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Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Fully Reckless, the production of iHeartRadio and

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Speaker 1: The Black Effect, And just like.

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Speaker 2: That, we're back on the air.

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Speaker 1: Welcome back to get another carefully Reckless episode with your girl, Jess.

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Speaker 2: Hilarious. What do I be doing? I'll be fixing mess

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Speaker 2: and we're gonna jump straight into it.

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Speaker 1: We don't have any voice notes because people's voices are

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Speaker 1: very recognizable. But I did pick three interests in stories,

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Speaker 1: actually all three of them. We're at the top of

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Speaker 1: my DMS on the Carefully Reckless podcast page.

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Speaker 2: Y'all been doing really, really good with sending these.

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Speaker 1: I gotta cushy'all more often, because after I cush y'all out,

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Speaker 1: then y'all get it together.

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Speaker 2: I shouldn't have to cush y'all out. I'm sick of y'all.

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Speaker 1: Y'all, but I love y'all at the same time, so

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Speaker 1: we're gonna jump straight into it.

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Speaker 3: Hi, Jess, I'm sending you this message, mad lad, but

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Speaker 3: I hope you get to it. Congratulations on your pregnancy.

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Speaker 3: I am also pregnant and do in July. I wanted

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Speaker 3: to reach out to you because as I feel so

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Speaker 3: lost and I just feel myself going into a very

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Speaker 3: deep depression. I lost my husband of three years two

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Speaker 3: months ago due to a shooting that happened across the

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Speaker 3: street from my house.

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Speaker 2: He was caught in the crossfire.

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Speaker 3: It's crazy because we were in the process of moving

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Speaker 3: our family. I'm still trying to process if this is

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Speaker 3: real or not. He would always do this thing every

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Speaker 3: day when I come home from work. He would have

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Speaker 3: my favorite show playing and dinner ready on the table.

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Speaker 3: I look forward to that every day I get home,

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Speaker 3: and I think it's just now starting to sink in

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Speaker 3: that I will never come home to him again. I

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Speaker 3: just figured out the gender of our baby yesterday and

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Speaker 3: it's a boy, exactly what he wanted, and this is

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Speaker 3: the pain I am going through, and it's causing so

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Speaker 3: much stress on me that I've even been in and

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Speaker 3: and is with me through whatever, but they are not him. Sadly,

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Speaker 3: no one could take this pain away. He gave love

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Speaker 3: to my life. My soul has gone from You probably

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Speaker 3: won't even get to this one because I know you

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Speaker 3: probably have thousands of other dms to answer to. So

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Speaker 3: I'll just let this be a diary to you, and

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Speaker 3: I hope that you take this in with open arms.

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Speaker 3: Once again, I am so proud of you and all

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Speaker 3: your successes. I've been rocking with you since the beginning.

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Speaker 2: Man, that was very very heavy.

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Speaker 1: And the reason why I did it that way I

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Speaker 1: let the computer read her voice, I mean read her story,

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Speaker 1: is because y'all, I'm struggling with this noseous install and

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Speaker 1: I was supposed to get some ginger candies, but they're

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Speaker 1: not good to me at all. So I have gum

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Speaker 1: and shit like that. So I want to eliminate that

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Speaker 1: this gum, y'all. Y'all gonna hear a whole bunch of

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Speaker 1: shit coming up out my stomach, all right. So that

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Speaker 1: was a very very heavy story, damn. And I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: be honest. This is the first time that I really

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Speaker 1: can't even really give a lot of advice because I've

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Speaker 1: her and her husband, who was married, like she said,

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Speaker 2: Even for him.

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Speaker 1: Obviously, in these instances, you don't know why things like

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Speaker 1: You kind of question your faith and you're just like,

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Speaker 1: why why did this happen? Well, you know, but I

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Speaker 2: But I don't know, honey.

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Speaker 1: I would definitely say, get therapy because that has got

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Speaker 1: to hurt every day, every night, every waking moment, you

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Speaker 1: know what I mean. And then you just found out

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Speaker 1: the gender of your baby. Congratulations on your beautiful bundle

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Speaker 1: of joy.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I am pregnant. I appreciate you for congratulating me.

