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Speaker 1: Show is on. It's stay or go? Why not?

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Speaker 2: You know what?

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Speaker 1: Why not?

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Speaker 3: Come on?

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Speaker 1: It's all good, It's all good, all right, stay or go.

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Speaker 1: Let's debate some relationship drama we got. Is it bel Hi?

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Speaker 1: Is it Bell? How are you Hi? I'm good? How

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Speaker 1: are you Isabelle? Do you have anything unrelated you'd like

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Speaker 1: to you just bring up right now completely you have

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Speaker 1: any Do you have any stock tips or you know

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Speaker 1: who's gonna win the Final four? Anything else? Just completely

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Speaker 1: off topic.

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Speaker 4: Nothing off the top of my head, to be honest.

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Speaker 1: Okay, there you go, no problem. That's good. So you

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Speaker 1: are getting married in two months. Congratulations by the way,

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Speaker 1: thank you. And a couple of weeks ago, your fiance's

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Speaker 1: friends throw him a bachelor party, which you know, pretty

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Speaker 1: common before people get married. The friends get together, the guys, girls, whatever,

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Speaker 1: go off to their deal. That was me explaining to

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Speaker 1: a girlfriend of one of the guys who was at

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Speaker 1: the party told you something about the party after the fact.

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Speaker 1: So what happened?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, So, like you said, I'm getting married in two months,

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Speaker 4: and it was like two weeks ago. My fiance's friend

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Speaker 4: they threw him a bachelor party great, and a girlfriend

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Speaker 4: of one of the guys who was at the party

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Speaker 4: let it flip that, like, my fiance actually ended up

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Speaker 4: running into his ex at the party, And at first

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Speaker 4: but then said that nothing happened and that he didn't

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Speaker 4: like I asked some of the guys who were there,

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Speaker 4: And I don't know. I guess I'm just wondering, like

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Speaker 1: First of all, what is his ex doing in his

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Speaker 4: That's what I was wondering, Like they were a tough

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Speaker 1: Where they live and so is his next a stripper?

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Speaker 1: Is that? Is that what happened? They went to the

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Speaker 1: because I don't I don't understand why an X would

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Speaker 1: because first of all, what is she doing there? And

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Speaker 4: That's how I feel like it would have been one

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Speaker 4: this total coincidence. We said high and that's it, like

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Speaker 4: it would It's the energy around the lie and the

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Speaker 1: Because I feel like what happens is something very benign

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Speaker 2: It handle this all women, we're blessed with.

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Speaker 5: This gift is called intuition, right, and it's something that

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Speaker 5: So I know you feel this, girl, I know you

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Speaker 5: felt this when you ask him the first time and

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Speaker 5: he lied, You can feel that something is not right.

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Speaker 2: And if you're going into.

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Speaker 5: Marriage where he's already lying to you and like straight

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Speaker 5: up boldly in your face, where there's cameras and social media,

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Speaker 5: you can clearly find out if he actually ran into

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Speaker 5: this ex he's not even lying, he's not even telling

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Speaker 5: get married, because lying at this stage in your relationship

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Speaker 2: That's a big red flag for me here.

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Speaker 1: Have you ever doubt of him before? I mean, has

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Speaker 1: I just don't get it. I mean, I understand that

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Speaker 1: I get that, like talking about ex'es and running into

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Speaker 3: Well.

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Speaker 4: The thing is is that, like i've known him, our

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Speaker 4: But that's also been like the vast majority of our relationship.

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Speaker 4: But at the same time time, we have two hundred

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Speaker 4: like who can how many whose wedding actually has that

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I hear you, girl, But like cut I

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Speaker 6: don't want to say cut your wedding, like you know

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Speaker 6: need to really think about this because a lifelong commitment

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Speaker 6: then you know what I mean, cutting off you're a

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree with that. I mean, you hear this

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Speaker 1: It's like, well, it's going to be a lot more

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Speaker 1: But I'm not saying that this this necessarily reaches that

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Speaker 1: Eight five five five one three five. So just to

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Speaker 1: not as though she said did you see your ex?

