Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Fully Reckless, the production of iHeartRadio and
Speaker 1: The Black Effect, And just like.
Speaker 2: That, we're back on the air.
Speaker 1: Welcome back to get another carefully Reckless episode with your girl, Jess.
Speaker 2: Hilarious. What do I be doing? I'll be fixing mess
Speaker 2: and we're gonna jump straight into it.
Speaker 1: We don't have any voice notes because people's voices are
Speaker 1: very recognizable. But I did pick three interests in stories,
Speaker 1: actually all three of them. We're at the top of
Speaker 1: my DMS on the Carefully Reckless podcast page.
Speaker 2: Y'all been doing really, really good with sending these.
Speaker 1: I gotta cushy'all more often, because after I cush y'all out,
Speaker 1: then y'all get it together.
Speaker 2: I shouldn't have to cush y'all out. I'm sick of y'all.
Speaker 1: Y'all, but I love y'all at the same time, so
Speaker 1: we're gonna jump straight into it.
Speaker 3: Hi, Jess, I'm sending you this message, mad lad, but
Speaker 3: I hope you get to it. Congratulations on your pregnancy.
Speaker 3: I am also pregnant and do in July. I wanted
Speaker 3: to reach out to you because as I feel so
Speaker 3: lost and I just feel myself going into a very
Speaker 3: deep depression. I lost my husband of three years two
Speaker 3: months ago due to a shooting that happened across the
Speaker 3: street from my house.
Speaker 2: He was caught in the crossfire.
Speaker 3: It's crazy because we were in the process of moving
Speaker 3: and just brought our first house together to prepare for
Speaker 3: our family. I'm still trying to process if this is
Speaker 3: real or not. He would always do this thing every
Speaker 3: day when I come home from work. He would have
Speaker 3: my favorite show playing and dinner ready on the table.
Speaker 3: I look forward to that every day I get home,
Speaker 3: and I think it's just now starting to sink in
Speaker 3: that I will never come home to him again. I
Speaker 3: just figured out the gender of our baby yesterday and
Speaker 3: it's a boy, exactly what he wanted, and this is
Speaker 3: also our first child. I feel like no one understands
Speaker 3: the pain I am going through, and it's causing so
Speaker 3: much stress on me that I've even been in and
Speaker 3: out of the hospital because of my stress levels. I
Speaker 3: have a village that is absolutely one hundred percent supportive
Speaker 3: and is with me through whatever, but they are not him. Sadly,
Speaker 3: no one could take this pain away. He gave love
Speaker 3: a new meaning for me and brought so much light
Speaker 3: to my life. My soul has gone from You probably
Speaker 3: won't even get to this one because I know you
Speaker 3: probably have thousands of other dms to answer to. So
Speaker 3: I'll just let this be a diary to you, and
Speaker 3: I hope that you take this in with open arms.
Speaker 3: Once again, I am so proud of you and all
Speaker 3: your successes. I've been rocking with you since the beginning.
Speaker 2: Man, that was very very heavy.
Speaker 1: And the reason why I did it that way I
Speaker 1: let the computer read her voice, I mean read her story,
Speaker 1: is because y'all, I'm struggling with this noseous install and
Speaker 1: I was supposed to get some ginger candies, but they're
Speaker 1: not good to me at all. So I have gum
Speaker 1: in my mouth, and I understand that it sounds disgusting
Speaker 1: and listening to me talk chewing and swallowing gum flavor
Speaker 1: and shit like that. So I want to eliminate that
Speaker 1: as much as possible, but I cannot get rid of
Speaker 1: this gum, y'all. Y'all gonna hear a whole bunch of
Speaker 1: shit coming up out my stomach, all right. So that
Speaker 1: was a very very heavy story, damn. And I'm gonna
Speaker 1: be honest. This is the first time that I really
Speaker 1: can't even really give a lot of advice because I've
Speaker 1: never gone through this, nor is this something that I
Speaker 1: want to go through that I wish on the next
Speaker 1: person that I wish on my worst enemy. I understand
Speaker 1: her and her husband, who was married, like she said,
Speaker 1: for three years, they were about to move out of
Speaker 1: their house, and in the midst of them moving, he
Speaker 1: gets gunned down, caught in a crossfire that wasn't even
Speaker 1: going on with him, like it wasn't.
