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Speaker 4: I'm weezy and although it's not Hispanic heritage monk, we decided.
Speaker 1: Why not, why not? And we have a Latini. Is
Speaker 1: it's Lisa, right, Lisa? Oh, we're just to so no
Speaker 1: because her name is called l I S S A
Speaker 1: H T S. It's a stage name. Excuse me, it's
Speaker 1: a stage name because when I was growing up, so
Speaker 1: my dad used DJ for Lisa Lisa to call jam
Speaker 1: your face. It's a freestyle group. So I think if
Speaker 1: I take you home, would you still be oh yeah yeah,
Speaker 1: so it sounds like a hit. I used to just
Speaker 1: run around Lisa, Lisa Lisa, oh, like throughout the whole house,
Speaker 1: and my dad would just call me Lisa, and I
Speaker 1: took it on to the stage because I don't really
Speaker 1: like my real name.
Speaker 2: Why not it's Elizabeth and I call myself Mandy, So
Speaker 2: I get it. Elizabeth, Why do you act like you
Speaker 2: had to tell us it's Amanda? Because man, because I
Speaker 2: don't hear Lisa.
Speaker 1: No, man, don't do that. But that's also the mean
Speaker 1: I said. I was like, I'm gonna go by Lisa,
Speaker 1: but with two s's because I'm spicy, but also it's
Speaker 1: better for when people search you.
Speaker 4: It is because it's not two eyes, but no one's
Speaker 4: Was it right? What made you decide you wanted to
Speaker 4: do comedy? Were you bad at everything else?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Pretty much? Pretty much? No, like uh I went. I
Speaker 1: started off after college. I went into beauty industry and
Speaker 1: I started working for like Kaufman Studios. That's how your
Speaker 1: makeup looks, so thank you, thank you, Paul Mitchell. Actually no,
Speaker 1: fuck them, I don't care. They didn't hire me again.
Speaker 2: No.
Speaker 1: And then I went back to college because I was like,
Speaker 1: I want to do something in media. It was an
Speaker 1: open mic. I just kept doing that open mic over
Speaker 1: and over for like a year until the school was
Speaker 1: like can you did you just want to run a
Speaker 1: mic here? And I was like all right, So I
Speaker 1: ran the mic for like a year and a half,
Speaker 1: and then the pandemic hit and then I started doing
Speaker 1: comedy at the Creaking Cave. I don't know if you guys,
Speaker 1: were you guys here? M M. I'm not a real
Speaker 1: New YORKA I mean ten years though, Like I've been
Speaker 1: here ten years. So Creaking Cave was like this comedy
Speaker 1: club in Law Island City and you it's like undercover.
Speaker 1: Like the first level was a Mexican restaurant. You go downstairs,
Speaker 1: it's like a little arcade. And then in the back
Speaker 1: room was like, we're a comedy how many people fit?
Speaker 1: Like forty people, but it's like, oh shit, like in there.
Speaker 1: And then they had this other room that was like
Speaker 1: a glassroom. It was really freaky too. What kind of
Speaker 1: shit you seen in there? You seen jack all parties? No,
Speaker 1: I haven't, okay in a comedy club, I mean, I
Speaker 1: guess you guessed right now.
Speaker 4: The title of the episode, you know you you asked
Speaker 4: to come on Horrible because you just recently lost your Virginia.
Speaker 1: We're almost thirty, I'm thirty one, thirty one. Wait, so
Speaker 1: you just lost the opportunity less than yeah? Damn s wow?
Speaker 1: You like, wow? Was it worth it? Never worth it?
Speaker 1: The first time?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: I when I when I first lost it, I was like,
Speaker 1: this is what y'all was talking about. Well, it's never
Speaker 1: good the first time, but it gets better. I was like, ah, okay,
Speaker 1: I can see why people get addicted to it. I
Speaker 1: was like, ah, okay, the second time was good though, Yeah,
Speaker 1: because he actually made me come. You came, you came
Speaker 1: here second time?
Speaker 2: Yeah, bitch, I didn't come five years and my favorite
Speaker 2: fuck you talk about bitch.
Speaker 1: I was having a whole lot of fun because I
Speaker 1: got a partner that was like, he was very like understanding, okay,
Speaker 1: like he brought a rose. The rose. I'm sorry, but oh,
Speaker 1: you say he didn't even make you. I still think
Speaker 1: that's effort. I still think that's included with him.
Speaker 2: I do.
Speaker 1: Bro, I never can fine.
Speaker 4: I hadn't come with someone else in the room for
Speaker 4: years and years and years, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 4: at least someone who's like trying to make you come,
Speaker 4: Like it's hard to get to orgasm shout out to
Speaker 4: the road. You lost your virginity get twenty nine? Did
Speaker 4: you give it away to somebody where you were.
Speaker 1: Like, I just need to do it? Yeah, basically I got.
Speaker 1: I got so overwhelmed with the idea that you know what,
Speaker 1: what's gonna happen, what's gonna happen? What if? What if?
Speaker 1: And I and then I kept thinking of like you
Speaker 1: know how people are like, oh, you got to pick
Speaker 1: someone special. You got to pick someone special. In my mind,
Speaker 1: it wasn't like that at all.
Speaker 2: Why at twenty nine you waiting that long? Why did
Speaker 2: you still not want to pick someone special?
Speaker 1: If because you wait, your mind start to change, yes
Speaker 1: and no, Like my mind changed because I was like,
Speaker 1: I want somebody that's at least kind to me because
Speaker 1: throughout the years, I'm a bigger woman. Right, I've been
Speaker 1: big my whole life. I got Gastrick's leave at twenty
Speaker 1: five to lose weight. You got it, you had it
Speaker 1: as as well, but I got it for health reasons.
Speaker 1: A lot of people are like, oh, you got it
Speaker 1: to lose weight to lose your virginity. I was like,
Speaker 1: this has nothing to do with losing my virginity. Losing
Speaker 1: weight was.
Speaker 2: People assumed that you wanted to lose weight just so
Speaker 2: that someone would fuck Yeah, cra got white moone niggas.
Speaker 1: It's a big bitch, That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: It was like, yo, are you kidding me right now
Speaker 2: about how people steve so you got, You went through this,
Speaker 2: you lost the weight, and then it just became you
Speaker 2: wanting to give that to somebody who treated you nicely.
Speaker 1: Did you feel like you weren't treated nicely prior to
Speaker 1: the sleep? Prior to the sleep? Absolutely not. You know
Speaker 1: how society is, They're like, if you're not six '
Speaker 1: one and you your size two, blonde hair, blue eyes,
Speaker 1: you are nothing. Especially in the Latino culture. I don't
Speaker 1: think you understand. Being a bigger woman in Latino culture
Speaker 1: is so like it's like you have six about that,
Speaker 1: because yes, I would like about that.
Speaker 4: A lot of my homegirls because I'm We're from Florida, right,
Speaker 4: so most of my friends growing up with Dominican or
Speaker 4: Puerto Rican, and I always felt like it was all
Speaker 4: pretty thik mama's state red.
Speaker 1: I mean I read bees but beans.
Speaker 2: Right, Like, yeah, you know my friends growing up Latino wise,
Speaker 2: I'm a best friend that was Mexican, Colombian again Orlando.
Speaker 2: Everybody's ever thing but American. Yeah, and they were all
Speaker 2: also very thick. So it's like shake not fat, okay,
Speaker 2: fat more really obese okay. Think is like she got
Speaker 2: some titties, she got some ass, you got a little
Speaker 2: Coca cola shape.
Speaker 1: That's nice. But when you have like excessive weight on you,
Speaker 1: people are like all she does is eat all day.
