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Speaker 2: Two million. I was trying to remember.

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Speaker 2: Wow, two mil for a healthy body. I feel so

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Speaker 1: If we take your teeth and your lover and your

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Speaker 3: Next episode and hurt, no, no organs, and and my

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Speaker 2: My toes, We're taking them all.

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Speaker 1: I want those gich of those toes is like worth

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Speaker 2: Maybe I could start my own fun with feet.

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Speaker 3: And then guys, do you guys want me or Sam

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Speaker 1: We will, Yeah, if you you asked, We'll start our

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Oh yeah, that shit too much. You gotta pay

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Speaker 2: I think he's asking if it was my roommate Christian.

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Speaker 3: My girlfriend can pinch very hard with her toes, like

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Speaker 3: Keep a mystery, Sam, We have this story submitted by

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Speaker 2: We love our O Kop fans.

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Speaker 3: That is right, This story actually comes from our subreddit.

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Speaker 3: To keep it simple, I have never had the best

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Speaker 2: Lovey oh.

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Speaker 1: Also also tomorrow, tomorrow, I'm going to that place with

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Speaker 2: And I'm very excited.

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Speaker 1: I'm very excited for you, very excited. I think it's

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Speaker 3: Or or do or maybe we are heavily encouraging you.

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Speaker 3: Let your brother go to the wedding. Okay, yeah, that's right. Matrimony,

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Speaker 3: Now, my brother is gay, but my family doesn't know.

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Speaker 3: I've been telling him for years that he should come

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Speaker 3: I see it as the sooner you know who the

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Speaker 1: Like Opie's brother, just take the guy and just he.

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Speaker 3: That's okay. I'm okay with that drama, But like, this

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Speaker 2: With my celebration. Lay down that law.

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Speaker 3: I asked him why my wedding day, and he said

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Speaker 2: This is killing me. I would fight my that's such

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like, gee, the only, only, the purest, like

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Speaker 2: That might ruin our future. See what you're saying. I

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Speaker 2: don't know if it ruins your I don't know who

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Speaker 1: But there there is a hot I think everyone can

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Speaker 2: Yes because of this, Yes, yes, yes.

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Speaker 3: The next day I got a text and he said,

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Speaker 1: super complicated situation. I wouldn't say that Op is an

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Speaker 3: I think I think that's what he should have done. Like,

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Speaker 1: And it's like it's also like your brother has is

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Speaker 1: then they're exposing themselves. If you don't want in your

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Speaker 3: There you go, and obviously, like you know, but it

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Speaker 3: I think you should have I think you should have

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Speaker 3: it as it come and be like, Okay, I'm just

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Speaker 3: I'm just not gonna worry about this. I'm going to

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Speaker 3: enjoy my day. If anything happens, I'll take care of it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but you know I agreed, Yeah,