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Speaker 1: Jan's welcome to another hal B and Benito.

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Speaker 2: Aha, everybody, No, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: They just be adding I and lie in l and a.

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Speaker 2: They y'all, you're you're a megas. Okay, you thought she

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Speaker 2: was the only comedian here.

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Speaker 1: No, bitch. We are comedy. Y'all. Welcome to another episode

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Speaker 1: of Four Decisions. Y'all. I'm your Girl by d V

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Speaker 1: A k A pay to Say a k A full

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Speaker 1: Court Pumps.

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Speaker 4: I'm weezy and although it's not Hispanic heritage monk, we decided.

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Speaker 1: Why not, why not? And we have a Latini. Is

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Speaker 1: it's Lisa, right, Lisa? Oh, we're just to so no

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Speaker 1: because her name is called l I S S A

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Speaker 1: H T S. It's a stage name. Excuse me, it's

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Speaker 1: a stage name because when I was growing up, so

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Speaker 1: my dad used DJ for Lisa Lisa to call jam

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Speaker 1: your face. It's a freestyle group. So I think if

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Speaker 1: I take you home, would you still be oh yeah yeah,

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Speaker 1: so it sounds like a hit. I used to just

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Speaker 2: Why not it's Elizabeth and I call myself Mandy, So

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Speaker 2: I get it. Elizabeth, Why do you act like you

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Speaker 2: had to tell us it's Amanda? Because man, because I

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Speaker 2: don't hear Lisa.

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Speaker 1: No, man, don't do that. But that's also the mean

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Speaker 1: I said. I was like, I'm gonna go by Lisa,

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Speaker 1: but with two s's because I'm spicy, but also it's

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Speaker 1: better for when people search you.

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Speaker 4: It is because it's not two eyes, but no one's

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Speaker 4: Was it right? What made you decide you wanted to

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Speaker 4: do comedy? Were you bad at everything else?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Pretty much? Pretty much? No, like uh I went. I

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Speaker 1: started off after college. I went into beauty industry and

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Speaker 1: I started working for like Kaufman Studios. That's how your

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Speaker 1: makeup looks, so thank you, thank you, Paul Mitchell. Actually no,

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Speaker 1: fuck them, I don't care. They didn't hire me again.

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 1: And then I went back to college because I was like,

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Speaker 1: I want to do something in media. It was an

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Speaker 1: open mic. I just kept doing that open mic over

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Speaker 1: comedy at the Creaking Cave. I don't know if you guys,

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Speaker 1: club in Law Island City and you it's like undercover.

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Speaker 1: Like the first level was a Mexican restaurant. You go downstairs,

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Speaker 4: The title of the episode, you know you you asked

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Speaker 4: to come on Horrible because you just recently lost your Virginia.

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Speaker 1: We're almost thirty, I'm thirty one, thirty one. Wait, so

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Speaker 1: you just lost the opportunity less than yeah? Damn s wow?

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Speaker 1: You like, wow? Was it worth it? Never worth it?

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Speaker 1: The first time?

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Speaker 1: I when I when I first lost it, I was like,

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Speaker 1: because he actually made me come. You came, you came

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Speaker 2: Yeah, bitch, I didn't come five years and my favorite

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Speaker 2: fuck you talk about bitch.

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Speaker 1: I was having a whole lot of fun because I

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Speaker 1: got a partner that was like, he was very like understanding, okay,

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Speaker 1: like he brought a rose. The rose. I'm sorry, but oh,

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Speaker 1: you say he didn't even make you. I still think

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Speaker 2: I do.

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Speaker 1: Bro, I never can fine.

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Speaker 4: I hadn't come with someone else in the room for

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Speaker 4: years and years and years, you know what I'm saying,

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Speaker 4: at least someone who's like trying to make you come,

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Speaker 4: Like it's hard to get to orgasm shout out to

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Speaker 4: the road. You lost your virginity get twenty nine? Did

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Speaker 4: you give it away to somebody where you were.

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Speaker 1: Like, I just need to do it? Yeah, basically I got.

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Speaker 1: I got so overwhelmed with the idea that you know what,

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Speaker 1: what's gonna happen, what's gonna happen? What if? What if?

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Speaker 1: And I and then I kept thinking of like you

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Speaker 1: know how people are like, oh, you got to pick

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Speaker 2: Why at twenty nine you waiting that long? Why did

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Speaker 1: If because you wait, your mind start to change, yes

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Speaker 1: and no, Like my mind changed because I was like,

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Speaker 1: I want somebody that's at least kind to me because

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Speaker 1: throughout the years, I'm a bigger woman. Right, I've been

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Speaker 1: big my whole life. I got Gastrick's leave at twenty

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Speaker 1: five to lose weight. You got it, you had it

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Speaker 1: A lot of people are like, oh, you got it

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Speaker 1: to lose weight to lose your virginity. I was like,

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Speaker 2: People assumed that you wanted to lose weight just so

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Speaker 2: that someone would fuck Yeah, cra got white moone niggas.

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Speaker 1: It's a big bitch, That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: It was like, yo, are you kidding me right now

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Speaker 2: about how people steve so you got, You went through this,

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Speaker 2: you lost the weight, and then it just became you

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Speaker 2: wanting to give that to somebody who treated you nicely.

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Speaker 1: Did you feel like you weren't treated nicely prior to

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Speaker 1: the sleep? Prior to the sleep? Absolutely not. You know

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Speaker 1: how society is, They're like, if you're not six '

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Speaker 1: is so like it's like you have six about that,

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Speaker 4: A lot of my homegirls because I'm We're from Florida, right,

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Speaker 1: I mean I read bees but beans.

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Speaker 2: Right, Like, yeah, you know my friends growing up Latino wise,

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Speaker 2: I'm a best friend that was Mexican, Colombian again Orlando.

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Speaker 2: Everybody's ever thing but American. Yeah, and they were all

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Speaker 2: Coca cola shape.

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Speaker 1: That's nice. But when you have like excessive weight on you,

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Speaker 1: I would only eat once a day. Wow, because I

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Speaker 1: wasn't like like where I would just be bully left

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Speaker 1: to right from a family. No, like I would say

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Speaker 1: or you should try herbal life. I'm selling urber life.

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Speaker 1: You should get on it. It would be like subtle

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Speaker 2: And do you think like your weight growing up kept

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Speaker 1: I say this, I say this in my set a lot.

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Speaker 1: It was like growing up, if I was in fat,

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Speaker 1: I feel like I would have been want like a

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Speaker 2: Been a hole too, Like well, I technically I just

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Speaker 2: started your whole face just starting because like when you

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Speaker 2: You're like, oh, you know stighteds and treat you right.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, but you got face though, I know I

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Speaker 2: got a pretty fucking face, man, and I feel like

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Speaker 4: I've definitely got some people that I've seen in my

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Speaker 4: life where I was like, oh, when you got a

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Speaker 4: weight really a shit because like, look when you got

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Speaker 4: a face card, you got a face card. Do you

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Speaker 4: think that your weight played a part in losing your

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Speaker 4: virginity for you? Do you think you had an insecurity

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Speaker 4: about Okay? So for me, it was always like I

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Speaker 4: I thought skinny was pretty. Skinny is pretty, Skinny is pretty.

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Speaker 4: It didn't take me until like I was twenty five

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Speaker 4: that I was like, I'm fucking fire, bro, Like I

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Speaker 4: got a pretty ass face, I'm funny as fuck. Anybody

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Speaker 4: so well I don't have like top shelf body.

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Speaker 1: I got titties. Got the titties, I gotta got a

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Speaker 1: bootle hole. And then so you don't. You don't. You

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Speaker 1: don't got a boodle.

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Speaker 2: I do got a boot I didn't know we were

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Speaker 2: day by day? Okay, can we just lost virginity? So

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Speaker 2: the boodle hole still intact. You ain't lose your virginity

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Speaker 2: there yet.

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Speaker 1: And you know I can't.

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Speaker 3: You can't.

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Speaker 1: You can't get scared. You can't. I don't want to

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Speaker 1: on it. I probably you can't. I want to. I

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Speaker 4: You'll get there, especially about Latino culture because a lot

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Speaker 4: of our followers are black, not Latino black. And I

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Speaker 2: Because bitch, I want to sucking no dick without getting no,

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Speaker 1: So I was on tender god to sorry, okay, I'm

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Speaker 1: that he was at that same bar. Damn, it's given grinder, right,

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Speaker 2: pay for your uber home we lived, so we lived

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Speaker 2: Have you ever dated some what's the longest relationship you've had?

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Speaker 1: did you have people that didn't believe that you were.

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Speaker 1: Story time share the Oh yeah, girl, we need we

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Speaker 4: Sex with someone you don't care about is better than

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Speaker 4: certain things to do.

