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Speaker 1: Good morning everybody. You'll listening to the voice, Come on,

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Speaker 1: dig me now running only Steve Harvey got a radio show.

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Speaker 1: Ain't got a good man? I mean, really, hey, you

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Speaker 1: know what to date, I'm gonna try something different, and

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Speaker 1: it's amazing. I'm gonna try something different because that's kind

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Speaker 1: of what we're gonna talk about this morning. Do something

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Speaker 1: different this year. Look, if what you've been doing has

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Speaker 1: the common sense thing to do? It does to me.

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Speaker 1: Let's just do something different this year. Make a commitment.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna do something different. I'm gonna put forth a

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Speaker 1: do it this year. You know sometimes that that simple

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Speaker 1: change of attitude is enough. Instead of trying, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: what you've been getting. It, don't change it, don't change

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Speaker 1: unless you change it. But you have the power to

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Speaker 1: change it. The power of decision is in your hands.

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Speaker 1: Decide to do something different, make a commitment, say you

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Speaker 1: know what, this year, I'm gonna do the right thing. Now,

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Speaker 1: Now you're gonna be a hypocrite, you fake? No, man,

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Speaker 1: something in Proverbs that says, if you honor God, if

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Speaker 1: and gentlemen. Undivided attention is all that's required here, nothing more. Uh,

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Speaker 1: and gentlemen. This is thus Steve Harvey Morning Show. Make

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Steve. Kick it on over the caller for Red.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Steve, Hey, Chris, bring it on ind to

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Speaker 1: the phone calls, that having to duck them, the phone call,

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Speaker 1: to trying to tell them no, to making it happen,

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Speaker 1: that constole phone calls. Now, you gotta wait till you

425
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Speaker 1: get to a certain level. And I've talked to a

426
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Speaker 1: lot of people like this. I put all of them

427
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Speaker 1: on salarly. Okay, here's your monthly cipher and you can

428
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Speaker 1: make it whatever you want to make it. Here's your

429
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Speaker 1: five hundred a month. Here's your two fifty for the month.

430
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Speaker 1: You know, I'm off on another bracket with mine. They're

431
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Speaker 1: getting off the thousands. But here's your money for the month.

432
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Speaker 1: I love you. I am successful. I know y'all older

433
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Speaker 1: than me, y'all being struggled. This hard to help. Guess

434
00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:56,280
Speaker 1: what it alleviates the phone calls. It alleviates that, oh

435
00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:59,359
Speaker 1: you ain't nothing, you forgot about us, But you gotta

436
00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:01,560
Speaker 1: wait until you at a certain level. But if you

437
00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:04,399
Speaker 1: want to help your family out, your mama, your sister,

438
00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:07,119
Speaker 1: your brother's constantly nickeling. Diamond man, let me get a

439
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:09,920
Speaker 1: hundred fifty here, Let me hold two fitty. Put them

440
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Speaker 1: on salary to two hundred a month. He go your

441
00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:16,840
Speaker 1: two hundred. Guess what that that really does? Slow down there?

442
00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:20,520
Speaker 1: I need foe hunt. Hold up, partner, I sent you. You

443
00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:23,119
Speaker 1: You need, say two hundred from my mama been on

444
00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:26,600
Speaker 1: salary loan? Yeah, she has, because Steve, I mean, while

445
00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:29,800
Speaker 1: we're talking, there are people out there that do need help.

446
00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:32,480
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, legitimate help. There's some people they

447
00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:35,200
Speaker 1: do need help. I mean we all have been there,

448
00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:39,400
Speaker 1: and thank god there was something heard every story at all. Yeah.

449
00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:41,600
Speaker 1: But I mean, I'm just saying there are some people

450
00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:44,359
Speaker 1: you know that need need help. I mean, how do

451
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:47,359
Speaker 1: you determine. I'm not saying you don't help nobody. I

452
00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:49,959
Speaker 1: know what I'm telling you right now. Listen to me.

453
00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:53,560
Speaker 1: Get out of the loaning money business. Okay, all right,

454
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:56,280
Speaker 1: got it? Now? If you're not gonna give it to them,

455
00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:58,000
Speaker 1: so you ain't gonna worry about it no more. My

456
00:26:58,080 --> 00:27:00,600
Speaker 1: philosophy is I'm not gonna give it to you. Then

457
00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:03,119
Speaker 1: I ain't got it, bro, I ain't got it. I

458
00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:05,680
Speaker 1: don't have it. I don't loan, I don't loan, don't

459
00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:07,680
Speaker 1: don't come to me, So just say no and don't

460
00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:10,160
Speaker 1: feel guilt about it. I had I had a wealthy

461
00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:13,240
Speaker 1: friend who got in a real jam. It kind of

462
00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:16,520
Speaker 1: got publicized with his bills, and he came to me

463
00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:20,359
Speaker 1: for a loan. But he's and he's been wealthy. I

464
00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:23,119
Speaker 1: knew he was gonna come back. I loaned him a

465
00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:26,920
Speaker 1: healthy amount of money, substantial amount. He came right back

466
00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:30,840
Speaker 1: to me when he said he was with the check. Okay,

467
00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:33,480
Speaker 1: So that kind of situation. He had done things for

468
00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:36,320
Speaker 1: me in the past, not so much money, but it's

469
00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:40,000
Speaker 1: phone calls put me in touch with this guy. That guy,

470
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:42,040
Speaker 1: so we had it a little bit going on. So

471
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Speaker 1: when he came for that substantial amount of money, you know,

472
00:27:45,760 --> 00:27:48,320
Speaker 1: I had to go now because Marge and I have

473
00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:51,760
Speaker 1: a relationship where she has some of her money from

474
00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:53,680
Speaker 1: her allowance and I had my money from my allowance.

475
00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:55,960
Speaker 1: But this money he came to me, I had to

476
00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:57,919
Speaker 1: go to my wife and go ahead, baby, can we

477
00:27:58,000 --> 00:27:59,960
Speaker 1: do this right here? That's a lot because it's kind

478
00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:02,159
Speaker 1: on the stepping outside of what I have the power

479
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:06,439
Speaker 1: to do without confiding in you, so forth and so on.

480
00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:09,240
Speaker 1: You know, she's had family members that's needed help and

481
00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:12,640
Speaker 1: she comes to me and then yeah, but but she'll

482
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:15,040
Speaker 1: tell them for any amount of money, y'all, you gotta

483
00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:17,640
Speaker 1: go to my hud. That takes her off the hood.

484
00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:20,280
Speaker 1: She go, no, you gotta Marjorie just tell you know,

485
00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:22,000
Speaker 1: y'all can't come to me with that, you have to

486
00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:25,800
Speaker 1: go ask my hus Now speaking, since you brought Marjorie up, well,

487
00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:28,000
Speaker 1: talk talk quickly if you can. We have about thirty

488
00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:30,840
Speaker 1: more seconds left. You always say you need four bank accounts.

489
00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:33,960
Speaker 1: Four bank accounts. We have the bank account where all

490
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:37,920
Speaker 1: the money goes in that pays for bills and everything necessity, house,

491
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Speaker 1: electric car, know anything. We have another account that requires

492
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Speaker 1: both of our signatures. It's a savings account. We cannot

493
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Speaker 1: have touched that unless Marjorie and I both signed, and

494
00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:49,800
Speaker 1: then Marjorie has an account. I have an account, that

495
00:28:49,920 --> 00:28:51,440
Speaker 1: money go to her, That money go to me. I

496
00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:53,320
Speaker 1: can't tell her what to do. She can't say nothing

497
00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:55,240
Speaker 1: of that. She wanted to buy jewry. She brought Jerry

498
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Speaker 1: I bout Cuba. Sigar, I bout Cuba. Cigar. Can't say

499
00:28:57,600 --> 00:29:05,200
Speaker 1: nothing and we'll be that will be bad. You're listening.

500
00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:11,200
Speaker 1: Steve Jay is here with things that have a cutoff age.

501
00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:16,680
Speaker 1: Jay explained, well, well, Steve actually has it these things,

502
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:20,800
Speaker 1: Shelly and everybody. There's a cutoff age to everything and

503
00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:25,040
Speaker 1: everything you do. Some people some people just ignore it

504
00:29:25,080 --> 00:29:30,840
Speaker 1: and just keep doing it. But down like, come on,

505
00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:38,280
Speaker 1: this should have a cutoff point. The name name your

506
00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:42,160
Speaker 1: over fed. We don't need to look out there and

507
00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:46,600
Speaker 1: see you doing the name name the whip are the

508
00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:52,640
Speaker 1: name name and you fart it? Really? Thirty five? Thirty three?

509
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:56,240
Speaker 1: Thirty three, yeah, thirty three you asked stop doing the

510
00:29:56,280 --> 00:30:02,080
Speaker 1: whip and the name name. Here's what you can't do

511
00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:05,040
Speaker 1: if you over thirty five, you cannot go see the

512
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Speaker 1: me goals to four man can so you can listen

513
00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:14,600
Speaker 1: to them? You can't, but you gotta take your keys.

514
00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:22,400
Speaker 1: Somebody with you just went way too old. Too old

515
00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:31,880
Speaker 1: people sitting next to whom here's something that has a

516
00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:34,560
Speaker 1: cut off age, and we don't have to cut off age,

517
00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:42,000
Speaker 1: but just listen to this. You cannot wear crop tops

518
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Speaker 1: if you have a muffin top. Man, woman, that's cut

519
00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:56,400
Speaker 1: off too short, like you exec your Elliott. Well you're not.

520
00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:59,200
Speaker 1: That's a good one. I like it. I just love

521
00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:02,800
Speaker 1: the muffin. Yeah you can't do it, now you do it.

522
00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:06,440
Speaker 1: I don't mind a little muffin on a woman, but

523
00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:11,680
Speaker 1: on the man. Man, dude, yeah, dude. If you over

524
00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:15,720
Speaker 1: twenty five, you got to stop using the word lit.

525
00:31:18,520 --> 00:31:22,480
Speaker 1: You over twenty five, Yes, sirley, you got to stop

526
00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:28,880
Speaker 1: using the word lit out of the day sthetic. If

527
00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:34,280
Speaker 1: you all fifty five, you're still using the word cop asthetics.

528
00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:43,040
Speaker 1: Everything that's cop asthetic, man, man, that's cop asthetic. You

529
00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:50,320
Speaker 1: need to come on out, Come on. If you four

530
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Speaker 1: years old and you're in a stroller with your legs

531
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Speaker 1: crossed and you can pull yourself along in the stroller,

532
00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:10,200
Speaker 1: who ass needs to be walking? Something for the baby?

