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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show.

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Speaker 1: Hey Sam, good morning, Welcome to the program. How are you, Hey.

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Speaker 2: Good morning. I'm doing pretty good. How about you?

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Speaker 1: We're doing great. So tell us what's going on with

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Speaker 1: this woman, Katie. We got to know how you met,

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Speaker 1: about any dates that you've been on, and then where

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Speaker 1: things are now, and how we can help sure.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so, uh Katie, Yeah, Katie and I met at work,

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Speaker 2: and you know, I just sent her out and working

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Speaker 2: a pretty big like office setting, and like I mean,

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Speaker 2: there's hundreds of employees, so it's not like, you know,

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Speaker 2: we see each.

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Speaker 1: Other dating and work can be you know, precarious if

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Speaker 1: things don't work out. It's kind of funny because you

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Speaker 1: say there's a bunch of people that work there. There's

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Speaker 1: a bunch of people that work here too. And the

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Speaker 1: only person I've dated who works here, I never saw

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Speaker 1: this person before we dated, and now I see this

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Speaker 1: person all the time. Now that didn't work out. It's

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Speaker 1: like I never saw this. This is a long time ago,

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Speaker 1: you get you know, it is a very long time ago.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, I'm not saying that's going to happen to you,

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Speaker 1: But it's kind of why you don't date where you work.

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Speaker 1: It's kind of why you don't typically date where you live.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, you did it, So what happened?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're not wrong, But yeah, so I saw her

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Speaker 2: in the elevator one day and you know, I just

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Speaker 2: said hi, I introduced myself, got our number usual, and

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Speaker 2: then we went on what I mean, I thought was

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Speaker 2: an awesome dinner date. You know, we had a lot

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Speaker 2: in common and yeah, like, for instance, we both have dogs,

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Speaker 2: we love animals, like that stuff, and even we got

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Speaker 2: to the point where we were talking about going on

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Speaker 2: a second date and taking our dogs for a walk,

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Speaker 2: you know. So yeah, it was just really great. But

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Speaker 2: then I reached out and I haven't heard from her since.

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Speaker 2: Didn't respond, And yeah, I'm not going to like creep

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Speaker 2: on her at work, but.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, don't do that. Yeah, don't go go to her floor. Whatever.

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Speaker 1: So you wind up with a girlfriend and a job.

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Speaker 1: But okay, so it sounds like it went well. You

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Speaker 1: were talking about this cute second date with the dogs

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Speaker 1: and the whole thing, but this woman is not responding

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Speaker 1: to you. I assume you've reached out, you've texted, you've called,

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Speaker 1: you've tried to set up another date and nothing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah no, uh, no idea what happened?

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Speaker 1: Okay, let's call her now? Good luck? Sam Cool?

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Speaker 3: Hello?

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Speaker 1: Hi is this Katie? Hi? Hi Katie, good morning. My

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Speaker 1: name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show, the

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Speaker 1: Morning radio Show, and I have to tell you that

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Speaker 1: we are on the radio right now, and I would

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Speaker 1: need your permission to continue with a call. Can we

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Speaker 1: chat for just a couple of minutes. You can hang

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Speaker 1: up anytime, okay.

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Speaker 2: I'll talk to you, I'll.

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Speaker 1: Talk to see you. I mean I wouldn't be excited either, honestly,

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Speaker 1: but thank you for giving us a chance. I would

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Speaker 1: hang right up on me, frankly. But that's okay, don't

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Speaker 1: don't do it. I'll get right to it, Katie. We're

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Speaker 1: calling on behalf of a guy who says he met

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Speaker 1: you at work and you guys recently went out. Her

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Speaker 1: name is Are his name rather is Sam? Do you

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Speaker 1: remember Sam? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Sam, I do remember him?

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Speaker 1: Okay. So he reached out to us and told us

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Speaker 1: that he, I guess you guys met at work in

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Speaker 1: passing and that he wanted to go out with you.

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Speaker 1: So he asked you out and you went on a date.

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Speaker 1: He thought it went really well and was hoping to

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Speaker 1: go out with you again, says, He's reached out and

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Speaker 1: you're not responding. So he called us and we're kind

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Speaker 1: of the you know, the middlemen here and women. We're

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Speaker 1: trying to figure out why you're not calling him back?

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Speaker 1: Are you ghosting? What's going on?

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Speaker 3: Well, initially I thought that Sam was nice and good looking,

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Speaker 3: and he seemed like a gentleman. But now I'm really

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Speaker 1: Why is that what happened? Because he thought the date

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Speaker 1: went really well, talked about another date. I guess you

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Speaker 1: like that, But you're not calling him back, So why.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, I thought the date was going well at

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Speaker 3: first too, and we started talking about both of our dogs,

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Speaker 3: and so I got my phone out to show him

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Speaker 3: But then he started scrolling through the photos and before

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Speaker 3: he got to his dog, there were just all these

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Speaker 3: photos of it was just all nude women.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, the very first pick that came up was boobs.

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Speaker 2: He quick.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like it was just all nude women. He just

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Speaker 3: kept swiping on like it was probably like ten more

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Speaker 1: Also, maybe not all the same women even or was

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Speaker 1: it or do we know because their faces? I mean, he.

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Speaker 3: Scrolled through it quickly, but I could see that there

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Speaker 3: were different women, you know, like, okay.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're not supposed to save those in the camera role, Sam,

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Speaker 1: So what did he do though? He like quickly tried

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Speaker 1: to scroll through all of them. They get to the

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Speaker 1: picture of the dog, and then he showed you the dog.

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Speaker 1: I mean, was there any reaction to he'd try and

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Speaker 1: pretend like maybe you know, you didn't see it or what.