433
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Speaker 1: You know, where are you learning about sex? Porn? How

434
00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:27,520
Speaker 1: you know how to suck you? How I know how

435
00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:28,080
Speaker 1: to suck dick?

436
00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:28,879
Speaker 2: That?

437
00:22:30,440 --> 00:22:34,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, that came natural, Like I obviously you're gonna like

438
00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:36,960
Speaker 1: growing up, you would watch channels like I used to

439
00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:38,560
Speaker 1: watch Bliss and there used to be an old lady

440
00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:43,280
Speaker 1: on there like talk yes, ma'am and she was like,

441
00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:47,480
Speaker 1: just practice on a banana and I'll be like okay.

442
00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:57,200
Speaker 4: So like when it comes to whether it be throwing

443
00:22:57,240 --> 00:22:59,680
Speaker 4: it back or like, I don't know if you want whatever,

444
00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:01,800
Speaker 4: Like do you the writing part?

445
00:23:01,840 --> 00:23:05,040
Speaker 1: I still have. I get scared. I don't do it. Also,

446
00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:08,639
Speaker 1: like the first time I tried writing, my hip popped

447
00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:12,560
Speaker 1: so loud. I was like, oh, excuse me, sir, I'm sorry.

448
00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:15,840
Speaker 1: I got a stretch. It sounded like crunch crunch. Now.

449
00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:17,840
Speaker 1: It sounded like you ain't going into third year.

450
00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:20,800
Speaker 4: I was like, oh okay, no, bro, That's how it

451
00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:23,440
Speaker 4: sounds every time. And I'm a decent rider. I give

452
00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:25,920
Speaker 4: you good sixty seconds, which is very long.

453
00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:29,720
Speaker 1: Apparently you're supposed to get like flat foot and just like, yeah,

454
00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:32,520
Speaker 1: that's what you did, that's what you do the frog.

455
00:23:33,119 --> 00:23:36,560
Speaker 1: Yeah I'm not doing Wait, so I'm lazy? Are you

456
00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:37,520
Speaker 1: fucking all the time?

457
00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:37,719
Speaker 2: Now?

458
00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:39,680
Speaker 1: Are you still got like five times and sex under

459
00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:40,040
Speaker 1: your belt?

460
00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:40,280
Speaker 2: No?

461
00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:42,840
Speaker 1: I don't really at the moment. I have a really

462
00:23:42,920 --> 00:23:46,000
Speaker 1: dry spell. I'm like seven months dry. But you just

463
00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:48,240
Speaker 1: lost you for Jen. I know when you lose it,

464
00:23:48,280 --> 00:23:49,879
Speaker 1: that's where he's spposed to be as supposed to be

465
00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:52,200
Speaker 1: left right. Yeah, I don't know what's going on with me,

466
00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:57,159
Speaker 1: mental illness probably, but I'm like really dry, and so

467
00:23:57,359 --> 00:23:59,760
Speaker 1: I'm not you just don't care for illness. But not

468
00:23:59,840 --> 00:24:00,159
Speaker 1: only that.

469
00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:02,399
Speaker 4: Look what I just sorted on the way walking in

470
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Speaker 4: Here's Where to God, there was a nigga screaming on

471
00:24:05,359 --> 00:24:05,720
Speaker 4: the street.

472
00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:08,080
Speaker 2: He wasn't even talking about sex, and this is what

473
00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:17,440
Speaker 2: he ended up saying. If you're not having sex and

474
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Speaker 2: life and you're a weirdo.

475
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Speaker 1: I don't know. I've got between comedy and between my

476
00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:33,520
Speaker 1: personal life. I haven't been dating men and I haven't

477
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Speaker 1: been pursuing the last guy I pursued Old blocked me

478
00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:39,440
Speaker 1: because I was telling him because he popped up on

479
00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:42,400
Speaker 1: that page and I was like, Yo, we're not talking anymore. Yeah,

480
00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:45,800
Speaker 1: but you really be fucking with white boys. No, I

481
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Speaker 1: only I want to disclaim it right now. Okay, I

482
00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:52,920
Speaker 1: don't have IBS. I don't need pink shit in me. Okay,

483
00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:57,960
Speaker 1: I don't fuck white men, Heredo bowl syndromepto bismald. I

484
00:24:58,000 --> 00:25:02,600
Speaker 1: don't need pepto BIZ, don't like pink. I don't fuck

485
00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:09,960
Speaker 1: she's a comedian. I'm dead. It was a bomb. Do

486
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:14,040
Speaker 1: not show that to my manager at all. It was plumbing.

487
00:25:14,359 --> 00:25:18,200
Speaker 4: So No, I find a lot of these questions like interesting,

488
00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:19,960
Speaker 4: And I know they seem very basic to you, But

489
00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:23,240
Speaker 4: I think as two girls that host a sex spot

490
00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:25,280
Speaker 4: and that you know, if I saw you walking on

491
00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:27,840
Speaker 4: the street, we met somewhere, I would be surprised because

492
00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:29,399
Speaker 4: of how you look. I'd be like, damn, well, how

493
00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:30,239
Speaker 4: are you not right?

494
00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:30,879
Speaker 1: You're cute?

495
00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:36,480
Speaker 4: And it's like we rarely consider that sex doesn't necessarily

496
00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:38,920
Speaker 4: have to be that common. Like I was recently dating

497
00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:42,159
Speaker 4: a guy who was celibate and had been fucking and

498
00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:44,280
Speaker 4: fucking his whole life, and it was just so weird

499
00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:46,399
Speaker 4: to me, and I kept using the word weird, And

500
00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:48,920
Speaker 4: I think we do have to give credence to people

501
00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:52,479
Speaker 4: that like take breaks with sex or do go through

502
00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:54,800
Speaker 4: those spells and or choose not to have it.

503
00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:58,639
Speaker 1: Did your family know? I mean did my family know? No,

504
00:25:58,880 --> 00:26:01,640
Speaker 1: they were like, oh, she's a single woman in New York.

505
00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:03,600
Speaker 1: I was like, do you guys think I'm like Carrie

506
00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:05,919
Speaker 1: Bradshaw or something like that? Like, I'm not just fucking

507
00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:07,640
Speaker 1: everybody out here either?

508
00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:07,879
Speaker 2: Was she?

509
00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:08,960
Speaker 1: She was just fucking big?

510
00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:09,600
Speaker 2: No.

511
00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:12,840
Speaker 1: I was Harry watching Yo, I was watching the Samantha.

512
00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:18,160
Speaker 1: Samantha would fuck any panthers. Samantha would fuck anything. Well,

513
00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:19,480
Speaker 1: guess who else would suck anything?

514
00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:22,680
Speaker 4: In our Vanellaship segment this week, there is a woman

515
00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:27,760
Speaker 4: in uh, Mississippi that fucked a dog. She was accused

516
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Speaker 4: of having sex with a German shepherd in Snapchat videos

517
00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:33,960
Speaker 4: and it's been appearing in clips. She's nineteen years old,

518
00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:39,360
Speaker 4: extremely graphic videos where she shared series of a bunch

519
00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:41,639
Speaker 4: of them on there prior to her arrest. Her name

520
00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:45,720
Speaker 4: is Denise Frasier. She was arrested or finding the footage

521
00:26:46,040 --> 00:26:48,680
Speaker 4: that she was sharing there as Sergeant said, in my

522
00:26:48,800 --> 00:26:52,119
Speaker 4: seventeen years of law enforcement, I've never seen something so disturbing.

523
00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:54,280
Speaker 4: But ahead of her arrest, she had a number of

524
00:26:54,400 --> 00:26:58,840
Speaker 4: videos with the dog in sexually suggestive elements. She would

525
00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:01,680
Speaker 4: twerk with the dog where she would like be in

526
00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:04,160
Speaker 4: the bed with it with while she was wearing her underwear.

527
00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:05,760
Speaker 4: And all this weird ship was black.

528
00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:08,359
Speaker 2: He is not weird though, as an animal owner, I

529
00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:11,600
Speaker 2: sleep with my cat naked and I may or may

530
00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:13,879
Speaker 2: not twork and ask him to work with me.

531
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Speaker 1: What other sexual things were done between this person and

532
00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:18,800
Speaker 1: the dog? But you could tell that she bucked the dog.

533
00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:22,119
Speaker 2: And this video of her fucking the dog, Yes, they

534
00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:26,119
Speaker 2: and I guess snapchat fucking posted it out and on

535
00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:26,680
Speaker 2: Fox News.

536
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:29,280
Speaker 1: Apparently she claimed she was forced to do it. How

537
00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:32,120
Speaker 1: by who the dog? I don't know, but she's saying

538
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:36,360
Speaker 1: maybe by downy. Who the hell? I won't a woman

539
00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:39,200
Speaker 1: a dog? Only fans people. That's what I really see me.

