1 00:00:03,200 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Welcome back to More to It, to show that takes 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:08,240 Speaker 1: a deep dive into the biggest stories in sports, entertainment, 3 00:00:08,240 --> 00:00:10,879 Speaker 1: and culture, start with headline news and then journey to 4 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:14,520 Speaker 1: deeper conversations, always finding those life lessons that are presented 5 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:18,439 Speaker 1: in every single story. I'm your host, Marcel Swally. That dude, 6 00:00:18,680 --> 00:00:20,640 Speaker 1: Oh man, I wish I could say I'm feeling good 7 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:23,120 Speaker 1: even though we're gonna have a good show, great show, 8 00:00:23,680 --> 00:00:28,840 Speaker 1: your boy. Man. Let me just tell y'all, football hurts. Boy. 9 00:00:28,920 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 1: I'm starting to feel the consequences of all the pain 10 00:00:31,680 --> 00:00:35,279 Speaker 1: I inflicted and I endured. Man. But you know how 11 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 1: we start off with every show with what's up with 12 00:00:38,080 --> 00:00:41,360 Speaker 1: that dude? Well, my trick knee is what's up with 13 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:43,720 Speaker 1: that dude? Man. I've been going to therapy a few 14 00:00:43,720 --> 00:00:46,839 Speaker 1: weeks on this knee, therapy for a few months on 15 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:51,800 Speaker 1: my neck and my back, and it's not getting much better. Bro. 16 00:00:52,159 --> 00:00:54,560 Speaker 1: I'm just not gonna lie to y'all. You know, everybody 17 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:56,800 Speaker 1: walks around here and says, Yo, what's up man? How 18 00:00:56,800 --> 00:00:59,000 Speaker 1: you doing? Oh, I'm good, I'm good even though he 19 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 1: owed a tax man. Oh I'm good, I'm good even 20 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:03,040 Speaker 1: though he just got laid off. Oh, I'm good. I'm good. 21 00:01:03,040 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 1: I just broke up with my girl. I ain't gonna 22 00:01:05,560 --> 00:01:09,160 Speaker 1: lie to y'all. I am hurting. My knee is not 23 00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:11,800 Speaker 1: giving me the confidence to keep up with MJ and 24 00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:15,720 Speaker 1: my little girls. That's gonna be a problem. So recently 25 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:19,320 Speaker 1: went to the doctor. He's like, look, you got two Tormaniscus, 26 00:01:19,959 --> 00:01:24,280 Speaker 1: both knees, got the PCL the Lamar Jackson. You hurt 27 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 1: right there, big dog. But then what I really got 28 00:01:28,440 --> 00:01:32,720 Speaker 1: is just to me, a bad, bad knee. But he's like, nah, 29 00:01:32,720 --> 00:01:34,640 Speaker 1: you got something worse than that. It ain't even the knee. 30 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:38,200 Speaker 1: I'm like, damn knee hurt. He like, it's that hip. Oh. 31 00:01:38,360 --> 00:01:41,120 Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm gonna get the Shannon Sharp. He like, yep. 32 00:01:41,520 --> 00:01:46,120 Speaker 1: He's like, sooner or later, hopefully later, you gonna need 33 00:01:46,160 --> 00:01:48,840 Speaker 1: another one. And they got all this new medicine and 34 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 1: this outpatient surgery now so it doesn't take forever. So 35 00:01:52,960 --> 00:01:55,320 Speaker 1: maybe it's gonna go down like that, y'all. But my 36 00:01:55,440 --> 00:01:59,040 Speaker 1: knee and my hip are broke down, and I blame 37 00:01:59,080 --> 00:02:02,200 Speaker 1: you football. Even though football has done much more for 38 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 1: me than I ever did for the game of football, 39 00:02:04,680 --> 00:02:07,080 Speaker 1: still took a chunk of flesh with it. Other than that, 40 00:02:07,200 --> 00:02:09,800 Speaker 1: came home. You know, little man had his basketball lessons, 41 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 1: trying to get his confidence back up, and he's dribbling. 42 00:02:12,919 --> 00:02:15,840 Speaker 1: And I've noticed that it's all the players at his age, 43 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 1: at this level in this league, especially because the way 44 00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:22,400 Speaker 1: they play defense. If you can dribble, the whole team 45 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:25,920 Speaker 1: attacks you, and it's really like four on one and 46 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:28,040 Speaker 1: then everybody else on your team is open. But these 47 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:31,080 Speaker 1: kids so young, they can't pass. They are using up 48 00:02:31,160 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 1: all their memory to dribble. And the ones that can 49 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 1: dribble good, fine, but then pass it. You got triple team, 50 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:40,040 Speaker 1: quadruple team. They ain't passing it. They trying to dribble 51 00:02:40,080 --> 00:02:42,400 Speaker 1: out of it, and it just turns into scrums. So 52 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:44,840 Speaker 1: my son, just like all the kids I talked to, 53 00:02:45,080 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 1: they start to lose their confidence because they can't make plays. 54 00:02:47,520 --> 00:02:50,440 Speaker 1: They can't just navigate through it fast breaks, of course, 55 00:02:50,720 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 1: but when it's just like a slow down, just a 56 00:02:52,680 --> 00:02:56,959 Speaker 1: normal possession, oh, that half court defense attacks and the 57 00:02:57,040 --> 00:02:59,240 Speaker 1: little kids can't get off it. Man. So it's kind 58 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:01,880 Speaker 1: of funny every time I'm sitting there losing my voice 59 00:03:01,919 --> 00:03:05,600 Speaker 1: as usual. Aang, they're open over there, but they can't 60 00:03:05,639 --> 00:03:08,200 Speaker 1: even see over it. They can't even figure it out. 61 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 1: It's just hilarity. So my boy, because I know he 62 00:03:11,040 --> 00:03:13,400 Speaker 1: could dripple and he dribbles well in games, let me 63 00:03:13,480 --> 00:03:16,880 Speaker 1: not overstate this. But at the same time, let's do 64 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:19,080 Speaker 1: what we do. I always tell them a game is 65 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:22,760 Speaker 1: nothing but a practice against people you don't practice against, 66 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:25,040 Speaker 1: So don't be tripping on no games. Let's go in 67 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:27,160 Speaker 1: there show them who we are. Other than that, I'm 68 00:03:27,160 --> 00:03:30,680 Speaker 1: building my foundation. That's going great, meeting at the meeting, 69 00:03:30,800 --> 00:03:34,600 Speaker 1: text and email after that, coordinating this, getting that, getting 70 00:03:34,600 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 1: a donor list, going looking forward to you guys supporting this. 71 00:03:37,720 --> 00:03:40,480 Speaker 1: As I show you the work proof of concept, you'll 72 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:44,600 Speaker 1: obviously know. But go to project transition dot org Project 73 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 1: transition dot org to see what we've been working on 74 00:03:47,440 --> 00:03:51,080 Speaker 1: already amazing, but it's scary building stuff. Man. It's different 75 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 1: than football because when you building yourself up in football, 76 00:03:53,880 --> 00:03:56,720 Speaker 1: you got a scoreboard, right, you got yard markers, you 77 00:03:56,800 --> 00:03:59,720 Speaker 1: got teammates, you got opponents, you got yards, you got 78 00:03:59,800 --> 00:04:02,640 Speaker 1: sad you know what you're doing, you know how well 79 00:04:02,720 --> 00:04:07,040 Speaker 1: you're performing, you got metrics. When you're building something before 80 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:11,520 Speaker 1: you actually fully take it out for public consumption, it's 81 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:15,880 Speaker 1: a lot of conceptualizing, right, no scoreboarding there or you 82 00:04:15,920 --> 00:04:18,960 Speaker 1: think there is one. Oh, they gonna i'mna kill them. 83 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 1: I'm gonna hurt them. The market's in trouble, but the 84 00:04:21,480 --> 00:04:24,599 Speaker 1: marketplace dictates. So you gotta wait for everything to come 85 00:04:24,640 --> 00:04:27,839 Speaker 1: together before you fully realize how much you're balling and 86 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:29,800 Speaker 1: speaking the ball And let's get into this show right now. 87 00:04:29,839 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 1: My man Gary Payton the second showed his heart whow 88 00:04:35,279 --> 00:04:38,920 Speaker 1: nearly losing his stomach was the headline. Hilarious, we saw 89 00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:41,800 Speaker 1: what happened last night. Carrie Peyton the second me on 90 00:04:41,839 --> 00:04:44,159 Speaker 1: the group text for boys. It's so funny. We watch 91 00:04:44,279 --> 00:04:48,200 Speaker 1: games now and literally you're the asshole. If you're not 92 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:51,160 Speaker 1: the one on group text, you're the bad guy. If 93 00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:54,360 Speaker 1: you're not on Twitter responding to your replies and comments. Right, 94 00:04:54,440 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 1: it's like, can I just watch the game? And I 95 00:04:57,240 --> 00:04:59,800 Speaker 1: am so old school. I really like watching the game, 96 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:02,200 Speaker 1: but I also don't like being that guy. So I 97 00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:03,760 Speaker 1: hit my boys back. But they were like, yo, what 98 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:06,560 Speaker 1: Gary page a second go? And it was funny because 99 00:05:06,600 --> 00:05:10,480 Speaker 1: he stayed in the game through a defensive possession even 100 00:05:10,480 --> 00:05:13,560 Speaker 1: as he appeared to have a mouthful of vomit. Y'all 101 00:05:13,640 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 1: heard me in the first quarter of the Warriors game. 102 00:05:16,560 --> 00:05:18,760 Speaker 1: And first I thought, you know, I thought the cheeks 103 00:05:18,760 --> 00:05:21,320 Speaker 1: were gonna release. I was like, he got a booboo. 104 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:24,880 Speaker 1: I was like, he to go been there before, But nah, 105 00:05:24,880 --> 00:05:28,120 Speaker 1: it wasn't that. So he was mysteriously seen wandering off 106 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:30,080 Speaker 1: the court when the Warriors got the ball. You just 107 00:05:30,120 --> 00:05:32,320 Speaker 1: see him go to the side right then you zoom in, 108 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:37,520 Speaker 1: you can see his cheeks expanded to indicate that, yeah, 109 00:05:37,720 --> 00:05:41,560 Speaker 1: I gotta let this out right. So apparently Draymond Green 110 00:05:41,680 --> 00:05:45,240 Speaker 1: did not realize that he ran down the court well 111 00:05:45,279 --> 00:05:48,000 Speaker 1: on a four and five and passed the ball right 112 00:05:48,040 --> 00:05:50,800 Speaker 1: out of bounds right to the Lakers coach. He was like, 113 00:05:51,120 --> 00:05:53,800 Speaker 1: where you damn dog? Yeah, tell me how to throw 114 00:05:53,880 --> 00:05:56,400 Speaker 1: up where you at? So that's how that played out. 115 00:05:56,600 --> 00:06:02,000 Speaker 1: And it was funny because this just took me places, right, man, 116 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:05,920 Speaker 1: it took me to first. I grew up so broke 117 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:09,280 Speaker 1: that I didn't get diagnosed for everything that I was 118 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:12,400 Speaker 1: actually enduring. Like everything that it was happening to me, 119 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:15,159 Speaker 1: I didn't know. I knew I had asthma, I knew 120 00:06:15,240 --> 00:06:19,680 Speaker 1: I had a bronchitis. My first month of life was 121 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:21,880 Speaker 1: spent in the hospital, so I didn't know it, but 122 00:06:21,920 --> 00:06:25,120 Speaker 1: everyone told me that I knew I was allergic to penicelling. Okay, 123 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:28,680 Speaker 1: but a lot of other things kind of slipped through 124 00:06:28,680 --> 00:06:33,800 Speaker 1: the cracks. Let's just say and exhibit a my acid reflux. 125 00:06:33,880 --> 00:06:36,800 Speaker 1: So I never knew what acid reflux was. Two. I 126 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:39,000 Speaker 1: was in my thirties until I met my wife. Basically, 127 00:06:39,520 --> 00:06:42,360 Speaker 1: but I used to eat, and especially tacos. Y'all know me, 128 00:06:42,400 --> 00:06:44,560 Speaker 1: I love me. Some tacos would catch up. I sit 129 00:06:44,640 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 1: there with my sister, pound ten of them, come ten ds, 130 00:06:49,200 --> 00:06:51,920 Speaker 1: and then I got to that one, and then next 131 00:06:51,920 --> 00:06:55,080 Speaker 1: thing I know, I got a taco back in my 132 00:06:55,120 --> 00:06:58,840 Speaker 1: mouth for real. Growing up, I thought I had a superpower. 133 00:06:59,320 --> 00:07:02,400 Speaker 1: No one told me what that was. No one told 134 00:07:02,440 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 1: me to stop doing it. That I was letting acid 135 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:07,919 Speaker 1: go right back up my throat, which is in part 136 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:12,280 Speaker 1: while my voice goes so easily, in part why I 137 00:07:12,320 --> 00:07:15,400 Speaker 1: had to have vocal cord surgery. I had acid going 138 00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 1: up right here all my life. But I used to eat, 139 00:07:19,880 --> 00:07:22,280 Speaker 1: especially a good meal off, especially when you ain't got 140 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:23,920 Speaker 1: that much money, so you know, you got meat low 141 00:07:24,040 --> 00:07:27,000 Speaker 1: boring fist sticks. I kind of like fysticks, so as 142 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:31,400 Speaker 1: you kill the fish sticks, tacos. Oh, mama, love you burgers, Yes, Mama, yes, 143 00:07:31,760 --> 00:07:33,640 Speaker 1: Then she messed around, give me that broyal fish again. 144 00:07:33,840 --> 00:07:36,560 Speaker 1: Oh boring. I never used my ascid reflux for that, 145 00:07:36,640 --> 00:07:40,040 Speaker 1: but I used to sitting at the dinner take and 146 00:07:40,320 --> 00:07:43,560 Speaker 1: right back down, crazy right. Never knew what it was, 147 00:07:44,080 --> 00:07:45,840 Speaker 1: but that took me back because it used to happen 148 00:07:45,880 --> 00:07:48,440 Speaker 1: in games. So I'm in the NFL and my teammates 149 00:07:48,440 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 1: are freaking out. They're like, dog, what's wrong with you? 150 00:07:50,720 --> 00:07:55,600 Speaker 1: You nervous? Oh? Sorry, ass ivy league Columbia ass you 151 00:07:55,640 --> 00:07:58,480 Speaker 1: ain't ready for the pros fool. I was like, no, dog, 152 00:07:59,440 --> 00:08:01,160 Speaker 1: I don't know what it is because I didn't know. 153 00:08:01,200 --> 00:08:04,000 Speaker 1: I didn't know it was asked. Reflux wasn't telling the trainers. 