1 00:00:01,920 --> 00:00:04,960 Speaker 1: Hey guys, I'm Rachel and I'm Ellie and welcome to 2 00:00:05,080 --> 00:00:07,760 Speaker 1: Bachelor Happy Hour. Hey, thank you guys so much for 3 00:00:07,800 --> 00:00:10,239 Speaker 1: tuning into our first couple of podcasts last week. I mean, 4 00:00:10,480 --> 00:00:13,319 Speaker 1: we really did have a great time talking to Peter 5 00:00:13,400 --> 00:00:15,160 Speaker 1: and Demi, and we hope you guys had a chance 6 00:00:15,160 --> 00:00:18,759 Speaker 1: to listen to our special emergency podcast. We had to 7 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:21,080 Speaker 1: record it like last minute because we wanted to get 8 00:00:21,120 --> 00:00:23,400 Speaker 1: you breaking news and that was with Jed, and we 9 00:00:23,480 --> 00:00:25,759 Speaker 1: posted it on Friday, So if you haven't listened to 10 00:00:25,840 --> 00:00:29,200 Speaker 1: that yet, check it out. Jed was really honest with 11 00:00:29,360 --> 00:00:33,040 Speaker 1: us and it definitely gave me new perspective to the story. 12 00:00:33,080 --> 00:00:35,159 Speaker 1: I'll just say that, and I just want to thank 13 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:38,360 Speaker 1: you guys for listening and tuning in to what Jed 14 00:00:38,440 --> 00:00:40,680 Speaker 1: had to say. I know it was it was pretty 15 00:00:40,680 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 1: split fifty fifty on people's opinions regarding Jed, But thanks 16 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:47,400 Speaker 1: to you guys for subscribing and downloading the episode. Bachelor 17 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 1: Happy Hour was actually number one podcast almost all weekend, 18 00:00:52,159 --> 00:00:54,600 Speaker 1: and that's pretty amazing because we just started this whole thing, 19 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 1: I know, and like, we definitely have a lot of 20 00:00:56,440 --> 00:00:59,120 Speaker 1: kinks that we need to work out. We do we're 21 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 1: just right, Garrett all out, so bear with us. But 22 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:04,200 Speaker 1: we really appreciate you guys listening, and we have a 23 00:01:04,200 --> 00:01:07,039 Speaker 1: great podcast today. I mean, we're really excited because we 24 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:10,760 Speaker 1: are talking to the one end only Hannah. It's funny, 25 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:13,800 Speaker 1: that's like I have been dying to talk to her 26 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:16,880 Speaker 1: about so many things. And you know, I know, Rachel, 27 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:19,360 Speaker 1: you know this too. She's really close to Demi, who 28 00:01:19,600 --> 00:01:22,640 Speaker 1: is going through a huge journey in Paradise right now, 29 00:01:22,760 --> 00:01:25,520 Speaker 1: and I'd love to hear what Hannah has to say 30 00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:28,440 Speaker 1: about everything. No, I'm curious too. I love their friendship 31 00:01:28,480 --> 00:01:30,680 Speaker 1: and I know both of us, being past leads and 32 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:32,720 Speaker 1: having been on the Bachelor too, we know what it's 33 00:01:32,760 --> 00:01:35,000 Speaker 1: like to develop those close friendships as you're going through 34 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:38,119 Speaker 1: this entire journey. And in regards to Demi, we found 35 00:01:38,120 --> 00:01:40,399 Speaker 1: out this week that she's been dating a woman prior 36 00:01:40,440 --> 00:01:42,119 Speaker 1: to coming on the show. And I feel like, as 37 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 1: a franchise, we're entering some new territory here and I'm 38 00:01:44,880 --> 00:01:47,320 Speaker 1: wondering what this all means for the Bachelord franchise. And 39 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:49,760 Speaker 1: I guess my question is will this change the future 40 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:51,840 Speaker 1: of the show. I mean, I hope it does for 41 00:01:51,880 --> 00:01:54,400 Speaker 1: the better. You know, I think it's great. So we're 42 00:01:54,400 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 1: going to get into all that. Plus we're going to 43 00:01:56,080 --> 00:01:58,480 Speaker 1: talk to Hannah about her life after the show and 44 00:01:58,560 --> 00:02:00,960 Speaker 1: find out what is next for her. It's funny because 45 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:03,720 Speaker 1: we started this podcast at the right time. I mean, 46 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:05,560 Speaker 1: right in the middle of the finale. This was an 47 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:09,480 Speaker 1: epic finale Uncharted Territory, and now Paradise is looking like 48 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:11,880 Speaker 1: it's going to be the exact same thing. Yeah, yeah, 49 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:14,000 Speaker 1: it looks really good. I don't know about you, but 50 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:15,920 Speaker 1: watching the past couple of nights, I feel like I 51 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:19,840 Speaker 1: was sweating while watching so much was going on. Yeah, 52 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:21,840 Speaker 1: but first we have to talk about that jet interview 53 00:02:21,840 --> 00:02:24,760 Speaker 1: the other day. I really want to know your take 54 00:02:24,760 --> 00:02:26,400 Speaker 1: on it, Rachel, and that's coming up in just a 55 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:30,120 Speaker 1: minute right after this. Okay, people, if you are like me, 56 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:33,720 Speaker 1: if you are human, you have to admit that you'll 57 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:35,960 Speaker 1: love a good Netflix in Chilian every now and again. 58 00:02:36,040 --> 00:02:39,400 Speaker 1: And you probably also like ice cream. So what happens 59 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:42,240 Speaker 1: when you make those two things together. 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Yeah. 77 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:37,360 Speaker 1: I mean, I have to say, in paying attention to 78 00:03:37,400 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 1: what people were saying on social media and just in 79 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:42,600 Speaker 1: their reviews, it seems like people were fairly split in 80 00:03:42,680 --> 00:03:46,040 Speaker 1: regards to the response of Jed's interview, and so we 81 00:03:46,680 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 1: got some feedback, and so we want to read back 82 00:03:48,600 --> 00:03:51,360 Speaker 1: from some of the listeners who wanted to comment on 83 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:54,160 Speaker 1: that interview and at got a run forty four from 84 00:03:54,200 --> 00:03:58,200 Speaker 1: Instagram said, quote listened, I'm a sixty four year old 85 00:03:58,280 --> 00:04:01,480 Speaker 1: nana here and I'm with you to Jed, I'd die 86 00:04:01,520 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 1: if my twenties were plastered on media sides. We've all 87 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:08,080 Speaker 1: made big mistakes. That's all right, I agree, I mean 88 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:12,080 Speaker 1: my twenties were not show. It's funny. I listened back 89 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:14,720 Speaker 1: to that interview that we did, and uh, you know, 90 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:17,160 Speaker 1: I agree with the split reviews. I agree that maybe 91 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 1: we could like Rachel you were you. You were pretty 92 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:21,440 Speaker 1: lawyer esque on him, which I love about you. But 93 00:04:21,480 --> 00:04:23,960 Speaker 1: I agree I could have been harder on him at places. 94 00:04:24,040 --> 00:04:26,000 Speaker 1: So I mean, we hear you guys were listening and 95 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:31,800 Speaker 1: we appreciate all of your feedback. So then another person wrote, 96 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:36,200 Speaker 1: and it's at GA four Au wrote, I am in 97 00:04:36,240 --> 00:04:38,159 Speaker 1: no way trying to be a bully, but I listened 98 00:04:38,160 --> 00:04:40,480 Speaker 1: to your podcast and I felt like Jed was still 99 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:43,600 Speaker 1: lying to y'all about things. I don't think he is 100 00:04:43,640 --> 00:04:46,600 Speaker 1: authentic at all. I think people would respect him more 101 00:04:46,680 --> 00:04:49,839 Speaker 1: if he would just become, if he would be completely transparent. 102 00:04:49,960 --> 00:04:53,720 Speaker 1: I just didn't get that vibe at all. I have 103 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:56,320 Speaker 1: to agree I didn't either, But we could talk about 104 00:04:56,320 --> 00:04:58,120 Speaker 1: that later. You know, I guess the thing is like 105 00:04:58,279 --> 00:05:00,360 Speaker 1: it was hard, like Rachel, because that was a emergency 106 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 1: podcast you called in, But like I have to say it, 107 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:05,440 Speaker 1: there is something a little bit different about sitting across 108 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:08,080 Speaker 1: from somebody and looking them in the eye and you 109 00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:10,480 Speaker 1: just get a different vibe. Like I feel like when 110 00:05:10,480 --> 00:05:11,919 Speaker 1: I listened back to it, I was like, oh, he 111 00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:14,280 Speaker 1: doesn't sound sudincere, but when I was sitting in front 112 00:05:14,320 --> 00:05:17,640 Speaker 1: of him and looking at him, he did. I don't know, 113 00:05:17,680 --> 00:05:19,640 Speaker 1: it's hard. It's hard to say it's hard and no, 114 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:21,560 Speaker 1: you're You're right, alliett is hard. And I think what 115 00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:23,839 Speaker 1: people don't understand is we are stuck in a place 116 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:25,800 Speaker 1: of we're trying to ask the tough questions, but at 117 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:28,400 Speaker 1: the same time we're being professional. You know, we can't 118 00:05:28,440 --> 00:05:30,800 Speaker 1: just ream him or go in on him. We have 119 00:05:30,880 --> 00:05:32,719 Speaker 1: to conduct this as an interview. And I know I 120 00:05:32,760 --> 00:05:34,440 Speaker 1: felt like I was stuck in a place of being 121 00:05:34,640 --> 00:05:37,359 Speaker 1: wanting to be ruthless but then trying to be professional 122 00:05:37,360 --> 00:05:40,160 Speaker 1: at the same time. Okay, one more, Anya emailed us 123 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:42,880 Speaker 1: at happy hour at bachel Nation dot com, and you 124 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:45,359 Speaker 1: guys can do the same if you have any questions, 125 00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:48,719 Speaker 1: any comments, Please make sure you email us at happy 126 00:05:48,720 --> 00:05:52,080 Speaker 1: hour at bachel Nation dot com. But Anya said, I 127 00:05:52,279 --> 00:05:55,120 Speaker 1: just wanted to thank you all, or to thank you 128 00:05:55,160 --> 00:05:57,479 Speaker 1: for a great interview with Jed. You really cleared the 129 00:05:57,480 --> 00:06:00,280 Speaker 