533
00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:16,640
Speaker 1: His one? If you're over eighty would a walker, and

534
00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:19,800
Speaker 1: it's got to come hold a fanny pack or place

535
00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:23,440
Speaker 1: a hole of newspaper tennis balls for a grip. Dam

536
00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:33,800
Speaker 1: you gotta take something off just too much. If you

537
00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:43,520
Speaker 1: over farty and people are still considering you ratchet, you're

538
00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 1: not ratchet. You actually stupid. A man over farty with

539
00:32:51,160 --> 00:33:00,640
Speaker 1: two change his name is not too changed, probably actually

540
00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:06,640
Speaker 1: on the outside, the outside and still wearing any form

541
00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:16,480
Speaker 1: of nuggets, jewel nuggets. What about the set nuggets set

542
00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:23,000
Speaker 1: on Monica Sherley. If you're all the far five h huh,

543
00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:30,320
Speaker 1: each finger nail can't be a different company. They've been

544
00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:37,200
Speaker 1: doing it polish whatever. You all don't know. We might

545
00:33:37,280 --> 00:33:40,200
Speaker 1: not know. We know that. But let me tell you

546
00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:42,720
Speaker 1: this though, Don who's in charge of all of our

547
00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:45,320
Speaker 1: social media are digital programming and all of that. When

548
00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:48,760
Speaker 1: you mentioned nuggets, he looked over like all she could

549
00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:56,760
Speaker 1: think of was like chicken McNuggets. What you were talking about? Yeah, nugget.

550
00:33:56,800 --> 00:34:02,480
Speaker 1: Watch it's like nuggets. Yeah, nuggets are still she thought

551
00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:04,920
Speaker 1: you were talking about it mc donald. Oh, no, nugget

552
00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:10,919
Speaker 1: the nugget set. Let me see which one was my favorite?

553
00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:17,120
Speaker 1: It was between the Migo's party and Muffin Top the crop. Yeah,

554
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:22,160
Speaker 1: I like four years old, still in the stroller. Yeah,

555
00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:25,400
Speaker 1: you got your leg crossed. You don't get the walking.

556
00:34:27,160 --> 00:34:29,879
Speaker 1: So Steve, I got a question, So I can't say.

557
00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:33,720
Speaker 1: Let what's the cut off age? Cut off? Ages? Thirty

558
00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:36,399
Speaker 1: five over thirty five? You know what? You can't say,

559
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:42,080
Speaker 1: Jane what Trump? Oh, you can't say Trump, remember Trump,

560
00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:48,279
Speaker 1: or that's up there with Turkey. We couldn't n't say

561
00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:52,080
Speaker 1: monk with I couldn't say what monk with? Don't be

562
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:55,560
Speaker 1: monking with me. Don't be around. Oh you can't say that.

563
00:34:56,200 --> 00:35:00,399
Speaker 1: I'm going to see the mego see the You ain't

564
00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:04,240
Speaker 1: gonna see to me? Taking junior, me, take some junior.

565
00:35:04,280 --> 00:35:09,360
Speaker 1: What am I gonna doing? Watching? What was doing? You're

566
00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:14,600
Speaker 1: sitting in there looking over your glass old lady, watching

567
00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:20,919
Speaker 1: the mein't go don't don't go down in bass, don't

568
00:35:20,920 --> 00:35:26,200
Speaker 1: do that? Y'all ever seen Monica look over glass lady

569
00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:33,720
Speaker 1: looking at the met But but but with a foam

570
00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:38,399
Speaker 1: dress on and some pumps with an ankle strap. Yeah,

571
00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:43,800
Speaker 1: but with a low kitty kitty here on. You cannot

572
00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:47,279
Speaker 1: go see to me. We got cut off age. All right,

573
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:50,040
Speaker 1: we'll be back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

574
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Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show, all right? So Jay, yes, yes, yes?

575
00:35:56,719 --> 00:36:00,480
Speaker 1: What is this famous last word? She wrote? Last words

576
00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:03,120
Speaker 1: has to do it a lot of people get hurt

577
00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:07,359
Speaker 1: by stupidity, or sometimes they don't make it because they

578
00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:10,120
Speaker 1: say something or do something stupid, and all we have

579
00:36:10,840 --> 00:36:14,160
Speaker 1: is their last words, for instance, last words like this,

580
00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:17,719
Speaker 1: that gun ain't loaded. Those were the last word, right,

581
00:36:19,880 --> 00:36:24,359
Speaker 1: that last the last words they said was that dog

582
00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:29,759
Speaker 1: don't bite. That's the last words they said, faust. The

583
00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:33,279
Speaker 1: famous last words, Like he said before he left, I'm

584
00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:36,000
Speaker 1: going this where, I'm going this way because all the

585
00:36:36,080 --> 00:36:40,040
Speaker 1: bells are hibernated at this time. Right. So that's the

586
00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:45,839
Speaker 1: last thing we heard from him. The last thing he said.

587
00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:47,600
Speaker 1: He was in the living room and he said to

588
00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:50,279
Speaker 1: the little boy, punch me in the stomach as hard

589
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:58,279
Speaker 1: as you can. I can take it. That was the

590
00:36:58,400 --> 00:37:05,879
Speaker 1: last thing you got one goad last word, I bet

591
00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:13,640
Speaker 1: you better get out of my face. I bet you

592
00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:17,240
Speaker 1: better get out of my face. Famous last words. Famous

593
00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:20,440
Speaker 1: last word he said to the group was these ain't

594
00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:24,440
Speaker 1: poisoned mushrooms. I know poison mushrooms, and I see poison mushrooms. Okay,

595
00:37:24,560 --> 00:37:44,799
Speaker 1: that's yeah. I ain't going nowhere. Famous last word. You

596
00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:50,200
Speaker 1: got one? You got one, Steve, you got another one? Good? Oh?

597
00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:58,520
Speaker 1: Hell yeah, I can jump over there right there, I

598
00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:02,480
Speaker 1: can jump over there. My famous as words, he said.

599
00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:05,200
Speaker 1: When he went to bed, I'll go to sleep and

600
00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:20,600
Speaker 1: it'll be all gone in the morning. I'll feel much better. Wow. No,

601
00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:28,920
Speaker 1: not this time. He shocks on it like warm water. Wow. Okay,

602
00:38:31,239 --> 00:38:34,880
Speaker 1: famous last word. Don't worry about it, girl. My wife sleeps.

603
00:38:34,920 --> 00:38:45,440
Speaker 1: She can't hear damn thing. Worry. Take it out, man,

604
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:53,120
Speaker 1: take it out. Yes, somebody drops something in the water

605
00:38:54,280 --> 00:39:05,560
Speaker 1: and then somebody say I get it. Thank you. Guys,

606
00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:13,640
Speaker 1: you're listening. All right, It is time now for comedy roulette.

607
00:39:13,680 --> 00:39:18,319
Speaker 1: Steve Jay, please please quickly set this. Every week our

608
00:39:18,440 --> 00:39:22,520
Speaker 1: comedy ability is tested in the way we prove how

609
00:39:22,560 --> 00:39:25,400
Speaker 1: good we are. Put five subjects on the wheel, spending

610
00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:27,799
Speaker 1: the wheel were stop. We got it. That's all it is.

611
00:39:27,880 --> 00:39:30,360
Speaker 1: That's all it is, comedy roulette. All right, Here are

612
00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:37,840
Speaker 1: the five subjects. Number one fish grease. Number two, she

613
00:39:38,080 --> 00:39:46,200
Speaker 1: wasn't that big in high school. I don't appreciate that one, okay.

614
00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:52,040
Speaker 1: Number three taste like chicken. Number four. Now that I

615
00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:56,719
Speaker 1: have a little money, you know who I am? Yeah?

616
00:39:56,760 --> 00:40:00,080
Speaker 1: And number five, I don't know how you could eat that.

617
00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:04,600
Speaker 1: Give me that, Give me that right ahead, right ahead,

618
00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:13,960
Speaker 1: all right, let's go spend the wheel. Cat come on free.

619
00:40:16,680 --> 00:40:19,640
Speaker 1: Oh h. Now that I have a little money, you

620
00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:23,120
Speaker 1: know who I am, Let me have that. Let me

621
00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:26,840
Speaker 1: start that see back in the day, my nickname was fish.

622
00:40:27,320 --> 00:40:31,600
Speaker 1: Didn't nobody no, fish didn't speak the fish. You was

623
00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:36,000
Speaker 1: too fine to speak to fish. But now that fishes

624
00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:43,600
Speaker 1: on evy hay fish? How you doing? Fish? And I

625
00:40:43,640 --> 00:40:46,840
Speaker 1: can't remember who you are? What you got time? I

626
00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:49,120
Speaker 1: was out of my league. I was way out of

627
00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:52,360
Speaker 1: my league. You would drop dead fine to me. I

628
00:40:52,760 --> 00:40:56,239
Speaker 1: beg forward, won'ted it. I used to ask for a

629
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Speaker 1: day and night. You never gave me the time of day.

630
00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:03,120
Speaker 1: But nah, nah, got a little money. I'm on the

631
00:41:03,200 --> 00:41:07,400
Speaker 1: Steve Harvard motiho. You're texting me. Naw, I can't have it.

632
00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:09,719
Speaker 1: If I want it, I don't want it now. I

633
00:41:09,760 --> 00:41:15,240
Speaker 1: don't want it. Yeah anytime, Come on, Joey. You know whatnot?

634
00:41:15,320 --> 00:41:17,080
Speaker 1: I got a little money. You know who know my name?

635
00:41:18,080 --> 00:41:22,000
Speaker 1: Being a collected they know exactly who they talking to now.

636
00:41:22,360 --> 00:41:24,440
Speaker 1: But if they don't even call me by my real name,

637
00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:26,200
Speaker 1: that's how I know they know I got money. Let's

638
00:41:26,239 --> 00:41:29,319
Speaker 1: excuse me as Junior and Junior that ain't my govern name.

639
00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:36,879
Speaker 1: Everybody know now real it's right up my alley. Nah,

640
00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:40,799
Speaker 1: I got a little money. Yeah, you know who I

641
00:41:40,880 --> 00:41:46,960
Speaker 1: am now? Yeah? This goes out to Ike back in Cleveland,

642
00:41:47,520 --> 00:41:51,759
Speaker 1: and mister Albert's mean. Yeah, I used to call me

643
00:41:51,880 --> 00:42:00,160
Speaker 1: el kate Leo wait ken Nah, but and I I

644
00:42:00,440 --> 00:42:04,560
Speaker 1: buy your whole damn stone. Next time I walk in,

645
00:42:04,680 --> 00:42:09,279
Speaker 1: I ain't coming in layway, feel me. Yeah, I might

646
00:42:09,400 --> 00:42:19,480
Speaker 1: just br damning Let me put an initial out there

647
00:42:19,520 --> 00:42:23,080
Speaker 1: with the last name, just the initial and the last name.