154 00:08:04,000 --> 00:08:06,960 Speaker 1: Trainers didn't give a damn. Wasn't a hamstring or ACL 155 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:09,000 Speaker 1: So I ain't even respond and say nah, dog, I 156 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:11,800 Speaker 1: got asked reflux. I actually thought it was nerves, and 157 00:08:11,840 --> 00:08:13,760 Speaker 1: I was like, I'm fine with it. All I did 158 00:08:13,800 --> 00:08:16,920 Speaker 1: was get a cup, spit it in there. I'm ready 159 00:08:16,960 --> 00:08:20,040 Speaker 1: to play. Maybe it happened again at halftime sometimes, but 160 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:23,600 Speaker 1: point being, every single game I played in the NFL, 161 00:08:24,680 --> 00:08:27,960 Speaker 1: because I'll get riled up, getting ready, getting ready, pregame meal, 162 00:08:28,200 --> 00:08:30,760 Speaker 1: no matter what it was, here you go again, right 163 00:08:30,880 --> 00:08:33,840 Speaker 1: crazy right. But the other thing that used to happen 164 00:08:34,520 --> 00:08:37,120 Speaker 1: was how when we were in the conditions in the game, 165 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:40,280 Speaker 1: if you had to pee, whoa, sometimes you can make 166 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:41,920 Speaker 1: it to the sideline. Get the two towels in the 167 00:08:41,960 --> 00:08:45,160 Speaker 1: gatorade cup. Y'all seen that before, dude sitting there facing 168 00:08:45,400 --> 00:08:47,920 Speaker 1: facing the game. They like, why is he just standing 169 00:08:47,920 --> 00:08:51,720 Speaker 1: there with two towels side by side? Oh? He leak it. 170 00:08:51,960 --> 00:08:53,760 Speaker 1: But the craziest one is when you're playing in those 171 00:08:53,840 --> 00:08:57,120 Speaker 1: rain games, and in those rain games, you ain't got 172 00:08:57,120 --> 00:08:59,599 Speaker 1: to hit the sideline. Let's just say that, right, you 173 00:08:59,760 --> 00:09:02,160 Speaker 1: are ready, what you just let it go? And I 174 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:03,760 Speaker 1: did that in Miami one time. I let it go. 175 00:09:03,840 --> 00:09:05,440 Speaker 1: I was like, I don't give a damn. The only 176 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:07,960 Speaker 1: thing about it is you start itching and then you 177 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:10,319 Speaker 1: think of damn, this is bad because I'm tackling these 178 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:14,520 Speaker 1: fools and I know, just getting splashed with my number one. 179 00:09:14,760 --> 00:09:18,280 Speaker 1: So I've been there before. Gary Payton the second Uh. 180 00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:20,080 Speaker 1: It was crazy to watch it though, because you just 181 00:09:20,120 --> 00:09:23,080 Speaker 1: couldn't hold it. I was like, damn, dog, but who 182 00:09:23,120 --> 00:09:26,800 Speaker 1: wants to throw up and then swallow their on throw up. 183 00:09:28,520 --> 00:09:32,080 Speaker 1: Feeling amazing other than my knee and my hip, and boy, 184 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:34,360 Speaker 1: I'm feeling better than Bob Huggins is right now because 185 00:09:34,400 --> 00:09:38,679 Speaker 1: he is apologetic as he should be, as they always are, 186 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:42,000 Speaker 1: whether it's sincere or not. He used an anti gay 187 00:09:42,040 --> 00:09:46,480 Speaker 1: sler on air on radio. We know who he is, Dewey, 188 00:09:46,640 --> 00:09:50,760 Speaker 1: do we not? West Virginia University basketball coach who interviewed 189 00:09:50,760 --> 00:09:55,120 Speaker 1: on Cincinnati radio station Monday. During their appearance on the show, 190 00:09:55,200 --> 00:09:58,000 Speaker 1: Huggins was asked about his former n City rivalry with 191 00:09:58,200 --> 00:10:00,319 Speaker 1: Xavier during his time as the s and that he 192 00:10:00,400 --> 00:10:03,560 Speaker 1: coached from eight to nine to two thousand and five. 193 00:10:03,600 --> 00:10:06,320 Speaker 1: A lot of y'all weren't even born. Any school that 194 00:10:06,400 --> 00:10:09,600 Speaker 1: can throw rubber penises on the floor and then say 195 00:10:09,640 --> 00:10:12,240 Speaker 1: they didn't do it, My god, they can get away 196 00:10:12,240 --> 00:10:15,880 Speaker 1: with anything, Huggins said in the interview. Okay, so far, 197 00:10:16,559 --> 00:10:18,520 Speaker 1: you know you're going towards the line, but you ain't 198 00:10:18,559 --> 00:10:22,160 Speaker 1: crossed no line yet. Penises is not necessarily what you 199 00:10:22,200 --> 00:10:24,760 Speaker 1: want to hear from a college coach. But at the 200 00:10:24,800 --> 00:10:27,320 Speaker 1: same time he's like, hey, I ain't there anymore, but 201 00:10:27,440 --> 00:10:30,439 Speaker 1: kind of hand then responded and said, I think it 202 00:10:30,480 --> 00:10:36,520 Speaker 1: was transgender night, wasn't it? Man, I don't know. I 203 00:10:36,600 --> 00:10:38,520 Speaker 1: don't know. Sometimes I get caught off of this, so 204 00:10:38,600 --> 00:10:41,360 Speaker 1: y'all help me in the comments. I don't remember it 205 00:10:41,600 --> 00:10:46,520 Speaker 1: being national conversation or pervasive to talk about transgenders in 206 00:10:46,600 --> 00:10:49,160 Speaker 1: nineteen eighty nine all the way to two thousand and five. 207 00:10:49,240 --> 00:10:51,520 Speaker 1: To me, it feels like it's something of recent history. 208 00:10:51,600 --> 00:10:53,880 Speaker 1: But every time I say that, people always correct me 209 00:10:53,880 --> 00:10:56,120 Speaker 1: and say nah, nah back then. But I don't know 210 00:10:56,120 --> 00:10:57,920 Speaker 1: about that one, Bob. I don't know. If you go 211 00:10:58,000 --> 00:11:00,520 Speaker 1: in the right direction now, I see the line. Your 212 00:11:00,559 --> 00:11:03,960 Speaker 1: toes are right on it. What it was was all 213 00:11:04,120 --> 00:11:07,000 Speaker 1: those f's. And I'm not gonna say the word out 214 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:10,760 Speaker 1: of respect, even though I grew up saying the word. 215 00:11:10,920 --> 00:11:13,720 Speaker 1: Matter of fact, I grew up being called the word 216 00:11:13,840 --> 00:11:17,080 Speaker 1: more than anything because I hated to fight. I didn't 217 00:11:17,200 --> 00:11:20,560 Speaker 1: act tough, and I was a nerd, so F word 218 00:11:20,800 --> 00:11:23,719 Speaker 1: was my nickname. He said, what it was was all 219 00:11:23,760 --> 00:11:28,840 Speaker 1: those f's, those Catholic fs. I think, ooh, then't add it. 220 00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:30,880 Speaker 1: He ain't done now now he don't know where the 221 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:34,000 Speaker 1: line at it, but it's way behind him. They were envious. 222 00:11:34,120 --> 00:11:37,080 Speaker 1: They didn't have one which appeared to be a reference 223 00:11:37,080 --> 00:11:40,000 Speaker 1: to his earlier comments about objects that he'd been thrown 224 00:11:40,040 --> 00:11:44,880 Speaker 1: onto the court. Basically, they an't have penises. He's saying, WHOA, Okay, 225 00:11:45,080 --> 00:11:47,880 Speaker 1: you ready for this a policy statement at five twenty 226 00:11:47,960 --> 00:11:52,360 Speaker 1: one pm Eastern time. Yes, yes, it came fast, came 227 00:11:52,400 --> 00:11:57,199 Speaker 1: in hot quote. Earlier today on the Cincinnati radio program, 228 00:11:57,240 --> 00:11:59,960 Speaker 1: I was asked about the rivalry between my former employer, 229 00:12:00,320 --> 00:12:04,320 Speaker 1: the University of Cincinnati, and it's crosstown rival, Xavier University. 230 00:12:04,559 --> 00:12:08,679 Speaker 1: You know you in trouble when you gotta say all 231 00:12:08,679 --> 00:12:12,400 Speaker 1: of these statements with that much matter of fact before 232 00:12:12,400 --> 00:12:15,800 Speaker 1: you even get to your apology. You gotta name the entities. 