaker 2: the public would make them feel to one bet with 793 00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:23,839 Speaker 2: a man like that, and how they view black men. 794 00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:26,520 Speaker 2: So if white women will accept you in your sexuality, 795 00:37:26,840 --> 00:37:29,640 Speaker 2: take it. I'm not saying that black women don't desert 796 00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:32,399 Speaker 2: that these men are worthless, not by any means. I'm 797 00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:36,080 Speaker 2: just saying to me, I don't want to see another 798 00:37:36,120 --> 00:37:38,759 Speaker 2: black man having to hide themselves. If they feel, you know, 799 00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:41,960 Speaker 2: welcomed by that, then fucking take it my too. Many 800 00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:45,160 Speaker 2: people that are fighting their sexuality find where you want 801 00:37:45,160 --> 00:37:45,640 Speaker 2: to find love. 802 00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:46,080 Speaker 1: I don't care. 803 00:37:46,200 --> 00:37:48,440 Speaker 2: There's a lot of black women know that'll accept you, 804 00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:50,799 Speaker 2: that listen to this show, that have opened their eyes 805 00:37:50,840 --> 00:37:52,520 Speaker 2: like I've met them. 806 00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:54,040 Speaker 1: I've met bisexual couples. 807 00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:56,920 Speaker 3: Actually shout out to the one we had on hem 808 00:37:57,360 --> 00:37:59,080 Speaker 3: Hem me too. He did, okay, he was like, bitch, 809 00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:01,840 Speaker 3: I an't remember I was jan We Jamaican. I know, 810 00:38:01,960 --> 00:38:02,839 Speaker 3: I didn't remember that. 811 00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:05,640 Speaker 1: I didn't remember that anything. I didn't remember Dominican. I 812 00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:08,960 Speaker 1: thought he was loved you. Also, I something that made 813 00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:09,319 Speaker 1: me think. 814 00:38:09,600 --> 00:38:11,600 Speaker 2: I saw this tweet one time and said, you ever 815 00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:13,040 Speaker 2: met a nigga and thought they was gay and you 816 00:38:13,080 --> 00:38:14,680 Speaker 2: found out they were just married to a white woman, 817 00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:15,799 Speaker 2: Because I'll need them all the time. 818 00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:18,400 Speaker 3: So I guess that was my That was my problem 819 00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:21,560 Speaker 3: with this thing, and that is my problem. I hate 820 00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:24,760 Speaker 3: to make this a problem with black men yet again. However, 821 00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:30,920 Speaker 3: creating this type of dialogue is the same. He is 822 00:38:31,000 --> 00:38:33,919 Speaker 3: acting in the same way as the Passport bros. He's 823 00:38:33,960 --> 00:38:37,359 Speaker 3: acting as the same way of the black men who 824 00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:41,839 Speaker 3: parade and say how much better white women are in 825 00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:47,000 Speaker 3: terms of nurturing, submissiveness, the way they present themselves. I 826 00:38:47,120 --> 00:38:51,320 Speaker 3: just hate that it's our own black men constantly saying 827 00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:56,280 Speaker 3: how awful or how how how much Black women pushed 828 00:38:56,280 --> 00:38:59,480 Speaker 3: them away in terms of love only because I do 829 00:38:59,520 --> 00:39:02,920 Speaker 3: think that they're stereotyping Black women. Because I'm aware of 830 00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:06,279 Speaker 3: many Black women, of course, being in lifestyle that are 831 00:39:06,320 --> 00:39:11,239 Speaker 3: accepting of a bisexual man, that are open with non monogamy. 