1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:04,160 Speaker 1: Steve. This is from DK on Steve BARBFM. He says, 2 00:00:04,280 --> 00:00:07,240 Speaker 1: my girlfriend has been real familiar with my day to 3 00:00:07,320 --> 00:00:10,400 Speaker 1: day locations. She'll ask me how lunch was at a 4 00:00:10,400 --> 00:00:12,559 Speaker 1: certain place. She'll ask me what I bought at a 5 00:00:12,560 --> 00:00:15,680 Speaker 1: certain store. She'll ask me who I am, who I 6 00:00:15,760 --> 00:00:18,240 Speaker 1: know in a certain part of town. After a while, 7 00:00:18,480 --> 00:00:21,239 Speaker 1: I thought she may be following me around. But then 8 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:25,160 Speaker 1: I checked my phone. I've found at least three different 9 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:28,639 Speaker 1: apps that I know I didn't install. They're there just 10 00:00:28,680 --> 00:00:31,800 Speaker 1: to keep tabs on me. Is she that insecure that 11 00:00:31,880 --> 00:00:35,080 Speaker 1: she needs to track my movements? How do I approach 12 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:37,280 Speaker 1: her with this? What you do is. 13 00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:41,880 Speaker 2: Take them off your phone and you got to disconnect 14 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:46,160 Speaker 2: your phone locate Okay, got get the maps off. 15 00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:49,159 Speaker 1: You gotta do that, So delete that if that's what 16 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:49,760 Speaker 1: he has a. 17 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:54,520 Speaker 2: Certain I'm deleting app, but I'm turning off my phone locating. 18 00:00:54,560 --> 00:00:55,840 Speaker 2: Oh that's fitting, companion. 19 00:00:56,040 --> 00:00:57,120 Speaker 1: What's wrong with your nephew? 20 00:00:57,240 --> 00:00:57,560 Speaker 2: See? 21 00:00:57,880 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 1: You know every single place he goes? 22 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:02,240 Speaker 2: How was the gym? 23 00:01:02,440 --> 00:01:04,759 Speaker 1: What are you doing way over there at that grocery stuff? 24 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 1: That's a lot. 25 00:01:06,040 --> 00:01:06,360 Speaker 2: Come on. 26 00:01:09,959 --> 00:01:13,080 Speaker 1: And don't the ball away. Let's just get rid of 27 00:01:13,120 --> 00:01:13,440 Speaker 1: the fall. 28 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 2: The entire phone. 29 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:19,000 Speaker 1: Oh, so that's what's wrong with your next. 30 00:01:20,520 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 2: He is, right though, I keep the phone, but I'm 31 00:01:27,880 --> 00:01:32,640 Speaker 2: gonna leave it places. Okay, I'm gonna leave it at 32 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:37,000 Speaker 2: the job. It's gonna be there all night. 33 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:40,880 Speaker 1: Okay, all right? So how does what does he say 34 00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:43,160 Speaker 1: to her? He wants to know, how does he approach her? 35 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 2: I don't know, man, I don't I've never had that. 36 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:48,280 Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't. I don't know, man. I mean, 37 00:01:48,560 --> 00:01:53,200 Speaker 2: she is insecure and she's tracking me, that's for sure. 38 00:01:54,360 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 2: So brother, do you do you want to marry her? 39 00:01:57,720 --> 00:01:59,640 Speaker 2: Do you want this relationship to go any further? 40 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:00,600 Speaker 1: Well? 41 00:02:00,680 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 2: Ale, y'all having some problems as has something happened to 42 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 2: make her feel this way? Or is she carrying baggage 43 00:02:07,520 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 2: from an old relationship? It sounds like baggage. So don't 44 00:02:11,800 --> 00:02:14,920 Speaker 2: I don't know that I'm gonna deal with this, mar 45 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:19,400 Speaker 2: I wouldn't. All right, Yeah, let's leave it at that 46 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 2: room at meet mag What are you going in the bathroom? 47 00:02:22,360 --> 00:02:23,200 Speaker 1: What did you do? 48 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:25,360 Speaker 2: Dog? You know? 49 00:02:26,919 --> 00:02:31,680 Speaker 1: Leave me alone? Stop asking me all these questions. All right? 