233 00:12:16,200 --> 00:12:21,120 Speaker 1: You gotta go out there and lay it out foundation first, Boy, 234 00:12:21,360 --> 00:12:24,800 Speaker 1: you're in trouble. During the conversation, I use a completely 235 00:12:24,960 --> 00:12:31,000 Speaker 1: insensitive and aberrant phrase that there is simply no excuse for, 236 00:12:31,640 --> 00:12:36,200 Speaker 1: and I won't try to make one here. I deeply 237 00:12:36,240 --> 00:12:39,839 Speaker 1: apologize to the individuals I have offended, as well as 238 00:12:39,840 --> 00:12:44,240 Speaker 1: to the Xavier University community, the University of Cincinnati, and 239 00:12:44,360 --> 00:12:48,000 Speaker 1: West Virginia University. Why not think the whole East Coast 240 00:12:48,000 --> 00:12:52,719 Speaker 1: and south WHOA? These apologies cracked me up, even when 241 00:12:52,760 --> 00:12:54,920 Speaker 1: I had to say them, as I have shared with 242 00:12:55,040 --> 00:12:58,000 Speaker 1: my players over my forty years of coaching. Oh really, 243 00:12:58,040 --> 00:13:00,520 Speaker 1: now we're gonna go there. There are constance instance far 244 00:13:00,520 --> 00:13:04,600 Speaker 1: our words and actions, and I will fully accept anything 245 00:13:04,720 --> 00:13:08,640 Speaker 1: coming my way. I am ashamed and embarrassed and heartbroken 246 00:13:08,920 --> 00:13:11,480 Speaker 1: for those I have hurt. I must do better and 247 00:13:11,559 --> 00:13:18,760 Speaker 1: I will. Okay, let's should I do it right now? Yeah? 248 00:13:18,760 --> 00:13:20,920 Speaker 1: I should do it right now. You know what, PC 249 00:13:21,120 --> 00:13:27,200 Speaker 1: culture has turned us into plausible deniers, like because you 250 00:13:27,200 --> 00:13:30,240 Speaker 1: could never question someone's motives, so everyone can always put 251 00:13:30,240 --> 00:13:32,440 Speaker 1: their hands up and say I said it, you believe me. 252 00:13:32,640 --> 00:13:34,679 Speaker 1: So when you say it and then all of a 253 00:13:34,720 --> 00:13:37,839 Speaker 1: sudden you stepped in it, you can say, well, I'm 254 00:13:37,880 --> 00:13:42,760 Speaker 1: apologizing and I am heartbroken and oh my god, I'm 255 00:13:42,760 --> 00:13:46,680 Speaker 1: ashamed and embarrassed. And since you can't question his motives 256 00:13:46,920 --> 00:13:50,400 Speaker 1: or you don't know his motives, he can just sit 257 00:13:50,440 --> 00:13:53,800 Speaker 1: there and say, I deny ever feeling that way. It 258 00:13:53,840 --> 00:13:56,960 Speaker 1: was just a misspoke. I just misspoke. I just had 259 00:13:57,000 --> 00:14:01,200 Speaker 1: a bad time talking about something that I really didn't 260 00:14:01,240 --> 00:14:05,120 Speaker 1: evolve into the conversation and evolve into having a more 261 00:14:05,240 --> 00:14:08,679 Speaker 1: sensible discussion. Right. You've heard that before, haven't you? Like 262 00:14:08,880 --> 00:14:11,160 Speaker 1: the words we used to use. Oh, I'm still using them. 263 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:15,520 Speaker 1: Oh my bad. I should have let that word go. Yeah. 264 00:14:15,679 --> 00:14:17,679 Speaker 1: Kind of reminded me of Adrian Peterson. I always think 265 00:14:17,679 --> 00:14:22,120 Speaker 1: about that, because Adrian Peterson was using old school discipline, 266 00:14:22,160 --> 00:14:25,760 Speaker 1: old Testament discipline in the New Testament, in the New 267 00:14:25,800 --> 00:14:28,360 Speaker 1: School with his son. Right now, he went too far 268 00:14:28,520 --> 00:14:31,320 Speaker 1: either way, but he still was using My mama used 269 00:14:31,320 --> 00:14:33,720 Speaker 1: to whip me like Adrian Peterson. Mama used to like 270 00:14:33,720 --> 00:14:36,800 Speaker 1: Adrian Peterson with his son. And nothing happened to my mama, 271 00:14:36,840 --> 00:14:39,600 Speaker 1: but something happened to Adrian Peterson, and something's gonna happen 272 00:14:39,640 --> 00:14:43,040 Speaker 1: to Bob Huggins, right. It's like this plausible deniability. Ah, 273 00:14:43,160 --> 00:14:45,160 Speaker 1: I didn't do anything, Oh I did something already. It 274 00:14:45,280 --> 00:14:48,000 Speaker 1: kills me. It's crazy, right, because he let it flow 275 00:14:48,040 --> 00:14:51,440 Speaker 1: off his tongue. It's a radio interview. There is no 276 00:14:51,640 --> 00:14:54,440 Speaker 1: pressure in a radio interview. They don't even get to 277 00:14:54,440 --> 00:14:56,920 Speaker 1: see you. You could be picking your nose and talking 278 00:14:56,920 --> 00:14:59,360 Speaker 1: and saying whatever you want to say. And this is 279 00:14:59,440 --> 00:15:02,560 Speaker 1: what he says. Now, what did he say the F word? 280 00:15:03,080 --> 00:15:05,560 Speaker 1: Now we know you can't say the F word right now. 281 00:15:05,640 --> 00:15:07,760 Speaker 1: You're not supposed to say the R word right now. 282 00:15:08,080 --> 00:15:09,800 Speaker 1: I know on the airplane you're ain't supposed to call 283 00:15:09,840 --> 00:15:11,560 Speaker 1: them the S word. Steward of this I say that 284 00:15:11,600 --> 00:15:14,720 Speaker 1: one still I'm in violation. Oh my god, I'm so 285 00:15:14,800 --> 00:15:19,440 Speaker 1: heartbroken for all the Steward Stewart's out there. What how 286 00:15:19,480 --> 00:15:21,760 Speaker 1: do y'all feel about that? Like words we used to 287 00:15:21,880 --> 00:15:26,000 Speaker 1: use and you shouldn't use anymore. Obviously, the N word 288 00:15:26,040 --> 00:15:27,680 Speaker 1: comes to mind. We've been talking about that on this 289 00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:29,840 Speaker 1: show a lot. Right, people used to use it, but 290 00:15:29,880 --> 00:15:32,720 Speaker 1: it never had a sense of positivity to it, but 291 00:15:32,760 --> 00:15:35,400 Speaker 1: now it does. F word never had a sense of 292 00:15:35,400 --> 00:15:37,760 Speaker 1: positivity to it. I ain't feel good when they used 293 00:15:37,800 --> 00:15:40,760 Speaker 1: to call me that, right, but it was I will say, 294 00:15:42,520 --> 00:15:45,440 Speaker 1: on the spectrum it was almost like how the B 295 00:15:45,640 --> 00:15:49,280 Speaker 1: word is now where people girls use it to girls. 296 00:15:50,240 --> 00:15:52,800 Speaker 1: Back in the days, everybody was using the F word 297 00:15:52,880 --> 00:15:56,800 Speaker 1: for like negative dishue, but they also was using it 298 00:15:56,960 --> 00:15:59,480 Speaker 1: like kind of light, like you just soft, like they were. 299 00:16:00,000 --> 00:16:02,400 Speaker 1: Toby didn't call me get caught with this before, like 300 00:16:02,440 --> 00:16:04,880 Speaker 1: it was just like man, you just soft. So it 301 00:16:05,120 --> 00:16:08,920 Speaker 1: wasn't on the extreme that's the only thing that could 302 00:16:08,960 --> 00:16:11,600 Speaker 1: save Bob Huggins. But let's also talk through this, right 303 00:16:12,360 --> 00:16:15,680 Speaker 1: you know, West Virginia. The Athletic Department denounces remarks twenty 304 00:16:15,680 --> 00:16:19,760 Speaker 1: minutes later on Twitter said his remarks for insensitive, offensive 305 00:16:19,800 --> 00:16:23,920 Speaker 1: and do not represent our university values. Yep, ah Man 306 00:16:24,040 --> 00:16:26,640 Speaker 1: does not condone the use of such language and take 307 00:16:26,840 --> 00:16:31,120 Speaker 1: such actions very seriously. Here we go, y'all ready durn, 308 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:34,440 Speaker 1: damn darn. Every entity says this, and I know if 309 00:16:34,440 --> 00:16:36,280 Speaker 1: you're the one in trouble, you're glad they say this. 310 00:16:36,600 --> 00:16:39,240 Speaker 1: But y'all, come on, man, be more sincere, or at 311 00:16:39,320 --> 00:16:44,480 Speaker 1: least come off as more genuine. The situation is under 312 00:16:44,560 --> 00:16:48,160 Speaker 1: review and will be addressed by the university in this 313 00:16:48,200 --> 00:16:52,680 Speaker 1: athletic department. Another one. See how mad y'all are? See 314 00:16:52,720 --> 00:16:55,320 Speaker 1: how many shows talk about it? See how many people 315 00:16:55,320 --> 00:17:00,360 Speaker 1: were offended? Oh not enough? Let it go simple? That 316 00:17:01,000 --> 00:17:03,880 Speaker 1: is crazy? So is he gonna get fired? Is this 317 00:17:04,240 --> 00:17:09,119 Speaker 1: what crosses the line for mister Bob Huggins? And if 318 00:17:09,160 --> 00:17:12,120 