WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Containers, Coffee & Lies, OH MY!

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<v Speaker 1>Second day. It doesn't feel good when you know somebody

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<v Speaker 1>just lied to you. No, not at all. Like for example,

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<v Speaker 1>i'd a listener tell me just the other day, Wow, Jeff,

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<v Speaker 1>your song was so great. Area keeping it going? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess you hate me when you tell me next?

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<v Speaker 1>Brooks nice one of our listeners. Sure, one of our

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<v Speaker 1>listeners were right. He says his date lied right to

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<v Speaker 1>his face when they met up, and he does not

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<v Speaker 1>understand why. So he's on this right now. Ryan. How's

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<v Speaker 1>it going? Man? Hey, how you doing? I can't figure

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<v Speaker 1>out why you're calling us for a second date. Update.

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<v Speaker 1>If this person lied to you right away on your

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<v Speaker 1>first date, yeah, let's find out what happened. But first,

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<v Speaker 1>tell us about the girl that you met up with.

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<v Speaker 1>What's her name? Yeah, her name is Lena. She seemed great.

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<v Speaker 1>She's a realtor. I met her during an open house

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<v Speaker 1>that she was showing. Oh that's cool. Were you shopping

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<v Speaker 1>or just up and for hot realtors around? No? No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm looking to buy a house and so it was

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<v Speaker 1>a nice I'm not gonna take it, but she was cute.

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<v Speaker 1>That's genius. I never thought about it. But if you

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<v Speaker 1>meet women while you're buying houses. They think you have

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<v Speaker 1>tons of money. Well, if they're realators, they're actually going

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<v Speaker 1>to get your background and all of you. So how

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<v Speaker 1>did you What type of game did you try and

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<v Speaker 1>play on Lena? There no game, no game. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>we just started chatting and we kind of hit it up.

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<v Speaker 1>We just kind of clicked. You know, there's something nice

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<v Speaker 1>and well the rare just honest, play it straight game.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not a game. I'm going to write that one down. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how that worked out for you, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's great that it did. So what did you and

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<v Speaker 1>Lena end up doing for a date anyway? Yeah, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I emailed her rights either email because of the open

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<v Speaker 1>house and everything, so and I said, you know, I'd

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<v Speaker 1>love to just get you to know you any more.

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<v Speaker 1>This isn't about work, you know, I'm not interested in

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<v Speaker 1>the house. Just came out and flat up said it right, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and she said yeah, she said yeah, I think that

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<v Speaker 1>would be great. Nice. So it felt like a date

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<v Speaker 1>going in, Like it seemed pretty clear that she wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>just trying to get another client exactly. Yes, yes, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>okay to talk about Like we did talk about work

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<v Speaker 1>and everything like that. I'm an audiobook narrator, she's a

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<v Speaker 1>reletter so we like talked about our jobs and what

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<v Speaker 1>we're doing right now. Cool. That was just a part

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<v Speaker 1>of it, right. It was a coffee and it was

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<v Speaker 1>it was nice, but it only lasted for about twenty

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<v Speaker 1>to twenty five minutes. It was pretty short. She gave

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<v Speaker 1>an abrupt ending to it all. She looked at her

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<v Speaker 1>watch and she said, oh, no, I've got a client meeting. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and she did the quick like hug goodbye, and she left.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you don't believe her. You think she was lying

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<v Speaker 1>about the client meeting. So here's the catch. I know

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<v Speaker 1>this is weird, but check it out. I also left

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<v Speaker 1>because I was like, why am I here? You know, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that makes sense. If she's leaving, you would probably end

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<v Speaker 1>up leaving too. In the coffee shop for another half hour.

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<v Speaker 1>So I saw her walking down the street. I was

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit behind her, and she went into the

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<v Speaker 1>container store that was right down the street. That was

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<v Speaker 1>it had all the you know, organizational tools for a

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<v Speaker 1>closet and whatnot. So I just saw her going into

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<v Speaker 1>the client and I was like, that's a weird place

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<v Speaker 1>to meet to meet a client in a container store,

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<v Speaker 1>and so she just stayed there for like thirty minutes,

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<v Speaker 1>just like browsing. Wait wait, wait where did you stay

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<v Speaker 1>for that thirty minutes? Because that seems weird. I was

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<v Speaker 1>on a park bench grass the street. Oh, it's like

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<v Speaker 1>a private investigator. I would do the same thing. She's

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<v Speaker 1>a realtor. Maybe she had to get like some sort

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<v Speaker 1>of something for stage in a house, or you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like there could be a very plausible reason. Great, why

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<v Speaker 1>lie about a client meeting them? Because maybe she honestly

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<v Speaker 1>had to go get this stuff. Here's the question. Did

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<v Speaker 1>she actually buy anything from the store? O? No, she didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>She browsed for thirty minutes and then just left. Did

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<v Speaker 1>she talk to anybody while she was in the store, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. You know, you bugged her. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>go into the store? I did not go into the store. No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't. Oh that's that's where you draw the line.