1: air with him, and I love that you ask real 130 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:03,839 Speaker 1: questions that challenged him. I love your interview style and 131 00:06:03,839 --> 00:06:07,640 Speaker 1: how real you are. Keep up the good work. Thank you, Yeah, 132 00:06:07,880 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 1: thank you. We appreciate that. We do appreciate it. And look, 133 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:13,800 Speaker 1: and like we've been saying, you know, the past couple 134 00:06:13,800 --> 00:06:16,120 Speaker 1: of minutes, we get that there was different opinions that 135 00:06:16,360 --> 00:06:18,680 Speaker 1: you know, some people felt we were too easy on him. 136 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:21,000 Speaker 1: Some people, well really people thought I was too easy 137 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:24,760 Speaker 1: on him, too nice to him. But you know, I 138 00:06:24,839 --> 00:06:26,880 Speaker 1: hope that people understood. And this is one thing where 139 00:06:26,920 --> 00:06:29,760 Speaker 1: I saw a few comments that people thought maybe we weren't, 140 00:06:29,800 --> 00:06:32,920 Speaker 1: you know, being fair to Hannah. I want you guys 141 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:35,800 Speaker 1: to know that in that interview and just in life 142 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:38,160 Speaker 1: and hopefully here today on this podcast, we have nothing 143 00:06:38,160 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 1: but the utmost respect for Hannah. And just giving Jet 144 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 1: some grace doesn't mean that we're not saying that we 145 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:47,880 Speaker 1: were not, you know, on Hannah's team. It's all about Hannah. 146 00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 1: In that situation, as we were just trying to give 147 00:06:49,880 --> 00:06:52,440 Speaker 1: Jet a platform to tell his side. And I don't 148 00:06:52,440 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 1: think that there's anything wrong with that, you know, it 149 00:06:54,440 --> 00:06:56,920 Speaker 1: just because we're giving someone off an opportunity to tell 150 00:06:57,000 --> 00:06:59,479 Speaker 1: their side of the story or to ask tough questions 151 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 1: doesn't mean that we agree with them. It just simply 152 00:07:02,120 --> 00:07:04,960 Speaker 1: means we are conducting an interview because that is what 153 00:07:05,000 --> 00:07:08,360 Speaker 1: we do on a podcast. You know, you ask questions 154 00:07:08,360 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 1: and relevant, you know, to what's going on in Bastination. 155 00:07:11,640 --> 00:07:13,720 Speaker 1: And as much as you don't want to admit it, 156 00:07:13,920 --> 00:07:17,000 Speaker 1: Jed was relevant at the time. Well also, it's like, 157 00:07:17,200 --> 00:07:19,040 Speaker 1: I don't know Rachel. When I listened back to it, 158 00:07:19,120 --> 00:07:21,400 Speaker 1: I remember at one point where he was talking about 159 00:07:22,200 --> 00:07:24,320 Speaker 1: the doc and the first time we asked him about it, 160 00:07:24,360 --> 00:07:26,760 Speaker 1: he said that he was just just talking like BS. 161 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:28,680 Speaker 1: And then the second time we asked him about it, 162 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:31,400 Speaker 1: he told us about the meditation thing. Right, If you 163 00:07:31,400 --> 00:07:33,080 Speaker 1: guys don't know what we're talking about, go back and 164 00:07:33,120 --> 00:07:35,480 Speaker 1: listen to that podcast. But I was like, oh, like 165 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:36,880 Speaker 1: what I listened back to, I was like, I wish 166 00:07:36,920 --> 00:07:38,560 Speaker 1: that I called him on that, Like I wish that 167 00:07:38,640 --> 00:07:40,480 Speaker 1: I said, Hey, wait a second, you just said you 168 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:43,000 Speaker 1: were talking bs. So it's funny you look back and 169 00:07:43,000 --> 00:07:45,120 Speaker 1: you can even critique yourself, like we're just having fun. 170 00:07:45,160 --> 00:07:48,080 Speaker 1: We're just girls with some wine and some microphones trying to, 171 00:07:48,680 --> 00:07:50,600 Speaker 1: you know, have a little bit of fun, get some 172 00:07:50,640 --> 00:07:53,080 Speaker 1: answers for you guys, and you know, sometimes we're gonna 173 00:07:53,120 --> 00:07:55,560 Speaker 1: miss things, but hopefully not always, hopefully don't really get 174 00:07:55,600 --> 00:07:58,640 Speaker 1: into it. Well, it's funny you mentioned the doc reference 175 00:07:58,640 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 1: because I totally googled and I couldn't find anything in 176 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:04,480 Speaker 1: regards to what he was talking about at all. Maybe 177 00:08:04,480 --> 00:08:08,280 Speaker 1: he brought it up. I don't know, but I wonder Ali, 178 00:08:08,360 --> 00:08:10,400 Speaker 1: because you know, you said you've had time to listen 179 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:12,480 Speaker 1: to the interview that we had and you were able 180 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:15,280 Speaker 1: to reflect on it. How do you feel like coming 181 00:08:15,320 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 1: into the interview with Jed? Did you feel any different 182 00:08:18,280 --> 00:08:20,840 Speaker 1: coming out of that interview? Did your thoughts on Jed 183 00:08:20,920 --> 00:08:25,440 Speaker 1: change in any way? I mean, yeah, I think I 184 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:27,880 Speaker 1: felt I felt for him after the interview more so 185 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:29,560 Speaker 1: than I did going in. I mean, it always kind 186 00:08:29,560 --> 00:08:32,440 Speaker 1: of felt for him a little bit, just because, as 187 00:08:32,440 --> 00:08:34,920 Speaker 1: I explained in that podcast, I feel like I was 188 00:08:34,960 --> 00:08:38,160 Speaker 1: in his shoes in a way. But yeah, I mean 189 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:40,760 Speaker 1: I think having a sit down conversation with anybody that 190 00:08:40,840 --> 00:08:43,320 Speaker 1: feels remorseful, you're going to feel a little bit better 191 00:08:43,320 --> 00:08:45,079 Speaker 1: about them coming out of it. How did you feel? 192 00:08:45,920 --> 00:08:50,160 Speaker 1: I felt like I didn't believe Jed coming into the interview, 193 00:08:50,600 --> 00:08:54,880 Speaker 1: and after the interview, I didn't believe him even more. 194 00:08:57,280 --> 00:09:01,400 Speaker 1: I was really trying to be professional in that interview 195 00:09:01,480 --> 00:09:03,520 Speaker 1: because there were so many things that I felt like 196 00:09:03,520 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 1: I could pick a part in what he was saying. 197 00:09:05,400 --> 00:09:07,520 Speaker 1: But at the same time, I still stand by the 198 00:09:07,600 --> 00:09:10,640 Speaker 1: grace aspect of the interview, and I do stand by 199 00:09:10,960 --> 00:09:14,120 Speaker 1: not kicking somebody while they are so down. And I 200 00:09:14,160 --> 00:09:16,800 Speaker 1: do appreciate that we were able to have that important 201 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:21,840 Speaker 1: conversation about mental health and attacking people on social media. 202 00:09:21,880 --> 00:09:25,360 Speaker 1: But and I do believe that in that world on 203 00:09:25,400 --> 00:09:28,640 Speaker 1: this journey, he loved Hannah. I do believe that, But 204 00:09:28,760 --> 00:09:31,160 Speaker 1: I do wish that. Remember we were asking him about 205 00:09:31,160 --> 00:09:34,720 Speaker 1: the comments of him liking and he gave that pitiful explanation, Oh, 206 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:37,760 Speaker 1: come on, I totally done that before. Ali, he did 207 00:09:37,800 --> 00:09:39,880 Speaker 1: it more than once. Oh he did. I didn't know. Yes, 208 00:09:39,960 --> 00:09:43,040 Speaker 1: I went back and I looked and I'm like, okay, once, 209 00:09:43,400 --> 00:09:47,080 Speaker 1: get it twice not so much so. There were certain 210 00:09:47,559 --> 00:09:50,880 Speaker 1: if he did more than yeah, that's probably not true. 211 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:53,640 Speaker 1: But overall, I'm I'm happy with the way that we 212 00:09:53,720 --> 00:09:56,720 Speaker 1: conducted the interview as a whole, and I think that 213 00:09:57,160 --> 00:10:01,199 Speaker 1: we were respectful and professional, and that's how you should 214 00:10:01,200 --> 00:10:02,960 Speaker 1: be sitting in our in our seats because we know 215 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:05,600 Speaker 1: what it's like to be picked on and to be 216 00:10:05,679 --> 00:10:07,800 Speaker 1: praised totally. And I like that you brought up the 217 00:10:07,800 --> 00:10:09,559 Speaker 1: mental health aspect because I feel like that's a good 218 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:14,319 Speaker 1: segue into Bachelor in Paradise because lots went on and 219 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:17,959 Speaker 1: as angry as I am right now after watching you know, 220 00:10:18,120 --> 00:10:19,880 Speaker 1: four hours of the show by the way, four hours 221 00:10:19,880 --> 00:10:21,120 Speaker 1: every week, so there's going to be a lot to 222 00:10:21,120 --> 00:10:24,240 Speaker 1: talk about. But after watching everything with Blake, I have 223 00:10:24,400 --> 00:10:28,000 Speaker 1: to like dig down deep into my soul and remember 224 00:10:28,200 --> 00:10:31,280 Speaker 1: to give him grace. I am very upset with him, 225 00:10:31,280 --> 00:10:32,680 Speaker 1: and I'm going to say many things, but we have 226 00:10:32,760 --> 00:10:35,680 Speaker 1: to remember, again, everybody out there when we're talking about Blake, 227 00:10:35,960 --> 00:10:38,720 Speaker 1: he is a real human being. He's obviously very stressed 228 00:10:38,760 --> 00:10:41,320 Speaker 1: about everything went down. So I think I say we 229 00:10:41,360 --> 00:10:45,720 Speaker 1: get into it. Rachel, Oh, let's go. So first, what 230 00:10:45,760 --> 00:10:49,960 Speaker 1: do you think about the cast um? Okay, so I 231 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:54,480 Speaker 1: think it's a little slim pickings on the side of 232 00:10:54,480 --> 00:10:58,240 Speaker 1: the men. I just I think that and the man 233 00:10:58,520 --> 00:11:01,160 Speaker 1: have the power. You know, as we're watching this week, 234 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:03,000 Speaker 1: they have the power to choose. I think because it's 235 00:11:03,000 --> 00:11:05,720 Speaker 1: slim pickings, they had to have the power they did. 236 00:11:05,800 --> 00:11:09,520 Speaker 1: I mean, the women are stunning the beautiful, and you 237 00:11:09,559 --> 00:11:11,200 Speaker 1: can see it in the way that the men are 238 00:11:11,240 --> 00:11:13,679 Speaker 1: responding to them as one by one they continue to 239 00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:17,640 Speaker 1: walk on the beach. I do find interesting that it's 240 00:11:17,760 --> 00:11:21,440 Speaker 1: very clear there's like a hierarchy in Paradise. I feel like, 241 00:11:21,480 --> 00:11:24,160 Speaker 1: more than other seasons, you've got the king and the 242 00:11:24,240 --> 00:11:27,560 Speaker 1: queens of Paradise and then other people just are getting 243 00:11:27,600 --> 00:11:30,400 Speaker 1: no attention whatsoever. And I feel like that there's a 244 00:11:30,440 --> 00:11:34,320 Speaker 1: bigger disparity in that this season than in normal seas. Yeah, well, 245 00:11:34,480 --> 00:11:37,079 Speaker 1: I mean Blake is one of those kings of Paradise 246 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:39,360 Speaker 1: right now. They keep referring to him as the Bachelor 247 00:11:39,400 --> 00:11:42,319 Speaker 1: of Paradise because all the girls are in him. So's 248 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:47,319 Speaker 1: oh gosh, Blake. I was so upset watching the situation 249 00:11:47,800 --> 00:11:51,840 Speaker 1: with Kaylin and Christina, and like, especially when Kaylin like 250 00:11:51,920 --> 00:11:54,120 Speaker 1: broke down in tears to him and was just like, 251 00:11:54,760 --> 00:11:57,160 Speaker 1: I was your dirty secret and you were texting other 252 00:11:57,160 --> 00:11:59,520 Speaker 1: girls when we were in bed, like it broke my heart. 