WEBVTT - Awkward Tuesday: Ship My Situationship

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<v Speaker 1>So many things to look forward to. Today.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, welcome to the show. It's Brook and Jeffery. You

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<v Speaker 2>found the official Second Day podcast. And today we've got

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<v Speaker 2>a brand new episode that is your Awkward Tuesday. And

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<v Speaker 2>then if you want to watch one of these live

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<v Speaker 2>in studio, we've got the Awkward Thursday that's going up

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<v Speaker 2>today on the YouTube. We say the YouTube just YouTube

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<v Speaker 2>or is it like regional, like you know where you're

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<v Speaker 2>in California and you say the.

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<v Speaker 1>The five not I five.

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<v Speaker 3>We're thinking it okay, because that is not it.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that. Subscribe on the tubes.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, Bie, jeff your your new episode starts right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Some words in certain situations just should not be said

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<v Speaker 3>unless you really really mean them, all right, Yeah, definitely

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<v Speaker 3>like bomb while you're boarding a plate. Yeah, how would

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<v Speaker 3>you ever if you mean it? Or cockroach in line

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<v Speaker 3>at a fast food restaurant, yeah, or oopsie's mid circumcision

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<v Speaker 3>ohis Yeah. Unfortunately for our listener, she said one little

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<v Speaker 3>thing at the exact wrong moment, and now her romantic

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<v Speaker 3>partner is completely avoiding her. You're gonna find out the

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<v Speaker 3>single word that she said that changed everything. Hopefully we

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<v Speaker 3>can help make it right in your brand new awkward

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<v Speaker 3>Tuesday phone call.

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<v Speaker 1>Next, it's awkward, It's Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 3>It's awkward Tuesday phone call. How do you screw up

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<v Speaker 3>a situationship when both people are into it? Maybe we

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<v Speaker 3>need to ask our listener Juliana, who says her situationship

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<v Speaker 3>is suddenly ghosting her and this is after six to

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<v Speaker 3>seven months of constant, no drama hookups, just consensual action

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<v Speaker 3>night after night after night.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait every night, And Jeff, no, it's more of a

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<v Speaker 1>relationship in.

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<v Speaker 4>That's just when I'm picturing in my mind. But how

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<v Speaker 4>did she mess that up? This is perfect for our show, Juliana,

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<v Speaker 4>What did you do?

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<v Speaker 3>So from your email, you made it sound like it's

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<v Speaker 3>possible it's your fault that this all got thrown out

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<v Speaker 3>of whack. But let's start from the beginning. Tell us

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<v Speaker 3>about this guy that you're in a situationship.

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<v Speaker 1>With, Levi okay, and how you define the situationship.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I mean when we started, it was definitely talked

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<v Speaker 5>about that this would be casual. And he's ten years

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<v Speaker 5>older than me, so you know, it had that like

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<v Speaker 5>mysterious older man thing going on, and I was fine

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<v Speaker 5>and I am fine with it being casual. I really am.

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<v Speaker 5>But the issue is I did start to catch some

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<v Speaker 5>feelings that happen.

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<v Speaker 1>How could you not.

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<v Speaker 2>After six or seven months? I mean, if you have

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<v Speaker 2>it going on that lonely so much time.

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<v Speaker 3>But it ends up for like a month or two,

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<v Speaker 3>then that's what you plan.

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<v Speaker 4>But then if it's like you guys are bonding after.

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<v Speaker 3>Escalade, don't they have a pill for that though, something

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<v Speaker 3>that you can like purge your feelings.

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<v Speaker 5>I wish, I know, because I didn't expect to have

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<v Speaker 5>these feelings happen. It was just supposed to be fun

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<v Speaker 5>and it all kind of just turned into something very real.

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<v Speaker 3>Well is this a good thing?

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<v Speaker 1>Though? Like, if you both have good feelings and you're

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<v Speaker 1>falling for each other, a rule of situationship can't fall

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<v Speaker 1>for them. Yeah, so maybe you're falling gram and he's

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<v Speaker 1>not falling back.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, what's going on between the two of you?

