1 00:00:00,720 --> 00:00:04,439 Speaker 1: Order. What's up, friend, let's get into the courtroom. 2 00:00:04,519 --> 00:00:07,160 Speaker 2: It's Kiky Hair back with another case that did not 3 00:00:07,320 --> 00:00:09,920 Speaker 2: make the air, but I definitely need you to weigh 4 00:00:09,960 --> 00:00:12,680 Speaker 2: in on it. Okay, it says am I wrong for 5 00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:16,439 Speaker 2: calling out my girlfriend's trainer on social media? 6 00:00:16,880 --> 00:00:17,239 Speaker 1: Kiki. 7 00:00:17,320 --> 00:00:20,920 Speaker 2: My name is Gary, and my girlfriend recently started working 8 00:00:20,920 --> 00:00:23,959 Speaker 2: out with a personal trainer three times a week. I 9 00:00:24,079 --> 00:00:27,280 Speaker 2: was cool with it at first. Then the trainer started 10 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:32,000 Speaker 2: posting all of these progress photos with my girlfriend on Instagram. 11 00:00:32,360 --> 00:00:35,960 Speaker 2: He was tagging her with the caption saying my favorite 12 00:00:36,040 --> 00:00:39,720 Speaker 2: clients and my girlfriend would be all in the comments, 13 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:43,280 Speaker 2: dropping fire emojis looking thirstyo. 14 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 1: Okay Gary. 15 00:00:44,280 --> 00:00:47,440 Speaker 2: After the fifth post, I finally got fed up and 16 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:51,000 Speaker 2: I commented under the post saying, Hey, I'm glad you're 17 00:00:51,040 --> 00:00:54,360 Speaker 2: helping her get ABS, but maybe I can help you 18 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:58,440 Speaker 2: learn some boundaries. Now, my girlfriend is mad at me, 19 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:02,680 Speaker 2: saying that I public embarrassed her, but clearly I was 20 00:01:02,720 --> 00:01:04,600 Speaker 2: the one being publicly embarrassed. 21 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 1: Am I wrong? Hmm? 22 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:11,280 Speaker 2: Okay, you are the jury, so I need your opinion 23 00:01:11,319 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 2: on this. But just going off of this message, Gary, 24 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 2: I think, first of all, let me say, Gary, I 25 00:01:18,200 --> 00:01:19,600 Speaker 2: want to validate your feelings. 26 00:01:19,880 --> 00:01:21,600 Speaker 1: Your feelings are valid. 27 00:01:21,640 --> 00:01:24,679 Speaker 2: No one wants to see their partner on social media 28 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:27,399 Speaker 2: doing too much with someone else. No one wants to 29 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:29,840 Speaker 2: feel that way, right, But I do think you went 30 00:01:29,920 --> 00:01:32,920 Speaker 2: about this the wrong way. You should have talked to 31 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:36,640 Speaker 2: your girlfriend first and given her a chance to set 32 00:01:36,720 --> 00:01:39,520 Speaker 2: some boundaries with the trainer. Maybe they could have changed 33 00:01:39,560 --> 00:01:41,640 Speaker 2: the way they were posting, maybe they don't post at 34 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:44,200 Speaker 2: all if it was making you that uncomfortable. But for 35 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:47,800 Speaker 2: you to just hop into this man's comments on social media, 36 00:01:48,280 --> 00:01:51,400 Speaker 2: now you have made it a public fight, and now 37 00:01:51,480 --> 00:01:53,840 Speaker 2: all of you are looking silly at this point. So Gary, 38 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:57,080 Speaker 2: I think you know you're not wrong for feeling however 39 00:01:57,120 --> 00:02:01,240 Speaker 2: you felt, but did I definitely think you handled it 40 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:04,600 Speaker 2: completely wrong. Like you know, I'm already looking at some 41 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:07,200 Speaker 2: of the comments that are posted on under the video 42 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:09,440 Speaker 2: on social media, and if you are listening to this, 43 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:14,040 Speaker 2: please add your take. But people are already calling you insecure. 44 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 1: Gary. They're saying that you are controlling. 45 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 2: I don't want to just make those assumptions, but Gary, 46 00:02:21,520 --> 00:02:23,919 Speaker 2: I think you should have at the very least had 47 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 2: the conversation with your girlfriend first before you went onto 48 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:30,840 Speaker 2: the trainer's social media page. 49 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:32,360 Speaker 1: And left that comment. 50 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:37,760 Speaker 2: Okay, I get Yeah, it can always get sticky when 51 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:41,639 Speaker 2: like your partner has a female trainer, if you're a woman, 52 00:02:41,760 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 2: or vice versa, whatever, if you feel like insecure about 53 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:50,120 Speaker 2: you know, your partner spending time with this other person 54 00:02:50,320 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 2: and getting close to this other person. Because I've never 55 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 2: had a trainer, clearly, but I can only imagine that 56 00:02:57,120 --> 00:02:59,840 Speaker 2: if I did have one. You know, we would be 57 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:03,840 Speaker 2: spending time together. There's a friendship that develops there. You know, 58 00:03:04,200 --> 00:03:07,800 Speaker 2: we're sweating together, like you know, the mind can start 59 00:03:07,840 --> 00:03:10,040 Speaker 2: playing all kinds of tricks on you, Gary, So I'm 60 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:12,919 Speaker 2: gonna give you the grace in that aspect and say 61 00:03:12,960 --> 00:03:18,040 Speaker 2: I understand and validate your feelings. However, you should at 62 00:03:18,120 --> 00:03:21,840 Speaker 2: least have had a conversation with your girlfriend before you 63 00:03:21,880 --> 00:03:23,520 Speaker 2: went into the comments, and maybe you did. 64 00:03:23,720 --> 00:03:26,120 Speaker 1: You didn't include that in the note, but maybe you did. 65 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:29,360 Speaker 1: I don't know. However, you are the jury friend. I 66 00:03:29,440 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 1: need to know your thoughts on this case. 67 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:35,560 Speaker 2: Post it is the video on the Fred Show Instagram 68 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:38,880 Speaker 2: page TikTok as well, please let me know your thoughts. 69 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 2: And yeah, I don't know, Gary, I hope she don't 70 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:47,240 Speaker 2: leave you over this, but yeah, let me know your 71 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:49,800 Speaker 2: thoughts friends, and of course we'll be back in the 72 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:52,880 Speaker 2: courtroom later this week with another episode on the podcast 73 00:03:52,960 --> 00:03:56,080 Speaker 2: and then of course a new case every single Monday 74 00:03:56,400 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 2: on The Fred Show. You can listen in the eight 75 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 2: o'clock hour to hear it and. 76 00:04:01,040 --> 00:04:02,080 Speaker 1: I love you so much. 77 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 2: Enjoy the rest of your Monday, or whenever you're listening 78 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 2: to this, Enjoy the rest of your day and hit 79 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:10,040 Speaker 2: us up on Instagram, TikTok all the places at Fred 80 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:12,840 Speaker 2: Show Radio and you can find me at on air. 81 00:04:12,920 --> 00:04:16,280 Speaker 1: Kiki, that's k E k E. Love you friend, let 82 00:04:16,279 --> 00:04:17,040 Speaker 1: me know what you think.