832 00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:13,520 Speaker 1: I think that part of them. You know why you 833 00:39:13,560 --> 00:39:15,239 Speaker 1: know them? Well, no, and I get that that's why 834 00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:15,920 Speaker 1: I know them. 835 00:39:15,719 --> 00:39:19,759 Speaker 2: But no, But it's true, Mandy, we're talking from this 836 00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:22,600 Speaker 2: is all tribes. Like, there's people that have never met 837 00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:25,279 Speaker 2: someone trance. There's people that have never met someone in 838 00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:28,120 Speaker 2: a throple dog. We're talking from a different place. The 839 00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:29,080 Speaker 2: rest of the world. 840 00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:32,359 Speaker 3: I get that, But the rest of the world, you know, well, 841 00:39:32,400 --> 00:39:33,919 Speaker 3: the rest of the world. I want to talk about 842 00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:36,920 Speaker 3: the rest of the world. I never see content and bitch, 843 00:39:36,960 --> 00:39:39,280 Speaker 3: I'll be going down rabbit holes. I never see content 844 00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:41,680 Speaker 3: of white men saying and this is why I don't 845 00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:45,560 Speaker 3: date white women. I never see Middle Eastern men say 846 00:39:45,800 --> 00:39:47,800 Speaker 3: and this is why I don't date my own women. 847 00:39:48,120 --> 00:39:50,719 Speaker 3: I never see any other race do that to the 848 00:39:50,800 --> 00:39:53,240 Speaker 3: extent that black men have the need to constant. 849 00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:54,120 Speaker 1: Black women do it too. 850 00:39:54,200 --> 00:39:57,120 Speaker 3: No, no, no, But what I'm saying, I'm talking about us. 851 00:39:57,239 --> 00:39:58,400 Speaker 1: We do this to each other. 852 00:39:59,239 --> 00:40:01,439 Speaker 3: The only the only that I see about black women 853 00:40:01,719 --> 00:40:04,520 Speaker 3: saying why they don't date black men and hot take 854 00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:09,760 Speaker 3: The only time I see that is genuinely from black 855 00:40:09,840 --> 00:40:15,279 Speaker 3: women that have felt as though they were not esthetically 856 00:40:16,160 --> 00:40:17,399 Speaker 3: what a black man wants. 857 00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:21,000 Speaker 2: Actually, I'm gonna tell you what. It's not that black 858 00:40:21,040 --> 00:40:24,480 Speaker 2: women are talking about not dating black men. Black women continually, 859 00:40:24,520 --> 00:40:27,399 Speaker 2: even on this podcast, make content about how niggas ain't shit. 860 00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:30,839 Speaker 2: Oh no, the fact, But I've also know this is 861 00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:33,320 Speaker 2: not even no no, no no. We can say niggastion 862 00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:35,640 Speaker 2: shit with they behavior. But I have never even said 863 00:40:35,680 --> 00:40:37,480 Speaker 2: I wanted to date anything but a black man. But 864 00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:40,480 Speaker 2: I'm saying, though, that doesn't mean that you're not creating 865 00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:43,359 Speaker 2: the content me too. Doesn't mean because I'm jumping into 866 00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:45,680 Speaker 2: your throat, I don't want to be like, I'm holding 867 00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:48,440 Speaker 2: black men accountable. This is like some Amanda Seal shit 868 00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:52,240 Speaker 2: in a way, right, Amanda Fields is completely I'm listening, 869 00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:54,760 Speaker 2: I'm seeing where you're going. Amanda Seals His content feels 870 00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:58,400 Speaker 2: like she's constantly attacking black people. I don't like her, However, 871 00:40:58,600 --> 00:41:00,600 Speaker 2: I do believe all she wants is a betterment of 872 00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:02,680 Speaker 2: Black people. She does be doing too much, and a 873 00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:05,040 Speaker 2: lot of times we all be doing too much. I 874 00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:08,040 Speaker 2: think black women are talking about their heartbreak, their pain, 875 00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:09,919 Speaker 2: and that's why we get on here and talk about 876 00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:13,040 Speaker 2: niggas ain't shit, because we're fucking over it and we're venting. 