Speaker 1: I would only eat once a day. Wow, because I
Speaker 1: felt the shame like from everybody. So it was it
Speaker 1: wasn't like like where I would just be bully left
Speaker 1: to right from a family. No, like I would say
Speaker 1: this to to this day, like my family is very
Speaker 1: supportive and whatever I do, they love me. But it
Speaker 1: was like you, like I would go to parties and
Speaker 1: somebody's aula would be like you should try slim tea,
Speaker 1: or you should try herbal life. I'm selling urber life.
Speaker 1: You should get on it. It would be like subtle
Speaker 1: hints like that. And then outside of that, then what
Speaker 1: was the reaction with man?
Speaker 2: And do you think like your weight growing up kept
Speaker 2: you from also just enjoying sex because you didn't get
Speaker 2: certain attention.
Speaker 1: I say this, I say this in my set a lot.
Speaker 1: It was like growing up, if I was in fat,
Speaker 1: I feel like I would have been want like a
Speaker 1: housewife with seven kids, because I have, I would have.
Speaker 2: Been a hole too, Like well, I technically I just
Speaker 2: started your whole face just starting because like when you
Speaker 2: were talking about and it was making me think about it,
Speaker 2: You're like, oh, you know stighteds and treat you right.
Speaker 2: I'm like, but you got face though, I know I
Speaker 2: got a pretty fucking face, man, and I feel like
Speaker 2: when genetics and if it fucked up, because I'm not
Speaker 2: gonna hold you.
Speaker 4: I've definitely got some people that I've seen in my
Speaker 4: life where I was like, oh, when you got a
Speaker 4: pretty face and you're bigger, you are treated differently because
Speaker 4: you know you bad. It's just like whatever, Like my
Speaker 4: weight really a shit because like, look when you got
Speaker 4: a face card, you got a face card. Do you
Speaker 4: think that your weight played a part in losing your
Speaker 4: virginity for you? Do you think you had an insecurity
Speaker 4: about Okay? So for me, it was always like I
Speaker 4: want to be able to like have my partner like
Speaker 4: like sex, like find me attractive. So for me many years,
Speaker 4: I thought skinny was pretty. Skinny is pretty, Skinny is pretty.
Speaker 4: It didn't take me until like I was twenty five
Speaker 4: that I was like, I'm fucking fire, bro, Like I
Speaker 4: got a pretty ass face, I'm funny as fuck. Anybody
Speaker 4: that's around me instantly is and falls in love with me. Like, okay,
Speaker 4: so well I don't have like top shelf body.
Speaker 1: I got titties. Got the titties, I gotta got a
Speaker 1: bootle hole. And then so you don't. You don't. You
Speaker 1: don't got a boodle.
Speaker 2: I do got a boot I didn't know we were
Speaker 2: day by day? Okay, can we just lost virginity? So
Speaker 2: the boodle hole still intact. You ain't lose your virginity
Speaker 2: there yet.
Speaker 1: And you know I can't.
Speaker 3: You can't.
Speaker 1: You can't get scared. You can't. I don't want to
Speaker 1: on it. I probably you can't. I want to. I
Speaker 1: want to.
Speaker 4: You'll get there, especially about Latino culture because a lot
Speaker 4: of our followers are black, not Latino black. And I
Speaker 4: know there's after Latino's dawn. Yeah, I've heard a lot
Speaker 4: about the I'm just seeing the culture of being over religious. Yeah,
Speaker 4: what factor did that play with your sex life?
Speaker 1: Nothing? Really, Like my family was Catholic. We believed in
Speaker 1: Jesus and all that cy playing with the little boys anyway, Sorry,
Speaker 1: my bad. That was a joke where you have a comedian. Oh,
Speaker 1: I saw that the day a freak out in the
Speaker 1: Christian churches are fucking the whole congregation. We get it. Sorry,
Speaker 1: carry on religion and for me didn't play a factor.
Speaker 1: I wasn't like I'm gonna wait till marriage. I didn't.
Speaker 1: I don't even want to get married. To this day,
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't care for marriage. I mean, like
Speaker 1: it was for me, religion was religion. I'm not a
Speaker 1: religious person. I'm not I believe in the faith. I
Speaker 1: don't really care for the church, if that makes sense.
Speaker 1: So it wasn't religious factor of holding out the virginity.
Speaker 1: It was more like self image and years of therapy
Speaker 1: that I had to go to to like rewire myself
Speaker 1: so to sell in order to be that confident in
Speaker 1: order to lose weight. What was your biggest lesson in
Speaker 1: therapy about sex and your self reception? Is that worrying
Speaker 1: about like men's view of you, Like that man got
Speaker 1: you in bed, he knows, he knows what you got.
Speaker 1: Because when I first started, like started having sexual experiences
Speaker 1: and that fucking, I would always keep like I still
Speaker 1: do it. I'm wearing a baggy shirt because I want
Speaker 1: to cover up my stomach. What's the difference in your mind?
Speaker 2: Though? You said sexual experiences without actually fucking, So what
Speaker 2: things were you like without oral and like finger banging?
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, how did you get to oral and not
Speaker 1: want to get fucked? How you stopped him? Girl? He
Speaker 1: already down in the place you see what it was
Speaker 1: going on. I mean it would be I have fire
Speaker 1: lips and they're natural. Give it to you. Huh.
Speaker 2: You were given the head I was given her, you
Speaker 2: weren't receiving it. I would both, but I would most
Speaker 2: I like giving head more too. Girls sit over there
Speaker 2: on the couch with girl. We got a lot of
Speaker 2: We got a lot of common girls.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but like I like giving head more than I
Speaker 1: do receiving you maybe because I haven't received it. I
Speaker 1: haven't received head from somebody that knows how to like
Speaker 1: give head them. And then I would just like they
Speaker 1: would not and I'd be like, hello, let me go home, bye,
Speaker 1: And I was just like that's how I get my kis.
Speaker 1: You know this right here too.
Speaker 4: It's crazy because we've heard time and time to get
Speaker 4: again that like dudes would only get ahead from big girls.
Speaker 4: And when I would hear ship like that, I'd be like,
Speaker 4: how do you not want to fuck? But now I'm
Speaker 4: starting to understand, and it's just like that was what
Speaker 4: you used to get off. You had your own ship
Speaker 4: in your head. About sex, one of my always told
Speaker 4: me that there's a girl He's like, yo, I don't
Speaker 4: know why she doesn't want to fuck me. He was like,
Speaker 4: she likes coming over to suck my dick, And now
Speaker 4: that I'm talking to you, I'm like, oh, she probably
Speaker 4: just has her own thing and a's you.
Speaker 2: Because bitch, I want to sucking no dick without getting no,
Speaker 2: no dick. I'll suck some dick without I was a
Speaker 2: sucking no dick without getting no on my period a
Speaker 2: few days ago. If I'm on my beerried because I
Speaker 2: ain't sucking no dick without getting no dick making make
Speaker 2: I know a lot of people feel like that, but
Speaker 2: maybe it's a oral fixation.
Speaker 1: On my end. I have it as well. Now I
Speaker 1: get so horny that I do want to have sex.
Speaker 4: But there has been moments of insecurity where I'm like,
Speaker 4: I'm not feeling whether I'm not I've been out all night,
Speaker 4: or just something that I'm feeling about my body that
Speaker 4: I just can't do.
Speaker 1: I won't. But when it came to.
Speaker 2: You finally losing it, tell us about that day. Did
Speaker 2: you know he was getting dicked that night? No, so
Speaker 2: the guy shout out to you, shout out to my virgin.