648
00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:28,960
Speaker 1: You know who you are, the last name white. Ah,

649
00:42:29,200 --> 00:42:33,680
Speaker 1: you were so fine, Oh my god, you were fine.

650
00:42:34,840 --> 00:42:38,200
Speaker 1: Did not even speak to me in the hall way.

651
00:42:38,840 --> 00:42:41,200
Speaker 1: I walked past you. I act like a slave because

652
00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:43,400
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna look you. Now. He was that damn fine.

653
00:42:43,920 --> 00:42:51,600
Speaker 1: But oh it is changed, nause. He's got a little money. Yeah, yeah,

654
00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:57,759
Speaker 1: he's got a little money. Cold. I'll tell you where

655
00:42:57,719 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 1: everybody know my name that now I'm a lot more

656
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:03,399
Speaker 1: a million and welcome. When I walk into though bank

657
00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:09,680
Speaker 1: account you used to sit on six dollars. But when

658
00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:11,640
Speaker 1: I didn't notice though. When I go in the bank,

659
00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:16,280
Speaker 1: now there's a whole nother room. It's got vegetables hit it. Wow,

660
00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:20,400
Speaker 1: she's Oh. When I'm going to Vegas, mister space, this

661
00:43:20,560 --> 00:43:24,560
Speaker 1: a way you stand in Lyne, Come on around this way.

662
00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:30,239
Speaker 1: Do you have your access card? Never mind. I have mad.

663
00:43:32,960 --> 00:43:34,640
Speaker 1: You know, I used to couldn't go to you that

664
00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:37,839
Speaker 1: I didn't get invited to the big Christmas party because

665
00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:40,680
Speaker 1: I just you know what I'm saying. I wasn't big enough,

666
00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:42,960
Speaker 1: I didn't have a name enough. But now that i'm

667
00:43:43,040 --> 00:43:45,960
Speaker 1: violing and I'm I'm on the show and I'm the nip.

668
00:43:46,080 --> 00:43:48,040
Speaker 1: You got a little money in doing this stand up.

669
00:43:48,200 --> 00:43:50,839
Speaker 1: I don't want to go to your fucking Christmas party. Now.

670
00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:54,000
Speaker 1: I told my old damn Christmas party and my shot

671
00:43:54,120 --> 00:43:59,880
Speaker 1: token ya. All right, all right, we'll be back with

672
00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:03,880
Speaker 1: Nephew Tommy's prank phone call right after this. You're listening

673
00:44:04,080 --> 00:44:08,640
Speaker 1: to Day Morning show coming up at the top of

674
00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:12,080
Speaker 1: the hour. Right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry

675
00:44:12,160 --> 00:44:17,120
Speaker 1: letter for today, the subject living with another man's wife.

676
00:44:18,920 --> 00:44:22,959
Speaker 1: But right now Nephew Tommy is here with today's brank

677
00:44:23,040 --> 00:44:26,879
Speaker 1: phone call. What's you guy for his nef Queen in

678
00:44:26,920 --> 00:44:32,600
Speaker 1: the church rain, Jesus queen in the church man? One

679
00:44:32,640 --> 00:44:38,640
Speaker 1: more time? Who in the church rain? And is what

680
00:44:38,760 --> 00:44:41,719
Speaker 1: I got? That's it, let's run it Weed in the

681
00:44:41,880 --> 00:44:48,520
Speaker 1: church man? Come on, Hello, I'm trying to read dare

682
00:44:49,000 --> 00:44:54,479
Speaker 1: brother Dan, Hello, Hello, because let's see that I'm trying

683
00:44:54,480 --> 00:45:00,239
Speaker 1: to read Brother Dare. Oh okay, yeah, this brother out

684
00:45:00,239 --> 00:45:04,239
Speaker 1: from the church from Belt the Baptist. Hello, bro, yeah,

685
00:45:04,280 --> 00:45:06,680
Speaker 1: I call you. I'm trying to get a little information

686
00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:10,560
Speaker 1: about the church band. What's what's your schedule? Uh? Will

687
00:45:10,600 --> 00:45:13,719
Speaker 1: you drive the church red? What's what's your schedule? I

688
00:45:14,000 --> 00:45:21,120
Speaker 1: drive it Wednesday, Fridays and Sundays. Okay, Wednesday, Friday, Sunday,

689
00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:26,000
Speaker 1: last Sunday. What what is that schedule? O? Sunday. I

690
00:45:26,440 --> 00:45:29,160
Speaker 1: usually start about eight o'clock in the morning, probably a

691
00:45:29,160 --> 00:45:31,920
Speaker 1: little earlier, depending on some of the elderly people that

692
00:45:31,960 --> 00:45:34,280
Speaker 1: I had to go pick up and bring to the church.

693
00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:38,320
Speaker 1: Make sure they get there okay, and get situated and

694
00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:41,720
Speaker 1: make sure they are on time for the service and whatnot. Okay,

695
00:45:41,719 --> 00:45:45,960
Speaker 1: and then you take them back home after service is over. Yes,

696
00:45:46,200 --> 00:45:47,800
Speaker 1: I try to get all of them back home, unless

697
00:45:47,800 --> 00:45:49,719
Speaker 1: they got family members or something that come up there

698
00:45:49,719 --> 00:45:51,120
Speaker 1: and meet them up there and want to take them

699
00:45:51,120 --> 00:45:54,000
Speaker 1: to Jena or sun afterwards. But I usually get about

700
00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:59,880
Speaker 1: it back home okay, Okay, law this class Sunday, which

701
00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:02,839
Speaker 1: is part of the reason why I'm calling you. Uh.

702
00:46:02,960 --> 00:46:06,720
Speaker 1: They saying that, um, some of the church Uh numbers

703
00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:10,960
Speaker 1: that was on the band this Sunday. Uh they are

704
00:46:11,040 --> 00:46:15,360
Speaker 1: complaining saying that, um that the church Vand was smelling

705
00:46:15,440 --> 00:46:19,640
Speaker 1: like weed when they got on there. Excuse me, they

706
00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:23,440
Speaker 1: say the church Vand was spending like weed when they

707
00:46:23,480 --> 00:46:26,600
Speaker 1: got on there. And you are the person that was

708
00:46:26,719 --> 00:46:29,120
Speaker 1: driving them. No, no no, no, no, no no not not

709
00:46:29,120 --> 00:46:32,160
Speaker 1: not the van that that I'm driving. I'm I don't No,

710
00:46:32,320 --> 00:46:36,239
Speaker 1: I don't. I ain't smoke weed and no van, do

711
00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:40,799
Speaker 1: you smoke weed? No? I don't smoke weed. I mean

712
00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:42,799
Speaker 1: not carry I mean I have before, but I don't

713
00:46:42,840 --> 00:46:45,760
Speaker 1: smoke weed now and I wouldn't smoke weed before. Picking

714
00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:51,560
Speaker 1: some people love to go to. Now where you from?

715
00:46:51,600 --> 00:46:54,440
Speaker 1: Who told you this? Well? All I knew is what what?

716
00:46:54,640 --> 00:46:57,200
Speaker 1: What's come down? The pipeline? Is? They saying that that

717
00:46:57,640 --> 00:47:01,160
Speaker 1: a couple of the nimbers came complaining. I see see nae,

718
00:47:01,640 --> 00:47:04,239
Speaker 1: this just happened last week about this pipeline. I want

719
00:47:04,280 --> 00:47:07,040
Speaker 1: to know who the pipeline is because just last week

720
00:47:07,239 --> 00:47:09,680
Speaker 1: they came and me talking about that I was using

721
00:47:09,760 --> 00:47:11,680
Speaker 1: the van to go places that I wanted to go

722
00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:13,640
Speaker 1: to all my personal time. Now I don't do that.

723
00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:15,640
Speaker 1: I don't do stuff like that. And now I hadn't

724
00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:17,320
Speaker 1: had a path, I don't had a history, but I

725
00:47:17,360 --> 00:47:19,600
Speaker 1: don't do stuff like that, and I wouldn't smoking no

726
00:47:20,000 --> 00:47:24,200
Speaker 1: church van. So are you seriously talking? What? What? What?

727
00:47:24,520 --> 00:47:26,280
Speaker 1: We're trying to We're trying to get to the bottom

728
00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:30,520
Speaker 1: of it and see what's going on with you. Elderly

729
00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:34,000
Speaker 1: person said, do you know which one? I don't? They

730
00:47:34,080 --> 00:47:36,800
Speaker 1: loved me Every Sunday, didn't people tell me they loved me? U?

731
00:47:37,080 --> 00:47:39,240
Speaker 1: They say I'm one of the most respectful young gentlemen

732
00:47:39,280 --> 00:47:41,359
Speaker 1: they've ever met in their life. And so I really

733
00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:43,799
Speaker 1: find it hard to believe that you you you getting

734
00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:47,160
Speaker 1: these type of complaints about me. Okay, what I'm saying

735
00:47:47,200 --> 00:47:49,239
Speaker 1: spe like, oh we I don't know what that means

736
00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:52,759
Speaker 1: or nothing like that. Look, brothers, I don't know you

737
00:47:52,880 --> 00:47:54,480
Speaker 1: too well, and I know you don't know me. But

738
00:47:54,840 --> 00:47:57,680
Speaker 1: I've been driving this van as as as a point

739
00:47:57,760 --> 00:47:59,879
Speaker 1: to try to change my life and where I come from.

740
00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:02,960
Speaker 1: So this was was something that I wanted to volunteer

741
00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:05,120
Speaker 1: even though I'm getting paid to give my time to

742
00:48:05,280 --> 00:48:07,400
Speaker 1: do this for the church. And now this is like

743
00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:09,960
Speaker 1: the second instance where y'all and came at me on

744
00:48:10,120 --> 00:48:12,120
Speaker 1: some stuff about like I'm trying to do something with

745
00:48:12,280 --> 00:48:14,440
Speaker 1: this van. Now, why I would I disrespect the church

746
00:48:14,560 --> 00:48:16,800
Speaker 1: van by smoking weed in it and then letting the

747
00:48:16,840 --> 00:48:19,720
Speaker 1: weeds stay in there so other people could smell it. Okay,

748
00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:22,239
Speaker 1: so let me tell you what we're gonna do. We're

749
00:48:22,280 --> 00:48:24,200
Speaker 1: gonna go out here to the church man to say,

750
00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:26,920
Speaker 1: we're gonna go out here today and open it up. Now,

751
00:48:27,000 --> 00:48:31,919
Speaker 1: if we see any seeds or anything around the driver's seat,

752
00:48:32,440 --> 00:48:35,920
Speaker 1: then then then we're gonna We're gonna definitely, uh point,

753
00:48:36,040 --> 00:48:38,040
Speaker 1: gonna open the van up. And I was raised in

754
00:48:38,120 --> 00:48:41,439
Speaker 1: that church, man, My mamma, go to that church, my grandma, see,

755
00:48:41,600 --> 00:48:43,560
Speaker 1: go to that church. See the reason we even all

756
00:48:43,640 --> 00:48:45,640
Speaker 1: left that church. And you think I'm gonna mess up?