877 00:41:13,239 --> 00:41:15,040 Speaker 1: It's not that we're trying to tell the world black 878 00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:16,160 Speaker 1: men are terrible. 879 00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:18,399 Speaker 2: But we can only talk about this heartbreak we've had 880 00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:20,960 Speaker 2: or whatever and listen as a bit shooting dated and 881 00:41:20,960 --> 00:41:21,560 Speaker 2: white niggas. 882 00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:23,319 Speaker 1: When I first moved to New York, they're all the same. 883 00:41:23,840 --> 00:41:27,000 Speaker 1: But it's just the stuff that we're making. We vent 884 00:41:27,120 --> 00:41:27,359 Speaker 1: a lot. 885 00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:30,239 Speaker 2: And also, Black people have so much fucking trauma about 886 00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:31,759 Speaker 2: who's got to be here, who's got to be what. 887 00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:34,359 Speaker 2: That's why white people don't do this, bro, We are 888 00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:36,719 Speaker 2: not an option to them. They're not even thinking about this. 889 00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:39,640 Speaker 2: There's a million of them. We are constantly doing this 890 00:41:39,719 --> 00:41:42,560 Speaker 2: to each other, bro Like, it is a constant battle 891 00:41:42,719 --> 00:41:45,000 Speaker 2: of sexist within the black community. 892 00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:46,960 Speaker 1: I do think white people make that red pil con. 893 00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:51,080 Speaker 3: I still think we can talk about each other without 894 00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:53,840 Speaker 3: constantly saying and this is why I go elsewhere, This 895 00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:55,720 Speaker 3: is why I don't want my own people. 896 00:41:56,160 --> 00:41:58,080 Speaker 1: My people are bad because they do this. 897 00:41:58,600 --> 00:42:00,719 Speaker 3: We literally our own people are the only ones that 898 00:42:00,800 --> 00:42:03,360 Speaker 3: lean into the stereotypes and dismiss us the way that 899 00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:06,360 Speaker 3: every other race does. And what I'm saying is I 900 00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:10,280 Speaker 3: don't see the content from Dominicans saying why. 901 00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:15,200 Speaker 2: They don't date dominicane Dominican. 902 00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:19,839 Speaker 1: Is it just Dominicans people too? 903 00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:22,440 Speaker 3: First off, because they want to be white. We saw 904 00:42:22,520 --> 00:42:26,000 Speaker 3: what happened with the elect It's because they don't even 905 00:42:26,040 --> 00:42:29,360 Speaker 3: accept their own ethnicity. They want to be white, passing 906 00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:34,800 Speaker 3: or negatal because baby, the fucking Dominicans to be no 907 00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:36,480 Speaker 3: but no. But what I'm saying is even within the 908 00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:40,680 Speaker 3: Latino community, they they align themselves as either blacks or 909 00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:44,120 Speaker 3: white still like, so, I think there's still that rhetoric 910 00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:48,400 Speaker 3: happening within their community as well. I did before we 911 00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:52,719 Speaker 3: move forward though, not asking you Eden because I know 912 00:42:52,880 --> 00:42:57,200 Speaker 3: that men love bisexual women, but I would want to 913 00:42:57,239 --> 00:43:01,520 Speaker 3: ask you Weezy before we get into the history of homophobia, 914 00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:03,720 Speaker 3: which is what we're going to be talking about today. 