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Speaker 1: On that and my successes, but I still feel so

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Speaker 1: empty for you every time somebody reports to me a

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Speaker 1: a lot of men and women can be with me,

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Speaker 1: I just take my head off to you.

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Speaker 2: I love it.

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Speaker 1: I'm in a position where I can actually amplify these

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Speaker 1: stories by bringing awareness to it on my platform. And

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Speaker 1: I know she's not the only one that's going through

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Speaker 1: something like this. So, like you said, you were just

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Speaker 1: writing this to me like a diary, and trust me,

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Speaker 1: I hear you. My heart goes out to you and

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Speaker 1: that beautiful baby that you're going to have, and I'm

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Speaker 1: really really sorry, but I think you should start your

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Speaker 1: therapy work right now, not when your baby gets here,

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Speaker 1: and don't try to figure this out on your own.

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Speaker 2: And I'm happy that you do have a village. You know.

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Speaker 1: I don't know whether that be your mom, you didn't specify,

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Speaker 2: Whoever it is.

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Speaker 1: I love those people for being there in those moments

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Speaker 1: for you as well, because you have to be strong

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Speaker 1: for that baby and to know that he wanted a boy.

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Speaker 1: It's even more amazing. But it's very sad that that

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Speaker 1: baby will never know it's father. And if you have

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Speaker 1: anything like a gofund me, make sure you submitted into

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Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club because I actually want to take your

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Speaker 1: story a little bit more broader than this, and we

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Speaker 1: can cover this. This is something that we can briefly

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Speaker 1: cover on the Breakfast Club. We will definitely help you.

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Speaker 1: I will help you. I know DJMV and Charlottage. God

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Speaker 1: will help you stories like this. Just God leave a

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Speaker 1: damn hold in your heart, so we're gonna move on.

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Speaker 1: Definitely update me anything you need for that baby.

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Speaker 2: Girl.

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Speaker 1: That's why I'm asking you for the go fund me,

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Speaker 1: because it's gonna be hard doing this by yourself. Although

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Speaker 1: you do have a village, you can never have too

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Speaker 1: much love, too much support, too many things for a child,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean, So just send that over.

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Speaker 2: Damn.

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Speaker 1: If you love me, you'll listen to this commercial and

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Speaker 1: then we'll be right back.

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Speaker 3: All right, Hey, Jess, I know you love voice messages,

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Speaker 3: but my voice is very recognizable. However, I most definitely

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Speaker 3: need help with my mess right now. I'm not even

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Speaker 3: sure where to start, but my ex broke up with

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Speaker 3: Emmy two days before Valentine's Day twenty twenty four. We

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Speaker 3: bad with us, considering she canceled plans on my birthday,

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Speaker 3: We were talking throughout her being out there, just not

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Speaker 1: y'all stay high.

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Speaker 4: Hey, all right, So, what the girl was trying to

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Speaker 4: at the end of January. The girlfriend told her that

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Speaker 4: she was going on a vacation with her sister. She says,

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Speaker 1: Oh, so she wasn't with the sister the whole time.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, she was out getting her life with another hole,

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Speaker 2: And she said she usually they usually open about that.

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Speaker 4: They still together, but the relationship is rocky, rocky, and

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Speaker 4: it started with the birthday at the beginning of the year, lawing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, sounds like she needed to cut the whole off.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like you need to cut this girl off.

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Speaker 2: I mean, especially since you.

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Speaker 1: Ended it with we are usually open books about this

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Speaker 1: talking as much as you talk to her, you know,

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Speaker 2: That would have made me feel some type of way too.

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Speaker 1: you feel some type of way. I definitely think it's

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Speaker 1: worth a conversation. I mean you should because what if

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Speaker 1: there is someone else, you know what I mean? And honestly,

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Speaker 1: if you two are always honest about things, maybe this

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Speaker 1: what I mean. She don't plan to leave you for

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Speaker 1: if she's as honest as you said, and you always

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Speaker 2: You don't got a location? Yeah, my sister said she

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Speaker 4: Before she leaves to come back home, she goes and

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Speaker 1: Like, did she say that y'all been you know, look,

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Speaker 1: Talked about this shit, because this was all right, but

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Speaker 2: All right? Cool? Yeah? And is it worth fighting for you?

