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Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if

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Speaker 1: So like I don't read it, just like we're going

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Speaker 3: And you never know. Buckle up and hold on tight.

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Speaker 3: every letter all right?

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Nephew's subject. I wish I enjoyed it as much as

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Speaker 1: he does. You're Stephen Shirley. I'm dating a man that

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Speaker 1: has all the things a man is supposed to have.

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Speaker 1: He's handsome, he's in shape, and he loves the Lord.

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Speaker 1: The fact that he can't keep a job is another story,

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Speaker 1: but I'm being patient until he finds a job that

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Speaker 1: he loves. He's thirty seven and I'm thirty nine. He

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Speaker 1: has two children and I have one child. I'm willing

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Speaker 1: to make all of the necessary adjustments to be with

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Speaker 1: this man, but he's he's got to do some things

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Speaker 1: for me too. Our sex life is lacking in a

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Speaker 1: major way. It's the size and the technique. I've learned

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Speaker 1: over the years that if the technique is great, then

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Speaker 1: the size doesn't really matter. I've made more than a

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Speaker 1: few recommendations to him, and he won't take any of

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Speaker 1: my advice. He thinks he is the man in the bedroom,

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Speaker 1: and I'm not into faking anything. So he's built up

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Speaker 1: this confidence all on his own, and it's funny to me.

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Speaker 1: We've been together for three years and instead of getting better,

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Speaker 1: it's getting worse. He works up a sweat, talks all

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Speaker 1: the way through it, and he's even stopped to.

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Speaker 2: Wipe his head with a towel a few times.

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Speaker 1: Meanwhile, I'm thinking of my ex boyfriend the whole time.

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Speaker 1: When we're done, he's got a burst of energy, and

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Speaker 1: he cooks breakfast or a full.

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Speaker 2: Meal, depending on what time of day it is.

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Speaker 1: He buys me gifts and tells me I'm the best

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Speaker 1: woman he's ever been with, and I wish I could

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Speaker 1: tell him the same thing. He's great, but the intimacy

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Speaker 1: is trash. How important is great sex and a mari

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Speaker 1: in a relationship? Is it a small sacrifice to make

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Speaker 1: if the man is good at everything else. You know,

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Speaker 1: if you've got to ask these questions, there's already a problem.

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Speaker 1: And to answer your question, yes, sex and intimacy extremely

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Speaker 1: important in a relationship. Okay, that's where you bond, that's

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Speaker 1: where you show you love for your partner.

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Speaker 2: You shut out the world and just enjoy each other.

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Speaker 1: And why are you even asking about sacrifice when you're

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Speaker 1: the only one sacrificing anything in this relationship. This man

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Speaker 1: doesn't have a job, he can't keep one, according to you,

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Speaker 1: and he's bad in the bedroom. How have you put

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Speaker 1: up with this for three whole years? You also said

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Speaker 1: you've talked to him about his performance and he doesn't listen. Well,

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Speaker 1: you're gonna have to make him listen and hear you somehow,

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Speaker 1: because the reason you're writing the Strawberry letter is because

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Speaker 1: you're becoming bull and frustrated with him. You're being patient

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Speaker 1: until he finds a job he loves. How long is

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Speaker 1: that gonna take? At this point? He just needs to

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Speaker 1: get a job and you're gonna have to to leave

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Speaker 1: this one sided relationship if he doesn't. I mean, there's

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Speaker 1: so many things in this letter that we could talk about,

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Speaker 1: and I'm sure Tommy and Junior will get to them

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Speaker 1: as well. But you know, you think that he has

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Speaker 1: all the things that a man is supposed to have. No,

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Speaker 1: he doesn't. You're you're disillusioned with all of this, Tommy.

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Speaker 3: You're just so selfish, you really are. He's handsome, he

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Speaker 3: in shape, he loved the load. The boy cook a

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Speaker 3: whole meal. He good with that. He given, he giveing

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Speaker 3: you gifts. Well, he's lacking in the size and the technique.

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Speaker 3: How much do you want? I mean, you've getting something.