253 00:11:59,559 --> 00:12:02,720 Speaker 1: I literally cried watching the episode because I've been her, 254 00:12:02,720 --> 00:12:05,400 Speaker 1: and I know there are so many other women out 255 00:12:05,440 --> 00:12:07,839 Speaker 1: there who have been in that situation, who have been 256 00:12:07,840 --> 00:12:09,840 Speaker 1: made to feel that way by a man, And I 257 00:12:09,880 --> 00:12:13,000 Speaker 1: think Blake showed remorse. But this is my problem, Rachel. 258 00:12:13,600 --> 00:12:15,560 Speaker 1: Do you remember when he was like sitting down doing 259 00:12:15,559 --> 00:12:20,480 Speaker 1: the interview and he was crying and he broke down sobbing, 260 00:12:20,480 --> 00:12:22,079 Speaker 1: and I felt for him in that moment, But I 261 00:12:22,120 --> 00:12:25,040 Speaker 1: don't think he was crying because he genuinely maybe he 262 00:12:25,080 --> 00:12:28,080 Speaker 1: feels a little bit bad, but when he really broke down, 263 00:12:28,120 --> 00:12:31,560 Speaker 1: it was like my family, my reputation, Like I think 264 00:12:31,559 --> 00:12:34,440 Speaker 1: he was crying because he knows no more innocent Blake. 265 00:12:35,480 --> 00:12:39,600 Speaker 1: Oh oh, Alec, I couldn't agree with you more. Now 266 00:12:40,040 --> 00:12:43,160 Speaker 1: I disagree on Klin because this is what you bring 267 00:12:43,240 --> 00:12:45,840 Speaker 1: up a very interesting point when you talk about tears. 268 00:12:46,520 --> 00:12:50,880 Speaker 1: Tears don't mean that somebody's remorseful. A lot of times, 269 00:12:50,920 --> 00:12:53,600 Speaker 1: it could be embarrassed. It could be that they got 270 00:12:53,640 --> 00:12:56,400 Speaker 1: caught and they're shamed. And I agree with you that 271 00:12:56,400 --> 00:12:59,360 Speaker 1: that's what we were seeing with Blake. Now get ready 272 00:12:59,400 --> 00:13:01,240 Speaker 1: for the beat, Okay, because I'm going to have a 273 00:13:01,320 --> 00:13:04,960 Speaker 1: few choice words here. Oh man, I'm nervous. Was Blake 274 00:13:05,080 --> 00:13:11,120 Speaker 1: thinking that's? That? Was literally my thought because I was 275 00:13:11,320 --> 00:13:13,640 Speaker 1: such a fan of Blake. He was my favorite from 276 00:13:13,640 --> 00:13:18,640 Speaker 1: Becca season. My heart was broken when he didn't when 277 00:13:18,640 --> 00:13:21,080 Speaker 1: she didn't choose him, and I've been rooting for him 278 00:13:21,160 --> 00:13:24,400 Speaker 1: and just a proponent of Blake ever since. Now here 279 00:13:24,400 --> 00:13:27,920 Speaker 1: comes Blake walking into Paradise thinking he's the man. Obviously, 280 00:13:28,040 --> 00:13:31,200 Speaker 1: this this Bachelor of Paradise thing really got to his 281 00:13:31,240 --> 00:13:34,840 Speaker 1: head even before he walked on the beaches of Paradise. Now, 282 00:13:35,960 --> 00:13:38,680 Speaker 1: I don't the reason, I say, what was Blake thinking? 283 00:13:39,840 --> 00:13:44,360 Speaker 1: How could he not think that that dirt that he 284 00:13:44,760 --> 00:13:47,120 Speaker 1: you know, all that drama he created before wasn't going 285 00:13:47,160 --> 00:13:50,839 Speaker 1: to follow him into Paradise. Have you watched any show 286 00:13:50,840 --> 00:13:52,800 Speaker 1: on the Bachelor and now you think that you were 287 00:13:52,840 --> 00:13:55,280 Speaker 1: just going to end it because you were quote trying 288 00:13:55,320 --> 00:13:59,040 Speaker 1: to do the right thing. No, Blake, you were trying 289 00:13:59,120 --> 00:14:01,520 Speaker 1: to I think can't remember who it came out with, 290 00:14:01,600 --> 00:14:06,600 Speaker 1: Christina or if it came out with Kaylin that he said, 291 00:14:07,040 --> 00:14:08,600 Speaker 1: you know she felt like, I think it was Christina 292 00:14:08,679 --> 00:14:11,400 Speaker 1: when she was talking to Tasia, and Christina said, you 293 00:14:11,480 --> 00:14:13,680 Speaker 1: know what I feel like. Rtastia said, it sounds like 294 00:14:13,679 --> 00:14:16,960 Speaker 1: he was trying to kind of tie up Loosen's before 295 00:14:16,960 --> 00:14:21,320 Speaker 1: he walked into Paradise. Totally told Christina about Kaylin right 296 00:14:21,320 --> 00:14:24,160 Speaker 1: before coming on the show. It's exactly even he said. 297 00:14:24,160 --> 00:14:26,040 Speaker 1: I think to one of the guys, maybe Willis, he 298 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:28,560 Speaker 1: was like, oh, I guess I didn't tell her soon enough. Well, yeah, 299 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:30,400 Speaker 1: if you didn't tell her and then waited till a 300 00:14:30,400 --> 00:14:32,640 Speaker 1: few days before coming on Paradise and then told her, 301 00:14:32,720 --> 00:14:34,560 Speaker 1: I'd say you didn't tell her soon enough. And I 302 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:37,760 Speaker 1: think he's just being so naive and dumb to think 303 00:14:37,760 --> 00:14:40,360 Speaker 1: that you can have relations with a woman and that 304 00:14:40,480 --> 00:14:42,920 Speaker 1: no feelings are going to be attached. I think for 305 00:14:42,960 --> 00:14:45,040 Speaker 1: Blake it was hey, i'm out here, I'm fun of 306 00:14:45,160 --> 00:14:48,640 Speaker 1: trying to have a good time, and Kaylin probably tried 307 00:14:48,680 --> 00:14:51,160 Speaker 1: to play it cool. But I have never met a 308 00:14:51,200 --> 00:14:53,920 Speaker 1: female who can be intimate with the man and not 309 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:57,320 Speaker 1: have feelings attached. So that is Blake's bad for not 310 00:14:57,440 --> 00:15:00,360 Speaker 1: realizing that. Well, especially because they dated for along they 311 00:15:00,360 --> 00:15:02,600 Speaker 1: faced time three times a day. I don't believe that. 312 00:15:02,760 --> 00:15:05,360 Speaker 1: Now Here's this is where we disagree Okay, so yeah, 313 00:15:05,360 --> 00:15:07,880 Speaker 1: because you said you weren't sure about Kaylin, get back 314 00:15:07,960 --> 00:15:12,200 Speaker 1: up there, We're what are you saying? I don't believe Kaylin? 315 00:15:12,880 --> 00:15:15,280 Speaker 1: Because here's my thing. You gotta not listen to what 316 00:15:15,320 --> 00:15:18,080 Speaker 1: people say. You gotta watch how they move. And I 317 00:15:18,240 --> 00:15:22,120 Speaker 1: watched how Kaylin moved this week throughout Paradise. You know 318 00:15:22,280 --> 00:15:25,120 Speaker 1: she comes in. She literally came in as her Kane 319 00:15:25,200 --> 00:15:28,640 Speaker 1: Kaylin right, she was intentional. I do believe that she 320 00:15:28,720 --> 00:15:31,720 Speaker 1: and Blake agreed. Okay, you know what what happened before 321 00:15:31,800 --> 00:15:36,960 Speaker 1: Paradise stays out of it. But she came immediately guns 322 00:15:36,960 --> 00:15:40,600 Speaker 1: a blazing, ready to tear stuff up and mess mess 323 00:15:40,680 --> 00:15:43,240 Speaker 1: Blake's life up, which I kind of believe Blake when 324 00:15:43,240 --> 00:15:45,240 Speaker 1: he was called off guard and didn't think that was 325 00:15:45,400 --> 00:15:48,440 Speaker 1: that was fair of her or Christina to do. I 326 00:15:48,600 --> 00:15:51,000 Speaker 1: hear you. I'm with you. Like I do think that 327 00:15:51,440 --> 00:15:53,800 Speaker 1: she and Blake, Kaylin and Blake came to an understanding 328 00:15:53,840 --> 00:15:55,920 Speaker 1: that it was not going to be talked about here, 329 00:15:55,960 --> 00:15:58,320 Speaker 1: and then she kind of blindsided him and talked about 330 00:15:58,360 --> 00:16:00,240 Speaker 1: it here. But I don't think that was her plan. 331 00:16:00,360 --> 00:16:02,680 Speaker 1: I think though, I think she thought she could come 332 00:16:02,720 --> 00:16:04,840 Speaker 1: in and be all cool. She got there, saw him, 333 00:16:04,920 --> 00:16:08,320 Speaker 1: realized she still has crazy feelings for him and just 334 00:16:08,440 --> 00:16:10,880 Speaker 1: lost it. Let me tell you what Hurricane Kaylyn did. 335 00:16:11,640 --> 00:16:15,640 Speaker 1: Hurricane Calin came in and she said, you know what, 336 00:16:15,920 --> 00:16:18,160 Speaker 1: I just want to lay it all out here. I 337 00:16:18,200 --> 00:16:20,160 Speaker 1: just want to tell him like it is. I just 338 00:16:20,200 --> 00:16:24,160 Speaker 1: want this secret to be out. Girl. Then why didn't 339 00:16:24,240 --> 00:16:27,560 Speaker 1: you go up to Blake and just confront him and 340 00:16:27,640 --> 00:16:30,120 Speaker 1: figure out how y'all wanted to navigate Paradise so you 341 00:16:30,160 --> 00:16:34,200 Speaker 1: could clear the air. Instead, she wanted to divulge their 342 00:16:34,240 --> 00:16:37,120 Speaker 1: private information to any ears that would listen and any 343 00:16:37,160 --> 00:16:41,040 Speaker 1: camera that would film her. She told Nyaka, she told Wells, 344 00:16:41,320 --> 00:16:44,080 Speaker 1: she told Signal to remember what it's like to be 345 00:16:44,240 --> 00:16:47,200 Speaker 1: in the Bachelor world. She was walking around the beach 346 00:16:47,320 --> 00:16:50,440 Speaker 1: telling anybody that would listen. And then I did not 347 00:16:50,600 --> 00:16:55,160 Speaker 1: like that she told Christina's business. Now, granted I'm biased, Okay, 348 00:16:55,240 --> 00:16:57,920 Speaker 1: Christina's my girl, but don't you think it was Christina's 349 00:16:57,960 --> 00:17:00,520 Speaker 1: business to tell that she slept with Blake? That wasn't 350 00:17:00,560 --> 00:17:03,480 Speaker 1: Kaylin's business to tell. Caylen said, oh I slept with him, 351 00:17:03,480 --> 00:17:05,720 Speaker 1: and oh, by the way, the night before, so did 352 00:17:05,760 --> 00:17:08,200 Speaker 1: this girl? Rather than this could have been like a 353 00:17:08,880 --> 00:17:12,919 Speaker 1: women empowerment moment where once you saw Christina come, you 354 00:17:12,960 --> 00:17:15,760 Speaker 1: guys could have confronted him together. You could have teamed 355 00:17:15,840 --> 00:17:18,919 Speaker 1: up and confronted Blake rather than you were kind of 356 00:17:18,960 --> 00:17:23,800 Speaker 1: talking shit about Christina and Blake instead of confronting the 357 00:17:23,800 --> 00:17:26,280 Speaker 1: people who were involved. And then you say you felt 358 00:17:26,359 --> 00:17:30,280 Speaker 1: so bad for Tasia, yet you never went to Tasia 359 00:17:30,359 --> 00:17:33,840 Speaker 1: to tell her. But I don't understand, didn't want to 360 00:17:33,880 --> 00:17:37,000 Speaker 1: be the one to paint Tasia's opinion, Like I just 361 00:17:37,000 --> 00:17:38,919 Speaker 1: don't think that we can be so mad at Kaylin. 362 00:17:39,040 --> 00:17:43,080 Speaker 1: Like Kaylin, in my opinion, is the victim here and Christina, 363 00:17:43,840 --> 00:17:46,440 Speaker 1: I think that they're a victim of a guy that 364 00:17:46,720 --> 00:17:49,560 Speaker 1: messed with them, played with their herds, played like both 365 00:17:49,680 --> 00:17:52,560 Speaker 1: Christina and I don't think she was trying to say 366 00:17:52,560 --> 00:17:54,800 Speaker 1: something negative about Christina. She was very clear that he 367 00:17:55,200 --> 00:17:58,040 Speaker 1: that Blake messed with both of them and how that 368 00:17:58,200 --> 00:18:01,480 Speaker 1: was wrong. But don't you think that wouldn't you be coming? 