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Speaker 1: All right, here we go as promised. This is uh,

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Speaker 1: this is for the ladies. We want to help you

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Speaker 1: get your get you to get your man to open

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Speaker 1: up because you know they don't like to talk about stuff,

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Speaker 1: don't you know? Yeah, they don't like to talk about

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Speaker 1: their feelings and all that, and women as women, we

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Speaker 1: love that. Yes, so yeah, so this is how to

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Speaker 1: get your man to talk about his feelings. And Steve,

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Speaker 1: please see if you agree with this. Guys, see if

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Speaker 1: you agree with this, because they're not known to do this. So, ladies,

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Speaker 1: if you're tired of guessing how your man feels, here's

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Speaker 1: some pointers for you to get your guy to share.

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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, let's see if you agree. Be trustworthy?

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Speaker 1: How about that for a guy to open up? There?

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Speaker 1: So I didn't even hardly get in enough.

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Speaker 2: Understand what you say? For a guy, it's your man

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Speaker 2: to open up?

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Speaker 1: What Okay? Yes, okay, So if you want your guy

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Speaker 1: to open up and share his emotions with you, he's

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Speaker 1: got to be able to trust you. Okay, that's what.

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Speaker 2: It means, Tommy.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I got I didn't ask you to be saying.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you didn't even let me get it out, Tommy,

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Speaker 1: anything with the word trust. Yeah, all right, treat him

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Speaker 1: as an equal. Okay, So he's your partner, he's your husband,

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Speaker 1: he's your man. You know, he's your boo whatever, So

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Speaker 1: don't treat him.

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Speaker 2: No, I ain't had it. What do you mean? You know,

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Speaker 2: and treat you like an equal? What I'm just saying.

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Speaker 2: I ain't saying who it was. I'm just saying we

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Speaker 2: didn't say who.

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Speaker 3: You're being treated equal? Now I'm being treated not equal?

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Speaker 2: Now, you know, Okay, I've been I've actually been a slave.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, if that's the game you're playing.

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Speaker 1: Was that the game you were playing or something? You

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Speaker 1: know how people roll reverse? Uh?

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Speaker 3: No, there was no game.

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Speaker 4: He was a slave.

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Speaker 1: Give me shoes.

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Speaker 2: What are you talking about? Roll the person?

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Speaker 1: You play with your mate? You roll play when you talk? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: the whole talking, the whole time. Never made eye contract.

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Speaker 2: You have been in such a bad relationship that they

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Speaker 2: be sleep on your arm in the morning and you

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Speaker 2: have a decision to make. Do I run the risk

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Speaker 2: of pulling my arm out and waking her up? Or

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Speaker 2: do I just chew it all? Don't tell you something?

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Speaker 4: Man?

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Speaker 2: I damn it, I damn that had got it? Off,

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Speaker 2: but I started crying because I had been been into

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Speaker 2: my shoulder. Blood was everywhere. She woke up with blood

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Speaker 2: all round in my mouth? What are you doing trying

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Speaker 2: to chew my Wow? So this wouldn't happen, Yeah, but

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Speaker 2: she heard a whimpery Steve, what are you crying? Why

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Speaker 2: are the blood on your trying to eat almost your ass,

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Speaker 2: which obviously I didn't do.

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Speaker 3: It's blood everywhere on these sheets. You mess these sheets?

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Speaker 2: And what are you doing? I'm sorry, hey, I just

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Speaker 2: trying to leave your ass sleep is what I was

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Speaker 2: trying to do. My bag. God, let me going to

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Speaker 2: the hospital and get these eighty five stitches put in

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Speaker 2: my shoulder.

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Speaker 1: Come on backt like on it I had.

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Speaker 2: I had most of the meat in my mouth, so

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Speaker 2: they was able to pack it, dunk on and restructure

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Speaker 2: my shoulder.

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Speaker 1: Go ahead, all right? You know, like compliment with him

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Speaker 1: when he does something well, that's a good way to

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Speaker 1: get him to open up, Like yeah, like, you know,

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Speaker 1: compliment other things he does well, you know, in case

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Speaker 1: he's self conscious or something. You know, oh honey, I

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Speaker 1: like the way you did this, or you know.

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Speaker 2: Whatever, whatever, that's all you're gonna do.

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Speaker 3: That's what you've heard. That's what I like.

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Speaker 1: That's what you get to.

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Speaker 2: Who told you to put that on?

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Speaker 3: Told me one time you got on full different blacks.

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Speaker 3: Them blacks, right, that's full different blacks you got on

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Speaker 3: them pants. Gonna go with that jacket, that shirt that's

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Speaker 3: full different blacks. Yeah, that's ugly.

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Speaker 1: That's going away T shirts around where you going?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all of a sudden, you just gonna put on

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Speaker 1: a clean T shirt. Now the blue changing behavior, all right,

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Speaker 1: You got to pick the right time. Okay, don't start

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Speaker 1: asking him about his feelings when he's rushed or when

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Speaker 1: he's distracted or watching the game and stuff like that.

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Speaker 4: You gotta ease into it. Ladies, Hestad, it is right here.

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Speaker 4: So you just gonna sit there and ain't gonna talk

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Speaker 4: to me. Well, I'm watching the damn game. Oh the

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Speaker 4: game is more important than me. Yes, yes, I know it.

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Speaker 3: Before you go to work, we need to talk.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this game is pretty big. They're only gonna play this.

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Speaker 3: Well, yeah, did you actually say those words?

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Speaker 2: But you're getting said.

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Speaker 1: Here's another one. Watch your approach, how you approach it.

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Speaker 1: Don't just push it down his throat, you know. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: be gentle, be non judgmental. You know you want him

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Speaker 1: to open up. You don't want him to run away

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Speaker 1: from the conversation because you sure.

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Speaker 2: Don't want to put that down your throat. You don't

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Speaker 2: want to, don't you done? Out right?

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Speaker 1: Hello, and watch your body language, ladies. We're just moving on.

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Speaker 1: We're just moving on.

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Speaker 3: Watch, yes, watch.

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Speaker 1: Your body language, you know, yeah, keep yourself cool, keep

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Speaker 1: your know, don't forget. You're trying to make him feel

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Speaker 1: safe and not judged. Okay, so you know'll be cool

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Speaker 1: about it. Yeah, okay, I'm learning.

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Speaker 2: It's good.

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Speaker 1: You got that one.

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Speaker 3: See if you're cool with that one.

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Speaker 4: Watch your body language, Watch your body lank.

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Speaker 1: Do you hear me talking to you? You're listening Morning

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Speaker 1: show