Speaker 1: he doesn't get fired, what should happen? And will that 319 00:17:12,240 --> 00:17:15,520 Speaker 1: be enough? Right? It's crazy. I was surprised by his 320 00:17:15,560 --> 00:17:19,640 Speaker 1: comments just because he's the older guy obviously, and he's coaching, 321 00:17:19,720 --> 00:17:23,919 Speaker 1: so you're around young guys, and being around those youngsters 322 00:17:23,920 --> 00:17:27,280 Speaker 1: sometimes you pick up not only on their words, but 323 00:17:27,320 --> 00:17:30,800 Speaker 1: their lexicon and their sensibilities. Like every time I'm around 324 00:17:30,800 --> 00:17:32,880 Speaker 1: my daughter, she's like, Dad, you can't do that, Dad, 325 00:17:32,960 --> 00:17:35,160 Speaker 1: you can't say that. Dad. No, I'm like, oh, oh 326 00:17:35,160 --> 00:17:37,960 Speaker 1: all right, but I did say it. I did do it. 327 00:17:38,080 --> 00:17:40,440 Speaker 1: So now him on a radio interview is when he 328 00:17:40,520 --> 00:17:45,320 Speaker 1: left the fs off and the penises and transgender. I 329 00:17:45,320 --> 00:17:48,560 Speaker 1: don't know, I don't know. I don't ask for anybody 330 00:17:48,560 --> 00:17:52,040 Speaker 1: to be fired, but if he's not, it just seemed 331 00:17:52,080 --> 00:17:56,560 Speaker 1: like he was a lit comfortable, too comfortable crossing that 332 00:17:56,680 --> 00:18:00,320 Speaker 1: line and not stopping himself in that moment. Thank you 333 00:18:00,359 --> 00:18:03,560 Speaker 1: for your viewership on Brings TV and your membership on 334 00:18:03,640 --> 00:18:09,639 Speaker 1: YouTube and Wiley's world sign up. Babit numbers continue to grow. 335 00:18:09,800 --> 00:18:13,360 Speaker 1: Looking forward to were about to start hosting some shows together. Yes, 336 00:18:13,560 --> 00:18:16,440 Speaker 1: members will be right here, well not in here, not 337 00:18:16,560 --> 00:18:18,679 Speaker 1: in LA, not where I live, but they gonna be 338 00:18:18,680 --> 00:18:20,960 Speaker 1: on camera. I'm bell camera when we gonna go back 339 00:18:21,000 --> 00:18:25,160 Speaker 1: in forth discussing topics. I look forward to that for real, 340 00:18:25,280 --> 00:18:27,719 Speaker 1: especially oh my god, when football come, it's gonna get 341 00:18:27,760 --> 00:18:30,320 Speaker 1: insane in the membraner right here all right, speaking up 342 00:18:30,320 --> 00:18:32,479 Speaker 1: insane in the men brain? Who is it Tiger Woods 343 00:18:32,520 --> 00:18:35,600 Speaker 1: or Erica Herman. One of them acting up acting out 344 00:18:35,600 --> 00:18:38,560 Speaker 1: because Tiger Woods legal battle with ex girlfriend Erica Herman 345 00:18:39,200 --> 00:18:42,800 Speaker 1: heating up to heat his on, and Herman says Woods 346 00:18:42,960 --> 00:18:48,560 Speaker 1: used his lawyer to break up with her. Boy. That 347 00:18:48,720 --> 00:18:51,040 Speaker 1: is kind of elementary, though, use the homie to break 348 00:18:51,119 --> 00:18:52,520 Speaker 1: up with you. You remember, back in the day, we 349 00:18:52,560 --> 00:18:54,919 Speaker 1: used to break up somebody. You just wrote a note, 350 00:18:54,680 --> 00:18:57,000 Speaker 1: read that note, and then all you waiting for is 351 00:18:57,000 --> 00:18:59,160 Speaker 1: not for them to read a note, but for their reaction. 352 00:19:00,160 --> 00:19:02,040 Speaker 1: So you didn't even want to watch it. Then you 353 00:19:02,080 --> 00:19:03,800 Speaker 1: just walk by and see how they were acting. Oh 354 00:19:03,920 --> 00:19:07,080 Speaker 1: she mad? Damn it. Well you use your lawyer, I guess. 355 00:19:07,080 --> 00:19:09,639 Speaker 1: Tiger was like whatever, but you got to hear this story. 356 00:19:09,640 --> 00:19:11,879 Speaker 1: This is interesting. So they got a thirty million dollars 357 00:19:11,960 --> 00:19:15,280 Speaker 1: thirty million dollar legal battle going on between the two, 358 00:19:15,560 --> 00:19:18,520 Speaker 1: and it's escalated with Erica Herman accusing the golf superstar 359 00:19:19,080 --> 00:19:23,640 Speaker 1: of beginning their sexual relationship when she was his employee 360 00:19:24,119 --> 00:19:26,600 Speaker 1: and threatening to fire her if she didn't sign a 361 00:19:26,640 --> 00:19:31,560 Speaker 1: non disclosure agreement. She now once voided, uh, oh yeah, 362 00:19:31,600 --> 00:19:33,879 Speaker 1: that ain't good. You already know you messing around with 363 00:19:33,960 --> 00:19:37,440 Speaker 1: your employee. We already know the harassment charges HR Line 364 00:19:37,480 --> 00:19:39,920 Speaker 1: one and Tyler like, no, I owned the whole thing. 365 00:19:39,960 --> 00:19:42,080 Speaker 1: I AMHR. But they're like, no, you need to talk 366 00:19:42,119 --> 00:19:45,240 Speaker 1: to somebody else then, because this ain't right. If true, 367 00:19:45,280 --> 00:19:50,560 Speaker 1: Herman said in court documents that Woods had this lawyer 368 00:19:50,560 --> 00:19:53,560 Speaker 1: break up with her at an airport in October after 369 00:19:53,760 --> 00:19:57,520 Speaker 1: falsely telling her they were going on a weekend trip. 370 00:19:57,640 --> 00:20:00,240 Speaker 1: What man hasn't lied? Said, Yeah, maybe we going somewhere 371 00:20:00,800 --> 00:20:06,480 Speaker 1: that ain't a crime. You know, the crime is though white. Wait, 372 00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:09,960 Speaker 1: listen to this, y'all. The lawyer then invicted her from Woods. 373 00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:14,840 Speaker 1: Since fifty four million dollar mansion north of Palm Beach, 374 00:20:15,040 --> 00:20:18,160 Speaker 1: What that's what you did? Took me to the airport 375 00:20:18,640 --> 00:20:20,720 Speaker 1: riding there. You know, they ain't a may box or something, 376 00:20:21,640 --> 00:20:24,440 Speaker 1: Mayna music. He just riding. Tiger just getting this belly 377 00:20:24,520 --> 00:20:26,719 Speaker 1: rub Ericon's like, oh, where we going? He like just 378 00:20:26,760 --> 00:20:29,080 Speaker 1: a quick one. And he ain't going to Terminal six 379 00:20:29,200 --> 00:20:33,080 Speaker 1: like us. He ain't going through tsa right. Tiger ain't 380 00:20:33,080 --> 00:20:36,120 Speaker 1: got worried about warm peanuts. He talking about like medium 381 00:20:36,280 --> 00:20:40,000 Speaker 1: rare philet, you know. And he on this private jetis 382 00:20:40,080 --> 00:20:42,919 Speaker 1: right there. He on the tarmac. He just looking He's 383 00:20:42,960 --> 00:20:44,680 Speaker 1: like yeah, go get out, baby, I want to see 384 00:20:44,720 --> 00:20:48,080 Speaker 1: you walk. And then the lawyer, just like the A team, 385 00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:53,399 Speaker 1: just jump in there. Then served get up out of here. Damn, 386 00:20:53,480 --> 00:20:56,720 Speaker 1: that's harsh. Damn, that's gangster. See you, Tiger, you got 387 00:20:56,760 --> 00:20:58,639 Speaker 1: your red He had his red shirt on it, and 388 00:20:58,680 --> 00:21:01,240 Speaker 1: that was Sunday for Tiger. The documents were filed in 389 00:21:01,280 --> 00:21:05,320 Speaker 1: advance of a scheduled hearing that they have. Okay, now 390 00:21:05,359 --> 00:21:09,320 Speaker 1: we all know Tiger Woods has this nondisclosure agreement and 391 00:21:09,359 --> 00:21:11,840 Speaker 1: he makes people sign it because he wants all the 392 00:21:11,920 --> 00:21:15,560 Speaker 1: disputs to be settled privately, and it's supposed to be 393 00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:21,000 Speaker 1: settled privately by an arbiter arbitrator, not in court. Sounds 394 00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:24,920 Speaker 1: like another violation. Okay. Now let's talk about herman, who 395 00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:28,119 Speaker 1: says she managed and she did one of his Palm 396 00:21:28,119 --> 00:21:31,720 Speaker 1: Beach County restaurants before and during their first years of 397 00:21:31,760 --> 00:21:36,320 Speaker 1: the romantic relationship, argues that the NDA is unenforceable under 398 00:21:36,359 --> 00:21:39,520 Speaker 1: a new law. Okay, so when you signed it was enforceable, 399 00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:41,119 Speaker 1: but now it's a new law. Oh, I could get 400 00:21:41,200 --> 00:21:43,520 Speaker 1: up out of this because it can be voided when 401 00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:48,760 Speaker 1: sexual abuse or sexual harassment occurred. M and y'all remember 402 00:21:48,840 --> 00:21:53,840 Speaker 1: that he was messing with her supposedly before she signed it. Okay, interested, 403 00:21:54,160 --> 00:21:58,720 Speaker 1: And then it contends that Woods allegedly threatened to fire 404 00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:04,480 Speaker 1: her if she didn't that contract. Damn Tiger allegedly strong 405 00:22:04,560 --> 00:22:07,359 Speaker 1: arming out here. All right, so we all know what 406 00:22:07,400 --> 00:22:10,359 Speaker 1: that means. A boss can't impose different work conditions on 407 00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:13,800 Speaker 1: his employee because of their sexual relationship. That's called sexual harassment. 