Speaker 2: I forgot the way before you even start the story,
Speaker 2: did this man know that he was gonna be your
Speaker 2: first time. You didn't You didn't even tell him after
Speaker 2: he's good. I don't know, don't know, Oh, bitch, tell
Speaker 2: the story.
Speaker 1: So I was on tender god to sorry, okay, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna let you finish. It was on tender and I
Speaker 1: had swipe right on this guy. He was so like
Speaker 1: you could tell fuck boy to the league. Yea, like
Speaker 1: he had like braids, neck tattoos. Oh, and we matched.
Speaker 1: I was surprised. I let it go. I'll go out
Speaker 1: with my girls. I didn't know we were so close
Speaker 1: that he was at that same bar. Damn, it's given grinder, right,
Speaker 1: that's proximity. Yeah, but not grinding. Okay. And then uh,
Speaker 1: he comes up to me and he's like, we matched,
Speaker 1: and I was like, yeah, we did. I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: lie shout out to you that you look like your
Speaker 1: pictures then I do. I don't. I don't catfish. I
Speaker 1: like that. I show my my full body, even in
Speaker 1: my stand up. I like show full body, like this
Speaker 1: is who I am. Like, if you don't fucking like me,
Speaker 1: oh well, swipe left like it's not a big deal
Speaker 1: to me, Okay, good the whole Like obviously, I have
Speaker 1: like two faces of like two pictures on my face,
Speaker 1: but the rest is everything is body good because I
Speaker 1: know what you about to get. So he comes up
Speaker 1: to me, he's like we matched some tender and I
Speaker 1: was like, oh okay, not thinking anything of it. We're
Speaker 1: drinksing shots and now we're exchanging instagrams and I live
Speaker 1: in Queens and there's a place called Saint James and
Speaker 1: it's like a taco place and I was like, I'm
Speaker 1: so I'm so hungry. I want to get tacos. It's
Speaker 1: like Saint James is where I live, like I live
Speaker 1: on like under Saint James. I was like that, let's
Speaker 1: get Say James. We go back to his crib. We're
Speaker 1: eating Saint James and in my head, I don't think
Speaker 1: anything of it. And then I look over he's like
Speaker 1: laying next to me, and then one thing led to another.
Speaker 1: Was like I'm just taking off my panties at that
Speaker 1: point because I was just like, oh well, and then
Speaker 1: he like fucked me. It was nice because he fed
Speaker 1: me and fucked me, so it was it was nice.
Speaker 1: How it starts good for you for your first time.
Speaker 2: I least two out of the three apps did he
Speaker 2: pay for your uber home we lived, so we lived
Speaker 2: three blocks away from Tayler did so hold on New
Speaker 2: York you could just.
Speaker 1: Walk home after.
Speaker 2: Have you ever dated some what's the longest relationship you've had?
Speaker 2: I never had an official relationship.
Speaker 4: Because I was curious if you've had one, and it
Speaker 4: was building pressure about losing your vision.
Speaker 1: So yeah, so in that aspect, yes, but I never
Speaker 1: had like official boyfriend, Like I never had somebody that
Speaker 1: I would bring home and be like, this is my boyfriend,
Speaker 1: mom and dad. Did you date people that got impatient
Speaker 1: with waiting sex?
Speaker 2: Is that? What?
Speaker 1: Like those scammer one time and like, please shad a story.
Speaker 1: God damn go okay, come on, scamp a story. I
Speaker 1: was in college, bro, that's all that I dated a
Speaker 1: scammer and he was like too aggressive about it, and
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't want to have sex right now.
Speaker 1: I just want to bag. I just yeah, I just
Speaker 1: want to bag. I just want I just want to
Speaker 1: free mail, like that's all. And it kept going to
Speaker 1: that point where I was like, I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: There was one day where I was like, all right,
Speaker 1: I think he's gonna rate me if I keep going
Speaker 1: on damn. So I have to remove myself from that
Speaker 1: situation because he was He would get very aggressive with me,
Speaker 1: very frustrated at the fact that I would never pursue
Speaker 1: him in that sexual manner. Have you sorry? I was like,
Speaker 1: did you have people that didn't believe that you were.
Speaker 2: Because I'm like, I know I feel like girls to
Speaker 2: play like, especially after a certain age, I do think
Speaker 2: that men just assume we've been outside in these streets.
Speaker 2: So did you have people that maybe didn't believe that
Speaker 2: you were really a virgin volunteer twenties?
Speaker 1: Well, I'll be honest, like, no grown man is gonna
Speaker 1: be like how many bodies you got? Because if they do,
Speaker 1: I'm like, you're childish, bro. Your answer is zero. So
Speaker 1: but you childish? But I would I would always lie.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 2: I was never you were lying about being a versono
Speaker 2: wonder and a half. You know, maybe then they multiplied
Speaker 2: that by three.
Speaker 1: Girl. Yeah, raizy head. I'm an affirmative Like, if I
Speaker 1: see like this guy is not for me, I block
Speaker 1: buck by, cut it off. This is gonna be somebody
Speaker 1: that's coming around the corner anyway, doesn't matter. Had you
Speaker 1: gotten close and it didn't happen. Yeah, why didn't happen?
Speaker 2: Uh?
Speaker 1: Story time share the Oh yeah, girl, we need we
Speaker 1: need detail. So this is a guy that ill So
Speaker 1: I went into comedy as a virgin. A lot of
Speaker 1: people in comedy do not know this, but now they
Speaker 1: know this guy was about to fuck was a comedian. Okay,
Speaker 1: he's like the most big the biggest piece of ship
Speaker 1: comic ever. Okay. They even have a post of him
Speaker 1: on like are we dating the same guy? You know
Speaker 1: that Facebook page? He's on there and like eighty women confessing.
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, well, gay, yes, you just brought up
Speaker 1: that Facebook page. A couple we want to talk about it,
Speaker 1: but we we need a black one. But that are
Speaker 1: we dating the same guy? Facebook?
Speaker 4: And apparently if you screenshot you get taken out if
Speaker 4: you share with the guy just shared about that.
Speaker 1: But dude, I'm telling you I didn't know about this
Speaker 1: page and about him because one of the girls came
Speaker 1: to me as a woman and was like, while I
Speaker 1: was dating him, always I would always see your Instagram
Speaker 1: pop up on his thing, and I want to let
Speaker 1: you know. This is what I wrote about him, and
Speaker 1: I read it the dates the time I was like, wait,
Speaker 1: I was with him too. I was with them too.
Speaker 1: And it's funny because my birthday's March twenty second. The
Speaker 1: night I was about to fuck him was March twenty first,
Speaker 1: so technically I would have fucked the day before my birthday.
Speaker 1: Oh and something about that triggered me to the point
Speaker 1: like mind you. I was like, I was on top
Speaker 1: of him, like we were making out full on. This
Speaker 1: man was about to unbutton my pants and put it in,
Speaker 1: And then I was just like I can't, So you
Speaker 1: weren't because I kept thinking about like all the grimy
Speaker 1: shit that he did to these women. Yeah, and I
Speaker 1: was like you hear, come my fucking more for you, subconscious,
Speaker 1: I think that having.
Speaker 4: Sex with someone you don't care about is better than
Speaker 4: having sex with someone that you think is a shitty person.
Speaker 4: Like oh, okay, I don't know where you were going
Speaker 4: with that, but yet I agree. I'd rather just lose
Speaker 4: my virginity to someone that I just had a fun
Speaker 4: night with. Thenotus man, that was terrible, Yeah, because I
Speaker 4: regret fucking niggas that really yang ship, Like I still
Speaker 4: think about it. And then what sucks about regrets is
Speaker 4: at one point you wanted to do it, you know
Speaker 4: what I mean? When when you're so when you're dating, now,
Speaker 4: do you find that like I don't know, maybe you're
Speaker 4: nervous about jumping into sex because you may not know
Speaker 4: certain things to do.