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Speaker 1: divorces in breaking up are expensive too. What do you

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I feel like somebody almost like not even set

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Speaker 6: maybe like made this happen. I know I'm reaching here,

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Speaker 6: but like I feel like one of the odds a running.

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Speaker 2: Into your acts.

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Speaker 6: I know you're saying I feel in the same city

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Speaker 6: lying about it number one, But I feel like this

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Speaker 2: He'll set this up.

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Speaker 5: I think he was caught hanging out with his ex

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Speaker 5: They like to spend the block one more time, just

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Speaker 2: That's insane, but men do it.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, but why would you do that in public?

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna. I'm not gonna have ten of my

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Speaker 2: But see's why I think a friend, maybe the.

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Speaker 6: Best man, was involved and orchestrated this whole thing, because

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Speaker 2: Like I'm off the hook. Hey, you know Jimmy did that.

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Speaker 1: I didn't invite her.

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Speaker 7: Jimmy did, even though he still lies. Messy, Jimmy, damn

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Speaker 7: it messy as Jimmy. It's always Jimmy and little Friends.

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Speaker 7: Hey Alice, Good morning, Alice. How are you my good morning?

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Speaker 1: I feel like I'm talking to celebrities. Well you should

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Speaker 8: Don't know this, but you're my best friends every morning.

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Speaker 1: So hey, you know what, thank you and you are

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Speaker 1: ours and we're very grateful for you. What uh what

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Speaker 2: Think she should stay.

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Speaker 8: I just have this feeling that maybe his friends kind

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Speaker 1: Hmm. Yeah, I don't know. I don't think a good

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Speaker 2: But I also, yes, real, yes, I know, I agree and.

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Speaker 1: Alice, I appreciate you so much for listening. Have a

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Speaker 1: great day. Thanks for calling you too.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I I just I don't know. I think the

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Speaker 1: So this was not just a you know, hey, peace sign,

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Speaker 9: So why, I mean, could have just spen it in passing,

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Speaker 9: then you know, her friend ran with it and went

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Speaker 9: and told her and now you know it got blown up.

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Speaker 9: But it's the lying for me that's the biggest issue.

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Speaker 1: And I am guilty.

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Speaker 9: I think you know of not telling someone something because

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Speaker 9: it's a really inopportune time to be dealing with a

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Speaker 1: Yep, yeah, yeah, it's a bad sign. Latronia, is it?

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Speaker 1: Latronia high? Hey, Hey, what do you think stre Go?

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Speaker 1: She need to go? Okay? Why?

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Speaker 3: Well, he lied about it. He could have just told

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Why is this being talked about? That's That's what

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Speaker 1: I'm That's what I'm thinking about. Thank you, Latronia. I'm

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Speaker 1: glad you called. Have a good day you too. That's

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Speaker 1: where I'm at. I'm like, why are we talking about

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Speaker 3: Hey?

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Speaker 1: John, how you doing? How are you doing? John? What

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna say stay, I'm gonna have the guys at

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Speaker 3: If nothing really happened, But there is at every wedding

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Speaker 2: Of kind of silly stuff. Would you repeat that was

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what kind of violence of guy code are you

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Speaker 1: RESPONSI what's silly?

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Speaker 3: Well, that's I mean, that's kind of the That's kind

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Speaker 2: Just boys being boys.

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Speaker 3: And if bachelor parties get goofy, and I think that

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Speaker 3: It's real simple if, in my opinion, the girl who's

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Speaker 3: all up there, all right, By John? I mean, well

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Speaker 3: I hope they stay.

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Speaker 1: Boys will be boys, Boy, boys will be boys. John

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Speaker 2: I felt like he was lying to me right there.

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Speaker 1: Salad, ladies. I'm so sorry on behalf of my gender.

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Speaker 6: Don't you dare have smirk to your friend as I'm

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Speaker 2: We got real silly.

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Speaker 1: Oh you know what. I've been to a lot of

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Speaker 2: I'd like to do that, like that makes me feel better.

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Speaker 1: So I don't know, like I don't know what kind

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