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Speaker 3: He tried to just like play it off and ignore

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Speaker 3: it and just like, you know, think that it wasn't

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Speaker 3: a big deal or something. But I definitely saw all

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Speaker 3: of that, So okay, it's just impossible to ignore it,

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Speaker 3: you know.

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Speaker 1: YEA, why are we saving those? Why are there so many?

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Speaker 1: What might be the question?

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Speaker 2: Yes, to his defense, he might have they might have

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Speaker 2: got a text message and you know, g have an iPhone,

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Speaker 2: it automatically goes to your camera role.

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Speaker 1: Even I've actually learned a similar lesson. But we're not

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Speaker 1: talking about We're not talking about me right now, Rufio.

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Speaker 1: We're talking about Sam. I mean, but why are there

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Speaker 1: so many of them consecutively? No matter what they're doing there?

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not judging, but like, that's not great. Uh,

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Speaker 1: let me bring Sam in, Katie. I forgot to mention

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Speaker 1: that Sam is here. Sam, what's up with all the boobs?

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Speaker 2: Okay? Well, first of all, there weren't that many, I mean,

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Speaker 2: and most of them were the same woman.

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Speaker 1: Most of them were. That's good. And who is that

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Speaker 1: woman by the way, like another dater? Or who is

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Speaker 1: who are we?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 1: Girl minder?

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Speaker 2: I'm single, I'm on dating apps. That'd be like, of

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Speaker 2: course people are going to send me those kind of pictures,

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Speaker 2: you know, Like, well why are.

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Speaker 3: They all save on your phone and so accessible?

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Speaker 2: Once I have them in my camera, like I can

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Speaker 2: do with them what I want, you know, so I

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Speaker 2: just keep them to the side just in case, you.

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Speaker 1: Know, so you save the old ones like you hang

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Speaker 1: on to the you have a little collection, little menagerie

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Speaker 1: of a little folder of well no, you know, he

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Speaker 1: needs he needs.

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Speaker 3: You can delete the ones that you get texted from

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Speaker 3: your camera role.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know. I just what we've all learned the

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Speaker 1: hard way is that they just automatically appear there and

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Speaker 1: I didn't intend for them to stay there, but they

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Speaker 1: sometimes do. But nothing like this, Sam. So you had

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Speaker 1: a series of them, a bunch of them consecutively. So

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Speaker 1: it's fair to say that you're talking to a number

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Speaker 1: of women and they're all sending you pictures.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, like, listen, once, once I find the

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Speaker 2: person that you know, I want to kind of settle

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Speaker 2: down with, like I've get married or something, like, I'm

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Speaker 2: going to take them off with my phone. But yeah,

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Speaker 2: maybe just put them on a hard drive or whatever.

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Speaker 1: They're coming off the phone. But he's gonna save that.

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Speaker 1: I'm not getting rid of that. He's gonna save a

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Speaker 1: hard hard drive, right, series was just cruising by. That's why,

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Speaker 1: I mean, oh my god. You're not supposed to keep

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Speaker 1: these things once the person's out of your life. It's

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Speaker 1: it's uncouth.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the life of a bad Flor's.

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Speaker 1: Okay, But you just admitted that you're going to keep

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Speaker 1: all of them even when you're with someone. Let me

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Speaker 1: tell you what I'm going to do when I get

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Speaker 1: married Someday I'm going to change my phone number. I'm

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Speaker 1: destroying all digital evidence. We're starting, We're stopping by the

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Speaker 1: Apple store, and we're starting from scratch, new computer, new phone,

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Speaker 1: new iPad, new phone number. I might even change my name.

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Speaker 1: But here you are saying that you're going to hang

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Speaker 1: on to all of them, and I can see why

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Speaker 1: Katie might have a problem. So Katie, look, he is singing.

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Speaker 1: In fairness, he is single. You guys are not together.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's it's fair to assume that when you're

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Speaker 1: dating that the people are dating other people as well.

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Speaker 1: So you know, it's unfortunate that we've learned a little

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Speaker 1: these pictures and that he saves them all, which I'm

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Speaker 1: sure inspires you to send pictures, right, I mean, what

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Speaker 1: are you going to do? You just not interested? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I think this is super gross and weird that he's

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Speaker 3: cataloging nudes from random women and meanwhile he's going out

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Speaker 3: with me, Like that's just it's it's so just gross.

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Speaker 1: You had me until the part about keeping them all forever, right,

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Speaker 1: like to pass on to future iterations or something. I mean,

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Speaker 1: hard drive, I'm scared Okay, Look, so Katie, you want

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Speaker 1: to give another shot?

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Speaker 3: Do you want?

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'll just ask the question. But you know,

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Speaker 1: what if he erases all the nudes? What if he

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Speaker 1: agrees to erase all the nudes?

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Speaker 3: No, well, clearly he's planning on putting them on a

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Speaker 3: hard drive just in case. So yeah, no, this is

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Speaker 3: going to be a no for me. I'm not interested

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Speaker 3: in going out with him again.

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Speaker 1: All right, Sam, Well, look it sounds like you've got,

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Speaker 1: you know, a bit of an inventory, is some selections,

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Speaker 1: so I think he'll be okay, but it's not going

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Speaker 1: to work out with Katie.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Thanks, I mean send me a nude like you remember,

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Speaker 2: I'm sure. Oh my god, work is gonna be fun now?

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Speaker 1: Hr yeah, yeah, you might get some visitor seven right?

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Speaker 1: Oh boy? All right, guys, thank you for your time.

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Speaker 1: Best to pluck to both of you. I'm a little

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Speaker 1: creeped I'm a lot creeped out actually, which which takes

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Speaker 1: a lot. Best of luck to both of you.

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Speaker 2: Thanks.

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Speaker 3: Thanks,