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Speaker 2: this one? Sure? Real? Because I don't understand? Go ahead, okay, Hey,

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Speaker 4: I love you because you'd be fixing people mess even

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Speaker 2: Here goes. Me and this girl met in Okay.

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Speaker 1: Everybody gay out here, Oh my god, just keep on

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Speaker 4: Say, okay, we were together for almost a year, but

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Speaker 2: Started dating some guy.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, See, everybody don't want to be gay all day?

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Speaker 4: While doing so, she still was around me and everything,

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Speaker 2: My good, he stabbed himself your friend? Oh shit? Oh wait?

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Speaker 1: She broke it off with him after he said this

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Speaker 2: Where are you doing this? This nigga stabbed herself to

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Speaker 2: get her to be with him. Oh my god, right down? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Like what like? No, we don't do that. Okay.

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Speaker 4: I get to work and no more than ten minutes

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, that's it. Yeah, Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: I gave y'all props two goddamn early, y'all ain't what

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Speaker 2: Shit? What did she want to know?

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Speaker 1: I shan't ask me for no fucking advice. She told

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Speaker 1: me the nigga stabbed herself. Stabbed herself because he saw

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Speaker 2: Shank shank, shank, Like, what the fuck boy, what are

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because you know that is a lot. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: Like if you're willing to cause harm to yourself on

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Speaker 2: I didn't tell him to do it.

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Speaker 1: No, you're damn right, you damn sure didn't, baby, But

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Speaker 2: Of people go and try, Oh, I'm a I'm suicide

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Speaker 1: Oh who is writing me? The girl girlfriend was oh shy.

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Speaker 4: Not the governor, because she went with the guy, and

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, girl, you don't fucking run. You ain't

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Speaker 1: Let her go and support her because she ain't crying

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Speaker 2: This dumb and self girl, go ahead run, you dodged

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Speaker 1: Come on, gay girl, You's so many girls out here

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Speaker 1: You ain't supposed to be sitting in We're going to

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Speaker 2: I don't know what the fuck they's sitting in here

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Speaker 2: don't know se alright he love? Is he? Alright? I

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Speaker 4: Is he?

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Speaker 2: Alright? To max to you? What should need?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I man, shit, she went over there

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Speaker 2: Ain't nobody got time for that? Ship?

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Speaker 1: Girl back, get up, go to that bitch a box

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Speaker 2: But that was very generous. Though, it was very generous.

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Speaker 2: But it's very dumb too. You don't do that. Don't

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Speaker 1: Now, we got a commercial, and if you click off

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Speaker 4: Okay, Hi Jess, congratulations to your beautiful but new joy

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Speaker 4: as you pull up your stomach rain. Now let's get

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Speaker 4: No, but my mom dad since the boyfriend and others

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Speaker 2: That's when I noticed the behavior did a one eighty.

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Speaker 4: The attacks still most days. That can sometimes stop for weeks.

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Speaker 4: But it's like, since those two things happen in my life,

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Speaker 1: Just yeah, okay, yeah, I've seen things like this before.

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Speaker 1: I yeah, absolutely, that's that's what it is. But you know,

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Speaker 1: I haven't gone through that shit because I beat a

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't do that now because I'm just not like

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Speaker 2: You can give us some insight on it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, some people just don't like to see

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Speaker 4: So maybe she's not where she wants to be and

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Speaker 4: it's making her feel some type of way because she

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, So I think like when you were doing

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Speaker 4: where are you, She's just like, well, if you're not

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Speaker 4: taking what you yeah, then I don't think yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 4: and then yeah, that's definitely some making ship. And then

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Speaker 4: with you having your baby and all that, she probably

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Speaker 4: thought that that would depleach your success more than anything,

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Speaker 4: because if you were younger, or if you're still youthful, then.

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Speaker 2: A lot of a lot of people would be like

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Speaker 2: she was.

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Speaker 1: Probably counting on you the fall, like counting on your downfall, Like, oh,

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Speaker 1: she's just gonna be another be mother. She's not gonna

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Speaker 1: be able to move out, she's not be able to

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Speaker 1: have her own she's not be able to have a job, and.

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Speaker 2: That's know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And a lot of people really really want they

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Speaker 1: want to hold you back to where they at you

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Speaker 1: get them saying and where they are. But like, for instance,

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Speaker 1: my little sister, her life has leveled up, the one

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Speaker 1: that just read your story, Like, her life has leveled

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Speaker 1: up in many ways, very very quickly before both of

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Speaker 1: our eyes.

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Speaker 2: And we both didn't see this coming. It's like, no,

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Speaker 2: I'm playing I I already knew she was gonna be something,

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Speaker 2: but yeah, like I she.

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Speaker 1: You know this, this has happened. She's working, she's making

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Speaker 1: her own fucking money, she's driving her own car, she

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Speaker 1: has her own license, she pay her own moutfucking bills,

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Speaker 1: she travels, she's in a gay relationship and it's amazing,

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Speaker 1: all right, you don't gotta funk say, all right, And

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Speaker 1: she's in a relationship and she's fucking happy, you know,

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Speaker 1: for the first time in a long time in her life.

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Speaker 2: Everything is really looking up for her.

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Speaker 1: And some people couldn't come, you know, because some people

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Speaker 1: felt like, oh damn, she left me.

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Speaker 2: She could you know what I'm saying, Like, nah, my

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Speaker 2: sister was going through.

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Speaker 1: A bunch of shit before, you know, before her glory days,

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Speaker 1: before she actually got to make her own money.

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Speaker 2: She had to go through a lot of shit. And

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Speaker 2: it's not my place to speak on it.

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Speaker 1: She will tell more about that in the future and

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Speaker 1: however she wants to do it, whether that's a podcast

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Speaker 1: or a book or a TV show, whatever, But it's

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Speaker 1: a lot of things she had to go through to

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Speaker 1: get to where she is now. And she went through

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Speaker 1: that by herself, and she went through things. Although she

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Speaker 1: had friends along the way, she went through things and

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Speaker 1: didn't even tell everybody a business because just being ashamed

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Speaker 1: or embarrassed of certain things and just wanting to act

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Speaker 1: like a lot of it wasn't affecting her because she

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Speaker 1: never wanted sympathy from anybody. So like some people just

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Speaker 1: can't cannot grow with you. Some people don't understand what

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Speaker 1: it evolved. Like when an evolved person is whether it

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Speaker 1: change Oh, oh money changed you?

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Speaker 2: No money changed you.

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Speaker 1: My money changed you because you expect for me to

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Speaker 1: give it to you, and hell.

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Speaker 2: And hell like she said, and hell no.

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Speaker 1: So the next time you might want to listen to

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Speaker 1: your brother, sister, cousin, uncle and aunt and others, all right,

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Speaker 1: because I know this is your friend and I've lost

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Speaker 1: friends along the way as well. I'm not even gonna

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Speaker 1: act like I haven't. But that just comes with growing

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Speaker 1: up and growing apart from people, and that happens.

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Speaker 2: So just stay updated with us, but with.

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Speaker 4: Congratulations to you though in your house your baby, ye

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Speaker 4: be happy.

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Speaker 1: Don't even worry about it, girl, I absolutely do not

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Speaker 1: try not to worry about it. I notice your friend

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Speaker 1: prior childhood friend, but leave her child to share.

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Speaker 2: It's where the fuck she at? Period?

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Speaker 1: Yep period, And just like that we come to yet

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Speaker 1: the end of another Catholic reckless episode with your girl

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Speaker 1: just hilarious.

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Speaker 2: And nah yah and We'll be back next week.

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Speaker 1: I'm if I'm reading from now on, y'all because I

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Speaker 1: just until I get over the nausel. Sun sorry, so,

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Speaker 1: oh my gosh, she just like me. She's crazy, but

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