757
00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:48,040
Speaker 1: They ain't by driving around in the band full of

758
00:48:48,080 --> 00:48:53,560
Speaker 1: elderly people smoking and we need blood. Dad, I don't

759
00:48:53,600 --> 00:48:56,680
Speaker 1: know how to the bad smell like weed, man, Now

760
00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:58,840
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't got the answer to these questions.

761
00:48:59,040 --> 00:49:00,880
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to tell you that it wasn't me.

762
00:49:01,200 --> 00:49:02,919
Speaker 1: Did you have some weed in your part? I can't

763
00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:05,400
Speaker 1: admit it with just smell it. I ain't had no

764
00:49:05,560 --> 00:49:07,640
Speaker 1: weed on me. Stop trying to say like I had

765
00:49:07,719 --> 00:49:09,399
Speaker 1: weed on me, and you ain't gonna get me nothing

766
00:49:09,640 --> 00:49:11,560
Speaker 1: that I ain't. No, and we ain't had no weed

767
00:49:11,640 --> 00:49:13,440
Speaker 1: on me. Okay, Now you ain't gonna mess up my

768
00:49:13,560 --> 00:49:16,480
Speaker 1: name or my family's name in this church and disrespect

769
00:49:16,640 --> 00:49:19,359
Speaker 1: us like this. Now, We've been helping this church for years,

770
00:49:19,600 --> 00:49:21,600
Speaker 1: and I'm trying to tell you that I ain't riding

771
00:49:21,640 --> 00:49:24,359
Speaker 1: around and no fans smoking no weed with no elderly people.

772
00:49:24,520 --> 00:49:26,200
Speaker 1: Did you ask any of the elderly people if they

773
00:49:26,280 --> 00:49:31,480
Speaker 1: had any weed on them? Uh? No, we didn't. No, No,

774
00:49:31,560 --> 00:49:34,239
Speaker 1: I didn't think about it, no elderly people having no weed.

775
00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:37,440
Speaker 1: So you just assume it's me what one of them?

776
00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:40,800
Speaker 1: Guy got coma or something? What? What? What? You know? What?

777
00:49:41,040 --> 00:49:42,640
Speaker 1: You know? Who? I think? What? Did you know? Who

778
00:49:42,680 --> 00:49:46,200
Speaker 1: I think the weed belonged to? Oh? Oh, I think

779
00:49:46,360 --> 00:49:49,640
Speaker 1: I think the weed belong and nephew Till from the

780
00:49:49,719 --> 00:50:02,120
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Show. What man, damn you prank? Oh my god,

781
00:50:02,960 --> 00:50:09,040
Speaker 1: you just got to put his name is brother brother Lawrence,

782
00:50:09,600 --> 00:50:21,560
Speaker 1: Lawrence Ross Lawrence. Oh my Larry called Larry, But tell Larry,

783
00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:31,279
Speaker 1: tell Larry in trouble with me? Van Man, I got

784
00:50:31,360 --> 00:50:33,120
Speaker 1: one more thing that I got one more thing to

785
00:50:33,160 --> 00:50:35,799
Speaker 1: ask you, man, what is the baddest and I mean

786
00:50:35,920 --> 00:50:41,880
Speaker 1: the baddest radio show in the land. Man, Steve Harvey Morning,

787
00:50:41,920 --> 00:50:48,319
Speaker 1: so man going on risch Man, going on the chill

788
00:50:48,360 --> 00:50:50,880
Speaker 1: out the rest of the day. I'm try, man. I

789
00:50:50,960 --> 00:50:58,279
Speaker 1: know I ain't gonna smoke no weed. Queen and Church

790
00:50:58,440 --> 00:51:03,960
Speaker 1: brand you by too much. People. It's just for your

791
00:51:04,400 --> 00:51:12,560
Speaker 1: Uh it's weed, said Jay. He said weed, it's weed.

792
00:51:12,640 --> 00:51:18,719
Speaker 1: He's absolutely right. A team Tommy, I'm gonna change team. No,

793
00:51:18,880 --> 00:51:21,439
Speaker 1: ain't gonna happen. No, they ain't. They ain't got gonna

794
00:51:21,440 --> 00:51:23,360
Speaker 1: do with him doing the team Tommy. That's dude to

795
00:51:23,520 --> 00:51:32,160
Speaker 1: heavy usage. That's what friends. He ain't got a damn

796
00:51:32,239 --> 00:51:38,480
Speaker 1: thing do with being a team. Tim after this long weekend,

797
00:51:38,560 --> 00:51:46,520
Speaker 1: that's how he says it. Show right here man, yep,

798
00:51:47,480 --> 00:51:49,600
Speaker 1: I bought him over here, and for a week he

799
00:51:49,680 --> 00:52:07,320
Speaker 1: didn't know it. Oh, catch your nephew, Jackson, Mississippi MLK weekend,

800
00:52:07,520 --> 00:52:10,799
Speaker 1: Jackson the nephew finally coming to Jackson, baby, get your

801
00:52:10,840 --> 00:52:13,040
Speaker 1: tickets and having some fish fried up when I get

802
00:52:13,080 --> 00:52:14,600
Speaker 1: down there. I just don't just throw it. I throw

803
00:52:14,680 --> 00:52:17,399
Speaker 1: that out there like little catfish or something. Be nice

804
00:52:17,440 --> 00:52:22,600
Speaker 1: for the nephew. Okay, catfish cole Slaw. Throw some fries

805
00:52:22,680 --> 00:52:25,080
Speaker 1: in there, throw some seasoning on that. That's all. That's all.

806
00:52:25,120 --> 00:52:28,160
Speaker 1: Tommy looking for Jackson the Nephew coming email Ka Weekend,

807
00:52:28,719 --> 00:52:33,880
Speaker 1: Chuckle's Comedy Club. Tickets on sal Red Nah you go

808
00:52:34,719 --> 00:52:38,279
Speaker 1: Whorld Why sir on World Why? All right? Those will

809
00:52:38,320 --> 00:52:41,960
Speaker 1: be great shows coming up. The Strawberry Letters subjects living

810
00:52:42,040 --> 00:52:44,800
Speaker 1: with another Man's wife will get into it right after this.

811
00:52:45,480 --> 00:52:51,280
Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show time now for today's

812
00:52:51,280 --> 00:52:55,000
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice and relationships, dating, work, sex,

813
00:52:55,120 --> 00:52:58,880
Speaker 1: parenting and more. Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey,

814
00:52:59,200 --> 00:53:02,800
Speaker 1: s M. And click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be

815
00:53:02,880 --> 00:53:05,319
Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're

816
00:53:05,320 --> 00:53:08,680
Speaker 1: going to read this one right here, right now today. Yeah,

817
00:53:09,120 --> 00:53:11,200
Speaker 1: buggle up and hold on tight. We got it for

818
00:53:11,320 --> 00:53:14,160
Speaker 1: you here. It is a Strawberry Letter. Thank you, Nephew.

819
00:53:14,320 --> 00:53:18,680
Speaker 1: Subjects living with another Man's wife to Stephen Shirley. I've

820
00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:21,279
Speaker 1: been married a little over a year now, and this

821
00:53:21,520 --> 00:53:24,520
Speaker 1: is my second marriage. Since the wedding, my husband and

822
00:53:24,600 --> 00:53:26,560
Speaker 1: I have been searching for a new church home that

823
00:53:26,640 --> 00:53:30,040
Speaker 1: we mutually agreed on We visited churches and settled at

824
00:53:30,040 --> 00:53:34,240
Speaker 1: a church close to our home with a good, stern pastor.

825
00:53:34,800 --> 00:53:38,960
Speaker 1: We loved his preaching style and felt really welcome there

826
00:53:39,160 --> 00:53:42,560
Speaker 1: until one Sunday when the pastor's message was so crazy

827
00:53:42,960 --> 00:53:46,240
Speaker 1: that it sent my husband into a frenzy. The pastor

828
00:53:46,320 --> 00:53:49,680
Speaker 1: preached about marriage and stated that anyone that has been

829
00:53:49,760 --> 00:53:52,920
Speaker 1: married more than once is going straight to hell if

830
00:53:53,000 --> 00:53:56,480
Speaker 1: the person gets and if the person gets remarried, the

831
00:53:56,640 --> 00:54:00,960
Speaker 1: new spouse is going to hell too. Pastor said that

832
00:54:01,080 --> 00:54:04,479
Speaker 1: God only recognizes one marriage and there is no such

833
00:54:04,600 --> 00:54:08,800
Speaker 1: thing as divorce. Ever, my husband took the message literally,

834
00:54:09,040 --> 00:54:11,560
Speaker 1: and on the way home, he said the pastor was

835
00:54:11,600 --> 00:54:15,120
Speaker 1: speaking directly from the Bible. I showed my husband the

836
00:54:15,200 --> 00:54:18,240
Speaker 1: exact scripture in the Bible, and it didn't say anything

837
00:54:18,360 --> 00:54:24,200
Speaker 1: about anyone burning in hell. Even still, my husband believed

838
00:54:24,239 --> 00:54:28,759
Speaker 1: what the pastor said, and he told me he had

839
00:54:28,960 --> 00:54:31,840
Speaker 1: a bad feeling about me on our wedding day. So

840
00:54:32,040 --> 00:54:36,040
Speaker 1: that must have been why I was blindsided, because I

841
00:54:36,120 --> 00:54:38,719
Speaker 1: thought our marriage was great and he was happy with me.

842
00:54:39,280 --> 00:54:42,560
Speaker 1: My husband's distanced himself from me and we stopped having

843
00:54:42,719 --> 00:54:45,560
Speaker 1: any type of intimacy. I refused to go back to

844
00:54:45,640 --> 00:54:49,480
Speaker 1: the church, but my husband loves it. The final straw

845
00:54:49,640 --> 00:54:51,440
Speaker 1: was last week when he came home and said the

846
00:54:51,520 --> 00:54:54,520
Speaker 1: pastor asked him if he was still living with another

847
00:54:54,600 --> 00:54:57,919
Speaker 1: man's wife. I gave my husband an ultimatum to either

848
00:54:58,040 --> 00:55:00,920
Speaker 1: leave the church or leave our home. Because of this

849
00:55:01,160 --> 00:55:04,800
Speaker 1: wacky pastor, my marriage is in shambles. I want to

850
00:55:04,840 --> 00:55:06,960
Speaker 1: get my marriage back on track, but I don't know

851
00:55:07,080 --> 00:55:10,000
Speaker 1: how Is this worth fighting for or is my husband

852
00:55:10,080 --> 00:55:14,759
Speaker 1: losing his mind like the pastor. Please help well, I

853
00:55:14,880 --> 00:55:19,840
Speaker 1: mean this is only worth huh. Yeah, this is a

854
00:55:19,880 --> 00:55:23,200
Speaker 1: good letter. This is a really good letter. You ask

855
00:55:23,280 --> 00:55:25,120
Speaker 1: you if this is worth fighting for it, I say

856
00:55:25,160 --> 00:55:28,000
Speaker 1: it's worth fighting for if you want to save your marriage.