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<v Speaker 5>I think that's really what it is, because this is

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<v Speaker 5>how I messed everything up. The other night at dinner.

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<v Speaker 5>We were driving and I don't know why. It was

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<v Speaker 5>just kind of one of those moments where we were

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<v Speaker 5>chatting and throwing little jabs at each other in a

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<v Speaker 5>very loving way, and something just came out of me

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<v Speaker 5>and I was like, oh my god, I love you.

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<v Speaker 5>And it was like, oh, but I don't even think

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<v Speaker 5>I meant it. I don't think I meant like love,

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<v Speaker 5>like oh I'm in love with you. It was just like, ah,

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<v Speaker 5>this is so fun. I love hanging out.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yes, it's like you're throwing it with your girlfriend

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<v Speaker 2>like I love.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I loved the chicken tenders that we split the

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<v Speaker 4>same dude.

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<v Speaker 1>What happened in the car right after that?

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<v Speaker 4>What was his reaction?

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<v Speaker 5>Absolute silence?

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<v Speaker 1>Actually scratch.

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<v Speaker 5>It was awkward because he like grabbed my hand and

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<v Speaker 5>I thought maybe he's going to say something nice and romantic,

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<v Speaker 5>but then he just said nothing and he just held

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<v Speaker 5>my hand and I just feel like that was the

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<v Speaker 5>silent death of It'll be okay, sweetie, I won't talk

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<v Speaker 5>to you ever again.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're just a handholding as like a pat on

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<v Speaker 1>the back.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, my poor thing, you poor thing. You have these feelings, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>But could you could you have read it wrong? Possibly?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't think so, because after that, he's just always

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<v Speaker 5>got an excuse. Now it's like, oh I can't I

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<v Speaker 5>have to go to the gym, or oh I'm going

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<v Speaker 5>on a run, Like why are you always exercising all

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<v Speaker 5>of a sudden.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a hard part about situationships.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like you're living on this thin little edge and

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<v Speaker 2>anything can topple you one way.

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<v Speaker 6>Or the other.

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<v Speaker 5>Right, Yeah, and I just don't know how to get

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<v Speaker 5>back to where it was, Like, that's what I need

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<v Speaker 5>advice on. I need advice on how to get us

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<v Speaker 5>to pre I love you bomb.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, that's hard because even you've admitted that you

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<v Speaker 3>are having deeper feelings for him than just the situationship.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like you're fighting yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>I like, do you actually want that? Is that what

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<v Speaker 1>you're saying? Jeffs like, do you actually want to go

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<v Speaker 1>back to.

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<v Speaker 4>The way it was or just to something more comfortable.

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<v Speaker 5>I wanted to go back the way it was because

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<v Speaker 5>it was fun and spontaneous, and if we were to

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<v Speaker 5>fall into more feelings, then maybe that happens later, but

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<v Speaker 5>right now I just kind of want it not to

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<v Speaker 5>be so serious.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if this is out of bounds to ask,

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<v Speaker 3>but in your situationship, are you still actively talking with

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<v Speaker 3>other guys.

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<v Speaker 4>Or is this like a solo situationship.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it's good to ask because we need to know

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<v Speaker 1>his side too well.

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<v Speaker 5>The rule lar that we don't talk about anybody else.

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<v Speaker 5>That's why it's so casual, because it's like none of

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<v Speaker 5>us are trying to get our feelings hurt or upset,

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<v Speaker 5>so we just don't talk about it. I have talked

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<v Speaker 5>to other guys before, but I've not hung out in

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<v Speaker 5>the way that I hang out.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it sounds like maybe he's talking to other

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<v Speaker 1>women though.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, if it's the rule that you just don't

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<v Speaker 2>discuss it together, that means that it's happening.

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<v Speaker 4>But she's doing it.

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<v Speaker 3>He's also doing it, and maybe now that she's let

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<v Speaker 3>her feelings be known, he's starting to look at the

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<v Speaker 3>other women in his life like a less serious option that.

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<v Speaker 1>Makes her feel good.

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<v Speaker 4>Jeff, you know that might be what's going on.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so you want us to reach out to your guy,

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<v Speaker 3>LEVI your situationship.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll give her advice and she reaches out to him.