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<v Speaker 1>And even stalkers have to have their limits. Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>what happened? I mean, why exactly are you calling for

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<v Speaker 1>our help right now? Are you still interested in trying

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<v Speaker 1>to get another date with Lena? No? I really would

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<v Speaker 1>like to see what her excuses. I just want to

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<v Speaker 1>call her out. I want to call her out on

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<v Speaker 1>the radio, even if she said, Bro, what if she's like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, he was so great and I actually

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<v Speaker 1>can't wait to see him again. What's your reaction going

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<v Speaker 1>to be to that? I don't believe it? Then? Why

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<v Speaker 1>did you lie to me? Though? Is this just like

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of bad dates all piling up and you

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<v Speaker 1>finally cracked? No, this is me just being like, look,

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<v Speaker 1>be yourself, be unadulteratedly yourself all the time. And if

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<v Speaker 1>you standing up for yourself, bro, I think you're standing

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<v Speaker 1>up for your own morals. Right, she did anything wrong?

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<v Speaker 1>Like you still don't know? Like it's just easier to

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<v Speaker 1>say client meeting than it is to say, well, we're

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<v Speaker 1>staging this home and I need organizational tools for the

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<v Speaker 1>junk drawer, so I need go, you know, Like, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's not even a day? Is so short? It is short.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's I can pull around the room. Who believes that

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<v Speaker 1>Lena was telling the truth that she actually had to

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<v Speaker 1>meet a client? No? No from Alexis, Can I vote that?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think it matters, Like I don't think, but

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<v Speaker 1>I think she could absolutely possibly be telling the truth. Okay, absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>PAUSI a liar like all women. All right, another burn

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<v Speaker 1>scores Okay, So, jeff I think she was telling the truth. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so against Yeah, so I don't. Is there anything that

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<v Speaker 1>happened during the coffee date that could have happened that

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<v Speaker 1>would have made her want to leave earlier? Yeah? Good questions. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been racking my brain about that and I can't

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<v Speaker 1>think of it. Okay, you didn't yell at a barista

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<v Speaker 1>or anything? No, no, okay, Well, we're gonna try and

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<v Speaker 1>do some investigation here. We'll get to the bottom of this.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll play a song, we'll come back, we'll call Lena

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<v Speaker 1>for you, and we'll figure out whether she lied or

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<v Speaker 1>whether she told the truth. We're gonna do it right

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<v Speaker 1>after this and your second date update. Hold on, man,

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<v Speaker 1>It's Brooke and Jeffrey and the mysterious case of the

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<v Speaker 1>container store confession. Ryan's date after twenty minutes said she

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<v Speaker 1>had to go to meet up with a client, but

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<v Speaker 1>after he followed her, he saw her go into a

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<v Speaker 1>container store. Quote casually browsing yea, which, might I add,

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke doesn't sound very urgent like she said it was,

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<v Speaker 1>or very fun. Yeah. Yeah, So now I'm kind of

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<v Speaker 1>back on the fence here. At first I said I

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<v Speaker 1>believed Ryan's date actually had a meeting. Now not so

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<v Speaker 1>sure anymore. I'm waffling here, having a hard time siding

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<v Speaker 1>with a dude who sat outside for thirty minutes and

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<v Speaker 1>watched a lady from a park bench. I mean, whatever happens,

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<v Speaker 1>this is definitely going to be interesting. And Ryan, you

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<v Speaker 1>say that you're an audiobook narrator once this mystery is solved,

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<v Speaker 1>narrating it for the show. Sure, no problem, Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>cannot It's going to be in a New York Times bestseller.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's my question. Because you're all about the truth, right,

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<v Speaker 1>you want every last detail of the truth. And so

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<v Speaker 1>does that mean when we get her on the phone,

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<v Speaker 1>we can tell her that you sat outside on a

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<v Speaker 1>park bench and watched her while she shopped. Yeah you

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<v Speaker 1>know what, Fine, that's fine, that's fine again, Like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not interested in getting a second take. Yeah, we can't

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<v Speaker 1>blow it. You just want honesty. Yeah, okay, But we

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<v Speaker 1>need to be careful here because even though we're on

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<v Speaker 1>an investigative mission, we can't come in too hot, like

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<v Speaker 1>get her on the phone and be like, tell us

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<v Speaker 1>what you did. Yeah, you need to find out what

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<v Speaker 1>her story is. And then after we grease the wheels,