Speaker 1: You know, where are you learning about sex? Porn? How
Speaker 1: you know how to suck you? How I know how
Speaker 1: to suck dick?
Speaker 2: That?
Speaker 1: Yeah, that came natural, Like I obviously you're gonna like
Speaker 1: growing up, you would watch channels like I used to
Speaker 1: watch Bliss and there used to be an old lady
Speaker 1: on there like talk yes, ma'am and she was like,
Speaker 1: just practice on a banana and I'll be like okay.
Speaker 4: So like when it comes to whether it be throwing
Speaker 4: it back or like, I don't know if you want whatever,
Speaker 4: Like do you the writing part?
Speaker 1: I still have. I get scared. I don't do it. Also,
Speaker 1: like the first time I tried writing, my hip popped
Speaker 1: so loud. I was like, oh, excuse me, sir, I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: I got a stretch. It sounded like crunch crunch. Now.
Speaker 1: It sounded like you ain't going into third year.
Speaker 4: I was like, oh okay, no, bro, That's how it
Speaker 4: sounds every time. And I'm a decent rider. I give
Speaker 4: you good sixty seconds, which is very long.
Speaker 1: Apparently you're supposed to get like flat foot and just like, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what you did, that's what you do the frog.
Speaker 1: Yeah I'm not doing Wait, so I'm lazy? Are you
Speaker 1: fucking all the time?
Speaker 2: Now?
Speaker 1: Are you still got like five times and sex under
Speaker 1: your belt?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 1: I don't really at the moment. I have a really
Speaker 1: dry spell. I'm like seven months dry. But you just
Speaker 1: lost you for Jen. I know when you lose it,
Speaker 1: that's where he's spposed to be as supposed to be
Speaker 1: left right. Yeah, I don't know what's going on with me,
Speaker 1: mental illness probably, but I'm like really dry, and so
Speaker 1: I'm not you just don't care for illness. But not
Speaker 1: only that.
Speaker 4: Look what I just sorted on the way walking in
Speaker 4: Here's Where to God, there was a nigga screaming on
Speaker 4: the street.
Speaker 2: He wasn't even talking about sex, and this is what
Speaker 2: he ended up saying. If you're not having sex and
Speaker 2: life and you're a weirdo.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I've got between comedy and between my
Speaker 1: personal life. I haven't been dating men and I haven't
Speaker 1: been pursuing the last guy I pursued Old blocked me
Speaker 1: because I was telling him because he popped up on
Speaker 1: that page and I was like, Yo, we're not talking anymore. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but you really be fucking with white boys. No, I
Speaker 1: only I want to disclaim it right now. Okay, I
Speaker 1: don't have IBS. I don't need pink shit in me. Okay,
Speaker 1: I don't fuck white men, Heredo bowl syndromepto bismald. I
Speaker 1: don't need pepto BIZ, don't like pink. I don't fuck
Speaker 1: she's a comedian. I'm dead. It was a bomb. Do
Speaker 1: not show that to my manager at all. It was plumbing.
Speaker 4: So No, I find a lot of these questions like interesting,
Speaker 4: And I know they seem very basic to you, But
Speaker 4: I think as two girls that host a sex spot
Speaker 4: and that you know, if I saw you walking on
Speaker 4: the street, we met somewhere, I would be surprised because
Speaker 4: of how you look. I'd be like, damn, well, how
Speaker 4: are you not right?
Speaker 1: You're cute?
Speaker 4: And it's like we rarely consider that sex doesn't necessarily
Speaker 4: have to be that common. Like I was recently dating
Speaker 4: a guy who was celibate and had been fucking and
Speaker 4: fucking his whole life, and it was just so weird
Speaker 4: to me, and I kept using the word weird, And
Speaker 4: I think we do have to give credence to people
Speaker 4: that like take breaks with sex or do go through
Speaker 4: those spells and or choose not to have it.
Speaker 1: Did your family know? I mean did my family know? No,
Speaker 1: they were like, oh, she's a single woman in New York.
Speaker 1: I was like, do you guys think I'm like Carrie
Speaker 1: Bradshaw or something like that? Like, I'm not just fucking
Speaker 1: everybody out here either?
Speaker 2: Was she?
Speaker 1: She was just fucking big?
Speaker 2: No.
Speaker 1: I was Harry watching Yo, I was watching the Samantha.
Speaker 1: Samantha would fuck any panthers. Samantha would fuck anything. Well,
Speaker 1: guess who else would suck anything?
Speaker 4: In our Vanellaship segment this week, there is a woman
Speaker 4: in uh, Mississippi that fucked a dog. She was accused
Speaker 4: of having sex with a German shepherd in Snapchat videos
Speaker 4: and it's been appearing in clips. She's nineteen years old,
Speaker 4: extremely graphic videos where she shared series of a bunch
Speaker 4: of them on there prior to her arrest. Her name
Speaker 4: is Denise Frasier. She was arrested or finding the footage
Speaker 4: that she was sharing there as Sergeant said, in my
Speaker 4: seventeen years of law enforcement, I've never seen something so disturbing.
Speaker 4: But ahead of her arrest, she had a number of
Speaker 4: videos with the dog in sexually suggestive elements. She would
Speaker 4: twerk with the dog where she would like be in
Speaker 4: the bed with it with while she was wearing her underwear.
Speaker 4: And all this weird ship was black.
Speaker 2: He is not weird though, as an animal owner, I
Speaker 2: sleep with my cat naked and I may or may
Speaker 2: not twork and ask him to work with me.
Speaker 1: What other sexual things were done between this person and
Speaker 1: the dog? But you could tell that she bucked the dog.
Speaker 2: And this video of her fucking the dog, Yes, they
Speaker 2: and I guess snapchat fucking posted it out and on
Speaker 2: Fox News.
Speaker 1: Apparently she claimed she was forced to do it. How
Speaker 1: by who the dog? I don't know, but she's saying
Speaker 1: maybe by downy. Who the hell? I won't a woman
Speaker 1: a dog? Only fans people. That's what I really see me.
Speaker 2: Y'all know, I've been I've been rewatching you, so I
Speaker 2: don't know if there was one that they came in
Speaker 2: and told her who the fuck and it said a dog.
Speaker 4: I'm trying to find a fucking thing where she basically
Speaker 4: it was like a Fox News Oh yeah, says she
Speaker 4: was forced.
Speaker 1: He was like whool though not the dog who forced good.
Speaker 1: We want to know it was a German shepherd.
Speaker 4: We want to know these Oh apparently she was Like
Speaker 4: apparently she's claiming that she had a pimp that was
Speaker 4: forcing her to do it, and.
Speaker 1: So have you on a track, girl, I don't see
Speaker 1: them having you. But also a German pay you money.
Speaker 1: I don't see a.
Speaker 2: Pimp telling you don't do that though, what are your
Speaker 2: name names at that rate? But not only that, the
Speaker 2: German shepherd ain't paying a pimp just want his money.
Speaker 1: What are you talking about the pimp?
Speaker 2: Okay, so the videos on Snapchat, that's what she's claiming.
Speaker 2: I need all the people that was buying them videos
Speaker 2: to be put in jail too.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I agree.
Speaker 4: By the way, I just typed in to find the
Speaker 4: article dog sex and clicked news when I typed in
Speaker 4: dog sex.
Speaker 1: So much ship is coming up, other people animals do sex,
Speaker 1: dot wor like.
Speaker 4: It's a lot of sights, Like I'm actually shocked how
Speaker 4: many Like I thought it was fucking illegal.