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Speaker 3: I mean what else do you want? You got you

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Speaker 3: got to have a side. You got to have the technique.

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Speaker 3: I mean you just you already can tell he can't

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Speaker 3: hate it. The boy over there sweating and in the

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Speaker 3: middle of it, he gotta stop and wiping his head,

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Speaker 3: he dripping wet.

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Speaker 4: Just with sweat. He can't.

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Speaker 3: He can't do all this stuff. So I don't know

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Speaker 3: what it is you're trying to. You're trying to get

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Speaker 3: him now, sexy valuation. It's too late for that. Y'all

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Speaker 3: been doing this three years. So no, it's not gonna

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Speaker 3: get any better than this. It is what it is.

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Speaker 3: So that leads me to this, and I hate to

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Speaker 3: say it you're gonna have to get a side piece.

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Speaker 3: I just, I just you're gonna have to get a

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Speaker 3: side It's just, I just, I just don't see any

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Speaker 3: other way around this for you. I just don't. And

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Speaker 3: we don't want to lose the great qualities that he

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Speaker 3: does have. He loves the law, he's in shape. He

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Speaker 3: ain't in too much shape because he's sweating too much

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Speaker 3: up in that, so he ain't. That's a lot. He

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Speaker 3: really ain't in that kind of shape. And all this

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Speaker 3: he hands some and he cooked good. He cooked good,

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Speaker 3: and he brings these gifts.

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Speaker 4: And we don't want to lose that. We want that,

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Speaker 4: we want that to continue.

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Speaker 5: We like that part.

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Speaker 3: But he's missing on the sex side, and you don't

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Speaker 3: want to give him up because he's missing that.

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Speaker 4: Therefore, you need a side piece. You just do you do?

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Speaker 3: You need somebody to come in twice a week and

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Speaker 3: just you know, do what they do. I understand you

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Speaker 3: are missing. We talked earlier. I can't remember what part

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Speaker 3: of the break.

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Speaker 2: It was.

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Speaker 3: Somebody was making too much noise having sex in their conduct.

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Speaker 3: That's what you want, you want that and y'all ain't

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Speaker 3: making noise. He just sweating and it's just a pool

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Speaker 3: of sweat all over the floor, and you're gonna have

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Speaker 3: to find you somebody. But he can't nobody come by

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Speaker 3: because he got because he ain't got no damn job

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Speaker 3: he had, right, We got to get him a job

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Speaker 3: so we can get him to working so we can

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Speaker 3: have room for side piece time.

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Speaker 4: And you don't have.

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Speaker 3: Room right now, and we got to figure out how

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Speaker 3: to get you some room. What we need to work

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Speaker 3: on is who hiring now. Maybe they're hiring down there

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Speaker 3: at the church because he loved the Lord. Now you

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Speaker 3: know the Lord to get you a job if you

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Speaker 3: ask for one. Go down there to the church and

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Speaker 3: see a pastor got something he can do. Cut the

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Speaker 3: yard down there to something for whatever it is. You

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Speaker 3: need to pay attention to what his schedule live so

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Speaker 3: we can schedule this side piece.

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Speaker 4: We got to have some room.

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Speaker 3: Got to find a good hour for this side piece

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Speaker 3: to come in and handle up for you so you'll

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Speaker 3: be able to I personally, if I was you, I'd

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Speaker 3: do more like a like a Monday and a Thursday.

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Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: You ain't got to tell your side people about no technique,

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Speaker 3: and you ain't got to worry about no side because

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Speaker 3: side piece coming with all of that.

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Speaker 4: Now, he ain't.

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Speaker 3: He might not be handsome, okay, he probably a finna

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Speaker 3: cook nothing afterwards. Side piece don't side pieces don't do

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Speaker 3: all that. He probably don't love the Lord. But that

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Speaker 3: ain't what you're looking for. You looking for technique inside

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Speaker 3: and that's how you get to it. And I hate

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Speaker 3: to tell you that that is not the ready to

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Speaker 3: live up Tommy.

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Speaker 4: That's just Tommy.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, right, nephew, thank you.