369 00:18:01,680 --> 00:18:04,160 Speaker 1: But wouldn't you That doesn't make it any better. Wouldn't 370 00:18:04,160 --> 00:18:07,160 Speaker 1: you be upset if someone told people that about your 371 00:18:07,960 --> 00:18:12,040 Speaker 1: relations with another man? Yeah, without your without your permission, name, 372 00:18:12,320 --> 00:18:15,720 Speaker 1: it was, it was. And I'm not excusing Blake let 373 00:18:15,720 --> 00:18:18,000 Speaker 1: me just be clear. I think what Blake did is wrong, 374 00:18:18,040 --> 00:18:19,800 Speaker 1: and I think Blake was stupid to think that that 375 00:18:19,840 --> 00:18:23,440 Speaker 1: wouldn't follow him into Paradise. He knew Christina was coming, 376 00:18:23,680 --> 00:18:26,320 Speaker 1: he probably had an idea that Kaylin was coming. And 377 00:18:26,359 --> 00:18:28,359 Speaker 1: then let's not even talk about that. He was talking 378 00:18:28,400 --> 00:18:31,840 Speaker 1: to Hannah Gee before as well. So Blake is wrong 379 00:18:31,880 --> 00:18:34,480 Speaker 1: and how he handled this whole situation. But I don't 380 00:18:34,480 --> 00:18:40,600 Speaker 1: think Kaylin's hands are clean in this. She is being vengeful. 381 00:18:40,960 --> 00:18:43,439 Speaker 1: She's upset with the way that Blake treat he treated her, 382 00:18:43,440 --> 00:18:46,400 Speaker 1: and rightfully, so she should be a girl throw him 383 00:18:46,520 --> 00:18:49,840 Speaker 1: under the bus because he screwed you over. Okay, that's 384 00:18:49,960 --> 00:18:52,399 Speaker 1: just how I feel. Well, let's say let's stay on 385 00:18:52,440 --> 00:18:55,560 Speaker 1: the Klin train, okay, because we got we had four 386 00:18:55,600 --> 00:18:58,520 Speaker 1: hours of Bathroom and Paradise to watch this week, yeah, 387 00:18:58,560 --> 00:19:01,960 Speaker 1: and every week. Okay. Yen spent the majority of her 388 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:06,679 Speaker 1: time talking stuff about Blake, right, rather than getting to 389 00:19:06,680 --> 00:19:10,280 Speaker 1: know other people, which kind of backfired because oh, here 390 00:19:10,320 --> 00:19:12,760 Speaker 1: we are, it's the night of a Rose ceremony, and 391 00:19:13,000 --> 00:19:16,080 Speaker 1: all of a sudden, she's spent so much time talking 392 00:19:16,119 --> 00:19:18,520 Speaker 1: about Blake and that drama that it's like, who's going 393 00:19:18,560 --> 00:19:22,439 Speaker 1: to give you a rose because it exactly Now. Now, 394 00:19:22,560 --> 00:19:24,520 Speaker 1: now let's go back to what I was saying about 395 00:19:25,080 --> 00:19:29,119 Speaker 1: unclean hands and being manipulative. Now, was that not the 396 00:19:29,119 --> 00:19:33,280 Speaker 1: most manipulative move for her to everybody does that in Paradise. 397 00:19:33,640 --> 00:19:36,080 Speaker 1: That's one of my problems with Paradise as we see 398 00:19:36,119 --> 00:19:38,840 Speaker 1: people going in and trying to get kisses and it's gross. 399 00:19:38,880 --> 00:19:41,080 Speaker 1: I never thought I would say this, but poor Cam. 400 00:19:41,320 --> 00:19:44,160 Speaker 1: Cam's like, I've been waiting this, I've wanted to come 401 00:19:44,240 --> 00:19:47,080 Speaker 1: meet Kaylyn. This has been you know, I'm so excited 402 00:19:47,080 --> 00:19:49,600 Speaker 1: for this, and Kaylin is just playing him like a fiddle, 403 00:19:49,640 --> 00:19:53,280 Speaker 1: talking about who are you? Who are you? I bet 404 00:19:53,280 --> 00:19:56,720 Speaker 1: next week Kaylin doesn't pay to give two seconds of 405 00:19:56,800 --> 00:20:00,679 Speaker 1: attention to Cam. You know, talk about talk about just 406 00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:03,119 Speaker 1: trying to like pity roses. Since that was a narrative 407 00:20:03,119 --> 00:20:06,560 Speaker 1: that surrounded camp. It was really sad and it was manipulative. 408 00:20:06,560 --> 00:20:10,119 Speaker 1: And I'm telling you you got about JPJ and you 409 00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:14,320 Speaker 1: you're telling me that wasn't also the same situation. They're bras, 410 00:20:15,240 --> 00:20:21,000 Speaker 1: they're just friends. I mean I was cringing, like I 411 00:20:21,119 --> 00:20:23,920 Speaker 1: was just like, oh that this is also that situation. 412 00:20:23,960 --> 00:20:25,520 Speaker 1: So I don't think we can blame Kleen for that, 413 00:20:25,560 --> 00:20:28,000 Speaker 1: because I think everybody does that on Paradise when they 414 00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:33,400 Speaker 1: realize they're in jeopardy. We see these attempts at getting roses, 415 00:20:33,440 --> 00:20:35,400 Speaker 1: and I feel like she will not be the first 416 00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:36,879 Speaker 1: and she will not be the last to do it. 417 00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:39,560 Speaker 1: But yes, I agree, that was not great. Okay, let's 418 00:20:39,600 --> 00:20:42,440 Speaker 1: let's switch gears really quick, um, because another thing that 419 00:20:42,520 --> 00:20:45,639 Speaker 1: I just think is so worth talking about, and really, 420 00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:48,200 Speaker 1: you know, we briefly mentioned it earlier in the podcast, 421 00:20:48,280 --> 00:20:52,000 Speaker 1: but it's just Demi Demi, you know, being open and 422 00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:54,760 Speaker 1: honest about her relationship with a woman before came coming 423 00:20:54,800 --> 00:20:57,520 Speaker 1: on the show and about who she chooses to love. 424 00:20:57,560 --> 00:21:00,640 Speaker 1: I feel like this is so huge for Bachelor Nation, 425 00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:03,439 Speaker 1: not only Bachelor Nation, but just our culture in general. 426 00:21:03,600 --> 00:21:06,280 Speaker 1: Bachelor is so ingrained in our culture, so I feel 427 00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:11,680 Speaker 1: like it's so great that this storyline is coming out 428 00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:14,119 Speaker 1: on the show. Yeah. What I like about it is 429 00:21:14,200 --> 00:21:16,199 Speaker 1: it's reflective of real life. A lot of times the 430 00:21:16,240 --> 00:21:21,520 Speaker 1: Bachelor franchise gets not because what we see on TV 431 00:21:21,680 --> 00:21:24,640 Speaker 1: doesn't reflect real life, right, And it is very real 432 00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:28,480 Speaker 1: for someone to have a relationship with the same sex, 433 00:21:28,960 --> 00:21:32,040 Speaker 1: And so I love that we're going to see Demmi 434 00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:35,679 Speaker 1: explore this uncharted territory that we've never seen in the 435 00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:38,240 Speaker 1: Bachelor franchise, and I think that it also takes a 436 00:21:38,280 --> 00:21:40,640 Speaker 1: really strong person to be the first to do it, 437 00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:43,680 Speaker 1: and so that's why I'm glad it's going to be Demi, 438 00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:47,080 Speaker 1: Because Demi, even though she's one of the youngest people, 439 00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:50,679 Speaker 1: she represents herself so well. She's so well spoken, she 440 00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:54,920 Speaker 1: knows who she is, and she is very aware, and sadly, 441 00:21:55,119 --> 00:21:57,119 Speaker 1: we don't see a lot of that in Bachelor franchise, 442 00:21:57,200 --> 00:22:00,480 Speaker 1: and so Demmi is the right person to be able 443 00:22:00,520 --> 00:22:03,320 Speaker 1: to do this and to stand on this platform. And 444 00:22:03,359 --> 00:22:06,280 Speaker 1: so I'm so excited to see her journey and to 445 00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:09,360 Speaker 1: see where it takes us. Absolutely, like in the teaser, 446 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:11,800 Speaker 1: at one point, I can't remember exactly what it was, 447 00:22:11,840 --> 00:22:14,080 Speaker 1: but we see that she it does end up with 448 00:22:14,400 --> 00:22:16,080 Speaker 1: or not end up with, but she at some point 449 00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:19,320 Speaker 1: is with a woman in paradise. So we're going to 450 00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:23,320 Speaker 1: see her journey and you know, she was seeing Derek 451 00:22:23,359 --> 00:22:25,520 Speaker 1: and then at some point she's seeing a woman. So 452 00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:27,520 Speaker 1: I think it's really cool that we're going to see 453 00:22:27,520 --> 00:22:29,400 Speaker 1: both sides of it, and I agree. I think Demi's 454 00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:32,960 Speaker 1: the perfect person too to do this because she is 455 00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:36,439 Speaker 1: so well spoken, Like I love how when Annelie's was 456 00:22:36,480 --> 00:22:39,720 Speaker 1: talking about confronting k DEMI was just like, Hey, why 457 00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:42,120 Speaker 1: did you do that? Like, and she's just I love 458 00:22:42,119 --> 00:22:44,919 Speaker 1: how it was just straightforward she is. It's nobs with her, 459 00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:46,560 Speaker 1: It's right to the point. And I think she is 460 00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:51,480 Speaker 1: going to just show herself really make herself proud this 461 00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:54,960 Speaker 1: season because she's doing an incredible thing for so many 462 00:22:55,119 --> 00:22:59,679 Speaker 1: young men and women, not even young, young, old man, woman, 463 00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:03,720 Speaker 1: whoever you are. She's going to not only help people, 464 00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:07,040 Speaker 1: but I think she's going to save lives telling her story. Absolutely, 465 00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:09,080 Speaker 1: and I think that, you know, we only got a 466 00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:12,160 Speaker 1: tease of what's to come in regards to Demmy's journey 467 00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:14,560 Speaker 1: and Paradise, and so I want to see if we 468 00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:17,560 Speaker 1: can get some more inside scoops. So I'm so excited 469 00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:19,960 Speaker 1: that we actually get to talk to her best friend 470 00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:22,840 Speaker 1: about this entire situation, because from what we can see, 471 00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:25,240 Speaker 1: Hannah came to Paradise, she got to talk to Demmy, 472 00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:26,840 Speaker 1: and I'm sure she knows a little bit more than 473 00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:29,080 Speaker 1: what has been shown too, So maybe we can poke 474 00:23:29,119 --> 00:23:31,480 Speaker 1: her a bit and find out more about what's going 475 00:23:31,520 --> 00:23:33,480 Speaker 1: on with Demmy and we're going to talk to Hannah 476 00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:35,240 Speaker 1: in a bit, she'll be on the phone with us. 477 00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:38,639 Speaker 1: But right after this, you know what, Hiring is hard, 478 00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:40,800 Speaker 1: But there is one place where you can go where 479 00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:44,159 Speaker 1: hiring is simple, fast and smart. 