Speaker 1: I think I thought was it is?
Speaker 2: Am I the same way again, Am I gonna suck
Speaker 2: up my algorithm. Oh yeah, you probably you got to
Speaker 2: take out your somebody.
Speaker 1: Namage.
Speaker 2: The way your Twitter and everything else keep getting deleted,
Speaker 2: they gonna come get your.
Speaker 1: Phone out of you. Oh damn, it's on the horrible decisions.
Speaker 1: Look are you about to take out? About to get
Speaker 1: going on? We going to jail not meet the whole
Speaker 1: podcast for our whore dirve.
Speaker 4: I would like to know you don't have to give
Speaker 4: a sex tip. If you want, you can give a
Speaker 4: dating tip, a bitch. I do think you should be
Speaker 4: giving us a sex tip about whenever you will starting
Speaker 4: and there'll be a blow job tip too, or a
Speaker 4: sex tip for men for you anything that you're being Lift.
Speaker 1: My soup up, my Cuchi's there. That's it for me.
Speaker 1: I like, I don't know. I'm very basic when it
Speaker 1: comes to oral like spin on it like you talk sometimes,
Speaker 1: what do you like? I know the last guy he
Speaker 1: was like very like how many the last like ada
Speaker 1: last got? How many has there been? It's down?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 1: We like good? Yeah slow, no, like not real quick
Speaker 1: out of the five. I feel like this summer though,
Speaker 1: oh girl, hot girls summer. It's Thursday and Friday's eighty
Speaker 1: four degrees. Hello, bro, I already I already thrusted off
Speaker 1: the sun dresses, like I'm ready for the sundresses. You said, Oh,
Speaker 1: I got my wedding baby. That's what. I can't call
Speaker 1: him chocolates. I love I love him. We didn't call
Speaker 1: him the patos on purpose, the patos. She didn't call
Speaker 1: him patos for no reason.
Speaker 2: Of the five, though, I would love to try to
Speaker 2: get some sticks going. Of the five, how many started
Speaker 2: with four play to make sure that you ready for that?
Speaker 1: That's a good one. Uh, the first one, obviously he
Speaker 1: gave me chacos. That's enough. Cour play.
Speaker 2: That's not you was not four plays heart into a latina.
Speaker 2: I mean away, I'm like, so let's go. No, that's
Speaker 2: another thing.
Speaker 1: The feeding would always I would be like, I don't
Speaker 1: want to fuck now, because all the men that I
Speaker 1: kept meeting prior would just be men that want to
Speaker 1: feed me. Because the fetish it was fetishized big people. Yes, wait,
Speaker 1: how did you know that they wanted to feed you
Speaker 1: and got off by show? Oh this is good. In college,
Speaker 1: I met this one guy and I was it was
Speaker 1: so weird because I was like, I did college. I
Speaker 1: thought I was going to lose it in college and
Speaker 1: I didn't. That was weird. That was But in college
Speaker 1: I met a guy who he like, came up to
Speaker 1: me at my biggest weight four hundred and seventy five pounds. Wow,
Speaker 1: and we're not tall. I'm not tall thinking wait for
Speaker 1: pointing that out, because well, because how like you're not
Speaker 1: fucking tall? I said, I was four hundred and seventy
Speaker 1: five pounds, you're not tall. We didn't all that has
Speaker 1: nothing to do with it.
Speaker 2: I'm not as someone who has gotten the sleep. Now
Speaker 2: I see your progress. You didn't say the start and
Speaker 2: weight bitch.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I lost one hundred and eighty five pounds. You
Speaker 1: lost half of yourself? Yeah, I don't. Yeah. But the
Speaker 1: thing is, I'm still sad. If you did not know
Speaker 1: about the sleep, you'd be like, look at this fat
Speaker 1: bitch exactly. People still talk like I see big girls
Speaker 1: and everybuddy like.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't tell people sad. And I was fucking
Speaker 2: when I was bigger than what I am now. So
Speaker 2: to me, the the conversations about bigger women not want
Speaker 2: men not wanting to fuck us. Now maybe in public
Speaker 2: claiming us those things, which is what I battled with
Speaker 2: but being fluted out fuck people giving never yeah, like
Speaker 2: I'm never. My mind doesn't go there because my biggest
Speaker 2: I was two thirty. Yeah, but I'm five to one
Speaker 2: and I'm stretching the one. I only call people fat
Speaker 2: when they me yeah, but so distressed favorite. So to me,
Speaker 2: it's like so to me, it's like I've never looked
Speaker 2: at a woman and been like, ain't nobody fucking her
Speaker 2: because she's big?
Speaker 3: For me?
Speaker 1: I never viewed it that way. Okay, I'll be honest,
Speaker 1: like for me, like fucking at that weight, I was like,
Speaker 1: why is anybody looking at me? Like I was very
Speaker 1: invisible because I invisible for a bigger woman. Okay, gotcha?
Speaker 1: Because I'm a fan, like I was fat. When you
Speaker 1: were meeting him, you found that they were fetishizing you then,
Speaker 1: so they get into the speeded finished. So I was
Speaker 1: first of all. He came up to me, so it
Speaker 1: was natural. It was very gross. I was like, you're
Speaker 1: not meeting me a on a app. That's gross, But girl, girl, that'stal.
Speaker 1: If you mess somebody that came up to you today,
Speaker 1: you'll be like, what the fuck is wrong about that?
Speaker 1: I don't do dedding apps. I want people to love
Speaker 1: seting people.
Speaker 4: I love girl, I walk up to niggas. But I
Speaker 4: do understand because I have shifted. It was feeling very
Speaker 4: special when men were coming up to me. I have
Speaker 4: now run into situations with dating apps online where I'm
Speaker 4: not finding men that are as good as they are
Speaker 4: in text or so.
Speaker 1: I see what you mean. I see what you mean.
Speaker 1: Now I'm just all in person. I'm all in person too.
Speaker 1: I'm not on any how. Many don't know how you
Speaker 1: wouldn't mean mad niggas? Okay, yeah, but you meet me?
Speaker 1: Hold on.
Speaker 2: He walks up to you in a weird way because
Speaker 2: while as people approaching people in person crazy crazy, who
Speaker 2: would have thought?
Speaker 1: He was like, I just want to that. You know,
Speaker 1: you're very beautiful. And I was like, oh thank you?
Speaker 2: Did you not?
Speaker 1: And I just grab my stuff and left and he
Speaker 1: ran after me. He's like, where are you going? I
Speaker 1: was like, I have to I have to go to class.
Speaker 1: Like I have to go, I'm going to class. He's like,
Speaker 1: can I get your number? And I was like, for
Speaker 1: what I didn't? I didn't I never put to into
Speaker 1: like my my social cues are so off when it
Speaker 1: comes to that. Okay, I'll be like for or what,
Speaker 1: like what do you what do you need? And he
Speaker 1: was like to talk, I think you're I want to
Speaker 1: take you out. So when we started talking, he was like, oh,
Speaker 1: so what do you like in like in the bedroom.
Speaker 1: And I was like, like, you know, just typical stuff.
Speaker 1: He's like, what if I like fed you, how would
Speaker 1: you feel about He brought that up and I was like,
Speaker 1: what would you what would you when would you feed me?
Speaker 1: Would you feed me dick? Or like what would you
Speaker 1: feed me? I don't know what? And then he was
Speaker 1: just like I would like bring food and like you
Speaker 1: would lay on my bed and I would feed you,
Speaker 1: feed you? And I was like, like a kid, like
Speaker 1: a baby, you would feed me? He was like yeah.