408 00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:17,280 Speaker 1: Blah blah blah. All right, let's get to it now. Obviously, 409 00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:20,800 Speaker 1: Tiger Woods in his side, the san Diez Our utterly 410 00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:25,359 Speaker 1: merit red lists quote quote Man, I'm loving this. This 411 00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:27,560 Speaker 1: is crazy. This is like real drama. It's gonna be 412 00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:29,320 Speaker 1: a soap opera. They're gonna make a movie out of this. 413 00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:33,040 Speaker 1: I can't lie to you, all right. So then, in 414 00:22:33,080 --> 00:22:37,760 Speaker 1: her unlawful eviction lawsuit against the trust, she is basing 415 00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:40,439 Speaker 1: her thirty million dollar claim on how much it would 416 00:22:40,520 --> 00:22:44,639 Speaker 1: cost to rent a property like Woods's mansion for the 417 00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:48,960 Speaker 1: six years of residence she was allegedly denied. Remember, because 418 00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:52,520 Speaker 1: we did this story before, she said that Tiger Woods 419 00:22:52,560 --> 00:22:57,680 Speaker 1: promised her orally eleven years of residency at his mansion 420 00:22:57,880 --> 00:23:03,080 Speaker 1: and only gave him what five. Can't make this stuff up, dog. 421 00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:07,640 Speaker 1: This is crazy, all right. So now the last part 422 00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:10,000 Speaker 1: of this that you really need to know is that 423 00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:13,840 Speaker 1: she says that Tiger pressured her to quit the job 424 00:23:14,640 --> 00:23:16,800 Speaker 1: and stop managing the restaurant so you could be around 425 00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:19,119 Speaker 1: him and the kids more often. And that was a 426 00:23:19,160 --> 00:23:23,160 Speaker 1: few years ago. And then herman says, was it victor 427 00:23:23,240 --> 00:23:27,399 Speaker 1: her through trickery? Right? Dee was going to the Bahamas? 428 00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:31,439 Speaker 1: And then she packed a small bag and drove her 429 00:23:31,520 --> 00:23:33,960 Speaker 1: to the airport where they parked near the private plane 430 00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:36,719 Speaker 1: and said, peace out out of the blue. Well, this 431 00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:39,880 Speaker 1: is an ugly situation. Let me talk about this one. 432 00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:46,520 Speaker 1: She sounds like anybody else who's been devastated in the breakup. 433 00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:51,040 Speaker 1: The first thing you do is look to blame others, 434 00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:55,399 Speaker 1: maybe your significant other that well you're acts now, or 435 00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:59,840 Speaker 1: maybe other people you know. Sometimes friends have disputes because 436 00:23:59,840 --> 00:24:02,000 Speaker 1: you broke up with your boyfriend. Now you got a 437 00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:03,800 Speaker 1: problem with your friend because your friends the one who 438 00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:06,320 Speaker 1: told you about your boyfriend, et cetera. But the first 439 00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:09,359 Speaker 1: thing you do is not accountability, It is blank. The 440 00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:13,080 Speaker 1: second thing you do is try to get your bearings 441 00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:18,399 Speaker 1: by grabbing every single thing around you. That's why divorce proceedings. 442 00:24:18,600 --> 00:24:21,040 Speaker 1: Look the way they look. They just trying to get 443 00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:23,280 Speaker 1: themselves back. Like my son on the other day, he 444 00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:26,320 Speaker 1: was like, Daddy, it's only gonna take us five hours 445 00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:28,240 Speaker 1: to get to New York. New York is so far. 446 00:24:28,760 --> 00:24:30,960 Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, airplanes go really fast. He said, 447 00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:32,920 Speaker 1: it doesn't feel like that when you're in the air. 448 00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:35,480 Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, cause you don't have any other 449 00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:38,400 Speaker 1: elements surround you, right, But if you were, I said, 450 00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:40,600 Speaker 1: when we taken off, doesn't look fast. He's like, yeah, 451 00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:43,080 Speaker 1: it does. I said, it's going even faster in the air, 452 00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:46,560 Speaker 1: but it's just air there. Well, you imagine free falling 453 00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:50,400 Speaker 1: Tiger Woods. A billionaire, all of a sudden you leave, 454 00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:53,119 Speaker 1: get kicked out of a fifty four million dollar mansion. 455 00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:55,280 Speaker 1: All of a sudden you got a sup for thirty 456 00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:59,800 Speaker 1: million dollars, and all these allegations you just grasping for, 457 00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:02,399 Speaker 1: And then why would you want to suit for the 458 00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:04,560 Speaker 1: amount that you could rent the man? She just buy one? 459 00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:06,840 Speaker 1: Can you in Florida? Damn it? Buy one for a 460 00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:09,880 Speaker 1: million dollars? You good girl. But it's crazy because now 461 00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:13,560 Speaker 1: she is hurt. You could tell a woman scorn whoo, 462 00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:17,960 Speaker 1: and she is hurt. She's embarrassed, she's hurt, and maybe 463 00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:19,960 Speaker 1: she lost the love of her life in Tiger Woods. 