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Speaker 1: We'll have part two of the Strawberry Letter coming up

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Speaker 1: at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry Letter

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Speaker 1: subject I wish I enjoyed it as much as he does.

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Speaker 1: We'll hit from Junior right after this.

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Speaker 2: You're listening hard morning show.

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Speaker 1: All right, it is time now for the part two

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Speaker 1: of the Struwberry We got to recap it. The subject

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Speaker 1: is I wish I enjoyed it as much as you do,

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Speaker 1: as much as he does. I wish I enjoyed it

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Speaker 1: as much as he does. A thirty nine year old

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Speaker 1: woman wrote in she's dating for three years. She's been

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Speaker 1: dating this guy who's thirty seven. She says he has

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Speaker 1: all the things a man should have. He's handsome, he's

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Speaker 1: in shape, he loves the lord, but he can't keep

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Speaker 1: a job, and he's waiting to try and find a

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Speaker 1: job that he loves. She says, even with all that,

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Speaker 1: he's terrible in the bedroom. He's bad in the bedroom.

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Speaker 1: And she is trying to make her really, yeah, he's terrible.

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Speaker 1: She's willing to make all the necessary adjustments with this man,

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Speaker 1: but he has to do some things for her too.

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Speaker 1: He's lacking in size, he's lacking in techniques, and she says,

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Speaker 1: if the technique is great size.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't really matter. But he doesn't have either of those.

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Speaker 1: She said, he's, you know, thinking that he's bringing it

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Speaker 2: He's not. He's sweating, he's not.

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Speaker 1: He's doing all these things. He's wipe, wipes his head

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Speaker 1: with a towel a few.

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Speaker 2: Times, you know, during and all that.

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Speaker 1: You know, But she's she's unimpressed, and she's thinking of

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Speaker 1: her ex boyfriend all during this time while she's in

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Speaker 2: So she wants to know how.

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Speaker 1: Important is great sex in a relationship, and uh, is

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Speaker 1: it a small sacrifice to make if the man is

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Speaker 1: good at everything else?

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Speaker 2: So that's where we are. That's where we are, Junior.

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Speaker 2: What you got?

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Speaker 6: Uh no, no, no, no, no, no, it's trish. You said,

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Speaker 6: see what was trash? Yeah she said it ain't no,

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Speaker 6: ain't no good trash. It's try. I don't care what

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Speaker 6: the lord he has I.

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Speaker 5: Mean in shape. But what did I got to do

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Speaker 5: with technique and sign? Let me tell you something. You

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Speaker 5: got to have both.

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Speaker 6: You got the ain't no one of them? We can

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Speaker 6: make it with just one of the other.

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Speaker 4: Fair please?

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Speaker 5: This is try it. Then he got the third to

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Speaker 5: be talking all the way through it. Now what is

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Speaker 5: he saying? See you over here taking this trash?

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Speaker 6: And you just laid up there looking at him while

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Speaker 6: he talking and working up a sweat. So I don't

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Speaker 6: even know how you doing this, but I think it's

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Speaker 6: my mind, probably something like this, because and you fantacy land,

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Speaker 6: you're thinking about your ex. But he in here talking

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Speaker 6: to you while you filing your nails. Yeah, okay, on,

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Speaker 6: so you just gonna file on me? You're gonna file

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Speaker 6: on me? How you just gonna file your nails? Like

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Speaker 6: I ain't doing nothing?

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Speaker 5: Or watch this?

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Speaker 4: Watch it?

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Speaker 5: Okay?

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Speaker 6: So now you're just gonna ewn your clothes. You gonna

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Speaker 6: iron your clothes while.

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Speaker 5: I'm mean they're putting in all these works. You gonna

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Speaker 5: see this here?

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Speaker 6: Oh oh, you trying to try me? Are you trying

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Speaker 6: to try me? So you're gonna watch First forty eight

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Speaker 6: while I'm doing all this work right here, You're gonna watch.

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Speaker 5: A crime show on me? How try make it? Turn

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Speaker 5: that off? Right now?

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Speaker 6: Wait a minute, Wait a minute, is you getting cleaning supplies?