857
00:55:28,000 --> 00:55:31,120
Speaker 1: You said you want to to to set your marriage

858
00:55:31,160 --> 00:55:34,560
Speaker 1: back on track. The problem is you can't be the

859
00:55:34,680 --> 00:55:38,360
Speaker 1: only one fighting in a two person marriage. You just can't.

860
00:55:39,280 --> 00:55:43,800
Speaker 1: Your husband doesn't seem to want anything like that. He

861
00:55:43,920 --> 00:55:47,920
Speaker 1: has distanced himself from you. You've stopped having any type

862
00:55:47,960 --> 00:55:52,360
Speaker 1: of intimacy. Your husband loves this church with this crazy pastor,

863
00:55:52,880 --> 00:55:56,719
Speaker 1: and the pastor is all up in your marriage too. Uh.

864
00:55:57,040 --> 00:55:59,160
Speaker 1: You were right to give your husband an ultimatum in

865
00:55:59,520 --> 00:56:02,279
Speaker 1: this case, either leave the church or or leave your

866
00:56:02,320 --> 00:56:06,240
Speaker 1: home and your marriage is in shambles because your husband

867
00:56:06,440 --> 00:56:09,640
Speaker 1: is following this pastor and not following God as he

868
00:56:09,760 --> 00:56:13,000
Speaker 1: should and as the Bible states. So is this worth

869
00:56:13,080 --> 00:56:16,200
Speaker 1: fighting for? I would say no at this point because

870
00:56:17,239 --> 00:56:19,520
Speaker 1: your husband even said he had a bad feeling about

871
00:56:19,560 --> 00:56:24,279
Speaker 1: you on his wedding day. All right, this is not good,

872
00:56:24,560 --> 00:56:27,960
Speaker 1: Okay for any marriage that's trying to survive. This is

873
00:56:28,000 --> 00:56:32,040
Speaker 1: not good. Your husband needs to be with this pastor

874
00:56:32,160 --> 00:56:35,680
Speaker 1: apparently in this church, because that sounds like he wants

875
00:56:35,760 --> 00:56:37,719
Speaker 1: where he wants to be and not with you in

876
00:56:37,840 --> 00:56:40,200
Speaker 1: this marriage and fighting for this marriage. I don't think

877
00:56:40,280 --> 00:56:45,000
Speaker 1: you have anything to fight for here, Steve, Wow, this

878
00:56:45,280 --> 00:56:51,239
Speaker 1: letter right here, this is just not good. You've been

879
00:56:51,320 --> 00:56:55,200
Speaker 1: married a little over a year now. Uh, this is

880
00:56:55,280 --> 00:56:59,880
Speaker 1: your your husband's second marriage, and this is my husband's

881
00:57:01,200 --> 00:57:06,839
Speaker 1: second marriage. We've been searching for a new church home

882
00:57:07,280 --> 00:57:11,799
Speaker 1: we mutually agreed upon. I guess so y'all both met

883
00:57:12,160 --> 00:57:14,640
Speaker 1: the pastor here and thought it was cool to the sermon.

884
00:57:15,520 --> 00:57:18,520
Speaker 1: We love just preaching style felt really good to one Sunday,

885
00:57:18,560 --> 00:57:24,480
Speaker 1: the pastor's message through your husband into something The pastor

886
00:57:24,640 --> 00:57:30,080
Speaker 1: told about marriage and stated that anybody that's been married

887
00:57:30,240 --> 00:57:35,200
Speaker 1: more than once is going straight to hell. This part

888
00:57:35,400 --> 00:57:43,080
Speaker 1: of the letter affected me deeply. Yeah, part of the

889
00:57:43,280 --> 00:57:47,880
Speaker 1: letter affected me deeply. And I can't go on right

890
00:57:48,000 --> 00:57:55,760
Speaker 1: now because this man, this pass to sid and stated

891
00:57:55,920 --> 00:58:01,840
Speaker 1: that anyone that has been married more than once, it's

892
00:58:01,920 --> 00:58:05,680
Speaker 1: going straight to hell. That's messed up past him. Yeah,

893
00:58:06,480 --> 00:58:10,360
Speaker 1: that's messed up because right now, three of us on

894
00:58:10,520 --> 00:58:20,800
Speaker 1: this show is gone. Yeah, that's why I thought it

895
00:58:20,920 --> 00:58:23,560
Speaker 1: was just three of us to be married more than once, Me,

896
00:58:23,720 --> 00:58:29,920
Speaker 1: you and Jake. So we're gone. That's disheartening. I'm trying

897
00:58:29,960 --> 00:58:32,800
Speaker 1: to be a better person and a better Christian. Now

898
00:58:32,880 --> 00:58:35,960
Speaker 1: you just told me I don't care what I do.

899
00:58:36,800 --> 00:58:42,160
Speaker 1: I'm going to hell. So there is no forgiveness, there's

900
00:58:42,240 --> 00:58:46,800
Speaker 1: no mercy, there's more, there's no grace, there is no

901
00:58:47,040 --> 00:58:52,000
Speaker 1: he died for sins. It ain't none of that. All

902
00:58:52,120 --> 00:58:56,080
Speaker 1: of y'all has been married more than one, going straight

903
00:58:56,200 --> 00:59:03,600
Speaker 1: to hell? Hell? Hell? Oh well, I want to say

904
00:59:03,680 --> 00:59:07,440
Speaker 1: that's all I got for this letter, but I gotta

905
00:59:07,520 --> 00:59:13,320
Speaker 1: do some more. Straight to him, Pastor said that God

906
00:59:13,480 --> 00:59:18,640
Speaker 1: only recognizes one marriage and there's no such thing as divorced. Okay, cool,

907
00:59:18,680 --> 00:59:21,560
Speaker 1: let's say God only recognize one man. Can I pick

908
00:59:21,640 --> 00:59:26,760
Speaker 1: the one he look at? I'm with you on that one, Steve.

909
00:59:26,800 --> 00:59:30,640
Speaker 1: When you're right yeah, let's go all right, listen, we'll

910
00:59:30,680 --> 00:59:32,880
Speaker 1: have just hold it right there, Steve. We'll have part

911
00:59:32,920 --> 00:59:36,600
Speaker 1: two of your response coming up at twenty three minutes

912
00:59:36,640 --> 00:59:40,959
Speaker 1: after the hour, subject living with another man's wife coming

913
00:59:41,040 --> 00:59:46,360
Speaker 1: up right after this you're listening to, all right, Steve,

914
00:59:46,440 --> 00:59:49,880
Speaker 1: Come on, let's recap today's strawberry letter. Who I guess

915
00:59:49,920 --> 00:59:54,400
Speaker 1: we're in hell right now? Subjects living with another man's wife,

916
00:59:56,320 --> 00:59:59,880
Speaker 1: living with another man's wife. Here's this woman been married

917
01:00:00,120 --> 01:00:03,720
Speaker 1: this man a little over a year, and they struggle

918
01:00:03,800 --> 01:00:06,120
Speaker 1: trying to find themself a nice little church home. So

919
01:00:06,240 --> 01:00:09,760
Speaker 1: they finally found one that they agreed on and settle

920
01:00:09,840 --> 01:00:14,240
Speaker 1: that church close to their house. A good stern pastor,

921
01:00:14,440 --> 01:00:19,840
Speaker 1: we love just preaching style, and said it felt really welcome. Now,

922
01:00:20,080 --> 01:00:24,400
Speaker 1: well to one sunday the pastor metch up, was so crazy,

923
01:00:25,000 --> 01:00:28,960
Speaker 1: sent your husband into a frenzy. The pastor preacher about

924
01:00:29,040 --> 01:00:32,480
Speaker 1: married and stated that anybody that has been married more

925
01:00:32,520 --> 01:00:36,680
Speaker 1: than once is going to hell. And the person gets remarried,

926
01:00:37,080 --> 01:00:42,160
Speaker 1: the new spouse is going to hell too, or we'll Damn,

927
01:00:45,640 --> 01:00:52,120
Speaker 1: you can't get faster still. Yeah, man, I'm just sitting there,

928
01:00:53,160 --> 01:00:56,400
Speaker 1: you know, I let him into my life, my heart,

929
01:00:57,800 --> 01:01:02,440
Speaker 1: you know, feeling pretty strong myself, getting myself together spiritually,

930
01:01:03,240 --> 01:01:08,520
Speaker 1: and you just told me I'm going to hell anyway. Well, Pastor,

931
01:01:08,640 --> 01:01:11,560
Speaker 1: that's where you're wrong, because you don't know about God's mercy,

932
01:01:12,760 --> 01:01:16,560
Speaker 1: his acts of forgiveness, and you don't think that he

933
01:01:16,680 --> 01:01:19,440
Speaker 1: puts into a counter effect that we maybe we make mistakes,

934
01:01:19,520 --> 01:01:22,760
Speaker 1: that people have a chance to get over their mistakes. Well,

935
01:01:22,880 --> 01:01:25,360
Speaker 1: your husband took the message literally, and on the way home,

936
01:01:25,440 --> 01:01:27,920
Speaker 1: he said the past was speaking directly from the Bible.

937
01:01:28,480 --> 01:01:31,040
Speaker 1: I showed my husband the exact scripture in the Bible.

938
01:01:31,480 --> 01:01:35,680
Speaker 1: It didn't say anything about anybody burning in hell. Even still,

939
01:01:36,120 --> 01:01:38,760
Speaker 1: my husband leave that. The pastor said. He told me

940
01:01:39,480 --> 01:01:43,360
Speaker 1: he had a bad feeling about me on our wedding day.