915 00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:07,400 Speaker 3: I wanted to ask you how you would react present 916 00:43:07,520 --> 00:43:10,839 Speaker 3: day if your current partner opened up and said, hey, 917 00:43:10,920 --> 00:43:12,759 Speaker 3: right before we got together, I sucked a little dick 918 00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:13,759 Speaker 3: to see what it would be. 919 00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:18,799 Speaker 1: Like, why did you leave? Now I get it, I'm 920 00:43:18,840 --> 00:43:21,080 Speaker 1: not gonna lie. That would be an interesting approach. 921 00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:23,799 Speaker 3: No, but like because they're so open with each other 922 00:43:24,160 --> 00:43:26,120 Speaker 3: and I'm gonna I'm gonna share my that. 923 00:43:26,120 --> 00:43:28,440 Speaker 1: Would be the problem. But I would I will tell 924 00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:30,560 Speaker 1: you this though. I mean, we're so She's right, we 925 00:43:30,600 --> 00:43:32,520 Speaker 1: are so open with Yeah, So like if you just 926 00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:35,560 Speaker 1: sa because that would be the problem. 927 00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:38,520 Speaker 2: But I would not leave him one because I know 928 00:43:39,280 --> 00:43:41,040 Speaker 2: he's scared to lose me if he didn't tell me 929 00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:43,320 Speaker 2: this isn't I cheated on you? 930 00:43:43,320 --> 00:43:45,560 Speaker 1: Wait, why would you be upset? Why do you can? 931 00:43:45,640 --> 00:43:49,480 Speaker 3: I ask you because that is something where I don't 932 00:43:49,520 --> 00:43:51,600 Speaker 3: know how long I would date a guy before I 933 00:43:51,840 --> 00:43:54,920 Speaker 3: tell him, Yeah, I really enjoyed getting sucked by two men, 934 00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:57,640 Speaker 3: me and my ex We never had that conversation, so 935 00:43:57,800 --> 00:43:59,920 Speaker 3: it so it does take a while to open up 936 00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:02,600 Speaker 3: about your sexual history, even with your partner. 937 00:44:03,200 --> 00:44:03,960 Speaker 1: So because he. 938 00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:08,160 Speaker 3: Doesn't identify as bisexual or even queer at all, maybe 939 00:44:08,200 --> 00:44:10,839 Speaker 3: that would be an experience he was waiting until that's 940 00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:13,479 Speaker 3: why I understanding, Like he's not. But then why would 941 00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:16,400 Speaker 3: you be upset? Because why why is that? Why was 942 00:44:16,440 --> 00:44:17,480 Speaker 3: that your immediate response? 943 00:44:17,480 --> 00:44:20,000 Speaker 2: Because we both have gone really far with explaining our 944 00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:22,480 Speaker 2: sexual history and what we're looking for, what we want, 945 00:44:22,840 --> 00:44:24,520 Speaker 2: what we want to try, I would kind of feel like, 946 00:44:25,680 --> 00:44:27,279 Speaker 2: I mean, also I'm talking about with the current person 947 00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:27,520 Speaker 2: i'm with. 948 00:44:27,719 --> 00:44:29,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why I'm yeah, I can't see it. 949 00:44:29,360 --> 00:44:34,040 Speaker 2: I don't We've gone so far into deep, deep diving traumas, 950 00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:37,439 Speaker 2: weird shit when we were kids. Virginity is like even 951 00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:38,880 Speaker 2: things that were towing the line. 952 00:44:38,719 --> 00:44:39,279 Speaker 1: With other people. 953 00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:41,920 Speaker 2: Wait, Like I just would be very surprised and it 954 00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:43,640 Speaker 2: would kind of make me feel like, ooh, I'm not 955 00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:45,799 Speaker 2: that much of a safe space because I thought it. 956 00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:47,239 Speaker 1: Was because of how open they are. 957 00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:51,759 Speaker 2: So then aside from that, though, is there in my 958 00:44:51,840 --> 00:44:54,719 Speaker 2: last relationship, actually wouldn't be surprised. Sorry, I mean that 959 00:44:54,880 --> 00:44:57,719 Speaker 2: not wow, I mean I wouldn't be surprised if he 960 00:44:57,840 --> 00:44:58,560 Speaker 2: held something like. 961 00:44:58,560 --> 00:44:58,880 Speaker 1: That for me. 962 00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:02,439 Speaker 3: Okay, But then outside of holding that information, you're saying 963 00:45:03,000 --> 00:45:07,840 Speaker 3: you wouldn't it would make you feel a way. No, Okay, 964 00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:10,960 Speaker 3: I just wanted to because that that's even. That's even 965 00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:12,440 Speaker 3: I think the fear that a lot of men have 966 00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:14,440 Speaker 3: because I and I did want to. 967 00:45:14,440 --> 00:45:17,080 Speaker 1: Buy the different though I know, I mean, we're both different, 968 00:45:17,120 --> 00:45:18,680 Speaker 1: but that's why I still want to have time and 969 00:45:18,800 --> 00:45:22,000 Speaker 1: I love to. I mean, no, but that when I 970 00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:26,200 Speaker 1: hear this video, Yeah it sucks because it's a black 971 00:45:26,239 --> 00:45:30,680 Speaker 1: woman attack, but it's not black women, it's I believe 972 00:45:30,719 --> 00:45:33,520 Speaker 1: this comes from black men. No, I agree, but you 973 00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:36,680 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So it's like when it comes 974 00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:39,600 Speaker 1: to queerness in the way black people make each other feel. 975 00:45:39,719 --> 00:45:40,560 Speaker 1: I mean, I'll be honest. 976 00:45:40,600 --> 00:45:43,120 Speaker 3: We got to see it in Insecure, right Molly was 977 00:45:43,200 --> 00:45:45,600 Speaker 3: dating a guy that she really liked and he. 978 00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:47,040 Speaker 1: Came out and let her know. 979 00:45:47,160 --> 00:45:49,960 Speaker 3: When I was in college, I experimented and she completely 980 00:45:50,719 --> 00:45:51,960 Speaker 3: became uninterested in him. 981 00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:54,440 Speaker 2: So I think the way if someone came out horrible 982 00:45:54,520 --> 00:45:56,879 Speaker 2: right now, a black sexual nigga and started talking about 983 00:45:56,880 --> 00:45:58,360 Speaker 2: blah blah blah, the only guy we had that I 984 00:45:58,400 --> 00:46:00,480 Speaker 2: can think about right now, is Zachary's saying he's white dude, 985 00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:02,759 Speaker 2: but just talking about second date, even pussy whatever. 986 00:46:02,960 --> 00:46:07,320 Speaker 3: No, we've uh Eli the naked trumpeter at quite a 987 00:46:07,320 --> 00:46:10,160 Speaker 3: few of our sex workers actually are queer leaning. 988 00:46:10,360 --> 00:46:10,839 Speaker 1: I'm just trying. 989 00:46:10,880 --> 00:46:13,359 Speaker 2: We've had to go someone bat. I'm telling stories back forth, 990 00:46:13,440 --> 00:46:16,719 Speaker 2: back and forth. Right, the comments in this section are 991 00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:20,200 Speaker 2: going to be so different from another podcast. And I 992 00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:22,319 Speaker 2: really if you put that shit on the Shade Room, 993 00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:24,600 Speaker 2: if you put it on Twitter. Even a keen Wits 994 00:46:24,640 --> 00:46:27,000 Speaker 2: made a comment to me his U haul clip about 995 00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:29,400 Speaker 2: fucking those two white dudes in the U Haul So funny, right, 996 00:46:29,560 --> 00:46:31,799 Speaker 2: I was different when he went on lip service. He's 997 00:46:31,960 --> 00:46:33,839 Speaker 2: like the way people treat me, or even when it's 998 00:46:33,840 --> 00:46:36,359 Speaker 2: circulated on Twitter. There was something about me talking about 999 00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:40,240 Speaker 2: being peed on on Twitter. And our comments are different, 1000 00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:45,960 Speaker 2: Like the general public is not welcoming at all. And 1001 00:46:46,160 --> 00:46:47,520 Speaker 2: I have been in a bubble. Remember when I was 1002 00:46:47,600 --> 00:46:49,200 Speaker 2: just saying to you like this is us, this is 1003 00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:52,120 Speaker 2: our world. I have really been in a bubble of 1004 00:46:53,160 --> 00:46:57,279 Speaker 2: openness and liberation, like genuinely, and it kind of when 1005 00:46:57,360 --> 00:46:59,640 Speaker 2: I get snapped back into it at a different dinner 1006 00:46:59,680 --> 00:47:03,720 Speaker 2: table with different people. I'm thinking they're shallow, or they're jaded, 1007 00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:04,680 Speaker 2: or they're small minded. 1008 00:47:04,760 --> 00:47:05,279 Speaker 1: Nigga, they're not. 1009 00:47:05,840 --> 00:47:11,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, like we're too much. That's why, Yeah, I hate 1010 00:47:12,040 --> 00:47:14,440 Speaker 3: too much. I get it too much for that. But 1011 00:47:14,520 --> 00:47:16,720 Speaker 3: I mean no, I think that these are the conversations 1012 00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:19,920 Speaker 3: like this is what should become normalized. 1013 00:47:20,080 --> 00:47:24,320 Speaker 1: Trump got elected again and by a it wasn't a time, 1014 00:47:24,600 --> 00:47:25,480 Speaker 1: it wasn't close. 1015 00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:28,080 Speaker 3: Well, I wanted to. I wanted to get through some 1016 00:47:28,400 --> 00:47:32,399 Speaker 3: of the history of homophobia. The terminology, by the way, 1017 00:47:33,080 --> 00:47:36,680 Speaker 3: if you guys didn't even know, is so new. The 1018 00:47:36,960 --> 00:47:40,680 Speaker 3: nineteen sixties is where this word was even coined by 1019 00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:45,319 Speaker 3: psychologists Joyge Weinberg. And it's a combination of the word 1020 00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:50,600 Speaker 3: homosexual and of course and of course the Greek word phobos, 1021 00:47:50,680 --> 00:47:54,919 Speaker 3: which means fear or aversion. Now, homophobia can take many 1022 00:47:55,000 --> 00:47:58,680 Speaker 3: different forms, including negative attitudes and beliefs about an aversion 1023 00:47:58,719 --> 00:48:02,920 Speaker 3: to or prejudice again bisexual, lesbian, and gay people, and 1024 00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:06,440 Speaker 3: it's often based in an irrational fear and misunderstanding. Now, 1025 00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:09,879 Speaker 3: for the book that we have coming out, no holds Bard, 1026 00:48:09,960 --> 00:48:13,600 Speaker 3: make sure you get it now pretty style. I do 1027 00:48:13,840 --> 00:48:17,759 Speaker 3: talk about in my chapter digging into anal sex. 1028 00:48:18,120 --> 00:48:25,560 Speaker 1: My kind of view on kind of kind of sharing 1029 00:48:25,800 --> 00:48:30,520 Speaker 1: my even term of or not termed. But when I 1030 00:48:30,719 --> 00:48:34,520 Speaker 1: was I felt I was a bit homophobic. I actually 1031 00:48:34,960 --> 00:48:37,480 Speaker 1: remember who I didn't read your little racist chapter. 1032 00:48:37,680 --> 00:48:42,920 Speaker 3: Uh it wasn't racist, but I remember my thoughts around 1033 00:48:42,960 --> 00:48:45,080 Speaker 3: anal sex. If a man wanted to fuck me in 1034 00:48:45,160 --> 00:48:47,640 Speaker 3: my ass, I was like, oh, he's got to be gay. 1035 00:48:48,200 --> 00:48:51,000 Speaker 3: And I remember not wanting to be interested in having 1036 00:48:51,080 --> 00:48:53,680 Speaker 3: sex with anyone who didn't want my pussy hole, Like 1037 00:48:53,719 --> 00:48:55,520 Speaker 3: why do you want my asshole when there's a pussy here? 1038 00:48:55,960 --> 00:48:58,279 Speaker 3: And I had to unlearned, like I was like, why 1039 00:48:58,360 --> 00:49:01,680 Speaker 3: am I having this? I mean clearly I peg now 1040 00:49:01,719 --> 00:49:03,560 Speaker 3: and I do all the little fun things, and I 1041 00:49:03,680 --> 00:49:05,680 Speaker 3: would date a guy who's bisexual. I would love to 1042 00:49:05,719 --> 00:49:08,080 Speaker 3: suck a dick with my partner. And so when I 1043 00:49:08,280 --> 00:49:12,600 Speaker 3: when I go back to like meet, unlearning things and 1044 00:49:12,800 --> 00:49:15,680 Speaker 3: viewing my own sense of homophobia, I was like, damn, 1045 00:49:16,160 --> 00:49:19,839 Speaker 3: what what is that rooted in? And for a lot 1046 00:49:19,920 --> 00:49:23,840 Speaker 3: of the black community specifically, it's rooted in the fucking 1047 00:49:23,920 --> 00:49:25,880 Speaker 3: church and in the home. So I do like what 1048 