Speaker 2: Even for him.
Speaker 1: Obviously, in these instances, you don't know why things like
Speaker 1: this happen, especially if you are a believer in the
Speaker 1: most high you know or whoever or whatever you believe in.
Speaker 1: You kind of question your faith and you're just like,
Speaker 1: why why did this happen? Well, you know, but I
Speaker 1: would always say everything happens for a reason.
Speaker 2: But I don't know, honey.
Speaker 1: I would definitely say, get therapy because that has got
Speaker 1: to hurt every day, every night, every waking moment, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. And then you just found out
Speaker 1: the gender of your baby. Congratulations on your beautiful bundle
Speaker 1: of joy.
Speaker 2: Yes, I am pregnant. I appreciate you for congratulating me.
Speaker 1: On that and my successes, but I still feel so
Speaker 1: empty for you every time somebody reports to me a
Speaker 1: story or you guys willing to expose even a little
Speaker 1: bit about your life, and you know, seeing how vulnerable
Speaker 1: a lot of men and women can be with me,
Speaker 1: I just take my head off to you.
Speaker 2: I love it.
Speaker 1: I'm in a position where I can actually amplify these
Speaker 1: stories by bringing awareness to it on my platform. And
Speaker 1: I know she's not the only one that's going through
Speaker 1: something like this. So, like you said, you were just
Speaker 1: writing this to me like a diary, and trust me,
Speaker 1: I hear you. My heart goes out to you and
Speaker 1: that beautiful baby that you're going to have, and I'm
Speaker 1: really really sorry, but I think you should start your
Speaker 1: therapy work right now, not when your baby gets here,
Speaker 1: and don't try to figure this out on your own.
Speaker 2: And I'm happy that you do have a village. You know.
Speaker 1: I don't know whether that be your mom, you didn't specify,
Speaker 1: you know, your parents, your family, your friends.
Speaker 2: Whoever it is.
Speaker 1: I love those people for being there in those moments
Speaker 1: for you as well, because you have to be strong
Speaker 1: for that baby and to know that he wanted a boy.
Speaker 1: It's even more amazing. But it's very sad that that
Speaker 1: baby will never know it's father. And if you have
Speaker 1: anything like a gofund me, make sure you submitted into
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Speaker 1: story a little bit more broader than this, and we
Speaker 1: can cover this. This is something that we can briefly
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Speaker 1: I will help you. I know DJMV and Charlottage. God
Speaker 1: will help you stories like this. Just God leave a
Speaker 1: damn hold in your heart, so we're gonna move on.
Speaker 1: Definitely update me anything you need for that baby.
Speaker 2: Girl.
Speaker 1: That's why I'm asking you for the go fund me,
Speaker 1: because it's gonna be hard doing this by yourself. Although
Speaker 1: you do have a village, you can never have too
Speaker 1: much love, too much support, too many things for a child,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, So just send that over.
Speaker 2: Damn.
Speaker 1: If you love me, you'll listen to this commercial and
Speaker 1: then we'll be right back.
Speaker 3: All right, Hey, Jess, I know you love voice messages,
Speaker 3: but my voice is very recognizable. However, I most definitely
Speaker 3: need help with my mess right now. I'm not even
Speaker 3: sure where to start, but my ex broke up with
Speaker 3: Emmy two days before Valentine's Day twenty twenty four. We
Speaker 3: were together for two years prior to this incident, so
Speaker 3: I need to say that the year already started off
Speaker 3: bad with us, considering she canceled plans on my birthday,
Speaker 3: which was at the beginning of January, which I wasn't
Speaker 3: really tripping because she kept promising to come see me
Speaker 3: when she had the time. Well, fast forward to her birthday,
Speaker 3: which is at the end of January, where she went
Speaker 3: with her hoeing s sister on an out of state vacation.
