1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:03,240 Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Becca Tilly and Tanya rad and I 2 00:00:03,400 --> 00:00:07,360 Speaker 1: Heart Radio and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast 3 00:00:09,000 --> 00:00:29,200 Speaker 1: Ladies and chun on back a Tillia Baby, Baby Baby, 4 00:00:29,280 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 1: how you do da? Oh my god? We Okay, So 5 00:01:00,760 --> 00:01:03,280 Speaker 1: we were kind of like a little worried because this 6 00:01:03,400 --> 00:01:05,400 Speaker 1: is a smaller venue than in San Francisco, So we 7 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:12,319 Speaker 1: were like, are they going to be excited with, like, wow, 8 00:01:13,560 --> 00:01:20,400 Speaker 1: you guys, you' all sold out the roxy we're at, 9 00:01:20,480 --> 00:01:26,960 Speaker 1: shearing at Jason at Sharon is who we are apparently, 10 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:34,080 Speaker 1: um we're scrubbing in live everybody. Um I also would 11 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 1: just like to point out that, um, I have the 12 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:42,800 Speaker 1: red microphone tonight and I have the yellow to match. 13 00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 1: Are beautiful shirts. Um So do you'll ever have those 14 00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:54,560 Speaker 1: like expectations versus reality moments in your life? Okay all 15 00:01:54,560 --> 00:01:58,280 Speaker 1: the time? Right? Um So, Tanya, I was like, as 16 00:01:58,320 --> 00:02:03,920 Speaker 1: Tanya would, I really want us to be cohesive. You know, 17 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:07,320 Speaker 1: I love cohesion, and I'm gonna get his shirts made 18 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:12,960 Speaker 1: for the l A show. So cute obviously, Okay, thank you, 19 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 1: thank you, you're wearing. The thing that happened though, was 20 00:02:19,120 --> 00:02:22,280 Speaker 1: that um I just let her roll with it, so 21 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:28,120 Speaker 1: mistake number one. Um, she comes over today and brings 22 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 1: the shirts. This is a lot today this morning, and 23 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:39,280 Speaker 1: this is um what we got a beautiful nightgown. Um, 24 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 1: so yeah that's what we wanted. No, So what I 25 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:44,440 Speaker 1: thought was she told me the idea, and I thought 26 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 1: it was gonna be tiny little pictures of our face, 27 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:49,400 Speaker 1: like if you were close you could see what it was. 28 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:53,520 Speaker 1: Otherwise it just looked like a printed shirt. So imagine 29 00:02:54,160 --> 00:03:02,360 Speaker 1: my surprise. But here we are because I love mind you, 30 00:03:02,600 --> 00:03:08,160 Speaker 1: mind you scrubbing in sister made us these like mock ups. Yeah, 31 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:10,760 Speaker 1: for like screen savers or for like the background of 32 00:03:10,760 --> 00:03:13,400 Speaker 1: our phones. So it's like really cute. Because I was like, 33 00:03:13,440 --> 00:03:17,320 Speaker 1: we could pay homage, make them very avant garde, Like 34 00:03:17,440 --> 00:03:28,720 Speaker 1: it's so cute. I like them, Thank you, thank you 35 00:03:28,840 --> 00:03:32,760 Speaker 1: so much. In the room would like them. So I 36 00:03:32,760 --> 00:03:34,840 Speaker 1: feel like we could make a profit based on our 37 00:03:34,920 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 1: Tommy listeners. Um, I want to shout out Joe. I 38 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 1: don't know where you are from New York. She flew 39 00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 1: here from New York City just for this. She's fly 40 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:54,160 Speaker 1: She's flying back tomorrow because she has work on Saturday. 41 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 1: I know. So I wanted to shout you out and 42 00:03:57,400 --> 00:03:59,640 Speaker 1: when we do this in New York because I say, 43 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:06,920 Speaker 1: when ryes Um you're coming as our guest, We're just 44 00:04:06,960 --> 00:04:09,480 Speaker 1: gonna make you take one subway ride and that's all 45 00:04:09,720 --> 00:04:11,800 Speaker 1: it's gonna take. Yeah, you know what it means a 46 00:04:11,800 --> 00:04:14,120 Speaker 1: lot like you came. You flew from New York City 47 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:17,640 Speaker 1: to be here, Like that's I love you because I 48 00:04:17,720 --> 00:04:19,880 Speaker 1: actually hate that flight from l A to New York 49 00:04:19,920 --> 00:04:22,359 Speaker 1: so like it really I know what it means to 50 00:04:22,360 --> 00:04:24,640 Speaker 1: get I love that flight. I'm at the cutest man 51 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:28,279 Speaker 1: on my flight back from New York theather. No, not 52 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:30,960 Speaker 1: like that kind of man. He's like married with like 53 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:35,680 Speaker 1: his kids are like forty, Like you know what I mean. Yeah, 54 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:38,840 Speaker 1: like you'd be like yeah, yeah. So I'm curious though, 55 00:04:38,880 --> 00:04:40,680 Speaker 1: based on that, how many of you came from out 56 00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 1: of the l A area. That's crazy? Like how far? 57 00:04:46,320 --> 00:04:58,040 Speaker 1: What are we talking? What? Boston? Atlanta? I thought you 58 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:01,600 Speaker 1: said Santa and I was like, yeah, okay, thank you 59 00:05:01,640 --> 00:05:05,719 Speaker 1: for your sacrifice. The four O five is a bit 60 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:14,160 Speaker 1: wherever from nash so hey, you know, we know what 61 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:16,159 Speaker 1: it means to get here, even just in l A 62 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:17,960 Speaker 1: traffic alone. Wait, so I have to tell you guys 63 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:19,800 Speaker 1: the story I haven't even told Becca this, but it's 64 00:05:19,839 --> 00:05:22,040 Speaker 1: pretty good. So, um, I went to the guy No 65 00:05:22,279 --> 00:05:30,479 Speaker 1: yesterday just for like my whatever, my annual checkup, and 66 00:05:30,640 --> 00:05:32,920 Speaker 1: um so I'm like the least closest with my guy 67 00:05:32,960 --> 00:05:35,040 Speaker 1: No out of all my doctors, which is like shocking, 68 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:38,880 Speaker 1: but like what is it? What defines close? Let you 69 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 1: know how I am just so whatever. She like knows me, 70 00:05:41,160 --> 00:05:44,880 Speaker 1: but she doesn't like me, but she knows. So I 71 00:05:44,960 --> 00:05:46,719 Speaker 1: go in and she like, you know, like I sit 72 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:48,760 Speaker 1: down and she like does the like listen to my 73 00:05:48,839 --> 00:05:50,720 Speaker 1: heart or whatever they do, and then she like, I 74 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:53,400 Speaker 1: lay down, She's like checking my boobs and then she's 75 00:05:53,440 --> 00:05:57,120 Speaker 1: like goes down there and she so we're talking about 76 00:05:57,160 --> 00:05:58,640 Speaker 1: like she's like just catching up. She's like, how is 77 00:05:58,680 --> 00:06:02,719 Speaker 1: the word season? Talking about the oscars everything, and then 78 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:06,080 Speaker 1: she goes, yes, thank you oscars um. And then she 79 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:07,960 Speaker 1: goes down there and she's like someone else is knew 80 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:09,640 Speaker 1: how's your personal life? And I was like, oh, it's 81 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:17,480 Speaker 1: like I have a boyfriend. She goes, she goes, she goes. 82 00:06:17,760 --> 00:06:23,200 Speaker 1: I thought it was weird when you when you didn't say, um, 83 00:06:23,240 --> 00:06:25,680 Speaker 1: that's the most action I've got all year because when 84 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 1: she like every time she would touch give me my 85 00:06:30,480 --> 00:06:32,279 Speaker 1: breast exam. I would like make a joke and be like, 86 00:06:32,320 --> 00:06:34,839 Speaker 1: that's the most action I've had all year. I bet 87 00:06:34,880 --> 00:06:40,919 Speaker 1: she's never heard that one before. And I literally was 88 00:06:40,960 --> 00:06:43,440 Speaker 1: like you did you notice that? And she was like yeah, 89 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:45,760 Speaker 1: I thought. I just was like waiting for it, and 90 00:06:45,760 --> 00:06:50,480 Speaker 1: I was like, more action now, thanks, Dr C A moment. 91 00:06:50,600 --> 00:06:53,400 Speaker 1: It was a moment. Are we like just so happy 92 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:59,400 Speaker 1: that Tony has a boyfriend and Tonny Tonny just that 93 00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:04,880 Speaker 1: why I I recently met him. What do you think? 94 00:07:05,279 --> 00:07:13,280 Speaker 1: He's awesome? He's really awesome. Yeah, he's really really really great. 95 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:16,160 Speaker 1: So we're you know, she went into the whole relationship 96 00:07:16,200 --> 00:07:18,720 Speaker 1: without me meeting him, which felt a little risky. But 97 00:07:19,920 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 1: I know, but I feel like with priors I have 98 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:26,400 Speaker 1: thrown them into the throwing them into the mix too soon, 99 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:31,880 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I'm the mix. Oh look, 100 00:07:31,920 --> 00:07:36,120 Speaker 1: I was getting territorial. I mean I have a plenty 101 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 1: of attention. But when he stopped like making me feel 102 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:48,880 Speaker 1: important by the way, um, golf is my new sport. Okay, 103 00:07:48,920 --> 00:07:52,400 Speaker 1: she worked a golf event, that's what she Yeah, she 104 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:55,280 Speaker 1: didn't play, and thank you so much. I I didn't play. 105 00:07:55,440 --> 00:07:57,200 Speaker 1: I worked it, but I decided it's going to be 106 00:07:57,240 --> 00:08:00,200 Speaker 1: like my new thing because it was so cute and 107 00:08:00,280 --> 00:08:02,840 Speaker 1: like the vibe was just like so me, like I 108 00:08:02,880 --> 00:08:05,320 Speaker 1: felt like very like at home with all the golfers 109 00:08:05,440 --> 00:08:08,680 Speaker 1: minus my heels. Sont heels next time. But so I'm 110 00:08:08,720 --> 00:08:12,440 Speaker 1: going to this golf tournament on Sunday. Oh it's it's 111 00:08:12,520 --> 00:08:14,400 Speaker 1: literally your new it's my new thing. So they were like, oh, 112 00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:15,920 Speaker 1: you were like this was so fun. You want to 113 00:08:15,920 --> 00:08:19,280 Speaker 1: come to the show? Is it a show? Oh? What 114 00:08:19,520 --> 00:08:24,760 Speaker 1: a game? Game competition? Whatever? Uh? Do you want to 115 00:08:24,760 --> 00:08:29,280 Speaker 1: come to the competition this weekend? What is it? Tournament? Tournament? Tournament? 116 00:08:29,520 --> 00:08:31,360 Speaker 1: Thank you so much. They were like, do you want 117 00:08:31,360 --> 00:08:33,160 Speaker 1: to come to the tournament on Sunday? And I was like, 118 00:08:33,240 --> 00:08:36,200 Speaker 1: oh yes. And so Sia, you guys know Sierra, she 119 00:08:36,240 --> 00:08:39,360 Speaker 1: works with us in the morning show. Her husband's like 120 00:08:39,400 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 1: obsessed with golf, like obsessed with golf, and so um, 121 00:08:43,040 --> 00:08:45,560 Speaker 1: I asked my boyfriend if he can't come on Sunday 122 00:08:45,600 --> 00:08:47,959 Speaker 1: so I would know. So I was like, Sarah, give 123 00:08:48,040 --> 00:08:50,439 Speaker 1: him to your husband as like Valentine's and like love 124 00:08:50,480 --> 00:08:54,960 Speaker 1: your sister wife or whatever. So we're all going on Sunday. 125 00:08:55,120 --> 00:08:57,680 Speaker 1: And she calls me today or text me today, and 126 00:08:57,720 --> 00:09:01,480 Speaker 1: she was like, so, um, guess who Eric's bringing us? 127 00:09:01,520 --> 00:09:07,960 Speaker 1: His friend? Yes, oh my god, you have to tell it. 128 00:09:09,880 --> 00:09:19,120 Speaker 1: Ter Chippler. My reaction to I was like, huh, all right, 129 00:09:19,720 --> 00:09:21,840 Speaker 1: we love a golf meet up. We love a golf 130 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:23,760 Speaker 1: meet up, and it's gonna be super cute. But I 131 00:09:23,840 --> 00:09:27,439 Speaker 1: was like, but not like that cute fine, super super 132 00:09:27,440 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 1: fun fine. But I was like that would that would 133 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:34,400 Speaker 1: that would? Yeah? What happened to me? I was like, 134 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:37,400 Speaker 1: is that like Murphy's all or something things like that? 135 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:47,240 Speaker 1: What's Murphy's Law? It was Murphy's Law. Oh, totally Murphy's Law. 136 00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:52,679 Speaker 1: So um. I also got to meet Tanya's sister for 137 00:09:52,760 --> 00:09:58,120 Speaker 1: the very first time tonight. Um And I don't know 138 00:09:58,160 --> 00:10:00,440 Speaker 1: if you remember, we talked about Tommy's sister, you know, 139 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:03,240 Speaker 1: quite often on the podcast, but there's a specific story 140 00:10:03,280 --> 00:10:05,440 Speaker 1: that stands out when we think of Tanya's sister. Yeah, 141 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:07,200 Speaker 1: what do you guys remember? I feel like that podcast 142 00:10:07,280 --> 00:10:11,160 Speaker 1: really really resonated with people because it was about my 143 00:10:11,200 --> 00:10:16,720 Speaker 1: first period, the tampon story. So we asked her to 144 00:10:16,800 --> 00:10:20,160 Speaker 1: come up and share her I you know, like her 145 00:10:20,200 --> 00:10:23,199 Speaker 1: perspective on it because you remember she wouldn't help Tanya 146 00:10:24,160 --> 00:10:29,360 Speaker 1: insert the tampon for the first time, so we gave her. 147 00:10:29,679 --> 00:10:32,280 Speaker 1: We gave her a beverage before she came out. So 148 00:10:32,440 --> 00:10:35,240 Speaker 1: just so you guys know, to preface this, my sister 149 00:10:35,600 --> 00:10:41,240 Speaker 1: is like you talk into the microphone, okay, So yeah, 150 00:10:41,559 --> 00:10:42,880 Speaker 1: we need to give her like a big round of 151 00:10:42,920 --> 00:10:50,280 Speaker 1: a pause because she was not super into the idea. 152 00:10:50,360 --> 00:10:51,960 Speaker 1: So if there's like a Yang and a yang and 153 00:10:52,240 --> 00:10:56,040 Speaker 1: in a sisterhood, it's Yan and Yang, very very true. Yeah, 154 00:10:56,080 --> 00:10:58,040 Speaker 1: so we couldn't be more opposite. So this is very 155 00:10:58,040 --> 00:11:06,839 Speaker 1: scary for her, but I wanted her to share. But everybody, 156 00:11:06,880 --> 00:11:09,880 Speaker 1: when we when we had this podcast, I've never laughed harder. 