00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:30,080 Speaker 3: you said even about the bisexuality with black men is well, 1049 00:49:30,120 --> 00:49:33,400 Speaker 3: how does your mom, your sister, your aunt? How do 1050 00:49:33,520 --> 00:49:37,000 Speaker 3: those women even accept your sexuality in the home before 1051 00:49:37,000 --> 00:49:38,200 Speaker 3: you're even going out to date. 1052 00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:40,000 Speaker 2: Now that I'm thinking about it, I wonder if i'd 1053 00:49:40,000 --> 00:49:41,880 Speaker 2: even heard my mom say like, oh, that's gay, like 1054 00:49:41,920 --> 00:49:43,600 Speaker 2: if a guy's but like, oh he must be get 1055 00:49:43,680 --> 00:49:44,800 Speaker 2: Like I'm sure I've heard. 1056 00:49:44,640 --> 00:49:47,200 Speaker 1: That, And this is no shade to our mom. My 1057 00:49:47,239 --> 00:49:49,480 Speaker 1: mom's seventy five years old, Like what the fuck is 1058 00:49:49,520 --> 00:49:52,560 Speaker 1: she gonna think like you? And it's not even a 1059 00:49:52,600 --> 00:49:54,800 Speaker 1: bad thing, but you know that's that's yeah, it is 1060 00:49:54,840 --> 00:49:55,160 Speaker 1: what it is. 1061 00:49:55,239 --> 00:49:58,600 Speaker 3: But that was used for so long as a slur 1062 00:49:58,880 --> 00:50:01,320 Speaker 3: as negative, like no one wants to be referred to 1063 00:50:01,400 --> 00:50:02,120 Speaker 3: as gay if they're not. 1064 00:50:02,239 --> 00:50:05,480 Speaker 2: Iasonally think there was maybe one bisexual conversation I had 1065 00:50:05,520 --> 00:50:09,800 Speaker 2: with my mom. She didn't call him gay. There was 1066 00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:12,160 Speaker 2: a guy I went to prom with. If I could 1067 00:50:12,200 --> 00:50:13,600 Speaker 2: find you, I would love to find you. 1068 00:50:13,680 --> 00:50:14,040 Speaker 1: I don't. 1069 00:50:14,760 --> 00:50:16,440 Speaker 3: We went to prom together and he was gay. You're 1070 00:50:16,440 --> 00:50:18,719 Speaker 3: gonna be shocked. I went to one prom and it 1071 00:50:18,800 --> 00:50:22,000 Speaker 3: was with a white man. Can you believe that he 1072 00:50:22,200 --> 00:50:25,400 Speaker 3: invited me? But I didn't go to prom my boyfriend. 1073 00:50:25,480 --> 00:50:27,840 Speaker 3: By the time I was going to prom, he was 1074 00:50:27,880 --> 00:50:30,239 Speaker 3: too old to come go figure, I went to one 1075 00:50:30,360 --> 00:50:31,400 Speaker 3: prom with a white man. 1076 00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:33,360 Speaker 1: Oh see, I couldn't go to a prom with my niggas, 1077 00:50:33,360 --> 00:50:34,520 Speaker 1: so I went with my gay bestie. 1078 00:50:34,640 --> 00:50:36,880 Speaker 2: Okay, but I really do want to find you anyway, 1079 00:50:37,239 --> 00:50:41,759 Speaker 2: So if you I see this, uh anyway, Basically, I 1080 00:50:41,840 --> 00:50:44,000 Speaker 2: think he did something with a girl, and I remember 1081 00:50:44,040 --> 00:50:45,719 Speaker 2: telling my mom. I guess he was messing with so 1082 00:50:45,800 --> 00:50:48,840 Speaker 2: and so. My mother never said anything about him being biergay. 1083 00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:51,200 Speaker 2: She goes, oh, he does all of them, he fast. 1084 00:50:53,080 --> 00:50:56,799 Speaker 2: I think bisexuality and men back in the day ah 1085 00:50:57,200 --> 00:50:58,880 Speaker 2: was seen as hypersexuality. 1086 00:50:59,400 --> 00:51:01,960 Speaker 1: Interesting. I think probably even if we're women too. Oh 1087 00:51:03,040 --> 00:51:04,000 Speaker 1: oh yeah, I told you. 1088 00:51:04,560 --> 00:51:07,040 Speaker 3: Y'all go on, patron a sex worker slut shane me 1089 00:51:07,160 --> 00:51:08,600 Speaker 3: because I was out here dating a couple. 1090 00:51:09,160 --> 00:51:12,120 Speaker 1: But yeah, so like it does look like that, so 1091 00:51:12,239 --> 00:51:13,799 Speaker 1: real quick. Just a little timeline too. 1092 00:51:14,280 --> 00:51:18,520 Speaker 3: In ancient Greece, same sex love was accepted between free 1093 00:51:18,600 --> 00:51:21,839 Speaker 3: born men, but in the nineteenth in the ninth century BC, 1094 00:51:22,960 --> 00:51:25,040 Speaker 3: like kirgis, I don't know. I'm glad we got rid 1095 00:51:25,080 --> 00:51:26,680 Speaker 3: of these names from back then because them shits is 1096 00:51:26,719 --> 00:51:30,960 Speaker 3: hard made it a crime punishable by death or banishment. 