Speaker 3: We were talking throughout her being out there, just not
Speaker 3: as much as usual, no biggie. Right before she leaves
Speaker 3: to come back home, she calls and tells me how
Speaker 3: she wasn't really with the girl the whole trip and
Speaker 3: all this other gossip. Not one did she mention anything
Speaker 3: out of the ordinary happened.
Speaker 1: M Sarah read it and it was too complicated. Then
Speaker 1: I read it and it was still complicated because I
Speaker 1: don't get it. So breakfast down, NYA, my little sister here,
Speaker 1: y'all stay high.
Speaker 4: Hey, all right, So, what the girl was trying to
Speaker 4: say is that the relationship was bad from the beginning
Speaker 4: of the year, so she already feel like something something
Speaker 4: was off. So their birthdays in the same month, her
Speaker 4: birthdays in the beginning of January and the girlfriend birthdays
Speaker 4: at the end of January. The girlfriend told her that
Speaker 4: she was going on a vacation with her sister. She says,
Speaker 4: she's a hoe. Nobody trusts you know, anybody said, yeah,
Speaker 4: nobody want to be with out you feel me?
Speaker 2: Okay? Boom She comes back and say she wasn't with
Speaker 2: her the whole time.
Speaker 1: Oh, so she wasn't with the sister the whole time.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, she was out getting her life with another hole,
Speaker 1: with another hole that's not her sister.
Speaker 2: And she said she usually they usually open about that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but she didn't want to make a big deal
Speaker 4: about it because it's her birthday. So that's why she
Speaker 4: was like, no, baby, you know, but this ain't right.
Speaker 2: And that's why she trying to get to the bottom
Speaker 2: of it. Yeah, you wasn't with your whole sister. Which
Speaker 2: hole was you with?
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what, probably one of her whole as
Speaker 1: sister friends. Oh, because you know, if her sister a hole,
Speaker 1: so was some of her friends, right? And and or
Speaker 1: she didn't even go on a vacation. Maybe she just
Speaker 1: went somewhere else with somebody else. Okay, So now I said, well,
Speaker 1: maybe she didn't even go on a vacation. Maybe she
Speaker 1: went somewhere else with somebody else to sneak. Yeah, that
Speaker 1: is sneaky, And maybe it was just easier for her
Speaker 1: to tell her I'm going somewhere with my sister. But
Speaker 1: if this girl already thinks the sister as a whole,
Speaker 1: so you fucked either way. Yeah, So so they broke up.
Speaker 4: They still together, but the relationship is rocky, rocky, and
Speaker 4: it started with the birthday at the beginning of the year, lawing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, sounds like she needed to cut the whole off.
Speaker 2: It sounds like you need to cut this girl off.
Speaker 2: That's what it sounds like.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I really believe that, though it does sound like
Speaker 1: it's taken a different it's going into a different direction.
Speaker 2: I mean, especially since you.
Speaker 1: Ended it with we are usually open books about this
Speaker 1: type of information, So that means you and your girlfriend
Speaker 1: are usually honest about things. But y'all haven't been seeing
Speaker 1: each other lately like that, you said, you haven't been
Speaker 1: talking as much as you talk to her, you know,
Speaker 1: the whole time she was on the trip, but not
Speaker 1: as much as usual, or not as much as you
Speaker 1: would have liked to seeing that she was with her
Speaker 1: whole as sister.
Speaker 2: That would have made me feel some type of way too.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and I could see how to didn't make
Speaker 1: you feel some type of way. I definitely think it's
Speaker 1: worth a conversation. I mean you should because what if
Speaker 1: there is someone else, you know what I mean? And honestly,
Speaker 1: if you two are always honest about things, maybe this
Speaker 1: is like a little fling that she got. Maybe this
Speaker 1: is something that she just having fun with you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. She don't plan to leave you for
Speaker 1: this person. She don't plan it, cause I think with you,
Speaker 1: if she's as honest as you said, and you always
Speaker 1: open books about shit, that would be something that she
Speaker 1: would come to you about.
Speaker 2: You don't got a location? Yeah, my sister said she
Speaker 2: ain't got her location or nothing like that. Like what
Speaker 2: that is that we do those? Yeah, definitely these definitely
Speaker 2: share locations and stuff like that. And are you cool
Speaker 2: with the sister? Was there any pictures?