540
00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:41,800
Speaker 2: Y'all know, I've been I've been rewatching you, so I

541
00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:44,080
Speaker 2: don't know if there was one that they came in

542
00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:47,280
Speaker 2: and told her who the fuck and it said a dog.

543
00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:53,840
Speaker 4: I'm trying to find a fucking thing where she basically

544
00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:56,840
Speaker 4: it was like a Fox News Oh yeah, says she

545
00:27:57,000 --> 00:27:57,479
Speaker 4: was forced.

546
00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 1: He was like whool though not the dog who forced good.

547
00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:04,280
Speaker 1: We want to know it was a German shepherd.

548
00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:07,280
Speaker 4: We want to know these Oh apparently she was Like

549
00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:10,200
Speaker 4: apparently she's claiming that she had a pimp that was

550
00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:11,240
Speaker 4: forcing her to do it, and.

551
00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:16,760
Speaker 1: So have you on a track, girl, I don't see

552
00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:19,760
Speaker 1: them having you. But also a German pay you money.

553
00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:20,320
Speaker 1: I don't see a.

554
00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:22,840
Speaker 2: Pimp telling you don't do that though, what are your

555
00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:25,200
Speaker 2: name names at that rate? But not only that, the

556
00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:27,680
Speaker 2: German shepherd ain't paying a pimp just want his money.

557
00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:30,440
Speaker 1: What are you talking about the pimp?

558
00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:33,879
Speaker 2: Okay, so the videos on Snapchat, that's what she's claiming.

559
00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:37,080
Speaker 2: I need all the people that was buying them videos

560
00:28:37,359 --> 00:28:38,400
Speaker 2: to be put in jail too.

561
00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:39,280
Speaker 1: Yeah. I agree.

562
00:28:41,560 --> 00:28:44,120
Speaker 4: By the way, I just typed in to find the

563
00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:48,760
Speaker 4: article dog sex and clicked news when I typed in

564
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:49,520
Speaker 4: dog sex.

565
00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:54,280
Speaker 1: So much ship is coming up, other people animals do sex,

566
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Speaker 1: dot wor like.

567
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:57,479
Speaker 4: It's a lot of sights, Like I'm actually shocked how

568
00:28:57,560 --> 00:28:59,880
Speaker 4: many Like I thought it was fucking illegal.

569
00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:03,200
Speaker 1: I think I thought was it is?

570
00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:06,000
Speaker 2: Am I the same way again, Am I gonna suck

571
00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:08,520
Speaker 2: up my algorithm. Oh yeah, you probably you got to

572
00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:10,280
Speaker 2: take out your somebody.

573
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:14,920
Speaker 1: Namage.

574
00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:17,240
Speaker 2: The way your Twitter and everything else keep getting deleted,

575
00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:18,200
Speaker 2: they gonna come get your.

576
00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:20,240
Speaker 1: Phone out of you. Oh damn, it's on the horrible decisions.

577
00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:23,520
Speaker 1: Look are you about to take out? About to get

578
00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:27,880
Speaker 1: going on? We going to jail not meet the whole

579
00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:30,320
Speaker 1: podcast for our whore dirve.

580
00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:32,400
Speaker 4: I would like to know you don't have to give

581
00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:33,680
Speaker 4: a sex tip. If you want, you can give a

582
00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:35,440
Speaker 4: dating tip, a bitch. I do think you should be

583
00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:38,959
Speaker 4: giving us a sex tip about whenever you will starting

584
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:41,560
Speaker 4: and there'll be a blow job tip too, or a

585
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:44,760
Speaker 4: sex tip for men for you anything that you're being Lift.

586
00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:49,760
Speaker 1: My soup up, my Cuchi's there. That's it for me.

587
00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:52,240
Speaker 1: I like, I don't know. I'm very basic when it

588
00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:57,200
Speaker 1: comes to oral like spin on it like you talk sometimes,

589
00:29:57,840 --> 00:30:00,480
Speaker 1: what do you like? I know the last guy he

590
00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:05,560
Speaker 1: was like very like how many the last like ada

591
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:08,120
Speaker 1: last got? How many has there been? It's down?

592
00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:08,600
Speaker 2: Oh?

593
00:30:09,080 --> 00:30:15,000
Speaker 1: We like good? Yeah slow, no, like not real quick

594
00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:17,640
Speaker 1: out of the five. I feel like this summer though,

595
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:20,880
Speaker 1: oh girl, hot girls summer. It's Thursday and Friday's eighty

596
00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:24,080
Speaker 1: four degrees. Hello, bro, I already I already thrusted off

597
00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:26,960
Speaker 1: the sun dresses, like I'm ready for the sundresses. You said, Oh,

598
00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:31,239
Speaker 1: I got my wedding baby. That's what. I can't call

599
00:30:31,320 --> 00:30:34,400
Speaker 1: him chocolates. I love I love him. We didn't call

600
00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:38,160
Speaker 1: him the patos on purpose, the patos. She didn't call

601
00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:39,720
Speaker 1: him patos for no reason.

602
00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:42,000
Speaker 2: Of the five, though, I would love to try to

603
00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:48,120
Speaker 2: get some sticks going. Of the five, how many started

604
00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:51,440
Speaker 2: with four play to make sure that you ready for that?

605
00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:54,440
Speaker 1: That's a good one. Uh, the first one, obviously he

606
00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:56,680
Speaker 1: gave me chacos. That's enough. Cour play.

607
00:30:56,920 --> 00:31:01,000
Speaker 2: That's not you was not four plays heart into a latina.

608
00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:08,000
Speaker 2: I mean away, I'm like, so let's go. No, that's

609
00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:08,600
Speaker 2: another thing.

610
00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:11,440
Speaker 1: The feeding would always I would be like, I don't

611
00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:13,240
Speaker 1: want to fuck now, because all the men that I

612
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:15,760
Speaker 1: kept meeting prior would just be men that want to

613
00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:22,080
Speaker 1: feed me. Because the fetish it was fetishized big people. Yes, wait,

614
00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:24,000
Speaker 1: how did you know that they wanted to feed you

615
00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:27,720
Speaker 1: and got off by show? Oh this is good. In college,

616
00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:30,120
Speaker 1: I met this one guy and I was it was

617
00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:33,320
Speaker 1: so weird because I was like, I did college. I

618
00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:34,840
Speaker 1: thought I was going to lose it in college and

619
00:31:34,920 --> 00:31:38,080
Speaker 1: I didn't. That was weird. That was But in college

620
00:31:38,120 --> 00:31:41,280
Speaker 1: I met a guy who he like, came up to

621
00:31:41,360 --> 00:31:45,080
Speaker 1: me at my biggest weight four hundred and seventy five pounds. Wow,

622
00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:48,920
Speaker 1: and we're not tall. I'm not tall thinking wait for

623
00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:56,560
Speaker 1: pointing that out, because well, because how like you're not

624
00:31:56,840 --> 00:31:59,360
Speaker 1: fucking tall? I said, I was four hundred and seventy

625
00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:03,360
Speaker 1: five pounds, you're not tall. We didn't all that has

626
00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:04,280
Speaker 1: nothing to do with it.

627
00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:07,560
Speaker 2: I'm not as someone who has gotten the sleep. Now

628
00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:09,720
Speaker 2: I see your progress. You didn't say the start and

629
00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:10,320
Speaker 2: weight bitch.

630
00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:13,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I lost one hundred and eighty five pounds. You

631
00:32:13,440 --> 00:32:15,880
Speaker 1: lost half of yourself? Yeah, I don't. Yeah. But the

632
00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:21,920
Speaker 1: thing is, I'm still sad. If you did not know

633
00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:23,760
Speaker 1: about the sleep, you'd be like, look at this fat

634
00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:30,520
Speaker 1: bitch exactly. People still talk like I see big girls

635
00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:31,520
Speaker 1: and everybuddy like.

636
00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:35,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't tell people sad. And I was fucking

637
00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:37,560
Speaker 2: when I was bigger than what I am now. So

638
00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:44,120
Speaker 2: to me, the the conversations about bigger women not want

639
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:47,320
Speaker 2: men not wanting to fuck us. Now maybe in public

640
00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:50,720
Speaker 2: claiming us those things, which is what I battled with

641
00:32:51,200 --> 00:32:56,160
Speaker 2: but being fluted out fuck people giving never yeah, like

642
00:32:56,320 --> 00:33:00,000
Speaker 2: I'm never. My mind doesn't go there because my biggest

643
00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:02,160
Speaker 2: I was two thirty. Yeah, but I'm five to one

644
00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:04,640
Speaker 2: and I'm stretching the one. I only call people fat

645
00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:08,400
Speaker 2: when they me yeah, but so distressed favorite. So to me,

646
00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:11,400
Speaker 2: it's like so to me, it's like I've never looked

647
00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:13,280
Speaker 2: at a woman and been like, ain't nobody fucking her

648
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:14,160
Speaker 2: because she's big?