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We've been 526 00:26:08,359 --> 00:26:10,840 Speaker 1: talking about you before, we've had you on the podcast, 527 00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:12,679 Speaker 1: so it's nice to actually have this sit down and 528 00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:15,120 Speaker 1: interview you. And don't worry, it's been all positive things 529 00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:20,879 Speaker 1: because we're fans here. Don't worry, we got you. But 530 00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:22,920 Speaker 1: one of the things we were talking about before you 531 00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:26,639 Speaker 1: jumped on the phone obviously Paradise that started this week, 532 00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:28,920 Speaker 1: and there's a lot to get into when it comes 533 00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:31,720 Speaker 1: to that, but one of the big conversations is Demi, 534 00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:34,200 Speaker 1: and we know that that's your best friend, So tell 535 00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:36,080 Speaker 1: us about your friendship with Demmi. Because I think one 536 00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:37,880 Speaker 1: of the beautiful things that comes out of this entire 537 00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:41,320 Speaker 1: Bachelor franchise are the friendships that you develop that kind 538 00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:44,200 Speaker 1: of surprised you along the way. Oh yeah, I will 539 00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:49,560 Speaker 1: definitely say that my friendship with Demi surprised me a lot, 540 00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:56,240 Speaker 1: because the first time I met Demmi, she scared me, 541 00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:58,760 Speaker 1: to say the least. I was like, oh my god, 542 00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:03,080 Speaker 1: she was. She was just so over the top. I 543 00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:08,920 Speaker 1: mean that first night at Colton when we met each 544 00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:12,639 Speaker 1: other all at the first night Colton season, and I 545 00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:15,720 Speaker 1: was like, Okay, I'm staying away from that girl, which 546 00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:17,480 Speaker 1: is so funny now that she's like my best friend. 547 00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:21,320 Speaker 1: And I was like, I don't know, not not really 548 00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:24,120 Speaker 1: feeling this thing, but I was terrified. The first few 549 00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:27,120 Speaker 1: days I did not talk to anybody, which is now 550 00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:30,760 Speaker 1: crazy because I was been the crazy girl on that show. 551 00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:35,840 Speaker 1: But um, I don't remember exactly how we started talking. 552 00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:42,399 Speaker 1: I think we went on a Greek date together and 553 00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:45,560 Speaker 1: then we just like fell in love with each other, 554 00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:47,560 Speaker 1: like Okay, we're gonna be best friends, We're gonna take 555 00:27:47,560 --> 00:27:49,760 Speaker 1: over the world. I think I started like kind of 556 00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:54,360 Speaker 1: letting my personality out a little bit more, and then 557 00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:56,520 Speaker 1: we just buddied up from there, and I was like, kid, 558 00:27:56,560 --> 00:28:01,000 Speaker 1: this girl is so cool, so funny, and it's not 559 00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:02,960 Speaker 1: I thought she was kind of like putting on a show. 560 00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:04,560 Speaker 1: And I think a lot of people think that, like 561 00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:09,280 Speaker 1: because she has this this bold personality and she just 562 00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:12,480 Speaker 1: says whatever she's thinking. People think it's just for her 563 00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:16,440 Speaker 1: to get attention, but it's not. It is that is her, 564 00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:20,800 Speaker 1: That's how she is all the time. And I thought 565 00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:23,080 Speaker 1: the same thing until I was with her all the 566 00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:25,919 Speaker 1: time and realized that that's just who she is. And 567 00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:30,960 Speaker 1: I will give her credit to even helping me along 568 00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:35,080 Speaker 1: my journey of just being able to kind of break 569 00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:37,800 Speaker 1: the mold that I tried to put myself in of 570 00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:41,080 Speaker 1: just always trying to say the right thing and you know, 571 00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:43,600 Speaker 1: not saying anything at all if I don't, you know, 572 00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:49,600 Speaker 1: have anything to say that I'm scared people might you know, 573 00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:53,960 Speaker 1: not agree with. But being a friend, having a friend 574 00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:56,680 Speaker 1: like Demi kind of allows you to feel confident to 575 00:28:56,760 --> 00:29:02,400 Speaker 1: just say whatever you're feeling. And um, yeah, she's just 576 00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:09,239 Speaker 1: so awesome, so supportive. Um we we just have a 577 00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:12,920 Speaker 1: really good time together and I'm just really blessed by 578 00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:15,520 Speaker 1: her support and love. And then I'm able to give 579 00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:18,640 Speaker 1: that back to her, and um, I know that we'll 580 00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:21,840 Speaker 1: be friends forever. I love that you said, like, you know, 581 00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:24,440 Speaker 1: you guys fell in love with each other like friendships 582 00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:26,360 Speaker 1: at the beginning, because I always say that when people 583 00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:28,320 Speaker 1: are like The Bachelor and Bachelor I doesn't result in 584 00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:30,680 Speaker 1: love like that. Often I'm like, no, there are so 585 00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:33,280 Speaker 1: many like relationships. The loves of my life are my 586 00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:35,520 Speaker 1: girlfriends that, like I met from the show. So I 587 00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:37,200 Speaker 1: love that you said that, because we always is love 588 00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:41,080 Speaker 1: coming out of the show. Danny and I with Jack 589 00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:44,600 Speaker 1: as we watched the show on Colton season, they'd be like, actually, 590 00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:47,160 Speaker 1: the best love story that's come out of the show, 591 00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:50,960 Speaker 1: it's us. That's what we used to say too. Yeah, 592 00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:55,360 Speaker 1: like it's it's meaning to me. But and I love 593 00:29:55,400 --> 00:29:57,840 Speaker 1: that people love our friendship because we are just so 594 00:29:57,880 --> 00:30:01,440 Speaker 1: supportive of each other. And I've been anybody's like trolling her, 595 00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:04,120 Speaker 1: I've got her back. If anybody's being mean to me, 596 00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:08,800 Speaker 1: She's got mine as it should be. Yeah, she's the best. 597 00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:13,360 Speaker 1: So we see Demi on Bachelor Paradise come chat with 598 00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:17,280 Speaker 1: you and open up to you about her sexuality, which 599 00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:19,720 Speaker 1: was that the first time that she had talked to 600 00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:24,160 Speaker 1: you about it. No, Um, we we had talked about 601 00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:31,400 Speaker 1: it before, um, after this Colton season. Um. But I 602 00:30:31,480 --> 00:30:38,240 Speaker 1: always knew that she was very open to many different 603 00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:42,800 Speaker 1: types of relationships and um, so it was it wasn't 604 00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:47,440 Speaker 1: really a surprise for me when we had that conversation 605 00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:51,360 Speaker 1: that everyone saw on the first episode of Bachelor in Paradise, 606 00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:55,600 Speaker 1: because I knew that she had had relationships in the past, 607 00:30:55,960 --> 00:31:00,200 Speaker 1: and you know, I am supportive of whatever may its 608 00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:06,840 Speaker 1: Demi happy, and I want her to have the best 609 00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:11,360 Speaker 1: experience on Bachelor and Paradise, however that may be. If 610 00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:14,200 Speaker 1: that's what a guy, if that's what the girl. I 611 00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:16,880 Speaker 1: am just looking forward to Demmi finding somebody that she 612 00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:19,200 Speaker 1: can see spending the rest of her life with, and 613 00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:22,080 Speaker 1: whoever that is, I just hope that we can get 614 00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:24,960 Speaker 1: along because we're gonna be had to be best friends too. 615 00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:31,320 Speaker 1: So um. Yeah, so it wasn't really a surprise for me. Um. 616 00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:36,520 Speaker 1: But it also I don't know, like it wasn't something 617 00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:39,600 Speaker 1: like we just always talked about, But I was I 618 00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:43,680 Speaker 1: was surprised that she was openly talking about it with everyone, 619 00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:46,800 Speaker 1: because it's not like she was hiding it. But right 620 00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:49,200 Speaker 1: it's a big deal to bring it up exactly. It 621 00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:52,600 Speaker 1: was like it wasn't She didn't have to bring it 622 00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:55,680 Speaker 1: up for the world to know. And so I think 623 00:31:55,720 --> 00:32:00,640 Speaker 1: that's what's so amazing and courageous about Demmi is that 624 00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:05,600 Speaker 1: she is taking her personal life that's really something that 625 00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:10,560 Speaker 1: a lot of people are that well, it resonates with 626 00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:12,280 Speaker 1: a lot of people and kind of bringing that to 627 00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:14,880 