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<v Speaker 4>What are you looking to do with that conversation?

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<v Speaker 5>I want to see if he is willing to go

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<v Speaker 5>back to how we were? Can we be friends with extras?

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<v Speaker 4>You know, why are you opening your shirt right now?

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<v Speaker 3>Right now?

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<v Speaker 4>You're talking about situation ships. It's got Brooke.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me take this up.

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<v Speaker 4>You know we need to move on before she loves you.

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<v Speaker 4>The feelings are too strong in this room.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's trying to be an active listener.

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<v Speaker 3>Come back and give you some solid advice before you

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<v Speaker 3>call your situationship Levi, and hopefully walk back the feelings

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<v Speaker 3>that you put out there with your awkward Tuesday phone

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<v Speaker 3>man right after this, hold on, it's awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 4>It's awkward Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 3>It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Brookshirt is officially rebuttoned,

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<v Speaker 3>so we can finally get back to business now. Because

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<v Speaker 3>everyone in this room is familiar with a situationship. But

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<v Speaker 3>if you don't know, the term basically means that two

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<v Speaker 3>people are just kind of messing around with each other

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<v Speaker 3>and have a loose agreement that things won't get too

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<v Speaker 3>serious between you.

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<v Speaker 1>Think around it is weird. I just say casually dating.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, guys think girls say it different ways, but

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<v Speaker 3>it means the same thing. It sounds really fun bottom line,

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<v Speaker 3>But what you hear most of the time, I feel

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<v Speaker 3>like is ladies tend to not be into that sort

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<v Speaker 3>of thing, at least not for very long. But that's

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<v Speaker 3>not the case with our listener Juliana today, who is

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<v Speaker 3>desperately trying to save her situationship after she let the

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<v Speaker 3>L word slip on a car ride home.

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<v Speaker 4>So she was only one time.

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<v Speaker 3>It was one time, but it did a lot of damage.

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<v Speaker 3>So she really is hoping she can take it back

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<v Speaker 3>and make it all go a get back to where

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<v Speaker 3>they were. It is a tough one, though. We need

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<v Speaker 3>to get some advice from our co host here. So Brooke,

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<v Speaker 3>what do you have for Juliana?

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm thinking about situationships that I would have had.

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<v Speaker 2>Of course we didn't call it that back then, but

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<v Speaker 2>I think this guy super cash for a bid and.

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<v Speaker 3>What was his name, Roy?

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<v Speaker 1>His name was Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 3>I am so sorry that I asked should just have

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<v Speaker 3>a segment now? And this is going to go viral,

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<v Speaker 3>no wonder she was unbuttoning the point.

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<v Speaker 1>He's got the point.

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<v Speaker 2>The point is he broke it off with me, but

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<v Speaker 2>you can't care because like that's the agreement.

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<v Speaker 1>So when you make this call, you can't emote. You

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<v Speaker 1>have to be chill, no drama.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Juliana, are you hearing that?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, yeah, I can try. I feel like my

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<v Speaker 5>emotions are all over the place right now.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't feel those. Just be fun and cool, funny, can't.

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<v Speaker 3>Be like Brooks shirt button that backup, just open. I

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<v Speaker 3>do think it's good advice. You do want to try

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<v Speaker 3>to keep a cool head as much as possible. But

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<v Speaker 3>it's up to you. This is your phone call. We're

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<v Speaker 3>gonna step away and let you do this. We're always

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<v Speaker 3>on your side though, know that.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, promise, Well, unless you.

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<v Speaker 3>Say something super weird, then yeah, we're jumping off the ship.

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<v Speaker 3>But here we go. Not yeadal Levi's number. We'll see

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<v Speaker 3>what he has to say. Let's do it.

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<v Speaker 6>Hello, Hey, hello.

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<v Speaker 2>Levi?

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<v Speaker 3>Hi, Oh.

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<v Speaker 6>What's what's going on? I didn't see that your phone number?

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<v Speaker 6>This is some kind of weird call, restricted phone number.

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<v Speaker 6>What's going on?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know. Something must be kind of crazy with

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<v Speaker 5>my phone. Who knows half the time it drops? Anyway?