50 00:02:31,720 --> 00:02:34,400 Speaker 1: Moving on, we have another one, Steve. This is from Andre. 51 00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:37,600 Speaker 1: Andre says I've been with my girlfriend for two years 52 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:41,560 Speaker 1: and we're talking seriously about marriage, but she wants me 53 00:02:41,600 --> 00:02:44,680 Speaker 1: to adopt her sixteen year old son. The thing is, 54 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:48,200 Speaker 1: her son barely likes me. We get along fine on 55 00:02:48,240 --> 00:02:50,960 Speaker 1: the surface, but there's no real connection. I don't know 56 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 1: why she wants this, and I'm like ninety nine percent 57 00:02:54,440 --> 00:02:58,079 Speaker 1: sure he doesn't. I love her deeply, but I don't 58 00:02:58,120 --> 00:03:00,760 Speaker 1: know if I can take on the title of dad 59 00:03:00,919 --> 00:03:04,320 Speaker 1: or someone who clearly doesn't see me that way. Is 60 00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 1: this a deal breaker? 61 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:08,679 Speaker 2: Well, I don't know if it's a deal breaker. I 62 00:03:08,720 --> 00:03:13,440 Speaker 2: don't think it's more than a discussion. I think maybe 63 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:17,040 Speaker 2: you and him should have some conversation about how he 64 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 2: really feels. He's old enough to talk to about this, 65 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:23,640 Speaker 2: and then the three of you need to have discussions. Well, 66 00:03:23,720 --> 00:03:26,640 Speaker 2: I think if he understands your genuine love for his mother, 67 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:30,560 Speaker 2: that might help him. But if he's not understanding a 68 00:03:30,600 --> 00:03:32,839 Speaker 2: lot of times, the sixteen year old dude don't see 69 00:03:32,840 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 2: how he fit. 70 00:03:33,440 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 1: Into this thing. And obviously his dad isn't involved, right, Steve, 71 00:03:38,960 --> 00:03:41,280 Speaker 1: because she was asking him to adopt. 72 00:03:41,720 --> 00:03:45,040 Speaker 2: Well, you don't know that. You don't know that the 73 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 2: boy and the dad are not talking Somewhere somehow. That's 74 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:51,600 Speaker 2: why you got to get an understanding. Because the sixteen 75 00:03:51,680 --> 00:03:54,040 Speaker 2: year old is trying, is struggling with where he fit 76 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:58,560 Speaker 2: into all this act and the guy saying that they 77 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:01,120 Speaker 2: don't have a connection. You could with a sixteen year 78 00:04:01,160 --> 00:04:04,960 Speaker 2: old boy, especially if he don't have a relationship. 79 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:07,560 Speaker 1: With today opening line to connect, I mean, what does 80 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:08,200 Speaker 1: he say. 81 00:04:08,200 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 2: To the kid today? My man, Let's sit down and 82 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:13,600 Speaker 2: talk and let me tell you something. I love your mom, 83 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:16,120 Speaker 2: and this is what I'd like to do. I'd like 84 00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 2: for me and you to have a genuine connection. I 85 00:04:18,320 --> 00:04:20,919 Speaker 2: can teach you everything I know. I can help you 86 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:23,320 Speaker 2: answer all the questions you got, and I can get 87 00:04:23,360 --> 00:04:25,440 Speaker 2: you the manhood a lie faster and you can get 88 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:28,320 Speaker 2: that by yourself. Now, if that's something you want, that's 89 00:04:28,320 --> 00:04:31,360 Speaker 2: something I'm willing to give. Now. You let me know, man, 90 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:33,279 Speaker 2: what you'd like to do, but give it some thought, 91 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:34,680 Speaker 2: because I'd like to be there for you. 92 00:04:35,360 --> 00:04:38,279 Speaker 1: All right. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.