941
01:01:45,480 --> 01:01:51,040
Speaker 1: Ain't been married over a year, he told his wife,

942
01:01:51,640 --> 01:01:55,600
Speaker 1: after going to this crazy church, I had a bad

943
01:01:55,760 --> 01:02:00,840
Speaker 1: feeling about us on that wedding day, follow man, and

944
01:02:01,000 --> 01:02:05,120
Speaker 1: then saying, so that must have been why I was blindsided,

945
01:02:05,200 --> 01:02:07,680
Speaker 1: because I thought our marriage was great. He was happy

946
01:02:07,760 --> 01:02:10,560
Speaker 1: with me. My husband distances himself for me and we

947
01:02:10,640 --> 01:02:13,760
Speaker 1: stopped having any type of intimacy. I refused to go

948
01:02:13,880 --> 01:02:17,440
Speaker 1: back to the church, but my husband loves it. Final strong.

949
01:02:18,120 --> 01:02:20,560
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell I gotta tell you something. You don't

950
01:02:21,080 --> 01:02:24,520
Speaker 1: the relationship you would just do it don't seem real. Uh,

951
01:02:26,520 --> 01:02:34,960
Speaker 1: healthy ain't the word for it. I just think he can.

952
01:02:35,000 --> 01:02:37,320
Speaker 1: I tell you what I think. Yes, I think your

953
01:02:37,440 --> 01:02:41,360
Speaker 1: husband was just looking for out, man. I think he

954
01:02:41,560 --> 01:02:44,160
Speaker 1: was just looking for an out. I think he was

955
01:02:44,280 --> 01:02:49,160
Speaker 1: unhappy and found a way. She he listened to the

956
01:02:49,280 --> 01:02:52,360
Speaker 1: path and that said, if you've been in one argument

957
01:02:52,600 --> 01:03:01,840
Speaker 1: and you've remarried, you going to hell. Now that's alarming. So,

958
01:03:02,200 --> 01:03:04,280
Speaker 1: but that you have it, that's it. I can't I

959
01:03:04,320 --> 01:03:07,240
Speaker 1: can't really, I can't really say anything because it doesn't

960
01:03:07,280 --> 01:03:10,280
Speaker 1: make any sense what churches did out. Yeah, I don't

961
01:03:10,320 --> 01:03:14,520
Speaker 1: know what it's the wrong church man. God is a

962
01:03:14,640 --> 01:03:20,240
Speaker 1: forgiving god, even with his commandments, He's still a forgiving God. Yes, yes,

963
01:03:20,400 --> 01:03:22,840
Speaker 1: and we're underground. I just don't believe that a person

964
01:03:22,920 --> 01:03:26,240
Speaker 1: can make a mistake, ask for forgiveness, recovering, and now

965
01:03:26,320 --> 01:03:29,000
Speaker 1: you can't go to heaven because you've been mad more

966
01:03:29,040 --> 01:03:40,120
Speaker 1: than wolf in hell a long time since two seven

967
01:03:41,480 --> 01:03:44,680
Speaker 1: question if you if you get mad more than once

968
01:03:44,720 --> 01:03:47,680
Speaker 1: and you're going to hell, does your exes go to

969
01:03:47,800 --> 01:03:50,280
Speaker 1: hell too? Because I told him to go to hell?

970
01:03:53,200 --> 01:03:59,800
Speaker 1: We got divorce. When you get that, you meet them

971
01:04:00,560 --> 01:04:03,880
Speaker 1: seat Yeah yeah, yeah, okay, I'm just cleaning it up.

972
01:04:04,040 --> 01:04:10,400
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, any ideal with this new breaking news? I

973
01:04:10,680 --> 01:04:20,240
Speaker 1: crowded hellfici. Okay, it's gonna be some pastors, but it's

974
01:04:20,280 --> 01:04:23,080
Speaker 1: gonna be a lot of pastors down there. I know

975
01:04:23,200 --> 01:04:30,240
Speaker 1: a lot of pastors has gotten divorces. Yeah, that's want

976
01:04:30,240 --> 01:04:35,280
Speaker 1: to hear this. Damn let him pastor. Yeah yeah, And

977
01:04:35,360 --> 01:04:38,320
Speaker 1: the Bible clearly states don't don't follow me in. You know,

978
01:04:38,520 --> 01:04:42,360
Speaker 1: you gotta for God's power, you know, not man's wisdom.

979
01:04:42,480 --> 01:04:45,960
Speaker 1: Come on. But it does explain why Jesus never got married.

980
01:04:47,680 --> 01:05:03,800
Speaker 1: He was single Jesus. Wow. Yeah, yeah, he found it

981
01:05:05,360 --> 01:05:08,240
Speaker 1: when the pastor came up with it's a bad mutch.

982
01:05:08,360 --> 01:05:11,520
Speaker 1: He found it out. That was it. He found out.

983
01:05:11,760 --> 01:05:15,200
Speaker 1: But he saw the most sex and all that stuff. Yeah, yeah,

984
01:05:15,360 --> 01:05:17,840
Speaker 1: he's still but he found it out and he gonna

985
01:05:17,960 --> 01:05:20,600
Speaker 1: ride that out. Now they ain't having sex. He having

986
01:05:20,680 --> 01:05:23,960
Speaker 1: sex somewhere. He had a bad feeling about me on

987
01:05:24,200 --> 01:05:32,360
Speaker 1: our wedding day. All right, thank you guys. Post your

988
01:05:32,400 --> 01:05:35,560
Speaker 1: comments on Today's Strawberry Letter and Steve Harvey FM on

989
01:05:35,680 --> 01:05:38,280
Speaker 1: Instagram and Facebook, and don't forget to check out the

990
01:05:38,280 --> 01:05:42,840
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. You're listening to Steve Harvey

991
01:05:42,920 --> 01:05:46,600
Speaker 1: Morning Show. Okay, Jay, quickly you are here with what

992
01:05:47,000 --> 01:05:50,080
Speaker 1: toughen in the boat? I wrote another blook. My latest

993
01:05:50,080 --> 01:05:52,960
Speaker 1: book is called you might be tuughing it out. If

994
01:05:53,280 --> 01:05:56,600
Speaker 1: chapter one, you might be tuughing it out. If you've

995
01:05:56,600 --> 01:05:59,200
Speaker 1: been riding on your sped tile for six months, you

996
01:05:59,320 --> 01:06:03,600
Speaker 1: might be tuugh in out. Chapter four, it is a

997
01:06:03,640 --> 01:06:05,960
Speaker 1: good chapter. You might be toughing out. If you make

998
01:06:06,160 --> 01:06:09,000
Speaker 1: dishwashing liquid, when you put it in water and let

999
01:06:09,080 --> 01:06:11,560
Speaker 1: it dissolve, you might be toughening out. You just put

1000
01:06:11,720 --> 01:06:14,360
Speaker 1: you put soap, put soap in the dishwashing liquid and

1001
01:06:14,480 --> 01:06:18,240
Speaker 1: you dissolve. You never had that done? Okay, you might

1002
01:06:18,360 --> 01:06:22,640
Speaker 1: be toughing it out. If if, if your debit card

1003
01:06:22,760 --> 01:06:25,720
Speaker 1: gets turned down at the dollar store, you might be

1004
01:06:25,840 --> 01:06:32,400
Speaker 1: toughing out. Yeah, yeah, that's pretty tough, you man, Yeah,

1005
01:06:32,720 --> 01:06:35,280
Speaker 1: you he is a good one dollars chapter this, chapter eight,

1006
01:06:35,760 --> 01:06:38,320
Speaker 1: you might be toughening it out. If you got one

1007
01:06:38,560 --> 01:06:40,960
Speaker 1: light bulb and you got to take it from room

1008
01:06:41,280 --> 01:06:56,479
Speaker 1: to room. I'm talking about light bub in hill. Hey,

1009
01:07:00,120 --> 01:07:08,000
Speaker 1: heyy I'm trying to see the toilet tissue. Got a

1010
01:07:08,120 --> 01:07:11,440
Speaker 1: chapter on that. You don't have tilt paper. You got

1011
01:07:11,600 --> 01:07:20,520
Speaker 1: napkins from Wendy's mc dunn. Chapter fourteen is a good chapter.

1012
01:07:21,080 --> 01:07:26,280
Speaker 1: If your pillar, your pillar that you sleep on, is

1013
01:07:26,320 --> 01:07:30,600
Speaker 1: a rolled up towel in a sheet, man, Now you talk, man,

1014
01:07:30,680 --> 01:07:36,240
Speaker 1: that's I got. If you might be toughing it out,

1015
01:07:36,400 --> 01:07:40,840
Speaker 1: if your glass sister broke in so many places, you're

1016
01:07:40,880 --> 01:07:49,800
Speaker 1: just picking up the lands, looking through what you one

1017
01:07:49,880 --> 01:07:58,240
Speaker 1: most see, y'all you closing out, you might be telling

1018
01:07:58,280 --> 01:08:00,880
Speaker 1: it out. If you can only put all in sixty

1019
01:08:01,040 --> 01:08:05,160
Speaker 1: cents and you escalade, you touched it out. Man, let

1020
01:08:05,200 --> 01:08:07,960
Speaker 1: me get one sixty on pump two. Please one sixty

1021
01:08:08,040 --> 01:08:19,200
Speaker 1: one escalade though you're listening. Show all right, Stephen, Jay,

1022
01:08:19,760 --> 01:08:22,559
Speaker 1: you guys go back, We go back, so far, so far.

1023
01:08:23,040 --> 01:08:26,360
Speaker 1: I mean, crazy story I never cable we had on TV.

1024
01:08:26,920 --> 01:08:29,240
Speaker 1: Stephen always tell me about how he's sold insurance, and

1025
01:08:29,520 --> 01:08:31,240
Speaker 1: I think I'm gonna let you finish it. But the

1026
01:08:31,360 --> 01:08:34,559
Speaker 1: story he told about how he was going to sell

1027
01:08:34,640 --> 01:08:38,360
Speaker 1: insurance to these people. Drove way out somewhere times late

1028
01:08:38,439 --> 01:08:43,960
Speaker 1: it now way out and wat couple ahead. They was old.

1029
01:08:44,160 --> 01:08:47,800
Speaker 1: Wait a minute, they were old, and I dried Wayne

1030
01:08:47,800 --> 01:08:50,960
Speaker 1: was dog where they lived. I'm sleeping and I get

1031
01:08:51,000 --> 01:08:52,840
Speaker 1: out there and the lady was real nice man, and

1032
01:08:52,920 --> 01:08:56,080
Speaker 1: she wind't got me some tea, and I'll take a

1033
01:08:56,160 --> 01:08:58,000
Speaker 1: couple of SIPs to the tea. And they were sitting

1034
01:08:58,040 --> 01:09:00,479
Speaker 1: there and I, you know, the one don't had to

1035
01:09:00,600 --> 01:09:02,599
Speaker 1: hear the age, so I had to speak a little loud.

1036
01:09:03,479 --> 01:09:06,000
Speaker 1: And you know, when you tied, that takes more energy.