649
00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:15,760
Speaker 3: For me?

650
00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:19,960
Speaker 1: I never viewed it that way. Okay, I'll be honest,

651
00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:23,880
Speaker 1: like for me, like fucking at that weight, I was like,

652
00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:26,520
Speaker 1: why is anybody looking at me? Like I was very

653
00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:31,200
Speaker 1: invisible because I invisible for a bigger woman. Okay, gotcha?

654
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:35,000
Speaker 1: Because I'm a fan, like I was fat. When you

655
00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:37,600
Speaker 1: were meeting him, you found that they were fetishizing you then,

656
00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:41,080
Speaker 1: so they get into the speeded finished. So I was

657
00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:42,600
Speaker 1: first of all. He came up to me, so it

658
00:33:42,720 --> 00:33:44,440
Speaker 1: was natural. It was very gross. I was like, you're

659
00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:51,840
Speaker 1: not meeting me a on a app. That's gross, But girl, girl, that'stal.

660
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:54,680
Speaker 1: If you mess somebody that came up to you today,

661
00:33:54,760 --> 00:33:56,920
Speaker 1: you'll be like, what the fuck is wrong about that?

662
00:33:57,400 --> 00:33:59,440
Speaker 1: I don't do dedding apps. I want people to love

663
00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:00,000
Speaker 1: seting people.

664
00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:02,720
Speaker 4: I love girl, I walk up to niggas. But I

665
00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:07,200
Speaker 4: do understand because I have shifted. It was feeling very

666
00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:09,680
Speaker 4: special when men were coming up to me. I have

667
00:34:09,800 --> 00:34:13,120
Speaker 4: now run into situations with dating apps online where I'm

668
00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:15,880
Speaker 4: not finding men that are as good as they are

669
00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:18,000
Speaker 4: in text or so.

670
00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:19,920
Speaker 1: I see what you mean. I see what you mean.

671
00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:22,920
Speaker 1: Now I'm just all in person. I'm all in person too.

672
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:24,840
Speaker 1: I'm not on any how. Many don't know how you

673
00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:28,200
Speaker 1: wouldn't mean mad niggas? Okay, yeah, but you meet me?

674
00:34:28,960 --> 00:34:29,239
Speaker 1: Hold on.

675
00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:32,120
Speaker 2: He walks up to you in a weird way because

676
00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:35,799
Speaker 2: while as people approaching people in person crazy crazy, who

677
00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:36,359
Speaker 2: would have thought?

678
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:37,960
Speaker 1: He was like, I just want to that. You know,

679
00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:40,160
Speaker 1: you're very beautiful. And I was like, oh thank you?

680
00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:40,880
Speaker 2: Did you not?

681
00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:43,360
Speaker 1: And I just grab my stuff and left and he

682
00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:45,759
Speaker 1: ran after me. He's like, where are you going? I

683
00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:47,520
Speaker 1: was like, I have to I have to go to class.

684
00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:50,239
Speaker 1: Like I have to go, I'm going to class. He's like,

685
00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:52,120
Speaker 1: can I get your number? And I was like, for

686
00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:55,799
Speaker 1: what I didn't? I didn't I never put to into

687
00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:58,200
Speaker 1: like my my social cues are so off when it

688
00:34:58,239 --> 00:35:00,200
Speaker 1: comes to that. Okay, I'll be like for or what,

689
00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:02,360
Speaker 1: like what do you what do you need? And he

690
00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:05,360
Speaker 1: was like to talk, I think you're I want to

691
00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:09,920
Speaker 1: take you out. So when we started talking, he was like, oh,

692
00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:12,960
Speaker 1: so what do you like in like in the bedroom.

693
00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:17,280
Speaker 1: And I was like, like, you know, just typical stuff.

694
00:35:17,280 --> 00:35:19,839
Speaker 1: He's like, what if I like fed you, how would

695
00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:21,920
Speaker 1: you feel about He brought that up and I was like,

696
00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:24,880
Speaker 1: what would you what would you when would you feed me?

697
00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:26,840
Speaker 1: Would you feed me dick? Or like what would you

698
00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:30,600
Speaker 1: feed me? I don't know what? And then he was

699
00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:33,759
Speaker 1: just like I would like bring food and like you

700
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:35,360
Speaker 1: would lay on my bed and I would feed you,

701
00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:38,520
Speaker 1: feed you? And I was like, like a kid, like

702
00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:40,279
Speaker 1: a baby, you would feed me? He was like yeah.

703
00:35:40,360 --> 00:35:43,080
Speaker 1: I was like I want no party, like a baby.

704
00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:44,480
Speaker 1: I want no part.

705
00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:46,880
Speaker 2: So there might have been another fetish outside of the feeding,

706
00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:50,840
Speaker 2: maybe on some daddy dom little girl.

707
00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:53,799
Speaker 1: Type shit, probably, but I just realized I'm very much

708
00:35:54,200 --> 00:35:57,320
Speaker 1: I'm considered a brat. Why are you a brat? Because

709
00:35:57,520 --> 00:36:02,719
Speaker 1: I I realize that I like certain things, But then

710
00:36:04,440 --> 00:36:08,719
Speaker 1: the brat kink is it called like I want I

711
00:36:08,840 --> 00:36:10,200
Speaker 1: want you to take me out on a date. And

712
00:36:10,320 --> 00:36:13,120
Speaker 1: if I don't get that date, I get mad, and

713
00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:14,799
Speaker 1: then you take me on the date. I'm still mad.

714
00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:16,759
Speaker 1: You're gonna fuck the ship out of me, Like, you're

715
00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:19,560
Speaker 1: gonna fuck that attitude out of me. A kink with

716
00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:24,239
Speaker 1: five already? That's crazy? How you know ya? How do

717
00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:25,319
Speaker 1: you know the third?

718
00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:29,640
Speaker 2: He was like, that's kinks even coming in within the

719
00:36:29,719 --> 00:36:32,239
Speaker 2: first two years of you having sex at all.

720
00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:35,600
Speaker 1: A lot of people don't even know what their kinks are.

721
00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:39,280
Speaker 1: Have you attributed to something like have you ever noticed

722
00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:42,440
Speaker 1: that I always go for the typical like BBW or

723
00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:46,480
Speaker 1: like BBC like I do for BBW because I want

724
00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:50,080
Speaker 1: to see myself get fucked. Yeah, so that's very like

725
00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:56,319
Speaker 1: narcissistic of me, but it's not I can't because yeah,

726
00:36:56,719 --> 00:37:00,920
Speaker 1: I need them to look like, let me watch myself.

727
00:37:01,280 --> 00:37:01,759
Speaker 1: I'm dead.

728
00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:07,440
Speaker 4: Wait, so you're you're saying you found that kink out.

729
00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:10,000
Speaker 4: Do you have any others that you think you've wanted

730
00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:11,560
Speaker 4: to explore with men? But you're like, Okay, let me

731
00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:15,120
Speaker 4: slow down. I'm just getting used to do not really,

732
00:37:15,719 --> 00:37:16,359
Speaker 4: what about women?

733
00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:20,799
Speaker 1: I have had experience with women? Girl, you all car

734
00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:26,759
Speaker 1: you would have been outside. Okay. I've been with two

735
00:37:26,840 --> 00:37:30,000
Speaker 1: women and they're you know, very sweet women. I still

736
00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:37,200
Speaker 1: talk to them for my like we didn't strap. I

737
00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:42,080
Speaker 1: didn't think anything of it. But giving head to women

738
00:37:42,440 --> 00:37:48,440
Speaker 1: is different than giving head to a man. So yeah,

739
00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:52,359
Speaker 1: it's like, have you seen my nails and water is wet? Yeah,

740
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:55,040
Speaker 1: And so I can't. I know you can't.

741
00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:58,480
Speaker 2: You see, I'm thoughtful, man. There's a reason these are

742
00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:00,800
Speaker 2: not broken. You guys still up under the conference and

743
00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:02,359
Speaker 2: be like, not this bitch coming on with broke nail

744
00:38:02,400 --> 00:38:04,839
Speaker 2: and I never wear and the fact that you even

745
00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:09,000
Speaker 2: have square nails. We've actually talked about acrylic nails or

746
00:38:09,040 --> 00:38:10,520
Speaker 2: extension nails with women.

747
00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:13,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, you get out with them. You can't get nowhere

748
00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:17,799
Speaker 1: near me with them. Things. I don't give oral very

749
00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:20,360
Speaker 1: well with women, how you know? Yeah, how do you know?

750
00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:22,600
Speaker 1: The girl was like, girl, get off, let me show you.