464 00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:22,639 Speaker 1: He's the love of a lot of ladies lies if 465 00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:24,560 Speaker 1: you really want to be real. So to me, it's 466 00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:27,840 Speaker 1: an ugly situation. I just trip off of it, Like 467 00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:30,880 Speaker 1: my breakup's been way cleaner than that, even my engagements 468 00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:33,359 Speaker 1: way cleaner than that. No trickery whatever you want to 469 00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:35,960 Speaker 1: call that. No lawyer is involved in terms of Noah, 470 00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:39,080 Speaker 1: you can't do it, but can't l I have been 471 00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:41,199 Speaker 1: in court a couple times with the baby mama, but 472 00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:44,399 Speaker 1: it wasn't to this extent. So hopefully this thing works 473 00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:46,760 Speaker 1: out where everybody gets what they're supposed to get based 474 00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:50,080 Speaker 1: on what they really did. Because, boy, the accusations back 475 00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:55,399 Speaker 1: and forth. Who got time for that mother fight? We do? Boy, 476 00:25:55,640 --> 00:26:00,000 Speaker 1: I gotta read this one accurately because man, for you 477 00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:02,680 Speaker 1: who have been following this story or heard about this story, 478 00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:06,480 Speaker 1: this may be mind blowing. New detailed surface that show 479 00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:09,680 Speaker 1: former Bills punter matter Reza, who was cut due to 480 00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:14,560 Speaker 1: sexual assault allegations last year and was out of the NFL, 481 00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:19,080 Speaker 1: wasn't present during alleged gang rape. I'm gonna say it again. 482 00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:25,680 Speaker 1: Detail says that he was not present during alleged gang rape. 483 00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:27,919 Speaker 1: All right, So, last August, just days after earning the 484 00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:30,919 Speaker 1: starting job as the Buffalo Bills punter, the rookie was 485 00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:33,760 Speaker 1: the subject of a civil lawsuit a legend he and 486 00:26:33,840 --> 00:26:37,400 Speaker 1: two San Diego State football teammates participating in a gang 487 00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:41,880 Speaker 1: rape of an intoxicated seventeen year old girl underage and 488 00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:45,640 Speaker 1: gang rape. Y'all catching all of this and intoxicate. While 489 00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:48,800 Speaker 1: little was known publicly, San Diego police had spent nearly 490 00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:52,200 Speaker 1: ten months on the case before affording it to the 491 00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:56,199 Speaker 1: DA without a recommendation for prosecution. You hear that, okay? 492 00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:59,960 Speaker 1: The bill said they also knew about the incident, investigated it, 493 00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:04,200 Speaker 1: and decided to employ a reason anyway, remember that part. 494 00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:07,560 Speaker 1: Remember they investigated it and then they said we're still 495 00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:12,040 Speaker 1: gonna keep them, and everyone gave them hell, let's talk 496 00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:15,359 Speaker 1: through it. The graphic allegations in the civil lawsuit, however, 497 00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:18,840 Speaker 1: created a public frenzy. As I just discussed it, included 498 00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:23,119 Speaker 1: a claim that on October fifteenth, twenty twenty, one party 499 00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:26,600 Speaker 1: had a home near this campus that a reason led 500 00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:30,160 Speaker 1: the girl into a bedroom where at least three other 501 00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:34,399 Speaker 1: men waited. Once inside a reason threw on the girl 502 00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:37,840 Speaker 1: onto the bed face first. The girl went in and 503 00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:42,600 Speaker 1: out of consciousness while suffering through the horrific gang rape. 504 00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:46,880 Speaker 1: It lasted an hour and a half, the lawsuit read, 505 00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:50,280 Speaker 1: before she stumbled out of the room bloody and crying, 506 00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:53,960 Speaker 1: in part because multiple piercings had ripped through the skin 507 00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:58,800 Speaker 1: during the attack. Within days of that in that report 508 00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:02,720 Speaker 1: getting out in the public, friends the Bills cut Ariza, who, 509 00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:06,000 Speaker 1: due to his record breaking NCAA career in his eighty 510 00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:09,760 Speaker 1: two yard punt in a preseason game, had already earned 511 00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:14,000 Speaker 1: the nickname punt God. Remember all this stuff, okay, all 512 00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:17,359 Speaker 1: right now? Perhaps most notably, the DA's office concluded that 513 00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:21,160 Speaker 1: Aresa couldn't have led the girl into the Ledge gang 514 00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:25,159 Speaker 1: rape because he had left the home at about twelve 515 00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:30,520 Speaker 1: thirty a m. An hour prior to when evidence suggested 516 00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:35,560 Speaker 1: the ledge gang rape would have occurred. Quote, he wasn't 517 00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:40,200 Speaker 1: even at the party anymore, the Deputy district attorney said 518 00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:45,600 Speaker 1: later stated timeline of events, all I know is at 519 00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:49,840 Speaker 1: that point, suspect the Resa is gone from the party. 520 00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:53,320 Speaker 1: So his life's been just turned upside down, right paralyzed. 521 00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:57,320 Speaker 1: Since he was named in this lawsuit, and now you 522 00:28:57,400 --> 00:29:01,520 Speaker 1: see this. He denied it from hello, continues to deny 523 00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:05,440 Speaker 1: it and denied it along with his teammates that they 524 00:29:05,560 --> 00:29:09,680 Speaker 1: thought the girl was underage, etc. Or she was intoxicated. 