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<v Speaker 1>then we can break out the heavy interrogation tactics. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Detective debout is all the case, that's right? All right, Ryan,

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<v Speaker 1>you're ready to do this, man, Yeah, let's go for it. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to dial her number right now. We're going

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<v Speaker 1>to solve this mystery. Here we go. Hello, Hi, is

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<v Speaker 1>this Lena? This is she? Hi, Lena. My name's jeff

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<v Speaker 1>I work on the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. I was hoping you have a second to

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<v Speaker 1>talk with us as sure. What is this recarding? Is

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<v Speaker 1>regarding a date that you went on not too long

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<v Speaker 1>ago with a guy named Ryan. Oh um, what is

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<v Speaker 1>this about? This is a segment that we do on

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<v Speaker 1>our show called a second Date Update. It's where if

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<v Speaker 1>you go out with someone and afterwards, if that person

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<v Speaker 1>isn't calling you back, you can email our show and

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<v Speaker 1>we'll help you figure out the reason why. Oh okay, right, Ryan.

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<v Speaker 1>We've spoke to him a little bit before he told

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<v Speaker 1>us about your date, and he's a little bit confused

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<v Speaker 1>about how everything ended. So we're hoping to get your

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<v Speaker 1>perspective on what happened. Would you mind telling us about it? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean we went and got coffee and that was that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he told us that. He said it didn't last very long.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like twenty minutes or something, and then you

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<v Speaker 1>kind of bailed quickly at the end. Oh well, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't really realize what time it was and I needed

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<v Speaker 1>to run, so like I needed to wrap things up.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't need to run, Lena, This is gonna feel

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<v Speaker 1>a little awkward here, But and I don't think Ryan

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<v Speaker 1>meant to do this on purpose. But after you guys

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<v Speaker 1>left for coffee, he said he left as well and

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<v Speaker 1>ended up going in the same direction as you down

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<v Speaker 1>the street and he saw you go into a container store.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait a second, so he was he like stalking me.

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<v Speaker 1>It feels like that. I don't think he meant to

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<v Speaker 1>do it on purpose, but he did see that happen.

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<v Speaker 1>How could you not do that on purpose? Walk and

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<v Speaker 1>follow me? Well, you can both be going in the

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<v Speaker 1>same direction after you leave, northwest southeast, just the right. So, Lena,

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<v Speaker 1>we're just trying to figure out on Ryan's behalf, did

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<v Speaker 1>you really have a client meeting in the store like

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<v Speaker 1>you told Ryan you did Wow, So he follows me

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<v Speaker 1>and I have to now account for my action and

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<v Speaker 1>see Jeffrey, we're just trying. Ryan just wants to know

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<v Speaker 1>if that was the truth or if he did something

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<v Speaker 1>wrong that made you just want to get out of

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<v Speaker 1>the date. I just think you need to be blunt

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<v Speaker 1>with him and just tell us why why didn't you

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<v Speaker 1>want to see him again? Because he really honestly has

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<v Speaker 1>no idea. He has no idea at all, none at all. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>he's just confused because you know, you said I really

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<v Speaker 1>have to go. You looked at your watch even in

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<v Speaker 1>your like this is urgent, and then you casually browsed

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<v Speaker 1>around afterward. And so he feels like he was lied to.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean casually? How did he know that,

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<v Speaker 1>we guys, because he was on a park bench watching

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<v Speaker 1>you the entire time what you were doing. So he's

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<v Speaker 1>a psycho. Look, you can understand, you can understand dating

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<v Speaker 1>is hard. Right now, he feels like he's being lied to.

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<v Speaker 1>It's his last straw. He's not he thought I'm trying

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<v Speaker 1>to attack you or anything. He just wants to know

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<v Speaker 1>the truth. He's just exhausted from this whole process. We're

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<v Speaker 1>not trying to tell you everything that happened through the

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<v Speaker 1>coffee conversation said it didn't last very long and he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have much of a chance to talk with you. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know if he told you this, but

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<v Speaker 1>he's a narrator for audiobooks. Yeah, okay. So he takes

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<v Speaker 1>out an MP three player and he hands me like

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<v Speaker 1>one of his headsets and says, here, you need to

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<v Speaker 1>listen to this, and I'm like, okay, so I put

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<v Speaker 1>it in. I'm already kind of wearried out because it

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<v Speaker 1>was been in his ear and I don't know, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but just to be nice, I listened. And he's actually

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<v Speaker 1>kind of talented. But when we were done, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to just put on a face because I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what he expects from me. And then

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<v Speaker 1>he's like, did you hear how I said the word

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<v Speaker 1>explorer terry? And I'm like what. He's like, very powerful, huh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and just starts going on about himself. And

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<v Speaker 1>at this point I'm a little kind of taken aback