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<v Speaker 5>So how are you doing this week? Anything cool going on?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah? I'm actually gonna go meet my friends from work.

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<v Speaker 6>We started a run club.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, like you're gonna go running right like in a

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<v Speaker 5>few minutes.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh yeah, that's cool.

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<v Speaker 5>What about this weekend?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you?

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<v Speaker 5>Are you free? Maybe we could see a movie or something.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, you know, this weekend is actually pretty crazy for me.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm sorry, I'm pretty much out on anything social related.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, Well, I wanted to kind of talk about something

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<v Speaker 5>because I don't know, I just feel that things are

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<v Speaker 5>just a bit different than they used to be, and

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<v Speaker 5>I just kind of wanted to make sure you weren't

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<v Speaker 5>avoiding me or anything because of what I said the

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<v Speaker 5>last time we hung out. I just kind of wanted

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<v Speaker 5>to put that out there that it was not meant.

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<v Speaker 6>To be that what I said. Yeah, yeah, I know,

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<v Speaker 6>it's not that. It's not that at all. I'm just

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<v Speaker 6>trying to take care of myself more. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, you tell me all the time now that

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<v Speaker 5>you're at the gym, you're on a run, and I

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<v Speaker 5>just didn't know that you were into such an exercise lifestyle.

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<v Speaker 5>And I don't know if that started after the fish

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<v Speaker 5>and Chips night or if that was something you just

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<v Speaker 5>we didn't know about each other. I'm just I'm telling

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<v Speaker 5>you I liked things how they were between us before

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<v Speaker 5>I said that. I really said that just in a fun,

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<v Speaker 5>like offhanded, throwing it out there moment. And I don't

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<v Speaker 5>even know if I really think that or if I

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<v Speaker 5>just have fun with you, and it was just a

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<v Speaker 5>spur of the moment thing, and it wasn't like, oh

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<v Speaker 5>my gosh, this crazy girls in love with me. I

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<v Speaker 5>really am not that person, I promised.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, okay, I appreciate you being honest with me, so

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<v Speaker 6>if I'm being honest with you. Something else happened Later

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<v Speaker 6>that night, after we drove back from Fish and Chips.

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<v Speaker 6>What do you mean, mister, we were asleep.

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<v Speaker 5>Something happened.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, So when you said that in the car, it

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<v Speaker 6>was on my mind a lot. And when you went

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<v Speaker 6>to bed, I'm so sorry. Your phone was out and

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<v Speaker 6>I was curious, and I thought, I thought, does she

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<v Speaker 6>say the same kind of thing to other guys?

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<v Speaker 5>Or is this something you went through my phone just

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<v Speaker 5>to me?

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, I'm so sorry, but it's good. It's good that

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<v Speaker 6>I did, because not only did I see some of

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<v Speaker 6>the conversations, I saw some of the pictures of the

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<v Speaker 6>guys that you were talking to.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm sorry, what what does that have to do with anything?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, we agreed you were tradual in talking with others, right.

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<v Speaker 6>Just listen. I realized that I have a lot in

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<v Speaker 6>common with some of the other men that you've been

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<v Speaker 6>talking to, because they're all kind of fat.

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<v Speaker 4>What she liked, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if I understand what you love.

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<v Speaker 6>What's going on.

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<v Speaker 3>What's happening is you're on the radio right now, Levi

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<v Speaker 3>with the show called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry, you apologize.

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<v Speaker 1>She does not care. She wants to figure out what

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<v Speaker 1>is happening.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so, lev just so you know, this is called

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<v Speaker 3>an awkward Tuesday phone called. Juliana is a listener and

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<v Speaker 3>she asked us to reach out to you because she

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<v Speaker 3>felt things getting awkward between the two of you and

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<v Speaker 3>your a situationship.

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<v Speaker 5>I just didn't know how to bring it up, and

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<v Speaker 5>I thought this would be kind of an easy like, Hame,

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<v Speaker 5>we're so cool and chill, we don't really have real conversation.