Speaker 1: I was like I want no party, like a baby.
Speaker 1: I want no part.
Speaker 2: So there might have been another fetish outside of the feeding,
Speaker 2: maybe on some daddy dom little girl.
Speaker 1: Type shit, probably, but I just realized I'm very much
Speaker 1: I'm considered a brat. Why are you a brat? Because
Speaker 1: I I realize that I like certain things, But then
Speaker 1: the brat kink is it called like I want I
Speaker 1: want you to take me out on a date. And
Speaker 1: if I don't get that date, I get mad, and
Speaker 1: then you take me on the date. I'm still mad.
Speaker 1: You're gonna fuck the ship out of me, Like, you're
Speaker 1: gonna fuck that attitude out of me. A kink with
Speaker 1: five already? That's crazy? How you know ya? How do
Speaker 1: you know the third?
Speaker 2: He was like, that's kinks even coming in within the
Speaker 2: first two years of you having sex at all.
Speaker 1: A lot of people don't even know what their kinks are.
Speaker 1: Have you attributed to something like have you ever noticed
Speaker 1: that I always go for the typical like BBW or
Speaker 1: like BBC like I do for BBW because I want
Speaker 1: to see myself get fucked. Yeah, so that's very like
Speaker 1: narcissistic of me, but it's not I can't because yeah,
Speaker 1: I need them to look like, let me watch myself.
Speaker 1: I'm dead.
Speaker 4: Wait, so you're you're saying you found that kink out.
Speaker 4: Do you have any others that you think you've wanted
Speaker 4: to explore with men? But you're like, Okay, let me
Speaker 4: slow down. I'm just getting used to do not really,
Speaker 4: what about women?
Speaker 1: I have had experience with women? Girl, you all car
Speaker 1: you would have been outside. Okay. I've been with two
Speaker 1: women and they're you know, very sweet women. I still
Speaker 1: talk to them for my like we didn't strap. I
Speaker 1: didn't think anything of it. But giving head to women
Speaker 1: is different than giving head to a man. So yeah,
Speaker 1: it's like, have you seen my nails and water is wet? Yeah,
Speaker 1: And so I can't. I know you can't.
Speaker 2: You see, I'm thoughtful, man. There's a reason these are
Speaker 2: not broken. You guys still up under the conference and
Speaker 2: be like, not this bitch coming on with broke nail
Speaker 2: and I never wear and the fact that you even
Speaker 2: have square nails. We've actually talked about acrylic nails or
Speaker 2: extension nails with women.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you get out with them. You can't get nowhere
Speaker 1: near me with them. Things. I don't give oral very
Speaker 1: well with women, how you know? Yeah, how do you know?
Speaker 1: The girl was like, girl, get off, let me show you.
Speaker 1: She said that. She said it. She was like, because
Speaker 1: we were experimenting, we're learning each other's body. It was
Speaker 1: in college now she said, we're experiment also trash, but
Speaker 1: also I'm also very trash. But I'll do it. I'll
Speaker 1: try it again. I will, but I can't cut my nails.
Speaker 4: What advice would you have for women that are maybe
Speaker 4: in their ol late twenties or even though they THIRTI said,
Speaker 4: I haven't lost their virginity.
Speaker 1: Maybe something that really helped you at your time. It's
Speaker 1: always your time. Don't let nobody pressure you to do it.
Speaker 1: And ideally for me, a wayn't somebody special, but I
Speaker 1: felt comfortable with that person. Your comfortability, your own timing,
Speaker 1: and just have somebody that is patient. If you are
Speaker 1: with somebody that's like willing to stay with you because
Speaker 1: you are a virgin, because I'm not gonna I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna hold you. When I started dating, I made the
Speaker 1: mistake and I will always slip. I'm like a virgin.
Speaker 1: I'm a virgin. They would either two things would happen.
Speaker 1: One they were over sexualized me, Oh I'm gonna be
Speaker 1: the first one to fuck you, or or second, I
Speaker 1: don't want you near me because you're gonna get attached.
Speaker 1: I what's the longest someone waited for you? Even though
Speaker 1: I didn't six months? That's long. Yeah, And honestly I commember.
Speaker 2: That wait six months. I think for someone that's a
Speaker 2: long time, but I you didn't wait six months? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: that's a long time. Like, especially if you want to
Speaker 2: be with someone intimately to hold out that long, Like
Speaker 2: it takes a lot of time to be around somebody,
Speaker 2: to talk to them, to get to really be interested
Speaker 2: in them in other ways, and for the sex or
Speaker 2: the romance not to take place almost immediately, especially once
Speaker 2: you've had it. That's a long time for anyone who
Speaker 2: is fluid and having sex or maybe has it so often,
Speaker 2: that's a long time I think to wait for someone.
Speaker 1: Also, like the first guy I wanted to have sex with,
Speaker 1: like the that's the one that I actually loves to do.
Speaker 1: He was like he was like so like he was
Speaker 1: fucking everything. So he was like very Tli Perry movie, Huh.
Speaker 1: You know the one where like she was married and
Speaker 1: the very first guy she cheated on her husband, wait,
Speaker 1: gave her aides.
Speaker 2: You don't remember that, Teller Perish. You know the taller
Speaker 2: Perry movie I'm talking about with Jesse Smolette's sister with
Speaker 2: Journey and she's like in love. She's a church going girl.
Speaker 2: She meets this millionaire and it's the first and only
Speaker 2: guy outside of her husband that she's ever had sex with.
Speaker 2: He he gives r aids out to Tyler Perry for
Speaker 2: that plot. Is that what.
Speaker 1: It's such a play or like the movie, it's just
Speaker 1: the player of the movie. It's a movie. Why did
Speaker 1: I get married? No, it might be one of them.
Speaker 1: Oh the way you think about Tasha Boom, that was
Speaker 1: a great that's what ya. I don't know if I
Speaker 1: told you all this, nigga.
Speaker 4: I was in fucking Rome, in Soho House in Rome
Speaker 4: and was looking at Tasha in the damn pool and
Speaker 4: I was like, damn, what do I say.
Speaker 1: She's a twin, right?
Speaker 4: I was her twin because we begin our nails the
Speaker 4: was it was her twin. And I was sitting there
Speaker 4: kind of like, oh, you know when black people start talking.
Speaker 4: I'm just waiting for her to tell me she's the actress.
Speaker 4: And it never came out. And I was like, let
Speaker 4: me google to make sure I got the right person.
Speaker 2: So the movie, by the way, is Temptation Confessions of
Speaker 2: American This is from twenty thirteen.
Speaker 1: I movie. I watched the plays, but I do fast
Speaker 1: forward over the music because I'm just like, all right,
Speaker 1: I can't do the place. And it was get a
Speaker 1: fast forward and.
Speaker 4: We're going fast forward into homemail and I actually think
Speaker 4: you might be able to help us, even though maybe
Speaker 4: you she just started.
Speaker 1: Now you're down down playing me. I don't know.
Speaker 4: Try Okay, no dry spelling more of the problem. Okay,
Speaker 4: Hey girls, I'm twenty one years old from a small
Speaker 4: country in the south, one of the places where everyone
Speaker 4: knows each other and you see the same car in
Speaker 4: the highway.
Speaker 1: To work every day.
Speaker 4: Unfortunately, my sect at my sex addict self chose the
Speaker 4: university here, and my social life has dwindled to non existent.
Speaker 4: Because of my sex life. I used to do mistress
Speaker 4: stuff like seeking dot com. I've been with married men.
Speaker 4: Oh man, I've always been on the goddamn no. I've
Speaker 4: always on tender and I have no problem showing my
Speaker 4: sexual side if people ask, but I try not to
Speaker 4: make it obvious.