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<v Speaker 1>because he just seems extremely obsessed with himself. So he

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<v Speaker 1>made you listen to his voice on an audio recording

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<v Speaker 1>and then had you review his performance of it. Yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and like, I'm sorry, but I felt extremely uncomfortable the

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<v Speaker 1>minute he asked me to put that thing in my ear,

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<v Speaker 1>and then like I don't know, I felt like the

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<v Speaker 1>only thing I could do is just be like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I need to go. I mean, I did have a

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<v Speaker 1>showing later that day, but yeah, i'd lie too, and

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<v Speaker 1>so of his work and wants to show you what

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<v Speaker 1>he does. It's annoying. It was a little much on

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<v Speaker 1>the first dage. Well, I hate to make this worse

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<v Speaker 1>for him, but I need to let you know that

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan's been listening quietly on the other line this entire time,

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<v Speaker 1>and he wants to talk to you. Ryan. You there, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here. How do you feel. I gotta tell you,

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of love it. Like I know that's somewhat

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<v Speaker 1>like weird and massochistic of me, but like I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of need a harsh tone when it comes to that stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>because yeah, I do. I'm proud of my work, and

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<v Speaker 1>I might go a little overboard being like self congratulatory,

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<v Speaker 1>and I see how from the outside he can seem

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<v Speaker 1>obsessed with myself. It is a little bit weird asking

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<v Speaker 1>her to review it in front of you right after

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<v Speaker 1>you listen, Like, wasn't that wonderful? I see how that

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<v Speaker 1>can be? And so you know what I work on that.

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<v Speaker 1>I really will. That's reasonable. Usual people that react like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I don't know what to do. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>listen to that, Lena, Like he understands the flaws that

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<v Speaker 1>he made. Like, does that change the way you look

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<v Speaker 1>at him? I mean the way he responded. I was surprised.

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<v Speaker 1>And don't you think it's really impressive the way that

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<v Speaker 1>I've handled this situation, just making everything so nice between

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<v Speaker 1>you guys. I mean that makes me a pretty good

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<v Speaker 1>radio host, wouldn't you think? Right now? Jeff, can you

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<v Speaker 1>just listen to my voice? How strong and powerful it is?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I would definitely listen to myself, wouldn't you? Guys?

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<v Speaker 1>Couldn't you say exploratory for me? Please? Exploratory ultimately, Lena, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>what I like to say is I like I love

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<v Speaker 1>taking notes, Okay, Like I like to be able to

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<v Speaker 1>take direction, and I like to be able to do

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<v Speaker 1>what you are so like if it comes off too

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<v Speaker 1>much sometimes, which I do, come on, Yeah, ignoring the

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<v Speaker 1>thirty minute bench watch thing. Okay, yeah we are. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let's just ask. I mean, I didn't expect that we

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<v Speaker 1>were going to even do this, But Lena, would you

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<v Speaker 1>like to go out with Ryan one more time? And

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<v Speaker 1>we'll pay for it and he won't make you listen

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<v Speaker 1>to any of his work? I can't. I'm rooting for this, Lena,

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<v Speaker 1>because it's like logic and reason have finally maybe prevailed.

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<v Speaker 1>You switched teams, bro. I mean, as long as he

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<v Speaker 1>can work on his boundaries at the whole following me.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you? Um, but Ryan, you know, I guess i'd

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<v Speaker 1>be up for it. Okay, So from Lena, Ryan, what

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<v Speaker 1>do you think? Are you still cool with this? No? Ultimately,

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<v Speaker 1>she lied. She lied to me like she she simply

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<v Speaker 1>said like she had to go to a client meeting,

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<v Speaker 1>and we clearly saw that that wasn't true. I can't

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<v Speaker 1>deal with a liar. That's just like good graces, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just good etiquette. Okay, what is she supposed to say?

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<v Speaker 1>You are incredibly self absorbed? I need to leave. A

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<v Speaker 1>lie does not equal etiquette. Okay, I a woman have

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<v Speaker 1>probably lied to you. I'm just gonna tell you that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot. It's interesting that she gave you grace for

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<v Speaker 1>your mistake, and you're not giving her any grace. Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>This is probably why he's still single. No, probably it

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<v Speaker 1>makes sense now, Ryan, I've got boundaries and I can't.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't take a liar. I can't. Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, So, uh that didn't work out. But Ryan,

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<v Speaker 1>do we still have a deal here? Will you narrate

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<v Speaker 1>this for us? Yeah? Sure if you want, like a

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<v Speaker 1>self absorbed person narrating his own story. Sure what? All right?

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<v Speaker 1>I think we have the right guy. So he admits

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<v Speaker 1>that broke and Jeffrey in the morning