Speaker 1: I mean everybody, because are there any vacation videos, pictures whatever?
Speaker 2: Like anything? You get what I'm saying?
Speaker 1: Like you you got a further investigation, especially if this
Speaker 1: is something that you want to get to the bottom
Speaker 1: of or hold it on.
Speaker 2: Tocaus.
Speaker 4: She didn't even she didn't even say she asked her.
Speaker 4: She just said that she came here and said she
Speaker 4: wasn't there, she wasn't with her.
Speaker 2: So what happened next?
Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, she didn't she didn't see My pregnant mind.
Speaker 2: Is like, oh, okay.
Speaker 1: So we're trying to build out the rest of the story.
Speaker 1: Now you really didn't know, I'm in true. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: didn't elaborate on it both. In fact, you ended it
Speaker 1: and said not once did she mention anything out of
Speaker 1: the ordinary happened.
Speaker 2: We're usually open books about this. And then you said
Speaker 2: that and that was it. I mean, right.
Speaker 4: Before she leaves to come back home, she goes and
Speaker 4: tell me how she wasn't really with the girl the
Speaker 4: whole trip and all this other.
Speaker 2: Guysip, what was the gossip?
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, what she said, So what was the gossip?
Speaker 1: What are you leaving out? And then yeah, like Naya said,
Speaker 1: did you talk to her at all? Did you you
Speaker 1: know you're trying to get to the bottom of it.
Speaker 1: Are you scared to do you? Do you not want
Speaker 1: her to flip out on you and leave you or like,
Speaker 1: what the hell are you and all of this, because
Speaker 1: if you're worried, if you're that worried about the vacation
Speaker 1: and everything, this definitely needs immediate attention. I mean, the
Speaker 1: fuck you're just gonna let the ship slide. And then
Speaker 1: she said, yeah she did. She said, my ex broke
Speaker 1: up with me two days before Valentine's Day twenty twenty four.
Speaker 2: Oh, that's what I'm saying. I'm like, nah, this that
Speaker 2: this y'all. Yeah, y'all did break up? So she broke
Speaker 2: up with you? Oh? Yeah, it was definitely somebody else.
Speaker 1: Definitely it was somebody else, whether it's one of the
Speaker 1: whole as sister's friends, whether it's somebody that that.
Speaker 2: She been dealing with. Yeah, don't nobody just come out
Speaker 2: of nowhere and fall out the fucking sky. Did she
Speaker 2: give you a reason why? Yeah? And have y'all talked
Speaker 2: about why y'all broke up?
Speaker 1: Like, did she say that y'all been you know, look,
Speaker 1: I've been a litt unhappy with you. I mean, you
Speaker 1: don't do the things you used to, you know, those
Speaker 1: type of things that leads up.
Speaker 2: To a breakup. Usually have y'all sat and.
Speaker 1: Talked about this shit, because this was all right, but
Speaker 1: it wasn't that goddamn juicy girl you leaving meet off
Speaker 1: the bones? Goddamn. So you gotta gotta hit me back
Speaker 1: up and update me and let me know about this,
Speaker 1: all right?
Speaker 2: All right? Cool? Yeah? And is it worth fighting for you?
Speaker 2: Gotta let me know that too. You want to read
Speaker 2: this one? Sure? Real? Because I don't understand? Go ahead, okay, Hey,
Speaker 2: jus love your podcast.
Speaker 4: I love you because you'd be fixing people mess even
Speaker 4: help me in some leaks. So today I need some
Speaker 4: help and try to make the story short.
Speaker 2: Here goes. Me and this girl met in Okay.
Speaker 1: Everybody gay out here, Oh my god, just keep on
Speaker 1: going with the story.
Speaker 4: Say, okay, we were together for almost a year, but
Speaker 4: she broke it off and.
Speaker 2: Started dating some guy.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, See, everybody don't want to be gay all day?
Speaker 2: Go ahead, all right.