525 00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:14,640 Speaker 1: Denied it all all right, Hm, more details. The only 526 00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:17,360 Speaker 1: other detail about this encounter which would have made it 527 00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:21,920 Speaker 1: tricky watch this is that supposedly he had a sexual 528 00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:27,160 Speaker 1: encounter outdoors prior to him supposedly leaving the party, So 529 00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:29,960 Speaker 1: that could throw a little into the story in terms 530 00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:32,680 Speaker 1: of color, because he did do something at the party, 531 00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:36,880 Speaker 1: just didn't do that. But that's where we are right now. 532 00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:39,479 Speaker 1: So a lot of times these situations in the NFL, 533 00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:44,600 Speaker 1: we know what happens. A star gets in trouble. Once again, 534 00:29:44,640 --> 00:29:47,920 Speaker 1: it's under review. Back in the days especially of late 535 00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:50,880 Speaker 1: not so much, but it's under review. We're not gonna 536 00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:52,560 Speaker 1: cut them, we're not gonna release them yet. Let's figure 537 00:29:52,560 --> 00:29:56,040 Speaker 1: out the details. Then while they're doing that, they're trying 538 00:29:56,040 --> 00:29:59,280 Speaker 1: to measure the level of public scrutiny. And once they 539 00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:02,400 Speaker 1: get that temper your gauge, they make their decision. And 540 00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:05,200 Speaker 1: their decision is based on the level of heat, the 541 00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:10,000 Speaker 1: temperature and the level of production that player possesses, right, 542 00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:12,920 Speaker 1: and that's it. And if that temperature is higher than 543 00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:17,200 Speaker 1: your production, bye bye right, And in this case it's 544 00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:19,840 Speaker 1: not even by production. You're a punter. As much as 545 00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:22,360 Speaker 1: we love you, punter, we can live without you, punter. 546 00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:24,960 Speaker 1: So we gonna move on. And that's what the bills did, 547 00:30:25,120 --> 00:30:28,480 Speaker 1: even though at first with the recommendation from the DA, 548 00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:32,040 Speaker 1: with the recommendation from the Police Department, and them doing 549 00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:35,800 Speaker 1: their own investigation, they kept them. But boy, that lets 550 00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:39,480 Speaker 1: you know how loud public criticism is. And when people 551 00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:43,800 Speaker 1: talk about boycotts making their voices heard, there are ways 552 00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:47,880 Speaker 1: in which it is heard. These are demonstrations of the 553 00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:52,000 Speaker 1: public outcry actually affecting things. Jonathan Majors is going through 554 00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:55,640 Speaker 1: that right now. In this case, public outcry does matter. 555 00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:58,920 Speaker 1: So anytime you ever feel unheard or whatever it may be, 556 00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:03,360 Speaker 1: just talk and if your voice is in chorus in 557 00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:06,520 Speaker 1: unison with others, oh, it's gonna be loud and it's 558 00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:09,160 Speaker 1: gonna be heard. The only problem I have with this 559 00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:14,640 Speaker 1: because look they're still going through this consideration. He's still unemployed. 560 00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:18,040 Speaker 1: He deserves a job, he deserves a job. Innocent to 561 00:31:18,080 --> 00:31:22,320 Speaker 1: proven guilty, I'm still that guy. You're innocent to proven guilty, 562 00:31:22,360 --> 00:31:26,680 Speaker 1: but more than that, the accusation is always louder than 563 00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:30,000 Speaker 1: the apology. Right, That's what's the saddest part about all this. 564 00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:34,000 Speaker 1: Who hasn't been falsely accused on any level basically lied on? Right? 565 00:31:34,560 --> 00:31:36,880 Speaker 1: You've been lied on before. I've been lied on before 566 00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:43,240 Speaker 1: many times. And the accusation is always louder than the apology. 567 00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:47,800 Speaker 1: The lie is always louder than that. I'm sorry, and 568 00:31:47,800 --> 00:31:50,320 Speaker 1: it's crazy, man, So I don't know how they fix 569 00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:53,000 Speaker 1: this other than giving him his employment. But be real, 570 00:31:53,560 --> 00:31:57,200 Speaker 1: there's gonna be hecklers forever. He's gonna get clown certain places. 571 00:31:57,360 --> 00:32:00,719 Speaker 1: This is on Google for life. His grandkids gonna look 572 00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:04,160 Speaker 1: up granddaddy. Oh, let's look at punk God Granddaddy. All 573 00:32:04,880 --> 00:32:09,320 Speaker 1: older articles before that are these sad state of affairs man. 574 00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:13,040 Speaker 1: Hopefully he gets his job back, because if this is accurate, 575 00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:16,000 Speaker 1: shouldn't have been fired in the first place. All right, y'all, 576 00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:17,920 Speaker 1: y'all know how we end every show with a why 577 00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:23,040 Speaker 1: lee is some recall is not as powerful as imagination. 578 00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:28,040 Speaker 1: A little different twist, right, recall is not as powerful 579 00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:31,160 Speaker 1: as imagination. Recall A lot of us like to do that. 580 00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:34,560 Speaker 1: My sister especially wants to live in the past or 581 00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:38,239 Speaker 1: just talk about those good old times. But you know 582 00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:41,120 Speaker 1: what's more powerful and more energetic than even that will 583 00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:43,680 Speaker 1: gives you new life and new energy because of new 584 00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:49,480 Speaker 1: potentials and new opportunities. That imagination, thinking forward, thinking what's next, 585 00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:53,680 Speaker 1: thinking what you can become, Imagining a greater version of yourself. 586 00:32:54,080 --> 00:32:57,680 Speaker 1: That's what's about. It's about that, man. So look, it's 587 00:32:57,760 --> 00:33:01,840 Speaker 1: cool to have a brewer too, And man, four touchdowns, 588 00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:04,400 Speaker 1: poke id baby, you know what I mean. It's all 589 00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:06,680 Speaker 1: good to be our buddy, but it's better to be 590 00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:08,440 Speaker 1: the guy like you know what. Next week, I'm about 591 00:33:08,480 --> 00:33:11,440 Speaker 1: to give four more of those touchdowns. So make sure, guys, 592 00:33:11,440 --> 00:33:14,160 Speaker 1: you always imagine in a greater version of yourself, right, 593 00:33:14,480 --> 00:33:17,720 Speaker 1: even though the recall version of you probably is great 594 00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:20,960 Speaker 1: as well. All right, y'all, got'll do it. For more 595 00:33:21,080 --> 00:33:22,920 Speaker 1: to it, check the show notes for all the information 596 00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:25,920 Speaker 1: on our topics today today. Want to keep the conversation going, 597 00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:28,520 Speaker 1: let's talk. 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