Speaker 1: Because of the area I'm in. I have two rules.
Speaker 4: Never fuck someone on campus and never be a mistress
Speaker 4: to someone from my zip code. I just want to
Speaker 4: avoid drama, awkward interactions, and possible relationships, okay, relationship ending. However,
Speaker 4: once COVID restrictions happened, I saw all the cute football players,
Speaker 4: my guy friend's friends and some frack guys. What's a
Speaker 4: girl's supposed to do? Say no, hell no?
Speaker 1: And that backfired.
Speaker 4: I slept with some of my guy friend's friends and
Speaker 4: the football players. Slowly but surely, no one talks to
Speaker 4: me anymore. I should have seen this coming. I'm in
Speaker 4: school and kids will be kids and not understanding and
Speaker 4: don't understand how to be mature about things.
Speaker 1: Hold on, is she a teacher? So what we had sex?
Speaker 1: Move on?
Speaker 4: It doesn't matter what I did with another human being,
Speaker 4: but stories get told and people don't want to hang
Speaker 4: around a hoe. This is literally made me dread going
Speaker 4: to campus and being in certain areas of downtown because
Speaker 4: of this. I'm switching schools, switching switching schools.
Speaker 1: So she's a student.
Speaker 2: How do y'all handle people who call you a hoe?
Speaker 2: People whose opinions and thoughts matter to you? How do
Speaker 2: you react when you had sex with someone in public
Speaker 2: and they act like you don't exist? Would you even
Speaker 2: continue to be friends with them if you were telling
Speaker 2: a funny sex story and they made you feel embarrassed
Speaker 2: or a shame about.
Speaker 1: What you enjoy.
Speaker 2: Let's start with question one. What was the first question
Speaker 2: that she asked? Let's dissect the how do you feel like?
Speaker 1: How do you feel about being a hope? Was that
Speaker 1: the first question? Who cares I think that that's easier said,
Speaker 1: though way easier said than done. I'lso you from New York. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I do think there's a few things here.
Speaker 4: One you almost have to put the whole foot forward,
Speaker 4: like you almost got to let them niggas know you
Speaker 4: fuck their friends, like this is something you enjoy. You
Speaker 4: have to be very open about who you are in
Speaker 4: order for people to accept it. If you're kind of
Speaker 4: just dancing around it, people don't accept you because they
Speaker 4: think that you're not accepting you you actually agree.
Speaker 2: You've got to write they dicks in front of him,
Speaker 2: be like, actually his was bigger your the small. You
Speaker 2: came fast, and make like he make them feel like
Speaker 2: some little art chart, you know what I mean, credit chart,
Speaker 2: make them feel.
Speaker 1: There is you're you're shitting where you eat. So y'all
Speaker 1: don't do that. I told y'all no coworker that shi
Speaker 1: it is tough.
Speaker 2: Now.
Speaker 4: It says, how do you react when someone you've had
Speaker 4: sex with in public acts like you don't exist? Great
Speaker 4: question that happened to me this weekend at Everyday People,
Speaker 4: and I could not what you do?
Speaker 2: What you do?
Speaker 1: It was a dream build nigga. Oh, that's the one
Speaker 1: I saw girl on the flight. Girl that was crazy, y'all.
Speaker 1: He was crazy real quick.
Speaker 2: I thought he was one of I said this man
Speaker 2: in his description, so I sent it actually to my homegirl.
Speaker 2: I said, girl, is this your nigga? But then I
Speaker 2: was like, wait, actually, I think it might be your nigga.
Speaker 2: So I said to the both of y'all at the
Speaker 2: same time, I said, girlie your boyfriend. I'll said, bitch,
Speaker 2: is this is what I think it is? And you
Speaker 2: said this show the fuck is? I said, damn, she
Speaker 2: fucking too so you no, no, I'm dagging up similar
Speaker 2: but just so basically, I'm at everyday people and he
Speaker 2: walks in, looks me dead in the eye and turns
Speaker 2: his face and I was like, whoa mind you?
Speaker 1: The nigga I'm talking to was like when I told
Speaker 1: him the story. Later, I'm like, I can't believe this.
Speaker 1: Nigga tried me. It's like, why do you care?
Speaker 4: And I was like, bro, I find it so disrespectful
Speaker 4: when I've had sex with someone and we ain't got
Speaker 4: no beef and you act like that, like what kind
Speaker 4: of bitch are you?
Speaker 2: Like?
Speaker 1: I really don't like that.
Speaker 2: I was at my table with Alex, who he's cool
Speaker 2: with with some other friends, but he didn't say how
Speaker 2: to nobody at the table. He looked at me and
Speaker 2: looked away. So, my yo, his brother came to my
Speaker 2: birthday party. One of his other friends came and I
Speaker 2: was like, and you acting.
Speaker 1: Like this, bitch? I walked right up to and said,
Speaker 1: are you a really act like yo?
Speaker 2: Like to see me?
Speaker 1: Oh? Oh, I don't know. I was like, no, because
Speaker 1: you did. I what yo?
Speaker 4: I didn't even act like he was acting? Hella nervous,
Speaker 4: right girl. I walked back to my table. Alex was like, oh,
Speaker 4: there was a girl standing there waiting for him. He
Speaker 4: must have been with that girl or walking in to
Speaker 4: see that girl. Now, let me tell y'all fellas some
Speaker 4: ship right now now except for the felt because this
Speaker 4: made me even want to double down at how much
Speaker 4: respect I didn have for this nigga.
Speaker 1: If you act scary like that, first.
Speaker 2: Of all, how does that make both women feel? You
Speaker 2: should never be treating people you slept with?
Speaker 3: Like that?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 2: God, okay, well read me, Oh bitch, if I walk
Speaker 2: into a place and I don't fuck with you, I
Speaker 2: swear to God, well we don't not fuck with each other.
Speaker 2: But I'm saying I don't fuck niggas that even if
Speaker 2: we didn't fall out, I don't feel like just because
Speaker 2: we fun, I gotta acknowledge that you're in the room.
Speaker 1: Mind you.
Speaker 4: I can go back to All Star Weekend. You look
Speaker 4: at one in the eye and look, we ain't got
Speaker 4: to talk. Oh that's disrespect that you look me in
Speaker 4: the eye and fucking you know. I'm one.
Speaker 1: For one.
Speaker 4: I'm the type of person that is very respectful to
Speaker 4: people and the people around them. So if you're if
Speaker 4: I'm decent enough to where all your friends come to
Speaker 4: my ship or with the last time we seeing each other,
Speaker 4: you can say hello, do not treat me like that
Speaker 4: because on some real shit, I'll blast you in front
Speaker 4: of everybody, including this goddamn podcast. I don't rate that shit.
Speaker 4: And I also don't think he's that type of person.
Speaker 4: So you gotta have some cohonas at some point, because
Speaker 4: I don't fuck niggas that treat me like that. So
Speaker 4: if you weren't that nigga when you were fucking me,
Speaker 4: don't be that nigga today Because a girl you're talking
Speaker 4: to is around, it's hella disrespect.
Speaker 1: Then let me ask vote.
Speaker 2: But well, then let me ask you to be fair.
Speaker 2: If you're out at a party and you are out
Speaker 2: with a man that you were now dating, would you
Speaker 2: not find it disrespectful if he felt the need to
Speaker 2: go say hi or speak to a bitch he fucked
Speaker 2: and now like, would you feel away that outside of
Speaker 2: him being there for you, he had to go speak
Speaker 2: to another big relationship?