1037
01:09:06,160 --> 01:09:09,360
Speaker 1: And I'm just talking about this policy. The guy got

1038
01:09:09,439 --> 01:09:12,759
Speaker 1: up and went somewhere and came back, and that stopped

1039
01:09:12,800 --> 01:09:16,400
Speaker 1: my momentum. So when he came back and he sat down,

1040
01:09:17,840 --> 01:09:21,200
Speaker 1: I was damned near gold. And I looked at him

1041
01:09:21,320 --> 01:09:24,639
Speaker 1: and I was sitting there, man, and I said, yeah,

1042
01:09:24,960 --> 01:09:43,400
Speaker 1: coming wealth. The couple was just sick o. That baby

1043
01:09:43,520 --> 01:09:49,360
Speaker 1: was fired. I don't know, man, I have no idea

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Speaker 1: how long I was sleeping. But the old white people

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01:09:52,800 --> 01:10:00,360
Speaker 1: was just sitting there looking at me. And when I

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01:10:00,479 --> 01:10:04,560
Speaker 1: owed my eyes, I did not know who them to

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01:10:04,720 --> 01:10:09,759
Speaker 1: white people? Oh my god, I didn't know, I said,

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01:10:11,280 --> 01:10:16,920
Speaker 1: it's just a hot situation. Do they have me? Oh?

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01:10:17,280 --> 01:10:21,360
Speaker 1: They got a crazy sun with an app somewhere. Man.

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01:10:21,400 --> 01:10:23,960
Speaker 1: I got to look around and lady said, you sure

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01:10:23,960 --> 01:10:33,599
Speaker 1: are tired, mister. Oh my gosh, man, I said the man.

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01:10:34,200 --> 01:10:36,519
Speaker 1: The only thing that clude me was I looked back

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01:10:36,560 --> 01:10:42,479
Speaker 1: down at my paperwork and it said Commonwealth Insurance. Let

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01:10:42,600 --> 01:10:47,240
Speaker 1: me know you an insurance agent? Because I thought it

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01:10:47,360 --> 01:10:49,640
Speaker 1: was a hostite situation. Hasn't many white photes and got

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01:10:49,680 --> 01:10:53,160
Speaker 1: me out woods, man, I ain't got no cell phone,

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01:10:53,160 --> 01:10:59,559
Speaker 1: you know, were no cell phones or nothing? No? Man, wow, man,

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01:11:01,479 --> 01:11:05,120
Speaker 1: job man. And they look just like the white people

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01:11:05,240 --> 01:11:12,880
Speaker 1: on that on that cornflict box, remember oh Ma and Paul. Yeah,

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01:11:13,280 --> 01:11:15,799
Speaker 1: they had to pitch fark head and wy flame glass

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01:11:15,840 --> 01:11:19,320
Speaker 1: and look like he'll kill you. Oh my god. But

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01:11:19,439 --> 01:11:21,360
Speaker 1: he's weak in people. But they looked like they were

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01:11:21,439 --> 01:11:26,160
Speaker 1: real strong too, though. Man. Man, I woke up. Man,

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01:11:26,240 --> 01:11:28,040
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, I swear to god, I woke up.

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01:11:28,120 --> 01:11:31,360
Speaker 1: I did not know who them two people was. So

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01:11:31,520 --> 01:11:34,400
Speaker 1: how'd you get out for? How was time to go?

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01:11:34,640 --> 01:11:44,479
Speaker 1: Now you've time? I'm assuming they didn't buy No, no,

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01:11:47,120 --> 01:11:50,360
Speaker 1: didn't dude, come tell me where you need to come back?

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01:11:50,400 --> 01:11:53,840
Speaker 1: When you can stay awake, young man. Abou driving back

1070
01:11:53,880 --> 01:11:59,160
Speaker 1: out here, y'all gonna be unsure. Damn man, anybody gonna

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01:11:59,200 --> 01:12:03,200
Speaker 1: have y'all died in im. You were destined to do

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01:12:03,360 --> 01:12:09,120
Speaker 1: what you do? Him. Yeah, you show, I show ain't

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01:12:09,160 --> 01:12:17,080
Speaker 1: gonna bring out no policy. Check out him. You're listening

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01:12:21,360 --> 01:12:23,920
Speaker 1: all right, Stephen. It's time to check your voicemail. If

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01:12:24,000 --> 01:12:26,160
Speaker 1: you want to leave, Stephen message call us right now

1076
01:12:26,240 --> 01:12:29,679
Speaker 1: at eight seven seven twenty nine Steve and leave a message. Okay,

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01:12:30,560 --> 01:12:33,800
Speaker 1: the morning, Steve and family. Happy New Year to you all.

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01:12:34,120 --> 01:12:37,640
Speaker 1: I'm Tetrina Williams calling from Kempson, North Carolina, sending a

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01:12:37,800 --> 01:12:40,400
Speaker 1: happy New Year's shout out to my daughter starring first

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Speaker 1: last Katina Gardner US Army in kawait, my grandson, Private

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01:12:45,160 --> 01:12:48,080
Speaker 1: John Greene Fort Gordon Jordan's my son in law, Nathan't

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01:12:48,080 --> 01:12:50,960
Speaker 1: you who's with the baby girls? Lauren and Nicole in

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01:12:51,160 --> 01:12:55,080
Speaker 1: Seattle for Lewis Washington, waiting on their moms to come home.

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01:12:55,640 --> 01:12:59,200
Speaker 1: Granny Love you guys, Be safe and enjoy again. Happy

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01:12:59,280 --> 01:13:01,840
Speaker 1: New Year to all, and thank for all that a

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01:13:01,960 --> 01:13:06,479
Speaker 1: servant and half served, including myself. Happy New Year. Pooh,

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01:13:07,200 --> 01:13:10,599
Speaker 1: Hello Steve Harvey, my name is Willie from the Los

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01:13:10,680 --> 01:13:14,080
Speaker 1: Angeles area in California. I just want to wish you

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01:13:14,200 --> 01:13:17,360
Speaker 1: and your staff happy New Year and a prosperous one.

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01:13:18,160 --> 01:13:21,560
Speaker 1: Good morning, Steve in the Morning Crew. This is Sandres

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01:13:21,640 --> 01:13:24,880
Speaker 1: coming to you from North Carolina. I just wanted to

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01:13:25,000 --> 01:13:30,000
Speaker 1: say happy holidays to you, Happy holidays to my family

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01:13:30,320 --> 01:13:34,200
Speaker 1: that's all over the world, and everybody be safe. Let's

1094
01:13:34,240 --> 01:13:37,559
Speaker 1: stay preyed up. Good morning, mister Harvey in the Morning Crew.

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01:13:38,280 --> 01:13:41,000
Speaker 1: Your show always gets me started off on the right track.

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01:13:41,520 --> 01:13:44,519
Speaker 1: If y'all have a blessed holiday, and y'all keep doing

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01:13:44,560 --> 01:13:47,160
Speaker 1: what you're doing is great. Good morning. This is for

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01:13:47,400 --> 01:13:49,840
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey in the Morning Crew. My name is Dwight Moore.

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01:13:49,880 --> 01:13:53,320
Speaker 1: I'm calling you from just help Making Georgia and Vonnie

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01:13:53,400 --> 01:13:56,080
Speaker 1: and Georgia. I just want to wish you all happy holidays.

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01:13:56,240 --> 01:14:00,680
Speaker 1: Thanks for the entertainment, thanks for the love and encouragement inspiration.

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01:14:01,200 --> 01:14:03,800
Speaker 1: Look forward to a prosperous new year with you all.

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01:14:04,040 --> 01:14:10,840
Speaker 1: God bless you're listening all right? So Jay, yes, yes, yes,

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01:14:11,320 --> 01:14:14,479
Speaker 1: what is this famous last word you wrote? The last

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01:14:14,560 --> 01:14:17,320
Speaker 1: words has to do it. A lot of people get

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01:14:17,439 --> 01:14:21,400
Speaker 1: hurt by stupidity or sometimes they don't make it because

1107
01:14:21,680 --> 01:14:24,200
Speaker 1: they say something or do something stupid, and all we

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01:14:24,400 --> 01:14:28,560
Speaker 1: have is their last words. For instance, last words like this,

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01:14:29,479 --> 01:14:32,200
Speaker 1: that gun ain't loaded. Those were the last words, right

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01:14:34,360 --> 01:14:38,120
Speaker 1: that the last The last words they said was that

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01:14:38,560 --> 01:14:43,519
Speaker 1: dog don't bite. That's the last words they said. Famous

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01:14:43,600 --> 01:14:47,320
Speaker 1: last the famous last words. Like he said before he left,

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01:14:47,439 --> 01:14:50,240
Speaker 1: I'm going this way. I'm going this way because all

1114
01:14:50,320 --> 01:14:54,320
Speaker 1: the bells are hibernated at this time. Right. So that's

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01:14:54,360 --> 01:14:59,599
Speaker 1: the last thing we heard from him, the last thing

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01:14:59,720 --> 01:15:01,479
Speaker 1: he's said. He was in the living room and he

1117
01:15:01,560 --> 01:15:04,080
Speaker 1: said to the little boy, punched me in the stomach

1118
01:15:04,160 --> 01:15:10,560
Speaker 1: as hard as you can. I can take it. That

1119
01:15:11,560 --> 01:15:17,200
Speaker 1: was the last you got one go ahead, last word.

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01:15:18,160 --> 01:15:24,600
Speaker 1: I bet you better get out of my face. I

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01:15:27,520 --> 01:15:31,000
Speaker 1: bet you better get out of my face. Famous last words.

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01:15:31,080 --> 01:15:34,280
Speaker 1: Famous last word he said to the group was these

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01:15:34,320 --> 01:15:37,360
Speaker 1: ain't poisoned mushrooms. I know poison mushrooms, and I see

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01:15:37,400 --> 01:15:51,839
Speaker 1: poisoned mushrooms. Okay, that's tams. Yeah, I ain't going nowhere.

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01:15:56,760 --> 01:16:01,320
Speaker 1: Famous last words. You got what you got one sleeve?

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01:16:01,360 --> 01:16:05,599
Speaker 1: You got another one? Oh? Hell yeah, I jump over

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01:16:05,680 --> 01:16:15,920
Speaker 1: there right now, I jump over there. My famous as words,

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01:16:16,000 --> 01:16:18,040
Speaker 1: he said when he went to bed. I'll go to

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01:16:18,200 --> 01:16:20,760
Speaker 1: sleep and it'll be all gone in the morning. I

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01:16:20,880 --> 01:16:35,400
Speaker 1: feel much better. Word one word, No, not this time.