Speaker 1: lie and that's so strong and so brave of her, 628 00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:19,240 Speaker 1: and I think it's awesome. It's bringing it's bringing a 629 00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:23,920 Speaker 1: conversation into the Bachelor franchise that I feel likes needed 630 00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:27,760 Speaker 1: to happen and sharing different types of relationships. So really 631 00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:30,400 Speaker 1: proud of her in that way too. Well. You answered 632 00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:32,280 Speaker 1: my next question that I was going to ask you about, 633 00:32:32,320 --> 00:32:33,920 Speaker 1: what do you think this means for the future of 634 00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:36,280 Speaker 1: the franchise, just because the franchise gets knocked for not 635 00:32:36,320 --> 00:32:39,960 Speaker 1: being diverse on so many different levels hashtag Mike for Bachelor, 636 00:32:40,320 --> 00:32:44,280 Speaker 1: And I think that what do you think that with 637 00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:48,440 Speaker 1: this what Demi is doing, that she's maybe setting you know, 638 00:32:49,320 --> 00:32:51,320 Speaker 1: something new, something new is abound to happen in the 639 00:32:51,320 --> 00:32:55,360 Speaker 1: Bachelor franchise, that maybe her example will allow other people 640 00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:57,080 Speaker 1: to come out and maybe we'll see more type of 641 00:32:57,120 --> 00:33:02,440 Speaker 1: relationships that mirror this. Yeah. Absolutely, I mean I'll even 642 00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:05,600 Speaker 1: and I'm not saying like, oh, look at me my season, 643 00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:09,400 Speaker 1: but I think it really shows where the direction of 644 00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:12,120 Speaker 1: just the franchise is going. Talking like, we're talking about 645 00:33:12,120 --> 00:33:16,840 Speaker 1: sex openly, we're talking about faith, We're talking about and 646 00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:18,800 Speaker 1: this has been happening for a while. We've been moving 647 00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:21,560 Speaker 1: the needle in the right direction for a while, but 648 00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:25,680 Speaker 1: it's it's really now. It's like we're we're changing the 649 00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:31,000 Speaker 1: game now truly with Demi in her relationship. And I 650 00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:38,480 Speaker 1: think watching this season The Bachelor and Paradise unfold will 651 00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:41,600 Speaker 1: kind of show us where this franchise is going. And 652 00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:49,400 Speaker 1: I hope we continue to not just like fantasize about 653 00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:52,960 Speaker 1: what love is, because love can be messy and it's 654 00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:58,560 Speaker 1: not just this cookie cutter thing of this perfect fairy tale. 655 00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:03,560 Speaker 1: I mean, there is going to be drama, but it's 656 00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:06,480 Speaker 1: not always just like this catty drama. It's trying to 657 00:34:06,520 --> 00:34:09,000 Speaker 1: figure out what you want in life, who you love, 658 00:34:09,480 --> 00:34:12,719 Speaker 1: why you love them, and it might be different than 659 00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:17,560 Speaker 1: something that you've ever had before, and what conversations go 660 00:34:17,680 --> 00:34:20,880 Speaker 1: into play about trying to figure that out and let's 661 00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:24,759 Speaker 1: stop like going beating and around the bush because it 662 00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:27,200 Speaker 1: might be something controversial, like if this is gonna be 663 00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:32,040 Speaker 1: real life true love stories, then let's talk about real life. 664 00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:35,560 Speaker 1: Stop and how you say love is messy? I mean 665 00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:37,360 Speaker 1: one thing too. And I think you said, you know, 666 00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:39,800 Speaker 1: Demi's been there for you throughout your journey as the batchoight, 667 00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:43,440 Speaker 1: which is so beautiful, but like you're gonna unfortunately, we 668 00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:46,120 Speaker 1: live in a world where not everybody's gonna be nice, 669 00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:48,440 Speaker 1: and you're gonna have to be right back there for 670 00:34:48,680 --> 00:34:50,920 Speaker 1: her because she's going to deal with a lot this season. 671 00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:53,560 Speaker 1: I think she is so brave, and I know she's 672 00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:59,360 Speaker 1: not talking about her sexuality necessarily to like to do anything. 673 00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:01,600 Speaker 1: She's doing it for herself, I would assume, right. But 674 00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:03,640 Speaker 1: she is going to change so many lives. She's gonna 675 00:35:03,640 --> 00:35:07,000 Speaker 1: help so many people, But she's also going to face 676 00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:11,239 Speaker 1: so much criticism, which is awful. But she's gonna need 677 00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:13,080 Speaker 1: you right there for her. And through all of that, 678 00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:15,759 Speaker 1: are you worried as her friend like what she's about 679 00:35:15,800 --> 00:35:21,920 Speaker 1: to face? Ah? I know how bad the criticism can be. 680 00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:24,880 Speaker 1: I mean, if you go look at my Instagram or 681 00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:30,640 Speaker 1: any social there's twenty thousand comments of just just pure, 682 00:35:32,719 --> 00:35:36,960 Speaker 1: just mean people just wanting to put out some their 683 00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:39,040 Speaker 1: opinions about something they don't even know, and they don't 684 00:35:39,040 --> 00:35:41,560 Speaker 1: even know me. And she's gonna get Yeah, she's gonna 685 00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:47,440 Speaker 1: get it too. But for me, I, first of all, 686 00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:49,319 Speaker 1: I didn't have time to look at that stuff. So 687 00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:50,879 Speaker 1: I guess they you're just doing it for their own 688 00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:52,919 Speaker 1: good because I really didn't have time. I was too 689 00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:59,520 Speaker 1: busy good doing my own thing. But um, I think 690 00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:04,879 Speaker 1: that she is such a strong woman that yeah, could 691 00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:08,319 Speaker 1: it stinged a little bit, sure, but she's going to 692 00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:11,360 Speaker 1: be come out on top with this, and I'm going 693 00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:14,279 Speaker 1: to be there for her. And yes, it's going to 694 00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:19,800 Speaker 1: be over different topics in our relationships and what we're 695 00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:23,320 Speaker 1: going through on this show or this franchise has been different. 696 00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:27,000 Speaker 1: But I'm glad that in a way there's a silver 697 00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:30,680 Speaker 1: lining to me having been through a lot of criticism 698 00:36:30,840 --> 00:36:35,480 Speaker 1: because I can truly relate to her and be there 699 00:36:35,520 --> 00:36:38,480 Speaker 1: for her. And sometimes you just need somebody to like. 700 00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:41,719 Speaker 1: You don't need people to say I'm so sorry and 701 00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:44,279 Speaker 1: feel bad for you. You just need somebody to just 702 00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:49,160 Speaker 1: sit there with you and freaking grow things at walls 703 00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:52,920 Speaker 1: or make fun of the people who think they know 704 00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:55,480 Speaker 1: what they're talking about. It's not. You don't need somebody 705 00:36:55,520 --> 00:36:59,800 Speaker 1: to to make you feel oh poor me. And I 706 00:36:59,840 --> 00:37:01,680 Speaker 1: think that's how she is too. We need to like 707 00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:05,880 Speaker 1: rally around like we're doing the best thing for ourselves. 708 00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:08,600 Speaker 1: And I know she's doing the best thing, um for 709 00:37:08,640 --> 00:37:14,680 Speaker 1: her happiness, and I'll be there through it, thick and thin, Hannah. 710 00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:18,240 Speaker 1: Other than DEMI, because I know you're watching Paradise, Um, 711 00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:20,839 Speaker 1: who else? Because some of your guys are a few 712 00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:23,080 Speaker 1: of your guys actually are on Paradise this week when 713 00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:24,800 Speaker 1: it's some of the first people to hit the beach. 714 00:37:25,280 --> 00:37:28,560 Speaker 1: Who else are you excited to hopefully see fine love 715 00:37:28,600 --> 00:37:36,000 Speaker 1: in Paradise? Um, I'm excited, don't you dare? Say? JPJ 716 00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:41,960 Speaker 1: Why I don't if I'm love, you don't want to 717 00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:45,080 Speaker 1: if I love. I don't know if JPJ knows what 718 00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:49,319 Speaker 1: he's there to find on the beach this week, so 719 00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:53,680 Speaker 1: it would be some board shorts. But I love when 720 00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:57,759 Speaker 1: jpj uh is on my television screen and he is 721 00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:03,400 Speaker 1: the commercetions that I had with him. We're always so fascinating. 722 00:38:03,760 --> 00:38:07,040 Speaker 1: I don't know what planet he's from, so I hope 723 00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:13,279 Speaker 1: to find another alien to love. UM, but I don't know. 724 00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:17,840 Speaker 1: I mean, of course, like Mike and I had a 725 00:38:17,880 --> 00:38:21,120 Speaker 1: great relationship, and so I want happiness for him, and 726 00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:24,600 Speaker 1: so I hope that he can find, um, somebody that 727 00:38:24,920 --> 00:38:29,040 Speaker 1: Rachel doesn't want him to fund meet somebody in Paradise. Yeah, Hannah, 728 00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:32,120 Speaker 1: let's talk about that. I mean seriously, because everybody gets 729 00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:34,480 Speaker 1: asked this question about how you feel about your guys 730 00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:37,520 Speaker 1: being the Bachelor, like who who do you want to 731 00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:41,520 Speaker 1: be the next Bachelor? Just say it no, Just you 732 00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:44,280 Speaker 1: won't hurt anybody's feelings. Just say it no, because I don't. 733 00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:47,879 Speaker 1: I think that Peter or Mike would be good. Great, 734 00:38:48,160 --> 00:38:51,440 Speaker 1: I think, but it would be totally different seasons. So 735 00:38:51,600 --> 00:38:55,920 Speaker 1: it's yeah, this is my thought. Rachel. Remember when we 736 00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:58,720 Speaker 1: talked about this at our first podcast, UM, I said 737 00:38:58,760 --> 00:39:02,319 Speaker 1: that I wanted it to be very strongly because I 738 00:39:02,320 --> 00:39:04,560 Speaker 1: didn't feel like we knew Mike well enough. Well, here's 739 00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:07,319 Speaker 1: the thing. Mike's going to be on Paradise, so we're 740 00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:10,080 Speaker 1: going to get a chance to know Mike. So if 741 00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:13,480 Speaker 1: Mike holds up, I could see myself getting on the 742 00:39:13,480 --> 00:39:15,680 Speaker 1: mic for Bachelor train. If we get to know him better. 743 00:39:15,960 --> 00:39:18,960 Speaker 1: I definitely have opinions on that, but I'll reserve them 744 00:39:18,960 --> 00:39:21,440 Speaker 1: while we have Hannah here so I could ask more 745 00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:24,680 Speaker 1: questions of Hannah. So yeah, I found it quite interesting 746 00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:27,879 Speaker 1: that you didn't mention Tyler as so you don't think 747 00:39:27,880 --> 00:39:30,560 Speaker 1: he would be a good bachelor. He's not my pick. 748 00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:32,480 Speaker 1: So I mean I agree with you at this point 749 00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:36,080 Speaker 1: you don't think Tyler would be a good bachelor. I 750 00:39:36,120 --> 00:39:43,719 Speaker 1: mean I think he is. Um, I mean, I think 751 00:39:43,719 --> 00:39:45,839 Speaker 1: he likes the date around, so maybe he would be 752 00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:56,399 Speaker 1: a good bachelor. I mean, I'm trying not to go there, 753 00:39:56,480 --> 00:40:01,560 Speaker 1: but you're kind of opening the doors for us. I 754 00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:03,960 Speaker 1: mean at this point, I mean he is. He has 755 00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:06,080 Speaker 1: been on some dates. I'm sure you've heard about them. 756 00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:08,120 Speaker 1: I don't know if you care to even comment on 757 00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:12,200 Speaker 1: them or talk about them. But I guess my question is, like, 758 00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:15,000 Speaker 1: and again, if you don't want to go there, you 759 00:40:15,040 --> 00:40:17,239 Speaker 1: don't have to. We want to be completely respectful of you. 760 00:40:18,200 --> 00:40:21,600 Speaker 1: But you had a date with him which we all saw, Like, 761 00:40:21,680 --> 00:40:23,759 Speaker 1: do you feel at all a little bit hurt by 762 00:40:23,800 --> 00:40:31,120 Speaker 1: like him going on dates right after that? Um, let 763 00:40:31,160 --> 00:40:33,520 Speaker 1: me think of how I want to answer this. Yeah, 764 00:40:33,520 --> 00:40:39,640 Speaker 1: I think about it. I he has every right to 765 00:40:39,719 --> 00:40:47,359 Speaker 1: do whatever he wants to. Um, because we were, you know, 766 00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:54,399 Speaker 1: just hanging out seeing where it goes. And I am 767 00:40:54,440 --> 00:41:03,080 Speaker 1: completely fine with that. And you know, I think but 768 00:41:03,200 --> 00:41:04,879 Speaker 1: just because he had the right doesn't mean it doesn't 769 00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:07,080 Speaker 1: hurt well, you know, kind of like the Blague situation. 770 00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:08,680 Speaker 1: He had the right to sleep with Kaylin and then 771 00:41:08,719 --> 00:41:10,719 Speaker 1: sleep with Christina the next day. They weren't he was 772 00:41:10,760 --> 00:41:14,240 Speaker 1: in an exclusive relationship, But that doesn't mean it's not hurtful. Yeah, totally. 773 00:41:14,320 --> 00:41:18,680 Speaker 1: I think it's more of like private conversations. It was 774 00:41:18,719 --> 00:41:24,399 Speaker 1: a little confus confusing, but um, you know, he can 775 00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:27,520 Speaker 1: do whatever he wants to and I know that I 776 00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:34,360 Speaker 1: can too, and I am going to continue going onward 777 00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:39,440 Speaker 1: and upward. And I just I just think that, you know, 778 00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:43,120 Speaker 1: I've made it very clear, which sometimes like I have 779 00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:46,200 Speaker 1: no shame of saying that, I have been very honest, Like, yeah, 780 00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:52,520 Speaker 1: I had feelings, totally totally still still have feelings. But 781 00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:58,600 Speaker 1: at the same time, I am not tied to any 782 00:41:58,640 --> 00:42:01,719 Speaker 1: man or tied to Tyler, and I'm not going to be. 783 00:42:02,520 --> 00:42:04,960 Speaker 1: And everything that I said that I feel like I 784 00:42:05,040 --> 00:42:08,600 Speaker 1: want deserve and the type of respect that I want 785 00:42:08,640 --> 00:42:12,800 Speaker 1: from a man, I still believe that, and I still 786 00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:16,279 Speaker 1: am going to hold those standards for any man in 787 00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:19,560 Speaker 1: my life. 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It's the lead who determines how quote unquote cool. 825 00:44:12,920 --> 00:44:16,319 Speaker 1: Somebody is right, You're the person to take them as far. 826 00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:18,880 Speaker 1: If you would have sent Tyler home night one, maybe 827 00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:21,280 Speaker 1: he would have been a grocery store Joe. Most likely 828 00:44:21,280 --> 00:44:24,400 Speaker 1: he would not have been. So it is you, technically 829 00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:27,240 Speaker 1: who got him to where he is. It is you, Hannah, 830 00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:29,680 Speaker 1: that got him the two million followers that he has 831 00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:32,759 Speaker 1: at the moment. And I'm sorry, I think it's a 832 00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:38,080 Speaker 1: little bit disrespectful that he. Listen, you're in the public eye, right, 833 00:44:38,080 --> 00:44:40,239 Speaker 1: People freaking know where you live. At this point, you're 834 00:44:40,680 --> 00:44:43,759 Speaker 1: learning it the hard and fast way about what it's 835 00:44:43,760 --> 00:44:47,120 Speaker 1: like to be thrown, you know, in this whole mess. 836 00:44:47,160 --> 00:44:49,320 Speaker 1: So now people know where you live, They've taken pictures 837 00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:51,600 Speaker 1: of you guys hanging out. Something you guys wanted to 838 00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:54,440 Speaker 1: keep private is now out here on Front Street. Tyler's 839 00:44:54,440 --> 00:44:56,200 Speaker 1: aware of that as well, And now he's going on 840 00:44:56,239 --> 00:44:59,879 Speaker 1: a world tour dating people in public. Like I guess, 841 00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:02,560 Speaker 1: I find it disrespectful. It's kind of like brush slow 842 00:45:02,600 --> 00:45:06,040 Speaker 1: your role. You preach. You're on Twitter, you know, talking 843 00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:09,240 Speaker 1: about Hannah's the Queen and preaching, you know, about respect, 844 00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:12,520 Speaker 1: but then you're being a little disrespectful by dating her 845 00:45:12,680 --> 00:45:15,919 Speaker 1: in such a public or dating other people in such 846 00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:17,759 Speaker 1: a public way where you know it's going to get 847 00:45:17,800 --> 00:45:20,640 Speaker 1: so much attention. I think that's my beef with it. 848 00:45:21,320 --> 00:45:25,759 Speaker 1: And yeah, girl, yeah girl, you know we talk about this. 849 00:45:25,800 --> 00:45:28,400 Speaker 1: I won't let you have to say that the nasty stuff, 850 00:45:28,440 --> 00:45:30,359 Speaker 1: I'll say it for you. But I think that that's 851 00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:33,839 Speaker 1: what really bothers me when it comes to how he's 852 00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:37,040 Speaker 1: handling this. He's fully aware, he's fully aware of what's 853 00:45:37,080 --> 00:45:39,960 Speaker 1: going on and what he's doing. And the thing is, I, um, 854 00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:44,799 Speaker 1: I think it is like I have no problem with 855 00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:51,719 Speaker 1: you know, we are not dating dating at all. We 856 00:45:52,160 --> 00:45:57,560 Speaker 1: hung out, um, but we also had conversations of both 857 00:45:57,719 --> 00:46:01,960 Speaker 1: like knowing that there's still there and when you have 858 00:46:03,640 --> 00:46:05,239 Speaker 1: when you are in the public eye, you do have 859 00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:11,000 Speaker 1: to just be respectful of each other. And yeah, I 860 00:46:11,440 --> 00:46:12,880 Speaker 1: wish I would have got a little bit more than 861 00:46:12,920 --> 00:46:18,840 Speaker 1: two days. But you know, it is okay, It is okay, 862 00:46:18,960 --> 00:46:21,200 Speaker 1: and it is You're gonna be just fine. And I'm 863 00:46:21,239 --> 00:46:24,000 Speaker 1: sure you're getting a lot of attention from other people. 864 00:46:24,200 --> 00:46:26,960 Speaker 1: And I know you've been getting a lot of support 865 00:46:27,520 --> 00:46:31,160 Speaker 1: from other celebrities just you know, fans of the show 866 00:46:31,200 --> 00:46:34,000 Speaker 1: of batter Nation. You've turned a lot of people into fans. 867 00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:36,000 Speaker 1: When it comes to this franchise. Because you've had such 868 00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:39,759 Speaker 1: a successful season, I'm just curious as to who has 869 00:46:39,800 --> 00:46:42,360 Speaker 1: been the person or celebrity you've been most excited to 870 00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:44,839 Speaker 1: hear from to support you as you're going through all 871 00:46:44,840 --> 00:46:50,120 Speaker 1: of this. Oh God, there's been like a lot that 872 00:46:50,920 --> 00:46:54,960 Speaker 1: what have been? I don't. I mean, it's just crazy 873 00:46:55,040 --> 00:46:58,799 Speaker 1: that like these people watch the show first of all, 874 00:46:58,840 --> 00:47:02,480 Speaker 1: and then like fans of my But Demi Alvato has 875 00:47:02,560 --> 00:47:07,800 Speaker 1: been like my girl. She has supported me so much. 876 00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:10,600 Speaker 1: Her mom is my West Coast mom now, and so 877 00:47:10,640 --> 00:47:15,200 Speaker 1: I would say, for sure, Demi. I mean, two Demis 878 00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:17,640 Speaker 1: are better than one. So I got I got my 879 00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:22,719 Speaker 1: two girls. But I would I'm just really glad to 880 00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:30,160 Speaker 1: have a lot of women that are so empowered by 881 00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:33,680 Speaker 1: themselves to help me in this time where I'm just 882 00:47:33,719 --> 00:47:41,200 Speaker 1: taking on this new life and just I can learn 883 00:47:41,239 --> 00:47:44,160 Speaker 1: a lot from from her and how she's handled her 884 00:47:44,280 --> 00:47:47,120 Speaker 1: ups and downs in life and just staying still like 885 00:47:47,239 --> 00:47:52,200 Speaker 1: an empowered young female. So, speaking of taking things on, 886 00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:56,640 Speaker 1: would you consider taking on Dancing with the Stars? Oh? Yeah, 887 00:47:56,680 --> 00:48:00,920 Speaker 1: if that was yeah, I'd love to do that. I 888 00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:04,359 Speaker 1: think that'd be so fun. And did you do dance? Yeah? 889 00:48:04,440 --> 00:48:10,880 Speaker 1: And I danced constance I was like two years old, 890 00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:15,360 Speaker 1: and then through high school I danced um all the 891 00:48:15,440 --> 00:48:21,080 Speaker 1: time at a dance studio. So definitely have a few 892 00:48:22,880 --> 00:48:26,640 Speaker 1: tricks up my sleeve if I was to compete for 893 00:48:26,640 --> 00:48:29,799 Speaker 1: that Marraball trophy, But um, I don't know. I think 894 00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:31,759 Speaker 1: it would be a really good way for me to 895 00:48:33,520 --> 00:48:37,840 Speaker 1: put my energy into something else right now. Yeah, And 896 00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:40,560 Speaker 1: I'm really I can be competitive, and so I know 897 00:48:40,680 --> 00:48:43,360 Speaker 1: that I would like give it my all. But we'll see. 898 00:48:43,840 --> 00:48:46,239 Speaker 1: How are you feeling just in general, because Hannah, you've 899 00:48:46,280 --> 00:48:49,799 Speaker 1: gone through so much, Like obviously we're all past bachelorttes here, 900 00:48:50,440 --> 00:48:52,480 Speaker 1: like we've all been there, but like I feel like 901 00:48:52,560 --> 00:48:55,440 Speaker 1: you have really gone through a lot, especially with how 902 00:48:55,480 --> 00:48:57,719 Speaker 1: things ended and everything, Like how are you, like, how 903 00:48:57,760 --> 00:49:03,160 Speaker 1: is your mental so fun? Because sometimes well, how I 904 00:49:03,400 --> 00:49:06,359 Speaker 1: handle stuff, I don't know if it's healthy or not. 905 00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:08,799 Speaker 1: But there are days where I don't ever think, I 906 00:49:08,800 --> 00:49:10,799 Speaker 1: don't think about it. I just like truck through and 907 00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:14,800 Speaker 1: I'm like just singing some wizzle but not thinking about 908 00:49:14,840 --> 00:49:19,719 Speaker 1: like anything, like just just loving life and definitely the 909 00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:22,840 Speaker 1: way to do it. And then there are days that 910 00:49:23,239 --> 00:49:27,120 Speaker 1: I are just moments that I'm like, oh, my gosh, 911 00:49:27,160 --> 00:49:30,399 Speaker 1: what just happened to me? What have I just been through? 912 00:49:30,440 --> 00:49:35,640 Speaker 1: Did I just fight for Wars? I just it's been 913 00:49:36,040 --> 00:49:38,360 Speaker 1: it's been really hard. I'm not even going to pretend 914 00:49:38,920 --> 00:49:42,680 Speaker 1: like it hasn't been because and there's so many layers 915 00:49:43,480 --> 00:49:50,319 Speaker 1: to what's been hard it and yeah, there are days 916 00:49:50,400 --> 00:49:52,880 Speaker 1: where I want to give myself a pity party, and 917 00:49:52,880 --> 00:49:56,440 Speaker 1: then there are days where I'm like, I'm such a 918 00:49:56,640 --> 00:49:59,000 Speaker 1: bad I don't know if I can say you can 919 00:49:59,040 --> 00:50:01,920 Speaker 1: say that, you can say I'm such a badass. Like 920 00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:03,920 Speaker 1: there are some days that I'm like, God, Lee, you 921 00:50:04,000 --> 00:50:07,160 Speaker 1: know you have grown so much that you can handle 922 00:50:07,200 --> 00:50:11,399 Speaker 1: this and just keep on trucking, and and you're about 923 00:50:11,440 --> 00:50:13,480 Speaker 1: to do so many incredible things, Like I'm giving myself 924 00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:16,839 Speaker 1: pep talks like dang, you just walk that you just 925 00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:19,880 Speaker 1: killed that, And but then the next day I'm still like, 926 00:50:19,920 --> 00:50:23,880 Speaker 1: oh my god, that was terrible. I mean, it's just 927 00:50:23,960 --> 00:50:26,359 Speaker 1: like such a back and forth. But I think it's 928 00:50:26,400 --> 00:50:30,400 Speaker 1: I'm actually processing it the best way because I'm okay 929 00:50:30,400 --> 00:50:32,239 Speaker 1: to be it's okay to be upset, it's okay to 930 00:50:32,280 --> 00:50:35,400 Speaker 1: be mad, and it's okay to be hopeful for the future. 931 00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:39,200 Speaker 1: And I'm feeling all those things, but I'm trying to 932 00:50:39,239 --> 00:50:42,800 Speaker 1: make sure that the hope is the thing that outweighs 933 00:50:42,920 --> 00:50:46,239 Speaker 1: the other stuff. Oh, you, you're killing it, Hannah. I'm 934 00:50:46,239 --> 00:50:49,560 Speaker 1: not even concerned about you. Definitely continue to talk to 935 00:50:49,600 --> 00:50:52,920 Speaker 1: yourself because that's a sign of genius and insanity and 936 00:50:53,000 --> 00:50:55,560 Speaker 1: I think everybody, everybody should do it. I talk to 937 00:50:55,600 --> 00:50:58,480 Speaker 1: myself all the time because you have been so much. 938 00:50:58,480 --> 00:51:00,600 Speaker 1: An Ali asked such a great question in regard to 939 00:51:00,640 --> 00:51:02,719 Speaker 1: that and just checking on you and your mental health 940 00:51:02,800 --> 00:51:06,120 Speaker 1: and how you're doing. What advice would you give to 941 00:51:06,320 --> 00:51:09,759 Speaker 1: future bachelorettes, because you know a lot of people have 942 00:51:09,840 --> 00:51:12,520 Speaker 1: talked about how relatable you were, how they've been through 943 00:51:12,560 --> 00:51:15,680 Speaker 1: something similar to what you went through, and I think 944 00:51:15,719 --> 00:51:18,600 Speaker 1: that people will look to you as to how they 945 00:51:18,640 --> 00:51:21,319 Speaker 1: should can navigate this if they step in this role 946 00:51:21,320 --> 00:51:28,640 Speaker 1: as bachelorettes. So what advice would you give? Forget that 947 00:51:28,680 --> 00:51:33,520 Speaker 1: you're on a TV show and maybe that Yeah, I 948 00:51:33,560 --> 00:51:43,520 Speaker 1: guess that's hard. But I was always really concerned about Okay, 949 00:51:43,680 --> 00:51:45,920 Speaker 1: I'm looking for a husband. So if I'm looking for 950 00:51:45,960 --> 00:51:47,920 Speaker 1: a husband, it's my own for the rest of my 951 00:51:48,000 --> 00:51:51,120 Speaker 1: life with I can't be trying to put on a 952 00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:56,040 Speaker 1: persona for everybody else. So what would I do if 953 00:51:56,080 --> 00:52:00,640 Speaker 1: it was just me with trying to go on dates. 954 00:52:00,960 --> 00:52:03,799 Speaker 1: And the only way that I could do that was 955 00:52:03,840 --> 00:52:09,720 Speaker 1: to shut everything out and to be my real true self, 956 00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:12,400 Speaker 1: because I didn't want at the end of the day 957 00:52:13,360 --> 00:52:17,080 Speaker 1: to have a man get down on me and then 958 00:52:17,120 --> 00:52:20,319 Speaker 1: the next day be like, okay, so all that was 959 00:52:20,360 --> 00:52:24,680 Speaker 1: really just for camera, but this is actually me. I 960 00:52:24,680 --> 00:52:26,640 Speaker 1: didn't want that to happen. So the whole time I 961 00:52:26,719 --> 00:52:33,200 Speaker 1: just stayed completely treated myself. Whether that was goofy, embarrassing, 962 00:52:33,520 --> 00:52:35,600 Speaker 1: a little bit of a bitch, I didn't care, Like 963 00:52:35,760 --> 00:52:38,520 Speaker 1: that's who I am. So you either love that or 964 00:52:38,560 --> 00:52:41,000 Speaker 1: you don't, and if you don't, then you can get out. 965 00:52:41,800 --> 00:52:44,160 Speaker 1: And I think that's what you have to do. If 966 00:52:44,160 --> 00:52:47,080 Speaker 1: you're the bachelorette, you're really taking it seriously like I was, 967 00:52:47,160 --> 00:52:51,520 Speaker 1: and how you should be. It's take advantage of the 968 00:52:51,560 --> 00:52:54,720 Speaker 1: opportunity that you have to really find somebody that wants 969 00:52:54,719 --> 00:52:58,440 Speaker 1: to be with you forever and show them you, and 970 00:52:58,480 --> 00:53:03,719 Speaker 1: then hopefully you'll get somebody true and showing their real 971 00:53:03,840 --> 00:53:08,279 Speaker 1: true self in return. Hannah, we are just one thank 972 00:53:08,280 --> 00:53:10,640 Speaker 1: you for joining us, and we are just so happy 973 00:53:10,719 --> 00:53:14,239 Speaker 1: to see this incredible strong woman that you have not 974 00:53:14,280 --> 00:53:17,279 Speaker 1: only portrayed but even grown into. So thank you so 975 00:53:17,360 --> 00:53:20,040 Speaker 1: much for being here with us. Well, thank god, I'm 976 00:53:20,200 --> 00:53:22,360 Speaker 1: I'm excited that I was able to talk to you 977 00:53:22,440 --> 00:53:25,840 Speaker 1: girls and hope to see yall soon. You will, we 978 00:53:25,880 --> 00:53:28,080 Speaker 1: have to have a tunisition, so small. Thanks for being here, 979 00:53:28,360 --> 00:53:31,759 Speaker 1: all right, bye, guys, byeye Well, Rachel, that was fun. 980 00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:35,680 Speaker 1: This time goes by two foot does time flies when 981 00:53:35,680 --> 00:53:37,200 Speaker 1: you're having fun? And I have such a good time 982 00:53:37,239 --> 00:53:39,279 Speaker 1: talking to you Ali and then anybody who comes on 983 00:53:39,320 --> 00:53:41,319 Speaker 1: the show to sit and an interview with us. All right, 984 00:53:41,320 --> 00:53:43,160 Speaker 1: we just want to thank you guys again for listening. 985 00:53:43,200 --> 00:53:45,479 Speaker 1: I mean, we get so many emails at happy hour 986 00:53:45,560 --> 00:53:48,200 Speaker 1: at Bachelor Nation dot com, um with your thoughts on 987 00:53:48,239 --> 00:53:51,560 Speaker 1: these past two episodes, and know that we are just 988 00:53:51,719 --> 00:53:53,640 Speaker 1: doing our best over here. We're working out kings, but 989 00:53:53,680 --> 00:53:55,440 Speaker 1: we're also having a lot of fun and it sounds 990 00:53:55,440 --> 00:53:58,120 Speaker 1: like you guys are loving it too, and we want 991 00:53:58,120 --> 00:53:59,400 Speaker 1: to hear from you guys, so tell us what you 992 00:53:59,480 --> 00:54:01,319 Speaker 1: like and don't like about the show. You can tell 993 00:54:01,400 --> 00:54:03,319 Speaker 1: us what you want to hear more of as well. 994 00:54:03,400 --> 00:54:06,520 Speaker 1: We're all ears, so email us at happy hour at 995 00:54:06,560 --> 00:54:09,400 Speaker 1: bachelornation dot com or visit Bachelor nation dot com and 996 00:54:09,440 --> 00:54:11,920 Speaker 1: click podcast. Thank you guys so much for listening. We 997 00:54:11,960 --> 00:54:14,719 Speaker 1: appreciate all the support and don't forget you can subscribe 998 00:54:14,760 --> 00:54:17,719 Speaker 1: to our podcast, Bachelor Happy Hour. 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