751
00:38:24,560 --> 00:38:26,560
Speaker 1: She said that. She said it. She was like, because

752
00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:29,440
Speaker 1: we were experimenting, we're learning each other's body. It was

753
00:38:29,480 --> 00:38:33,080
Speaker 1: in college now she said, we're experiment also trash, but

754
00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:36,040
Speaker 1: also I'm also very trash. But I'll do it. I'll

755
00:38:36,040 --> 00:38:38,080
Speaker 1: try it again. I will, but I can't cut my nails.

756
00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:42,960
Speaker 4: What advice would you have for women that are maybe

757
00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:45,440
Speaker 4: in their ol late twenties or even though they THIRTI said,

758
00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:46,400
Speaker 4: I haven't lost their virginity.

759
00:38:46,960 --> 00:38:52,480
Speaker 1: Maybe something that really helped you at your time. It's

760
00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:56,080
Speaker 1: always your time. Don't let nobody pressure you to do it.

761
00:38:57,200 --> 00:39:01,800
Speaker 1: And ideally for me, a wayn't somebody special, but I

762
00:39:01,920 --> 00:39:06,880
Speaker 1: felt comfortable with that person. Your comfortability, your own timing,

763
00:39:07,440 --> 00:39:14,239
Speaker 1: and just have somebody that is patient. If you are

764
00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:17,440
Speaker 1: with somebody that's like willing to stay with you because

765
00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:19,360
Speaker 1: you are a virgin, because I'm not gonna I'm not

766
00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:22,880
Speaker 1: gonna hold you. When I started dating, I made the

767
00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:24,840
Speaker 1: mistake and I will always slip. I'm like a virgin.

768
00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:27,839
Speaker 1: I'm a virgin. They would either two things would happen.

769
00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:30,960
Speaker 1: One they were over sexualized me, Oh I'm gonna be

770
00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:33,759
Speaker 1: the first one to fuck you, or or second, I

771
00:39:33,920 --> 00:39:36,800
Speaker 1: don't want you near me because you're gonna get attached.

772
00:39:37,160 --> 00:39:40,200
Speaker 1: I what's the longest someone waited for you? Even though

773
00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:45,000
Speaker 1: I didn't six months? That's long. Yeah, And honestly I commember.

774
00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:46,680
Speaker 2: That wait six months. I think for someone that's a

775
00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:50,000
Speaker 2: long time, but I you didn't wait six months? Yeah, yeah,

776
00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:53,600
Speaker 2: that's a long time. Like, especially if you want to

777
00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:57,640
Speaker 2: be with someone intimately to hold out that long, Like

778
00:39:58,040 --> 00:39:59,839
Speaker 2: it takes a lot of time to be around somebody,

779
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:02,560
Speaker 2: to talk to them, to get to really be interested

780
00:40:02,600 --> 00:40:05,400
Speaker 2: in them in other ways, and for the sex or

781
00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:08,919
Speaker 2: the romance not to take place almost immediately, especially once

782
00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:11,279
Speaker 2: you've had it. That's a long time for anyone who

783
00:40:11,480 --> 00:40:16,160
Speaker 2: is fluid and having sex or maybe has it so often,

784
00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:18,480
Speaker 2: that's a long time I think to wait for someone.

785
00:40:18,680 --> 00:40:22,120
Speaker 1: Also, like the first guy I wanted to have sex with,

786
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:24,040
Speaker 1: like the that's the one that I actually loves to do.

787
00:40:24,600 --> 00:40:29,080
Speaker 1: He was like he was like so like he was

788
00:40:29,160 --> 00:40:34,520
Speaker 1: fucking everything. So he was like very Tli Perry movie, Huh.

789
00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:37,520
Speaker 1: You know the one where like she was married and

790
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:39,520
Speaker 1: the very first guy she cheated on her husband, wait,

791
00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:40,160
Speaker 1: gave her aides.

792
00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:43,080
Speaker 2: You don't remember that, Teller Perish. You know the taller

793
00:40:43,120 --> 00:40:48,960
Speaker 2: Perry movie I'm talking about with Jesse Smolette's sister with

794
00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:52,319
Speaker 2: Journey and she's like in love. She's a church going girl.

795
00:40:52,400 --> 00:40:55,839
Speaker 2: She meets this millionaire and it's the first and only

796
00:40:55,920 --> 00:40:58,200
Speaker 2: guy outside of her husband that she's ever had sex with.

797
00:40:58,560 --> 00:41:00,880
Speaker 2: He he gives r aids out to Tyler Perry for

798
00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:02,319
Speaker 2: that plot. Is that what.

799
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:09,160
Speaker 1: It's such a play or like the movie, it's just

800
00:41:09,239 --> 00:41:13,480
Speaker 1: the player of the movie. It's a movie. Why did

801
00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:15,719
Speaker 1: I get married? No, it might be one of them.

802
00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:18,239
Speaker 1: Oh the way you think about Tasha Boom, that was

803
00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:22,759
Speaker 1: a great that's what ya. I don't know if I

804
00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:24,320
Speaker 1: told you all this, nigga.

805
00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:28,080
Speaker 4: I was in fucking Rome, in Soho House in Rome

806
00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:31,640
Speaker 4: and was looking at Tasha in the damn pool and

807
00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:32,799
Speaker 4: I was like, damn, what do I say.

808
00:41:33,600 --> 00:41:34,359
Speaker 1: She's a twin, right?

809
00:41:34,760 --> 00:41:37,279
Speaker 4: I was her twin because we begin our nails the

810
00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:40,680
Speaker 4: was it was her twin. And I was sitting there

811
00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:42,600
Speaker 4: kind of like, oh, you know when black people start talking.

812
00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:44,280
Speaker 4: I'm just waiting for her to tell me she's the actress.

813
00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:46,440
Speaker 4: And it never came out. And I was like, let

814
00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:47,959
Speaker 4: me google to make sure I got the right person.

815
00:41:48,120 --> 00:41:51,320
Speaker 2: So the movie, by the way, is Temptation Confessions of

816
00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:54,000
Speaker 2: American This is from twenty thirteen.

817
00:41:54,040 --> 00:41:57,680
Speaker 1: I movie. I watched the plays, but I do fast

818
00:41:57,719 --> 00:41:59,880
Speaker 1: forward over the music because I'm just like, all right,

819
00:42:00,040 --> 00:42:03,040
Speaker 1: I can't do the place. And it was get a

820
00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:03,719
Speaker 1: fast forward and.

821
00:42:08,440 --> 00:42:10,440
Speaker 4: We're going fast forward into homemail and I actually think

822
00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:13,080
Speaker 4: you might be able to help us, even though maybe

823
00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:16,160
Speaker 4: you she just started.

824
00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:20,719
Speaker 1: Now you're down down playing me. I don't know.

825
00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:24,040
Speaker 4: Try Okay, no dry spelling more of the problem. Okay,

826
00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:26,560
Speaker 4: Hey girls, I'm twenty one years old from a small

827
00:42:26,640 --> 00:42:28,680
Speaker 4: country in the south, one of the places where everyone

828
00:42:28,760 --> 00:42:32,160
Speaker 4: knows each other and you see the same car in

829
00:42:32,200 --> 00:42:32,960
Speaker 4: the highway.

830
00:42:32,680 --> 00:42:33,279
Speaker 1: To work every day.

831
00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:37,440
Speaker 4: Unfortunately, my sect at my sex addict self chose the

832
00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:40,960
Speaker 4: university here, and my social life has dwindled to non existent.

833
00:42:41,080 --> 00:42:44,160
Speaker 4: Because of my sex life. I used to do mistress

834
00:42:44,280 --> 00:42:47,680
Speaker 4: stuff like seeking dot com. I've been with married men.

835
00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:55,120
Speaker 4: Oh man, I've always been on the goddamn no. I've

836
00:42:55,160 --> 00:42:57,800
Speaker 4: always on tender and I have no problem showing my

837
00:42:57,920 --> 00:43:00,360
Speaker 4: sexual side if people ask, but I try not to

838
00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:01,000
Speaker 4: make it obvious.

839
00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:03,480
Speaker 1: Because of the area I'm in. I have two rules.

840
00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:06,800
Speaker 4: Never fuck someone on campus and never be a mistress

841
00:43:06,960 --> 00:43:10,680
Speaker 4: to someone from my zip code. I just want to

842
00:43:10,680 --> 00:43:16,120
Speaker 4: avoid drama, awkward interactions, and possible relationships, okay, relationship ending. However,

843
00:43:16,320 --> 00:43:20,280
Speaker 4: once COVID restrictions happened, I saw all the cute football players,

844
00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:22,719
Speaker 4: my guy friend's friends and some frack guys. What's a

845
00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:24,840
Speaker 4: girl's supposed to do? Say no, hell no?

846
00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:26,359
Speaker 1: And that backfired.