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<v Speaker 5>That's kind of what my mindset was. I'm so sorry.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, he's not chill one going through your phone, going back,

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<v Speaker 3>going back to what you said, Levi, you saw the

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<v Speaker 3>other dudes in her phone were similar to you in

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<v Speaker 3>body type.

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<v Speaker 6>Listen. I'm not the kind of guy who gets jealous

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<v Speaker 6>and goes through phones and stuff. I did it because

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<v Speaker 6>I wanted to know if you actually kind of meant

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<v Speaker 6>what you said to me, and or if it's just

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<v Speaker 6>something you say the other guys. Because if it's something

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<v Speaker 6>you say to other guys, it's totally fine there too.

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<v Speaker 2>I just know.

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<v Speaker 3>But what was the thing that you said about the.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, look there, it's like she's got a type, and

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<v Speaker 6>I don't want to be the target of some chub chaser.

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<v Speaker 6>So I've been going out and working out. That's what

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<v Speaker 6>I've been doing.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you self conscious or are you motivated?

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<v Speaker 6>I am both self conscious and motivated.

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't even know that I had a type.

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<v Speaker 6>I guess.

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<v Speaker 5>I think I just find what I find attractive.

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<v Speaker 6>So you fight a lot of bigger guys attractive.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, like she's saying she likes you for

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<v Speaker 1>you and Levi.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm talking to them. But I definitely have way more

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<v Speaker 5>fun talking with you. And it has nothing to do

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<v Speaker 5>with what you look like. It has to do with

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<v Speaker 5>how you treat me and how.

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<v Speaker 3>We act Levi. The whole goal of this phone call,

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<v Speaker 3>the whole reason that Juliana wanted to reach out, is

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<v Speaker 3>because she wants to basically erase what's happened in the

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<v Speaker 3>last week and just go back to how you two

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<v Speaker 3>were before all the drama. Do you feel like that's

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<v Speaker 3>even possible.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, yes, I'm down to go back to how we were,

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<v Speaker 6>But I also want to lose like thirty pounds, and

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<v Speaker 6>I know that you have kind of a type now,

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<v Speaker 6>and I want to make sure you're actually okay with

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<v Speaker 6>this because I'm going to do it.

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<v Speaker 4>He gets too skinny for her.

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<v Speaker 5>I promise you, it's not like a type. It's just

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<v Speaker 5>that most guys, that's the physique, average guys physique, So

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<v Speaker 5>it's not anything that I'm looking for.

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<v Speaker 2>Specifically says that until she starts sneaking butter into your food,

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<v Speaker 2>I promise I.

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<v Speaker 5>Won't be a feeder. I really promise that that's weird.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't.

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't make it up.

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<v Speaker 3>So it sounds like we've cleared the air and you

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<v Speaker 3>can move forward from here by going backward to what

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<v Speaker 3>you were exactly the directions I really hope.

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<v Speaker 6>So okay, okay, Julianne. I'm looking forward to cooking up

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<v Speaker 6>with you again.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, who said romances death?

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<v Speaker 3>These days? Brooks starting buttoning again? Brook and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 3>the morning. I'm just going to say it, prediction. Those

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<v Speaker 3>two are going to end up in a real relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, not with each other. No, they have no hope,

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<v Speaker 3>but I do see them falling in love with other

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<v Speaker 3>people in the near future.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I think they both like each other. They're both

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<v Speaker 1>like too scared to be the first one. You didn't

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<v Speaker 1>care about the L bombs, she didn't carry what through

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<v Speaker 1>the phone?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, No, especially with Juliana, I see her with like

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<v Speaker 3>a Paul Blart mall cop kind of guy. I don't

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<v Speaker 3>know why, just personality, I think I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure that's what you're going on. Or just a guy

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<v Speaker 1>who drives a segue is really exciting.

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<v Speaker 3>That would be really perfect for her. But whatever it is,

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<v Speaker 3>I do hope that their situationship does work out this

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<v Speaker 3>for a little while, and we hope that whatever situation

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<v Speaker 3>Urine works out. If you need a little bit of

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<v Speaker 3>help with it, email the show. We can give you

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<v Speaker 3>some advice and let you make an awkward phone call

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah,