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Speaker 1: I mean, I would definitely listen to myself, wouldn't you? Guys?

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Speaker 1: Couldn't you say exploratory for me? Please? Exploratory ultimately, Lena, Like,

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Speaker 1: This is probably why he's still single. No, probably it

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