Speaker 4: While doing so, she still was around me and everything,
Speaker 4: going out, having fun, et cetera. The nigga that she
Speaker 4: was dealing with knew about me as well. I knew
Speaker 4: what who his bitch as was. He would be all
Speaker 4: in my face and everything, like we was cool, but
Speaker 4: I couldn't trust him and I didn't go with my
Speaker 4: gut feeling. She broke it off with him after he
Speaker 4: stabbed himself in front all right.
Speaker 2: My good, he stabbed himself your friend? Oh shit? Oh wait?
Speaker 2: Did he die? Hold on?
Speaker 1: She broke it off with him after he said this
Speaker 1: south in front of her over a fight the head?
Speaker 2: Where are you doing this? This nigga stabbed herself to
Speaker 2: get her to be with him. Oh my god, right down? Yeah?
Speaker 2: Like what like? No, we don't do that. Okay.
Speaker 4: I get to work and no more than ten minutes
Speaker 4: into work, she caused, my phone, tells me what had happened.
Speaker 4: I left work and went right to her. She was
Speaker 4: scared and anxiety through the roof. I save with her
Speaker 4: that name to make sure she was okay and everything.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, that's it. Yeah, Oh my god.
Speaker 1: I gave y'all props two goddamn early, y'all ain't what
Speaker 1: So what the fuck you want to know?
Speaker 2: Shit? What did she want to know?
Speaker 1: I shan't ask me for no fucking advice. She told
Speaker 1: me the nigga stabbed herself. Stabbed herself because he saw
Speaker 1: her and the girl together, so he was like, oh shit,
Speaker 1: all right, this will get her back.
Speaker 2: Shank shank, shank, Like, what the fuck boy, what are
Speaker 2: you doing?
Speaker 4: So and then this is her ex girlfriend and she
Speaker 4: went to go support her after this time, and.
Speaker 2: Me, oh, so she went to go support her.
Speaker 4: Yeah, because you know that is a lot. So yeah,
Speaker 4: it would have been confused as well as scared.
Speaker 2: Yeah, confused. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Like if you're willing to cause harm to yourself on
Speaker 1: some shit like that just to like profess your love
Speaker 1: or like to get a bit to see you, nigga,
Speaker 1: you obviously are in the wrong relationship. You need to
Speaker 1: do work on your damn self. I would never self
Speaker 1: inflict pain like that, like, you know, just to get
Speaker 1: somebody to see me. Nah, it's somebody out here, but
Speaker 1: I mean worth much more of your time and love
Speaker 1: and real efforts like then, just for somebody. And I'm
Speaker 1: not even saying that you required him to stab himself,
Speaker 1: because I don't want you to think like Jess.
Speaker 2: I didn't tell him to do it.
Speaker 1: No, you're damn right, you damn sure didn't, baby, But
Speaker 1: like you shouldn't want to really be with somebody like
Speaker 1: that either, You get what I'm saying, because those are type.
Speaker 2: Of people go and try, Oh, I'm a I'm suicide
Speaker 2: with the ex girlfriend.
Speaker 1: Oh who is writing me? The girl girlfriend was oh shy.
Speaker 4: Not the governor, because she went with the guy, and
Speaker 4: the guy and the girlfriend broke up with the guy
Speaker 4: and she got with some other nigga, and the nigga
Speaker 4: saw them together and said this, So.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, girl, you don't fucking run. You ain't
Speaker 2: get stabbed ship.
Speaker 1: Let her go and support her because she ain't crying
Speaker 1: about you while you supporting her for him getting stabbed,
Speaker 1: crying about him because he didn't die from stabbing.
Speaker 2: This dumb and self girl, go ahead run, you dodged
Speaker 2: the bullet. The fuck.
Speaker 1: Come on, gay girl, You's so many girls out here
Speaker 1: that you can go ahead and get that ain't gonna
Speaker 1: cheat on you with no nigga that ain't no seriously,
Speaker 1: and she broke up with you, and she broke up
Speaker 1: with you. Oh my god, Oh my god. Look this
Speaker 1: is old my fucking TV show. Now, this is bullshit.
Speaker 1: You ain't supposed to be sitting in We're going to
Speaker 1: the next story.