157 00:11:10,679 --> 00:11:13,040 Speaker 1: So I was I was like about to a gag 158 00:11:13,200 --> 00:11:15,520 Speaker 1: really hard. When a gag when I laugh really hard 159 00:11:15,559 --> 00:11:18,160 Speaker 1: to just I don't know if that happens everyone. Um, 160 00:11:18,200 --> 00:11:20,000 Speaker 1: I thought it did until I brought that up in someone. 161 00:11:20,280 --> 00:11:24,559 Speaker 1: Yeah it doesn't, she says in the pro room. But 162 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:28,080 Speaker 1: I was gagging. I was like tearing. I was, I 163 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:31,880 Speaker 1: think because I related a lot to your sister. And 164 00:11:32,280 --> 00:11:36,120 Speaker 1: oh yeah, because I'm I've asked Becca to do. It's 165 00:11:36,200 --> 00:11:39,679 Speaker 1: not not insert tampons in me, but I've asked Becca 166 00:11:39,720 --> 00:11:42,800 Speaker 1: to do questionable things. What you've asked me to do 167 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:45,200 Speaker 1: your hair. That's like the extent of I haven't asked 168 00:11:45,240 --> 00:11:48,280 Speaker 1: you to apply anything anywhere weird, No, not, no, I 169 00:11:48,320 --> 00:11:52,480 Speaker 1: won't do it, so I think he away. So anyways, Um, 170 00:11:52,520 --> 00:11:55,680 Speaker 1: because you would not put the tampon in me, I 171 00:11:55,720 --> 00:11:58,040 Speaker 1: decided that you should share your side of the story 172 00:11:58,080 --> 00:12:00,840 Speaker 1: as to why you did not do that, because I 173 00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:05,360 Speaker 1: think everybody agreed with me. That no one agreed, I 174 00:12:05,520 --> 00:12:08,720 Speaker 1: was saying, most people disagreed. So there are just some 175 00:12:08,800 --> 00:12:11,240 Speaker 1: things that you need to learn by trial and error. 176 00:12:11,400 --> 00:12:13,240 Speaker 1: There are just some things you have to learn on 177 00:12:13,280 --> 00:12:16,200 Speaker 1: your But it was my first period, her first period. 178 00:12:16,200 --> 00:12:19,440 Speaker 1: But if anybody knows, if anyone knows Tanya, they know 179 00:12:19,520 --> 00:12:23,240 Speaker 1: that she's a little impatient. And the first day ever 180 00:12:23,360 --> 00:12:25,920 Speaker 1: that she got her period, she wanted to go to 181 00:12:25,920 --> 00:12:29,040 Speaker 1: a pool party. I couldn't miss the pool. She didn't 182 00:12:29,080 --> 00:12:33,160 Speaker 1: want to miss the pool party always and I had 183 00:12:33,200 --> 00:12:35,680 Speaker 1: just come back from studying abroad. So that's why I 184 00:12:35,720 --> 00:12:39,080 Speaker 1: had the obie tampons. Okay, everyone had a reaction. I 185 00:12:39,240 --> 00:12:41,520 Speaker 1: was curious, like why did you have the OBEs? Like 186 00:12:41,640 --> 00:12:49,160 Speaker 1: who buys those aliens? Those right here? What's your name? 187 00:12:51,240 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 1: What is it? What's her name? Morgan buys obie tampon too. 188 00:12:58,080 --> 00:13:02,600 Speaker 1: We're not here to shame, No shame, no shaming. We 189 00:13:02,679 --> 00:13:06,520 Speaker 1: sat in the bathroom, We opened the little pamphlet, We 190 00:13:06,600 --> 00:13:10,000 Speaker 1: looked at the pictures. I showed her how you do it, 191 00:13:10,280 --> 00:13:12,920 Speaker 1: I you know, kind of like I tried to sample, 192 00:13:13,000 --> 00:13:16,600 Speaker 1: you know, kind of show her the techniques, the technique, 193 00:13:16,640 --> 00:13:18,400 Speaker 1: but she wouldn't even have it. She wouldn't have it. 194 00:13:18,440 --> 00:13:21,280 Speaker 1: I was going somewhere else. So then I gave her 195 00:13:21,320 --> 00:13:24,280 Speaker 1: some extra and went on my way. She called me 196 00:13:24,320 --> 00:13:27,560 Speaker 1: really excited, saying that she figured it out and she 197 00:13:27,679 --> 00:13:30,000 Speaker 1: was going to the pool party, and so I was like, fantastic, 198 00:13:30,080 --> 00:13:33,680 Speaker 1: that's great, good job um. And then later that night 199 00:13:33,840 --> 00:13:36,440 Speaker 1: she was like, I think I did something wrong. It 200 00:13:36,760 --> 00:13:41,080 Speaker 1: filled with water, so it was completely soaked with water. Said, 201 00:13:41,120 --> 00:13:43,840 Speaker 1: you definitely did something wrong. But the problem was that 202 00:13:44,000 --> 00:13:46,560 Speaker 1: later when I told my dad this story about how funny, like, 203 00:13:46,600 --> 00:13:48,760 Speaker 1: how is it possible that someone would want me to 204 00:13:48,800 --> 00:13:52,800 Speaker 1: insert a tampon for them? She my dad was like, 205 00:13:52,880 --> 00:13:54,960 Speaker 1: you definitely should have done that to her. That was 206 00:13:55,000 --> 00:13:58,040 Speaker 1: like a bad sister move. You are the worst sister 207 00:13:58,360 --> 00:14:00,360 Speaker 1: that you did not help your sister out with that 208 00:14:00,760 --> 00:14:09,560 Speaker 1: was like, my sisters are here. Would y'all ever ask 209 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:17,280 Speaker 1: or expect such things? Talking about says, Okay, if Becca 210 00:14:17,440 --> 00:14:20,840 Speaker 1: needed you to help her insert a tampon, you would 211 00:14:20,880 --> 00:14:23,880 Speaker 1: do it. I helped you. I helped you do it. 212 00:14:24,920 --> 00:14:28,080 Speaker 1: I just did not do it for you. You would 213 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:32,680 Speaker 1: do it for her. Caroline said, no, he is questionable. 214 00:14:33,480 --> 00:14:38,880 Speaker 1: He's like what boundaries. They're saying boundaries. Yeah, we're fat. 215 00:14:39,000 --> 00:14:41,760 Speaker 1: It was one thing that we Yeah, your dad with 216 00:14:42,200 --> 00:14:48,760 Speaker 1: my dad agreed, which I thought it where it comes from? 217 00:14:48,800 --> 00:14:55,680 Speaker 1: I think obviously sure, Dad's pure. Um. Okay, I know 218 00:14:55,760 --> 00:14:58,000 Speaker 1: that was really hard for you, So I really appreciate 219 00:14:58,000 --> 00:15:05,640 Speaker 1: you coming. I have a clo. She did have some 220 00:15:05,800 --> 00:15:13,880 Speaker 1: vodka before this, And just a preface, my sister is 221 00:15:13,920 --> 00:15:17,400 Speaker 1: like the most amazing human on the planet. Like literally, 222 00:15:17,960 --> 00:15:23,120 Speaker 1: you don't get much better than that. She's amazing, grateful 223 00:15:23,360 --> 00:15:27,920 Speaker 1: for her guidance in my life. Lord knows I need it. 224 00:15:29,400 --> 00:15:36,160 Speaker 1: You're you're you're your own version of anyone. Do you 225 00:15:36,160 --> 00:15:37,760 Speaker 1: feel do you feel like you have a new glow 226 00:15:37,840 --> 00:15:41,720 Speaker 1: with the like boyfriend thing, because everyone I posted a 227 00:15:41,760 --> 00:15:44,560 Speaker 1: photo of you and they were like, Tonya has a 228 00:15:44,640 --> 00:15:48,760 Speaker 1: new boyfriend glow. I think that's friend. Like I've always like, 229 00:15:48,800 --> 00:15:51,160 Speaker 1: what don't even a man to have a glow? Thank 230 00:15:51,200 --> 00:15:56,440 Speaker 1: you so much? Who go reach? I'm like, she goes 231 00:15:56,480 --> 00:16:02,280 Speaker 1: to the inferenceaana Um, No, I don't think. I don't 232 00:16:02,280 --> 00:16:04,800 Speaker 1: think I have a globe. But I definitely think I'm 233 00:16:04,920 --> 00:16:11,360 Speaker 1: very very happy you're very happy. I know. I feel 234 00:16:11,400 --> 00:16:18,840 Speaker 1: like we should name him something. M h, you have 235 00:16:18,880 --> 00:16:21,720 Speaker 1: an idea? Do you want to say it in the 236 00:16:21,760 --> 00:16:24,160 Speaker 1: microphone or to my ear? Do you think it's like 237 00:16:24,320 --> 00:16:31,200 Speaker 1: maybe a color? Like what? What? Do I like what 238 00:16:31,240 --> 00:16:36,000 Speaker 1: you're doing? Red? Like? Maybe a red? I like red? 239 00:16:36,120 --> 00:16:40,400 Speaker 1: Maybe like a red um like star red star. I 240 00:16:40,480 --> 00:16:45,560 Speaker 1: see what you're doing there and what Sorry to our 241 00:16:45,600 --> 00:16:48,720 Speaker 1: listeners when they hear this um for your ear drums, 242 00:16:48,920 --> 00:16:52,560 Speaker 1: but um, I like red Star. It's like puts it 243 00:16:52,600 --> 00:17:01,520 Speaker 1: out there. But oh ye five, we all know Becca 244 00:17:02,320 --> 00:17:13,479 Speaker 1: Becca has found her red starburs. I got a lot 245 00:17:13,560 --> 00:17:17,719 Speaker 1: of messages about that one. I know which No, but 246 00:17:17,760 --> 00:17:20,440 Speaker 1: we've started that in the latest podcast. Yeah, we talked 247 00:17:20,440 --> 00:17:22,919 Speaker 1: about that. You know that they're we're doing the we 248 00:17:23,040 --> 00:17:28,000 Speaker 1: might be doing another game today for y'all. But um, 249 00:17:28,080 --> 00:17:30,000 Speaker 1: they were like, you have to move faster, and I'm like, well, 250 00:17:30,040 --> 00:17:32,560 Speaker 1: y'all are asking questions that consider a lot of thought 251 00:17:32,720 --> 00:17:35,960 Speaker 1: for me. So I'm either gonna be wasted taking shots 252 00:17:36,000 --> 00:17:37,760 Speaker 1: if you wanted to be fast, or you gotta give 253 00:17:37,760 --> 00:17:40,199 Speaker 1: me just a little bit of time to you know, 254 00:17:40,280 --> 00:17:42,840 Speaker 1: go through that. I mean, I think personally Becca's had 255 00:17:43,080 --> 00:17:44,879 Speaker 1: a glow about her. Do you guys think she's had 256 00:17:44,920 --> 00:17:50,280 Speaker 1: a glow? And it's been around for about you're in 257 00:17:50,280 --> 00:17:53,879 Speaker 1: a half. I don't know if I've talked about how 258 00:17:53,880 --> 00:18:02,960 Speaker 1: long it's been. Alright you're now, Um, yeah, I'm very 259 00:18:03,200 --> 00:18:05,679 Speaker 1: I'm so happy. We're both so happy. I know in 260 00:18:05,720 --> 00:18:13,119 Speaker 1: what world this one? This one at the Roxy. Um, 261 00:18:13,160 --> 00:18:16,639 Speaker 1: so we have a really big show for you all tonight. 262 00:18:16,920 --> 00:18:20,760 Speaker 1: We really Yeah, we like had our names out there 263 00:18:20,880 --> 00:18:25,720 Speaker 1: on the what's it called Maru Marquis the Marquis has 264 00:18:25,760 --> 00:18:27,800 Speaker 1: our name or or you know the podcast on it 265 00:18:27,880 --> 00:18:51,200 Speaker 1: and we are here to bring it for global basically, Hey, 266 00:18:51,240 --> 00:18:53,680 Speaker 1: do you want to do the honors? Yeah, So this 267 00:18:53,840 --> 00:18:56,400 Speaker 1: guess that we have for you all tonight. We are 268 00:18:57,119 --> 00:19:01,440 Speaker 1: so excited to have her here to celebrate Gallantine's Day. 269 00:19:01,480 --> 00:19:07,679 Speaker 1: By the way, UM, I would love for you to 270 00:19:07,720 --> 00:19:13,120 Speaker 1: give a huge welcome standing ovation. Please to the one 271 00:19:13,119 --> 00:19:37,280 Speaker 1: and only Miss Hannah Brown. That was a really great welcome. 272 00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:44,800 Speaker 1: Um Our listeners have been wanting you to be on 273 00:19:44,800 --> 00:19:50,240 Speaker 1: the podcast for so long. Yeah, are you prying? No? 274 00:19:50,480 --> 00:19:52,600 Speaker 1: I did so, I mean I could. I'm just so 275 00:19:52,760 --> 00:19:56,600 Speaker 1: excited because the energy is great. It's so good. All 276 00:19:56,800 --> 00:20:02,080 Speaker 1: cool girls and if there's guys are cults. How many 277 00:20:02,119 --> 00:20:07,399 Speaker 1: guys are here tonight? Oh yeah we know. I'm like yeah, yeah, yeah, one, two, three, 278 00:20:08,160 --> 00:20:13,440 Speaker 1: four four awesome. I told woman. I told one of them, 279 00:20:13,480 --> 00:20:15,000 Speaker 1: I said, this is going to be the best night 280 00:20:15,040 --> 00:20:22,359 Speaker 1: of your life. He laughed, sad I will forever be 281 00:20:22,440 --> 00:20:26,760 Speaker 1: the roll tad girl. Like I'm like, I god, I mean, 282 00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:31,000 Speaker 1: I said, probably helped the University of Alabama. Yeah, you've 283 00:20:31,080 --> 00:20:34,160 Speaker 1: increased your applications. Yeah, you've done it all. Yeah. Two 284 00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:43,640 Speaker 1: bad kids guests relive now girl they baby um is 285 00:20:43,960 --> 00:20:51,080 Speaker 1: a Tanya we have discovered, Like, yeah, we're taking photos 286 00:20:51,080 --> 00:20:52,600 Speaker 1: and they did that thing where they both like open 287 00:20:52,640 --> 00:20:55,840 Speaker 1: their mouth and smile at each other with big eyes. Yeah, 288 00:20:55,920 --> 00:21:01,359 Speaker 1: but you did it really intense. But I like appreciated 289 00:21:01,400 --> 00:21:03,560 Speaker 1: it so much because you were like holding my hand 290 00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:09,000 Speaker 1: and like I was like like this, but you do 291 00:21:09,119 --> 00:21:13,600 Speaker 1: it and that's sacrificial. I know. Yeah, I'm really bitter 292 00:21:13,680 --> 00:21:18,320 Speaker 1: about that because I wanted both of their faces online 293 00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:21,879 Speaker 1: is going to be on them. I've already sent a text. 294 00:21:22,920 --> 00:21:25,520 Speaker 1: I mean, it would have been ideal to have it. 295 00:21:25,560 --> 00:21:29,080 Speaker 1: Now that's okay. Yeah, we are limited on time because 296 00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:30,840 Speaker 1: we could talk to you all day. There's a lot 297 00:21:30,880 --> 00:21:33,840 Speaker 1: of questions, but what are you doing right now? What's 298 00:21:33,920 --> 00:21:38,000 Speaker 1: like you went through a whirlwind of reality TV for 299 00:21:38,080 --> 00:21:44,720 Speaker 1: a year twenty nine weeks on Monday's on ABC. Yeah, 300 00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:48,320 Speaker 1: is that for real? That's for real. That's not awesome though. 301 00:21:48,320 --> 00:21:54,040 Speaker 1: That's like just just how much everybody loves you. Yeah maybe, 302 00:21:54,320 --> 00:22:01,119 Speaker 1: um yeah, they're like I love you. Um, so I 303 00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:04,520 Speaker 1: just need to l A like we said, and um 304 00:22:04,800 --> 00:22:08,800 Speaker 1: really just been like getting the couch and last week 305 00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:11,200 Speaker 1: was the first week my TV was not on the ground. 306 00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:16,960 Speaker 1: Just more like making a home. So, um, I love you. 307 00:22:16,960 --> 00:22:19,639 Speaker 1: You've been in Los Angeles for some time now, ye 308 00:22:20,080 --> 00:22:21,879 Speaker 1: do I need to help you build a home? No, 309 00:22:22,080 --> 00:22:24,920 Speaker 1: it's it's actually like coming together. But even though I 310 00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:26,919 Speaker 1: was here, when people asked me how long have you 311 00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:30,560 Speaker 1: been in l A, I'm like, it's complicated because I 312 00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:34,160 Speaker 1: was here, but I was on a TV show. Most 313 00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:36,840 Speaker 1: of the schedules crazy and I had no time. Like 314 00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:39,439 Speaker 1: my parents would come in to watch me on Dancing 315 00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:41,760 Speaker 1: with the Stars and stuff and I'd be like uh 316 00:22:41,880 --> 00:22:46,200 Speaker 1: yeah um, and I would be like, I love you. 317 00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:48,920 Speaker 1: I'm probably not going to see you until like ten 318 00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:53,199 Speaker 1: o'clock at night, so uh, have fun. This is the 319 00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:56,159 Speaker 1: codes and I'll see you live and you'll be in 320 00:22:56,160 --> 00:22:59,200 Speaker 1: the front and I would like high five them, hug them, 321 00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:01,159 Speaker 1: and then I had to go back to sleep, and 322 00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:03,080 Speaker 1: it was time to rehearse, and so I was just 323 00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:05,640 Speaker 1: rehearsing all the time. And so I don't feel like 324 00:23:06,040 --> 00:23:10,200 Speaker 1: I really lived in l A that long. But now 325 00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:12,720 Speaker 1: you're here, Janue Wary, I feel like was the first 326 00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:15,800 Speaker 1: time that I actually lived. Did your parents sit on 327 00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:20,639 Speaker 1: the floor or what? How did they? I mean, no, 328 00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:23,520 Speaker 1: they put me in because I knew I only had 329 00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:26,080 Speaker 1: a couch for my Kia and the TV that was 330 00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:29,639 Speaker 1: on the floor, So they put me in a place 331 00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:32,200 Speaker 1: and my parents and I could sleep for the time. 332 00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:36,400 Speaker 1: It was that I need to help you, I know, Yeah, 333 00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:49,960 Speaker 1: yeah I did that. She was the hardest thing ever. Yeah. Wow, 334 00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:52,760 Speaker 1: do you want to ask our our burning question that 335 00:23:52,800 --> 00:23:56,000 Speaker 1: we need to ask her, well, here's the thing, so 336 00:23:56,440 --> 00:23:59,560 Speaker 1: what is it? What is it? What did you say? 337 00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:10,640 Speaker 1: Oh my god, that wasn't my question. But I mean, oh, 338 00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:15,520 Speaker 1: it's there's so it's there's. I mean I feel like 339 00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:18,199 Speaker 1: I've been pretty like open about where I'm at in 340 00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:21,919 Speaker 1: my life. I'm just here in l A, like eating 341 00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:25,960 Speaker 1: Postmates and were officially having our not yet wives club, 342 00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:28,720 Speaker 1: not yet wives Club. That's right, I have to watch 343 00:24:28,760 --> 00:24:31,719 Speaker 1: the show. Yeah, that's right. I'm on a woman. I'm 344 00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:34,040 Speaker 1: gonna wing man. I'm gonna be super cute wing man 345 00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:36,439 Speaker 1: for you. Please. I need help. I don't know how 346 00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:38,680 Speaker 1: to date, which sounds weird for me, but I really 347 00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:40,480 Speaker 1: don't other than one. But I said, I was like, 348 00:24:40,520 --> 00:24:43,720 Speaker 1: I think it's super good, a super good, super cute, 349 00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:45,320 Speaker 1: super good. If we all got we all go out 350 00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:49,600 Speaker 1: in a group and then like I can like talk 351 00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:52,800 Speaker 1: to people, bring them over, and then like you can 352 00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:54,600 Speaker 1: suss it out if you like them, you give us 353 00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:59,960 Speaker 1: a wing and keep so excited about that. Yeah, I'm this. Yeah, 354 00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:02,520 Speaker 1: it has no fear going up to stream, no fear. 355 00:25:02,640 --> 00:25:06,080 Speaker 1: It's so if you point somebody out, I will gather him, 356 00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:10,800 Speaker 1: bring him to you. If you are like I'll be like, honestly, 357 00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:12,879 Speaker 1: I love that because they didn't like I can just 358 00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:16,760 Speaker 1: be like my friend, I know she's so crazy and 359 00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:21,600 Speaker 1: I'm down with that title. Okay, then this can work 360 00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:23,159 Speaker 1: because you were you like one of those kids on 361 00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:24,919 Speaker 1: the leash when you were a little like were there? 362 00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:32,960 Speaker 1: Did you ever put me on a leash? No? No leash? 363 00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:37,800 Speaker 1: Sons leash? So are you are you open to like 364 00:25:37,920 --> 00:25:39,640 Speaker 1: dating apps or are you just like wanting to meet 365 00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:41,840 Speaker 1: someone in the wild. What's your what are you wanting? 366 00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:45,199 Speaker 1: I would love to meet somebody in the wild. So 367 00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:48,639 Speaker 1: when people ask me a lot, like why did you like, 368 00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:52,040 Speaker 1: why do you believe in the show that The Bachelor, 369 00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:57,760 Speaker 1: Bachelorette and all that, I'm like people, I'm like, I 370 00:25:57,800 --> 00:26:00,720 Speaker 1: do believe that love can happen there, but because I 371 00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:03,440 Speaker 1: also believe that people can find love at the coffee shop. 372 00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:05,960 Speaker 1: So I'm just still it didn't work exactly for me 373 00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:07,960 Speaker 1: on that show. So I'm still like just hanging out 374 00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:10,560 Speaker 1: at coffee shops, just waiting to see if I'm like 375 00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:13,399 Speaker 1: the guys there, because I think it just happens like that. 376 00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:18,480 Speaker 1: Sometimes dating apps really scare me. Well, I know, but 377 00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:20,880 Speaker 1: then you've kind of given me hope, because but then 378 00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:23,040 Speaker 1: it's like, Okay, I tell people I want a dating app. 379 00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:27,720 Speaker 1: Who knows who I might match with? And then what 380 00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:31,119 Speaker 1: if they're scary? And then but the thing is like, 381 00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:32,640 Speaker 1: what if you met someone at a bar, they could 382 00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:36,080 Speaker 1: be a serial killer? And hello. Even the people that 383 00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:38,240 Speaker 1: were on my season, for me, some of them were 384 00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:44,560 Speaker 1: kind of scary. So it like, I think it's just 385 00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:49,360 Speaker 1: they're scary everywhere. So I've gotta I've gotta go through 386 00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:52,679 Speaker 1: the jungle. I always sayre a numbers game. Remember, I 387 00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:55,359 Speaker 1: always do, like my weird like numbers game, and it 388 00:26:55,359 --> 00:26:58,840 Speaker 1: always turns out weird. But like, okay, so there's a 389 00:26:58,880 --> 00:27:01,400 Speaker 1: hundred men in the room. I have the hundred. How 390 00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:06,719 Speaker 1: many of them are you physically attracted to? Ten? Okay? Wow, wow, 391 00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:12,280 Speaker 1: generated yeah, Okay, I'm trying to be like nice here. Okay, 392 00:27:12,320 --> 00:27:14,679 Speaker 1: so ten out of those hundred, and you are attracted 393 00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:17,160 Speaker 1: to ten. Out of those ten, how many of those 394 00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:22,320 Speaker 1: will you actually click with personally? Five? Five? So out 395 00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:26,959 Speaker 1: of those five, if you're meeting zero men, what are 396 00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:30,880 Speaker 1: your odds here? Oh? Yeah, like I've met zero man, Right, 397 00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:34,639 Speaker 1: I'm saying, it's like, you know what I mean that's 398 00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:42,439 Speaker 1: a weird method. I've got it because saying like like, 399 00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:45,320 Speaker 1: if you meet a hundred people, if you're only attracted, 400 00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:49,040 Speaker 1: maybe we should put out applications. No, okay, this is 401 00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:50,919 Speaker 1: what you know. You don't want that because like you 402 00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:53,280 Speaker 1: already probably a freak sliding in your d ms that 403 00:27:53,320 --> 00:28:00,560 Speaker 1: are like people sounds sad. No sounding sounds sad. Okay, No, 404 00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:02,840 Speaker 1: I don't think I have one of those profiles that 405 00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:04,960 Speaker 1: guys are like, oh yeah, I want to slide into 406 00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:08,680 Speaker 1: that d M. I'm definitely more like no, no, no, 407 00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:12,359 Speaker 1: you'd be surprised. No, I'm such a girl's girl. Like 408 00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:16,399 Speaker 1: if there's nothing about I'm like, oh look at me. Huh, 409 00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:19,480 Speaker 1: let me tell you my phone hold on hammah Brown. 410 00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:21,480 Speaker 1: I bet you if I dig through your d M s, 411 00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:26,280 Speaker 1: I could find some good guys in there, because I'm 412 00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:29,159 Speaker 1: the same. There's nothing about my profile that says like 413 00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:34,639 Speaker 1: let me tap that out. I'm telling you, but you 414 00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:37,879 Speaker 1: right through them. No, no, but I've been telling your 415 00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:39,240 Speaker 1: to get on hande. You don't even get me wrong 416 00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:41,640 Speaker 1: on that. But I'm not here to say that the 417 00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:45,400 Speaker 1: sliding into the d MS does work. Does work. That's 418 00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:52,520 Speaker 1: my current situation. As well, So I really really we met. 419 00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:59,000 Speaker 1: We connected again? Was the d M slide. I don't 420 00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:06,520 Speaker 1: know that you exchange numbers that night? Who knew? Yeah, 421 00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:09,400 Speaker 1: I'm not doing anything. I gotta figure this out. Another 422 00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:14,080 Speaker 1: question to look at. Nothing would make me happy, right, dude. Wait, 423 00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:16,360 Speaker 1: there's a lot of crazy in there. I can sit 424 00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:20,600 Speaker 1: through it. Did you see the woman today made fun 425 00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:22,960 Speaker 1: of me as a hillbilly said I was chucking corn 426 00:29:23,040 --> 00:29:25,640 Speaker 1: but sounded and like made it like chucking, like ha ha, 427 00:29:25,880 --> 00:29:28,360 Speaker 1: and it's shucking corn. And so then I found a 428 00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:32,440 Speaker 1: picture of me actually chucking corn and put it on 429 00:29:32,480 --> 00:29:34,520 Speaker 1: there because I did do that, and I'll do it. 430 00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:44,280 Speaker 1: I don't think chucking's hot. That's chuckling, you know what 431 00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:47,840 Speaker 1: it Isn't that another thing? I had a hillbilly, so 432 00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:53,200 Speaker 1: that's better. Hurt people hurt people, so she's just hurt. 433 00:29:53,720 --> 00:29:56,120 Speaker 1: I thought it was hilarious because I knew I had 434 00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:58,680 Speaker 1: that picture of me shucking corn, and I was like, 435 00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:01,840 Speaker 1: this is amazing. Okay, I think that's what we really 436 00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:04,360 Speaker 1: want to know. Though I'm scared. No, no, it's not. 437 00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:08,640 Speaker 1: It's good because I know this is good because I 438 00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:11,760 Speaker 1: personally can't watch any of these girls that are on 439 00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:17,440 Speaker 1: Peter season be the bachelorette you so like, I need 440 00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:23,800 Speaker 1: it to be you next season? Are we down for 441 00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:30,719 Speaker 1: a Hannah by around two? Oh, I thought y'all loved me. 442 00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:35,800 Speaker 1: I'm just kidding, Um yeah, I mean, like, like I said, like, 443 00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:38,760 Speaker 1: I'm still like currently just sitting at a coffee shop 444 00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:41,240 Speaker 1: like this is waiting for somebody to happen. I think 445 00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:46,880 Speaker 1: that being the Bachelor bachelorette is a way too fine love. 446 00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:50,560 Speaker 1: I don't think it's my only option though, of course not, 447 00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:54,200 Speaker 1: so I'm gonna try out. I guess I'm gonna I'm 448 00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:56,840 Speaker 1: still having hope with the coffee thing, like somebody's just 449 00:30:56,960 --> 00:31:01,520 Speaker 1: gonna show up. But I do I think that there 450 00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:03,040 Speaker 1: was a lot of good that came out of it. 451 00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:07,040 Speaker 1: I know, and I honestly, I sincerely know that like you, 452 00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:11,200 Speaker 1: that you really do believe in it, because I remember 453 00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:13,840 Speaker 1: when I was weird, was talking about it for like 454 00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:16,160 Speaker 1: a few minutes about going on the back or you 455 00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:18,480 Speaker 1: reached out and you were like you really I wanted Yeah. 456 00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:20,640 Speaker 1: I was like, it's amazing. Did Yeah. You're like if 457 00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:22,720 Speaker 1: you really like lean into it and you open up 458 00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:24,560 Speaker 1: like it can really work for you. It worked for me, 459 00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:26,600 Speaker 1: like it really can. So I know that like this 460 00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:29,440 Speaker 1: is it's something that, yeah, it works, And I think 461 00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:31,880 Speaker 1: maybe we could have a hand in picking the men. 462 00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:37,920 Speaker 1: That would be because I can really sucks. I can. 463 00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:40,800 Speaker 1: I can tell if someone's like if we could pick 464 00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:43,320 Speaker 1: the guys, the thirty guys, just to make sure, because 465 00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:45,479 Speaker 1: like I would have told you if I knew you 466 00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:48,880 Speaker 1: back then, yeah it was really salty and you're finally 467 00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:53,680 Speaker 1: trust me. I would watch it and be like, no, 468 00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:56,720 Speaker 1: don't do it, but I knew it happened. I would 469 00:31:56,720 --> 00:31:58,400 Speaker 1: be like, oh my god, what do you what do 470 00:31:58,480 --> 00:32:02,360 Speaker 1: you do? But so what I like about it when 471 00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:05,680 Speaker 1: I think that was good for me is like the 472 00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:10,840 Speaker 1: processing of it and being able to let everyone know 473 00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:13,160 Speaker 1: and myself know why I liked each person. I think 474 00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:15,280 Speaker 1: I think that's what's missing a little bit from this season. 475 00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:17,440 Speaker 1: I don't want to talk. I don't want to, but 476 00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:20,959 Speaker 1: like you knew, even if it was like you didn't agree, 477 00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:23,720 Speaker 1: you knew why I liked the person, Like I really did, 478 00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:28,880 Speaker 1: like dive into the men there and tried to like 479 00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:32,160 Speaker 1: give it my all and to be like completely vulnerable 480 00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:35,880 Speaker 1: and with with everyone watching too, Like you knew where 481 00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:39,120 Speaker 1: I was at the whole time, and um, it's because 482 00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:42,000 Speaker 1: I truly was all in, like with everything, even in 483 00:32:42,080 --> 00:32:44,480 Speaker 1: moments I was very honest, like I'm not all in. 484 00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:46,680 Speaker 1: I'm trying to be, but I'm scared, and like, I 485 00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:50,920 Speaker 1: just think that's really important. If you're going to be 486 00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:55,240 Speaker 1: you know, everybody's going to be invest in your life 487 00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:57,400 Speaker 1: and you're doing it for the right reason, you gotta 488 00:32:57,440 --> 00:33:00,320 Speaker 1: go all in. You can't care about I can't being 489 00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:02,520 Speaker 1: in your face because like at the end of the day, 490 00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:05,840 Speaker 1: that camera's going to be gone and you still might 491 00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:08,120 Speaker 1: have something near your teeth or booking in your nose, 492 00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:13,320 Speaker 1: and you gotta like your nose would manifest it. Now, 493 00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:20,360 Speaker 1: what are you looking for? Oh god, she's sweating. I am, 494 00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:24,040 Speaker 1: I'm literally sweating. And then this is like putting me 495 00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:26,880 Speaker 1: on the spot. No, this is easy though. I can't 496 00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:29,320 Speaker 1: take my coat off because um, I had to have 497 00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:32,960 Speaker 1: my person that in my makeup like basically color matched me. 498 00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:36,800 Speaker 1: And if I took my jacket all it's gonna be different. 499 00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:40,840 Speaker 1: It would be a totally different color. So I just 500 00:33:40,880 --> 00:33:44,120 Speaker 1: sweat it out, gonna sweat. So if you see like 501 00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:49,400 Speaker 1: droplets of the color not being the same don't worry 502 00:33:49,440 --> 00:33:57,280 Speaker 1: about but I like, my arms are completely white. I 503 00:33:57,320 --> 00:34:02,880 Speaker 1: can't take it all that is, Um, what was the question? 504 00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:05,680 Speaker 1: I tried a larger sidetrack what is manifesting? So like 505 00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:15,760 Speaker 1: give us like dream scenario, like what's he really? Uh? Look, 506 00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:18,200 Speaker 1: I realized and I can even like point this out 507 00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:21,000 Speaker 1: for myself, like I go back to the comfortable and 508 00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:24,920 Speaker 1: there's a type And um, that doesn't mean that I 509 00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:27,600 Speaker 1: still won't like Mary or be with a southern guy. 510 00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:31,520 Speaker 1: But that's not like I keep going to what's comfortable. 511 00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:34,520 Speaker 1: I think I had different other options. I hate saying 512 00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:36,960 Speaker 1: that sounds so weird, but like other guys that I 513 00:34:37,040 --> 00:34:41,680 Speaker 1: was very um attracted to and could have had a 514 00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:46,160 Speaker 1: maybe a lot of life with, but they weren't comfortable, 515 00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:49,399 Speaker 1: And I think, like what's comfortable with? You know, like 516 00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:53,040 Speaker 1: they were not safe, Like they weren't what I knew 517 00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:56,160 Speaker 1: Like I when you think, oh, like who do you 518 00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:59,320 Speaker 1: picture yourself with? What I could picture myself with people 519 00:34:59,800 --> 00:35:01,799 Speaker 1: that had the same type of life that I did 520 00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:06,160 Speaker 1: growing up. I couldn't picture myself the other with some 521 00:35:06,200 --> 00:35:08,279 Speaker 1: of the other guys that I had relationships with because 522 00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:10,239 Speaker 1: it was so new and that was scary so I 523 00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:12,680 Speaker 1: think now when I think about what do I want, 524 00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:19,480 Speaker 1: I want somebody that like is like, yeah, girl, go 525 00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:22,759 Speaker 1: do your thing. It is so supportive and not like 526 00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:26,520 Speaker 1: envious of that are jealous, but has his own thing 527 00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:29,120 Speaker 1: that he's also passionate about. I think that's like one 528 00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:31,520 Speaker 1: of the big things is like he's passionate about something. 529 00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:33,880 Speaker 1: I'm passionate and doing my thing, and we can support 530 00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:37,920 Speaker 1: each other and that somebody has the same values as me, 531 00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:40,680 Speaker 1: and like my faith is very important to me, and 532 00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:45,799 Speaker 1: um can can encourage that and like help me and 533 00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:48,400 Speaker 1: encourage me to be the person that I can be 534 00:35:48,520 --> 00:35:52,480 Speaker 1: and not just like I don't know it just wants 535 00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:54,640 Speaker 1: me to be a better person and helps me be that, 536 00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:56,040 Speaker 1: and I can be that for him. And then somebody 537 00:35:56,040 --> 00:36:01,880 Speaker 1: that's freaking fun. Don't cry, No, don't cry. I know, 538 00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:06,120 Speaker 1: but it's like I, um, you can find that I do. 539 00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:08,759 Speaker 1: I do believe it, and I do I have I 540 00:36:08,840 --> 00:36:11,080 Speaker 1: have hope in it. But then this is like the 541 00:36:11,120 --> 00:36:14,120 Speaker 1: side part of like that's all sweet, like what I want, 542 00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:17,960 Speaker 1: but I also want somebody that like will play pranks 543 00:36:18,000 --> 00:36:21,799 Speaker 1: with me and like like lead leave me in the 544 00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:24,520 Speaker 1: grocery store, like leave me in the grocery store and 545 00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:26,400 Speaker 1: might be like, come find me and I have to 546 00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:29,560 Speaker 1: run around the grocery store, or like roll down the 547 00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:31,520 Speaker 1: window and be like you have to jump in the car. 548 00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:41,719 Speaker 1: I want somebody like that, thanks to but like, but 549 00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:46,960 Speaker 1: maybe a child. That is what you need, a baby, 550 00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:52,200 Speaker 1: all like somebody who can be childlike and fun and 551 00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:54,480 Speaker 1: and and like do weird dances. I don't know why 552 00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:58,280 Speaker 1: I just did that, but be like weird and dance 553 00:36:58,360 --> 00:37:03,040 Speaker 1: with me and silly and that. I think you're gonna 554 00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:05,560 Speaker 1: find him, And I think I just think about this. 555 00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:09,440 Speaker 1: I'm just thinking about the bruises of jumping into the 556 00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:12,839 Speaker 1: open window. But but it would all be filmed because 557 00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:16,920 Speaker 1: it would be so funny by like a production like 558 00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:20,239 Speaker 1: you oh he wouldn't film and not helped me in. 559 00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:25,479 Speaker 1: But it was also loving, like it's all in love. 560 00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:30,040 Speaker 1: Yeah I would At that point, like I was like, yeah, 561 00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:35,200 Speaker 1: well I would do the same stuff bad. I'm just look, yeah, 562 00:37:35,320 --> 00:37:37,400 Speaker 1: I also has the qualities that you're looking for on 563 00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:42,600 Speaker 1: a more serious reciprocity. Reciprocity so not my strong word. 564 00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:46,040 Speaker 1: Smith is not my middle name. Before Hannah went on 565 00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:49,600 Speaker 1: The Bachelor, she called me and because we have a 566 00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:51,799 Speaker 1: mutual friend, and my mutual friend was like, Hey, do 567 00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:56,400 Speaker 1: you care if our friend Kammy um Miller that works 568 00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:59,600 Speaker 1: for Owens show me your mumu and she um was like, 569 00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:02,600 Speaker 1: can I of Hannah? This girl Hannah, she's friends from Alabama? 570 00:38:02,640 --> 00:38:04,359 Speaker 1: Can I give her your number? And so I said sure, 571 00:38:04,400 --> 00:38:06,520 Speaker 1: So she called. We talked for a long time. It 572 00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:08,600 Speaker 1: was like over an hour because I remember get off 573 00:38:08,600 --> 00:38:11,080 Speaker 1: the phone and being like, she's so nice, like she 574 00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:13,080 Speaker 1: didn't have to talk to me, and you did, and 575 00:38:13,120 --> 00:38:16,799 Speaker 1: it was the it was the biggest thing, like the 576 00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:18,880 Speaker 1: biggest thing for me, you have no idea of like 577 00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:22,319 Speaker 1: just that. I was like, oh my god, like you 578 00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:24,239 Speaker 1: thought you were so beautiful and did so great and 579 00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:26,560 Speaker 1: like just giving me the insight you did it meant 580 00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:29,479 Speaker 1: a lot to me. I wasn't prepared for the compliments. Yeah, 581 00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:31,839 Speaker 1: I was just saying I actually thought it was so 582 00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:34,719 Speaker 1: I thought it was so funny because I kind of 583 00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:38,000 Speaker 1: was like, you know, be more cautious because production there edit, 584 00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:39,880 Speaker 1: they're making a TV show, like, you know, just be 585 00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:43,200 Speaker 1: aware of what's going on. And you were so unapologetically yourself, 586 00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:45,560 Speaker 1: which I feel like I kind of held back on 587 00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:48,160 Speaker 1: that for that reason and so I remember thinking, like, 588 00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:50,279 Speaker 1: I'm glad she didn't listen to me. She really did 589 00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:52,600 Speaker 1: her own Honestly, I would think I didn't listen to 590 00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:57,719 Speaker 1: her sheet You always have to listen to back up, 591 00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:01,000 Speaker 1: I know. But also y'all wit and get all the 592 00:39:01,080 --> 00:39:06,479 Speaker 1: weird like means of me roaring and stuff. So that day, 593 00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:08,880 Speaker 1: when all that happened to me, I thought about what 594 00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:10,920 Speaker 1: you said a lot, and I stayed to my pajamas 595 00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:14,600 Speaker 1: for four days, and I'm like, I am the scary 596 00:39:14,600 --> 00:39:17,239 Speaker 1: I'm the crazy girl on the show and there's a 597 00:39:17,239 --> 00:39:19,279 Speaker 1: lot of crazy and I turned into it and I 598 00:39:19,320 --> 00:39:22,680 Speaker 1: thought of you and that I should have listened to Becca. 599 00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:27,239 Speaker 1: All kind of worked out in a weird worked out, 600 00:39:27,520 --> 00:39:30,600 Speaker 1: just so you know, I say that often. Really, Yeah, 601 00:39:30,719 --> 00:39:33,120 Speaker 1: I was like, damn it, I should have listened to Becca. Yeah, 602 00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:36,080 Speaker 1: but it seemed like but I actually I was doing 603 00:39:36,120 --> 00:39:39,560 Speaker 1: a devotional this morning and weird, I mean not weird. 604 00:39:39,560 --> 00:39:42,600 Speaker 1: It's just I'm bringing that up. But um, sorry, I 605 00:39:42,680 --> 00:39:47,920 Speaker 1: just talk in circles all the time. But the scrubses 606 00:39:47,960 --> 00:39:54,520 Speaker 1: are fine, we get it. Yeah, Um, but that's saying 607 00:39:54,560 --> 00:39:56,480 Speaker 1: I feel like it is my motto of like it's 608 00:39:56,560 --> 00:39:58,520 Speaker 1: seemed like such a good idea at the time. Like 609 00:39:58,640 --> 00:40:01,759 Speaker 1: at the time I it, it it was totally normal to 610 00:40:01,880 --> 00:40:07,680 Speaker 1: roar so funny, and you know that after oh my gosh, 611 00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:09,719 Speaker 1: I should have done it. But that's just how like 612 00:40:09,800 --> 00:40:12,279 Speaker 1: my life has been and I've learned so much more 613 00:40:12,400 --> 00:40:15,080 Speaker 1: from that. But and it's made it kind of more fun. 614 00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:19,520 Speaker 1: But yeah, that's it's to watch you. Okay, So we 615 00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:22,759 Speaker 1: have homework now. So we have homework. We're going to 616 00:40:22,840 --> 00:40:26,680 Speaker 1: have a not yet Wives Club official meeting next week 617 00:40:27,120 --> 00:40:30,080 Speaker 1: next year, next week. Yeah, I'm putting something in the 618 00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:32,359 Speaker 1: calendar so that you can't wheezele out of it. No, 619 00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:36,359 Speaker 1: do it. All I'm doing is trying to find other 620 00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:39,960 Speaker 1: things that put on my wall and watching Netflix shows. 621 00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:42,600 Speaker 1: I think I can pencil you in pencil listen because 622 00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:44,960 Speaker 1: it's going to be like really cute. And then um, 623 00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:47,280 Speaker 1: we'll start a petition to make you the next Bachelor 624 00:40:47,400 --> 00:40:51,440 Speaker 1: because I won't watch otherwise we want you as a 625 00:40:51,480 --> 00:40:57,880 Speaker 1: bachelor at again. She just said, yeah, I said that. 626 00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:00,880 Speaker 1: I don't know if I would do it right now. 627 00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:03,520 Speaker 1: I'm really trying to focus on like what I have 628 00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:06,800 Speaker 1: right now, and that's like building a home and working 629 00:41:06,800 --> 00:41:10,799 Speaker 1: on other opportunities. That like what I might have not 630 00:41:10,880 --> 00:41:14,640 Speaker 1: found love, but I did find like myself and that's why, 631 00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:17,520 Speaker 1: Yeah I did. I did, and like I have more 632 00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:21,240 Speaker 1: confidence of what I can do and in like working 633 00:41:21,280 --> 00:41:27,200 Speaker 1: towards that, I got like a weird I guess platform 634 00:41:27,280 --> 00:41:28,799 Speaker 1: to have a career in a way I never thought 635 00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:31,520 Speaker 1: I wouldn't be able to have a community that I 636 00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:35,359 Speaker 1: that's so great that supports me, like my team haying 637 00:41:35,400 --> 00:41:39,399 Speaker 1: to be people are like the best and so like 638 00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:42,359 Speaker 1: have my back and I love it so like just 639 00:41:42,520 --> 00:41:46,200 Speaker 1: really focusing on that I don't need a man. I 640 00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:49,000 Speaker 1: want a man, and I think that's okay, don't help. 641 00:41:49,239 --> 00:41:52,800 Speaker 1: Yeah this, I was in the same boat. I was 642 00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:55,600 Speaker 1: in the same boat, and I thought I was getting 643 00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:57,359 Speaker 1: married and like doing the whole thing, and then my 644 00:41:57,400 --> 00:42:00,960 Speaker 1: life just switched like that and catapul holding me into 645 00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:02,880 Speaker 1: the career I have now, which I never thought a 646 00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:06,960 Speaker 1: million years i'd be doing. So man's rejection is God's protection. 647 00:42:07,239 --> 00:42:11,640 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, He's got you. Yeah. So I'm just being 648 00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:19,719 Speaker 1: like learning to be um patient and to find happiness 649 00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:21,440 Speaker 1: and where I'm at now because it's not what I 650 00:42:21,440 --> 00:42:24,120 Speaker 1: ever expected and it's in some ways so much more 651 00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:26,360 Speaker 1: than I could have ever expected, And in some ways 652 00:42:26,400 --> 00:42:31,040 Speaker 1: there's disappointments for sure, but like living in what I 653 00:42:31,120 --> 00:42:35,040 Speaker 1: have now and being so grateful for it and being happy, 654 00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:37,600 Speaker 1: but then also being okay to be sometimes like this 655 00:42:37,640 --> 00:42:39,000 Speaker 1: is not what I thought it was going to be. 656 00:42:39,120 --> 00:42:44,359 Speaker 1: And I think everyone me too, can can have those 657 00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:49,560 Speaker 1: moments because everything's not dandy and great all the time. 658 00:42:50,000 --> 00:42:51,640 Speaker 1: But I do have a pretty great life, but I 659 00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:54,080 Speaker 1: still have those moments. So I'm just like trying to 660 00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:57,640 Speaker 1: live in that. And so if that means dating people 661 00:42:57,680 --> 00:42:59,640 Speaker 1: on TV or not, like I think I'm gonna be 662 00:42:59,719 --> 00:43:03,359 Speaker 1: okay regardless, I mean, you're gonna be just Um. Can 663 00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:22,319 Speaker 1: we give a round of applause to Hannah Browns? Shot back? Guy, 664 00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:25,080 Speaker 1: you want to do the honors? Um? Yeah. So now 665 00:43:25,120 --> 00:43:28,320 Speaker 1: we have two of our favorite people in your favorite people? 666 00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:43,160 Speaker 1: Can we please bring out Mark and Easton? No, I 667 00:43:43,200 --> 00:43:45,680 Speaker 1: don't want anybody to get too comfortable here. You guys 668 00:43:45,680 --> 00:43:51,439 Speaker 1: can down. Can we get Danielle and Tori up here? 669 00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:57,680 Speaker 1: To please Danielle and Tori? Um, we have this is 670 00:43:57,719 --> 00:44:01,960 Speaker 1: not in the agenda, so to everybody, but we have 671 00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:06,480 Speaker 1: a surprise for you guys. Who for you guys? Oh 672 00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:08,560 Speaker 1: my goodness, I might need a help that go with this. 673 00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:12,399 Speaker 1: How are you doing to that? Roxy? Uh? All right, 674 00:44:15,120 --> 00:44:16,640 Speaker 1: I love coming out to us song souse. I feel 675 00:44:16,640 --> 00:44:18,919 Speaker 1: like how Dj Kala must feel like someone else's song. 676 00:44:19,440 --> 00:44:21,440 Speaker 1: I had to, you know, put your hands up like 677 00:44:21,680 --> 00:44:25,840 Speaker 1: it's amazing. Everyone has their everybody has it all right. 678 00:44:26,040 --> 00:44:28,920 Speaker 1: So two years in a row, we had the privilege 679 00:44:28,960 --> 00:44:38,480 Speaker 1: of being nominated for the People's Choice Awards, And I mean, 680 00:44:38,560 --> 00:44:41,320 Speaker 1: it's a really cool thing that we both have trophies 681 00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:44,279 Speaker 1: that that have our podcast name, and we couldn't make 682 00:44:44,320 --> 00:44:47,279 Speaker 1: this podcast happen. It wouldn't even be available without y'all. 683 00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:55,040 Speaker 1: So we thought that you should have something too. So no, 684 00:44:56,520 --> 00:45:13,920 Speaker 1: oh my god, yes I'm going to cry just so 685 00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:19,840 Speaker 1: you know. They all opened their People's Choice Awards. Wow. 686 00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:26,120 Speaker 1: I want to thank my mom. I want to thank God. No, 687 00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:31,720 Speaker 1: but seriously, um, thank you so much. This podcast runs 688 00:45:32,400 --> 00:45:35,319 Speaker 1: because of everything that literally all of you guys do 689 00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:38,920 Speaker 1: on a daily basis, and so we love you guys, 690 00:45:39,160 --> 00:45:41,640 Speaker 1: and no, we love you so much and we appreciate 691 00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:49,759 Speaker 1: it so much. So so that's for best Pop podcast 692 00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:53,239 Speaker 1: of You got them to give you more than one 693 00:45:53,280 --> 00:46:03,480 Speaker 1: of these. That's impressive than they put those on your mantels. 694 00:46:04,400 --> 00:46:07,960 Speaker 1: Thank you so much. Oh my goodness, I feel horrible 695 00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:13,600 Speaker 1: for what we're about to do to you though. So 696 00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:19,399 Speaker 1: we're here to play Truth or Drink Oh boy, my 697 00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:25,840 Speaker 1: favorite game. Um and as always the challenges finding questions 698 00:46:25,880 --> 00:46:29,120 Speaker 1: that Becca will answer and questions Tadyo won't answer. That's 699 00:46:29,160 --> 00:46:33,799 Speaker 1: the hardest part of this game, that's right. So who 700 00:46:33,840 --> 00:46:36,719 Speaker 1: has my box? Where the box boxes? Right here? So 701 00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:41,120 Speaker 1: you guys helped facilitate this because we asked you guys 702 00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:44,239 Speaker 1: to submit some questions when you walked in. So so 703 00:46:44,280 --> 00:46:46,959 Speaker 1: some of these came from our Facebook group that we love, 704 00:46:47,200 --> 00:46:49,719 Speaker 1: and some of these we're from tonight, and some of 705 00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:53,320 Speaker 1: these came from the wild imaginations of Mark and I. 706 00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:56,240 Speaker 1: Those are the ones that scared me the moment. Yeah, 707 00:46:56,840 --> 00:46:58,640 Speaker 1: so who has my boss? And who has Becca's Box? 708 00:46:58,680 --> 00:47:01,040 Speaker 1: I have Becca's box and I have Tanya's box. Mark, 709 00:47:01,120 --> 00:47:02,759 Speaker 1: you can't go through and choose the one you want. 710 00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:04,800 Speaker 1: You just have to pick one out and let the 711 00:47:04,880 --> 00:47:06,600 Speaker 1: name of the game I thought it was. He just 712 00:47:06,640 --> 00:47:10,239 Speaker 1: picks one out and reads it. I feel like there 713 00:47:10,239 --> 00:47:12,279 Speaker 1: should be an arc to this game. We gotta save 714 00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:16,560 Speaker 1: the good ones, you know this, trust us on this Okay, 715 00:47:17,239 --> 00:47:19,560 Speaker 1: so he's going first, that's a question. Rock paper scissors, 716 00:47:22,880 --> 00:47:26,520 Speaker 1: have to clarify window, shoot to three, shoot and both 717 00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:36,279 Speaker 1: scissors both rock rock crushes scissors, and like, I'm going 718 00:47:36,320 --> 00:47:43,800 Speaker 1: to go first. Okay, alright. This is from tonight. Somebody 719 00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:47,560 Speaker 1: submitted this. It's a little vulgar, but I'll clean it 720 00:47:47,600 --> 00:47:54,239 Speaker 1: up as best I can. Becca, if you could f 721 00:47:54,520 --> 00:47:58,400 Speaker 1: any Grays Anatomy character, who would it be? Oh that's good. 722 00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:05,480 Speaker 1: Jesse Williams. Jesse Williams. Wow, easy one. He didn't even 723 00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:07,600 Speaker 1: read my d M. And I'm gonna I think he's 724 00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:09,719 Speaker 1: in a relationship. I'm in a relationship. But if the 725 00:48:09,960 --> 00:48:16,920 Speaker 1: opportunity came and I had to, if somebody forced me to. Okay, alright, Tanya, 726 00:48:17,200 --> 00:48:20,640 Speaker 1: this is from Victoria. If you found the absolute love 727 00:48:20,680 --> 00:48:24,640 Speaker 1: of your life but they're determined to have an open relationship, 728 00:48:26,360 --> 00:48:36,400 Speaker 1: could you stay all right? I need I'm like a 729 00:48:36,520 --> 00:48:43,960 Speaker 1: one woman man situation. Imous monogamy is my friend. Another 730 00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:47,080 Speaker 1: one from tonight? What happened in the Fantasy Suite with 731 00:48:47,160 --> 00:48:52,480 Speaker 1: Chris Souls? You guys, this is so easy. We like 732 00:48:52,640 --> 00:48:55,520 Speaker 1: kissed and talked all night and then fell asleep because 733 00:48:55,520 --> 00:48:59,319 Speaker 1: we were both exhausted, and then we woke up any 734 00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:02,840 Speaker 1: cry night. And then after that they decided cry yeah, 735 00:49:02,880 --> 00:49:05,760 Speaker 1: because like he was tressed out and stuff. And then 736 00:49:05,960 --> 00:49:09,280 Speaker 1: and then that after that season, they started having cameras 737 00:49:09,280 --> 00:49:12,520 Speaker 1: come in the morning after to film the overnight the 738 00:49:12,600 --> 00:49:15,239 Speaker 1: post morning because of me, because I had this. We 739 00:49:15,320 --> 00:49:17,719 Speaker 1: had this huge moment and no one caught it and 740 00:49:17,880 --> 00:49:20,400 Speaker 1: no one got her on camera. I felt so powerful. 741 00:49:22,200 --> 00:49:26,840 Speaker 1: They're like, what happened. I'm like, it's my information, my story, 742 00:49:26,880 --> 00:49:33,640 Speaker 1: to tell my story today. This one could get dirty. 743 00:49:35,200 --> 00:49:37,800 Speaker 1: What bass have you hit with your new boyfriend? W 744 00:49:39,440 --> 00:49:42,560 Speaker 1: good one. That's a good one. That's from tonight. Someone 745 00:49:42,600 --> 00:49:46,799 Speaker 1: to night wrote that, oh my god, she's drinking. I'm 746 00:49:46,840 --> 00:49:52,560 Speaker 1: just trying to be respectful because he might be backstage. 747 00:49:54,480 --> 00:49:58,960 Speaker 1: I mean, you guys, my guy, non drink the shot 748 00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:08,839 Speaker 1: our first drink of the night. I'm so pleased. Yeah, 749 00:50:10,080 --> 00:50:13,680 Speaker 1: respectful because yourself. No, this is not about being respectful. 750 00:50:13,760 --> 00:50:17,040 Speaker 1: This is about truth or drink not being honest. Tell 751 00:50:17,200 --> 00:50:23,440 Speaker 1: out disgusting. What is that she's trying a lime? There's 752 00:50:23,600 --> 00:50:29,000 Speaker 1: there's still there's there's more in there. Yeah, finish that shot. 753 00:50:29,440 --> 00:50:32,440 Speaker 1: That tastes like rubbing alcohol. Well maybe you'll answer the 754 00:50:32,520 --> 00:50:39,719 Speaker 1: question next time. Then it's the only way to learn. 755 00:50:41,680 --> 00:50:47,480 Speaker 1: I'm not messing with Mark tonight. What's happening with the 756 00:50:47,480 --> 00:50:54,440 Speaker 1: remainder of that? That's a lot. There we go. That 757 00:50:54,520 --> 00:50:58,200 Speaker 1: was a lot. Thank you, wait till you have to drink. Okay, 758 00:50:58,280 --> 00:51:01,000 Speaker 1: So here's the question for you. This seems to be 759 00:51:01,040 --> 00:51:09,759 Speaker 1: a follow up to last week's question about getting ready 760 00:51:09,880 --> 00:51:11,880 Speaker 1: for the bottle already. So last week we asked, what 761 00:51:11,960 --> 00:51:15,200 Speaker 1: are the percentage chance that you'll be marrying your current 762 00:51:15,320 --> 00:51:18,799 Speaker 1: the person you're currently seeing you said, which sent off 763 00:51:18,800 --> 00:51:23,480 Speaker 1: shock waves across America. America. So this question is will 764 00:51:23,560 --> 00:51:29,919 Speaker 1: you be engaged in the next year? And I will 765 00:51:29,960 --> 00:51:32,560 Speaker 1: ask what is the percentage chance you'll be engaged in 766 00:51:32,560 --> 00:51:37,960 Speaker 1: the next year. You're gonna take a shot on that one. 767 00:51:38,920 --> 00:51:41,239 Speaker 1: I just feel like that's yeah, I don't know the 768 00:51:41,280 --> 00:51:48,600 Speaker 1: percentage Okay, aggressive poorer by Tania. That's the same for me. 769 00:51:48,760 --> 00:51:57,840 Speaker 1: Thank you one gop. That is impressive and something I 770 00:51:57,880 --> 00:52:01,560 Speaker 1: do not your in capable of offering a line. Becca 771 00:52:01,719 --> 00:52:06,200 Speaker 1: taking advantage of the line. I love. Mark's really concerned 772 00:52:06,239 --> 00:52:11,600 Speaker 1: for the listeners. He's really trying to like bring them 773 00:52:11,600 --> 00:52:14,239 Speaker 1: in the moment. Yeah, there's more of them than there are. 774 00:52:14,280 --> 00:52:16,839 Speaker 1: Hero I appreciate it. I appreciate it alright. The sex 775 00:52:16,880 --> 00:52:19,640 Speaker 1: one for for Tanya. This is from Brooke from our 776 00:52:19,680 --> 00:52:27,120 Speaker 1: Facebook group. What is your favorite sex positions and why 777 00:52:29,360 --> 00:52:32,000 Speaker 1: they're conferring? We should we should point out that Eastern 778 00:52:32,040 --> 00:52:34,080 Speaker 1: and I aren't asking that because that would be inappropriate. 779 00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:37,759 Speaker 1: We're just reading if anyone from my Heart Radio human 780 00:52:37,760 --> 00:52:41,399 Speaker 1: resources is asking, I am merely the vessel for which 781 00:52:41,440 --> 00:52:44,279 Speaker 1: this question is that. What's my question again? What is 782 00:52:44,320 --> 00:52:49,920 Speaker 1: your favorite sex position? You forget favorite sex position? And 783 00:52:49,960 --> 00:52:57,279 Speaker 1: why why it's a two partner? I guess doggies. I 784 00:52:57,400 --> 00:53:06,080 Speaker 1: just want five bucks, all right? Why though I know why? 785 00:53:06,760 --> 00:53:18,319 Speaker 1: Um feels great there deeper? Oh man, my pearls, Oh 786 00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:26,840 Speaker 1: my goodness. Hi mom, Oh mama, rad mama. I'm sorry. 787 00:53:27,000 --> 00:53:30,319 Speaker 1: I can't see my mom, but I can only imagine. 788 00:53:30,600 --> 00:53:34,400 Speaker 1: By the way, after our first Truth or Drink episode, 789 00:53:34,640 --> 00:53:37,440 Speaker 1: my mom was listening and she was like, maybe you 790 00:53:37,600 --> 00:53:42,400 Speaker 1: don't share so much on the podcast. She was like, 791 00:53:42,520 --> 00:53:44,960 Speaker 1: nobody needs to know that. And I was like, you 792 00:53:44,960 --> 00:53:48,600 Speaker 1: know what, Mom, I love you. Maybe you should not 793 00:53:48,760 --> 00:53:52,480 Speaker 1: listen all the time. She's one of our number one, 794 00:53:52,719 --> 00:53:56,200 Speaker 1: the number one scrubber listen, that's I have to say. 795 00:53:56,200 --> 00:53:58,200 Speaker 1: That might be the worst to kill I've ever had. 796 00:53:58,239 --> 00:54:01,439 Speaker 1: So you really say you're saying, I know, sorry, don't 797 00:54:01,440 --> 00:54:03,520 Speaker 1: do it to me again. She drank on the other one. 798 00:54:03,520 --> 00:54:05,359 Speaker 1: I mean, it's all fascinating. But okay, here we go, 799 00:54:06,480 --> 00:54:09,240 Speaker 1: because there's you know, he might be up there somewhere 800 00:54:09,920 --> 00:54:14,560 Speaker 1: he knows, he knows the answer. Okay, I'm sorry. Ah. 801 00:54:14,560 --> 00:54:18,320 Speaker 1: This is from Daria. Uh and again I'm not asking 802 00:54:18,360 --> 00:54:21,680 Speaker 1: this because that would be inappropriate. Dario wants to know 803 00:54:21,719 --> 00:54:28,040 Speaker 1: what's the most scandalous place you've ever had sex? She's 804 00:54:28,120 --> 00:54:36,319 Speaker 1: like a bed without the sheets. I would never did 805 00:54:36,320 --> 00:54:46,279 Speaker 1: you say it without the sheets? Sick? Because like a car? 806 00:54:47,080 --> 00:54:49,920 Speaker 1: Where's the dirtiest place you've ever had sex? Not my question? 807 00:54:52,760 --> 00:54:59,560 Speaker 1: Not my question? Girl for it them, Wow, gonna drink. 808 00:54:59,640 --> 00:55:01,759 Speaker 1: We can't think of anything like worse. And I just 809 00:55:02,280 --> 00:55:05,440 Speaker 1: that was big, same size, It's about the same as 810 00:55:05,560 --> 00:55:08,319 Speaker 1: last time. I would say, Mark is sober, so let's 811 00:55:08,360 --> 00:55:12,440 Speaker 1: just Marks the judge. The only reason that I just 812 00:55:12,520 --> 00:55:14,560 Speaker 1: can't think of anything, and the bed is so boring. 813 00:55:14,760 --> 00:55:16,719 Speaker 1: So but if that's your answer, then but are you 814 00:55:16,760 --> 00:55:18,880 Speaker 1: saying you've never done it outside of a bed? Before 815 00:55:23,840 --> 00:55:27,880 Speaker 1: my red lips. Oh this is bad. We can move 816 00:55:27,960 --> 00:55:32,359 Speaker 1: on yet we waited for Tany. We have to wait 817 00:55:32,400 --> 00:55:38,279 Speaker 1: for you. It is it is more, it's so sick. 818 00:55:38,480 --> 00:55:42,400 Speaker 1: It's the worst tequila. Did yell? What tequila? Is that? Death? 819 00:55:42,480 --> 00:55:46,960 Speaker 1: It has? We like to make our sponsors Big D 820 00:55:47,120 --> 00:55:54,040 Speaker 1: Tequila supporting the show Big Tequila dot com promo code. 821 00:55:56,800 --> 00:56:02,719 Speaker 1: I told Mark to incorporate that. Somehow we got them. 822 00:56:00,040 --> 00:56:04,560 Speaker 1: Where else can you get that kind of pop from 823 00:56:04,560 --> 00:56:06,560 Speaker 1: a promotional code? That's what I want to know. That's 824 00:56:06,560 --> 00:56:09,160 Speaker 1: why we love you guys. All right, Tany ready for this? Yeah? 825 00:56:09,200 --> 00:56:11,000 Speaker 1: These are some very horny questions and I like it. 826 00:56:11,080 --> 00:56:14,719 Speaker 1: Let me tell you what is with you? Guys? This 827 00:56:14,760 --> 00:56:17,040 Speaker 1: is from Courtney, Like, what's what happened to the like? 828 00:56:18,480 --> 00:56:21,520 Speaker 1: You know, like what's your favorite type of serial or 829 00:56:21,560 --> 00:56:24,040 Speaker 1: something that's your favorite kind of serial? Well? This is 830 00:56:24,040 --> 00:56:26,239 Speaker 1: this is a question. I do have any regrets about 831 00:56:26,280 --> 00:56:29,560 Speaker 1: losing your virginity to the person you lost it to? Um? 832 00:56:30,200 --> 00:56:35,360 Speaker 1: Honestly no, Alright, I waited. I was nineteen, so I 833 00:56:35,400 --> 00:56:38,319 Speaker 1: mean depending on whatever, like to me and my high 834 00:56:38,320 --> 00:56:40,600 Speaker 1: school experience, I was later for most people in my 835 00:56:40,640 --> 00:56:44,960 Speaker 1: high school, and he was my first real boyfriend and 836 00:56:45,120 --> 00:56:57,720 Speaker 1: we're listening to Dave Matthews and not Doggy Missionary, And um, 837 00:56:58,000 --> 00:57:00,799 Speaker 1: I don't regret it at all. Yeah, he's a great guy. 838 00:57:01,000 --> 00:57:03,320 Speaker 1: I want to put the question, was you have in 839 00:57:03,360 --> 00:57:05,200 Speaker 1: your regrets? You could have just said no. I do 840 00:57:05,239 --> 00:57:08,160 Speaker 1: appreciate that you gave us. I'll play by play of 841 00:57:08,280 --> 00:57:10,640 Speaker 1: the entire night and that's what you need. Told me 842 00:57:10,680 --> 00:57:13,120 Speaker 1: to shut up, like, no, move on, Okay, thank you 843 00:57:13,200 --> 00:57:17,760 Speaker 1: so much. I wonder what he's doing now, like right now, 844 00:57:18,440 --> 00:57:20,640 Speaker 1: just like in life. You know, we should book him. 845 00:57:23,000 --> 00:57:29,400 Speaker 1: Come on out. Becca, here's a yes or no for you. 846 00:57:29,560 --> 00:57:36,720 Speaker 1: Did you lose your virginity with your current partner? No? 847 00:57:36,840 --> 00:57:41,000 Speaker 1: But this No, but I just I can't take this. 848 00:57:41,080 --> 00:57:43,919 Speaker 1: So no, I did not. Okay, that's all I gotta 849 00:57:43,960 --> 00:57:47,400 Speaker 1: to say. Next, all right, Signia please doe, Like, what's 850 00:57:47,440 --> 00:57:50,400 Speaker 1: my favorite workout? I mean you know this is not 851 00:57:50,440 --> 00:57:53,400 Speaker 1: a sex one? So yeah, A nice change. This from 852 00:57:53,480 --> 00:57:56,600 Speaker 1: Karenna or Corina. Uh. If you had to choose between 853 00:57:56,680 --> 00:58:01,600 Speaker 1: Ryan or Rebecca to never speak to again, who would 854 00:58:01,600 --> 00:58:03,600 Speaker 1: you choose? This could affect your livelihood? Think about that. 855 00:58:04,280 --> 00:58:11,680 Speaker 1: Let's see if you guys choose. Yeah, I talked to 856 00:58:11,800 --> 00:58:19,360 Speaker 1: Ryan every day we're talking about. I can't choose. Well, 857 00:58:20,080 --> 00:58:24,480 Speaker 1: your your job, your made is talking to Ryan. So 858 00:58:25,160 --> 00:58:27,080 Speaker 1: the answer, I feel like the answer would be Becca. 859 00:58:28,760 --> 00:58:33,160 Speaker 1: I understand Becca's priceless. Wait, what's the question? Choose between 860 00:58:33,200 --> 00:58:35,320 Speaker 1: Ryan or becket and never speak to you again? Do 861 00:58:35,360 --> 00:58:39,720 Speaker 1: you think I should choose Becca? The practical choice is 862 00:58:39,760 --> 00:58:43,000 Speaker 1: becca to not talk to Becca. Yes, some are saying 863 00:58:44,040 --> 00:58:49,640 Speaker 1: you can text her, right, I mean if you advise, 864 00:58:49,720 --> 00:58:54,640 Speaker 1: does he curl your hair for dates? Does he tell 865 00:58:54,680 --> 00:58:58,560 Speaker 1: you what to send in text messages? And sometimes sometimes? 866 00:58:58,600 --> 00:59:06,160 Speaker 1: But are they good? Actually? Yeah, I can't choose. This 867 00:59:06,240 --> 00:59:08,800 Speaker 1: is the only thing I can never choose. When you 868 00:59:08,840 --> 00:59:11,480 Speaker 1: make me choose between like big people in my life, 869 00:59:13,280 --> 00:59:16,240 Speaker 1: that's true. Becca drove me to my last date. I did. 870 00:59:16,520 --> 00:59:20,680 Speaker 1: Has Ryan ever driven into a date? Weirdly? He has? Actually, 871 00:59:23,840 --> 00:59:33,040 Speaker 1: you're just trying, She goes, Oh nice, that was good. 872 00:59:33,320 --> 00:59:35,840 Speaker 1: That was good. Okay, all right, we have time for 873 00:59:35,880 --> 00:59:37,440 Speaker 1: one more question, So I have one to kind of 874 00:59:37,440 --> 00:59:39,960 Speaker 1: works for both of you, So I'll give you the option. Sorry, no, 875 00:59:40,080 --> 00:59:41,800 Speaker 1: that's not how this works. This is for Becca. But 876 00:59:41,800 --> 00:59:45,360 Speaker 1: it's the last question. What is the most annoying thing 877 00:59:45,400 --> 00:59:51,480 Speaker 1: to you about the other person? Wow? I have. I 878 00:59:51,600 --> 00:59:55,920 Speaker 1: have so many, so many answers to this. I'm just kidding, 879 00:59:56,520 --> 00:59:58,840 Speaker 1: but I'm not taking I'm not doing that. I'll tell 880 00:59:58,880 --> 01:00:01,680 Speaker 1: you to your face. It bugs me when I don't 881 01:00:01,720 --> 01:00:07,840 Speaker 1: respond to you and you pout. I will do that 882 01:00:08,680 --> 01:00:14,840 Speaker 1: if this is what it irks my pickle beyond when 883 01:00:14,880 --> 01:00:17,040 Speaker 1: I'm I text her like I just need to know something, 884 01:00:17,800 --> 01:00:19,360 Speaker 1: she won't respond to my text. But I see her 885 01:00:19,400 --> 01:00:25,000 Speaker 1: watching my Instagram stories and I'm like, what, let me live? 886 01:00:25,320 --> 01:00:27,000 Speaker 1: Where do you pop up in my I don't know 887 01:00:27,000 --> 01:00:28,840 Speaker 1: who that is, but like, you pop up your like 888 01:00:28,880 --> 01:00:33,400 Speaker 1: my top person obviously the biggest fan, biggest fan. But 889 01:00:33,920 --> 01:00:35,600 Speaker 1: when she's not responding to me and I see she's 890 01:00:35,600 --> 01:00:38,480 Speaker 1: watching my stories, I'll like literally be like, hello, is 891 01:00:38,520 --> 01:00:41,560 Speaker 1: this thing on? Can you respond to me? Where I'll 892 01:00:41,640 --> 01:00:44,280 Speaker 1: ever want to just scroll Instagram but not have to 893 01:00:44,360 --> 01:00:50,960 Speaker 1: text or communicate with anyone, It's not the same. I'm like, 894 01:00:51,040 --> 01:00:53,720 Speaker 1: what size shirt do you want? And she's like not 895 01:00:53,800 --> 01:00:59,840 Speaker 1: responding for five hours. I'm like, it's a little annoyed, Claire. 896 01:01:00,440 --> 01:01:07,600 Speaker 1: I made I learned, my learned my lesson. That's right. Um, 897 01:01:07,960 --> 01:01:09,840 Speaker 1: that was another thing I wasn't sure you explained properly. 898 01:01:09,880 --> 01:01:11,760 Speaker 1: For the listeners at home that you're wearing shirts with 899 01:01:12,040 --> 01:01:14,280 Speaker 1: each other's faces on them, and they're about the size 900 01:01:14,280 --> 01:01:17,880 Speaker 1: of pancakes, so you can only get about six of 901 01:01:17,880 --> 01:01:20,120 Speaker 1: them on the front of it. Oh, I'm sorry they're 902 01:01:20,320 --> 01:01:24,760 Speaker 1: that big. And also bubblegum pink and bright yellow. Remember 903 01:01:24,760 --> 01:01:28,320 Speaker 1: a scrubber made these, so be nice. They made a background, 904 01:01:28,360 --> 01:01:31,520 Speaker 1: not for us to wear. That's right, she did, Toddy. 905 01:01:31,560 --> 01:01:33,840 Speaker 1: Would you like to answer the question, what's the annoying 906 01:01:33,880 --> 01:01:37,200 Speaker 1: thing about Becca? I thought I archer pickle that I 907 01:01:37,240 --> 01:01:40,680 Speaker 1: didn't it does? It does drive me nuts? Okay, what else? 908 01:01:43,960 --> 01:01:46,800 Speaker 1: Oh we have to think? Really, are not a lot 909 01:01:46,880 --> 01:01:51,520 Speaker 1: annoys me about you? I'm pretty lukey. It's true. You 910 01:01:51,560 --> 01:01:54,840 Speaker 1: are the ink to my yang. Yeah, like I know. 911 01:01:55,000 --> 01:01:57,160 Speaker 1: Do you know my sister Pink one time told me 912 01:01:57,200 --> 01:01:59,200 Speaker 1: that I'm the only person in her life that never 913 01:01:59,240 --> 01:02:05,160 Speaker 1: annoys her. It's weirdly true. Like I guess I would 914 01:02:05,200 --> 01:02:07,520 Speaker 1: say that the not texting back does bug me and 915 01:02:07,560 --> 01:02:10,680 Speaker 1: I do I verbalize that to you? Well, no, you don't. 916 01:02:10,760 --> 01:02:14,000 Speaker 1: Then you you literally pal, I'm so sorry that I 917 01:02:14,040 --> 01:02:18,040 Speaker 1: didn't respond to you. When you recognize, when you recognize that, 918 01:02:18,120 --> 01:02:20,640 Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, cool. Then we'll move on once you 919 01:02:20,720 --> 01:02:24,200 Speaker 1: recognize it. But weirdly, there's not a lot that annoys 920 01:02:24,240 --> 01:02:26,400 Speaker 1: me about you, Like you really like you're you're one 921 01:02:26,400 --> 01:02:35,640 Speaker 1: of those best friends in my life. Are you gonna cry? Um? 922 01:02:35,680 --> 01:02:38,320 Speaker 1: You're one of those people that like you're just so 923 01:02:38,520 --> 01:02:41,880 Speaker 1: even keeled and like, it's so important for me to 924 01:02:41,960 --> 01:02:44,840 Speaker 1: have somebody like you in my life because I really 925 01:02:44,840 --> 01:02:47,440 Speaker 1: think you, like, no, I'm serious, Like Becca will always 926 01:02:47,440 --> 01:02:50,720 Speaker 1: like bring me back and like I'm very obviously you know, 927 01:02:50,760 --> 01:02:53,400 Speaker 1: like I can get very like excited or you know, 928 01:02:53,520 --> 01:02:56,640 Speaker 1: like I'm very a lot, and she can always kind 929 01:02:56,640 --> 01:02:58,800 Speaker 1: of bring me back. And it's like, so I think 930 01:02:58,800 --> 01:03:00,560 Speaker 1: it's really important for me. I think you really have 931 01:03:00,760 --> 01:03:06,560 Speaker 1: like made me a better person. Oh I'm drunk. Um 932 01:03:06,600 --> 01:03:10,320 Speaker 1: that gasoline really were right through me. Um. It's so 933 01:03:10,360 --> 01:03:12,080 Speaker 1: true because she faced time the other night and I 934 01:03:12,120 --> 01:03:14,800 Speaker 1: answered and she was like, I don't spiraling about something 935 01:03:15,200 --> 01:03:16,880 Speaker 1: and I talked and I was with Haley and she 936 01:03:17,000 --> 01:03:19,520 Speaker 1: was like, I first, Haley, do you have any advice? 937 01:03:19,520 --> 01:03:23,000 Speaker 1: And she's like, finally I get to say something. We 938 01:03:23,080 --> 01:03:25,960 Speaker 1: really calmed you down, you did, and it's like it's 939 01:03:26,080 --> 01:03:28,880 Speaker 1: very It's it's good for me. I think between you 940 01:03:28,960 --> 01:03:31,600 Speaker 1: and my sister, Like it really just gives me like 941 01:03:31,640 --> 01:03:35,440 Speaker 1: a good zen in my life. Do you know what 942 01:03:35,440 --> 01:03:37,560 Speaker 1: we're gonna do next time? And I know that child 943 01:03:37,560 --> 01:03:39,200 Speaker 1: don't drink, but I'm gonna give you like shots of 944 01:03:39,320 --> 01:03:42,240 Speaker 1: espresso or by the way, East and Mark don't drink songs. 945 01:03:42,520 --> 01:03:45,600 Speaker 1: So we're gonna play truth or drink with you all 946 01:03:45,640 --> 01:03:54,760 Speaker 1: next time. They don't drink. It's one or the other. 947 01:03:54,880 --> 01:03:58,520 Speaker 1: Markets don't go caffeine. Do you want? I have a 948 01:03:58,520 --> 01:04:07,040 Speaker 1: weed gummy? What do you want? Oh? Yeah, we'll figure 949 01:04:07,080 --> 01:04:11,400 Speaker 1: out a way to make it up down right now, 950 01:04:13,840 --> 01:04:16,280 Speaker 1: because y'all are already like smirking over there as you're 951 01:04:16,280 --> 01:04:18,439 Speaker 1: reading the questions. That's the best. This is the side 952 01:04:18,480 --> 01:04:21,760 Speaker 1: to be on, trust me better. Yeah, so I'm looking 953 01:04:21,760 --> 01:04:25,840 Speaker 1: forward to being on the other side. That's a great. 954 01:04:26,640 --> 01:04:33,200 Speaker 1: That's actually a great. I'm I'm drunk. Mission accomplished. I 955 01:04:33,280 --> 01:04:44,000 Speaker 1: gotta hold this ship together. What does that say, Danielle? Okay, um, 956 01:04:44,040 --> 01:04:47,480 Speaker 1: so this is very exciting. So somebody under their chair 957 01:04:47,960 --> 01:04:51,480 Speaker 1: has a red heart, and that red heart is a 958 01:04:51,560 --> 01:04:55,280 Speaker 1: symbol um of a prize that they get, which is 959 01:04:55,960 --> 01:05:03,880 Speaker 1: who the red hat has been found? Wait, what's your name? Britty. Okay, Britty, 960 01:05:04,040 --> 01:05:09,360 Speaker 1: you are the winner of um uh dr Pepper Cotton Candy, 961 01:05:09,840 --> 01:05:14,840 Speaker 1: some Scrub pop tarts, some pop tarts, and Antanya's favorite 962 01:05:14,840 --> 01:05:17,640 Speaker 1: book in the world, calling the one and then calling 963 01:05:17,680 --> 01:05:27,840 Speaker 1: in the one. Brittany, are you are you single or taken? Okay, volunteer, 964 01:05:28,320 --> 01:05:31,160 Speaker 1: are you willing to donate your book to a lovely 965 01:05:31,560 --> 01:05:38,800 Speaker 1: scrub sister? Okay, okay, okay. We love that. We love that, 966 01:05:38,880 --> 01:05:41,640 Speaker 1: we love it. We love a friend sharing moment. Yeah, yeah, 967 01:05:41,760 --> 01:05:48,040 Speaker 1: we love a generous friend. We love a generous yeah. Um, 968 01:05:48,080 --> 01:05:52,680 Speaker 1: it's time for a dance party. Have to say it like, okay, 969 01:05:52,720 --> 01:05:55,400 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Okay, We're gonna dance it out like Meredith 970 01:05:55,400 --> 01:06:33,440 Speaker 1: and Christina. He shows up. I've got no doubt. I 971 01:06:33,640 --> 01:06:39,920 Speaker 1: have a boyfriend. Holy how we meet game, That's how 972 01:06:41,080 --> 01:06:49,880 Speaker 1: I have a boyfriend. Holy can freeze? Look for that 973 01:06:50,000 --> 01:06:52,640 Speaker 1: one on American Top Party soon everybody. And that's a 974 01:06:52,720 --> 01:06:58,520 Speaker 1: hit right there. That's right, that's a hitt. Okay. So 975 01:06:58,520 --> 01:07:00,880 Speaker 1: now we're gonna run to what we normally do on 976 01:07:00,920 --> 01:07:04,480 Speaker 1: the podcast. Um, it's like our listener emails. But since 977 01:07:04,520 --> 01:07:08,440 Speaker 1: you guys came in, we had you right your questions right, 978 01:07:08,520 --> 01:07:12,480 Speaker 1: These are like you might want to surrender that, Mike. 979 01:07:12,920 --> 01:07:15,560 Speaker 1: We're gonna answer questions like we do on the place 980 01:07:16,920 --> 01:07:23,760 Speaker 1: tru drink questions. These are more advice questions that sort 981 01:07:23,800 --> 01:07:30,000 Speaker 1: of thing. Where's Hillary? Is Hillary here right in the 982 01:07:30,040 --> 01:07:33,720 Speaker 1: front row? I don't know, but here we are scrubbing 983 01:07:33,720 --> 01:07:36,360 Speaker 1: it live alright. Also have to say that like our 984 01:07:36,400 --> 01:07:42,040 Speaker 1: scrubbers are everywhere. By the way, Mickey was at the Oscars. Okay, 985 01:07:42,080 --> 01:07:44,439 Speaker 1: so wait, where are you from? I live in Los 986 01:07:44,480 --> 01:07:48,280 Speaker 1: Angeles here on the west side. All right? She says, 987 01:07:48,320 --> 01:07:50,560 Speaker 1: Please help? How do I break up with a guy 988 01:07:50,560 --> 01:07:54,120 Speaker 1: I was never exclusively dating? I don't want to ghost him? 989 01:07:55,160 --> 01:07:59,080 Speaker 1: This is perfect for you to answer, Tanya, I know. Okay, 990 01:07:59,240 --> 01:08:02,240 Speaker 1: well why for me? Because you recently did that. We've 991 01:08:02,280 --> 01:08:04,360 Speaker 1: had this conversation. Yeah, but the guy when out with 992 01:08:04,480 --> 01:08:10,880 Speaker 1: one okay, okay, a microphone? No? So sorry failed you, Hillary. 993 01:08:11,080 --> 01:08:14,360 Speaker 1: Let me help you out. Okay. How long have you 994 01:08:14,400 --> 01:08:17,760 Speaker 1: been dating him? Two and a half months, but like, 995 01:08:17,960 --> 01:08:21,960 Speaker 1: not exclusively? Do you do you know? How many dates? Though? 996 01:08:22,439 --> 01:08:26,679 Speaker 1: Do you keep notes on this guy? Um? I would 997 01:08:26,680 --> 01:08:31,960 Speaker 1: say like ten to fifteen dates, but including sleepover you 998 01:08:32,080 --> 01:08:35,599 Speaker 1: cannot ghost him. That's a hard note. Um, So I 999 01:08:35,640 --> 01:08:40,280 Speaker 1: only went out with this guy once, and I called him. 1000 01:08:41,360 --> 01:08:43,679 Speaker 1: I would not do this, but this is really nice 1001 01:08:43,680 --> 01:08:46,320 Speaker 1: of her. Um. I called him just to tell him, 1002 01:08:46,720 --> 01:08:48,240 Speaker 1: just to kind of like let him know like where 1003 01:08:48,320 --> 01:08:53,519 Speaker 1: I was. And I think honesty and authenticity are so 1004 01:08:53,560 --> 01:08:56,880 Speaker 1: important because like if if the roles were reversed and 1005 01:08:57,000 --> 01:08:59,519 Speaker 1: you were in that situation and you might not be 1006 01:09:00,080 --> 01:09:02,560 Speaker 1: feeling it or whatever, like I don't whatever, whatever the 1007 01:09:02,600 --> 01:09:04,800 Speaker 1: case may be, maybe don't be so mean about it. 1008 01:09:05,439 --> 01:09:09,120 Speaker 1: You're bored, maybe don't tell him that, but just be like, 1009 01:09:09,960 --> 01:09:12,360 Speaker 1: be honest and just say, like I don't like see 1010 01:09:12,360 --> 01:09:15,559 Speaker 1: this going anywhere, and just be really honest. Call him 1011 01:09:15,680 --> 01:09:17,920 Speaker 1: or face time him. I'm not going to face him. 1012 01:09:18,439 --> 01:09:21,080 Speaker 1: Don't FaceTime you. Send him a link to this podcast 1013 01:09:21,080 --> 01:09:22,639 Speaker 1: and tell him to skip to about an hour and fifteen. 1014 01:09:25,160 --> 01:09:28,559 Speaker 1: Don't face time him. That's so scary, but I would 1015 01:09:28,640 --> 01:09:31,400 Speaker 1: just they've been dealing for two months. I don't want 1016 01:09:31,400 --> 01:09:34,120 Speaker 1: to face him. Anyone that I've been like, isn't two 1017 01:09:34,120 --> 01:09:39,840 Speaker 1: months face to face at this point. I would you call. 1018 01:09:39,920 --> 01:09:43,679 Speaker 1: I think you'd call. I'm I'm okay calling. I think 1019 01:09:43,680 --> 01:09:45,800 Speaker 1: I think you call and you just say, hey, I 1020 01:09:45,840 --> 01:09:55,600 Speaker 1: think you're great. I just don't see what that's what 1021 01:09:55,680 --> 01:10:03,360 Speaker 1: you say. You say, Hi, blank, Mr boring. I would say, Hi, 1022 01:10:03,960 --> 01:10:05,960 Speaker 1: I am so sorry. Okay, no, no no, he might be 1023 01:10:06,000 --> 01:10:07,960 Speaker 1: boring to you, but he might not be boring to 1024 01:10:07,960 --> 01:10:11,280 Speaker 1: the next girl. I have great advice. I was gonna say, yeah, 1025 01:10:11,520 --> 01:10:14,040 Speaker 1: you are so wonderful. I just don't think you're the 1026 01:10:14,080 --> 01:10:16,400 Speaker 1: one for me, and I don't want to be I 1027 01:10:16,439 --> 01:10:18,240 Speaker 1: don't think you're right for me, and I don't want 1028 01:10:18,280 --> 01:10:20,439 Speaker 1: to waste your time or my time. And I think 1029 01:10:20,439 --> 01:10:22,920 Speaker 1: we're both at an age where we can be honest 1030 01:10:22,920 --> 01:10:29,400 Speaker 1: about that, and you're boring as hell. I'm gonna say, 1031 01:10:29,439 --> 01:10:32,559 Speaker 1: maybe soften the blow a little bit and just like, 1032 01:10:33,880 --> 01:10:37,479 Speaker 1: maybe not say that. I definitely don't want to tell 1033 01:10:37,600 --> 01:10:40,519 Speaker 1: him he's boring. No, no, you can't say he's boring. No, no, no, 1034 01:10:40,680 --> 01:10:42,280 Speaker 1: just say I don't think we're right for each other, 1035 01:10:42,320 --> 01:10:43,840 Speaker 1: and I don't want to waste your time. You can 1036 01:10:43,920 --> 01:10:46,040 Speaker 1: sound like you're helping him, but I would do it 1037 01:10:46,080 --> 01:10:48,680 Speaker 1: over a phone or in person. Do not text the 1038 01:10:48,760 --> 01:10:51,160 Speaker 1: male in the second row. Would you appreciate that in 1039 01:10:51,200 --> 01:10:54,160 Speaker 1: a good way? If you were getting broken up with 1040 01:10:54,160 --> 01:10:56,000 Speaker 1: what do you want to hear? Like? You know it's 1041 01:10:56,040 --> 01:11:00,360 Speaker 1: not me. It's it's not you, it's me. Yeah, absolutely, yeah, 1042 01:11:01,080 --> 01:11:04,880 Speaker 1: maybe love a male in the second row. By the way, 1043 01:11:04,880 --> 01:11:07,000 Speaker 1: that bathroom has not been used to help yourself. It's 1044 01:11:07,000 --> 01:11:11,840 Speaker 1: wide open. I've got one of their I got eye 1045 01:11:11,920 --> 01:11:16,200 Speaker 1: contact now, So I'm I thought we changed the bathrooms 1046 01:11:16,240 --> 01:11:19,200 Speaker 1: to be like gender neutral. I don't think we have 1047 01:11:19,240 --> 01:11:21,320 Speaker 1: that power at that was the last place. No, we 1048 01:11:21,360 --> 01:11:23,080 Speaker 1: did it. The last place we changed them because there's 1049 01:11:23,080 --> 01:11:28,280 Speaker 1: so many girls. That's right where it's Hillary? Okay, okay, 1050 01:11:28,960 --> 01:11:35,160 Speaker 1: did anyone else other than another Hillary? Hillary, the only 1051 01:11:35,160 --> 01:11:39,759 Speaker 1: one that actually put a vice questions in here? You're 1052 01:11:39,800 --> 01:11:46,640 Speaker 1: not we're trying it out, okay Hillary? I mean, this 1053 01:11:46,760 --> 01:11:50,480 Speaker 1: is juicy. How do I get my coworker to exclusively 1054 01:11:50,600 --> 01:11:53,640 Speaker 1: see slash date me? I have a monster crush, but 1055 01:11:53,720 --> 01:11:57,160 Speaker 1: we're just friends with benefits right now? You still have 1056 01:11:57,200 --> 01:12:00,840 Speaker 1: given him the goods. Stop giving him the goods. It's 1057 01:12:00,840 --> 01:12:08,799 Speaker 1: so easy for him. Like, do we still have friends 1058 01:12:08,800 --> 01:12:13,080 Speaker 1: with benefits at this age? Yes? Wait, how how old 1059 01:12:13,120 --> 01:12:18,360 Speaker 1: are you? I mean like, we're not like going on 1060 01:12:18,560 --> 01:12:23,280 Speaker 1: date dates, We're hanging out. You're just like kind ecologically, 1061 01:12:23,640 --> 01:12:35,439 Speaker 1: there're gynacologists, yes, do you. I'm just saying I don't 1062 01:12:35,439 --> 01:12:37,320 Speaker 1: think you should get like until he asked you on 1063 01:12:37,360 --> 01:12:38,880 Speaker 1: a proper date. I don't think you should be giving 1064 01:12:38,920 --> 01:12:44,120 Speaker 1: him anything. That's what like my head says. Yeah, I 1065 01:12:44,160 --> 01:12:47,800 Speaker 1: do have to say. There's something weirdly um when you 1066 01:12:48,000 --> 01:12:50,920 Speaker 1: kind of take control back, like and I think there's 1067 01:12:50,920 --> 01:12:53,439 Speaker 1: a lot of people that can have like that, can 1068 01:12:53,520 --> 01:12:57,200 Speaker 1: be sexual with people and keep it just sansy and 1069 01:12:57,360 --> 01:13:01,519 Speaker 1: like I'm you with that. I can't do that. No, no, 1070 01:13:01,600 --> 01:13:03,400 Speaker 1: I can't do that. So for me, if I'm going 1071 01:13:03,439 --> 01:13:05,680 Speaker 1: to like go even to second place with somebody, like, 1072 01:13:05,720 --> 01:13:13,760 Speaker 1: I need there to be commitment. So what is it 1073 01:13:13,760 --> 01:13:16,400 Speaker 1: a conversation? Does she tell him how she feels? Think 1074 01:13:16,479 --> 01:13:19,040 Speaker 1: she just stops, you know, but that's not sending the 1075 01:13:19,080 --> 01:13:21,840 Speaker 1: message that I'm really into you. That's I've done it. 1076 01:13:21,960 --> 01:13:24,639 Speaker 1: If he wants it and misses it, he's gonna work 1077 01:13:24,680 --> 01:13:27,960 Speaker 1: hard for it. He might just be working hard, doesn't 1078 01:13:28,800 --> 01:13:30,680 Speaker 1: I kind of feel like guys might be dumb and 1079 01:13:30,720 --> 01:13:32,519 Speaker 1: they don't know if you're like, yeah, I don't know, 1080 01:13:32,560 --> 01:13:35,439 Speaker 1: if you like, if you pull back, then he might 1081 01:13:35,600 --> 01:13:43,080 Speaker 1: just have nail on the he disagrees. If you just 1082 01:13:43,240 --> 01:13:45,680 Speaker 1: pull back, he might say she's not interested. So I 1083 01:13:45,720 --> 01:13:48,160 Speaker 1: think it warrants a conversation like, hey, like, I like 1084 01:13:48,240 --> 01:13:54,759 Speaker 1: you found him lame? Is that lame question? What's your name? Jacob? Jacob? 1085 01:13:54,920 --> 01:13:56,680 Speaker 1: Is it lame for a girl to be like, I 1086 01:13:56,720 --> 01:14:02,120 Speaker 1: like you, thank you? But if never too much a 1087 01:14:02,160 --> 01:14:05,400 Speaker 1: serious conversation, and she kind of said I'm not giving 1088 01:14:05,439 --> 01:14:08,519 Speaker 1: you that and kind of made him think like, oh, 1089 01:14:08,560 --> 01:14:10,719 Speaker 1: I'm not just going to give these freebies out. Would 1090 01:14:10,760 --> 01:14:12,680 Speaker 1: you be more like, Oh, I'm gonna work hard to 1091 01:14:13,000 --> 01:14:15,080 Speaker 1: maybe ask her on a date. If I liked her, Yes, 1092 01:14:15,080 --> 01:14:18,559 Speaker 1: I would work hard her. So that's how you find out. 1093 01:14:18,720 --> 01:14:23,880 Speaker 1: You tell him, look, gravy train is stopping the gravy train. 1094 01:14:24,960 --> 01:14:30,000 Speaker 1: What is that? What's a gravy train? Is that's dirty? 1095 01:14:31,160 --> 01:14:35,880 Speaker 1: Very much like a white or brown rain. I don't know, 1096 01:14:36,320 --> 01:14:43,479 Speaker 1: I don't know. Wait is that a termion conversation? And 1097 01:14:43,600 --> 01:14:46,160 Speaker 1: you say that, you say I like you and I 1098 01:14:46,160 --> 01:14:49,040 Speaker 1: want to see if this is going somewhere. I say bye, 1099 01:14:49,320 --> 01:14:51,920 Speaker 1: if you want me, come get me. And I say, 1100 01:14:52,040 --> 01:14:56,759 Speaker 1: let's throw the gravy train. I've never heard that before. 1101 01:14:56,960 --> 01:15:01,200 Speaker 1: That's cute. Okay, it's cute. Uh. This is not an 1102 01:15:01,200 --> 01:15:04,799 Speaker 1: advice question, but it's worth mentioning. Where's Jackie. Why Jackie 1103 01:15:05,640 --> 01:15:08,680 Speaker 1: the first rowers, Jackie, this is a very sweet wish 1104 01:15:08,680 --> 01:15:10,880 Speaker 1: you wrote here, she says. A while back, Melinda called 1105 01:15:10,880 --> 01:15:13,760 Speaker 1: into the podcast to share her story. She's waiting here 1106 01:15:13,800 --> 01:15:16,080 Speaker 1: back to hopefully get the news that she's cancer free. 1107 01:15:16,640 --> 01:15:18,720 Speaker 1: I reached out to her, Jackie says. She reached out 1108 01:15:18,720 --> 01:15:20,439 Speaker 1: to her when she heard her story. Just wanted to 1109 01:15:20,439 --> 01:15:22,760 Speaker 1: see if we could all take a moment to send 1110 01:15:22,760 --> 01:15:25,280 Speaker 1: her well wishes and all the positive energy her way, 1111 01:15:25,600 --> 01:15:39,000 Speaker 1: because you know she's listening. Helena's here. Oh my god, 1112 01:15:40,880 --> 01:15:46,840 Speaker 1: so Melinda's here. Stop, Yes, I'm here. Wait have you 1113 01:15:47,160 --> 01:15:49,720 Speaker 1: that in person? Are you hot? Matt? Can I just 1114 01:15:49,760 --> 01:15:54,000 Speaker 1: tell you that? Like, um, That's why I like this 1115 01:15:54,040 --> 01:15:57,880 Speaker 1: podcast means so much to me because like honestly, that 1116 01:15:58,040 --> 01:16:02,920 Speaker 1: email that you sent us, it's like affected me so much. 1117 01:16:02,960 --> 01:16:05,360 Speaker 1: And I remember you coming up to Becca and I 1118 01:16:05,520 --> 01:16:09,920 Speaker 1: at um our voting party in Santa Monica. You've never 1119 01:16:09,960 --> 01:16:12,040 Speaker 1: met her before, but you were getting a video to 1120 01:16:12,120 --> 01:16:15,679 Speaker 1: like send positivity and encouragement because she was going through chemo. 1121 01:16:15,880 --> 01:16:18,800 Speaker 1: And I was like, that's the community that we have, 1122 01:16:18,960 --> 01:16:22,280 Speaker 1: Like these people they've never met, and like you guys 1123 01:16:22,720 --> 01:16:25,920 Speaker 1: jump into like encourage each other and be there for 1124 01:16:25,960 --> 01:16:28,680 Speaker 1: each other when like you're going through chemo and like 1125 01:16:28,920 --> 01:16:39,400 Speaker 1: you were really in a tough spot like then, like 1126 01:16:39,479 --> 01:16:43,320 Speaker 1: it meant so much like you obviously couldn't be there, 1127 01:16:43,400 --> 01:16:45,880 Speaker 1: and like you could be there, and like you made 1128 01:16:45,880 --> 01:16:48,320 Speaker 1: sure to get a video and like send her love 1129 01:16:48,400 --> 01:16:53,920 Speaker 1: and like it's just really sweet. That's a perfect explanation. 1130 01:16:55,720 --> 01:17:00,720 Speaker 1: How are you doing? I'm good, good, well, good days 1131 01:17:00,720 --> 01:17:02,800 Speaker 1: and bad days. I was hoping to find out in 1132 01:17:02,920 --> 01:17:06,960 Speaker 1: January that I was cancer free, and I I'm not sure. 1133 01:17:07,120 --> 01:17:12,080 Speaker 1: There's still some questionable activity things going on, so I 1134 01:17:12,160 --> 01:17:14,679 Speaker 1: have to wait another few months and then do another scan, 1135 01:17:14,840 --> 01:17:17,599 Speaker 1: and they're hoping that I'll be cancer free. If not, 1136 01:17:17,680 --> 01:17:19,800 Speaker 1: there's still more options. It's just going to be a 1137 01:17:19,840 --> 01:17:23,719 Speaker 1: longer path. But are you still doing chemo? I finished 1138 01:17:23,760 --> 01:17:31,000 Speaker 1: the week before Christmas. I've been Uh. I had it 1139 01:17:31,040 --> 01:17:33,280 Speaker 1: in my mind that I was gonna just feel so 1140 01:17:33,360 --> 01:17:35,439 Speaker 1: much better after that, and to be honest, I haven't. 1141 01:17:35,479 --> 01:17:37,559 Speaker 1: I also have a two year old and a five 1142 01:17:37,640 --> 01:17:41,400 Speaker 1: month old, so that you know it takes the dolls, um, 1143 01:17:41,479 --> 01:17:43,840 Speaker 1: But I will say that every time I've been down 1144 01:17:43,840 --> 01:17:46,280 Speaker 1: in the dumps and sad, and I go to the 1145 01:17:46,280 --> 01:17:49,880 Speaker 1: Facebook group and look for some encouragement. I talked to 1146 01:17:49,920 --> 01:17:53,280 Speaker 1: people who have reached out to me um through my 1147 01:17:53,360 --> 01:17:56,040 Speaker 1: email to you guys, and it's been really helpful to 1148 01:17:56,160 --> 01:17:59,320 Speaker 1: just brighten, you know, a really dark time in my life. 1149 01:17:59,360 --> 01:18:13,639 Speaker 1: So you podcast if I was gonna cry. I also 1150 01:18:13,680 --> 01:18:16,200 Speaker 1: wanted to say when Hannah was here and my girl, 1151 01:18:16,240 --> 01:18:19,080 Speaker 1: I feel I'm dripping sweat because of this wig. Like, 1152 01:18:20,840 --> 01:18:26,479 Speaker 1: by the way, your wig, thank you, guys. Thank That's 1153 01:18:26,520 --> 01:18:29,680 Speaker 1: a very good way. It costs a pretty penny, but 1154 01:18:29,760 --> 01:18:34,280 Speaker 1: it's worth it. That's it. Um, I feel the same way. 1155 01:18:34,320 --> 01:18:37,639 Speaker 1: I'll I am, I am always. I don't get on 1156 01:18:37,680 --> 01:18:40,200 Speaker 1: Facebook except to look at our Facebook group to be 1157 01:18:40,280 --> 01:18:42,720 Speaker 1: honest with you, and like, I see the way that 1158 01:18:42,800 --> 01:18:45,160 Speaker 1: y'all communicate with each other and show up for each other, 1159 01:18:45,200 --> 01:18:48,000 Speaker 1: And I'll never forget you coming up at the party 1160 01:18:48,120 --> 01:18:50,280 Speaker 1: and saying that you were sending starting a meal train 1161 01:18:50,400 --> 01:18:54,800 Speaker 1: for her and cooking for her, and UM, I kind 1162 01:18:54,800 --> 01:18:58,599 Speaker 1: of I think it just put into perspective, like y'all 1163 01:18:58,640 --> 01:19:03,040 Speaker 1: have made friends with people who don't have friends and 1164 01:19:03,080 --> 01:19:06,040 Speaker 1: who moved to new places and don't know anybody because 1165 01:19:06,080 --> 01:19:10,080 Speaker 1: of this group in this podcast. So when we say 1166 01:19:10,080 --> 01:19:12,880 Speaker 1: we're proud of this we like, I mean that we're 1167 01:19:12,920 --> 01:19:15,960 Speaker 1: so proud of the community. It's like the community, it 1168 01:19:16,000 --> 01:19:19,599 Speaker 1: really is like it's unparalleled. Like I can't I can't 1169 01:19:19,640 --> 01:19:22,639 Speaker 1: put it into words, and it's like the craziest thing. 1170 01:19:22,800 --> 01:19:31,120 Speaker 1: Like it's really not normal and um in the best 1171 01:19:31,240 --> 01:19:33,880 Speaker 1: way though, like in the best way, and it's like 1172 01:19:33,960 --> 01:19:38,479 Speaker 1: it's really special. And I think, Um, we want to 1173 01:19:38,520 --> 01:19:40,720 Speaker 1: be able to be there for you and what you're 1174 01:19:40,800 --> 01:19:47,719 Speaker 1: going through, and um, it's not easy and if there's 1175 01:19:47,760 --> 01:19:50,360 Speaker 1: any way that like we can help you and like 1176 01:19:50,960 --> 01:19:53,200 Speaker 1: everybody can just jump in. And I just I want 1177 01:19:53,240 --> 01:19:55,600 Speaker 1: to encourage everybody, especially if you came from out of 1178 01:19:55,640 --> 01:19:57,960 Speaker 1: town or I don't know where you live, Like we 1179 01:19:58,040 --> 01:20:00,400 Speaker 1: really want you guys to like meet each other, become 1180 01:20:00,479 --> 01:20:04,760 Speaker 1: friends and like create small groups and hang out with 1181 01:20:04,800 --> 01:20:06,400 Speaker 1: each other. Because I think at the end of the day, 1182 01:20:06,439 --> 01:20:08,120 Speaker 1: like we were all put on this earth to be 1183 01:20:08,200 --> 01:20:09,880 Speaker 1: there for one another, and we were all meant to 1184 01:20:09,880 --> 01:20:11,840 Speaker 1: be in a community, and like that's what this is. 1185 01:20:11,840 --> 01:20:14,040 Speaker 1: This is like a giant community of people and like 1186 01:20:14,120 --> 01:20:19,439 Speaker 1: it kind of blows our minds constantly. Um, but that's 1187 01:20:19,479 --> 01:20:21,000 Speaker 1: that's what we were put on this earth to do, 1188 01:20:21,080 --> 01:20:25,320 Speaker 1: being community, be with people, and um, I want I 1189 01:20:25,400 --> 01:20:27,519 Speaker 1: want more people. If you need help or if you 1190 01:20:27,600 --> 01:20:31,200 Speaker 1: need people and need love, like reach out because that's 1191 01:20:31,200 --> 01:20:41,240 Speaker 1: that's what we're here for, saying one more question, one 1192 01:20:41,240 --> 01:20:43,519 Speaker 1: more they were really The only other thing I wanted 1193 01:20:43,520 --> 01:20:46,000 Speaker 1: to mention was was I think I think you're getting married? 1194 01:20:46,080 --> 01:20:48,479 Speaker 1: Is that right? Because she put her wedding invitation in 1195 01:20:48,520 --> 01:20:52,760 Speaker 1: the box for your guys question to read. So we 1196 01:20:52,800 --> 01:20:55,600 Speaker 1: actually met at South Coast Plaza and you mentioned me 1197 01:20:55,640 --> 01:20:58,800 Speaker 1: in your Facebook live the other day and ps mark, 1198 01:20:58,840 --> 01:21:01,160 Speaker 1: we have the same birthday, so you have to be there. 1199 01:21:01,800 --> 01:21:07,640 Speaker 1: Are you a cancer baby? July baby? So the invitation 1200 01:21:07,720 --> 01:21:09,760 Speaker 1: is in there for four, but I know me and 1201 01:21:09,800 --> 01:21:12,639 Speaker 1: Tory just became best friends, so she is invited as well. 1202 01:21:13,600 --> 01:21:18,439 Speaker 1: It's a brunch theme wedding bunch, so there is a 1203 01:21:18,600 --> 01:21:21,760 Speaker 1: rs VP with the snamp, so feel free to send 1204 01:21:21,760 --> 01:21:28,040 Speaker 1: it back whenever. When is the bait April four, so 1205 01:21:28,160 --> 01:21:33,040 Speaker 1: coming up fast, that's six weeks away. That's soon. Well, congratulations, 1206 01:21:33,479 --> 01:21:36,640 Speaker 1: I honestly might show up. I love a brunch. I 1207 01:21:36,760 --> 01:21:39,800 Speaker 1: love o scrubber wedding brunch. It's in Fullerton and I 1208 01:21:39,840 --> 01:21:48,640 Speaker 1: do have a hotel block. I've had some luck. I 1209 01:21:48,680 --> 01:21:51,519 Speaker 1: already do have table twelve set up for scrubbing in. 1210 01:21:51,640 --> 01:22:01,320 Speaker 1: So there we go. We have a table you guys. Congratulations, congratulations, um, 1211 01:22:01,320 --> 01:22:06,040 Speaker 1: thank you so much everyone for showing up. We um. 1212 01:22:06,080 --> 01:22:09,080 Speaker 1: I'll never forget this night, like I'll never forget walking 1213 01:22:09,080 --> 01:22:16,400 Speaker 1: out here. Y'all were the loudest I had. No I 1214 01:22:16,479 --> 01:22:18,519 Speaker 1: was like, we were in a much bigger space in 1215 01:22:18,560 --> 01:22:20,600 Speaker 1: San Francisco, and I was like, you know, it's the 1216 01:22:20,680 --> 01:22:23,320 Speaker 1: smaller they probably won't be as loud. Everyone's like l 1217 01:22:23,360 --> 01:22:31,320 Speaker 1: A is not quite as enthusiastic. But y'all really proved 1218 01:22:31,360 --> 01:22:33,920 Speaker 1: them wrong. You think back to the first podcast with 1219 01:22:34,240 --> 01:22:38,160 Speaker 1: Jason George was there and Tania wasn't there, and this 1220 01:22:38,840 --> 01:22:41,320 Speaker 1: just what less than two years later. I think about 1221 01:22:41,320 --> 01:22:44,120 Speaker 1: me as doing teasers and just staring at y'all like, 1222 01:22:44,200 --> 01:22:52,920 Speaker 1: please help enter. Thank you so much for being here. 1223 01:22:53,080 --> 01:22:55,519 Speaker 1: We love you all, so we love you, but so 1224 01:22:56,000 --> 01:23:00,720 Speaker 1: pretty much. Please meet each other, hug each other, be 1225 01:23:00,800 --> 01:23:03,400 Speaker 1: there for each other. We are so proud of what 1226 01:23:03,479 --> 01:23:09,840 Speaker 1: you've done, and I'm happy and happy Valentine's Day to 1227 01:23:09,920 --> 01:23:19,679 Speaker 1: all of you who are celebrating, well stop it would 1228 01:23:19,680 --> 01:23:24,400 Speaker 1: be cool. 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