847
00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:29,160
Speaker 4: I slept with some of my guy friend's friends and

848
00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:31,920
Speaker 4: the football players. Slowly but surely, no one talks to

849
00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:34,960
Speaker 4: me anymore. I should have seen this coming. I'm in

850
00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:37,719
Speaker 4: school and kids will be kids and not understanding and

851
00:43:37,760 --> 00:43:39,520
Speaker 4: don't understand how to be mature about things.

852
00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:43,120
Speaker 1: Hold on, is she a teacher? So what we had sex?

853
00:43:43,200 --> 00:43:43,440
Speaker 1: Move on?

854
00:43:43,480 --> 00:43:45,200
Speaker 4: It doesn't matter what I did with another human being,

855
00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:47,520
Speaker 4: but stories get told and people don't want to hang

856
00:43:47,560 --> 00:43:50,160
Speaker 4: around a hoe. This is literally made me dread going

857
00:43:50,239 --> 00:43:53,720
Speaker 4: to campus and being in certain areas of downtown because

858
00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:57,520
Speaker 4: of this. I'm switching schools, switching switching schools.

859
00:43:57,520 --> 00:43:58,240
Speaker 1: So she's a student.

860
00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:01,799
Speaker 2: How do y'all handle people who call you a hoe?

861
00:44:02,200 --> 00:44:04,880
Speaker 2: People whose opinions and thoughts matter to you? How do

862
00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:07,000
Speaker 2: you react when you had sex with someone in public

863
00:44:07,040 --> 00:44:09,040
Speaker 2: and they act like you don't exist? Would you even

864
00:44:09,080 --> 00:44:11,399
Speaker 2: continue to be friends with them if you were telling

865
00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:14,160
Speaker 2: a funny sex story and they made you feel embarrassed

866
00:44:14,400 --> 00:44:15,400
Speaker 2: or a shame about.

867
00:44:15,200 --> 00:44:15,839
Speaker 1: What you enjoy.

868
00:44:16,200 --> 00:44:18,279
Speaker 2: Let's start with question one. What was the first question

869
00:44:18,360 --> 00:44:21,400
Speaker 2: that she asked? Let's dissect the how do you feel like?

870
00:44:22,040 --> 00:44:24,120
Speaker 1: How do you feel about being a hope? Was that

871
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:28,759
Speaker 1: the first question? Who cares I think that that's easier said,

872
00:44:28,840 --> 00:44:32,839
Speaker 1: though way easier said than done. I'lso you from New York. Yeah,

873
00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:34,560
Speaker 1: I do think there's a few things here.

874
00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:38,680
Speaker 4: One you almost have to put the whole foot forward,

875
00:44:38,920 --> 00:44:40,680
Speaker 4: like you almost got to let them niggas know you

876
00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:42,800
Speaker 4: fuck their friends, like this is something you enjoy. You

877
00:44:42,880 --> 00:44:45,759
Speaker 4: have to be very open about who you are in

878
00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:48,120
Speaker 4: order for people to accept it. If you're kind of

879
00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:50,880
Speaker 4: just dancing around it, people don't accept you because they

880
00:44:51,000 --> 00:44:53,480
Speaker 4: think that you're not accepting you you actually agree.

881
00:44:53,520 --> 00:44:55,759
Speaker 2: You've got to write they dicks in front of him,

882
00:44:56,160 --> 00:44:59,800
Speaker 2: be like, actually his was bigger your the small. You

883
00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:03,840
Speaker 2: came fast, and make like he make them feel like

884
00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:06,600
Speaker 2: some little art chart, you know what I mean, credit chart,

885
00:45:06,680 --> 00:45:07,400
Speaker 2: make them feel.

886
00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:12,480
Speaker 1: There is you're you're shitting where you eat. So y'all

887
00:45:12,520 --> 00:45:14,799
Speaker 1: don't do that. I told y'all no coworker that shi

888
00:45:14,800 --> 00:45:15,279
Speaker 1: it is tough.

889
00:45:15,480 --> 00:45:15,640
Speaker 2: Now.

890
00:45:16,320 --> 00:45:19,560
Speaker 4: It says, how do you react when someone you've had

891
00:45:19,600 --> 00:45:21,680
Speaker 4: sex with in public acts like you don't exist? Great

892
00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:25,640
Speaker 4: question that happened to me this weekend at Everyday People,

893
00:45:26,080 --> 00:45:28,120
Speaker 4: and I could not what you do?

894
00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:29,120
Speaker 2: What you do?

895
00:45:29,280 --> 00:45:31,520
Speaker 1: It was a dream build nigga. Oh, that's the one

896
00:45:31,560 --> 00:45:35,040
Speaker 1: I saw girl on the flight. Girl that was crazy, y'all.

897
00:45:35,200 --> 00:45:36,439
Speaker 1: He was crazy real quick.

898
00:45:36,640 --> 00:45:39,319
Speaker 2: I thought he was one of I said this man

899
00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:42,200
Speaker 2: in his description, so I sent it actually to my homegirl.

900
00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:44,680
Speaker 2: I said, girl, is this your nigga? But then I

901
00:45:44,800 --> 00:45:47,640
Speaker 2: was like, wait, actually, I think it might be your nigga.

902
00:45:47,960 --> 00:45:49,239
Speaker 2: So I said to the both of y'all at the

903
00:45:49,239 --> 00:45:51,200
Speaker 2: same time, I said, girlie your boyfriend. I'll said, bitch,

904
00:45:51,239 --> 00:45:52,680
Speaker 2: is this is what I think it is? And you

905
00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:54,880
Speaker 2: said this show the fuck is? I said, damn, she

906
00:45:54,960 --> 00:45:57,640
Speaker 2: fucking too so you no, no, I'm dagging up similar

907
00:45:57,760 --> 00:46:03,759
Speaker 2: but just so basically, I'm at everyday people and he

908
00:46:03,960 --> 00:46:07,600
Speaker 2: walks in, looks me dead in the eye and turns

909
00:46:07,640 --> 00:46:11,600
Speaker 2: his face and I was like, whoa mind you?

910
00:46:12,239 --> 00:46:13,920
Speaker 1: The nigga I'm talking to was like when I told

911
00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:15,200
Speaker 1: him the story. Later, I'm like, I can't believe this.

912
00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:17,040
Speaker 1: Nigga tried me. It's like, why do you care?

913
00:46:17,120 --> 00:46:19,920
Speaker 4: And I was like, bro, I find it so disrespectful

914
00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:21,960
Speaker 4: when I've had sex with someone and we ain't got

915
00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:24,440
Speaker 4: no beef and you act like that, like what kind

916
00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:25,200
Speaker 4: of bitch are you?

917
00:46:25,680 --> 00:46:25,719
Speaker 2: Like?

918
00:46:25,840 --> 00:46:26,960
Speaker 1: I really don't like that.

919
00:46:27,520 --> 00:46:29,640
Speaker 2: I was at my table with Alex, who he's cool

920
00:46:29,680 --> 00:46:31,920
Speaker 2: with with some other friends, but he didn't say how

921
00:46:31,960 --> 00:46:33,680
Speaker 2: to nobody at the table. He looked at me and

922
00:46:33,719 --> 00:46:36,759
Speaker 2: looked away. So, my yo, his brother came to my

923
00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:38,920
Speaker 2: birthday party. One of his other friends came and I

924
00:46:39,040 --> 00:46:40,560
Speaker 2: was like, and you acting.

925
00:46:40,360 --> 00:46:43,040
Speaker 1: Like this, bitch? I walked right up to and said,

926
00:46:43,120 --> 00:46:44,200
Speaker 1: are you a really act like yo?

927
00:46:44,239 --> 00:46:44,680
Speaker 2: Like to see me?

928
00:46:46,560 --> 00:46:48,640
Speaker 1: Oh? Oh, I don't know. I was like, no, because

929
00:46:48,640 --> 00:46:49,440
Speaker 1: you did. I what yo?

930
00:46:49,640 --> 00:46:52,560
Speaker 4: I didn't even act like he was acting? Hella nervous,

931
00:46:52,680 --> 00:46:57,640
Speaker 4: right girl. I walked back to my table. Alex was like, oh,

932
00:46:57,800 --> 00:47:00,320
Speaker 4: there was a girl standing there waiting for him. He

933
00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:02,440
Speaker 4: must have been with that girl or walking in to

934
00:47:02,520 --> 00:47:05,440
Speaker 4: see that girl. Now, let me tell y'all fellas some

935
00:47:05,560 --> 00:47:08,640
Speaker 4: ship right now now except for the felt because this

936
00:47:08,800 --> 00:47:10,799
Speaker 4: made me even want to double down at how much

937
00:47:10,840 --> 00:47:12,080
Speaker 4: respect I didn have for this nigga.

938
00:47:13,400 --> 00:47:16,760
Speaker 1: If you act scary like that, first.

939
00:47:16,600 --> 00:47:19,160
Speaker 2: Of all, how does that make both women feel? You

940
00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:21,600
Speaker 2: should never be treating people you slept with?