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01:16:35,479 --> 01:16:45,519
Speaker 1: He shocks on it like warm water. Wow, okay, famous

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01:16:45,600 --> 01:16:48,719
Speaker 1: last word. Don't worry about it, girl. My wife sleeps,

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01:16:48,760 --> 01:16:59,519
Speaker 1: she can't hear damn thing. Take it out, man, take

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01:16:59,560 --> 01:17:08,040
Speaker 1: it out. Yes, somebody drops something in the water and

1135
01:17:08,160 --> 01:17:19,679
Speaker 1: then somebody say I get it. Thank you guys. Yeah,

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01:17:20,160 --> 01:17:22,880
Speaker 1: all right, hang on, we're coming up the last break

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Speaker 1: of the day and some closing remarks from Steve Harvey

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01:17:26,120 --> 01:17:28,640
Speaker 1: that's coming up at forty nine after right after this

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01:17:29,240 --> 01:17:33,840
Speaker 1: you're listening to. All right Steve, here we are last

1140
01:17:33,880 --> 01:17:39,200
Speaker 1: break of the day and um please uh let us

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01:17:39,560 --> 01:17:42,400
Speaker 1: leave out of here with some inspiring words, some closing

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01:17:42,479 --> 01:17:45,240
Speaker 1: remarks from you. Thank you. You know, Um I was

1143
01:17:45,400 --> 01:17:48,800
Speaker 1: I was talking earlier in the year to everybody about oh,

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01:17:50,680 --> 01:17:54,240
Speaker 1: having the best year of your life, and it's it's

1145
01:17:54,240 --> 01:17:58,439
Speaker 1: still possible, and um, you can still have the best

1146
01:17:58,560 --> 01:18:02,040
Speaker 1: year of your life. You really can. You just have

1147
01:18:02,200 --> 01:18:06,080
Speaker 1: to change the way you think. It's it's nothing more

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01:18:06,280 --> 01:18:08,960
Speaker 1: and nothing less. You know when people when I say

1149
01:18:09,000 --> 01:18:11,400
Speaker 1: that to people, go, well, Steve, it's just more to it.

1150
01:18:11,520 --> 01:18:15,400
Speaker 1: Than that. No, it's not. No, it's not the beginning

1151
01:18:15,520 --> 01:18:20,920
Speaker 1: of changing your life. It starts with changing your attitude.

1152
01:18:21,320 --> 01:18:27,240
Speaker 1: It starts with changing your outlook. It starts with changing

1153
01:18:27,760 --> 01:18:34,200
Speaker 1: your mental disposition. That's the start of it. Man. The

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01:18:34,320 --> 01:18:38,160
Speaker 1: beauty of it is you don't need anybody's permission to

1155
01:18:38,320 --> 01:18:43,560
Speaker 1: do that. You don't have to get a loan to

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01:18:43,720 --> 01:18:46,800
Speaker 1: do it. You don't have to be accepted by the

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01:18:46,960 --> 01:18:49,760
Speaker 1: college to do it. You don't have to get a

1158
01:18:49,840 --> 01:18:53,640
Speaker 1: promotion to do it. You don't need your friends to

1159
01:18:53,840 --> 01:18:57,680
Speaker 1: sign off on it. That is no one that can

1160
01:18:57,760 --> 01:19:02,959
Speaker 1: take a vote on it. You have the power, starting

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01:19:03,200 --> 01:19:10,000
Speaker 1: right now, to change your mental disposition. That is the

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01:19:10,120 --> 01:19:13,679
Speaker 1: beginning of greatness for you. That's the beginning of making

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01:19:13,800 --> 01:19:17,280
Speaker 1: your dreams come true. That's the beginning of starting to

1164
01:19:17,560 --> 01:19:22,760
Speaker 1: get the life that you so desperately want. That's how

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01:19:22,840 --> 01:19:27,600
Speaker 1: it works, man, it doesn't work any other way. So

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01:19:27,800 --> 01:19:33,800
Speaker 1: two nineteen is a great year. I'm not talking about

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01:19:33,840 --> 01:19:37,080
Speaker 1: because of the numbers. I'm just talking about because if

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01:19:37,120 --> 01:19:39,880
Speaker 1: you expect it to be, then so shall it be.

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01:19:41,240 --> 01:19:44,360
Speaker 1: If you expect twenty nineteen to be better than eighteen,

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01:19:45,120 --> 01:19:48,120
Speaker 1: there's nothing that says it can't. Now It's not saying

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01:19:48,200 --> 01:19:51,400
Speaker 1: that something wrong won't happen along the way, because I

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01:19:51,560 --> 01:19:54,800
Speaker 1: promise you it can. I've already had some bad news

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01:19:54,960 --> 01:20:00,160
Speaker 1: this year, but that is not stopping two nineteen from

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01:20:00,240 --> 01:20:03,040
Speaker 1: being the best year of my life just because I've

1175
01:20:03,080 --> 01:20:06,559
Speaker 1: gotten some bad news already. Because you've gotten some bad news,

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01:20:06,640 --> 01:20:08,760
Speaker 1: can I share something with you. It's gonna be some

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01:20:08,880 --> 01:20:12,439
Speaker 1: bad news in twenty twenty. It's gonna be some bad

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01:20:12,479 --> 01:20:15,519
Speaker 1: news in twenty twenty one, and it's gonna be more

1179
01:20:15,560 --> 01:20:20,680
Speaker 1: than one piece of bad news too. But as I

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01:20:20,840 --> 01:20:23,559
Speaker 1: think of two thousand nineteen, I look at this as

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01:20:23,600 --> 01:20:29,240
Speaker 1: a year of transformation. I look, if you are believer,

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01:20:30,120 --> 01:20:33,120
Speaker 1: do you know that in two thousand nineteen that God

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01:20:33,240 --> 01:20:39,080
Speaker 1: could actually restore what was stolen from you? Do you

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01:20:39,320 --> 01:20:43,400
Speaker 1: understand that in two thousand nineteen you could be expanding

1185
01:20:43,520 --> 01:20:48,240
Speaker 1: your circle, that in two thousand nineteen God could be

1186
01:20:48,320 --> 01:20:52,960
Speaker 1: giving you new opportunities. Do you know that in two

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01:20:53,000 --> 01:20:55,880
Speaker 1: thousand nineteen, man, God could actually be put in favor

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01:20:56,360 --> 01:21:00,280
Speaker 1: on some of your options that you're looking at. Do

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01:21:00,400 --> 01:21:02,880
Speaker 1: you know that in two nineteen, man, that God can

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01:21:02,920 --> 01:21:08,000
Speaker 1: be subtracting your problems and multiplying your resources. Do you

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01:21:08,160 --> 01:21:13,040
Speaker 1: understand that that can actually happen if you go to

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01:21:13,160 --> 01:21:16,840
Speaker 1: God and ask him for it. That's what I've asked

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Speaker 1: for in two thousand nineteen. Let me talk to you

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01:21:21,240 --> 01:21:23,840
Speaker 1: for a second about these dark moments that you have

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01:21:24,640 --> 01:21:27,680
Speaker 1: from time to time, as all of us do. We

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01:21:27,840 --> 01:21:30,680
Speaker 1: all have dark moments. We all go through periods of

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01:21:30,880 --> 01:21:36,040
Speaker 1: darkness where you don't know how the outcome is gonna be.

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01:21:37,960 --> 01:21:41,559
Speaker 1: It's okay, because let me tell you something about darkness.

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Speaker 1: Stars can't shine without darkness. Ain't no star. You don't

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01:21:48,400 --> 01:21:51,599
Speaker 1: see the stars in the daytime. You see the stars

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01:21:51,720 --> 01:21:56,400
Speaker 1: when they get dark. You got to have darkness in

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01:21:56,600 --> 01:22:00,439
Speaker 1: order to be a star. Stars can't shine without darkness.

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01:22:00,560 --> 01:22:04,800
Speaker 1: Y'all see all this darkness that you're complaining about. Quick

1204
01:22:04,840 --> 01:22:09,080
Speaker 1: complaining about it. It's necessary. Quick complaining about it. When

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01:22:09,120 --> 01:22:13,080
Speaker 1: people start throwing dirt on you. Stop complaining about that. Man,

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01:22:14,160 --> 01:22:18,120
Speaker 1: It's happening to everybody everywhere, all around the world. It

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01:22:18,240 --> 01:22:23,240
Speaker 1: ain't just happening to you. It get dark for everybody.

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01:22:24,320 --> 01:22:26,759
Speaker 1: But say it to yourself when you get dark. Stars

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01:22:26,840 --> 01:22:31,559
Speaker 1: can't shine without darkness. Some of the most beautiful scenery

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01:22:31,640 --> 01:22:34,080
Speaker 1: I've ever seen has been at night, gazing up at

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Speaker 1: the stars. But it was dark outside. It was some

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01:22:38,120 --> 01:22:41,760
Speaker 1: danger lurking outside. But if you get your head up,

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01:22:42,520 --> 01:22:45,800
Speaker 1: if you get your eyes up towards heaven, if you

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01:22:45,880 --> 01:22:50,640
Speaker 1: can keep what upward gaze in all this darkness, some

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01:22:50,880 --> 01:22:54,479
Speaker 1: stars up there, man. The real beauty of it is

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01:22:55,400 --> 01:22:59,200
Speaker 1: you want of them? Man. Stars ain't just made in Hollywood.

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01:23:00,080 --> 01:23:03,200
Speaker 1: Stars has made all throughout life in this world. Some

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01:23:03,320 --> 01:23:05,040
Speaker 1: of the biggest stars in the world. Ain't got nothing

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01:23:05,040 --> 01:23:06,560
Speaker 1: to do with Hollywood. Ain't got nothing to do with

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01:23:06,720 --> 01:23:09,800
Speaker 1: TV movies, none of that. You can be one of

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01:23:09,880 --> 01:23:12,519
Speaker 1: the brightest stars in the middle of some darkest nights.

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01:23:13,960 --> 01:23:17,680
Speaker 1: You probably are one of them. Just gotta realize it, man,

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01:23:18,840 --> 01:23:23,200
Speaker 1: Because stars shine only when it's dog That's why I

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Speaker 1: deal with the darkness. That's it. Y'all have a great day,

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01:23:26,240 --> 01:23:30,040
Speaker 1: feel me. Yeah, while Steve, did you drop it? I

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01:23:30,160 --> 01:23:37,960
Speaker 1: just did wild through it down. That really was man.

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Speaker 1: This is my year. I claim this as my year.

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Speaker 1: Why would it not be with the god we serve.

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Speaker 1: Come on, y'all have a great weekend him for all. Steve.

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Speaker 1: Every contests no purchase necessary, void were prohibited. Participants must

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01:23:57,320 --> 01:24:00,479
Speaker 1: be legal US residents at least eighteen years old unless

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01:24:00,520 --> 01:24:04,360
Speaker 1: otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey FM

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Speaker 1: dot com. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.