1097 00:51:31,320 --> 00:51:35,640 Speaker 3: In the Middle Ages, intolerance towards homosexuality grew, especially here 1098 00:51:35,680 --> 00:51:40,520 Speaker 3: we go amongst Christians and Muslims. The motherfucking Church. I 1099 00:51:40,560 --> 00:51:42,319 Speaker 3: don't know why they was acting like they wasn't out 1100 00:51:42,320 --> 00:51:45,720 Speaker 3: here sodomizing each other. They was in the Bible, probably 1101 00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:50,440 Speaker 3: in the Koran and whatever other episode about this. Yes, yes, sodomy. 1102 00:51:50,520 --> 00:51:51,200 Speaker 3: We talked about it. 1103 00:51:51,520 --> 00:51:53,480 Speaker 1: I mean maybe even did it. 1104 00:51:54,920 --> 00:51:57,839 Speaker 3: In England in eighteen thirty five, the last two men 1105 00:51:57,920 --> 00:52:02,160 Speaker 3: were hanged for males homosexual activity, but prosecutions continued. In 1106 00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:06,920 Speaker 3: nineteen sixty seven, the law was changed to decriminalize consensual 1107 00:52:07,000 --> 00:52:10,879 Speaker 3: homosexual acts between men over twenty one, Bro, nineteen sixty seven, 1108 00:52:11,120 --> 00:52:13,360 Speaker 3: that's a year my breaking mom was born. That's a 1109 00:52:13,360 --> 00:52:17,359 Speaker 3: great instagram consensual homosexual that's crazy. And of course, y'all 1110 00:52:17,400 --> 00:52:20,400 Speaker 3: in the US in the mid twentieth century, the lavender 1111 00:52:20,480 --> 00:52:23,520 Speaker 3: scare y'all look that up led to the mass dismissal 1112 00:52:23,560 --> 00:52:27,239 Speaker 3: of homosexual people from government service. Gay men, that's what 1113 00:52:27,719 --> 00:52:29,719 Speaker 3: doing right now, what he's doing, you gotta do it again. 1114 00:52:30,120 --> 00:52:33,840 Speaker 3: Gay men and lesbians were labeled national security risks and 1115 00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:35,520 Speaker 3: communists sympathizer. 1116 00:52:35,760 --> 00:52:37,880 Speaker 1: Bro. That is so fucking funny to me. What I 1117 00:52:37,960 --> 00:52:40,320 Speaker 1: want to do two you guys ever met a fuckinghi. 1118 00:52:40,600 --> 00:52:40,640 Speaker 4: No. 1119 00:52:40,960 --> 00:52:43,280 Speaker 3: I wanted to do this in kind of an umbrella 1120 00:52:43,360 --> 00:52:45,879 Speaker 3: way because I really would love to get a guest 1121 00:52:45,960 --> 00:52:51,120 Speaker 3: to come on here and discuss specifically homophobia and what's 1122 00:52:51,200 --> 00:52:52,120 Speaker 3: the word sex? 1123 00:52:53,360 --> 00:52:55,680 Speaker 1: You know, I guess the lack of Jason Burden, well, 1124 00:52:55,719 --> 00:52:56,520 Speaker 1: the lack of sex. 1125 00:52:56,680 --> 00:52:59,319 Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, because I didn't finish not only 1126 00:52:59,360 --> 00:53:03,480 Speaker 3: homophobia or that, I want to lean into just black 1127 00:53:03,560 --> 00:53:08,520 Speaker 3: people in general and where are our upbringing around discussing 1128 00:53:08,600 --> 00:53:09,319 Speaker 3: sex at all? 1129 00:53:09,400 --> 00:53:12,160 Speaker 1: Came about so clearly homophobia the Black. 1130 00:53:12,040 --> 00:53:15,360 Speaker 3: Church, easy, but there's also this conversation that has not 1131 00:53:15,560 --> 00:53:19,880 Speaker 3: had about Black sexuality with women, how we exist in 1132 00:53:20,080 --> 00:53:24,640 Speaker 3: being sexual beings, and also us fighting the fetishism that 1133 00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:28,279 Speaker 3: has long been you know, included with. 1134 00:53:28,440 --> 00:53:33,640 Speaker 1: Us all over and around and about. But you don't 1135 00:53:33,640 --> 00:53:36,080 Speaker 1: know none about history. I know a lot about history, 1136 00:53:36,160 --> 00:53:37,920 Speaker 1: and I want to have someone come on and have 1137 00:53:38,080 --> 00:53:38,399 Speaker 1: this talk. 1138 00:53:38,520 --> 00:53:39,880 Speaker 3: I mean, this is something that I do on my 1139 00:53:39,960 --> 00:53:42,480 Speaker 3: spare time, like, which is why when we talked about 1140 00:53:42,520 --> 00:53:46,320 Speaker 3: what the new segments of this show would look like, 1141 00:53:46,719 --> 00:53:49,440 Speaker 3: I was like, bitch, I've been down the motherfucking rabbit hole. 1142 00:53:49,480 --> 00:53:52,400 Speaker 1: I didn't create a whole guy science podcast, and then 1143 00:53:52,440 --> 00:53:54,759 Speaker 1: I heard never hold On Ever, I was never gonna 1144 00:53:54,760 --> 00:53:56,759 Speaker 1: talk science. Now we're gonna talk history. 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