Speaker 4: So for me, I don't, like I said, I do
Speaker 4: really do not like niggas that are disrespectful. I don't
Speaker 4: want to fucking nigga that a girl could be like
Speaker 4: he did x y Z to me, just like that
Speaker 4: turns you off the major pussy dry, I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't like niggas like that. Is there a way
Speaker 1: for him to be respectful?
Speaker 2: Though?
Speaker 4: Now, don't get me wrong, he didn't have to go
Speaker 4: out his way, Mandy. I was right here the proximity
Speaker 4: from you, looked me in my eye, looked away, Okay.
Speaker 4: It wasn't like I saw him across the room and
Speaker 4: it was like, yeah, it was very easy to tap
Speaker 4: him and be like, how could you just do that? No,
Speaker 4: I really don't want to be with men that treat
Speaker 4: women poorly, that ignore them in public. I think it's
Speaker 4: super rude. I think it's also very embarrassing to a
Speaker 4: woman who's there with their friends. Bro, like all of
Speaker 4: my friends know you and are looking at you.
Speaker 1: Treat me like this. You know what I'm saying. I'm
Speaker 1: using myself as an example, Like I fucked the comic.
Speaker 1: The last guy I was with was a comic, and
Speaker 1: it's known that commics fuck comics. It's whatever. We were
Speaker 1: at a party that at the at the sand where
Speaker 1: Dave Chappelle was closing it out, and then he was
Speaker 1: there with another person and he walked by me. He said, hey,
Speaker 1: how are you and gave me a hug and kissed
Speaker 1: me on my cheek and then he was like, this
Speaker 1: is so and so, And I was like, oh, it's
Speaker 1: nice to meet you. That is how like he did it.
Speaker 1: But that's because we didn't really have a like a
Speaker 1: like a connection, Like we just fucked. That's it.
Speaker 4: Do you understand what I mean? Do you think connection
Speaker 4: is almost worse? Like you gotta almost like you gotta
Speaker 4: really ignore a bitch. If there was something there, I
Speaker 4: don't know.
Speaker 1: He didn't ignore me. I think, yeah, so he was
Speaker 1: kind about it. But if homeboy did that I would
Speaker 1: have been like, it's a rap worse, I'm starting to fight.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get banned from right here, right now. Oh yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: Look I don't. I don't hold my.
Speaker 2: Tongue because I'll be treated like to me if we're
Speaker 2: no longer talking or engaging and where cool we had sex,
Speaker 2: we stopped having sex. Cool we had sex and then
Speaker 2: also fucked with each other, but now we no longer.
Speaker 1: Talk at all.
Speaker 2: I don't I'm not gonna feel the need to speak
Speaker 2: to someone that I had an intimate relationship with, if
Speaker 2: in present day we no longer talk, if we don't
Speaker 2: have even a cordial relationship anymore. To me, if we're
Speaker 2: out in the same place we both moved on it
Speaker 2: didn't work between us, I'm not gonna speak to you,
Speaker 2: or I don't feel like I have to speak to you.
Speaker 1: So in hearing your your how you receive that, maybe
Speaker 1: now I can show up differently.
Speaker 2: But I have shown up to where just because we
Speaker 2: fuck don't mean I'm gonna talk to you in a
Speaker 2: place because we're there at the same time, like and
Speaker 2: that's been how I treated people. If it's disrespectful, and
Speaker 2: maybe they receive it that way. Maybe one day I'll
Speaker 2: care enough to ask them if they felt away. But
Speaker 2: I've actually been that person to not acknowledge people that
Speaker 2: I fucked.
Speaker 1: In a row. Yeah, I think ignoring is one thing.
Speaker 4: Like I don't Again, I wouldn't have expected him to
Speaker 4: walk across looking me in my eye and looking away.
Speaker 1: Was like, really, like does that creates such a bad energy?
Speaker 1: Also in the room now between you and that person? Bro,
Speaker 1: so like Ye're like, why are we both here? Now?
Speaker 1: I get now, I get that now, It's yeah, it's
Speaker 1: even if you do this like hi, anyway, I know
Speaker 1: I'm fucking all right. I saw the one.
Speaker 4: Would you continue to be friends with someone if you
Speaker 4: were telling a funny story and they made you feel
Speaker 4: ashamed or embarrassed about what you enjoy?
Speaker 1: Uh huhm, I'm sorry.
Speaker 2: Now all my friends be mad at how canky and
Speaker 2: nasty and freaky? Do they make me feel a shamed?
Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying. The shame part is the same, right, No, no, no, wait,
Speaker 4: she said what you're saying. You said, all your friends
Speaker 4: think it's crazy that I'm crazy?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Are they are they shaming? They're like ill, they're yucking,
Speaker 1: you're young? They literally say, bitch, I could never. I
Speaker 1: don't know how you do it?
Speaker 2: Yeah, like to me, I think I have a different
Speaker 2: relationship with sex and conversations. I know the things that
Speaker 2: I allow even with my partner, with the women that
Speaker 2: I sleep with, I sleep with my friends. How I
Speaker 2: move is not how a lot of my friends move,
Speaker 2: and we all make fun of how all of us move. Again,
Speaker 2: my friends still fucking with this nigga that she found
Speaker 2: out was married, and so I ain't gonna judge her.
Speaker 2: Good luck for her. I hope it works out, and
Speaker 2: I tell it to a faced girl, you stupid out
Speaker 2: A want to meet that nigga.
Speaker 1: We have a way to where we shame each other
Speaker 1: on how I I don't know.
Speaker 4: That's a tough one because but what if it's like
Speaker 4: a friend that you don't know that but they liked.
Speaker 4: If a friend genuinely made me feel ashamed, No, I wouldn't,
Speaker 4: But most of my friends.
Speaker 1: Be like, we don't like that bitch exactly like girl,
Speaker 1: I think I've only had that one incident where my
Speaker 1: friend is always like, you're constantly unblocking and blocking, unblocking, unblocking.
Speaker 1: I like a little razzle dazzling every now and then
Speaker 1: you one of those I know. I'm telling you. It's
Speaker 1: I just realized that do they do you let them
Speaker 1: know that they're unblocked? No, I just pop up on
Speaker 1: their story.
Speaker 4: When you're blocking on Instagram. Yeah, you gotta let them
Speaker 4: bubbles go green on it as yea, that should be.
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know, I don't do I don't
Speaker 1: do the I don't do the bubbles only because, like
Speaker 1: I get booked through Instagram, So I don't want people
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Speaker 3: Dating each other and hurting each other's feelings and being
Speaker 3: okay with hurting each other feelings.
Speaker 1: How do you I want to like, sorry to cut
Speaker 1: you off?
Speaker 2: No? No?
Speaker 1: How do you grow together? How do you not grow apart?
Speaker 1: Do you have to date each other?
Speaker 3: You have to be like not just go with your feelings,
Speaker 3: Like you don't always feel like doing something, but you
Speaker 3: show up, just like for your kid.
Speaker 1: And I know that.
Speaker 3: It's conditional with the husband, but I need to still
Speaker 3: feel pursued and he wants to feel respected and he
Speaker 3: wants to feel heard. And people are different, right, Some
Speaker 3: people maybe aren't as indigender roles as I am. I
Speaker 3: totally love being in my feminine energy and I like
Speaker 3: him and his masculine and yeah we have yin and
Speaker 3: yang and sometimes I'm in my masculine and he's more
Speaker 3: in his feminine but I think that that's like how
Speaker 3: you better one another.
Speaker 4: Tell me the dark side of I dated a guy
Speaker 4: when I was very young. I mean, he was very
Speaker 4: controlling and I called myself the housewie because I stayed
Speaker 4: at home and he you know, I paid for my
Speaker 4: school or whatever.
Speaker 2: But