941
00:47:21,760 --> 00:47:21,920
Speaker 3: Like that?

942
00:47:22,040 --> 00:47:22,160
Speaker 1: Oh?

943
00:47:22,239 --> 00:47:25,120
Speaker 2: God, okay, well read me, Oh bitch, if I walk

944
00:47:25,160 --> 00:47:27,000
Speaker 2: into a place and I don't fuck with you, I

945
00:47:27,080 --> 00:47:28,840
Speaker 2: swear to God, well we don't not fuck with each other.

946
00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:31,680
Speaker 2: But I'm saying I don't fuck niggas that even if

947
00:47:31,680 --> 00:47:33,959
Speaker 2: we didn't fall out, I don't feel like just because

948
00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:35,719
Speaker 2: we fun, I gotta acknowledge that you're in the room.

949
00:47:35,880 --> 00:47:36,160
Speaker 1: Mind you.

950
00:47:36,239 --> 00:47:37,960
Speaker 4: I can go back to All Star Weekend. You look

951
00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:39,560
Speaker 4: at one in the eye and look, we ain't got

952
00:47:39,640 --> 00:47:44,160
Speaker 4: to talk. Oh that's disrespect that you look me in

953
00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:48,760
Speaker 4: the eye and fucking you know. I'm one.

954
00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:50,520
Speaker 1: For one.

955
00:47:51,200 --> 00:47:53,719
Speaker 4: I'm the type of person that is very respectful to

956
00:47:53,800 --> 00:47:56,359
Speaker 4: people and the people around them. So if you're if

957
00:47:56,400 --> 00:47:58,320
Speaker 4: I'm decent enough to where all your friends come to

958
00:47:58,400 --> 00:48:00,440
Speaker 4: my ship or with the last time we seeing each other,

959
00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 4: you can say hello, do not treat me like that

960
00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:04,680
Speaker 4: because on some real shit, I'll blast you in front

961
00:48:04,680 --> 00:48:07,839
Speaker 4: of everybody, including this goddamn podcast. I don't rate that shit.

962
00:48:08,120 --> 00:48:10,520
Speaker 4: And I also don't think he's that type of person.

963
00:48:10,800 --> 00:48:13,120
Speaker 4: So you gotta have some cohonas at some point, because

964
00:48:13,120 --> 00:48:14,920
Speaker 4: I don't fuck niggas that treat me like that. So

965
00:48:14,960 --> 00:48:16,480
Speaker 4: if you weren't that nigga when you were fucking me,

966
00:48:16,760 --> 00:48:19,560
Speaker 4: don't be that nigga today Because a girl you're talking

967
00:48:19,640 --> 00:48:21,600
Speaker 4: to is around, it's hella disrespect.

968
00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:22,680
Speaker 1: Then let me ask vote.

969
00:48:22,800 --> 00:48:24,759
Speaker 2: But well, then let me ask you to be fair.

970
00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:29,560
Speaker 2: If you're out at a party and you are out

971
00:48:29,640 --> 00:48:32,560
Speaker 2: with a man that you were now dating, would you

972
00:48:32,719 --> 00:48:36,480
Speaker 2: not find it disrespectful if he felt the need to

973
00:48:36,600 --> 00:48:39,120
Speaker 2: go say hi or speak to a bitch he fucked

974
00:48:40,160 --> 00:48:43,480
Speaker 2: and now like, would you feel away that outside of

975
00:48:43,560 --> 00:48:45,959
Speaker 2: him being there for you, he had to go speak

976
00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:48,279
Speaker 2: to another big relationship?

977
00:48:48,360 --> 00:48:51,719
Speaker 4: So for me, I don't, like I said, I do

978
00:48:51,920 --> 00:48:54,440
Speaker 4: really do not like niggas that are disrespectful. I don't

979
00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:56,040
Speaker 4: want to fucking nigga that a girl could be like

980
00:48:56,080 --> 00:48:57,800
Speaker 4: he did x y Z to me, just like that

981
00:48:57,920 --> 00:49:00,000
Speaker 4: turns you off the major pussy dry, I don't.

982
00:49:00,000 --> 00:49:01,640
Speaker 1: I don't like niggas like that. Is there a way

983
00:49:01,719 --> 00:49:02,800
Speaker 1: for him to be respectful?

984
00:49:02,840 --> 00:49:02,960
Speaker 2: Though?

985
00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:05,200
Speaker 4: Now, don't get me wrong, he didn't have to go

986
00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:07,840
Speaker 4: out his way, Mandy. I was right here the proximity

987
00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:10,320
Speaker 4: from you, looked me in my eye, looked away, Okay.

988
00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:12,719
Speaker 4: It wasn't like I saw him across the room and

989
00:49:12,760 --> 00:49:16,359
Speaker 4: it was like, yeah, it was very easy to tap

990
00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:19,200
Speaker 4: him and be like, how could you just do that? No,

991
00:49:19,520 --> 00:49:21,959
Speaker 4: I really don't want to be with men that treat

992
00:49:22,000 --> 00:49:24,440
Speaker 4: women poorly, that ignore them in public. I think it's

993
00:49:24,440 --> 00:49:26,960
Speaker 4: super rude. I think it's also very embarrassing to a

994
00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:29,920
Speaker 4: woman who's there with their friends. Bro, like all of

995
00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:31,440
Speaker 4: my friends know you and are looking at you.

996
00:49:31,560 --> 00:49:33,600
Speaker 1: Treat me like this. You know what I'm saying. I'm

997
00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:36,880
Speaker 1: using myself as an example, Like I fucked the comic.

998
00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:40,600
Speaker 1: The last guy I was with was a comic, and

999
00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:48,000
Speaker 1: it's known that commics fuck comics. It's whatever. We were

1000
00:49:48,040 --> 00:49:51,399
Speaker 1: at a party that at the at the sand where

1001
00:49:51,440 --> 00:49:55,800
Speaker 1: Dave Chappelle was closing it out, and then he was

1002
00:49:55,840 --> 00:49:59,040
Speaker 1: there with another person and he walked by me. He said, hey,

1003
00:49:59,120 --> 00:50:01,120
Speaker 1: how are you and gave me a hug and kissed

1004
00:50:01,120 --> 00:50:02,759
Speaker 1: me on my cheek and then he was like, this

1005
00:50:02,960 --> 00:50:04,719
Speaker 1: is so and so, And I was like, oh, it's

1006
00:50:04,760 --> 00:50:08,759
Speaker 1: nice to meet you. That is how like he did it.

1007
00:50:10,080 --> 00:50:12,440
Speaker 1: But that's because we didn't really have a like a

1008
00:50:12,840 --> 00:50:15,080
Speaker 1: like a connection, Like we just fucked. That's it.

1009
00:50:16,000 --> 00:50:17,880
Speaker 4: Do you understand what I mean? Do you think connection

1010
00:50:18,040 --> 00:50:21,120
Speaker 4: is almost worse? Like you gotta almost like you gotta

1011
00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:22,600
Speaker 4: really ignore a bitch. If there was something there, I

1012
00:50:22,600 --> 00:50:22,880
Speaker 4: don't know.

1013
00:50:23,080 --> 00:50:25,960
Speaker 1: He didn't ignore me. I think, yeah, so he was

1014
00:50:26,080 --> 00:50:29,040
Speaker 1: kind about it. But if homeboy did that I would

1015
00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:31,200
Speaker 1: have been like, it's a rap worse, I'm starting to fight.

1016
00:50:31,239 --> 00:50:33,919
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get banned from right here, right now. Oh yeah, yeah,

1017
00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:36,400
Speaker 1: Look I don't. I don't hold my.

1018
00:50:36,480 --> 00:50:39,640
Speaker 2: Tongue because I'll be treated like to me if we're

1019
00:50:39,680 --> 00:50:43,400
Speaker 2: no longer talking or engaging and where cool we had sex,

1020
00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:47,600
Speaker 2: we stopped having sex. Cool we had sex and then

1021
00:50:47,640 --> 00:50:50,400
Speaker 2: also fucked with each other, but now we no longer.

1022
00:50:50,239 --> 00:50:50,799
Speaker 1: Talk at all.

1023
00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:54,520
Speaker 2: I don't I'm not gonna feel the need to speak

1024
00:50:54,560 --> 00:50:57,520
Speaker 2: to someone that I had an intimate relationship with, if

1025
00:50:57,600 --> 00:51:00,520
Speaker 2: in present day we no longer talk, if we don't

1026
00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:03,920
Speaker 2: have even a cordial relationship anymore. To me, if we're

1027
00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:06,440
Speaker 2: out in the same place we both moved on it

1028
00:51:06,480 --> 00:51:09,600
Speaker 2: didn't work between us, I'm not gonna speak to you,

1029
00:51:09,719 --> 00:51:11,480
Speaker 2: or I don't feel like I have to speak to you.