Speaker 2: I don't know what the fuck they's sitting in here
Speaker 2: talking about. It's just crazy now, insane. Come on, I
Speaker 2: don't know se alright he love? Is he? Alright? I
Speaker 2: don't give a fuck?
Speaker 4: Is he?
Speaker 2: Alright? To max to you? What should need?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I man, shit, she went over there
Speaker 1: to support her in that time, to need while she
Speaker 1: trying to get over the stabbing, the self stabbing of
Speaker 1: a nigga who saw her with a bitch.
Speaker 2: Ain't nobody got time for that? Ship?
Speaker 1: Girl back, get up, go to that bitch a box
Speaker 1: of tissues and sigh and all her bitches, so many,
Speaker 1: so much of a pussy out here.
Speaker 2: But that was very generous. Though, it was very generous.
Speaker 2: But it's very dumb too. You don't do that. Don't
Speaker 2: fucking do that. Alright, read the next one and then
Speaker 2: be out of here. All right.
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Speaker 2: Listen.
Speaker 4: Okay, Hi Jess, congratulations to your beautiful but new joy
Speaker 4: as you pull up your stomach rain. Now let's get
Speaker 4: into it. So I have an issue that I don't
Speaker 4: even know if it's considered a mess. I have a
Speaker 4: friend that I call my sister that everyone keeps saying
Speaker 4: is a hater personally, do I feel that way, No,
Speaker 4: but my mom dad says the boyfriend, what the fuck?
Speaker 2: Okay, do I feel that way?
Speaker 4: No, but my mom dad since the boyfriend and others
Speaker 4: have said she is so Within the last year, I've
Speaker 4: had a baby and bought a new house.
Speaker 2: That's when I noticed the behavior did a one eighty.
Speaker 2: We tug.
Speaker 4: The attacks still most days. That can sometimes stop for weeks.
Speaker 4: But it's like, since those two things happen in my life,
Speaker 4: she distanced herself for me. We have talked about the
Speaker 4: distance before and she kept blaming pregnancy. Well I'm not
Speaker 4: pregnant no more. And it's like, no matter what I
Speaker 4: invite her to, she has her excuses lined up. But
Speaker 4: then I get on Snapchat and she out with her
Speaker 4: other friends, where yeah, I don't feel like she's a hater,
Speaker 4: but I do feel like maybe we're growing apart and
Speaker 4: I'm holding on more than her. It's like, hit me
Speaker 4: up when the others don't show up.
Speaker 1: Just yeah, okay, yeah, I've seen things like this before.
Speaker 1: I yeah, absolutely, that's that's what it is. But you know,
Speaker 1: you want to write track baby girls. Some friends just
Speaker 1: grow apart, and you actually went through something like that too. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I haven't gone through that shit because I beat a
Speaker 1: bitch to fuck up.
Speaker 2: But I know, well I used to.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't do that now because I'm just not like
Speaker 1: that no more. But you know, this is in my
Speaker 1: younger days, Like, don't have a fucking play with me
Speaker 1: like that. But but this happens when you're younger. So
Speaker 1: I don't know how old you are or whatever, but
Speaker 1: this definitely happens.
Speaker 2: You can give us some insight on it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, some people just don't like to see
Speaker 4: you doing better than them. Also when you're elevating, like
Speaker 4: you just say, you had a baby, you got a
Speaker 4: new house, like you're.
Speaker 2: Doing big things.
Speaker 4: So maybe she's not where she wants to be and
Speaker 4: it's making her feel some type of way because she
Speaker 4: sees you doing your thing and it's like, damn, I'm
Speaker 4: want to be there, you know. And some people use
Speaker 4: their friends who have more in an advantage of things as.
Speaker 2: A piggy big ride to success. You know, we're there.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, So I think like when you were doing
Speaker 4: your thing and then you probably like, oh, yeah, like
Speaker 4: where are you, She's just like, well, if you're not
Speaker 4: taking what you yeah, then I don't think yeah, yeah,
Speaker 4: and then yeah, that's definitely some making ship. And then
Speaker 4: with you having your baby and all that, she probably
Speaker 4: thought that that would depleach your success more than anything,
Speaker 4: because if you were younger, or if you're still youthful, then.