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Speaker 6: You gonna clean the restaurroom on mena do? Cause she

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Speaker 6: could do all these things because it's trash.

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Speaker 2: That's what she said.

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Speaker 5: That's what she doing.

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Speaker 6: Cause it's trash. She can't do nothing else. Hey, I

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Speaker 6: don't even know why. I don't even know we even

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Speaker 6: talking about this. So you know I love the Lord.

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Speaker 6: You're gonna pull the Bible out on me? Okay, you're

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Speaker 6: gonna read the scripture right now? Yeah, it's not working

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Speaker 5: And you've been with us for three years?

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Speaker 6: Did he get have no technique, no side, and no job.

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Speaker 2: Because he's handsome, in shape and loves the Lord. That's

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Speaker 2: why this.

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Speaker 4: Is Tommy in shape, I'm telling you.

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Speaker 6: And then all of a sudden so so I said

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Speaker 5: Now we become Marie Calendy. You in his cooking. Now

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Speaker 5: you're a restaurant. Now you're in here just baking everything.

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Speaker 5: Got a full meal, full spread? What is this?

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Speaker 1: And it's probably now that he can't get a job.

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Speaker 1: He's just waiting for the job that he loves.

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Speaker 4: She said.

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Speaker 1: He's he wants the job that he loves catering since.

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Speaker 2: And some chef.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, this is this doesn't work for me. I don't

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Speaker 5: I don't get it. You need to leave him. You

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Speaker 5: did it for three years. It's three years of this

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Speaker 5: and you might call your ex boyfriend up.

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Speaker 6: So you're gonna talk to him while I'm in here

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Speaker 6: putting in all Okay, you're gonna hang that phone up.

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Speaker 5: Oh, you're gonna put that phone up. Watch this. Give

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Speaker 5: him a tie, Give me a tie, give me tie.

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Speaker 3: Hey, Yeah, when you need it, you're gonna so you're

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Speaker 3: gonna call tast the name out like I ain't in here, honey,

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Speaker 3: what you're gonna do?

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Speaker 6: Okay, all right, you're gonna gona You're gonna save Melvin

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Speaker 6: in a minute. In a minute, you're gonna save Melvin yeah,

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Speaker 6: give give him a tie, Give me tie, give me.

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Speaker 4: Talk.

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Speaker 5: So you just folding cloth while I'm in here working hard.

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Speaker 5: I got your leg up. You can still fold a

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Speaker 5: T shirt while your leg in the ass. Okay, all right,

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Speaker 5: I see what you're doing. Now are you gonna make

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Speaker 5: whole basket down? Watch it. I ain't nothing happened because

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Speaker 5: it's trash.

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Speaker 1: Yes, he said it was trash. He tries her gifts,

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Speaker 1: He buys her gifts. Now he does do that. He

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Speaker 1: tells you, making up for it. He tells her she's

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Speaker 5: Now let's understand this. Surely they're not good gifts now.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh oh, oh oh.

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Speaker 5: Where he get the money for a good gift?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 5: He got no job.

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Speaker 2: That's right.

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Speaker 4: That's true. That's true.

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Speaker 2: That's right.

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Speaker 1: And he's wine for the job that he loves before

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Speaker 1: he gets the job.

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Speaker 4: Them dollarsto gifts.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm about to say, Tommy, you know you got

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Speaker 6: you got the fan you plugging the bottom of your phone,

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Speaker 6: Keep you cool, that's what you got.

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Speaker 5: And that's the one that's the one he get.

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Speaker 6: Surprise, It's like you get some great gifts in here.

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Speaker 6: If there's a three piece character, hold them now.

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Speaker 5: You're gonna call him.

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Speaker 2: Carlin's got the phone. Yes, yeah, they get.

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Speaker 4: He bad, he bad, he bad fruit and I went

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Speaker 4: by the grunstore. Got you some grapes, grapes.

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Speaker 2: Come on now cooking though, what is he cooking in

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Speaker 4: Grial cheese, Blona sandwiches.

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Speaker 3: They ain't got no money, ain't got no money, Roman noodles.

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