1030
00:51:11,880 --> 00:51:15,279
Speaker 1: So in hearing your your how you receive that, maybe

1031
00:51:15,400 --> 00:51:16,680
Speaker 1: now I can show up differently.

1032
00:51:16,760 --> 00:51:18,800
Speaker 2: But I have shown up to where just because we

1033
00:51:18,880 --> 00:51:20,640
Speaker 2: fuck don't mean I'm gonna talk to you in a

1034
00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:22,960
Speaker 2: place because we're there at the same time, like and

1035
00:51:23,080 --> 00:51:26,279
Speaker 2: that's been how I treated people. If it's disrespectful, and

1036
00:51:26,360 --> 00:51:28,879
Speaker 2: maybe they receive it that way. Maybe one day I'll

1037
00:51:28,920 --> 00:51:31,000
Speaker 2: care enough to ask them if they felt away. But

1038
00:51:32,080 --> 00:51:34,480
Speaker 2: I've actually been that person to not acknowledge people that

1039
00:51:34,520 --> 00:51:35,120
Speaker 2: I fucked.

1040
00:51:34,880 --> 00:51:36,799
Speaker 1: In a row. Yeah, I think ignoring is one thing.

1041
00:51:36,920 --> 00:51:38,880
Speaker 4: Like I don't Again, I wouldn't have expected him to

1042
00:51:39,200 --> 00:51:41,960
Speaker 4: walk across looking me in my eye and looking away.

1043
00:51:42,239 --> 00:51:45,760
Speaker 1: Was like, really, like does that creates such a bad energy?

1044
00:51:45,960 --> 00:51:48,880
Speaker 1: Also in the room now between you and that person? Bro,

1045
00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:51,839
Speaker 1: so like Ye're like, why are we both here? Now?

1046
00:51:53,400 --> 00:51:55,960
Speaker 1: I get now, I get that now, It's yeah, it's

1047
00:51:56,080 --> 00:52:01,480
Speaker 1: even if you do this like hi, anyway, I know

1048
00:52:01,560 --> 00:52:03,120
Speaker 1: I'm fucking all right. I saw the one.

1049
00:52:03,480 --> 00:52:05,560
Speaker 4: Would you continue to be friends with someone if you

1050
00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:07,640
Speaker 4: were telling a funny story and they made you feel

1051
00:52:07,680 --> 00:52:09,479
Speaker 4: ashamed or embarrassed about what you enjoy?

1052
00:52:10,680 --> 00:52:12,280
Speaker 1: Uh huhm, I'm sorry.

1053
00:52:12,440 --> 00:52:14,520
Speaker 2: Now all my friends be mad at how canky and

1054
00:52:14,640 --> 00:52:16,880
Speaker 2: nasty and freaky? Do they make me feel a shamed?

1055
00:52:16,960 --> 00:52:22,239
Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying. The shame part is the same, right, No, no, no, wait,

1056
00:52:22,880 --> 00:52:25,040
Speaker 4: she said what you're saying. You said, all your friends

1057
00:52:25,080 --> 00:52:26,680
Speaker 4: think it's crazy that I'm crazy?

1058
00:52:27,040 --> 00:52:31,040
Speaker 1: Yeah? Are they are they shaming? They're like ill, they're yucking,

1059
00:52:31,080 --> 00:52:33,640
Speaker 1: you're young? They literally say, bitch, I could never. I

1060
00:52:33,640 --> 00:52:34,520
Speaker 1: don't know how you do it?

1061
00:52:34,680 --> 00:52:36,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, like to me, I think I have a different

1062
00:52:36,920 --> 00:52:39,520
Speaker 2: relationship with sex and conversations. I know the things that

1063
00:52:39,600 --> 00:52:42,719
Speaker 2: I allow even with my partner, with the women that

1064
00:52:42,800 --> 00:52:45,840
Speaker 2: I sleep with, I sleep with my friends. How I

1065
00:52:45,960 --> 00:52:47,600
Speaker 2: move is not how a lot of my friends move,

1066
00:52:47,960 --> 00:52:50,080
Speaker 2: and we all make fun of how all of us move. Again,

1067
00:52:50,320 --> 00:52:52,040
Speaker 2: my friends still fucking with this nigga that she found

1068
00:52:52,040 --> 00:52:55,359
Speaker 2: out was married, and so I ain't gonna judge her.

1069
00:52:55,920 --> 00:52:58,120
Speaker 2: Good luck for her. I hope it works out, and

1070
00:52:58,239 --> 00:52:59,880
Speaker 2: I tell it to a faced girl, you stupid out

1071
00:52:59,880 --> 00:53:00,800
Speaker 2: A want to meet that nigga.

1072
00:53:01,120 --> 00:53:02,799
Speaker 1: We have a way to where we shame each other

1073
00:53:02,920 --> 00:53:04,840
Speaker 1: on how I I don't know.

1074
00:53:04,960 --> 00:53:06,840
Speaker 4: That's a tough one because but what if it's like

1075
00:53:06,920 --> 00:53:09,560
Speaker 4: a friend that you don't know that but they liked.

1076
00:53:09,640 --> 00:53:12,200
Speaker 4: If a friend genuinely made me feel ashamed, No, I wouldn't,

1077
00:53:12,680 --> 00:53:13,799
Speaker 4: But most of my friends.

1078
00:53:13,560 --> 00:53:16,799
Speaker 1: Be like, we don't like that bitch exactly like girl,

1079
00:53:16,920 --> 00:53:18,719
Speaker 1: I think I've only had that one incident where my

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Speaker 1: friend is always like, you're constantly unblocking and blocking, unblocking, unblocking.

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Speaker 1: I like a little razzle dazzling every now and then

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Speaker 1: you one of those I know. I'm telling you. It's

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Speaker 1: I just realized that do they do you let them

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Speaker 1: know that they're unblocked? No, I just pop up on

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Speaker 1: their story.

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Speaker 4: When you're blocking on Instagram. Yeah, you gotta let them

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Speaker 4: bubbles go green on it as yea, that should be.

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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know, I don't do I don't

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Speaker 1: do the I don't do the bubbles only because, like

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Speaker 1: I get booked through Instagram, So I don't want people

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Speaker 1: knowing that I'm I'm active if I'm not answering your

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Speaker 1: d m Oh yeah, that's teeth. But tell people where

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Speaker 1: to find you. And you said you have a podcast, Yes,

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Speaker 1: uh you can. I'm a comedian side perform all over

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Speaker 1: the city, but you can find me on Instagram. Damn

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Speaker 1: underscore Lisa to MS two s's And my podcast is

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Speaker 1: called Lemons. I run it with zubiy Aa Man, which

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Speaker 1: is another comedian. It Life gives you Lemons, so we

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Speaker 1: talk about toxic traits and red flags.

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Speaker 2: Life gives you Leon. You make lemonade, I ain't you

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Speaker 2: hate yourself? And if y'all want some more horrible decisions,

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Speaker 2: go to Patreon dot com. Backslash Horrible Decisions for our

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Speaker 2: town hall every month where we talk with you live

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Speaker 2: on Zoom and do a live episode and hundreds of

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Speaker 2: hours of bonus conta hundreds of hours, y'all, Thank you

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Speaker 2: Lisa for joining you for having me, Yes and guys,

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Speaker 2: thank y'all for tuning in to yet another episode of

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Speaker 2: horrible decisions.

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Speaker 3: Dating each other and hurting each other's feelings and being

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Speaker 3: okay with hurting each other feelings.

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Speaker 1: How do you I want to like, sorry to cut

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Speaker 1: you off?

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Speaker 2: No? No?

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Speaker 1: How do you grow together? How do you not grow apart?

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Speaker 1: Do you have to date each other?

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Speaker 3: You have to be like not just go with your feelings,

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Speaker 3: Like you don't always feel like doing something, but you

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Speaker 3: show up, just like for your kid.

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Speaker 1: And I know that.

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Speaker 3: It's conditional with the husband, but I need to still

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Speaker 3: feel pursued and he wants to feel respected and he

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Speaker 3: wants to feel heard. And people are different, right, Some

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Speaker 3: people maybe aren't as indigender roles as I am. I

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Speaker 3: totally love being in my feminine energy and I like

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Speaker 3: him and his masculine and yeah we have yin and

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Speaker 3: yang and sometimes I'm in my masculine and he's more

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Speaker 3: in his feminine but I think that that's like how

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Speaker 3: you better one another.

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Speaker 4: Tell me the dark side of I dated a guy

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Speaker 4: when I was very young. I mean, he was very

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Speaker 4: controlling and I called myself the housewie because I stayed

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Speaker 4: at home and he you know, I paid for my

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Speaker 4: school or whatever.

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Speaker 2: But