Speaker 2: A lot of a lot of people would be like
Speaker 2: she was.
Speaker 1: Probably counting on you the fall, like counting on your downfall, Like, oh,
Speaker 1: she's just gonna be another be mother. She's not gonna
Speaker 1: be able to move out, she's not be able to
Speaker 1: have her own she's not be able to have a job, and.
Speaker 2: That's know what I mean.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And a lot of people really really want they
Speaker 1: want to hold you back to where they at you
Speaker 1: get them saying and where they are. But like, for instance,
Speaker 1: my little sister, her life has leveled up, the one
Speaker 1: that just read your story, Like, her life has leveled
Speaker 1: up in many ways, very very quickly before both of
Speaker 1: our eyes.
Speaker 2: And we both didn't see this coming. It's like, no,
Speaker 2: I'm playing I I already knew she was gonna be something,
Speaker 2: but yeah, like I she.
Speaker 1: You know this, this has happened. She's working, she's making
Speaker 1: her own fucking money, she's driving her own car, she
Speaker 1: has her own license, she pay her own moutfucking bills,
Speaker 1: she travels, she's in a gay relationship and it's amazing,
Speaker 1: all right, you don't gotta funk say, all right, And
Speaker 1: she's in a relationship and she's fucking happy, you know,
Speaker 1: for the first time in a long time in her life.
Speaker 2: Everything is really looking up for her.
Speaker 1: And some people couldn't come, you know, because some people
Speaker 1: felt like, oh damn, she left me.
Speaker 2: She could you know what I'm saying, Like, nah, my
Speaker 2: sister was going through.
Speaker 1: A bunch of shit before, you know, before her glory days,
Speaker 1: before she actually got to make her own money.
Speaker 2: She had to go through a lot of shit. And
Speaker 2: it's not my place to speak on it.
Speaker 1: She will tell more about that in the future and
Speaker 1: however she wants to do it, whether that's a podcast
Speaker 1: or a book or a TV show, whatever, But it's
Speaker 1: a lot of things she had to go through to
Speaker 1: get to where she is now. And she went through
Speaker 1: that by herself, and she went through things. Although she
Speaker 1: had friends along the way, she went through things and
Speaker 1: didn't even tell everybody a business because just being ashamed
Speaker 1: or embarrassed of certain things and just wanting to act
Speaker 1: like a lot of it wasn't affecting her because she
Speaker 1: never wanted sympathy from anybody. So like some people just
Speaker 1: can't cannot grow with you. Some people don't understand what
Speaker 1: it evolved. Like when an evolved person is whether it
Speaker 1: change Oh, oh money changed you?
Speaker 2: No money changed you.
Speaker 1: My money changed you because you expect for me to
Speaker 1: give it to you, and hell.
Speaker 2: And hell like she said, and hell no.
Speaker 1: So the next time you might want to listen to
Speaker 1: your brother, sister, cousin, uncle and aunt and others, all right,
Speaker 1: because I know this is your friend and I've lost
Speaker 1: friends along the way as well. I'm not even gonna
Speaker 1: act like I haven't. But that just comes with growing
Speaker 1: up and growing apart from people, and that happens.
Speaker 2: So just stay updated with us, but with.
Speaker 4: Congratulations to you though in your house your baby, ye
Speaker 4: be happy.
Speaker 1: Don't even worry about it, girl, I absolutely do not
Speaker 1: try not to worry about it. I notice your friend
Speaker 1: prior childhood friend, but leave her child to share.
Speaker 2: It's where the fuck she at? Period?
Speaker 1: Yep period, And just like that we come to yet
Speaker 1: the end of another Catholic reckless episode with your girl
Speaker 1: just hilarious.
Speaker 2: And nah yah and We'll be back next week.
Speaker 1: I'm if I'm reading from now on, y'all because I
Speaker 1: just until I get over the nausel. Sun sorry, so,
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, she just like me. She's crazy, but
Speaker 1: tune in next week. Peace Can't Believe Reckless is a
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